Pearl - Trad Feminist Think Corn Is The Problem, but it's really Old Marriage

00:00:00.000 All right. What up, guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to

00:00:06.460 another episode of Pearl Daily. You know, when I don't do one on one interviews, I try to stream

00:00:11.300 every day. But today we're a little bit earlier. So, guys, as you already know, today's topic,

00:00:19.960 we are talking about these trad feminists. But before I start, please try to sign up for the 0.98

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00:00:43.220 been demonetized so this really really helps us um i have to fund the move right now so it's just

00:00:48.380 been super crazy um but guys yesterday i got a response from candace owens on x i seem to really

00:00:58.300 cause up a ruckus on x i won't lie to you guys i seem to really get the people talking i think

00:01:04.420 they should pay me for the conversations that i've started i should get like a a cut where is

00:01:12.100 Okay. I'm pulling this up. I'm looking at the chat. Oh, sorry guys. It's corn. So, okay. So

00:01:18.100 yesterday I had a thought. Also make sure you like the video. We're streaming at a different

00:01:25.880 time. So we got to, you know, let the people know we're live. Okay. You can share my screen.

00:01:32.220 okay so candace owens tweeted yesterday

00:01:38.360 ban and i'm going to say cornography it's corn for the purpose of the stream i can't say p-o-r-n

00:01:46.980 because youtube has guidelines and they'll demonetize this video if i say that so

00:01:52.020 all right ban cornography it is a psychological weapon intended to weaken our men

00:01:59.040 and guys I just have a little bit of a different point of view so I had a question

00:02:06.800 if women do not want to have sex with young men what are the men supposed to do 0.83

00:02:15.360 be abstinent until 30 year old women decide they are ready to have sex with them

00:02:21.480 now this it seemed to have triggered candace a little and i always have a hard time because i

00:02:29.180 really do like candace i really do i'm like an og fan i met her once and i was kind of starstruck

00:02:35.440 like i just i i really like the chick but 1.00

00:02:38.600 but i do think you know because she used to be a feminist 1.00

00:02:47.880 she still has a lot of that programming i mean all of us women do really as women we should know

00:02:54.980 that we're all kind of feminists you know whether we like to admit it or not i think the men have

00:03:01.340 kind of been letting us play pretend like we're traditional none of these traditional conservative

00:03:07.160 women are actually traditional and i'll explain why i would say no so she said a lot of guys in

00:03:13.620 the comments here provided you with an answer to your question lol because they are men not perverts

00:03:20.040 they recognize the ills of cornography but mind you so automatically if a man is looking at corn 0.90

00:03:28.520 her view is that he is a pervert

00:03:30.500 and am I the bad guy for saying isn't that a little bit extreme guys don't most men do that 0.67

00:03:39.400 i i mean is it like the end of the world they all seem to be functioning fine

00:03:45.200 and pretty much every i don't think i've ever met a guy that's never seen corn i hadn't seen it 1.00

00:03:53.820 until i got freaking x now i feel like i've been traumatized because all you bitches throw your 0.99

00:03:58.560 only fans videos in my face but i wouldn't say that's really the norm most people and i know 0.97

00:04:06.360 No one will believe me anyway, so it's fine.

00:04:08.120 But most people have seen it.

00:04:11.000 And it seems like the buildings are running, society's semi-functioning.

00:04:16.760 I don't know.

00:04:17.480 I know it's got harmful side effects.

00:04:20.960 So I dug into this a little bit.

00:04:23.420 If you look at corn addictions on Reddit, it says it can be overcome within two weeks.

00:04:29.900 so I just I kept thinking to myself is this the demon that all of the trad cons

00:04:37.160 like why is this the hill that everyone's saying to ban when the real problem I would argue is

00:04:46.720 old marriage delayed marriage 0.84

00:04:48.680 and women's selection so romantic love and um women's like hypergamy I guess would be bigger 1.00

00:05:04.140 culprits that lead to corn and I'm gonna get to it she said the idea of women defending 0.60

00:05:10.040 cornography doesn't seem to impress them now the funny thing about this with Candace

00:05:15.720 this i found i found very interesting

00:05:19.760 i actually didn't defend corn i asked a question what are the men that do not have sexual access

00:05:31.980 supposed to do and this is a serious question that we have to ask as a society now i don't think

00:05:40.020 most men want women to be forced to sleep with them. I don't think this is like a want from men.

00:05:47.720 I don't think deep down they're saying, I want women to sleep with me. They don't want to sleep 0.77

00:05:51.860 with me because they could all just hire a hooker if that was the case. I think men want to be 1.00

00:05:56.400 desired, right? But still, we still have the question, what are these men supposed to do?

00:06:02.960 So I respond. I say men can say one thing for likes, but watch what they do. If you Google it,

00:06:08.220 guys, 70% of men have watched corn in the past year. And I would argue in their lifetime,

00:06:16.160 the average guy is exposed to corn at like 12. So we have to remember these people are lying

00:06:23.020 for their brand. And by the way, 40% of women have seen corn in the last year. So women,

00:06:28.780 we're not too innocent either. And the stuff we look up is far more violent

00:06:33.240 and raunchy than the stuff men tend to look up so i'm trying to be honest here trad cons

00:06:42.400 you know they they talk about this degeneracy but none of the women like none of us were and

00:06:48.520 you know i'm including myself none of us were virgins on our wedding day so you know we can

00:06:53.840 call out hookup culture but you're really a part of it if you didn't wait until marriage

00:07:02.000 you know i'm just being honest guys like you know trad con women okay let's say you're 30

00:07:10.740 when you got married right you had a new partner every four years from the time you're 16 17 19 20

00:07:17.980 24 28 okay let's say your body counts three or four you're still statistically ruined

00:07:26.620 so i'm not i'm not trying to you know be a doomer but i'm just trying to i'm trying to like

00:07:33.560 bring some honesty about the space okay so people tend to want to have sex around 16 0.51

00:07:42.880 that's i mean honestly i know chicks that lost their virginity at 14 i do so you could argue

00:07:51.300 it's younger than that but for all intents and purposes let's say 16 is the you know that's when

00:07:59.640 people start wanting to make children and have sex now the average age of first marriage for women

00:08:06.880 is 30 I think it was 29 point something it's getting higher every year so it's 30 now for

00:08:14.840 marriage so when women are young we all know that women go for a small percentage of men

00:08:25.560 you can take the I don't know if I'm still this is still full screen you can take it down we all 0.54

00:08:31.300 know women go for a small percentage of men so I'm about to actually I'm gonna I'm gonna erase

00:08:36.220 this just so I can just so I can teach the class so and I think men know this from a young age

00:08:42.360 i mean jeremiah did you not did you not see that the women were sleeping with the same men

00:08:50.460 from a young age yeah that one guy would get like three women yeah yeah it's like guys guys kind of 0.98

00:08:56.980 they notice this sooner we have no idea because we're idiots but you know they know from a young 0.97

00:09:03.840 age that all the women I'm gonna show us are sleeping with the same men I'm just gonna draw 0.98

00:09:13.880 a bunch of ladies it's a mini whiteboard so I kind of have to draw everyone on top of each other 0.58

00:09:20.160 okay but these are all the women let's just say an attractiveness order and then we're all like 1.00

00:09:25.040 oh we want that guy we want that guy maybe okay this guy will do this guy but then there's these

00:09:31.380 guys now these guys get sexual access here when they're older so these are the guys that go get a 0.84

00:09:38.260 job they they improve their social skills and they they finally then the women are like you know what 0.98

00:09:44.340 i'm done screwing these guys now i'm gonna marry this guy sorry fellas it just is what it is you 0.98

00:09:52.260 know so these guys at the bottom so this is the one out of three men that haven't had sex in the 0.99

00:10:01.260 past year right here they're left out of everything these guys get easy sex these guys get relationships

00:10:09.780 when they're a little older now sometimes these guys improve enough to become these guys and then

00:10:15.640 they get the easy sex right so it's not it's not a you know some guys move right some guys become

00:10:21.900 start here a lot of the guys you see that get married they were these guys then they became

00:10:26.760 these guys. And you could see, cause you can look at the age fertility, um, age gap between them and

00:10:32.700 their wife. They tend to marry their wife around 30. Um, she's usually their same age, sometimes 0.60

00:10:38.700 older. Um, but a lot of these guys get very, very cocky and they're like, Oh, why don't you just

00:10:45.560 become these? But they don't know they're losing. It's yeah. That's a different conversation. Okay.

