Pearl - March 20, 2024＂We Live In Delusion＂ Pearl Reacts To The Problems With Most Christian Women
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about the church, the church hierarchy, and the church culture in general. I also talk about women in the church and how they are underrepresented in leadership roles in our society, and how this needs to stop.
Transcript
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Are you so special, amazing, and awesome that there are no flaws?
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Anytime I criticize or talk about any issues that are going on,
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Oh, the church women are just so amazing, special, and awesome.
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Okay, I will show clips demonstrating the behaviors I am talking about.
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I am not attacking any of these people personally,
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but I am attacking what they are saying or doing on screen.
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I don't know anything other than clips I see online.
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Again, I don't know them personally, but I will use them as examples.
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This is the town square. I like to give examples.
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If you come in and you say, oh, I want to talk about,
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I want to give my monologue about what I want to talk about,
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Can you show them? Do you think these are fair rules?
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is there anything else i think these are fair rules are they fair rules yeah and if you come
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on stream make sure your video is on yeah make sure oh yeah i'll add that to my list make sure
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your video is on video is on and if the shoe doesn't fit stop crying about it i mean all right
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okay so let's talk about the red pill now i've gotten into a little bit of criticism recently
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because I was asked on a podcast, what is the red pill? And I guess I stumbled a little bit on what
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exactly it is, because to be fair, there is some dispute in the community. But the red pill, it is
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men taking notes to increase their sexual strategy. This used to happen in barbershops
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and male only spaces. The men would get together and they would talk. Now it's just migrated to
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online. I am not, I myself am not the end all be all of Red Pill. I would say Red Pill is for men.
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I just find it interesting. You know, again, I just, I'm just looking at what's going on. Okay.
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one more disclaimer all of these women coming forward and saying you can't generalize
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you can't generalize you can't generalize yes i can yes i can and i will and if you don't like it
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you can kiss my ass how can we have conversations about anything if we can't speak in generalities
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you know are you just here to argue if i say water is wet and then you say not all water is
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like that it's like this is this is how it feels sometimes with you guys it's like pulling teeth
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People thought you got fired because King produced the one show.
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Ideally, I would like to talk to Christian women first.
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but this is a conversation with the Christians.
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that in the UK, the ratio of women to men in church
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So while men still dominate the priesthood or pastorship, statistics show that two-thirds of church memberships are women.
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And if you look at programs run within the church, a much higher percentage of them are led by women than men.
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Most people in the church have little or no say in what goes on.
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For a Roman Catholic, Anglican, Methodist, or Baptist, the leadership of churches dominate by men.
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They dominate just the priesthood, but the positions of bishops and the regional ministers.
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Yet, as the gender gap grows, the presence of women increasingly dominates most Western churches.
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While there has been an imbalance for quite some time, the recent trend shows that it's increasing.
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The last 20 years, 49% of men under 30 left the church.
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you're right just shoot the messenger there's nothing going on in church you are so totally
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right you are losing half of your young men 50 of your young men and there is no issue
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you're right ladies keep on doing what you're doing keep on doing what you're doing do you
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guys want to know what's going on? Do you guys, do you guys want to, do you guys want to know
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what the issue is? Put a one in the chat if you want to know. Put a two in the chat if everything's
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going. Just so amazing. Stop, stop complaining, men. That's what, that's what they'll tell you.
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okay one common trope that i have heard from men that have left the church is that
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men feel like women and the church will never be happy it is never enough
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it is never enough now why do young men feel like this
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now i'm gonna show you guys now again but i see god okay now by the way again this is not
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attacking. I'm a fan of Michael Knowles, but I think this rhetoric is why you see young men,
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half of your young men. You guys are coming at me like I did that. I didn't create this world.
