Pearl - March 28, 2026Trad Women Care About Status Not Jesus
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Summary
Isabelle Brown, who recently got married and works for the Daily Wire, explains why conservative women care less about being conservative and more about being sexy. And why they don t want you to know when you see them on social media.
Transcript
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what is going on people welcome to another episode of pearl daily here in the audacity
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network this is kind of an off-the-cuff stream thank you for tuning in today we're going to
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talk about how trad women care about status not jesus um and really a lot of these um
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conservative e-girls have really got me thinking about what is really important to them okay so we
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We got, so we got Isabella Brown, who recently got married, and she works for the Daily Wire.
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Now, again, most women care about looking conservative and not being conservative.
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And you can tell this based on their actions, where they wear the Jesus cross, they talk
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about how they love God, da-da-da-da-da, traditional values.
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But whenever it comes to doing anything conservative, like not being on social media or watching their children instead of working or not having a side business, the conservative women never want to put it away.
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now this is not to judge them as obviously youtube is the coolest career ever but it's
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to observe that there's no such thing as a conservative women and i've been saying this
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for years no women are conservative in 2026 because all of them have the opportunity to be
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a boss babe now um there was a woman um named brit hugum i think she blocked me can't cannot
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imagine why and she founded evie magazine now yeah yeah cm block evie magazine is a conservative
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magazine and what it wanted to do is it wanted to take the name of conservatism without actually
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being conservative right it's easier to just say you're conservative than be it right i mean um
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however when you look at these women's life choices and even the way they present themselves
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they always have a pound of makeup on and their choices are very modern usually it's delayed
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marriage um none of them are married at 21 or 22 or even 20 when you think about it and if they get
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married generally kids are delayed and generally speaking um it's very obvious based on their
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choices that their brand is more important than their marriage because they overshare on the
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internet for example brett cooper is one who claimed to be conservative however whenever she
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she had a kid she does not value her family's privacy a conservative woman values the privacy
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of her family because she cares about the well-being of the family above her brett cooper
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is basically live streaming her family's existence showing herself doing chores and all the quote
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unquote trad stuff now again this is not to judge or even to say that the content is necessarily
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bad but i think it's important to know when you're being manipulated now evie um put this girl in a
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whatever the hell this is, the sexy thing. And the intent is sexual, is to, you know,
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show, to make men lust, right? And they put this beautiful girl on the cover half naked. And,
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you know, people come out and they say, oh, I'm not. And they say, hey, you're using conservatism
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for, you know, the clout with it. But whenever it comes to doing something conservative,
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you refuse to do it now this was the argument right on sunday night at evie's arrows party we
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unveiled the next cover of our print edition in front of the press and hundreds of guests
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it's the first of many themed issues and it's the most ambitious thing we've ever produced
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you know it's crazy women it's like the most ambitious thing we've ever done is getting naked
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for years a recurring plea has shown up in our dms emails and service response survey responses
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Young married asking us for real detailed guidance about sex. A reader once wrote to us and said
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progressives own sex positivity, but abandoned marriage and monogamy a long time ago.
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Conservatives own marriage, but can't bring themselves to be sex positive. That stuck with
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us because it's true. And it perfectly describes the gap millions of women are living in. Many young
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women, especially from the traditional or religious families have come into womanhood without learning
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anything about sex. They saved themselves from marriage and then realized the culture told them
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to wait. The culture that told them to wait had absolutely nothing to say about what happens after
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the altar. They grew up with the negative associations to intimacy, but were expected to
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become uninhibited the moment they said, I do. We believe sex is one of the most important
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foundations of a thriving marriage. You cannot call something sacred and refuse to take it
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seriously. We talked to doctors, experts, and women who have been married for decades. The
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issue is specific on purpose because vague advice is the same as no advice. These are beautiful
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hand-drawn illustrations for the explicit content and tasteful photography for the implicit content.
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Some of you will read this and be surprised. In truth, this is the most eevee thing we've done.
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We've always said we want to celebrate femininity and help marriages by giving women real advice
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that makes their lives better. Your sex life with your husband is arguably the most important part
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of marriage. You asked for guidance and we listened. You most likely won't find hookup
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culture propaganda in these pages. No explore more partners, no decoupling sex from commitment.
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We're giving you arguably the most complete, thoughtful, and beautiful guide on sex and
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intimacy ever put into print. Now remember, this is giving women guidance from either other women,
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right? Either other women, which is not traditional in the slightest. If you're traditional,
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you get guidance from men not women women cannot guide women and it's not in our nature whenever
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we guide women we guide women into whoredom in some way and you can see this with this quote
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unquote conservative magazine and you know then they always come out and they say well i'm not
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conservative well it's like okay are you you know i i hate women and i die on that hill right i mean
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that's just that's my brand you know not a fan of the women you know we're just kind of evil
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and um but you can't you know grift and make the money off of being religious and conservative
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and then complain when your audience is like hey you're not doing it and then say well I'm not that
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it's like it's like the circle of gaslighting and women never stop so anyways um here we go we got
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some quotes from Isabel Brown did she quit her career to raise her kids never um not criticizing
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her for that i don't know why daily wire keeps hiring women it's really not in their best
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interest after brett cooper crashed out on them and candace owens crashed out on them but sure
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give another woman power sex is really only presented to gen z women right now as something
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empowering if you are part of this sexual liberation movement you're sleeping with as
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many people as possible you're sleeping with multiple partners at the exact same time you're
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meeting people from a dating app and you meet them that night and you end up having sex that
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night then you use abortion as a form of birth control and that's how you are an empowered
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liberated woman on par with or equal to men in 2026 and yet that's not where our culture is at
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because young women overwhelmingly want to get married they want this traditional structure
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yeah so again here this is a get out of jail free card right a get out of jail free card maybe i'll
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go to her channel and watch the whole thing it's a get out of jail free card because um again if
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we wanted to get married we would but we don't want it as much as we originally thought i'm
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really tired of the excuses from women right um i think the hardest thing to admit is something to