00:10:50.680 okay so my question what are what are the options for a man that is not sexually desired so he's

00:11:02.380 here so he could become a man that's here so he could say I'm going to work my way up till I get

00:11:09.240 here or here but I think everyone's got a ceiling right even as women like we can get in really

00:11:14.500 good shape but you're not going to go from here to here you might go from here to here but let's 0.51

00:11:19.940 just say he could go from here to here that's gonna take time it you know the number one thing

00:11:28.160 that gets us ladies we love a smooth talker we love a man that can just like it doesn't really

00:11:34.440 matter we're like what job we care about the jobs when we get older but when we're younger it's like 0.78

00:11:40.500 we just want someone that can talk talk talk our ear off we love it um that takes time women we

00:11:47.880 have no idea how hard it is for men to learn to talk to us it's like a different language

00:11:52.700 we have no idea i've watched guys learn this stuff right and it's like because men are very

00:11:59.860 logical and analytical and i guess it's like better if they talk to us in a more playful way

00:12:05.220 but this is something they kind of have to learn because the way they talk to each other it's just

00:12:09.820 information they have to learn to be nicer to us because the truth hurts our feelings and then i

00:12:15.460 guess we like ruin their social battery. Like, I guess after, um, I guess after, you know, we're

00:12:23.300 around too much, they need to like, like, I've heard guys say that my wife isn't allowed in this

00:12:28.700 portion of the house. Cause I just want to get away from her. I mean, that's how draining we are 1.00

00:12:33.540 guys. Women, right. You know, and everyone's gonna, everyone's gonna say, Oh, Pearl hates 1.00

00:12:40.160 women i'm just trying to you know talk about the uncomfortable truth so let's say i see i wish i 0.91

00:12:46.920 had two whiteboards here how do i do all right guys i'm gonna have to erase

00:12:52.180 you know what i'll put it on i'll put it on my on my notes but don't don't pull this up till i tell

00:13:01.660 YouTube. I'll put it on my notes. All right. So we're going to go 1630. We're going to make this

00:13:13.840 font bigger. Okay. You could pull this up now. All right. I don't know if you guys see this Google

00:13:24.480 doc but I'm just all right we're here can they see it okay so

00:13:35.780 actually take it down sorry one second I gotta

00:13:42.340 okay so between the time that yeah you could take it down I think it's better to just use

00:13:49.880 the whiteboard between the time that a guy is 16 and 30. He can, but let's just say it takes him

00:13:59.800 five years. Let's say he starts off. He started off here. Remember? So let's just say he is super

00:14:05.520 skinny. He's super awkward and he doesn't have a job. Let's just say he, remember he's at the

00:14:11.720 bottom of the totem pole. So he's got to, let's say he's got to get in the gym. It takes him,

00:14:16.780 you know men it takes him a lot longer to build muscle but let's just say he's really dedicated

00:14:21.860 he does it in two years but honestly without steroids it might even take you longer than that

00:14:27.840 to build muscle but let's let's just say two years he does it okay then he says you know what

00:14:33.440 at the same time I'm gonna get a job but you know starting at minimum wage it's gonna take

00:14:39.380 men aren't women they're not just giving things so they have to work to get jobs they have to 0.75

00:14:44.200 actually do things. Women were just handed them. We don't get it. Um, so let's say the next two 0.99

00:14:50.240 years he focuses on his finances really. And then the next two years he says, you know what? He's

00:14:55.600 been in the gym doing all that. Now he wants to focus on talking to women because none of this 0.98

00:15:00.440 shit matters. Like you could be the best look. You can even be a good looking guy, but if you 0.99

00:15:07.480 don't know how to talk to us, we'll still curve you for the guy with nothing that can. I don't

00:15:12.020 make the rules like I just we're not that smart we don't really think like that so he's got the

00:15:17.900 time between 16 17 18 19 20 let's say 21 let's say at 21 he can finally get to here

00:15:25.660 is it realistic that that guy is never and I'm just I'm just trying to be honest I'm not I'm

00:15:34.660 not trying to say it's good or moral is it realistic that that guy is gonna have no as a

00:15:41.540 man with 16 times the amount of testosterone as we do. Guys, they love sex. They think about it 0.99

00:15:49.700 24, like I don't really get it. I'm a chick, right? I mean a little, but you know, they're

00:15:55.860 just, they have like this monkey brain. They love it. They like, well, there's a reason we have 0.88

00:16:00.560 phrases like men will screw anything. You know, they have a ton of testosterone. Is it realistic 0.98

00:16:06.900 take that 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, let's six years. They're just going to be completely celibate,

00:16:15.260 not jack off, not do anything until they finally get sexual access in their early 20s. 0.95

00:16:24.600 And mind you, they don't usually start getting full sexual access. It's like maybe one girl 0.98

00:16:30.420 likes them, their friend kind of lets them out of their friend zone. It's not like a full

00:16:36.700 sexual access like it's like a sexual access and then maybe she changes her mind she leaves

00:16:43.940 and then he has to wait another couple of months is this realistic I mean I'm just asking the

00:16:49.880 question and then you get the trad cons who aren't really honest they're not really honest about any

00:16:56.040 of this that they'll just scream about degeneracy and I get it you know what I understand

00:17:02.640 banned. I do, but I just don't, I'm just trying to think of solutions here. Okay.

00:17:14.520 So the next thing he can do, the guy over here. So let's say they ban corn, right? Let's say they

00:17:22.100 ban, they say corn's gone tomorrow. He could get a hooker and we've seen an explosion of online 0.98

00:17:28.100 hookers I mean that's what we've seen the last like what decade I can't even count the amount 0.60

00:17:35.520 of hookers I've met in my like hooker was such a it was so uncommon when I was young but now it's 1.00

00:17:42.940 just like it's normal hookers are everywhere my god so you know he could get a hooker I mean he 0.94

00:17:51.020 could you know get racy magazines or i don't know don't guys jack off to like anything i 0.99

00:17:58.060 i don't i don't don't tell me don't answer in the chat i don't want to know okay keep it to yourself

00:18:04.700 but is that is that realistic

00:18:11.260 i mean so what are the men that are not given attention by women so really when i think of

00:18:19.180 solutions because they always come to pearl pearl what's your solution and i don't love giving these

00:18:24.940 i don't love it because i think none of these will happen i i think none of this because women will 0.85

00:18:31.660 always do this always they'll always go for the hot guys that know how to talk to us the funny guys

00:18:38.780 this is i'm no different other women are no different we just love this is what we love okay 0.96

00:18:45.340 Okay, one option is you could get rid of female choice with arranged marriages. 0.61

00:18:57.300 At 16, you could say, hey, you are going to make a family with that guy at 18. 0.67

00:19:06.860 Now, here's the problem I see with that.

00:19:10.640 It's probably the best solution.

00:19:12.780 problem number one i don't see it happening uh problem number two 0.64

00:19:19.100 i don't know about you guys but if chick here is paired with chick guy here

00:19:27.440 do you guys want a woman to marry you that doesn't want you 0.79

00:19:32.640 i don't know about you i'd rather just be by myself than be with someone that doesn't want me

00:19:39.280 is that i mean let me know guys in the chat what is that important to you i would think

00:19:45.900 it's important i don't know no i'm not saying to go to sharia's law i'm not i'm just saying

00:19:52.760 because you have to get rid of female choice in order for this to stop happening because

00:19:58.900 guys it's not healthy for people to not have sex until they're 30. i mean we live to be 80

00:20:05.800 ish and that means half of us won't so like a quarter of us will die at 60 or in our 60s

00:20:12.400 you think it's it's healthy for people to be almost middle-aged

00:20:17.480 till they have sex and this is the problem yeah they said what men want to be wanted

00:20:23.980 and so there's no there's choices and trade-offs choice number one is you could do an arranged

00:20:30.580 marriage um the the positives is that's better for society as a whole we'd see more families 0.99

00:20:38.320 um positive number two is you would see less whores because you're putting people in arranged 0.96

00:20:45.900 marriage from the time they're like 16 or 18 whatever you guys think is you know depends on 0.95

00:20:52.000 your state right but that's a pro the con is that i mean you might have a chick that doesn't really

00:21:03.020 want you i don't know pros and pros and cons here they said having a family is more important than 0.99

00:21:16.600 being desired. Some people would say that. There's no perfect solution. There's just choices and

00:21:22.500 trade-offs. But the real thing is, guys, most men I've spoken to wanted to either be in a

00:21:33.300 relationship or marry young. It's funny. There's this idea that men want to be dogs. And I mean,

00:21:39.540 they kind of do. But most men aren't really, they don't have women thrown at them like that.

00:21:46.600 so to that men are just kind of logical creatures they're like you know what i like this chick from 1.00

00:21:52.260 my college i like this chick from my high school let's just build something here women are the 1.00

00:21:57.340 ones leaving and so what i find interesting is before candace owens and i think she can't right 0.57

00:22:04.920 it's kind of hard for me to say women get married young when i didn't get married young it's hard

00:22:09.780 for candace to say well women get married young when she you know she got married at 30 but 1.00

00:22:14.920 But the bigger problem is old marriage, women's hypergamy. 1.00

00:22:28.820 Oh, ew, there's a bug on this. 1.00

00:22:33.880 Yeah, women's hypergamy and old marriage. 1.00

00:22:36.120 Those are more of the issues. 1.00

00:22:39.140 Because women, we're not choosing monogamy. 1.00

00:22:41.660 This idea that women want to be married.

00:22:44.120 You know, guys, you know, I'm just, you know, speaking from personal experience. 0.99

00:22:47.000 I wanted to go play volleyball.