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Okay, so pull up the screen. All right. Now, again, this is just showing you an example
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of the mentality that's pushed in churches and you see it reiterated by talk show hosts you see it
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reiterated in debates you see it reiterated everywhere okay no they don't i mean because
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women when women have the most choice we don't choose marriage women have the most choice when
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it comes to commitment around the age of 22 they're not choosing to get married i don't pay
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attention to what people say no no you mean when they when they have the most options when they're
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most marriageable but they do but you will acknowledge those women who have been duped
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by feminism maybe even after their past their marriageable age right there right there and
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i'm just pointing this out it's always the women were duped the women were just and you trad con
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women are no better whenever you guys talk about your past it's always everybody else's fault but
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yours how do we get anywhere if we keep giving women a get out of jail free card it's not you
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were duped it's not you were young it's not you were naive it's you did it because you wanted to
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why is that so crazy to get through people's heads everything's everyone else's fault
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You know, we don't give young men that same grace.
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Now, this is just, I'm just, I'm drawing attention to the language that we use in church.
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blessing do you think that works oh no no no no blessing but why okay now and now and maybe you
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guys can tell me if there are two women i you know i i had two friends in high school okay
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we went to all went to the same high school we all came from two parent homes none of us came
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from perfect homes but we all made different choices i had one friend that decided she was
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a diehard catholic she got married at 22 waited till she was married and i think she's on her
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second kid now she was also like our valedictorian this girl killed everything she did
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she was amazing then then there was another girl in my school
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who i i haven't kept up with her in years but i wouldn't be surprised if she was like on only
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fans or something these days i don't know what she's doing but the way she she behaved if you
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you guys know what you know what i mean choices decision free will we are responsible for our own
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sin i i look that's what i believe and if you think that makes me not religious enough
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I that's going to make the men not religious enough to keep losing men keep doing what you
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guys are doing okay so what I see in churches and now I'd like to preface
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there are three types of men and are three types of people I generally see in church
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please don't talk to me about the exceptions I know there are exceptions I know it's not all bad
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but these are the general trends you know and by the way in case blessings church is watching
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no i'm not i'm not give them a disclaimer please
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i'm not saying his church is like this but it probably it now
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it probably it probably is super special and different just you know please please don't
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give my man blessing like any trouble at church please let him have a good time you know please
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don't now okay for that what thank you for that disclaimer did it help or hurt no that's okay
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okay okay so there's three categories of people that i see in church
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now the first thing i've noticed is simp men in church tend to take the biggest l's i have
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ever seen in my life and it's worse it's worse okay let me let me show you guys this
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all right i'm gonna show you this was a chastity speaker that came to my high school
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now i want you guys to put yourself i i was in sales right i worked in sales
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and if a product wasn't selling and i'm not saying women are products but we i'm going to
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look at them in this way so I can explain a concept.
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If a product isn't selling, the worst thing you can do is shame the customer and say,
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bad customer, you are wrong for not buying this product.
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You got to ask, what's wrong, why don't people want to buy?
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The worst thing ever, I sold copiers, the worst thing ever I could do, and I sold the
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I was going to a sale and say, you guys are not all copiers are like that.
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Not all, not all copiers are like, there are good copiers. I sell good copiers. You would look at me
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like I'm crazy. But if I say anything about the issues with church women and the reasons men are
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leaving, then I'm the bad guy. Okay. Now this is a church woman that's going around. They went to
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my high school I remember I remember them because I thought this sounded crazy when I was in high
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school too this is her testimony and I want to ask you guys if you think this sounds like a win
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for men this sounds like something they would want to sign up for and buy this wife okay now okay
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what is love well for me my father left when I was two and I was surrounded by aunts and uncles
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and even my grandmother who was divorced so for me love didn't last love was temporary and it
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wasn't a forever thing so that carried into my relationships when i was about a sophomore in
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high school i had my first serious relationship and after a while of dating we thought we were
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in love and everything was great and slowly the pressure started to set into the relationship
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and it came to the point where he said well girl if you really love me
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Are church women known for being sexual blessing?
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Do you think, okay, as a man, when you hear this story,
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I mean, and ladies, I'm trying to explain how men hear this.
