Pearl - This Is What Happens To RETIRED 304's When They Turn 30 ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 i want to first give my disclaimers number one i sometimes make generalizations based on what

00:00:06.160 i have seen my experience may not be your experience this is also based on interviewing

00:00:12.640 a thousand women this is also based on following cultural trends and following relationship news

00:00:18.960 and seeing the choices that women make at different periods in their life this may not 0.95

00:00:23.040 be your experience and that's totally fine when i say women or modern women i never mean all women

00:00:28.400 there are exceptions to every single rule however i do need to talk about the patterns i've seen

00:00:36.160 and also we're trying to get to 3 500 members on the website that is one yearly membership on the

00:00:42.320 show if you can feel free to sign up if you can't that's okay hit that like button okay now we spoke

00:00:48.800 before about the modern woman life cycle and the phases that we go through as women now i first

00:00:55.280 want to recap what the phases are of the modern woman life cycle so first we go to a high priced 1.00

00:01:01.520 institution to get a degree that nobody will care about to put themselves in a whole bunch of debt

00:01:07.520 that will burden them for the rest of their lives all they learn in school is how to be disagreeable

00:01:12.400 and how to use men modern women will get a job that is too stressful and does not care about them 1.00

00:01:17.360 in reality the job is not hard or stressful but these women will convince themselves that it is 1.00

00:01:22.480 modern women feel entitled to a certain lifestyle when they begin their careers and will buy houses 1.00

00:01:28.160 and cars that they can't afford and spend all their money on travel while ignoring their student loan

00:01:34.080 debt and sometimes credit card debt modern women will wake up between the ages of 33 to 37 and rush 1.00

00:01:40.000 to have kids and find a husband or bull modern women will hit their late 30s and early 40s and try to 1.00

00:01:45.920 get pregnant by a loser or go through ivf modern women will start on antidepressants and become 1.00

00:01:51.840 alcoholics modern women will buy a dog and die alone now along this journey there are different 0.83

00:01:58.560 phases that modern women go through we have covered the hoe phase today we are going to cover the post hoe 1.00

00:02:05.760 phase and the find herself phase so what is it the post hoe phase the post hoe phase usually comes along 0.91

00:02:14.080 when the women try to get our lives together before we smash into the wall some women enter this phase 1.00

00:02:23.120 sooner some women enter it later but the hoe post hoe phase consists of the following options number one a 1.00

00:02:31.440 health journey many women do an extreme diet in this period they do this extreme diet because they don't want 1.00

00:02:39.280 to take the work to about learning about health or nutrition you know learning about carbs protein fat

00:02:45.920 calories that's too much work let me just go carnivore vegan or paleo i don't want to count sugars i don't

00:02:51.120 want to count calories so oftentimes they do this extreme diet for a couple of reasons one to naturally

00:02:57.760 clear an std there are stv stds that can be naturally cleared allegedly and women are i mean at least they're

00:03:06.880 convinced of it i'm not even saying this is true or false but on tick tock they're certainly convinced

00:03:11.680 that changing their diet will clear their std another thing that they may do this is to lose

00:03:16.640 the weight that they gained from poor decision making now an office job doesn't necessarily need

00:03:22.240 to mean that you get fat there's many men that work office jobs and are in great shape but that does

00:03:27.040 require discipline and hard work that means putting the donut down not getting a 500 calorie latte from

00:03:34.080 starbucks it means eating meals and not just snacking and that is way too hard so they need 0.96

00:03:41.280 to go carnivore vegan or paleo to get out of that the next reason is to have sex with men at the gym 1.00

00:03:47.120 now obviously you know men top of the totem pole is going to be the jacked guy i mean there's a reason 0.98

00:03:53.600 women go and see magic mike we don't really go and see you know the the smart guys dancing for it you 1.00

00:04:00.960 know so you know in order to do that they're obviously gonna need to be in shape too so here's

00:04:08.560 a tick tock of a woman oh by the way also i forgot a breakup will also trigger this so you know being 0.98

00:04:15.840 reminded that you suck as a girlfriend and that you just can't keep a relationship is hard so throwing 0.98

00:04:21.120 yourself into the gym seems to be an option for some very first proper day at the gym hey guys so i just 0.99

00:04:27.520 came back from my very first proper day at the gym and i want to jump on here and kind of start

00:04:33.680 documenting my journey uh because i want to have accountability buddies on the internet um i've asked

