Pearl - Trad Women Want The Ring Not The Man ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 what is up guys what up what up welcome to another episode of pearl daily where i cover

00:00:11.360 this week's treachery debauchery and craziness um today we're gonna start with a song because

00:00:17.280 you guys know i love singing i love i love me a good a good sing you know and since i i made this

00:00:27.260 show myself. Some people are saying, Pearl, put the keyboard down. Don't do it. I don't

00:00:34.300 care. No, no, no. I designed this show myself. So Blessing's going to come out. People, he

00:00:41.440 has some fans now in the chat, right, Blessing? All right. Are you coming? Yep. Okay. Yeah,

00:00:52.060 So we're going to do another original song.

00:01:00.560 All right, he's coming.

00:01:04.980 The Disco.

00:01:08.940 Why are we working?

00:01:10.300 They're arguing about Christianity and Muslims in the chat.

00:01:13.740 This is not a religion channel.

00:01:15.180 There's many other channels you can go to for your religious needs.

00:01:19.020 Although Blessing is a pastor, right, Blessing?

00:01:22.060 maybe we'll make blessing have a pastor channel you want to do that blessing

00:01:52.060 I'm trying to hold back for now

00:01:57.740 Cause I've never felt like this before

00:02:05.520 You're too good for me, that's for sure

00:02:17.720 This love is so divine

00:02:21.660 You make me want to take my time

00:02:29.900 A guy like you is hard to find

00:02:37.440 Cause that's a lot of power to give someone

00:02:44.020 And I'm afraid you'll up and run

00:02:48.160 I feel like I'm drunk when I'm so sober

00:02:53.640 If I fall in love with you, it's over

00:03:01.460 You're the one I'll never get over 0.99

00:03:09.100 Could fall in love, but damn, I shouldn't 0.97

00:03:18.160 I'd give you my heart but I wish I wouldn't 0.98

00:03:25.420 And maybe I'm too closed off

00:03:31.280 But is the risk really worth the cost?

00:03:35.100 You got the upper hand and I can't fight it

00:03:40.540 I'm falling for you but trying to deny it

00:03:49.060 Cause that's a lot of power to give someone

00:03:54.160 And I'm afraid you'll up and run

00:03:57.840 I feel like I'm drunk when I'm so sober

00:04:03.200 If I fall in love with you it's over

00:04:10.520 You're the one I'll never get over

00:04:17.780 Good job on the keys, Blessing.

00:04:32.360 They said this is horrible.

00:04:33.880 you know jerry then you do it you do it jerry

00:04:42.880 oh cynthia says good song they said woo and please stop

00:04:50.780 well i mean what i'm hearing is there's some room for improvement

00:04:56.800 anyways anyways anyways all right guys so the the idea of that song was actually comprised of like

00:05:10.520 the alpha widow so you know the idea basically that if a guy is like the best a chick can do 0.98

00:05:18.040 she'll never get over him so i thought i thought i could make that song you know

00:05:24.800 if I fall in love with you it's over you're the one I'll never get over get it get it get it okay

00:05:35.040 they said Jerry's jealous in the chat yeah you're right Jerry is jealous yeah yeah that we're gonna

00:05:42.760 go with that one hater anyways okay so today I actually wanted to react to a video that I saw 0.94

00:05:52.880 from, let me find this chick's name. Where is it? I must have not pulled it up yet. Okay, so there's 1.00

00:05:59.900 this conservative commentator that I've seen. And she seems like a nice chick, but I think a lot of

00:06:07.960 tradcon women live in delusion. And the reason I harp on tradcon women so much is because I find 1.00

00:06:16.460 them very annoying. And I find them very annoying because they play pretend. You know, there's a 1.00

00:06:23.680 reason I don't come on here and try to paint myself as so better, so different. I, you know,

00:06:31.000 I'm just, I'm a normal chick. All right. That's what I try to say. I have the same faults every

00:06:35.480 other chick has. But a lot of times trad con women, they just love to sell dreams and act 1.00

00:06:44.120 like there is special and different women in the church and not all women are women and yada yada

00:06:52.080 yada and I think a lot of times men sort of play pretend because it's easier you know it's much

00:06:59.040 easier for men to go along with a woman's delusion than fight and I think many times as women I mean 0.98

00:07:11.220 we go through life never having someone say that we're just chatting a bunch of shit 1.00

00:07:18.280 blessing have you ever seen have you ever bitten your tongue around a woman 0.99

00:07:22.040 of course have you ever had a chick truly believe that maybe you just met you could say no you can

00:07:29.240 always say no just you know and um i'm just curious have you ever met a chick that truly 1.00

00:07:35.240 believed she was something she wasn't yep i mean and that's what i see with these tradcon women an 0.97

00:07:42.640 example was on twitter the other day i saw this woman say that she would not sign a prenup

00:07:52.280 and she would not take a dna test and she felt like it was wrong of a man to ask that

00:07:59.200 and you know my question is aren't you a bit out of order telling your husband what he can and can't

00:08:04.840 ask of you. But we don't want to have that conversation, do we? Right, Blessing? Right.

00:08:17.540 No, and I seriously, because I thought, you know, if you submit to your husband in all things,

00:08:22.420 like, you know, you say you do, why are you not submitting to his request for a prenup?

00:08:31.060 So, you know what? I'm actually going to do two videos today. So, the first video I'm going to do, now, when I see a trad feminist, what makes a woman a trad feminist? Okay. I'm going to, I'm going to stand up for this one. 0.52

00:08:46.240 all right so what do i think of when i think of a woman that is in order now if a woman is 0.61

00:09:04.320 in order it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with her age fertility it's you know

00:09:10.240 I think there's a natural order of the world. It goes, God, right? Men, women, children.

00:09:25.900 Oh, shit, I spelled children wrong. Okay. Now, when I think of a woman that's in order, 1.00

00:09:33.060 she is deferring to the authority of the men in her life. If she's unmarried, it's her father. 0.69

00:09:40.240 If she is married, it would be her husband. 0.80

00:09:43.640 So if a woman says her husband could not ask her for a DNA test or a prenup, 0.82

00:09:51.460 she's out of order because she is putting herself here.

00:09:56.620 She's saying, I am equal and I have an equal say in this.

00:10:04.560 That's out of order.

00:10:05.780 And it goes back to what I said last time.

00:10:12.220 Does the woman, is the woman's number one priority her husband? 0.93

00:10:17.640 We could look at Nikki Haley, for example.

00:10:20.020 On paper, she's been married 20 plus years.

00:10:23.160 But how could her husband be happy if she's flying all over the country running for president?

00:10:30.740 Her husband would not be her number one priority. 1.00

00:10:34.140 if a woman was to run for office which i fear the day we have a woman president 1.00

00:10:42.040 oh yeah by the way guys go to the audacity network.com please sign up for our memberships 0.97

00:10:46.700 thank you blessing um i i it would be better if she was unmarried in my opinion but i fear that 1.00

00:10:54.620 i do not want that nope nope nope and that that's so when i say a trad feminist okay trad 1.00

00:11:02.840 feminists have a tendency to want all of the freedom. So they want the freedom to marry who 1.00

00:11:08.940 they want, to do what they want, but they don't give their husbands the responsibility or the 1.00

00:11:14.900 authority. For example, many times they may say that they allow their husbands to, many times they

00:11:22.020 may say that their husband has the authority in their relationship. But if you look at videos of

00:11:27.120 them and their husband talking, they're constantly cutting off their husband. If a question is asked

00:11:33.480 to the couple, the man doesn't answer it first, the woman often does. And you might think, Pearl,

00:11:39.620 that's not a big deal. But it shows whose authority they're deferring to. For example,

00:11:46.480 if you were at work and they asked a group of you a question about the workplace,

00:11:53.960 Everyone would look to the boss to answer.

00:11:57.380 And if a low-level employee started answering all the questions,

00:12:02.100 you would kind of look at them funny.

00:12:04.520 You would think, is that the person in charge? 1.00

00:12:06.720 That's how many women look with their husbands. 1.00

00:12:11.040 Many times also the trad women, the husbands, 0.95

00:12:15.420 and I believe that simp husbands cannot submit to God.

00:12:19.440 oftentimes you'll see the husband saying my wife built me up i thought god built you up

00:12:28.720 now the what again he's deferring all of his success to the wife okay so now legally 1.00

00:12:39.440 trad feminists now shame men for not wanting to provide for their family or not wanting to take 1.00

00:12:46.360 100% of the bills. But again, who are you, trad feminists, to tell men how to talk, to tell men 1.00

00:12:54.980 what they should do in their household? It seems a bit out of order. And so that's what I look for.

00:13:02.660 Okay. Again, I look for patterns of behavior. That's what I, that's what I do.

00:13:11.340 I am sure I will think of some more ways that I can tell throughout this. 1.00

00:13:21.940 Like, for example, another thing, trad feminists, they want traditional treatment. 1.00

00:13:27.420 They want the doors opened and they want to be stay-at-home mothers. 1.00

00:13:30.980 Well, if you're not married before 25, you know, you're not really a traditional chick. 0.94

00:13:37.800 So why do you want the freedom to not marry before 25 without the responsibility of paying for it?

00:13:46.660 Okay.

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00:13:49.720 You can also buy her merch.

00:13:51.300 We have Whale merch, Audacity merch, and she belongs to the streets merch, so feel free. 0.99

00:13:58.280 and okay so I saw this video of this chick I think her name is Alex Clark right here

00:14:06.460 and I saw a video of her talking about I think it's like a year old of her being single and I 0.99

00:14:15.880 wanted to tell you what I thought the issue was because she couldn't figure out like what her 0.91

00:14:19.880 issue was and again this isn't to hate on her but I think a lot of times women go through life never

00:14:27.260 getting the correct information yeah so we're gonna we're gonna play this

00:14:37.260 we're gonna aim for then some peace when you say that you feel some pain around this you've

00:14:43.340 mentioned that i think twice now that you have it's very painful for you to walk through this

00:14:47.500 season are you referring to the fact that you are single or the idea that you may never have a spouse

00:14:53.980 I think it's the it's more of the idea that I'll never have a spouse I think that I always thought

00:15:00.980 my entire life I would be married with kids by 25 when that didn't happen I thought oh it's going

00:15:06.180 to happen by 30 and now that I'm at 30 and I still haven't found that person I'm like oh no

00:15:11.640 and you just had your 30th birthday so it's kind of a realization yeah and I think that the I was

00:15:18.620 dreading my 30th birthday because I knew that that that approaching my 30th birthday meant

00:15:25.340 um coming to terms with not accomplishing one of my big life goals which was to be married and

00:15:31.340 be a mom yet so now I feel that pressure even more of I need to find somebody that's right for

00:15:37.800 me and get married and have kids because my biological clock is ticking and I think a lot

00:15:42.640 of women my age if they're not married yet they feel that pressure yeah that makes sense

00:15:48.780 So when you say that you thought you were going to get married and have kids at 25 and then 30,

00:15:55.420 what gave you that thought growing up?

