Pearl - December 14, 2025


UNBELIEVABLE: Men Are GHOSTING WOMEN NOW!?


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

200.16187

Word Count

2,061

Sentence Count

20

Misogynist Sentences

12

Hate Speech Sentences

6


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 was scared of rejection just wondering why these men we just didn't like you that much
00:00:03.900 what up guys welcome to my reaction series so the tables have turned women have brought
00:00:09.680 less and less to the table and so what does that mean men are acting ghosting women for a change
00:00:17.920 and i love to see it i love to see it i love to see a woman get humbled okay so we're gonna watch
00:00:23.020 probably old women i don't really see men ghosting young women like that but probably old women um
00:00:28.980 talk about getting ghosted yeah i mean late 20s early 30s i'd say hit neck three reasons we got
00:00:36.800 late 20s early 30s that's why she knows okay a man will flake on you or like oh can i go out
00:00:44.580 with the 31 year old or the 21 year old they might pick 31 if you're really hot and the 21 year old
00:00:49.500 is fat maybe even then but yeah so let's see and this goes for a first date if you're dating in
00:00:56.440 general three reasons he just won't show up number one and i feel like the most obvious but a lot of
00:01:02.240 you guys really don't get he has someone at home he planned to sneak out he planned to lie to her
00:01:07.800 she caught him that's actually a good i wouldn't have thought of that that is i mean we're sharing
00:01:13.220 more and more men so i bet that's actually real and he knows he'll be caught if he continues the
00:01:17.700 lie so while you're sitting there thinking oh he doesn't want me no he was gonna get caught and
00:01:23.340 therefore he just didn't show up don't blame yourself two he made two dates and you were just
00:01:29.280 not important he decided the first one was better for him don't take yeah because women flake so
00:01:34.480 much that men are on men are double booking too and they're just going to go on the best one this
00:01:39.380 personally he just wanted the other girl he made two dates that's not your guy three he got invited
00:01:45.840 to an event that he felt was more important than showing up for you this happens a lot when they
00:01:50.900 really don't even feel like going on the date to begin with one of their boys or a friend or even
00:01:55.540 another girl invites them to another event and they decide that is more important now if he does
00:02:00.540 any of these first of all next second of all that is not your guy you do not want someone who's not
00:02:06.560 going to show up for you and leaves you wondering what's wrong with you nothing is wrong with you
00:02:11.360 something is wrong with him if somebody doesn't show up at a scheduled time that you have
00:02:16.260 i mean what are you doing just stop okay if he's not showing up i don't care if it's your first
00:02:21.720 date or your last date it should be your last date move on if you want to go i would usually
00:02:26.260 go on the date by myself screw him but otherwise you should not be talking to that man again
00:02:30.440 okay all right i think some of those were real yeah i would say those are all pretty real scenarios
00:02:37.280 uh let's see what this next girl's saying i guess she got flaked on
00:02:41.380 this is a video to the guy who flaked on me on our date um i just wanted to show you what i was
00:02:50.420 going to bring to you now you're boasting me last minute so weird so childish um so and latina
00:03:01.560 i got you some tacos i don't know if that's a good sign that a woman's bringing all this food
00:03:10.180 because I don't know, it kind of usually to me would signal that you're making up for some sort
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00:05:16.220 my favorite tacos please i made you um homemade horchata aloe horchata because you said you like
00:05:25.240 that and i made it and some mexican corn muffins with honey butter handmade
00:05:39.400 um i think there's something she's not telling us you know it's a first date uh there's probably
00:05:45.880 something crazy on her social media i don't i don't think she looks like ugly enough that a
00:05:51.000 a man would be mad like the catfish there's something on our social media she's crazy i
00:05:56.640 don't know maybe maybe he did like a background check and like criminal like maybe she slashed
00:06:01.060 your ex-boyfriend's car or something i didn't even want to talk about this on here but i'm going to
00:06:04.940 i met a guy on a dating app and we've been talking for about like 10 days never actually
