Pearl - ＂We Live In Delusion＂ Pearl Reacts To The Problems With Most Christian Women

00:00:00.860 Do you guys want to know what's going on?

00:00:03.080 Or do we want to live in delusion?

00:00:04.940 Are you so special, amazing, and awesome that there are no flaws?

00:00:08.820 Because that's what I get.

00:00:10.440 Anytime I criticize or talk about any issues that are going on,

00:00:14.200 Pearl's just making it up.

00:00:15.780 Oh, the church women are just so amazing, special, and awesome. 1.00

00:00:18.700 We just can't talk about them.

00:00:20.240 Pearl's just attacking, attacking, attacking.

00:00:23.820 But they never stop to ask, is Pearl right?

00:00:27.080 Is anything I said true?

00:00:28.860 Does the shoe fit for anything?

00:00:32.800 It's like narcissism to the extreme.

00:00:36.360 Okay, I will show clips demonstrating the behaviors I am talking about.

00:00:42.040 I am not attacking any of these people personally,

00:00:45.620 but I am attacking what they are saying or doing on screen.

00:00:49.760 I don't know them personally.

00:00:51.960 I don't know anything other than clips I see online.

00:00:55.660 I could be completely wrong about them.

00:00:58.860 Again, I don't know them personally, but I will use them as examples.

00:01:05.260 This is the town square. I like to give examples.

00:01:08.840 This is not your topic.

00:01:10.460 If you come in and you say, oh, I want to talk about,

00:01:14.360 I want to give my monologue about what I want to talk about,

00:01:17.580 we're not doing that.

00:01:19.280 And you guys can go cry somewhere else.

00:01:22.040 I don't care.

00:01:23.720 Okay. Blessing.

00:01:25.360 Can you show them? Do you think these are fair rules?

00:01:27.900 is there anything else i think these are fair rules are they fair rules yeah and if you come

00:01:33.300 on stream make sure your video is on yeah make sure oh yeah i'll add that to my list make sure

00:01:37.340 your video is on video is on and if the shoe doesn't fit stop crying about it i mean all right

00:01:47.080 okay so let's talk about the red pill now i've gotten into a little bit of criticism recently

00:01:55.140 because I was asked on a podcast, what is the red pill? And I guess I stumbled a little bit on what

00:02:02.300 exactly it is, because to be fair, there is some dispute in the community. But the red pill, it is

00:02:11.360 men taking notes to increase their sexual strategy. This used to happen in barbershops

00:02:18.380 and male only spaces. The men would get together and they would talk. Now it's just migrated to

00:02:26.060 online. I am not, I myself am not the end all be all of Red Pill. I would say Red Pill is for men.

00:02:34.760 I just find it interesting. You know, again, I just, I'm just looking at what's going on. Okay.

00:02:42.380 one more disclaimer all of these women coming forward and saying you can't generalize 1.00

00:02:50.120 you can't generalize you can't generalize yes i can yes i can and i will and if you don't like it 0.98

00:02:59.700 you can kiss my ass how can we have conversations about anything if we can't speak in generalities 0.99

00:03:06.320 you know are you just here to argue if i say water is wet and then you say not all water is 1.00

00:03:12.520 like that it's like this is this is how it feels sometimes with you guys it's like pulling teeth

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00:04:42.000 Okay.

00:04:42.700 Where do you guys call in?

00:04:44.400 You're going to call in later.

00:04:46.020 Ideally, I would like to talk to Christian women first. 0.99

00:04:49.360 That's who I'm trying to speak to today.

00:04:51.600 That's who I'm trying to talk to.

00:04:54.260 Now...

00:04:56.100 we'll talk to Christian men too,

00:04:59.280 but this is a conversation with the Christians.

00:05:02.380 So if that's not you,

00:05:04.160 or you've never been involved in church,

00:05:06.920 it's okay, just please bow out of this one.

00:05:09.420 We'll have conversations next time.

00:05:11.320 So I saw an article that said,

00:05:13.480 the tier fund report shows that the UK,

00:05:16.780 that in the UK, the ratio of women to men in church

00:05:19.860 is 65% to 35%.

00:05:22.980 So while men still dominate the priesthood or pastorship, statistics show that two-thirds of church memberships are women.

00:05:30.180 And if you look at programs run within the church, a much higher percentage of them are led by women than men.

00:05:38.700 Most people in the church have little or no say in what goes on.

00:05:43.340 For a Roman Catholic, Anglican, Methodist, or Baptist, the leadership of churches dominate by men.

