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00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily where

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00:00:44.240 topics that I wanted to talk about so when I first got into the I guess red pill space

00:00:52.280 I would see people getting baptized on social media and I would see there be an automatic

00:01:01.880 pushback as to from people that did not believe them an example of this that happened to me

00:01:10.900 was when I had Brittany Renner on my show so a couple of years ago I had Brittany Renner on my

00:01:18.600 show where she did what they call an apology tour. 1.00

00:01:21.920 And what an apology tour tends to be is it's when women do a lot of damage to themselves 1.00

00:01:27.040 so they sleep around, go to clubs, sometimes they do OnlyFans, sometimes they do corn. 0.94

00:01:33.960 And what happens is they go to church, say sorry, and they think they get a get out of

00:01:39.180 jail free card.

00:01:41.200 And when I would first see people getting baptized and people having a negative reaction

00:01:45.860 to it I would think why is this a bad thing they're getting baptized that's a good that's

00:01:51.980 a step in the right direction and maybe on the maybe on its surface you may think this

00:01:58.760 is true but what I came to find out is generally speaking it is all a stunt for publicity and

00:02:09.640 attention. There's very few baptisms from people that had a very degenerate past that I found to

00:02:19.600 be genuine. And the reason being is when you want to look at people's motives, you want to say,

00:02:25.420 are they doing it for God or are they doing it for social media or money? So oftentimes what

00:02:32.700 would happen is you would see people randomly get baptized and change from their old ways,

00:02:37.860 which is good. But then you would see them selling Jesus merch. Or you may see them building a brand

00:02:48.660 off of Jesus content. And on its surface, you might think, oh, I mean, that's fine. But there's

00:02:55.680 only so many times where we can see the same story happen again and again. So Brittany Renner, that

00:03:02.280 was my learning lesson, right? I interviewed her, and I didn't give her near enough pushback as I

00:03:07.520 maybe could have and after that I never made the same mistake again so when Nala came out and said

00:03:15.000 so there was an OnlyFans model ex-corn star that used to get tag-teamed on camera that came out

00:03:20.980 and said that she found God after again we look at her motives she's all on social media posting

00:03:27.060 about how she got baptized and her life has changed meanwhile she was raising her prices

00:03:33.060 on her OnlyFans. There's only so many times where I'm going to get bamboozled and there's only so

00:03:38.880 many times where men will get bamboozled. So the reason that there was pushback when people got

00:03:45.000 baptized is because they would see these women, different women do the same thing where before

00:03:50.160 the age of say 27, some women it's earlier, some women it's sooner. Women would do these crazy 1.00

00:03:59.140 things sometimes it would even be on camera and then go to church as a get out of jail free card 0.70

00:04:05.860 so recently we're seeing and we how many times have i covered the same exact story guys

00:04:15.640 ex-only fans model getting baptized so this is neon frank's girlfriend

00:04:21.020 um and she was an only fans model right oh my sound isn't working

00:04:29.040 Yeah. Is it me? It could be me. I love you. I love you, my daughter.

00:04:39.560 Now, remember, we have to think of this through the female lens. What is our currency? 0.99

00:04:45.560 Our currency is what? Attention. So when we're giving women

00:04:51.780 a reward which is the attention of the baptism the attention of getting to post on your social

00:05:00.800 media about it without any work i have a harder time thinking that it's genuine for example

00:05:08.800 had she gone um i know the mormons go away to like some sort of camp for like two years where

00:05:16.200 they just pray in solitude. If she did that for two years and came back, I could believe that. 0.88

00:05:24.460 But when she's getting baptized by a female pastor, 0.95

00:05:29.040 I have a more difficult time. Now, oftentimes what I hear from conservatives, Christians, 1.00

00:05:37.320 we should be trying to let everyone in. Sure, sure. But what I would caution is letting anyone

00:05:45.460 become a spokesperson for your church. Because what tends to happen is a lot of these people

00:05:52.560 are likable, they're charismatic, they're good talkers. So they come in, they do this whole

00:05:57.520 parade, and then they all of a sudden become a spokesperson without having done the work

00:06:03.460 of becoming a better person. And if you have, let's say, 20 years of bad habits,

00:06:09.860 you don't becoming a new person doesn't switch overnight that takes time and a lot of discipline

00:06:16.400 to go from a completely different person so a lot of people hate on me and they say that because I

00:06:22.320 don't believe this stuff that I'm a hater or jealous or whatever but what I think is the

00:06:30.200 people that just blindly believe these baptisms after having done no work they have zero discernment

00:06:37.360 um because an only fans model is not going to change her stripes overnight has it happened

00:06:43.880 i'm sure

00:06:45.220 is it probable no i love you so 0.69

00:06:52.400 and that this is how churches have become a lot more gynocentric because it's always um

00:07:02.540 like men tend to be more disciplined more orderly um and they want to focus on the actual scripture

00:07:11.680 where you have a lot of these pop-up churches they were invented like yesterday and they it's

00:07:19.340 you know they have juice in the background it looks like a um sorry juice in the head in the

00:07:25.140 background. Juice, you know, they give you snacks and juice for coming to church. It's way more

00:07:33.040 about community than the actual scripture. It's almost like a show. And you can tell it's much

00:07:43.280 more catered to women because if you look at the audience, it's majority and most of these churches 1.00

00:07:49.800 is women now on the bright side i do think she deleted her of so you know

00:07:59.280 um now someone tweeted at me because i always get i get this sexist argument a lot i don't

00:08:06.720 quite rude it's very rude i'm a woman i can't beat anyways someone tweeted me russell brand

00:08:12.840 i guess russell brand got baptized and again this is the conservatives are

00:08:19.140 you guys drive me a little crazy because you just go for you believe anything

00:08:23.940 there's zero discernment do i believe russell brand 0.98

00:08:27.720 no no of course not i mean this guy's been a womanizer for 20 years um now to be fair

00:08:38.540 i'm not to be fair it could be genuine right but i think we should have more of a wait and see

00:08:48.660 attitude before we start clapping because you know i was in one of these um christian churches

00:08:55.160 for a couple years and most people don't make it make it past the first year

00:08:58.880 so you know i think you gotta you guys gotta wait to see could you guys um do the teleprompter in a

00:09:10.240 second um no up there it's like up but so and we've kind of seen this for years where

00:09:19.700 Or they, you know, then you become the bad guy for saying, hey, I don't know if this

00:09:30.540 is real.