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yourself and women do not want to get married because if we did then we would be getting
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married there's too many resources attributed to helping women get married um i mean you can really
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um filter out men by race income height on these dating apps and have a million um matches in a
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year but we just choose not to so again we gotta stop with the excuses for women when women want
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to be when we go to the ends of the earth to be horse women want to be married we go to the ends
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of the earth to get made sure they're deleting their dating apps and moss right now they're
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desperate for i think that's you know i think dating apps are great for women if i'm being honest
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i mean you can you can schedule a date whenever you know or a long-term sense of connection
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and yet the advice just isn't out there for girls that don't have a big sister but see
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traditional advice would be like well what did your husband say how did your husband say to
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throw it back did you ask a friend to talk to about some of this stuff i just find even in my
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spheres of influence with my friends and my extended family people don't talk about sex
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with their friends anymore it's not something that you say uh pays cap cap cap cap cap conservative
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women love talking about sex they giggle like little girls something that i'm going through
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with my husband then what do you guys think or do you have any advice for my wedding night or
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any of these things so everybody is turning to the cosmos or the vogues of the world telling you to
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cheat on your boyfriend or your husband so now that's another get out of jail free card well
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the family you know it's like there's no accountability here can you bring up a topic
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i mean you could ask your mother how do you gluck gluck 9000
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how do you you know it where is the accountability so now because there's women aren't demanding
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christian marriage advice it's not there now it's it's our fault like now it's the society's fault
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for the content we demanded which is gluck gluck 9000 caller daddy to use things around the house
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as sex toys that was a recent cosmopolitan uh article to match as much as possible i mean
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things that are very taboo to say but also and remind remember the men aren't really talking
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about this like it's the women the quote-unquote conservative women saying we need a sex talk
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the conservative men are like yeah we're good we'll talk about that privately but women we just
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have this tendency to make everything um private public and it just um let's see let's let's watch
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this and we'll watch this in the past men would just like go talk to different women and see like
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which one they could get but now i think men are very like uncomfortable talking to women and then
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all those stories that trend are like the only fan to you that has people's heads exploding all over
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the internet about so this is another thing they catastrophize it they say oh um you guys are your
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heads are exploding when anyone has a valid observation they always say you're so angry
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And it's like, well, this is just a valid observation that I don't know if you're as
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I don't know if this magazine is a traditional thing.
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What's appropriate to give intimacy advice for, for married and even married Christian
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A ton of you said you're never supposed to talk about this ever.
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How dare you even remotely bring this into the public square?
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But I think this is a wildly important conversation.
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Of all the e-girls, right? Everyone's got to throw it back with somebody.
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Having out there to tell young married families, you should enjoy having sex with your spouse.
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Take it from an old married lady, okay? It is wildly.
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Then this is the thing. As soon as they get married, immediately they use that status
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to tell other people what to do. And they say, this is, I have authority, I'm married.
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Well, again, I think at one point in my lifetime, I have not seen a difference
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Brittany Hugo Boom, the founder of Evie Magazine,
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Can't wait for you guys to hear what she has to say.
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Brittany, I am so excited to have you on set with us today
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in our culture. And that is your guys' up and coming sex issue of the magazine. But you and
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I have been friends for a long time. You hear like the uptick in her voice. They love talking
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about sex. It's like the whores are just trying to get out. They want to get out so bad. They're
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like, Oh, I want a whore. Oh, I want a whore. So before we get into the sex issue, can you tell us
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what inspired you to start Evie magazine in the first place? Oh my gosh. So I started Evie. I
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mean, you probably know, you probably were like an OG reader, but we started back in 2019 and I was
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in Los Angeles at the time. And during that time, there was like, it was a super progressive kind
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of radical, you had like Refinery29 and Jezebel, and it was very like man hating, but also like
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hating women's nature in general. It became kind of this fourth wave feminism thing. And it's funny
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now when I talk to journalists, they tell me they're like, Oh, I'm a second wave feminist,
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or I'm a third wave feminist. And these are all mainstream publications. All women are feminists,
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because even the fact that like you guys are on the internet, that's feminism, you are marketing.
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so any man in society can slide into your dms um and we're all just supposed to believe that
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you would never do that it's like well well i think it's like very fascinating but at the time
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there was just no i think that they were able to make bad things look aesthetically beautiful and
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and like positive things like marriage and kids
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And now you have like obviously Ballerina Farm and Nabella
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And we kind of had this, because we lived in LA,
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the microplastics and they were very like they loved god but they were like uh i don't know it
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was just like a this type of girl that just wasn't catered to at all it was very maha before it was a
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thing uh so we were like yeah it was like kind of the the crunchy liberal the bernie girls right
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like they were just they just didn't want to be part of the system and i think like in the past
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like unfortunately when i've talked to like the mainstream media they thought republicans were
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very like uncool or like puritan or whatever and then obviously with the election in 2016
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the winner is like this new york democrat with a supermodel wife who lives in a golden palace
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so it's like nobody was wearing hats for george bush you know like so i think that uh making
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good things look appealing and sexy and mainstream is just an objective good because then everyone
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wants to be like that you know amen oh my god yeah so again listen to how stupid she is
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and it's not our fault we're all kind of dumb as women like we just aren't
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we are not the the smartest tools in the shed we're gonna we're gonna re play it back play it back
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like in the past like unfortunately when i've talked to like the mainstream media they thought
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republicans were very like uncool or like puritan or whatever and then obviously with the election
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in 2016 the winner is like this new york democrat with a supermodel wife who lives in a golden
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palace so it's like nobody was wearing hats for george bush you know like so i think that uh
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making good things look appealing and sexy and mainstream is just an objective good because then
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everyone wants to be like that yes so again women um maybe for women right women go on trends but
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like as i said this is women vying for status i want to be high status and these are high status
