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00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to the audacity network and welcome to

00:00:11.520 another episode of pearl daily i am your host pearl and today we are going to be talking about

00:00:18.120 brett cooper leaving the daily wire so as you guys know um i talk about the daily wire a lot

00:00:24.440 on this show. And last year, Candace Owens was let go from the Daily Wire because they had a 0.95

00:00:30.460 difference of opinion. Now, Candace Owens said some things that were maybe more pro-Palestine.

00:00:36.480 The Daily Wire is more pro-Israel. And so because they had a conflict of opinion,

00:00:42.540 they ended up letting Candace Owens go. Now, when Candace Owens left the Daily Wire,

00:00:46.500 it was a huge spectacle. I think there were lawsuits that came out of this.

00:00:51.380 it was a very dramatic exit right there at one point there was going to be a debate between the

00:00:58.820 two and I see this often with women in media right they go into an organization and either 1.00

00:01:07.720 they file sexual harassment claims or they kind of take the whole organization down with them

00:01:13.500 and what I really respected now that that Brett Cooper has announced she is leaving the Daily

00:01:18.740 wire is that she was very respectful in the way that she handled it i thought it was very classy

00:01:24.900 um as you guys know i do think brett cooper's a little bit gynocentric but overall her takes

00:01:30.660 remind me of maybe some of my like she reminds me of me a couple of years ago and um i think she's

00:01:38.980 got a good show like i think she's good at her job so i wanted to show you guys the um

00:01:45.060 um farewell like video that she did some of you have heard the rumors online and the rumors are

00:01:52.140 mostly true today December 10th will be my last day hosting the comment section and working for

00:01:57.000 the Daily Wire it is not true that I am being forced out it was my own choice to leave and

00:02:01.620 believe me this is bittersweet I have had the most unbelievable three years helping to craft

00:02:06.600 the show building this community and telling stories and sharing the truth every day through

00:02:10.920 comment section, you all have made me braver, more articulate, more thoughtful, more hopeful than I

00:02:15.900 could have ever imagined. And I'm grateful that we spent this time together. And I'm grateful that

00:02:20.140 The Daily Wire gave us a platform to grow this community. But at this point in my life, I am

00:02:24.140 ready to take on a new direction, both personally and professionally. This means new challenges and

00:02:28.440 new endeavors, which I will share with you soon. As for this show, the comment section will continue

00:02:32.960 with The Daily Wire. My producer, Regan, is taking over as host of The Comment section,

00:02:36.740 and I wish her and The Daily Wire all the best.

00:02:38.960 We have had three great years

00:02:41.100 and I am proud of what we've accomplished together.

00:02:42.980 Leaving this show and the platforms that we've built

00:02:45.040 is hard, but I'm very excited for what's to come.

00:02:48.120 Knowing that we have brought so many people together

00:02:50.060 in laughter over these last three years

00:02:51.760 means the world to me.

00:02:52.660 I adore, I appreciate all of you,

00:02:54.640 so let's chat again soon.

00:02:56.020 But in the meantime, go touch some grass,

00:02:58.780 kick some rocks, and we'll catch up shortly.

00:03:01.140 And now for some final thoughts

00:03:03.040 from the God King himself, Jeremy Boring.

00:03:05.320 bittersweet indeed we're sad to see brett go but we're excited to see her take the next step in her

00:03:11.240 journey that's an amazing talent both as a personality and as an one note i want to make

00:03:17.480 is it doesn't seem like female talents are panning out for networks because the you know much like 1.00

00:03:25.800 our voting blocks men seem to be more consistent and stay where the women have a tendency to leave 0.94

00:03:32.920 i noticed amala left brett cooper's now leaving candace owens left not a dig right it's not right

00:03:38.520 or wrong um but it's interesting to see this trend sort of happen in media an actress it's been a

00:03:45.560 pleasure to see her bring the comment section to life these last three years and her performance

00:03:49.480 in the pin dragon cycle is sensational i'm certain that whatever brett creates next will be filled

00:03:54.600 with the same joy and laughter and heart that she's brought to all of her work at the daily

00:03:58.840 wire we wish her nothing but the best so my friends while i have you here i thought we could

00:04:05.080 run it back one last time with the comment section so it's interesting because there's a lot of

00:04:09.560 speculation online so online they're saying maybe she was forced out because she had a difference

00:04:15.560 of opinion with jeremy um other people are saying that it was like you know that's what they're

00:04:22.120 saying on paper it was peaceful but you know being in media you do sign ndas and i don't think it's

00:04:29.320 right to disparage former employers just because you have a difference in opinion on a topic like

00:04:35.720 i didn't really like the way candace owens did it i just thought that it was very 0.97

00:04:40.680 like trash you know it's kind of trashy to go out get into a lawsuit uh shout christ is king

00:04:47.800 um as a way to attack them i mean we all kind of knew what she was doing there right so i do 0.83

00:04:54.760 respect brett a lot for this decision i like the way that she went about it i think it's very

00:04:59.720 classy it'll be interesting to see what she does on her own one theory i have is maybe she she just 1.00

00:05:06.280 got married so maybe she's walking the walk which we don't really see much in media right 0.98

00:05:11.960 right maybe she's actually going to be a mom and quit the media stuff I don't know so we'll see 1.00

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00:07:31.520 okay so the next story that we're going to cover

00:07:36.460 is a woman I saw on TikTok that was a literal prostitute at 68 years old so as you guys know 0.99

00:07:50.200 we are going to see a crazy surge in selling sex relationships are going to become 0.66

00:07:57.740 incredibly transactional in the next decade. And I saw a TikTok of a woman who was literally 1.00

00:08:05.360 selling sex at 68 years old. Let me pull it up.

00:08:14.380 I'm 68 now. Your life ain't over, girl. Your life ain't over. How long you want me to do it?

00:08:21.900 Good God. 68. There's nobody. They already teasing me. I'm the oldest in Tucson.

00:08:26.880 nobody's teasing me okay that's old so you're gonna how long are you gonna do this just till

00:08:35.080 you can't walk anymore just like as long as you need to i'll have to slow down in the future but

00:08:41.460 you know i can't just just keep doing it yeah so queenie right i came from florida and um

00:08:48.920 How long have you been out here?

00:08:50.920 All summer.

00:08:52.920 Okay.

00:08:54.920 And I came to look for an Indian husband.

00:08:58.920 And I get a little $800 check every month.

00:09:02.920 Social Security.

00:09:03.920 But that's all it's given me is $800.

00:09:05.920 So I still have to come out and try to work a little bit.

00:09:09.920 $800 a month and $90 in food stamps is not much to live off of.

00:09:15.920 So I come on and I pick up a few dates.

00:09:19.260 Now, the most interesting man that I met

00:09:22.160 was a middle-aged white man.

00:09:24.020 He was about 60.

00:09:26.840 And we went to his house, and he paid me $100.

00:09:30.040 And we watched Disney Borden on television.

00:09:32.940 And I gave him a nice job.

00:09:35.200 That was one of the exciting adventures.

00:09:37.600 There you go.

00:09:38.780 And then.

00:09:40.420 Did you say Disney Borden?

00:09:41.840 Huh?

00:09:42.220 Did you say Disney Borden?

00:09:43.480 no lizzie borton lizzie borton oh lizzie board okay i don't know what that is is that like

00:09:49.640 an actress oh well she was um lizzie borton she lived around um the 1890s okay but i was i was

00:09:56.920 i'm 21 years old and there was no money in atlanta georgia well um i i had a hard time getting jobs

00:10:05.480 because all I have was an eighth grade education.

00:10:09.480 So that's why I started

00:10:12.480 shooting. Do you like it? Like you actually like it?

00:10:15.480 Or you like the money?

00:10:20.480 I like the money.

00:10:21.480 Well, in those days I wore

00:10:26.480 $100 dresses every day. And that was like $200 a day.

00:10:30.480 Yeah. And I lived in motels.

00:10:33.480 hotels and it was it was really it wasn't really um grand but it was okay

00:10:45.240 I survived I didn't ask my relatives for nothing me my relatives we did not get along we did not

00:10:50.680 like each other okay I was a too they didn't like that no and they did not like it so um I just um

00:11:00.520 So how's things been in Tucson?

00:11:04.100 It's been okay.

00:11:06.020 Did you work all night or you just come out in the morning?

00:11:08.280 Just come out.

00:11:09.300 Yeah, yeah, it's crazy overnight, so be careful.

00:11:11.840 Yeah.

00:11:12.120 You dress really nice, by the way.

00:11:13.760 Oh, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.

00:11:15.640 So what's been the scariest experience you've had since you've been out here?

00:11:20.940 Well, I would say a quarter of the cars I get into are scary

00:11:26.420 because you'll never know what's going to happen the next.

00:11:28.820 And some of them act like they, some of them, well, some of them, if you don't give them

00:11:36.940 what they want for $10 or $5, they'll leave you there, leave you where they picked you

00:11:43.260 up at.

00:11:44.260 Yeah.

00:11:45.260 I mean, leave you on a back road someplace.

00:11:46.260 Yeah.

00:11:47.260 Stranded.

00:11:48.260 And I don't like to do $5 and $10 dates, okay?

00:11:53.940 I feel like it's degrading.