00:09:32.120 Oh, let me turn the sound off so I can see the chat.

00:09:34.300 They said, born again virgins.

00:09:36.200 Yeah. 0.97

00:09:37.000 This is what a street baptism looks like.

00:09:39.360 I'm just reading the chat.

00:09:42.660 Yeah.

00:09:43.540 Yep.

00:09:44.260 Okay.

00:09:44.580 So that was my first topic.

00:09:46.140 Russell has heavy accusations against and levied about essays in his past that's we've taken the

00:09:53.640 route along with some truths yeah and that's what you always want to look at when you're analyzing

00:09:59.520 this stuff people's incentives what are their incentives so if you were genuinely converting

00:10:06.540 I would imagine you would come in humbly right because you know you came from a life of sin

00:10:14.100 and you're trying to go to not sinning so I would not imagine being a spokesperson would be a great

00:10:21.540 idea for you because you're probably learning a lot you're probably trying to make a lot of

00:10:26.740 changes becoming a spokesperson would be rather difficult to do at the same time where you're

00:10:33.180 teaching when you haven't learned the stuff yourself so when I see that that would tell me

00:10:40.980 either in it for attention or when Nala raises her OnlyFans prices.

00:10:48.360 And remember, what did she do?

00:10:49.700 She said, oh, it was my management, which gave her what? 1.00

00:10:53.140 Plausible deniability, which is exactly how women get away with things. 1.00

00:10:58.520 and that is how you can tell what's genuine and what's not genuine as you look at the incentive 1.00

00:11:13.800 so if they get money at the end of it if they take their story of conversion and they start

00:11:18.780 preaching on stage and getting paid to talk that would indicate maybe they're in it for money 0.92

00:11:24.140 If the women are posting their baptisms on social media, making it a public spectacle, 1.00

00:11:29.540 that would indicate to me that they're in it for attention. 0.95

00:11:33.880 If they're quiet about it and they sit in the back of the church in silence, I might

00:11:39.900 think it's genuine.

00:11:42.000 But what I need is some sort of proof, okay?

00:11:46.460 So my next topic is going to be birth control.

00:11:52.860 So apparently, guys, I got into some beef on Twitter.

00:12:00.080 So apparently, guys, I got into some beef on Twitter.

00:12:08.560 So I had a revelation this weekend.

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00:13:39.800 Okay. So I got into some trouble on Twitter this weekend. You guys know me. I love to tweet. I'm a tweeter. And I kept thinking about how we keep giving women all of these and, you know, sometimes men too.

00:14:01.120 But we often give excuses for these get-out-of-jail-free cards for women.

00:14:11.420 And one of these that I thought of was birth control.

00:14:17.100 So I talked about this last week, and I decided to expand on my opinion. 0.87

00:14:22.920 I talked about how I don't understand why women are surprised when their fertility is lowered

00:14:31.860 after turning off their fertility for a decade. We already know the closer we get to 30, 0.75

00:14:39.260 the more likely it is that our fertility is on the decline. So when you're turning off your

00:14:45.200 fertility for a decade on top of that, I don't really think we can blame the doctors.

00:14:50.940 So I had a couple tweets that I guess maybe set off the people.

00:14:55.120 I don't really know.

00:15:00.260 I said, let me find this one second.

00:15:12.500 Okay.

00:15:13.800 It was a post from Alex Clark that made me start thinking.

00:15:19.060 So Alex Clark said, I just watched your speech.

00:15:23.700 Sorry.

00:15:24.640 Alex Clark said, one of the thousands of DMs I have received from fed up moms across America.

00:15:30.280 I just watched your speech in D.C. on X and I was absolutely moved to tears.

00:15:35.440 I'm expecting my first baby at the age of 30 after trying to conceive since 2020 after getting off of birth control.

00:15:43.040 So that means she got off of birth control at 26.

00:15:49.060 okay i was diagnosed with pcos when i went to my ogbyn for the first time at 23 years old after

00:15:59.480 i'd gotten married she then put me on birth control to give me a regular period the birth

00:16:04.920 control caused me to gain 30 pounds and become more depressed than i have ever been but i did

00:16:09.880 not see the side effects before getting off of it okay so there's plausible deniability once again

00:16:17.780 She gained 30 pounds because of eating too much or because of birth control. 0.97

00:16:28.160 You know, the average age of getting on birth control is 16, around, or 18, 16 to 18. 1.00

00:16:36.780 And I see the size of women that go to college. 0.60

00:16:41.180 They're not morbidly obese as compared to older women. 0.64

00:16:47.780 So this is plausible deniability once number one.

00:16:52.280 When I told my doctor I wanted to start having a child,

00:16:55.340 she told me to stop the pill and I would get pregnant, just like that.

00:16:59.360 After six months of trying, she pushed me to fertility clinics to begin IVF.

00:17:04.180 Thankfully, I declined and trusted God with his plan.

00:17:07.280 After over a year with no success,

00:17:09.140 I asked my doctor if she could reform me to a holistic fertility clinic.

00:17:13.900 clinic. 0.99

00:17:16.200 She flat out told me that a holistic fertility clinic did not exist.

00:17:20.600 After correcting her, she told me what she meant that she always sends people to one

00:17:25.880 clinic and they always come back with babies.

00:17:28.620 She didn't think a holistic approach was good even though they'd done no research.

00:17:34.240 So now, this is something we're always capable of doing, our own research.