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women high status women um they start off their life as high status men have to work to be high
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status there's the occasional very good looking man or um inherited money guy that enters into
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high status society but most men are now some men never get into high status society um but men
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don't care about status women do and when you really pay attention conservative women care
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about high status and money. That is what they care about. Amen. Oh my gosh. And I have loved
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every edition that you guys have put out. I've written a few articles back in the day. I sure
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knew. Actually, a few things. Jobs with status are like CEOs, corporate America, wives are higher
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status than unmarried women. Jobs without status, blue collar and whores. And so what happens is
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the reason conservative women defend whores is they don't want to lose their status. What they're
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trying to do is make low status decisions um in order to stay in the high status class because if
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they're too much of whores they enter in the low status class now remember being low status isn't
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necessarily a bad thing um in fact some would say it's a good thing my favorite times to go out is
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not when i dress to the nines and go to a nice event i've been to a few nice events in my life
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but um it's almost more fun when you go to a dive bar when nobody's got anything to lose and nobody
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cares about status um but it's the reason they're wearing heavy makeup they have plastic surgery
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they have botox they're trying to stay in with the beautiful women and the high status society
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yeah but how um how come men get in face looks lift surgeries well yeah because men enter high
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status um sometimes they can date a high status woman that gets them into high status other times
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they can um they have a good amount of money and other times it's good looking and recently with
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with the advent of social media um status is more and more and more based on looks now status can
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come with money but oftentimes it doesn't it's why so many um professions that are high status a lot
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of times don't make a lot of money so status jobs that don't have money entertainers streamers and
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musicians remember this is contextual but women take off their panties for like entertainers
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right and a lot of times a lot of the boy bands from the early 2000s women were getting naked
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for were in bad business contracts and they're going broke right status does not always equate
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to money influence or power sometimes it does sometimes it doesn't jobs without status would
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be blue collar whores um ups driver maybe be blue collar and again sometimes the no status or the
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low status jobs are more important than the high status jobs like for example uh wmba player is
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going to get to go to all the events meet a lot of important people but her job is unimportant
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non-useful but she has high status because we're in an inflated society and it's the women's world
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now in the man's world status would be awarded based on competence but we're in the woman's
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world which in essence is the devil's world and women care about looking cool um they care about
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looking like a good mother if they're right wing looking like they're conservative if they're
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left wing they care about looking like they care about humanitarian causes like blm um
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um you know gaza whatever the latest trend is um so again things women care about is looking cool
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um things men care about is their roi on their time their family the money in the bank
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men just care about different things um however men have to enter a lot of times into the woman's
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high status games in order to get poonanny because if you really pay attention the men getting the
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most attractive women in society. It's the famous men and the streamers. I mean, like neon is banging
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like nines and tens. Status isn't useless to men. They can get poonanny, but again, they're like at
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what cost? AV Magazine. And it's true. You guys were covering Maha way before it was a movement,
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but just generally like putting your health first and being more natural and organic and
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leaning into your natural beauty. All of those things were so important. Reviving the importance
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of relationships, actual legitimate fashion, and not the androgynous brown paper bags we often see
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at New York Fashion Week these days. There's a sense of reviving beauty, and I've always really
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appreciated that about you and your family's mission, because beauty does matter, objectively
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speaking. I think one of our first articles. Yeah, so they're going to say beauty matters,
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and it does matter to be high status. It is important to women. Now, remember,
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when you think of someone virtuous there's a reason that we don't necessarily view women
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like the reason candace owens kind of um and a lot of conservative women rub me the wrong way
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is because they don't care about virtue they very obviously care about status
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um they wear very you know put together outfits they put on a pound of makeup
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um it's very obvious what is important to those women based on and again this is not
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to say that you can't be virtuous and also high status um but generally if you're a mother you
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kind of have to you know make a choice do I want to spend two hours every day pounding on makeup
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or do I want to watch my kids so it rubs us the wrong way because they're almost using um it's
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almost like they're using low status things for marketing you know um they're using you know uh
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the wife of i should say a housewife is maybe high status like the wife of a high status man
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is high status but the wife of a low status man is low status but it's like they're taking it's
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almost like they're making money off of low status women's lifestyle and it's very obvious by their
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life decisions it's not what they are this was the war on beauty uh back in 2019 and it is like
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there was kind of this war on beauty which now sounds weird to say in 2026 because everyone's
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kind of reverted to kind of what evie's been doing um but at the time you just never really
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saw that like it was very like obesity is healthy on the cover of cosmo and all these things
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that journalists agreed with me with in person but then you know they had to write that i was
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extreme or whatever uh so i'm like guys like it was interesting living in la and knowing that
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these journalists were skinny and drinking their green juices and going to barry's boot camp at 5
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am and then they would go right about how amazing it is like body positive to be huge and I'm like
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okay let's at least like give people honest advice um so that was like one of the main things but
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you got to think about it if you're deciding what advice is going out that's why I really
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I try to lean on accuracy because I'm a woman I mean if I'm on my period I'm going to give
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you the worst advice ever so um if you're really patriarchal which is conservative right um then
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you cannot dictate what advice is being given you know uh why we started evie well you're getting a
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little bit of backlash now all over again not from the typical crowd that we often expect from
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hating on the more trad conservative or even remember um because isabella whatever this
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girl's name is um cares about status too she's got to run cover for this other girl
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because if it comes out the real intentions here which is status money not jesus
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or traditionalism or marriage then you know they look bad and women will do anything to not look
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bad they'll do anything the controversy of your guys's beautiful milkmaid dresses that you made
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a few years ago now there's a whole lot of people on the right that are upset with evie magazine for
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introducing this idea of the sex issue of the magazine um so be putting on a ton of makeup to
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look good for the world many women make themselves look worse for their husbands yeah you know if