00:15:57.420 Tell us a little bit about your background, your upbringing that led you to these ideas.

00:16:02.480 Well, my parents have been married for over 30 years.

00:16:05.760 I grew up in a Christian conservative home.

00:16:07.780 They were high school.

00:16:08.440 So I'll say the first thing is the Christian church has not figured out how to date in the modern age. 0.97

00:16:14.800 So the Christian church keeps saying, you know, date traditional, date traditional, but they don't really facilitate arranged marriages, which is more traditional.

00:16:25.520 And I'm not even saying they can, but, you know, the Christian churches don't typically do a great job of getting people together.

00:16:35.960 That's one.

00:16:37.240 And two, other issue.

00:16:42.260 Actually, I'm going to wait.

00:16:43.120 I'm going to wait.

00:16:43.620 I'm going to play more. 0.78

00:16:44.100 sweethearts. I assumed that since my parents met at such a young age and have stayed married and

00:16:49.220 very happily married, I've never seen my parents fight. Now I've seen them have disagreements,

00:16:54.060 but I've never seen my parents have a knockout, drag out fight or anything like that. They've

00:16:59.120 seemed to really be good at communicating with each other over the years. I just assumed that

00:17:05.580 marriage, because it came so easy to them, that it would come easy to me. And so I would enter all

00:17:12.060 of these serious relationships with various boyfriends thinking if i put up front what i'm

00:17:17.300 looking for and what i want that that's going to bode better for me so i always you know even on

00:17:24.400 the first date i say i'm dating for marriage this is what i'm looking for different things like that

00:17:29.160 and every time the guy says oh absolutely i agree i'm looking for the same thing and then like

00:17:36.580 clockwork about six months to a year in every boyfriend i have had will say i didn't know it

00:17:42.340 was going to get this serious i'm not ready okay so notice how again christian women are taught

00:17:51.780 that it's our timeline and not theirs and my question is do we as women do we want the man

00:17:58.500 or do we want the children and many time women want children more than the man and the men

00:18:06.340 can feel it. They don't feel special. They feel like a sperm donor because that's all she's

00:18:14.580 thinking about. My biological clock is ticking. You know, if she at 22 or 21 found one guy,

00:18:24.360 I mean, she has really, if she has 10 years to prove that she's wife material 0.86

00:18:30.220 and to prove her a good guy, right?

00:18:34.240 I mean, you vet him, good character, et cetera.

00:18:36.820 But rather than, you know, what we'll do is we'll wait until our late 20s

00:18:43.060 and then make it the men's problem.

00:18:46.020 We want to be married tomorrow.

00:18:48.160 We want to have children tomorrow.

00:18:50.020 Well, then, you know, life has choices and trade-offs.

00:18:54.420 and I think you know the average number of years before you even get a ring is three years now

00:19:03.680 and I think that we should just adjust our expectations because right now

00:19:08.820 the price of marriage is higher than ever before in your late 20s early 30s you're not really

00:19:16.580 bring in the value that younger women are bringing and pressure on a guy isn't really

00:19:24.520 going to help anything ready for the idea of marriage i'm not ready for serious commitment

00:19:29.380 every time and so i get i and then the other question is why do these men feel that way

00:19:36.440 because you know if we're getting to one two and three guys that all feel the same way they're not

00:19:41.800 ready for commitment, you know, then we have to figure out what the issue, like, what would

00:19:47.320 they say was the problem? Because many times men, you know, when they meet a woman that

00:19:56.140 assures that, like, that they feel is the right person and would be a good wife and

00:20:00.700 a mother, they're a lot more willing to commit.

00:20:05.700 Very invested, and I'm taking it very seriously, and then I put, you know, it's, I have to

00:20:10.860 And guys in the chat, I want to hear from the men's point of view, too.

00:20:14.620 Blessing, you feel free to add in, you know, and I'll read it.

00:20:18.640 Because I really want to hear from the guy's point of view when you're watching this.

00:20:22.740 Like, what is the problem?

00:20:24.080 What would help her?

00:20:26.000 All over, essentially.

00:20:28.800 Which probably brings up another fear of, okay, puts a lot of pressure on that first meeting if you're worried about.

00:20:36.400 Yeah. And in the chat, you know, most of the people I know getting married, to be honest, because I think of I think of my brothers, they would be like, I guess, like they're all tall.

00:20:46.580 They're all make six figures plus. Each one of their girlfriends had to wait five years plus to marry him.

00:20:55.700 I'm not I'm not saying you should or you shouldn't. But again, they wanted to be sure the woman was invested in them.

00:21:01.340 and because all of them met their girlfriends young and their girlfriends prioritized them young

00:21:07.220 they ended up getting the ring but they had to prove we we have to you know men have so much to

00:21:13.600 lose now we they have so much to lose that you know men that most of the men i've interviewed

00:21:21.900 that got screwed in divorce only dated the chick one to two years and i think you know once we get

00:21:29.240 to our late 20s early 30s I think the mindset what has to change to be that

00:21:34.400 we didn't prioritize that and we're lucky to get children because more and

00:21:42.680 more men it's getting too risky for them to have children okay are you just gonna 0.99

00:21:49.100 let me down like all the other guys have and how much pressure do I put on this

00:21:52.540 since they feel the pressure to now so probably puts you in a predicament like

00:21:57.560 why go looking like have you felt that like or are you actively really still looking or is it

00:22:04.300 kind of like I'm not sure if I want to put myself out there again and experience this this pain

00:22:09.500 I think since my last most recent relationship it's been I don't even feel like putting myself

00:22:16.460 out there because that is the conundrum I'm in of I understand that time is of the essence and I'm at

00:22:23.760 an age where I can't just be messing around and date somebody for fun for a year and a half to

00:22:27.840 two years okay and and still there's no like what she's gonna offer him you know all of this is like

00:22:36.380 me me me what I want there there's no what what can you know because and I don't I don't mean this

00:22:42.620 to harp on you know us older chicks right late 20s 30s late 30s single mothers all overweight

00:22:50.880 chicks but you have to understand the value we're bringing is just less than ever before

00:22:56.320 so how are you making up for it how are we making up for an assuring men that were good picks right 0.70

00:23:04.880 but then you know with my ex he's like i love you all right yeah she looks like the type of woman

00:23:09.840 who will divorce in two years because she's not happy he isn't following because he isn't following 0.93

00:23:15.360 what she wants yes like i just want you guys i just i think this is just helpful for the ladies

00:23:20.800 to understand how how men with options will see this naive men okay that's one thing they're they're

00:23:27.440 a different category there show the whiteboard out of order right we don't want men that are out of 0.98

00:23:33.360 order we want men that are in order um so you know when when we're talking and and yeah yes let me

00:23:43.760 listen again and i want to spend forever with you but i feel that pressure of your timeline

00:23:48.400 and i am i'm not on the same timeline even though he was older than me and in his later 30s than me

00:23:54.000 as a man today he still didn't feel that pressure of i need to be married and have kids by 35 for

00:23:59.840 example whereas i i'm like if i want to have kids i have to face that biological reality and so the

00:24:08.320 guys complain that it's putting unfair pressure on them and it's not a it is unfair pressure and

00:24:12.800 And again, it's making your decision someone else's problem.

00:24:18.300 That's the issue we're getting into. 1.00

00:24:21.720 And what happens with a lot of these trad chicks is they're, you know, 1.00

00:24:26.360 I believe that women will be happier childless with a man they love.

00:24:31.540 And a woman's purpose should be her husband, not her children. 1.00

00:24:35.220 Because if you make the purpose your kids, again, it's show it again.

00:24:40.640 it's out of order out of order because you're submitting to your children and not your husband

00:24:48.120 if you find a guy that you really love you're attracted to you you have to get on his program

00:24:54.000 not yours his timeline not yours it's about what he wants and you know again the issue we get back

00:25:02.620 to is this makes our decisions someone else's problem uh bill yeah i'm just gonna add as well

00:25:09.340 So, like, I think over time as well, you can kind of tell someone's character

00:25:13.260 because someone can only pretend for so long.

00:25:15.860 So I think after dating for a while as well, you've had enough problems

00:25:20.340 to actually see if marriage is the ideal scenario for the both of you

00:25:24.980 or you're just wasting your time as well.

00:25:26.980 Wait, say that again.

00:25:28.020 Like, after a long period of time, you would have had enough, like,

00:25:30.920 relationship problems to actually see if you're going to stick it out

00:25:33.640 or this person is not going to heck it for the future.

00:25:36.980 So I think dating for a while gives you that timeline to be able to access someone's character.

00:25:43.680 Yeah, well, because, yeah, and as a guy, like, you guys have so much to lose.

00:25:47.720 It's like guys have to, you know, work their ass off.

00:25:50.760 And, you know, I don't know if you hear it like this, but the way I hear it is,

00:25:55.040 these guys didn't do what I wanted, so I left.

00:26:00.860 I don't know.

00:26:01.460 That's how I hear it.

00:26:02.480 I don't know.

00:26:02.740 Maybe you do.

00:26:03.240 Maybe you don't.

00:26:03.920 Guys in the chat, let me know, too.