00:05:49.160 They dominate just the priesthood, but the positions of bishops and the regional ministers.

00:05:54.500 Yet, as the gender gap grows, the presence of women increasingly dominates most Western churches.

00:06:03.240 While there has been an imbalance for quite some time, the recent trend shows that it's increasing.

00:06:08.220 The last 20 years, 49% of men under 30 left the church.

00:06:15.540 Okay, guys, you're right. There's no problem.

00:06:19.160 you're right just shoot the messenger there's nothing going on in church you are so totally

00:06:26.940 right you are losing half of your young men 50 of your young men and there is no issue

00:06:35.860 you're right ladies keep on doing what you're doing keep on doing what you're doing do you 1.00

00:06:41.740 guys want to know what's going on? Do you guys, do you guys want to, do you guys want to know

00:06:50.700 what the issue is? Put a one in the chat if you want to know. Put a two in the chat if everything's

00:06:58.420 going. Just so amazing. Stop, stop complaining, men. That's what, that's what they'll tell you.

00:07:07.040 okay one common trope that i have heard from men that have left the church is that

00:07:14.800 men feel like women and the church will never be happy it is never enough 0.95

00:07:22.100 it is never enough now why do young men feel like this

00:07:27.560 now i'm gonna show you guys now again but i see god okay now by the way again this is not

00:07:37.040 attacking. I'm a fan of Michael Knowles, but I think this rhetoric is why you see young men, 0.98

00:07:46.360 half of your young men. You guys are coming at me like I did that. I didn't create this world.

00:07:54.080 Okay, so pull up the screen. All right. Now, again, this is just showing you an example

00:08:01.100 of the mentality that's pushed in churches and you see it reiterated by talk show hosts you see it

00:08:08.420 reiterated in debates you see it reiterated everywhere okay no they don't i mean because

00:08:15.360 women when women have the most choice we don't choose marriage women have the most choice when 0.95

00:08:19.880 it comes to commitment around the age of 22 they're not choosing to get married i don't pay

00:08:24.760 attention to what people say no no you mean when they when they have the most options when they're

00:08:29.840 most marriageable but they do but you will acknowledge those women who have been duped 0.57

00:08:34.480 by feminism maybe even after their past their marriageable age right there right there and 0.87

00:08:41.520 i'm just pointing this out it's always the women were duped the women were just and you trad con 1.00

00:08:51.840 women are no better whenever you guys talk about your past it's always everybody else's fault but 1.00

00:08:58.800 yours how do we get anywhere if we keep giving women a get out of jail free card it's not you

00:09:07.460 were duped it's not you were young it's not you were naive it's you did it because you wanted to

00:09:12.480 why is that so crazy to get through people's heads everything's everyone else's fault

00:09:19.660 I don't live like that.

00:09:22.480 You know, we don't give young men that same grace.

00:09:27.380 So, okay.

00:09:30.380 Now, this is just, I'm just, I'm drawing attention to the language that we use in church.

00:09:36.640 Or, it's fine, everything's the men's fault. 0.93

00:09:39.400 Just keep doing what you're doing, fellas.

00:09:42.660 Just keep doing what you're doing.

00:09:45.180 Shame the men into staying.

00:09:46.460 I'm sure that'll work.

00:09:47.880 blessing do you think that works oh no no no no blessing but why okay now and now and maybe you

00:09:58.880 guys can tell me if there are two women i you know i i had two friends in high school okay 1.00

00:10:05.080 we went to all went to the same high school we all came from two parent homes none of us came

00:10:11.540 from perfect homes but we all made different choices i had one friend that decided she was

00:10:17.200 a diehard catholic she got married at 22 waited till she was married and i think she's on her

00:10:23.760 second kid now she was also like our valedictorian this girl killed everything she did 1.00

00:10:29.280 she was amazing then then there was another girl in my school 1.00

00:10:34.800 who i i haven't kept up with her in years but i wouldn't be surprised if she was like on only 0.76

00:10:41.980 fans or something these days i don't know what she's doing but the way she she behaved if you 1.00

00:10:47.420 you guys know what you know what i mean choices decision free will we are responsible for our own

00:10:58.380 sin i i look that's what i believe and if you think that makes me not religious enough

00:11:05.580 I that's going to make the men not religious enough to keep losing men keep doing what you 0.66

00:11:12.640 guys are doing okay so what I see in churches and now I'd like to preface

00:11:18.920 there are three types of men and are three types of people I generally see in church

00:11:26.020 please don't talk to me about the exceptions I know there are exceptions I know it's not all bad

