Pearl - September 19, 2024


Watch WHAT THEY DO! Not WHAT THEY SAY! ｜ Pearl Daily


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Length

1 hour and 5 minutes

Words per Minute

163.84026

Word Count

10,724

Sentence Count

349

Misogynist Sentences

128

Hate Speech Sentences

115


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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to the just pearly things youtube channel
00:00:17.600 here on the audacity network make sure we get a one in the chat if you're having a good day today
00:00:24.280 and make sure you like the video on your way in. Okay, so today's topic, I wanted to talk about
00:00:32.280 watching what people do and not what they say. So as you guys know, I went to England and I
00:00:39.420 interviewed a thousand people about dating, relationships, and culture, and I learned a
00:00:44.480 lot of lessons in this time period. And I've really tried to focus on lessons that I have
00:00:50.760 learned in the past couple of years. But, you know, I have this app called Twitter, or they call it X
00:00:57.380 now. And sometimes this app makes me think, usually it doesn't. Let's just be honest, usually it
00:01:03.840 doesn't. But I came across this account called Nuclear, called Caudillo. And I saw a tweet that
00:01:16.640 reminded me of a lesson that I learned while I was in the UK. 1.00
00:01:22.260 So it says, women get to decide who has sex. 0.99
00:01:27.140 Women get to decide who gets to be in a relationship. 0.98
00:01:31.260 And women get to decide who gets to be born. 1.00
00:01:34.840 Women decide how much time you get with your kids. 1.00
00:01:37.320 It's a heavy burden. 1.00
00:01:38.400 But hey, enjoy your sexual power. 0.99
00:01:40.960 You can't fool us forever.
00:01:43.620 And what, I guess what this reminded me of was the common phrase that I hear from
00:01:53.380 conservatives, tradcoms, that women are being lied to, right?
00:01:59.960 That women want to be mothers, they want to be nurturing, but we're just lied to because 1.00
00:02:06.320 of this society we're in.
00:02:08.760 And what I found when I was in England is that was not necessarily the case. 1.00
00:02:15.600 And oftentimes what you see is plausible deniability is how women get away with things and they get power. 0.88
00:02:25.940 There's a button on the screen if you don't mind. 1.00
00:02:29.140 So there's plausible deniability is how women get away with things and they get power. 1.00
00:02:34.320 And the issue is simps are always the ones to give women plausible deniability. 0.99
00:02:41.500 And that is the problem these days. 0.85
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00:04:20.800 the topic, I wanted to read something that I wrote about my time in England. As you guys know, I like
00:04:27.800 to read just different stories that I learned when I was in England, because I did learn a lot.
00:04:35.460 So when I first got to England, I would say I had more of a traditional conservative perspective.
00:04:42.020 So I believed in traditionalism. I believed that family was the answer. God was the answer to a
00:04:48.960 lot of our problems. And it's not necessarily that it isn't. But what I found out is that it wasn't
00:04:57.280 that simple. So conservatives like to talk a lot about how women are naturally nurturing. 0.52
00:05:05.200 Women want to be mothers and wives. Society just lied to us, and I always believed this to be true.
00:05:11.540 I went on shows and shouted about how women are being lied to. Women are naturally nurturing 1.00
00:05:17.440 and want to be mothers, but society tells us no, right? I mean, getting pregnant in high school 1.00
00:05:24.060 seems to be life-ending. There was one young woman at my high school who was a teen mom, 0.78
00:05:29.180 and I remember everyone thinking her life was over. This is what we're told, right? Women want
00:05:35.300 to be mothers, but feminism. It's clear. Women are on antidepressants if they don't have children. 1.00
00:05:41.120 Every other day, you see some old woman crying in her car about how she regrets not having children. 1.00
00:05:47.200 Women want to be mothers, but society. This is what I thought was true. Unfortunately, reality 1.00
00:05:52.840 came to crash my worldview. As you guys know, I interviewed a thousand women on
00:05:57.700 the show the pregame in England. I went to England to play volleyball and started
00:06:02.140 a show interviewing women and men about relationships on the side. The
00:06:06.840 interesting thing that happens when you interview so many people is you see 0.88
00:06:10.400 patterns in women based on age. You see women at 22 who do not care about 0.99
00:06:17.260 anyone but herself, partying in the club every weekend, being hit up on by 0.99
00:06:22.520 celebrities going to festivals, or maybe she's chasing a spot at the top law firm. 0.97
00:06:27.620 It depends on the woman. Regardless, none of her actions indicate that she wants to
00:06:32.480 be a wife or a mother, but sometimes they say, but sometimes they will say that on
00:06:38.540 a show, right? The same woman at 32 may be dating a lot more seriously. However,
00:06:43.760 you can argue that's because she's out of time and it wasn't what she truly
00:06:47.600 wanted, because you can see what people truly want to do when they have the most
00:06:52.260 choice to do any anything what we are seeing is that when we have the most
00:06:56.940 choice women are not choosing to be naturally nurturing there is a saying 0.80
00:07:01.560 that money does not change people but it reveals who they are I say it's the same
00:07:05.900 thing with freedom you cannot see what people truly want to do until they have 0.85
00:07:10.180 the freedom to do anything a hundred years ago in order to survive women had 0.95
00:07:14.760 to find a man I mean there have always been spinsters in history but we can 1.00
00:07:19.080 agree that society makes it much easier to be one today. 1.00
00:07:23.340 The last hundred years, feminists 1.00
00:07:25.380 have gained a crazy amount of power. 1.00
00:07:27.820 Women have the power to divorce. 1.00
00:07:29.640 This is what the tweet was saying. 1.00
00:07:31.400 Women have the power to take their children with them. 1.00
00:07:34.560 Women have the power to marry whoever they want. 1.00
00:07:37.260 Women are naturally nurturing and want to be mothers, right? 0.99
00:07:40.500 So by that logic, when we have the power to do anything, 0.98
00:07:44.200 why don't we do it? 1.00
00:07:45.580 Why are women the most likely ones to abuse children? 1.00
00:07:48.460 Why is the birth rate falling? 1.00
00:07:50.380 Why do we choose to send kids to daycare
00:07:52.760 instead of being with the children? 1.00
00:07:54.660 Why do single mother homes turn out so poorly? 1.00
00:07:57.400 Why do we choose to get married at 32 rather than 22? 1.00
00:08:00.700 We have dating apps where you could hypothetically
00:08:02.880 filter out men by race, age, religion, and ethnicity. 0.97
00:08:06.360 Even overweight women get thousands of matches, 0.92
00:08:08.700 yet there's less marriages than ever before. 1.00
00:08:11.800 Why is there a surplus of OnlyFans models,
00:08:14.880 and why are finishing schools closing?
00:08:18.140 We have the freedom to do anything, so why are we choosing sex work? 1.00
00:08:21.900 One surprise that I found in interviewing a thousand women was just how common sex work was. 0.97
00:08:27.020 Sometimes it is not the women that you would expect. I would guess one out of five women 1.00
00:08:32.460 under the age of 35 that are a six in attractiveness or higher have engaged in some sort of 1.00
00:08:38.060 sex work. I know that sounds crazy to the average Joe, but being a sugar baby is being offered to
00:08:43.740 to young women more and more? 0.84
00:08:45.860 And if nobody knows, why wouldn't you consider it?