00:17:43.600 because a doctor tells you something doesn't mean you have to believe it. And if you choose to

00:17:48.860 believe what a doctor tells you blindly, whose fault is that, guys? Whose? Is it the doctor's

00:17:55.160 fault or is it your fault? Okay. After two years of trying and feeling hopeless, I began doing my

00:18:03.680 own research on reversing PCOS. Okay. And okay, blah, blah, blah. Okay. And now my latest blood

00:18:13.740 work came to show my PCOS was reversed on a whole hormone level. My blood work came back to show

00:18:20.120 PCOS. Okay. So now she gets pregnant. Yay. Yada, yada. Now I had to damper the mood. I'm sorry,

00:18:28.880 guys i had to but i can't take saying this stuff like they're sob stories and like we're victims

00:18:35.680 that this stuff just happens to i've spoken to women around the age of 18 and when you mention

00:18:42.320 to them that there are fertility side effects to birth control do they care do women at 18

00:18:50.240 care about their health when they go to college and they start drinking no okay you guy i said

00:18:56.720 you were surprised to have fertility issues at 30 after turning off your fertility for a decade

00:19:02.000 give me a break and grow up you guys know what you're doing you just didn't

00:19:05.600 want you just wanted to do whatever without no consequence you're an adult

00:19:11.440 so now this set off trad twitter this set up i mean it set it off so i'm going to show you

00:19:20.800 guys some of my responses that I got, oh wait, let me find the other one.

00:19:27.660 So this woman named Soup for Knowles, at 20, so remember 20 is a what, what class?

00:19:36.040 An adult, an adult.

00:19:40.280 I was prescribed the pill, so you see that, who is she putting the accountability on?

00:19:45.540 The doctor herself, did she take the pill or was she prescribed it?

00:19:50.800 now remember every day you get the choice of whether you take it or not

00:19:57.000 take it so let's say you start taking the pill and you get depressed you can 0.64

00:20:02.000 say you know what let me stop women that stop the pill after a year are generally 0.86

00:20:08.160 fine but you guys push it because we do it older and older for longer and longer

00:20:15.360 and then we say oh my gosh how did this happen and then we blame the doctors okay

00:20:24.540 I was told it would help with my future fertility now does that make sense does it make sense for

00:20:33.920 you to turn off your fertility and that it'll help I only took birth control because I didn't

00:20:41.240 want to ruin my future chances to have a baby I didn't know it could okay who believes that can

00:20:47.740 I please who believes can we please put a one in the chat if you believe that she only took

00:20:55.700 birth control so she could have a kid later can we please please no no one in the chat two in the

00:21:02.940 chat. One in the chat if you believe her. Two in the chat if you don't. I mean, two, two.

00:21:24.340 I don't believe shit. And that's why these women are mad at me because I'm telling you guys, 0.99

00:21:28.320 You guys keep getting fooled. 1.00

00:21:30.200 These women that say they got on birth control because of acne. 1.00

00:21:34.660 Are you guys that dumb? 1.00

00:21:37.500 Google. 1.00

00:21:37.900 Google acne treatments and tell me how many forms of acne treatments that you can get

00:21:45.560 outside of birth control.

00:21:50.040 How convenient.

00:21:51.560 That's my only, that is my only say.

00:21:55.600 I literally took birth control because I didn't want to ruin my future chances to have a baby.

00:22:01.700 I didn't know it could cause infertility.

00:22:05.240 My mom didn't know either.

00:22:06.860 You were 20.

00:22:09.240 I mean, men can go to war at 20 and die in combat.

00:22:12.700 I mean, what does your mom have to do with this?

00:22:16.240 So then this woman, Billy something, says, or Billy Brandt.

00:22:22.600 Brandt. Okay, if you took a second to read the tweet, you'd see that she's not having fertility

00:22:30.660 issues at 30, but fertility issues at 25 to 26. So remember class, the average first sexual

00:22:38.100 experience is 16. So what is that? 25, 26 is a decade. Secondly, as a woman yourself, you know

00:22:49.960 there are not many women asking for birth control so they can do whatever they want with no

00:22:54.160 consequence. Well, I would say the main reason for birth control is to have sex and not get 1.00

00:23:05.760 pregnant. I don't know why you guys keep playing dumb. I'm not stupid. You guys can't play me for 1.00

00:23:12.980 stupid they're told it will stop their acne stop their pcos and regulate their period 1.00

00:23:22.260 well if you have a super heavy period you could a eat better stop drinking alcohol 1.00

00:23:29.220 and do some natural things to get a lighter period or a more regular period or you could pick take a

00:23:36.180 a pill. And whose fault is that? Yours. Yes, yes, I think it's offensive to blame when you have

00:23:48.340 fertility issues because you chose to take birth control. I think it's offensive to the women that 0.99

00:23:54.080 actually have fertility issues and are born with this stuff. That's a choice. You didn't see the 1.00

00:24:00.740 men when the doctors said cigarettes were good for them crying and saying oh we were lied to

00:24:08.420 no no they they knew they were adults and these were the decisions that come with choices 0.86

00:24:15.680 she didn't go on birth control as a teenager to enable some college ho face she went on it as a 1.00

00:24:22.660 married woman at the urging of her doctors okay again as a married woman who has what wait for 1.00

00:24:29.120 class agency agency yes yeah as a 23 year old i can't baby you anymore nope you're an adult 1.00

00:24:42.820 is that is that unreasonable i mean my grandma had like five kids at 23 1.00

00:24:59.120 Is it unreasonable for me to say, yeah, you're an adult, but the women, they get so mad. They say, 1.00

00:25:05.620 I can't be an adult. I can't make these decisions. It's just, it's too hard, Pearl. You're the meanie.

00:25:13.040 You're the meanie for suggesting that women go on birth control to have sex. Oh my gosh. Pearl is, 0.99

00:25:21.480 you could call me a detective, guys. You could call me an investigative journalist.

