Pearl - Traditionalism Is Not Coming Back

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00:01:54.540 What up guys, welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily

00:01:58.000 I cut my thumb in the stupidest way I keep having to it doesn't hurt but it won't stop bleeding

00:02:05.000 I probably should get band-aids but I don't have any so paper towel will do

00:02:09.360 do you know what I mean you need band-aids so little that like for me it's one of those

00:02:14.120 things I don't have often because I don't really need it often do you know what I mean

00:02:19.340 I don't know maybe you don't maybe you do

00:02:22.920 yeah don't use a band it's just it doesn't hurt but it just won't stop bleeding

00:02:33.500 it's the worst it's the right thumb isn't that incredible it's like my right my right thumb

00:02:38.900 is gonna be bleeding why

00:02:41.320 so I wanted to um kind of do a show tonight stating the obvious right sometimes you know

00:02:52.540 I guess I make money. I get to talk for a living. Stating like obvious things, you know.

00:03:02.400 And it's probably not fair. A lot of you make money doing hard, hard labor. A lot of you guys,

00:03:08.300 I know I got a lot of blue collar men in the chat. Put a one in the chat if you're a blue collar man.

00:03:13.520 A lot of you, you might clean cars. You might fix toilets. You might do electrical, right?

00:03:22.540 but you know there's a lot of but for some reason i i um i i get to make money

00:03:31.660 stating what is obvious and to me it's extremely it's extremely obvious what's going on in society

00:03:38.200 um but sometimes you know it's like right in front of you but you can't see it and i see

00:03:44.560 that with a lot of conservative men. Now, let's talk about what happened in society. How do we

00:04:08.220 get here now my conservative counterparts like to say that feminism um has destroyed women that

00:04:15.340 women used to be amazing and awesome and just super special and different but then women just

00:04:20.880 got brainwashed into being whores right now we got at least one out of ten women on only fans

00:04:27.580 under the age of 25 if we're being really honest it's probably a little bit higher

00:04:31.060 right it's probably a little bit it's probably a little bit higher like can we can we just be real

00:04:36.200 but you know conservatively one out of 10 women aren't only fans

00:04:44.220 and my conservative counterparts will say that they will say that traditionalism is coming back

00:04:55.780 we all just fight really hard we can save society right and they want you to volunteer to save

00:05:04.280 society right they want all of you men in the chat to come forward and fight for their cause

00:05:10.360 but you have to think about it you you fighting for their cause benefits them because conservative

00:05:17.400 commentators they're the elites in society they're the high status men you are most likely

00:05:24.280 low status men i mean and this isn't this isn't um to pick on you or degrade you just most people

00:05:30.200 aren't high status, right? Most people are normal. They're peasants, right? Very few people get to

00:05:35.600 be the kings and the governors. You used to be the king of your own castle, but no more, right?

00:05:41.980 So, I am not low status. I'm below low status.

00:05:53.260 well having money doesn't necessarily mean you're high stat you could be high earning

00:06:00.660 right and some of you maybe you are high status i don't know

00:06:04.460 um but let's just say out of out of 10 of you most of you probably aren't like super high you

00:06:13.720 know it's okay right most i mean my grandpa was a farmer you know what i mean my other grandpa was

00:06:19.260 a fireman um now you could say they're valuable to society right but they're you know they're

00:06:25.740 lower status than the kings the peasants the governor and and let's not pretend like being

00:06:31.680 a king really was the best life you know sometimes peasants live a better life than king i mean

00:06:36.760 didn't caesar get like stabbed 20 times you know by his counterparts so what the conservative

00:06:44.960 commentators want to do is they want low status men to fight for their cause because the conservative

00:06:50.220 commentators, they're like, you know, they're making money off of talking for a living.

00:06:55.220 They're not going to be the ones fighting these battles, putting their neck on the line. A lot

00:06:58.820 of them can afford a divorce. You can't. So they want you to save society for their children,

00:07:05.520 for their kids, right? And so the way they do that is they, they sell hope.

00:07:14.960 and what they tell you is that conservative values are just coming back. The pendulum

00:07:22.520 always swings. Now, you could argue the pendulum, you could argue the pendulum does swing, right?

00:07:31.940 You could argue that, but let's say you were born in the seventies and no fault divorce just

00:07:37.120 legalized. What if they told you then that the pendulum was just going to swing back?

00:07:42.520 You would live your whole life

00:07:45.540 Waiting for the pendulum to come

00:07:48.120 And the observations I have on society

00:07:54.000 You know, what if you were in 1920

00:07:58.280 And you were there watching women get the right to vote

00:08:02.720 And they said it's okay, the pendulum always swings back

00:08:06.360 But there's no indication to me at least

00:08:09.900 That the trends are really going that way

00:08:12.220 there's no indication to me that traditionalism is coming back in any way for traditionalism to

00:08:24.040 come back we'd have to bring back traditional incentives and the pendulum is too far gone and

00:08:29.640 i'm going to tell you why so in 1970 um we kind of went from a cash economy into a credit card

00:08:38.020 economy and the way the banks did this is they realized you know guys pesky wives would come in

00:08:43.700 with them to the bank and they realized that if they give the wife the credit card they could

00:08:48.420 spend more of men's money um than the men's right and remember the government knows that

00:08:59.540 by taking men's money from family court divorce they're not stupid they know men are getting

00:09:04.580 robbed of their children and their assets in family court and divorce and you might ask why

00:09:09.380 doesn't the system change well there's too many people benefiting off of the system right there's

00:09:15.140 lawyers benefiting off of the system um and i'm going to give you an example because i like to

00:09:20.580 use my real life um and things that i see and trends that i see i'm going to give you an example

00:09:27.780 in a second. But I see no indication of the degeneracy and the trends going down. It seems

00:09:36.500 like the age of first marriage and the age of first child gets older and older and older.

00:09:40.980 It seems like the women get more and more naked wherever I go. I see more and more tits,

00:09:46.140 more and more ass, and I just have to accept it. Right. It seems like every day I see more

00:09:54.960 more women in positions they don't deserve right i see more and more female billionaires from media

00:09:59.600 you know in my lifetime call her daddy alex cooper has become a thing alex cooper i believe is worth

00:10:06.320 a billion dollars if she's not kim kardashian is kim kardashian and alex cooper might as well be

00:10:11.360 sex workers they teach women how to gluck gluck 9 000 a very valuable skill i'm not knocking them

00:10:16.640 but in no way does that indicate to me that traditionalism is um coming back right

00:10:25.920 now what happened was um thank you for the dollar super chat women got the right to vote in 1920

00:10:30.720 that gave women the majority of the political power in this country and when women got credit

00:10:35.920 cards and the right to divorce women got the majority um of the buying power in this country

00:10:43.520 also got the majority um they got 100 percent power of who was born now a lot of people say

00:10:51.760 the jays did it the j you know they're they had this diabolical plan to make women whores or

00:10:57.040 whatever um but essentially what happened is women have always been whores women have always gluck

00:11:02.560 9 000 and been these awful people uh but men used to keep them in check and have the authority to

00:11:07.840 keep them in check you know they could um not give women the credit cards right they could um

00:11:14.480 you know the women didn't have the right to abortion they didn't have all these rights

00:11:17.600 um so now that women have all this power we're just drunk on power we now have the right to say

00:11:22.860 anything on the internet even if it's offensive towards the men that built the internet right

00:11:27.460 so what happened is we get all this power and we completely destroy society

00:11:39.600 um we don't want to have kids we aborted an eighth of the world population

00:11:43.600 um you know my grandma was one of uh my great great my grandma was one of 10 or she had 10 kids

00:11:52.060 and she told me on her deathbed that her only regret she had nine kids um not 10 but her only

00:11:57.140 regret was not having more and i'm like grandma how many kids did you want she said 12 and you

00:12:02.460 know when i asked my grandma um before she died i asked her why why do you think society went this

00:12:09.560 way you know what she told me she said she everyone divorced because of birth control isn't

00:12:13.480 that incredible this is my grandma so conservatives want to sell you you're going to get a 1950s wife

00:12:22.720 but even remember even the 1950s wife the highest divorce rate ever was 1970 after it got divorced

00:12:28.180 and my grandma when she died she was separated from her husband so there was a lot that were

00:12:34.360 undocumented. My opinion, the Jays just saw a way to make money and have more control or whoever it

00:12:49.500 is, the powers that be, the credit card companies. So what happens is there's the people at the

00:12:55.060 bottom, right? There's the peasants. And the peasants are, you know, young men, people with

00:13:00.860 no power no say in society and the political impacts um and they want the system to change

00:13:06.780 and they you know rightfully so but the challenge is um as people move up through the system

00:13:14.300 they learn how to navigate the system you know men learn how to navigate a divorce

00:13:19.980 men you know a man might become a lawyer and now they're making money um off of divorce

00:13:30.860 so recently i saw so what can we expect right we can expect women to delay marriage even further

00:13:39.500 women to be more promiscuous um sex work to increase um ai relationships to increase

00:13:47.800 the birth rate to go to the freaking tank marriage is only for the upper class it's

00:13:55.280 going to be a luxury. I don't see any indication this is slowing down. None. Zero. None. Your wife

00:14:05.240 is someone else's wife because somebody else banged her before you. Her soul belongs to

00:14:12.280 someone else. It's not you. Sorry, fellas. You're not going to get a wife that sticks around. And

00:14:19.340 if she does stick around, she's going to make your life miserable. That's the future. We're

00:14:28.480 not getting husbands and wives. It's not happening. If you have one, it's for now. That's the

00:14:34.600 future. Now, again, people are going to come back and say, I'm a doomer. And I just say,

00:14:41.120 well, you know, I knew people that were happily married the first 10 years of marriage. I talk

00:14:47.160 to 70 year olds all the time they don't know anybody from high school that's happily married

00:14:51.700 there's like one or two maybe they all say

00:14:53.940 I think I'm one of the few commentators that say this.

00:15:19.760 So I'm going to give you an example of something that happened to me today.

