Pearl - Trad Women Care About Status Not Jesus

00:00:00.800 what is going on people welcome to another episode of pearl daily here in the audacity

00:00:07.040 network this is kind of an off-the-cuff stream thank you for tuning in today we're going to

00:00:13.440 talk about how trad women care about status not jesus um and really a lot of these um

00:00:21.040 conservative e-girls have really got me thinking about what is really important to them okay so we

00:00:27.680 We got, so we got Isabella Brown, who recently got married, and she works for the Daily Wire.

00:00:37.120 She's a conservative commentator.

00:00:39.160 Now, again, most women care about looking conservative and not being conservative. 0.99

00:00:43.740 And you can tell this based on their actions, where they wear the Jesus cross, they talk

00:00:48.140 about how they love God, da-da-da-da-da, traditional values.

00:00:51.760 But whenever it comes to doing anything conservative, like not being on social media or watching their children instead of working or not having a side business, the conservative women never want to put it away. 0.99

00:01:06.960 now this is not to judge them as obviously youtube is the coolest career ever but it's

00:01:13.120 to observe that there's no such thing as a conservative women and i've been saying this

00:01:16.960 for years no women are conservative in 2026 because all of them have the opportunity to be 0.98

00:01:22.320 a boss babe now um there was a woman um named brit hugum i think she blocked me can't cannot 1.00

00:01:30.160 imagine why and she founded evie magazine now yeah yeah cm block evie magazine is a conservative

00:01:38.320 magazine and what it wanted to do is it wanted to take the name of conservatism without actually

00:01:43.360 being conservative right it's easier to just say you're conservative than be it right i mean um

00:01:52.160 however when you look at these women's life choices and even the way they present themselves 0.99

00:01:56.160 they always have a pound of makeup on and their choices are very modern usually it's delayed

00:02:02.160 marriage um none of them are married at 21 or 22 or even 20 when you think about it and if they get

00:02:09.360 married generally kids are delayed and generally speaking um it's very obvious based on their

00:02:15.040 choices that their brand is more important than their marriage because they overshare on the

00:02:18.480 internet for example brett cooper is one who claimed to be conservative however whenever she

00:02:24.240 she had a kid she does not value her family's privacy a conservative woman values the privacy 1.00

00:02:28.600 of her family because she cares about the well-being of the family above her brett cooper

00:02:32.940 is basically live streaming her family's existence showing herself doing chores and all the quote

00:02:38.400 unquote trad stuff now again this is not to judge or even to say that the content is necessarily

00:02:43.240 bad but i think it's important to know when you're being manipulated now evie um put this girl in a 1.00

00:02:51.740 whatever the hell this is, the sexy thing. And the intent is sexual, is to, you know,

00:03:01.300 show, to make men lust, right? And they put this beautiful girl on the cover half naked. And, 1.00

00:03:07.920 you know, people come out and they say, oh, I'm not. And they say, hey, you're using conservatism

00:03:15.840 for, you know, the clout with it. But whenever it comes to doing something conservative,

00:03:20.300 you refuse to do it now this was the argument right on sunday night at evie's arrows party we

00:03:28.380 unveiled the next cover of our print edition in front of the press and hundreds of guests

00:03:32.220 it's the first of many themed issues and it's the most ambitious thing we've ever produced 0.59

00:03:36.300 you know it's crazy women it's like the most ambitious thing we've ever done is getting naked 1.00

00:03:44.460 for years a recurring plea has shown up in our dms emails and service response survey responses

00:03:50.300 Young married asking us for real detailed guidance about sex. A reader once wrote to us and said

00:03:55.700 progressives own sex positivity, but abandoned marriage and monogamy a long time ago.

00:04:01.440 Conservatives own marriage, but can't bring themselves to be sex positive. That stuck with

00:04:05.720 us because it's true. And it perfectly describes the gap millions of women are living in. Many young 0.98

00:04:11.160 women, especially from the traditional or religious families have come into womanhood without learning 1.00

00:04:15.880 anything about sex. They saved themselves from marriage and then realized the culture told them

00:04:21.060 to wait. The culture that told them to wait had absolutely nothing to say about what happens after

00:04:27.080 the altar. They grew up with the negative associations to intimacy, but were expected to

00:04:31.780 become uninhibited the moment they said, I do. We believe sex is one of the most important

00:04:37.600 foundations of a thriving marriage. You cannot call something sacred and refuse to take it

00:04:41.540 seriously. We talked to doctors, experts, and women who have been married for decades. The

00:04:45.560 issue is specific on purpose because vague advice is the same as no advice. These are beautiful

00:04:52.340 hand-drawn illustrations for the explicit content and tasteful photography for the implicit content.

00:04:58.960 Some of you will read this and be surprised. In truth, this is the most eevee thing we've done.

00:05:03.200 We've always said we want to celebrate femininity and help marriages by giving women real advice

00:05:07.460 that makes their lives better. Your sex life with your husband is arguably the most important part 0.62

00:05:11.200 of marriage. You asked for guidance and we listened. You most likely won't find hookup

00:05:15.500 culture propaganda in these pages. No explore more partners, no decoupling sex from commitment.

00:05:20.940 We're giving you arguably the most complete, thoughtful, and beautiful guide on sex and

00:05:25.900 intimacy ever put into print. Now remember, this is giving women guidance from either other women, 0.57

00:05:32.240 right? Either other women, which is not traditional in the slightest. If you're traditional, 0.99

00:05:39.540 you get guidance from men not women women cannot guide women and it's not in our nature whenever

00:05:45.020 we guide women we guide women into whoredom in some way and you can see this with this quote

00:05:48.880 unquote conservative magazine and you know then they always come out and they say well i'm not 0.58

00:05:52.960 conservative well it's like okay are you you know i i hate women and i die on that hill right i mean 0.89

00:05:59.120 that's just that's my brand you know not a fan of the women you know we're just kind of evil 1.00

00:06:04.120 and um but you can't you know grift and make the money off of being religious and conservative

00:06:12.040 and then complain when your audience is like hey you're not doing it and then say well I'm not that

00:06:17.580 it's like it's like the circle of gaslighting and women never stop so anyways um here we go we got 0.93

00:06:25.420 some quotes from Isabel Brown did she quit her career to raise her kids never um not criticizing

00:06:31.960 her for that i don't know why daily wire keeps hiring women it's really not in their best 0.98

00:06:36.680 interest after brett cooper crashed out on them and candace owens crashed out on them but sure

00:06:41.400 give another woman power sex is really only presented to gen z women right now as something 1.00

00:06:48.920 empowering if you are part of this sexual liberation movement you're sleeping with as 0.75

00:06:53.400 many people as possible you're sleeping with multiple partners at the exact same time you're

00:06:57.640 meeting people from a dating app and you meet them that night and you end up having sex that 0.60

00:07:01.560 night then you use abortion as a form of birth control and that's how you are an empowered

00:07:06.360 liberated woman on par with or equal to men in 2026 and yet that's not where our culture is at

00:07:13.320 because young women overwhelmingly want to get married they want this traditional structure 1.00

00:07:17.800 yeah so again here this is a get out of jail free card right a get out of jail free card maybe i'll

00:07:22.600 go to her channel and watch the whole thing it's a get out of jail free card because um again if

00:07:28.520 we wanted to get married we would but we don't want it as much as we originally thought i'm

00:07:33.160 really tired of the excuses from women right um i think the hardest thing to admit is something to

