Pearl - Tradcon Women Shame the Male Sex Drive

00:00:00.000 let me go on to the oh i just went to the delay it just went up now that's that's weird but we're

00:00:07.460 live now okay all right what up guys i'm sorry to the youtube chat you guys are gonna have to

00:00:13.680 rehear this because for some reason yeah i see it now it's good okay all right so um today we're

00:00:21.760 oh my god it was i was cooking so you guys don't understand oh that's so sad

00:00:27.000 all right first first i want to say thank you to everybody that donated to the divorce documentary

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00:00:50.460 oh my gosh ah i was cooking so hard i'm gonna have to cook it i was free you guys don't understand

00:01:02.560 the level of like like sometimes you're just making magic it's like a musician like sometimes

00:01:09.040 you'll put together music and then i find out oh oh i gotta redo it okay hey guys like the video

00:01:18.800 on your way in you know all right I had such a good transition I'm mourning this I really am I'm

00:01:26.000 mourning I'm in a state of mourning all right so what's up guys welcome to the show thank you for

00:01:32.280 bringing your time and attention here um uh today we are going to be first going over the drama

00:01:39.280 between Nick and Candace so as you guys know Nick I don't say his last name here because he gets me

00:01:46.240 in trouble, but I do enjoy watching the drama go down on Twitter. So I was one of the first to have

00:01:52.400 Nick on my show. And I want to tell you guys the backstory of how I had him on my show. I didn't

00:01:57.600 really know too much about him, but I saw like two clips, thought he was funny and was like,

00:02:02.300 come on the show. Now I know this is, you probably don't believe me. And I think that's pretty fair.

00:02:07.520 You're like, how would you not know? I knew it was controversial for sure, but I didn't know too

00:02:11.160 much of the backstory. Just thought I'd have him on. But when I had him on, I didn't really

00:02:15.760 understand everyone just seemed to spurg out over him and you know I'm not going to go into all the

00:02:20.580 details of this but I always thought he was a good faith you know actor but it's really interesting

00:02:29.600 watching women spurg over him it's just not going to be

00:02:38.500 i just can't even remember what i said it's like gone um all right we're gonna do a quick reaction

00:03:00.100 while i gather myself i just when i get like when i'm going and i get cut

00:03:04.500 ah i'm going i'm going crazy okay so let me i kind of wanted to react to this like

00:03:13.520 the alienated um the alien anti-alienation project because she brought her dad on

00:03:20.340 so this is a girl i've had on my show before and her dad was like alienated from her so i think

00:03:25.900 the dad's actually coming forward now and she was a victim of the silver bullet divorce we're

00:03:32.060 gonna watch this before we get into the topic and then i'll regather and we'll go through it i'm

00:03:36.880 sorry guys madison i had an awesome relationship perspective of your family dynamic and like kind

00:03:45.280 of how you see how you got here because i've heard a lot about what maddie has shared and maddie

00:03:50.560 shared a lot on her channel but i'm curious from your perspective you know how this all came to

00:03:55.900 play for you and what was the aha moment you had in like understanding what was going on in your

00:04:02.360 family all right so my take on it would be first to say that madison and i had an awesome relationship

00:04:09.380 when she was young i would say all the way through maybe six or seven years old we did a lot together

00:04:16.000 and uh uh it was it was just great i think um madison loved me and i loved her and we both

00:04:23.180 love spending time together. We did a lot of activities together and, um, we, we had a lot

00:04:30.360 of one-on-one time and we all had a lot of also group activities. We, uh, participated in a couple

00:04:37.460 of programs, went to dances together, stuff like that. Right. Um, but as, as her mom and I started

00:04:46.660 as our relationship. And by the way, her mother was a trad con woman. So if you think the trad

00:04:52.980 con the conservative women are better they're not they're just as crazy so yeah i'll i had

00:04:59.600 the daughter maddie on my show where i've seen her con i think i reacted to her videos

00:05:04.440 she basically as an adult find found out her mom alienated her from her dad so she hated her dad

00:05:10.900 for years just to find out it was all a lie so this is her like waking up um i think there was a

00:05:19.180 my impression is that her mom really started clinging to Madison you know what I mean kind

00:05:27.300 of kind of let's be a team and this is this is our side kind of and you know and then it's dad

00:05:34.380 and the boys and um I I feel like it turned into that type of dynamic a little bit in our family

00:05:41.380 where it was dad's got the boys you know she's got four little brothers right huge grown-ups

00:05:48.760 now but but i think our family dynamic changed to that where where her mom kind of really kind

00:05:59.080 of clung to madison i my perspective would be influenced madison to spend less time with me or

00:06:09.400 to you know think she wasn't supposed to spend more time with me or or have much of a relationship

00:06:16.680 with me. That's kind of, that's my perspective on it. Got it. I don't know if I had an aha moment

00:06:23.260 per se. I don't know. It was, it was kind of gradual, but yeah, just, just, just even when

00:06:29.620 we were still all living under the same roof, it had definitely started to where Madison and I had

00:06:35.720 kind of grown apart a little bit. Yeah. Cause what will happen is the mothers, like we just

00:06:40.480 can't take as women negative information. So we're going to see this with the Candace and Nick

00:06:46.560 debacle. I'm going to gather myself and we'll go through it. It's just, I was cooking so hard,

00:06:51.800 guys. You don't understand. And it's like, you can't, yeah, but the Madison, yeah. So we're

00:06:58.640 going to, Madison, a lot of times the mothers will for years be in the daughter's ear, right?

00:07:09.060 So our relationship wasn't anything like it used to be.

00:07:13.720 Is it okay if I ask some, like, harder questions?

00:07:17.580 Sure.

00:07:18.000 Are you okay with that?

00:07:18.960 Are you okay with that, Maddie?

00:07:20.500 Yeah.

00:07:21.340 Okay.

00:07:21.840 So I'm curious when that started to happen, if you could go back to that time, were you like, okay, it's like, I guess me and the boys and mom and Madison.

00:07:37.840 like I'm curious what was going on for you like from an emotional or even like a mental perspective

00:07:44.700 like what were your thoughts when that was happening like this is normal this isn't normal

00:07:50.120 there's nothing I can do what can I do I'm what did you do I'm I'm actually really I don't know

00:07:56.260 like I don't know what was going on so I'm curious from from how you for the felt sense that you had

00:08:02.080 when all that was happening yeah I actually don't know the answer to this either I'm curious to hear

00:08:06.180 I just think I was so overwhelmed with our marital relationship going bad that I let that just totally consume everything else, kind of.

00:08:21.340 And you know what I mean?

00:08:25.040 I did not devote the necessary time to my relationship with Madison that I needed to at that time.

00:08:33.180 because I was just, I was overwhelmed with, with, with our marital relationship and

00:08:40.360 you know what I mean? So disappointed in it and all I could think about and it was just,

00:08:45.980 it was just, it was just bad. It was just horrible. Got it. Thank you for sharing that.

00:08:52.140 That's very common. It's very common. One of the things. So that's what the women do. They

00:08:58.200 overreact and the guy is like trying to calm down this overreacting women you know the biggest

00:09:04.000 mistake men make is reacting to the reaction they got to figure out how to like just ignore it all

00:09:09.820 it's so unfortunate i say to people all the time i say this to kids that i recover i'm like when

00:09:14.820 your parents go through a divorce you know your whole whole world is turned upside down but their

00:09:20.680 whole world is also turned upside down because they established a relationship and they were

00:09:25.840 expecting until death do us part and then when the relationship ends the um it blows up and the

00:09:32.160 parents toss all their parenting skills out the window and they are like destabilized and they're

00:09:38.740 like what is going on in this the the relationship here and they they forget sometimes it's like

00:09:45.240 not that they forget they have kids because they're all around them right but they forget

00:09:49.660 emotionally it's like all the things that are going on in the spousal relationship

00:09:55.560 and then when they're like oh wait a second i'm also a parent and i have all these littles i'm

00:09:59.740 responsible for especially when you're dealing with pathology within a family or this family

00:10:05.420 dynamic when you start to find your footing again one or some or all of the children get lost in the

00:10:11.220 shuffle and that that's actually very very common and the kids internalize that like i've done i'm

00:10:18.940 the bad one and then if you have devoted so much energy and i was always torn the last couple of

00:10:24.780 years between is this worth fighting for you know good people and good parents and when this happens

00:10:31.560 there's a lot of shame and guilt that comes along with this family dynamic being a targeted parent

00:10:36.940 and it's like trying to find your footing again and every time like you'll hear the women's side

00:10:43.300 about these like abusive dads and all this stuff and then the dads will come forward and they're

00:10:48.820 just like these chill guys like it's just these guys that are just like chilling you know and

00:10:55.980 a lot of people sort of don't do anything for a long time because it because it's embarrassing

00:11:02.080 and it's shameful and you feel all of these things and you don't and you also don't know

00:11:06.820 what to do it's true it's true I mean I devoted so much energy and I was always torn the last

00:11:13.660 couple of years between is this worth fighting for you know and so so much energy went into

00:11:19.520 trying to make it better yeah and then when it was when then when you would have you know down

00:11:26.220 slides just kind of suffering through that and it was it was overwhelming it was it was just

00:11:32.060 it was hard to compartmentalize that and they said they're chill because the crazy women are

00:11:38.660 no longer in their life yeah and that's the thing like we women will drive you to insanity

00:11:44.240 yeah like I just I think you'll go crazy oh my gosh sometimes I'll say things and I'm like I'm

00:11:52.500 doing it too you know it's like we just we just our nature is like chaos I really believe it

00:11:59.800 and deal with the other aspects of your life and I I know for a fact the kids got

00:12:04.900 left behind a little bit in that regard you can feel the emotion of it it's like i feel it like

00:12:10.800 bubbling up like it's like i haven't thought about this in a while and it's a lot yeah and

00:12:16.820 you're a little in the hot seat so um i call it the love seat you're in the love seat

00:12:20.760 although it might feel a little hot

00:12:27.640 it is a little warm but one thing i've always been thankful for and i just continue every day

00:12:37.020 to be thankful for is is how truly great our relationship was when madison was little

00:12:42.860 yeah because i've always felt that that has that that kind of sustained things even i feel like

00:12:51.320 there was something you know down way down that's why the women always love the cheating men so much

00:12:57.120 is because when they cheat it's like that gives the women the drama so then they don't make drama

00:13:03.280 you know what i mean they can just like cheat you know and get mad and then forgive them and then

00:13:08.320 it's like the up and downs then you're in love but then when the men are just like chill guys

00:13:13.300 the women have to make up stuff to like feed the victim arc you know deep in the bottom of

00:13:20.040 madison's heart that always told her wait a minute you know i think the guy you're saying

00:13:26.100 the nagging's worse I think it's the gaslighting because you almost think you're gonna go crazy

00:13:32.280 and that's what I saw Candace on the timeline with Nick I'm like and I'm gonna get into this story

00:13:40.100 um but I just saw her trying to drive a man crazy and I'm like this is why men

00:13:47.280 this is why they go insane is because you'll you'll say something and you think it's true

00:13:53.880 Right. But then when there's this crazy reaction, you're like, did I, am I in the wrong, you know,

00:14:00.580 because you, you, you project yourself onto them. You're like, I would only react like that. If

00:14:05.900 somebody said something crazy, maybe I'm in the wrong. And then, you know, that's what happens.

00:14:13.380 It's actually a good person. He's not a bad person. And, and maybe I should, you know,

00:14:18.260 i don't think madison ever truly gave up on me yeah i think it's just because because we were

00:14:25.540 so good when she was young you know we we were you know madison and i just kind of i don't know

00:14:31.880 it's hard to explain we're i don't know i feel like our personalities i don't know we just mesh

00:14:39.440 really well you're bonded yeah i've always felt that always felt that that beautiful bond between

00:14:46.940 a parent and a child is never ever broken it just gets tucked below the surface for safekeeping and

00:14:52.540 when it starts to come up to the surface and they're still in the dynamic they like push it

00:14:57.340 down push it down and yeah so her story is kind of crazy she was in a silver bullet divorce so

00:15:04.380 that's essentially when the dad comes home and he's kicked out of the house with a restraining

00:15:10.300 order and this is like a catholic woman so he's like kicked out of the house and it's just

00:15:15.260 interesting because i've heard um she reconnected with her dad as an adult and i've heard um this

00:15:21.820 story for a while so i just saw it premiering and i'm like oh i want to see i want to see what she's

00:15:27.500 she said she didn't find like piece this all together until she was an adult you know but

00:15:31.740 it's never ever broken it's always there so you're right that um those early days yes really are the

00:15:40.540 the things that create and establish that bond and that unconditional love that shared between

00:15:45.260 the two of you was always there and it was never broken and for parents listening to this i know

00:15:52.540 i say this all the time and i'm like you know don't lose hope and always fight because it is

00:15:59.980 worth it and it's very easy to get into your own it's almost like the more we say something isn't

00:16:07.100 true the more it is true i think that's our nature like place of stuckness right it's like

00:16:16.620 you know does she still love me and it's like do you still love her right and it's like of course

00:16:23.340 right that that love that you have i can see it it's like radiates off of you and you know

00:16:31.980 it just does and that really special father-daughter bond and she's your only daughter

00:16:36.700 so of course you know daddy's little girl yeah it's just different i'll tell you something really

00:16:43.500 cool also is that now that madison has daughters of her own we love spending time with her girls

00:16:50.540 and i see madison in them that's that's the such a cool part like he's so happy how could you say

00:16:57.980 he's an abusive monster it's like women well they'll have a dad like this and then somehow

00:17:03.740 find a way to complain like look at him you could see his face like lights up talking about his

00:17:09.340 daughter uh joe rogan does follow me on twitter that was a pretty cool moment um

00:17:18.780 he does follow me so yeah as they'll say things and they'll think things and their nuances you

00:17:27.900 you know i was like gosh this is just like madison was when she was six years old oh yeah it's it's

00:17:33.100 i don't want to skip a little and in her world that was that was you know i guess it kind of

00:17:38.920 made sense you know i don't know if i know everything but i i think i know most maddie

00:17:44.800 do you want to ask him a question i've never seen madison be so quiet i know okay he did not invite

00:17:52.280 me on the show i just saw he followed and i'm like ooh maybe i'll get an invite someday

00:18:00.760 i think part of the reason why i wanted to do this is because i know that my i always say that

00:18:08.040 my dad is like a half a glass half full person every single day of his life very positive guy

00:18:15.400 and i appreciate that and i think i get the sense that whenever i try to talk about something

00:18:24.120 that happened in the past or whenever i'm stuck in the past which i often or have been

00:18:30.920 that my dad tries to help me move forward and i appreciate that but i feel like there has been

00:18:38.280 a little bit of a lack of understanding

00:18:41.360 about why it's been so hard for me to move forward.

00:18:49.180 Yeah, I'm the type person that

00:18:52.880 I guess I just don't like dealing with hurtful things if I don't have to.

00:19:05.400 Yeah, because they're just better people than us.