00:25:26.740 I just you guys I don't know who lets them get away with this stuff I don't know it must be you

00:25:34.040 all in the chat because it sure as hell isn't me one thing you don't seem to get is that men have

00:25:40.380 been attacked for decades and decades but that women have been lied to and duped for decades

00:25:45.880 okay so let me get this straight 0.97

00:25:48.940 are women adults I can't I can't get with this women have been lied to and duped because 0.95

00:26:01.180 I don't think they've been do I don't think we've been duped at all I don't think

00:26:10.460 i think we made choices when birth control came in in 1970 or 65 i can't remember the year off 0.91

00:26:21.800 the top of my head but what did women say they said yes let's take this experimental pill

00:26:27.500 woohoo and then and then no fault divorce got legalized and we said yes let's divorce our

00:26:33.940 husbands that's an adult decision yeah you're an adult one okay there are irresponsible bad actors

00:26:43.760 on both sides but there are modern crises that are impacting both men and women and it's time

00:26:49.380 to start having compassion and willingness to help both parties what more help do we want

00:26:54.600 I mean at this point like we are the most okay let me get this straight let me get this straight

00:27:01.760 So we get the help of birth control to not have children.

00:27:06.300 We get fertility treatments if we wanna have children.

00:27:09.700 We get dating apps if we wanna date in a different city.

00:27:12.840 We get Raya if we want to date celebrities.

00:27:16.820 We get, they're trying to figure out ways

00:27:19.900 to reverse menopause so we can have children

00:27:22.420 even later in life.

00:27:25.380 I just wanna know what help are we not getting?

00:27:29.140 We have jobs that we can get.

00:27:31.760 what what more do we want is this what it's like when you guys try to make your girlfriends happy

00:27:41.440 is this what it's like because I'm getting a little frustrated you guys I just want to know

00:27:47.520 what help is necessary if we want to stay single we can do that forever if we want to get an

00:27:55.160 apartment at a pretty cheap rate we can do that if we want to go be an attorney um we can vote

00:28:01.680 were taxpaying citizens. I just don't, you know, I'm going to read the chat really quick.

00:28:17.200 How do you reverse running out of eggs? I mean, they have, they have implants.

00:28:22.400 They literally implant an egg in you. What, what more help do we need? What more compassion do we

00:28:30.940 want and then they'll say well i didn't know okay let me get this straight you guys research boob jobs

00:28:50.060 you research bbls i see that all the time i see lip filler i see the botox

00:28:55.900 i mean i'm sure you guys all researched your injector

00:29:01.940 But let me get this straight.

00:29:03.820 You couldn't research birth control side effects.

00:29:08.120 That was out of the question.

00:29:10.280 We couldn't do that.

00:29:12.840 Guys, this is embarrassing.

00:29:15.260 This is embarrassing.

00:29:16.260 Can we just please just take the L and just say, you know what?

00:29:21.460 This maybe was a consequence I didn't intend for.

00:29:29.480 Yeah, I know.

00:29:30.300 i know no simping no stop simping guys and you know what if you guys are too afraid to call

00:29:37.520 women out on this you're part of the problem yeah i'm talking to you guys i'm talking to you guys

00:29:42.440 you guys let your sisters get away with this you get your you let your mothers get away with this 0.91

00:29:47.460 nonsense you let your girlfriends get away with this and you wonder why we live in a state of

00:29:53.240 delusion yeah because nobody says no that doesn't make any sense nobody

00:29:59.600 okay stop the simping yeah all right so my last story of the day is gonna be talking about Steve

00:30:10.880 Harvey now what I am hoping for is I am hoping for women I'm hoping for two women that watch my show

00:30:23.240 to I want to point out pandering because I think this is a lost now the one thing Alex is right

00:30:37.160 about the entire media does lie to you it totally does but we have agency and we are responsible

00:30:45.220 for doing our own research and that's part of the reason I make the content I do so

00:30:52.240 So Steve Harvey is someone that has pandered to women for decades because men get to a point in their career where they realize I can either start pandering to women and make more money or tell the truth and go broke.

00:31:08.560 And a lot of them just say, you know what, this is way easier.

00:31:11.660 Can you blame them?

00:31:13.360 I'm demonetized.

00:31:14.300 Go to theaudacitynetwork.com.

00:31:16.200 And I want to show you how you can tell when someone's pandering.

00:31:25.240 Hey, Steve. I've been single for a long time. I mean, a long time. So I'll go on those dating.

00:31:31.500 How long is that, babe? Ma'am?

00:31:34.720 No, about 17 years. I go on these dating website advice things, and I read recently that a woman 1.00

00:31:42.800 should offer to pay for 50%, you know, half the dinner on the first date. So they said men would 0.98

00:31:48.880 definitely say no, but they'll appreciate the effort. Well, the last couple of times they've

00:31:54.660 said yes. So I thought, hmm, this backfired. Let me see. So, well, my question is, do men really

00:32:04.880 appreciate it? And should women offer to pay for half on the first date? No, no, they don't

00:32:10.160 appreciate it, and you shouldn't offer it.

00:32:13.500 It's just, look.

00:32:17.500 You know what?

00:32:21.480 I really get sick of dating sites trying to play

00:32:25.000 both sides of the fence. 0.98

00:32:26.800 You want to match a woman up with somebody, 1.00

00:32:29.740 but then you want her to be this totally independent 0.82

00:32:32.280 standalone person.

00:32:33.700 Well, guess what?

00:32:34.540 A man can't be an independent standalone person. 0.60

00:32:38.320 A man, a heterosexual man, is nothing without a woman. 0.98

00:32:41.920 Zero. 1.00

00:32:42.640 Okay, there it is.

00:32:45.900 Let's think this stuff through.

00:32:48.460 Let's logic this, okay? 0.75

00:32:50.840 A heterosexual man is nothing without a woman.

00:32:56.600 Is Elon Musk, would he be okay being unmarried the rest of his life?

00:33:02.100 Would he still be productive?

