Pearl - What Came First？ MODERN WOMEN Or The MEDIA？｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. I am your

00:00:06.200 host, Pearl Davis, streaming here from the Audacity Network studio. If you guys want

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00:00:40.960 So, okay. So today's topic, I wanted to talk about something that I've heard,

00:00:48.260 which is that feminism brainwashed women. At one point, I would say I even said this,

00:00:56.020 but I think we have to ask what came first. Did the media brainwash women or were modern women 1.00

00:01:05.440 always around? The clip that originally made me think of this topic was something I saw from 1.00

00:01:13.680 the whatever podcast guys my links okay I'll pull it up um from the whatever podcast

00:01:22.400 and um that's a show similar to the panel show that I used to do so the concept of the show is

00:01:30.880 you bring on about 10 women and we talk about marriage culture and relationships and oftentimes

00:01:37.760 what you see on these shows is people with more traditional values and modern values arguing

00:01:44.540 right that's pretty much the concept on a lot of these shows so i saw a clip go viral

00:01:51.020 um and i wanted to oh here here we go you're watching so this this guy is what i would call 0.93

00:02:00.520 the tradcon conservative crowd right and he's telling these of models stop being being a hoe 0.92

00:02:09.080 basically and i have the experience of also doing that you know um because they come on these shows 0.92

00:02:16.920 and they brag about these crazy activities and you think wow maybe someone just needs to tell

00:02:23.560 them so here he goes if any young women are watching please do not model your lifestyle

00:02:28.520 after her thank you very much and that's from the christian man i'm not judging you ever that's fine

00:02:33.720 but if you ever want to get married there's a lot of young girls out there who want to get married

00:02:36.600 someday if pictures of yourself doing sexual things are all over the internet your husband

00:02:40.280 and your kids will not appreciate that so he's completely correct that your husband and your

00:02:45.160 kids will not appreciate it however the sad reality is the male sex drive is so strong

00:02:53.000 that men will adapt. I hate talking like this, but we're already starting to see the effects.

00:03:00.580 There's a woman running for governor who was formerly on a campsite. In 20, 30 years,

00:03:07.020 it will not be uncommon for your kids to be playing with kids with mothers that previously 0.59

00:03:13.920 have had done sex work. Now, the question is, was this something that always happened,

00:03:20.520 but now we have evidence of it, or is this a brainwashing?

00:03:28.140 My belief is that this is something that's always happened, but now the internet made it worse,

00:03:37.280 more accessible, and more money to be made, and now we have more evidence of it.

00:03:45.100 so what I found is this whole conversation in a way is useless you don't really see

00:03:53.860 women that are going to do only fans are going to do it regardless of what someone says to them on 0.98

00:04:01.340 a podcast or what media they really consume from my experience those women just tend to like sex 0.99

00:04:08.060 many of them come from two parent homes it's not this broken last resort they just genuinely enjoy 1.00

00:04:15.940 it whenever you've talked to someone that's actually had conversations with and dealt with

00:04:21.020 a lot of sex workers one of the things they'll tell you is that the background of these sex

00:04:27.220 workers will surprise you while some do have the stereotypical daddy issues many come from intact

00:04:34.480 families there's something in the women that are just a little bit off christian that just means i

00:04:41.000 believe that jesus died on the cross for my sins and i'm not a judgmental person like you get off

00:04:46.920 your high horse what makes you think that you're better than everyone else you are a sinner i never

00:04:51.200 said recently born again you can have your beliefs but don't attack other people that's up i don't 0.99

00:04:56.260 think i'm better than you i don't think i'm better than anybody i'm a sinner that should be damned

00:05:00.380 and so what a lot of these guys they come on the internet right and they think they're starting a

00:05:05.320 movement well we can start this movement and it's just going to change society it doesn't work like

00:05:12.740 that because biology precedes all so because the male sex drive is so strong and sex is a need for

00:05:20.220 men men will adapt and marry only fans models i'm not saying they should i'm not saying that i wish

00:05:26.500 it upon them but if you look at a lot of these young streamers coming up how many streamers do 0.88

00:05:34.300 we see dating only fans models it's already becoming more normal we're seeing it women

00:05:41.520 running for governors have done sex work so this is going to become more normal whether you like 0.66

00:05:49.120 it or not and regardless of your beliefs this is something that we should prepare for because

00:05:54.660 it's coming to hell and jesus rescued me from that and i'm grateful for that but i'm just as

00:05:59.720 good of a christian too jesus said if you truly love me you will work to keep my commands he also

00:06:03.980 said go and sin no more okay and we're called to be models and examples for other people we're

00:06:08.800 called to model christ do you think you're modeling christ by doing i don't see it so black and white

00:06:14.320 as you do if any young women yeah and the problem we get with guys like this is they come on these

00:06:20.100 shows and then it came out that he was like hooking up with one of the girls so it's like

00:06:25.640 okay you know um because again the male sex drive is so strong they have 10 times the amount of

00:06:34.540 testosterone we do so we as women will never really understand why men adapt the way they

00:06:42.200 do to the marketplace and it's just because their sex drive is so strong so um what this made me

00:06:50.820 start thinking about was what came first the media or the modern woman because again the phrase that 0.75

00:06:57.320 I keep hearing is that feminism brainwashed women and I used to think this made sense

00:07:03.140 until I thought a little bit more about it and I thought you know what I think that's a get out of 0.99

00:07:09.080 jail free card i think that's another excuse for women to not be treated as adults because you are 0.73

00:07:15.060 an adult you can vote for the commander-in-chief at 18 you are very you are capable of making a

00:07:20.800 decision um and i wanted to point out that in the early 2000s we have the same dynamic going on

00:07:34.100 in the show friends so for those of you that don't know friends is a sitcom that was in the

00:07:41.040 early 2000s it ran for about a decade and one of the one of the leads rachel um i'm actually

00:07:49.500 going to show you a picture of everyone i think most of you guys will know what it is but i'm

00:07:53.540 just going to show you a picture to make sure so um friends uh show

00:08:02.940 okay so

00:08:07.900 when you look at this stuff from a red pill perspective you kind of see you start to see

00:08:17.540 the shows in the early 2000s that you loved and are very funny like I'm not going to deny they're

00:08:22.860 very funny but you see them from a different lens so this is friends and you can show the picture

00:08:29.260 of them I'm kind of zooming in I know this isn't great but and it's about a group of friends in New

00:08:34.840 York I think they're in their 20s to 30s dating in the city relationships and just basically hanging

00:08:43.480 out in downtown New York and one of the women in the show is a girl named Rachel now Rachel

00:08:50.720 and Ross, which is this guy here, have a bit of a history. So they knew each other in high school

00:08:59.820 and this is it. And I want to show how a lot of men really do opt into their own destruction. I

00:09:12.400 do not get it, but again, the male sex drive is strong. So Ross is a dorky guy. Rachel's the 1.00

00:09:19.700 pretty prom queen type and this is a video um the friends in the city in their 20s and 30s are

00:09:26.660 reacting to a video of them from high school oh my god look there's roy gooblick you know roy saw

00:09:37.900 star wars 317 times his name was in the paper where's chip why isn't he here yet he'll be here

00:09:47.900 Okay, take a chill pill.

00:09:51.180 There. 0.98

00:09:57.560 I just told Rachel that Roy touched my boob.

00:10:02.980 I can't go to my own prom without a date.

00:10:05.340 I can't, it's too late.

00:10:07.620 If you're not going, then I don't want to go either.

00:10:10.300 No. 1.00

00:10:10.980 Oh, I'm going to kick Chip's ass. 1.00

00:10:14.860 I have a wonderful idea. 0.99

00:10:16.660 Okay, so now what makes a guy an alpha versus a beta in terms of the dynamic in the relationship?

00:10:26.020 It's not black and white, right?

00:10:28.760 Too much alpha lands men in prison.

00:10:31.940 So, for example, a guy that's in prison for murder or drugs, whatever, you could say definitely lived life on his own terms.

00:10:39.820 He didn't go to society for the way that he should live life.

00:10:42.920 He lived life the way that he wanted to.