00:19:08.280 they just want to move on women we want to fight it out forever they just want to move on

00:19:14.160 and when we get hurt it's very hard for us to like let it go um where men can they can just say oh

00:19:22.000 see ya you know i just uh i just wanted everybody to be happy you know makes me uncomfortable to

00:19:29.280 deal with uncomfortable hurtful things yeah and i can sense that too yeah and that doesn't make

00:19:36.720 right i understand um i'm curious what support you would need to be able to hold that space for

00:19:45.760 madison so that okay i don't know i just was curious if she'd talk more about the alienation

00:19:53.120 um he just look at him he's so nice that's just kind of well you know i modeled my behavior after

00:20:00.480 my dad i'm sure yeah i'm willing to all right you know we'll come back to this a different day

00:20:08.640 i'm going to leave a super chat i don't want my card information on screen all right so

00:20:17.520 that's that's adorable maybe we'll watch i want to go through the whole thing and maybe find

00:20:21.520 highlights but i just saw it was premiering as we were going you should check out her channel

00:20:26.080 though it's the anti-alienation project she talks about how she was alienated from her father and

00:20:30.240 and then woke up. Okay, so today I want to talk about women gaslighting. Now, I was talking about

00:20:37.740 this before the show. I really think women, we just have two defaults. It's gaslighting,

00:20:44.840 virtue signaling. And that's just what we go between. It's like we got a gas, oh no, no,

00:20:49.820 three. Gaslighting, nagging, virtue signaling. And I'd like to say most of my observations

00:20:57.140 about the world. Some come from Rolo Tomasi, some come from Myron, some come from Kevin

00:21:05.040 Samuels. I talk about the great men that inspired a lot of my work. But the number one thing

00:21:12.280 that I liked about when I was watching Red Pill content is it just made everything make

00:21:17.440 sense. I would hear something and I would say, oh, that's why it is. So I guess Candice

00:21:26.080 is crashing out on nick right now on twitter and i just thought this was the funniest thing i've

00:21:31.760 seen in a while now i had nick on my show and i just i didn't understand why he makes everybody

00:21:38.540 crash out um i just i didn't get it he seemed to me he was one of the most pleasant like guests we

00:21:46.900 had on he was super nice he was on time um and i understand some of his opinions are pretty out

00:21:52.560 there. I don't agree with a lot of them. But I just thought as a person, I'm someone and I think

00:21:57.280 this gets me in trouble. I have a liberal, very liberal friend. And he tells me that

00:22:04.360 in media training, you can't say and I guess this is where I get in trouble because I can

00:22:12.460 understand a very left person's point of view and a very right person's point of view. But I guess

00:22:17.560 when you say I understand, that means I agree. And he just said in media training, they tell you

00:22:23.960 not to do that. But I guess I missed that. Now, Nick, he's being called a fed today on Twitter.

00:22:36.920 And I guess Milo is saying that, that he's a fed. And this is causing him, Candace and Nick to

00:22:47.300 crash out and the reason I was thinking about this is whenever there's a woman involved I just

00:22:53.540 always women have a tendency to make up stories about men and women and go around to a bunch of

00:23:01.120 people and then when they come out they're all they'll all corroborate it and that's how that's

00:23:05.740 how things tend to go and Candace invited Nick onto her show and she really could have discussed

00:23:12.260 you know they're in politics so they could have discussed politics they could have discussed all

00:23:16.280 this cool stuff. But instead, Candace decides to focus on why aren't you married and bring up

00:23:23.860 personal information. And that's really the challenge that we're starting to get in branding

00:23:29.320 nowadays is it used to be about the information. Now it's about the person. It's why I kind of have

00:23:35.760 a hard time with this job at times because I'm a flawed person, right? I'm not. There's a lot of

00:23:42.320 ways that I could be better. Um, I have regrets in life like anyone. Um, and you know, women have

00:23:51.600 a tendency to come from me. You know, when women attack me, they'll, you know, they'll, they might

00:23:56.720 attack who I am as a person and they're vicious with it. But when men attack you, they just call

00:24:02.720 you an idiot. And I'd really prefer the idiot. Like you tell me why I'm wrong.

00:24:06.820 so pearl on tucker show i don't think he'd ever have me so i just what i thought this was

00:24:15.940 interesting was this was just an example of female gaslighting candace so candace has a

00:24:21.880 tweet and comes out and she says i am honestly in awe about how much nick has publicly lied

00:24:28.500 about me since he left my house but rather than cry about it i have invited him back on for an

00:24:34.280 actual debate where he can bring his alleged receipts. So women feel a tendency to be entitled

00:24:44.460 to being a bitch to you for life. And they also feel entitled to defending themselves when you're

00:24:53.040 calling them a bitch, right? So Candace invites Nick on her show and she's actually quite rude

00:24:58.700 to him. It's kind of a setup interview. And then Nick goes on the show and, you know, he talks

00:25:05.460 about why it was a setup interview. And then Candace is mad because he didn't want to start

00:25:10.480 a fight to her face. And I'm like, isn't that the most kind of ghetto thing to say ever? Maybe I

00:25:17.120 shouldn't say, you know, you got to say it to my face. Well, why would I want to do that if I'm

00:25:21.760 going to be gaslit, bitched at, and nagged. Like if those are my three options, why would I do it?

00:25:30.400 And women feel entitled to this. They feel entitled to the fighting and they call you weak

00:25:36.140 if you're not going to do it right to their face. And I just think it's interesting because I'm like,

00:25:42.120 why are you in media if that's your expectation? We're shit talkers. That's what we do. You know,

00:25:47.020 if you had Blake Lively on your show in front of you with Ryan Reynolds,

00:25:51.820 I don't think you would just,

00:25:54.480 I don't think you would go through all of the information you reported on.

00:25:59.180 I really don't. I, you know,

00:26:01.260 I think it would be a little bit awkward and we all kind of know what comes

00:26:05.040 with this job.

00:26:11.640 To his inevitable victim act,

00:26:14.900 i've asked dan bulzerian to moderate the discussion so nick can't put his favorite

00:26:19.520 i was attacked because i'm so real they're going to kill me skit so

00:26:24.400 now and this is why men don't open up to women right nick actually was

00:26:33.960 he almost did get killed for the stuff he says he had a gunman come to his house and try to kill him

00:26:42.400 and now the woman feels like it's right to make fun of him do you guys see what I mean when I say

00:26:49.960 I just have a special hatred in my heart I think I think it's because I grew up around them

00:26:56.400 and you know honestly their advice wasted a lot of years of my life there's nothing

00:27:01.620 that you hate more than someone that gave you advice that made you waste years of your life

00:27:08.280 nothing and i'll go into that different day so

00:27:13.120 my point is with this she he he in a way opens up like he talks about he that's something vulnerable

00:27:29.760 and probably one of the scariest moments of his life and in an argument she felt like it was

00:27:35.060 necessary to pull, bring that up and use it against him. Too many theater boys in politics.

00:27:44.580 And I just, so now she's trying to insult him and call him like weird or dorky or whatever.

00:27:51.220 I'm like, Candace, do you think you're cool?

00:27:56.780 I'm not trying to be mean, but like, and I think this is why I'm not really a, a hateful person,

00:28:04.240 right I'm really not anyone that's known me for a long time but I don't like watching like people

00:28:11.000 get bullied it really bothers me like there's just a part of my soul where I'm like you know

00:28:16.700 that's how I started this e-girl fight that that is because even though I disagreed with Emily on

00:28:23.500 the ring comment I just still thought all right you don't need to call Emily a whore like I mean

00:28:28.620 we didn't need to do well that's just not enough you know um and that's how i feel like watching

00:28:36.740 this um she knows that she has like she's a woman she's got the woman card um this will be fun

00:28:45.680 because i will reveal to the public that we should not fear the discussion if we're telling the truth

00:28:50.240 and i just am thinking like what what does this have to do with the topic like i thought this was

00:28:56.660 israel palestine right but now it's nick's a theater kid nick's um um nick was mean to this

00:29:07.380 person um oh you're you almost you're gonna kill me like making fun of him and i'm like what vicious

00:29:17.220 so then um it says nick is a sensitive theater boy needs a woman before he becomes an old man

00:29:28.260 he's starting to look like it it's honestly weird how people can't see he's performing the mistake

00:29:35.700 people keep making is avoiding nick it allows him to keep up the victim act and his lies go

00:29:41.160 unchecked so this is what women want to do right women hold a tally of every bad thing you've done

00:29:47.060 in your life. And look, I'm not a saint, right? But it's pretty exhausting. Um, especially with

00:29:55.100 women is they just, they just, every time you've said something wrong or done something wrong,

00:30:00.140 they just keep, it could be from three years ago. They just keep, they keep bringing it up. Right.

00:30:05.920 I'm not kidding. When I say he lies about me almost pathologically since he left my house,

00:30:10.680 it's like he only came on. So then he could then pretend to be a victim of some attack that never

00:30:15.080 happened. I've never seen anything like it, but a Twitter back and forth is meaningless. We could

00:30:19.800 do a face to face and he could bring the receipts. And so she's saying, I want to gaslight you,

00:30:24.640 right? She's, she's saying, please let me gaslight. I want to be able to gaslight you.

00:30:37.280 Uh, you know, cause like that's, I I've had instances like this, okay. Where somebody I had,

00:30:44.320 I'm not going to say the person, but I had a person say, you can't talk about me on my stream

00:30:48.780 without being able to defend myself. And I'm like, do you know what? I actually can, because

00:30:54.780 you're going to gaslight me into oblivion. Like, you know what? You can do a whole stream on my

00:31:00.700 stream and then you can tell your points fully, right? You can do it. But I just don't want to

00:31:07.380 be gaslit today. You have your thing that you're selling. We're going to go back and forth.

00:31:14.320 So then, um, what happened to this, your first ambush backfired and now you want another

00:31:24.880 swing little girl presumptuous to think I'd want anything.

00:31:34.980 And this is what happens.

00:31:35.980 We reveal female nature, right?

00:31:38.400 We reveal a woman doing something wrong and the woman has to gaslight us into eternity.

00:31:44.320 where is this? I want the full text. And I just, I just thought this was hilarious. I really did.

00:31:51.260 I was like, oh, wait, hold on. Let me see.

00:31:58.500 All right. So that was my point with Candace is the women have a tendency to feel entitled to

00:32:07.820 gaslighting and where men they have a tendency to just say you know what you have your opinions

00:32:14.760 i have mine you can think you can think negatively of me that's okay so i want to go through my

00:32:21.740 twitter today um and go through the different topics so we have another e-girl thirst trapping

00:32:28.180 um and this is kind of the running joke in the manosphere it's like go to mass

00:32:34.140 pictured um not pictured mass and it's like very obviously the the purpose of this picture is to

00:32:43.340 draw attention to yourself and then they gaslight me when I say hey you're drawing attention to

00:32:48.760 yourself and say no well but the whole point of the internet is is drawing attention to yourself

00:32:54.360 and I'm like are you or are you not drawing attention to yourself um now the next tweet is

00:33:02.360 just, you know, kind of a follow-up on the e-girl drama. Um, I think this week, you know, when I

00:33:09.320 said, when I said that the women were in fact using their relationships to build their brand,

00:33:20.140 they all gaslit me and said that it was a good thing. So now that the week is over,

00:33:25.960 would you say that this made men more favorable towards Christianity or less favorable towards

00:33:34.180 Christianity and marriage? And I think that's the real point here is that

00:33:39.160 marriage is going to disappear because women are actually the worst marketing for marriage.

00:33:45.840 They show men every single day why they shouldn't get married.

00:33:49.440 um let me see what else i got um the lila rose clip we're gonna go through so i'm gonna skip

00:33:57.560 over these retweets um i said girlfriends behave better than wives because you know i thought about

00:34:07.560 it oh i made a slideshow for this actually i did make a slideshow and you know in a way

00:34:14.880 getting legally married is putting yourself in a non-traditional relationship. Okay, hear me out.

00:34:22.800 It's actually, I would argue, it's more traditional to be a girlfriend than a wife.

00:34:27.220 Now you might say, Pearl, that's so crazy. Pearl, that's insane. And I would even go further to say

00:34:34.460 situationships act like more of girlfriends than wives. And men that date for marriage have a

00:34:40.700 tendency to never know what that is like to have a woman completely obedient and on your program,

00:34:47.580 because once you give the woman what she wants, then we go nuts.

00:34:53.300 So here's the ways women can destroy you, right? So these are the ways women have leverage,

00:34:58.660 police, reputation, destruction, as we saw in the first video, family court, and there's like

00:35:05.040 a million other ways. So, you know, feel free in the comments to put things I should add to this.

00:35:09.480 but I want to make this simple. The only thing men have is cheating and walking away. Like women

00:35:14.760 being afraid you're going to cheat and women afraid being afraid that you're going to walk

00:35:18.060 away. And the challenge you have is when you get married, you're taking away, you're saying God is

00:35:24.800 going to like smite you down or whatever. You're going to go to hell if you sleep with another

00:35:29.420 woman or walk away. Um, so that's your only leverage. So they're basically saying

00:35:35.680 they're like okay tell your woman no you are wrong you're wrong as a man

00:35:43.880 for not being able to say no your woman your simp i do say that i do i do i do i'm sorry i'm

00:35:49.940 a nagger too all right but and to some extent i would agree however when the church comes in and

00:35:58.740 says you can't divorce or sleep with anyone else ever again it's like okay you're basically saying

00:36:05.320 get cucked because how is he going to enforce that? No, how can he enforce it? Can he go to

00:36:12.100 the police and say, my wife isn't sleeping with me? No. Okay. You're telling me this is the cops

00:36:20.120 from the Batman movie. Why are you nagging me about my PowerPoint? I made this quick before

00:36:24.980 the show can we just can we can we just all right um are the men really gonna lie as good or as well

00:36:36.120 as the women no i guess you could do that back that is an option um not a bad option you fight

00:36:43.340 fire with fire and then she could take your house your kids and just ruin your life um but

00:36:49.420 this is the natural order of the word, right? So God can enforce things on man

00:36:56.380 because, um, God can just like smite you down. So he can say, um, he can, he could say, okay,

00:37:05.280 you're going to get cancer because you're a terrible person. Then we got women next,

00:37:08.740 but the man cannot enforce anything on the woman and the woman can enforce everything on the man.

00:37:15.480 So it's actually, it goes, God, woman, man, children.

00:37:24.300 That's the order of the world now.

00:37:26.800 That's how it is now.

00:37:28.540 And no amount of praying is going to change this because the relationship is only traditional,

00:37:35.200 quote unquote, traditional, if the woman says it should be.

00:37:40.880 And can we be honest here?

00:37:42.660 We are crazy.

00:37:43.700 our default is just like insane. And so because of that, um, because of that, um,

00:37:59.100 you cannot have a traditional relationship in 2025. It doesn't exist because it's all

00:38:11.060 dependent on if the woman feels like it. And some days, look at guys. And I try to, I try to be

00:38:17.660 honest about this. When I was doing my show, I'd always say we as modern women, we look at, I,

00:38:24.700 I do the best I can, but even me, there are days where I wake up and I'm like, God,

00:38:32.000 why was I a bitch for no reason? And I feel, I'll feel guilt. I'll feel really guilty about it.

00:38:36.840 you know, you know, I'll give it attitude or I'll nag. I'll just, you know, and I wish I did it,

00:38:43.620 but you know, I know that this is our, our default programming. And so the only leverage

00:38:52.300 that you're going to have as a man, and that's why I would actually argue that the most traditional

00:38:57.720 relationships are actually situationships because the woman is begging to get commitment. Oh,

00:39:03.120 actually I should have added that. Walk away kind of goes towards commitment, but giving

00:39:08.060 commitment and taking it away. That's really it. I mean, you can't, you can't hit it. You can't

00:39:16.820 hit a bitch anymore. No, can't do that. Okay. So let's get into today's topic. We're talking about

00:39:26.820 lila rose um oh i had a point that said women want to be a bitch and if you do not straight

00:39:34.960 up confront them to their face because you don't feel like dealing with their bullshit you become

00:39:39.260 the bad guy okay so welcome to another episode of pearl daily society demonizes men in the male sex

00:39:49.260 drive i would expect this from liberal women because face it a lot of them are fat and just

00:39:54.400 generally unattractive to the type of men they want. The same women talking about the male gaze

00:40:00.200 and how women are objectified will never know what either of those are like because they aren't hot

00:40:06.040 enough for men to make money off of their looks. Sadly, the right does this as well. Fake tradcon

00:40:11.380 women are doing their best to shame men out of their natural urges by using the Bible and theology

00:40:17.520 to suppress the male sex drive. I came across this tweet here and it sparked the idea for the show.

00:40:24.400 All right. So Lila Rose says, men don't need sex. Our culture is hyper-sexualized that the

00:40:33.020 idea of a celibate priest leaves people in disbelief as if it's impossible. That's

00:40:38.760 heartbreaking. Have we forgotten that self-control and virtue are within reach? Look at Jesus Christ,

00:40:44.580 the most perfect man to ever walk the earth. Earth was celibate and sinless before he was

00:40:49.660 crucified for our sins. Shouldn't he be the supreme model for manhood, self-mastery,

00:40:55.860 discipline, total self-gift out of all love? Priests choose celibacy so their hearts can

00:41:02.360 belong entirely to God, as St. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians. I want you to be free from anxieties.

00:41:08.640 The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord and how to please the Lord, but the

00:41:13.600 married man is anxious about worldly things, but how to please his wife. Yeah, because that's like

00:41:18.920 an impossible task. Of course he's going to be anxious about it. And his interests are divided.

00:41:23.940 I say this to your own benefit, to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord.