00:04:41.520 my friends to be my accountability buddies and everyone seems to be better at doing their own

00:04:45.520 thing by themselves so due to the lack of friends who want to be my accountability buddy i've decided to

00:04:52.000 come on here and share my journey with you guys so i wanted to share a little bit about my health

00:04:57.280 journey that i am kind of focusing on for this season of my life and that is basically i have

00:05:03.520 really bad cardiac health so like even a little bit of exercise pushes my heart rate up to like 200

00:05:09.760 something and my blood pressure on average is quite low my orthostatic blood pressure is quite low so i

00:05:16.960 really wanted to kind of see if i can improve that through like resistance training and just overall

00:05:23.360 improving my cardiac health okay we get the idea the next option for a post-ho phase is finding

00:05:30.640 religion or a spiritual journey so i i dog on nala a lot because she's a perfect example but you know

00:05:37.920 it's not just nala the best place to find some ex-hoes is in church there's no better place and the 1.00

00:05:43.760 reason is because there's a lot of marketing towards people that are broken and have made

00:05:48.400 really poor life decisions now that's all fine and dandy but the best thing for a hoe to do is join 1.00

00:05:55.520 a non-denominational church with no standards where you can live stream your baptism do no work and tweet

00:06:03.520 about how holy you are that's option a so let's let's pull this up here we go a year ago i didn't believe

00:06:11.040 in god didn't believe in jesus didn't believe in god i thought it was super weird i thought it was

00:06:16.480 super old-fashioned and traditional i thought it was super religious super culty and like some people

00:06:23.520 just lived their life that way and it was really extreme and strange and it just was not a part of

00:06:29.120 my world it would never be me it is now and your worst part is she's hot enough you guys are gonna fall 0.97

00:06:34.960 for it there's no way you won't i don't i don't believe you you're like pearl not me i'm too alpha

00:06:40.720 i wouldn't fall for that yeah okay okay guys yeah i i don't you guys are falling for those blue eyes

00:06:49.280 you're you're part of the church now let me i didn't notice the only fans associated god and jesus very

00:06:56.080 heavily with what i knew of religion and that was one of the biggest things for me at the time that

00:07:02.480 was a block in even considering getting to know god i had some wild experiences crazy experiences

00:07:13.760 that led me to believe in god that i did not believe in now oftentimes so women that convert have

00:07:22.400 a tendency to think that god wants them to have a platform and they often hear voices and they

00:07:29.040 attribute that to god you know and it's the same story right it's i was alone i just i'd been partying

00:07:36.000 and being a hoe and then i got then i heard god speak to me lady he did not speak to you you are just 0.99

00:07:42.160 crazy you are insane you hear voices because you're hung over from getting tag teamed the night before 0.99

00:07:50.000 i mean do you guys really believe that nala heard god's voice yeah okay let me tell you if you're 0.99

00:07:55.680 watching this right now and you're like like another christian video or another like person talking about

00:08:01.440 god i was totally the same i every time i saw these videos pop up on my bit earlier in my journey like

00:08:07.920 every time i saw these videos pop up on my tick tock i would be like oh but she's from a christian

00:08:12.880 family or she grew up that way or she goes to church or she has a best friend that's a christian

00:08:18.320 you know like i just always thought it was ingrained in their life somehow i am telling you

00:08:26.160 i went from zero belief zero faith zero care to believe to full undoubtable full heart

00:08:37.120 brain body full belief full knowledge that the fact that this is so real because the wildest things

00:08:45.200 happened to me the craziest things happened to me i went through a really hard time and then hoeing 0.95

00:08:50.880 the hard time is a hard time if you know what i mean it's he i it always has to do with a boy you

00:08:57.760 know it's interesting because when men go through hard times it's like well my mom was sick my i was

00:09:04.720 deployed my best friend tried to commit suicide when women go through a hard time it's i got dumped i took an

00:09:12.320 hell he didn't call me back and these insane things started happening the only christian i knew was my

00:09:18.960 boss oh my gosh cap cap cap you guys in the chat you would fall for it i don't believe you wouldn't i

00:09:25.920 just you know i don't believe if a woman this attractive was super into you you would want to 1.00

00:09:33.120 believe i've seen you know what i've seen this too many times i've just seen it you guys would fall for

00:09:39.280 a hook line and sinker they're all saying they wouldn't yeah okay nah nah i would oh i'm okay