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traditional the full like glam look is going to be in the morning for their husband it's not
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going to be later so i covered this a little bit on my show already but for those who may not
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understand why you guys decided to launch this and the statement that you put out on social media
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what was the impetus behind wanting to put out a sex advice and intimacy advice magazine for
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christian married women you know there is this really great girl on sub stack and she probably
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shouldn't even know that i read her uh she's a liberal and my friend sent me the piece and she
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really understands what we're doing in a way that i feel like the right sometimes does not because
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in the beginning we were the first to talk about the hormone hormonal birth control pill which was
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at the time when i lived in la my friends trained the victoria's secret girls and they're all getting
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off the pills so all the liberal girls were getting off the pill so we start writing about
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it we talked to dr jolene bright and all these doctors and it was a liberal thing but because
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evie wrote about it it's conservative and then because we launched the sundress the washington
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posted a cover is the sundress political and it's like i feel like they just well the sundress it's
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not necessarily political but low status women aren't really in that kind of sundress they
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actually sent me one they're probably salty i'm a hater because they did send me a sundress but i'm
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sorry i gotta hate regardless um it's like a core set it's not pragmatic like low status um remember
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the higher status in history um the woman the less useful and pragmatic her outfits were when
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they're low status they're very useful so a corset uh sundress is not what a housewife is wearing
00:25:07.700
that's on her feet all day you know uh you know the housewife that i know and i would say she
00:25:12.100
was higher status than a lot of housewives but she was more like a farmer's wife not a farmer
00:25:16.900
but they had horses anyways um i mean she was always in like athletic clothes because she was
00:25:22.500
running around all over the place she wasn't in 1950s gear i mean that's that's like performative
00:25:28.580
right what do i think about the fan feministic power dynamic in churches and how they lead to
00:25:33.700
cliques and the exclusion of certain people particularly the poorer and less attractive
00:25:38.500
people um can you elaborate on that a little bit i'll tell you my initial thoughts but
00:25:45.140
yeah like again women have taken over churches so as long as women hold the power in the churches
00:25:50.740
it's just going to be the same it's going to be women and um high status men uh probably good
00:25:55.220
looking men that um rise up in those churches and not necessarily the most virtuous that's why they
00:26:00.420
do the rags to riches i was a horror to jesus woman pipeline because it you know it makes good
00:26:08.260
money let's take pilates we love now pilates is like an extremist thing to do so i feel like they
00:26:13.700
just take whatever evie says and like turn it into a political thing and i think it kind of makes the
00:26:18.180
liberals also mad because they're like what's going on but when it comes to sex for years
00:26:22.980
you either had like the you know hook up with whoever it's super empowering and then you had
00:26:29.300
like the right side where they're like oh don't talk about sex unless it's trauma like this was
00:26:34.660
actually told to me by someone who is big on the right they're like you're not allowed to talk
00:26:37.940
about sex unless it's sexual trauma someone actually told yeah one of the big uh i'm not
00:26:42.500
gonna say which magazine but it was a big conservative magazine that's been around for
00:26:45.220
for like 30 years but no one really knows about it um but they're like you can't talk about it and
00:26:49.700
it's like okay marriage back in the day men wanted to get married probably because they wanted to
00:26:56.980
have sex and they're also in love and you couldn't get that access unless you were married so when
00:27:02.020
the love took over and you know have sex with whoever it's casual all these things then it's
00:27:08.420
like well what's how do you like what's the point of getting married aside from like loving someone
00:27:13.460
but the more you have sex with different people the harder it is to like form a bond so it's like
00:27:17.620
why did the right give up one of the most appealing parts of marriage to the left
00:27:22.500
and then it's like you have the right and it's like oh well don't talk about it don't say any
00:27:27.940
and it's like you know it's it's great like if you're in a bad mood and you're married
00:27:32.900
and you have sex like i don't want to talk about it so now we gotta think about it
00:27:38.100
do you guys want your wife going on a podcast and talking about you guys's sex life
00:27:43.460
so much even but it's like there was really nowhere for these women to go but it's it makes
00:27:49.260
your kids happy to see your parents in love like that's so important it makes your stress lower
00:27:54.500
it's just so good for you and it's like they it's all about the context in my opinion like
00:28:00.300
it's obviously a good thing to have sex hence why it like was created but it's been turned into like
00:28:07.060
this bad dangerous like taboo thing you can't do unless you do it with random people i don't know
00:28:15.200
it's just such a bizarre take back to it with britain like imagine this is your mother
00:28:19.060
these women have no regard for anybody but themselves
00:28:23.900
you can take action and find your purpose at gcu private christian it's just always convenient
00:28:30.140
they always are fat like right after they get the ring now she's fat she was so cute before now
00:28:34.540
she's fat it's like women an affordable non-profit visit gcu.edu to learn more no you're right this
00:28:40.700
dichotomy in culture is so jarring i think and it's difficult for the right to figure out how
00:28:45.660
to talk about this because we have ceded all of the ground to the left on this issue sex is really
00:28:51.420
only presented to gen z women right now as something empowering if you are part of this
00:28:57.900
sexual liberation movement you're sleeping please stop now again it's presented to gen z women blah
00:29:04.060
blah blah blah the reason they say that oh it's presented as bad is because they want to give
00:29:08.700
their opinion okay so they want to hold influence over the conversation um so they want to dictate
00:29:16.300
the way we should have the conversation about sex google exists there's plenty of christian
00:29:20.940
perspectives you can google like there's so many um like can we just stop pretending
00:29:27.340
it sucks for the guys the women have created this competitive system and they go for the same five
00:29:32.460
guys between 100 of them and they determine what women can get with a certain man i mean it sucks
00:29:40.460
but you just got to play the game do you either got to opt out or play the game that's it um you
00:29:45.900
got to get into a place where you could be high status or you know exit the game with as many
00:29:51.500
people as possible you're sleeping with multiple partners at the exact same time you're meeting
00:29:55.820
people from a dating app and you meet them that night and you end up having sex that night then
00:30:00.060
you use abortion as a form of birth control and hey that can be the start of love let's stop
00:30:05.740
let's stop pretending that sex on the first night cannot lead to love
00:30:11.900
if anything it's the best type of love because the woman is not withholding sex men gotta stop
00:30:17.820
punishing women for giving up sex on the first night it's like why would you like you're gonna
00:30:24.140
see over time if she does that often based on if she stays and her behavior right but it would
00:30:31.580
always be like incredible to me where it's like okay you're gonna punish a woman for sleep you
00:30:36.460
want women to withhold sex from you go passport um yeah you can go to another country where you're
00:30:44.220
higher status but it's really not a guarantee because um women are understanding their power
00:30:49.260
level. And it's really, it's caused by the imbalance in attraction. Men find like half of
00:30:54.180
women attractive, where women only find like 5% of men attractive. So all of these status games are
00:31:01.420
letting less and less men in the market. And more and more women can enter the market, especially
00:31:06.140
with the advent of plastic surgery, keeping women looking attractive longer. I know a lot of people
00:31:10.800
say that it doesn't work, but come on, you guys would all hit Melania Trump and that woman's
00:31:16.040
face is frozen um they have plastic surgeries because they do work um however they can be
00:31:21.640
taken too far but some are effective otherwise there wouldn't be billions of dollars of money
00:31:26.620
into that um well yeah i mean they can afford the plastic surgery by going into the workforce
00:31:32.400
right that's how you are an empowered liberated even this girl i guess a little lip film woman
00:31:39.980
on par with or equal to men in both of botox in 2026 and yet that's not where our culture is at
00:31:46.980
because young women overwhelmingly yeah if they didn't have subsidized jobs um to keep them
00:31:52.140
subsidized to keep them single on male taxes and quotas to keep them hired most men will be higher
00:31:58.160
status than most women yes i completely agree with you because remember this is the woman's world
00:32:02.780
that's completely true uh maybe i didn't i probably could have articulated it better yes it's
00:32:07.860
completely fake all the women's high status careers are fake like the wnba player uh she's
00:32:13.580
gonna think she's too good for anybody but an nba player uh but her status it's it's fake but she's
00:32:19.020
gonna get access like um sophie whatever her name the blonde long hair she's gonna get access to nba
00:32:25.700
players that's just she's in the right circle she's going to get access um so is a beautiful
00:32:30.520
young women woman in a city right they want to get married they want this traditional structure
00:32:40.280
they're deleting their dating apps and moss right now they're desperate for a long-term sense of
00:32:45.320
connection and yet the advice just isn't out there for girls that don't have a big sister or a best
00:32:50.740
friend to talk to about some of this stuff i just find even in my spheres of influence with my
00:32:54.680
friends and my extended family people don't talk about sex with their friends anymore it's not
00:32:59.200
something that you say, Hey, this is something that I'm going through with my husband. Then
00:33:02.660
what do you guys think? Or do you have any advice for my wedding night or any of these things?