00:15:23.940 well yes two days ago um there's a petition on my instagram story to save my gym so i go to i go to

00:15:31.860 lifetime i'll just tell you that i don't care anymore because i'm about to change gyms and i

00:15:36.420 love the basketball court there i love it i dream of that basketball court i've spent in debt in

00:15:43.060 dallas i'm now that i've moved i probably spend every day or every other day there i go to that

00:15:49.300 gym and i love it because there's a little bit of a money barrier so um there's a little bit

00:15:55.380 they're not too open about the phones i don't really want to be videoed and um

00:16:02.100 and etc right but um i can play basketball and volleyball it's competitive enough that i'm

00:16:12.100 excited but not too competitive that um i don't like it when basketball is too good because i

00:16:18.100 can't play especially with guys but there's like some slightly unathletic guys i can play with you

00:16:22.340 know um and i love it i play i go there every day i either do my mobility stuff or i um i go

00:16:28.900 on the treadmills and it's perfect the whole reason i went to that gym was because of the

00:16:32.980 basketball court now the membership for that gym i believe is around 300 a month okay and i know

00:16:39.540 that's expensive for a gym it's about 300 a month it's a high-end gym um but remember i told you

00:16:45.140 guys about um stretch sessions you can purchase there for an additional and one of the guys that

00:16:50.260 does it is 180 a session so you get one hour it's 180 bucks and there's other things you can purchase

00:16:57.700 at the gym like pilates and yoga and i don't know because i don't do pilates but like let's say it's

00:17:06.580 100 bucks an hour you can get personal training now the thing is women um like to do things in

00:17:12.500 groups. We're too dumb to figure out stuff ourselves. We like to, a man's plan and we like

00:17:16.520 to sign up for it. There's a Pilates, I don't know. There's a sauna there, whatever. And remember,

00:17:27.860 a $180 stretch session, if you sell two of those, that's a man's membership. And mostly women are

00:17:36.900 signing up for those right so the gym you know i'm sure they did the numbers and they said we

00:17:43.160 don't really care what the men want because the basketball court that's more for men i see it all

00:17:47.200 the time it's mostly used by the guys um so now they're going to cater to women and they're

00:17:53.820 blocking out half the locker room that's for men is um getting taken out to make more room for more

00:18:01.260 class space and it's why i didn't go to equinox that's like the other high-end gym um i i looked

00:18:07.100 at that gym and i didn't like it because i i just felt like it was too many classes and i

00:18:11.900 i um i'll do a class now and then but i like to just lift do my own lift

00:18:18.220 um and i like to do the basketball court right i like that that's that's what i like to do

00:18:23.980 and people are devastated about this okay i'm sad because i've made a lot of friends there

00:18:32.980 it's been amazing but i've only been there like eight months okay there's guys that have been

00:18:39.560 going to this gym for 30 years and have made their entire social network around this gym

00:18:44.900 i play you know i played volleyball today with um this older gentleman he said he's had the

00:18:51.020 same locker for 30 years they're taking out his locker and um he's like devastated that they're

00:18:59.180 you know that he's not going to get to play like this is the highlight of his day

00:19:04.400 and you know where you know i i did a petition you can sign it on instagram i'd love to get to

00:19:14.080 200 signatures for it um but the bottom line is women have the most buying power and what women

00:19:23.360 says is going to go because any gym that doesn't sell to women is going to get out competed

00:19:28.080 by gyms that do i know this this nice old man tries every day in volleyball he loves

00:19:37.120 I've never seen him miss a session, you know, and this is exactly what's going to keep happening.

00:19:51.300 Now, imagine, imagine if I got emotional and said, ah, well, I kind of am, I'm sad, but

00:20:00.820 anything that's made for men or that caters to men is going to be destroyed because it's going

00:20:06.920 to be changed to cater for women now they're going to take out half of the men's locker room

00:20:12.760 even though the women have an all-out sauna in our locker room that's not enough i guess

00:20:17.180 um and the men are going to lose the men in pearl are going to lose our basketball court

00:20:26.460 this happened to me in london too i went to a bodybuilding gym and at this bodybuilding gym

00:20:33.340 um you know it used to be only for men and when I went they allowed women and my trainer would

00:20:39.900 tell me how it was so awesome when it was a men's only gym and women came in they started sexually

00:20:45.660 um accusing everyone of sexual assault everyone's afraid to you know talk to women at the gym they

00:20:50.840 come in half naked I've never seen more sex workers than I saw at that gym and it gets

00:20:56.960 destroyed same thing happened to a gym I loved going to that first they took our free weights

00:21:01.840 and our benches then they took our chairs from our locker room so we could only change standing up

00:21:08.880 this is going to keep on happening

00:21:15.920 your daughters are going to have more opportunity for sports than your sons

00:21:23.200 i do love this basketball court okay i do love it i really do i'm deaf but think about it i love it

00:21:30.080 this much that's how cool of a community we have like everyone everyone it's like drama free everyone

00:21:35.440 has fun um it's just like a grand old time and there's some men that have been going there for

00:21:43.600 30 years there's like a whole social dynamic i mean i know people that have met their best friends at

00:21:50.080 this gym and at the end of the month now it's going to be destroyed

00:21:57.040 and i'm gonna have to see a bunch i'm gonna probably change gyms

00:22:02.760 i'm afraid to play basketball with you probably if you're a guy i mean i i take it easy

00:22:10.240 they did this with the boy scout it's now called scouting and 200 girls now reign the organization

00:22:16.020 yeah so anything men build things that are cool men like if you leave a man to his own devices

00:22:23.960 they say he's going to squander whatever some right they say they can't live without women

00:22:28.520 men thrive without women they build civilizations organizations men are funny like you remember old

00:22:35.400 youtube where men would just shoot the with their friends they would come up with the funniest stuff

00:22:40.840 now i have to look at vagina on youtube

00:22:45.720 now i have to look at half naked women on youtube and now i have to lose my basketball court

00:22:53.960 i admire you for pushing through all of this i mean god we're not gonna feel bad for me i mean

00:23:08.600 it's just i'll live you know but it's you know and it's the same thing in kentucky we recently

00:23:19.500 got 50 50 custody right and there was a man who actually reached out to me and he said that um

00:23:27.420 50 50 custody is stupid because he had 50 50 custody he was from overseas and i'm like huh

00:23:34.540 why why wouldn't you want to see your kids half the time and he says you just become a babysitter

00:23:39.020 for the wife when she has a new boyfriend and she's always turning the kids against you

00:23:44.620 so they don't listen to you and it's just hell on earth so even if you get 50 50 custody the wife is

00:23:51.820 still gonna make your life a living hell it's like hell on earth and i was talking to someone

00:23:56.780 the other day and he's like if i could just find a wife and i'm like it's not on the menu you can't

00:24:02.220 order that can i get a wife can i get a girl to stick it out no you can't i hate to say it no

00:24:09.980 it doesn't know you could get a wife if you pay her 100k a debt maybe she'll probably leave you

00:24:18.380 after women are always going to do what's in our best interest how long have had you have you had

00:24:31.860 your thailand wife is it less than 15 years then shut up you've no idea how this is going to end

00:24:39.980 really if we wanted to bring traditionalism back we'd have to ban social media not going to happen

00:24:55.780 way too many like i think a third of gen z women are employed by social media that's never going

00:25:01.820 to happen and with the gym i mean so let's say i i bring this to the attention and i get to

00:25:08.960 management and i complain and i say there's so many people that love this basketball court look

00:25:14.720 at all the members that love this don't you have any loyalty and the management's gonna say look

00:25:21.440 we're trying to make money off of these broads

00:25:28.400 we don't care yeah

00:25:39.360 and the trainers it's kind of like you know the men going to the gym are the peasants in this

00:25:44.880 equation the women going to the gym are the high status women because they have the most money

00:25:49.520 therefore they are going to be catered to right even though the men are like higher status than

00:25:55.200 normal most likely, right? They're still going to take that basketball court. The trainers are all

00:26:16.700 going to say, no, no, no, we need, we need the basketball court gone because they want to make

00:26:20.600 more money. The yoga instructors are going to say, no, we need that gone because they want to make

00:26:26.060 more money. The front desk people, everybody that, the people that work in the hair salon,

00:26:31.300 the cafe, all those people are making money off of women. Therefore, therefore there's no incentive

00:26:39.720 to change it, right? It's going to get worse.

00:26:50.600 yeah there's a hair salon in my gym there's a massage place too

00:26:58.080 i'm gonna miss that basketball court

00:27:07.640 they converted a basketball court to a paddle court yeah for women

00:27:20.600 It's going to get worse

00:27:48.980 until men stop it. Well, men aren't going to stop it because by the time they have the power to

00:27:54.200 stop it, they have too much to lose. Imagine you're a, okay, you're a young guy going to the

00:27:59.700 gym. Nobody cares about your opinion. Now you've worked your way up and you have a family and

00:28:03.800 you're working at the gym. You're like a manager of the gym. Well, now you have to cater to women

00:28:09.560 because you have mouths to feed, right? Thank you. Pretty unknown. Appreciate you.

00:28:18.980 what do men get out of stopping it less money

00:28:26.180 once men have learned the system and are using the system

00:28:31.400 who's going to stop are chad's going to stop banging your future wives

00:28:37.040 I like I heard a guy say oh I'm going to have four kids no you're not

00:28:47.100 why would you have four kids why would you get that

00:28:50.500 why would you the young women i'm going to be a traditional woman no you're not

00:28:59.140 no it's not happening

00:29:01.920 no and i see it in front of my eyes right

00:29:13.680 now let's say someone comes into political power okay and they um now they're gonna

00:29:23.280 make alimony and child support illegal

00:29:25.800 well my dog walker guy doesn't want that to happen because there's a divorced woman in my

00:29:38.680 apartment complex that pays her ex-husband probably pays for the dog walking services

00:29:44.120 he doesn't want that he's got a wife he's got kids something you guys probably aren't going to get

00:29:52.300 sorry fellas um now humans do um come up with solutions so eventually i think there will be

00:30:03.580 solutions. But remember, Rome took 250 years to fall. Rome didn't fall in a day. Inherent truth,

00:30:14.060 men have to build themselves. You're only cooked if you believe you're cooked. Well, and that's

00:30:19.040 true. That's why I say I wouldn't, traditionalism isn't happening in the system. And a lot of your

00:30:25.260 outcomes in life are luck. A lot of people think they can be in complete control of their love

00:30:32.500 life you know no you're not i'm gonna have a genetic legacy probably not no you're probably

00:30:39.780 not even if you have kids um they're probably not gonna have kids why would the statistics not

00:30:47.300 apply to you right oh i'm gonna i'm gonna have kids so i have a genetic legacy legacy well

00:30:55.140 so let's say you have two kids which is about that's that's above average now

00:31:02.500 all right

00:31:07.060 well your daughter goes to college now she doesn't want want kids

00:31:16.580 that's why i'm going to have a lot of kids again

00:31:24.140 how old's your wife how many kids how old's your wife your wife has to agree

00:31:32.340 to it. You don't get that choice. How long have you guys been married? If it's under 15 years,

00:31:45.880 I just don't want to hear it. Is it a legacy if your kids are not raised in your image? You think

00:31:53.680 your wife and teachers are going to not influence your legacy? Yeah. I mean, my little sister,

00:31:58.740 both of my parents are Republican conservative

00:32:01.980 you're 29 you're not having that many kids

00:32:08.540 yeah I mean okay how many how many do you have sorry I'll ask how many do you have

00:32:18.740 um but where am I going back to both of my parents conservative okay my sister before I fixed her

00:32:28.440 I fixed her, was a fat blue haired feminist, a fat blue haired feminist.

