Pearl - April 02, 2025


This Is How Mid Modern Women Get HUMBLED In Tier 2 Cities ｜ Pearl Daily


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21 minutes

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3,986

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336

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Misogyny

65

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Toxicity

50

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Hate speech

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Mids are women that may have been a 9 or 10 in their hometown, but they find out when they move to a big city, they re not that hot. These women get upset when they see real attractive women, the real top tier women get results they re never going to get.

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00:00:00.000 In 2025, it's hard for modern women to accept hierarchies and shortcomings. 1.00
00:00:05.540 Feminism has told most women that they are perfect. 1.00
00:00:08.580 They are all tens and they can have it all.
00:00:11.120 It's only when these women leave home, go out into the real world, 1.00
00:00:14.320 and find out there are levels to everything.
00:00:17.400 This is especially true in women's number one commodity, our looks. 1.00
00:00:23.940 It's tough being a woman.
00:00:25.380 The world is so shallow to you.
00:00:27.940 Now, I know you guys are thinking, Pearl, the world is way more shallow to us, men.
00:00:31.400 Hey, hey, it only gets better for you guys.
00:00:35.200 Life only gets better.
00:00:36.380 For us, we all know it's only going to get worse.
00:00:39.180 It's like, imagine if you guys were making a million dollars a year at 18,
00:00:44.000 and you know at 35, it's going down to $30,000 a year.
00:00:50.020 That's the life of a woman. 1.00
00:00:51.500 Because from a young age, you know how important looks are.
00:00:56.140 Attractive women get preferential treatment at school. 1.00
00:01:00.660 They get preferential treatment in dating.
00:01:03.600 And you see women that are terrible people just get great outcomes because, well, 1.00
00:01:09.040 men love a hot woman. 1.00
00:01:10.620 You know what it is?
00:01:11.160 It just is what it is.
00:01:13.320 So this brings us back to the conversation of mids.
00:01:17.180 Mids are women that may have been a 9 or 10 back in their hometown, 1.00
00:01:21.480 but they find out when they move to a big city, they're not that hot.
00:01:26.960 These women get upset when they see real attractive women, 1.00
00:01:30.620 the real top-tier women that get results they're never going to get. 1.00
00:01:35.120 For example, I went to a small high school an hour from Chicago.
00:01:38.940 The hottest girl there, the best-looking girl from my high school, 0.99
00:01:42.620 she was not shit in L.A. 0.98
00:01:44.420 I don't think she went to L.A., but had she gone there, 1.00
00:01:47.600 she would not have been shit, nothing. 0.99
00:01:49.420 So these women get upset when they see a real attractive woman, 1.00
00:01:54.340 the real top-tier women get results they're never going to get. 1.00
00:01:58.020 Mids go through a period where they try their best to keep up with the 9s and 10s, 1.00
00:02:01.820 usually by getting plastic surgery or being whores. 1.00
00:02:05.380 I mean, guys, who are you going to go on a date with? 0.99
00:02:07.280 A 6 that's going to put out or a 9 that's going to make you wait three months? 0.99
00:02:11.580 That's how mids compete, being more slutty or selling purity to the dumber guys. 1.00
00:02:18.780 Sorry, fellas. 0.98
00:02:20.320 Now, just to recap, the life cycle of a mid.
00:02:23.720 Most grow up outside a larger city where the small population props them up
00:02:29.280 a little higher on the scale than they think they really are.
00:02:32.440 Again, in the small town, small school, small city,
00:02:36.220 they might think they're a 9 or a 10.
00:02:39.280 Nayski, 4 to 6, maybe a 7.
00:02:42.980 Then they move to a bigger city and are shocked and jealous
00:02:46.140 when they see beautiful women and the results that they get. 0.99
00:02:49.020 Then they begin to hate the beautiful women.
00:02:51.420 I mean, what are you?
00:02:52.500 If your whole life everybody says, who's your friend, right?
00:02:55.560 Who's that?