00:33:06.280
So everybody is turning to the cosmos or the vogues of the world telling you to cheat on
00:33:11.640
your boyfriend or your husband to use things around the house as sex toys. That was a recent
00:33:17.320
cosmopolitan article to match as much as possible. I mean, things that are very taboo to say,
00:33:23.580
but also aren't now because everything is everything. Like there is no actual standard
00:33:28.520
for intimacy anymore yeah no you're spot on you took the words out of my mouth so evie is trying
00:33:34.360
to do something a little bit different about it and this is what i so appreciate about the sex
00:33:37.880
issue you guys are trying to give specific intimacy advice for married women yes what does that mean
00:33:45.320
exactly it's so in the past i feel like you either had cosmo right where it's like cheat on your
00:33:50.600
spouse without getting caught you know it's it's very like we probably make up stories like in
00:33:55.080
all honesty like it's just very like out there it's kind of like with the mainstream scene right
00:33:58.520
now it's polygamy it's like does anyone really want to be polygamous like you know but i feel
00:34:02.840
like they just like like to do women like to be polygamous i'm telling you if we enforce monogamy
00:34:08.120
tomorrow most men would be happy polygamy um benefits the top it benefits women and the top
00:34:13.960
men because we get access to higher status and better genes now again the status today is still
00:34:18.840
manufactured like is it really fair that a pajit um is banging all these nines and tens um in this
00:34:25.720
fake status you know like neon you see him banging these women that are way out of his league right
00:34:30.440
but he has manufactured status um and that's just the that's just the society we're in
00:34:40.440
um so unfortunately it's in the woman's world and the fake status is still status and it still
00:34:45.000
accounts, that stuff. But it's like, I think I lost my train of thought.
00:34:49.240
No, actually, while you're saying that, this is so important. I literally was sent from our PR
00:34:53.080
team here yesterday, a new Pew Research poll that just came out about things Americans view
00:34:58.020
as morally acceptable or morally unacceptable. And most things that are not great for society
00:35:04.100
are considered acceptable, except cheating on your spouse. Overwhelmingly, people still think
00:35:12.580
And yet every headline out there is cheat, cheat, cheat, cheat,
00:35:16.260
cheat on your husband, cheat on your boyfriend, cheat on your wife,
00:35:18.720
sleep with as many people as possible, have an open marriage,
00:35:23.320
I disagree with that because there is conservative content out there too.
00:35:28.440
So again, what they want to do is frame themselves as the heroes.
00:35:33.480
When really, I mean, we need men to talk about this, guys.
00:35:36.600
i mean if you really need sex advice there is literal videos um of porn you can you can look
00:35:44.200
up the gluck gluck nine that look up men's most popular porn videos that men watch copy that okay
00:35:51.240
if you really need advice crazy to me that that's presented as normal i think i think it's because
00:35:55.480
it's so like quick baby like people are like that's crazy and they just like click on it but
00:35:59.400
it's like it it is like a problem with guys in their early 20s so a lot of them don't want to
00:36:05.880
to get married, and a lot of them are like, oh, my friend's girlfriend cheated on me.
00:36:09.820
Like there's like a huge cheating problem. I don't know what it is in the early 20s
00:36:14.000
where it's like men don't want to commit because they're afraid of being cheated on.
00:36:18.840
So you think this is more a problem of women cheating on men than the other-
00:36:21.780
I don't think so necessarily. I think maybe it's-
00:36:26.120
So again, it is more women cheating on men, but she views low status men as not people.
00:36:31.120
Sorry, fellas. Don't you dare. Don't shoot the messenger.
00:36:35.660
So again, when you see people that say, well, it's men too, it's men too, what they mean
00:36:42.720
Because the dating market is really women who are high status and high status men.
00:36:49.080
Sometimes they get a bitch in high school because they were high status in high school
00:36:53.460
But unfortunately, women just aren't lining up to date truck drivers.
00:36:57.400
Or again, occasionally you could be high status in looks.