00:41:29.960 Abstinence isn't just for priestess. Intermittent abstinence can also be a beautiful practice

00:41:36.100 within marriage. If a couple has a serious reason to delay bringing a baby into the world when

00:41:41.200 practicing natural family planning, spouses can indulge or grow in self-mastery, deepen their

00:41:47.560 love and remain faithful to God's design for marriage. Christ is the model. Love is the

00:41:52.100 reason. Holiness is the goal. So it's just like, Lila, who are you to say this?

00:42:02.580 I just don't understand where women get off nagging men about their behavior.

00:42:07.160 And she said this when she says men are like, oh, all right, here we go.

00:42:12.500 Can we all talk about father Mike Schmitz? I showed him to a girlfriend who's not Catholic.

00:42:16.140 she's like wins mass what about the man needing sex so right now they're lusting over like the

00:42:23.020 guy in the front and then signaling purity it's like the audacity the audacity and you know what

00:42:30.620 christians used to treat sex as a need they really did and this is the problem in the old days you

00:42:36.940 got a wife you got your sexual problem solved for you at 16 and they treated sex as a need

00:42:44.940 So they said, look, I know you're going to start wanting to have sex, but instead of shaming a

00:42:48.680 natural urge, here's your wife. Here's your trad wife. And you'll be married by 22. Go off,

00:42:57.340 have your children. But now, but now, I mean, maybe the girls would sleep around at 15 or 16,

00:43:03.920 but it was done early. Your sexual problem was solved. But now, you know, men can't help what's

00:43:11.520 on the menu. Wives are not, you know, if you go to a restaurant and you keep trying to order a

00:43:16.060 wife and that's not on the menu, that's not your fault. That's not your fault. And so women are

00:43:23.800 shaming men for responding to what is on the menu. They didn't ask for this society to be built like

00:43:30.160 this. They didn't ask for women to be going for like 10% of men. They didn't ask for that.

00:43:37.700 But that's what's on the menu. That's what they have to choose from.

00:43:41.520 So, what tends to happen is the women, they want the privilege of choosing their own husband, of marrying for love, and also getting to signal purity.

00:43:54.280 Nah, nah, nah, bitch.

00:43:55.400 You don't get both.

00:43:57.760 Marry, get an arranged marriage young.

00:44:00.240 If you didn't marry young, I don't believe you're pure.

00:44:02.900 And we need to, I don't.

00:44:04.900 I don't.

00:44:07.400 What about the man needing sex?

00:44:08.920 That's just a cultural narrative that basically says men are like animals and they have to be

00:44:13.600 able to do this sexual thing. Otherwise they're going to go crazy. And the reality is there's

00:44:16.880 whole vocations that are celibate. Yeah. And how did that go? How did that celibacy go,

00:44:22.500 Lila? These are virile men, men's men. One of the most masculine men I know are priests. We need

00:44:27.000 food. We need air to breathe. We don't need sex. It's a gift of coming together. And it's so evil

00:44:32.980 because you're basically telling people not to live a part of life. You're trying to shame people.

00:44:38.920 into not like that's a part of like taking a girl on a date that's a part of life you know

00:44:43.560 getting a girlfriend um and unfortunately because of whores are on the menu

00:44:49.040 really the only way to get a wife these days is to you know you got to go through the the

00:44:55.480 whores I don't say this in a happy way but most people don't marry the first person they're with

00:44:59.840 It's just how it is. I wish it wasn't like this. But this is what's on the menu. And if the

00:45:11.120 conservatives really cared, okay, if they really cared about stopping promiscuity, they would be

00:45:18.240 pushing arranged marriages, but they're not. They do not care. They don't. They would have an

00:45:25.500 arranged marriage set for their daughter when she turns 18 and say, you don't get your inheritance

00:45:30.680 unless you marry this guy. Even then it would, it would not be foolproof. Um, but we do not like

00:45:40.880 the idea of forcing women to use their sexuality on a husband that they're not attracted to. I'm

00:45:46.900 not even saying that we should go that way, but please God do not purity signal to me. If you're

00:45:52.880 doing the, you know, do not shame the male sex drive. Then the trad e-men will say, oh, they're

00:46:02.040 so much better, you know, because they're abstinent. They act like they're morally better.

00:46:08.300 But can we, if, are they really not watching corn? They're just substituting one sin for another.

00:46:15.940 And I'm just the one trying to be honest about this conversation.

00:46:19.220 i'm trying to be honest and have this conversation because

00:46:24.320 this will waste years of your life this will waste

00:46:27.920 years of people life

00:46:31.400 designed to bring life into the world i think the sexiest thing about a guy is like their

00:46:36.820 self-control and my husband has amazing self-control so after baby number four so again this is

00:46:43.380 conservative women using their marriage and their family to build their brand you know i had rachel

00:46:47.940 on here the other day and Rachel, you know, she's trying to convince me that it's good.

00:46:53.820 And I'm sorry, you know, and this is hypocritical because,

00:46:57.560 you know, years ago I was in a public relationship, right? And I know firsthand all the ways it's a

00:47:11.040 terrible idea. I've lived it. And I'll tell you what, when you bring this and the thing is when

00:47:19.620 you are in political topics and you're bringing your family into it, you're, you're bringing them

00:47:24.880 in the crossfire. It's one thing if you're doing like a cooking channel, who cares? But you guys

00:47:29.540 are covering contentious issues that people get shot over in history. So, you know, I don't have

00:47:35.320 a problem with like, I don't even want to say it's a problem. It, cause it's not, it's not

00:47:42.440 immoral, but I don't think it's strategic, right? If Lila Rose came on here and she's given like

00:47:51.120 the up and down about the abortion and getting really technical, there's nothing wrong with that

00:47:56.520 to me. But when you're bringing your husband into it and now he's responsible for, you know,

00:48:01.820 people thinking you're a good person you know that's a different story you know

00:48:13.600 when we started practicing nfp it was like we couldn't do it sometimes when we wanted to

00:48:19.220 and that kind of made things a little steamier like not gonna lie it's hard on for you but see

00:48:24.060 this is like personal stuff men value privacy they do they really do them too don't get me wrong

00:48:31.140 People will say, well, oh, do you just do other things for your husband?

00:48:36.360 Can we all talk about Father Mike Schmidt?

00:48:38.240 Yeah, okay.

00:48:41.840 The responses are cooking her.

00:48:44.500 Further evidence why God commanded women to not be teachers in church and be quiet.

00:48:49.260 Insufferable yapping with authority is why so many men find no need to subject themselves to the modern church.

00:48:56.160 Conversations like this make Christians look stupid.

00:49:01.140 men need sex this lady is retarded women shouldn't have anything to say about what men need and don't

00:49:11.060 need there's a reason christian men are the biggest consumers of porn what man hurt you

00:49:22.520 this is insane men should have self-control around their wives first corinthians this is

00:49:27.580 just giving women the excuse to deny their husbands wait let me see this happened these

00:49:32.360 bitches are literally retarded i know it's saying that's not at all what happened these bitches are

00:49:37.720 literally oh my god um prudes like lila rose don't like sex at all and will gaslight you

00:49:47.460 endlessly into suffering because they don't put out that's the other thing this whole waiting for

00:49:53.020 marriage i i see how it would be pragmatic as a society but in 2025 i don't see it working

00:49:59.240 i think guys are kind of stupid if they sign up for that if i'm being honest

00:50:03.940 because you know there's a guy i knew in london he did that right he was a christian guy and he got

00:50:08.960 married his wife didn't like sex or at least not with him this clip begins with them sexualizing

00:50:20.480 a priest. I know the audacity. I was telling someone before the show, you know, they say

00:50:25.540 women or men will screw anything. I actually think women will screw anything more than men

00:50:31.820 will screw anything. I think that's actually projection. Now I have to be careful with what

00:50:42.320 I'm thinking about. Sometimes I have thoughts and I'm like that and there is no upside to saying

00:50:47.620 that. I got to be filtered a little bit. Um, but the Christian men, right? The Christian men,

00:50:58.660 the Christian women, a lot of them, like they're so repressed and they have so much guilt attached

00:51:07.200 to sex. That's really not normal. It's really not. But, oh, that's what I'm sorry. I blanked

00:51:13.780 out for a second so talking about um women like they always say men will screw anything

00:51:20.560 and i just don't think that's true you know because men they're risk averse right so if the

00:51:27.840 girls if it you know men might find out they hooked up with a girl they might not do it if

00:51:33.080 they think she has a big mouth if they think she might ruin their money like there's many reasons

00:51:38.040 met like an example is i think a lot of men have left education because they just don't want a

00:51:42.660 false accusation where women, I mean, they're clearly not afraid of a false accusation. If

00:51:49.220 you've seen the news, I mean, they're screwing these, these younger guys, these young boys

00:51:55.020 and they're like putting out tech, like they're not even careful at all. You know, they're just,

00:52:02.020 I can't even believe it. Some of these cases are coming out. So like, if you look at women's

00:52:08.920 exes there's always one women aren't proud of where it's just the right guy the right to any

00:52:13.980 woman that says they they haven't had one i'm like yeah okay okay can we stop like playing pretend

00:52:21.340 here not one really when did you get married oh 27 28 32 and really in a decade you didn't have

00:52:31.320 one you just you thought mate that was a bad idea even caitlin bennett the replies are crazy how

00:52:42.980 many people have never heard of catholic priests before yeah how did that work out caitlin

00:52:49.820 if men don't need sex women don't need emotional validation or cuddles you aren't going to die

00:52:58.120 with them right yeah do you know what it's like men in a way you know they're kind of responsible

00:53:04.900 for women's like emotion not not completely it's your own responsibility but

00:53:09.600 um yeah she did not she definitely did not marry someone she's attracted to she's trying to cope

00:53:15.180 um you sound like a sex-hating feminist no one should listen to this dishwasher

00:53:21.460 your proof is priest the same priest that had a problem with boys in the 90s

00:53:26.320 all right let me go back to the so here here goes lila trying to tell men what they should

00:53:33.680 and shouldn't be doing and i had her on my show and i asked her why she is a christian

00:53:37.280 felt like it was her place to tell men what christian doctrine says it's not

00:53:43.140 she didn't have a good answer none of these women do so at the one hour 33 second mark when she came

00:53:50.460 on my show. For people. Oh my gosh, this whole thing was just her nagging. Oh my gosh. It was

00:53:58.320 so brutal. This is Covenant. It's designed for more than what I get out of it, but it's designed

00:54:03.980 for what I can give. I could tell you what gave me this opinion. It's fake. It's fake trad cons.

00:54:14.740 No, and I'm going to, I'm going to, do you want to know what I, do you want to know what that is?

00:54:18.760 do you know what that is tell me yeah wait was it here was it here let me double check

00:54:22.960 one hour 33 minutes 10 seconds oh okay I guess it's coming in tell me tell me why you it sounds

00:54:30.980 if I'm if I don't want to mischaracterize your position but it sounds like you're saying

00:54:33.940 marriage is bad it's not worth it no man should get married is that your position or am I misreading

00:54:39.120 you my position is it it's a bad deal for men so so would you say then would it be then therefore

00:54:46.200 men should not get married would be your, do you think it's in your place? Do you think it's your

00:54:50.500 place as a woman to tell men what to do? Well, I, I, I'm not, again, I'm not going to go tell

00:54:57.480 any specific man you should get married or you should not, because I don't know what he should

00:55:00.560 do. I can say, generally speaking, marriage is good for a lot of people and it's a beautiful

00:55:05.620 gift and we need more healthy marriages. Do you see the gaslighting? I'm like, can you answer

00:55:10.880 the question do you think you're kind of moving the goalposts do you think it's your place as a

00:55:16.060 woman to tell men what to do I mean if if you're let's kind of break that down are you saying

00:55:23.140 gaslighting and these women are like well why won't you argue with me on my show it's like

00:55:29.280 yeah because you're so unpleasant and I just have to be gaslit by you uh I can't as a woman say you

00:55:37.560 know, we should have homicide laws that stop men and women from killing people, then yeah,

00:55:42.380 in that sense, I guess I'm telling men what to do, because I think we should have those laws. So

00:55:45.920 I think it depends what you mean by your question. Do you think it's in your place

00:55:49.740 to tell men what to do in their house? Do you think that's your place as a woman?

00:55:55.720 I mean, I would not go around and I do not go tell individual men what to do in their houses,

00:56:01.620 No, unless they're like, you know, coercing, doing bad, you know, coercing bad activities

00:56:07.640 or something.

00:56:08.080 And then I'm, I'm, you know, educating about the bad activity saying it's bad.

00:56:11.380 So I don't know where you're going with this line of reasoning here.

00:56:14.360 So if they're doing coercive activities, you're going to talk.

00:56:17.740 How much will it cost me to call my, my sister and give her the business and set her straight?

00:56:23.220 I'll do it for free.

00:56:24.080 If I could do it on the show, what's her number?

00:56:27.000 What's her number?

00:56:28.560 Put it in the chat.

00:56:29.520 way you can put it on twitter so everyone else doesn't call her and tell me your message for

00:56:34.160 i'll do right now i'll do it right now tell them it's bad well i'm gonna continue i mean you've

00:56:42.560 probably seen my content pearl i'm going to continue to educate people about and work on

00:56:48.080 exposing things that i think are truly bad in our culture abortion being the worst and helping

00:56:53.920 people see how horrific it is and and reject it and that includes to men as well as to women so

00:57:00.160 i'm not going to be like well i can't tell men that these behaviors are bad because i'm a woman

00:57:04.560 i think that would be a a mistake yeah so what kind of behaviors are you telling men are bad

00:57:12.080 well again i think it's it's more like do you see it like it's like pulling teeth

00:57:16.480 oh my god like it's like oh my god like i asked you one bitch can you answer it

00:57:25.240 oh my god like

00:57:29.800 and then it it's like

00:57:34.240 and then they're like why won't you say it to my face because i'm exhausted do you see how tired i

00:57:41.300 look here? Like, for example, when it comes to sexual ethics, I've been pretty open with my

00:57:51.680 content about the harm of pornography and the harm of promiscuity. And I think that's a message,

00:57:57.540 not just for men, that's a message for women too. So, but you, you will not, you, you will tell

00:58:03.480 men what to do when it comes to sexual promiscuity. I saw you do with Justin Waller. So you're going

00:58:09.580 to tell men what they should do when it comes to porn and sexual promiscuity yes yeah i'm going to

00:58:17.420 say don't do not look at porn i'm going to say do not be sexually promiscuous and it's for your good

00:58:22.540 and that's why i think you're a feminist because i i think that any woman that nags men and tells

00:58:28.400 men what to do is a feminist and so there it is folks so again this is let me go back to my slideshow

00:58:36.260 I got and this is why this is why I'm so blackpilled because I'm not even that really I'm

00:58:45.600 not that good I really wish I was these women like I think they're better people than me I

00:58:51.520 would think like they seem to be living out the virtues more like they got the kids they got the

00:58:57.620 like but why do I believe it should be like this and they believe it should be like this like why

00:59:05.520 can't i'm not like i'm not saying i live it all the time you know i do my best but

00:59:13.680 you know like you know i'm a flawed person so i try to i try to come in with some like humility

00:59:19.360 on this but it's like shouldn't we at least have the base that the ideal is this like shouldn't

00:59:26.160 this be like the ideal yeah i want the number um go to twitter i'll talk and give me the message

00:59:37.360 we'll see if she answers twitter pearly things with a z yeah i'll do it as long as i can

00:59:44.800 so and if you're nagging you know you're automatically

00:59:52.060 because you're not supposed you would never nag your boss right at least i mean you'd have to

00:59:57.940 you could only nag your boss after like years of hard work and like dedication and loyalty

01:00:03.140 you know so okay here's another one where i i asked the same thing to lauren chen

01:00:11.100 and so it's like acceptable watch these clips and tell me that these women tweeting their kids

01:00:17.000 is gonna this is what i mean when i say like a woman having a kid doesn't make her a better

01:00:23.680 person she's just a bitch who had a kid you know and if anything i actually think this does the

01:00:30.680 opposite i think this markets men away from marriage i think they're like oh hell no this

01:00:36.420 is what i gotta deal with yeah let me see something can be unacceptable behavior though

01:00:42.560 still within a marriage absolutely who are you to tell a man how to speak to his wife in his house

01:00:46.700 isn't that out of order i mean you do that all the time you call other men so gaslighting

01:00:54.140 oh but pearl you call men's i call them simps but i don't tell them what to do

01:00:58.460 i will call them say i will i will you know i'm a flawed person right but sometimes the simping is

01:01:05.500 just crazy um but gaslighting it's all the time but i don't tell them how to talk to their wife

01:01:14.780 that's your business okay name it name it yeah for sure there are tons of times where

01:01:21.500 there will be actual gaslighting do you see this gap this is what i have to deal with

01:01:28.860 because i don't know i i just when nick talks when i had him on my show

01:01:37.900 there's just like a sense of humility where i'm like i feel like we're on the same wavelength

01:01:42.620 where you could say okay there's times where I've taken it too far whatever but this is what I'm

01:01:47.140 seeing and I just I don't know what motivates a lot of these people but I just I don't know if

01:01:54.960 they're dumb or like I don't know what it is but I'm like look I'm not saying I'm perfect I'm not

01:02:01.460 saying I'm the best spokesperson there's better people but I'm like if these are the married

01:02:06.000 women, then God help us. God help us. You know, I saw Myron saying like, why would you listen?

