Pearl - Waiting Until Marriage Only Benefits Modern Women

00:00:00.000 your youth is your most valuable asset now i'm not saying but i'm not saying you got to throw it back

00:00:04.320 to anyone but guys it's really like if they're gonna ghost you they're gonna ghost you should

00:00:10.160 men and women wait to have i don't want to say should because you guys can do what you want

00:00:15.600 but would you recommend that men and women wait to have sex until they're married 0.95

00:00:21.360 um okay i'm gonna we're gonna watch some tick tocks all right so this is of a girl that did it

00:00:27.120 oh the internet this is something i have never talked about publicly planning on it but i felt

00:00:33.280 like recently that i should so here we go i am someone who waited till marriage for you scroll

00:00:39.280 i'm not gonna by the way half the girls that waited till marriage back door and gluck gluck that's how 1.00

00:00:45.200 they get around it judge i'm not gonna condemn this is about me i think the reason why i didn't talk

00:00:50.880 about it is because i feel like the people who do talk about this online one are super weird about it

00:00:56.080 two are super critting three will condemn people about it or be like this is the way you need to

00:01:00.400 do it and i'm not doing any of those things so you do you i'm just telling you my experience the main

00:01:04.880 reason why i did this was honestly for my fate and so now guys i hear you guys saying but std is in the chat

00:01:14.560 all right you can get an std if you're married i we're gonna do an std show on friday

00:01:20.480 to give you guys um an in-depth like what your risks are basically but one of the guys i interviewed

00:01:27.760 that has herpes he got it from his wife like he got it in marriage you know you don't know what

00:01:34.560 people are doing decision pretty early on in my life that i was gonna wait the reason on top of

00:01:39.200 this is i don't love hookup culture i think the whole thing is very toxic for me like i want to bring

00:01:44.480 back like the chivalrous age we don't want to go back too far because like you know i like the right

00:01:48.400 to vote i do think that there's a lot of benefits to waiting completely disagree with you have to

00:01:53.600 test drive the car before you buy it like i think that's completely false freeze has nothing can you

00:01:58.800 imagine you do the whole waiting you dedicate the rest of your life to this woman and then she says god

00:02:06.320 says i can't gluck luck that happens to guys i know and i'm gonna tell you guys anecdotal stories

00:02:12.160 there's a guy in england he waited till he was married and he was from a really religious background 0.68

00:02:19.120 and she just had a really low either she either had a low sex drive or a low sex drive for him 1.00

00:02:24.320 now you have to remember guys the number one consumers of only fans are white christian men 0.97

00:02:30.160 so to me that's saying that this whole waiting thing isn't really working how we thought

00:02:36.480 so to do with love which is what marriage is all about our culture we've gotten lost in the sauce

00:02:43.440 no pun intended about what marriage is for and what specifically is meant for i made the decision

00:02:49.520 i wasn't ended up for marriage as well as not live with my partner i've just seen it end so badly with

00:02:54.800 so many people i think it makes things messy if the situation gets and they say you don't need to test

00:03:00.400 drive before you buy it and i'm like who wouldn't test drive a car like and this isn't just a car

00:03:09.680 this is like a car that can literally kill you like this is a car that can you for life

00:03:18.080 and this is a car that's supposed to like the amount think about this this is a car that's supposed

00:03:23.280 to provide a service and the services you know and the car salesman is like you know what you gotta

00:03:32.560 prove you really want this car before you buy it yeah i mean yeah this car has had other drivers but 0.85

00:03:40.880 we can't let you test drive now you might want to do that but that's it's kind of dumb it's kind of it's 0.94

00:03:49.120 kind of dumb it's super toxic it's so much harder to get out of the situation self-protection i think 0.90

00:03:53.920 it was important for me to not live with my partner before getting married sometimes in society we make 0.97

00:03:58.720 so much serious things unserious i feel like we need to bring back the seriousness of like some sacred

00:04:03.200 things i didn't want anything distracting me from really getting the bottom of who that person was

00:04:07.200 and if i could see a life with them i feel like for me not waiting now by the way maybe waiting for

00:04:12.320 marriage would work if these women were waiting but women are not they're just effing until marriage 1.00

00:04:18.800 would have been a distraction i wouldn't have ended up with the right person thank god i did

00:04:22.960 i think sometimes pearl ultimately what you're saying is the personality and the internal of the

00:04:27.520 woman is more important than her character well what good is her her okay what good is the woman's 0.98

00:04:34.000 personality if she's not hot and wanting to get down and not wanting to throw it back like what if she 0.98