00:22:48.660 That was what I focused on. 1.00

00:22:52.320 Most women have something they want to do more than marriage in their early 20s and, you know, teens and 20s. 1.00

00:23:01.200 It's not a bad thing. 1.00

00:23:03.920 Life is about choices and tradeoffs.

00:23:06.660 but what i want to start talking about is being honest about the real problems

00:23:11.000 and about the choices and trade-offs okay we ban corn tomorrow one how would you enforce that

00:23:17.260 and two 1.00

00:23:20.600 what would that really change i mean maybe if there's a local brothel the numbers would be 1.00

00:23:27.760 through the roof maybe they just go through their exes nudes i've heard men have like an

00:23:34.100 album of their exes I don't know what you guys are doing I've heard there's like group chats

00:23:38.600 that like guys send nudes in a group chat I'm like what are you guys doing this is crazy I

00:23:43.820 keep it don't confirm or deny in the chat keep it to yourself I don't want to know I don't want to

00:23:52.120 No, but, you know, it's a serious question.

00:23:58.280 We ban corn tomorrow.

00:24:00.100 What happens? 1.00

00:24:02.160 And so, but it's so crazy because the women, 1.00

00:24:07.980 it's like we're not having the real conversation of how that would work. 1.00

00:24:12.360 So then I'm like, and I don't, this got a thousand likes.

00:24:20.160 i don't even mean to you can pull this up john farrell responded he said no get married young

00:24:27.300 and the women don't want to marry young even your traditional and i don't mean this to be 0.77

00:24:35.560 a dick i like i i'm a candace stan i just think she's wrong about this um the women don't want 0.68

00:24:43.440 to marry young even your trad influencers candace owens married at 30 not a digger either i'm not 0.99

00:24:49.600 married, but we have to be honest about what women are wanting to do. And they're saying Pearl's a

00:24:58.340 hypocrite. They say men should marry virgins. Well, that's ideal if you want good outcomes, but 0.99

00:25:03.980 I mean, there's like no real, you know, then it was crazy. I got, hold on, you can go back.

00:25:13.780 Oh, Tim Pool got involved. Now, Tim, I have a serious question. You can take this down for a

00:25:20.700 second. Now, Tim, I have a serious question for you. Where was this energy? I was just there like

00:25:30.020 three minutes, like five minutes ago. He did this last time too. He has no energy in person.

00:25:36.480 um but i leave i'm like we could have literally debated this so now i would have to go back 0.97

00:25:48.720 pearl is right the dudes who can't get laid should just jerk off to of and corn well i didn't say 0.92

00:25:58.580 should but they do and this is what i call apex pandering it's pandering because again 0.98

00:26:05.680 70 of men have watched cord in the past year do you really believe that none of these in

00:26:13.020 real like okay like now we got to play pretend i just i don't like the playing pretend it just

00:26:22.380 annoys me it just annoys me like come on guys stop stop pretending then he says I didn't give

00:26:30.240 a prescription I asked a tough question Candace fan corn pearl but what are the guys supposed to

00:26:40.640 like why do I feel like I'm talking to a wall what is your solution for the men that are left

00:26:50.560 out of the sexual marketplace. If your solution is wait, be celibate until 30. Don't have any 0.88

00:26:59.260 sexual release until you're 30. My good luck. That's my thing. Okay. Yeah, sure. I don't even, 0.94

00:27:13.200 you know, guys, hookup culture is a female problem. Men are not partaking in hookup culture. 1.00

00:27:18.540 it's women it's women all of us we have all the power in our early 20s and teens 18 to 24 that's 0.98

00:27:29.280 when we're the most attractive do you see women with all of that power saying hey you know what 0.91

00:27:36.040 let me go down to the courthouse and marry my high school boyfriend no none of us did it 1.00

00:27:40.900 even your women that say they're traditional right

00:27:46.580 even your women that say they're traditional none of them and that's all the playing pretend 0.97

00:27:53.940 none of them were virgins on their wedding day it's three percent of women waited and we don't 1.00

00:27:59.820 even know of that three percent what which one of them were fat i went to a catholic high school 1.00

00:28:05.640 I know one woman that I can think of. 0.76

00:28:10.920 There might have been more, but off the top of my head, 1.00

00:28:13.040 one chick that waited until she was married. 1.00

00:28:15.560 One.

00:28:17.560 I went to a Catholic high school.

00:28:24.520 Now, what is your solution to the young men that are not getting laid? 1.00

00:28:30.400 Arranged marriages, hookers. 0.84

00:28:34.960 i agreed with you we all know he's not agreeing this is you gave me a who hurt you video like 0.95

00:28:41.260 10 minutes ago so i i know you're being cheeky um your counter implies dudes should use corn and

00:28:49.540 only fans if they aren't getting late otherwise what does your comment even have to do with

00:28:55.520 candace again no it's a serious question again we're going back to this this chart

00:29:02.160 serious question what are the the men left out supposed to do until 30 what are they supposed

00:29:14.280 to do what is their real solution seriously pray away their sex drive god this is why

00:29:23.380 conservatives keep losing that's not realistic it's not gonna happen so what's your real solution

00:29:29.940 all right banning corn is such an obvious and easy point that that's not even what i'm debating

00:29:37.060 what i'm saying is why is corn so popular what did it fill the empty gap of

00:29:43.520 wait wait of what happened to a man and a woman doing stuff that stuff together until death do 0.88

00:29:51.920 us part modern women and the trad sorry i'm kind of i can be rude sometimes but the trad retards 0.98

00:29:57.820 because they're acting so stupid i'm like what is this low iq conversation and i don't even think 0.97

00:30:03.800 i have a high iq but my god if my if you can't understand this conversation then i think you 0.99

00:30:14.120 gotta be down here i don't look and the trad retards that support them by ignoring the real 0.96

00:30:22.400 problem entirely because they won't get off their virtue signaling dildo at least at least destiny 0.96

00:30:29.420 enjoys it when he does it sorry i was cooking guys i could i could you know i was nice last year

00:30:38.360 and this is my question

00:30:41.360 i didn't say ban corn i don't think that'll i i think that's too much of a government overreach

00:30:49.700 you guys said it so i'm asking okay what'll happen with this so what's your prescription

00:30:56.660 is her point any less valid with a prescription if i say

00:31:03.000 smoking

00:31:06.720 smoking is bad i could say that without thinking it should be banned anyways 0.58

00:31:15.680 yes because you can't say corn is bad and modern women are bad without implying there's an 0.96

00:31:22.540 alternative that is better if corn is bad and caused by modern women the implication

00:31:27.260 is that pearl wants women to behave differently you guys are adults i don't really care what

00:31:34.240 you guys do to be honest i'm just being real with you guys chicks everyone's an adult here

00:31:42.880 if you have i'm sorry if you didn't have a dad in your life i know a lot of you didn't

00:31:47.500 but that's not my fault um that's probably your mother's fault um i i'm not here to make decisions

00:31:54.260 for you but we either force women to marry and i'm only half comfortable with that i'm only half

00:32:04.260 comfortable i i have a hard time telling someone to marry someone they're not attracted to i think

00:32:10.180 that's mean i i really do um or you let women go to their own devices and give sedations to the

00:32:24.980 you know the younger guys until they can get up there that's what's happening now they get corn

00:32:30.900 of blah blah blah you know if pearl says i know i i have some i just don't think any of them will

00:32:38.320 happen what do i think is going to happen what my my solution to this would be arranged marriages

00:32:43.720 that would make the most sense but good good freaking luck try it with your kids let me know 0.99

00:32:49.820 it works if pearl says i have no prescription or alternative then the argument that a thing is bad

00:32:57.240 lacks any relative framing why is the thing bad we don't know pearl just asked the question you

00:33:03.100 it's so funny i didn't even say this was bad that's that's the funny thing i asked what are 1.00

00:33:10.840 they going to do and this is the real answer guys they women a lot of feminist women view 0.75

00:33:25.740 men's sex drive as a negative thing that needs to be tamed um you can pull the twitter off 0.99

00:33:33.500 you know a lot of trad women that's how they view it they view men as these like sexual monsters 0.99

00:33:40.240 that need to be tamed that's how they see it um so they call men pigs when they stare at a woman 1.00

00:33:47.500 with a nice ass and big boobs they call men pigs um when they watch corn you know they they call 1.00

00:33:55.660 men pigs when they do the things that make men men i mean men love a hot chick i don't think 1.00

00:34:03.980 there's anything men love more than a blonde chick with big tits i mean they're guys you know 1.00

00:34:11.900 what i mean like we can't sometimes sometimes you're not the blonde chick with big tits all 0.99

00:34:16.840 right ladies so other situations that the trad cucks did not think of they did not think about 0.96

00:34:26.700 what about when men are deployed so corn is used as a sedation when men go overseas and are deployed

00:34:36.040 and don't have access to women except for some of the military women that get passed around but 0.94

00:34:40.900 those women only have so much time they'll only have so much time to sleep with the entire crew 1.00

00:34:45.380 you know they're not they're they're whores not escorts um 0.99

00:34:50.840 what about men in a sexless marriage so many men watch corn because they're in a sexless marriage 0.99

00:35:04.480 they marry the chick they want to fall in love with her they whatever and yeah she after the

00:35:13.520 wedding says no sex or after the kid says no sex what corn actually does is it actually gives men

00:35:26.460 power because they need us less and what you'll notice is anything that gives men power

00:35:34.680 conservatives go after why do they not have this same energy for social media and dating apps that 0.95

00:35:43.260 give women crazy amounts of power. As an average chick, you can get flown out to a multimillionaire, 1.00

00:35:51.680 the best guy in your city. You have access, a crazy amount of access. I mean, look at dating

00:35:58.180 app stats. Women get like half of their swipe rights they match with. Men. I mean, have you 1.00

00:36:05.820 ever been on a dating app? Is that your experience? No. Even the top men only get like 10% matches.