00:26:06.980 the the timeline thing do you know because i was thinking if she had three serious relationships 1.00

00:26:12.580 that would have been like let's just say two years each 22 to 24 maybe there's a year 25 to 27 27 to

00:26:21.040 like you know yeah but then i would have to find out why those relationships ended maybe there's

00:26:26.640 something that she's she's hiding hiding yeah okay yeah because so when you hear that you don't believe

00:26:34.460 it three serious relationships like what's what's wrong you need to find out what's wrong

00:26:41.100 yeah because you you would hear

00:26:45.020 but but she said it's because they they wouldn't get on her timeline like they they didn't want

00:26:49.100 anything serious so as a guy what does your mind go to i was saying three serious relationship if

00:26:55.020 if the guy if she stuck it out with one guy then she would have go what she wanted yeah yeah that's

00:26:59.420 what i said okay natural pressure that feeling um to speed things along and i'm like but i don't 0.90

00:27:07.260 have a choice so you know poop or get off the pot basically and guys hate this poop or get off the 0.92

00:27:17.340 pot again that's that's it's out of order because who who are you to tell a man what his timeline

00:27:24.060 should be and again you know if we and i didn't either so this isn't even like a judgment but

00:27:31.440 it's just like uh we gotta list think about things from the men's point of view we made these choices

00:27:37.080 right so it's not really fair to rush guys you know myron says guys should be in a situationship

00:27:45.260 talking phase for a year before you even make a chick your girlfriend and you might think okay

00:27:51.000 that's really long that's not fair men have a lot to lose even like look at nina agdahl

00:27:59.960 uh logan paul is gonna be a laughing stock forever because of that woman so i mean he

00:28:07.400 he didn't leave so you know okay yeah and even like this couple in the corner it seems like an

00:28:15.720 out-of-order relationship because they defer to her her authority not his like she's the one kind 0.99

00:28:21.240 of asking running it it looks like just from my little clips that's really interesting because

00:28:27.480 well you said for guys that's not a natural impulse but i know a lot of guys who do want to be dads

00:28:33.000 yeah so like i'm i'm interested in that of like okay why are the guys that you're finding

00:28:39.880 aren't really necessarily interested in that or that timeline yeah yeah where are you where do

00:28:47.000 you meet these guys that's a value that's a value thing okay because i would want to know like what

00:28:52.600 did you guys fight about in those relationships like what yeah because you know but that's the

00:29:01.000 they're they're being nice they're not asking like that's what i loved about kevin samuels he was so

00:29:05.320 good at like asking the tough questions i have met guys and gone on dates with people in every

00:29:12.520 scenario that you can think of okay being set up by friends people i've met at church meeting

00:29:18.200 somebody out uh somebody at work um i've gone on a reality dating show so i have done everything

00:29:28.280 everything and that's and i've also been i think pretty good about dating different types of guys

00:29:34.280 so i have tried to date guys that are same religious beliefs as me different same political

00:29:39.240 views as me different skinny fat tan not tan every race where does your mind go blessing

00:29:50.200 no direction okay i mean i have done everything so i feel like you know people like don't be too

00:29:54.920 close-minded you know don't have like a certain list i have a big picture list but i've tried to

00:30:00.760 give myself wiggle room to you know see if that opens more doors and no matter what i do it doesn't

00:30:07.480 seem to work so she looks like the nagging 24 7 type um they said she's hiding major details 0.99

00:30:15.880 giving off narcissism she seems very full of herself it's all ending in the same way even

00:30:23.160 when i feel like i'm following the right rules of only a christian only a conservative either way

00:30:29.720 it's panning out the same so then i start thinking okay well this but you know you can't say that

00:30:35.640 you want a traditional conservative guy like you know it's like we want it all and we just we can't

00:30:41.640 have it all life has choices and trade-offs so if you want you know a traditional conservative guy

00:30:48.680 do we at least give him obedience because what you're saying earlier is that you didn't obey

00:30:54.680 his timeline you wanted your timeline you wanted your way um yeah so must be a combination of

00:31:04.120 my personality is driving guys away and or maybe they're not ready for commitment okay because

00:31:11.320 you've you've kind of outlined the common denominator of commitment you said all of

00:31:15.160 these guys and how many at this point like a range i have only been in serious relationships

00:31:21.400 since i was 15 pretty consistently i mean there's been periods of singleness in between but i i

00:31:27.000 always if i'm dating somebody officially it's always long term i would say sign probably my

00:31:39.320 it's called making up sorry i don't know if that's me 20s three or four significant boyfriends and

00:31:47.240 relationships okay okay so three or four and all all three or four of these guys have said

00:31:53.560 common denominator here is i'm not ready i'm not ready to follow that timeline that you

00:31:58.360 alex give me their numbers we'll figure it out we'll see what they say

00:32:04.200 i'm also guys i'll call any of your exes to see how they would describe you in the relationship

00:32:10.360 women and men you know just so you know dm me your ex's numbers you are you're ready to get

00:32:16.280 married and have babies i'm not is that right correct and i feel like i say hey you know if

00:32:23.240 we start dating and it's serious i really don't want to date for longer than two years before

00:32:27.880 start starting to think about engagement and they usually always say that they agree with 1.00

00:32:33.400 that timeline and then that's when they say no because i average look at ladies this is this 0.67

00:32:39.480 is the average right now and i'm just saying we got to adjust our expectations right now

00:32:45.320 on average three years three years of dating oftentimes there may be a one-year talking phase

00:32:55.720 that's four years a year engagement five years

00:33:02.200 i hope the younger women you know i hope you guys

00:33:07.720 learn because none of us thought about this five years

00:33:11.000 we'll be lucky to get one kid

00:33:16.260 i'm just saying adjust our expectations we we totally agree with that timeline oh yeah i think

00:33:24.560 that if you don't know within two years then yeah i mean and we we even said on your podcast like

00:33:30.240 know within a year even but dating a full two years makes sense um but making it longer than

00:33:37.340 that really there is no point for most couples and and you've said that to these guys they agree 1.00

00:33:44.060 in the beginning and then it starts to change their tune changes six to 12 months in well the

00:33:50.420 caveat is they all say well i'm not ready for that sort of commitment because i am not making x amount

00:33:56.280 of money a year because i want to have this much money in my savings account so what would be a

00:34:00.880 good answer to that how can i help you babe right you know because you know that's what i would

00:34:12.840 think right no you tell me blessing yeah right support me not okay i'm leaving

00:34:22.920 you know and again if we all did this at 22 it's like okay then you could get your marriage and

00:34:32.960 kid by 30 so that i can have a house and have a family and there's always seems to be i would say

00:34:40.040 with millennial men what i'm noticing is they have this uh certain number then i would ask like how

00:34:46.640 many meals a week did you cook for him are you willing to quit your job to support his job

00:34:51.820 like what what was the you know that's they said drizzle i don't understand the drizzle drizzle

00:34:59.660 trend do you understand it blessing no what's going on everyone's a drizzle drizzle year that

00:35:06.080 they feel like they need to achieve or they can't even think about having a family or getting engaged

00:35:10.800 which is so different from previous generations i mean my parents were dirt poor when they first

00:35:16.640 got married and you know eventually once they had me and everything i always grew up in a 0.84

00:35:21.440 And it'd be interesting to hear how she's prepared to be a wife, you know, because she

00:35:25.320 talks about biological clock timeline, you know, how much effort have you put into learning 0.96

00:35:33.200 to cook the last couple of years?

00:35:36.120 I don't know.

00:35:36.780 Have you spent time with children to prepare for like, what are you doing to prepare for

00:35:42.040 that?

00:35:43.240 I would say a little above middle class family, but we weren't destitute.

00:35:48.020 But when my parents first got married, I mean, they pretty much had nothing.

00:35:51.100 it seemed like the goal was in previous generations to get married and then figure

00:35:57.260 out those life hurdles together whereas now it seems like both men and women are trying to

00:36:04.160 achieve certain life milestones of women don't want the build men no they do not give me your 0.97

00:36:12.900 ex's number i'll ask i'll ask you know someone's a google soft guy okay heart and then they think

00:36:23.780 if i hit these different steps then we can get married yeah and so that's pushing timelines so

00:36:29.000 far back it's true yeah and i wonder if these guys yeah and that's the other thing so if you're

00:36:34.480 30 as a chick i would date 45 to 50. i would i would use the youth while you have it that's

00:36:44.560 what i would do i would not i would not date men your age because they're going to want women 1.00

00:36:49.400 younger than you and i'm saying the ones you've dated but guys in general like see a woman who

00:36:55.540 is successful in her own right yeah um and and are they a bit intimidated by that that's a cope

00:37:04.480 or i i think it's let me know what you think you're a man blessing i i think that that's a

00:37:11.760 cope women when women say that men are intimidated by them i i think it's just their personality's

00:37:19.040 really masculine what do you think uh intimidate no i don't think so it's just more like

00:37:29.320 yeah you just you just carry too much you know nonsense or baggage you know that's that's how 0.64

00:37:37.700 we look at it it's not really like when intimidated by you yeah yeah they said she's got crazy yeah

00:37:44.340 yeah because that's the other thing like when you're saying you're like trad and you you have

00:37:48.340 very obvious like botox use like i don't know her face looks like it's had work done so it's kind of 1.00

00:37:57.220 Christian conservative women with boob jobs you're like like it's one thing I'll tell you what it's 1.00

00:38:04.780 one thing if you're selling you know but like one thing but it's another thing when it doesn't match 0.86

00:38:11.820 it kind of makes people not trust you but you know it's just me mentioned personality but I don't

00:38:17.480 know that it's personality as much as it's other factors well when I say personality I always think

00:38:23.360 compared to a lot of other women i'm so sure of myself in in a way that i almost wonder if it's

00:38:28.960 detrimental so like i know what brand of baby food i want to give my kids one day like it's

00:38:34.560 it's um it's honestly psychotic there it is control freak yeah that's it

00:38:42.400 again that's out of order it's out of order it's like when women say they've picked their baby names

00:38:49.200 like you have to think about how this makes a guy feel okay the guy is coming in

00:38:57.820 and you know christian conservative women they want him to be this leader right and you already

00:39:04.360 have the brand of baby food that your kids are going to eat you have their names picked out

00:39:09.120 like you have everything your way the way you want how is he going to feel special

00:39:14.260 like like you guys may you're gonna make a guy feel like a sperm donor because you have

00:39:19.980 everything you want you have this biological clock where's the guy i mean that's how that's

00:39:28.240 how i hear what do you hear blessing am i yeah just marry yourself i can at least admit that