00:02:57.240 I know the fellas.
00:02:59.560 I know the fellas.
00:03:00.820 You're like, I've heard that from a young age.
00:03:03.800 That's happened to me.
00:03:04.640 There's always been a best-looking guy in the friend group.
00:03:06.780 I know what you guys are thinking.
00:03:08.460 Look, but you guys can be valuable in other ways.
00:03:12.320 Nobody cares.
00:03:13.800 Like, you could be a really successful lawyer
00:03:16.300 and nobody cares if you're not at least cute. 1.00
00:03:18.580 If you're a fat lawyer, as a woman, you're basically useless to society. 1.00
00:03:23.120 Not all, not all, not all. 1.00
00:03:25.120 Okay.
00:03:25.700 So, they begin to hate beautiful women
00:03:28.420 and try to keep up with them and run in their circle.
00:03:31.320 Sometimes you'll see a mid befriend an 8, 9, or 10 1.00
00:03:33.960 to maybe get their leftovers, right?
00:03:36.040 The guy comes in, asks about the friend.
00:03:38.920 The friend says, I'm not interested.
00:03:41.220 The mid's there, right? 0.63
00:03:43.680 She's at least like, if I was a Gen Z woman,
00:03:47.500 I would make it my mission to be friends with Trump's kid.
00:03:51.880 That would be your best.
00:03:53.200 That is what I would do.
00:03:54.460 I would make it my mission to be friends with the little,
00:03:56.880 I forgot her name, the one that's about to graduate high school. 0.98
00:03:59.160 I don't know how I would do it, but that, that would be my mission
00:04:02.500 because she is going to get so many offers
00:04:04.940 and you could take her leftovers.
00:04:07.320 Look, okay.
00:04:08.240 So, they get plastic surgery and other procedures
00:04:11.420 in a desperate attempt to keep up with the 9s and 10s.
00:04:14.540 So, when I was in Miami the other day, I went to Nobu
00:04:17.340 and I looked around the restaurant and I realized
00:04:20.280 there was three tables, right?
00:04:22.780 There was the hottest women in the restaurant. 1.00
00:04:25.380 Now, these are women that you will, 0.99
00:04:27.600 your head will turn.
00:04:28.680 They were beautiful, stunning, gorgeous.
00:04:31.060 And do you know who they were on dates with?
00:04:33.560 Men, 20 to 30 years older.
00:04:35.740 Second table.
00:04:37.240 A bunch of mids with a club promoter.
00:04:39.380 So, one guy, like 10 girls.
00:04:41.420 Third table.
00:04:42.680 Women paying for themselves. 1.00
00:04:44.260 Women dining with other women. 0.95
00:04:45.860 So, it was like basically how hot they are
00:04:48.180 or how free the meal was, right?
00:04:50.400 So, they get the plastic surgeries.
00:04:52.900 They see the 9s and 10s getting invited
00:04:55.300 onto all these parties,
00:04:56.580 getting all these high-level men in their DMs.
00:04:59.020 They try to keep up.
00:05:00.320 They use Facetune, plastic surgery,
00:05:03.100 anything to keep up.
00:05:04.760 Then they get run through by high-value men
00:05:06.720 because they're pretty enough to sleep with 1.00
00:05:08.380 but not pretty enough to marry. 0.97
00:05:10.800 Occasionally, you will see a mid, 0.68
00:05:12.940 pull a high-value guy,
00:05:14.220 but her personality has got to be A1. 1.00
00:05:16.540 She's got to be on it.
00:05:17.620 She has to have studied men 0.86
00:05:19.020 or grown up around dominant men from a young age.
00:05:22.640 If she didn't, cooked, done-zo.
00:05:26.380 Yeah, if she watched, you know,
00:05:29.420 if you're a beta, if you're a beta, right,
00:05:31.980 it's going to be tough for the daughter, right?
00:05:33.820 She's not going to really be able to compete
00:05:36.200 with the 9s and 10s, right?