00:07:39.560 yourself and women do not want to get married because if we did then we would be getting 0.95

00:07:46.200 married there's too many resources attributed to helping women get married um i mean you can really

00:07:53.160 um filter out men by race income height on these dating apps and have a million um matches in a

00:08:01.000 year but we just choose not to so again we gotta stop with the excuses for women when women want 1.00

00:08:06.520 to be when we go to the ends of the earth to be horse women want to be married we go to the ends 1.00

00:08:11.400 of the earth to get made sure they're deleting their dating apps and moss right now they're

00:08:15.480 desperate for i think that's you know i think dating apps are great for women if i'm being honest

00:08:19.480 i mean you can you can schedule a date whenever you know or a long-term sense of connection

00:08:28.520 and yet the advice just isn't out there for girls that don't have a big sister but see

00:08:33.400 traditional advice would be like well what did your husband say how did your husband say to

00:08:37.000 throw it back did you ask a friend to talk to about some of this stuff i just find even in my

00:08:41.160 spheres of influence with my friends and my extended family people don't talk about sex

00:08:45.320 with their friends anymore it's not something that you say uh pays cap cap cap cap cap conservative 0.58

00:08:50.840 women love talking about sex they giggle like little girls something that i'm going through 1.00

00:08:55.080 with my husband then what do you guys think or do you have any advice for my wedding night or

00:08:58.760 any of these things so everybody is turning to the cosmos or the vogues of the world telling you to

00:09:04.600 cheat on your boyfriend or your husband so now that's another get out of jail free card well

00:09:09.080 the family you know it's like there's no accountability here can you bring up a topic

00:09:14.120 i mean you could ask your mother how do you gluck gluck 9000

00:09:22.360 how do you you know it where is the accountability so now because there's women aren't demanding 1.00

00:09:28.680 christian marriage advice it's not there now it's it's our fault like now it's the society's fault 1.00

00:09:35.480 for the content we demanded which is gluck gluck 9000 caller daddy to use things around the house

00:09:42.120 as sex toys that was a recent cosmopolitan uh article to match as much as possible i mean

00:09:48.440 things that are very taboo to say but also and remind remember the men aren't really talking

00:09:53.800 about this like it's the women the quote-unquote conservative women saying we need a sex talk 1.00

00:09:58.200 the conservative men are like yeah we're good we'll talk about that privately but women we just 0.97

00:10:03.000 have this tendency to make everything um private public and it just um let's see let's let's watch

00:10:10.760 this and we'll watch this in the past men would just like go talk to different women and see like 0.99

00:10:15.680 which one they could get but now i think men are very like uncomfortable talking to women and then

00:10:19.720 all those stories that trend are like the only fan to you that has people's heads exploding all over

00:10:24.980 the internet about so this is another thing they catastrophize it they say oh um you guys are your

00:10:33.140 heads are exploding when anyone has a valid observation they always say you're so angry

00:10:38.140 And it's like, well, this is just a valid observation that I don't know if you're as

00:10:42.580 traditional as you say.

00:10:43.880 I don't know if this magazine is a traditional thing.

00:10:46.480 What's appropriate to give intimacy advice for, for married and even married Christian

00:10:52.420 women? 1.00

00:10:53.100 A ton of you said you're never supposed to talk about this ever.

00:10:55.540 How dare you even remotely bring this into the public square?

00:10:58.200 But I think this is a wildly important conversation.

00:11:01.160 Virtually no one is.

00:11:02.660 Of course you do.

00:11:04.280 Of course you do.

00:11:05.260 I've heard rumors about you, Isabel.

00:11:08.140 Of all the e-girls, right? Everyone's got to throw it back with somebody. 1.00

00:11:11.300 Having out there to tell young married families, you should enjoy having sex with your spouse. 1.00

00:11:16.960 Take it from an old married lady, okay? It is wildly. 1.00

00:11:19.780 Then this is the thing. As soon as they get married, immediately they use that status 0.85

00:11:24.760 to tell other people what to do. And they say, this is, I have authority, I'm married.

00:11:29.900 Well, again, I think at one point in my lifetime, I have not seen a difference

00:11:35.740 between married women and unmarried women. 0.73

00:11:38.700 The only difference is married women 1.00

00:11:40.600 care more about status.

00:11:44.200 Important.

00:11:44.880 Brittany Hugo Boom, the founder of Evie Magazine,

00:11:47.380 is joining us today on the Isabel Brown Show

00:11:49.220 to talk about why this issue is coming out

00:11:51.240 and what was the driving force behind it.

00:11:53.200 Can't wait for you guys to hear what she has to say.

00:11:55.040 Brittany, I am so excited to have you on set with us today

00:11:58.320 to talk about some pretty controversial news

00:12:00.920 coming out of Evie Magazine,

00:12:02.360 but something I think is so desperately needed

00:12:05.180 in our culture. And that is your guys' up and coming sex issue of the magazine. But you and

00:12:10.640 I have been friends for a long time. You hear like the uptick in her voice. They love talking

00:12:14.280 about sex. It's like the whores are just trying to get out. They want to get out so bad. They're 1.00

00:12:18.700 like, Oh, I want a whore. Oh, I want a whore. So before we get into the sex issue, can you tell us 1.00

00:12:23.760 what inspired you to start Evie magazine in the first place? Oh my gosh. So I started Evie. I

00:12:28.320 mean, you probably know, you probably were like an OG reader, but we started back in 2019 and I was

00:12:32.740 in Los Angeles at the time. And during that time, there was like, it was a super progressive kind

00:12:38.420 of radical, you had like Refinery29 and Jezebel, and it was very like man hating, but also like

00:12:44.180 hating women's nature in general. It became kind of this fourth wave feminism thing. And it's funny

00:12:49.300 now when I talk to journalists, they tell me they're like, Oh, I'm a second wave feminist, 1.00

00:12:52.580 or I'm a third wave feminist. And these are all mainstream publications. All women are feminists,

00:12:56.900 because even the fact that like you guys are on the internet, that's feminism, you are marketing. 1.00

00:13:01.060 so any man in society can slide into your dms um and we're all just supposed to believe that

00:13:06.980 you would never do that it's like well well i think it's like very fascinating but at the time

00:13:20.500 there was just no i think that they were able to make bad things look aesthetically beautiful and

00:13:26.900 and there was really nobody making virtue

00:13:29.700 and like positive things like marriage and kids

00:13:32.300 and anything look aesthetically pleasing.

00:13:34.340 And now you have like obviously Ballerina Farm and Nabella

00:13:37.380 and even Justin and Hailey Bieber.

00:13:39.140 And you have all these like good examples

00:13:41.220 of it looking appealing to be married,

00:13:44.260 but at the time there really wasn't.

00:13:45.740 So we wanted to come in and do that.