00:39:35.960 about myself but i know so much i know where i want to live how i want to school my kids things

00:39:41.500 Oh, there. Yeah, that's it. Yeah. That's the other thing. Yeah. Trad Christian women always 1.00

00:39:50.960 feel like they know more than they do. And again, this is why, guys, I truly believe this in my

00:39:56.860 soul. Men are smarter than us. And if you don't treat the guy you're with like he's smarter than

00:40:02.440 you, you're just going to belittle him for a lifetime. The same way when you have a boss

00:40:07.540 and you ask him what you're supposed to do, you ask him for instruction, that's the dynamic we're

00:40:13.460 supposed to have with our husbands. But it's out of order because we'll do that with a guy that's

00:40:20.080 paying us for money, but we won't do that with a guy that's giving us children. So

00:40:26.480 again, if she has everything planned out the way she wants, you're going to make,

00:40:36.140 how are you going to make a man feel like a man? Oh, baby, where are we going to send our kids to 0.99

00:40:41.980 school? Oh, I already know. This is, we're going to send our kids to school here. We're going to

00:40:46.400 do this. We're going to do this. We're going to do this. And men don't like controlling women

00:40:51.300 because marriage, you have to relinquish control. It just, it doesn't work. The women that do not 1.00

00:41:00.640 relinquish control in marriage end up miserable bitches and they hate their husbands because 1.00

00:41:05.460 their husbands whenever the relationship is out of order oh my god it's just hell i mean the women 1.00

00:41:13.460 hate their husbands most women in their you know even in their 20s and early 30s probably until

00:41:20.100 they have the baby don't even think about so i have in my mind pre-planned so much of my life

00:41:26.420 so that when these subjects come up in dating of what do you think you'd want with this and this

00:41:31.060 i have like every answer figured out and so

00:41:36.260 i have never had a guy ask me where i want to send my kids to school i feel like she's bringing it up

00:41:45.940 like would a guy ask what baby food like i just can't

00:41:53.780 maybe the living thing but i'm just i'm just thinking you say it maybe that intimidates guys

00:41:59.460 I almost think that my weird, small things that I have figured out might be more intimidating than the amount of money I make or what I do for a living.

00:42:08.720 Yeah, it's not that you've figured it out.

00:42:10.340 It's the controlling aspect.

00:42:12.920 That's what's turning the guys off, I think.

00:42:19.460 Right blessing, no blessing.

00:42:22.900 I like to hear from the guy's point of view.

00:42:25.760 So you can tell me if you think I'm off, but that's how I hear it.

00:42:29.460 uh let me come back to you okay that's fine always kind of wondered that you know like she

00:42:37.540 already knows what she wants and everything yeah i think it's a both and yeah because like i'll

00:42:43.080 speak from my experience here i totally fit that millennial my art did fit that millennial mind

00:42:50.360 also guys please get a yearly membership if you can i know it's annoying you're like 80 bucks i

00:42:57.520 don't want to spend 80 but i i get it but blessing's been adding some awesome commentary and keys and

00:43:04.340 we just want to pay him this month right blessing and i'm i'm doing everything i'm i'm playing

00:43:09.280 keyboard talking now showing my face brother out man yeah you know just how seriously guys

00:43:17.900 there's a couple people we want to sign but we have to make sure we can cover the utilities and

00:43:23.100 It's just freaking YouTube has been rough.

00:43:25.920 So sign up if you can.

00:43:27.220 I understand if you can't.

00:43:28.380 Also, you can sign up to our email list.

00:43:30.580 A lot of times I'll, it's kind of like a diary entry almost.

00:43:33.960 I'll tell you what I'm doing that week and just like thoughts I had on the world, society,

00:43:38.160 et cetera.

00:43:39.680 Like I need to have everything figured out because I'm marrying this amazing person that 0.75

00:43:43.780 like knows exactly where she wants to go in life.

00:43:46.820 This is very much Carissa.

00:43:49.020 And if it wasn't for my dad who came out to us when we were in Oregon and said,

00:43:52.560 um have you guys considered as in we were sitting on a picnic blanket and he came out of the house

00:43:58.480 and talked to us not came out in another way yeah he could see but he could see love in us and we

00:44:03.500 were very committed we wanted each other but we were holding ourselves back for this

00:44:07.280 oh we got three signups we got mark i'm sorry guys uh matthew

00:44:13.340 and another matthew thank you guys for signing up you sent a super chat on the website oh he did

00:44:20.180 yes sorry i can't pull it up while i'm watching the video but go ahead go ahead uh ten dollar

00:44:25.600 super chat i allowed my fiance to pick out the ring she wanted and then a month later she broke

00:44:32.140 up with me over text and declined to give back the ring when i asked for it she took the ring 1.00

00:44:40.000 and didn't want to give it back what a bitch ethereal number that was in her head in my head 1.00

00:44:47.260 of like I need to have this and this and this because if money spells success if a car or what 1.00

00:44:53.800 my material possessions spell success for me then how am I going to bring a woman that is successful 1.00

00:45:00.280 how I view her and offer quotes air quotes here nothing so then therefore I need to have something 0.76

00:45:08.480 to offer in order to feel that we're evenly matched even if I'm bringing my personality

00:45:14.600 and my love my everything that you would want i'm still holding myself back because i don't see

00:45:19.240 myself as enough yeah so part of it could be the money piece but i like what you said alex that

00:45:27.240 maybe the intimidating factor is not so much the money but it's how confident you are you've

00:45:34.280 figured things out to some extent and and they catch on to that pretty quick

00:45:45.240 oh my gosh the band guys why do we have to play like this is right there

00:45:50.040 that is what i call playing pretend blessing have you ever guys let me know in the chat

00:45:57.800 have you ever turned down a chick because you just thought she is too confident she 0.96

00:46:02.760 She has too much self-esteem.

00:46:07.600 There's a difference between confidence and controlling and arrogant.

00:46:16.340 Confidence really is quiet.

00:46:19.240 It's not, I know everything, I want to do everything.

00:46:21.960 Like, there's something about, there's a difference.

00:46:24.900 yeah a lot a lot of times women say they're confident but they're actually just 1.00

00:46:35.880 narcissistic that's what i found 1.00

00:46:38.160 blessing what do you think

00:46:43.120 yeah they're controlling ones and then they're confident ones have you do you have you turned

00:46:51.040 down a chick for being confident nah yes chat the chat's mixed you know when they over talk you it's

00:47:01.040 a red flag and maybe they haven't as much even if they hey blessing can i have a water yep please

00:47:07.840 thank you successful or making good money they i mean their questions are like how many kids do

00:47:13.600 you want yours are like well i know what kind of baby food i'm going to give those kids do you want

00:47:17.760 hear their names exactly and you know i i understand that a guy's the progress or i should

00:47:26.180 say the i understand that a man is supposed to lead in a relationship and so i often wonder and

00:47:33.500 doubt myself am i coming to the table and almost leading because i have so much figured out from

00:47:39.940 the get-go but i don't know i don't know if what if that would be yes that would be the answer

00:47:44.360 thank you blessing the answer would be yes yes also put in the chat if there's other stuff i'm

00:47:50.440 not picking up that i mean i know it's a lot of guys that watch so i want to hear from the

00:47:54.520 guy's point of view um strength and a bonus that i have all yeah he's a means to an end for her

00:48:02.680 yeah yeah because guys what is a why i'm gonna go on the whiteboard later opinions or if it's

00:48:08.440 hurting me with men ah so i mean well something's not working out something could be hurting you

00:48:14.920 regarding those opinions but that's not a reason to disregard those opinions not at all i mean

00:48:21.160 water finds its equal and so if your waters are so deep and the man you're talking to does not

00:48:29.240 have those deep waters that's not going to work out like either he needs to come deeper to find

00:48:35.480 that equal with you or you have to get shallower and i don't think that's an option for you see

00:48:41.240 and that's i've that that that's playing pretend that's that's that's playing pretend that's

00:48:49.800 absolutely playing pretend right there that before too is um you know i'm saying what i think about

00:48:57.240 me intimidates guys but also there's been different things that i couldn't get past

00:49:01.000 with guys that i've dated that were serious relationships for example physical attraction

00:49:05.000 or i didn't feel like they truly understood what it means to be saved and being a christian even if 0.99

00:49:12.600 oh god no oh i need to go to the whiteboard to just show how stupid we look god this is the most 0.99

00:49:22.920 i grew up with chicks that say this all right come on we're back to the whiteboard now many 1.00

00:49:33.640 times what I hear from Christian 1.00

00:49:35.660 women, and I find

00:49:37.660 this very annoying, and it 1.00

00:49:39.660 screams narcissism.

00:49:41.520 They need a man that's equally yoked. 0.91

00:49:45.160 Now,

00:49:45.480 oftentimes,

00:49:46.520 they say it in a different way.

00:49:51.740 So she said

00:49:52.720 he didn't understand what it

00:49:55.600 means to be a Christian.

00:49:58.820 Now, typically 1.00

00:49:59.660 what this means is the women 1.00

00:50:01.420 just want to be God's police. 0.99

00:50:03.640 Yes. They want to nag their husbands 24-7 with all of the things they do not do right in the Bible. 0.53

00:50:13.160 Men do not do this to us.

00:50:15.800 Now, this would maybe make sense if maybe the woman matched what she was saying.

00:50:26.340 So, you know, she says, I want a woman.

00:50:28.820 He didn't understand what it meant to be a Christian.

00:50:33.640 So I would look at her and I would say, all right, you're 30.

00:50:39.800 Doesn't the Bible say be fruitful and multiple?

00:50:42.100 Like, I would look at your actions, right?

00:50:45.200 And, you know, if you're going to complain about the men not being Christian enough,

00:50:49.380 you know, I would ask, are you a virgin?

00:50:52.600 I doubt it. 1.00

00:50:53.560 Then you would look like she's got all the plastic surgery, like the heavy makeup.

00:50:58.780 This doesn't scream Christianity.

00:51:01.720 And many times with Christian women, it's not really, I find there's a lot of controlling women because, and this kind of fits the mold that I've seen, and what they like about being Christians is, one, the virtue signaling, so they like telling everyone they're Christians, and two, they really enjoy policing everyone's behavior. 0.92

00:51:27.520 And what, you know, a lot, these are the same women that tell men how to talk.