00:11:32.960 but these are the general trends you know and by the way in case blessings church is watching

00:11:41.500 no i'm not i'm not give them a disclaimer please

00:11:47.240 i'm not saying his church is like this but it probably it now

00:11:52.060 it probably it probably is super special and different just you know please please don't

00:12:00.240 give my man blessing like any trouble at church please let him have a good time you know please

00:12:05.420 don't now okay for that what thank you for that disclaimer did it help or hurt no that's okay

00:12:11.300 okay okay so there's three categories of people that i see in church

00:12:18.760 now the first thing i've noticed is simp men in church tend to take the biggest l's i have

00:12:27.320 ever seen in my life and it's worse it's worse okay let me let me show you guys this

00:12:33.180 all right i'm gonna show you this was a chastity speaker that came to my high school

00:12:38.680 now i want you guys to put yourself i i was in sales right i worked in sales

00:12:45.140 and if a product wasn't selling and i'm not saying women are products but we i'm going to

00:12:51.720 look at them in this way so I can explain a concept.

00:12:55.300 If a product isn't selling, the worst thing you can do is shame the customer and say,

00:13:01.440 bad customer, you are wrong for not buying this product.

00:13:06.060 You got to ask, what's wrong, why don't people want to buy?

00:13:09.020 Is it the product?

00:13:10.320 Is it the salesperson?

00:13:12.700 Why aren't they buying?

00:13:14.200 The worst thing ever, I sold copiers, the worst thing ever I could do, and I sold the

00:13:19.080 worst product ever.

00:13:21.720 I was going to a sale and say, you guys are not all copiers are like that.

00:13:31.360 Not all, not all copiers are like, there are good copiers. I sell good copiers. You would look at me

00:13:37.440 like I'm crazy. But if I say anything about the issues with church women and the reasons men are

00:13:44.400 leaving, then I'm the bad guy. Okay. Now this is a church woman that's going around. They went to 0.99

00:13:49.980 my high school I remember I remember them because I thought this sounded crazy when I was in high

00:13:54.560 school too this is her testimony and I want to ask you guys if you think this sounds like a win

00:14:00.820 for men this sounds like something they would want to sign up for and buy this wife okay now okay

00:14:09.680 what is love well for me my father left when I was two and I was surrounded by aunts and uncles

00:14:18.760 and even my grandmother who was divorced so for me love didn't last love was temporary and it

00:14:25.080 wasn't a forever thing so that carried into my relationships when i was about a sophomore in

00:14:30.520 high school i had my first serious relationship and after a while of dating we thought we were

00:14:35.400 in love and everything was great and slowly the pressure started to set into the relationship

00:14:41.400 and it came to the point where he said well girl if you really love me

00:14:45.080 So I'm just pointing this out.

00:14:48.640 It's all him, right?

00:14:49.900 You weren't sexual at all.

00:14:53.620 Are church women known for being sexual blessing? 1.00

00:14:57.920 They do go crazy, some of them. 0.99

00:14:59.700 I'm not going to lie.

00:15:00.620 I am not going to lie to them.

00:15:02.600 Do you think, okay, as a man, when you hear this story,

00:15:05.520 do you believe that it was all him?

00:15:09.360 Hell no.

00:15:09.980 I mean, and ladies, I'm trying to explain how men hear this.

00:15:16.940 You're right.

00:15:17.640 You were just used, okay?

00:15:19.500 You truly love me.

00:15:20.500 You prove it to me.

00:15:21.600 You show me just how much you love me.

00:15:24.180 So I needed advice.

00:15:25.760 So I went to my girlfriends and I said, well, now it's the friend's fault.

00:15:31.320 Now, to be fair, we do give each other terrible advice.

00:15:34.840 We totally do.

00:15:36.400 But I want you to, guys, when you said I did something wrong

00:15:39.740 and you said, oh, well, he wanted me to do it.

00:15:43.340 Now, again, I'm going to tell you guys a story.

00:15:46.060 You love my story.

00:15:47.260 When I was in high school, okay, when I was in high school,

00:15:50.600 I, for the most part, I was pretty mild.

00:15:54.640 I didn't really, I was so, I played three sports.

00:15:57.360 I was so enthralled in volleyball and basketball.

00:16:00.300 I just didn't have a lot of free time.

00:16:02.140 It's been a common theme throughout my life.

00:16:03.740 I've always just been a busy, busy gal, okay?

00:16:07.020 Now, my last summer before I left for college, I wanted to throw a very small party.