00:13:47.900 And we kind of had this, because we lived in LA,

00:13:51.300 a lot of my friends were like the girls

00:13:52.900 who would shop at Air One

00:13:54.140 and they wouldn't drink out of plastic

00:13:55.780 the microplastics and they were very like they loved god but they were like uh i don't know it

00:14:02.420 was just like a this type of girl that just wasn't catered to at all it was very maha before it was a 0.98

00:14:08.580 thing uh so we were like yeah it was like kind of the the crunchy liberal the bernie girls right 0.97

00:14:14.900 like they were just they just didn't want to be part of the system and i think like in the past

00:14:19.540 like unfortunately when i've talked to like the mainstream media they thought republicans were

00:14:23.780 very like uncool or like puritan or whatever and then obviously with the election in 2016

00:14:29.700 the winner is like this new york democrat with a supermodel wife who lives in a golden palace

00:14:33.940 so it's like nobody was wearing hats for george bush you know like so i think that uh making

00:14:40.900 good things look appealing and sexy and mainstream is just an objective good because then everyone 1.00

00:14:46.260 wants to be like that you know amen oh my god yeah so again listen to how stupid she is 1.00

00:14:52.500 and it's not our fault we're all kind of dumb as women like we just aren't 1.00

00:14:55.860 we are not the the smartest tools in the shed we're gonna we're gonna re play it back play it back 0.98

00:15:04.580 like in the past like unfortunately when i've talked to like the mainstream media they thought

00:15:09.620 republicans were very like uncool or like puritan or whatever and then obviously with the election

00:15:15.380 in 2016 the winner is like this new york democrat with a supermodel wife who lives in a golden

00:15:20.020 palace so it's like nobody was wearing hats for george bush you know like so i think that uh

00:15:26.740 making good things look appealing and sexy and mainstream is just an objective good because then

00:15:33.060 everyone wants to be like that yes so again women um maybe for women right women go on trends but 1.00

00:15:38.980 like as i said this is women vying for status i want to be high status and these are high status 1.00

00:15:43.620 women high status women um they start off their life as high status men have to work to be high 1.00

00:15:50.340 status there's the occasional very good looking man or um inherited money guy that enters into

00:15:56.820 high status society but most men are now some men never get into high status society um but men

00:16:02.820 don't care about status women do and when you really pay attention conservative women care 1.00

00:16:08.580 about high status and money. That is what they care about. Amen. Oh my gosh. And I have loved

00:16:13.880 every edition that you guys have put out. I've written a few articles back in the day. I sure

00:16:17.740 knew. Actually, a few things. Jobs with status are like CEOs, corporate America, wives are higher 1.00

00:16:24.340 status than unmarried women. Jobs without status, blue collar and whores. And so what happens is 1.00

00:16:30.480 the reason conservative women defend whores is they don't want to lose their status. What they're 1.00

00:16:36.120 trying to do is make low status decisions um in order to stay in the high status class because if 0.98

00:16:43.140 they're too much of whores they enter in the low status class now remember being low status isn't 1.00

00:16:48.200 necessarily a bad thing um in fact some would say it's a good thing my favorite times to go out is 0.98

00:16:53.740 not when i dress to the nines and go to a nice event i've been to a few nice events in my life

00:16:58.020 but um it's almost more fun when you go to a dive bar when nobody's got anything to lose and nobody

00:17:04.040 cares about status um but it's the reason they're wearing heavy makeup they have plastic surgery 0.83

00:17:08.600 they have botox they're trying to stay in with the beautiful women and the high status society 1.00

00:17:15.160 yeah but how um how come men get in face looks lift surgeries well yeah because men enter high

00:17:21.640 status um sometimes they can date a high status woman that gets them into high status other times

00:17:26.920 they can um they have a good amount of money and other times it's good looking and recently with

00:17:31.640 with the advent of social media um status is more and more and more based on looks now status can

00:17:40.060 come with money but oftentimes it doesn't it's why so many um professions that are high status a lot

00:17:45.460 of times don't make a lot of money so status jobs that don't have money entertainers streamers and 0.96

00:17:51.440 musicians remember this is contextual but women take off their panties for like entertainers 1.00

00:17:57.320 right and a lot of times a lot of the boy bands from the early 2000s women were getting naked 1.00

00:18:01.500 for were in bad business contracts and they're going broke right status does not always equate

00:18:06.320 to money influence or power sometimes it does sometimes it doesn't jobs without status would 0.75

00:18:11.300 be blue collar whores um ups driver maybe be blue collar and again sometimes the no status or the 1.00

00:18:19.140 low status jobs are more important than the high status jobs like for example uh wmba player is 0.95

00:18:25.320 going to get to go to all the events meet a lot of important people but her job is unimportant

00:18:29.820 non-useful but she has high status because we're in an inflated society and it's the women's world 1.00

00:18:36.760 now in the man's world status would be awarded based on competence but we're in the woman's 0.65

00:18:41.700 world which in essence is the devil's world and women care about looking cool um they care about 1.00

00:18:47.380 looking like a good mother if they're right wing looking like they're conservative if they're

00:18:51.120 left wing they care about looking like they care about humanitarian causes like blm um

00:18:57.460 um you know gaza whatever the latest trend is um so again things women care about is looking cool

00:19:05.740 um things men care about is their roi on their time their family the money in the bank

00:19:12.460 men just care about different things um however men have to enter a lot of times into the woman's 0.98

00:19:18.760 high status games in order to get poonanny because if you really pay attention the men getting the 0.59

00:19:23.480 most attractive women in society. It's the famous men and the streamers. I mean, like neon is banging 0.95

00:19:28.820 like nines and tens. Status isn't useless to men. They can get poonanny, but again, they're like at 0.74

00:19:37.480 what cost? AV Magazine. And it's true. You guys were covering Maha way before it was a movement,

00:19:42.120 but just generally like putting your health first and being more natural and organic and

00:19:46.500 leaning into your natural beauty. All of those things were so important. Reviving the importance

00:19:50.500 of relationships, actual legitimate fashion, and not the androgynous brown paper bags we often see

00:19:56.520 at New York Fashion Week these days. There's a sense of reviving beauty, and I've always really

00:20:02.080 appreciated that about you and your family's mission, because beauty does matter, objectively

00:20:06.840 speaking. I think one of our first articles. Yeah, so they're going to say beauty matters,

00:20:11.240 and it does matter to be high status. It is important to women. Now, remember, 0.99

00:20:15.760 when you think of someone virtuous there's a reason that we don't necessarily view women

00:20:22.880 like the reason candace owens kind of um and a lot of conservative women rub me the wrong way 1.00

00:20:27.380 is because they don't care about virtue they very obviously care about status

00:20:31.040 um they wear very you know put together outfits they put on a pound of makeup

00:20:35.360 um it's very obvious what is important to those women based on and again this is not 0.67

00:20:41.880 to say that you can't be virtuous and also high status um but generally if you're a mother you

00:20:49.680 kind of have to you know make a choice do I want to spend two hours every day pounding on makeup

00:20:53.640 or do I want to watch my kids so it rubs us the wrong way because they're almost using um it's

00:21:00.580 almost like they're using low status things for marketing you know um they're using you know uh

00:21:09.040 the wife of i should say a housewife is maybe high status like the wife of a high status man 1.00

00:21:14.320 is high status but the wife of a low status man is low status but it's like they're taking it's

00:21:19.200 almost like they're making money off of low status women's lifestyle and it's very obvious by their 0.99

00:21:25.280 life decisions it's not what they are this was the war on beauty uh back in 2019 and it is like

00:21:30.880 there was kind of this war on beauty which now sounds weird to say in 2026 because everyone's

00:21:36.560 kind of reverted to kind of what evie's been doing um but at the time you just never really

00:21:43.920 saw that like it was very like obesity is healthy on the cover of cosmo and all these things

00:21:48.960 that journalists agreed with me with in person but then you know they had to write that i was