00:08:49.360 If women are nurturing, why are we the ones most likely 1.00
00:08:52.820 to kill infants in the first year? 1.00
00:08:55.080 Why do one third of women get abortions 1.00
00:08:57.000 by the time they're 45? 1.00
00:08:58.600 Why do women fight so hard for birth control 1.00
00:09:01.180 and the right for abortion? 0.97
00:09:02.600 I realize the answer is so simple,
00:09:04.660 yet conservatives blame it on men
00:09:06.740 not wanting to get married.
00:09:08.300 Conservatives have the answer in their face,
00:09:10.320 but they don't see it.
00:09:11.660 Conservatives think that men are the ones 0.97
00:09:13.920 that don't wanna get married, but really it's women. 0.99
00:09:17.220 Women do not wanna be wives and mothers 1.00
00:09:19.120 because if they wanted to, 1.00
00:09:20.500 we would see it based on their life decisions.
00:09:23.440 From what I see, most young men would still get married
00:09:25.900 in the right circumstances. 1.00
00:09:27.620 Men are cashing out earlier than women 1.00
00:09:29.600 in terms of giving up power in the sexual marketplace.
00:09:32.700 The average age of first marriage is rising 0.99
00:09:35.740 and it is because women are the real gatekeepers of it. 1.00
00:09:38.660 Women have the choice, men do not. 0.72
00:09:40.960 Women are not naturally nurturing, because if we were, then our choices would reflect that.
00:09:47.320 Women are not innocent victims being lied to. 0.60
00:09:50.000 We're adults making decisions on what we want to do.
00:09:52.920 Again, none of this means bad person.
00:09:55.060 None of this is immoral.
00:09:56.780 It's simply watching what people do not want.
00:10:00.000 It is simply watching what people do rather than what they say.
00:10:03.960 I am going to go over a couple videos that reflect the conflict of trying to cope with what we want to be true versus what is actually going on.
00:10:14.420 Again, I say this to be clear.
00:10:16.680 This is not a moral statement.
00:10:18.440 This is not what I wish to be true, but rather an accurate description of what I have found after interviewing a thousand women.
00:10:26.140 So what made me think of this today was I saw a video from The Daily Wire.
00:10:31.240 And The Daily Wire, I grew up watching The Daily Wire, and I think that's why I talk about this concept so much was because a lot of the ideas at one point made me think that they were true, right?
00:10:45.800 Because you would always hear that women are just being lied to.
00:10:48.960 And I came to realize that that's just a cop out. 1.00
00:10:52.460 It's just a way for women to dodge accountability 1.00
00:10:57.660 and blame it on the media, the culture, 1.00
00:11:00.560 and blame men in some way.
00:11:02.680 That it's somehow everyone else's fault
00:11:05.580 that we make decisions that come with choices and trade offs.
00:11:10.100 And what I realized is that conservatives
00:11:12.980 are just as willing to bail women out as the liberals.
00:11:16.240 It's not about party.
00:11:20.140 So I saw this video from Brett Cooper
00:11:23.280 and I used to say a lot of stuff like this,
00:11:25.500 so I'm not trying to judge.
00:11:27.240 It's just more kind of showing the flaws in their thinking.
00:11:31.560 So, or I guess the holes in the argument.
00:11:35.740 Fewer and fewer people are having children these days.
00:11:37.800 I mean, the drop in people dating and getting married
00:11:39.660 obviously contributes to that.
00:11:40.860 The economy is a huge factor.
00:11:42.600 Okay, so this is one, what I would say is a lie, right?
00:11:46.980 Everyone's saying, oh, it's the economy.
00:11:49.060 It's the economy.
00:11:50.300 That's why, you know, and this is just based off of the women that I interviewed, right? 0.98
00:11:55.580 This could be, you can take this or leave it. 1.00
00:11:57.860 But I kept hearing that money was the reason people weren't having kids. 1.00
00:12:04.320 And women would come on the show and they would say, it's money, right? 1.00
00:12:10.480 I can't have more children because of money. 0.99
00:12:12.600 But I would look at their face, and it would be frozen with Botox.
00:12:16.920 I would look at their nails, and they would be done.
00:12:20.420 I would look at their fashion, and it would be the latest trend. 1.00
00:12:25.360 And a couple times, we had more traditional housewives that came on. 1.00
00:12:30.260 And what I found was the traditional housewives didn't have any of that stuff done 0.97
00:12:37.140 because they wanted the children more than they wanted the lifestyle.
00:12:40.220 and that's not necessarily a bad thing and i think a lot of times when we say these things
00:12:45.440 people think we're putting morality onto it but i'm never trying to it's just
00:12:50.400 some people are more selfish and some people are more selfless and so when we say oh it's the
00:12:59.620 economy i just don't really buy it anymore people feeling like they genuinely can't even afford to
00:13:06.780 have children but probably let me make sure this is on one accident more impactful not fathom the
00:13:12.560 idea girl first is head for the man it doesn't make sense you know taking a stand against the
00:13:16.980 patriarchy they should dedicate their lives to just working for the man it doesn't make sense
00:13:20.780 before we dive into this insane story make sure that you like this video subscribe sorry brad i'm 0.97
00:13:28.320 not gonna i'm not gonna plug whatever ad you got for free they gotta pay me these crotch goblins as 0.80
00:13:35.000 many people call children are getting in the way of your girl boss from the economist how motherhood 0.59
00:13:39.640 hurts careers like the priorities and the biases are so blatantly obvious okay so then what happens
00:13:45.640 is they start to blame the media but who is the media catered to who makes the consumer buying
00:13:53.640 decisions who's the one writing these articles is it which which gender is it and again this
00:14:03.800 isn't morality this isn't to dog on them but it's just asking the question
00:14:10.760 is it really the media is lying to women or is it this is how they feel 1.00
00:14:17.960 these crotch goblins as so many people call children are getting in the way of your girl
00:14:21.560 bossing not the other way around these writers and these pop psychologists could not fathom the idea 0.50
00:14:26.520 that maybe to many women your career is actually inhibiting motherhood now here's another headline
00:14:31.640 why it's okay to choose a career over kids and obviously if you don't have kids again
00:14:35.720 that's your personal prerogative but we need to talk about the cultural attitudes and how
00:14:39.160 aggressively all of okay but then this is the question who creates culture so if historically
00:14:48.440 and this is something i i just don't think you guys can come to a lot of these conclusions until
00:14:53.880 you've done a ton of interviews because it just changes your perspective and one thing
00:14:59.000 that I figured out was that traditional mothers have a tendency to tell their
00:15:04.100 daughters to go to school get an education and not to be traditional not 0.90
00:15:11.560 right not wrong I'm just saying I would interview women that were second
00:15:15.840 generation immigrants from traditional countries and so often the daughter
00:15:21.920 would say that the mother told her not to pursue a man and to pursue a career
00:15:28.880 first. So who created this culture? Where does it come from? Maybe this is how
00:15:39.320 women feel. And what happens is conservatives say, no, we don't believe them. And then
00:15:51.740 not all by the way not all women but a lot a percentage of women come out and say
00:15:57.980 hey um no we really do feel like this let's fight for abortion let's fight for all of these
00:16:05.500 let's fight to get jobs let's fight for all this stuff and pretend that we really want to be
00:16:13.260 married and in relationships but it's all just it's like fake well this has been pushed so that
00:16:20.000 is the point in showing all of this. As it always does, you know, this started with the academics
00:16:23.920 and the journalists, and it trickled down to normal women, where now, in 2024, you will often 0.96
00:16:28.640 find discourse like this. This was on Reddit six months ago. Motherhood is a trap. These men get to
00:16:34.360 explore the country, make good money, and who knows, maybe they're having affairs, while their
00:16:37.840 wives are stuck with the children, careers suffering. They have no life outside of children.