00:16:17.560 Now I know everyone's going to say, Pearl's the word.

00:16:20.080 Okay, whatever, you know.

00:16:21.380 Now, to be fair, to be fair.

00:16:24.620 Now, I got caught, and when I got caught, I did the same thing she's doing there.

00:16:31.580 Look, and I'm still a woman.

00:16:33.100 I'm still a woman, all right?

00:16:34.700 But I did do the same thing.

00:16:36.120 i was like but dad my friends my dad was having none of that he said if your friends jumped off

00:16:42.600 a bridge would you too don't you hate that and yeah and they sent me i was grounded for like they

00:16:49.720 sent me they sent me to rural wisconsin and i learned a lesson okay i learned a lesson i i never

00:16:56.120 did it again. I never, you know, I never, would I have learned that lesson if my dad

00:17:06.180 let me get away with saying that? If my dad said to me, Hannah, they call me by my first

00:17:13.820 name, Hannah. You're right. It was your friends. You poor baby. That's what you guys do with

00:17:21.700 female sin. That's why your women are going crazy, because you coddle them, and you tell them exactly 1.00

00:17:26.660 what they want to hear. And I know because I grew up around you Catholic women, all right? 0.99

00:17:31.560 You will not, none of you will fool me, okay? So we're going to keep going. We're going to keep

00:17:36.360 going. He kind of wants to do this with me, and he wants to do that. And they said, well, what's wrong

00:17:41.660 with you? Everybody's doing it. You love him, right? And I thought, well, yeah, I love him.

00:17:47.900 So at the age of 15, I lost my virginity thinking it was going to cause this huge, great emotional bond between us and we'd be on cloud nine.

00:17:56.020 And so in love and in all actuality, eventually it destroyed any love we had in that relationship and all respect was just thrown out the window.

00:18:06.240 Because if I couldn't even respect my own body, how is he supposed to respect it?

00:18:11.100 And after a while of dating it seemed like he didn't want to spend time with me anymore.

00:18:15.600 He was basically spending the time with my body.

00:18:17.900 and when a girl is being used she there it is there it is okay do you know what i noticed guys

00:18:26.420 i have never seen more sexuality than from women now what do i mean by this

00:18:32.460 if you go to a male rock concert i have never seen men approaching women at a concert or in a

00:18:42.320 setting. Okay, let me explain this in a different way. When I go to a concert, women are trying so 1.00

00:18:49.280 hard to sleep with the man on stage. Let's say, let's take, I use Drake as an example a lot.

00:18:54.920 They throw bras at him. They throw panties at him. And I've seen this with high-end male

00:19:01.040 celebrities. Dan Bolvarian has slept with a thousand women. Okay.

00:19:05.600 women are sexual at times more sexual than men 1.00

00:19:12.640 so when a woman has sex she wants to have why is she being used now i don't really care how you 0.97

00:19:24.720 academically say men and women are different it doesn't really matter to me i i'm just looking

00:19:30.720 at what I see. I look at reality. And the problem is many church men have never had a woman be very

00:19:40.900 sexual towards them. So they think women are these innocent creatures. Sorry to burst your bubble,

00:19:48.320 guys. Okay. Now let's pull it up. Let's pull it up. She knows it. She knows it in the depths of

00:19:57.160 heart she may deny it she may ignore it but she knows it and i knew it and after a while we were

00:20:02.680 constantly fighting he was cheating on me and we broke up and went our separate ways now i will

00:20:09.560 never forget the day when he walked away from me for the very last time and as he walked away from

00:20:16.120 me i want you guys to understand how men are going to hear this okay i just want you to understand

00:20:21.480 this isn't what i think this is how men think men don't generally break up with women

00:20:27.160 so generally speaking if a man hears you were dumped

00:20:31.560 they think you're crazy now i'm not saying every girl's got a different situation as women

00:20:38.700 i know all you guys hear is your situation i'm not saying saying this is how men will hear this

00:20:44.260 okay am i wrong blessing am i lying no no you know like am i am i telling the truth or am i lying

00:20:52.160 And speaking the truth, I could think about, but not at his church.

00:21:00.920 Let him come back.

00:21:02.120 Let my man come back.

00:21:03.800 Was that guys taking something with him that never belonged to him in the first place?

00:21:09.140 But I can't get it back, right?

00:21:10.400 What's the point?

00:21:11.080 It's already gone.

00:21:12.560 So there I was in the cafeteria talking with my girlfriends and I came to this conclusion.