01:02:15.000 Why would you listen to an unmarried woman? And I'm like, Myron, do you see the quality of the

01:02:21.400 married women? Do you see? No, I'm not saying to listen to an unmarried woman. You got to pick and

01:02:27.520 shoot. You got to, I think the best way when looking at advice, the best thing you can do

01:02:32.720 was take advice, try it for two weeks and ask yourself, is it working? That's all you got. If

01:02:37.880 it's working, keep doing. And if it doesn't try something else, that's it. That'll save you years

01:02:43.180 of time, ladies. But I'm like, if these are the women, that's, that's the challenges. Nobody knows

01:02:51.160 how they are at home. So I'm like, this is, this is what I have to choose from. God help us.

01:02:59.680 god help us lord help us do you know i'm like send the asteroid okay these are the beliefs

01:03:09.700 and by the way this is what they're willing to say publicly on a podcast god knows what

01:03:13.780 they're willing to do in private this is what they're willing to do in public

01:03:17.980 yeah myron i'm like myron these women

01:03:24.600 i this is actually maybe i'll do a hierarchy next next show a hierarchy of um

01:03:34.660 should i do it are we able to can i use that still i can right it's a little dark but i could

01:03:41.160 still oh no that other lights off maybe maybe i'll put it on here

01:03:45.720 no okay i would do a hierarchy like i did the hierarchy of whoredom i would actually do a

01:03:55.040 hierarchy of um who behaves the best and i would put side chicks on the top of that list because

01:04:02.060 there's nobody that works harder than a side chick nobody there's nobody that works harder

01:04:10.080 than a literal side chick i i you know you could be like come up you could say side chick come over

01:04:17.340 and it'll be four in the morning and she'll be sprinting she'll be sprinting to come get you

01:04:22.060 yeah

01:04:24.160 men in your comments say you want the whiteboard i just i didn't turn on the lights before so i

01:04:33.620 would have to if you guys want me to but you guys got to keep the light likes up while i turn this

01:04:38.920 like light on or attempt to it could take longer than I think then there might be a pause in the

01:04:44.100 show um I'm moving soon but there's like a yeah so when I disagree yeah you guys got to hit the

01:04:56.880 I need to get over a thousand people watching in here because then if I if it drops no I think

01:05:03.240 a thousand two hundred because then if it drops while I'm fixing the thing and putting up the

01:05:07.920 whiteboard then um then at least I can justify it's just back to what it was and I call them

01:05:14.660 simps when I say simps it typically means out of order so typically when I say that I'm referring

01:05:19.680 to a pattern of behavior where they're putting women on a pedestal that's typically what I'm

01:05:24.080 describing. But we're going to the what about you're changing the topic. No, no, no, no. It's

01:05:33.900 a different. Do you see how like this is? It's just gaslighting. Like it just never ends. It's

01:05:43.360 like the perpetual gas. You know, I had a woman, I had a woman come to my show and then after

01:05:47.920 tell me how I should run it. And I'm like, are you kidding? Go make your own show.

01:05:54.080 Oh my gosh. Same topic. My original question is who are you to tell a man how to talk to his wife

01:06:00.640 in his home? Do you think that, do you think you should be able to tell a man how to talk to his

01:06:05.520 wife in his house? I think that men should conduct themselves biblical standards when it comes to...

01:06:09.500 No, no, but answer my question. Do you think it's your place to tell men how to talk to their wives

01:06:13.640 in their home? Answer yes or no. I think it is perfectly reasonable to say that a man should

01:06:19.060 hold himself to a Christian standard in the home. Okay. So you do think it's your place. And this

01:06:23.640 what I mean when I say a lot of conservative women aren't really conservative. That's true.

01:06:31.320 Do you see that took me a minute and a half of my life to pull those teeth.

01:06:37.960 Why is that sad, man mean?

01:06:40.600 Woman sad, man bad.

01:06:42.200 Because you're, you're first, you're first from a biblical point of view,

01:06:45.560 you are supposed to be obedient to your husband in all things.

01:06:48.680 So before conservative women will talk about the disobedience, their first thing is their tone.

01:06:53.640 yes the tone policing i look so bad in this this is like my ugliest podcast

01:06:59.580 that's that's super out of control and i can show this because there's video after video after

01:07:06.060 video not a single conservative woman woman said oh hey she didn't listen to her husband not one

01:07:12.520 not one that's crazy to me and then we want to say like you know men go get married to

01:07:17.900 conservative women most of them aren't really conservative yeah

01:07:21.880 i think instead i'm just gonna do it on on on my slide show and i'll make like maybe next show we

01:07:32.080 can do um let me go to my google slides all right so i need a picture of who's a famous a famous

01:07:41.420 girlfriend? Who's a famous girlfriend? I'll just show Goldie Hawn.

01:08:11.420 is she did she never get married

01:08:14.140 why she and kurt russell won't get married so this is this is the best acting woman

01:08:21.680 okay so we're gonna get

01:08:27.420 insert image

01:08:30.980 all right here we go um you're the best pearl thank you for the 20 super chat

01:08:39.540 so who do i think would give better advice this woman who has known for 20 years

01:08:48.120 that she could lose him at any time and has to be on her toes to give him attention

01:08:55.320 or

01:08:59.040 or candace who's married she might have more kids she might have the title

01:09:15.640 but i can tell that she doesn't really pay attention to what men want because of the nagging

01:09:21.360 who looks happier which husband

01:09:26.600 i gotta go or which guy and and that's the real question is whose husbands look the happiest

01:09:36.780 i'll do i'll do maybe i'll do a whiteboard thing the thing is my studio is not

01:09:44.580 set up here and it's a different day it's going to be fixed soon

01:09:49.660 i would put i would put if i had to make a hierarchy on the top is going to be um side

01:09:56.700 chicks i think those they want it the most then situationships then girlfriends i'd put wives at

01:10:03.740 the bottom and you know that's they were like oh why would you take advice from someone without a

01:10:09.780 ring and i'm like because they have to work wives don't have to do anything wives are in the least

01:10:17.660 traditional relationship because they have all the authority at least when it's a girlfriend

01:10:23.820 he could cheat on you and leave you and take away the commitment

01:10:28.560 you know and i'm not claiming that it's wrong to want you know but yeah you got it so all right so

01:10:42.460 Like most undercover feminists on the right, they keep denying that sex is a need for men.

01:10:50.840 Men need food, water, shelter, and sex.

01:10:53.300 And I would argue in 2025, conservative church-going men have had it worse than liberal men.

01:10:59.820 In a sense that on the left, liberal women acknowledge that men need sex and they just

01:11:06.720 want the men to sleep with who...

01:11:09.840 wait, hold on. Sorry. Conservative church going men have it worse than liberal men in a sense

01:11:16.880 than on the left. Liberal women acknowledge that men need sex. They just want the men to sleep with

01:11:24.280 who they want them to sleep with. Fat women, ugly women, trans women, conservative men are being

01:11:31.140 denied sex in general. And it's getting to the point where trad con women are thought policing

01:11:35.900 their men, telling them what to think about sex at all. How did it get to this point? In the

01:11:41.620 practice of policing their husband's sexuality, they publicly humiliate their husbands and

01:11:46.200 emasculate them. By these women going on social media and saying things they say, they are

01:11:52.240 publicly admitting that they get what they want and their husband doesn't get what he wants in

01:11:56.620 the relationship or marriage at all. What type of man would marry a woman without the expectation

01:12:01.960 of sex with her. They henpecked husbands of fake trad cons. That's who. Luckily in the

01:12:08.240 comment section, we can see that people have some common sense. We're going to go through some of

01:12:12.320 these. All right. Lizzie says, yes, men can and should control their sexual lusts, but God created

01:12:20.300 sex as a gift to have in marriage. And barring anyone from marriage is a doctrine of demons.

01:12:25.780 Men should get married and enjoy the wife of their youth. This is good, right, and true. Sex

01:12:30.620 in marriage is holy now the spirit and i actually think it's less holy

01:12:35.860 i know this sounds crazy and it would sound like five years ago this would have sounded crazy to me

01:12:43.280 too but sex is way more holy when the man has authority and outside of marriage is the only

01:12:52.880 time that men have the authority you cannot have a traditional marriage you can't it doesn't exist

01:13:00.300 not in this not in this state it's not it's not true this is good right and true now the spirit

01:13:06.540 expressly says that in later times some will depart by the faith um to themselves be okay

01:13:13.420 blah blah I don't care all right so she's still telling men to get married let's see this other

01:13:18.420 one the papal papist priesthood will continue to have problems with sexual abuse and sexual

01:13:27.500 misbehavior so long as they cling to the pharisaical requirement of celibacy one of the

01:13:33.300 biblical requirements for church leadership is a well-managed household which requires kids

01:13:37.620 which requires sex which requires marriage okay that's one guy

01:13:41.920 in my experience dating very christian women just results in dating someone whose main pastime

01:13:53.400 And pastime is rules, lawyering you with Christian teachings that she barely understands.

01:14:00.100 Date a secular girl and then take her to church.

01:14:02.760 Thank me later.

01:14:12.560 Oh, I read that one already.

01:14:20.680 All right.

01:14:21.280 This is why Paul said, I suffer not a woman to teach or have authority over a man.

01:14:26.280 It's the proliferation of women in areas they shouldn't be that is causing many societal

01:14:31.940 problems.

01:14:32.680 80% of therapists are women.

01:14:34.500 80% of HR people are women.

01:14:36.180 And the majority of divorces are initiated by women.

01:14:40.740 All right, we got Elijah.

01:14:51.280 Oh, I read that one already.

01:14:53.320 Okay, so we're going to do a little bit of a...

01:14:55.560 Oh, wait, hold on.

01:14:56.760 All right, so sex is a need for men.

01:14:59.060 The sooner these fake tradcon women realize it, the better.

01:15:02.180 If they want men to return to the church and conservatism,

01:15:04.920 they have to accept and promote this idea.

01:15:07.860 Like, imagine if they had a 22-year-old...

01:15:10.420 Like, if you wanted to market a church,

01:15:12.620 say, hey, we have 22-year-old hot wives that love sex.

01:15:16.700 that would be great a lot of i think a lot of them would do it

01:15:23.920 they would there would be a line denying the male sex drive is conservatives telling men

01:15:30.820 not to enjoy life on their terms it submits to the female dating and mating strategy and

01:15:35.600 establishes a strong relationship where the woman can and will control a man through sex

01:15:40.320 conservatives also need to promote that sex is essential to a good marriage women want provision

01:15:45.520 protection and love in a marriage and men want respect and sex a woman in a marriage shows her

01:15:51.600 respect and admiration to her husband by having sex with him so we're going to watch this video

01:15:58.480 and then i just want you guys to call on the topic what did you think the lila video we're

01:16:02.320 going to watch this first sex is how your husband feels loved and respected your husband is not a

01:16:09.520 woman he is a man and sex is incredibly important to a man and it's where we miss each other

01:16:18.080 and and and just go totally different ways as as as husband and wives that if you ask him a good

01:16:27.760 man what what are the top three things that are most important to him in a marriage and in a

01:16:33.840 a relationship, sex is going to be number one, if not number one, two, or three. If you ask a woman,

01:16:42.560 her, you could ask a woman, what are your top 10 most important things to you in a marriage

01:16:47.920 or a relationship? Sex might not even make the list. It might be like number eight, nine, or 10,

01:16:54.740 maybe, maybe. So we have to understand as women that sex is incredibly important to men. And we

01:17:02.960 know that that's why we use sex as a weapon and we use sex to manipulate and control and we all know

01:17:10.560 how we do that and have done that and what happens is that we begin to treat our husbands like

01:17:17.680 neanderthals and that there's something wrong with them that sex is so important to them and we want

01:17:25.360 want to change them and make them so wrong for just who they are as a man. But you have to

01:17:32.540 understand when you chose to get married and you made vows and you made a commitment to your

01:17:40.800 husband, you took on the role and responsibility to have sex in your marriage and enjoy it

01:17:50.620 And as a part of a healthy relationship, women need to understand, and this was, well, let me finish that thought.

01:17:59.680 Women need to understand that sex is not an option, and it is not something that is inconsequential.

01:18:10.540 Sex is part of a healthy relationship and marriage.

01:18:15.040 and this is one of the things I've been reflecting on because when I my husband and I got engaged I

01:18:22.720 had already started withdrawing and putting a wall up around sex when in the beginning of our

01:18:30.160 relationship and dating and and leading up to us getting married we had a very healthy enjoyable

01:18:37.420 sex life and then i threw my walls up and that's very very common for us as women and you said

01:18:45.460 check my dms on twitter for the phone number i'll do it but i don't i don't see your um you should

01:18:53.160 start a church think of the tax advantages oh my gosh have you learned nothing you want a woman

01:18:59.600 to start a church oh my god i want you guys to be equally as sexist against me as i am again

01:19:07.620 oh my gosh i can't even say that on youtube not all not all not all not all not all it was

01:19:17.040 it was a a really really big challenge in in just my early 30s which is so sad to me now okay you

01:19:24.580 guys. I mean, if I had started a church, I would just have it be a place for men to talk about the

01:19:31.820 Bible. And I would bar a woman from it. And I would just say the only way that women can get in

01:19:36.580 is to put in a wife application and marry a guy from the church. And if your wife starts talking

01:19:42.540 in the church, we're going to ban her. And then we're also going to ban you because you're

01:19:47.260 obviously simping. So either leave her at home or stop simping. That's what I would do. That would

01:19:54.160 be my church. And I had to learn an important part of my healing in my marriage and through

01:20:04.320 this decade of my 30s in the beginning was overcoming the walls I had built around sex

01:20:10.580 and my marriage and recognizing that I couldn't have sex with my husband as a duty or a chore.