00:37:00.900
um but there really is a high status and a low status society and that just is what it is
00:37:07.840
I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry don't shoot the messenger I just make my observations getting
00:37:12.500
closer in the early 20s I think probably men did more overall I don't know the stats um I mean it's
00:37:19.700
wrong no matter who does it yeah but uh yeah it's just interesting it's not well and you could even
00:37:25.600
argue that this is cheating and I'm not I'm not that much of a stickler YOLO whatever but
00:37:30.820
um the like again they both have open instagram accounts is that cheating uh pearl do you think
00:37:38.620
it would be ideal to marry have a child after she's 30 in a foreigner's country and then move
00:37:43.000
her to the states due to her market value dropping um you just got to find a way to be that you know
00:37:49.220
what i mean i mean that's all you got um look it doesn't matter who the woman is she could change
00:37:56.180
later it's not i look if you want to have a kid this is my woman advice this is just how i see it
00:38:04.580
i'm not even saying i'm correct so don't if you go and do this just know you listen to a woman um
00:38:13.860
that could be a strategy but odds are she will still have access to more men even as
00:38:21.860
a mid woman than you could possibly believe in america so as long as she's in shape honestly
00:38:29.060
i've seen women in their 40s still be able to bang chads 50s still be able to bang chats now
00:38:34.740
it might be like a 70 year old chad but there's always a chad that found out that the 50 year old
00:38:39.780
women are kind of cheap or the 40 year old women are kind of cheap and um occasionally they buy one
00:38:44.580
of those 40 or 50 year old women because of the traits or because she gluck look 9 000 whatever
00:38:48.900
like i know a 70 year old chad that loves 50 year old women that's his like market so there's always
00:38:54.100
going to be chads you know trying to steal your bitch and all you can really do is you know pick
00:39:00.260
a woman like if at this point if i was a guy i would just knock up a crack head because if you
00:39:06.260
could get her to not do crack until like maybe chain her in the basement or something and i don't
00:39:11.860
really do that but you know then at least at the end of the pregnancy she's not even going to want
00:39:16.340
the kid anyway like if anything i would find the least responsible woman i mean i'd get a surrogate
00:39:22.020
i think if i was a dude but outside of that you might as well just get the least responsible
00:39:26.180
woman possible like the problem is you guys are expecting these women to be wives and mothers and
00:39:30.500
i would just expect to hire a nanny and um that she's going to steal the kid so if anything if
00:39:36.420
you get an irresponsible woman you could go to court and be like this woman is so irresponsible
00:39:41.700
but again sometimes they still give those bitches custody so that's not even foolproof even if you
00:39:47.940
get like you could get the most on paper good woman and she could still cook your ass i mean i
00:39:54.120
know there was a guy who emailed my show who was like homeschooled his kids he spent over 300k
00:39:59.460
sorry his wife was a homeschooled virgin spent over 300k um to get his kids back because you
00:40:06.180
know being a homeschooled virgin doesn't mean that you're not a bitch whore it just might come
00:40:10.840
out later. Like a lot of women, they turn 30 or 32 and they say, fuck, I didn't get to whore as
00:40:16.340
much as I should. And it comes later. Not something I don't think the millennials really
00:40:20.620
thought about a lot, but it seems to be more of a problem with like the younger Gen Z.
00:40:25.240
So that is a huge component of the intimacy advice that is out there is just don't lock
00:40:29.400
yourself down in a committed monogamous relationship. Obviously, you're trying to
00:40:32.980
counter that through this marital issue of the sex issue. But what else is out there in terms
00:40:38.260
of advice for married women that you guys are trying to tackle yeah there's really nothing
00:40:42.500
and we get so many texts and like emails and girls that were like i'm struggling with like
00:40:46.840
vaginismus for example um and there's nothing really i just i call cap on that vaginismus
00:40:56.880
this okay nothing really nothing none of these videos will suffice it just shows women will
00:41:10.480
complain about anything they're like i don't really know where to go and i spent my whole
00:41:15.540
life thinking that sex was bad and then immediately i get married and i have to think it's the best
00:41:20.240
thing ever at pearl's war against trad women continues yeah i mean look at somebody's got
00:41:25.500
to do it somebody's got to do it and i want it to be me because i have the time
00:41:30.100
i have the time yeah you know what i mean it's like you know somebody's got to do it the men
00:41:38.660
aren't going to do it because they're afraid of these hoes i'm not afraid of these hoes i got
00:41:43.000
nothing to lose i might as well and i can't psychologically switch so then they like don't
00:41:49.220
enjoy it and they're uncomfortable doing it so again um we have two things you can marry for as
00:41:55.180
a woman. You can marry for resources or you can marry for genuine desire. Genuine desire is
00:41:59.080
genetics. It's like your type. Alpha fucks, beta bucks. Religion wants to come in and enforce
00:42:05.680
monogamy and it wants to take away choice and it wants to tell women to have sex with their husband
00:42:10.140
that they're not attracted to. And that's really what she's describing because women can't wait.
00:42:14.660
Women don't need any instruction to bounce that thing on Chad. Women will just bounce that. It's
00:42:21.920
like it comes out so naturally. Any guy that's been in the Chad position, they know that
00:42:29.620
woman doesn't need any instruction. So what they're doing is when you have monogamy, what
00:42:34.700
happens is women are married to men they're not attracted to. And many men are married
00:42:39.480
to women they're not attracted to. Most people getting married, it's really not their first
00:42:43.580
choice. Let's just keep it a buck. And you can either make peace with that fact and never
00:42:48.580
talk about it or these women are just coping and coping publicly that's the embarrassing part
00:42:54.900
that's the embarrassing so doug mpa just said marriage it's kind of funny he said
00:43:04.260
sex on the left chad's banging libtard women sex on the right sexless marriage
00:43:13.340
as soon as the right right push the wife's body doesn't belong to her husband's crap the right
00:43:18.460
wife was cooked yeah and that's the question you got to ask yourself as a man do you want your wife
00:43:23.520
to be forced to have sex with you do you want her to want to or do you want her to be forced
00:43:29.620
and that's the question and i think the answer from most men well is no i want her to want to
00:43:35.620
and then you're like well then you got to do all this jester maxing and all this bullshit
00:43:39.140
and then it's like well i don't want to do that and i'm like well you can't then i'm like then
00:43:45.660
got a status max jester max looks man all this um do you want it forced um and that's the question
00:43:53.260
because you don't get both oh she's always gonna i'm that i i'm she's always gonna want to bang me
00:43:59.180
not really most guys will never know what genuine desire sex is and they don't really know guys
00:44:06.940
don't even know they don't have it where to go or who to turn to so it's it's really like a the
00:44:11.900
ultimate sex book it definitely is not for everyone it is explicit and how to's but um i think that
00:44:20.300
yeah if we don't force women to marry men they don't like them civilization itself will end in
00:44:25.100
nuclear holocaust yeah i know i know so and look at men are forced to go like die in war if needed
00:44:31.340
so it's not like i you know i'm thinking like is it really the end of the world like can you just
00:44:37.180
you know thrust throw it back but then the men are like i want to be first choice or nothing
00:44:43.740
some men right um but then they get older and they you know i think they sometimes they get
00:44:49.580
the genuine desire and the like keys their car or some and they're like do you know what
00:44:54.140
you can cheat with your ex it's fine it's great it'll be a great gift to give to people in their
00:44:59.260
bachelorette before they get married as i'm sure you're picking up from our conversation with
00:45:02.780
with Brittany today, public discourse these days as an always bad, like a black and white. It is
00:45:08.000
bad. And then all of a sudden it is good when you articulated so beautifully a few minutes ago that
00:45:12.440
sex is a gift from God. It was created on purpose for a reason. And I had heard one teacher growing
00:45:18.240
up in Catholic high school, talk about this. That was pretty much it in our morality class. It was
00:45:22.780
a mandated theology class that we took in high school. And he said, ultimately, no one will ever
00:45:27.460
tell you this in culture, but having sex with your spouse is supposed to be the closest physical