00:05:37.880 Which is fine, you know.
00:05:39.940 The mids could settle for, like, a guy on their level,
00:05:44.020 but the problem is Facetune
00:05:46.460 sometimes makes them think they're 8s to 10s.
00:05:48.860 The attention makes them think they're 8s to 10s.
00:05:52.240 Anyways, they end up settling for a guy they don't want
00:05:54.820 or they go back to their hometown 0.94
00:05:56.320 and sell some sucker a... 0.99
00:05:59.720 They sell a sucker that they wanted him the whole time. 0.97
00:06:03.220 So that's when... 0.50
00:06:03.760 You ever get the girls from your high school 0.98
00:06:05.420 that, like, slide back into your DMs? 0.99
00:06:08.560 She views you as a sucker, right? 0.99
00:06:10.440 Or the girl from your college that friend-zoned you. 0.99
00:06:12.920 She's like, okay, he's desperate, he's waiting.
00:06:15.420 Because here's the thing.
00:06:16.540 Women don't realize that men's, like, invitation 1.00
00:06:19.100 has an expiration date.
00:06:21.820 Where if you say no past a certain time,
00:06:24.060 they're really not interested.
00:06:25.600 But we have this tendency to think that it's, like, for life.
00:06:29.660 That he...
00:06:30.220 We're going to be, like, 50 and he still wants you. 1.00
00:06:32.900 No, he's moved on to the next 22-year-old piece of ass. 1.00
00:06:37.120 Look, look at... 1.00
00:06:38.700 You'll get older, but your ex's girlfriends,
00:06:42.060 assuming he doesn't get married,
00:06:43.560 they stay the same age.
00:06:44.840 They do not age.
00:06:46.100 Okay, so the last show I did was about mids.
00:06:48.260 And we talked about tier one and tier two cities.
00:06:51.080 Now, I covered mids that moved to tier one cities.
00:06:54.600 Tier one cities are the cities where attractive women 1.00
00:06:57.100 can wield the most power.
00:06:58.980 Cities like LA, New York, Dallas, and Vegas.
00:07:01.800 Tier two cities are cities that have major factors
00:07:04.980 that keep them out of tier one categories
00:07:06.860 like weather, crime, liberal brain rot, et cetera.
00:07:10.740 Like, a girl could be an eight, nine, or ten,
00:07:12.840 but if she's shaving her head and dyeing it blue
00:07:15.220 and getting fat,
00:07:17.480 she's not an eight, nine, or ten anymore.
00:07:19.400 So how strong the feminism kind of 1.00
00:07:21.740 puts down the city, right?
00:07:24.760 Tier two cities include Denver, Seattle, Houston, Chicago.
00:07:28.180 Today, we are going to look at some of the mids
00:07:31.920 that moved to tier two cities,
00:07:34.020 rate them, and decide how far they're going to go
00:07:36.940 in that city.
00:07:37.680 So we got Lydia.
00:07:39.140 Now, she moved to Chicago.
00:07:41.580 Oh, no, from Chicago to Denver, a tier two city.
00:07:46.320 Okay, so I'll take a mid over a crazy 10.
00:07:49.080 That's true.
00:07:50.320 You will.
00:07:51.220 I don't hear myself.
00:07:52.300 I don't know if the...
00:07:53.460 Oh, I know what the problem is.
00:07:54.640 I got to plug this in.
00:07:55.340 You might, but do you think that
00:07:59.460 celebrities are compromising on looks
00:08:02.460 in most scenarios?
00:08:04.860 No, they're dating models, right?
00:08:06.500 You get the occasional one that does,
00:08:09.240 and women will regard that woman as a hero, right? 0.98
00:08:13.160 But in general, the guys who can get a 10
00:08:19.440 that is submissive are going to do it.
00:08:22.620 Most guys can't, right?
00:08:24.520 I mean, and to be honest,
00:08:26.440 tends to have a tendency to be kind of bad people.
00:08:29.600 Now, it's not because they're sluttier, right? 0.99
00:08:31.940 I'd like to say it's not...