01:20:18.040 Pearl, I had a dream that we hooked up. Why would you tell me that? Why would that, like,

01:20:22.240 what do you want me to do with that information do you want me to be like oh wow should we do like

01:20:29.200 it's just sometimes guys I'm like

01:20:35.660 what what platform I don't see the phone number did you send it on Instagram I'll check Instagram

01:20:46.240 or an obligation when we have sex from a place of obligation or as a chore we feel used we feel

01:20:54.840 resentful if we're doing what we're supposed to do that's a wonder actually a wonderful example

01:20:59.840 of being nice is is doing sex to to check the box and and say done maybe i bought myself a week or

01:21:08.840 two and then shutting down. That's not okay in a marriage. That's a cruel, cruel way to treat

01:21:17.800 your husband who is a man in which this is very important to him. So ladies, let me make it very,

01:21:24.880 very clear. You cannot have a healthy marriage. You cannot have a healthy relationship

01:21:32.340 if you are not having sex with your husband or you are shut down to sex and doing it as an

01:21:41.380 obligation and a chore it's not okay and and you can't have a healthy relationship relationship

01:21:49.700 or a healthy marriage from that place we all know sex is part of a healthy relationship

01:21:57.740 and and and here is something that is very important ladies we all enjoy sex if you remember

01:22:07.200 when you met your husband or before you met your husband and you were dating and having different

01:22:12.420 relationships with men we couldn't wait we couldn't wait to get together and meet up for

01:22:19.240 a date and and and know where that that was going to lead and and we can reflect back to the beginning

01:22:26.100 of our relationship before we got engaged before we got married and we were in the the newness

01:22:31.860 we loved and enjoy having sex we begin to put our walls up and I'm not going to get too much

01:22:39.020 into that but I do want you all to know trigger warning we're going to be talking or I'm going

01:22:44.960 to be talking a lot more about our relationship with sex as women and the importance of it in a

01:22:50.580 marriage and how to overcome the walls that we have built around it and how to overcome the

01:22:55.560 withholding of sex that that we have put into place in our marriage and I'm also going to be

01:23:01.700 talking about how everything we've been taught by the experts about sex is wrong that we are not

01:23:08.580 ovens that need to be warmed up first that's another video for another time but it's really

01:23:15.000 really I just I don't I don't think it's that hard to have sex

01:23:18.820 does it you know important we have been fed so many lies and so many myths and so many

01:23:30.140 so much you said you sent it on x let me see um

01:23:36.080 i am not can you put your twitter handle in the in thing because i'll do it if do you think

01:23:42.820 you'll answer um these group chats leave these like that people add me to

01:23:54.440 information what's your at about sex as women and i'm excited to share my journey because it's been

01:24:02.900 a huge journey uh and and wonderful journey in my marriage one of the things i'm most proud of

01:24:09.520 my husband is most appreciative of um that i have um healed and overcome and myself and i i'm

01:24:18.320 excited to be sharing that so we're going to be talking more about that on the channel but that's

01:24:22.400 the the number two thing your husband really wish you knew that that sex is how he feels loved and

01:24:28.320 respected and that it's not an option in marriage that when we made those vows that's the commitment

01:24:34.800 we made it's part of a healthy relationship and when as women we can reconnect with the fact that

01:24:40.220 we enjoy sex too then it's something we do for ourselves and enjoy for ourselves that we get the

01:24:47.960 benefit of it and our husbands get the benefit of it but a key piece is we really do have to remember

01:24:53.980 that we enjoy it and not have sex for our husbands as something to check off the list just because

01:24:59.720 it's important to them they can feel that we have to learn to be there and be engaged and enjoy it

01:25:07.160 for ourselves which is all our husbands want and then we don't have the resentment or feeling used

01:25:13.080 or feeling all right i think we get the point um let me see if there's anything else we're supposed

01:25:18.520 to go over okay i just want to know you guys's thoughts on lila rose on the topic um do you

01:25:24.600 you think sex is a need um and if you've ever been in a sexless marriage call in talk about it

01:25:32.260 we got doug mpa on the line and i'm i'm gonna keep looking to see if um to see

01:25:40.440 if they um if the number comes in but i just i'm not seeing it all right doug mpa how are you

01:25:51.220 how's it going i'm good how are you i'm doing good guys you gotta stop simping in the chat it's been

01:25:58.000 out of control this evening stop the simping please it's ridiculous today i know we gotta

01:26:05.680 we're gonna ban for simping yeah man come on now um yeah so i mean i like what she said to lila

01:26:15.920 when she was on your show about, you know,

01:26:18.920 Lila's an undercover feminist, we all know it.

01:26:23.360 And she makes her husband look bad.

01:26:27.080 And that's what these trad wives don't understand

01:26:29.600 when they go out saying the crap that they're saying.

01:26:32.360 It's bad for her, but it's even worse for her husband.

01:26:36.760 She's pretty much saying,

01:26:38.160 oh yeah, my husband doesn't get sex from me at all.

01:26:41.580 And he's fine with it.

01:26:42.580 that's why i'm telling you that you can not sleep with your husbands because my husband doesn't get

01:26:47.980 sex from me that's exactly what lila rose is saying a whole bunch of words have you ever

01:26:52.660 been in a sexless marriage no i i've never had a sexless marriage i've never had a sexist

01:26:58.460 relationship i i've had ones where where everything but the sex was was bad but the

01:27:07.260 sex was always good nice is any is beardson on the line if he is have him come up yeah yep he's

01:27:14.600 been here i'll have him come in yeah i wanted to see what he said i keep looking i want to call

01:27:18.780 this guy's sister i think it'd be pretty funny beardson's um audio is connecting beardson oh

01:27:28.440 there he is beardson you there uh hello can you hear me hey beardson how are you hey how are you

01:27:36.140 going i'm good what did you think of the lila rose clip oh god i have i have this past week

01:27:47.820 has given me like catholic e-girl fatigue dude i'm burnt out we've got to put a stop to this

01:27:55.440 who is letting these women who's letting these women buy microphones

01:27:58.800 okay um so what do you think do you think sex is a need

01:28:04.960 um i don't i wouldn't say a need per se but it's it's really important you know it's like

01:28:16.040 i would say sex is the same way that uh i would treat cake right or it's like i don't need cake

01:28:24.620 right but i really like cake so what do you think about the women that don't think it's

01:28:31.180 a need for their husbands i think that's totally embarrassing and what's funny about it is that

01:28:40.600 that isn't even because i'm catholic you know that that isn't necessarily like everything

01:28:45.920 that they're saying is not even the catholic worldview um obviously of course sex does

01:28:53.880 serve the purpose of procreation but it also serves the purpose of demonstrating love

01:29:00.460 between a man and a wife it's a dual purpose right and this whole like idea for one that uh

01:29:09.360 like catholics are just strictly forbidden from using contraception is that's not true okay uh

01:29:17.180 she's lying on that that doesn't make sense like if you have like four kids like you're absolutely

01:29:22.400 allowed to like have contraception so you can continue to have sex with your partner

01:29:26.240 uh i think it's just cope and the whole thing's really humiliating too if i was that woman's

01:29:31.120 husband i would be totally embarrassed are you you just say partner

01:29:36.400 well like what like marriage partner i don't know yeah i'm an incel dude i don't i don't know any

01:29:44.840 determining i just don't understand why people call people a partner like i don't it's one of

01:29:52.080 worst things that ever happened so when i hear someone that's a religious or catholic or something

01:29:56.400 and they call a woman a partner it's just it's just a little pet peeve of mine go ahead i'm sorry

01:30:02.000 no you're good man i mean i'm not i'm an incel so i'm i'm never gonna get married

01:30:07.040 weren't you married before no that's a lie pearl i thought yeah i thought okay whatever i was just

01:30:13.680 asking because one of the questions i've never been on a date girl okay you need to accept that

01:30:18.880 that's not true because um one of the questions is do you know anyone that's been in a sexless

01:30:25.920 marriage oh yeah totally i mean you know i'm i'm 37 so i've definitely especially you know you work

01:30:35.040 with a bunch of guys and every day they come in and they're just pissed off and frustrated you

01:30:40.480 know like yeah it's supposed to get lucky and get lucky last night you know even the

01:30:45.840 the phrase even the phrase what do you think about this because i was not going to talk about this

01:30:53.520 earlier look these have a term where you ever hear the term sow your wild oats so like a young man

01:31:02.320 he would sow his wild oats when he was young and when he's a teenager and and in his 20s so he can

01:31:09.680 get it out of his system because when he got older and he got married he'd have a responsibility and

01:31:15.120 all this to do and that would factor into like the amount of times that he could have sex but then

01:31:20.720 he would be okay i would imagine that's because he would be okay with getting less sex because

01:31:25.600 he he have a lot more to do a lot more responsibility but you got it out of your

01:31:30.640 system when you're younger right yeah yeah i mean and i think there's some truth to that

01:31:37.040 obviously there's like a biological element to it like once you hit like 35 40 starts to drop you

01:31:42.640 you know uh whereas like you're in your 20s like you're high t dude you're ready to just bone

01:31:47.580 anything in sight um so there's definitely but yeah for sure and i don't know i mean i'm definitely

01:31:53.460 i'm not like a pro wild oats guy by any means like i don't i don't think that i think that's

01:31:58.460 like royal oats sorry about that go ahead yeah but i said it wrong no you're good man it's but

01:32:04.540 i'm not like a pro oats any any kind whether wild or royal

01:32:08.640 um i don't think it's necessarily a good thing to just go out and like bang a bunch of horrors

01:32:15.200 by any means because uh you can end up with like an std or something especially nowadays

01:32:20.000 but at the same time i mean i don't i don't uh i don't like this idea that

01:32:25.520 within the confines of marriage that sex should be something that should be like

01:32:30.000 relegated to like an activity or like a chore for the woman like it's that time of the month

01:32:36.000 Is it that hard?

01:32:38.600 I don't think it's that hard.

01:32:40.680 Like, come on.

01:32:42.840 I'm like a chore.

01:32:44.920 I think the guy does more work if we're going to really talk about it.

01:32:50.440 Like, come on.

01:32:51.160 It's like, what?

01:32:52.100 You got to lay there for five minutes?

01:32:53.820 Like, oh, I'm so sorry, you know?

01:32:56.100 Wait, so I have a question.

01:32:57.120 Out of your friends, what percent would you say that are married or in sexless marriages?

01:33:02.260 Just anecdotally, the ones you know.

01:33:04.180 um i mean out of people i know i don't to be honest i don't talk about sex at all with my

01:33:09.980 friends so i couldn't i couldn't say like for my circle of friends uh what their sex life is

01:33:15.980 because i just find it the least interesting topic on the planet to talk about but uh i mean

01:33:21.360 out of people that i've met though i mean it is it's a pretty good chunk i would say out of all

01:33:25.660 the men that i've met and like worked with like 30 40 i would i would estimate her in sexless

01:33:30.360 marriages who behaves better girlfriends or wives uh girlfriends 100 yep 100 true i agree

01:33:39.720 who behaves better girlfriends or side chicks i don't know about that i've never had a side chick

01:33:46.640 before i'm a loyal man there's like a joke that's like that's like your girlfriend um there's a joke

01:33:54.040 that's like you tell your girlfriend to come over and it's like nah i'm busy and it's like you tell

01:33:58.600 your side chick to come over and it's her like running through the rain she's she pulls up in

01:34:08.020 her her nissan ultima and climbs up the balcony and climbs through your way

01:34:13.040 she's trying to earn it dude she's gonna earn that d

01:34:17.000 with some chicken strips and some french fries and a frosty coke okay can i say that i will say

01:34:26.060 this. I will admit that I maybe have been in one relationship before. I know you have. I know you

01:34:30.940 have. Stop it. In one. It was one and it was it honestly it was the perfect relationship. I had

01:34:36.340 this girl and we weren't like boyfriend and girlfriend but we were kind of fooling around

01:34:39.740 and she really wanted to be my boyfriend and I just wasn't feeling it so every night after I

01:34:43.880 got off work she would bring me homemade food come over we would fool around and then she'd just

01:34:49.160 leave for like three weeks it was awesome yeah but that situation i wonder who acts better a

01:34:57.720 situationship or a side chick i don't know i mean honestly situation yeah well well hold on it

01:35:06.440 depends though because um there's only there's a small percentage of the time where a situationship

01:35:14.200 is the person acts terribly and that's when they have the what are we conversation

01:35:19.160 and they only have that a couple times out of the year but when they do is probably really bad so

01:35:24.840 you just have to deflect and get through that little bit of time where she asks what are we i

01:35:30.160 can't do this forever you know my parents keep asking you know am i ever going to get married

01:35:36.020 all my friends blah blah blah so i'd say a good percentage of the time is the situationship until

01:35:41.440 the holiday season comes around but we practice on this show of how to just keep like you know

01:35:47.680 keep leading her on so wait doug doug doug go ahead go ahead so doug mpa what are we

01:35:55.880 um i would say uh i don't think it's a time to be putting labels on things i don't think either

01:36:05.400 one of us have have that emotional bandwidth currently right now in our lives but we're

01:36:10.740 already doing like we're already acting like boyfriend and girlfriend why don't we just call

01:36:14.220 at that. So that's why I say, you know, boyfriend, girlfriend, I say, I don't think that we should

01:36:24.760 limit ourselves to such labels. And honestly, I mean, I'm giving you everything that I can give

01:36:32.820 you right now. And if it's not enough, I mean, well, then that's something that you're going to

01:36:38.120 have to address. But right now I'm giving you everything that I can give you and I don't have

01:36:41.940 anything else to say what she got that's way better that's way better i just told him my mom died

01:36:49.540 you know how many moms have you had died well i'm an incel so only the one you know

01:37:00.180 many women create their super villain by denying their husband boyfriend or side guy to

01:37:04.980 weaken the males resolve and strengthen the other women's yeah um is any of the e-girls on the line

01:37:12.900 i added beardson to the group chat today um let me it i don't see okay no e-girls it's all right

01:37:24.260 who's who's ernie b who's that do you know that person i don't know

01:37:27.860 sometimes people have different skype names but i was gonna give the e-girls first dibs

01:37:34.980 if not you can just see if anyone else no no if anyone else is on you can do a panel

01:37:42.160 okay i'm a little mad that you added me to a group chat with a bunch of e-girls like it's

01:37:46.180 just me it's like charlie's angels you know what i mean except they all hate me i just

01:37:50.740 can't i mean they all hate me too that's why i made the group chat so before i bring people

01:37:58.200 into the panel guys make sure to like the video that there was over 900 people in the

01:38:02.400 chat tonight so like the video subscribe if you haven't already uh hit that super chat button

01:38:07.560 because all donations go to the divorce documentary go to the audacity network.com

01:38:13.200 to join pearl's website we're always good to have you in there and um i saw oddly man

01:38:19.780 valencia joel js everyone and audacity chat thank you for being there i'm gonna let ernie be in

01:38:28.020 first uh ernie are you there yes can you hear me yeah cool all right so i'll try to make this quick

01:38:39.540 all right uh okay so yeah i was in a sexist relationship for 11 years dude it was such

01:38:45.860 horse crap oh my gosh i know man okay so check it out so there were there were a lot of uh okay

01:38:52.840 so like for instance there were there were a lot of times where i felt like she was kind of like

01:38:56.720 you know using it against me as like some sort of weapon or something because there were times or

01:39:01.640 like uh that there was one instance where she was uh wanting to try out like a new birth control

01:39:07.980 and she was like we'll just give it a few months to kick in and then we'll try it out and then it

01:39:12.120 was like okay it's been a few months so you know what's up and no nothing uh there were times where

01:39:17.060 we would go travel you know like to other states and like as soon as we got to you know i would be

01:39:22.600 asking like so you know we're gonna have we're gonna have fun when we get there

01:39:26.680 it's like yes of course then we get there and then nothing you know like

01:39:30.280 she would say things like like why can't you just be normal like what does that

01:39:34.060 even mean oh and then another one was like you know just whenever I would try

01:39:38.560 to get her in the mood she would always say like well can't you just let it

01:39:42.520 happen naturally I mean you're good at translating woman talk Pearl what the

01:39:46.600 hell does that even mean let it happen naturally like I trip and you fall like

01:39:50.800 I don't understand.

01:39:52.040 This is natural for me.

01:39:55.340 What she's trying to say is,

01:39:58.040 I want you to be Chad, Tyrone, Gloctavius, and Gavin.

01:40:01.700 But even there, what does that mean?

01:40:03.200 I mean, the only other translation that somebody gave me was like,

01:40:06.000 oh, that means she has to initiate it.

01:40:08.420 Like, what?

01:40:09.300 Then it will never happen.

01:40:10.640 I mean, she just wasn't attracted to you.

01:40:15.340 Some women marry men they're not attracted to because they want kids.

01:40:19.000 Sorry.

01:40:19.300 well we weren't we weren't married no thank you for letting me know how it is we weren't married

01:40:23.400 uh but you know her her sister was married and she would say like you know whenever her sister

01:40:28.440 didn't get her way with something she would tell her well just tell your husband that he's not

01:40:33.240 getting lucky tonight or whatever it works with me like meaning you know on me like this bitch

01:40:38.220 but you know like it didn't work on her husband because her husband was already in his 50s and

01:40:42.580 he didn't give a shit he was he was he was fine with that whatever but uh but yeah it's always

01:40:47.520 And then, you know, like, she would, we would go to a party, she would get drunk, and she'd be all over me.

01:40:52.160 It's like, oh, I can't wait to get you home.

01:40:53.900 We get back to my place, she's totally knocked out.

01:40:57.120 You know, even the next morning, like, okay, what's up?

01:40:59.760 Like, oh, I got a headache now, I'm hungover.

01:41:02.540 It's like, dude, what the hell?