00:36:15.980 So whenever there's something that gives women power and actually has way more negative

00:36:23.520 repercussions, what do you think has been more detrimental? Let me know in the chat,

00:36:28.000 What has been more detrimental to families, social media or corn?

00:36:41.440 Social media. 1.00

00:36:43.600 Women are able to look up their exes. 1.00

00:36:45.940 They're able to message our exes. 1.00

00:36:49.300 I mean, download one app.

00:36:51.400 You can be in a random city and get sex on demand from the hottest guy in that city.

00:36:58.000 What does a man do to stop that?

00:37:01.780 Corn is not the reason that this is happening.

00:37:05.680 Corn is not the downfall of society. 1.00

00:37:09.420 It's women's poor. 1.00

00:37:10.860 It's this. 0.93

00:37:12.980 Yeah, social media.

00:37:14.820 I mean, yeah, I mean, there's other factors.

00:37:26.340 What about men? 0.94

00:37:27.460 And so men in a sexless marriage are basically screwed by traditional conservative standards. 0.76

00:37:33.400 You know, ban divorce.

00:37:34.500 Okay, let's say tomorrow, and this is why I changed my mind with banning divorce.

00:37:38.540 I used to think that.

00:37:39.460 I changed my mind.

00:37:41.860 Let's say tomorrow we ban divorce. 1.00

00:37:45.800 Now, a man gets married, and this happens a lot with Christian women because a lot of 0.99

00:37:50.960 Christian women are taught to use sex to get what they want because they're taught 0.99

00:37:55.160 use sex to get married. 1.00

00:37:57.460 So they're taught from the get-go to weaponize sex to control the man and push your timeline, 0.98

00:38:06.700 not his. Most men don't have religious qualms waiting till marriage. They really don't. Most

00:38:14.940 men, they'll screw you. So a man gets married, he's in a sexless marriage, divorce is banned, 0.99

00:38:27.460 now. It's 2024. We ban divorce. How can that guy behave morally? What would be the moral thing for

00:38:38.640 that guy to do? He's in a sexless marriage. He has a sex drive. Men need sex. If you guys don't

00:38:46.500 think men need sex, you guys are terrible wives. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry to be the one to break 1.00

00:38:54.080 it to you you're either fat and your husband doesn't want to have sex with you or you're just 1.00

00:38:59.940 you're not the best wife because you saying that implies that you don't understand men on a 0.98

00:39:09.460 biological level they so what is he supposed to do now what conservatives will say is lead better

00:39:20.660 be a better leader

00:39:23.220 what was Tom Brady supposed to do good looking handsome jacked Christian man what more did you

00:39:35.840 guys want oh he just needed to be make more money right well Jeff Bezos what more could

00:39:43.320 Jeff Bezos have done oh well he was too successful I interviewed a pastor with seven children what

00:39:49.660 more was he supposed to do and they'll find a way to blame men but I would argue that it's

00:39:57.900 completely women's fault now I know you guys will say oh Pearl Pearl you just are always blaming

00:40:04.320 women I don't know how you guys can't blame us for this situation as I showed you in the chart 1.00

00:40:11.060 most men aren't really getting sex like that so they're responsible yeah caca wife 0.91

00:40:19.500 left him because he was too perfect thank you fresh sheena um okay and i i just want to i just

00:40:31.820 want us to like think through some of these situations all right let's say tim pool gets

00:40:37.680 married tomorrow let's say i'm going to use tim pool now tim pool marries his whoever's girlfriend

00:40:45.300 is or whatever. And they're together for 10 years. They have a couple of kids. They're

00:40:48.940 tradding it up. And his wife says, I want to leave. And he says, no, no, honey. Let me just

00:40:56.660 lead, but I'll lead you better. Let me just like lead better. Do you know what would be the best

00:41:06.660 option for a man that wants to save his marriage? And this isn't moral guys, but this is just how

00:41:14.000 we operate. Do you know what would be the best option? He says, okay, bye, and goes and asks out

00:41:25.660 her younger, hotter friend. I don't make the rules, but I can tell you what we respond to.

00:41:36.700 um and they'll say oh men just lead better well what if she says

00:41:43.520 Tim you know I want to take half of your half of your business now and your children and

00:41:50.920 yeah I'm gonna I'm gonna take you to court and he says no no no no no let me just lead I'm gonna

00:41:59.380 lead better I'm gonna lead let me let me alpha harder do you guys hear yourself that's what

00:42:06.080 irritates me is i almost think we live in this like fantasy world that's just not like true

00:42:15.360 and i'm just trying to be honest i'm trying to be honest about what's going on

00:42:22.240 okay so i think that's all of my i want to see um wait don't pull this up yet um

00:42:36.080 okay we're gonna wait let me go I'm gonna go to tenant media because the next thing I'm gonna do

00:42:43.780 is I want to explain oh I thought that was me you know it's funny there's so many hit pieces on me

00:42:51.860 now I go on TikTok guys I can't even enjoy TikTok because there's so many videos just

00:42:59.520 going crazy 1.00

00:43:06.080 Guess who will be a single mom? Pearl. All right, guys, you know, let's let's have this discussion. Let's have. Do I want to. Do I want to go there? Some of you guys are a little bit racist. 1.00

00:43:29.860 i mean i'm just i'm just trying to be honest here sometimes you guys i date i dated 0.97

00:43:37.800 one black guy three years ago and now you guys will say every day pearl you're gonna be a single

00:43:46.460 this is getting old i get it someone's gonna clip this please don't clip it don't clip it

00:43:53.380 but it's like all right i get it i get it i get it okay i i shouldn't have said anything

00:44:02.060 okay um it's like all right we get it we get it okay so i'm gonna react last today

00:44:15.120 I shouldn't have said anything okay I'm gonna last today I'm gonna react I think I started

00:44:24.140 a real debate around 47 minutes so I'm gonna react to this because sometimes I think online

00:44:30.860 I come off a little bit more harsh than I'm trying to be but I want to explain my thoughts in this

00:44:39.740 i can't oh is this sound on

00:44:46.140 and what does joe rogan talk about okay and what do guys listen to no question it's joe rogan

00:44:53.480 and what does joe rogan talk about protein mma my husband

00:44:56.960 now i'd like to preface 0.98

00:45:01.120 i'd like to preface actually pull the screen down one second um guys when i go after women 1.00

00:45:10.480 and i'm a little bit harsh it's because they have been bitching at me for a long time 1.00

00:45:20.960 lauren chen has been in my replies for like a year a year she was saying i was ducking her 0.98

00:45:29.480 she was you know all this stuff

00:45:32.460 and it had just i i'd had enough i'd have enough look at this one pearl davis

00:45:42.560 pearl dave it's like i'd have to go this one she actually defended me shout out lauren but you know 1.00

00:45:51.740 she is this chick's been in my ear for like a year she's had so many videos she mentions me on 0.60

00:45:57.660 this debate and i'm like i was ready i had been i had been listening to this for a year 1.00

00:46:06.960 and all these chicks would say to me oh you're ducking me you're ducking me

00:46:11.200 and i said fine volleyball season is over i officially have the time i'm not traveling 0.79

00:46:18.780 every weekend i don't practice three days a week i'm ready anyways i'll continue

00:46:24.700 I can't hear it

00:46:27.340 I'm willing to bet the majority of people

00:46:32.640 listening to this show right now are dudes

00:46:33.840 yes

00:46:34.540 because on

00:46:39.560 audiences probably for my

00:46:42.240 political channel around

00:46:44.080 80% male

00:46:45.920 and I was excited when I

00:46:47.800 started my pop culture entertainment 0.97

00:46:50.080 channel like finally I can have more girl 0.98

00:46:52.180 audiences because we're just talking about movies

00:46:54.380 No, 95% male.

00:46:56.460 It says low audio.

00:46:59.340 Can you guys hear okay?

00:47:02.720 So, I don't know.

00:47:03.980 I guess I'm not talking about the right movies.

00:47:05.860 Or the right activities.

00:47:08.400 Yeah, so I had a question with the Crowder case.

00:47:11.480 I told you I was going to bring this up.

00:47:13.460 Why, you know, you said on stream there's some information behind the scenes.