00:32:39.120 You're not in control.

00:32:43.200 When your daughter goes to school and watches all the OnlyFans girls make a bunch of money

00:32:48.280 and still get married after, why wouldn't she do it?

00:33:01.060 Okay, well, I guess you're actually on your way.

00:33:04.060 Good job.

00:33:05.160 You're like the only person beating the birth rate.

00:33:07.800 Congratulations.

00:33:09.440 Our youngest one month ago.

00:33:11.740 There's like one.

00:33:14.500 Actually, the future is baby mothers, right?

00:33:18.280 now a lot of people say pearl what's your plan to fix the problem well why on earth would you

00:33:29.820 think i have a solution like why on earth would you think if i had a solution that it would be

00:33:34.780 good i'm a commentator right i'm very good at describing what's going on

00:33:38.320 how did i fix my sister um i told her how to get hot guys

00:33:45.820 yeah i said you know because a lot of times they're like oh just find a good man these

00:33:56.000 hoes don't want good men they want men with six-pack abs right

00:34:00.580 she wants to know how to get chad and that's like you know like i we had a caller once and

00:34:10.240 you know everyone's in the chat saying i'll tell her to go to the engineering

00:34:15.280 department she doesn't want to know she wants to know how to get the athletes

00:34:18.860 oh but they'll get cheated on well they still that's like saying um it's like telling men not

00:34:26.280 to originally gun for the ceo role one want to shoot for the starters you know

00:34:30.740 traditional, traditionalism will come back. Yeah. We'll all be dead though. Right.

00:34:52.820 So the, now what's the solution to this on a personal level?

00:34:56.940 not we're and then i'm just going to tell you because this stuff used to weigh really heavy

00:35:04.440 on me and a lot of people ask me how can you say that the future is so bad and still have a positive

00:35:10.520 outlook right you got to ask yourself the question is this something i can control

00:35:22.980 and if the answer is no

00:35:26.240 accept it right

00:35:31.100 and it's actually the most freeing thing on the planet

00:35:37.320 if i have a daughter someday i cannot stop her from being a whore if she wants all i can do is

00:35:43.840 give her the information she's got to make the choice and it makes you a better parent in my

00:35:47.780 opinion because controlling parents are the worst parents right the neurotic ones afraid to give

00:35:54.420 their kids any freedom afraid to allow their kids to whore just like they did and make mistakes like

00:36:00.040 they did you know making a snake is kind of part of life getting pumped and dumped as a woman

00:36:05.420 humbles you into finding your husband a lot of women would not have found their husbands if they

00:36:11.060 didn't get pumped and dumped thank you living sensible for men you know simping that's part of

00:36:17.080 life simping out and just loving that girl and having that insane hi and just her fucking your

00:36:26.800 best friend that's part of life right the highs and the lows it kind of makes life worth living

00:36:30.900 right

00:36:47.080 and that's the answer is you don't know how many kids you'll have you have no idea if you'll have

00:37:01.780 a genetic legacy it's not in your control and that is the most freeing thing it makes you a

00:37:08.580 better boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife. You can't control another person. If they

00:37:23.860 want to leave, they got to leave. He's mad. He wants control. Well,

00:37:38.580 And we got to look at the benefit of this. Women never liked their husbands that much.

00:37:43.680 There's a lot of men that thought their wives were in love with them, whose wives hated them.

00:37:49.060 And I know this because I've interviewed so many daughters of those traditional couples where the

00:37:54.620 wife was just talking shit for years. Let people that don't want to be with me, don't be with me.

00:38:07.180 I don't want to keep my enemy close. Yeah. It's freeing, right?

00:38:29.820 Now you get to see women what they truly wanted. And for most men, it's just not you.

00:38:35.500 and I think there's a point where men get genuine desire from a woman like they need a woman that

00:38:40.620 would like crawl through broken glass to be with them usually something's wrong with her right

00:38:45.160 usually something's wrong with her

00:38:48.900 and they get to a point where they'd rather be alone than not get that from the woman

00:38:55.040 they would rather be by themselves than not get a woman that would crawl through broken glass to be

00:39:04.080 with them most men have never experienced this in their lives most men have never had a woman that

00:39:12.640 wanted to be with them that much because you know you probably suck in some way you probably just

00:39:17.120 don't have the sauce like that you know most people don't most women we're not men's first choice either

00:39:23.760 right we don't even want the men where we're their first choice

00:39:34.080 as the rebound games momentum women will get married earlier no there's no indication that's

00:39:43.540 going to happen they asked gen z women where men fall in their priorities they're it's like seventh

00:39:48.600 solo travel is above above men that's how little we care

00:39:53.160 there's no

00:40:04.500 there's no indication

00:40:07.020 it's coming back in any way

00:40:08.500 and

00:40:11.100 stop thinking you're going to get a wife

00:40:14.020 you're probably not getting one

00:40:15.280 ladies stop thinking you're going to get a husband

00:40:20.500 it's probably not going to happen

00:40:22.420 you probably weren't raised to be a wife it's probably you know it's probably just not going

00:40:28.120 to happen for most people because women can't help how they feel right we can't help who we

00:40:35.700 have genuine desire for that's biological right that i mean yeah i mean you could turn amish but

00:40:46.640 even those women don't like their husbands that much you ever seen the ex-amish women

00:40:50.360 there's women that leave the Amish

00:40:53.640 so we're just kind of in a situation where men don't want women that don't like them that much

00:41:02.880 or the self-respecting men don't want women that don't like them that much the non-self-respecting

00:41:09.360 men will take anything and that desperation causes women to run and women can't help how

00:41:14.920 they feel more biologically predispositioned to be attracted to 10 percent of men

00:41:19.240 that's what it is

00:41:23.900 and we got two choices we can suppress women's desires or let them be out in the open and now

00:41:33.340 you see what women really want

00:41:34.620 bullshit everyone has feelings but women will follow their feelings and have no integrity

00:41:47.300 I mean, that's true, right? But it doesn't matter if that's true. It doesn't matter.

00:41:54.780 Women's feelings run society. So it doesn't matter.

00:42:01.080 Women are going to keep doing what we're doing.

00:42:17.300 I finally understand why they got women in burkas. Yep. Because women don't like men that much.

00:42:44.740 women are only want to be with like 20 that's why women will be older and they'll still be

00:42:51.740 thinking about that one guy from like i mean they've documented this in women that are like

00:42:57.200 80 years old where they just that's why titanic hit such a nail because so many women have that

00:43:02.920 one guy that's not their husband many men right um they it's like they're dying to be women's

00:43:10.160 second choice. And I don't understand it, right? Why would you want to be, I mean, being a man's

00:43:14.820 second choice, I don't think is the end of the world because women love men where they're second

00:43:19.560 choice. Like, you know, that they don't like us that much. But why as a man would you want to be

00:43:24.340 a woman's second choice? Like, why would you want a woman that doesn't want you?

00:43:30.200 Your integrity ends where the women's free will begins.

00:43:40.160 i don't even think women are really leaving men for a hoe phase right i know we like make fun of

00:43:47.780 hoes but really women get attention from men what i see is women get attention from men either

00:43:55.480 through their hobby communities social media um social media hobby communities um etc male

00:44:07.260 friends women don't really need um like you know now we have vibrators chat gpt to solve

00:44:14.460 our problem like the way i see it women aren't even um i don't think women are are not getting

00:44:24.060 married for a hoe phase i just think it's to do literally anything else and now you see women

00:44:28.300 don't want to be mothers wives and be with men at all and you can't take it personal because women

00:44:34.620 like we're not like we don't like each other you know

00:44:41.020 yeah shout out to doug mpa

00:44:58.220 i'm in my 70s and raised four girls back in the day and one's married

00:45:02.060 yeah and did you really feel like you had control over what they did no you probably were a great

00:45:08.540 dad what's your advice to men who have daughters i don't know why you'd get your advice from me

00:45:15.100 because i don't have daughters but from my observations you give them the information

00:45:20.300 and let them make the choice um if you really want to force it upon them i guess you could

00:45:25.260 tie it to their inheritance and do an arranged marriage um but you're going to run the risk of

00:45:31.100 your daughter hating you and hating her husband so i don't that's up to you you know sometimes

00:45:35.900 people resent their parents um for forcing a decision on them thank you two dollar super chat

00:45:53.260 well the reason you want a woman that's among the amish this guy says the older i get the more

00:45:57.500 where I want an Amish woman. Well, it's just because you don't want to compete with other

00:46:02.340 men, which is fair. Who wants to compete, right? But it's not the world you're in, you know?

00:46:09.060 You want to like, um, get, obfuscate your burden of performance as a man.

00:46:18.680 You're saying 80 year cycles.

00:46:20.600 well it started in it's more than that because it started in 1920

00:46:27.420 so it's not swinging back so usually if it starts to swing back there's some indication

00:46:35.360 again there's no solution it's going to keep going like this um at some point women are

00:46:46.620 going to get the freedom that they asked for and be treated more like then. You can hope maybe

00:46:50.360 at that point, they'll give up their power. But it's going to keep going. Women don't need to,

00:47:00.960 um, women don't even need friend groups anymore. Like they don't have to go out into the real

00:47:07.280 world. They can just go online. You said women aren't aroused by average men. What about the

00:47:16.800 men of the 50s? Well, the same men in the 50s got divorced by their wives in the 70s. The highest

00:47:21.820 divorce rate was in 1970. It was 55%. I can compete with other men. I cannot compete with

00:47:39.260 the big daddy government. Well, there's some men that do stay married for a lifetime and have the

00:47:45.640 genuine desire, but it's only like 10% of men. So maybe talk to them and see what they did.

00:47:52.540 Advice for fathers sending their daughters to college, or stop sending their daughters to

00:47:57.740 college. Well, I mean, you could not send her to college, but Tinder, you can use at home.

00:48:03.380 So until modern women get the Amish woman in marriage is classified as the victim of the cult, then you will get changes.

00:48:26.460 Yeah.

00:48:27.840 Two dollars.

00:48:28.880 Thank you.

00:48:33.380 I will bet you so much money that we will not see massive change in two years.

00:48:46.020 They always say, oh, change is going to come, but they can never give me a date.

00:48:49.640 That at least he gave me a date, right?

00:48:52.060 But remember, I've been hearing that the change is coming for like a decade now.

00:48:56.600 It's not coming.

00:48:58.660 Traditionalism won't come back because we will have the robot to replace women

00:49:02.000 that will allow unattractive people to keep working so the government can keep collecting

00:49:06.340 taxes. Well, if anything, I think men are being outsourced more by robots than vice versa.

00:49:12.820 Because I think most men want a woman and would take that over a robot, even though it's kind of

00:49:19.120 crazy because they shouldn't, like we're more unlikable and stuff. But how many women have

00:49:23.800 vibrators? Who owns more? Do more men own sex dolls or do more women own vibrators?