00:16:42.780 Motherhood is the biggest scam, and I'm so damn grateful I didn't fall for it. Well, that's one
00:16:49.140 to look at it a commenter on this post said i was discussing this the other day it makes zero sense
00:16:53.940 for women to want kids it ruins your body there is a significant risk of death maiming psychosis 0.99
00:17:00.340 permanent injury etc let's not forget all the things that get played off as normal like a 0.99
00:17:04.420 pisciotomy bladder control issues etc again now partially is part of this cope i'm sure right
00:17:12.580 a lot of times when older women make bad decisions they give the wrong information to younger women
00:17:18.500 yes but if i'm being honest guys based on our actions not what we say but what we do the
00:17:26.820 abortion rate is a huge one one out of three women go and get one we might think that's wrong right
00:17:33.060 whatever it doesn't matter we can't change that then we look at single motherhood rate 1.00
00:17:39.140 rate, then we look at the child abuse rate, infanticide rate, I think this idea that women 0.96
00:17:50.540 naturally want that, I just don't see any evidence for it. 0.99
00:17:56.360 Now I'm not saying I don't wish that to be true, I don't hope that is true, but what
00:18:01.520 What I kept finding doing these interviews is that I just didn't have any indication
00:18:10.160 that that was a priority for 85%, maybe 80% of the people I interviewed. 0.94
00:18:18.140 And the pushback I would get, right, is not all women are like that, and that was always
00:18:23.520 the one that I would get.
00:18:26.460 But again, statistics don't really lie.
00:18:34.540 What you find is regardless of the culture, the ethnicity, the race, where they are, maybe
00:18:41.960 some cultures and ethnicities and religions, it's happening at a slower rate, but it's
00:18:47.860 still the same trend. 0.88
00:18:49.860 And the trend is largely led by women.
00:18:54.420 would hear way more women say they didn't want kids than men and that's the birth rate declining
00:19:00.100 so less children um more abortions more stds so this idea like everyone always blames it on the
00:19:10.500 culture but who's in control of the culture who is this media catered to and then the vast majority 0.97
00:19:19.780 of women do 95 of the child-rearing household chores mental load and then often work full-time 0.99
00:19:23.940 too why would anyone do that to themselves and then people replied to that person and said well 0.94
00:19:28.420 these women just want to be martyrs they want to feel better than all of us what i mean maybe women 0.98
00:19:33.940 choose to do this because not everyone has your values because not everyone is as angry as you 0.61
00:19:39.060 because women are i'm sorry to break it to you we are biologically designed and called to be mothers
00:19:45.220 yeah so again this is the this is what made me think of it as i was listening to your video
00:19:50.420 And I was thinking, I'm like, I just, if women are biologically called to be mothers and that's
00:19:57.520 their natural inclination, I know we biologically can have children. I know that's a thing.
00:20:04.800 But then why do we kill these kids so often or abort them? Why is the abuse rate for
00:20:14.320 so much higher from women to men.
00:20:18.100 And again, men still do it, women still do it. 0.92
00:20:20.380 I'm not trying to play the gender card, 0.80
00:20:26.540 but it begs the question, 0.99
00:20:29.760 if that's natural, 1.00
00:20:34.500 why are women the ones that kill the kid in the first year, 1.00
00:20:41.520 abuse the kid, and why aren't they having them, right? 1.00
00:20:44.320 It just goes back to the plausible deniability, okay?
00:20:49.700 Whether you like it or not. 1.00
00:20:50.560 And most women, no matter how hard they try 0.96
00:20:52.320 to convince themselves other-
00:20:53.620 So again, this is what I always hear. 1.00
00:20:55.460 It's like the modern world has destroyed women. 1.00
00:20:59.720 Okay, but it kind of goes back to, 0.99
00:21:02.400 someone in the chat said that.
00:21:04.060 It kind of goes back to, for me anyways,
00:21:06.260 it goes back to how do you see what people want to do?
00:21:10.880 So if you give someone a million dollars 1.00
00:21:13.360 and he blows it on hookers and drugs.
00:21:18.920 I mean, that's what the guy has always wanted to do.
00:21:21.520 He just never had the opportunity.
00:21:26.280 When you say to women or feminists, whatever,
00:21:34.200 hey, you guys can do whatever you want.
00:21:36.340 If you want to go work, go work.
00:21:37.880 If you want to put your kid in daycare,
00:21:39.340 go put your kid in daycare.
00:21:40.880 If you want to go get married, go get married. 1.00
00:21:42.860 If you want to get an abortion, go get an abortion. 0.99
00:21:44.860 If you want birth control, go get birth control. 0.95
00:21:48.720 And then women, 90% have been on birth control. 0.66
00:21:53.880 One out of three has an STD.
00:21:56.160 Oh, wait, no.
00:21:56.880 One out of four has an STD.
00:21:58.280 One out of three has an abortion by the time they're 45.
00:22:07.080 I mean, it's revealing, right?
00:22:09.480 it's revealing what they wanted to do
00:22:15.260 that's that's the conclusion I came to and I just kind of the way I thought
00:22:22.160 about it was by blaming it on the modern world or feminism or society it just
00:22:28.840 takes accountability off of grown adults that can make decisions
00:22:33.640 otherwise and block out all of those feelings they know that and at some 0.93
00:22:37.360 point they will want that like why do you think so many women are freezing christiana said why do i 1.00
00:22:42.080 always look drunk that's rude that's rude water water okay let's not their eggs even as they're 1.00
00:22:49.520 girl bossing and working on their careers for literally decades because they know that later 0.91
00:22:53.520 down the line that is something that they will probably want even though they're trying to
00:22:56.640 suppress those feelings as hard as later down the line even as they're girl bossing see this
00:23:00.880 like i just want you to show the concept it's still women are innocent we are these innocent
00:23:05.920 victims they will want that like why do you think so block out what are i'm sorry to break it to you
00:23:11.440 we are biologically designed and called to be mothers like whether you like it or not and most 0.52
00:23:16.320 women no matter how hard they try to convince themselves otherwise and block out all of those
00:23:20.880 feelings they know that and at some point they will want that like why do you think so many 1.00
00:23:24.880 women are freezing their eggs even as they're girl bossing and working on their careers for 1.00
00:23:28.800 literally decades because they know that later okay the reason that women freeze their eggs 1.00
00:23:34.240 is because there are things they would rather do than be mothers with their youth so the youth 0.60
00:23:40.540 again the youth is the most valuable thing that we have that's the most valuable thing you can
00:23:45.740 give to your husband that's the most valuable thing you can give to your children because one
00:23:50.440 the kids are turn out better if you have them naturally and you have more energy to raise them
00:24:04.060 Like, I mean, you guys get the idea.