00:47:19.280 you know but if you're willing to say you know this vague stuff like what is it so officially

00:47:25.720 my stance is aside from what i've already said uh crowder and i both i currently work for and

00:47:32.020 he used to work for blaze tv uh we do actually have uh you know some ndas and non-disparagements

00:47:37.480 so okay let me get this straight let me get this straight even crowder you have an nda

00:47:46.060 in a non-disparagement Stephen Crowder exposed by ex-wife and employees Stephen Crowder versus

00:47:56.720 Daily Wire is a mess okay these are our new clips Dave Landau slams Stephen Crowder

00:48:04.140 in interview with Michelle Malice that's destiny Stephen Crowder and not gay Jared's legal drama

00:48:16.060 um yeah okay okay sure all right i will not be commenting further and i know that's frustrating

00:48:28.800 but that's why i'm not but then why did you make my crowd yeah but why did you make like five

00:48:33.420 videos on it if you're gonna say now i can't comment did i get it wrong was it four so they'll

00:48:39.580 be like pearl pearl you're you're so wrong it's like okay oh i can't come hey jeremiah can i have

00:48:46.080 a water thank you um what is not publicly available okay i can talk about what like

00:48:52.260 what publicly is out there okay so okay

00:48:56.200 but that video

00:48:59.980 that video was publicly available the court documents saying he wasn't abusive

00:49:07.960 like what was publicly available publicly hillary and on video said he wasn't abusive

00:49:16.000 why was that not reported on not him not being yeah it was on video i mean i have problems with

00:49:23.740 something where you alluded in your video on him um that he was abusive after you played the clip

00:49:30.000 of him talking to his wife so my you know my question is if you're going to report on that

00:49:36.120 why did you not report on the video of her saying he wasn't he wasn't that he wasn't abusive uh which

00:49:41.320 video you're talking about the one that i recently did with jared it was no no not um not the one

00:49:46.280 where you did with jared i'm saying there was video of hillary crowder saying that steven was

00:49:50.920 not abusive and all of the conservatives were super willing to throw him under the bus the last

00:49:55.320 year make a ton of money off of it except for tim you were you were the only one who i thought was

00:50:01.960 fair i really did i was so i have never been so disappointed in conservatives because there with

00:50:07.480 steven and i think with steven like if it were just his divorce i wouldn't have talked about it

00:50:13.480 but he is someone who's in this industry who has a pattern of basically blowing up personal

00:50:18.360 relationships her friends don't like him that's what she's saying my friends do not like him 1.00

00:50:36.160 and i think right but that doesn't make him an abuser right you can be an asshole but that 0.97

00:50:41.640 doesn't make you abusive i definitely don't think he's physically abusive or anything like that well 0.97

00:50:45.720 yeah but you alluded that he was like a you said that he was abusing his wife in in that clip so

00:50:51.160 if she has a clip that says hey he's not i would think oh wow all the conservatives you guys would

00:50:57.740 be the first to report except for tim he was the only one who did and it's like you were willing

00:51:04.540 to make video video video video if you're are you asking like the the ring cam footage about him

00:51:10.680 no it was a video of his wife in court and she said he was not abusive this is on camera the

00:51:16.000 nanny also testified not well i think my video specifically was about the nanny footage which i

00:51:20.820 do i mean to tell your spouse that you do not love them okay but how funny is it that she would put

00:51:26.600 out the nanny footage that alluded that he was abusive but not point out that the nanny said

00:51:35.540 in their affidavit that he was not abusive and an involved good father don't you guys think that

00:51:41.560 would be i don't know important someone said pearl did you enjoy your time at tim's place

00:51:47.400 i did his staff was lovely great oh great to work with i just couldn't believe the energy i got 0.93

00:51:53.600 after i left i was like what the who hurt you who hurt you tim get the fuck out of here i mean 0.68

00:51:59.840 emotionally because well i wouldn't say that's emotionally abusive and because he says you do 0.83

00:52:04.460 not show me love and what he was referring to in the video if you really listen pay attention

00:52:08.440 and there was clip cut out was that she was not showing him love because she didn't listen to him

00:52:13.880 and it's like trad wives trad wives why why why wasn't the question why didn't you walk the dog

00:52:18.360 like you were told yeah i want to go back i'm gonna go back steven crowder candace owens remember

00:52:29.480 this was the original video that went crazy heartbreaking again this is feminism 0.99

00:52:37.720 i bet candace is like what this stop being a pain in my ass 1.00

00:52:42.200 stop bringing this up all right this is an l stop bringing it up 0.98

00:52:47.000 but no it wasn't it so let's first get to the footage i'm just going to allow you to watch

00:52:55.400 in its entirety remember she starts calling him abusive what you're doing is abusive and cruel

00:53:10.520 and now he says you're not going to take the car so if you're a traditional if you're a trad wife

00:53:15.640 you would say hillary listen right you would say listen to your husband 1.00

00:53:18.760 Because if you refuse to do rightful things, then I will go pick up the groceries.

00:53:26.120 I have steaks, wood pellets, my grill.

00:53:31.280 I know it's not a reasonable approach, but I'll go do it.

00:53:34.840 How about you first?

00:53:37.600 How do you respect me?

00:53:38.940 Yeah, other than that, other than that, I don't see the mother on the back.

00:53:43.380 I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. 0.99

00:53:46.900 okay again this is his house that he pays for bitch listen my god but it's like she's pulling 1.00

00:54:01.360 up the belly. Women, you don't get no sympathy from me. I am so sorry. 1.00

00:54:31.360 just think what do you need to pick up i'll get it i'll be back it's like oh my god listen shut up

00:54:38.400 i mean look just say okay that's all you have to do is say okay well you want me to take an uber 0.87

00:54:50.000 i'll take an uber that's all you have to do no that doesn't work either you'll be back when

00:54:57.040 So he's saying listen to me he's saying listen you need to you need to respect me he's trying

00:55:18.280 to trad harder guys he's trying I'm not saying he's overly effective I'm just saying he's

00:55:24.660 trying to be your trad so now she's saying you're abusive always when it goes back to

00:55:49.660 the abuse of men. I got no sympathy. Watch it. Watch it. Watch it. I'm going to let go. I'll get

00:56:00.340 what you need to do again. And I need some space. We need to just talk to me for a little bit.

00:56:05.160 Okay. I love you. I love you very much. I don't love you. That's the big problem.

00:56:11.700 I've never received love from you. I'm going to remind you, he's saying I've never received love

00:56:16.360 because what he's referring to is that love is respect respect is love to men it's listening

00:56:22.580 to them respecting their opinion she's not doing that okay so anyways that's what i was talking

00:56:29.320 about we can go back there's a lot to do with the whole stephen crowder situation that i'm just not

00:56:36.480 going to comment on like publicly you were willing to publicly make video after video after video

00:56:43.740 about what was publicly available, for sure.

00:56:45.780 And so is the nanny footage.

00:56:48.420 So is, like, so why don't...

00:56:49.760 But here's a question, but question.

00:56:50.620 Isn't it confirmed that, I could be wrong about this,

00:56:53.840 that Crowder's wife deleted a bunch of footage from there?

00:56:57.280 Over 100, that's important, you would think.

00:56:59.240 Yeah, that's what conservatives...

00:57:00.600 So, actually, Justice Warrior did this whole breakdown about it.

00:57:03.300 That's something that Crowder's team is alleging,

00:57:06.980 but I don't know if the court itself has verified or backed it up at this point. 0.99

00:57:10.560 And I'll tell you why I knew it was full of shit when I first heard it, 0.97

00:57:13.540 because i've interviewed so many men that have gone through the same exact thing and what women 1.00

00:57:18.860 do is they poison the well for years so they'll go around to all of his friends and drop little

00:57:22.940 tidbits of abuse now the common ones are emotional abuse okay someone said a motel six robe it was a

00:57:29.920 sweater oh my gosh i know tim he was interrupting me in this but it's all right you kind of have to

00:57:38.840 guide the convo. Pedal accusation. That's devastating to men. That's a devastating one.

00:57:44.300 They'll say it about their family. So they'll do this for years. Then when they come out and say

00:57:48.800 he's abusive, they have all of these people ready to back them up in white night. And then typically

00:57:55.420 what you get is an out of context clip that they throw out there. And so I knew what was happening

00:58:00.120 when I first saw the video. And you can tell from her Twitter that she's obviously a crazy woman. 1.00

00:58:04.680 And I personally think emotional abuse is a myth. 0.96

00:58:09.600 I know you said you seem to have a different perspective.

00:58:12.440 Would you think emotional abuse is a valid reason to have a divorce if you support no-fault divorce?

00:58:18.380 No.

00:58:19.140 No.

00:58:19.640 But something.

00:58:22.560 Okay.

00:58:23.960 So I got, she doesn't think that's a valid reason for divorce.