00:49:31.760 Women are the real purchasers of sex dolls.

00:49:38.240 The real daddy government is other men answering to women.

00:49:42.320 Yeah.

00:49:44.240 And men just keep on simping for women.

00:49:47.180 It'll just never end.

00:49:50.640 Maybe deleting Tinder and social media,

00:49:53.160 but do you think that's really going to happen?

00:50:01.020 oh charges i can't read i can like barely read you know it just is what it is

00:50:07.140 yeah and i think it's hard for men that like work hard right it's hard for men that are in control

00:50:18.000 in a lot of other areas of their life like their money their whatever but you just can't control

00:50:23.200 another person and it's very it's very freeing to accept that you cannot control another person

00:50:28.940 i'll give you another example right i'll tell you an example that actually

00:50:35.660 hit close to home for me where i realized this

00:50:39.320 years ago i had a friend um who i considered my best friend right at this we were friends since

00:50:48.420 pre-k and um you know we did everything together we lived together for the summer i considered her

00:50:57.100 like one of my closest friends ever. And when I started doing this type of content, she decided

00:51:06.380 she didn't want to be my friend anymore. She was so controlling of my thoughts and opinions that

00:51:10.280 she couldn't have me have separate thoughts and opinions. And her thought process was, well,

00:51:15.040 when I have kids someday, I can't have them see your content. So I let her go. I said, see ya.

00:51:19.580 recently she reached out to me like years later right

00:51:23.040 and um asking me if i needed help i was like and it was funny because she said i was willing to

00:51:32.760 get on the phone with you today and i thought about it and i'm like bitch what makes you think

00:51:36.780 i want to talk to you you crazy woman and um i really i felt like that never happened to me

00:51:45.860 before because when i was younger i'd always feel like oh if someone walked away like i did something

00:51:50.780 wrong but when this happened i'm like no you're fucking nuts you know i don't i'm actually good

00:51:57.780 without it and it's not until you start accepting that you can't control another person people do

00:52:06.740 crazy shit it usually has nothing to do with you it's actually all them and that's women a lot of

00:52:11.620 times guys it's got nothing to do with you it's women and you just cannot control another person

00:52:17.120 and if they don't want to be with me then i don't want to be with them another great live thanks

00:52:23.660 pearl and then a lot of times they come back later and you realize you realize that it actually

00:52:34.080 had nothing to do with them because their life is in shambles i mean this girl's fat now

00:52:37.800 seems absolutely insane i'm like i i mean i haven't spoken to her but i'm like

00:52:47.800 i am good i i'm so good on that one you know what i'm like oh i'm good on that

00:52:54.460 and a lot of times that happens to guys with exes this woman they loved

00:53:07.560 so much went on to make such terrible decisions you realize yeah all my axes are doing horrible in

00:53:29.080 so i mean this is i mean this is my my my plea

00:53:38.200 Traditionalism, it's not coming back.

00:53:49.640 And I would not expect things to get better.

00:53:52.180 If it does, okay.

00:53:54.700 But you're not getting a wife.

00:53:57.280 You're not getting a family.

00:53:58.780 And your genetic line is going to end.

00:54:00.960 It's probably going to end with you or your kids.

00:54:08.440 So anyways, I just wanted to rant about that.

00:54:15.680 Financial Frontier, you want to come on?

00:54:22.160 I'll put it in the, that's Sean, right?

00:54:25.020 Because I feel like he has thoughts on this.

00:54:28.580 Just have tons of kids and pull an Elon.

00:54:30.600 Well, I mean, that won't really change anything because, you know, Bach, the musician,

00:54:36.680 he's one of the greatest musicians ever created modern music theory like do you know how smart

00:54:41.800 you have to be to create music theory music theory is hard to learn he was so smart that he created it

00:54:49.640 and he had nine kids and has no genetic lineage it's not in your control

00:54:56.920 and um and by the way this is hard even for me right i mean i have crashed out

00:55:02.520 i don't even want to talk about my crash outs because they're so embarrassing it's so embarrassing

00:55:10.440 um but it's something i wish i wish i could have accepted sooner right overweight culture

00:55:16.940 killed attraction killed marg oh my god yeah so please don't look i'm

00:55:23.700 but like i wish i learned this 10 years ago that a lot of times when people

00:55:32.820 like there is um another girl right another girl that was super mean to me right um it turns out

00:55:42.640 every time i'd ask her like if she like because i'm i'm someone i don't really keep score right

00:55:47.900 so if i ask you to hang out i'm not thinking did you ask me as many times

00:55:51.580 I'm someone, this is how I think, I like to do stuff. So if I'm doing stuff anyway, I don't mind

00:55:57.220 saying, hey, do you want to do this? Like I'm running a half marathon and I invited like 10

00:56:02.100 people to do like to do it with me. And I just said, whoever wants to go, go, I'm going. I am

00:56:08.280 going and you can go or you cannot go. Like I don't, I'm going to go, right? That's how I feel.

00:56:13.440 So, you know, there's been times, there's one person that I'd invited a few times to things,

00:56:18.420 right and apparently this person was making fun of me for inviting them and this girl was a woman

00:56:25.780 of course of course right um she's telling everyone that she's like the greatest thing

00:56:30.740 since sliced bread because i'm always inviting her to do stuff and she's like apparently she

00:56:35.540 was ducking me i had no idea and i'm like i send this like copy and paste text to like 10 different

00:56:41.460 people it's 10 people i like you know it's not an insult but i'm not i don't really care if you go

00:56:48.340 we're not right and it turned out this girl she was telling everybody that she you know because

00:56:55.700 she lives in a different state i was like in every time i'm in that state i would just text her and

00:56:59.220 apparently she was some of my ops she would send the text to i was like that's so that's so crazy

00:57:04.900 that's so crazy because i'm like i didn't even send you anything weird i just said do you want to

00:57:10.100 like it weird right but imagine i was like 10 years ago i probably would have been like what

00:57:17.140 what did I do? What did I do to deserve this treatment? But to now 10 years later, I'm like,

00:57:23.220 no, she's just a bitch. Like, I don't need you. People are lonely. It's actually not that

00:57:34.640 difficult to find people to do stuff with. Do you know what I mean? And the older you get,

00:57:41.700 you just kind of wish you had more of this mentality 10 years ago, because usually when

00:57:46.380 someone leaves like something better comes along you know like um i actually um you know and i i

00:57:54.160 think of the relationship i had like five or six years ago i was pretty torn up when it ended

00:57:59.160 and then i started my youtube show right after and i got on pierce morgan that year and i was like

00:58:05.560 i was like woohoo you know a lot of times when people leave something something better happens

00:58:11.660 you know um if pearl was in full control for women as sex would be mandatory and men would

00:58:17.260 have full control the money and women would have to work out i don't know um i don't really like

00:58:22.700 the idea of women being forced into sex like with men they don't like i don't know um i don't know

00:58:30.060 how i would structure it but i don't like that idea because um i think that tortures the men

00:58:36.940 have you seen a woman with a man she hates that's why i switched my opinion on divorce

00:58:41.900 oh my god they torture those men oh my god some of you guys are simping out over a woman that's

00:58:48.860 torturing you torturing you know and it was kind of the same thing with the woman right

00:58:57.740 what i was talking about i'm like why would i

00:59:01.500 she was like a secret op and i had no idea and then when i found out i'm like thank god i don't

00:59:10.000 know i don't want a woman telling everybody what i'm up to what if my gluck gluck 9000 tips get out

00:59:17.720 i'm just messing i'm just messing i'm just messing but you know what i mean it's like

00:59:23.500 it's like you don't you don't anyway so i just think the world is not going to get better but

00:59:31.400 that's okay. And people that just accept it and prepare accordingly and have the mindset of like,

00:59:37.300 I can't control the future. I might have a kid. I might not have a kid. I might find love. I might

00:59:41.580 not find love. My daughter might be a whore. She might not be a whore. I'm going to do the best

00:59:47.520 strategy and make the best plan. And if it works out, it's like an army general. You send your

00:59:52.420 guys into battle, they might all die, right? But you got to make a plan and you're not going to

00:59:59.560 say hey guys you're totally not gonna die no you they don't say that i mean they might you know

01:00:05.060 hype you i don't know what generals do i'm not a general right they might they might tell you

01:00:09.280 you're gonna win or like i don't know hype you but like deep down everyone knows that the plan

01:00:14.280 might not work and that's just that's it it's and you're gonna be a happier person

01:00:19.740 anyways sean welcome to the show doug mpa my guys um tell me your thoughts on the topic

01:00:30.940 and if you just have any like insights that you had or maybe situations applicable um sean why

01:00:37.900 don't you go first and then doug ah okay now you were spitting fire pearl you are muted oh really

01:00:44.780 oh no no i can't hear you i'll let you i'll let okay am i muted is it me i don't know

01:00:51.540 oh my god it was me it was me it wasn't you okay all right cool cool cool no it's all good

01:00:59.260 i had my sound off i usually catch it earlier because i'll have to play video

01:01:03.540 but um go ahead sean no i mean you were on point uh i definitely agreed a part where you just said

01:01:10.600 look I don't want anybody who doesn't want me like it's almost crazy right to try to be with

01:01:16.460 somebody who completely doesn't want to be with you and I think most of what you were saying was

01:01:21.580 a lot of being stoic like just accepting the reality and then figuring out the best position

01:01:26.760 and the cards you can play from this angle so I don't think traditionalism is coming back like I

01:01:32.360 said even if you were Amish they would just you know call it a cult and then you know write you

01:01:37.300 up on charges eventually. So at the end of the day, it's just like, accept the reality, move from

01:01:43.040 that paradigm, because I don't think everything sucks because of that. I think we still have a

01:01:47.960 bunch of options. So definitely traditionalism is not coming back anytime soon. And hoping and

01:01:53.840 dreaming or trying to bring back, what's it called? No fault divorce. These are just pipe dreams.

01:01:59.780 Like that's just cope. Guys, leave it alone and figure out where do you go from here?