00:24:06.680 And so they're saying, I would rather spend my youth on myself than being a mother and a wife.
00:24:14.540 I don't think that's necessarily right or wrong, but we have to describe what's going on.
00:24:21.220 And that's what I realized when you describe these things.
00:24:24.560 You have to preface it with, does it mean a terrible person?
00:24:29.140 Like, if someone's perfectly nice and that's what they decide to do, fine.
00:24:33.460 but where i get annoyed is where you make that choice and make it everybody else's problem and
00:24:39.300 i have to react to you on tiktok later that's where i get annoyed down the line that is something
00:24:44.500 that they will probably want even though they're trying to suppress those feelings as hard as they
00:24:48.100 can and also many women see those hardships you mentioned as sacrifices and positive choices that
00:24:54.260 they are making for these tiny humans who give their life meaning and joy that give them hope
00:24:59.220 and motivation to make the world i mean have you guys ever babysat
00:25:06.820 like had a kid siblings i just sometimes when we talk about children i'm like do you guys know the
00:25:12.260 day-to-day it's very it's like not like you wake up every day and you're like i'm so joyous
00:25:18.820 it's hard it is a sacrifice and it's rewarding right but yeah so hold on i'll keep a better
00:25:25.460 place but no i mean that just seems like it might be a little too much of a joyful attitude for you
00:25:29.780 people i mean just a suggestion maybe you should go pray about it you could download hallow and
00:25:33.220 start that today craziness sorry sorry we'll have a new guide giving you include my they have great
00:25:38.420 there much and i jewel in there like these prayers will make you a happy peppier gratitude filled
00:25:45.220 individual unlike everyone that we're talking about now in addition to the blatant vitriol
00:25:49.140 about the impact on women and their careers and their freedom there is also resentment towards
00:25:53.620 families and children because of the environment which a now viral recent article pointed out now
00:25:58.340 this has become a common talking point as you guys know i think we did an entire episode about
00:26:01.940 this a few months ago we'll link it below but the la times really leaned in last week when they
00:26:06.260 published this piece quote it is almost shameful to want to have children and that's the headline
00:26:11.780 now in this piece they interviewed a set of people about the climate crisis and about having children
00:26:16.180 and the responses were all basically the same the world is ending there's no hope it's a harsh
00:26:20.660 terrible world and bringing children into it will only make the world worse and will hurt
00:26:24.580 our planet for instance one girl said i think i may not have children although i do want them 0.99
00:26:28.740 quote just because with all the things we see going on in the world it seems okay so ladies
00:26:33.220 what's our favorite phrase we love using this with guys if he wanted to he would we love that phrase
00:26:41.540 that's like whenever the boyfriend's not measuring up we love it the boyfriend we you know it's like
00:26:48.660 we get in our group chats right or our group of friends and one girl complains about her boyfriend
00:26:55.060 and the other girl says what does she say if he wanted to he would but for some reason with us
00:27:03.460 it's like every benefit of the doubt is given there's no if we wanted to we would unfair to
00:27:11.780 bring somebody into all of this against their will i mean it's so bleak like genuinely from
00:27:17.860 a place of empathy are you guys okay like this is how you look at the world 24 7 no hope so
00:27:22.820 depressing so awful try joy kamala's talking about joy 24 7 try gratitude try joy genuinely i think
00:27:29.300 that your life will be a little bit better but we yeah and i i will i do agree with this part because
00:27:34.180 you know and i've seen this everywhere like selling that the world is ending and having a
00:27:42.660 our common enemy, I guess, is just how people sell things. So that's how the health people
00:27:50.120 sell things. You're going to get cancer, whatever, terrible disease, so buy my, you know, whatever.
00:27:57.460 And then there's the conservatives, we'll say it's the liberals, and like the,
00:28:06.180 the, yeah, I mean, the climate activists at the end of the war. I mean, that's just, you know,
00:28:11.340 fear people make decisions out of fear it's like a marketing tactic have made a total 180 because
00:28:18.060 what was once a gift has guys i think i'm losing my voice how raspy is it one to ten let me know
00:28:24.260 in the chat one to ten i just i think i'm losing it a little bit now become a burden rather than
00:28:28.660 giving a child the opportunity to live to thrive to dream to change the world and make it better
00:28:34.100 their first thought is this is against their will they don't want this i mean this idea is so
00:28:38.580 widespread. Here's a similar comment. It should be considered shameful. Nothing ethical about
00:28:43.580 bringing a child who did not ask to be born into an uncertain and unforgiving world. I mean, like,
00:28:48.140 how do you know what they want? Are you claiming that these unborn children have personhood and 0.99
00:28:53.460 have thoughts and feelings? That's a first because I thought they were just clumps of cells. So maybe 1.00
00:28:58.560 you should figure out what you actually believe and try to be consistent about all of that. Now,
00:29:02.280 they also highlighted a few black interviewees that they spoke to who all said that the other 0.87
00:29:05.660 reason why they wouldn't want to bring children into the world is because they refuse to bring
00:29:09.180 black children into this terrible inequitable and racist society quote if i have children they will
00:29:13.660 be black children she said it isn't self-hatred i love being black but the things i've gone through
00:29:18.540 okay i think this is enough for this video you guys get the idea but the mindset is still
00:29:25.740 no accountability and that's what i realized during this whole thing was that liberals and
00:29:31.100 conservatives blame the men, but in different ways. So the next thing that happened when I was
00:29:37.860 going through this, so it was kind of funny. So basically, I used to watch the Daily Wire all the
00:29:43.780 time. I used to like love their stuff. And then I started doing real world interviews. And I just,
00:29:51.240 I just thought they were either ignorant or lying. And I didn't know, not Brett,
00:29:56.800 Brett's like 20 something right but the older guys when it came to marriage and family I just
00:30:03.740 thought they cannot be this ignorant on the family court system if they're over the age of say 35
00:30:14.320 there's no way you've made it to this old and don't see what's going on but over and over again
00:30:21.620 And I just kept, so I felt like I was correcting them.
00:30:31.780 I felt like I was correcting them and just saying, hey, guys, marriage is not a great deal for men, you know.
00:30:39.320 And it would be weird because they would just respond with this, like, morality argument.
00:30:44.840 So me saying that was in some way immoral.
00:30:47.380 And I wanted to bring up some of the Daily Wire reactions to me.
00:30:51.780 It was so funny.
00:30:52.900 It's like I watched them in high school, and then I end up being reacted to by all of these guys.
00:31:02.300 I'm like, how did I end up here?
00:31:04.740 It's interesting how the...
00:31:05.760 Yeah, so then they said this is where it all went wrong, and then I was on the thumbnail.
00:31:11.480 I just thought it was so funny.
00:31:13.060 Meaning of red pill has evolved over the last...
00:31:15.180 Okay.