00:33:04.060 Would he still be competitive?

00:33:05.780 Would he still be successful and happy?

00:33:13.580 What people pandering to us will say is that competitive, successful men need us.

00:33:22.380 They do not need us in any way because masculine men are going to do what they're going to do regardless of if you're there or not.

00:33:30.460 Men that do things for women, they're simps, sorry, these are, look, they do things for us.

00:33:41.100 Masculine men do things for themselves or because to follow God or maybe their purpose, depends on the guy.

00:33:48.200 But a guy, I use Elon Musk because he's a public figure.

00:33:52.260 A guy like Elon Musk is going to buy Twitter and launch rockets into space with or without us.

00:33:58.080 There's no building a man.

00:33:59.920 Behind every great man is a great woman. 1.00

00:34:02.520 It's a load of crap. 1.00

00:34:03.420 They just say that to make us feel better. 1.00

00:34:06.100 Whoever cooks Elon Musk breakfast, he can afford a chef.

00:34:09.880 Okay?

00:34:10.960 It doesn't...

00:34:13.140 It's nice.

00:34:15.300 Most men want companionship, right?

00:34:18.000 They want a support system, but that's just... 0.57

00:34:22.260 That's all pandering.

00:34:23.180 Nothing.

00:34:23.940 Ask him.

00:34:26.680 Listen to me.

00:34:28.080 Ask any heterosexual man, and he'll tell you, 1.00

00:34:33.060 without women, this don't work. 1.00

00:34:35.500 This is nothing without you. 1.00

00:34:37.960 Do you understand that?

00:34:39.980 That's period. 1.00

00:34:41.720 So stop teaching these women stuff that they don't need to know. 1.00

00:34:46.360 If a man asks you out. 0.99

00:34:48.660 Now, what he should have done, and maybe he will, we'll see,

00:34:53.440 is there should be some tough questions asked

00:34:58.640 as to why she's at a certain age and still single.

00:35:05.300 These questions, and Kevin Samuels did a good job,

00:35:08.260 are qualifying to figure out what the problem is

00:35:10.920 because if someone's trying to help you,

00:35:13.680 they're going to ask you tough questions to get to the solution.

00:35:16.920 That's when you go to therapy.

00:35:18.680 a lot of times they'll ask you really personal questions

00:35:24.560 about your childhood or that sort of thing.

00:35:28.180 Let me keep going.

00:35:29.320 And he's not willing to buy you a plate of food.

00:35:31.860 How can you possibly think that this guy can take care of a family?

00:35:38.460 It doesn't make any sense.

00:35:42.160 It don't make no sense.

00:35:44.940 You can't feed me, but we finna go somewhere and have some kids. 1.00

00:35:48.680 well we got to think about this logically can that woman even have children 1.00

00:35:54.500 because the question a lot of guys are going to ask is women we want traditional outcomes

00:36:01.400 but are we offering traditional skills is that something we bring to the table and if it's not

00:36:08.780 is it fair now most men are going to pay for a first date anyway so we don't like you know but

00:36:14.260 is it fair to expect a guy to cover 100% of the bills if we're not 100% traditional, right?

00:36:22.460 Who's going to require constant feeding? Excuse me. Men, we know. Real men, we know.

00:36:31.520 That if we take you out, we're supposed to pay. We know that. We know that. We already know that, man. 1.00

00:36:40.120 yeah and that's the other thing nobody talked about her weight that's the best 0.66

00:36:47.380 thing you can do to help your dating life is lose weight listen let's stop

00:36:53.200 playing this game we know the deal because let me explain something to you

00:36:58.420 when we're all across the room and we meet you when we see you we see the

00:37:03.820 real only reason we walk over to you and we start talking to you is because you

00:37:08.680 you have something we want.

00:37:11.080 It's the only reason.

00:37:12.320 We walk over to you because we see something we want.

00:37:16.220 Our job as men is to go over there

00:37:17.940 and see what it's gonna cost us to get what we want.

00:37:24.940 That's what it is.

00:37:27.220 So we already know this gonna at least start

00:37:30.500 with a plate of food.

00:37:33.040 Then we know if we're gonna keep getting what we want,

00:37:36.160 we're gonna have to make some type of commitment.

00:37:38.240 Then we know if we want to keep getting what we want, we might have to buy a ring up in here.

00:37:43.040 Then we know if we keep getting what we want, we're going to have to ask you to marry us.

00:37:47.700 Then if we want to keep getting what we want, we're going to...

00:37:50.500 Now, you can tell he's pandering because, again, he's asked her zero questions.

00:37:55.840 A guy that's really trying, a man who's trying to help a woman with her dating problems

00:38:00.320 is going to ask questions to qualify as to why you're having those problems.

00:38:05.500 but now he's giving a speech that makes women feel good ah yes we get he should pay for everything

00:38:13.940 yes yes yes he should do everything yes i want to get the ring and look at look at the audience 1.00

00:38:21.160 it's overwhelmingly unattractive women had to put you in a house that you can call your own 1.00

00:38:29.100 we know that 1.00

00:38:32.100 we know that

00:38:35.680 don't ever stop

00:38:37.860 requiring that because

00:38:39.780 real men know that's what we

00:38:41.960 do that's it

00:38:43.440 so basically i work in the male dominated

00:38:45.580 industry and i'm like the only female

00:38:47.800 in my department and it seems like

00:38:49.680 every time i ask questions i suggest new

00:38:51.600 ideas it's like i'm ignored

00:38:53.200 and then i also feel like i'm under a microscope

00:38:55.400 like they're just watching everything i'm doing

00:38:57.780 Like, what can I do to, like, make them take me more serious in this industry, in the male-dominated industry?

00:39:03.780 Well, it's kind of tough.

00:39:05.060 You know, guys can be—here's a trick you can use, because I had to use it.

00:39:09.760 This is not the same comparison, but kind of like.

00:39:13.380 I was the only minority at this one job that I had.