00:11:56.180 know some of these girls do things for appeal the blues yeah I don't do things for appeal I don't 1.00

00:12:01.920 do that I think it's degrading so when you when you get paid does that go to like hotels and food

00:12:09.140 and just regular stuff that's right yeah yeah that's good that's good now in Florida

00:12:16.820 what's been the best experience since you've been doing this life the best one yeah the best

00:12:21.580 experience well that night when that man took me to his house and gave me a hundred dollars and

00:12:26.060 we watched this important that was a nice experience yeah and then after that he just

00:12:29.980 dropped you off that's right yeah got you so do you have to make like a certain amount a day

00:12:36.060 well i try to at least at least make a a hundred yeah yeah yeah have you ever had to defend yourself

00:12:43.820 out here no because this seems like a scary job scary job what i liked about this video it's

00:12:53.500 obviously gross right prostitution you but what i liked about this video is it's very raw real and

00:13:00.140 it's not performative you can always tell after like say after nala converted you know she's going 0.67

00:13:06.940 on these podcasts she's making it this whole spectacle making it this whole show and that's

00:13:12.060 what I see when a lot of the OF models or prostitutes come out and just start crying later 1.00

00:13:18.460 you know to a lot of them it's either a job or they get off on it it's they either do it for 0.85

00:13:24.780 attention they maybe they like having sex with a lot of guys or it is just easier than working

00:13:33.260 and you know I think the more psychology that we put into this and project onto them

00:13:39.820 the worse off people are going to be. Because in my opinion, you have to let people

00:13:45.980 suffer the consequences of their choices and deal with them. It's not helpful to people to

00:13:54.140 not let them accept the consequences for the choices that they made.

00:13:59.260 Okay, so the next story that we're going to cover is yesterday I covered the story of a man that

00:14:05.580 committed suicide in India. And this was a man who left a hour and a half long video and a 20

00:14:13.660 plus page suicide note detailing some of the abuse he received from the court system in India.

00:14:20.860 Now I had a lot of questions that I had unanswered because on paper India looks a lot better than the 1.00

00:14:26.860 United States and many other countries in terms of the court system. The reason being is that

00:14:33.820 if you look at the divorce rate it seems like it's a lot lower than other parts of the world

00:14:38.300 so i really wanted to bring on somebody that was from india and that could tell me a little bit

00:14:43.100 more about some of the things that are going on in india is she on yeah oh she's not yet okay

00:14:51.500 oh oh dang she's not okay okay well you know she's gonna be on in a second let me message her to come 0.98

00:14:57.420 on come on now

00:15:02.860 all right let me check the chat and then we can go back to her otherwise we may move on to the next

00:15:08.140 story okay Charles says Nala's Nala's future and where the OF women are headed for hells and bells 1.00

00:15:15.660 with their newfound feminist freedoms but for this for the sympademic and the simps who will buy into 1.00

00:15:21.420 their BS that one that was more than sad Rob said none of it's real it's all a high

00:15:28.540 yeah the way i view this stuff and by the way guys if you have a comment i do read it um

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00:16:06.880 hello how are you hi paul i'm good i'm sorry i have a really bad throat but i hope you'll be

00:16:16.360 able to hear me no you're fine welcome to the show thank you so much for getting me here um

00:16:22.140 I'm sorry. Could you introduce yourself and maybe like your role in what you do in India?

00:16:29.340 Okay. Hi, everyone. My name is Deepika Narayan Bhartwaj. I'm a documentary filmmaker predominantly,

00:16:35.740 but for the last 12 years, I've been focusing my work on men's issues in India. I've produced

00:16:42.700 and directed two documentary films on misuse of women-centric laws in the country. One was on 1.00

00:16:50.380 misuse of dowry laws and another one which was called martyrs of marriage it was on netflix

00:16:56.540 from 2018 to 2020 and there's another documentary that i've done which is called india's sons

00:17:03.820 which is on victims of false rape cases who were eventually proven innocent so i bring these

00:17:11.180 stories out where men are the victims at the hands of women daily suicides false accusations

00:17:19.020 domestic violence spousal murders adultery everything okay so it's interesting because

00:17:27.820 for a period of time i used to think that these things didn't really happen in india

00:17:32.860 because on paper if we google your divorce rates they seem much lower than the west

00:17:38.940 so could you tell me maybe a little bit more of how long these issues have been going on

00:17:44.220 and maybe some of like the legal framework that caused them in india uh so um as far as i can um

00:17:54.300 remember um almost in night late 1990s the kind of there was kind of a very vocal voice that

00:18:02.780 started coming out that men are being becoming victims of false accusations in india uh this

00:18:09.340 very problematic law, which is called the anti-dowry law, which is also something that

00:18:14.840 is discussed in the suicide of this gentleman called Atul Subhash, which you have spoken

00:18:19.880 about. It's called IPC 498A. It was brought in 1983. So essentially to protect women from

00:18:27.620 domestic violence and cruelty at the hands of their husbands, particularly in context

00:18:33.100 of demand of dowry which is kind of a phenomena which only happens in india um where a bride and

00:18:40.620 her family has to pay uh as per the demands of the husband and it's called dowry and there were a lot 0.93

00:18:46.380 of cases where women are the women were killed women were beaten up uh for these demands and 1.00

00:18:53.020 that's why there was a need for a provision to actually control this and so in 1983 this law

00:18:59.580 came about but within few years any dispute any marital dispute sort of started um um turning

00:19:08.780 into the allegations of dowry and the 498 being filed on the husband and what's peculiar about

00:19:14.700 this law pearl is that while predominantly a lot of this these cases are now matrimonial disputes

00:19:22.460 where whether it's incompatibility or it's extramarital affair

00:19:27.140 or it's just financial differences or career differences,

00:19:32.720 invariably the woman, out of spite, would file this case on the husband. 1.00

00:19:37.420 But it's not just the husband.

00:19:39.820 The law allows you to implicate not just the husband,

00:19:44.060 but any of his family members or relatives.

00:19:48.100 So what started happening was it was not just the husband,

00:19:50.940 His father, no matter how old they are, mother, father, brothers, sisters, husband of sisters, wives of brothers.

00:20:03.700 So there have been cases where there have been approximately 12 to 13 family members implicated in one criminal case.

00:20:12.460 And this is a criminal provision.

00:20:14.580 This is not a civil provision.

00:20:16.320 This is a criminal provision.

00:20:17.560 the husband and several family members get used to be arrested immediately

00:20:25.340 and thrown behind bars on a mere complaint by the wife.

00:20:31.320 That sort of changed in 2014 after almost 30 years of the law being in place

00:20:37.360 because there was just so ridiculous, horrid misuse of the law

00:20:41.640 recognized by the APICS courts in the country.

00:20:44.440 So, after that, the arrests have sort of now got controlled.

00:20:50.080 They are not as much, but the numbers that we are talking about is 120,000 cases of this provision, 498, they get filed in India every year, out of which minuscule numbers are found to be true.

00:21:06.320 Arrests are either settled with money or found to be blatantly false.

00:21:12.260 so yes the divorce rate in india in comparison to the west is much much lesser pearl but as much

00:21:20.980 as i know there are no very concrete statistics or data collection that happens in india a lot

00:21:28.980 of these statistics that we see are from some agencies that are calculating the divorce rates

00:21:36.020 which are not really indian so i'm not really sure if it is that low as it is projected to be

00:21:42.580 because we are seeing divorces thousands and thousands of cases coming into the courts every

00:21:47.860 single day yeah because what happened was i used to have a panel show and there was someone that

00:21:54.260 would argue that india didn't have these problems because you guys have arranged marriage there 1.00

00:21:59.860 but i kept getting messages from men like from india saying that like the stats weren't like

00:22:06.500 talking about something or that they're like i heard about the dowry laws so i didn't really

00:22:10.900 understand it so you're saying essentially at one point the wives family gave money to

00:22:18.420 the husband and his family or just the husband the husband and his family because in india it's a

00:22:25.540 it's it's by default that the wife has to move into the husband's house and a in a lot of

00:22:32.500 households right now also have a joint family system so it is the son that takes care of his

00:22:38.500 parents so his wife moves in with him and some families in fact most of the families i would say

00:22:46.020 till date are in joint family system where at least the parents are staying with the son

00:22:50.980 and um their daughter-in-laws uh but there are of course a lot of houses where it's just the

00:22:56.340 husband that the wife stays with and there are nuclear family but it's it's kind of an

00:23:01.860 so it this is this concept is a little tough to understand pearl but what happens in india is

00:23:10.900 um because the son is essentially taking care of his elderly parents and they are going to be

00:23:18.340 staying with him the daughter of the family when she gets married a lot of parents want to give 0.77

00:23:24.640 away part of their wealth to her at the time of her marriage because she's setting up a new home 1.00

00:23:30.020 so it initially started as gifts and essential items to be given to their daughter which was

00:23:36.760 her share of the wealth of the property but it deteriorated where the groom's family started

00:23:42.280 making these obnoxious demands it continues till date it is a very prevalent practice there are

00:23:48.960 cars that are given in form of dowry there some people give house as well some people give cash

00:23:56.300 some people give household items so it happens uh today as well but i would like to believe that

00:24:03.160 in most cases it's a mutual exchange so and not really imposed upon but yes in some in a lot of

00:24:10.720 cases it is imposed upon as well okay and so they essentially made that illegal is what you're saying

00:24:16.240 is what i think i understood they made that illegal and then the woman decided and because 1.00

00:24:22.080 the families were involved then the woman was able so if she doesn't like her mother-in-law she can 1.00

00:24:27.680 put her through hell if she doesn't like the sister i mean how often do the in-laws get along

00:24:33.040 right that's like impossible maybe in india you guys don't have that problem i don't know but

00:24:37.760 oh we have that problem everywhere they don't get it yeah so essentially if she's feeling

00:24:44.920 spited this law makes it able for her to go and just make their life a living hell too 1.00

00:24:51.640 but you said it stopped in 2014 or it's not as prevalent uh no so uh 2014 is when uh an

00:25:01.760 amendment came in the law where the arrests uh that you know the entire family or the husband

00:25:07.640 being put behind bars that sort of got a prohibition from the supreme court of india because

00:25:13.320 the law was getting misused so much the law has been there since 1983 it continues to exist the

00:25:20.040 law is still there dowry or this exchange basically that we are talking about has been made illegal

00:25:27.880 so anybody asking for this money or anybody giving this money is technically illegal

00:25:33.400 but it continues so i've i've read online that a man in india can be prosecuted if he has sex

00:25:40.920 with a woman and he does not marry her is that true yes so how did like what law prohibits that 0.98

00:25:49.320 like why what is that under the dowry law or is that something else no that's absolutely a

00:25:56.280 different law uh pearl and um what i'm going to tell you is gonna completely completely shock you

00:26:03.400 There have been cases where the woman has been in a consensual living relationship or a sexual relationship with a man for five years, seven years, ten years, and then they broke up for some reason.