00:21:17.440 okay if a guy can date me for about six months without sleeping with me then he must love me

00:21:26.260 then I'll sleep with him and I think now six months six months is okay this is

00:21:32.280 this is a lie guys wouldn't deal with us if there wasn't sex involved 0.59

00:21:37.600 look I'm just being real here ladies I know the track this isn't going to sound nice okay

00:21:45.260 Most men, now I understand, like, working, I understand other situations, fine. 0.68

00:21:51.560 But most men are not trying to deal with most women unless there's a possibility of having sex. 0.80

00:21:58.800 That's part of it for men. 0.61

00:22:01.980 The church acts like that's not important.

00:22:06.960 It is to men, all right? 0.88

00:22:08.720 The price that I put on my body.

00:22:10.260 If he gives me just a little bit of that time, just a little bit of that attention, that's the definition.

00:22:15.360 A little? I mean, six months, not a little. Sorry. Sorry, I'm joking.

00:22:19.820 Definition of love. And I carry this mentality all through high school.

00:22:24.260 He was the first guy that I slept with, but he wasn't the last because sin took me further than I ever wanted to go or ever expected to go.

00:22:32.300 Now, after a while living this lifestyle, I got into the partying. I got into the drinking. I got into the clubbing. I got into the drugs. You name it.

00:22:40.260 I was into it and granted at the time yeah I thought it was a lot of fun it was very attractive

00:22:46.260 and I know what that's like but I also know what it's like to wake up the next day when that

00:22:52.740 party's over when your friends are gone and when you're there by yourself and I remember waking up

00:22:58.500 thinking I can't believe I did that last night I hope I don't have to see his face in the hallway

00:23:04.660 at school on Monday what if everybody finds out what we did all of these things constantly going

00:23:09.620 through my head but the night before my friends would always say oh it's all fun and games don't

00:23:14.900 worry about it it's not a big deal but the next day the fun and games were over and i remember

00:23:20.900 one day waking up so disgusted and overwhelmed with the feeling of worthlessness and i thought

00:23:29.060 to myself what's not the big deal here my body my self-respect my dignity what's not the big deal

00:23:36.580 here and I wasn't happy and I knew I wasn't happy but I thought well I'm

00:23:42.100 damaged goods it's already too late there's nothing I can do now after a

00:23:47.260 while of living this lifestyle my mother had an idea what was going on with me and

00:23:52.120 she said well there's there's a chastity talk at a church this weekend and you're

00:23:55.960 going I said I am NOT going to a chastity talk to listen to some guy talk

00:24:02.440 about sex thanks but no thanks she said well you're going if you like it or not

00:24:06.100 and I said, okay, fine. I'll sit in the back of the church for 15 minutes, and then I'm out of

00:24:12.280 there. I have a party to go to. I have friends to see. I don't have time. But in that 15 minutes,

00:24:19.020 God had changed my life because he is the God of second chances. And there was this guy that got up

00:24:27.620 and he talked about all of the party and all of the sex, all the pornography, everything that he

00:24:32.700 been into and he just laid it out and i felt like that guy he had grabbed my hand out of the

00:24:38.940 audience and he walked through my life like he could see the things i was most ashamed of in

00:24:43.980 hiding and i just watched him that he carried about himself that i didn't see that in my friends

00:24:50.620 i didn't see that in the places i went to and i definitely didn't see that okay and i'd like to

00:24:54.700 clarify right now there's nothing wrong with her changing her life i am not shaming or faulting that

00:25:05.260 what i am telling you is men are not dying to wife up women that have crazy pasts

00:25:15.660 and that's the problem in the church is you parade around these women as your speakers 1.00

00:25:20.780 and that becomes the quality of the women in the church 0.52

00:25:24.860 and you're telling women they can get a get out of jail free card

00:25:29.140 when in all honesty for every one woman that it works out for

00:25:33.800 there's 10 women it didn't 1.00

00:25:36.020 okay wait let me let me play the rest

00:25:40.660 because i know she ends up like having getting married to another guy

00:25:44.560 having kids

00:25:46.700 everything right 0.96

00:25:49.340 but is that a win for men the new guy had to wait to have sex with her till marriage 1.00

00:25:56.940 when everyone all the other guys got it for free i mean is this is this a win for men i want you 0.99

00:26:05.380 to think about it from the man's point of view guys that bust their ass to become something 0.92

00:26:11.920 they work their whole lives to become better at talking to women to improve their social skills 0.99

00:26:18.060 to make money to be handsome to be charismatic and the church says yes yes here are the women

00:26:24.860 that we will reward you this is common and the problem you get with these women is many of them 1.00

00:26:34.700 are not attracted to their husbands because the reason they had sex with the first guys was because

00:26:43.900 they were attracted to them there are many church men and women in sexless marriages

00:26:51.100 with women that have used sex to control their husbands and they do it from the beginning 1.00

00:26:57.340 to get commitment from them they they do this early on okay but we're going to get into that

00:27:05.180 later dating but he had one quality above all of them that i wanted more than anything and

00:27:11.420 and it's that he wasn't ashamed of himself.