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So I went to my girlfriends and I said, well, now it's the friend's fault.
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Now, to be fair, we do give each other terrible advice.
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But I want you to, guys, when you said I did something wrong
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Now, again, I'm going to tell you guys a story.
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When I was in high school, okay, when I was in high school,
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I didn't really, I was so, I played three sports.
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I was so enthralled in volleyball and basketball.
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Now, my last summer before I left for college, I wanted to throw a very small party.
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Now I know everyone's going to say, Pearl's the word.
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Now, I got caught, and when I got caught, I did the same thing she's doing there.
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i was like but dad my friends my dad was having none of that he said if your friends jumped off
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a bridge would you too don't you hate that and yeah and they sent me i was grounded for like they
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sent me they sent me to rural wisconsin and i learned a lesson okay i learned a lesson i i never
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did it again. I never, you know, I never, would I have learned that lesson if my dad
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let me get away with saying that? If my dad said to me, Hannah, they call me by my first
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name, Hannah. You're right. It was your friends. You poor baby. That's what you guys do with
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female sin. That's why your women are going crazy, because you coddle them, and you tell them exactly
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what they want to hear. And I know because I grew up around you Catholic women, all right?
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You will not, none of you will fool me, okay? So we're going to keep going. We're going to keep
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going. He kind of wants to do this with me, and he wants to do that. And they said, well, what's wrong
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with you? Everybody's doing it. You love him, right? And I thought, well, yeah, I love him.
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So at the age of 15, I lost my virginity thinking it was going to cause this huge, great emotional bond between us and we'd be on cloud nine.
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And so in love and in all actuality, eventually it destroyed any love we had in that relationship and all respect was just thrown out the window.
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Because if I couldn't even respect my own body, how is he supposed to respect it?
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And after a while of dating it seemed like he didn't want to spend time with me anymore.
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He was basically spending the time with my body.
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and when a girl is being used she there it is there it is okay do you know what i noticed guys
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i have never seen more sexuality than from women now what do i mean by this
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if you go to a male rock concert i have never seen men approaching women at a concert or in a
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setting. Okay, let me explain this in a different way. When I go to a concert, women are trying so
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hard to sleep with the man on stage. Let's say, let's take, I use Drake as an example a lot.
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They throw bras at him. They throw panties at him. And I've seen this with high-end male
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celebrities. Dan Bolvarian has slept with a thousand women. Okay.
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so when a woman has sex she wants to have why is she being used now i don't really care how you
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academically say men and women are different it doesn't really matter to me i i'm just looking
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at what I see. I look at reality. And the problem is many church men have never had a woman be very
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sexual towards them. So they think women are these innocent creatures. Sorry to burst your bubble,
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guys. Okay. Now let's pull it up. Let's pull it up. She knows it. She knows it in the depths of
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heart she may deny it she may ignore it but she knows it and i knew it and after a while we were
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constantly fighting he was cheating on me and we broke up and went our separate ways now i will
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never forget the day when he walked away from me for the very last time and as he walked away from
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me i want you guys to understand how men are going to hear this okay i just want you to understand
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this isn't what i think this is how men think men don't generally break up with women
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so generally speaking if a man hears you were dumped
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they think you're crazy now i'm not saying every girl's got a different situation as women
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i know all you guys hear is your situation i'm not saying saying this is how men will hear this
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okay am i wrong blessing am i lying no no you know like am i am i telling the truth or am i lying
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And speaking the truth, I could think about, but not at his church.
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Was that guys taking something with him that never belonged to him in the first place?
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So there I was in the cafeteria talking with my girlfriends and I came to this conclusion.
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okay if a guy can date me for about six months without sleeping with me then he must love me
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then I'll sleep with him and I think now six months six months is okay this is
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this is a lie guys wouldn't deal with us if there wasn't sex involved
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look I'm just being real here ladies I know the track this isn't going to sound nice okay
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Most men, now I understand, like, working, I understand other situations, fine.