00:26:16.640 And because the man did not marry her, she pressed rape charges on him, saying that her consent for sex was obtained by promising her marriage, which did not happen.

00:26:28.120 And there are thousands of such cases that are happening in India today.

00:26:32.600 And for the last couple of years, these cases have gone up tremendously.

00:26:38.140 And obviously, this is, I would call it, an absolute misuse of what rape actually is. 0.73

00:26:44.800 But we are talking about anything from 10,000 cases to maybe 12,000 to 15,000 cases being filed every year of this kind,

00:26:55.640 where no matter how long the relationship was,

00:26:59.540 no matter whether the man actually made any promise or not,

00:27:03.500 the woman just has to write in her criminal complaint 1.00

00:27:06.800 that he could obtain my consent by giving me a promise of marriage

00:27:11.380 and now he's not marrying me, so he be sued for rape.

00:27:16.200 Until now, this was rape. 0.99

00:27:17.900 Now they have brought in an absolutely new provision,

00:27:21.060 which is called section 69 of the Bharti Anyaya Sanhita.

00:27:28.240 And it says if a man has sex with a woman by promising to marry her

00:27:34.700 and they have not restricted it to just marriage,

00:27:38.320 they say if he promised to give her a job

00:27:40.840 or if he promised to give her a promotion

00:27:43.980 and that doesn't happen, it will not be called rape,

00:27:48.660 But the man will be prosecuted and put behind bars and can be imprisoned for maximum of 10 years in jail.

00:27:59.740 Wow. So can you tell me a little bit more about the man who committed suicide?

00:28:05.900 So I could only understand the parts that they translated.

00:28:10.280 I didn't really get to watch the whole video.

00:28:12.700 But could you maybe tell me more about that case?

00:28:15.080 Yeah, so Atul Subhash is a 34-year-old man who hanged himself to death on 9th of December.

00:28:25.640 He left a 90-minute suicide video along with 24 pages of suicide note in various packs where one he kept it for people to read,

00:28:39.560 one he sent it to the President of India, one he sent it to the Prime Minister of India.

00:28:45.080 So he got married in 2019.

00:28:48.720 According to him, his wife was not really interested in this marriage,

00:28:52.920 but because her father was very, very ill

00:28:56.160 and he wanted to really see his daughter getting married,

00:28:59.340 so they hushed up the wedding and then they got married.

00:29:03.200 And she expressed her displeasure with the marriage pretty much early in the marriage.

00:29:09.380 But he sort of tried to make it work,

00:29:12.060 tried to make her understand that this is what our life is now but she wasn't quite happy then

00:29:18.680 soon after covid hit and a lot of complications started happening because of covid she had

00:29:26.460 conceived also at that time then her mother atul's mother started living with them that led to a

00:29:34.600 little bit more conflicts but the breaking point in their marriage came when atul's wife started

00:29:40.840 asking for uh five fifty lakhs is what five million five million uh for settling her brother 1.00

00:29:50.080 down in his career five million five million what's the currency i'm just gonna translate it

00:29:57.040 so the odd five million what is it it is it is 50 lakh rupees 15 lakh rupees okay

00:30:04.220 okay so that's like 17 000 us dollars guys sorry keep going yeah yeah so uh he said that i'm not

00:30:15.560 going to give that kind of money he did give them um quite a lot but then he eventually put his foot

00:30:21.560 down that i'm not going to spend my money on um establishing career of your brother who hasn't

00:30:28.080 anyways been serious about whatever he's doing in his life and that became a point of contention

00:30:33.440 she and her mother and her brother

00:30:36.680 sort of conspired against him

00:30:38.560 started ill-treating him

00:30:40.480 she eventually left him

00:30:42.340 by then their child has

00:30:44.580 been born

00:30:45.720 so within few months she left him

00:30:48.640 and then she filed this case

00:30:50.580 that I was talking to you about

00:30:51.880 for 98A and

00:30:53.940 unnatural sex charges

00:30:56.200 hurt charges

00:30:58.180 domestic violence

00:30:59.400 she had filed nine different

00:31:02.580 cases on him in the last three years and not just him he along with his elderly parents his brother

00:31:10.780 was also made an accused and the woman went to the extent of implicating them in a murder case 0.99

00:31:17.440 this is where the things get extremely dark in india she claimed that her father died because

00:31:26.540 he became a victim

00:31:29.120 of demand of money by her

00:31:31.100 husband and died

00:31:33.000 out of shock. Whereas

00:31:34.880 her father already had

00:31:37.160 heart ailment, he was suffering,

00:31:39.620 he had natural

00:31:40.660 disease, and he passed

00:31:43.040 away. So, after

00:31:45.020 two years after her

00:31:47.100 father's death, she claimed that

00:31:49.160 her father was murdered

00:31:50.760 because of this demand, and the

00:31:53.120 cops registered a murder case

00:31:54.920 on this man and he was completely dumbfounded that how can something like this happen but then

00:32:00.360 it's a small place in the country and the cops can be bought and there is extreme corruption in the

00:32:08.240 system so one after the other he kept getting a lot of these cases from his wife's side and

00:32:15.840 he she was asking him three crores so we could get that in dollars as well three crore indian

00:32:23.000 rupees three claw okay no three three c-r-o-r-e three crore two u.s dollars okay that uh three

00:32:33.700 three craw i don't know why it's not

00:32:37.040 50 oh wow that guys that's 58 000 yeah so um that was the money that she was demanding from him

00:32:50.680 to set him free and to sort of take away all the cases that she had filed on him.

00:32:55.860 And he said that he's not going to fund his own destruction.

00:32:59.900 And he refused to pay money.

00:33:03.280 He had been asked to pay maintenance for the child, which was pretty high.

00:33:10.780 And he was not being allowed to see his son at all.

00:33:15.120 and he has left the evidences where the wife is saying

00:33:18.700 that she's not going to let him see the face of their child

00:33:21.380 and while she was pursuing all of these cases to get money from him.

00:33:26.100 So he just got completely fed up

00:33:30.380 and he said that the system is so stacked against men

00:33:34.940 that there is no hope for justice and he just killed himself.

00:33:39.440 and we are seeing these suicides every almost every day almost every day and this has gained

00:33:48.020 a lot of attention to the point i mean i'm in america and i saw the case do you have any hope

00:33:52.980 that maybe we'll change some of the laws there have politicians responded um as the judge gone 0.99

00:34:00.160 under review like what is going on there since this has happened so as if not there's uh for

00:34:05.760 I think I've been working on men's issues for the last 12 years.

00:34:09.300 This is the first time that I'm seeing an uproar of this level,

00:34:14.720 this magnitude in India over men's issues in particular or, you know, suicide of a man.

00:34:22.960 So I'm hopeful that probably this will lead to some change.

00:34:26.180 I don't have too many hopes because this is just too big a country

00:34:29.660 and every issue just dies down within two, three days.

00:34:33.060 and probably it will be the same with this case as well.

00:34:36.560 But some politicians have spoken up.

00:34:39.140 The media has been very supportive.

00:34:43.060 It's quite a surprise to me for the first time ever.

00:34:46.260 The media has been extremely supportive

00:34:48.300 because that suicide video is very, very heartbreaking.

00:34:53.320 And he details the trajectory of his life

00:34:57.420 from the day he got married to the day he's dying.

00:35:00.620 Within a span of five years,

00:35:02.360 it went from there to there so it struck a chord with people and they were like just wondering that

00:35:08.360 how much uh can you push the person to the wall and obviously anybody can you know will just

00:35:14.840 break down in such circumstances that you see your parents suffering you see your sibling suffering

00:35:21.240 you're separated from your child you have absolutely no semblance of the affection of

00:35:26.360 your own child and then you are being um squeezed out of your money your hard-earned money and you

00:35:34.120 continue to pay the system that is basically working against you um so just just too many

00:35:41.320 people you know saw a lot of pain in this case and are speaking up some parliamentarians have spoken

00:35:48.200 up but unofficially uh there have been no discussions in the parliament so far we haven't

00:35:53.560 seen that. But yes, there is quite an outrage over this case, and I really, really hope that

00:36:00.000 something positive comes out of it. And have you spoken to his family at all? How are they taking

00:36:05.280 it? Well, they are devastated, Pearl. They are obviously completely devastated. And what is

00:36:11.000 really, really sad is that the criminal charges that have been pressed against the entire family,

00:36:16.400 they will still continue no way yes yes wow because the criminal charges have so

00:36:26.700 in is child custody in india settled in family court or do you guys have family court or is it

00:36:35.280 all criminals no okay we have oh we have a family court yeah these issues are enough it's just the

00:36:43.880 dowry is criminal that goes that's settled okay that's in criminal yes okay so uh let me explain

00:36:50.800 this why it is uh very different and very problematic in india is uh you could tell me

00:36:56.460 more about the u.s laws in the u.s but so on the criminal side you would have these charges of

00:37:02.720 either dowry or a criminal breach of trust so you know multiple sections under one criminal case

00:37:09.900 so that you fight in the criminal court.

00:37:13.560 Then you have the Domestic Violence Act,

00:37:15.840 in which the woman can ask for maintenance, 1.00

00:37:18.300 as well as residence rights, or injunctions, or protection orders.

00:37:24.460 So that's a separate case.

00:37:26.280 Then there is a separate provision altogether for getting maintenance,

00:37:30.140 which is called the 125 section of Criminal Procedure Code.