00:58:30.260 but i got five videos made on me for my tone 1.00

00:58:34.600 but this chick who's putting her kids at every statistical disadvantage 0.86

00:58:42.160 gets zero videos but her husband oh my gosh can be unacceptable behavior though still within a 0.99

00:58:51.900 marriage absolutely who are you to tell a man how to speak to his wife in his house isn't that out

00:58:55.640 of order i mean you do that all the time you call other men simps all the time but i don't tell them

00:59:00.080 how to talk to their wife. That's your business. Name it, name it. For sure. There are tons of 0.99

00:59:07.120 times where there will be actual men in your comments saying disagree and you call them

00:59:12.660 simps. When I say simps, it typically means out of order. So typically when I say that I'm

00:59:17.340 referring to a pattern of behavior where they're putting women on a pedestal, that's typically 0.79

00:59:21.640 what I'm describing. But we're going to the what about, you're changing the topic.

00:59:30.480 No, it's the same topic.

00:59:31.100 No, no, no, no, it's a different, because my original question is,

00:59:34.380 who are you to tell a man how to talk to his wife in his home?

00:59:37.220 Do you think you should be able to tell a man how to talk to his wife in his house? 0.95

00:59:41.920 I think that men should conduct themselves with biblical standards when it comes to...

00:59:45.280 No, no, but answer my question.

00:59:46.560 Do you think it's your place to tell men how to talk to their wives in their home? 0.93

00:59:50.140 Answer yes or no.

00:59:50.940 I think it is perfectly reasonable to say that a man should hold himself to a Christian standard in the home.

00:59:57.480 Okay, so you do think it's your place. 0.53

00:59:59.060 and this is what i mean when i say a lot of conservative women aren't really conservative 0.98

01:00:02.580 it's true how am i i'm not even crazy religious okay but i still think there's a natural order

01:00:11.300 in the world it goes god men women children i think even if you're not religious

01:00:22.740 even if it's not god maybe it's men's purpose 0.69

01:00:29.060 mission whatever when women think they're equal to men that's when evil happens

01:00:35.880 and i think as women we should at least aim right we're not i probably won't do it perfectly i don't

01:00:44.740 do it perfectly but we need to identify good and bad behavior right we have to think of our

01:00:52.120 husbands as our boss we have to we should have more respect for our husbands than our boss

01:00:58.380 So if something would not be acceptable at work, why is it acceptable in our home?

01:01:11.520 That doesn't make sense to me. 0.91

01:01:14.340 What the next of being is, why do women sad, man mean? 0.52

01:01:18.120 Women sad, man bad. 0.99

01:01:20.120 Because your first, your first. 1.00

01:01:21.800 Rachel's so funny.

01:01:23.420 I love Rachel.

01:01:24.780 from a biblical point of view you're supposed to be obedient to your husband in all things 1.00

01:01:30.220 so before conservative women will talk about the disobedience their first thing is their tone

01:01:35.040 yes the tone policing that's that's super out of control and i can show this because there's 0.97

01:01:41.440 video after video after video not a single conservative woman woman said oh hey she didn't

01:01:47.220 listen to her husband not one not one that's crazy to me and then we want to say like you

01:01:53.420 know men go get married to conservative women most of them aren't really let's bring up the

01:01:57.640 uh the lauren southern story because i think this was actually a big component of lauren's story

01:02:02.380 this article was written i think it was unheard it was written by a woman who got divorced and

01:02:06.260 in the story i think one of the issues was lauren realizing that just being this obedient uh good

01:02:14.140 wife to this man wasn't working he did lauren and tim sleep together did that happen or did it not

01:02:22.040 happen i just want to know what i'm working with did did they sleep together or not i i don't know

01:02:35.780 if they did or they didn't i need to divorce her and it seemed like nothing was working that was

01:02:41.040 her side of the story for sure for sure and and so i doubt it you were you were just okay let me

01:02:46.640 get this straight okay so nobody asked question you were this perfect angel you were a perfect

01:02:52.400 angel angel all you did was listen to your husband and then he threatened to divorce you

01:02:57.240 all the time did you guys hear these stories you believe this come on that's why i i mentioned

01:03:03.380 biblical patriarchy lauren talks about how even before they were married he would do things like

01:03:08.080 leave for days on end like not talk to her they were right but why did he leave and that's what

01:03:13.940 that's what we never talk about. A lot of times when men leave, it is because there is a negative

01:03:18.720 behavior that we don't talk about. Why? For example, what if she cheated? I'm not saying

01:03:23.080 she did. I don't know. I don't know. What if she cheated? Would that be an acceptable reason for

01:03:27.220 him to leave for three days? I know, but the point is, even if that is a red flag, you have a

01:03:32.980 responsibility as a woman to choose someone, to choose a strong leader for yourself. So if you're

01:03:37.880 going into this four months and you're already seeing red flags, it's not trad to say, I will

01:03:42.320 marry him anyway like i've not seen christian dating accounts say ignore all the red flags

01:03:48.160 was are they a christian couple though i think he is she is she christian yeah because everyone

01:03:57.160 tells me that she slept with everybody in the industry i don't know if she did or she didn't

01:04:01.720 this is just the general like thing people say i don't i don't know 0.99

01:04:08.520 like what do we yeah so but my my point is that i i like lauren but she was kind of portraying as

01:04:15.540 this is why my trad relationship didn't work out i don't think it was a trad relationship like

01:04:20.220 no but that's but that's that's my point where even trad women do not behave trad but what is

01:04:26.340 that and do you know what i was gonna say i didn't say this because i really i really like um

01:04:32.780 i know i don't i never want to make it like a dig at um rachel because i freaking love rachel

01:04:40.220 i really like isabella too i really like both of them but even the conservative women on the panel 0.96

01:04:46.620 so we're on the panel lauren says get you just because part of her argument was just get you a

01:04:53.000 white woman that's what she's basically saying white or asian it's just the black community 1.00

01:04:57.420 That's what she was saying. I would disagree strongly with that. Some patterns of behavior

01:05:04.020 are stronger in the black community. You could say like their STD rates, really bad, really bad. But 1.00

01:05:11.840 I would not say it's really pinned down to any race. 1.00

01:05:19.740 I would say that white women are probably the worst in divorce court 0.98

01:05:24.120 because we're always told from a young age where I think in the black community they're not really 1.00

01:05:31.120 told as much to appeal to authority where like the white community it's more common like go to

01:05:36.080 the cops go to the school like like tattletailing is kind of more of like our thing we're kind of

01:05:43.140 that's why we have like the Karen thing you know um yeah and that panel it's like we have a white

01:05:50.960 three white women i think lauren's like half white half asian lauren doesn't believe

01:05:56.480 in obeying her husband not to its core me i'm over 25 athlete not particularly feminine right 1.00

01:06:05.960 um isabella got in trouble with like the she had some semi 1.00

01:06:13.060 risque pictures from college that kind of came out rachel had kids in a previous relationship

01:06:22.060 so you know out of the you're still compromising i don't think anyone had an only fans you know

01:06:41.540 so

01:06:43.060 You know, it's still, if men want to get in marriage and relationships, there's something

01:06:48.380 they have to compromise on. It doesn't really matter what community. That's how I view it.

01:06:54.680 I think different communities have different problems, but from growing up around white 1.00

01:07:02.000 people, I've never seen anyone more vicious in divorce court than white women. I really haven't. 0.98

01:07:06.740 when i say traditional traditional is family first above all the family comes first before me 0.89

01:07:14.960 but i think maybe there's a bias in the system because the women that we hear about are prominent

01:07:19.600 political commentators they're working women yes the traditional mothers no no i um i grew up a

01:07:26.240 catholic community nope nope nope nope they did the same thing don't go on you know you know uh

01:07:30.920 this is a really good point in terms of the rise of feminism as a whole the all these news articles

01:07:35.560 and these columnists, these women, writing about what women should or shouldn't do

01:07:38.760 are not traditional mothers. 1.00

01:07:41.420 They're working women in offices, so they have this natural bias. 1.00

01:07:45.100 My life is good and everything I'm doing is correct. 0.99

01:07:47.300 And then the women who are like, my family matters more than anything else

01:07:50.980 and I'm not concerned about what's going on inside this house, 0.89

01:07:53.160 what matters inside this house is my thing.

01:07:55.080 She's not writing these articles.

01:07:56.200 We're not hearing her perspective.

01:07:57.380 Well, I mean, I don't call myself traditional or conservative

01:08:00.180 because I'm like, whose tradition, what tradition, that's very vague, very nebulous.

01:08:03.960 And conservative, we haven't conserved anything.

01:08:06.480 There's nothing that's been conserved.

01:08:08.200 So I spent 20 years raising a family before I started doing this,

01:08:12.880 and I kind of got into it by accident.

01:08:14.480 I wrote this little book thinking maybe my dad would read it,

01:08:16.920 and maybe my grandkids would read it, and it just kind of blew up.

01:08:19.060 Now you're killing it.

01:08:19.840 So now here I am.

01:08:20.820 But I have five children.

01:08:22.480 I've homeschooled them.

01:08:23.820 I spent 20 years in my house, in my kitchen, chained to the stove.

01:08:27.820 No, I'm just kidding.

01:08:29.260 Doing all of that before I started making commentary on this sort of thing.