00:31:15.460 and i have a better understanding now of a lot of these concepts so i wanted to i'm actually
00:31:21.280 glad i can re-react to this it's interesting how the meaning of red pill has evolved over the last
00:31:25.380 five years to essentially now mean and i would say anti-woman they would say pro-man but i think
00:31:32.500 it's far beyond pro-man i think it's decidedly anti-woman in many ways and you see people who
00:31:37.520 i think some of them are are bad actors who are peddling but then you also see people like
00:31:42.620 like pearly things who i don't know pearl i don't know if she's a bad actor or not i kind of get the
00:31:47.460 sense that maybe she's just a naive uh person being kind of dragged along out of half desire
00:31:52.660 to be famous and half probably hasn't read a book um and half of that i can i interviewed a thousand
00:31:58.280 people i want you guys to go do that oh that's that's what i thought i was like you gotta let
00:32:03.860 me go see you interview a thousand people and anyways sorry i need i need to not get triggered
00:32:09.600 relate to the other half you can also really I do think it's this interesting
00:32:18.780 question that that is harder to talk about and one and so what is what is the
00:32:23.320 red pill right all the red pill is is men sharing information I mean it's it's
00:32:32.120 the study of human behavior so it's men coming together in forums online and
00:32:37.080 saying I had this experience with this woman I had this experience with this
00:32:41.880 woman it's not a movement it's not a person it's not you know whatever and so 0.99
00:32:49.020 that's that's what they would always try to do is they would try to like attack
00:32:53.760 it in that way once it is it might be fit this format just to talk about what
00:33:00.580 is the role of men and women what is the role of marriage in a society that has
00:33:05.280 essentially turned its back on the concept of marriage that is legally
00:33:09.600 encoded anti-anti-man policies into our legal code.
00:33:16.080 And then abolish the definition of marriage.
00:33:17.880 It's not anti-man, they've abolished difference.
00:33:20.880 They've abolished the difference between marriage.
00:33:22.880 The distinction itself.
00:33:23.880 You know, I just went on the whatever podcast for my, I think it's now my like 28th.
00:33:28.680 And so this is where you get the cognitive dissident.
00:33:31.080 So he goes on whatever, okay?
00:33:33.620 And on whatever, they put attractive women on that podcast.
00:33:37.660 He goes on all the time.
00:33:40.560 You see what the market is offering.
00:33:43.740 This isn't great for the guys.
00:33:48.760 And you see the decisions that women as a collective are making.
00:33:54.280 And it's not really indicating that they want to be wives and mothers.
00:33:59.140 and yet we're still saying that the red pill is scaring men into not getting married it's not
00:34:08.180 and I'm telling you guys most men under the age of 35 in the right circumstances would get married
00:34:15.140 I would say from my from my interviews most guys that are young would still give it a good go
00:34:22.940 they'll say you know what if I find the right girl she's hot enough good looking enough but 1.00
00:34:28.600 I'll still give it a good go it's women that do not want to get married and have children 1.00
00:34:36.620 I found more men that wanted to be fathers than women that wanted to be mothers and I didn't 0.89
00:34:42.680 come to this conclusion remember I had a very similar worldview to them to start
00:34:47.520 but it was like you I couldn't ignore what was in front of me I couldn't
00:34:54.940 interview woman after woman after woman that didn't know how to cook didn't want to serve a
00:35:03.420 man didn't want to obey her husband and think to myself wow they're really making choices to want
00:35:10.400 to do that um yeah so this is okay I wanted to I think the other video I have indicates it a
00:35:19.120 little more and then I was gonna see if the guy who tweeted this wanted to come
00:35:25.340 on I'll see I know he said he might be working
00:35:30.360 can I ask a question to Pearl actually get a lot of views let me let me I'll
00:35:38.560 keep going with this one for a little bit see if there's anything else but I
00:35:41.740 might also burn in hell for eternity and I thought about it for a moment okay I
00:35:46.000 I won't do it.
00:35:46.840 And so I went on, and I still have a rule,
00:35:48.280 never give the audience what they want.
00:35:49.660 Yeah, exactly, never, like, I went on a great discourse
00:35:53.320 about the Treaty of Augsburg act.
00:35:55.480 I know you guys in the chat are like,
00:35:56.980 I'll never get married, I wouldn't.
00:35:59.020 Okay, we're not talking about you.
00:36:01.080 This is a very niche part of YouTube.
00:36:03.280 Let's not pretend this is like how the normal world,
00:36:07.120 the average guy working at like a mechanic shop
00:36:10.680 or whatever feels, okay?
00:36:12.480 This is a niche part of YouTube.
00:36:16.000 So I go on there, and I just felt it's not these girls' fault.
00:36:20.020 Do you see that?
00:36:21.820 Do you see?
00:36:22.300 This is exactly what I'm saying.
00:36:25.700 It is never our fault.
00:36:28.840 Ever.
00:36:29.920 Ever, ever, ever.
00:36:31.340 And it drives me crazy.
00:36:33.420 Because, and in the beginning, right, you kind of have empathy.
00:36:38.840 But again, then I would just interview woman, man, woman, man.
00:36:44.100 It's like, do you feel bad for a guy that's broke at 35?
00:36:50.000 So why do we feel bad for women if they're freezing their eggs at 35? 0.58
00:36:56.020 I mean, you probably made some bad decisions to get there.
00:36:59.320 But then you got Michael Knowles coming in saying, this isn't your fault.
00:37:03.040 What are you talking about?
00:37:04.380 It's okay.
00:37:05.560 Not everyone can be great at everything.
00:37:07.820 Sometimes you just take the L.
00:37:10.760 So I go on there, and I just felt it's not these girls' fault.
00:37:14.100 all of them have some weird family situation
00:37:17.400 none of that we live in a culture that teaches them a ton of lies they don't
00:37:20.040 they don't they haven't but if a man turns 18
00:37:23.260 and has some weird family situation and commits a crime
00:37:26.340 we would all say that's your fault but it's always the get out of jail
00:37:30.760 free card every single time it drives me crazy no education even if they went to
00:37:34.360 good schools they have no education and the thing is you never know if they
00:37:37.040 believe this stuff
00:37:38.260 because they really believe it and they just don't know 0.96
00:37:42.460 Or because every content creator knows you make more money with a bigger female audience. 1.00
00:37:50.860 Women make 8 out of 10 consumer buying decisions. 1.00
00:37:54.440 Everybody's dollar. 1.00
00:37:57.020 Except mine.
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00:38:12.100 So I felt, okay, let's just talk about what's really going on here. 1.00
00:38:16.380 And they're victims of feminism. 1.00
00:38:18.720 And the red pill guys.
00:38:19.380 See, again, okay, so now that he's saying they're victims of feminism,
00:38:24.980 so they're victims, not they're making, they're adults making decisions.
00:38:30.480 And I have to point this out because I actually think it's important for us women to know this.
00:38:36.960 Because there's men that will lie to you and men that will be honest with you.
00:38:40.780 And personally, I would prefer someone that's honest over somebody that's hiding the truth from me, whether intentionally or unintentionally, to shield my feelings.
00:38:53.840 And that's kind of what you're going to get here, because it's not their fault.
00:38:59.220 It's not you're an adult.
00:39:00.320 You made that decision.
00:39:02.220 And these are the consequences.
00:39:05.340 It's not your fault.