01:02:04.480 that is the best strategy and there's flights overseas and everything there's there's a lot

01:02:09.320 of options but they still suck too so just know that get you a ling ling fellas

01:02:15.280 they crazy too yeah yeah yeah they're still gonna be women there's some guy who got the

01:02:22.680 tie wife in the chat i'm like why don't we wait a decade and see let's wait and see

01:02:27.820 again pa go ahead yeah i'd say guys um you know feminism freed women up from being barefoot and

01:02:37.260 pregnant uh in the kitchen but it also freed you got it also freed men up from their obligation

01:02:43.960 from society too it used to be you know bachelors and playboys were like rich men but guys honestly

01:02:49.900 if you you know if you become the best version of yourself even if you're making 60 70 000 a year

01:02:54.860 and you're not in like a primary housing market if you're like a secondary tertiary housing market

01:02:59.100 you can live a good life you get to choose guys you your life used to be set you know my dad's

01:03:06.460 generation you graduate high school you start working at the plant or you join um the military

01:03:12.780 and that's it you know and then you got married and you had kids so or you were the rich kids

01:03:17.420 went off to college guys we have all these options now and holding on to this whole traditional

01:03:21.580 like why

01:03:23.500 so yeah

01:03:26.880 I think that we just need to embrace it

01:03:29.100 embrace the fact that we have options now

01:03:30.840 women always talk about the obligations that women had to society

01:03:33.580 and how they were shackled

01:03:35.740 men used to be too

01:03:37.120 but now we're not anymore

01:03:38.160 so enjoy it

01:03:39.400 you used to inherit a farm

01:03:41.060 now you're forced to be a farmer

01:03:43.060 oh my god I would hate being a farmer

01:03:45.220 couldn't be me

01:03:47.900 shout out to Doug MPA

01:03:49.260 he's been here since the pregame days

01:03:51.000 um any do you guys have situations when you were younger where you thought of something

01:03:56.040 one way and then changed your outlook

01:03:57.880 yeah for sure i mean i used to be a dummy who was like yeah man i'm gonna give me a black queen

01:04:06.520 and build my blood queen i mean like that's what i was taught for my culture like and then she

01:04:12.840 gotta be like my mama which is also weird that's kind of like incest vibes but net net that's what

01:04:18.820 I was told from the jump. And it wasn't until I started traveling, seeing the world, that I

01:04:23.400 started to change my mindset in particular, and then started to see a pattern amongst all women

01:04:28.220 of all cultures. And then I was just like, oh my gosh, you know, like what I think and hear is not

01:04:33.400 matching with reality. So is there a problem with me or reality? And I sound kind of lunatic

01:04:39.240 if I'm saying the problem is reality and they don't conform to my mindset. So I decided to

01:04:45.560 start shifting it you know started to look at the relationships different started to accept that

01:04:50.600 people will leave you make decisions that don't make sense in comparison to the options they have

01:04:55.640 and that's people people have free will and so once you kind of understand like okay they just

01:05:00.840 have free will then just allow them to have that and you're either going to be the guy you want to

01:05:05.720 be or just act like you're that person what i mean by guys often say like man i want the kids i i

01:05:12.040 want to just i don't want to be a degenerate and womenize women okay cool so doug might and i

01:05:18.600 offered you a solution of saying just go out and be yourself then just stand on who you are

01:05:22.680 you know just be who you want to be and women should not change who you are based off if they're

01:05:27.400 twerking or giving out sex for ten dollars a month for an only thing i shouldn't change you

01:05:32.920 i used to take it really personally if someone did something to me i'm like how do they not feel

01:05:37.240 guilty and my dad one day he was like murderers don't feel guilty what like he's like that's on

01:05:43.900 them they even have a justification for it yeah he's like a lot of people don't feel guilty like

01:05:50.460 have you seen people after they commit crimes they're like yeah i did it you know when they

01:05:55.200 confess they're almost like happy or they're dancing in front of the victims and everybody's

01:06:01.480 like i can't believe it like what do you expect them to be sad they did it because they did it

01:06:06.900 that's how they think they think differently and so you got to accept that oh doug mpa snow bunny

01:06:13.780 in the chat says cheers you know oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah i want her to come out she's the one

01:06:18.980 that i told you wants to come on the show i think it would be a good conversation um do you have a

01:06:24.980 story for us i know you do who me yeah you know about what's changed yeah if you have a story

01:06:34.420 from when you were younger shoot so where do i start so um i thought that women were victims

01:06:41.700 and i thought that men had to make up for it somehow um like we owe this i'm from western

01:06:49.540 washington guys come on now so you know i believe in that feminist past where like men were nothing

01:06:55.940 but but trauma and uh towards women so men had this just debt and then um i also believe that

01:07:04.420 your your wife or significant others should be your equal uh you know i used to not think about

01:07:12.640 you know the the fact that men bring more to the table and are more of a utility the

01:07:19.640 women i didn't i didn't really realize that i didn't realize that until later on in life i'm

01:07:26.160 to think and then um you know honestly i thought that um marriage meant forever

01:07:37.680 that was the best pearl pearl sorry there was a big one i was talking about that

01:07:43.360 go ahead if the internet stopped working worldwide with traditional relationships return

01:07:47.600 no i don't know negative no negative they'll do it by pigeon mail

01:07:53.840 like they'll figure it out power grid across the world would have to go out

01:07:59.360 i heard like peasants used to just like the king would just steal the girl and she would just go

01:08:04.480 bro pearl he used to go in there and clap cheeks and the guards would just be standing there and

01:08:11.080 you would have to stay there with your kids and just wait for the king to be done or the lord or

01:08:15.900 the duke and then they'll just leave so i'm like bro the past was pretty aggressive like you don't

01:08:21.580 want that like a dude like me could just have a west wing of broad supposedly that's where

01:08:26.940 sleeping on bunk beds that's where the f word came from f-e-c-k was fornication under commandment of

01:08:34.160 the king so um men of status would just go go to your village and just start banging chicks

01:08:42.960 because they were royalty or of status.

01:08:47.180 You can do nothing.

01:08:48.040 You just sit there and just watch it.

01:08:50.720 Sean, what were you going to say that Doug had an important one?

01:08:54.780 Oh, no, no, no.

01:08:55.700 Yeah, I said, yeah, a story actually when I was growing up.

01:08:59.520 I just remembered it.

01:09:00.840 I was just sitting like POV, realizing that my mom was a bopper.

01:09:06.400 Like, she would, like, no, for real.

01:09:09.500 like i forgot when maybe i was like about 15 i was just sitting there and she like we were going

01:09:16.900 to the city called baltimore city i think you might know where the violent crimes are and i'm

01:09:21.320 like why are we going here i hate going here and she was like rolling up on this guy that was on

01:09:27.620 the corner he was a drug dealer right and we in the car i'm looking like an idiot my sister is too

01:09:34.980 and she's talking to this drug dealer out the side of a window he like what's up little ninjas

01:09:40.460 and then net net maybe like a couple months later this guy moved into the crib

01:09:45.400 he starts selling drugs in the community yeah it's pretty bad bro he starts selling drugs in

01:09:51.640 the community like he got like i'm telling you i used to chase tadpoles in my community

01:09:55.640 but when he came like kids are turning from this to like this they were selling drugs and stuff it

01:10:01.880 was mad crazy and i remember my sister was trying to stop it like trying to tell my other family

01:10:07.480 trying to be like get them involved and my mom at one point told my sister like she was a jealous

01:10:14.520 little b like she was hating and dirty macking on her and i was like yo what i didn't know this

01:10:23.540 until later and it transpired so i just understood like people can make the f'd up decisions and be

01:10:30.740 on their time. Like my mom dated a guy who had a bunch of laundry mats. He was successful. He was

01:10:36.900 nice to us, but she decided to let the drug dealer move in and live with him and have him inject.

01:10:44.260 And that dude used to beat me like a runaway slave. But I just understood from early on that

01:10:49.200 people make decisions and it is what it is, especially as a young boy. My sister, she didn't

01:10:54.200 have much issues because she was a woman but most of my family um protected her but for me

01:11:00.760 you know he had free range on me because nobody you know nobody really cared so i just learned

01:11:06.280 from early like man you have to be wise even the people who say they love you the most like my

01:11:11.220 mother right they'll make decisions all on their own and my my mom was thirsty for that thug d

01:11:17.260 if i can bounce off of what sean says this let me segue into what i always say guys american

01:11:26.280 black women are the scum of the earth straight up like the scum of the earth and like american

01:11:31.880 black mothers are the worst mothers on the planet you cannot convince me different now you may be

01:11:36.240 saying oh doug mpa your mom was black yeah my mom was a scumbag dude my mom and my sister are

01:11:42.920 scumbags and too many black men our mothers are fucking scumbags dude and what sean is saying is

01:11:51.160 not uncommon go ahead i'm done

01:11:55.840 i am done yeah because you probably you probably had no control sean as a kid

01:12:03.920 like you would how old were you when that happened oh man he was around for quite some time i would

01:12:10.040 say 15 16 stuff like that and a little bit earlier because he was in the early days but i just didn't

01:12:16.600 notice that part but the only control i had pearl is on myself like that was the biggest savior

01:12:22.360 myself just realizing earlier and accepting the reality and moving accordingly so i moved

01:12:28.120 accordingly even years after my brother you know which was his son but i was of course not his

01:12:34.200 biological son he still hated his father me i didn't because i accepted it he was a drug dealer

01:12:39.960 i mean what do i expect him to come in and teach me how to play badminton like of course he probably

01:12:44.760 wasn't going to do that right my mom picked him you know so how could i be mad at him and not

01:12:50.520 look at my mom but my mom she also is a human that makes dumb decisions just like everybody else

01:12:57.160 and i just have to accept it yeah and a lot of times it has nothing to do with you you know if

01:13:02.920 if you take it personally, like you're, you're going to be in a lot more pain. It's like a lot

01:13:08.120 of times when the wives crash out, you didn't do anything. It's like on her, she's going to keep,

01:13:12.920 like, I know I have a guy he's getting, his wife is suing me, him, and she's remarried. Like,

01:13:18.820 what do you think she's going to do the next guy? She's just going to keep repeating the pattern.

01:13:23.440 So if he was really sad over his divorce when she left, it's like nothing to do with you.

01:13:28.320 there some people are just self-destructive i'd say it's more people than not to be honest

01:13:33.040 but you have to also remember everyone has my trauma but it's a parent's responsibility

01:13:39.800 to not take the trauma out on their kids because the kids didn't ask to be here

01:13:44.040 yeah but even with that though they again that doesn't matter some people still do that

01:13:51.580 so you have to just be in that mindset that people are going to people

01:13:55.820 You know what I'm saying?

01:13:56.960 People are going to do people things, and then they're going to do whatever.

01:14:00.120 There is no woulda, coulda, shoulda world.

01:14:01.640 There's only what happened world.

01:14:04.140 Yeah.

01:14:05.280 Yeah.

01:14:06.920 Sean, what's your thoughts on the topic?

01:14:09.680 Oh, is traditionalism going to come back?

01:14:12.120 I mean, no way in hell.

01:14:14.140 I just don't see it coming back, other than folks from abroad coming to the U.S.,

01:14:19.080 but even then, many of them are being modernized.

01:14:21.920 So I think it's kind of like cancer.

01:14:24.200 it just spreads and, you know, it doesn't really go away. There's no real therapeutic to it. You

01:14:28.840 know what I mean? Do you have any stories where, um, like a time in your life where you thought

01:14:33.680 you could control something and then you just accepted it was out of your control?