00:37:34.140 So she can ask for maintenance there as well. 0.83

00:37:37.300 So there are just so many avenues where just one dispute between husband and wife is tried and the husband is basically the respondent in all of these cases because these are all instituted by the wife.

00:37:53.280 uh he just feels a little sucked up uh because he has to attend several dates in the courts

00:37:59.880 and what what really is a very disturbing pearl in india is that these cases can go on from

00:38:07.460 anywhere between four five years to 15 years 20 years sometimes 25 years 25 years how old are

00:38:18.460 is it when there's an age gap with the kids or what because for us once the kids once the kids

00:38:24.960 18 unless you get on alimony to like 25 that is a long time that is absolutely a long time

00:38:32.560 there have been cases where the couple has been separated living separately for 20 years and the

00:38:37.360 cases are still running in between them but anywhere from five years to 10 years is the

00:38:43.380 average amount of time that it takes until unless the man decides to just give in the money and

00:38:50.280 you know settle the case and then just get get away with it and that's why most in most of these

00:38:56.480 cases there are now exorbitant money demands monetary demands because they know that you know

00:39:02.160 you can just uh harass the person through the process of the courts in the law for as long as

00:39:08.480 you want until he breaks down to just give in and you know just says that okay i'll just give you

00:39:14.640 whatever you want and then give you know give me my life back kind of a thing yeah yeah you see that

00:39:20.100 here too in the west it's not that the the litigations are not that prolonged i guess

00:39:25.980 i mean and there's i i'm i'm assuming there's a bit of fairness they do look at both the sides

00:39:32.180 no they don't that's not no no no no all right okay sorry i don't i don't mean to laugh but no

00:39:40.640 like i'm laughing because it's it's absurd here too but that's i i haven't talked to anyone that's

00:39:46.420 been in litigation for that long unless there's a big age gap in the kids so you know if one kid

00:39:53.080 um but they had one at 15 and one at as a baby you know but that's not really yeah we don't have

00:39:59.940 a lot of children here, so that's not too common. But it's just that there are just too many

00:40:09.180 platforms that you have to go and fight these battles at. And then there's a lot of corruption

00:40:15.800 in the system, which Atul also spoke about in his suicide video. So one instance that I really

00:40:22.880 would like to share

00:40:24.660 which he's described in detail

00:40:26.840 in his seaside note is

00:40:28.760 he was

00:40:30.680 asked to come in the

00:40:32.880 judge's chamber during one of

00:40:34.860 their hearings and this

00:40:36.640 female judge told him why don't you just 1.00

00:40:38.780 pay the money to your wife 0.81

00:40:40.180 and settle these cases you know

00:40:42.560 why are you even fighting you're earning

00:40:44.340 decent so why don't you just pay her 1.00

00:40:46.760 and then settle these cases and he said

00:40:48.560 ma'am I want to fight on merits 1.00

00:40:50.240 I have not done anything wrong

00:40:52.360 she's falsely accused me and i want to fight on my merits and then she asks him to give her uh

00:40:59.080 five lakh rupees um which is uh what um uh one thousand dollars no no not one thousand dollars

00:41:07.960 something like that um it's like five five to six thousand dollars yeah five to six thousand dollars

00:41:15.400 so yeah uh so she asked for that money and she says if you give me that money then i'm going to

00:41:20.120 give you a favorable order and if you don't then uh you know i i'll ensure that you get as many

00:41:26.200 dates as possible and you'll have to come to the court so this man was traveling from bangaluru

00:41:31.400 which is in south uh to john purruta pradesh which is pretty far must be at least uh

00:41:38.040 2 500 kilometers or maybe 3 000 kilometers so he had to take a flight every time go to this place

00:41:45.560 attend the litigation, come back, not being ensured whether there's going to be a hearing or

00:41:51.080 not. And in the last two years, he says he attended 120 hearings and got nothing out of it. So

00:41:58.640 this whole system is very, very burdening, and it just takes a toll on you. It just takes a

00:42:06.640 huge mental toll. And out of curiosity, is the standard for young people today arranged

00:42:14.100 marriages is that still typical in india um i am not aware of any data if we have but um arranged

00:42:24.900 marriage setup is quite prevalent in india still quite prevalent uh but in urban pockets um there

00:42:32.340 are just a lot of marriages that are happening where the couple was already in relationship

00:42:38.020 and then they got married but even in our pockets uh arranged marriages are quite prevalent till

00:42:44.020 date okay i was just curious well thank you very much for coming on um good job like good i like

00:42:51.460 the work you've been doing you've been covering this case really closely on twitter do you want

00:42:55.380 to tell my followers where they can find you i am i am dipika narayan bardwaj i am with the same name

00:43:03.220 on x instagram youtube and i would really really request your audience pearl to watch my documentary

00:43:09.620 films uh india suns particularly is is a very very sensitive issue which is right now um very very

00:43:18.580 disturbing in india there are just thousands of men who are being implicated in false rape cases

00:43:24.980 with impunity and there are proper gangs that are now operating that are sort of filing these

00:43:33.060 cases and extorting lacks and crores from men by these false cases so it tells plight of men who

00:43:41.140 were falsely accused of rape and how blatantly false those cases were where they had cctv footage

00:43:48.420 that they were not even there at the place of the incident or they did not even know the woman had

00:43:54.100 never seen the woman did not even know about her existence and then she slapped a rape case on them 1.00

00:44:01.060 and they had to fight it out for three years five years and things like that so um it's quite

00:44:06.980 shocking uh on what's happening in india and how the system is absolutely um turned a blind eye to

00:44:14.260 fairness equality balance and fair investigation so yeah martyrs of marriage is on youtube uh it's

00:44:22.340 on my channel itself and india sons is on my website indiasons.com i now um run an organization

00:44:30.340 called ekam nyai foundation pearl it's called ekam uh that's that's ekam i i don't know if

00:44:36.980 it's visible or not but that's the t-shirt that i'm wearing as well uh it's ekamnyay.org

00:44:44.900 please do take a look at our work my documentary films and all the lives that we have tried to

00:44:50.180 have an impact on by working on ground okay thank you so much thank you so much for take care take

00:44:57.620 care okay guys i'm gonna take a second to read the next if you guys have any anything oh wait

00:45:05.700 are you still there is she still there they want you to spell your name in the spelling in india or

00:45:13.700 that's too much for us we're they're not going to know how all right it's it's d double e p i k a 1.00

00:45:21.460 okay thank you so much thank you thank you bye bye bye okay um charles says none of it's real

00:45:39.700 it's a high um see that's why you guys gotta you gotta be on the website right he he didn't know

00:45:46.420 how to spell her name in two seconds boom boom i read it it was red all right or not i know you

00:45:52.500 guys got a lot going on okay rob says that was more that was more than sad um okay i read the

00:45:58.740 other one okay so the next story i want to cover today is i want to talk about lily phillips so i

00:46:07.960 have talked about this woman on the show again but as you guys know there has been an influx of

00:46:14.780 the OnlyFans and Cornstar to church pipeline. And I want to show you guys the stages of this

00:46:24.320 and how this happens. Now, I'm not saying it's bad if OF models come to church,

00:46:31.580 but I personally would not want to bring my husband. Sorry, ladies. I don't know why nobody 1.00

00:46:36.420 thinks about these things so okay so lily phillips only fans models cries after sleeping with 101 men 0.99

00:46:46.640 in a day sometimes i feel so robotic an only fans model who slept with 101 men in a day breaks down 0.74

00:46:54.040 in tears as she recounts her 24 hour sex marathon lily phillips 23 had sex with over 100 men in a 0.90

00:47:01.800 day back in October to create some scandalous content for her subscription-based social media 1.00

00:47:06.840 page. But despite previously insisting that she enjoyed the extreme stunt and the sex, 0.99

00:47:13.600 all that sex didn't make her feel good. Sometimes I feel so robotic, Phillips admitted in YouTube

00:47:20.520 Josh Peters' documentary titled I Slept with 100 Men in a Day. The British sex worker fought back

00:47:27.980 the tears, as she recalled that day. I think by the 30th, we're getting on a bit. I've got a

00:47:34.180 routine of how we're going to do this. And sometimes you disassociate and it's not like

00:47:38.860 normal sex at all. Although it was momentarily frisky freak, it wasn't all memorable for the

00:47:48.840 young woman who admitted she didn't remember much of it. In my head, I can think of like five, six,

00:47:54.440 10 guys that I remember and that's it, she revealed. But it's just weird, isn't it? If I

00:47:59.740 didn't have the videos, I wouldn't have known I did 100. That's how women lie about their body 1.00

00:48:04.860 count. I don't remember. It was 10. Phillips shared that it's not just the physical intimacy

00:48:10.800 of having sex with so many meds that made her feel so bad, but also by disappointing them

00:48:15.420 and not being able to talk with them or being interested in doing so. She said that conversing 0.95

00:48:21.940 with them was also hard and recounted how one man complained that they only chatted for about two

00:48:26.420 minutes and she had said beforehand they would talk for about five minutes the OnlyFans creator

00:48:31.600 counted continued to hold back tears although her red puffy eyes showed she had already broken down

00:48:38.380 when she asked if she thinks she should feel bad about not taking talking with each man she slept

00:48:44.640 with for a set amount of time she said I guess when you've promised something to people who

00:48:48.900 support you it's kind of hard to let them down the sex worker also admitted she hadn't processed 0.99

00:48:54.160 what she did on the day but she said she wouldn't forget the day of her emotional interview the

00:48:59.400 scene ends with her crying and being comforted in another part of the documentary philip shared

00:49:05.520 that she wouldn't recommend doing doing what she had done and admitted it was more intense than she

00:49:10.360 thought it's not for the weak girls if i'm being honest it was hard i don't know if i'd recommend

00:49:18.320 it. It's a different feeling. It's not one in, one out. It feels intense, she said. Yet despite

00:49:25.740 discussing how bad betting 100 men in 24 hours was for her mental and physical health, Phillips 0.99

00:49:32.540 recently declared that she plans to have sex with 1,000 men in a day. Phillips has claimed that she 0.97

00:49:39.500 wants to take on the new challenge in January, 1,000 men in 24 hours. Men talent casting call,

00:49:47.280 18 and up only she posted on social media I dreamed it up with my assistant I can't wait

00:49:53.000 it's very exciting it will be a world record a real challenge the current world record is held

00:49:57.980 by Lisa Sparks an adult film star who batted 919 men in one day at a sex industry event in Poland

00:50:05.140 back in 2004 to be completely transparent with you all the event is the one thing I regret doing

00:50:11.620 in the 23 plus years in the corn industry to this day. This was also the only job I agreed

00:50:20.020 to perform strictly for money. Sparks, known best by her corn name, Lisa Sparks, and her website.