00:06:10.600 met in person typically i don't like being pen pals with people on dating apps but the only
00:06:15.580 reason why i decided that i was going to do that with him was because he was going on a work trip
00:06:20.120 he was basically saying like like a wait for me kind of situation so he went on this work trip and
00:06:25.580 was just texting me the whole time he was being really cute and like really good at communication
00:06:30.140 like i remember one time he didn't text me for like a few hours which is completely fine with
00:06:34.640 me especially when i have never met you before i literally don't know you he apologized and was
00:06:38.960 like sorry i've been mia i'm just like working and all this i'm like oh no you're fine but like
00:06:43.260 i actually do appreciate the communication like thank you so basically just like waiting for him
00:06:48.760 to decide like when he was gonna ask me out like make a plan really need a man that's gonna lead
00:06:54.500 in the beginning simply just make plans and ask me out on a date so this guy kept like hinting at
00:06:58.880 a date at a date on our date so i'm just like haha well when is that oh i decided to swallow my pride
00:07:04.800 and i was like oh when are you free do i look like a girl like hitting you up talking about
00:07:09.900 when are you free i i was so mad but i was like you know what i'm gonna let this slide he says oh
00:07:14.920 i'm very free this whole week like he was giving me his full schedule like completely free i'm not
00:07:19.960 really that free but i am definitely free friday and sunday now friday was yesterday valentine's
00:07:25.640 day he was like honestly friday seems best because yeah he's he he's got a better choice
00:07:31.880 i mean because she again these women are are gonna have to like do more because she's just
00:07:36.200 not cute enough to get a level treatment um like she'll she could get it but she'd have to work for
00:07:42.520 it it seems to have the best weather we're both just like ignoring the elephant in the room like
00:07:47.100 it's not valentine's day now it's friday morning and i'm like yay i have my date today gonna look
00:07:51.860 cute i have a cute little valentine's day date even if i don't like him at least i went on a date
00:07:56.140 um it's like three o'clock at this point and i still haven't heard from him and i'm like
00:08:01.780 yeah he woke up realized it was valentine's day and he's like i don't want that pressure this is
00:08:05.960 a huge red flag like i do not like this shit at all hours are going by hours are going by
00:08:11.220 now it's five six o'clock i still haven't heard from this man i'm just like what the be flaked on
00:08:17.380 on valentine's day is not how i wanted to spend my day like i'm still flabbergasted it's like
00:08:23.260 seven o'clock in the morning right now and i'm still mad about last night i have a feel yeah
00:08:27.580 see women are starting to men are starting to do what women um or to women what women have done
00:08:32.380 to them and women are not gonna like it feeling that this man was waiting for me to hit him up
00:08:36.660 because he did seem super interested was just giving like was scared of rejection just wondering
00:08:42.860 why these men he just didn't like you that much are just like because you're not you know you're
00:08:46.820 not top choice so that's it i'm not top choice either you know it just is kind of is what it is
00:08:52.280 you know i'm like uh i could take her i could leave her and you know i i understand there's
00:08:58.840 men they're like oh she would be so great today i wouldn't you guys don't idealize me because i'm
00:09:04.400 here you know i mean it's it's gonna be like a okay experience i'm like i'm like mcdonald's
00:09:10.720 good after a night out but kind of greasy and annoying
00:09:16.500 and she's like wendy's you know i mean this is the mids mids are like fast food
00:09:24.980 eight pluses are fine dining um you know and if a mid works hard she can be like chick-fil-a
00:09:32.100 you always want to go to chick-fil-a to be princesses i am tired of being the man
00:09:36.960 he really could have just left me alone to be flaked on on valentine's day get it the
00:09:42.280 okay all right yeah i can i can see why it's how she reacts because you really just want to as a
00:09:48.640 girl be very chill um i'm telling you you don't want to crash out and it just doesn't help you
00:09:54.720 like okay well he didn't like me move on to the next anyways mids to the to the two mids that
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00:10:05.640 thanks for watching i'll see you next time what up guys welcome to my reaction series today