01:41:03.960 But yeah, like, the can't you just be normal thing really pissed me off,

01:41:06.720 because I think she had, like, not only her sister, who was also in a sort of sexless marriage,

01:41:13.420 but that's the thing, her sister wanted it, her husband didn't, because he was older, whatever.

01:41:17.520 But I think and then all the other women that she was friends with, they were all married and they were kind of like also taking the reins on their marriage and kind of like, you know, dictating to their husbands when or if they were ever going to get laid.

01:41:29.340 So I think that's kind of what she was used to, maybe.

01:41:32.560 So when she said that, like, why can't you just be normal?

01:41:35.460 Yeah, it said to me, like, were you ever tempted to cheat during it?

01:41:41.040 I cheated constantly because of that.

01:41:44.060 Honestly, dude, because and you know what?

01:41:45.740 I had the side chick and my side chick cooked clean and let me finish every which way and I

01:41:55.100 should have married her man. I should have at least dumped, maybe not marriage, but I should

01:41:59.900 have at least dumped the main bitch and then just went off to the side girl. But I was just too

01:42:05.820 gutless to do it. I was mostly because I was liberal at the time, but thanks to you Pearls,

01:42:11.260 now i'm black billed but uh but yeah man like i i yeah the side chick was there what happened to

01:42:16.780 the side chick how long did she stay till she bounced no no the side chick stayed for two years

01:42:23.180 and you know yeah and eventually she was like what the hell it's either me or or nothing and

01:42:28.140 you know yeah she was letting you do whatever you picked oh man i know man i know dude because i

01:42:35.420 i know dude and you know what like she she was she treated me way better she cooked and cleaned

01:42:43.060 and did everything you know which is awesome but yeah man i was too much of a dumbass to actually

01:42:48.460 like see through the fog and actually do anything about it did you guys have kids is that why did

01:42:53.780 you have kids no i did not have kids oh my god no i know man i know it was a total l one of the

01:43:02.380 biggest L I'm telling you the poor side chick she was working so hard he was he was totally

01:43:10.200 working hard that's like that's like being on a team that's like being on a team right

01:43:14.480 and um you're and you're watching like the point guard keep missing like free throws

01:43:22.180 and you're like coach put me in coach put me in I've made all the free throws in practice put me

01:43:28.380 in coach and they're like no i'm just gonna keep letting her like letting him miss these free

01:43:33.260 throws uh it was the longest amount of time that she went without you and her having sex

01:43:40.940 and the main girlfriend yep i definitely under a year but probably about

01:43:47.980 man at least six months but the longest what did um did she know you were cheating

01:43:53.420 like she she definitely you know what you can call it women's intuition whatever because like

01:44:00.000 she saw like she because at one point she had like the location finder thing and she saw she

01:44:06.260 saw that i was that she saw that i was at a motel one time and like i totally pulled it out of my

01:44:12.860 ass like yeah i got a flat tire and i pulled up i pulled over over here and you know i just i'm

01:44:17.700 changing the flat tire and she i but i can hear in her voice like i feel like she knew like she

01:44:22.680 wasn't that dumb but yeah i think she just denied herself the truth in order to preserve what she

01:44:27.740 thought was something you know real but or you know at least you know not uh what was like what

01:44:33.280 was what ended it like what was at the end what ended it with uh which one no the main the main

01:44:40.180 one like if the sexless marriage didn't get you to dump her like what did uh yeah no it was it was

01:44:47.140 really just uh accumulation of all types of things like she wanted to live her sister's life

01:44:52.520 who was living a better life than her and you know she didn't want to live our own lives together and

01:44:57.160 you know uh she wanted to get married but and and i had actually called about this it was she was

01:45:02.000 the one who was like all about the status and shit she wanted to get married just for the sole you

01:45:05.980 know benefit of the status and like and uh not to live our own lives but because she wanted to live

01:45:11.400 her sister's life or her friend's life she didn't want to live her own life with me she wanted to

01:45:15.420 live somebody else's but uh it was an accumulation of all types of bullshit and uh yeah eventually

01:45:21.320 her parents hated me or frankly like everybody hated me in the end and it was just a whole bunch

01:45:26.440 of shit but yeah it was a it was a huge l pearl the biggest l i've probably ever taken sometimes

01:45:32.120 you take l's i mean did you ever find a new chick like her or was the side chick the best

01:45:37.200 you know the side chick was the best like she was awesome yeah she was great and despite the fact

01:45:43.360 that she had two kids from two different baby daddies like you know they're like they were

01:45:47.880 fine like one of them was 18 and one was on one of them was 14 and and one of them's dad was dead

01:45:52.660 so i was like it was cool you know whatever but but yeah man like what a dumbass like that's one

01:45:58.840 of those stupid you know nostalgic moments of if only i can go back in time like shut up you messed

01:46:04.740 it up dude all right i mean she had two kids by two different dad maybe you could call her she

01:46:09.420 might still be single you know no she she's well that's a complicated situation as far as her being

01:46:14.940 quote-unquote single but no like i i called her and i tried to you know have something going

01:46:20.680 and you know but the eventually the conversation got to politics and it was done like she's totally

01:46:26.440 you know libtard now and and you know i guess one of her sons is a daughter now and it's like a whole

01:46:31.880 oh yeah you guys a bullet you died at the same time you know i could have like no you couldn't

01:46:39.400 fix her you know you didn't even know who she is yeah but like it could have it could have lasted

01:46:44.520 longer it could have been cool like for a little while longer at least but yeah like and then like

01:46:49.560 it was a good solid two years from 2013 to 2014 and then like i saw her kind of you know here and

01:46:55.560 and there a few years after that but it officially ended with side girl about 2019 so yeah oh yeah

01:47:02.040 it was a bummer man someone wants to ask ask him if he thinks that she was ever cheating as well

01:47:09.800 was that why she wasn't having sex honestly okay i personally be you know and i hate using this

01:47:16.460 word because it's been hijacked by the opposition but personally there are a lot of nuances to it

01:47:21.320 Sure. Sure. Sure. But again, thanks to you, Pearl, I'm now blackpilled and I could see

01:47:25.720 that maybe she could have, but from my own personal perspective and, you know, uh, experience

01:47:32.240 with her, I would say no, because she was very germaphobic. She was, if anything, I think that

01:47:37.660 she stayed with me because she was comfortable with me, slightly attracted, you know, but more

01:47:42.160 so it was like the familiarity to it all. Like, you know, hold on, hold on, hold on. Hey, Pearl,

01:47:47.260 The guy said that he's

01:47:48.720 He's going to have to give you that girl's number on

01:47:51.040 A different stream

01:47:52.420 So don't worry about it

01:47:53.980 So stop looking

01:47:55.360 Go ahead

01:47:57.120 And also I would say

01:47:59.180 To another one of your points Pearl

01:48:01.700 She was also like kind of that girl

01:48:03.740 Who was just not attracted

01:48:05.660 To 80% of men or at least

01:48:07.500 You know claim to be

01:48:08.860 But I don't know

01:48:10.340 That's a question I've pondered

01:48:12.640 I've thought about

01:48:13.360 But if I had to just give you a straight up answer

01:48:15.700 i would say no to my knowledge cool cool okay cool it's not cool it sucks what do you mean

01:48:24.580 it's a filler word all right all right thanks for calling in no problem thanks for having me

01:48:31.460 pearl you're kicking ass thank you we all take l's guys knock it off people oh yeah come on guys

01:48:39.140 we've all taken l's at least he's brave enough to come up here and say his l so good for him

01:48:44.820 not beardson he's an incel his yeah i've never taken an l in my life because i've never

01:48:53.380 that guy was wife was definitely cheating on him by the way i'm sorry i didn't want to like

01:48:56.740 say it to his face but yeah yep okay next up we have she put out when chad dumped her

01:49:04.980 yeah next up we oh just so you guys know on this side of youtube over here

01:49:10.420 we say you're either that guy or you're not and a woman will show you if you're that guy and she'll

01:49:17.200 show you if you're not that guy if you're not that guy you got to choose how long you're going to

01:49:21.260 stay in there and deal with it so all right omac are you there omac you're going 10 9 8 7 he's

01:49:34.480 probably listen to the youtube six five four three two one going once going twice omac you are going

01:49:43.960 back into the waiting room next up we have peter paul peter paul are you there he's probably listening

01:49:53.800 to the youtube too oh yeah yeah i'm here hey peter hey how you doing i'm good how are you

01:50:01.860 What do you think of the topic today?

01:50:05.000 So I was talking to my wife about this the other day, and I don't mean to put any disparaging

01:50:10.840 comments out, but the Catholic girl you were talking to, I don't know what it is, but she

01:50:18.720 drives me up the wall.

01:50:20.400 And I appreciate a lot of stuff that she's done, like any of us, like we do a lot of

01:50:24.540 really great things in our life.

01:50:26.600 But man, like, I think you have the right spirit on this one.

01:50:30.880 And I don't agree with you all the time either, you know, right?

01:50:33.600 Who agrees with each other all the time?

01:50:35.500 But I think you have the right spirit on this one where, you know, we got a gun on our back.

01:50:40.340 And it's just kind of one of those things, you know, dance through life, you know, talk about a simp, dance through life like you're not in target practice right now.

01:50:49.080 I mean, they're always putting, you know, the target on our back and just simping through life like it's not that way.

01:50:56.900 Not like you go to church.

01:50:58.780 They can't be like that, seriously.

01:51:00.880 we, we worship this guy that got killed by all these people. And you're telling me that they're

01:51:05.440 not going to do that to me and I just need to be happy about it. And so, yeah, that, that goes in

01:51:09.800 the bedroom too. I think, I think it does, but yeah, I don't know. I have way too much, I have

01:51:14.820 way too much to talk about on this topic. Yeah, absolutely. Sure. Do you have any other thoughts

01:51:19.760 you want to add? Do you think sex is a need for men or anything else just generally that you

01:51:25.260 heard during the monologue and maybe is relevant yeah so there's that book um i forget exactly who

01:51:32.940 it is but um love and respect and it's true you know women they need um oxytocin way more than

01:51:41.400 men do actually oxytocin attacks testosterone right so men need way less of that oxytocin

01:51:47.800 that connection hormone women need it that's the love part and then the respect you know men drive

01:51:52.540 off of serotonin and dopamine and all that kind of stuff and frankly that annoys a lot of women

01:51:57.060 so it's just kind of getting out of yourself and realizing that you're working with different

01:52:02.500 hormones and that men part of their hormone structure is yeah like we need hormonal hormonal

01:52:09.120 release as much as a woman does and then to say that the women need the hormonal release and then

01:52:13.700 the men don't i think that that's a double standard yeah totally um doug mpa you got any

01:52:20.160 questions for him yeah just real fast quick 45 seconds what's one thing that you disagree with

01:52:26.100 pearl on so um just just frank pearl i only watch you a little bit um i don't i don't know i mean

01:52:35.380 i couldn't go in a debate with the actual prep with that or something like that but um i'm also

01:52:39.080 catholic too and i think that um i'll put it this way i'll put i'll dodge the question i'll put it

01:52:46.380 really polite. If anybody wants to know what a woman should be like, in my opinion, that is the

01:52:51.520 Blessed Virgin Mary. And there's a lot of other really great, great women in the world and in

01:52:57.660 history. But I mean, what was the one thing that the Blessed Virgin Mary was known for

01:53:01.900 was being obedient to God. And I don't think, I don't, I don't think that we give that standard

01:53:10.500 to our women um and so i i really appreciate you pearl i'm not i'm not i'm not uh prepared to

01:53:18.720 debate you on any any specific topic but okay i mean i could but i just i didn't call for that

01:53:24.580 purpose oh okay okay yeah i appreciate you 100 though i tried to super chat it won't let me so

01:53:30.540 really that's weird yeah i don't know the payment thing or what okay yeah i see the dollar sign

01:53:37.820 on my end so all right buddy thanks for calling in appreciate it thanks for thank you guys

01:53:44.860 that's weird they can't super chat i i can see it in the chat right now we should do a smoke

01:53:51.340 show one of these days pearly sure it's a straight up smoke show bring the smoke

01:53:58.220 let's go we'd love to have that all right next up we have jake

01:54:02.940 Jake? Jake, you there? Yeah, I'm here. Can you hear me? I can hear you.

01:54:10.840 Okay. Awesome. Thanks. I want to say something about the caller from like two callers ago where

01:54:17.860 the question was, do you think your wife was cheating on you? Yeah. All right. So,

01:54:25.440 Pearl, I know that you and Rollo don't get along very well. And like, that's not the point. But

01:54:31.380 in his book the rational male he writes that if she's not getting it from you she's getting it

01:54:39.280 from somewhere else yeah that's true yeah so my money says she was yeah yeah i agree yeah

01:54:51.620 it's true man especially if she's decent looking come on now right because remember

01:54:59.440 one of the best new sayings I've heard is

01:55:02.260 divorce starts

01:55:04.460 in the bedroom and ends in the

01:55:06.460 courtroom

01:55:06.960 damn that is golden

01:55:10.240 I know I saw that on the

01:55:12.360 comment section of someone else's video

01:55:13.980 today but yeah I'm going to say

01:55:16.420 it one last time guys for the

01:55:18.320 people in the back

01:55:19.120 divorce begins in the

01:55:22.280 bedroom and ends in the

01:55:24.180 courtroom how awful is that

01:55:26.140 it's so true though

01:55:27.120 merch

01:55:27.980 yeah pearl i was wondering if i could tell you real quick a story from my early 20s where i had

01:55:37.580 a girlfriend and i was in a situation where like we agreed to be boyfriend and girlfriend but i

01:55:42.500 wasn't getting any even though we were sexually active before we were together no but tell it

01:55:48.400 i'm gonna read the super chat i'm gonna read this super chat really quick and then you can go it

01:55:53.060 says it works just fine thanks for all you do in the past you suggest suggested all men cheat

01:55:58.220 or something similar so I walked away from your content stance on that on that now um I don't

01:56:04.760 think all men cheat but I do think all men have the inclination and most in certain situations

01:56:11.780 aren't really going to turn it down um for example um athletes aren't really known to be faithful

01:56:19.080 and it's because they have more choice so um there are some men that have morals and like don't or

01:56:25.200 you know the risk outweighs the reward like maybe um it's just not worth it to them but

01:56:30.660 I still think they have that inclination it was pretty blackpilling because I would meet a lot

01:56:35.180 of influencers who would say they didn't cheat and then you find out they do in fact cheat

01:56:39.060 so you know what I mean like you meet enough people that like they say they don't and then

01:56:45.680 like it comes out they're having an affair you're like yeah okay um but yeah that's my opinion um

01:56:51.380 go ahead on not the super chat but the original the story hey jake go ahead okay all right so

01:56:59.460 when i was 22 i went to a concert one night and i met these older uh this older married couple

01:57:05.860 they were in their 40s and they mentioned their daughter then a couple months later i bumped into

01:57:11.660 them at the mall and their daughter worked at a certain store at the mall and the mom like insisted

01:57:18.060 like stop whatever you're doing come with me I need to introduce you to my daughter so she takes

01:57:23.980 me to the store I walk in introduces me to her daughter and there were like sparks right away

01:57:30.240 I think I shook her hand like five times and she like enthusiastically shook my hand back like all

01:57:36.080 five times um then uh we exchanged the numbers and we started talking turns out she had a boyfriend

01:57:44.580 she actually invited me back to her boyfriend's apartment while he was at work

01:57:50.760 oh by the way i was 22 she was 18 wow yeah all right well anyway then one night her parents

01:58:00.040 were out of town she invited me back to her uh parents house because she was watching her little

01:58:06.420 sister i go over there and we uh you know hooked up um even though she had a boyfriend and i was

01:58:14.860 really blue-pilled at the time so i thought that like we were like she was gonna ditch that guy

01:58:19.660 and we were gonna be together because she kept telling me how unhappy she was but nah nah she

01:58:25.920 wasn't going to ditch that guy uh then that guy got laid off and so he had to move out of state

01:58:31.200 to get uh another job with the same company and um of course as soon as he leaves state

01:58:38.960 guess who she calls she calls me and we're together all of a sudden and now that we're

01:58:44.180 together like the first month you know i i was getting all kinds of play and then month month

01:58:52.340 two and three no play at all she was shutting me down like every time right and so remember

01:59:01.060 when i said if she's not getting it from you she's getting it from somewhere else