00:10:45.000 and for some men that ends them up in jail it's not always a good thing but it's a guy that does

00:10:52.340 what he wants because he wants to that's one he's the leader of a group too and in a relationship

00:11:00.000 dynamic the woman has to fear him in some way so how can i tell a girl is with a beta right 1.00

00:11:06.760 because she does whatever the hell she wants she has her butt and her ass out on instagram 1.00

00:11:14.300 she is completely disrespectful to him in public and you can tell she has no fear in that 0.99

00:11:22.160 relationship because she doesn't think that he'll leave she doesn't think he has it in him

00:11:26.740 okay so you can tell the guy she's dating and I'm not saying it's good or bad but he's about

00:11:33.600 to stand her up meaning that woman cannot guilt him into doing anything if he doesn't want to come

00:11:38.720 he's not coming um okay you should take rachel to the prom

00:11:45.280 doubtful jack give me that talk to you son

00:11:50.880 your mother's right take her you could wear my tux

00:11:58.620 she won't want to go with me of course she would you're a college man

00:12:03.020 I don't know. Come on. Don't you want to find out?

00:12:08.020 I can't believe I don't get to go to my own prom. Is it so harsh?

00:12:14.020 Okay. Hold my board.

00:12:19.020 Attaboy. Attaboy.

00:12:21.020 Okay, you guys, you know, I think we've seen enough. Let's turn around.

00:12:24.020 No, no, no, no. Let's see you going.

00:12:25.020 Okay, fine. Well, I'm not gonna watch, all right?

00:12:28.020 Come on, kid. Let's go.

00:12:30.020 Hi, how are you, Ansel?

00:12:35.020 Let's show him.

00:12:36.020 Just a sec, Dad.

00:12:38.020 Actually, be cool.

00:12:40.020 Just be cool.

00:12:51.020 Okay, Dad.

00:12:52.020 Rachel, ready or not, here comes your night in shining.

00:12:56.020 Oh, no.

00:12:57.020 Bye!

00:12:59.020 okay so now she's going with her what her first choice so this is her first

00:13:05.280 choice and I don't understand it I've seen so many guys settle for being

00:13:12.320 women's second choice I don't get it at all but you know the male sex drive is

00:13:18.660 strong you know they re she rejects him there right and then throughout their early 20s they

00:13:31.000 they try to date and it doesn't really work out um so they're all friends like this is a clip of

00:13:38.240 about 50 million followers uh wait hold on guys i think did my premium turn off maybe

00:13:45.040 okay she's gonna really be needing these to keep an eye on that boyfriend who from what i hear

00:13:51.680 needs to keep his stapler in his so they're all friends she kind of friend zones him early 20s i

00:13:57.240 think they dated casually for a little bit didn't work out desk drawer if you know what i'm talking

00:14:01.960 about hey rach maybe your resolution should be to um gossip less well i don't gossip

00:14:08.800 well maybe sometimes i find out things or i hear something and i pass that information on

00:14:17.780 you know kind of like a public service it doesn't mean i'm a gossip i mean would you call okay we're

00:14:23.780 not gonna go this one i was just this clip was it's a funny clip if you guys want to look it up

00:14:29.000 but it's just to show the dynamic they're all friends rachel friend zones him and then rachel

00:14:34.480 dates around all of her early 20s okay so this is a list of all of Rachel's

00:14:41.760 boyfriends right I'm gonna put this on 2x just because it's very long I'm gonna

00:15:02.160 put 1.5. I'm sorry guys. I can't go to my own prom without a date. I can't. It's too late.

00:15:09.160 You're not going and I don't want to go either. No. Oh, I'm going to kick chip there.

00:15:13.300 Hi. Hey, listen, you have to help me pick a dress because I'm meeting my parents tonight.

00:15:19.840 Wow, the boyfriend's parents, that's a big step. Really? That hadn't occurred to me.

00:15:24.320 They're going to love you. Just be yourself. They live on the Upper East Side on Park Avenue.

00:15:28.240 Oh yeah, she can't be herself. Okay, so, all right, which dress?

00:15:32.160 you can say neither oh god neither I'm sorry honey we're gonna take you shopping it's gonna

00:15:41.440 be fine yeah totally you are in such good hands and I'm so good with meeting parents

00:15:44.720 with the father you know you want to flirt a little bit but not in a gross way just kind

00:15:48.280 of like oh mr. pincer I can see where Wallace gets his good looks you went out with Wallace

00:15:52.160 Spencer oh he took the SATs for me I knew you didn't get a 1400 Monica and Rachel's apartment

00:16:06.800 just one second Rachel it's your dad hi dad no no it's me listen dad I can't talk right now um

00:16:18.920 Um, but there's something, um, there's something that I've been meaning to tell you.

00:16:23.960 Excuse me for a second. 0.86

00:16:25.060 Remember back in freshman year, Will, Billy Dresden and I had sex on your bed. 0.97

00:16:32.380 Hey, Rach. 0.98

00:16:33.280 Hey.

00:16:34.360 How'd it go?

00:16:35.220 So remember, she said no to Ross, and then she's saying yes to all of these guys.

00:16:40.660 You know, it was, uh, it's actually really great.

00:16:43.920 Took me to lunch at the Russian tea room, and I had that chicken, you know, where you

00:16:46.820 poke it and all the butter squirts out.

00:16:48.480 Not a good date for birds.

00:16:50.280 And then we took a walk down to Bendel's,

00:16:51.920 and I told him not to,

00:16:52.920 but he got me a little bottle of Chanel.

00:16:55.540 That's nice.

00:16:56.640 Now, was that before or after you told him

00:16:58.800 to stop calling, stop sending you flowers,

00:17:00.320 and to generally leave you alone, hmm?

00:17:02.740 Right.

00:17:03.420 Well, we never actually got to that.

00:17:06.000 Oh, it was just so nice to see him again, you know?

00:17:07.680 It was comfortable, and it was familiar.

00:17:11.400 It's just nice.

00:17:12.760 That's nice twice.

00:17:15.640 Rachel, what's going on?

00:17:16.780 I mean, isn't this the same Barry who you left at the altar?

00:17:19.140 Duh. Where have you been?

00:17:21.740 Yeah, but it was different with him today.

00:17:23.280 I mean, and he wasn't, like, orthodontist guy, you know?

00:17:26.060 I mean, we had fun.

00:17:28.060 Is there anything wrong with that?

00:17:29.800 Yes.

00:17:31.780 Why?

00:17:32.320 I have my reasons.

00:17:35.740 Okay, how about the fact that he's engaged to another woman

00:17:38.140 who just happens to be your ex-best friend?

00:17:40.040 All right.

00:17:40.700 All right, all right, all right, all right. 1.00

00:17:41.620 I know it's stupid. 0.99

00:17:42.680 I'll go see him this afternoon, and I will just put an end to it. 1.00

00:17:45.620 Wow.

00:17:46.780 Everybody, this is Paolo. Paolo, I want you to meet my friends. This is Monica. Hi. And Joey. Hi. And Ross. Hi.

00:18:03.200 Ragazzi, sono appena arrivato, vivo al piano di sotto, quindi ci vedremo molto spesso.

00:18:07.080 He doesn't speak much English. 1.00

00:18:09.940 I'm just saying, if I see one more picture of Ed Begley Jr. in that stupid electric car, I'm gonna shoot myself. 1.00

00:18:16.780 okay Michael let's talk about you all right okay okay so you ever get a pet 1.00

00:18:26.680 with a girlfriend I mean it's a cat you know it's a cat they get one of those

00:18:35.320 bugs you know one of those fruit flies those things that live for like a day

00:18:38.400 or something really called yes so would you like any desserts no no

00:18:46.760 dessert just check here he is hi guys this is Ross Ross Ross Ross Ross are you

00:19:06.140 a friend of Rachel's yes yes I am are you a a friend of Rachel's actually I'm

00:19:11.360 uh kind of a you know a date type thing yeah I'm her date oh oh you're oh you're the day you know

00:19:25.760 this is actually good because if we ever lose Ross we have a spare you are the paleontologist yes

00:19:32.480 yes I am and you are a periodontist see they're as different as night and later

00:19:40.820 that night well I am going to get a beverage it was nice nice meeting you

00:19:46.800 did oh Rachel the cute doctors are here okay hi here we brought one I guess it's

00:19:58.280 from the sellers of Ernest and Tova Borgnine, so I will resist.

00:20:03.820 And guys, I've seen it so many times.

00:20:06.100 How do you have a female friend that rejects you

00:20:09.980 and then you watch her date all these guys 0.98

00:20:13.100 and then she convinces you that you're her first choice later?

00:20:17.520 I don't understand it.