00:21:53.440 extreme or whatever uh so i'm like guys like it was interesting living in la and knowing that

00:22:01.280 these journalists were skinny and drinking their green juices and going to barry's boot camp at 5

00:22:05.520 am and then they would go right about how amazing it is like body positive to be huge and I'm like

00:22:11.360 okay let's at least like give people honest advice um so that was like one of the main things but

00:22:17.280 you got to think about it if you're deciding what advice is going out that's why I really

00:22:22.480 I try to lean on accuracy because I'm a woman I mean if I'm on my period I'm going to give

00:22:26.400 you the worst advice ever so um if you're really patriarchal which is conservative right um then

00:22:33.440 you cannot dictate what advice is being given you know uh why we started evie well you're getting a

00:22:40.800 little bit of backlash now all over again not from the typical crowd that we often expect from

00:22:47.280 hating on the more trad conservative or even remember um because isabella whatever this

00:22:53.440 girl's name is um cares about status too she's got to run cover for this other girl 1.00

00:22:58.000 because if it comes out the real intentions here which is status money not jesus

00:23:03.440 or traditionalism or marriage then you know they look bad and women will do anything to not look 0.98

00:23:09.100 bad they'll do anything the controversy of your guys's beautiful milkmaid dresses that you made

00:23:14.620 a few years ago now there's a whole lot of people on the right that are upset with evie magazine for

00:23:20.260 introducing this idea of the sex issue of the magazine um so be putting on a ton of makeup to

00:23:27.500 look good for the world many women make themselves look worse for their husbands yeah you know if 1.00

00:23:31.540 traditional the full like glam look is going to be in the morning for their husband it's not

00:23:37.540 going to be later so i covered this a little bit on my show already but for those who may not

00:23:42.020 understand why you guys decided to launch this and the statement that you put out on social media

00:23:46.340 what was the impetus behind wanting to put out a sex advice and intimacy advice magazine for

00:23:52.260 christian married women you know there is this really great girl on sub stack and she probably 1.00

00:23:57.380 shouldn't even know that i read her uh she's a liberal and my friend sent me the piece and she

00:24:02.260 really understands what we're doing in a way that i feel like the right sometimes does not because

00:24:06.900 in the beginning we were the first to talk about the hormone hormonal birth control pill which was

00:24:12.420 at the time when i lived in la my friends trained the victoria's secret girls and they're all getting

00:24:16.100 off the pills so all the liberal girls were getting off the pill so we start writing about 1.00

00:24:19.620 it we talked to dr jolene bright and all these doctors and it was a liberal thing but because

00:24:24.580 evie wrote about it it's conservative and then because we launched the sundress the washington

00:24:28.980 posted a cover is the sundress political and it's like i feel like they just well the sundress it's

00:24:34.100 not necessarily political but low status women aren't really in that kind of sundress they 1.00

00:24:39.940 actually sent me one they're probably salty i'm a hater because they did send me a sundress but i'm

00:24:44.980 sorry i gotta hate regardless um it's like a core set it's not pragmatic like low status um remember

00:24:53.140 the higher status in history um the woman the less useful and pragmatic her outfits were when 1.00

00:25:00.020 they're low status they're very useful so a corset uh sundress is not what a housewife is wearing 1.00

00:25:07.700 that's on her feet all day you know uh you know the housewife that i know and i would say she 1.00

00:25:12.100 was higher status than a lot of housewives but she was more like a farmer's wife not a farmer 1.00

00:25:16.900 but they had horses anyways um i mean she was always in like athletic clothes because she was 1.00

00:25:22.500 running around all over the place she wasn't in 1950s gear i mean that's that's like performative 1.00

00:25:28.580 right what do i think about the fan feministic power dynamic in churches and how they lead to 0.97

00:25:33.700 cliques and the exclusion of certain people particularly the poorer and less attractive

00:25:38.500 people um can you elaborate on that a little bit i'll tell you my initial thoughts but

00:25:45.140 yeah like again women have taken over churches so as long as women hold the power in the churches 1.00

00:25:50.740 it's just going to be the same it's going to be women and um high status men uh probably good

00:25:55.220 looking men that um rise up in those churches and not necessarily the most virtuous that's why they

00:26:00.420 do the rags to riches i was a horror to jesus woman pipeline because it you know it makes good 0.63

00:26:08.260 money let's take pilates we love now pilates is like an extremist thing to do so i feel like they

00:26:13.700 just take whatever evie says and like turn it into a political thing and i think it kind of makes the 0.93

00:26:18.180 liberals also mad because they're like what's going on but when it comes to sex for years

00:26:22.980 you either had like the you know hook up with whoever it's super empowering and then you had

00:26:29.300 like the right side where they're like oh don't talk about sex unless it's trauma like this was

00:26:34.660 actually told to me by someone who is big on the right they're like you're not allowed to talk

00:26:37.940 about sex unless it's sexual trauma someone actually told yeah one of the big uh i'm not

00:26:42.500 gonna say which magazine but it was a big conservative magazine that's been around for

00:26:45.220 for like 30 years but no one really knows about it um but they're like you can't talk about it and

00:26:49.700 it's like okay marriage back in the day men wanted to get married probably because they wanted to

00:26:56.980 have sex and they're also in love and you couldn't get that access unless you were married so when

00:27:02.020 the love took over and you know have sex with whoever it's casual all these things then it's

00:27:08.420 like well what's how do you like what's the point of getting married aside from like loving someone

00:27:13.460 but the more you have sex with different people the harder it is to like form a bond so it's like

00:27:17.620 why did the right give up one of the most appealing parts of marriage to the left

00:27:22.500 and then it's like you have the right and it's like oh well don't talk about it don't say any

00:27:27.940 and it's like you know it's it's great like if you're in a bad mood and you're married

00:27:32.900 and you have sex like i don't want to talk about it so now we gotta think about it 0.65

00:27:38.100 do you guys want your wife going on a podcast and talking about you guys's sex life

00:27:43.460 so much even but it's like there was really nowhere for these women to go but it's it makes

00:27:49.260 your kids happy to see your parents in love like that's so important it makes your stress lower

00:27:54.500 it's just so good for you and it's like they it's all about the context in my opinion like

00:28:00.300 it's obviously a good thing to have sex hence why it like was created but it's been turned into like

00:28:07.060 this bad dangerous like taboo thing you can't do unless you do it with random people i don't know

00:28:15.200 it's just such a bizarre take back to it with britain like imagine this is your mother

00:28:19.060 these women have no regard for anybody but themselves 1.00

00:28:23.900 you can take action and find your purpose at gcu private christian it's just always convenient 0.97

00:28:30.140 they always are fat like right after they get the ring now she's fat she was so cute before now 1.00

00:28:34.540 she's fat it's like women an affordable non-profit visit gcu.edu to learn more no you're right this

00:28:40.700 dichotomy in culture is so jarring i think and it's difficult for the right to figure out how 0.97

00:28:45.660 to talk about this because we have ceded all of the ground to the left on this issue sex is really

00:28:51.420 only presented to gen z women right now as something empowering if you are part of this

00:28:57.900 sexual liberation movement you're sleeping please stop now again it's presented to gen z women blah 0.98

00:29:04.060 blah blah blah the reason they say that oh it's presented as bad is because they want to give

00:29:08.700 their opinion okay so they want to hold influence over the conversation um so they want to dictate

00:29:16.300 the way we should have the conversation about sex google exists there's plenty of christian