00:27:14.740 I sat in my seat trying to figure out one day,

00:27:17.700 one day after I started living that lifestyle

00:27:21.060 of just true peace and joy,

00:27:23.140 not worried what I had done prior that night,

00:27:24.980 prior that weekend, always worried, but never any peace.

00:27:29.360 And I realized in that moment,

00:27:30.880 I needed to get my standards out of the gutter

00:27:33.560 and raise them as high as I possibly could

00:27:35.720 and start respecting my body.

00:27:37.180 This will not work for most women. 1.00

00:27:39.620 she seems some women if they're attractive enough to pull this off they can do it 1.00

00:27:44.900 but i was in sales so imagine this is the christian woman product okay

00:27:49.880 this is the christian woman product you are she did all the partying she did all the everything 1.00

00:27:58.400 they lowered she lowered the value now she's asking for a higher price while doing nothing 1.00

00:28:04.880 but praying i'm sorry it doesn't work like that to men and if it did work like that you guys would

00:28:11.920 have a better reputation do not blame me for the reputation that church women have 0.93

00:28:17.180 it would be more useful to say to women hey if you want to wait till marriage you are going to 0.98

00:28:25.800 have to provide a hell of a lot of value outside of sex that is going to be very difficult to acquire

00:28:31.780 if that's what you want to do now but we say pray and god will give you a husband

00:28:40.020 there are women that works for but i'm not in the business of selling dreams 0.99

00:28:44.160 that is not what i've seen what i have seen from country to country is churches filled with women 0.99

00:28:51.180 single mothers

00:28:52.860 ex-party girls and simps nobody's getting together i don't see young families in churches anymore

00:29:02.480 i see the same problems happening across the board and you guys keep shooting the messenger

00:29:08.920 like i did something to do this i'm just telling you what's going on for once and start respecting

00:29:15.360 my god now our god is the god of second chances and he he changed my life he turned me around and

00:29:22.600 He gave me the grace.

00:29:23.960 Yes, God can forgive women.

00:29:27.020 But men do not have to accept your previous sin.

00:29:31.840 Men don't have to do it. 0.99

00:29:33.080 And ladies, if you have a brother or a father maybe that's dating again,

00:29:40.680 some person, a man in your life that you love,

00:29:43.540 you would never want them to be put in a situation

00:29:48.240 where they're dating a woman with a crazy, crazy past.

00:29:54.220 Okay?

00:29:55.220 To get out of that lifestyle.

00:29:57.160 And I tried so many times to get out of that lifestyle on my own

00:30:01.480 because I was miserable.

00:30:02.800 I wasn't happy.

00:30:03.760 I was disgusted with myself.

00:30:05.820 And I just needed to get out.

00:30:08.860 And I tried so many times and I promised myself,

00:30:11.580 never going to do that again.

00:30:12.760 And then the next weekend, I was doing the same exact things.

00:30:15.540 but then I realized when you asked the grace from God and I begged him to get me out of that

00:30:21.720 lifestyle he did and if you really want to turn your life around if you really want to start over

00:30:27.420 you have to do it with Jesus or you're gonna fall right that's fine yes yes you should do it with

00:30:33.880 Jesus but don't expect men to make your problem theirs and that's what I'm talking about you guys

00:30:40.960 keep saying, I'm shaming the forgiveness. I'm shaming her changing her life. No, that's a good

00:30:45.620 thing. But her and her husband would go around and give these chastity talks across the country. 1.00

00:30:52.540 It's always the same. You can take it off. It's always the same story. It's always the woman with 1.00

00:30:58.820 a promiscuous past. You can take off the video. It's always the woman with the promiscuous past 0.99

00:31:04.460 with the man that was a virgin it's generally the same story okay occasionally you get it the other

00:31:12.740 way around and we reward these women what would be more effective actually churches if you want 1.00

00:31:20.300 notes from pearl what would be more effective would be showing all of the women it didn't work 0.97

00:31:25.420 out for stop selling hope and dreams i don't know why you guys make that the business many women 0.98