00:20:20.040 She didn't change her mind.

00:20:22.280 Her options just sort of dried up for whatever reason.

00:20:26.760 you guys i don't understand women know so quickly if we like a guy or don't like i mean

00:20:33.940 two weeks tops i mean i could see maybe if something's a little awkward at first but come 1.00

00:20:40.360 on come on guys so monica has the ankle it's a

00:20:43.620 but there again there's a reason this resonated with so many people because this is a really 1.00

00:20:50.940 common relationship dynamic but before media and women really ruining our own reputation

00:20:58.160 it didn't really get out most men didn't really know they didn't know what was going on

00:21:03.740 but now dating apps media now you can see tell them after all it is your ankle you know what

00:21:12.920 it's feeling a lot better thank you um listen why don't you guys sit down and and we'll get

00:21:16.720 you some glasses okay okay all right let's go shopping um you know before we go uh there's

00:21:21.960 something i need to say oh okay i want to see how many because they're just going to go through

00:21:27.800 there's like uh ross at the end is 23 okay so you know she says no to him says yes to

00:21:38.160 22 other dudes or sorry 22 other men and somehow you know he's convinced that he's okay so not

00:21:50.740 only so this dynamic goes on throughout their entire 20s I think early 30s in the show

00:21:56.900 and so Rachel's dating all these guys and Ross does date a couple women throughout this process

00:22:03.940 until one time Ross and Rachel have a one-night stand and Ross actually gets Rachel pregnant

00:22:11.880 and even when she is pregnant with his child she still does not believe that Ross is the best that

00:22:19.360 she could do because if she believed that Ross was the best that she could do she would settle 0.97

00:22:24.420 down but even pregnant with his child she still is looking for other men better excuse for why

00:22:33.280 not drinking on this date tonight um i'm a recovering alcoholic i'm a mormon or i got

00:22:39.280 so hammered last night i'm still a little drunk hey so what do you want to do tonight there's a

00:22:47.680 ukrainian film at the angelica they're supposed to be very powerful and women the reason i point

00:22:52.720 this out is because this is what they're marketing to us they want to market dating all the hot

00:22:59.520 exciting guys when we're younger and putting a guy in our friend zone i'm going to show you this

00:23:04.800 is basically how how i met your mother it's the same dynamic every dynamic on tv that's what it

00:23:11.120 is now you could argue what came first the media marketing this or women wanting to do this you

00:23:17.760 guys know where i stand but um i just want to point out these are the dynamics that are going on

00:23:24.880 interested no no but I'll go see a normal person movie with you great you

00:23:30.780 want to come oh no I can't I got a date a date yeah why is that weird for you I

00:23:38.380 know it's the opposite of weird it's it's uh it's regular it's it's uh it's

00:23:43.700 mundane it's it's actually a little dull it's no Ukrainian film 0.69

00:23:51.060 And we have to ask the question, do we feel bad for Ross when he's opting into his own destruction? 0.80

00:24:04.200 If a woman chooses 20 men before you and then comes to you and says,

00:24:11.640 you're my best choice, you're actually the one I want. 0.99

00:24:17.440 Wouldn't you say he's a fool?

00:24:21.060 because you can say things but what do her actions show and so you guys know i have a lot of empathy 0.97

00:24:29.060 but sometimes i hear these stories and i say why do you opt into your own destruction so she's got

00:24:36.420 a date with so you're gonna give a woman let me get this straight you're gonna give a woman that

00:24:40.020 picked 20 guys before you you're gonna say you know what that's the best mother for my child 0.56

00:24:45.460 that is who I should give power in divorce court the woman that picked 20 other men before me

00:24:52.840 or even one even two and you know that's the question 0.83

00:24:58.860 that I would say that men should be asking is are you her first choice 0.66

00:25:06.440 or are you the bailout guy with who I set her up with this actor on my show you set her up

00:25:15.060 No.

00:25:18.740 Joey, what were you thinking?

00:25:20.440 I was thinking that it'd probably be okay

00:25:22.000 because Ross hasn't gone out with Rachel in five years.

00:25:25.340 I'm not worried about her, I'm worried about my baby.

00:25:28.440 Whoever she dates, my baby dates.

00:25:31.200 No, no, where is this actor taking them?

00:25:33.540 Hey, I'm an actor, too.

00:25:38.000 I'm not sure.

00:25:38.940 I think they're taking the ferry out to some Italian place on Staten Island.

00:25:41.960 A ferry? My baby's going on a ferry.

00:25:45.920 Do you have any idea how dangerous those are?

00:25:48.400 Aren't we talking about those big boats that carry cars?

00:25:50.920 They go, like, five miles an hour.

00:25:52.600 Why don't they just jump out of an airplane, huh?

00:25:54.540 That's a fun date. 0.52

00:25:55.580 Or burn each other with matches.

00:25:56.920 That's fun, too. 0.95

00:25:57.600 Whee!

00:26:02.520 Hey, Joey.

00:26:03.420 Hey, Cash.

00:26:04.200 Hey, this is Ross.

00:26:05.220 Ross, this is Cash.

00:26:05.960 Hey.

00:26:06.280 Hey, I hear you're going on a ferry tonight.

00:26:08.680 Yeah.

00:26:09.160 Yeah.

00:26:09.920 Bit of a daredevil, are we? 0.99

00:26:11.560 hey you guys you think this is too slutty hi cash hey Rachel you ready to go yeah okay so now she's 1.00

00:26:21.680 going on dates while pregnant the audacity and remember women love Rachel that tends to be

00:26:29.800 women's favorite character now at the end you know it's like this whole wait um wait okay let me

00:26:42.700 reload this page okay there's this whole dramatic scene for ross to finally after a decade or sorry

00:26:51.260 after at the end there's this dramatic scene for rachel after a decade to finally pick ross

00:26:58.220 so not only did she pick 20 men before him she got a opportunity in France I think it was

00:27:17.960 and she said I'm going to take this fashion opportunity over being with you

00:27:23.260 and the last minute she said nah you know what fine well we can get married

00:27:29.480 Ross hi it's me I just got back on the plane and I just feel awful that is so not how I wanted

00:27:44.820 things to end with us it's just that I wasn't expecting to see you and then all of a sudden

00:27:52.600 and you're there and saying these things and now i'm just sitting here and thinking

00:27:59.720 of all the stuff i should have said and i didn't i mean i didn't even get to tell you that i love you

00:28:05.960 too because of course i do i love you i love you and you guys fall for it every single time every

00:28:18.440 time yep Forrest Gump same ending same ending and the thing is a lot of times when women say this

00:28:38.680 they mean it or we think we mean it but again there's a difference between saying that when

00:28:44.920 you have a choice and when you're a single mother with his kid right you know that there is a bit

00:28:55.560 of a difference than saying that when you have a lot of choice or when you it didn't work out

00:29:02.100 with 20 other men and it's so interesting because men are so logical in every other area of their

00:29:29.000 life but with women we just have a way of talking men around everything I mean the plausible

00:29:37.900 deniability is through the roof that men fall for I mean they have you convinced that we take birth

00:29:43.940 control for acne really come on like let's miss you don't understand try to understand

00:29:51.940 oh come on miss isn't there any way that you can just let me off no no oh my god did

00:30:01.640 you get off the plane did you get off the plane i got off the plane 0.55

00:30:07.660 and there it is this is every sitcom every female sitcom is this it's the same story 0.99

00:30:23.580 would that work on you guys 1.00

00:30:53.420 one in the chat if that would work let me know one in the chat i mean she's pretty attractive 1.00

00:30:58.780 let me know two of two of two of you you could see through it one if it would work on you 0.97

00:31:04.940 let let me know this stuff again me neither okay we are we're done being stupid okay 0.98

00:31:12.140 it's you and me all right this is it this is it unless we're on a break 0.93

00:31:15.820 return of arms says one oh see this is what i mean i i just showed you the whole dynamic and

00:31:26.100 there's still some of you in the chat that say yeah that would work that would work on me

00:31:30.780 you guys cracked me up 0.97

00:31:34.900 did you say jennifer aniston is not attractive 0.99

00:31:45.300 okay show me show me who you're dating all right let me let me compare come on 1.00

00:31:51.740 jennifer aniston really don't make jokes now 1.00

00:31:55.320 okay so now this is going to segue into a more modern 0.99

00:32:13.640 dynamic that we see. So now in 2024, we don't really have sitcoms this popular anymore.