00:08:33.820 The mids are sluttier, okay? 1.00
00:08:35.540 The mids have to... 0.89
00:08:36.480 They have to put out more.
00:08:38.500 I still can't hear myself.
00:08:40.000 I don't know if there's a...
00:08:41.440 They still have to put out more
00:08:43.140 in order to compete,
00:08:45.120 but they tend to be better people.
00:08:47.200 Why?
00:08:47.660 They're humbled.
00:08:48.380 From a young age,
00:08:50.320 they know not the top choice, right?
00:08:54.380 Not the number one draft pick.
00:08:56.980 You're not first, okay?
00:08:59.280 I'm just...
00:09:00.100 I'm being honest.
00:09:01.100 Now, you know,
00:09:02.360 I've gotten the Hey Stranger message
00:09:04.180 on Facebook a few times.
00:09:06.360 Who's gotten the Hey Stranger message?
00:09:08.400 Who's done it?
00:09:09.640 Oh, I can hear myself now.
00:09:11.620 There you go.
00:09:12.760 Okay.
00:09:13.400 Who's gotten it?
00:09:14.480 Let me look at the other chat.
00:09:15.740 I do read the chat on the website first.
00:09:18.020 Pearl, you look sharp today.
00:09:19.260 That color suits you.
00:09:20.360 Thank you, Feazelle.
00:09:21.260 I appreciate you.
00:09:22.640 Hi, Pearl.
00:09:23.060 If you want to look into the news
00:09:24.120 about Kim Delaney,
00:09:25.160 she lost in court to her husband.
00:09:27.280 It does happen.
00:09:28.760 Miracles do happen.
00:09:30.820 But I'm not going to sell dreams to you guys.
00:09:33.080 If you and your wife go to court,
00:09:34.400 she's probably going to win.
00:09:35.540 I hope you do.
00:09:37.460 But I don't sell dreams here.
00:09:39.320 So we got this girl
00:09:40.760 who moved from Chicago to Denver.
00:09:42.620 Now, I'd like to say
00:09:44.040 the way I rank these cities.
00:09:45.840 Now, Denver kind of is an up-and-coming city.
00:09:48.220 My little sister just moved to Denver, right?
00:09:50.520 So I know a lot of people are moving that way.
00:09:53.060 And the way I do see Denver as a tier two city,
00:09:56.600 just because the liberalism is so high 0.74
00:09:59.320 that a lot of the women go lesbian 1.00
00:10:01.380 or ruin their looks there. 0.98
00:10:02.800 Like they just ruin it.
00:10:03.780 But they are in shape.
00:10:05.380 So out of the tier two cities,
00:10:07.040 I do put Denver at the top.
00:10:10.040 Chicago is between a tier one and a tier two
00:10:15.240 because Chicago isn't really known for the beauty.
00:10:18.260 We have to hibernate half of the year.
00:10:20.540 So I think the hottest women 1.00
00:10:22.680 are going to go to places they can be naked more.
00:10:24.960 It just makes sense, right?
00:10:26.760 I mean, if you got a good body,
00:10:28.780 what, you're going to have a good body
00:10:29.880 and not use it? 0.98
00:10:30.960 Women don't have morals. 1.00
00:10:32.520 Like, come on. 0.98
00:10:33.760 So, but like the one thing about Chicago
00:10:37.460 is we're so big that we do have
00:10:39.860 a decent talent pool here.
00:10:42.200 I think the most attractive girls from my college,
00:10:45.980 they went to Nashville, if I'm being honest again.
00:10:48.720 But I went to a small college.
00:10:50.500 My volleyball team was like a college of mids,
00:10:52.940 you know, strong mids,
00:10:54.840 because, you know, volleyball, but mids.
00:10:56.660 So this girl, I'm giving her a six, seven. 0.99
00:10:59.820 Okay.
00:11:00.400 Actually, I'm saying six,
00:11:01.620 but she's a good, like, I don't,
00:11:03.760 I think in my head,
00:11:05.140 I don't question that she's a five, right?