01:08:33.200 and yes i'm sorry but if you have a whole career outside of your marriage that complicates things

01:08:39.200 women don't want to talk about that about how difficult it is when you are over here trying

01:08:44.000 to hustle for your career and you know you have goals that are not related to and i'll tell you 0.99

01:08:48.720 what about about rachel i i identify patterns of behavior for women when i i believe they submit 0.99

01:08:58.320 to their husbands it's not all about stats because even though she was the single mother

01:09:03.720 I know I go in on single mothers right I know I do but it's not that simple and I have a more 0.97

01:09:09.740 nuanced take on that she's probably the woman the most that turns down opportunities and tries to 1.00

01:09:17.540 give them to her husband as well as supports her husband like more than any chick I've really seen 1.00

01:09:23.160 so you know you know it's not it's not down to a science you know I've met single mothers that 1.00

01:09:33.620 are you know because then now she's married she wouldn't be a single mother anymore but

01:09:37.480 I've met women that it's not all about race no kids tattoos like those are baselines right but

01:09:49.740 it's not it's not that simple and antithetical to your family how that is going to interrupt 0.74

01:09:55.980 your family life in your marriage i want to trigger as many feminists as possible so i'm 1.00

01:09:59.960 going to get into this uh yeah she is marriageable you know yeah let's go get to this point so there 1.00

01:10:05.820 was a bunch of data that was released by like dating websites on the uh societal value of men

01:10:11.160 and women and i think it was okcupid something like 20 years ago or 15 years ago showing that

01:10:16.660 It's societal value tracked among the willingness of people to interact with each other. 1.00

01:10:22.440 Women start their whole lives from zero through all their teen years at 100% societal value. 0.65

01:10:31.200 They're protected. 1.00

01:10:32.280 They're offered opportunities.

01:10:33.360 They have easier time getting entry-level jobs.

01:10:35.620 And men start at zero.

01:10:36.720 Young men are considered unskilled, non-valuable, break rocks, kid, earn your place.

01:10:43.860 And then around the mid-20s, a shift starts happening where women start to experience a decline in social value while men experience an incline.

01:10:52.120 Men are becoming more skilled and more valuable as they become stronger and more capable.

01:10:56.500 And not even all men, only a small percentage of them.

01:10:59.400 Whereas as women age, society values them less and less for the obvious reason of the intrinsic value society had was the ability to have kids.

01:11:06.460 this results in if your whole life everyone around you is saying you are the best and then one day

01:11:13.780 you start hearing everyone say you're not so great and men are better you start to feel like

01:11:17.920 something's being taken away blah blah blah don't care don't care okay

01:11:23.920 experiences and there are so many tiktok videos of like women in their 30s in their car crying 1.00

01:11:32.180 yeah because one of the biggest thing with women it's ego rachel doesn't really have an ego guys 0.98

01:11:38.840 look at i i i know everyone goes in for like that stuff but i don't know i'll go to i'll go to bat 1.00

01:11:44.460 for my friend you know how they're no longer desirable because a lot of you know women's 0.99

01:11:49.240 worth is is you know the dating marketplace the sexual marketplace so when these women aren't 0.99

01:11:54.220 married and they don't have kids they are faced with the reality that yes they do have less 1.00

01:11:58.820 societal value. And it's terrifying for them because it's only going to get worse. But that

01:12:02.760 is why as a woman, motherhood is amazing. Like I'm going to be turning 30 and I have a lot of

01:12:07.940 friends who are. Okay. So I have a hard time believing this from child. Sometimes I think

01:12:13.300 they say this and they're convincing themselves because most of these chicks, if they're with

01:12:19.740 their husband young, they still have one to maybe three kids. Nothing wrong. By the way,

01:12:28.520 I'd like to say, I'd like to say there is nothing wrong with that. I don't care. You guys are adults.

01:12:34.860 I seriously, I do not care at all. I do not. But it doesn't match up when people have been

01:12:44.640 with their significant other from the time they were young and they haven't popped out kids for 0.97

01:12:52.440 like a decade i mean that's just you know single three like unmarried they're freaking out their

01:12:58.260 prospects look very different from mine like you know i'm married i have a family like i'm actually 0.92

01:13:02.960 of the opinion like now my life is really just beginning like now i'm going on the up and up

01:13:07.360 you can have more kids it's a beautiful thing like i i my life is almost just beginning where

01:13:12.000 it's like if you are the single girl boss your life is kind of ending at that point and it's just 0.51

01:13:16.980 it's so disappointing to see that they don't realize that it didn't have to be this way so

01:13:22.360 yeah i am in the kitchen everyone kept telling me to get back in the kitchen

01:13:26.180 yeah i'm so tired of these guys saying oh pearl go back in the kitchen i am in the kitchen 0.99

01:13:33.180 i'm streaming from the kitchen bitch 1.00

01:13:36.780 get the f out of my face they're like go cook and i'm like how do you guys eat 1.00

01:13:42.700 it's like the easiest it doesn't take long at all i cooked breakfast today in like 20 minutes

01:13:51.940 it's so easy skillet boom air fryer boom

01:13:57.900 sandwich easy steak super i'm not saying it's going to be a 10 out of 10

01:14:10.380 but how the hell are you guys eating that's my question everyone says i i don't cook how

01:14:17.520 how do you eat

01:14:21.400 sorry i didn't mean to get triggered i just you know

01:14:27.420 I think all of you probably have heard of Greater Male Variability Hypothesis.

01:14:31.880 Are you familiar?

01:14:32.980 So if we look at the strength chart, actually, it's pretty interesting.

01:14:36.540 You can see that the median male strength, it's wider than female strength.

01:14:42.980 So Greater Male Variability Hypothesis is that there are more failure men, but there

01:14:48.580 are more exceptional men.

01:14:49.960 And women... 0.93

01:14:50.580 Okay, we're going to skip. 1.00

01:14:51.820 I want to get to the part where they talk about... 1.00

01:14:54.420 Women need to be the CEO, not the mom. 1.00

01:14:56.220 no i don't make bagel bites oh my god to be due to grail a greater male male geniuses of insane 0.99

01:15:05.060 strength but of use forward laws right have to do with c this is simply an example of

01:15:12.360 in grip strength cute and similar their curve is looking more like this men look like this

01:15:19.900 i know i know i don't i just look at life outcomes i know and i'm sorry let's talk about the homeless

01:15:27.020 actually no no oh here this is right like you won't convince me otherwise probably

01:15:31.580 some of the dumbest life choices you could make would be the ones that lead you to be homeless 0.99

01:15:35.340 homeless are okay why are the men homeless this is people don't understand the family 1.00

01:15:42.220 court thing is so deep it goes to so many pro so many men are homeless because of a

01:15:48.940 because women rob the men steal their children put them on an absurd amount of child support

01:15:57.500 with crazy interest rates and then boom the men are homeless

01:16:04.380 let's talk about the homeless actually

01:16:10.860 i was about to i was let's talk about the homeless then tim why

01:16:18.220 why i had i had such a cook

01:16:23.020 i gotta address your point you said women uh make worse life choices i'd say a man 0.99

01:16:27.260 who married a woman who divorced him and took his stuff made a poor life choice

01:16:31.980 it's gonna happen to him i bet money he's gonna be a target 0.98

01:16:38.300 i hope not but that's these guys are so arrogant steven crowder was so arrogant 0.95

01:16:46.620 let me go back 0.98

01:16:48.560 Steven Crowder had the same

01:16:50.500 Steven Crowder

01:16:51.480 MGTOW

01:16:53.660 um

01:17:00.500 not this one

01:17:02.220 yeah I think it was

01:17:08.640 this one speaking of dogs

01:17:10.660 we have Steven Crowder

01:17:12.560 here and he's going to talk about the

01:17:14.440 Manosphere got us in this problem the first

01:17:17.100 where'd you get that idea where did you get the idea that i support jack murphy like where do you

01:17:22.380 get the i do got one hard thing okay i can't find it i gotta find it but there's like an old clip

01:17:29.100 of stephen crowder where he's like he he's basically has the same rhetoric um where he's

01:17:38.220 saying that like basically i'd have to find it if you guys find it put it in the chat chat but

01:17:46.620 there there's a video there's an old video of him maybe okay you know what all right

01:17:52.240 um i think i think better bachelor maybe had it in his video like an old one let me see

01:18:01.480 you guys know where it's at put it in the chat oh no no

01:18:07.860 well he had an old clip of him basically saying the MGTOW guys were like criers and whiners and

01:18:18.220 then it happened to him so a lot of these guys that talk like this it ends up happening to them

01:18:23.460 unfortunately true people make their own decisions responsible for their own actions

01:18:27.220 yeah um do you see that do you see that lack of sympathy for men I just want to like like look at

01:18:33.500 this stuff made a poor life choice that's true people make their own decisions look at she's

01:18:37.700 smiling me i'm trying to talk about how men commit suicide because of this men become homeless

01:18:45.220 because of this they do not care he's on a stream of sneeko yesterday he's laughing they do not care

01:18:53.520 it's so crazy also for their own actions yeah um i think the equivalent of that would be if i get 1.00

01:18:59.620 into a contract with you and you're paid to fuck me over steal my kids and take my money yeah you 0.99

01:19:04.300 screwed up that's your fault right so then men shouldn't get married by that logic so 1.00

01:19:08.240 don't get married unless you're absolutely sure or have children by that logic because women are 0.89

01:19:13.320 always paid and they're paid to leave well i mean so so that's on the idea but i actually i actually 0.70

01:19:19.380 i actually want to you're married to like a rich guy you are better off if you're just

01:19:23.320 interested financially you you no not true you get like this chick

01:19:29.560 she gets her income which can continue to go up plus 1700 a month 0.95

01:19:37.120 a woman moment i don't get it 1.00

01:19:42.860 access to greater resources by staying married

01:19:49.540 What is your argument that men should get married anyway, even if they risk divorce? 0.51

01:19:53.180 No, my argument is that men should pick for themselves.