00:32:24.060 What has replaced it is influencers and social media stars. So about five years ago,

00:32:33.880 Now, Call Her Daddy was the biggest podcast in the U.S., and young women across the nation

00:32:42.760 watched this. Now, what is Call Her Daddy? It was a podcast that got famous for what they call

00:32:51.720 the Gluck Gluck 9,000. Now, basically, two young women who were living in New York City,

00:33:00.480 again it's the same concept were showing their dating escapades around new york city so this was

00:33:08.080 one of the hosts at the time alex cooper talking about how to give a gluck gluck

00:33:13.760 now i'm not going to play the whole thing because it's a little raunchy but i'm just 0.99

00:33:16.880 gonna play a little bit so you guys can see what i'm talking about the dick sucking was a grade c 0.99

00:33:23.520 d minus d average i'm going to tell anyone listening i can't describe it but there's 0.99

00:33:31.460 something called the cooper special and i know that's why you're about to start talking about 0.99

00:33:36.480 sucking dick cooper special you heard it here first dad talent talented okay so you want to 0.99

00:33:45.400 talk about blowjobs i will let's just do it let's get into the blowjob topic i would appreciate it 1.00

00:33:51.920 if the cooper special is put on hold and let's talk about the motherfucking gluck gluck 0.99

00:34:00.420 3000 slash 9000 boom sophia's face is like here you go alex you take this segment because i don't 0.95

00:34:08.620 know what the hell just came out of your mouth every man listening you may honestly think you

00:34:17.140 have no idea what this is you however i i pray to god you have experienced this but you just didn't

00:34:26.000 know how to name ladies listening let me just say i promise someone in the chat said do women really

00:34:33.500 enjoy these type of podcasts now we always hear that men are dogs but i want you guys to pay

00:34:41.300 attention to something. When movies are catered towards women, the media tends to be much more

00:34:50.100 sexual than if it's catered towards men. Now, two movies that I'm going to use as an example 0.62

00:34:57.160 is Transformers and James Bond. Both of those movies are catered towards men. Now, is there

00:35:05.040 an attractive woman in the movie yes of course there always will be some attractive blonde or 1.00

00:35:11.340 brunette with big boobs yes that will always be in the movie however that will never be the center 0.99

00:35:17.440 of a movie that is catered towards men it will the center of the movie will never be sex or the 0.99

00:35:23.260 relationship that's just the side but when a movie is catered towards women it is much more sexual

00:35:29.700 so take um 50 shades of gray that was a best-selling book for women and then a very popular movie

00:35:39.340 when media is catered towards women it actually tends to be much more sexual

00:35:47.740 in terms of a storyline i know there's corn but then when it's catered towards men focus is key

00:35:56.800 right now girls because this will change your sex life so a little birdie a male birdie told me and

00:36:03.660 i want to call him something because when i say a little male birdie this guy is maybe the most 0.67

00:36:09.920 experienced guy i know birdie no let's call him male ex male ex is the most well-versed man he 0.88

00:36:18.820 has had sex with every kind of girl every nationality every age he's doing milfs younger 0.99

00:36:24.840 girls older you name it he's done it so i trust his opinion because he he fucks okay hi so he 0.99

00:36:32.200 basically told me and girls i know you're all like alex what is it he claims and i quote the gluck 0.88

00:36:40.520 gluck three thousand nine thousand is every man's kryptonite now every guy okay so now she's gonna 0.98

00:36:50.440 to tell you how to give a blowjob blah blah blah so while she is um doing this podcast she would 0.99

00:36:59.040 do these blogs right and some of these blogs would be um you know give you an example so it says 0.98

00:37:07.640 partying in miami please i am currently packing for miami and new york my forehead looks extremely

00:37:17.940 large and shiny hello my boyfriend just happens to be making a movie in miami at the same time

00:37:23.920 as me having to do work in miami oh wait this is a more recent one hold on let me find a older one

00:37:28.680 but you know it's oh here we go those girls will pull a rihanna so again we have this shows the 1.00

00:37:39.440 privilege of women right these women get to live a life better than 99.5 percent of people 1.00

00:37:46.840 because they started a podcast just showing their life and talking about sex that's all they had to 0.94

00:37:54.900 do and then boom they get to live a better life than most people get to dream of

00:38:01.140 like a bunch of hyenas and leave you literally for dead

00:38:05.460 Do you call him daddy?

00:38:13.080 Do I call her daddy?

00:38:15.300 Call her daddy.

00:38:18.640 Okay, are you ready?

00:38:20.120 Yeah.

00:38:20.660 All right, let's get it poppin'.

00:38:22.780 Let's do this.

00:38:24.620 What's up, guys?

00:38:25.540 It's Alex.

00:38:26.340 And it's Sophia.

00:38:27.440 And we are the Call Her Daddy girls.

00:38:29.500 We've been working at Barstool for, I think, about a month now.

00:38:32.320 Yeah, and things have gone pretty great, guys.

00:38:33.960 you know us for our podcast and the podcast has been doing amazing it's killing it yes

00:38:38.520 with that said we are so psycho with our podcast oh my gosh we are such perfectionists we overthink

00:38:45.000 everything and we cry after every single recording how are we doing i don't know i feel like it's not

00:38:51.400 funny me either i think we're doing horrible i think this is our worst episode and has gotten

00:38:56.360 mad at me wait let's cut do you think that was the worst intro we've ever given i don't know i 0.98

00:39:02.920 don't know what the fuck just came out my mouth i don't know what i'm saying 0.98

00:39:08.120 let's uh let's transition well that may have been the worst podcast we ever recorded but 0.99

00:39:13.320 love you call her dotty that may have been the worst episode so again is this hard manual labor

00:39:22.440 is this a hard and i say this as a media personality okay i say this as immediate

00:39:27.640 personality is this a difficult job comparatively to men um I'm trying to find the one there's one

00:39:37.900 where she visits like I can't find it but some sort of imagine it says she's getting hit on by 1.00

00:39:47.940 my tit out so you know it's real hello okay your tits are like let's go I think we're getting 0.99

00:39:55.920 prostitute look i'm like hi what's up i'm about to get harassed and i'm all about it let's get that 1.00

00:40:03.160 okay so during this time she's hooking up with a bunch of guys and talking about it right 0.90

00:40:25.760 and so what is click up i gotta hold on and one of them being

00:40:34.000 logan paul so logan paul goes on his show to talk about his experience with alex oh you texted me

00:40:42.240 about this the bffs pod yeah saying that i can't believe i can't believe she said she said it she 0.99

00:40:50.560 She said she, uh, you know, sucked my pee-pee. 0.99

00:40:57.620 You can't say sexual things without sounding like a kid, huh? 1.00

00:41:00.180 I hate it. 0.82

00:41:01.220 Well, how am I supposed to say it?

00:41:02.440 Look, we hooked up.

00:41:03.480 Yeah. 1.00

00:41:04.120 Oh, fuck that. 1.00

00:41:04.980 She hooked up with me. 1.00

00:41:09.120 Hey, nah, so we hooked up, and I think I was in a conversation with Harry Jousey, like

00:41:15.840 a friend, right? 0.99

00:41:16.900 It's fucking Harry. 1.00

00:41:18.380 And I mentioned it to him. 0.99

00:41:19.660 like you know like i told i told a friend like yo this this happened this one time in new york a

00:41:23.660 year ago right and then like it got back to her somehow and she construed it as that i was like 0.99

00:41:31.900 running around town telling everyone that like oh you know alex cooper sucked my dick when like bro 0.99

00:41:38.540 that that's not me i got better to do not only that it's like i don't give a mind you it's dope 0.99

00:41:43.500 but okay so he's talking about his experience with her then in another episode um she's talking about

00:41:53.500 sleeping with a red sox player and remember guys this isn't

00:42:00.940 now look alex cooper isn't bad looking like she's cute right but this isn't model level of beauty 0.97

00:42:08.780 that you would think you would need to attain something like this and and again that's what 0.97

00:42:15.540 all these shows are selling you every single show that women love is about a girl that's about a six 0.87

00:42:21.640 landing the outcome of ending up with a guy that's an eight or higher after she had a ray

00:42:32.040 of experiences I wasn't really hearing from him and I had been in his bed the week earlier and

00:42:40.620 we were kind of just trying to lay the groundwork for the upcoming weekend and just trying to gauge

00:42:45.700 I was just trying to see like what was what were his plans but he was not biting and he was being

00:42:51.500 vague ladies we all have been there where you're like oh like what are you doing this weekend and

00:42:56.480 it's either like oh want to hang out on Saturday or if it's not that it's the opposite and there's

00:43:00.940 know in between of like yeah I don't know like uh I'll like I'll hit you up like I'll let you know

00:43:05.260 like oh you're never getting hit up just so you know if he doesn't give you a direct answer of

00:43:08.980 wanting to make plans with you he doesn't want to make plans with you I didn't know that at the time

00:43:12.180 so I was itching for a classic night out with him and I also knew he had an upcoming home game which

00:43:18.720 meant he always had plans when he had a home game this man was a partier who and you have to remember

00:43:24.340 when women's media goes viral, men, when they look at something on screen, they want to see

00:43:31.640 competence. They want to see somebody that is skilled at something. Women, it is not the same.