00:09:47.200 so literally thank god for her because she helped and i hadn't told her all these strange things that

00:09:53.120 were happening to me until eventually one day i just blurted it out because she was the only christian

00:09:57.040 i knew and she was like you need to start reading a bible and then i even then i was like no like girl be

00:10:04.400 for real me read a bible me read a bible like a a bible like in what world but i did she bought

00:10:15.200 me a really cute bible and kenneth said he'd hit and then see what happened that's an honest answer 1.00

00:10:21.520 thank you for being honest thank you kenneth thank you because that right there is honesty what i don't

00:10:29.840 need is the virtue signal in the chat you know i just want you to know i the shows that i did earlier

00:10:37.440 i would see the men say that they don't date those types of women or they wouldn't fall for that blah 1.00

00:10:44.400 blah blah and do you know who i would see them dating later oh you know there's this one guy who come

00:10:50.240 on their show a lot and he would always talking about how he does didn't date women like that but

00:10:54.320 i knew his girlfriend before he met her she was exactly like that so i'm not blaming you guys i

00:11:00.640 mean look she's beautiful girl but can we just like call it can we just be i just i want some level

00:11:06.160 of honesty between me and you i want some like you you not only would you believe it you might you

00:11:12.960 would want to believe it you would say lie to me more that's exact you know it's like when women 1.00

00:11:18.800 start talking about stuff they've done before and the guys are like shut up shut up shut up it's 0.90

00:11:23.680 because you're saying lie to me please and i don't blame you guys you know what i'm like 0.99

00:11:27.920 we like it when the men lie to us you're the most beautiful woman in the world okay then why don't 1.00

00:11:33.760 i have why aren't i on the cover of vogue like why haven't i had these outcomes chill pearl they're

00:11:38.800 starved i'm just yeah okay you're telling me the australian accent blonde hair blue eyes you would not

00:11:46.640 but you would you would not fall for it soft-spoken you know that gives that you guys think if a girl 0.96

00:11:54.160 saw you know some girls have two voices they have two voices they have the and this totally happened 1.00

00:11:59.760 on a team i was on in college there was this woman and to us she was a total b she was a total 1.00

00:12:05.200 bitch like she was not nice to anybody always came in with a scowl on her face always screaming at practice 1.00

00:12:10.720 and then we would see her go up to her boyfriend she would have a different voice and we're all 1.00

00:12:14.400 like what you were just how did you but you guys have it too you guys will be in the locker room

00:12:20.080 showing each other i don't know nudes or whatever the hell you guys do i don't want to know i don't 0.66

00:12:25.040 want to know the side of men in the locker room i just don't want to say i i don't i think you guys

00:12:31.680 would hurt my feelings i just think you would and i'm good on it but women have that too you know so we 0.99

00:12:38.720 know when you're falling hook line and sinker she would pull it off she completely would pull it off 1.00

00:12:45.520 first pointy chin looks fade that she would get you and i took it politely opened a page never stopped

00:12:53.920 so this is your sign like it's not that weird it actually is not weird it is just a part of life

00:13:00.320 it's not crazy to just get curious about it like it she's talking about religion and god

00:13:07.840 like she's like getting curious about your sexuality like it's the same it's the same words

00:13:14.720 or the same kind of phrases just different different things changed my life and let the

00:13:20.960 stigma that i had of religion deter you from what is actually god because god is healing god is love god

00:13:29.040 is blessings there are so many things that religions do that i do not agree with at all 1.00

00:13:35.760 and there we go remember it's pick and choose christianity the thing is being a real christian's

00:13:41.360 real hard again that's why i try to say you know there don't look up to me there's people be like

00:13:47.040 pearl don't you want people to like don't you want young women to look up to you no

00:13:52.480 no go find an amish girl or something not me now but there's like a hierarchy right of the the best

00:14:00.800 women and the worst women and the thing is women don't want to do anything hard so they'll always 1.00

00:14:05.920 say there's stuff i don't agree with about christianity when it means saying something

00:14:10.720 that might get them ostracized not being a hoe all the hard parts we just tend to opt out of 1.00

00:14:18.480 the men will do the hard parts because you know they have not all not all that all but they have

00:14:23.360 standards and you know honor and when they say things they mean them we do not we just say things

Pearl - January 20, 2025

This Is What Happens To RETIRED 304's When They Turn 30 ｜ Pearl Daily

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