00:51:32.160 And I'll show you guys another video of this later.

00:51:35.640 Many times these women are the CEOs of telling men they're not real men,

00:51:41.540 they're not man enough, a prenup's bad, that men are not, you know,

00:51:45.400 and again, it's just kind of out of order.

00:51:48.340 You, now again, you, if you're working for a man and he messes up,

00:51:56.540 He completely messes up.

00:51:59.260 Your job is not to tell him that he messed up.

00:52:04.160 If you had a boss, right?

00:52:06.320 If you have a boss, it's not your job to say, hey, that decision was terrible.

00:52:11.940 I understand maybe it happens, maybe if it's a superior, but no, it's not really your role.

00:52:18.460 Your role as a woman is to listen to your husband.

00:52:23.400 It's not to criticize your husband and tell him all the places that he falls short.

00:52:30.960 It's to obey him, not to tell him that he's not a real Christian.

00:52:39.240 And again, this is narcissism because it goes back to, well, you haven't really lived your

00:52:45.320 life the Christian way either, and you have so much to say to the men that they're not 0.97

00:52:52.680 Living their life the Christian way.

00:53:00.180 I'm going to look in the chat in a second.

00:53:02.340 Did I miss anything, chat?

00:53:03.720 Let me see. 1.00

00:53:08.740 The guys, women kissing each other's asses is not helping them. 1.00

00:53:14.120 Yeah, and that's my point. 1.00

00:53:15.960 You know, guys, you want to know why women are so delusional? 1.00

00:53:18.580 Why would we not be delusional? 1.00

00:53:20.020 i mean shit we go to our elders they lie to us she's going to her friend and another christian 0.99

00:53:28.180 guy he's lying nobody's telling this shit like i actually i have a little bit of empathy 0.99

00:53:34.360 and i i can even relate you know there's times where i've i've thought about situations in 0.98

00:53:41.620 hindsight and i'm like how how did i not see i was completely wrong well you know right now we

00:53:48.420 don't give the men authority and what i realized personally was if i want to know if i'm right or 0.99

00:53:54.260 wrong ask my dad ask a man because women just pull this bullshit it's got to be a guy that has a set 1.00

00:54:01.480 of balls because freaking we have so many um men with women's minds nowadays you know they're out 1.00

00:54:07.540 of order because they listen to women you know so it goes back to you know and that's how i can see 1.00

00:54:16.760 she's out of order. She's out of order because she's coming in with all the plans. That's out 1.00

00:54:23.740 of order. She wants to live where she wants to live. That's out of order. She is lecturing a man 1.00

00:54:30.560 about him not being religious enough. That's out of order. I mean, yeah, so when, if you're at a

00:54:37.700 certain age and you're not married as a woman, I mean, sorry, ladies, you're not going to give me 1.00

00:54:44.700 this trad card anymore it's not going to work that's what we call playing pretend i'm going to

00:54:50.400 go back 1.00

00:55:14.700 Hey, this is what, you know, Blossom can just fix these headphones immediately. 1.00

00:55:24.180 Okay. Oh, it's not playing.

00:55:30.800 What it means to be saved and being a Christian, even if they said they were a Christian,

00:55:35.600 you know, there were, there were like theological differences there and what we believed, you know,

00:55:39.440 do you believe that everything in the Bible is true in the word of God? Well, no, I think some

00:55:44.220 stuff. Okay, again, again. Why would you be with a man you think you know better than?

00:55:59.100 Again, you don't go to your boss and say,

00:56:05.440 I'm going to lecture you on how we should do things. Okay. For interpretation, those differences

00:56:11.400 would hold me back as well um and so there there there's a myriad of different issues

00:56:18.700 this begs another question okay if a guy says yeah no i think there's some things that are up

00:56:25.080 to interpretation i don't know that everything in the bible is true and you hold a different

00:56:28.560 value there to me that's just the surface data like i wonder if underneath that what's lacking

00:56:35.240 is this discussion of your spirit walk like if they don't believe that everything in the bible

00:56:41.020 is true. Like for instance, let's say they don't take miracles to be literal, you know, like maybe

00:56:45.680 it was a figurative, uh, Jonah and the whale of just to give a random example, right? What else

00:56:51.940 does that say about their application of scripture, which is your value system? That's your worldview.

00:56:58.140 What does that say about their application of those things to their life, their lifestyle?

00:57:02.740 Yeah. And the thing is, if you actually like a guy, you'll adapt to his worldview.

00:57:06.300 if you actually like a guy and respect him the first piece of this is you defining what that

00:57:15.780 means like have you taken time to define how do i apply scripture to my life and how i live out my

00:57:23.800 life and it's also like we attract what we are so if you're not finding guys that's equally

00:57:30.040 yoked. It's probably because the way you behave is not like a Christian woman. Because at the end 1.00

00:57:36.240 of the day, guys, we do attract what we are. We do. So let me know in the chat if there's any other

00:57:41.620 just advice that you've given. You know what? Because again, there's a lot of this playing

00:57:47.860 pretend here. And you know, Alex, if you see this, you're welcome to call in. We could talk about it.

00:57:55.440 I'm not even, I don't mean this to be insulting.

00:57:58.120 I just, I think as women and men, everything would be a lot better if we just had a bit more honesty.

00:58:07.660 And nothing about this woman sounds or looks traditional.

00:58:10.380 Yeah, because we're going to go the Christian conservative look.

00:58:13.080 It's like, there's definitely been work done here.

00:58:18.240 I don't know what they did, the Botox stuff.

00:58:20.820 um okay you can take this down while I get the new link so the next one that I saw again 1.00

00:58:29.580 this is why I say these trad feminists they're the exact same it's so crazy 1.00

00:58:37.740 oh here it is so now I'm going to pull this up so this is like a crazy lady um 1.00

00:58:45.280 Um, now this lady, you can pull this up. 1.00

00:58:49.520 I didn't know too much about this chick until like a year ago. 1.00

00:58:53.660 So a year ago, I tweeted, I said that 35 year old, I said, you're not that attractive at 0.99

00:59:00.760 35 or 25 year old chicks are hotter than 35 year old chicks. 0.94

00:59:06.240 And I don't really remember what I said, but it was some general statement. 1.00

00:59:11.840 Now, what you find with narcissistic women is they have a tendency to take things personal. 1.00

00:59:17.460 And there's triggers that I look for. 1.00

00:59:19.360 Again, I always look for patterns of behavior. 1.00

00:59:22.620 So narcissistic women tend to wear heavy makeup. 1.00

00:59:27.340 They tend to be very materialistic. 1.00

00:59:29.920 And this chick tweets at me her selfies. 0.99

00:59:33.400 Now, I always just Google. 1.00

00:59:35.640 And again, I look for patterns of behavior of the trad feminists. 1.00

00:59:38.880 So, like, one thing they tend to do is they tend to not take their husband's last name. 1.00

00:59:43.940 One thing they tend to do is claim traditionalism while wearing very heavy makeup, dressing a bit provocatively, you know.

00:59:53.120 Another thing they tend to do is threaten to sue everybody or sue everybody.

00:59:58.620 Another thing they tend to do is lecture men on how to talk.

01:00:02.520 That's out of order. 1.00

01:00:03.380 um so you know this chick I found her first a year ago when she tweeted at me her selfie 1.00

01:00:11.540 I guess she um really just wanted to prove she was hotter than me

01:00:18.040 I just can't even imagine having like can you imagine imagine being a kid and you're like

01:00:24.240 walking around the house and you you just see your mom taking a cell you're like what you doing mom

01:00:30.300 and she's like posing for her selfie and she's saying I need to prove that I'm hotter than

01:00:36.020 Pearl Davis because she said that 35 year old women are just not that hot and I need to prove

01:00:43.580 I'm hot I would be very embarrassed you know so I don't know every time I so I I had this tweet

01:00:57.760 It was kind of crazy. I was cooking her in the comments. I won't even lie to you.

01:01:02.000 Oh, I got to find it here. And she, yeah, she got mad because, again, I look for a pattern of

01:01:11.900 behavior. And the pattern of behavior I was looking for, and I'll show it to you, I said

01:01:16.840 trad women are feminists. Trad women police men's speech patterns. Get out of the kitchen if you 1.00

01:01:23.980 can't handle the heat. Isn't it out of order to tell men how to talk? Now, again, 0.97

01:01:32.000 none of this was really insulting her. And then this is another thing. Narcissistic women 1.00

01:01:39.940 have a tendency to take things personal and make everything about them because they think the world 1.00

01:01:45.700 revolves around them. This is just a speech pattern that I look for. And yes, then she

01:01:53.700 decides to call me a hag, because again, she's trying to prove that she's the hottie, I guess, 1.00

01:02:01.480 you know, the ultimate, the CEO of hotness. Should I show you my response? I was being savage today. 0.89

01:02:10.340 Blessing, you can tell me if I went too far. She started it, though. All right, she started it,

01:02:15.200 okay, Blessing? I said I would rather be a hag than have two different baby fathers. 1.00

01:02:23.700 Because I Googled her, I Googled her and she's got, she's divorced with like, this is her second 0.98

01:02:29.000 husband. So again, she said, I agree. It's best you stay a childless hag. You'd make a terrible 1.00

01:02:36.080 mother. And I said, you know, let me just take notes from this chick. You know, let me, and I 1.00

01:02:41.960 said, and you're such a good mother. You chose to destroy your first family to go make another one 0.99

01:02:47.360 somewhere else. Such an amazing mom. Let me take notes. And I just, I wanted to learn, you know, 0.99

01:02:53.560 I mean, apparently she's really good at the mom and stuff.

01:02:57.780 So I just said, you know, let me, should I learn my selfie angles to, for motherhood?

01:03:08.320 Maybe I should, maybe I should up my, should, should I up my makeup game?

01:03:14.200 Should I get the, the caked on stuff?

01:03:17.500 I don't know.

01:03:18.140 Should I, I'm just taking notes here. 1.00

01:03:20.140 I'm supposed to learn from these older women that just have so much to teach me. 1.00

01:03:26.740 I did get more savage. 0.76

01:03:28.420 Do you want me to keep going, Blessing, or no?