00:39:07.300 as her victims of feminism the irony about the red pill guys i sympathize with them a lot a lot
00:39:12.960 of ways the family courts are totally stacked against you and he's saying he doesn't even know
00:39:18.100 what the red pill is and i wish when i had my discussion with him um because i just understand
00:39:25.020 i was so nervous when i went i don't know why i was so nervous but i was really nervous at the
00:39:29.660 time so there's some conversations i wish that we could have had but in that case um
00:39:37.060 red pill is men is the study of human behavior and it came from forums online of men trying to
00:39:47.340 figure out solutions to their problems so they might say at 27 women find god and we saw that
00:39:54.920 with nala coming on the show right foods the culture promotes divorce and abolish the definition
00:39:59.520 of marriage and blah blah blah but the the red pill guys are feminists their their sense of men
00:40:06.140 and women is basically this it's just that men and women are interchangeable
00:40:10.280 yes and go around screw around you owe nothing to women if it's good for women
00:40:14.360 it's good for men and that's just a lie you know the fundamental unit of
00:40:18.980 society is actually not and so what these guys will do is and I don't know 0.97
00:40:25.340 their personal stuff but they in their eyes women are these angelic creatures
00:40:32.060 that always want marriage, family, and relationships, but the experience of men that date women
00:40:41.340 between 18 to 25, let's say, and are selected for short term, so like flings, that sort
00:40:49.640 of thing, is that many women do not want that, and they want to be promiscuous, and so he'll
00:40:57.120 still find a way to blame it on the men when oftentimes that like if you go to if you go to
00:41:02.740 a high-end celebrity show right if you go to like um drake justin bieber what you any guy that's 0.82
00:41:12.060 super sought after you will see hundreds thousands of women throwing bras at them being super 0.83
00:41:20.620 sexually forward, right? And it's not just one woman. It's not a couple. It's significant enough 1.00
00:41:28.540 that they can fill a stadium with women that want to do that and are doing that, right? I'm not 1.00
00:41:33.620 saying it's all, but it's significant enough. So are those women really victims, right? Is it
00:41:41.620 they just wanted marriage and relationships and they just wanted to be wives? And is it Drake's
00:41:47.460 fault if he or whatever celebrity it is and I'm using a celebrity as an example but there's still
00:41:55.180 a top guy at the college right or a top guy at work that the women go after so how is it his 0.53
00:42:03.480 fault if the women are asking to sleep around and the thing is they blame men for it but most men
00:42:13.180 don't even have the option to sleep around it's i mean according to statistics it's maybe 10 of men
00:42:20.300 but 80 of women maybe 20 30 if you're generous for the men so who's responsible right someone
00:42:31.580 in the chat said the bras just weren't comfy the individual right i love individual rights
00:42:36.860 it's good to be an individual the unit the fundamental unit of society is the family
00:42:40.940 it's men and women together who have a love that becomes so real that you make more people to have
00:42:46.220 to have an atom you have to have a proton and an electron and this is another thing people don't
00:42:51.820 aren't aware that arranged marriages was the way for most history so it never really was about love
00:42:59.980 romantic love um was the downfall of marriage i mean birth control contribute like it wasn't
00:43:08.140 just one thing, but before romantic love happened, um, it, it was two families got together and they
00:43:22.160 exchanged goods. And then they said, it depends on the culture, right? Sometimes the bride would
00:43:28.260 give money. Sometimes the groom would give money, but they would come up with some sort of
00:43:33.880 arrangement they would say your son's 18 my daughter's 18 our families get along
00:43:38.800 let's do this thing there wasn't really love that came later right all right so
00:43:44.980 it's like a man is a proton like very important but essentially nothing until
00:43:50.500 it's you have Adam you need to have an Eve that's where I thought he was going
00:43:53.920 that's where I thought he was gonna go for the Steve thing I've always two
00:44:02.020 protons and Adam does not make, I dare say. I've always, with the red pill, and I've been in many
00:44:08.900 altercations with the red, I've run afoul with the red pill crowd many times talking about these
00:44:14.340 issues. And the question I've always had for them that they've never answered, and I'd love to hear 1.00
00:44:18.520 an answer from any of them, is that, because I agree with 95% of their criticisms, as you point
00:44:24.440 out, the family courts and how it's stacked against men and so on and so forth. What's the other
00:44:29.260 option like okay we agree with all that so then men should just so the way they view men as a
00:44:38.680 collective and I get a lot of flack for saying that I don't like to tell men what to do the way
00:44:48.700 I see it is men have so many women in their lives telling them what to do they have their mom telling
00:44:55.880 them what to do they have their wife or their girlfriend telling them what to do i mean who 0.75
00:45:02.520 the hell am i if you guys want to go get married to some big old chick named shirley who am i to 0.57
00:45:10.840 tell you not to it's your life you got one life to live if you want to go have 10 kids and daily 0.75
00:45:16.660 wire i mean go ahead i mean if you got don't don't make your decision because of some random
00:45:22.280 woman on the internet I'm just I'm just a random woman um but they view men as a collective and
00:45:31.580 they view everybody as a movement so they think oh we should all make these decisions together
00:45:37.560 but I don't know you people I mean they don't know you so wouldn't you think that every man
00:45:47.840 should look at his circumstances and decide for himself.
00:45:52.400 I mean, different men have different options.
00:45:55.900 The options of an engineer in Oklahoma
00:46:00.240 is going to be different than a bartender in Mexico.
00:46:07.300 I don't know, you guys.
00:46:09.540 So a lot of times they view men as a collective.
00:46:17.840 be alone and and give up on their on their bloodline and die and their
00:46:23.280 bloodline is extinguished like what you are suggesting is despair you are
00:46:28.080 telling men that men are already feeling despair they're feeling
00:46:30.960 meaninglessness they're feeling lost they're feeling alone they're feeling
00:46:34.600 like everything's stacked against them and so your answer to them is yeah well
00:46:37.940 just that that's the be in despair and then die well the question is what what
00:46:45.940 is different when you're married and when you're not married? What's different when you're living
00:46:53.960 together and when you're married? What's the difference? The difference is that when she
00:47:01.940 gets married, then she has leverage. Granted, I think they always have leverage. If you have kids, 1.00
00:47:09.680 she has leverage but that's why you hear a lot of men say after marriage the woman changes or 0.61
00:47:18.260 after children the woman changes because you get to see who she truly is because now she has
00:47:24.680 leverage that it's much more difficult for you to leave and my point is that that's just that's 0.62
00:47:33.020 just not an okay answer that can't be the end and have lots and lots of sex well but that's
00:47:36.980 That's what you say.
00:47:38.640 Although not as much as a married man.
00:47:40.940 But this is what you were saying,
00:47:42.620 is that that's how it turns to the anti-woman.
00:47:44.320 Because it's not about the despair.
00:47:46.200 The way that you find meaning is then by disparaging
00:47:48.240 the people who have victimized you.
00:47:50.380 In any victim-victimizer sort of narrative,
00:47:54.220 when there is no actual victim and victimizer
00:47:57.140 and it has to be sort of put together artificially,
00:47:59.960 then the person who self-perceives as the victim
00:48:02.240 is very likely to then strike out at the person
00:48:04.640 who they perceive as the victimizer.
00:48:06.280 And so for a lot of the red pill men who perceive the woman, the great woman, as the victimizer, the idea is that you lash out at women by having lots of sex with random girls and basically treating them like trash.
00:48:17.140 And it's okay because they said that it's okay with them.
00:48:18.900 But that doesn't, I've never understood the argument that it relieves you of responsibility.
00:48:23.220 So the reason he thinks this is because he thinks that those women wanted relationships.