00:11:08.460 Like she's a seven, a first glance,
00:11:11.920 because she's got the long hair, symmetrical face.
00:11:14.480 But then you look a little closer
00:11:15.780 and you're like, no, that's a six.
00:11:17.180 But I don't think she's a five, right?
00:11:19.260 Right now, just off of this picture.
00:11:21.260 I recently moved from Chicago to Denver
00:11:23.620 and it was a pretty substantial.
00:11:25.920 Yeah.
00:11:26.220 So how is she going to do?
00:11:28.360 I think this is a decent move for her.
00:11:30.860 I think in Denver,
00:11:32.020 I mean, the one problem is the men,
00:11:34.020 they love blondes. 1.00
00:11:35.300 I don't know what it is,
00:11:36.340 especially if you go to a place
00:11:39.160 that's got a lot of white guys. 0.97
00:11:40.440 White guys just love the blonde ladies. 1.00
00:11:42.680 They really do.
00:11:43.360 Not all, not all YouTube,
00:11:44.960 not all, there's exceptions.
00:11:46.460 Okay.
00:11:46.740 But if we're talking about generalities,
00:11:49.140 it's like they'll worship a 5.5 0.81
00:11:52.220 that's blonde hair and thin, right?
00:11:54.440 And so from what I understand about Denver,
00:11:57.320 I've never lived there just watching.
00:11:59.340 There's just a lot of white people in Denver
00:12:00.800 from what I've seen.
00:12:01.940 Okay.
00:12:02.180 I know they had the people
00:12:04.360 that like took over the apartment complexes,
00:12:06.420 but the way I see that
00:12:07.820 is white people are so nice. 0.99
00:12:09.760 They'll just let you into their fricking house. 0.99
00:12:12.400 So I could see how we would get 0.90
00:12:14.340 an apartment complex taken.
00:12:17.200 Like white people are the type 0.99
00:12:19.160 where someone will knock on their door 0.99
00:12:21.080 in the middle of the night
00:12:21.960 and they'll say, come on in.
00:12:23.040 You know, those women, 1.00
00:12:24.220 cause that happened like not too far from me.
00:12:27.240 I grew up around white people, right?
00:12:29.300 And there was an intruder
00:12:30.960 and what they would do
00:12:32.180 is they'd send this crying woman 0.51
00:12:33.960 to like doors in the middle of the night
00:12:36.100 saying someone was after her.
00:12:37.320 I'm like, that would totally work.
00:12:38.740 We've wised up.
00:12:39.760 Don't try that in my neighborhood now,
00:12:41.500 but they don't fall through that anymore.
00:12:44.080 But I could just see how that would happen
00:12:46.320 because we just like, do you know what?
00:12:49.360 Like growing up,
00:12:50.300 there was people that like stayed in my house
00:12:52.580 all the time.
00:12:53.300 People come like, you know,
00:12:55.080 when I was a kid, it wasn't that abnormal.
00:12:57.600 So again, I could see how the apartment complex,
00:13:01.320 I could see how that would happen.
00:13:03.380 I don't know if they came with guns blazing
00:13:06.160 or whatever,
00:13:06.860 but even if they didn't,
00:13:08.860 that like doesn't,
00:13:10.280 that doesn't shock me, right?
00:13:12.840 And I just like to say not all,
00:13:14.400 I know this is making a generalization.
00:13:17.180 Okay.
00:13:17.460 I know it's not everybody.
00:13:19.280 There's exceptions.
00:13:19.920 So I need to say that
00:13:21.680 so I don't get flagged for hate speech.
00:13:23.480 I met a girl in,
00:13:24.260 if I met a girl in Chicago,
00:13:25.360 I would say why the long face?
00:13:27.620 Okay.
00:13:27.920 So she's talking about from Chicago to Denver.
00:13:30.680 The pro of Denver is,
00:13:33.800 what do they do in the summer?