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But most men are not trying to deal with most women unless there's a possibility of having sex.
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If he gives me just a little bit of that time, just a little bit of that attention, that's the definition.
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A little? I mean, six months, not a little. Sorry. Sorry, I'm joking.
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Definition of love. And I carry this mentality all through high school.
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He was the first guy that I slept with, but he wasn't the last because sin took me further than I ever wanted to go or ever expected to go.
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Now, after a while living this lifestyle, I got into the partying. I got into the drinking. I got into the clubbing. I got into the drugs. You name it.
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I was into it and granted at the time yeah I thought it was a lot of fun it was very attractive
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and I know what that's like but I also know what it's like to wake up the next day when that
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party's over when your friends are gone and when you're there by yourself and I remember waking up
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thinking I can't believe I did that last night I hope I don't have to see his face in the hallway
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at school on Monday what if everybody finds out what we did all of these things constantly going
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through my head but the night before my friends would always say oh it's all fun and games don't
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worry about it it's not a big deal but the next day the fun and games were over and i remember
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one day waking up so disgusted and overwhelmed with the feeling of worthlessness and i thought
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to myself what's not the big deal here my body my self-respect my dignity what's not the big deal
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here and I wasn't happy and I knew I wasn't happy but I thought well I'm
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damaged goods it's already too late there's nothing I can do now after a
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while of living this lifestyle my mother had an idea what was going on with me and
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she said well there's there's a chastity talk at a church this weekend and you're
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going I said I am NOT going to a chastity talk to listen to some guy talk
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about sex thanks but no thanks she said well you're going if you like it or not
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and I said, okay, fine. I'll sit in the back of the church for 15 minutes, and then I'm out of
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there. I have a party to go to. I have friends to see. I don't have time. But in that 15 minutes,
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God had changed my life because he is the God of second chances. And there was this guy that got up
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and he talked about all of the party and all of the sex, all the pornography, everything that he
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been into and he just laid it out and i felt like that guy he had grabbed my hand out of the
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audience and he walked through my life like he could see the things i was most ashamed of in
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hiding and i just watched him that he carried about himself that i didn't see that in my friends
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i didn't see that in the places i went to and i definitely didn't see that okay and i'd like to
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clarify right now there's nothing wrong with her changing her life i am not shaming or faulting that
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what i am telling you is men are not dying to wife up women that have crazy pasts
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and that's the problem in the church is you parade around these women as your speakers
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and that becomes the quality of the women in the church
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and you're telling women they can get a get out of jail free card
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when in all honesty for every one woman that it works out for
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because i know she ends up like having getting married to another guy
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but is that a win for men the new guy had to wait to have sex with her till marriage
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when everyone all the other guys got it for free i mean is this is this a win for men i want you
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to think about it from the man's point of view guys that bust their ass to become something
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they work their whole lives to become better at talking to women to improve their social skills
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to make money to be handsome to be charismatic and the church says yes yes here are the women
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that we will reward you this is common and the problem you get with these women is many of them
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are not attracted to their husbands because the reason they had sex with the first guys was because
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they were attracted to them there are many church men and women in sexless marriages
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with women that have used sex to control their husbands and they do it from the beginning
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to get commitment from them they they do this early on okay but we're going to get into that
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later dating but he had one quality above all of them that i wanted more than anything and
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prior that weekend, always worried, but never any peace.
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she seems some women if they're attractive enough to pull this off they can do it
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but i was in sales so imagine this is the christian woman product okay
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this is the christian woman product you are she did all the partying she did all the everything
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they lowered she lowered the value now she's asking for a higher price while doing nothing
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but praying i'm sorry it doesn't work like that to men and if it did work like that you guys would
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have a better reputation do not blame me for the reputation that church women have
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it would be more useful to say to women hey if you want to wait till marriage you are going to
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have to provide a hell of a lot of value outside of sex that is going to be very difficult to acquire
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if that's what you want to do now but we say pray and god will give you a husband
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there are women that works for but i'm not in the business of selling dreams
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that is not what i've seen what i have seen from country to country is churches filled with women
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ex-party girls and simps nobody's getting together i don't see young families in churches anymore
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i see the same problems happening across the board and you guys keep shooting the messenger
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like i did something to do this i'm just telling you what's going on for once and start respecting
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my god now our god is the god of second chances and he he changed my life he turned me around and
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But men do not have to accept your previous sin.