00:43:37.900 We have a tendency to want people that are relatable. So what happens is people that are 1.00

00:43:44.680 not that talented appeal to a female audience through relatability and they can go viral,

00:43:52.420 get a bunch of views and make millions of dollars without necessarily being talented

00:43:58.480 all under the guise of I am a woman and I am oppressed went out after every game win or lose 0.83

00:44:06.960 but sadly Red Sox man wasn't in the mood to hit the clubs with Lil Al and her friends after one 0.80

00:44:14.400 of his games okay so I all I was trying to show with this clip is that she's talking about sleeping 0.99

00:44:19.860 with the red sox player she's talking about blow jobs um here in this clip i found her talking about

00:44:28.820 threesomes what is it today these it's being weird okay here we go um thought for you about 0.65

00:44:41.380 threesomes oh yeah and foursomes yeah this is so strange okay i have been in relationships before

00:44:48.500 where i'm like i will never have a threesome with you i will never have a foursome with you get the

00:44:52.740 out of my face because i was just too much in the relationship too far down i'm at a weird place

00:44:58.020 right now and i've never in my life really thought about this i've had a threesome before

00:45:03.060 i've never had a foursome i enjoyed myself it was with a another girl um and then a guy but it was

00:45:11.540 he was kind of he's just like a pig so like i just was like uh it was like fun but it wasn't 0.72

00:45:16.820 anything like i need to do this again yeah then with this new guy he okay the pig that's the alpha 0.98

00:45:27.220 guy right to her anyways so sexual and we've had conversations about like it's the first real 0.98

00:45:34.020 relationship that i've been so like sexually pushing the limits like he pushes me to the

00:45:40.020 limits and he's like would like i want to do everything with you because it makes me even if

00:45:45.860 we do that's wild like you like whatever it is i it makes us closer so we've been talking

00:45:53.380 about possibly like while we're traveling because we're like we can't do it in your bed at home no

00:46:00.180 traveling or like in your neighborhood no you're like walking the dog you're like she looks kind

00:46:04.500 of cute like hey come on yeah like no so he travels a lot for work and we may be going to

00:46:11.060 like a different country together and he was like it could be hot like if we're like out one night

00:46:14.980 and we you go pick someone up and then like we bring them back and i've been thinking about it

00:46:19.620 it's early enough in the relationship that if it's ever going to happen it would have to be now

00:46:25.140 so that like i would have to see like did i like it or will it be a thing that if you do like it

00:46:30.820 do you think it would be part of your relationship like or like a holiday what he said is like if you

00:46:36.580 hated it he was like i'm down to do it with another guy or another girl it's down to you

00:46:40.020 like you pick the person he was like and i want you to pick them because it's more so i want you 0.86

00:46:44.740 to have sex with in this threesome that like i want you to be attracted to the guy and he was like 0.94

00:46:51.540 i or the girl i want you to pick it's not even for me because i will be more turned on if you 0.99

00:46:56.100 are having sex with this girl and having such like it's so hot like i don't even have to her 0.93

00:46:59.940 like whatever whatever you want it's all perspective and he's making you see things in 0.89

00:47:03.460 a new light because he's like and if we hate it we never have to do it again but it will be an

00:47:07.380 experience okay so yeah so this is all before meeting her current husband now the issue is we

00:47:15.060 live in a society that we tend to get away with everything so this is on the internet and you

00:47:24.900 would think no man would ever touch her with a 10-foot pole that's what you would think however

00:47:32.180 the male sex drive is powerful and men will always always always adapt you might think 0.76

00:47:42.000 no man would marry say a former corn star

00:47:46.380 guess what fellas let me google this riley riley reed husband there is always a guy that will do

00:47:59.260 it always look at now she's married riley reed got me oh you know what okay hold on there he is

00:48:10.640 i mean that's not an unattractive guy oh my goodness i'm right there that's not that's not

00:48:17.940 an ugly guy he's not ugly um yeah you can get away with pretty much you might think oh there's

00:48:27.600 always going to be consequences not really no sorry that's just 2024 this is the society we're

00:48:35.660 in so not only did she get married um she got 60 million dollars for this podcast um

00:48:44.860 let me look up alex cooper wedding

00:48:52.100 you know

00:48:57.600 now I want you guys to think about what when men want to hook up with a woman what do they do

00:49:07.200 they go out and approach women maybe they put up a dating app profile but they do not get laid 0.64

00:49:13.020 unless they go out and approach how do women hit on men what women tend to do is they put

00:49:21.500 themselves in environments to get hit on so women that like finance men might go to a golf course 1.00

00:49:28.260 Women that like party guys might go to a club. 1.00

00:49:31.660 Women that like pastors might go to a church. 1.00

00:49:37.140 Whatever it is at the top of that hierarchy, 1.00

00:49:40.700 women put themselves in environments to be hit on by men. 1.00

00:49:45.300 And in 2024, it's social media.

00:49:48.740 So what a lot of men don't realize is they're actually basically in open relationships

00:49:54.000 because what they have is their women marketing themselves like this.

00:50:01.380 This is their Instagram in skanky outfits where high-level men can message them.

00:50:11.260 And so they're essentially marketing themselves to other men

00:50:16.440 while being married or in a relationship.

00:50:18.360 and you know fresh and fit get a lot of um hate i guess for saying as men they want to be in open

00:50:28.060 relationships where they can sleep with whoever they want while still um being married or in a

00:50:33.940 relationship with a woman and they expect her to be loyal but most women are doing the exact same 0.61

00:50:39.900 thing where they're in an open relationship because they are still marketing themselves

00:50:44.020 to better options while being married or in a relationship and you can see it in 0.68

00:50:50.320 wait I lost the tab hold on in this video where she's celebrating her engagement while 0.98

00:50:58.760 being half naked okay time to call Alex Cooper a newlywed instead after months of teasing and

00:51:06.320 planning Alex Cooper officially ties the knot with her partner now again this is the stable guy right 0.97

00:51:12.760 This is the cleanup guy. And it's not necessarily, women tend to pick the cleanup guy around 27 to 1.00

00:51:20.560 35, let's say. And it's not necessarily that all men that are picked during this period are the

00:51:29.820 cleanup guy, but it's that you can just tell because typically, again, there's no fear in

00:51:41.020 the woman she's clearly not afraid to lose him because she's still marketing

00:51:45.700 herself off to other men while being in a relationship and again I think a lot

00:51:51.760 of men are problem solvers and just think you know what this is the hottest 0.98

00:51:55.900 woman that gives me the best sex and I don't it's more work than it's worth to 0.65

00:52:03.520 go find something better this is good enough but you have to ask yourself in a

00:52:08.260 way this is opting into his own destruction because if she is not afraid of him now what

00:52:16.580 is she going to do with the power of the state four years matt caplan on april 4th in a low-key

00:52:23.760 beachside wedding in riviera maya mexico the call her daddy host tells vogue in an article published

00:52:30.160 april 24th quote it was everything we wanted it to be it was emotional heartfelt and we tailored

00:52:36.620 it to exactly how he always envisioned it alex previously teased her big day with a wedding

00:52:42.220 themed lingerie shoot for kim kardashian's company skims but it seems she was a bit more covered up

00:52:47.740 for her actual ceremony the 29 year old podcast host wore a custom-made gown by designer danielle

00:52:53.980 frankel and when it came to planning the occasion it was a quote dream for her okay so you guys get

00:53:01.580 the idea now now why does that lead to the Spotify now why does that lead to call her

00:53:22.900 daddy having Kamala on in 2024 now if you guys don't know Kamala Harris is our vice president

00:53:33.440 and she's currently running for president of the United States and many people have asked and I

00:53:39.500 think it is a very valid question how on earth does a sex podcast get a sitting vice president

00:53:50.240 on the show? And the answer to that question is because a lot of women relate to Alex Cooper. 0.71

00:53:59.500 They relate to her. Women, we look at this woman, right? You can tell that she's not the best 0.90

00:54:07.940 interviewer. It's not like she's cultivated a very unique talent, but what she is, is she's relatable.