00:39:17.700 And every time I said something, ain't nobody want to hear what I said.

00:39:21.320 So what I did was I met a white guy that was really cool, and we became friends.

00:39:26.700 So what I would do was, every time I had an idea, I'd run it by him.

00:39:30.860 I'd say, man, let me ask you something.

00:39:31.860 This is a great idea, Steve.

00:39:33.660 Why don't you take it to the meeting?

00:39:34.740 I said, no, why don't you do me a favor?

00:39:36.040 When we get in the meeting, why don't you say it?

00:39:38.560 See how they take it.

00:39:39.920 And then say, Steve, Steve.

00:39:41.960 But it's the same thing there.

00:39:43.860 Did he qualify?

00:39:44.960 Did he ask the question, maybe your ideas are not good, and that's why you're not taken seriously?

00:39:53.440 No, he just immediately panders.

00:39:57.620 And I like Steve Harvey.

00:39:58.760 He's a funny guy.

00:39:59.580 He had a really good show.

00:40:01.280 I find his stuff really entertaining.

00:40:03.620 But we've got to be honest here.

00:40:06.900 He's got an audience, and he has to play to it.

00:40:09.880 Came up with this idea.

00:40:11.460 And guess what?

00:40:12.100 He went to the next meeting, came up with the idea.

00:40:14.180 Boss said, that's a great idea.

00:40:15.600 He said, Steve Harvey came up with that idea.

00:40:19.720 Everybody's opinion of me changed after that.

00:40:22.580 And I just got left.

00:40:23.740 Now, sad that you have to do stuff like that,

00:40:29.440 but there's a guy on your job that you're cool with, right?

00:40:31.940 Yeah.

00:40:32.780 Pull him to the side and say,

00:40:34.360 hey, I need some help.

00:40:35.600 I want to be taking a little bit more seriously.

00:40:37.520 Next time they have a great idea,

00:40:38.960 I'm gonna put this idea together.

00:40:40.580 I want you to present it.

00:40:41.660 And if they like it, then I want you to say it's me.

00:40:44.720 Yeah, that's not a good idea.

00:40:45.560 And let's just hope he does that.

00:40:46.580 Yeah, I'm gonna do that, I'm gonna do that.

00:40:48.720 You see what I'm saying?

00:40:50.360 Thank you, darling.

00:40:51.200 I have this 21-year-old that's my baby.

00:40:56.120 Okay.

00:40:56.680 She thinks I'm overbearing, but I'm a protective mom.

00:41:01.760 When she leaves to go out,

00:41:03.220 I have to have a telephone number,

00:41:05.240 where she's going, who she's going with.

00:41:08.220 I have to have their telephone number,

00:41:10.580 and let's not even talking about dating.

00:41:13.300 The boy has to give me his phone number, his email.

00:41:17.000 I have to meet his parents.

00:41:19.080 How do you feel about this, Steve?

00:41:20.600 There's so much stuff going on in the world today.

00:41:23.380 You're absolutely right.

00:41:24.220 There's so much stuff.

00:41:25.060 Now, you are a loving mother.

00:41:26.700 Thank you.

00:41:28.120 But you are overbearing.

00:41:31.740 You know, you can beat both things at once.

00:41:35.340 This is your baby.

00:41:36.220 I got that.

00:41:37.060 I have a 21-year-old daughter, 0.98

00:41:38.700 but my wife's philosophy with all our kids is very smart.

00:41:41.880 She taught this to me. 1.00

00:41:43.060 Their wings work. 0.98

00:41:45.520 Your children's wings work.

00:41:47.120 You have to let them use them.

00:41:48.900 You can't monitor her like that.

00:41:51.660 What would be a qualifying question?

00:41:55.500 Where is her father?

00:42:00.360 Where is the father?

00:42:02.240 At one point in time, you have to believe

00:42:03.940 that something you've taught her sunk in.

00:42:06.480 You've just gotta trust them.

00:42:07.820 These kids, all these kids ain't crazy.

00:42:12.460 These young people now.

00:42:14.720 That's probably the most honest answer

00:42:16.180 I've seen though, out of these three.

00:42:17.840 They're very connected, technology and everything.

00:42:20.140 So, you know, they can get around all this you doing.

00:42:23.480 They got ways of knowing everything.

00:42:25.860 But you're just being a bit much right now.

00:42:28.860 You gotta give her the space.

00:42:31.200 Is that your daughter?

00:42:32.140 Yes.

00:42:32.980 Let me ask you something, but stand up.

00:42:34.940 What's your name? 0.99

00:42:35.860 Elise.

00:42:36.680 Elise.

00:42:37.520 Yeah.

00:42:38.360 How you feel about this?

00:42:39.520 I've been dealing with it for so many years.

00:42:42.380 Yeah, 21.

00:42:43.980 Yeah, it's a long time though.

00:42:46.400 Yeah, if you're in prison, yeah.

00:42:47.900 No, but she, no, the look.

00:42:53.780 No.

00:42:55.400 Yeah, 21 years on earth is nothing.

00:43:00.640 But no, but she made it sound light.

00:43:02.460 Give me an example, something crazy she's done.

00:43:04.480 All right, so let's see, recently,

00:43:06.080 I get off from my job at 12.30 midnight, right?

00:43:09.600 So when I go to my house, sometimes it's not parking

00:43:12.300 right in front of the house.

00:43:13.500 So you have to go a little bit further down the street.

00:43:16.300 So she's like, Elise, call me when you get home

00:43:20.600 so I can know that you're here.

00:43:22.380 So one night I'm like, you know what,

00:43:23.600 let me just do what she says, let me call her.

00:43:25.440 So I called, she said, okay, wait, wait right there.

00:43:28.340 I'm gonna come get you.

00:43:30.920 So she wakes up out the bed, wakes my cousin up,

00:43:34.020 out of her sleep to get in the car with her to come,

00:43:36.960 not even a block down, to drive to come get me.