00:50:26.340 Sydney medical practitioner, Dr. Zach Turner, who specializes in preventative health and wellness,

00:50:31.980 warned that when pushed to the extreme, such activity could hurt the body. Sex at its core

00:50:37.860 is not is sex at its core is a physically demanding activity that engages various muscles

00:50:43.700 the cardiovascular system and the release of endorphins he said done in moderation it's akin

00:50:50.120 to a rewarding workout promoting stress relief cardiovascular health and emotional well-being

00:50:56.060 however when pushed to the extremes like a 24-hour sex marathon the physical and physiological toll

00:51:01.840 can be severe okay so as you guys know and we can expect conservative twitter really just ate this

00:51:09.200 up they really just you know i want my brother to marry a woman that defends him as hard as church 0.94

00:51:21.680 ladies defend corn stars it's ridiculous it's insane you know i never get the benefit of the 1.00

00:51:29.360 doubt with the trad cons on twitter maybe it's because i i talk about how dumb they are but 1.00

00:51:37.760 i mean i never get it it's always you're not a real christian you hate women 0.98

00:51:43.520 i never get it but the corn star and only fans models it's like here's second chance third

00:51:51.360 chance tenth chance and i'm not saying we are for genuine conversions here that's fine that's great

00:51:59.360 But I need to see something.

00:52:05.140 Now, she's not at the conversion stage yet.

00:52:07.560 We'll wait another six months.

00:52:09.420 So Billy Bragg says young women have been groomed into thinking they should be able to do this.

00:52:16.240 We have gone from loose women have something wrong with them to the belief that women should be able to be able to be loose or there is something wrong with her. 1.00

00:52:26.620 decades of societal messaging has led us here it's why I don't judge any of them they're all

00:52:32.000 victims to me okay so when I was interviewing a thousand people now as you guys know I moved

00:52:41.280 from Chicago to London a couple of years ago I played volleyball in the UK for three years and

00:52:45.900 in that time I launched a YouTube show that became one of the biggest shows in the United

00:52:50.640 States at the time. And I would interview about five to 10 women every night at 1.6 days a week 0.78

00:52:57.520 we had coming in. I was either casting or I was interviewing them myself. And once you actually

00:53:03.800 start dealing with corn stars and women that are in the sex industry, you realize that they are 1.00

00:53:10.140 not groomed or coerced at all. It's usually one of three or four things. One, they like sexual

00:53:17.280 variety. And from a young age, they were just never meant to be with one man. They do not have

00:53:23.700 it in them. And they figure, well, I might as well monetize this because I will never be with

00:53:28.980 one person. The second thing is they love the excitement. It's a fantasy to them. They enjoy

00:53:36.300 having sex on camera with multiple men. They enjoy being desired that much by multiple men. 0.99

00:53:44.200 they get a thrill out of it they like doing things that um society would say is bad like

00:53:53.700 they get off on doing the wrong thing um another reason that they do sex work sometimes it's a

00:54:01.000 money grab you know it's easier than working and it's just so interesting to me that everybody

00:54:09.040 thinks the women are coerced they think that you know this says the look of dignity lost forever

00:54:17.020 a soul forfeited for notoriety a life lost in those eyes sad then next we have 0.54

00:54:25.380 she's not forever lost you wretched wretch the blood of christ washes all sins away 0.98

00:54:35.060 and evil away and can make any person whole again 0.99

00:54:40.160 oh my goodness you guys drive me nuts

00:54:44.840 um then the next one everyone keeps on hating on lily phillips but ignored the 101 men who 0.80

00:54:57.180 participated the ratio of sick sick men to women is the reason few women have become this sick 0.99

00:55:05.900 okay so let me get this straight

00:55:09.740 if i put a million dollars on the street for free i say anybody can take this million dollars here 0.60

00:55:20.300 it's for you are we really gonna blame people for taking it when she's giving out sex for free 0.99

00:55:32.780 now many people want to say that these women have no choice they are just groomed and society pushes 1.00

00:55:38.860 them to do this now this woman one to ten i'm gonna give her like i would say seven you guys 0.99

00:55:45.180 agree with that i mean you guys are guys you guys like women so i want to hear you know you can put

00:55:49.820 in the chat i'd say seven right seven maybe eight before i know it's kind of hard to rank her

00:55:55.740 knowing what she's done but just imagine she did it she could have a gone to golf courses and look 0.65

00:56:03.100 to marry rich she could have did that she could have said you know what all i want to do in life 0.60

00:56:08.220 is marry rich that would be more admirable than this she could have said you know what 0.98

00:56:13.020 i'm not really meant to be a wife but do you know what i'm gonna be

00:56:15.980 I'm going to be a strong independent woman and I'm going to go into medical device sales

00:56:23.340 she could have gone into medical device sales she's attractive enough to do it you really need 1.00

00:56:28.680 to be a seven or higher no one knocked on my door asking if I wanted to do medical device but 0.57

00:56:34.520 you get a big pair of fake boobs boom you're golden go do it she could go make six figures 1.00

00:56:39.600 doing that and then you know then she could be a strong independent woman uh she could go be a 0.99

00:56:47.440 stripper she could go she could go strip right i mean at least you know maybe then she could get her 1.00

00:56:54.240 sluttiness out there and not have sex with a hundred men in one day a hundred's a lot right 1.00

00:57:00.560 all i'm saying i mean she could have went into the nunnery but let's not let's not you know let's not 0.97

00:57:07.320 say things that are never going to happen all i'm saying is she had so many choices of things she

00:57:11.800 could have done that all women are given it's like you want to go to school here you guys want to be 0.98

00:57:18.440 a a prostitute oh you don't you want to do you want to be a prostitute from the comfort of your 0.99

00:57:23.880 home here here's only fans oh you guys you want to be a social media influencer an assistant a teacher 1.00

00:57:30.840 go ahead do it you want to go get a gender studies degree here you go nobody was coerced she's an 1.00

00:57:39.660 adult are women and that's my question are we adults who can make her own decisions or are we 0.98

00:57:45.840 kids which one pick one trad cons was she coerced or did she make a choice does she have free will

00:57:55.680 or is the free will dependent on the men i don't know pick one and then i always get that if men

00:58:04.560 only led right she wouldn't do this well you know i actually watched the documentary and i'm going

00:58:11.800 to show you guys a couple clips from it i actually watched the full thing from beginning to end

00:58:16.420 and there was a lot of men that kept saying are you sure you want to do this

00:58:25.980 the guy who was doing the documentary the whole time is saying are you worried about stds um

00:58:32.920 are you sure you can do this so let's not you know when we make bad decisions right as ladies

00:58:41.400 there is a million men along the way that say that's a bad idea and if we don't listen i mean

00:58:50.580 i say let let us suffer right so you know when we get into a bunch of debt do most of the women that 1.00

00:58:56.900 get a gender studies degree go to their dad and say hey dad or maybe another guy in their life

00:59:02.480 and say hey is this a good degree do you think i should get this or do they say oh that sounds fun

00:59:09.900 let me go do the ladies get spending money on botox hair expensive gym memberships do they go 1.00

00:59:18.380 to their male friends their dad and say hey could you could you help me with this budget men love

00:59:24.460 help men are the most helpful i mean a manager they love feeling needed right if you appreciate

00:59:32.300 them for it so you know we could do that how many it's not like nobody said no one put a gun to her

00:59:41.420 head and said you must sleep with that many men in a day now obviously um i'm gonna show you guys

00:59:49.500 some clips from this documentary so i have 16 minute mark okay so at this point in the documentary

00:59:57.420 she is talking about how again she's not traumatized by this stuff but she enjoys it

01:00:03.900 okay you guys think i'm making this up you think pearl you're just making up that these women

01:00:08.940 enjoy this stuff they really secretly hate it but i think at the end of the day people forget

01:00:14.220 there's also my fantasy and this is also something that i'm really enjoying and want to do and have

01:00:20.380 wanted to do before i was even in the industry our filming was interrupted briefly by a phone call

01:00:25.900 from lily's mother apparently she calls lily every day um always call me every day what you

01:00:32.140 been up to today oh just getting railed what are you okay so we have an involved mother

01:00:41.820 right and okay the other thing is there's this idea that the sex workers just had a really bad

01:00:46.700 home life and you know that doesn't help right i mean a bad home life it's not like a good i mean

01:00:52.460 that's not a it's not going to contribute to making her a better person but she's got two

01:00:59.580 parents that love her and call her every day just checking in on me she's checking in on her you've

01:01:08.460 obviously spoken to your parents about this right i actually haven't my parents know what i do but

01:01:13.340 i'm not on the phone to them every day going or you know i just got dp'd um 17 guys today yeah

01:01:20.780 all this and that they don't need to know the logistics of course i do feel a little bit like

01:01:25.980 embarrassed being like mom and dad i'm 100 guys why i guess because it's not really what my parents