01:03:31.580 Okay, we'll go ahead.

01:03:32.660 Okay.

01:03:34.320 Anyway, so she said, you haven't the slightest clue about me or my life.

01:03:39.340 I pity you.

01:03:41.200 You have no real life experience and no real relationship experience because the only...

01:03:46.900 I'm taken.

01:03:47.560 It's like they never. All right. Whatever. Whatever.

01:03:52.080 Because the only thing you're good at is judging other people.

01:03:55.460 Hey, hey, Sarah, I'm very good at volleyball. Yeah.

01:03:59.600 So take that. And when other people's

01:04:03.400 online while being childless and alone while your eggs dry up,

01:04:07.760 it's sad, honestly. Now, again,

01:04:11.380 Blessing, she started it. Okay, Blessing?

01:04:15.080 yeah that's what i was doing earlier when i was on the couch

01:04:19.520 your husband is the one with no experience if he burdened himself with someone like you

01:04:25.940 a previously destroyed marriage a kid in tow and posting selfies online trying to prove you still

01:04:32.220 have it speaking of which um why do you still have your last name is your husband castrated or

01:04:39.540 something. I've been ratioing her. I won't even lie to you guys. You know, I, again, you know, 1.00

01:04:47.420 I don't, I don't, oh shit. I think my, my things, I don't, I don't start it. I really don't. I look 0.99

01:04:53.960 for patterns of behavior. Women tend to take it personal and, but I will finish it. I, you know, 1.00

01:05:01.520 because again is this what a traditional woman does it like this this picture are

01:05:08.840 they they getting mad at pearl on the internet do you want me to keep going 0.74

01:05:14.240 blessing yeah you know I use only like one or two more but yeah and so what 1.00

01:05:23.780 what these women tend to do is they're very narcissistic and they think the 1.00

01:05:27.740 whole world revolves around them um you know and they'll paint this yeah i'll go back to my white 1.00

01:05:37.500 board all right you can take off the tweet and i'm gonna and what these chicks they tend to do 1.00

01:05:47.500 is they make all of us play pretend you know many of them are divorced 1.00

01:05:54.620 First, single moms, slutty outfits, not obedient, and you know, guys, I'm not, you know, I'm 1.00

01:06:18.660 not knocking it in a way well sort of but i'm not saying like like there's way better women you can 0.91

01:06:27.100 learn from not these crazy ladies but let me tell you it's not me but i what i don't like is the 1.00

01:06:34.140 playing pretend that's what's annoying i would rather talk to an only fans whore that's being 0.98

01:06:41.500 real rather than this like fake trad stuff it's like the most annoying you're making me play 1.00

01:06:48.680 pretend here yeah anyways um slutty outfits heavy makeup

01:06:54.280 um the other thing they tend to do is they sue everyone 0.93

01:07:02.400 and then tell men

01:07:06.700 how to talk

01:07:11.260 which you should not do

01:07:14.980 anyways, I'm going to go back and show you the video that triggered it

01:07:21.420 figure out a more smooth transition 1.00

01:07:31.500 these these chicks are so crazy I can't even believe it I have triggered so many trad like 1.00

01:07:40.640 feminists like Michaela Peterson was one I triggered Lauren Chen gets triggered all the 1.00

01:07:46.660 time like all these women are mad oh another thing I would have put up there didn't take 1.00

01:07:51.060 their husband's last name that's another one talks first and interviews with their husband 1.00

01:07:56.560 Like, I could analyze all of these chicks. 1.00

01:08:01.180 All of these chicks. 0.98

01:08:02.300 It's always the same.

01:08:06.060 Okay, so, and that's the thing.

01:08:08.520 They take it really personal.

01:08:09.700 They think it's about them.

01:08:11.180 But it's like, I just wanted to.

01:08:13.180 I've seen like 10 of them just in different, like, bodies, you know.

01:08:17.600 So it's nothing to even do with them.

01:08:20.540 This has been weighing kind of on my heart all weekend when I saw it.

01:08:24.300 And I just wanted to talk about this video that you may have seen.

01:08:28.220 It went viral over the weekend in which a young woman who is holding a small infant

01:08:33.140 talks about why she and her partner broke up.

01:08:37.320 Here is that video if you missed it.

01:08:38.900 Normalize posting why you broke up on the internet.

01:08:41.520 I was struggling with postpartum depression two and a half weeks after giving birth.

01:08:47.160 So my partner thought that I was asking for too much when I was asking him to be home

01:08:51.880 and spend time with me and love me

01:08:53.820 and love his son and be there

01:08:55.740 for me.

01:08:57.300 Who determined?

01:09:00.700 I'm not even going to cap,

01:09:02.140 guys.

01:09:04.260 I've

01:09:04.820 thought things like this before.

01:09:08.380 And you have to understand as women,

01:09:09.800 our feelings are completely irrational.

01:09:12.000 They're completely irrational. And half the things

01:09:13.940 we think are just not even true.

01:09:15.780 I'm telling you. And if we're

01:09:17.960 having these thoughts like you just don't love 0.57

01:09:20.020 me it's just usually nitpicking and nagging and shit that we shouldn't get mad about that's 0.84

01:09:24.020 usually what it is i wasn't um doing the dishes or doing the laundry or making him food i wasn't 0.84

01:09:31.460 a good enough partner and i was asking for too much and he didn't want to be like do things like

01:09:37.940 boyfriend girlfriends do like he didn't want to snuggle or cuddle or like love me or tell me that

01:09:45.060 i was beautiful or tell me that he was proud of me so he kicked us out like three weeks postpartum

01:09:53.300 okay blessing what what happened here from a man's point of view what happened

01:10:02.340 were you listening should i play it again play it again yeah i just want to hear from a man's

01:10:06.900 point i'll play the whole video all the way through why you broke up on the internet i was

01:10:11.780 struggling with postpartum depression two and a half weeks after giving birth so my partner thought

01:10:18.660 that i was asking for too much when i was asking him to be home and spend time with me and love me

01:10:23.700 and love his son and be there for me but because i wasn't um doing the dishes or doing the laundry

01:10:31.380 or making him food i wasn't a good enough partner and i was asking for too much

01:10:36.820 and he didn't want to be like do things like boyfriend girlfriends do like he didn't want

01:10:42.980 to snuggle or cuddle or like love me or tell me that i was beautiful or tell me that he was proud

01:10:49.620 of me so he kicked us out like three weeks postpartum and my baby is nine weeks postpartum

01:10:58.100 today and if he sees this or if his friends see this you know that i'm right you know that's

01:11:05.860 exactly what happened i have the most beautiful son but i'm still postpartum depressed i'm still

01:11:16.740 struggling so i hope he's happy so what actually happened here blessing yeah it's a little unpacked

01:11:30.580 there uh i'll tell you what i think but you tell me i want to hear i want to hear from guy's point

01:11:34.820 you like what do you what do you that's the story she told what do you think actually crazy i'm not

01:11:38.660 gonna lie to you she doesn't look crazy just get that out of the way so i don't know i feel for

01:11:47.060 the baby here because the baby's innocent you know i mean i don't know what's going on i know he's

01:11:51.220 just chilling i'm just looking at the baby i'm like yo i don't know if this girl should have

01:11:56.900 this baby you know so she's yeah she's getting a bit of crazy but i don't know the full story but

01:12:02.980 yeah it must have been a lot of dramatics going on between the two of them there

01:12:07.400 all of them mostly her to be honest why is she making a video about this yeah um

01:12:12.240 and you know what would actually be the most helpful thing for her if we're really thinking

01:12:18.660 about her is someone to just say hey that that shouldn't be online that's a bad idea

01:12:25.240 take that down you know um 0.87

01:12:28.900 my interpretation is that yeah she was just being crazy

01:12:38.020 look what you said because she said he didn't want to love me like ladies what does that even mean

01:12:43.960 was he paying for the house you were staying he kicked you out so he's probably paying for it 0.98

01:12:48.960 isn't that show in love he was like oh shit i'm kicking her out now i'm not doing 18 years of this 0.99

01:12:54.920 okay now i know that we are kind of like in the habit of dunking on uh the left all the time 0.95

01:13:04.840 but i just really like that video just made me really sad um it just kind of broke my heart and

01:13:11.900 i i that's all that's all i said that's all i posted okay i literally just said this makes me

01:13:16.860 sad i wish i could find this woman and give her a hug and the amount of like negative mean

01:13:23.780 yeah because a hug's not gonna help her chica that is not gonna help her no seriously because 0.73

01:13:29.380 what would help her is tough love is someone saying hey take that down and fix your life 1.00

01:13:36.340 like that yeah anyways but this is and you know guys just don't believe the chicks like crying 1.00

01:13:44.200 women have we're out of sympathy points we're out we have run out the cat is out of the bag

01:13:50.500 Do people think hugs solve things?

01:13:55.600 If I'm broke, if someone gives me a hug,

01:13:57.880 you want to find me to give me a hug?

01:14:01.300 Give me some money, man.

01:14:03.800 As a matter of fact, subscribe to Doodust.

01:14:06.100 Yeah, subscribe, please.

01:14:07.880 Yeah, blessing.

01:14:08.800 Great commentary blessing.

01:14:11.480 Just from saying this is sad was kind of shocking to me.

01:14:16.080 There was one that was like, come on, Sarah,

01:14:17.820 what do you believe all women now?

01:14:20.000 You handled the Trevor Bauer accuser so great, and now you just believe all women? 0.98

01:14:25.460 And, you know, there's like, well, that's what happens when you spread your legs before marriage.

01:14:29.700 Should have thought about that first.

01:14:32.600 And I just—

01:14:33.800 You let him head it raw. 1.00

01:14:35.580 Now you're a single mom.

01:14:36.840 It's not a song.

01:14:39.540 I feel like we are losing our humanity a little bit.

01:14:43.060 Like, look, I know she has a nose ring. 1.00

01:14:46.400 She looks like she's probably a giant liberal.

01:14:48.300 I am sure that there is more to the story, okay?

01:14:51.680 I'm sure that she shares some responsibility

01:14:54.000 for whatever the full story is.

01:14:56.040 And clearly she didn't make the best choices in life 0.99

01:14:58.560 because she just had a baby out of wedlock.