00:54:15.500 women do not care about skill or they don't have the tendency to care about skill they have the

00:54:21.420 tendency to care about relatability so now we have and i wanted to go back to like the 10 minute mark 0.98

00:54:33.340 well mommy they said they're gonna kick my ass let me get this off 2x 0.96

00:54:37.820 at which point my mother turned her head looked at me and had the biggest smile 1.00

00:54:50.860 had the biggest smile ever these women had very similar career cycles 0.68

00:54:57.180 who knows maybe alex cooper will run for office one day i don't say this to be cynical but if i 0.99

00:55:04.380 had to predict the future i think we're going to see more of this where we sell our sexuality young 0.99

00:55:13.900 and then many of these women are going to cycle into other areas um as kamala did into politics 1.00

00:55:22.460 you know she was a known 304 in the political scene and she was even known to be a side chick 1.00

00:55:29.340 of a married guy and now she's um gets to run for office without even getting elected 1.00

00:55:36.860 that was my mother

00:55:55.580 sitting across from you i think you know 1.00

00:55:59.340 as women we have to work 10 times harder we got to be smarter we got to play the game to even get

00:56:04.080 our foot in the door sometimes can you tell the daddy gang yeah when people tell you no

00:56:09.400 now this is an example of living in delusion I it I am appalled by that question 0.98

00:56:19.480 this is a woman who kick-started her career by giving blow job advice saying that women have

00:56:30.980 it harder what about the men in the oil rig what about the men in the coal mine what about the men

00:56:39.700 in construction those are 99 male fields and somehow a woman that has spent her 20s

00:56:48.700 partying in new york city and getting the privilege of getting paid to document it

00:56:55.340 and get 60 million dollars is going to cry about women having it harder this is appalling 0.95

00:57:07.180 this is ridiculous this is living in delusion when people look at you and doubt you 0.94

00:57:16.380 So I've been told that many times and through the course of my career, 0.98

00:57:21.380 I've been told, you know, at one point you're too young.

00:57:24.380 I've been told, Oh, nobody like you has ever done that before.

00:57:28.380 Oh, they're not ready for you.

00:57:30.380 Oh, and this is the one that kills me.

00:57:32.380 Oh, it's going to be a lot of hard work.

00:57:34.380 Right. As though we don't like hard work.

00:57:36.380 And here's my response.

00:57:40.380 I don't hear no.

00:57:42.380 And here's my response.

00:57:45.340 I don't hear no.

00:57:46.980 I don't hear no.

00:57:48.020 And I urge all the daddy gang, don't hear no.

00:57:54.520 Just don't hear it.

00:57:56.020 Throughout this election,

00:57:57.040 your identity has been called into question many times. 1.00

00:58:01.020 Your opponent has called you crazy, weak, fake, and dumb. 1.00

00:58:06.540 How does that affect you? 1.00

00:58:07.820 I think it's really important

00:58:08.900 not to let other people define you.

00:58:10.680 and usually those people who will attempt to do it don't know you i want to talk about before

00:58:16.420 your career in washington yes you mentioned you worked as a prosecutor specializing in sexual

00:58:21.600 assault cases and this is something obviously i touch on on my show i have so many women that

00:58:28.220 listen and i want to talk to you because i know you had a personal connection as to why you really

00:58:32.440 sought that out can you talk about what led you to taking on that career so when i was in high

00:58:38.320 school my best friend her name is wanda um i learned was being sexually assaulted by her stepfather

00:58:46.480 and you know i knew something was going on because she she didn't want to go home she you know she

00:58:51.840 just seemed sad and so she told me and i immediately said you have to come and stay with us i called my 1.00

00:58:59.120 mother who was at work yes she has to come stay with us and she did now for the women that are 0.53

00:59:04.080 watching I want to show you guys how politicians manipulate us. I actually don't like that word

00:59:10.760 because how we allow ourselves to be manipulated by politicians. What they do is before every

00:59:18.900 election season they tell us some sad story that has to do with SA, grape, or abortion to get us

00:59:27.080 to run to the polls instead of thinking about the issues that are actually important this election

00:59:33.340 season. So I don't go too into politics on this channel, but culture, relationships, and sex

00:59:44.720 absolutely affect every political season. It absolutely does because that's what's important

00:59:52.260 to women. If you look at our media, that's what we care about. We care about relationships, 1.00

00:59:55.880 relationships, sex. Those are the things that women read on. Politicians know that. So what 1.00

01:00:03.920 do they do? Every election season, they come in and say, you're not going to be able to get your

01:00:08.140 abortion. Somebody is going to grape or essay you because they know we love true crime or whatever.

01:00:15.700 They placate on what we consume as an audience in order to get us to run to the polls and not

01:00:24.600 pay attention to the important issues

01:00:27.140 that actually affect our day to day.

01:00:30.660 And I just, it upset me so that someone

01:00:39.000 where they should feel safe and protected

01:00:43.140 were being so horribly abused and violated, right?

01:00:48.380 And anyway, I decided at a young age,

01:00:51.320 I wanted to do the work of protecting

01:00:54.600 vulnerable people i mean look i was raised i'm the eldest of two daughters i was raised with

01:00:59.000 my mother saying since practically the day my sister was born you know look out for your

01:01:03.080 sister so maybe it started when i was two but um wanda and in her experience really um convinced

01:01:12.360 me and made me realize how this can happen and what we need to do to stand against it

01:01:19.880 can you because again like i have women write in being like i don't know who to tell i'm dming you

01:01:26.440 and i'm telling you because the shame and the terror and the where do i go from here and most

01:01:32.680 of the time it is the people that are closest to them that are doing this like it is what feelings

01:01:36.760 do you have and like what is the course of action in that moment that you take so the first thing

01:01:43.400 that I would say to anyone going through it is tell someone that you trust don't don't quietly

01:01:51.400 suffer you have done nothing wrong you have done nothing wrong and don't let anyone convince you

01:02:00.200 you have often the abuser will tell her that if she tells then something worse will happen

01:02:10.760 and that is usually wrong and know that there are people that want you to be safe and will

01:02:20.740 want to protect you but don't silently suffer and um and know that you have a right to live 1.00

01:02:30.500 in in a place where you feel safe and are actually safe um unfortunately i know that so many women

01:02:38.420 can relate to what we're talking about one in three women has experienced some form of sexual

01:02:42.340 abuse in their life that's exactly right now again if you're a woman and you're watching this channel

01:02:48.900 you know they want you to be a victim so what they're going to convince you what they do

01:02:55.620 is rape used to be the definition of rape or grape used to be forced sex they switched that

01:03:03.940 definition to sex without consent and when they broadened it it's to convince us that we're

01:03:11.300 victims and that any awkward sexual experience is an assault of some kind and that's what and

01:03:21.300 they put this in our institutions and even schools teach this stuff and the police system they back

01:03:27.540 it up and it's all in an attempt to get us to run to the polls because and paint us as

01:03:36.760 victims because there's power in victimhood and i feel like when we say that that number

01:03:43.220 can get lost because it's like one in three moment like this is happening this is real

01:03:46.560 this is happening right now but alex let me just say this also thank you for talking about

01:03:52.320 it because part of the issue is that people don't talk about it and i don't mean the survivors of

01:04:00.080 it i mean nobody does and the more that we let anything exist in the shadows the more likely it

01:04:10.000 is that people are suffering and suffering silently and we need to talk about it we have to talk about

01:04:16.640 it child sexual assault is something that affects far more people than the public discourse about it

01:04:24.800 acknowledges and it the more we talk about it the more we will address it and deal with it

01:04:31.760 the more we will be equipped to deal with it be it in terms of schools in terms of

01:04:38.240 the society at large right and to not stigmatize it i i agree i think like the power that we have