00:31:33.500 try this it doesn't work and there's consequences and I see them in your pews

00:31:38.880 sometimes I wonder if the church wants to leave women single so they can get more money 0.95

00:31:44.420 because single women fund a lot of these churches I question that sometimes now let's talk about 0.92

00:31:52.600 I'm going to talk about some of the archetypes that I see in church

00:31:55.480 okay so i talked about simp men simp men tend to take the biggest l's they tend to have little

00:32:03.920 experience with women so they tend to simp for a lifetime many of these men will tell this to

00:32:11.000 you themselves or brag about it um they tend to oh i think i read this already they tend to put

00:32:17.840 women on a pad i read this right should i read it again yes yes one more time for the same side 1.00

00:32:23.880 okay i can remember okay so simp men tend to take the biggest l's these are the men that tend to

00:32:32.440 go on stage and brag about wifing up an ex hoe they brag about this they tend to have little 0.99

00:32:40.700 experience with women so they simp for a lifetime many of these men will tell you themselves or even 1.00

00:32:46.020 brag about it any sexual activity he will always blame the men because in general they have never

00:32:52.420 been sexually pursued by a woman. They have no idea what that's like. They tend to put women on 1.00

00:32:59.200 a pedestal and make them godlike. They tend to be the biggest suckers. They tend to make everything 1.00

00:33:04.620 the man's fault if the relationship goes south. They tend to believe in born-again virgins and

00:33:11.420 sign up for that. Okay, the next archetype, I'm actually going to go to the controlling wives. 1.00

00:33:18.380 Now, there's the simps, the controlling wives, and the born-again virgins. 0.95

00:33:24.540 Now, the controlling wives, we don't know about their past. 1.00

00:33:27.440 Many of them have pasts.

00:33:29.180 Many of them don't have pasts.

00:33:31.100 But the commonality with the controlling wives is none of them have evidence of anything.

00:33:37.040 Nothing major anyways.

00:33:40.160 Okay, many of these wives marry men they don't like and make everyone else pay for it. 1.00

00:33:46.920 these many of these women love to lecture us on what godly men are despite not being a virgin

00:33:55.020 themselves they have no humility they constantly pick at their husband's flaws by saying he is not

00:34:00.400 a godly man and god himself gets to decide oh shoot hold on i'll say today you're preaching 0.54

00:34:11.480 today pearl hold on hold on hold on ah freaking hold on hold on hold on hold on um one second

00:34:21.400 one second sorry sorry sorry can i get some ones in the chat if you feel like pearl is preaching

00:34:28.880 today i'll do it again i'll do it again all right um

00:34:41.480 so all the guys on x or 3 000 new x if you can hit the like button sorry sorry sorry i had

00:34:51.580 i had a little emergency but it's okay it's all right all right they're the way the christian

00:34:57.540 women in the chat they're like god got her to shut up no i'm coming back bitches sorry sorry 1.00

00:35:02.940 sorry okay okay all right again christian women i don't see a difference between you guys in the 0.98

00:35:08.400 general population. You guys tend to be just as spiteful, vindictive, and outright mean as general 0.98

00:35:18.020 women. Okay, so again, these women love to lecture us on what godly men are. Despite not being virgins 0.99

00:35:27.440 themselves, they constantly pick at their husband's flaws by saying he is not a godly man, as if they

00:35:33.580 are God themselves and get to decide. These are the same women that say, I am not godly enough

00:35:40.120 to talk about this. The way that women react to me, take notes guys, because that is how they 1.00

00:35:46.180 will react to you. I am just a random stranger on the internet. You'll be married to these women.

00:35:53.460 Watch out, have fun. Christian women have a tendency to use the Bible to control their 1.00

00:35:58.620 husbands and tell them how to talk. Remember, the way that women react to red pill is how they react 1.00

00:36:04.000 to hearing information they do not like. Remember, the red pill is simply men trading notes. It's

00:36:11.500 simply men. It's barber. It's locker room talk, barbershop talk. Imagine being home and that's

00:36:20.100 how your wife will react if she hears anything she doesn't like. You will see these women call

00:36:26.200 me hateful, problematic, harmful. These are the Christian women that are at school meetings 1.00

00:36:31.920 telling you how to raise your children. These are the women that force the you-know-what 1.00

00:36:39.000 on everybody. These are the mask women oftentimes. 1.00

00:36:45.860 These women weaponize sex against their husbands. Shame. Shame. I see the same shame, insult, 1.00

00:36:53.900 guilt and need to be right from christian women that i see from normal women there is no difference 1.00