01:01:34.220 would have chose wanted me to do okay there we go did she have someone to get she had two people 1.00

01:01:40.140 she could have went to for guidance and did she no um the next mark was the 26 minute mark where

01:01:49.980 she says that she gets off on this and she enjoys it now a lot of people want to say ban corn

01:01:59.980 ban this stuff we just got to ban it i really don't see that being a good strategy one

01:02:09.260 it's going to be so difficult to get women like this to stop 1.00

01:02:12.380 up i think it sounds nice on a podcast like i saw i see people tweet it all the time ban corn

01:02:20.860 ban okay that's that do you know the police power i mean that's gonna take way too much work

01:02:29.500 all i say is let them face the consequences let them let them suffer let them fail i think it's

01:02:37.900 it's more if someone's on my face i can imagine that's what's put another guy off so you would

01:02:43.360 let like these guys do that on your face yeah yeah and in your mouth yeah yeah yeah what if

01:02:49.380 they're hiv is that where it comes from okay so now now he's saying okay you're gonna let the guys

01:02:58.100 finish on you you might get aids is that where it comes from okay i'm gonna do it anyway

01:03:07.440 there's pumpkin in the mouth it can oh really yeah i've never really thought about that last time when

01:03:14.880 i did it that all of them put in her mouth i can't really explain it i get like serotonin like from

01:03:24.000 when people are like oh my god you're that on the internet sounds crazy i know and i know you're

01:03:27.840 saying that to me right here but i just i don't believe that really no this is okay we're it's

01:03:33.760 the dynamic she's saying i get serotonin from being on from by all these men and he's saying

01:03:43.520 i don't believe you they do i promise to god they do i i i kind of love like ruffling feathers a

01:03:52.560 little bit and people getting to be like agitated by maybe the fact that i messed up people think

01:03:57.520 i'm like so sad and stuff like that but that that could not be like further from the truth i don't

01:04:02.640 think people realize like how happy this makes me well i just think it's so funny and fun i

01:04:07.840 can't really put it into words have you done anything i can't put it into words how happy

01:04:13.280 this makes me i am so glad that we have social media now because i think when i tell these

01:04:21.200 stories people think i'm crazy when i when i tell the stories of the sex workers that i've met that

01:04:27.280 enjoyed what they did everyone thinks i'm insane until now okay 42 minute mark let's see it's after

01:04:37.120 she did all the sexing um if you guys want to see this is on josh peter's channel you can watch the 0.57

01:04:45.040 whole thing um okay this is 0.64

01:04:55.360 lily then walked us through the process that she had repeated a hundred times

01:04:58.800 that day come on in make yourself at home take

01:05:01.520 your shoes off i've got some um hangers here if you want to put your

01:05:05.360 coat up nice come on in where you travel from say

01:05:08.000 oh lovely yeah oh it's so nice to meet you i'll get

01:05:11.200 you on the bed make yourself comfortable take off your trousers

01:05:14.800 we're gonna have a fun time and now give them the phone camera just say I'm

01:05:19.420 guessing you don't want your face in it yeah and if they don't it'll be POV

01:05:23.380 phone camera yeah I'll start usually with up and then I say like it's

01:05:28.480 anything you don't like don't like any certain position you want to do yeah and

01:05:32.740 then yeah we kind of got straight into the condom on or no no I didn't condom

01:05:38.780 off okay and then but then like once they're having so it's like yeah yeah

01:05:44.200 it does smell a lot like a lot like so is she saying when they started they had it all

01:05:51.240 oh my gosh this girl's gonna get aids i mean and diseases sometimes can sometimes can be cured 0.98

01:05:58.800 others can't they said look guys there is too much money in fixing women's poor decisions 1.00

01:06:08.480 If you want to make money, you just invest in something which is undoing a decision that we

01:06:16.960 made previously. Example, tattoo removal. That's going to come back.

01:06:24.200 If somebody could reverse menopause, I doubt it, but they would be really rich.

01:06:29.600 Now, the AIDS thing, now we're having people live long lives with AIDS. That was unheard of.

01:06:37.140 there's too much money in this stuff and there's a rose that's nice and how are you feeling

01:06:43.880 surprisingly downstairs is not too not really sore okay it's more just tired my eyes sting like

01:06:52.000 nothing else why so part of the reason she was tearing up is because her eyes sting because of

01:07:00.480 all the comment i think i repeatedly said you can't face but not in my eye and they just went

01:07:05.680 right at the eyes i think like it might have been an accident but no i mean i've definitely

01:07:10.160 okay seen some spunk today jesus and yeah so then next we're gonna go to

01:07:16.800 44 minute mark where she says she feels bad you're gonna watch the full clip

01:07:23.520 you know when i talked to you last like i was not nervous it was like the day before i was like

01:07:28.700 i'm so nervous but it was good it was more i guess the interactions weren't like

01:07:35.680 i'd have to stop them early and like you'd have to stand on business and be like i'm so sorry you've

01:07:42.160 got to go and like the awkward interaction of like you feeling pressure to have to make them

01:07:48.000 calm if like you haven't spent enough time with them and feeling like now i got no sympathy

01:07:53.760 because this is still easier than a lot of men's jobs i asked them my brother my brother's um

01:08:03.360 best friend works for my dad and i asked him to i asked him today i said for a billion dollars

01:08:13.440 would you be gay would you hook up with a guy for a billion one time you're set for life 0.80

01:08:21.760 he said he did a lot of that i mean if it's enough money they'll do it too i you know what

01:08:28.080 i actually met a couple male only fans models they don't get paid out nearly as much but

01:08:33.360 they weren't gay allegedly but they said they were for money they realize it's easier than doing that 0.98

01:08:40.320 they didn't they said no okay I'm not saying you guys would do it I'm just saying

01:08:45.120 I'm just saying there's harder jobs than this okay and I don't I don't buy I think

01:08:51.700 when they say they're so broken and da da da da da

01:08:54.420 i think maybe they have remorse because of the decisions the consequences later

01:09:05.100 but now the corn stars are getting married i i think most of the time it's just a rebrand

01:09:12.280 like you didn't give them a good time because like they only got two she's mad not because

01:09:18.420 she regrets it but because she didn't give them a good enough time that's good customer service

01:09:24.820 i'll tell you what she's very she is very um proud of her brand that's and that and that's what's

01:09:34.260 that's what's making you feel emotional is that maybe you think you didn't give some guys a good

01:09:38.020 enough time today yeah yeah and it's hard i think having the interactions with them when they're

01:09:42.660 like what you're not going to make me finish i've come all this way like kind of like guilt tripping

01:09:47.780 me a little bit i felt bad like some people just travel so far like i didn't want to give them a

01:09:52.340 time and like come away from this and be like oh that's yeah i think sometimes like feeling so

01:09:59.300 like robotic like by the i think like the 30th you know like when we're getting on a bit i've got

01:10:05.700 like a routine of like how we're gonna do now we have to think about the incentives here right we

01:10:10.340 we have to go back to the incentives the incentive is if she cries after she sells more OnlyFans 1.00

01:10:18.200 if she makes this we all know in a story the more ups and downs there are in a story

01:10:23.840 the better it sells so do I buy this for a second not really I don't I don't and I'm sorry that I 0.94

01:10:31.860 think you guys are all dumb if you buy it you know I'm not gonna maybe I should be more respectful 0.92

01:10:36.620 but I didn't buy it when I was in high school and they would always I went to a Catholic high school 0.99

01:10:44.500 and they would bring in chastity speakers every year and every year they would bring in some

01:10:51.040 couple where the woman her testimony was that she got ran through and the man's testimony

01:10:58.040 was that he cleaned up her mess after and that's what we keep seeing right we see women get married 1.00

01:11:06.000 and then the men have to clean up after so now here she made a poor decision that everyone warned

01:11:11.440 her against and now the men are expected to give her what sympathy after please please it's

01:11:19.200 completely fake yeah okay so moving on to the next story today i saw a video yesterday that made me

01:11:29.760 think. Okay. And this was a video. It was of another, um, conservative comment. You guys

01:11:38.460 know how I feel. I don't really think there's conservative women, not really anymore. Um, 0.98

01:11:45.900 there was a conservative commentator talking about the trend of women rethinking 50, 50

01:11:54.940 relationships. And what we're going to see now is non-traditional women asking for things they 1.00

01:12:01.360 don't deserve. So to start this show, when I'm talking about traditional women versus modern 0.99

01:12:07.840 women. I want to clarify what I'm talking about. Now, I decided to make a chart of traditional 0.98

01:12:31.020 versus 50-50. Actually, I like the word modern better. So, I want to make a chart of things

01:12:38.640 that are more traditional versus more modern. So, traditional would be arranged marriage.

01:12:51.600 or I will even give you young marriage.

01:12:58.300 Now, young marriage, I am going to define as below 25.

01:13:06.860 So if you get married below 25 with the intent of having kids

01:13:12.500 in the next couple years.

01:13:14.760 So your first kid or second, like, let's say three plus kids.

01:13:21.600 is more traditional.

01:13:23.920 The reason that three-plus kids is more traditional

01:13:26.840 is because birth control, modern.

01:13:34.180 That's modern.

01:13:36.280 Traditional, natural family planning.

01:13:40.300 So modern would be tattoos.

01:13:46.320 Modern is going to be plastic.

01:13:50.640 Surgery.