01:59:04.620 she was talking to like this other dude um so she was talking she was keeping in touch with her ex

01:59:11.300 behind my back and then uh she was talking to this one dude uh that she knew who also worked

01:59:17.840 part-time at the mall he was a college kid and his mom and dad were both doctors and he was going

01:59:23.600 to school to be a doctor and uh the only and another thing that the rational male says um in

01:59:31.900 the book is that a woman will uh break up with you in her mind before she does it in real life

01:59:38.960 like she needs to line up she needs to secure her next relationship before she ends her relationship

01:59:45.000 with you and when I look back with my you know red pill awareness I realized that's exactly what

01:59:51.760 she was doing she was trying to lock down this doctor's kid and uh yeah so I mean that's pretty

01:59:59.680 much where the story ends I mean I don't want to this call to go on any longer than it has to but

02:00:04.720 yeah all these red pill things that I've learned and read about like I can look back on my own

02:00:10.980 experience in they just make better sense than anything else yeah yeah yeah i always say that

02:00:18.900 the red pill it helps you understand your past it's uh um it's uh intellectual exercise for the

02:00:26.500 present and it's a vetting system for your future yes exactly very well said doug cool cool thanks

02:00:34.580 for calling jake have a good yeah thanks so much for calling thanks for having me cool all right

02:00:40.340 we're going to try omac one more time you guys got to get your technology together please

02:00:46.260 omac i'm going to try you one more time omac are you there omac going once wait are you there

02:00:57.460 i think i heard him say something now he's on mute

02:01:01.620 omac going once omac going twice omac going three times guys you gotta get your technology

02:01:10.860 together oh now he's off mute you there can you hear me there you go can you hear me yes here

02:01:18.740 hello hello hi yeah hello hello yeah i'm here can you hear me i can hear you can you hear me

02:01:27.100 hello okay all right sorry hello hello he's out yeah you got a kick yeah dude come on now okay

02:01:38.540 all right um is anyone else on the line or no we have two two regulars on the line that

02:01:46.940 calling a lot so if you feel up to it we can take the calls yeah you can put them that's

02:01:50.940 fine just put them both in okay we have eeyore sean and we have fox brad

02:02:03.020 sean hey how's it going and then we'll bring brad up sean brad what's going on guys hey

02:02:13.420 guys how are you doing well not too bad not too bad i really like the fact that you had karen

02:02:19.660 sights on. I'm kind of a fan of hers, too. She kind of, in some ways, led me to your channel on

02:02:25.060 YouTube. Cool. So what are your thoughts on the topic? Did you guys have a story you wanted to

02:02:31.120 tell or just a general sentiment? Why don't we have Brad go first? I think it was Brad.

02:02:38.980 Well, you got some of mine already in the past, and I don't want to take up everybody's time all

02:02:44.260 night. But I was married for over 30 years. And this whole idea of, you know, sex being something

02:02:50.200 you can weaponize and the idea that it's optional. And I married somebody in my early 20s. I was 21.

02:02:59.840 She was 20. And we kind of did the church based trad con thing, the very same thing we've talked

02:03:05.420 about. You've talked about on your show and the guests you've had. And she presented herself as

02:03:11.060 one thing and then actually had totally different ideas that she was really good about keeping to

02:03:17.980 herself and putting on this like cosplay image of who she was so I didn't catch on for a long time

02:03:24.280 and of course I fell deeply in love with this girl so you don't want to see problems so somebody can

02:03:31.100 say well yeah you simped but four kids came along and you have a lot invested and we all know how

02:03:39.020 it goes in the courts. And like I said, I was emotionally very deeply attached. And when she

02:03:44.920 finally got around to, this is your problem, and I could be more intimate with you if you only did

02:03:50.640 this or that. It's like Karen Seitz said about being in an oven, needing to be warmed up. She

02:03:57.100 didn't need any warming up to start off with. And in the affairs that I found out years later that

02:04:02.760 she had. She didn't need any warming up. It was all very exciting. And, you know, so there was

02:04:09.160 no, it warmed itself up. It was just that I was the guy she married because the guy she wanted

02:04:16.340 to marry wasn't available or marriageable at the time. And she didn't want to be stuck living with

02:04:22.040 her parents for the rest of her life. And I hear that story repeated over and over again.

02:04:26.820 But when that happens, the women don't have that inclination to necessarily want to put out or to sleep with you or whatever.

02:04:37.240 And so then they just make excuses about it's your fault because you didn't approach them at the right time or you didn't follow some formula.

02:04:44.320 And I called it a red herring because every time you tried to match whatever it was they wanted, the goalpost would be moved and it would be something else.

02:04:52.760 Okay, well, you did that, but I need you now to do this.

02:04:55.740 so so um what do you what do you think's better girlfriends side chicks or wives

02:05:03.580 in like me personally go ahead pearl i had this problem that i started off already in my teen

02:05:10.520 years as being kind of a romantic i was looking for the long term um so i had friends that were

02:05:16.520 what you know in later years i would hear people call us players you know the guys would just hit

02:05:21.340 and and and run and i just that just wasn't for me i had opportunities to do that and i remember

02:05:29.180 one point i had this girl that we i went with some friends to a a gig that a buddy of mine had a band

02:05:36.620 and they were paid professionally to play at this bar and so they invited us as a guest

02:05:41.340 why don't you come hear my band play and so went there and we met up with a bunch of people and

02:05:45.740 there was a girl there and after we'd been drinking she decided to be the designated driver and drive

02:05:50.860 us home. I went back to my place and a couple of the guys followed us. After everybody else left,

02:05:56.700 it was just the two of us. And we were laying on my bed next to each other side by side going into

02:06:02.200 the night. And I just said, Lord, don't let me do this. I don't care for this girl. I don't want

02:06:08.320 a relationship with her. I know sex would be great, but I just don't want to do that. And

02:06:13.600 besides, I don't know who she is. She might be a total psycho. And then I wind up locked into a

02:06:18.800 situation that I don't want to keep up. So I don't know. I mean, I don't, I think it's tricky

02:06:26.760 no matter which way you go. It's the life is full of landmines. So, I mean, you could suck it up and

02:06:31.860 say, you know, just, you got to try it, you know, to win it. But I just, I just never was that

02:06:38.480 person. Got it. Jet Black, $3 super chat. Thank you very much. I appreciate you. You guys are

02:06:46.140 so nice so thank you um the other caller sorry i forgot which sean sean yeah sean hey how's it

02:06:53.800 going good what do you think about this whole thing what do you think about this whole subject

02:06:57.500 uh yeah i mean i have a lot of thoughts on this subject you know uh i wasn't i was never married

02:07:02.780 but i was in a living relationship and uh prior to that what i noticed like when we didn't live

02:07:07.300 together was that i think for most girls it might not be true for all but they sort of have more

02:07:13.280 desire for the guy they're with when they are apart for them so like when you don't live with

02:07:19.020 them they think about you throughout their work week or you know whether they're at school or

02:07:22.940 what have you because there's a lot of uh sort of mystery and that they don't know what you're

02:07:28.380 doing or where you're at and i think that naturally stimulates their desire so that the next time you

02:07:32.800 do see them suddenly they want to have sex with you and that's why most men will experience that

02:07:37.580 having a girlfriend who particularly they don't live with they tend to have a lot more sex when

02:07:42.740 they do see them compared to when they're married or in a live-in relationship.

02:07:47.320 And so when I started living together with my now ex-girlfriend, I found that her desire

02:07:52.640 over time started to sort of dip, whether it's like, we're just, we're too familiar

02:07:58.460 with each other.

02:07:59.300 It's almost like brothers and sisters, right?

02:08:01.340 The reason why they're not attracted towards each other is because they spend way too much

02:08:05.120 time with each other.

02:08:06.580 And so there's that sort of Westermark effect that basically happens that basically causes

02:08:11.180 from both sides, but I would say particularly even more so for women, they tend to naturally

02:08:15.560 lose their desire. And so, you know, I think Chris Rock had a saying, like, men should be

02:08:20.600 fucking and going, right? Basically, they should be on the road like a traveling salesman and then

02:08:24.500 only come home for sex and then back on the road. Like, that's how things will naturally work a lot

02:08:29.300 better than if you're around them too often. But yeah, I would say a lot of women, they are a little

02:08:35.940 bit hypocritical and quite frankly, a little bit feminist in their thinking that they should

02:08:40.300 naturally have a desire, and only then, when they're in the mood, I guess, should a husband

02:08:45.020 get sex. I find this a little bit hypocritical, because for girls that are in the workforce,

02:08:51.260 they have no problem getting in the mood to go to work to get a paycheck, but the idea that their

02:08:56.940 most valuable customer, being their husband or their boyfriend who they live with,

02:09:01.100 they don't see that they have a duty to satisfy him, even though he's paying all the bills.

02:09:04.860 they just kind of take it for granted over time. Uh, so when I sort of experienced this sort of

02:09:09.740 like, you know, I'm not in the mood or this, that, and the other, you know, I think Brad's a much

02:09:14.060 nicer guy than me, but, uh, I took more of the approach of being a dick. Like I was, I was more

02:09:18.620 like, okay, well, if you don't want to have sex with me, like you don't have to, but I'm going

02:09:22.060 to have sex with somebody else. So I prefer to have it with you, but if, if it's not a priority

02:09:26.700 to you, you know, I'll go to another restaurant. Like that was a sort of, you know, my, uh,

02:09:32.940 mentality of things. What I found was the idea of her losing me tend to spontaneously drive up her

02:09:40.220 desire to want to have sex with me more often. I think the reality is it's almost like a tenured

02:09:46.140 professor. Once that professor gets tenure, all their research basically goes to hell, right?

02:09:51.180 Because why would you expect any employee or any professor or what have you to do high-quality work

02:09:58.540 if you guarantee their job? What motivation do they have to want to work harder, right?

02:10:03.900 So I think a lot of guys make that mistake by either getting legally married without a prenup

02:10:09.540 or what have you, or giving her some sense of true security. I think women don't actually

02:10:15.140 want security in terms of driving up their sexual desire. Or I think they think they want it because

02:10:20.760 other women want it. And so they think that's going to make them happy. But I think the reality

02:10:25.500 is, it doesn't actually propel their desire. If anything, it probably kills it.

02:10:31.820 One of the things that Karen Seitz brings out when you listen to her is the whole idea of the

02:10:36.640 elusiveness of happiness. And I think, Pearl, I think you've addressed that too. Women are all

02:10:41.100 into the emotionality of seeking that happiness. And so after a while, I think you're absolutely

02:10:46.820 right, Sean, as far as right on point, as far as the familiarity breeding contempt. I mean,

02:10:52.120 you're like an old shoe after a while and they know you're around that in my wife's case I mean

02:10:57.520 there was some concern at some point that she wasn't financially ready to stand on her own yet

02:11:03.040 or when the kids were still little that she was going to have a hard time as a single mom with

02:11:07.420 four kids finding another guy to take my place so oddly enough there was also apparently some guilt

02:11:14.960 at some point because I got more sex while she was having an affair.

02:11:20.340 Oh, my gosh.

02:11:21.380 Yeah.

02:11:21.920 I mean, she was going like crazy.

02:11:24.900 I thought, man, she's going through some kind of a hormone thing

02:11:27.920 or a midlife crisis.

02:11:29.540 Did she ever do the gaslighting thing where she would accuse you of cheating?

02:11:33.560 Because a lot of times, guys, if a woman's accusing you of cheating

02:11:37.260 and going through your phone, she's gaslighting you because she's cheating.

02:11:42.880 Amen, brother.

02:11:43.700 Amen.

02:11:43.900 I mean, the interesting thing about that is even beforehand, she set up the whole thing.

02:11:48.900 And I came out to find out, you know, she was a bit of a 304 before I married her.

02:11:52.800 And she did the whole virtue signaling.

02:11:55.220 I'm a church girl thing.

02:11:56.780 And I knew her through church, but we were on different ends of town.

02:12:00.340 And so I only saw her intermittently.

02:12:02.920 I didn't go to school with her and see all the stuff she was doing in high school that

02:12:06.340 all of her high school friends knew.

02:12:08.020 So I didn't know, but she was already kind of pre-setting up things to where it was like, I just know you're going to cheat.

02:12:17.100 And I know men cheat.

02:12:18.920 And so she was practically, every time I looked at the TV program and said, wow, you know, that woman is attractive.

02:12:24.280 I learned later on that's not a smart thing as a husband or as a boyfriend to do anyway.

02:12:28.820 But if I would make a statement or something like that, she'd already have this thing going about, I was already predisposed to cheat and I was going to cheat.

02:12:36.800 and so i was practically condemned of cheating before i ever do anything and the bizarre thing

02:12:41.840 is guys i'm not virtue signaling here for myself but in the 36 years that i was married the 32 of

02:12:48.720 which that we were actually physically together in the same house in the same bed i never cheated

02:12:53.360 on her i got close i actually had an airline stewardess and her daughter that it got like

02:12:59.760 within inches of you know getting into something for those who've never been married the best

02:13:07.280 cologne you can wear to attract women is marriage yep i'm telling you women that could tell especially

02:13:16.000 if you give any kind of inkling that you're happily married if we talk about your wife all

02:13:20.880 the time if you have a picture of you and your wife's smiling as the background on your computer

02:13:26.320 screen or maybe you have a picture of you and your wife on your phone dude it's over with

02:13:30.640 it's over it's a challenge yeah it's a challenge can i get him away and we love destroying things

02:13:37.280 even marriage like we don't even we love destroying our marriages and other people's marriages we get

02:13:43.360 off 100 true i've heard it said that women like drama yeah i'm sorry i didn't mean to talk over

02:13:49.040 top of you it's all right go ahead no i was just going to say and i'm i'm not sure now because

02:13:53.920 Whereas there are a number of different intelligent women like yourself that address these biased subjects from the men's perspective and with some real truth behind it.

02:14:07.340 But the idea that in the drama that women like, it's not okay if things are just quiet and things are going peacefully.

02:14:16.020 Yeah, I mean, I agree with that, right?

02:14:17.760 Like women like to sort of share their emotions, whether it's positive or negative.

02:14:21.480 and if everything is very calm, they're going to intentionally start drama, right? And the purpose

02:14:27.160 of that is to get a reaction out of you, because if you're reacting very emotionally, then by

02:14:31.960 definition in her sort of subconscious brain, she thinks, oh, he cares, right? Versus if you do

02:14:37.400 nothing, then it's just like, okay, then he doesn't care. Like, that's just how they kind of interpret

02:14:41.160 it. But, you know, I will say one thing to kind of what you mentioned, Brad, like, you know,

02:14:45.240 cause you, I think you were trying to reassure your, your now ex-wife that, you know, you were,

02:14:49.800 you're being faithful and you would never cheat and things like that.

02:14:52.180 I think that was actually a mistake.

02:14:53.860 I agree.

02:14:54.620 But because in my honest experience, like if you let a girl, like with my ex,

02:14:58.900 I would tell her from the get go, like I'm conditionally monogamous to you.

02:15:02.040 Like as long as you're giving me sex and I don't feel like cheating, I won't cheat.

02:15:07.580 And I'm not going to guarantee that.

02:15:09.320 But as long as you act well, I'll have no reason to seek it elsewhere.

02:15:13.440 But, you know, you kind of need to let her know that you have other options on the side.

02:15:17.160 You're just choosing not to excise that options, right?

02:15:20.760 And I can confirm that, Sean.

02:15:22.120 I can actually confirm that.

02:15:23.620 During the second year that we were married, I changed jobs and I went to a new location.

02:15:29.760 And because of the type of work I did, I couldn't wear my wedding ring because it interfered with the mechanical work.

02:15:34.620 And a young woman in the office, very attractive young woman, she took a liking to me and started flirting with me.

02:15:42.100 And I'd been already out of the game enough where it was like I didn't I honestly did not realize what she was doing, that she was displaying an interest.

02:15:50.740 And it started getting more and more cozy to where people in the office started taking notice.

02:15:55.580 Well, somehow or another, my wife got to know about this.

02:15:58.960 The next thing you know, she's showing up at work.

02:16:01.120 She's bringing me flowers.

02:16:02.560 She's sending me cards.

02:16:03.860 So, yeah, when there was that risk of possibly losing your meal ticket, which is more of what I was at that point, whatever the reason is, she was more attentive.