01:15:00.320 I got it. 0.97

01:15:01.160 But you have a woman who, like, she just had a baby, right?

01:15:05.600 So regardless of-

01:15:06.740 So? 1.00

01:15:09.940 Why do women think having a kid gets them 1.00

01:15:12.140 like a get out of jail free card? 1.00

01:15:14.680 I don't get-

01:15:15.460 So what?

01:15:15.960 like what you can do anything no no no no no no no no the the circumstances she just had a baby

01:15:24.340 but see now this is going back to the controlling speech well guys you can't you can't say what you 0.99

01:15:30.860 think because remember the men are being honest about what they think you know when men fuck up 0.97

01:15:38.300 their lives, the world tells them. I mean, they'll call them broke. They'll call them incels, 0.97

01:15:47.040 losers. When men fuck up their life or post an L, even Myron, when he had that clip of him like 1.00

01:15:53.500 crying when he like lost his monetization, I understand it hurts the soul, but you know, 1.00

01:16:01.600 everybody shit on him. And women, you know, we've lost the sympathy we used to get. We've treated 0.99

01:16:11.240 men too badly for 50 years. So no, we're not entitled to sympathy. And if we're going to

01:16:17.560 post something, men are going to tell us what they think. And this is now a broken home because

01:16:23.800 she is no longer living with the baby's father. She is now off on her own with the baby. So that

01:16:30.820 That in and of itself is sad, okay?

01:16:33.800 She says she has postpartum depression, and you know what?

01:16:36.200 She sounds very unstable, so I believe her, because postpartum depression is a very real

01:16:39.560 thing.

01:16:40.560 A woman's body goes through insane, very quick hormonal changes right after giving birth 1.00

01:16:46.340 that can cause all sorts of problems. 1.00

01:16:48.540 Plus, if you have a baby who doesn't sleep, that just compounds the issue.

01:16:52.580 The changes that your body goes through are very real, so I feel like we should give this

01:16:56.540 woman a little grace that even if she has-

01:16:58.700 So now, now, communicate the way I want you to.

01:17:05.120 We need to give her grace.

01:17:09.160 Yeah, yeah, share your feelings.

01:17:11.940 The boss says, share your feelings, but not like that.

01:17:15.180 Men, say what you think.

01:17:16.980 I'm empowering you.

01:17:17.940 Say what you think, but not like that.

01:17:20.160 Don't say it that way.

01:17:21.160 ...to the problem that she now faces,

01:17:24.040 a young girl who admits she has postpartum depression

01:17:26.520 who is managing a child by herself is sad and it's also just not a good situation for the baby

01:17:32.940 by the way yeah but but again what would help her the most is saying hey chica delete that and make 0.99

01:17:39.600 up with your baby father you need to go back you need to you need to figure out what the fuck you 0.99

01:17:45.540 did to mess up and get kicked out and make up with him because again natural order of the world 1.00

01:17:51.340 we submit to men. If you have a child with somebody, sorry, you belong to him. That's 0.99

01:17:57.900 your husband for life. And that's the other thing. These trad women will have children with one man. 1.00

01:18:04.060 You're not allowed to divorce. So that's still, even if you're remarried, that's your husband.

01:18:08.500 That's your husband. So go figure it out. That would help her.

01:18:16.440 That would be the most helpful.

01:18:18.760 And I just hate to think that we're living at a time that we can't just have empathy for someone who's going through.

01:18:24.000 Oh, we have so much empathy. I'm sure she got the empathy on TikTok. I am sure she did.

01:18:29.680 Something painful, even if they perhaps maybe contributed to the problem.

01:18:34.620 But here's the other part of the discussion that bothered me so much.

01:18:37.280 And it's something that I really want to ask you guys, the audience, to weigh in on.

01:18:40.900 okay there were a lot of people who blamed the girl for having a baby out of wedlock that well

01:18:49.160 it's all it says your fault shouldn't spread your legs right got it i don't even blame her for that 0.79

01:18:55.540 because men aren't trying to get married nowadays what i blame her for is being crazy because men

01:19:02.160 are pretty if you're good to men if you're actually being a good wife they don't generally

01:19:06.060 kick you out if you're not doing something not something that we should be promoting uh and in

01:19:12.300 fact by the way we should be having constructive conversations as a society about how okay but

01:19:17.020 who determines what's constructive you you do what what is constructive is not someone said

01:19:32.780 the comments we do not care something to emulate you should not do that that is a path to destruction

01:19:41.900 we should be telling society that the path to success is to choose the right partner get

01:19:46.220 married partner that's the other thing the trad women i'd add it to my list they say partner 1.00

01:19:51.660 instead of husband why because they're out of order and they want equal have kids in that order

01:19:59.980 But if we talk about being a pro-life movement and we want to move the culture to value life

01:20:06.180 more, is it helpful? This is the question that I want to ask. Is it helpful to shame women who 1.00

01:20:12.280 have chosen life? Because the fact of the matter is there are many abortions in this. I mean, 0.99

01:20:18.160 most of the abortions in this country are done by single women. Okay. And presumably 0.89

01:20:23.380 some of the issues are that they are concerned about being judged by society for being a single

01:20:29.420 mom. Nope, you get zero sympathy from me. Sorry, ladies. Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope.

01:20:39.280 No, I think actually what would help more when we had more judgment and more shame, 0.99

01:20:43.740 there was less abortion in single mothers. 1.00

01:20:48.120 Yeah, single mothers are inherently selfish because they put their happiness and their 1.00

01:20:53.360 needs above the needs of the family. They care about their feelings more than their children. 1.00

01:20:59.420 The other thing about abortion, right, you have a daughter, I mean, that kid would probably be 1.00

01:21:15.100 better in the father's custody because she's insane. Men should have, men should own their 0.99

01:21:22.620 children. The children belong to the, should belong to the men. They don't, but they should 1.00

01:21:27.280 belong to the men not us if you actually believe in the natural order of the world which the trad 1.00

01:21:32.260 cuck feminists claim they do or you know my mom got pregnant young and what did she do she gave 0.87

01:21:40.600 the kid up for adoption adoption isn't is there's tons of couples looking to adopt so if you cannot 1.00

01:21:49.700 handle raising the child. And I'm sorry, I got no sympathy. I got zero sympathy. We have IUDs,

01:21:57.960 we have birth control, we have plan Bs, and we have abortion. I don't get this like playing,

01:22:05.880 I just don't like playing pretend. That's what annoys me. That is what annoys me.

01:22:10.800 There's a lot of shame that comes along with that, which again, is fine. There should be to a degree,

01:22:15.860 But is it helpful to our cause to shame someone for making a bad choice to hook up before marriage?

01:22:27.620 Oh, my gosh.

01:22:29.280 Okay.

01:22:30.180 All right.

01:22:30.520 I just.

01:22:33.100 The two different baby dads, like the bad choice to hook up before marriage, just all right.

01:22:40.340 They made a good choice and chose life and we still shame them.

01:22:43.480 like no no my answer would be give the kid to the dad it's his kid

01:22:49.140 if you believe in patriarchy that's not your kid give it to him

01:22:53.000 certain point this just seems like a losing position that's not constructive to the call 0.56

01:23:02.320 now again it's it's it's so you're gonna okay i says women are gonna go to the cause that men 0.93

01:23:09.680 built the media companies that men made and tell them what's constructive. Tell them how

01:23:18.340 to talk. And it's funny because it's funny because she'll say, I'm not telling men how

01:23:29.620 to talk, but we're not stupid. We can read between the lines. Men are the ones commenting 0.93

01:23:36.300 these things. And look at, we're choosing, if you can't handle the heat, get out of the kitchen,

01:23:44.360 baby. That's right. Like if we want more young women to choose life, then shouldn't we stop 1.00

01:23:49.900 shaming them for choosing life again? I mean, the shaming is posting that online 0.95

01:23:57.460 and being crazy i would give that kid to the dad that chick should not have deal no should we enable 0.71

01:24:10.080 it no but the reactions that i've seen to that video are literally perpetuating abortion culture 1.00

01:24:16.100 if we want more women to choose life and by the way women tend to abort children every woman that 0.99

01:24:24.420 know personally that's had an abortion actually aborted a kid that the dad would have stuck 1.00

01:24:30.580 around women tend to keep children of men that are out of their league and they tend to abort 1.00

01:24:36.340 children of men that are on their level and that they're dating sad fact we need to become a little

01:24:44.180 bit more empathetic to these women now we need to communicate we need to be more we need more 0.77

01:24:49.380 empathy guys communicate the female way

01:24:53.060 the audacity telling telling men how to talk once again who are choosing life

01:25:00.300 they are scared of getting judged by society and we're proving to them that that's exactly what

01:25:06.200 if they were so scared of getting judged by society then why don't they keep doing it

01:25:10.240 i i don't i it's been it's more and more there's more and more single mothers and it's more and

01:25:16.440 more accepted. So I don't think judgment or shame is really an issue here.

01:25:21.680 Going to do to them. And it just, at a certain point, feels mean-spirited and destructive to

01:25:28.880 this cause to do it once the baby is already there. Got it. She's living the consequences

01:25:35.260 of spreading. Telling them how to talk. Did you see her? She's living the consequences of 1.00

01:25:42.760 spreading her legs before marriage i don't see and the problem okay and so the problem is you can

01:25:47.300 pull this down yeah the problem is you're because she was a single mother that's just how she's 0.98

01:25:53.360 gonna she's gonna take it personal and then feel offended and then tell men how to talk that is

01:25:58.980 just what tends to happen um let me find some of the men's responses to this yeah um live for

01:26:08.760 occasion says shaming and stigmatizing single motherhood having children out of wedlock

01:26:13.140 is the key to fixing this degenerate world that is modern society this isn't pro-life or pro-choice 1.00

01:26:18.620 it's about making you responsible for your reproductive choices bring back shaming fuck 1.00

01:26:24.060 your feelings another one um so the hebrew wife says so the blaze is fully left got it this girl 1.00

01:26:30.880 should be told to do everything in her power yes to get that man back apologize stop complaining

01:26:36.660 cater to him thank him stroke his ego ego not make lists for where he's failing when she's the 0.97

01:26:42.160 one who's asking for shit not a pity party i mean blessing this would be a good plan to get a guy 0.90

01:26:50.240 back right let me just say apologize stop complaining cater to his every need thank him 0.99

01:26:56.380 stroke his ego oh yeah he definitely getting married i mean this is like more helpful than

01:27:05.880 a hug right keep your heart guys can you subscribe to the audacity

01:27:11.880 for yearly membership thank you i think there's one more i retweeted maybe that's it 1.00

01:27:20.840 yeah i want to go through what the what these trad feminists tend to do okay

01:27:30.280 yeah because because everything that the guys said is helpful 1.00

01:27:33.720 But the women, it's like a virtue signaling thing. 1.00

01:27:37.100 They don't want to accomplish anything. 1.00

01:27:39.140 It's just I want to look good.