01:14:39.760 You know, I would say when it comes to dating women, like I used to think like, you know,

01:14:44.540 I looked at a lot of the Manosphere content and a lot of the, you know, red pill stuff saying,

01:14:48.860 if you hold frame, if you do this, that, and the other, you know, or that Christian trad nonsense,

01:14:53.520 like oh they just want a solid man who's gonna put them in place you know the reality is once

01:14:58.720 women got economic opportunity and they pretty much had the right to do whatever they wanted to

01:15:04.140 do they kind of showed us their true colors and you see that in just about every single country

01:15:08.100 so you can't say oh this is a western thing no you see that in the east now too you have girls

01:15:13.020 in china doing the same thing girls in india doing the same thing girls all over the world

01:15:17.400 doesn't matter if it's nigeria what you know it's only these middle eastern countries that will like

01:15:22.040 never let it happen over there and they're serious about that but even then you know the girls in

01:15:27.760 pakistan you see them go to uk they get westernized so it's i think as long as they have access to

01:15:33.280 some sort of social media that can show them another world i think that sort of temptation

01:15:39.160 is just going to corrupt them i don't think there's really getting around it and the women

01:15:43.420 in the 70s divorced their husband too and that was before social media you know my grandma i asked

01:15:50.420 her i said it earlier my grandma said it was because birth control was invented

01:15:54.500 that's what she said she said everyone got birth control and divorced their husbands

01:15:58.500 i was like okay grandma i mean i just think once folks can compare like they can see another life

01:16:06.740 that's out there and they once women can compare oh sorry say that again i said once women can

01:16:13.220 compare yeah absolutely i think men are just fine with mediocre to be honest like we're just built

01:16:18.420 like that? Pearl, you were cooking somebody. Ah, not cooking them, but they were talking to you.

01:16:24.780 It was Sean Kelly. You had the interview and you were just like saying the truest stuff like, OK,

01:16:30.060 you're giving me a choice to stay somewhere. And let's just say Detroit, you know, start going to

01:16:36.740 work nine to five and start trying to work and, you know, raise your kids. Or even if you allow

01:16:42.280 me to be a household wife, right, just be at home right before we had kids and continuous days.

01:16:47.040 right and we don't have unlimited money so that's my option or go to dubai when a jet ski and a yacht

01:16:56.240 you sound dumb thinking somebody is going to choose the boring life in which you said

01:17:02.000 it's crazy i think the ryan oteroban said like you gotta allow people to have options and live

01:17:07.600 their lives and then maybe later they'll come back and say hey i want to chop it back but then they

01:17:12.960 might switcheroo again so at the end of the day i don't think it was ever like that you guys are

01:17:18.080 in fantasy land slave masters wives were sleeping with slaves yeah in the coliseum the wives were

01:17:25.200 sleeping with the gladiators and the ludus they were never doing that that's why they had the

01:17:31.120 chastity belt but every time we have to keep coming back and telling you guys flights of

01:17:36.480 fantasy nostalgia guys it was never like that but i think i know why they continue to tell these

01:17:43.360 sorts of lies and tropes you know what i mean like they they know society only works if men are

01:17:47.920 productive and we're incentivized so they know as soon as if we learn the truth we're not going to

01:17:53.120 give a about maintaining anything we're going to do things for ourselves and then society's kind

01:17:58.000 of screwed and so they say okay we've got to keep the men in the race you know we got to keep them

01:18:02.560 in the maze going through around looking for the cheese so we got to incentivize them and make them

01:18:07.120 have something to believe in you know what i mean like imagine if a rat was in a maze and he knew

01:18:13.040 there was no cheese he just sat there he wouldn't give a but but the thing about it sean is the

01:18:17.520 cheese ain't even goddamn women it's resources when are men are going to evolve guys i want

01:18:24.160 resources i grew up poor i want to survive i want food and rations before i went abroad i want to

01:18:30.560 eat. I want to have a good life. I don't want to live with bacon home and almond ham or bacon

01:18:36.200 soda in my refrigerator. And that's all I got is options. So my first priority and my mission in

01:18:42.480 this world is my life. A cherry on top could be a woman, but I think that's stupid in itself

01:18:47.780 to ever actually do that. So that's what I'm saying. What do you mean the point if they take

01:18:52.680 away women, there's no point to life now? I think he means like the low paying, like thankless jobs.

01:19:00.000 do you know what i mean like there's jobs that um like there's a guy that can live for like i think

01:19:06.200 not there's a job no one wants where they're like in the middle of the ocean in like a on a light

01:19:12.680 pole or something i don't know it was on tiktok but that was actually super high paying but like

01:19:18.880 who's gonna do stuff like even if it pays good money you know if they don't have a family why

01:19:23.540 do they even need the money yeah i mean a lot of guys are fine with a like a minimalist life you

01:19:29.420 know what i mean so why make men want to climb the pyramid if at the end of the day you're good

01:19:34.260 with a minimalist life you're done right you're not going to have a productive country well that's

01:19:39.200 always been men there's always been men that have been middle ground and they're okay and if you're

01:19:43.320 okay with the life then there should be no complaining right as you just said in the

01:19:46.660 statement right like i'm okay with this but what you're trying to really say is what i want out of

01:19:51.600 life is i'm you know i'm a i'm a coochie commie i want some guaranteed coochie out of this whole

01:19:57.140 ordeal if not i quit i throw in the towel and i'm saying that's never been a lot in life you know

01:20:02.940 what happened this is funny sean you say that say to me as the king you're not going to produce the

01:20:09.380 crops what would happen to you if you're like i don't get no family at the end of the day the king

01:20:15.100 takes all the women so i'm not going to do anything what do you think i'm going to do to you as king

01:20:19.560 probably gonna kill me exactly so you guys got it way better now that's not like okay look i'm

01:20:27.600 gonna do the bare minimum i really don't care this is my life i enjoy it i'm a minimalist that's cool

01:20:32.380 then you could live like that right but there's not going to be a king that comes and chop your

01:20:36.560 heads off because you're not going to do x y and z so again the times we live in is better

01:20:42.220 i'm trying to get guys out of the damn dark hole not as go back into the plantation of

01:20:47.740 traditionalism, that's not coming back.

01:20:49.660 That's gone, brother. You wouldn't have to

01:20:51.660 evolve. If not, then

01:20:53.680 okay, crash out. There's people who always do that

01:20:55.760 too. Yeah, but I think

01:20:57.620 the times that a lot of guys are looking back to

01:20:59.780 aren't the times where guys were either

01:21:01.660 slaves or serfs or whatever it is, serving a

01:21:03.700 king with no real future, right?

01:21:05.420 They're looking back to the time, like

01:21:07.820 let's say 80 years ago, where

01:21:09.560 even if you were doing a basic job,

01:21:11.460 or working with your hands,

01:21:13.540 you at least got yourself a girl.

01:21:16.200 And so now guys are looking at

01:21:17.720 you know doesn't matter how hard you work you're not even going to get a quality girl

01:21:21.480 so why in the current times comparing to the times of 80 years ago why are we working hard for it

01:21:27.540 so now you got all these trad cons from daily wire telling men to man up and do all this other

01:21:31.920 nonsense and there's a good girl out there right there's you know a prize at the end they want to

01:21:36.600 lie to us exactly right i mean you're hearing andrew wilson and all these other folks you know

01:21:41.820 try to pitch us this you know ecclesiastic future of sky daddy's going to save us and you know

01:21:46.880 they're just not being honest well because they're yeah they're like high status men they

01:21:51.220 need the low status men to keep doing the jobs to like doing like to do what they do so like

01:21:56.860 you're a status guy you need guys like doing the truck like who wants to do trucking you know what

01:22:01.680 i mean like that's a i i don't know i've talked to older guys that are in trucking and they all

01:22:06.700 wish they didn't do it you know it's not like a highly praised job in society women don't really

01:22:12.080 like it but we need it you know unless they automate it then work i guess but um like like

01:22:19.200 who's gonna do the jobs that no one wants to do like that's why they want to push men to do it

01:22:25.120 well men only got so much time left because after that it's just get the robot like after that we

01:22:30.960 can just hit the robots and then it really doesn't matter what you guys want to do or will not do and

01:22:35.120 then you can't take nothing away from us because we got the robot so i think like it's a fine line

01:22:40.960 And I get what you're saying about 80 years ago.

01:22:43.640 I kind of get that.

01:22:45.100 But that's just a small inflection point in society and in America you're talking about probably.

01:22:50.380 80 years and only in America.

01:22:52.160 Right, Sean?

01:22:53.040 Yeah, exactly.

01:22:54.480 Exactly.

01:22:55.100 So it's a very small inflection point.

01:22:56.800 And didn't those guys have to go to, like, Vietnam War and World War II?

01:23:01.120 Like, didn't they have to do that, too?

01:23:02.800 Yeah.

01:23:03.080 I mean, there were guys back then who were shoved in the meat grinder.

01:23:05.120 So wait.

01:23:05.860 So to get some coochie today and to get a traditional woman.

01:23:09.780 want to go back and go through world war ii well to be fair right even those guys were sold this

01:23:16.260 idea that you gotta you gotta serve your country you gotta die for all those women back home who

01:23:20.820 are you know gonna be waiting for you if you make it back right and then obviously even those girls

01:23:26.020 were probably banging other guys so like you know even back then they were still lying to us like

01:23:32.740 so you see it's always that idea you know what it's that hope that we i think a lot of guys

01:23:37.460 have out there that if they if they just do this then the other eventually they can get

01:23:41.860 this girl in columbia who's going to be magic right as soon as the american guy goes over there

01:23:46.100 or whatever it is like guys are always looking for some like opportunity that's going to be out there

01:23:51.700 that's going to be like you know a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow i think just we're

01:23:56.020 motivated that way do you know what's incredible men's ability to believe they're the only guy

01:24:01.620 hitting it's like incredible to me like men just don't even want to believe there's other men ever

01:24:08.580 like they just cannot like there's so many guys i've talked to where i'm like your wife was

01:24:12.820 cheating on you no no i don't think she would do that they'll tell me the situation that happened

01:24:20.180 to me and then yeah and they're like no no that just would never like oh she was so into me i'm

01:24:25.380 like so there was a girl that literally killed another girl over a guy and she was banging a

01:24:30.580 different guy like the week before like i know another guy um he got caught like cheating right

01:24:37.940 and he wasn't like it was because he wasn't like careful with it you know like um sexually i'll

01:24:43.700 just say wasn't careful he like brought something home and i'm like i'm thinking why like why would

01:24:50.820 you do that like why um like why would you not assume this other girl was banging other dudes

01:24:57.140 isn't that like you know but to be fair right like if you were to look at it for let's say

01:25:03.620 young men today would you really want them to be red-pilled and like bitter and jaded at 17 18

01:25:09.160 yes or would it be better for them to like be happy for another 10 years before then realizing

01:25:15.320 that they're getting screwed over at least they get to be happy for that 10 years you know what

01:25:18.820 i mean blue guilt blue um blue pilled guys are so happy it's like that scene from the matrix do you

01:25:26.900 guys remember where cypher is talking to you know the the agent and he's having dinner with him and

01:25:32.000 he he says that line where he basically says that you know i want you guys to plug me back into the

01:25:36.420 matrix and he says something along the lines of ignorance is bliss women in the 70s started

01:25:44.340 with home phone lines and soap operas.