00:29:20.940 perspectives you can google like there's so many um like can we just stop pretending

00:29:27.340 it sucks for the guys the women have created this competitive system and they go for the same five 1.00

00:29:32.460 guys between 100 of them and they determine what women can get with a certain man i mean it sucks 0.98

00:29:40.460 but you just got to play the game do you either got to opt out or play the game that's it um you

00:29:45.900 got to get into a place where you could be high status or you know exit the game with as many

00:29:51.500 people as possible you're sleeping with multiple partners at the exact same time you're meeting

00:29:55.820 people from a dating app and you meet them that night and you end up having sex that night then

00:30:00.060 you use abortion as a form of birth control and hey that can be the start of love let's stop

00:30:05.740 let's stop pretending that sex on the first night cannot lead to love

00:30:11.900 if anything it's the best type of love because the woman is not withholding sex men gotta stop

00:30:17.820 punishing women for giving up sex on the first night it's like why would you like you're gonna

00:30:24.140 see over time if she does that often based on if she stays and her behavior right but it would 0.80

00:30:31.580 always be like incredible to me where it's like okay you're gonna punish a woman for sleep you

00:30:36.460 want women to withhold sex from you go passport um yeah you can go to another country where you're

00:30:44.220 higher status but it's really not a guarantee because um women are understanding their power 1.00

00:30:49.260 level. And it's really, it's caused by the imbalance in attraction. Men find like half of

00:30:54.180 women attractive, where women only find like 5% of men attractive. So all of these status games are 0.83

00:31:01.420 letting less and less men in the market. And more and more women can enter the market, especially 0.98

00:31:06.140 with the advent of plastic surgery, keeping women looking attractive longer. I know a lot of people

00:31:10.800 say that it doesn't work, but come on, you guys would all hit Melania Trump and that woman's 1.00

00:31:16.040 face is frozen um they have plastic surgeries because they do work um however they can be

00:31:21.640 taken too far but some are effective otherwise there wouldn't be billions of dollars of money

00:31:26.620 into that um well yeah i mean they can afford the plastic surgery by going into the workforce

00:31:32.400 right that's how you are an empowered liberated even this girl i guess a little lip film woman

00:31:39.980 on par with or equal to men in both of botox in 2026 and yet that's not where our culture is at

00:31:46.980 because young women overwhelmingly yeah if they didn't have subsidized jobs um to keep them 1.00

00:31:52.140 subsidized to keep them single on male taxes and quotas to keep them hired most men will be higher

00:31:58.160 status than most women yes i completely agree with you because remember this is the woman's world

00:32:02.780 that's completely true uh maybe i didn't i probably could have articulated it better yes it's

00:32:07.860 completely fake all the women's high status careers are fake like the wnba player uh she's 1.00

00:32:13.580 gonna think she's too good for anybody but an nba player uh but her status it's it's fake but she's 1.00

00:32:19.020 gonna get access like um sophie whatever her name the blonde long hair she's gonna get access to nba 1.00

00:32:25.700 players that's just she's in the right circle she's going to get access um so is a beautiful

00:32:30.520 young women woman in a city right they want to get married they want this traditional structure 1.00

00:32:40.280 they're deleting their dating apps and moss right now they're desperate for a long-term sense of

00:32:45.320 connection and yet the advice just isn't out there for girls that don't have a big sister or a best

00:32:50.740 friend to talk to about some of this stuff i just find even in my spheres of influence with my

00:32:54.680 friends and my extended family people don't talk about sex with their friends anymore it's not

00:32:59.200 something that you say, Hey, this is something that I'm going through with my husband. Then

00:33:02.660 what do you guys think? Or do you have any advice for my wedding night or any of these things?

00:33:06.280 So everybody is turning to the cosmos or the vogues of the world telling you to cheat on 0.91

00:33:11.640 your boyfriend or your husband to use things around the house as sex toys. That was a recent

00:33:17.320 cosmopolitan article to match as much as possible. I mean, things that are very taboo to say,

00:33:23.580 but also aren't now because everything is everything. Like there is no actual standard

00:33:28.520 for intimacy anymore yeah no you're spot on you took the words out of my mouth so evie is trying

00:33:34.360 to do something a little bit different about it and this is what i so appreciate about the sex

00:33:37.880 issue you guys are trying to give specific intimacy advice for married women yes what does that mean

00:33:45.320 exactly it's so in the past i feel like you either had cosmo right where it's like cheat on your

00:33:50.600 spouse without getting caught you know it's it's very like we probably make up stories like in

00:33:55.080 all honesty like it's just very like out there it's kind of like with the mainstream scene right

00:33:58.520 now it's polygamy it's like does anyone really want to be polygamous like you know but i feel

00:34:02.840 like they just like like to do women like to be polygamous i'm telling you if we enforce monogamy 1.00

00:34:08.120 tomorrow most men would be happy polygamy um benefits the top it benefits women and the top 0.98

00:34:13.960 men because we get access to higher status and better genes now again the status today is still

00:34:18.840 manufactured like is it really fair that a pajit um is banging all these nines and tens um in this

00:34:25.720 fake status you know like neon you see him banging these women that are way out of his league right 1.00

00:34:30.440 but he has manufactured status um and that's just the that's just the society we're in

00:34:40.440 um so unfortunately it's in the woman's world and the fake status is still status and it still 1.00

00:34:45.000 accounts, that stuff. But it's like, I think I lost my train of thought.

00:34:49.240 No, actually, while you're saying that, this is so important. I literally was sent from our PR

00:34:53.080 team here yesterday, a new Pew Research poll that just came out about things Americans view

00:34:58.020 as morally acceptable or morally unacceptable. And most things that are not great for society

00:35:04.100 are considered acceptable, except cheating on your spouse. Overwhelmingly, people still think

00:35:09.460 That is a morally bad thing to do.

00:35:11.900 It is immoral.

00:35:12.580 And yet every headline out there is cheat, cheat, cheat, cheat,

00:35:16.260 cheat on your husband, cheat on your boyfriend, cheat on your wife, 1.00

00:35:18.720 sleep with as many people as possible, have an open marriage,

00:35:20.920 do this polygamy or polyamory thing. 1.00

00:35:23.320 I disagree with that because there is conservative content out there too.

00:35:28.440 So again, what they want to do is frame themselves as the heroes.

00:35:31.640 We need women to talk about this. 1.00

00:35:33.480 When really, I mean, we need men to talk about this, guys.

00:35:36.600 i mean if you really need sex advice there is literal videos um of porn you can you can look

00:35:44.200 up the gluck gluck nine that look up men's most popular porn videos that men watch copy that okay

00:35:51.240 if you really need advice crazy to me that that's presented as normal i think i think it's because 0.54

00:35:55.480 it's so like quick baby like people are like that's crazy and they just like click on it but

00:35:59.400 it's like it it is like a problem with guys in their early 20s so a lot of them don't want to

00:36:05.880 to get married, and a lot of them are like, oh, my friend's girlfriend cheated on me.

00:36:09.820 Like there's like a huge cheating problem. I don't know what it is in the early 20s

00:36:14.000 where it's like men don't want to commit because they're afraid of being cheated on.

00:36:16.840 Interesting.

00:36:17.840 Yeah. It's like very-

00:36:18.840 So you think this is more a problem of women cheating on men than the other- 0.80

00:36:21.780 I don't think so necessarily. I think maybe it's-

00:36:26.120 So again, it is more women cheating on men, but she views low status men as not people.