00:43:41.220 Right, right.

00:43:46.300 you too much you too much I love her Steve okay that was a more honest one let

00:44:00.260 me pull up the next Steve Harvey video I had because I saw a couple of these my 0.98

00:44:08.500 next guest says when it comes to dating her biggest problem is that she's a

00:44:12.220 a hopeless romantic and she needs my help let's look at the tape hi my name is brian chavis i'm 30

00:44:19.180 years old by the way and i have been single for about 13 years it's been a long long 13 years

00:44:30.860 either i meet guys that don't want to commit or i'll go on a date and they're like can i get two

00:44:35.420 separate checks i'm just like i love to cook i love to feed people people feel you know wanted

00:44:41.020 and loved and i'm like i wish i can get that back i've just been a hopeless romantic for years

00:44:45.660 i need help steve okay so if we're gonna be honest so she's 30 right

00:44:51.260 do you guys think that the real problem is her being a hopeless romantic 0.54

00:44:58.700 now i'm not saying this to judge her but if we want to get better outcomes of women we have to

00:45:05.820 figure out what the issue is so we can get better results and is he going to ask her the tough

00:45:12.300 questions so she can get better results or is he going to pander all right well i wanted to

00:45:19.420 give her a chance to meet a great guy in the segment i'm calling steve's dating pool

00:45:27.660 all right she's going to have the same problem i mean okay this was filmed let me see this was

00:45:35.020 filmed um it says a year ago but i'm assuming it's older it looks like an older clip so

00:45:42.060 let's say this was filmed 10 years ago dating apps were still a thing that means you get a

00:45:48.380 billion matches when you're online so putting men in front of her it's not going to change the result

00:45:54.860 right please welcome brianne

00:45:56.620 Hi, Breanne, how are you?

00:45:58.620 Hi, I'm good. How are you?

00:46:00.620 Okay, so you've been single 13 years?

00:46:04.620 13 years.

00:46:06.620 Why?

00:46:08.620 I mean, guys have, like, hurt my heart.

00:46:10.620 You know, I've talked to guys and stuff,

00:46:12.620 but either they don't want to commit,

00:46:14.620 or I'm not their type,

00:46:16.620 or, um, they're just not ready.

00:46:20.620 Wow.

00:46:22.620 Okay, here's how it works, Breanne.

00:46:24.620 works Brianne I've got three eligible bachelors here that you're gonna ask them

00:46:29.380 some questions after they answer I'm gonna help you figure out what they're

00:46:34.160 saying because sometimes men talk in codes it's not that we're lying it's just

00:46:39.320 we have certain ways of answering some questions if I pick up on that I will

00:46:43.220 stop them and decode it for you doesn't make them bad it's just that's the code

00:46:47.380 we use at the end we're gonna send you on the date with the bachelor of your

00:46:50.740 choice now here's the twist i got more guys backstage when we go to commercial break if

00:47:00.180 something's not working out we get to swap guys out uh so let's meet the guys that's out here

00:47:06.820 gentlemen please tell us a little bit about yourselves and introduce yourself hi my name

00:47:11.380 My name is Andres, I'm from Mexico, and I live in L.A.

00:47:17.380 Hi, Brianne. My name is Fred from Dallas, Texas.

00:47:20.380 I live out here.

00:47:25.380 How you doing, y'all?

00:47:26.380 I live out here in Los Angeles, and I'm a digital...

00:47:30.380 I'm a manager for a digital media company.

00:47:34.380 My name is Saul from Compton, California.

00:47:37.380 I grew up there, and now I'm in work and education.

00:47:45.380 Now, Breanne, here's a card with questions

00:47:48.560 that I suggest that women ask on the first date. 0.87

00:47:52.720 Anytime you're ready, you can ask away. 1.00

00:47:54.700 Okay.

00:47:56.300 For you, Andres, it's a Saturday, and you have no plans.

00:47:59.980 How do you feel your day?

00:48:01.700 I would go work out or go for hiking.

00:48:05.320 I would call friends, maybe plan some dinner with more friends or to the movies.

00:48:11.800 Nice. Okay. For you also?

00:48:15.100 I would fill my day by putting some laundry, doing some laundry, going out for a hike.

00:48:21.800 And then when I get back from the hike, the laundry is ready.

00:48:24.460 So put on some clothes, go out for brunch.

00:48:26.780 And then shortly after, probably read a book.

00:48:29.480 And then there might be some football on as well.

00:48:31.900 And then try to convene with some of the guys later on in the night.

00:48:35.020 maybe with my my date at that evening or with the guys uh later that evening so it

00:48:40.300 just depends on what goes on for the rest of the day

00:48:47.980 so same question as for me uh i'm big on chores so not big on doing them but i was taught you

00:48:56.380 handle that before you handle your fun so cleaning up laundry like prayer said uh

00:49:01.580 I'm a man's man, so I'll be watching sports, probably.

00:49:06.280 Nice.

00:49:07.440 No, it's not nice.

00:49:09.460 No, it's not.

00:49:10.360 I didn't like none of these answers.

00:49:12.260 I didn't like none of these answers.

00:49:15.920 Steve, what was wrong with those answers?

00:49:19.860 None of them were doing hard drugs.

00:49:22.140 I mean, one guy's doing chores?