00:04:41.120 could be a good person but if she doesn't throw it back what good is she to you

00:04:48.800 that's why you know it's interesting because i keep hearing about this bloodline thing

00:04:53.200 and i was thinking women almost choose betas to give to like give their bloodline or whatever

00:05:01.360 out of necessity i don't think it's like the flex a lot of these trad cons make it out to be

00:05:07.360 the flex is banging a girl in 30 minutes after meeting her that's flex i've seen the puas do that 1.00

00:05:12.960 oh my god the pua i had on my show a few weeks ago i i was at a a thing in vegas and i went to one of

00:05:21.200 his boot camps i just wanted to see i saw him take home two girls on the same day i was horrified i

00:05:28.160 didn't think that happened i was a lot younger this is like when i first got into the yeah and that

00:05:33.200 people wait because they're trying to go back to life yeah and the reason doug says women need to have 0.99

00:05:38.560 sex with the guy as soon as possible yeah and that's what i would i would say after a certain 0.50

00:05:43.840 age because you have to ask yourself what's more valuable your youth your time or your purity and we

00:05:51.680 got to do this thought exercise i know men like to women don't let these guys lie to you don't let 1.00

00:05:57.360 them lie to you there's a lot of women with low body counts that are 50 but they're not signing up for 1.00

00:06:05.200 those your youth is your most valuable asset now i'm not saying but i'm not saying you got to throw

00:06:10.160 it back to anyone but guys it's really like if they're gonna ghost you they're gonna ghost you

00:06:19.040 if you do it on date three like the thing is especially i i know how these like players think um

00:06:26.000 and one you're not gonna outsmart them you're really not um they've thought through everything

00:06:33.280 but like basically if you put up too much resistance they just start selling you boyfriend

00:06:42.960 they just start set like if you if you need more comfort that's they teach the guys to give the

00:06:47.040 woman more like comfort so she thinks it's more long term in order to get you know get the poonanny 1.00

00:06:53.040 yeah i mean you just kind of got to wait and see if do it um and then and then you can find out if he

00:07:01.120 likes you or not um but most women aren't gonna like tell you this but

00:07:11.760 yeah i mean basically the guys that fall for that that the i'm more attracted to the woman that make 1.00

00:07:18.640 me wait and they like see the women that make you wait is more virtuous you guys have to understand the

00:07:24.000 women that make you wait longer see you as more of a sucker like that's how that's how we i'm the only 1.00

00:07:29.040 one that's like being honest with you um like women when they like 0.99

00:07:39.040 the puas have a term for this they say she should pull you you shouldn't pull her she should pull you 0.99

00:07:45.840 because these guys can build up the attraction so much to the point that the women are pulling the guys 1.00

00:07:52.000 home and you might think no that can never happen these guys are meticulous i am telling you i am

00:07:59.760 telling you they told me how they cheat on their girlfriends and it was so good like i'm like ladies

00:08:07.360 there's no way you could catch them there's just no way like they have thought through

00:08:13.920 like there's one guy that he was having trouble with like the hair women left so he just bought like a

00:08:19.680 three-bedroom house and each girlfriend would have a different room he would stay

00:08:26.960 do you know what i mean it's like yeah attraction isn't negotiable negotiable yeah i know but the

00:08:32.480 trads that's what they and the things if women can easily wait till marriage with you i want you to 1.00

00:08:38.640 understand that it's with you like like it's it's it's you now if she's ripping your clothes off and you

00:08:47.360 say honey we gotta wait okay i i could maybe see that word like that dynamic is at least a little

00:08:57.280 better but that's not the dynamic i see in churches traditional patriarchal things and that's like not

00:09:04.320 why the reason why i did it for me waiting was more empowering than anything else now was there times

00:09:09.760 i thought this was dumb absolutely was there times i questioned god about the whole thing absolutely even

00:09:15.760 when i finally got married i did question what is the pain now i want to guess if her husband's gonna

00:09:20.560 be like traditionally masculine or feminine i don't know i'm gonna click on the page after waiting all

00:09:25.600 worth it this guy is near dating someone you love it's really rough and sometimes it does take a toll to

00:09:30.160 wait but now that i'm officially a year into my marriage i can say it was 100 worth waiting now let me

00:09:35.680 clarify i just don't know what would the difference be like

00:09:39.520 like like okay i know somebody right and this person's been married 40 years

00:09:49.200 and my whole life this person said wait till marriage wait till marriage wait till marriage