01:04:45.840 is through our voice over here like me trying to have a conversation any chance i can get the

01:04:50.800 amount of times i have conversations with women and then i have thousands of women reaching out 0.92

01:04:55.600 being like oh my god i just remembered something from watching this podcast episode and it brought

01:05:00.880 back the trauma but now i know i need to get help like years ago this wasn't even a conversation

01:05:08.240 again because years ago there wasn't as many resources to convince us that we're victims

01:05:14.240 that's what it is they expand the definition and throw everything under

01:05:20.340 essay everything to the point that men are afraid to approach women because

01:05:25.280 they don't want to be accused of it this is how insane it's gotten that's 0.80

01:05:30.480 exactly right and so when I talk about when I say stigmatize it what I mean is

01:05:33.560 stigmatize the survivor yeah we still have so far to go on the issues of child

01:05:38.240 sexual assault just like in a previous time the issue of domestic violence

01:05:44.240 people didn't talk about domestic violence and part of it was this really warped idea that well

01:05:50.960 what happens in the home is none of our business but if it happened on the street it would be our

01:05:57.840 business if we witnessed it on the street and so the point being that abuse of anyone

01:06:04.560 is something we should all take and again what they're doing is and women i just once you hear

01:06:12.720 this stuff, you will not unhear the pandering. What they do is abuse used to be one person

01:06:18.800 hitting the other unreciprocated. That's what it used to mean. Do you know what it means now?

01:06:24.520 They have expanded the definition to include things like emotional abuse, emotional abuse,

01:06:32.160 financial abuse, and all different types of abuse. And again, they do this

01:06:39.820 so that we have more victimhood status. Now, everyone can say, I was abused. And they know

01:06:48.260 that in the realm of women, we operate on attention as our currency. So when we operate 1.00

01:06:54.340 on having attention as our currency, and we can use the victimhood status for attention,

01:07:02.940 and it's a no wonder that Me Too was a thing.

01:07:06.740 It's no wonder because anybody could post it

01:07:10.340 and get victimhood points.

01:07:12.060 Seriously, as opposed to saying, it's not our business.

01:07:15.840 It's something that we have to agree should not happen

01:07:19.640 and whatever resources and whatever attention

01:07:22.500 we can put into reducing the likelihood

01:07:25.000 that it happens is worthwhile. 0.99

01:07:28.260 How do we make this country safer for women? 1.00

01:07:32.940 Now, this is what I call gaslighting. This is what I call what she's not asking is how 1.00

01:07:40.000 immigration has affected safety for all people. But what I don't hear from her is thanking the

01:07:49.280 men that protect us every day. If you have a dispute in your home, you can call the police.

01:07:56.720 you can walk alone at night in any major city really with relatively no problems i know it's

01:08:03.600 getting more dangerous nowadays but even if something bad happens we still have the option

01:08:08.860 to call the police and men will protect us we are a protected class and still every day they will

01:08:17.320 sell us victimhood none of us are doing the hard jobs in society that there are men literally

01:08:24.660 dying every day trying to get us oysters so we can eat in Alaska. And yet still the question is,

01:08:34.580 how can women be safe? Men are killing themselves at nine times the rate of women. And yet

01:08:41.100 we still have the tendency to make it all about us. And the politicians just buy into it or the

01:08:49.080 politicians realize that we are the biggest swing voters. So again, it's no wonder that we see so

01:09:00.600 many adult women in a state of perpetual child-like behavior because the politicians are 0.99

01:09:08.520 catering to us. The police force is catering to us. The media is catering to us. They give us 1.00

01:09:14.240 whatever we want. Corn stars get married. Sex podcast gets 60 million dollars. What do we not

01:09:23.340 have? If we want to have kids at 35, IVF still works the majority of the time. You can freeze 0.90

01:09:31.200 your eggs and still do it. They have extended fertility by a decade. What more do we need? We

01:09:37.340 have contraceptives that have a 99 percent rate of not getting pregnant you can get an iud

01:09:45.820 and you will be fine you can use there's so many options and yet still we talk about how do we

01:09:52.300 make it better for women and i'm getting tired guys i am so tired of this that that's a big

01:10:01.020 question there's a lot to unpack there i mean one of the things for example on domestic violence

01:10:06.300 that I can tell you is this. When a woman, and in particular if she has children,

01:10:14.300 if she is economically reliant on her abuser, she's less likely to leave. 1.00

01:10:21.580 Because most women will endure whatever personal physical pain they must 1.00

01:10:28.540 in order to make sure their kids have a roof over their head or food. 1.00

01:10:31.740 so one of the ways that we know that women are able to walk away 1.00

01:10:38.520 from abuse and there are many layers to her being able to do that but one of them is 1.00

01:10:43.860 does she have the economic freedom to be able to do that right 0.99

01:10:48.180 in 2024 you can work off of your laptop we can go turn on a camera and make millions of dollars 0.90

01:10:59.820 running a podcast. We can go get a tech job where you do virtually nothing. We can go work at the

01:11:07.640 oil rigs just like the men. We can go become police officers. We have the ability to do

01:11:17.420 all of these different jobs and yet we still complain. Why? Why? So one of the ways that we

01:11:26.960 know we can uplift the ability of women to have choices

01:11:31.200 is uplift the ability of women to have

01:11:35.440 economic health and well-being i'm going to get more into that later but

01:11:39.680 um about you know how we can make that possible but i do want to reference

01:11:45.040 something i saw was at a rally in pennsylvania

01:11:48.560 former president trump recently told women

01:11:51.520 you will be protected and i will be your protector

01:11:56.960 What do you make of that?

01:12:00.140 So he who, when he was president,

01:12:03.160 hand-selected three members of the United States Supreme Court

01:12:06.160 with the intention that they would undo the protections of Roe v. Wade.

01:12:10.020 And they did just as he intended.

01:12:12.320 And there are now 20 states with Trump abortion bans,

01:12:16.600 including bans that make no exception for rape or incest,

01:12:20.460 which we just discussed,

01:12:21.940 which means that you're telling a survivor of a crime of a violation to their body they don't

01:12:28.260 have a right to make a decision about what happened so 99.5 percent of all abortions are

01:12:35.360 elected rape and incest is not a primary reason for abortions so what i would like to say to the

01:12:43.660 maybe two women that are watching this is they sell these stories to us to try to make us run 0.97

01:12:50.760 to the polls. That's always what they do. It's always some terrible, awful scenario that's going 1.00

01:12:57.700 to happen if you don't vote for our party. ...to their body next, which is immoral. So

01:13:05.600 this is the same guy that is now saying that. This is the same guy who said that women should 0.99

01:13:13.300 be punished for having abortions this is the same guy who uses the kind of language he does to

01:13:21.220 describe women so yeah there you go i do want to focus on abortion for a moment because two years

01:13:30.820 ago roe v wade was overturned and women lost their constitutional right to an abortion i put out an

01:13:36.180 episode about it i flew to north carolina i went to a preferred women's health center i met with women

01:13:43.300 All you. I get a little frustrated because these are adult women. I mean, this woman's older than 1.00

01:13:54.280 me. And you know that we have plan B. You know that we have IUDs. You know that we have pills

01:14:03.500 that we can take every day. You know there's some shot they can put in your arm that you can take

01:14:08.100 to prevent a pregnancy. We have condoms. We have so many different forms of contraceptives.

01:14:17.840 And even if you're in a state where abortion is limited, you can still drive to another state

01:14:23.260 and get an abortion. Yet we still want to be victims. An option is to be more responsible

01:14:31.780 with who you have sex with or more responsible with when you have sex you can only get pregnant 0.62

01:14:38.580 like three days a month or it's very unlikely otherwise so you can track your cycle there's

01:14:44.940 so many options and yet we still have the ability to play victim that we're getting screamed at

01:14:54.580 and chanted at and called baby killers and it was the most eye-opening experience i've ever had

01:15:01.640 because I am a privileged white woman that lives in Los Angeles, and I am so aware of that.

01:15:06.800 I understand that a lot of the younger generation sees things online and is like, what is right,

01:15:12.520 what is wrong, what is real, what is not. Can you explain and talk about what is actually

01:15:18.520 happening to abortion access right now in this country? Yeah. So again, I thank you for what

01:15:25.300 you've been doing and at the earliest stage of this and following the stories. So, you know,

01:15:31.320 Well, on public policy, I often tell my team,

01:15:35.120 look, I don't want to hear about public policy,

01:15:38.680 is a fancy kind of speech or paper.