00:13:34.960 So I know they all snowboard and ski there.
00:13:37.600 So if she likes like the outdoorsy men,
00:13:40.800 I mean, there's plenty in Denver,
00:13:43.020 plenty of potheads.
00:13:44.000 If she's into that,
00:13:45.620 I don't know what the major industries are there.
00:13:48.860 I don't know.
00:13:50.680 So if a girl's, 0.99
00:13:51.700 you have to remember women pick the city 1.00
00:13:53.700 with the type of guy that they like.
00:13:56.240 So if a woman's going to LA, 1.00
00:13:58.520 she probably likes actors or like musicians, right?
00:14:01.780 If a girl's going to Miami, 0.97
00:14:03.540 she likes influencers or like maybe male models. 0.99
00:14:06.880 If she's going to Denver,
00:14:08.600 maybe she's into the surfer guys 0.71
00:14:10.180 or whatever main industry is in there.
00:14:12.480 If you think that women have not researched this,
00:14:15.660 I'm, yeah.
00:14:16.520 And you can also see what she goes for
00:14:18.540 by the industry she tends to work in, right?
00:14:21.760 For example, nurses,
00:14:23.780 they tend to cheat with the doctors,
00:14:25.840 you know,
00:14:26.300 because women have a tendency 1.00
00:14:27.280 to become the men they want to marry.
00:14:29.000 So if you see a girl with a sleeve, 0.58
00:14:31.100 she probably likes men with tattoos, you know?
00:14:34.160 That resulted in like 80 mental breakdowns
00:14:37.900 the month that I left.
00:14:38.880 But I thought I would share a couple of my reasons
00:14:41.560 of why I left Chicago.
00:14:45.360 If you are thinking of moving there
00:14:47.420 or maybe you're thinking of leaving.
00:14:49.700 So I lived in Chicago for almost four years.
00:14:53.980 And the first two to...
00:14:55.720 The real reason is she had sex 1.00
00:14:57.740 with too many men in that city. 0.99
00:14:59.420 Okay.
00:15:00.520 That's the real,
00:15:01.340 that's the reason she's not telling you, right?
00:15:03.860 There was a bad breakup.
00:15:05.280 Because the thing is when women break up, 1.00
00:15:07.360 there's no mending the friend group.
00:15:10.420 Okay.
00:15:10.660 That's the worst thing in friends
00:15:12.300 that they would like teach.
00:15:13.860 They would show.
00:15:15.420 And my boyfriend pointed this out to me.
00:15:17.680 They make it seem like everybody stays friends.
00:15:23.200 Have you guys not lived through a bad break?
00:15:25.840 Now, they could stay friends
00:15:27.600 if the woman didn't really like the man. 0.86
00:15:29.960 If she is trying to destroy your life,
00:15:32.120 if like she did love you at one point,
00:15:34.680 at least, you know,
00:15:35.960 that's why being the, you know,
00:15:37.860 being the provider guy
00:15:39.580 or the friend that she didn't even really like,
00:15:41.940 it's not the worst thing in the world
00:15:44.420 because at least she won't
00:15:46.480 completely destroy your life.
00:15:48.640 But yeah.
00:15:49.680 So that's the real reason she's not saying.
00:15:52.520 Two and a half years.
00:15:53.420 I absolutely adored it.
00:15:54.920 And then the last year,
00:15:56.140 year and a half was...
00:15:57.000 I had a situation ship that went bad.
00:15:59.340 I had sex with a guy out of my league 0.70
00:16:01.680 and it went south. 0.98
00:16:03.600 So I got to leave.
00:16:04.300 That's the real...
00:16:05.360 That's the real reason.
00:16:06.900 But she's not saying that.
00:16:08.200 Really difficult for me.
00:16:09.120 And one of the reasons was because
00:16:10.720 I stopped drinking.
00:16:12.560 I've been sober since...
00:16:13.800 Yeah.
00:16:14.280 So when women go sober, 1.00
00:16:15.860 she usually did something 0.96
00:16:17.400 she really regrets when drunk.