00:36:31.120 Sorry, fellas. Don't you dare. Don't shoot the messenger.

00:36:35.660 So again, when you see people that say, well, it's men too, it's men too, what they mean

00:36:41.020 is it's high status men too.

00:36:42.720 Because the dating market is really women who are high status and high status men.

00:36:47.060 Low status men tend to get the leftover. 0.97

00:36:49.080 Sometimes they get a bitch in high school because they were high status in high school 1.00

00:36:52.000 or college. 0.99

00:36:53.460 But unfortunately, women just aren't lining up to date truck drivers. 1.00

00:36:57.400 Or again, occasionally you could be high status in looks.

00:37:00.900 um but there really is a high status and a low status society and that just is what it is

00:37:07.840 I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry don't shoot the messenger I just make my observations getting

00:37:12.500 closer in the early 20s I think probably men did more overall I don't know the stats um I mean it's

00:37:19.700 wrong no matter who does it yeah but uh yeah it's just interesting it's not well and you could even

00:37:25.600 argue that this is cheating and I'm not I'm not that much of a stickler YOLO whatever but

00:37:30.820 um the like again they both have open instagram accounts is that cheating uh pearl do you think

00:37:38.620 it would be ideal to marry have a child after she's 30 in a foreigner's country and then move 1.00

00:37:43.000 her to the states due to her market value dropping um you just got to find a way to be that you know

00:37:49.220 what i mean i mean that's all you got um look it doesn't matter who the woman is she could change 0.97

00:37:56.180 later it's not i look if you want to have a kid this is my woman advice this is just how i see it

00:38:04.580 i'm not even saying i'm correct so don't if you go and do this just know you listen to a woman um

00:38:13.860 that could be a strategy but odds are she will still have access to more men even as 0.99

00:38:21.860 a mid woman than you could possibly believe in america so as long as she's in shape honestly

00:38:29.060 i've seen women in their 40s still be able to bang chads 50s still be able to bang chats now 1.00

00:38:34.740 it might be like a 70 year old chad but there's always a chad that found out that the 50 year old

00:38:39.780 women are kind of cheap or the 40 year old women are kind of cheap and um occasionally they buy one 1.00

00:38:44.580 of those 40 or 50 year old women because of the traits or because she gluck look 9 000 whatever 1.00

00:38:48.900 like i know a 70 year old chad that loves 50 year old women that's his like market so there's always 0.99

00:38:54.100 going to be chads you know trying to steal your bitch and all you can really do is you know pick 1.00

00:39:00.260 a woman like if at this point if i was a guy i would just knock up a crack head because if you 1.00

00:39:06.260 could get her to not do crack until like maybe chain her in the basement or something and i don't 1.00

00:39:11.860 really do that but you know then at least at the end of the pregnancy she's not even going to want 1.00

00:39:16.340 the kid anyway like if anything i would find the least responsible woman i mean i'd get a surrogate 1.00

00:39:22.020 i think if i was a dude but outside of that you might as well just get the least responsible

00:39:26.180 woman possible like the problem is you guys are expecting these women to be wives and mothers and 1.00

00:39:30.500 i would just expect to hire a nanny and um that she's going to steal the kid so if anything if 1.00

00:39:36.420 you get an irresponsible woman you could go to court and be like this woman is so irresponsible 1.00

00:39:41.700 but again sometimes they still give those bitches custody so that's not even foolproof even if you 1.00

00:39:47.940 get like you could get the most on paper good woman and she could still cook your ass i mean i 1.00

00:39:54.120 know there was a guy who emailed my show who was like homeschooled his kids he spent over 300k 1.00

00:39:59.460 sorry his wife was a homeschooled virgin spent over 300k um to get his kids back because you 0.99

00:40:06.180 know being a homeschooled virgin doesn't mean that you're not a bitch whore it just might come 1.00

00:40:10.840 out later. Like a lot of women, they turn 30 or 32 and they say, fuck, I didn't get to whore as 1.00

00:40:16.340 much as I should. And it comes later. Not something I don't think the millennials really 1.00

00:40:20.620 thought about a lot, but it seems to be more of a problem with like the younger Gen Z. 0.99

00:40:25.240 So that is a huge component of the intimacy advice that is out there is just don't lock

00:40:29.400 yourself down in a committed monogamous relationship. Obviously, you're trying to

00:40:32.980 counter that through this marital issue of the sex issue. But what else is out there in terms

00:40:38.260 of advice for married women that you guys are trying to tackle yeah there's really nothing

00:40:42.500 and we get so many texts and like emails and girls that were like i'm struggling with like

00:40:46.840 vaginismus for example um and there's nothing really i just i call cap on that vaginismus

00:40:56.880 this okay nothing really nothing none of these videos will suffice it just shows women will 1.00

00:41:10.480 complain about anything they're like i don't really know where to go and i spent my whole

00:41:15.540 life thinking that sex was bad and then immediately i get married and i have to think it's the best

00:41:20.240 thing ever at pearl's war against trad women continues yeah i mean look at somebody's got

00:41:25.500 to do it somebody's got to do it and i want it to be me because i have the time

00:41:30.100 i have the time yeah you know what i mean it's like you know somebody's got to do it the men

00:41:38.660 aren't going to do it because they're afraid of these hoes i'm not afraid of these hoes i got 1.00

00:41:43.000 nothing to lose i might as well and i can't psychologically switch so then they like don't

00:41:49.220 enjoy it and they're uncomfortable doing it so again um we have two things you can marry for as

00:41:55.180 a woman. You can marry for resources or you can marry for genuine desire. Genuine desire is 0.74

00:41:59.080 genetics. It's like your type. Alpha fucks, beta bucks. Religion wants to come in and enforce 1.00

00:42:05.680 monogamy and it wants to take away choice and it wants to tell women to have sex with their husband 0.94

00:42:10.140 that they're not attracted to. And that's really what she's describing because women can't wait.

00:42:14.660 Women don't need any instruction to bounce that thing on Chad. Women will just bounce that. It's 1.00

00:42:21.920 like it comes out so naturally. Any guy that's been in the Chad position, they know that

00:42:29.620 woman doesn't need any instruction. So what they're doing is when you have monogamy, what 1.00

00:42:34.700 happens is women are married to men they're not attracted to. And many men are married 0.64

00:42:39.480 to women they're not attracted to. Most people getting married, it's really not their first

00:42:43.580 choice. Let's just keep it a buck. And you can either make peace with that fact and never

00:42:48.580 talk about it or these women are just coping and coping publicly that's the embarrassing part 1.00

00:42:54.900 that's the embarrassing so doug mpa just said marriage it's kind of funny he said 0.99

00:43:04.260 sex on the left chad's banging libtard women sex on the right sexless marriage 1.00

00:43:13.340 as soon as the right right push the wife's body doesn't belong to her husband's crap the right 1.00

00:43:18.460 wife was cooked yeah and that's the question you got to ask yourself as a man do you want your wife 1.00

00:43:23.520 to be forced to have sex with you do you want her to want to or do you want her to be forced 0.92

00:43:29.620 and that's the question and i think the answer from most men well is no i want her to want to 1.00

00:43:35.620 and then you're like well then you got to do all this jester maxing and all this bullshit 0.78

00:43:39.140 and then it's like well i don't want to do that and i'm like well you can't then i'm like then