01:19:57.740 Okay, I want to reiterate my position. 0.73

01:20:03.000 As a man, there's a couple choices that you have.

01:20:10.200 Choice one, and I'm just going to put in my notes.

01:20:14.600 choice one you can get married with the state

01:20:19.960 but get a prenup okay choice two get married with the state no prenup choice two

01:20:33.960 oh and and have kids for both of those

01:20:38.800 um in a second now yeah you can now put it up so you can get married with the state

01:20:53.420 step three you can never have kids and focus and focus on a career you can build your career

01:21:09.000 then get married and have kids

01:21:15.660 you can get married young if you can if you're one of those guys

01:21:23.000 and have kids young.

01:21:26.940 You can move to a state with better divorce laws,

01:21:38.220 no good options but better, and then get married.

01:21:44.500 You can marry a rich woman to mitigate risk. 0.87

01:21:53.000 You can get a woman pregnant in another country. 0.85

01:22:00.380 You can get a woman from another country and bring her to America. 0.98

01:22:12.500 You can have kids, no marriage license. 0.99

01:22:19.840 You can be in long-term relationships, no marriage. 0.65

01:22:36.340 You can do polygamy.

01:22:40.380 I don't think any of these options are wrong. 0.96

01:22:44.460 I think men have a gun to their head from the state right now.

01:22:48.500 some men will say you know what i'm gonna find a rich chick that'll go 50 50 0.79

01:22:54.080 yeah go 50 50 to mitigate risk um i've also heard men get uh really good prenups i mean

01:23:04.840 there's all types of stuff guys i don't know your situations i don't know what leverage you have

01:23:11.560 Some guys say get rich, jacked, and good at talking to women.

01:23:26.040 I think none of these are wrong.

01:23:28.700 That's how I think.

01:23:29.580 I think you guys are adults.

01:23:30.740 I'm not going to tell you what to do.

01:23:32.480 But these trad people just love telling everyone to get married and have kids.

01:23:37.680 They make a lot of money.

01:23:38.520 They look cool.

01:23:39.160 They sound good.

01:23:39.980 but I think as a guy, I don't know your situation. And even women, you know, I'll give you an 0.99

01:23:45.880 example. If a 40-year-old woman came to me and said, I want to get married and have children, 1.00

01:23:53.360 I would say you got to lower your expectations. You're much more likely to get children if you 1.00

01:23:59.440 take marriage off the table. That's what I would say. I would say over a certain age, 0.65

01:24:04.160 women, I would not expect marriage because you didn't get married in the time frame that you 0.99

01:24:10.480 would be a wife. So if you wait over a certain age, it's going to be incredibly tough. In the

01:24:15.340 modern days, I would say that's maybe around 35. I know, I know. Around that age, I know around 30,

01:24:25.480 if you're not in a relationship, it drops below 50% of ever getting, I mean, most women aren't 0.99

01:24:30.520 going to get married and stay married so that's that's the expectation that i think women should 0.96

01:24:35.840 have you should stay but most women will not get married and will not stay married and the older 0.99

01:24:41.660 you are the less likely you're really gonna it's gonna be easier for you to get what you want if 0.65

01:24:46.900 you take marriage off the table um yeah so it it depends who the guy is and the thing is the guy

01:24:59.360 will have the ultimate price for those choices so every guy's got to pick don't do what i say

01:25:05.740 pick pick for yourself logically that contract will never favor you but every guy has got it

01:25:14.000 you got to pick for yourself never downplay the risk of marriage and i think it could happen to

01:25:18.520 anyone life choice even even no even a good woman even even all right rude but even even even no

01:25:27.500 even a good woman sometimes women in their 20s change so they might say one thing in their 20s 0.94

01:25:32.940 and then their 30s and 40s they might switch look at conservative look at conservative comment no 0.82

01:25:38.160 because they are still incentivized to leave right so men shouldn't get married oh it should or

01:25:44.520 shouldn't well i'm saying men should pick for themselves but i would never downplay that risk

01:25:49.200 but i want to go i want to go if they're going to i was trying to go i was trying to talk about

01:25:53.480 the homelessness that's what i was trying to do and yeah then he's like oh then they shouldn't

01:25:58.440 get because that's what they always want me to say they always want me to say on these shows

01:26:02.760 that men shouldn't get married that's always what they're trying to get out of me that's not what

01:26:07.940 i'm saying but that's that's the clip that's the sound bite they want you just said and then choose

01:26:12.380 to get married they made a poor life choice i i i'm not saying it's good or bad i am saying that

01:26:19.240 from a contractual standpoint it would not be a contract that favors them right so men so the

01:26:25.840 point is if your if your argument it's not the point i was making the point was pick for yourself

01:26:32.080 but know the risks and know that statistically it probably won't work out it's all right you know

01:26:37.880 is the system is weighted against you correct you can get divorced then the logical thing a

01:26:42.720 smart man could do is not get married and have kids yeah if they wanted a contract that favored

01:26:48.640 them. Yes. But I want to go back to the homeless. And the problem you get with a lot of this stuff 1.00

01:26:54.160 is that there's not a lot of studies put into men's issues. So a lot of times what you see

01:27:00.380 with the data is you're not getting the full picture because most studies that are funded, 1.00

01:27:04.560 it's for women and the government is run by feminists. So there's a guy, he's out of Michigan.

01:27:11.160 His name is Terrence Popp, really, really smart guy. And he actually followed 1,800 divorces in

01:27:16.800 Michigan. And what he did was he found the reason for the divorces and he actually followed a lot

01:27:25.300 of those men to homeless shelters. And he found that if he goes to homeless shelters, 70% of the

01:27:29.340 men owe child support. A lot of men are become homeless because of the system. Yes. Yeah. But

01:27:36.660 that's my point. But the way you're painting it is like, oh, if they're homeless, that's just a

01:27:41.800 poor life choice but i mean from your own logic if you have sex with a guy who knocks you up then 0.68

01:27:48.360 leaves that's a poor life choice right these are all we can say poor life choices yeah but you

01:27:53.400 shouldn't be in indentured servitude for the woman for 18 do you know how long that is that's almost

01:28:01.400 two decades for 18 years indentured servitude from a poor life choice

01:28:08.940 but yet they're just going to make it about the women to some degree that that gets you there

01:28:16.220 doesn't absolve the other person of responsibility either but you are ultimately at least a little

01:28:21.340 bit culpable for the situation i'm not saying i'm not saying they're not culpable but what i'm saying

01:28:25.380 is that he shouldn't have to be enslaved for 18 years to a woman because he made a poor life

01:28:31.880 choice and there's no female equivalent of that i mean no because the woman can always put the guy 0.97

01:28:37.780 on child support for the most having to raise a a child that freaking damn it do you even hear the 1.00

01:28:44.800 like language they use you have to raise a child not you get to even the trad feminists it's like 1.00

01:28:50.860 they don't even like their kids you did not want in single motherhood some women would say that 1.00

01:28:56.260 she's but she still has the choice to abort she and adoption as well you know there's a case in

01:29:02.260 Utah where a woman wanted to give up a her okay you guys get the idea sneko just sent me a clip

01:29:08.680 I think I might what is it 108 I might react to more of this tomorrow um but you can take it off

01:29:16.300 the screen while I get the next clip okay um sneko just sent me a clip that I'm supposed to watch

01:29:26.020 God I know a lot of you guys okay there's a lot of you guys that don't want me to do

01:29:32.260 Thank you.

01:30:02.260 that's fun

01:30:20.220 this is not for me

01:30:23.880 this is not for me 1.00

01:30:24.860 I'm not cut out for this shit 0.99

01:30:26.980 so I'm glad 1.00

01:30:28.700 no keep it that way

01:30:30.640 it's a lot better

01:30:32.120 stay on that side doing whatever clips you're doing that's so funny yeah um i was on i cooked

01:30:42.240 sneeko last night guys i cooked him he preached to me a little bit at the end but i did cook

01:30:47.960 i've been cooking a lot lately you know cooked lauren chen cooked sneeko twice now um who's next

01:30:56.120 you know if that trent horn debate you guys can look that up it would have been better if i didn't

01:31:01.680 i don't like that format that was new to me but i'll do it again and i'll cook again so let me

01:31:06.960 know what you guys think i'm in the kitchen cooking as usual um like the video on your way

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Pearl - May 23, 2024

Trad Feminist Think Corn Is The Problem, but it's really Old Marriage

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