00:16:19.580 So I know sober may seem like a green flag.
00:16:23.720 She might've did something crazy. 1.00
00:16:25.140 It's December 30th, 2021.
00:16:27.640 And I was basically exiled
00:16:30.060 from all of my friend groups
00:16:32.160 because the lifestyle in Chicago is...
00:16:36.200 Why would she be exiled from a friend group?
00:16:38.520 Can we just put two into...
00:16:40.080 Would someone get exiled from a friend group
00:16:42.600 if they just said,
00:16:43.600 hey, I don't want to drink anymore?
00:16:45.220 Would she get exiled from a friend group 0.98
00:16:47.020 if she had sex with someone's boyfriend? 0.96
00:16:49.820 That would seem more probable. 0.92
00:16:51.400 Get blackout drunk and do a lot of drugs.
00:16:54.880 And I'm a little bit of a senile old man
00:16:57.500 because I've never done drugs.
00:16:59.540 And I'm typically in bed.
00:17:01.800 Even when I was going out and drinking a lot,
00:17:04.400 I was still in bed by like midnight.
00:17:07.340 So not only did it kind of put a big wedge
00:17:10.640 in my friendships,
00:17:11.600 but it also made it difficult for me to stay sober
00:17:15.160 and to find friends that wanted to do something
00:17:18.140 other than doing that.
00:17:19.220 That's not a bad idea.
00:17:20.280 In Denver, they all smoke.
00:17:21.940 From what I've heard, it's like drugs.
00:17:24.200 So, and it's a very active culture.
00:17:27.480 So everyone works out there
00:17:29.280 and that sort of thing.
00:17:31.400 Snowboarding, skiing, not a bad note.
00:17:34.060 Because there's not a ton of things to do in Chicago
00:17:37.300 other than drink.
00:17:39.580 When I did stop drinking,
00:17:41.560 I realized that a lot of my friendships
00:17:43.360 were very like selfish, one-sided.
00:17:45.760 And kind of, we were only friends
00:17:49.500 because we were drinking and going out.
00:17:51.880 So once I stopped doing that,
00:17:53.600 I realized a lot of my friends 0.98
00:17:55.020 didn't give a shit about me. 0.98
00:17:56.640 And it was difficult for me to stay in a city 0.98
00:18:00.500 where I kind of had bad relationships.
00:18:04.100 So that was a big...
00:18:04.960 As I said, I mean, refer back to a minute ago.
00:18:09.180 The reason why I left was just to get some space
00:18:11.020 from some of those friends.
00:18:12.720 A situationship that went south.
00:18:14.960 Friends.
00:18:15.940 But I will say, I mean,
00:18:16.880 I still have some really close friends in Chicago
00:18:19.540 that I...
00:18:20.140 Men have the steam train.
00:18:24.560 Sanity, time, energy, attention, money.
00:18:26.700 Women have the L train. 1.00
00:18:28.360 Latch, leech, loathe, then leave. 0.95
00:18:30.760 Texas, vegan, MGTOW.
00:18:33.100 Dearly miss.
00:18:34.320 Yeah, it's like pros.
00:18:35.400 You know, every time I meet a guy
00:18:37.560 that says his wife was different,
00:18:39.280 not always, not always, a lot.
00:18:42.160 They always moved from a different city.
00:18:44.660 That's really convenient, right?
00:18:46.300 Do you know what I mean?
00:18:46.860 He's like, my wife would never do that.
00:18:48.540 Well, but she just moved from Denver, LA. 0.98
00:18:52.340 Okay.
00:18:52.680 But it just wasn't enough to stay
00:18:54.440 because I wanted to move somewhere
00:18:57.220 where I could be outside and be active.
00:19:00.500 And it's really difficult to do that in Chicago.
00:19:03.200 Another huge reason was the weather.
00:19:05.460 I mean, I grew up in the Midwest.