01:25:47.760 That's when the divorce rates began to rise.

01:25:50.580 Oh, I never thought about that.

01:25:51.720 That was social media.

01:25:56.500 There's always a boogeyman, man, that we say that's external.

01:26:00.580 I'm a grown man and I gave women sovereignty.

01:26:03.680 I gave them free will.

01:26:04.800 I think that's what God was trying to tell us

01:26:06.380 with Adam and Eve, but people keep missing the point.

01:26:09.140 People have free will.

01:26:10.420 And once I accept that they have free will,

01:26:12.600 they make the decisions because of them i don't start trying to be like i'm about to blame wb i'm

01:26:18.440 about to blame nickelodeon it's not nickelodeon it's not mtv's fault it's not instagram's fault

01:26:23.640 people are going to do what they want to do they're just going to use instagram to do what

01:26:28.120 they want to do you get me and people resent people that control them you know what i mean

01:26:34.200 like um my my parents were kind of free range parents ish and i asked my dad why he did that

01:26:40.760 because and we all turned out pretty well to be honest so i was like dad why did you give us so

01:26:45.720 much freedom and he said that like people don't like to be controlled and he was the ceo of a

01:26:50.520 big company but he just said people if you control them they will resent you i think that's why women

01:26:56.280 hate nice guys so much because nice guys are usually pretty blue-pilled and so you just have

01:27:00.520 to be something yeah they're like my good woman's coming and we're like we're whores damn it

01:27:08.280 it yeah know it like jesus christ y'all such licks man most of them also say like once they

01:27:16.360 see their blue pill husband they start seeing them as children too they really don't like it

01:27:21.260 it's a grotesque experience to have i mean it gives me the boils when i see a man being a blue

01:27:26.500 pill so i don't think like the rage is really called real pill rage i don't think there's no

01:27:32.480 such thing i think it's blue pill rage it's still guys they're raging because they're mad

01:27:37.360 that what they thought women were sweet spice and everything nice is no longer true that's not red

01:27:42.980 pill at all that's blue pill if you accept it then you move into the red pill but at the end of the

01:27:49.480 day you cipher you want to go back you want to get plugged back in and stuff that's why you mad

01:27:54.520 trying to kill neo and when guys beg it's like thank you for confirming you're a super sick like

01:28:01.060 that is the most repulsive thing to women like if you beg in any way it's like we will never

01:28:05.960 like just like we we might have had sex with you again and now it'll never happen ever like it'll

01:28:11.960 never or what about the guys who say this pearl she's the boss you know she's in charge guys do

01:28:18.380 that i see guys do it so much and again pearl they're doing it because they think and that's

01:28:24.600 the way they get the box like they gain favor you get what i'm saying it's not like they're like yo

01:28:29.920 she's the boss don't ask me who wears the pants it's like what so they really don't know they're

01:28:38.960 really out of touch with a lot of things about women and i think most guys are very lost about

01:28:44.240 the true nature and the reality of women like facts yeah you know what i find kind of hilarious

01:28:51.840 when people say oh birth control really started it in the 70s and you know all the this that and

01:28:57.120 the other. It's like that happened because no fault divorce went out the window. So now you

01:29:01.860 started seeing these divorces getting processed in mass, but it's not like women weren't leaving

01:29:06.620 the house or, you know, the men weren't leaving the house and people weren't splitting and they

01:29:09.940 weren't screwing other people. It's just, there weren't any divorces filed in courts because they

01:29:14.200 were kind of held up because you actually needed a legitimate reason. They had trials, things like

01:29:18.500 that. But once they legalize that, that made it so easy to get a divorce that like all the people

01:29:25.220 who were technically quote-unquote not divorced legally they were living separately they were

01:29:30.760 sleeping with other people it's not like it was different before that no it wasn't i mean i watched

01:29:35.860 true crime and there was um like they'll talk about stories from like the 20s and 30s and like

01:29:43.780 i there was this one true crime and the woman had a side dude in her attic like he lived in the

01:29:50.740 attic for like 15 years and they ended up killing the husband that was like how it ended

01:29:56.900 what the hell that was real life yeah that was real like it happened and then they moved across

01:30:03.220 the country and they brought the side dude like imagine like coming home every night

01:30:07.540 and you don't know there's a dude living in your a whole dude brother one of my friends

01:30:13.860 was in the military and um his his friend uh who married this woman and they had two kids he was

01:30:23.140 white his wife was white and she started banging this black dude and would like bring him to the

01:30:30.820 house and like sleep with him in the bedroom and he would sleep in like a tent in the living room

01:30:36.500 yeah and so one time uh he my friend was waiting with this guy because they only had one car a

01:30:47.060 minivan and the wife came to pick him up and her boyfriend was in the passenger seat the kids were

01:30:54.680 in the middle seat and he had to open the back door and sit in the back seat of the van

01:31:00.160 yeah yeah this actually happened and so and they'd ask him what are you dealing with this for it's

01:31:09.280 like yeah you know uh i don't want to not see my kids and blah blah blah and we're just getting

01:31:14.960 it worked out but yeah it happened for like a year and then my friend ended up moving off base

01:31:20.760 and he he he never followed up with the guy but yeah i don't know i think like there's a sense of

01:31:28.180 peace that people have that have just accepted that there's no hope i don't know how to put it

01:31:33.220 but it's like they're much more enjoyable as people the worst people are the ones trying to

01:31:37.300 save the universe i agree with that you know once you like someone once told me that you're born

01:31:43.460 alone and you're gonna die alone and if you can accept that you'll never become bitter over any

01:31:47.780 sort of relationship again you just accept people for what they are and understand that the outcome

01:31:52.820 is what you already know it to be and you won't have any sort of regret or rage or anything like

01:31:58.340 that i think the problem with the people who have the rage or the upset is because they bet on a

01:32:03.700 future that was never actually promised to them and then they become bitter about it versus when

01:32:09.300 you already know you you have nothing coming to you no matter what happens you won't be upset

01:32:15.620 um daniel what are your thoughts on the topic if you have a story feel free to share it or just a

01:32:21.300 general comment go ahead uh just a general comment i think something i gave up on was uh

01:32:31.620 women's excessive spending or how much they'll spend on some like something that they really

01:32:38.100 want it was interesting i was watching a video where a guy had a theory about um the prices

01:32:46.100 in our economy wouldn't be

01:32:48.160 as bad as they were if

01:32:50.160 men were able to keep a handle

01:32:52.200 on women not spending

01:32:53.860 $8 like on a Big Mac

01:32:56.100 you know willing to spend

01:32:58.380 any price for what they

01:33:00.300 want because you know when

01:33:02.240 consumers find out that

01:33:04.280 people are dumb enough

01:33:05.380 to spend $8

01:33:07.860 on what they used to charge for $5

01:33:09.980 well it's not going to ever go

01:33:12.140 back down

01:33:12.760 yeah it's like the whole pink tax

01:33:16.040 thing the reason why companies charge a pink tax is that women are dumb enough to pay it

01:33:22.200 yeah you just gotta own stuff as quick as you can because it's gonna get harder and harder

01:33:27.000 like why like why would they not keep raising the price of everything like why would they not

01:33:32.760 imperial i want to add something too because when you were talking about earlier like you know or

01:33:38.440 we were all talking about most men and then they you know they work hard and they don't get to get

01:33:42.920 the women and etc it's like bro remember i'm the top one percent and i have issues too like is it

01:33:49.960 not free and liberate so imagine that imagine you work extremely hard to get to this said pinnacle

01:33:56.120 of the mountain and then at the end of the day you find out that it still does not matter you

01:34:01.480 look smacks you get the cash right you go through wars you get the scars you become competent and

01:34:07.800 And then at the same level, after you achieved it and said, yeah, I'm the top one, it still is the same nonsense, bro.

01:34:15.360 I agree with that.

01:34:16.140 I still don't get more leads than a mid.

01:34:18.680 A mid kills the market.

01:34:20.460 I might get like 100 or 200 matches and stuff, but a mid gets like 1,700 or something crazy like that, right?

01:34:29.340 So at the end of the day, that has its own downside to it.

01:34:33.340 If I allow it, I just enjoy being at the top in general.

01:34:36.940 but at the end of the day i could be salty like damn i got the money and she's still gonna cheat

01:34:42.500 yes she's still gonna cheat maybe with a guy who got no money i'm gonna still get tom brady

01:34:47.580 that's life yeah i have a i have a theory on on why that is because as a top one percenter

01:34:55.940 your woman doesn't have anything to complain about i assure you they will find something

01:35:02.280 No, but they'll find more deficiencies in you

01:35:08.260 because they just have the time.

01:35:11.860 But what the KS said, you're not a high-value man,

01:35:15.160 you're a high-value target.

01:35:16.520 And I took that to be serious.

01:35:18.480 That's what it is.

01:35:19.160 You're a lick now.

01:35:20.420 So imagine that.

01:35:21.380 You're not a lick.

01:35:22.820 So if you're just an average guy, you're not a lick.

01:35:25.060 It's not like a shorty is going to have a real come up on you.

01:35:27.820 But for somebody to be up there, it does come with benefits.