01:13:51.600 young marriage I'm going to say kids

01:13:58.500 had below 25

01:14:03.680 below 25

01:14:07.880 so at least the first one right like maybe I'll give you

01:14:14.520 if you had your first kid at 24 okay and then

01:14:18.500 you had the three kids in your 20s plus I really think it should be four plus maybe it's because

01:14:24.540 I'm from a family of a million kids but what we'll give them we'll give them three plus okay

01:14:31.660 just out of the kindness of my heart now modern career and I would like to clarify there's no

01:14:40.160 right or wrong if anything doing a show interviewing a thousand women made me convinced that there are 0.97

01:14:47.200 many women that should never have children ever because they are so irresponsible that I just 1.00

01:14:56.120 cannot imagine them bringing up a child. God help us. I would meet women that would come on my show 1.00

01:15:04.480 and I would always ask the question, you know, there would be women I could text

01:15:10.120 and within a half hour they would be there. And one of them had four children and every night I

01:15:15.780 would think to myself when she would come who is watching your kids who is doing it because it's

01:15:23.940 not you you're too available you're at too many of the events with the women with no kids this 0.92

01:15:29.720 isn't making sense okay so let's see career plastic surgery let's say um plastic surgery

01:15:40.720 tattoo. Let's say debt, right? If you have a lot of debt. Tattoos. Only fans is modern.

01:15:54.120 Porn, modern. Slutty behavior. Now, what's traditional? If we're going to go back to 0.99

01:16:04.980 the real traditional. Virginity. Now this is why people think, I have a friend on Twitter, his name's Luffy. Now Luffy is famous on Twitter because he replies to women that will signal traditional. So they'll wear the flower dress, they'll talk about how bad feminism is, they'll talk about how they want to have a lot of kids and how they'll try to signal that they are traditional.

01:16:34.980 And he always asks the question, did you lose your virginity to your husband?

01:16:41.420 And they get very angry because the answer is usually no.

01:16:45.300 Now, again, I'm not saying right or wrong.

01:16:47.600 I'm not saying good or bad.

01:16:48.780 I'm saying one is traditional and one is modern.

01:16:54.600 I'm going to check the chat really quick and see if you guys have anything to add to traditional versus modern.

01:17:01.740 Let's see, natural hair color, I can add that, I can't, I think natural hair color, I can't

01:17:22.620 see anything else, body count, no, oh yeah, no, piercings, okay, I'll add that next to

01:17:28.740 tattoos, piercings, hair dye.

01:17:36.180 Can you think of anything else?

01:17:37.280 What am I missing?

01:17:38.280 You know, nothing.

01:17:43.020 I think I covered it, but if you think of anything, I'll add it.

01:17:48.920 Oh, yeah, yeah, OK.

01:17:51.900 Thank you.

01:17:52.560 Social media is, yeah, public.

01:17:58.740 is much more modern.

01:18:01.680 Now, again, I'm not saying one's right or wrong.

01:18:06.840 I don't care how modern or traditional you are.

01:18:10.280 If you're a nice person and you're modern,

01:18:13.060 you're a nice person.

01:18:15.120 If you're a nice person and you're traditional, 0.99

01:18:16.900 then you're a nice person.

01:18:18.660 Okay.

01:18:19.960 I'm gonna go back down.

01:18:25.640 Oh, someone said, no therapist.

01:18:28.740 Okay, so now we're in the, oh, let me turn it off now, all right, okay, now we have the

01:18:44.980 challenge where the ladies are, if you look on there, modern on the right, but they want 1.00

01:18:54.740 traditional outcomes.

01:18:57.600 So now you have the ladies getting mad that they have to work. 1.00

01:19:03.060 Now.

01:19:08.060 So it's interesting because this conservative commentator.

01:19:13.420 I'm going to watch this and then we'll go through it together.

01:19:18.840 Others and saying, honey, I do not have the money to pay the mortgage, the rent, the bills this month.

01:19:22.840 And it's creating a lot of discourse online.

01:19:25.060 and it's sort of become a new relationship test to see whether or not you should leave your man

01:19:30.740 and people online have much to say about whether or not women should be in traditional relationships

01:19:34.980 where the man provides or the new 50 50 that seems to be the norm these days let's talk about it

01:19:47.940 guys before we get into today's video please like and subscribe yes we're going to be looking into

01:19:51.300 this new relationship test where you go up to your hubby or your boyfriend and say i don't have the

01:19:55.860 money to pay the mortgage or rent i'm gonna say relationship tests on social media modern

01:20:02.980 some of them are funny i'm not hating but modern we're gonna start with a 50 50 couple meaning

01:20:10.500 they split their finances 50 50. now this couple is getting a lot of heat on the internet they are

01:20:15.060 telling this woman to leave her husband because of her response to this trend hey babe babe yeah 0.66

01:20:21.060 hey sorry um listen i know we both have to go to work here in a minute but i just needed to tell

01:20:25.700 you that with everything and how busy it's all been that um we're not gonna be able to

01:20:34.180 i'm not gonna be able to pay the rent this month

01:20:41.140 well like just black friday all the holiday shopping um christmas like i don't know i don't

01:20:48.740 I don't know what to do.

01:20:49.860 Babe, I love you, but I don't even know who we pay our rent to.

01:20:52.940 Oh, no.

01:20:55.120 Yeah, I don't know.

01:20:55.960 Can you get like an extension or,

01:21:00.280 I don't really, I don't really know,

01:21:03.500 to be honest with you.

01:21:05.240 Yeah, I don't know.

01:21:07.180 I mean, I can call them and see,

01:21:10.120 but like, what do we do if like, we can't pay the rent?

01:21:14.580 I don't know.

01:21:15.780 Like they have a grace period.

01:21:17.180 We're still okay, but, like, I think we get a late fee, do you know?

01:21:28.140 Yeah, so I know we get, like, a late fee if it's paid after, I think, like, the fifth or the sixth.

01:21:37.620 But, yeah, I can't pay it.

01:21:43.460 So, wait.

01:21:47.180 to like kick us out or like i think okay i thought i was going to be laughing more

01:21:53.600 i'm not laughing at this you know what i gotta be honest 50 50 is what a lot of couples have

01:21:58.940 to do these days especially in this economy okay i want you to notice her language 50 50

01:22:04.880 is what couples have to do now this is a get out of jail free card because going 50 50 was

01:22:15.940 a conscious choice by the ladies.

01:22:19.980 We could have, again, society lets us do anything.

01:22:23.860 Now oftentimes the ladies, we love to push it on everybody else. 1.00

01:22:29.060 So we say, well, you have to go to college.

01:22:32.280 No, you don't.

01:22:34.600 If you don't want to, you don't.

01:22:36.740 And whenever women want to make a really bad decision, we have a tendency to make it no 0.99

01:22:42.220 matter what anybody tells us.

01:22:45.080 We don't like to listen.

01:22:46.840 Not all women, YouTube, not all, not all, not all. 0.99

01:22:51.320 So you could say the same thing about a good decision.

01:22:55.040 If somebody really wants to make a good or a different decision, they will do it if they

01:23:01.540 want to. 0.99

01:23:03.500 Most of America is fat. 0.78

01:23:04.980 And if you want to lose weight, you would take the choices to do it, right? 0.87

01:23:09.840 So a lot of women have no choice but to be in 50-50 relationship. 1.00

01:23:15.080 the ladies choose it they choose it choice choice choice choice you know if okay let's say being a 1.00

01:23:23.120 housewife is your goal and you want to achieve that you get in really good shape you get a low

01:23:30.540 paying job near where high earning men live at a young age set your dating app there go on a

01:23:37.900 couple dates a week or flirt with them at work golf cart girl um clerk at a law firm I can think

01:23:46.820 of like a million assistant to high earning men bartender at uh members clubs you know one time

01:23:57.120 so my dad he bought box seats once to a game and it was the only time I think it was like his

01:24:03.720 friend's box seat and we just got them because someone he knew had them or whatever and I

01:24:09.880 remember there was a woman that came by that would serve dessert so she would come by and bring like

01:24:14.880 the dessert cart and I remember thinking that woman she was very morbidly obese and I was 0.90

01:24:23.080 thinking you know the amount of rich men up here is probably more than most people will ever meet

01:24:30.220 in their life you are missing the opportunity of a lifetime the of a lifetime most women will never 1.00

01:24:37.420 be in a room with men that wealthy and this woman was just squandering it away being 300 pounds 1.00

01:24:45.500 nobody's gonna look twice um so again this is like a get out of jail free card where nobody's

01:24:51.860 responsible for the choices they i mean even men right it's rare right but if a man really wanted

01:24:58.940 to be a house husband what would be the choices he could do to get there he could get really jacked

01:25:07.080 get in really incredibly good shape and target high earning women that are a bit older maybe 0.67

01:25:13.880 fatter now you could say oh I don't want to do that I don't want to date a 50 year old cougar well

01:25:20.480 the ladies do it feminism right back you know I'm just saying then we have a plan then we have 1.00

01:25:28.740 like a what do you want ships even if that's not what they want with that being said if you're

01:25:34.580 going to be in a 50 50 relationship maybe the man should have some solutions it's not really

01:25:39.060 the financial dynamic it's more the attitude that he's bringing to this new problem that they're

01:25:44.100 both why now again why are we not responsible so if she's being irresponsible and she has signed 0.99

01:25:53.140 up. She's opted in to 50% of the rent. Why does he have to bail her out when she doesn't do it?

01:26:00.420 Why do we expect men to solve our problems? 1.00

01:26:09.860 The women, I mean, the men don't expect us to solve their problems. And again, we've had all 1.00

01:26:18.020 these years of feminism saying we want equality and the choices not the words the choices are

01:26:24.500 still modern so like again this is just becoming entitlement experiencing or this fictitious

01:26:34.900 problem i would prefer he stand up and go okay i wasn't ready for this issue to pop up but i

01:26:40.340 gotta figure out what i'm going to do about this and i gotta figure out how again see it goes back

01:26:43.940 to. You must solve my irresponsibility. You must solve. Now, again, if the ladies were 1.00

01:26:51.660 staying for life, I mean, that would be, oh, I should have put that up there, divorce.