00:09:55.120 and this person had a 40 year marriage and i thought that was i you know they fooled me on this too

00:10:01.040 and i thought to myself i was like huh

00:10:03.040 well that has to be the right way there's all these studies or whatever

00:10:09.440 and then i found out what this woman did was she got pregnant three months after meeting the dude 1.00

00:10:14.080 and i'm like so really the advice you should have been given me

00:10:19.120 was to just you know get right to it i guess get pregnant 1.00

00:10:24.240 now i'm not saying to do that right but i was i was like damn i would have been married five years 0.79

00:10:29.600 ago if you just said get right to it you know i'm not i'm kidding but half kidding but this is what

00:10:38.800 a lot of the trads do right they say wait till marriage and you ask well what did you do and none

00:10:45.040 of them waited and you think to yourself like imagine if i had a billion dollar company and you're like

00:10:51.680 well how did you do it can you tell me how to do it and then you say well you got to do it this other

00:10:57.360 way and you're like no no tell me how you did i want to know what you did and if i saw the problem

00:11:04.640 is what happened to me anyways is if i saw like a traditional relationship like the people that sign

00:11:11.520 up for this if i saw a really masculine guy and a feminine woman that seemed really happy um you know

00:11:19.760 i'd sign up but instead i get like the trent horns you know trent horns wife's like mouthing off 1.00

00:11:25.520 saying she wants to the pastor instead of him like on a podcast you know and um

00:11:36.880 yeah hold on

00:11:40.720 some things waiting till marriage does not mean god's gonna fix all your problems

00:11:44.080 and i absolutely still believe yeah and it takes the burden of performance off of women because oh my 0.82

00:11:50.000 gosh you guys don't even get to have like the i want him to marry me sex oh you're gonna miss all 0.99

00:11:55.680 of that the best sex you'll ever get is a woman trying to get a ring 1.00

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00:13:48.800 and you are you oh you oh my gosh because we all know women are bad people i'm thinking about this 0.84

00:13:54.160 further not all not all but i'm thinking about this further women we all know that the worst sex is 1.00

00:14:02.320 married sex and it's because women like you being a good guy like our attraction to you is basically how 0.84

00:14:12.880 much we hate you that's the unfortunate part it's not it's not fun as a woman she'll be like i hate him 0.71

00:14:17.600 but i want to you know so but basically guys what i'm saying 0.99

00:14:28.400 the best sex is the sex before marriage every guy gets married and says the sex is terrible so the 0.91

00:14:35.600 people the guy's waiting they don't even get to experience the best sex they get the worst sex off 0.99

00:14:40.960 the bat off the bat like they just go right to the worst sex ever like the best sex is her is her she 1.00

00:14:49.840 thinks you have other girls and she's trying to get you away from the other girls then the next best sex 1.00

00:14:54.240 is she's trying to get rain and now you're you're just skipping all the bad and the guys they're opting

00:15:00.720 into this because god like basically basically the preachers are coming in are like f we need somebody to 0.96

00:15:07.280 marry these whores oh what are we going to do guys you have to wait till marriage because god 1.00

00:15:14.480 well the women aren't waiting till me no no no no no god it's just an l it's enough and look at i'm not 0.99

00:15:22.240 i'm not the most religious person in the world but and part of that comes from i come from a pretty

00:15:28.720 religious background and i just saw i just would see how a lot of these ideas panned out in real life over

00:15:35.200 time like i'll give you an example in college these girls would be in situationships for like 1.00

00:15:42.400 three years and i thought i was like they're so dumb you know he's never gonna settle down with

00:15:47.920 them that that's never gonna work and i i really thought i was like we'll just leave like he's never 0.96

00:15:53.600 gonna date you they're all married and pregnant now 1.00

00:16:02.400 it does work because men do reward loyalty and they just took for a while and then he did

00:16:07.440 like i always hear these women say well if a guy's waiting this long to marry you he's never gonna do 1.00

00:16:12.400 that's not what i've seen i've seen the last wedding i went to pulled the trigger after seven years other

00:16:18.800 wedding i went to pulled the trigger after 10 years um other wedding i went to for you like i was like

00:16:26.480 i don't know like if anything the people that rush into it i see them get divorced pretty pretty fast

00:16:33.200 like within three years anyways um but yeah you're basically just

00:16:39.600 you're saying let me have the worst sex of my life let me opt in even education you'd be educating 0.97

00:16:48.560 ourselves even if you are waiting ignorant and harmful not to know you're someone who's on the 0.97