01:35:31.560 if I become an issue, you know, she can not only just in marriage, that's not even the game that

01:35:37.260 shorties are playing no more. They'll just do a civil lawsuit on you and be able to gain money

01:35:41.980 from you. They don't need to marry you no more. So if their name is attached to you in any romantic

01:35:46.760 way, they can later just come up with some civil lawsuit against you to target your assets and

01:35:52.320 your wealth. So again, you become a high value target. So I think it's not as cushy as it might

01:35:59.100 seem like yeah you get the pets you get the money andrew tate was still dealing with problems with

01:36:03.180 his shorty yeah exactly behind a shorty nothing else he did got him thrown in jail pearl nothing

01:36:11.180 but the only thing it did was a woman like come on troy never it had no problems no issues troy

01:36:18.140 was almost undefeatable until a woman like rather the story the garden of eden was dope until a

01:36:24.540 woman so the story remains the same yeah yeah well um thanks for calling in guys i'm gonna

01:36:33.020 there's a lady who called in so we're gonna we're gonna talk thank you guys see you

01:36:42.940 what's going on megan all right you got to get your mic on

01:36:47.580 my it skills go like if you shut it down and turn it on again and if it fixes it that's great but

01:36:56.420 this can you hear me now i can hear you okay um so what's on the topic

01:37:01.920 um i was kind of late in the jumping in but i was going to go back to

01:37:06.700 how women i feel like only until they run out of resources do they have to mature from like

01:37:16.000 an evolution standpoint when they use their beauty as essentially a currency which is fine

01:37:27.480 when they're young but until they actually run out of that so to speak leverage then is when

01:37:35.820 they have to mature from a evolution otherwise if you stay stagnant you don't ever have you're

01:37:41.060 never forced to change right um do you agree that traditionalism is not coming back i yeah i think

01:37:49.780 that it's going to take i often wonder what it would take for it to change but it seems far gone

01:37:57.580 and there doesn't seem to be i mean you could do like this take away social media or the dating

01:38:03.300 but it's so far-fetched of an idea i don't know what it would change for women

01:38:11.140 to actually be accountable and stop like on says a zombie apocalypse

01:38:17.460 again pa i brought you up in case you had any questions yeah hey don hey how's it going good

01:38:25.860 so what do you think what uh

01:38:28.980 why do you think that men want traditionalism to to come what's why do you think that men have

01:38:37.740 such well on the right have such a hard time accepting that traditionalism won't come back

01:38:42.220 why do men have such a hard time accepting on the right

01:38:46.300 that's a good question that's uh i think part of it is kind of like what you

01:38:54.460 you guys were just talking about how

01:38:56.380 i just i just don't know i think that these women piggybacked off of a some

01:39:03.740 women used to be virtuous and they kind of piggybacked off of that idea

01:39:08.900 and ran with it because it wasn't pardon how do women used to be virtuous like how

01:39:16.040 well they would never talk about their husbands in a disrespectful way so to speak

01:39:23.800 so they were they just kind of stayed in their lane and knew what lines of respect i mean you

01:39:31.620 just cross some lines you don't get back and that was they did what they were supposed to do and it

01:39:36.300 was a good balance but when it's out of balance you have to have that polarity to keep a system

01:39:41.620 in place okay so so now so i can ask you once again what do you think these men are getting

01:39:55.800 out of telling men to try to find virtuous women or seek the traditional route when that doesn't

01:40:03.000 exist anymore is it a grift is it some kind of goal what do you think i think it's a distorted

01:40:10.200 i i don't know if there is a whole lot of i mean being a woman and knowing what

01:40:16.060 women are capable of i don't know if it is exists anymore i feel like it's a distorted view

01:40:21.100 all right so pro asked earlier i'll ask you yeah what was something that you believed in the past

01:40:28.880 that you're like i just can't believe that i believe that about you know men women dating

01:40:37.340 relationships etc oh i would say that

01:40:45.020 well i guess from a worldly viewpoint of like follow your heart i think that women

01:40:49.980 tend to justify that however that looks um are you saying you justified that i have

01:40:58.620 i definitely have and it's not a that's a very big gray area of follow your heart or

01:41:07.340 what do you mean was he was he just was he really hot or what yeah that means yeah

01:41:17.300 like what was the catch um yeah it was just like it was just a whole eye-opener of what

01:41:34.100 um I guess it boiled down to like kind of the the bad boys type of syndrome but it's it boiled down

01:41:44.500 to he just thought he was the most important person so I therefore thought he was and he

01:41:51.940 didn't bend over backwards for me so it's kind of like a perception of when it got when a girl

01:41:57.780 says they want a nice guy and the guy's like okay I did xyz I'm being this person but then we see it

01:42:03.120 as a too much if he's going to waver here how is he going to be he's going to be running from the

01:42:12.520 zombie apocalypse too then with me you know like let me see that you got with a bad boy but then

01:42:17.700 you expected him to to bend over backwards i've always wondered how women reconcile those two

01:42:23.760 things like how do you date a bad did you know this guy was a bad boy from the jump and then

01:42:29.480 mean expecting him to bend over backwards as a relationship went on or what yeah i i mean he just

01:42:35.560 didn't it wasn't when i look back on it you know it's not something that was sustainable but i think

01:42:42.200 he you know if you think you're the most important person then those always had like that's why it

01:42:49.080 works that dynamic of at least it's respectable i dropped a little bit but i'm just like not

01:42:54.600 following the story at all like i i don't you're not really clear so he was like he was hot and

01:43:01.480 he but he put himself first and that was yeah and so that was at least and then you tried to change

01:43:08.520 him like you trying to change him or um not trying to change him but just looking back at my

01:43:14.760 perception of what that was and like the reason i stayed was because i respected him being firm

01:43:21.480 in his ways so i mean i got out of that but not for any other reason other than that's why that

01:43:26.520 dynamic apparently works because at least he stood firm in what he said uh-huh and i was able to be

01:43:34.920 okay he stands firm he's not going to waver he's not going to bend over backwards to me i guess

01:43:38.760 that's why it worked for the time but then it didn't so you're saying was he too selfish you're

01:43:45.160 saying or like he drug problem no i just think it was was just not it didn't work not for any

01:43:52.520 other reason it was just interesting to see like the is it didn't work for the reason of it wasn't

01:43:58.840 sustainable you know but it's like what does that mean though i did it was sustainable did you

01:44:05.320 like he didn't have a whole lot to i guess in a very tangible way he didn't have a whole lot to

01:44:10.200 like he was at his mom's and you know living at home and it's like we're old enough to not be

01:44:15.880 what was like what was it what was his job uh best buy oh so he worked at he was hot and he

01:44:22.360 worked at best buy yeah but he was like didn't even have a car of his own you know was driving

01:44:27.720 his mom's but i was like what is it about this person that's keeping me like this guy no how

01:44:33.320 how old was he uh at the time 30. oh damn so he was 30 living at home with his mom and no car

01:44:43.000 yeah so where is he now did he get a car or i hope so i don't know where he went okay so you're just

01:44:49.720 saying he like didn't have money at all he just didn't have he didn't want the thing that kept

01:44:55.160 yeah he just didn't have a drive to be anything better but he didn't really have to be because

01:44:58.520 everyone was like oh he's you know this person what did he do to get you in the first place

01:45:04.760 she's saying it was the mindset like yeah yeah i mean that happens all the time do you see women

01:45:09.480 date broke men like there's no tomorrow we love them and they justify it yeah i just don't even

01:45:14.600 no i mean it's it makes sense it's the like he you said he he wouldn't take basically like yeah

01:45:21.000 yeah and then not agreeing with me and kind of just being like no i'm gonna do my own thing and

01:45:25.400 i was like you know i'm trying to say it on paper but oh but i love him well what is

01:45:29.880 i love him yeah yeah he worked at best buy and had the time to learn how to spit game

01:45:39.400 go other guys other guys are busy working yeah

01:45:45.800 oh gosh probably six months of just like a a push and pull you know but if if he would have

01:45:52.440 say conform to what i wanted him to well that's you know just in a very simple mindset coming out

01:45:59.240 with me this time if he would have conformed to that and been like essentially doing everything

01:46:03.080 i asked of him i wouldn't have respected him the same way i wouldn't have kept me there

01:46:07.720 so so this follow your heart and what's one more thing where you're like i can't believe that when

01:46:11.560 i was young um nothing i don't i i'm just drawing a blank okay

01:46:22.440 i missed what i missed what you what what was said in the past for that's all right that's all right

01:46:29.380 well um what was that what was what how did how did the relationship end did you guys was there

01:46:39.320 a crash out or did it yeah and then you kind of just like zoom out and look at it and you're like

01:46:43.380 what was i thinking didn't you know not that it needed to be like a tangible asset to support me

01:46:51.860 but it was like we were 30 you know it was like kind of where we're all old enough to

01:46:58.140 kind of go on our own yeah got it got it um doug and pig any more questions for

01:47:04.780 yeah i just um you know i i like i said earlier you know um this whole traditionalism thing men

01:47:13.160 had traditional values that were instilled upon them women did too women think it's one-sided

01:47:18.160 that traditional values were like pressed on them but it was for men too and i just think that men

01:47:23.520 need to enjoy their freedom just like women are like why would you willfully want to impose

01:47:30.000 traditional stuff on you when like women don't want it like i don't women don't want traditionalism

01:47:35.840 why do these guys keep trying to give them something they don't want i don't get it why

01:47:41.280 yeah it's kind of crazy how society like just has this inherent pressure on men to like protect and

01:47:51.380 serve by default and women i like look at it and i'm just like there's literally nothing but

01:47:57.500 existing that's expected of women well in gluck luck 9000 but we don't even got his

01:48:05.620 anymore yeah yeah all right thanks for calling in megan thank you see you

01:48:13.300 all right well i'm ending on that best buy chad you gotta you might lose your you might lose your

01:48:19.940 to a guy at best buy everybody uh you know i wouldn't doubt it at all i'm not even close

01:48:26.100 i gave her props for admitting that you know i mean most women would take that to their grave

01:48:31.460 well here's the thing guys a lot of women especially the professionals they say the

01:48:37.620 best thing a guy can do is be there for her so guys if you have a lot of time you can get a lot

01:48:43.460 of these women because especially if women's needs are met that's what they want they want

01:48:51.780 time and to be able to to perceive like they're controlling you so if you can do those two things

01:48:57.460 you can get a lot of these women i should have asked his actual job it looks like some of the

01:49:01.460 positions at best buy don't don't aren't bad you're looking it up right now yeah i'm looking

01:49:08.340 it up i'm like was i too harsh was i too because i was thinking about it i have a cousin that worked

01:49:17.140 at best buy and i was like i actually think he supported was i too harsh on the best buy guy

01:49:22.580 but after that we'll see though i had a friend i work with at a restaurant and she

01:49:29.380 she was like a couple years out of high school and she had this you know this is back in the early

01:49:34.920 2000s she had this honda civic that was all decked out back when like honda civics were cool

01:49:41.260 and her friend liked this guy at best buy and she wanted something for her sound system for her car

01:49:48.220 and the guy said okay um uh if your friend will sleep with me at work i'll give you this

01:49:55.440 this like sound system thing for your car so her friend like she drove her friend to

01:50:00.460 the best life they went in like the back room he banged this chick and then gave her like a

01:50:07.200 subwoofer for her car whatever i was like wait so you didn't sleep with this guy for the things

01:50:13.720 that you want your friend did hey that's what i call a team player sounds like a great wife

01:50:23.240 okay i guess my volume is low thanks for calling in doug mpa i appreciate you

01:50:28.120 have a good one anyways guys um i gotta stretch i gotta stretch all right

01:50:35.880 I'm getting sleepy earlier and earlier. I don't know how I feel about this.

01:50:43.980 Am I going to start going to bed at nine?

01:50:47.900 Am I going to go to bed at 9 PM?

01:50:55.540 Anyways, thanks for watching guys. Like the video, subscribe to the channel.

01:51:01.800 And I'll see you next time.

Pearl - March 06, 2026

Traditionalism Is Not Coming Back

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