00:45:32.460
sensation we have to what it's like to be in heaven yes i was gonna i never thought about
00:45:38.060
that before and that totally changed my perspective when i was like 15 years old and we were talking
00:45:43.020
about this yeah you guys gotta stop putting sex on this pedestal at some at some at some point
00:45:48.780
it's just sex right um and that's now they're trying to elevate they're like chad's gonna bang
00:45:55.420
you so good you're gonna think you're in heaven that is not gonna be the experience for most
00:45:59.660
concern if you're really going the trad route and getting a virgin man promise to god he is not
00:46:04.300
banging you like like you're gonna and there's this idea of women women aren't gonna know
00:46:09.820
that he's not banging her like there's this idea that women are not going to know that um
00:46:19.180
that like if they've never had sex before they won't know bad sex i'd like to say that is
00:46:24.460
there's sex that leaves women more curious to try something else and there's sex that
00:46:29.260
you know because if that was true if women were satisfied just because they'd had sex with no one
00:46:33.100
else then all women would stay with the first guy they had sex with but we just keep going
00:46:37.340
especially attractive women like all the stacies that are chosen in high school if i'm going to be
00:46:41.500
honest uh that was who i saw being like the least um attached during sex and it's because they had
00:46:47.660
a lot of chad options why do you think the church isn't presenting it that way to young people
00:46:52.380
especially young christians it's a good it's a good idea i think they've like i don't they're
00:46:57.340
the strategy is just really bad it's kind of like with the pill people are like oh the church has
00:47:01.040
talked about for decades but it's like it's kind of irrelevant because nothing happened
00:47:04.120
doug mpa said social media gets women curious about sex with other men now it's unavoidable
00:47:08.600
doug mp it's not even just that like before it was their girlfriends would talk you know because
00:47:13.000
if let's say girl a is married to chad and she's like girl he choked me out last night oh my god
00:47:20.480
i i did this position in that position and girl b is just getting missionary she's like
00:47:25.280
am i missing out on life i need to find myself you know what i mean yes i'm a fem cell how did
00:47:34.460
you know nobody will do it because i'm too chopped you know it's just it's just life
00:47:41.400
sometimes in life you're chopped and and i remember when i was like 14 or 15 you hear like
00:47:48.060
oh sex is bad blah blah blah but then adriana lima was like i'm waiting till marriage because
00:47:53.060
a man doesn't wait for me he doesn't want me and like to see someone who's so powerful and beautiful
00:47:58.580
and can have any man in the world and she's like i'm not going to do it like i was like wait what
00:48:02.900
maybe like that's like inspiring instead of just like don't do it it's bad it's bad and it's it's
00:48:09.140
almost why unfortunately um i have a lot of friends who are priests and a lot of the more traditional
00:48:14.340
circles such a huge issue and i saw this really great thread from gift lofta and he was talking
00:48:20.100
about how christian men can have a harder time quitting okay well yeah because their wives are
00:48:24.980
more chopped like let's be honest um the hottest women are on boats in miami and the mid women are
00:48:31.380
like i'm gonna be religious it's why all the women involved in this conversation on both sides are
00:48:36.100
kind of mid right it's like mid it's like mid off i'm mid they're mid it's like mid mid mid mid mid
00:48:42.100
and then also christian women get fat after they get married and stop banging their husbands because
00:48:45.860
Because again, it's kind of easy to withhold sex
00:48:48.600
when you don't have a genuine desire for the guy.
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So again, like this whole thing is about, I am cool.
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Like that is the essentially what they all just want to say.
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Because they're just told that their nature as men is evil.
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And then when you look at guys who I want to say are more like,
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they like Christianity, but maybe they're not fully into it, but they're more logical,
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then they're like, oh, like alcohol is bad objectively because of this and is bad objectively
00:49:25.160
because of this. So I don't watch it. Um, but they're able to look at it more from a health
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issue type of thing versus like, this is bad. Your nature is bad, et cetera. Your nature is bad.
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Yeah. I feel like the church, here's the, the church, here's, I'll tell you the church's issue
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and this when i figured this out because i would say i grew up with a lot of like sexual shame i
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don't want to overshare i probably will but you really don't want to be a right but it's
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very difficult because they don't give you like instructions they just say oh like it all happened
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naturally for my parents or like their parents and you're like okay it'll just happen and our
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generation i would say gen z young millennials we're kind of the generation that things just
00:50:07.020
didn't just happen you either had to get on a dating app like you would eat or you had to
00:50:13.580
participate in a hookup culture um because the only way um if you have dating that equates to
00:50:19.100
you you are participating in hookup culture and it's made about now you got to play the dating
00:50:23.260
game which is be the thinnest the most attractive and and now you're in the competition and the
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competition is between women and high status men that's who we're naturally always always always
00:50:33.820
was going to pick so you either give women choice or then you don't um and so the church says wait
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till marriage and you know i remember thinking in middle school or not middle school high school
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my grandma said oh i waited till marriage and i'm like grandma you got married at like 16 that's
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easy i'm horny as hell you know what i mean like nothing's hornier than a teenage girl let's just
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keep it a buck i waited i am gonna overshare i waited till i was um halfway through college
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to have sex and it felt like forever it felt like i waited a lifetime because your hormones are just
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going crazy it's it's saying reproduce and so they say it's bad it's bad it's bad but they don't
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really give you a solution um they don't really give you you know i had a few crushes in high
00:51:19.160
school none of them really liked me back and i was shocking actually one of them banged two of
00:51:23.840
my friends. It was like incredible. Um, and now what, what, you know, what would have been good
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is maybe they said, you look at, you're too fat. You got to lose weight. You're going out of your
00:51:35.800
league. Like that's pragmatic. You know what I mean? Um, but it's just like, Oh, it'll just
00:51:42.260
happen. Cause for our parents, it just happened. You know, they met, they went buck wild. They
00:51:47.360
banged um yeah it's the guys always say that it's not that hard to resist your hormones
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yeah right i mean because most men have to do work to resist their hormones women there's
00:52:02.000
thrown at us um 24 7. you don't have to act in every impulse that's true but again it's just
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not reasonable to expect people to wait till their late 20s to have sex and if you don't
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i've met people that that's true and that's weird right in biblical times um people got married in
00:52:18.880
their teens for arranged marriage waiting until marriage is your easy when you're forced into
00:52:22.800
marriage when you're still a kid exactly and now they're asking um now they're asking you to wait
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and again i remember i was halfway through school i was the last one to lose my virginity
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um out of the women on my like um team at the time and i remember thinking like um
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I remember thinking that, like, I've waited forever.