00:16:53.520 fence about waiting until marriage i'd encourage you to pray about it think about it it'd be a really

00:16:57.200 beautiful thing when you find the right person let's say waiting until marriage really kept me from 0.98

00:17:01.440 a lot of toxic situations that i could have been left in allowed me to get out way quicker than i

00:17:05.760 probably could have if i didn't do otherwise so super vulnerable for me to share please be nice in

00:17:09.920 the comment section all right let's see if she has let's see the oh my gosh so let me get this straight

00:17:22.400 her top thing do you see what i mean like this is the trad girl that waited till marriage 1.00

00:17:35.760 huh i can't okay here's the husband let's see who signed up

00:17:44.160 this is going to be the biggest test of our marriage and no matter what happens we have to

00:17:47.920 know it's us let's see we got to decide alpha or beta in the chat we got to do the enemy

00:17:52.960 no matter the results of this i will always love you

00:17:55.120 this is going to be the biggest test of our marriage let's see

00:18:10.720 i mean he's already a super simp because his girls all

00:18:16.880 yeah half of these are just marketing for the next guy do you know what i mean like so it's like

00:18:25.120 because basically if the religious people they're trying to say this works and what they'll always

00:18:32.320 do is they'll cite some studies right but at some point the studies and i've cited some of these

00:18:38.400 studies it's a little bit embarrassing now um i've cited some of these studies but like at some point

00:18:45.040 i have to see it play out in real life like i have to be like oh if i look at the people that did it

00:18:50.800 their marriages look like super different like super and and i see them look worse if i'm being

00:18:57.200 honest like at least the guy in the beginning it's amazing to me how much oh shoot at least the guy in

00:19:04.240 the beginning got that like toxic sex first you know i'm sure if you see these the guys these poor

00:19:11.360 men don't even get to experience it they don't even know what genuine desire is they never get it

00:19:16.800 because you're starting you're starting the relationship women it's like if we want to 0.99

00:19:21.200 bang you you got to make us insecure and you got to get rid of the comfort

00:19:25.840 and so but you're starting the whole thing and just putting all the comfort up front she doesn't have to 0.98

00:19:30.240 work for it not even not even gluck gluck you know types of videos get whenever we post about it yeah

00:19:39.920 this is the typical yeah okay so this is the they waited till marriage um she's got a nose ring hoop 1.00

00:19:47.600 earrings and looks dead inside and he also looks miserable does that look like a happily married guy

00:19:54.560 so i think that we should talk about it for context jacob and i have been married for three years and

00:19:59.840 we did wait to have sex until marriage and we also waited to kiss until marriage oh my god they waited to 0.56

00:20:06.400 kiss it's something that we really felt convicted by god to do as christians and we wanted to honor do

00:20:14.160 you see the humiliation in his eyes while his wife puts their sex life on the internet like do you see 0.91

00:20:20.560 how humiliating that is not in our relationship and it ended up being like one of the best things we've

00:20:26.320 ever done i can speak for what and i'm serious what would be because i'm thinking of this couple that's

00:20:30.800 been married 40 years they had sex they got pregnant and then they got married what is the difference

00:20:37.040 like to me i'm like and then the worst part is these women will virtue signal to me like they're 1.00

00:20:41.600 somehow better and i'm thinking i'm like how are you better than the couple that just started banging

00:20:49.520 in high school and stayed together for life like what is the difference pearl listening to you woke me the

00:20:56.480 f up you pimp me back to life can't thank you enough much love to you thank you k casino i appreciate it

00:21:07.040 um yeah okay let me tell myself personally that i've never been with anyone before besides jacob

00:21:14.080 so my only experience has been with him uh your your simp husband might believe that honey

00:21:21.520 but i don't nope so there's no comparison or idea that i have of what it would be like to be with

00:21:28.560 someone else i'm coming from the other side of this conversation so before i met taylor before i gave

00:21:33.280 my life to jesus yeah i hear the same like kind of simpiness in the voice unfortunately but it's not

00:21:42.160 like a deep you know i did not wait until marriage so i have test driven the car and done all of those

00:21:49.200 things and i can just say and testify i mean that's at least better i think he at least was effing around

00:21:56.320 too in my own life that it's a complete lie so everything i ever experienced before taylor or i

00:22:02.480 didn't have an emotional connection i was in an unhealthy place i was just focused on the physical

00:22:07.520 gratification the connection that i would have how gay does he sound right now

00:22:12.480 this sounds gay or lack thereof was so minimal and not even comparable to what i now have with taylor