00:19:07.100 I grew up in Wisconsin, 1.00
00:19:08.060 but holy shit, the weather sucks. 0.99
00:19:10.500 I mean, you get really nice summers 1.00
00:19:12.140 for like two or three months,
00:19:13.380 but then it's really gloomy during the fall and freezing.
00:19:17.300 Yeah, that's the thing.
00:19:18.280 She's completely right about that.
00:19:20.260 I don't go outside in the winter.
00:19:21.800 I just, I don't want to do it.
00:19:23.160 I don't like being cold.
00:19:24.260 If I go somewhere, I have to know that parking is easy.
00:19:29.620 Sorry to make this about me, but I'm a woman.
00:19:31.600 So I'm going to do it anyway.
00:19:32.900 I have to, I have to make sure that the walk from my car
00:19:36.920 to wherever I'm going is not far
00:19:39.460 and I'm not going to freeze for that long.
00:19:41.820 Otherwise, I'm not doing it.
00:19:43.260 I'm not doing it.
00:19:44.280 But in the summer, we do go hard in the summer.
00:19:46.960 We do.
00:19:47.960 The summer is a lot of fun.
00:19:49.140 During the winter.
00:19:50.540 I've also been long distance with my boyfriend for some time
00:19:53.480 and he lives in Denver.
00:19:54.600 That's why I chose to move to Denver, but I also.
00:19:57.280 Oh, there you go.
00:19:58.320 She cheated. 1.00
00:19:59.260 And the friend, she doesn't want the friend group to tell him.
00:20:02.000 Sorry, I'm so malicious.
00:20:03.300 Love the weather here.
00:20:04.220 And I love how active everyone is,
00:20:05.840 but I did want to be closer to my boyfriend
00:20:07.680 and we decided it was finally time for us to be close
00:20:11.120 instead of doing long distance.
00:20:13.520 Those are really my main reasons why I left Chicago.
00:20:16.240 I miss the food so much.
00:20:18.340 I miss the walkability.
00:20:20.580 I didn't have a car there and it was so nice.
00:20:23.140 So there's definitely a lot of things that I do love
00:20:25.780 and miss about Chicago, but obviously not enough
00:20:28.060 because I left.
00:20:28.860 Okay, next on the board, we got Alex Britton
00:20:33.140 who also moved to Denver.
00:20:35.480 Now, here's the thing.
00:20:37.300 This is like a mid that white men will worship, right? 1.00
00:20:41.100 Now, because the thing is, this is like the ideal like wife 0.98
00:20:45.940 because she's not hot enough that she's going to get attention everywhere, 1.00
00:20:51.400 but she's thin. 0.96
00:20:52.820 They just want a cute enough face, blonde hair thin. 1.00
00:20:56.340 That's what I've seen.
00:20:57.680 Blonde gets you like a point, but just with the light eye, 1.00
00:21:01.180 she's going to do well.
00:21:02.580 Denver, yeah, I'm actually, oh, wait, sorry.
00:21:06.180 Denver's not, Denver, I wouldn't put as a tier one city,
00:21:09.760 but they're strong.
00:21:10.500 Like, I don't think she's going to be worshipped in Denver,
00:21:13.540 but I think she'll do all right.
00:21:15.140 She'll be okay.
00:21:16.160 Yeah, I'm actually still pretty new to Denver.
00:21:18.260 I just moved here a few months ago.
00:21:20.660 Oh, wow, I mean, you've been here longer than I have then.
00:21:23.100 I just moved here a couple weeks ago.
00:21:24.880 Hi, guys, I overheard you talking,
00:21:26.600 and I'm actually very new to Denver.
00:21:28.600 I just moved here three days ago.
00:21:30.320 You guys, I literally just moved here this morning.
00:21:32.880 Oh, I haven't even moved here yet.
00:21:35.680 I'm just planning on.
00:21:36.400 A lot of women are moving to Denver. 1.00
00:21:38.120 I think it's cheap enough to.
00:21:40.280 I'd have to ask my, I have two siblings that are out there.