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Yeah, I know, we're clearly biologically meant to pair up shortly after puberty.
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Yeah, and I'm just trying to be honest about this.
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It's easy to say, oh, resist impulses when you're ugly or you don't have the choice, right?
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It seems like men, my experience, I was talking to someone about this today.
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it seems like men aren't really interested in women until they're teens like i had no male attention
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um till i got to college right i know it's hard to believe everyone's like when you're a young
00:53:23.000
woman i'm like i don't know it seemed when i was in high school the guys were just busy doing other
00:53:27.020
things one of them um one of them was getting bitches but he chose other bitches you know what
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mean um i'm sure there's maybe exceptions but this is just what i remember
00:53:43.120
it seems like men didn't really get interested till college um in like sex and stuff i don't
00:53:48.480
know maybe that's just my experience kind of treats men as defunct women and i feel like
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women were kind of treated as defunct men with fourth fourth wave feminism oh what do you mean
00:53:57.520
by that explain that i feel like women were told that their gifts as women like being being beautiful
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charming etc which is like now mind you this is a lot of the talking point if it feels like hell
00:54:10.080
it leads you to heaven if it feels like heaven it leads you to hell high iq people can redirect
00:54:13.840
their minds to more productive things so there he's basically telling me he's better than me
00:54:17.600
and he's signaling i am better than you and usually when people signal like this they're
00:54:22.400
they're still succumb to the same stuff everyone else's uh the way that he's speaking um is the
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the same way elijah shaffer was speaking when he was banging his 22 year old you know
00:54:34.960
the 22 year old chick so most people in the right circumstances they're gonna cave
00:54:40.960
some people for like different things right i can actually go without for a long time if i really
00:54:46.720
need to i've done i'm not i don't want to again this is tmi this is tmi uh but there's things
00:54:51.920
that are are you know more of pain points for me and that's food i would actually say food is my
00:54:56.080
biggest addiction um but usually and that's why i talk about fat people a lot and that's kind of
00:55:00.800
the psychology behind it the more people say like you're bad because you're this the more
00:55:05.120
they usually struggle with that sin beautiful powerful thing is wheat compared to like your
00:55:09.680
intellect like they're like oh if you have a high iq or whatever you're smarter but then
00:55:14.480
the fall happened because the woman wanted knowledge you know so it's it's almost like this
00:55:20.480
weird thing i'm doing yeah curiosity um so instead like i like how her solution is not
00:55:27.120
maybe we should stop trying to learn things and know things um and instead it's more um
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instead it's it's more now i need to provide the knowledge as a woman that's not traditional
00:55:47.040
whole thesis on it to try to get into it but it's you almost told everything that makes you a woman
00:55:51.280
makes you weak so dress more like a man act no look at you are weak as a woman and let's stop
00:55:57.040
keep it a buck like you guys are not strong women you're weak women we're all weak look if anyone
00:56:02.080
caved like started yelling at me i'm just gonna say you're right i'll see ya we're like a man in
00:56:07.520
order to get succeed and that was in the 2010s and men in churches are often told like oh anything
00:56:15.040
male is like bad so then be more kind of like women like the toxically masculine thing yeah
00:56:22.320
it's like masculinity is toxic um and it's like they focus more on kind of men issues and like
00:56:27.680
sins overall what a powerful perspective when you really consider the fact that we are created in
00:56:34.960
the divine image of god our nature was given to us for a reason on purpose and to bring this back
00:56:40.960
to the sex and intimacy conversation the longer i've been married and i know i'm still pretty
00:56:45.680
new at this so i'm still learning on the job the more i've realized that even the marital act of
00:56:50.800
intimacy itself is supposed to reflect our nature as men and women men give women receive and what
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women receive they will multiply they will create something out of as we create babies and bring new
00:57:00.960
life into the world why do you think we're not quite as explicit in our conversation about that
00:57:06.400
and we instead just never address the physicality aspect of how god created us i don't know and it's
00:57:12.960
very interesting i think it's more of an americanized idea because when you go to italy or
00:57:17.840
other countries that i guess are more catholic um it is like you see like beauty and nudity like
00:57:24.080
they're just more comfortable with it but because we were formed more in a puritan kind of quaker
00:57:30.240
way it's a little bit more you're either one extreme or the other and i feel like not really
00:57:36.240
um there's there's you know i could do a show on the different types of horrors there's a lot
00:57:40.880
of different types um there's horrors that go in and out of the game where they go in the game
00:57:44.880
they whore a little bit to get a relationship then they whore out then there's women that are
00:57:48.320
constantly whoring no matter where they're at horror horror there's women that whore for a
00:57:52.960
period and then stop there's there's different different types of um whores you know that's not
00:57:58.720
good for society overall to either be like oh everything is bad i got something to go to so i
00:58:03.760
gotta bounce but um i i think i'll do a part two on this tomorrow i i've enjoyed i've enjoyed this
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i think this was a fun convo so i i hope women keep talking because i'll have content forever
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1955. remember that um if i have time tomorrow i'm gonna film some reactions but i might do part two
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