00:49:24.580 What is the problem? 0.99

00:49:26.200 You're on a show to try to win the heart and attention of a woman. 0.64

00:49:31.580 any brain okay so ladies the two women that watch when he's saying that these

00:49:39.280 men are here to win your heart it signifies that we have to do nothing and

00:49:44.760 contribute nothing and that they are the ones that have to win us over but the 1.00

00:49:48.760 wet men we like tend to have options meaning you can't bring nothing to the 1.00

00:49:55.480 table your head tells you you have to do something nice for the woman I give a 0.62

00:50:00.420 damn about your buddies I don't give a damn about your laundry I'll give it so

00:50:05.760 now now he's saying well these men that have things going on in their life 1.00

00:50:10.180 already should put all of that aside to appease what you want

00:50:15.480 and our women ever happy one in the chat if we're ever happy two in the chat if

00:50:20.640 we're not and by how you was raised to do your choice all that's good what that

00:50:25.140 question is really designed to do is to see if he would think enough about you

00:50:31.140 to say what he would do to feel his sadness with you because like right now

00:50:36.060 according to all them three of them you at the house because they out hiking

00:50:42.960 doing laundry watching football hanging with a boy what is

00:50:54.180 your dream and where are you in the process of achieving that dream my dream

00:50:58.560 is to be happy and right now I'm achieving it I'm doing what I want

00:51:05.820 working in doing what I'd like so the next step is to find someone to share

00:51:13.920 that and going on that way so okay so what do you do I work at real estate

00:51:22.720 My dream would be to have a job that's supportive of myself and whoever my future family is going to be.

00:51:31.020 But also, I would like to have, you know, be a husband at one point and then potentially be a father.

00:51:37.060 And I'm in that process right now.

00:51:42.540 And for you?

00:51:44.240 My dream is just to be to own more property and be able to give back the way I'm already starting in the process with education.

00:51:51.440 I have a younger brother who's disabled so I always want to make sure he's taken care of that's a promise I made to my mother

00:51:57.780 So just making sure you have a place to stay at all time

00:52:04.260 Okay, we're gonna come back we're gonna dig a little bit deeper into these guys with a few more questions

00:52:09.600 We may swap a guy two out would see how that goes but stay tuned to find out what happens and who she chooses

00:52:16.380 During the break we swapped out Saul for Martin. So Martin is here

00:52:21.440 um martin tell us a little bit about yourself i was born in new orleans moved to the church

00:52:27.860 hey do that i've been in la for about a year now so i'm liking a lot dang she swapped out the guy

00:52:37.020 who took care of his disabled brother it is a cold cold world let me tell you um what do you

00:52:45.180 for a living she said he is bald i do not care sir i do not care sports podcast my dream is to

00:52:53.020 eventually my dream is to eventually transition sports talk radio so kind of doing it on my own

00:52:58.060 now and that's why i moved to la so now has ladies i'm asking has steve had her qualified

00:53:05.020 to them in any way? No. Pandering, pandering, pandering. It will not be helpful. 0.66

00:53:11.740 Nice. All right, let's continue. Okay. What is one thing you won't tolerate in a relationship?

00:53:19.420 Andreas? Lies. I mean, if you're with me, yeah.

00:53:27.340 I'll have to say honesty as well. Honesty is something that I would look for,

00:53:31.660 and if you're not honest, that's something that I don't really tolerate. I feel like when it comes

00:53:34.780 to a relationship is always built on trust and uh that's something i'm looking for

00:53:41.820 martin i think for me it comes to more of like a disrespect i think honesty's wrapped up in that

00:53:47.180 but you know just everything just doing what you say you're going to do when you're going to do it

00:53:50.860 and just being the person that you jump like when you jump into the relationship being that person

00:53:54.780 the whole time that's pretty good good answers fellas we're doing good now okay and then

00:54:04.700 And a shout out to Phoenix Light Games for joining the Audacity Network.

00:54:09.940 Woo.

00:54:11.160 If you could do.

00:54:12.200 I see you guys' sign up.

00:54:13.540 So I think there was one more this show.

00:54:14.960 So Tash, welcome.

00:54:17.820 Woo.

00:54:18.600 Being over in life, what would it be?

00:54:21.100 I would go back to college again just because now that I'm like,

00:54:26.580 I could take more advantage of it.

00:54:28.940 So, yeah.

00:54:33.420 Again, for you.

00:54:34.440 You could do anything over in life.

00:54:36.300 I honestly, I wouldn't do anything over.

00:54:38.240 I think that everything happens for a reason.

00:54:40.300 And I think with the relationships that have failed,

00:54:42.200 some that have been successful, I've always

00:54:43.640 learned something from them.

00:54:44.840 So I just think that everything happens for a reason.

00:54:46.740 So I wouldn't think anything.

00:54:51.040 I also would probably go back to college and study more.

00:54:54.120 I had way too much fun in school.

00:54:57.240 And Sallie Mae is still, I would do that again. 0.65

00:55:00.240 So I don't have to have Sallie Mae on my back. 0.95

00:55:04.440 Who do you guys think she's going to pick? 1.00

00:55:06.320 I think she's going to pick the sports podcaster. 0.92

00:55:09.740 That's my guess.

00:55:11.220 Yeah, I go back to college so Bernice Parker could see me.

00:55:14.920 Someone asked if you get access to my past videos on the network.

00:55:19.100 Yes.

00:55:20.440 We're uploading a lot of them this week.

00:55:22.900 But, yes, there's a good amount of them already.

00:55:25.020 Now.

00:55:25.520 Well, Breanne, we've got to make a choice here.

00:55:37.280 So you've got to trust your intuition.

00:55:40.340 Intuition tells you you should go out with who?

00:55:43.920 Now that's another, where, ladies, ladies, ladies,

00:55:48.240 where has our intuition gotten us?

00:55:51.700 Are we known for making, just as a group, as a collective,

00:55:54.500 not talking about you.

00:55:55.840 Are we known for making great dating decisions?

00:56:00.000 So what is this?

00:56:01.060 Pandering.

00:56:03.060 I need to get like a sound effect that goes, woo.

00:56:08.060 No.

00:56:15.560 Andres.

00:56:17.060 Andres.

00:56:17.760 Andres.

00:56:19.340 Oh, I guessed wrong.

00:56:20.260 I did not see that coming.

00:56:21.500 Andres.

00:56:22.700 Andres, come on up.

00:56:24.500 anyway so that is why i think that steve harvey panders to women let me know what you guys think

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Pearl - September 30, 2024

This Is Why WOMEN LIE To Escape Responsibility! ｜ Pearl Daily

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