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And ladies, if you have a brother or a father maybe that's dating again,
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you would never want them to be put in a situation
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where they're dating a woman with a crazy, crazy past.
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And I tried so many times to get out of that lifestyle on my own
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And I tried so many times and I promised myself,
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And then the next weekend, I was doing the same exact things.
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but then I realized when you asked the grace from God and I begged him to get me out of that
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lifestyle he did and if you really want to turn your life around if you really want to start over
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you have to do it with Jesus or you're gonna fall right that's fine yes yes you should do it with
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Jesus but don't expect men to make your problem theirs and that's what I'm talking about you guys
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keep saying, I'm shaming the forgiveness. I'm shaming her changing her life. No, that's a good
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thing. But her and her husband would go around and give these chastity talks across the country.
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It's always the same. You can take it off. It's always the same story. It's always the woman with
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a promiscuous past. You can take off the video. It's always the woman with the promiscuous past
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with the man that was a virgin it's generally the same story okay occasionally you get it the other
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way around and we reward these women what would be more effective actually churches if you want
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notes from pearl what would be more effective would be showing all of the women it didn't work
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out for stop selling hope and dreams i don't know why you guys make that the business many women
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try this it doesn't work and there's consequences and I see them in your pews
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sometimes I wonder if the church wants to leave women single so they can get more money
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because single women fund a lot of these churches I question that sometimes now let's talk about
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I'm going to talk about some of the archetypes that I see in church
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okay so i talked about simp men simp men tend to take the biggest l's they tend to have little
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experience with women so they tend to simp for a lifetime many of these men will tell this to
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you themselves or brag about it um they tend to oh i think i read this already they tend to put
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women on a pad i read this right should i read it again yes yes one more time for the same side
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okay i can remember okay so simp men tend to take the biggest l's these are the men that tend to
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go on stage and brag about wifing up an ex hoe they brag about this they tend to have little
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experience with women so they simp for a lifetime many of these men will tell you themselves or even
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brag about it any sexual activity he will always blame the men because in general they have never
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been sexually pursued by a woman. They have no idea what that's like. They tend to put women on
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a pedestal and make them godlike. They tend to be the biggest suckers. They tend to make everything
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the man's fault if the relationship goes south. They tend to believe in born-again virgins and
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sign up for that. Okay, the next archetype, I'm actually going to go to the controlling wives.
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Now, there's the simps, the controlling wives, and the born-again virgins.
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Now, the controlling wives, we don't know about their past.
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But the commonality with the controlling wives is none of them have evidence of anything.
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Okay, many of these wives marry men they don't like and make everyone else pay for it.
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these many of these women love to lecture us on what godly men are despite not being a virgin
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themselves they have no humility they constantly pick at their husband's flaws by saying he is not
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a godly man and god himself gets to decide oh shoot hold on i'll say today you're preaching
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today pearl hold on hold on hold on ah freaking hold on hold on hold on hold on um one second
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one second sorry sorry sorry can i get some ones in the chat if you feel like pearl is preaching
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today i'll do it again i'll do it again all right um
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so all the guys on x or 3 000 new x if you can hit the like button sorry sorry sorry i had
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i had a little emergency but it's okay it's all right all right they're the way the christian
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women in the chat they're like god got her to shut up no i'm coming back bitches sorry sorry
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sorry okay okay all right again christian women i don't see a difference between you guys in the
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general population. You guys tend to be just as spiteful, vindictive, and outright mean as general
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women. Okay, so again, these women love to lecture us on what godly men are. Despite not being virgins
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themselves, they constantly pick at their husband's flaws by saying he is not a godly man, as if they
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are God themselves and get to decide. These are the same women that say, I am not godly enough
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to talk about this. The way that women react to me, take notes guys, because that is how they
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will react to you. I am just a random stranger on the internet. You'll be married to these women.