00:22:22.640 our sexual connection is far beyond anything i ever could have experienced outside the context of

00:22:27.520 marriage so i can actually testify against those comments because i've lived that out and i'm telling

00:22:32.720 you that one way is completely empty but god's way is so fulfilling and without going into too much

00:22:39.520 detail we also get a lot of comments of people saying like oh their wedding night sucked or

00:22:45.120 their honeymoon isn't going to be good and we just want to come against that because that definitely

00:22:49.680 was not the case for us at all i think because jacob and i were such good friends and had such a good

00:22:56.320 foundation of like oh you gotta oh we were friends first he's cooked he's done he's done love and

00:23:06.240 committed you could also tell who runs the relationship by who talks first does she look

00:23:10.800 to him to talk or does she talk and if she starts she usually runs it the best position to be in is

00:23:16.640 the good luck chuck position seeing a girl i had a few month fling with in a new uh in a new long-term

00:23:22.960 relationship knowing he's not getting anything proprietary is so satisfyingly funny

00:23:29.120 before our wedding night um it just made it so special yeah and i think the world's interpretation

00:23:38.160 is that in order to be good at sex you have to give way to perversion and that's a total lie

00:23:43.520 you don't have to engage in sexual acts with other people in order to learn how to

00:23:47.920 be good at sex now i'm not looking i'm not saying it's the right thing to do right i'm not saying

00:24:07.280 waiting till marriage like you could argue that it's morally right if you believe in the bible

00:24:11.200 right according to your religion i'm arguing it doesn't work in 2025 that's what i'm arguing

00:24:19.600 i'm arguing you can't pray these hoes back into marriage you just can't 1.00

00:24:24.400 concept of entering into it with somebody communicating with them through love and

00:24:29.520 doing things for each other not for the selfish gratification of yourself but actually for the love

00:24:36.000 and the sake of the other person that's what it's supposed to be about and you can never experience

00:24:40.480 okay okay how old is she i think uh she looks late 20s to me 1.00

00:24:49.040 oh she doesn't have age let's let's look at the let's see if at least she's covered up please god 1.00

00:24:55.440 this last one killed me okay this is a little better than the last one i have a little bit more hope

00:25:05.200 not really but

00:25:10.480 okay

00:25:14.320 are we gonna label him a chad guy he is pretty tall he is pretty tall are we gonna okay all right put put

00:25:23.120 in the put in the comments if you think he's a uh a alpha or a beta you guys get to pick

00:25:30.960 alpha or beta put it in the comments the men

00:25:37.680 all right let's use next so this guy again

00:25:42.480 all right and i so when you guys call in so me waiting for marriage i want to know what you guys have

00:25:48.720 have seen and experienced and i'm gonna i'm gonna tell you guys a couple of my experiences

00:25:53.920 of what i've seen in a lot of these like religious backgrounds and girl i do not regret

00:25:58.880 it i'm gonna take you on a little story time okay he had been saved since he was four i had been

00:26:03.440 walling out in the trenches of the world he had been a virgin his whole life i had been far from okay

00:26:10.720 that's where we're starting we got together when i had been saved for about a year and he had been

00:26:14.720 sick she's gonna ruin his life that's a recipe for disaster 1.00

00:26:20.240 single for about 10 i had been single for about three minutes it wasn't three minutes it was longer

00:26:24.480 than that i had a single season with jesus but it wasn't very long okay and so when we got together

00:26:28.720 the lord had to put his hand so graciously on our relationship and give us strength because your girl

00:26:34.960 was not so fond of patience you know from the time we started dating until the time we got married

00:26:40.560 was literally less than six months the bible says rather you marry than burn with lust and we said

00:26:45.440 say no more but for real we both had confirmation from the lord that we were going to get married

00:26:49.200 we knew very early on a week into our relationship that we were going to be husband and wife so we

00:26:53.200 started dating we start loving each other because remember a lot of times women when they're dating 1.00

00:26:58.880 you they don't know if they want you or the kid or you or the wedding and that's why the guys

00:27:05.920 that are getting sex for free they really know that the girl likes them because they're not giving

00:27:10.080 in return why are you preaching people to not wait till marriage that's ungodly of you 0.93

00:27:21.040 let me guess elizabeth you're gonna try to sell me that you're a virgin 1.00

00:27:27.520 right like more than i can tell you i've ever loved anything or anyone in my life the women are 1.00

00:27:33.440 gonna hate this because i'm spilling the game here i'm spilling the game marriage like um marriage is