01:27:40.960 I want to tell, I want to look good by saying, oh, these are my favorite.

01:27:45.500 These are my favorite trad con women talking points. 0.79

01:27:51.760 I'll pray for you. 1.00

01:27:54.200 Bitch, we know you're not praying for shit. 1.00

01:27:57.120 You never tell me you'll pray for me when things are going good. 1.00

01:28:00.640 When I'm having a great time and we're getting along fine,

01:28:03.340 you never say you'll pray for me.

01:28:05.040 But how crazy is it that whenever you're mad,

01:28:08.340 that's when you're going to pray for me?

01:28:11.500 How using God to be passive-aggressive, that is my favorite.

01:28:17.660 The other one that's my favorite is be kind.

01:28:22.340 That's just not nice.

01:28:24.720 Oh, my gosh. 0.84

01:28:25.720 In school, freaking, growing up in Catholic school, 1.00

01:28:29.160 there's so many of these women they just ruin everything they're like control freaks like and 1.00

01:28:35.520 anytime we would try to have fun as a class or whatever they're just always the ones to complain 1.00

01:28:41.120 and yada it's just freaking annoying okay so i want to go through the steps how how trad women

01:28:48.200 have a tendency to ruin the media now i'd like to say there are some trad commentators that i

01:28:57.320 really do like, this doesn't apply to all of them, but this does probably apply to like 90%.

01:29:03.000 So the men, step one, men build equipment.

01:29:18.440 So the men got together and they said let's build these amazing cameras,

01:29:23.720 these amazing lights, let's invent all this stuff.

01:29:27.320 Now, this took a ton of years, like 100 years, to get us to the point, right?

01:29:34.060 Is that timeline right?

01:29:35.300 Like, they invented all this stuff in, like, the last 100 years, right?

01:29:40.320 Yeah, okay.

01:29:41.100 I'm just going to.

01:29:43.380 Oh, this marker I don't think works very well.

01:29:45.400 Let me try another one.

01:29:46.660 Okay.

01:29:47.020 Okay.

01:29:47.680 Then, step two. 0.95

01:29:51.460 Men build companies. 0.99

01:29:55.920 Oh, let's do actually political parties.

01:30:02.260 Men go through all of this work.

01:30:07.720 How did I spell that wrong?

01:30:11.640 Men go through all of this work to make parties, a political system, whatever.

01:30:19.740 Three. Men build media companies. You'll notice that most women are not self-made. Most of them

01:30:36.020 are signed to a media network. Candace Owens signed to the Daily Wire. I think she worked

01:30:43.580 for Charlie Kirk before that. This chick works for the blaze. Every like other trad chick works 0.94

01:30:52.680 for the blaze. Most women, and I could see why. I mean, this shit is hard. It would be so much 1.00

01:31:00.540 easier if you just had a donor or whatever. So most women have no idea how difficult these three 1.00

01:31:07.280 things are. They have no idea. They came in, they're a pretty face, they get their shows, 1.00

01:31:14.480 you know, they cover the news, whatever, they get way more attention. Okay, so then men

01:31:21.360 sign women. The issue is, as commentators,

01:31:32.520 and the issue is many of these women believe they're equally as competent as the men

01:31:41.860 you know for example i i think when i was beefing on i didn't even mean to beef with her but

01:31:49.220 jordan peterson tweeted at me like he was laughing in one of my videos and his daughter came in 0.64

01:31:55.700 and said that i was a sexist because i said women have useless jobs and she said well that she 0.70

01:32:02.280 helps him so much with his company. And I just couldn't believe the narcissism and thinking 0.97

01:32:07.400 that you were even a hundredth as important as Jordan Peterson, who took like 70 years

01:32:14.120 to become, I mean, a great man, right? I mean, he made me more conservative. So this

01:32:22.440 is like, so the problem is when they sign these commentators, these women think they're 0.98

01:32:26.840 like equally as good as the men and there are some you know i i would put candace owens up there

01:32:36.460 laura loomer i don't follow that stuff too much but she seems like pretty good but we all know 1.00

01:32:43.440 this isn't the rule a lot of the chicks are just there because they're hot okay

01:32:48.220 then the women flirt or have sex with the men now guys I mean what happens when you put men

01:33:09.140 and women together in a company especially a media company I mean we can't say that

01:33:15.660 media personalities are like the most disciplined non-chaotic group of people all right

01:33:23.480 so the women will flirt or have sex with some of the men and a lot of times this would happen at

01:33:31.400 work I mean people used to meet their husbands at work all the time and you know many times the

01:33:38.240 women would phrase I'll get to it would phrase the men flirting with them as one-sided so they 0.90

01:33:45.320 would you know guys aren't stupid they're not going to flirt with a woman that's not flirting

01:33:50.060 back so many times women would say he did this or that but not say their part you know um anyway so 1.00

01:33:57.760 then after the flirting or maybe the sex whatever happens women cry abuse 1.00

01:34:08.880 abuse, essay, et cetera, and ruin what men built. 1.00

01:34:26.480 So then the next thing you get is a little cry, abuse, assault, the list goes on.

01:34:38.880 Then they'll sue and ruin everything. 1.00

01:34:53.740 Women have a tendency to sue everybody. 1.00

01:34:58.660 I mean, that chick DM'd me and threatened to sue me. 1.00

01:35:03.440 I'm like, oh, shocker.

01:35:05.720 I'm so surprised.

01:35:07.580 A woman in media threatening to sue. 0.97

01:35:13.600 You know, but this is what happens.

01:35:16.640 Men build the equipment.

01:35:18.760 They build the political parties.

01:35:20.640 They build the media companies.

01:35:23.440 I should have added even that they build the body of work. 1.00

01:35:27.700 Men sign on women as commentators. 1.00

01:35:31.040 The women flirt or have sex with the men. 0.99

01:35:33.880 Women cry abuse, sexual assault, et cetera. 0.77

01:35:37.580 and then they sue and ruin what men built um i saw megan kelly did this i was like megan why would

01:35:44.380 you do that they made a whole movie about it and in the movie they i don't know how accurate it was

01:35:52.300 the story because i i don't know but in the movie megan kelly's character the chick playing like

01:35:58.540 Margot Robbie she was saying that you know the the guy in the movie was saying that she should

01:36:13.240 like take off her underwear well I'm sorry but I've been in media for like two years nobody's

01:36:19.260 ever done that like that's never been a question so like how did that come up

01:36:23.200 there was no flirting at all and that's like my quote like what led up to these interactions

01:36:30.780 that's always my question how did we get to here so i mean honestly guys i would understand if men

01:36:40.280 just stopped hiring women because this is just what i mean everybody's suing i did this vice

01:36:50.240 panel Sidney was suing I did like it's like guys could we just not now I know I would like to

01:37:01.080 publicly say because many people have accused me of I've never sued anybody I had a chick raised

01:37:09.060 like 10k to sue me because I abused her coming on a podcast what and guys you have to understand

01:37:15.920 this happened to me this chick came on the show she raised like ten thousand dollars to sue me

01:37:22.800 I swear I swear and she said that I didn't tell her the show she was going on and all of this 1.00

01:37:32.020 stuff and I had word for word writing text messages of us saying where she was going

01:37:40.040 i was accused of a coercive controlling look 0.94

01:37:44.320 and the media companies eat this shit up this was reported on i never went to court 0.98

01:37:52.460 freaking a like i don't know what she did with you guys's money but look this is this is what 1.00

01:38:00.940 happens trad feminists everybody they're more annoying than only fans whores because they 1.00

01:38:07.780 pretend they're special and different, and that's what annoys me. I just don't 1.00

01:38:13.180 like playing pretend. I'm gonna go back.

01:38:16.920 do you know how many men do you know that's how we men say hello if you're a woman with a certain 0.99

01:38:39.340 mindset take your knickers off well yeah that would be my question like i mean i know we're 1.00

01:38:44.860 not supposed to say the what were you wearing anymore. They're like, you can't say that. But

01:38:49.140 I mean, certain outfits would send certain signals to men, if you know what I mean. Let me look at

01:38:55.580 the chat on the website. Advertisers have always known that a female flash will improve sales and 0.96

01:39:03.080 attract men. Look at any advertisement in the last 120 years. Pearl, you're missing with her gig,

01:39:10.880 her income her job she does what she wants to work at that network i mean i know it's just

01:39:19.520 business i guess i don't know advert look at i i'm i'm here because i like it i haven't even

01:39:26.620 been paid in like six months there was a comment it said pearl's making like 10k a month with what

01:39:33.120 wow you guys realize i have rent luckily blessings pro bono right blessing

01:39:43.680 i feel like you're building a legal case on me

01:39:48.320 yeah i'll be like officer he said right there he was pro bono uh i'll play the fifth

01:39:58.900 how do we do that 0.50

01:40:00.940 oh freaking a

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01:40:07.940 thank you

01:40:09.160 anyways that's all for

01:40:14.320 today guys

01:40:15.140 thanks for tuning in

01:40:17.120 I love talking about trad 1.00

01:40:20.140 feminists I think it's my favorite topic 1.00

01:40:21.960 I just find them so much more annoying 1.00

01:40:23.660 I find yeah

01:40:24.680 let me know what you guys think

01:40:28.280 you know, in the comments, maybe I'm wrong. Maybe I'm wrong. I don't know. Like the video

01:40:33.900 on your way out, subscribe to the channel, and I'll talk to you next time.

Pearl - May 01, 2024

Trad Women Want The Ring Not The Man ｜ Pearl Daily

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