00:48:29.320 So he's thinking, well, you just hooked up with them and then you didn't talk to them again.
00:48:34.460 Well, they wanted you to talk to them.
00:48:36.440 Do you know how many guys I've heard say that they would hook up with women
00:48:43.600 and the women didn't want relationships?
00:48:49.480 But most men have never been in that position, right?
00:48:52.860 I mean, it's like 10%, 20% of men statistically.
00:48:57.940 Or they get married before they ever are, which is fine.
00:49:02.100 I'm not saying one's right, one's wrong. 0.99
00:49:04.460 but it's not uncommon for treating a woman well just because the woman has consented to be treated
00:49:11.100 badly but this he's right about the despair this is permeating the right it permeates the politics
00:49:16.540 of the right it's the idea is basically it's all over they think of people basically ben like you
00:49:21.180 and me as sitting on an ice flow kind of floating out with as the ice you know melts away because
00:49:26.540 we're sitting around thinking about civil debate and you know constitutional governance and they
00:49:32.540 think that's all over now and and they're all their despair is permeates the right and i listen
00:49:38.060 i listen to a lot of these young guys and they're talking about bringing back monarchy they're
00:49:41.420 talking about you know they're yeah they're king i know you look what i didn't say anything
00:49:48.380 it's not that great you know it actually isn't you you know if you think if you think our
00:49:52.300 elections are bad when you see the beheadings you know because that's how most of the king 0.70
00:49:56.620 I'm not saying we need an imam or a shake, you know, honestly, this whole conversation
00:50:04.020 would be putting me to sleep, but I can't go to sleep right here.
00:50:06.660 I need my Helix sleep mattress.
00:50:08.080 Whoa.
00:50:09.080 So good.
00:50:10.080 Whoa.
00:50:11.080 It was made to sleep.
00:50:12.080 I get the back pain.
00:50:15.080 Sorry, Daily Wire.
00:50:16.500 I can't plug your sponsors.
00:50:18.240 I can't do it.
00:50:20.500 I cannot.
00:50:21.500 It's not going to be me.
00:50:26.620 Oh wait, how do I, did the sound stop, what did I do?
00:50:35.620 Okay, but are men listening to that?
00:50:39.620 Yes.
00:50:40.620 But what men, am I missing?
00:50:42.620 .com slash Ben, use code, Elixir.
00:50:45.620 What is your red pill no marriage thing?
00:50:48.620 I feel like I'm pretty in there.
00:50:49.620 Oh yeah.
00:50:50.620 Oh yeah, no, it's a big thing.
00:50:51.620 Am I missing?
00:50:52.620 I feel like I totally missed this.
00:50:53.620 this. Yeah, that's their whole position. They think that marriage is a- What men are anti-marriage?
00:50:59.460 Well, yeah, that's the point. They shouldn't be, you know, but it's- No, but he's right. This is 1.00
00:51:03.220 true. All the guys that pop up in our Twitter feed- But tell me, I'm actually missing this.
00:51:06.600 I didn't know the marriage thing. I'm very pro-marriage. Pearl made that argument.
00:51:10.240 Yes. Okay. The argument men, literally, men should not get married. I never, they would
00:51:14.040 always mischaracterize what I said. I said it's objectively an unfavorable deal to men.
00:51:22.020 but if you find a hot chick and you want to sorry a hot woman and you want to go do it go do it 0.99
00:51:28.520 but most women aren't opting for that 0.99
00:51:34.060 okay because the institution are men listening to that like are men saying that men shouldn't
00:51:39.660 get married or is that a woman saying that a man shouldn't get married well per i think that
00:51:43.760 anyways so that's that was anyways i think that's enough for the daily wire stuff you guys get the
00:51:49.700 idea so again they view it as that the women want to be married and they want
00:52:00.440 to be in relationships and that's what they want
00:52:04.480 but their actions do not indicate that so let me pull up the last one oh yeah
00:52:12.220 okay so this was when I got to a different level of understanding when I 0.97
00:52:18.220 I figured out because I kept hearing that women were nurturing right and I kept looking for any 0.52
00:52:24.600 stat that would back that up and I couldn't find any I scoured the internet none question of pearl
00:52:33.420 sure so I know someone in the chat said my ex did a 180 after I had the kid yeah
00:52:39.240 you said that men are better in every single way don't you think it's low-key like comparing
00:52:46.220 out oranges to apples like they're completely different men and women or from mars and women
00:52:53.260 are from jupiter so why let men go to jupiter to get my my opinion is that my opinion is that women 0.69
00:53:03.580 are weaker vessels we just cannot do things the same way that men can and the reason i came to 1.00
00:53:08.060 this opinion was i was trying to find one thing that women do better that's that's backed up by 0.77
00:53:13.660 fact. Sorry, one second. I'm trying to find where they say that men are nurturing. 1.00
00:53:25.340 Okay. You know, it's interesting because when
00:53:27.740 Sneak, when Pearl was talking before, Sneak was listening. When you talk about this,
00:53:32.380 shut up. Because see, this is the worldview. I want to show the worldview's crashing.
00:53:37.100 Because again, in his worldview, it's women are nurturing, they naturally want to be mothers,
00:53:41.100 and that's the worldview crashed for me too it's okay let me finish you're wrong if we include 0.71
00:53:49.820 um first the moment are given the opportunity to innovate and the platform to innovate when women 0.80
00:53:56.220 when women are no it's it because that is still an invention that we could live without the 0.66
00:54:01.800 invention you want to live without champagne i don't really i don't drink much so it wouldn't
00:54:09.140 it doesn't make a difference but so but i i i understand but what i'm saying is society could
00:54:15.860 still operate fine without it where the the inventions that men may do make and the jobs
00:54:22.260 that men do we could not live without well this is the one thing that i think holds back your
00:54:27.540 argument i think you you touch um the truth on so many subjects but like harboring on this is like
00:54:32.580 it angers women and then men are like yeah you know we are more competent and i think if you
00:54:36.180 explain it differently like yeah men are more competent in every single field we make more
00:54:39.540 money we're supposed to we're the provider but like addressing it by saying like men are better
00:54:44.260 than women uh i think holds it back because we complement each other like yeah it's not like
00:54:48.500 you're yes we do okay you don't but i'm saying like men are always going to be better at most
00:54:56.020 things you're you're measuring women's success and ability based on men's standards like we're
00:55:00.100 going to be we're going to dominate sports we're going to dominate a business no i didn't that's
00:55:02.980 not true i i said nurturing i said men are still better at raising men so do you know what's
00:55:08.340 interesting i want to show you how the world view conflicts and they don't even see it
00:55:12.980 on this show two women got into a fight they started throwing hands and they the security
00:55:22.020 had to i think the woman was gone at this point so we're on a show and he's saying that women are
00:55:29.060 more nurturing right after we just witnessed a all-out fist fight a complete fist fight
00:55:47.700 let me finish you're wrong if we include um first the most the most dangerous place a kid can be is
00:55:54.260 where in the mother's womb one out of women have an abortion but if you don't one out of three i
00:55:59.940 couldn't talk it's tough i was fighting the whole panel guys i was fighting this whole panel don't
00:56:05.620 believe in that fine in the first year in the first wait in the first year women are the most
00:56:12.580 likely ones to kill children it's almost unheard of for a man a man to kill a child so this idea
00:56:18.260 that women are nurtured it's just not true women are the most likely ones to abuse children they're
00:56:22.660 the most likely ones to abuse the elderly kill the elderly kill children these are just facts