01:15:43.160 Tell me how it'll affect a real person.

01:15:44.880 So let's talk about how it affects a real person. 1.00

01:15:47.320 The majority of women who receive abortion care are mothers.

01:15:51.520 So if she's in a state, and by the way, 0.77

01:15:54.080 every state in the South, except for Virginia, 1.00

01:15:59.480 has an abortion ban. 1.00

01:16:01.320 okay um so imagine she's in a state with an abortion one out of three women are by the way 1.00

01:16:08.520 in our country and she's a mom so she's gonna have to figure out one god help her if she has 1.00

01:16:17.080 affordable child care god help her if she has paid leave and then she's gonna have to 1.00

01:16:23.960 to go to the airport, stand in a TSA line, sit on a plane next to a perfect stranger, 0.77

01:16:34.680 to go to a city where she's never been, to receive the care she needs, she's going to 0.99

01:16:41.280 probably have to get right back on that plane because she's got those kids. 0.95

01:16:45.880 Her best friend's probably not with her because that's who's taking care of the kids.

01:16:51.260 get back in that TSA line to get back on a plane to go home and again they're doing it again I am

01:17:00.780 a victim that is what she's selling you are a victim and you will not be able to abort your kid

01:17:08.620 if Trump is elected that's what they're selling us it's interesting because the same people that

01:17:16.300 talk about empowering women never talk about all the options that we have and are empowered to take

01:17:23.500 if we so choose that this whole situation could be prevented from the beginning and that's all 0.92

01:17:31.020 if they can even afford the plane exactly or the bus exactly exactly because when roe v wade was 1.00

01:17:39.100 was overturned i remember my dms were flooded with thousands of women begging me to help and

01:17:46.960 it's overwhelming and i can't even imagine i'm saying that in front of you but it's overwhelming

01:17:52.000 and i remember people begging me like i just need to afford a bus ticket so i can get out of this

01:17:57.580 abortion desert that i live in in the south so i can get to a state but they can't even you know

01:18:03.060 what i mean so it's like these people are literally landlocked into a position that they don't want

01:18:08.920 to be. And here's the thing. Here's the thing is that you don't have to abandon your faith

01:18:15.580 or deeply held beliefs to agree. The government shouldn't be telling her what to do. If she

01:18:21.160 chooses, she'll talk to her priest, her pastor, her rabbi, her imam, but not the government

01:18:26.320 telling you what to do. And that's what's so outrageous about it is a bunch of these guys

01:18:31.120 up in these state capitals are writing these decisions because they somehow have decided

01:18:38.380 that they're in a better position to tell you what's in your best interest than you are to

01:18:42.540 know what's in your own best interest it's outrageous it's outrageous i mean daddy gang

01:18:47.500 to put it in um our tick tock terms um i have seen girls on the street walk up to men and be like

01:18:54.540 do you know where a tampon goes do you know how many tampons we use do you even know how like do 0.99

01:19:00.700 you know what a x or y or z is of a part of our and they don't know the answer i was the first

01:19:07.740 vice president or president to ever in office go to a reproductive health care clinic ever

01:19:16.620 really yes yes yes i didn't know that but i guess that makes sense to your point and yet the men

01:19:23.980 are making the decisions and what's so interesting is what they don't talk about is

01:19:31.900 is that men have conscription or men um if men now it hasn't been used in years right

01:19:44.020 but if the government decides that a war has broken out and it's bad enough men can still

01:19:51.360 be put in the military right or they have no choice and there was a veteran um let me see 0.98

01:19:58.740 if I can find it, actually, who responded to this, to them basically saying that women,

01:20:07.660 actually, I'm going to keep going because they ask a question that's more pointed.

01:20:10.280 Hold on, guys.

01:20:10.860 Here's the other thing about this point, that it's about IVF treatments and access.

01:20:15.700 It's about access to contraception, which is very much at risk with these folks.

01:20:21.120 It is about, back to the point about reproductive health clinics, you know what those clinics

01:20:25.080 also do? 0.99

01:20:25.880 They do PAPs.

01:20:26.820 they do breast cancer screenings they do HIV testing so this is the same thing 0.62

01:20:33.420 plausible deniability no no no no it's not abortion it's the paps it's the 0.98

01:20:39.420 testing how dumb do they think we are this is what the same way I think how 0.99

01:20:48.500 dumb is Ross to accept that deal I think the same thing when we listen to this 0.99

01:20:53.100 stuff you're telling me an abortion clinic yes they have other services but let's be honest the 0.99

01:21:02.040 main service that they are selling at places like Planned Parenthood is abortion there have been

01:21:08.080 whistleblowers that have come out and said this and they're having to close in many places with

01:21:14.960 these bans so think about the fact that for anyone who has gone to one of these clinics you understand

01:21:20.640 that it is sometimes the most trusted place

01:21:24.840 where people receive that kind of health care

01:21:27.180 because they walk into those places

01:21:28.760 that are generally staffed by people

01:21:31.200 who create a safe place for people

01:21:34.240 to come in without judgment. 0.98

01:21:36.600 So anyone seeking any kind of reproductive health care 1.00

01:21:40.040 and wanting to go to a place

01:21:42.620 where they feel safe and without judgment,

01:21:44.600 these clinics have often been the place

01:21:46.160 that people can go.

01:21:47.860 And many of them are having to close

01:21:50.220 because of these laws i was raised catholic and abortion is a sin and when i put out that episode

01:21:58.780 i had a lot of women reach out to me saying like wow i i you know live in the south and i never

01:22:03.640 thought about it that way like maybe i am pro-choice because i won't get an abortion because

01:22:08.940 of my religion right why should we control what someone else wants and that's exactly and you know

01:22:13.420 it's interesting alex to your point what i'm finding as i travel people who before two years

01:22:19.700 ago before Roe v. Wade was overturned, people who felt very strong about that they are anti-abortion

01:22:27.920 anti-abortion are now seeing what's happening and saying, hmm, I didn't intend for all this

01:22:35.760 to happen. And I think that's also why in state after state, so-called red states and

01:22:43.040 so-called blue states, when this issue has been on the ballot, the American people are

01:22:47.420 voting for freedom because ultimately it's about look this is not about imposing my thoughts on

01:22:53.840 you in terms of what you do with your life or your body it's it's actually quite the opposite

01:22:58.320 it's saying the government shouldn't be telling people what to do i think that unfortunately we

01:23:05.860 have these these real life names we have these horrific moments that these people are losing

01:23:12.540 their lives right we have a woman named amber thurman who died in georgia because the abortion

01:23:18.620 bans in that state the doctors were too afraid to treat her do you guys believe that i mean

01:23:27.420 someone will have to send me the story but come on every election cycle they find

01:23:32.940 some sob story to scare us into the polls. And there has to be a point where we realize that

01:23:43.040 other issues are more important this election season. But I think that's all I'm going to react

01:23:49.900 to from this podcast today. It's interesting because I was scripting the show for the Friends

01:23:56.560 episode and when this podcast came out that was my first thought is that these are two examples of 0.99

01:24:04.400 feminism really you would think that we fought so hard not to sell sexuality yet the woman in the 1.00

01:24:17.960 highest office got to where she is by sleeping with a lot of high-level men and the woman that 1.00

01:24:26.320 is worth $60 million, probably one of the richest women in the United States, got there by selling 1.00

01:24:33.240 her sex stories on a podcast. And a lot of times people have this revenge fantasy where they think 1.00

01:24:40.900 that there will be consequences for these decisions. And I'm here to say after my experience

01:24:47.680 interviewing people and just watching how their lives play out in the long run, a lot of people

01:24:53.600 have no consequences riley reed still got married this woman's worth 60 million dollars um and that

01:25:01.360 just is what it is so if you are waiting for a revenge fantasy i really wouldn't but let me know

01:25:06.480 what you guys think in the comments like the video and on the audacity website right now i'm going to

01:25:12.000 tell you guys about my marathon so that's only live on the audacity network i'm going to answer

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What Came First？ MODERN WOMEN Or The MEDIA？｜ Pearl Daily

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Pearl - October 07, 2024

What Came First？ MODERN WOMEN Or The MEDIA？ ｜ Pearl Daily

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What Came First？ MODERN WOMEN Or The MEDIA？｜ Pearl Daily