00:43:45.660 got a status max jester max looks man all this um do you want it forced um and that's the question

00:43:53.260 because you don't get both oh she's always gonna i'm that i i'm she's always gonna want to bang me 0.99

00:43:59.180 not really most guys will never know what genuine desire sex is and they don't really know guys

00:44:06.940 don't even know they don't have it where to go or who to turn to so it's it's really like a the

00:44:11.900 ultimate sex book it definitely is not for everyone it is explicit and how to's but um i think that

00:44:20.300 yeah if we don't force women to marry men they don't like them civilization itself will end in 1.00

00:44:25.100 nuclear holocaust yeah i know i know so and look at men are forced to go like die in war if needed

00:44:31.340 so it's not like i you know i'm thinking like is it really the end of the world like can you just

00:44:37.180 you know thrust throw it back but then the men are like i want to be first choice or nothing

00:44:43.740 some men right um but then they get older and they you know i think they sometimes they get

00:44:49.580 the genuine desire and the like keys their car or some and they're like do you know what

00:44:54.140 you can cheat with your ex it's fine it's great it'll be a great gift to give to people in their

00:44:59.260 bachelorette before they get married as i'm sure you're picking up from our conversation with

00:45:02.780 with Brittany today, public discourse these days as an always bad, like a black and white. It is

00:45:08.000 bad. And then all of a sudden it is good when you articulated so beautifully a few minutes ago that

00:45:12.440 sex is a gift from God. It was created on purpose for a reason. And I had heard one teacher growing

00:45:18.240 up in Catholic high school, talk about this. That was pretty much it in our morality class. It was

00:45:22.780 a mandated theology class that we took in high school. And he said, ultimately, no one will ever

00:45:27.460 tell you this in culture, but having sex with your spouse is supposed to be the closest physical

00:45:32.460 sensation we have to what it's like to be in heaven yes i was gonna i never thought about

00:45:38.060 that before and that totally changed my perspective when i was like 15 years old and we were talking

00:45:43.020 about this yeah you guys gotta stop putting sex on this pedestal at some at some at some point

00:45:48.780 it's just sex right um and that's now they're trying to elevate they're like chad's gonna bang

00:45:55.420 you so good you're gonna think you're in heaven that is not gonna be the experience for most

00:45:59.660 concern if you're really going the trad route and getting a virgin man promise to god he is not 0.79

00:46:04.300 banging you like like you're gonna and there's this idea of women women aren't gonna know 1.00

00:46:09.820 that he's not banging her like there's this idea that women are not going to know that um 0.98

00:46:19.180 that like if they've never had sex before they won't know bad sex i'd like to say that is

00:46:24.460 there's sex that leaves women more curious to try something else and there's sex that 1.00

00:46:29.260 you know because if that was true if women were satisfied just because they'd had sex with no one

00:46:33.100 else then all women would stay with the first guy they had sex with but we just keep going 1.00

00:46:37.340 especially attractive women like all the stacies that are chosen in high school if i'm going to be 1.00

00:46:41.500 honest uh that was who i saw being like the least um attached during sex and it's because they had

00:46:47.660 a lot of chad options why do you think the church isn't presenting it that way to young people

00:46:52.380 especially young christians it's a good it's a good idea i think they've like i don't they're

00:46:57.340 the strategy is just really bad it's kind of like with the pill people are like oh the church has

00:47:01.040 talked about for decades but it's like it's kind of irrelevant because nothing happened

00:47:04.120 doug mpa said social media gets women curious about sex with other men now it's unavoidable

00:47:08.600 doug mp it's not even just that like before it was their girlfriends would talk you know because

00:47:13.000 if let's say girl a is married to chad and she's like girl he choked me out last night oh my god 0.68

00:47:20.480 i i did this position in that position and girl b is just getting missionary she's like 1.00

00:47:25.280 am i missing out on life i need to find myself you know what i mean yes i'm a fem cell how did

00:47:34.460 you know nobody will do it because i'm too chopped you know it's just it's just life

00:47:41.400 sometimes in life you're chopped and and i remember when i was like 14 or 15 you hear like

00:47:48.060 oh sex is bad blah blah blah but then adriana lima was like i'm waiting till marriage because 1.00

00:47:53.060 a man doesn't wait for me he doesn't want me and like to see someone who's so powerful and beautiful

00:47:58.580 and can have any man in the world and she's like i'm not going to do it like i was like wait what

00:48:02.900 maybe like that's like inspiring instead of just like don't do it it's bad it's bad and it's it's

00:48:09.140 almost why unfortunately um i have a lot of friends who are priests and a lot of the more traditional

00:48:14.340 circles such a huge issue and i saw this really great thread from gift lofta and he was talking

00:48:20.100 about how christian men can have a harder time quitting okay well yeah because their wives are

00:48:24.980 more chopped like let's be honest um the hottest women are on boats in miami and the mid women are 1.00

00:48:31.380 like i'm gonna be religious it's why all the women involved in this conversation on both sides are 1.00

00:48:36.100 kind of mid right it's like mid it's like mid off i'm mid they're mid it's like mid mid mid mid mid 0.50

00:48:42.100 and then also christian women get fat after they get married and stop banging their husbands because 1.00

00:48:45.860 Because again, it's kind of easy to withhold sex 0.99

00:48:48.600 when you don't have a genuine desire for the guy.

00:48:53.500 So again, like this whole thing is about, I am cool.

00:48:56.740 Like that is the essentially what they all just want to say.

00:49:00.040 I am cool.

00:49:01.900 Because they're just told that their nature as men is evil.

00:49:06.160 Like lust is bad, obviously. 0.96

00:49:07.300 So the male sex drive is bad in general.

00:49:09.460 And then when you look at guys who I want to say are more like,

00:49:13.340 they like Christianity, but maybe they're not fully into it, but they're more logical,

00:49:18.620 then they're like, oh, like alcohol is bad objectively because of this and is bad objectively

00:49:25.160 because of this. So I don't watch it. Um, but they're able to look at it more from a health

00:49:29.300 issue type of thing versus like, this is bad. Your nature is bad, et cetera. Your nature is bad.

00:49:35.780 Yeah. I feel like the church, here's the, the church, here's, I'll tell you the church's issue

00:49:40.060 and this when i figured this out because i would say i grew up with a lot of like sexual shame i

00:49:44.380 don't want to overshare i probably will but you really don't want to be a right but it's

00:49:51.980 very difficult because they don't give you like instructions they just say oh like it all happened

00:49:57.100 naturally for my parents or like their parents and you're like okay it'll just happen and our

00:50:01.740 generation i would say gen z young millennials we're kind of the generation that things just

00:50:07.020 didn't just happen you either had to get on a dating app like you would eat or you had to

00:50:13.580 participate in a hookup culture um because the only way um if you have dating that equates to

00:50:19.100 you you are participating in hookup culture and it's made about now you got to play the dating

00:50:23.260 game which is be the thinnest the most attractive and and now you're in the competition and the

00:50:27.820 competition is between women and high status men that's who we're naturally always always always 1.00

00:50:33.820 was going to pick so you either give women choice or then you don't um and so the church says wait

00:50:39.740 till marriage and you know i remember thinking in middle school or not middle school high school

00:50:44.700 my grandma said oh i waited till marriage and i'm like grandma you got married at like 16 that's

00:50:49.660 easy i'm horny as hell you know what i mean like nothing's hornier than a teenage girl let's just 0.55