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Watch out, have fun. Christian women have a tendency to use the Bible to control their
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husbands and tell them how to talk. Remember, the way that women react to red pill is how they react
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to hearing information they do not like. Remember, the red pill is simply men trading notes. It's
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simply men. It's barber. It's locker room talk, barbershop talk. Imagine being home and that's
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how your wife will react if she hears anything she doesn't like. You will see these women call
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me hateful, problematic, harmful. These are the Christian women that are at school meetings
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telling you how to raise your children. These are the women that force the you-know-what
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on everybody. These are the mask women oftentimes.
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These women weaponize sex against their husbands. Shame. Shame. I see the same shame, insult,
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guilt and need to be right from christian women that i see from normal women there is no difference
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if there was a difference again don't blame me for your reputation all right they will call oh
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oh they will call everyone else of this world as if they themselves hold the keys to god's have
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to heaven as if they themselves give out these keys that's what you'll see oh you're just worldly
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what the hell does that supposed to mean crazy lady so are you
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all right they love the verse husbands must love their wives as christ loves the church yet at the
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same time will tell men how to talk tell men to watch their tone tell men to watch their delivery
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that doesn't sound like submission ladies um okay if christian women leave marriages they need a
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reason. Christian women will band together to label a man abuser, oppressive, and evil if the
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woman chose to leave. The woman is always right. As I have said this many times before, we saw this
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with Lauren Southern, Stephen Crowder. Everybody banded together. Nobody called out the holes in
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their story. You will see conservative women rally behind divorced
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women and still call them more Christian than me even though they chose to break up their own home
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and what and what does that affect oh my gosh the children women care more about women's
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reputation than they care about children this stuff leads to divorce this stuff is serious
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and yet everything is Pearl's fault Christian women tend to be very concerned with power they
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want the power to preach and exert control over their husbands. They're more concerned with
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looking good than doing good. Christian women swear they cannot trust their husband because
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he is not godly enough. They will swear they're the orbiters of what makes a man godly. They will
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swear they're the orbiters of what makes a man a real man. Who are you to decide? If the relationship
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goes south, it is always his fault. Christian women also live in fear. Many of them
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also excuse women's divorces by labeling the abuse of men.
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If there was no police report filed, I don't believe you. Get a police report.
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Go to the police. Get a report. Otherwise, you're just going to let us all get beat up by this guy.
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that doesn't make any sense these are the women who are used to defining what they love defining
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what christ looks like loving the church and if their husbands don't measure up these women are
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gone nada naseki they leave just like normal women when the wife
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oh when the wives christian wives often blame everything that is going wrong in their marriage
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on the husband not believing in christianity i often hear the citation studied or i often hear
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the citation that when men go to church, the whole family follows. What Christian women do
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is they weaponize this study and make it the husband's problem that they're not godly enough
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when really they should be asking if they're so godly, why doesn't their husband want to
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go to church with them if you're so pleasant and amazing to be around? I hate to break it to you,
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but I find non-religious men more God-like than 90% of Christian women.
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There is 10% maybe of Christian women that are so awesome and pure,
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You know, I'll give, you know, Bryson Gray, he's married, and his wife,
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I just felt her, like, innocence and, like, kindness just being there for the day, okay?
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And by servant leader, generally Christian women mean to put his wants and his needs last always.
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i i mean servant leader this this sounds the way you guys describe it it sounds like slavery to me
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and don't get mad at me when you're losing half of young men this isn't me i didn't do this i'm
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just pointing out the problem when you interview a thousand people you start to see some patterns
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and trends of behavior. Women's groups have a reputation of being gossip centers where women