02:16:15.740 So, yeah, to your point.

02:16:17.400 I would agree with that.

02:16:18.100 I mean, girls will fight over a good provider, at least in their eyes.

02:16:21.460 Like, if they feel like you're doing a good job at that and they know you're not easily replaceable, they absolutely will fight over you.

02:16:27.960 But, you know, one thing I'll say is, you know, the week my ex found out that I had a hinge profile in the back of my phone, that was the week I got the most sex from her, to be honest.

02:16:39.460 Because in her mind, it was like, oh, shit, like he's looking elsewhere.

02:16:42.680 I thought this relationship was stable.

02:16:44.260 Like, you know, who's he talking to?

02:16:47.340 Right.

02:16:47.600 So I think that's just how they think.

02:16:49.320 Was there someone else?

02:16:51.720 I mean, there was a few girls I was just like chatting with, but no one I was actually meeting up with.

02:16:55.740 Oh, OK.

02:16:56.220 uh but i mean just the idea that that was the case guys i think that really drove her mind kind

02:17:01.500 of crazy i had a circumstance where where um i had this friends with benefits from a from a part-time

02:17:09.340 job that i was sleeping with for like years right and i started talking to this girl that i really

02:17:14.700 started to like and um uh and um and so the girl that i really started to like she said that she

02:17:27.020 wasn't a sexual person whatever that means right and and i'm talking like sex like once a week

02:17:33.820 was good for her but she was absolutely beautiful now the side chick i was sleeping with was you

02:17:38.700 know like a five but um this girl was like an eight right and so how i was getting by was okay

02:17:46.140 i'll sleep with the eight once a week and eventually try to break that down but it's

02:17:50.940 okay because i'm sleeping with the other chick right so one day i'm over the eight's house

02:17:56.220 and normally i would mute the notifications from the five on my phone right when i walked

02:18:02.540 through the door of the of the eight's house well i had forgot to do that right because uh so

02:18:10.140 my phone was across the room and the eight picked up my phone and the five had said hey baby this

02:18:18.060 and this on a text message across from my phone and she's like what is this i'm like oh crap right

02:18:24.700 so guys if that happens don't leave sit through it like like justin waller said when he was on um

02:18:35.100 i think he was on on pearl show um sit through the chaos don't leave because i i was like man

02:18:43.260 this is terrible and i'm ducking and dodging all you gotta do is wait out her her initial

02:18:49.420 sadness and disappointment and then you will get the best sex ever that's happened to me

02:18:53.980 I agree with that.

02:18:54.960 I sat there for like an hour and a half.

02:18:56.620 She went from pissed to sad to despair to upset to like trying to swing at me and stuff.

02:19:04.920 But then it ended in some of the best sex ever.

02:19:07.420 I'm telling you straight up.

02:19:09.060 And I barely said a word.

02:19:11.600 She's like, unlock your phone.

02:19:12.960 I want to see it.

02:19:13.560 I said, nope.

02:19:15.940 Name calling all this stuff because she just had to get it all out.

02:19:18.900 She had to get it all out.

02:19:19.760 I just sat there on the couch.

02:19:22.180 Then she poured herself a drink.

02:19:23.980 Then she poured herself another drink, and then we had the best sex ever.

02:19:27.180 We had sex for like six days straight.

02:19:31.100 No, I mean, I I agree with that.

02:19:33.020 Like, but when I was caught, I kind of took a different approach

02:19:35.700 because she was pissed at me and I was just like, you know,

02:19:38.700 I kind of put it back on her like I didn't like deny it or anything like that.

02:19:42.380 But I was just more like, you know, you just haven't been taking care of me lately.

02:19:45.660 So, you know, I haven't felt wanted, you know, I thought you were my girlfriend,

02:19:49.580 you know, and you got to put it back on them.

02:19:51.340 You got to make them feel guilty about it.

02:19:53.020 like you really do want them but because they were neglecting you now other women are interested in

02:19:58.300 you and you're pursuing that so you gotta you gotta make them feel guilty about it so then that way

02:20:03.820 they're thinking him cheating or him looking elsewhere is my fault like that's how you got to

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02:20:21.420 here this isn't if we're not comparable sizes or there's no reason i don't know your stuff

02:20:28.220 um there's usually a fee so if you're interested you can email me but i just

02:20:33.740 i'm really trying to build my own show right now so i'm not really doing a ton of collabs

02:20:39.020 um unless they come like unless i already know the content or something

02:20:44.700 but yeah um go ahead okay gentlemen we have two more calls on so okay drop you guys off

02:20:53.360 but call anytime okay okay sounds good thanks guys all right let's get talking to you

02:20:57.320 okay so brad says that he wants to come on and then we have our our good friend sean from thailand

02:21:05.980 we'll bring him on to

02:21:06.920 Brad

02:21:08.660 um

02:21:10.440 oh no

02:21:11.820 that was one you were just talking to

02:21:14.480 it's a different Brad

02:21:15.540 Brad are you there

02:21:18.840 Brad you said you wanted to come on

02:21:22.580 in the chat you're on

02:21:24.060 now you're on mute

02:21:25.000 Brad

02:21:28.340 Brad

02:21:30.100 what up guys

02:21:31.840 hey Brad how are you

02:21:34.480 i'm doing good how about yourself i'm good um so what are your thoughts on the topic

02:21:40.900 yeah so i've only been watching a little bit but the gist of it is like

02:21:47.040 having boundaries with your girl is what i'm getting from it

02:21:50.220 uh you haven't been listening to the show at all or the monologue or anything

02:21:55.620 well i've just i've just been busy so i've been on and off with this one but

02:22:00.580 no man sorry i can't brad sorry man like you can't just barge in here and we've been having

02:22:08.920 all this conversation we don't want to recap for you bro sorry so like sorry man

02:22:13.700 our good friend sean from thailand sean what's up brother

02:22:19.320 uh sean what's going on hey sean how are you good good hey you gotta pay that toll to talk

02:22:33.400 to pearl let's get it let's get it what's going on everybody what do you think of the topic

02:22:40.580 what are what are your thoughts did you see the monologue yeah and then also seen some

02:22:46.480 X post and stuff like that. I think they're called the X post, but yeah, yeah, exactly.

02:22:52.260 Going back and forth. So I think, you know, I think actually women in general actually attempt

02:22:57.400 to shame men's sex drive, but drag cons take it to the highest level of course, right? Cause now

02:23:02.920 they got the Bible, Jesus and everything on their side when they're making the arguments in the

02:23:09.120 cases. And they also appear to be quote unquote sanctified while they do it and administer their

02:23:16.200 preachings and what they think about male sex drive i agree what do you think could you imagine

02:23:24.360 could you ever be with a woman that tried to say like people publicly knew that you and her

02:23:29.880 were together right and you weren't on social media but then she would say oh yeah men don't

02:23:34.360 need sex my husband is under control he doesn't we don't ever have sex we don't like could you

02:23:40.920 imagine a woman putting all that out there like what would be the goal of a woman doing that and

02:23:45.640 And how would they reflect?

02:23:47.180 How does a woman do that reflect on the man she's with?

02:23:51.960 Well, I mean, it depends on what society they're in.

02:23:56.060 But I think at the end of the day, they do that a lot because they're just lacing the game.

02:24:01.120 They're telling other pimps.

02:24:02.600 That means the other girls.

02:24:03.940 They're telling, hey, look, I lace my husband like this.

02:24:07.100 This is how I pimped him.

02:24:08.700 This is how I got him arranged in our relationship.

02:24:11.420 And you guys need to follow suit.

02:24:13.300 They try to actually normalize a lot of that, right?

02:24:15.640 Haven't you seen those articles by some weirdo psychologist, female feminists who's out here saying, hey, look, it's OK.

02:24:22.080 I think it's therapeutical for women to cheat to have second relationships in their marriage.

02:24:28.420 Yeah. So they do that a lot.

02:24:31.500 They tend to kind of like attempt to normalize it in some intellectual, spiritual, not even intellectual.

02:24:37.140 It's mostly like some spiritual blah, blah, blah, like the energy, vibes, gems, vibrations.

02:24:43.240 and so i think that at the end of the day they just end up trying to convert it to a mainstream

02:24:49.540 topic you know to be acceptable yeah yeah and you know it's crazy i'm like i'm not that religious

02:24:57.180 but i i feel like when it comes to this how do i have more religious beliefs than like women

02:25:03.480 like when i'm like i don't think you're supposed to henpeck your husband like i understand like

02:25:08.600 it happens at times like I do understand like you know we're women but it's like come on you know

02:25:14.840 what I mean it's just I don't understand how it's like I a non-religious person understand

02:25:22.120 the natural order of the world better than women that claim to know the bible so well

02:25:26.780 well I guess when you just look at it right Pearl let's start with story number one like

02:25:32.580 Eve defied God from the jump so I don't know why it would change in 2025 they couldn't get it

02:25:38.040 right on day one so you get what i'm saying like so they always are going to defy like okay i mean

02:25:46.040 girls don't even get that much that eve got right and eve kind of set the trend she was like look

02:25:50.280 girls i was i was a trad girl right i did what i was supposed to do and then you know the snake

02:25:56.920 came and i changed my mind and so i think at the end of the day that's just what they're going to

02:26:02.120 do i think that's the lesson out of the dang bible yeah yeah i totally nothing else i totally agree

02:26:08.460 there's a super chat my side chick joke just made my night my stomach did hurt a bit so um oh yeah

02:26:15.000 what's what do you think who behaves the best in your experience situationships side chicks

02:26:21.680 girlfriends or wives oh come on it's a tear it's a tear right so situation the side chick

02:26:30.040 it's a tear for sure for sure but you have to look at the usability of each

02:26:34.660 chick right and you kind of get diminishing returns once you get to the

02:26:38.800 wife level so once you get that side chick right or what was the other one

02:26:43.420 you said side chicken yeah so what was the other one called side chick situation

02:26:47.260 so you know you're like you know a side chick is like you have a girlfriend and

02:26:51.820 then she's but on the background really trying to ruin that and then a wife so

02:26:57.940 like you're married. Exactly. Exactly. So you got the situationship and the side chick at the

02:27:03.200 lowest tier, but also don't forget the side chick usually gets more leverage on you. So situationship

02:27:08.800 is at the best one with more freedom. Yeah. They're going to have, they're going to utilize

02:27:12.540 that leverage. Then you move into the girlfriend aspect. Right. And then the girlfriend that's like

02:27:18.020 less influence, but still a little bit more concrete. And then the wife is the final nail

02:27:22.820 in the coffin. Because once you make her a wife, it's just like, okay, simping forces from cops,

02:27:29.140 lawyers, judges, the society as a whole, sees her as a certain person, regardless of her actions,

02:27:34.900 right? And they're going to treat her in a specific way. And it's usually attached to

02:27:39.160 your economics and everything else that you have going on for yourself, right?

02:27:43.580 So at the end of the day, I would say the girl who treats you the best is the girlfriend only

02:27:49.480 because you also get the leverage things out of her. And then right underneath that is a

02:27:53.720 situationship. Those are the prime positions where you get the most out of the females

02:27:59.480 because you could always leave. And situationship is actually the best because no rules are clearly

02:28:05.860 defined. So no one's getting too comfortable, but you might not be able to leverage things

02:28:10.620 that you might want to leverage at those situations. But think about this, Pearl,

02:28:14.380 they all get kids so okay so if you it's 2 a.m who and you call a situation ship or a side chick

02:28:23.900 or a girlfriend who's gonna get there the fastest of course like doug said the situation ship and

02:28:31.020 the side chick because that's usually what they do you have to pick the side chick or the

02:28:35.900 situationship who's getting there faster come on go into your head you got a side chick side chick

02:28:44.460 side chick especially since you said the midnight thing yeah nobody has a side chick for emotional

02:28:49.340 support yeah because she she's she knows how to like get through the back door and stuff

02:28:55.420 well so can we establish that a situationship is a woman in a situationship is in a higher

02:29:04.140 level of commitment than a side chick yeah wait no yeah no no i'd say a situation ship is you

02:29:11.660 guys are hooking up but there's no labels on it so you haven't defined it and then a side chick

02:29:16.700 is like you have your wife or your girlfriend and then the girl you cheat with but she's been

02:29:20.620 around for a while so i'd put the side chick above the situation no but i i know as i mean at least

02:29:29.100 the side chick oh go ahead though yeah well because so situationships though remember

02:29:35.660 they're doing things like a relationship so situationship women have like they've gone out

02:29:40.780 on trips and they probably met the family and stuff and people around them are wondering why

02:29:45.260 they're not in a relationship whereas side chicks they don't get to meet the family and show up to

02:29:51.660 like events you know what i'm saying like side chicks can't do that yeah but i mean some side

02:29:57.340 chicks get written into wills like i mean if they've been there for a while they start to get

02:30:03.420 the same stuff well let's say that we'll clock them both in as almost the same there's just some

02:30:14.140 nuances there for both of those two groups but let's be for certain that wife is a nail in the

02:30:19.980 coffin that's diminishing returns okay i know it sounds bad guys but it's just nah they just have

02:30:27.260 too much power in that and women know that so at the end of the day they leverage it

02:30:33.100 well thanks for calling in sean it's a pleasure as all beardson are you still here

02:30:38.460 no no no no i don't think he is yeah he dropped out well thanks for having me and then of course

02:30:44.300 everybody watching man sign up for the audacity network have the audacity to sign up for the

02:30:49.020 audacity network shout out to you and shout out to you doug peace how's he talking to you brother

02:30:55.100 um steve she must fear you leaving not vice versa i was trying to have this girl call in who was

02:31:01.900 talking uh heather hollow was supposed to be calling in because she was talking a bunch of

02:31:06.780 trash in the chat hit that link at the top because she's like oh yeah you guys are a bunch of losers

02:31:12.540 because you can't find a good woman like me oh yeah why don't you call in but she's the bible

02:31:17.500 isn't on the trad con side genesis 25 6. wife didn't put out told her friends i don't know how

02:31:25.740 to attract women to cheat now my thai girlfriend doesn't wear any panties i don't even have to ask

02:31:31.020 her for it love you pearl do you need a side joint what is a side joint you know like a you know in

02:31:39.660 certain days in the country they say joint like uh what's the example like uh it's like a slang

02:31:45.660 term for just i can't even describe it but odds are he's from philly doesn't sound like something

02:31:51.980 i need i don't know uh let me see if there's any i missed because i'm going to the back end

02:32:02.460 love you pearl there okay i read all of the super chats so i think we'll close out the show

02:32:09.420 yeah i don't see any plural reads on audacity network so i think we're good i just wanted to

02:32:15.740 thank um joseph jillik thanks for being in the last chat joel thanks for being there

02:32:21.680 rodolfo good to see you everyone thanks for being in the audacity chat as usual

02:32:25.920 yeah thank you guys um thanks for watching as usual i really appreciate you guys um you can

02:32:33.100 bring your time and attention anywhere uh my final thought on the topic is that

02:32:37.860 trad con women you might as well just get a non-religious girl if i think through all the

02:32:44.200 women um like you said in the monologue um liberal guys have it better because liberal women

02:32:53.700 acknowledge male sexuality they just want you to sleep with whales and ugly feminist hard-headed

02:33:02.000 women instead of pretty women but trad cons don't want men to have sex at all except to have

02:33:09.600 to make babies so if you have three kids you're gonna have sex three times in your marriage guys

02:33:14.480 and that's it and so um for if conservatives want more men to come back to the church

02:33:22.000 or they want more men to um to get married they're gonna have to promote that

02:33:27.360 the conservative women have a duty to have sex with their husbands

02:33:32.000 and and that sex is a need and if a woman wants to keep her husband happy that she has to have

02:33:38.960 sex with them until that happens oh well tough crap yeah my advice to the trad cons is you should

02:33:45.360 get some hot 22 year old thin women that are virgins in church and if you can figure out a

02:33:51.920 way to do that you know or at least we'll lie about the virginity if they're hot enough they're

02:33:57.600 just not gonna check um yeah i mean that's really better marketing but you keep getting these

02:34:03.440 bitchy naggy women so i don't think it's doing you any favors anyways guys let me know what

02:34:07.600 you think in the comments make sure you like

Pearl - August 12, 2025

Tradcon Women Shame the Male Sex Drive ｜ Pearl Daily

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