00:56:32.260 if we look at single mother homes versus single father homes single father homes fair
00:56:36.340 basically the same as two parent homes so this isn't like this isn't this is just facts and
00:56:42.900 i don't really care how it makes people feel if i'm right it's true well it may be facts but i
00:56:46.900 think let's maybe look at the circumstances because what you are saying is correct women
00:56:51.060 suffer from postpartum depression because let's think about it men are set to excel outside of
00:57:01.460 the home women especially nowadays a lot of women have a career and we are expected to excel in the
00:57:07.140 home no but it's even it's even you know it's but it's even after postpartum depression women are 0.99
00:57:11.460 the most likely ones to abuse children because they're the most likely ones to not be involved
00:57:16.260 so we're saying like that women want to be wives and mothers and we're on a show
00:57:26.740 with all women that are young women do any of them seem like that's steps that they're taking
00:57:32.100 you know involved no that's not true because if that were true the abuse stats the abuse stats
00:57:37.700 um women women have spent less time with children over time so if it had to do with the amount of
00:57:43.620 the study listen listen they keep they're so triggered they keep so the 0.94
00:57:47.940 abuse steps because women are the mother is the most likely one to abuse a child 0.81
00:57:52.380 and over over time the more time mothers have spent with children because what 0.98
00:58:06.900 does what the simps the cope the cope always is it's because women spend more 1.00
00:58:13.360 time with the children but if that was true then as women spent less time with the children
00:58:19.860 abuse would go down but it's gone up so they've done they've done they've done they've done this 0.72
00:58:24.980 is they've done this is they've done this is the way listen listen shut up my god you ask me a
00:58:30.280 question shut up it's like freaking a they looked at the numbers over time this is over the last 50 0.85
00:58:37.020 years women have spent they have spent less time with children there's more kids in daycares now
00:58:43.360 And yet the abuse, the less time that women have spent with children, the abuse stats have gone up, not down. 0.94
00:58:48.660 Why?
00:58:49.120 That's exactly what I just said.
00:58:50.540 You just proved my argument. 0.95
00:58:51.960 No, no, because the less, if it was what you said, which is it's how much time women are spending with children.
00:58:58.140 That's not what I said. 1.00
00:59:00.440 What I said is women are expected to do three times the amount of work as men. 1.00
00:59:04.840 There are Roombas now. 1.00
00:59:06.300 Can we stop? 1.00
00:59:06.920 That's the other thing. 1.00
00:59:08.180 Women have to work and get jobs. 1.00
00:59:09.720 you know you could get an at-home job or you could get a human resources job sitting at home 1.00
00:59:16.280 and get a roomba look at problem solved in a relationship no no i that oh i i misheard you 1.00
00:59:23.080 but but my my point is women are the more violent ones i i totally believe that i mean women have
00:59:28.440 aborted a seventh of the world population a seven way away but i want to figure out like
00:59:34.360 but i want to figure out when you talk about this what's the what are you trying to get to like do
00:59:38.200 do we not, you're saying we don't need women? Because again, they see it, they see it as a 0.99
00:59:42.160 movement. So if I have this fact, right? And I say, look, this is a fact and it's a fact
00:59:47.940 that we don't, it doesn't make us feel good, right? We love the facts that make us feel good.
00:59:54.700 But when I bring up a fact that maybe conflicts with what people previously thought and seems
01:00:01.560 out there, right? But I can prove it. And I say, hey, these are the facts. People that view
01:00:09.720 everything as a movement and that they're going to fix society, they'll say, well, why would you
01:00:15.500 say that? Because what about my movement? Because they view themselves as the front runners or
01:00:24.100 whatever of a movement. And what I think it is, is being a media personality makes people think
01:00:32.940 that they have more of an impact than they do. And I could say this because, you know,
01:00:42.540 the past three years I've been giving stats on family law, divorce, family, like that sort of
01:00:50.800 thing the birth rates still going down even though I got a billion views on my
01:00:55.000 channel a billion before I had to clear it and I was just in Texas talking to
01:01:05.040 one of the top family law court like one of one of the guys he's won a lot of
01:01:11.020 cases for men and he's one of the top lawyers in Texas and he tells me the
01:01:15.600 abuse them. They're changing the law for abuse to be more favorable for women. So a billion views
01:01:22.280 didn't really do as much as we thought. And I think a lot of times people overestimate how much
01:01:29.200 impact media has. I'm not saying it's not impactful at all, but what I am saying is that the people
01:01:36.400 that have the most impact in society or are like the Elon Musks of the world, those are the ones
01:01:45.360 that can really i would say change things more than like youtube you know what's the point of
01:01:51.520 saying that i mean the point the point is that well one i use that a lot in custody arguments
01:01:57.040 i think men should automatically have custody of children okay that sounds crazy no no because
01:02:04.240 the kids why would you not do what's in the best interest of the child you give it to the 1.00
01:02:07.520 dad and the reason we keep having this thing where we say women are nurturing women are
01:02:11.200 nurture but it's not true and so i'm i'm saying like i would rather live in reality and we make
01:02:17.680 laws based on what's true because when you have this stuff where we keep repeating something
01:02:22.240 that's not true that's how you have 90 of custody going to women because everyone believes they're
01:02:26.240 more nurturing they're not you think men are going to be able to breastfeed a baby better than 0.79
01:02:30.000 they're less likely to abuse the children they're less likely to cope well women breastfeed well
01:02:42.640 in all honesty guys i think yeah you know they're bringing building artificial wombs because we're
01:02:51.220 not even we bottle feed half the time nowadays we don't even do that to kill the child there's a
01:02:58.100 there's a story in the news i'll give you an example of how this plays out abuse is an outlier
01:03:02.100 there's a lot of men that abuse it's not it's not an outlier children that are women but but
01:03:07.220 if you go back to single father versus single mother home single dad home single father
01:03:13.220 abuse is not an outlier it's very common i mean there's just there's just there's just a story
01:03:18.020 in the news of i mean you saw that three-year-old that the mother sometimes even you go way too far
01:03:24.100 like you got to calm down it's not it's not too far it's true you guys you can laugh all you want
01:03:33.460 and the thing is how does she go too far how does she just out of curiosity because she just stated
01:03:38.660 the facts are too far they're too far for people they're too far
01:03:54.100 go ahead you can if you can google it i can
01:04:00.740 okay i think i think we get the idea here i want to pull up one more space i want to see if
01:04:08.900 because i feel like i have the chat on my phone if you guys see it i'm not being rude
01:04:12.980 um what is that woman's name i want to see if i can find the space i did with this woman 0.97
01:04:24.100 Let me go to her profile, see if I can pull it up.
01:04:45.480 But yeah, these are just conclusions I've come to in the past year.
01:04:51.240 And there was a space I thought really, I might do it a different day, let me see. 1.00
01:05:03.800 I think the main point I'm getting at though, it's not really, it's not meant to be a women
01:05:11.120 versus men thing, the nurturing thing is just a side comment, but the more important point
01:05:17.240 is