00:50:54.600 keep it a buck i waited i am gonna overshare i waited till i was um halfway through college 0.99

00:51:00.820 to have sex and it felt like forever it felt like i waited a lifetime because your hormones are just 0.92

00:51:08.840 going crazy it's it's saying reproduce and so they say it's bad it's bad it's bad but they don't

00:51:14.200 really give you a solution um they don't really give you you know i had a few crushes in high

00:51:19.160 school none of them really liked me back and i was shocking actually one of them banged two of

00:51:23.840 my friends. It was like incredible. Um, and now what, what, you know, what would have been good

00:51:32.060 is maybe they said, you look at, you're too fat. You got to lose weight. You're going out of your

00:51:35.800 league. Like that's pragmatic. You know what I mean? Um, but it's just like, Oh, it'll just

00:51:42.260 happen. Cause for our parents, it just happened. You know, they met, they went buck wild. They

00:51:47.360 banged um yeah it's the guys always say that it's not that hard to resist your hormones

00:51:54.480 yeah right i mean because most men have to do work to resist their hormones women there's 0.98

00:52:02.000 thrown at us um 24 7. you don't have to act in every impulse that's true but again it's just

00:52:08.080 not reasonable to expect people to wait till their late 20s to have sex and if you don't

00:52:12.400 i've met people that that's true and that's weird right in biblical times um people got married in

00:52:18.880 their teens for arranged marriage waiting until marriage is your easy when you're forced into

00:52:22.800 marriage when you're still a kid exactly and now they're asking um now they're asking you to wait

00:52:29.040 and again i remember i was halfway through school i was the last one to lose my virginity

00:52:34.640 um out of the women on my like um team at the time and i remember thinking like um

00:52:42.400 I remember thinking that, like, I've waited forever.

00:52:52.100 Yeah, I know, we're clearly biologically meant to pair up shortly after puberty.

00:52:56.560 Yeah, and I'm just trying to be honest about this.

00:52:58.760 It's easy to say, oh, resist impulses when you're ugly or you don't have the choice, right?

00:53:03.300 And I don't know what it is biologically.

00:53:05.560 It seems like men, my experience, I was talking to someone about this today.

00:53:10.280 it seems like men aren't really interested in women until they're teens like i had no male attention

00:53:15.900 um till i got to college right i know it's hard to believe everyone's like when you're a young

00:53:23.000 woman i'm like i don't know it seemed when i was in high school the guys were just busy doing other 0.98

00:53:27.020 things one of them um one of them was getting bitches but he chose other bitches you know what 1.00

00:53:34.400 mean um i'm sure there's maybe exceptions but this is just what i remember 0.99

00:53:43.120 it seems like men didn't really get interested till college um in like sex and stuff i don't

00:53:48.480 know maybe that's just my experience kind of treats men as defunct women and i feel like

00:53:52.640 women were kind of treated as defunct men with fourth fourth wave feminism oh what do you mean

00:53:57.520 by that explain that i feel like women were told that their gifts as women like being being beautiful 0.99

00:54:04.080 charming etc which is like now mind you this is a lot of the talking point if it feels like hell

00:54:10.080 it leads you to heaven if it feels like heaven it leads you to hell high iq people can redirect

00:54:13.840 their minds to more productive things so there he's basically telling me he's better than me

00:54:17.600 and he's signaling i am better than you and usually when people signal like this they're

00:54:22.400 they're still succumb to the same stuff everyone else's uh the way that he's speaking um is the

00:54:29.520 the same way elijah shaffer was speaking when he was banging his 22 year old you know

00:54:34.960 the 22 year old chick so most people in the right circumstances they're gonna cave

00:54:40.960 some people for like different things right i can actually go without for a long time if i really

00:54:46.720 need to i've done i'm not i don't want to again this is tmi this is tmi uh but there's things

00:54:51.920 that are are you know more of pain points for me and that's food i would actually say food is my

00:54:56.080 biggest addiction um but usually and that's why i talk about fat people a lot and that's kind of

00:55:00.800 the psychology behind it the more people say like you're bad because you're this the more

00:55:05.120 they usually struggle with that sin beautiful powerful thing is wheat compared to like your

00:55:09.680 intellect like they're like oh if you have a high iq or whatever you're smarter but then

00:55:14.480 the fall happened because the woman wanted knowledge you know so it's it's almost like this

00:55:20.480 weird thing i'm doing yeah curiosity um so instead like i like how her solution is not

00:55:27.120 maybe we should stop trying to learn things and know things um and instead it's more um

00:55:41.840 instead it's it's more now i need to provide the knowledge as a woman that's not traditional

00:55:47.040 whole thesis on it to try to get into it but it's you almost told everything that makes you a woman 0.60

00:55:51.280 makes you weak so dress more like a man act no look at you are weak as a woman and let's stop 1.00

00:55:57.040 keep it a buck like you guys are not strong women you're weak women we're all weak look if anyone 0.94

00:56:02.080 caved like started yelling at me i'm just gonna say you're right i'll see ya we're like a man in

00:56:07.520 order to get succeed and that was in the 2010s and men in churches are often told like oh anything

00:56:15.040 male is like bad so then be more kind of like women like the toxically masculine thing yeah 0.98

00:56:22.320 it's like masculinity is toxic um and it's like they focus more on kind of men issues and like 0.91

00:56:27.680 sins overall what a powerful perspective when you really consider the fact that we are created in

00:56:34.960 the divine image of god our nature was given to us for a reason on purpose and to bring this back

00:56:40.960 to the sex and intimacy conversation the longer i've been married and i know i'm still pretty

00:56:45.680 new at this so i'm still learning on the job the more i've realized that even the marital act of

00:56:50.800 intimacy itself is supposed to reflect our nature as men and women men give women receive and what

00:56:56.640 women receive they will multiply they will create something out of as we create babies and bring new 1.00

00:57:00.960 life into the world why do you think we're not quite as explicit in our conversation about that

00:57:06.400 and we instead just never address the physicality aspect of how god created us i don't know and it's

00:57:12.960 very interesting i think it's more of an americanized idea because when you go to italy or

00:57:17.840 other countries that i guess are more catholic um it is like you see like beauty and nudity like

00:57:24.080 they're just more comfortable with it but because we were formed more in a puritan kind of quaker

00:57:30.240 way it's a little bit more you're either one extreme or the other and i feel like not really

00:57:36.240 um there's there's you know i could do a show on the different types of horrors there's a lot

00:57:40.880 of different types um there's horrors that go in and out of the game where they go in the game 0.93

00:57:44.880 they whore a little bit to get a relationship then they whore out then there's women that are 1.00

00:57:48.320 constantly whoring no matter where they're at horror horror there's women that whore for a 1.00

00:57:52.960 period and then stop there's there's different different types of um whores you know that's not 1.00

00:57:58.720 good for society overall to either be like oh everything is bad i got something to go to so i

00:58:03.760 gotta bounce but um i i think i'll do a part two on this tomorrow i i've enjoyed i've enjoyed this

00:58:11.840 i think this was a fun convo so i i hope women keep talking because i'll have content forever 1.00

00:58:16.160 1955. remember that um if i have time tomorrow i'm gonna film some reactions but i might do part two

00:58:22.560 like the video, subscribe to the channel. Thank you so much for watching and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - March 28, 2026

Trad Women Care About Status Not Jesus

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