00:36:59.660 if there was a difference again don't blame me for your reputation all right they will call oh

00:37:07.140 oh they will call everyone else of this world as if they themselves hold the keys to god's have

00:37:15.680 to heaven as if they themselves give out these keys that's what you'll see oh you're just worldly 0.98

00:37:22.280 what the hell does that supposed to mean crazy lady so are you 1.00

00:37:26.400 all right they love the verse husbands must love their wives as christ loves the church yet at the 0.87

00:37:35.020 same time will tell men how to talk tell men to watch their tone tell men to watch their delivery

00:37:42.120 that doesn't sound like submission ladies um okay if christian women leave marriages they need a 1.00

00:37:49.780 reason. Christian women will band together to label a man abuser, oppressive, and evil if the 1.00

00:37:55.720 woman chose to leave. The woman is always right. As I have said this many times before, we saw this 1.00

00:38:01.840 with Lauren Southern, Stephen Crowder. Everybody banded together. Nobody called out the holes in

00:38:09.580 their story. You will see conservative women rally behind divorced 1.00

00:38:19.320 women and still call them more Christian than me even though they chose to break up their own home 1.00

00:38:26.700 and what and what does that affect oh my gosh the children women care more about women's 1.00

00:38:33.580 reputation than they care about children this stuff leads to divorce this stuff is serious

00:38:38.440 and yet everything is Pearl's fault Christian women tend to be very concerned with power they 1.00

00:38:45.780 want the power to preach and exert control over their husbands. They're more concerned with 1.00

00:38:52.040 looking good than doing good. Christian women swear they cannot trust their husband because 1.00

00:38:57.320 he is not godly enough. They will swear they're the orbiters of what makes a man godly. They will

00:39:03.200 swear they're the orbiters of what makes a man a real man. Who are you to decide? If the relationship

00:39:10.240 goes south, it is always his fault. Christian women also live in fear. Many of them 0.92

00:39:15.940 also excuse women's divorces by labeling the abuse of men.

00:39:22.760 If there was no police report filed, I don't believe you. Get a police report.

00:39:30.580 Go to the police. Get a report. Otherwise, you're just going to let us all get beat up by this guy.

00:39:37.940 that doesn't make any sense these are the women who are used to defining what they love defining 1.00

00:39:46.840 what christ looks like loving the church and if their husbands don't measure up these women are 1.00

00:39:52.960 gone nada naseki they leave just like normal women when the wife 1.00

00:40:02.700 oh when the wives christian wives often blame everything that is going wrong in their marriage

00:40:12.340 on the husband not believing in christianity i often hear the citation studied or i often hear

00:40:20.860 the citation that when men go to church, the whole family follows. What Christian women do 1.00

00:40:28.100 is they weaponize this study and make it the husband's problem that they're not godly enough

00:40:36.440 when really they should be asking if they're so godly, why doesn't their husband want to

00:40:41.200 go to church with them if you're so pleasant and amazing to be around? I hate to break it to you,

00:40:47.960 but I find non-religious men more God-like than 90% of Christian women. 0.61

00:40:54.800 Yes, you 10%.

00:40:56.220 There is 10% maybe of Christian women that are so awesome and pure, 0.58

00:41:01.860 and I love meeting them.

00:41:03.600 You know, I'll give, you know, Bryson Gray, he's married, and his wife,

00:41:08.960 she's like the sweetest woman.

00:41:11.220 I just felt her, like, innocence and, like, kindness just being there for the day, okay?

00:41:17.960 These women exist, but they are rare. 1.00

00:41:20.500 They are the exception.

00:41:21.920 They are not the rule.

00:41:22.940 What is more common is what I am describing.

00:41:26.340 Why is this your reputation?

00:41:30.760 All right, servant leader.

00:41:33.220 Christian women love this verse.

00:41:36.480 And by servant leader, generally Christian women mean to put his wants and his needs last always. 0.99

00:41:43.760 i i mean servant leader this this sounds the way you guys describe it it sounds like slavery to me

00:41:52.280 and don't get mad at me when you're losing half of young men this isn't me i didn't do this i'm

00:42:01.320 just pointing out the problem when you interview a thousand people you start to see some patterns

00:42:07.580 and trends of behavior. Women's groups have a reputation of being gossip centers where women 1.00

00:42:14.660 simply gossip and speak ill of their husbands. 0.97

Pearl - March 20, 2024

＂We Live In Delusion＂ Pearl Reacts To The Problems With Most Christian Women

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