00:27:42.640 a way for women to get a beta to bail them out and then she can ruin your life later remember how this 1.00

00:27:49.200 worked out for crowder that's the other thing all these guys that touted this stuff they keep ending up

00:27:54.160 in these super sent marriages they're getting divorced 1.00

00:27:56.640 a second to jesus and i was obsessed i am still obsessed with this man the thoughts the look

00:28:07.440 of this man sent me to mars sent me to mars and you're probably going to experience this

00:28:13.200 it was very hard for us to practice self-control now did we wait we did we absolutely did wait for

00:28:19.120 marriage and my goodness i cannot tell you the difference between you know what in the world and

00:28:24.560 you know what in the kingdom it just doesn't make sense i i don't believe there's a big difference

00:28:33.440 because you guys took vows the vows don't even mean anything women are leaving after like seven years

00:28:40.160 you know what i mean like if you said to me waiting till marriage is super different and i saw really

00:28:48.800 different results right and i looked at the couples and i said wow they're gonna make it

00:28:56.160 but you guys keep putting up these ex hoes you think you've experienced you know what but you 1.00

00:29:01.040 haven't you've experienced sin and sin alone and that ain't the same but we did mess up we were doing

00:29:07.600 and feeling and touching other things that we should not been doing feeling and touching and i want to

00:29:11.920 tell you and just she was gluck glucking she's a mid that's how she got the ring boom case closed be 1.00

00:29:17.040 honest with you about our story so that marriage is just a made-up thing like taxes passports countries

00:29:23.120 borders i don't know i'm starting to think the longer i'm alive the more i think it was made up by women 1.00

00:29:32.080 because it's just such a great get out of jail free card where you don't have to do anything

00:29:37.280 oh the only burden of performance is to be young cute and not even young anymore to be cute and not

00:29:44.960 have sex that's way harder than like not nagging or being likable all you have to do all you have 0.63

00:29:52.480 to do is not have sex you cannot make the same mistakes because i wish you would have saved guys 0.79

00:29:58.320 trust there are women that wait until marriage how old are you elizabeth give me your age 0.98

00:30:04.080 give me your age give me your age are you gonna call in i better see you on the zoom every little

00:30:15.280 thing i wish we wouldn't have slept in the bed together before marriage i wish we wouldn't have

00:30:19.040 been you know what before marriage i wish we would not have i wish you wouldn't have made out before

00:30:24.000 marriage now knowing how sweet it is when you wait and how blessed it is when you wait i wish you would

00:30:30.080 have saved everything i'm so for real i probably would have waited to kiss until marriage now knowing

00:30:35.280 how blessed it is when you do i would have wanted to experience everything to that kind of fullness

00:30:41.280 but when we got married all right so elizabeth is 19 almost 20 and she expects me to believe

00:30:48.560 let me get this straight so all right the average girl loses her virginity at 16. 0.97

00:30:55.280 and you um some girls as early as 14 you start to get a sex drive so 15 16 17 18 19 20 you had six

00:31:08.800 years of having a healthy sex drive especially when you're young i mean these young women are 0.99

00:31:15.120 fucking anything these days um and you're expecting me to believe that you never got fingered you never 1.00

00:31:21.760 back door blue not i'm not as dumb as as your simps okay i'm not and you can tell me that but women are 1.00

00:31:34.080 deceitful and i've had a lot of women on the show tell me they were virgins 1.00

00:31:40.480 and i'm tired i'm exhausted let me tell you there's nothing like it on the face of the earth

00:31:48.240 it is literally a picture yes self-control is key yeah like women have self-control 1.00

00:31:55.680 of christ uniting the bridegroom with the bro and let me get this straight i want to i want to add to

00:32:00.320 that so let me get this straight on top of that you have a phone and you have an iphone and you have a

00:32:09.600 dating app that can get you a thousand matches in a day and you could put the pin in a different city

00:32:17.680 and have a guy that could it could be completely anonymous you'd never see him again

00:32:23.040 and you expect me to believe that in six years you never did that

00:32:32.320 sure all right

00:32:35.120 okay

00:32:46.080 yeah i did have faith until i started talking to women that's so true that's so true yeah i i started

00:32:54.400 i won't even lie to you guys because i could give you a background of my faith stuff but i was pretty

00:33:02.560 like i went to catholic church probably till i was like 23 and i was in and out until my mid-20s i would

00:33:11.440 say but oh my god yeah these women they definitely made me lose faith they really did 1.00

Pearl - July 08, 2025

Waiting Until Marriage Only Benefits Modern Women

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