01:26:58.260 If the ladies were actually staying and not divorcing, it would make sense. Okay, at least 0.94

01:27:05.280 we get the loyalty from the women. We know they're not going to leave. But conservative

01:27:11.060 women divorce just as much as liberal women so now why would the man put in all of this extra money 0.53

01:27:24.500 to pay for you when it's more likely or there's at least a 50 50 shot that you're gonna stay

01:27:31.580 wouldn't it make more sense from a guy's point of view to have her work the first 10 years 0.99

01:27:38.300 let's make sure she stays i understand if there's a kid maybe that's different but is it

01:27:43.860 i mean it's one not 10 one on average we're gonna cross our t's and dot our eyes and i'm gonna get

01:27:50.120 up and have some solutions here instead he's saying i don't know who we pay our rent to or

01:27:54.740 how we pay the rent i don't know what happens if we come up with a late rent payment i don't know

01:27:59.180 what to do in response to this and sort of throws the problem back onto her which for me doesn't

01:28:05.260 really work it's not very masculine i'm gonna need some solutions yeah so then this goes back

01:28:10.740 to the common conservative trope you're not a real man if you don't bail me out of my bad decisions 0.88

01:28:17.860 you're not a real man if you don't man up and marry these hoes you're not a real man i mean 1.00

01:28:22.700 that's what they keep saying in trust this couple is already getting enough heat online so i don't 0.88

01:28:26.840 want to necessarily add to that people are commenting up a storm the first comment says

01:28:31.640 you know what hell no take me back to provider talk meaning they want to see the versions of

01:28:36.320 this with the providers rather than this 50 50 thing he literally had no solutions embarrassing

01:28:41.860 oh okay i like the ones where the man is the provider and somebody else said thank you for

01:28:46.820 marrying him somebody had to and i'm glad it wasn't me i don't know if she was ready for that

01:28:55.100 i think there's a lot of people who sort of film these moments in their relationships

01:28:58.580 and they're posting it online thinking it's going to be funny, ha ha. And then it doesn't end up

01:29:03.340 being funny at all. I wish her well. And you know what? We're just seeing a small sliver of their

01:29:08.320 relationship. I'm sure they have a good, fun dynamic going on and hopefully she is happy

01:29:13.580 where she is. But I think like the comments suggest, we're going to move on to the provider

01:29:17.880 relationships and see what the difference is. Okay, babe. So I checked my account today

01:29:25.140 and um yeah and i'm not going to be able to pay the mortgage this month

01:29:32.920 you're not going to what i'm not going to be able to pay the mortgage this month 0.99

01:29:40.820 well you don't ever pay the fucking mortgage anyway 0.97

01:29:43.920 i'm just going to let you know that i can't pay it this month 0.99

01:29:48.740 I like that there's a good energy about that and you know we're just comparing you know two separate

01:29:58.960 videos there's a lot within these relationships that we're not seeing but there does seem to be

01:30:03.040 a certain comfortability there and of course you know it's hard for him to believe considering

01:30:07.820 she's never paid the mortgage in the first place but it's interesting just watch a man go full

01:30:12.300 force and say what are you talking about you don't even pay a mortgage let's watch another

01:30:16.500 one while we're on provider talk. Babe, I can't pay the mortgage this month. What? I can't pay the

01:30:25.460 mortgage this month. I'm so sorry. Do we have another house? No. What mortgage are you paying?

01:30:33.080 I just can't pay it. Why would you pay the mortgage? I just thought I'd help, but I can't.

01:30:40.280 help with what a mortgage i can't pay it when do you ever pay the mortgage i thought i'd start

01:30:49.800 why to help you like to buy a second house no this house when we live in yeah why did you pay

01:30:59.480 for the house we live in because i live here i want to help yeah you live here you don't pay for

01:31:05.440 yeah but okay i wanted to help you no no help necessary you do more than enough with this that

01:31:14.720 yeah but you help a lot too so i want to help you yeah but this is my job okay okay he said this is

01:31:21.920 my job music to my ears i'm starting to wonder whether or not this is a skit now the interesting

01:31:27.520 thing i'm going to point out i looked it up before this show what percent of married women do you 1.00

01:31:33.200 do you think get to stay at home?

01:31:37.000 What percent, guys?

01:31:37.940 What percent?

01:31:39.960 One out of four, meaning you got to be

01:31:44.960 in the top quarter of women in order to get that. 1.00

01:31:49.660 So what is going to happen here is this

01:31:51.860 is going to be selling dreams to ladies 0.95

01:31:54.440 that will not get this, because unfortunately,

01:31:57.140 we've made terrible decisions.

01:32:00.560 I don't say this in a happy way.

01:32:03.100 And what they're going to do is instead of saying, ladies, make better decisions so you can get that, what it's going to turn into is men, you're not real men if you don't do this.

01:32:14.880 And it's going to be shaming language of if you don't pay for women that statistically will leave at some point, you are not a real man.

01:32:27.060 With how perfect he is.

01:32:28.500 They said, yep, it's selling dreams.

01:32:30.340 I'm going to check the chat really quick.

01:32:31.960 i like to interact with you guys you go to the website the audacity network.com

01:32:36.720 10 bucks a month and i read your chats it's so it's such a simple it's on the app store

01:32:42.040 links in the description okay all right as 100 men 12 hours is 69 minutes for each numbers are

01:32:49.340 so fun so for her to do a thousand men in a day i think that is 1.44 minutes each for men 1.00

01:32:54.820 for 24 hours straight can a man get in and out in a one in a in one and a half minutes is that

01:33:01.480 not even possible as long as you believe it you can fake it till you make it Rob six my

01:33:05.400 sister did her PhD thesis on 45 years ago that prostitutes are basically grape scenarios 1.00

01:33:11.440 on a continuous basis she would argue that point till her dying days Edward you're on 0.98

01:33:17.140 your own network but still censor yourself for YouTube it's so ridiculous to say porn 0.99

01:33:21.440 because YouTube won't allow you to say porn the nanny state is disgusting I don't you 0.94

01:33:26.540 then get more of you to sign up for my website and i'll only stream there i don't know what to

01:33:31.740 tell you you know all right um please call save indian family foundation um she has not been on

01:33:38.380 point in her explanation of the situation the person who died was associated with the siff

01:33:43.260 foundation she's a feminist um well you can have them message me okay let me go back answers are

01:33:51.020 with everything and of course i'm in a more traditional mindset i do like the okay but

01:33:55.900 notice she says traditional mindset not traditional actions okay I'm gonna I'm gonna take it down for

01:34:07.500 one second but I'm gonna do some research so Amala Prager University age okay she's 24 so she's got 1.00

01:34:18.500 one year to get a ring before she goes from my before she goes from my left board to my 0.89

01:34:25.220 right board then I'm gonna go on her and let me see my other page go on Instagram and by

01:34:34.740 the way this is not an insult I'm just I'm just pointing out the difference between oh

01:34:41.540 between actions and words okay

01:34:48.500 what the okay hold on guys I have to get into my Instagram I got locked out

01:34:53.660 so I can look up her Instagram because I'm pretty sure she's got a sleeve tattoo

01:34:58.220 I'm not positive I don't want to say that I don't want to I'm just going to google it Amala

01:35:04.140 sleeve tattoo

01:35:08.300 yeah I thought so yeah so you know this just kind of looks like one of the

01:35:17.640 have you seen those like your trad wife sir and it's not it's not meant to be a knock it's

01:35:24.580 it just it's not what they're like selling right because if we look at words actions words actions

01:35:34.000 um they differ okay let me go back

01:35:38.680 oh here we go okay

01:35:46.540 roles and leaning into them for i feel like it brings about healthier dynamics within

01:35:51.740 relationships now that is not the case for all some people really don't want that dynamic within

01:35:56.560 their relationship and they don't feel like it plays to their strengths with my outlook on

01:35:59.940 relationships i feel like it's better for women to lean into their femininity and this involves 1.00

01:36:03.480 the nurturing and taking care of the household and children which is okay

01:36:07.560 i think that some women not all use wanting to be a housewife as a way to not work and be lazy 1.00

01:36:22.160 the reason i think this is because when i was going into divorce documents it shocked me

01:36:28.960 how many stay-at-home wives still had nannies what on earth especially from wealthy men so you know

01:36:36.760 the Crowder divorce was one they had a nanny 40 to 60 hours a week while she's touting on social 1.00

01:36:43.220 media she's a stay-at-home wife now obviously that's the ideal but it's only the ideal if 0.98

01:36:48.960 they're really involved in their kid's life and again once the kid is four I still go back to the

01:36:55.680 question what are you doing all day now again we can go to more traditional areas like the amish

01:37:01.280 i would never say that they're not doing stuff all day

01:37:06.240 but sometimes i think women just want that as a get out of jail free card 1.00

01:37:14.560 oh i'm traditional now but i was liberal before it just hard work where men go out and do their

01:37:24.640 own version of hard work that brings the resources to make sure everything stays up and running and

01:37:29.840 it seems like they have a very healthy relationship at least in this small clip that we've seen

01:37:33.760 that's working out based on those gendered roles i don't know there's just an underlying energy of 1.00

01:37:38.480 security that exists within the videos where the man is providing and he goes what are you talking

01:37:42.960 about you don't have to worry about that and as a woman it's kind of nice to be able to shut off

01:37:47.600 your brain at least to some capacity and not have to worry about these things and know that somebody's

01:37:52.640 got you in that respect whereas when we watch that 50 50 video not only is that woman not supported 0.88

01:37:56.560 financially which is is something you know a lot of us have to deal with and that's just the nature

01:38:00.560 of the world these days but she doesn't a lot of us have to deal with like paying for yourself like

01:38:07.680 an adult we're having 1.5 kids not seven one one one doesn't seem to be supported mentally either

01:38:22.080 as far as tackling problems as they arise and this is not to bring down all 50 50 couples i

01:38:26.720 know there are many out there where the man is let me get this straight she says i made the

01:38:34.960 mistake of not paying the mortgage because i spent too much shopping you know i respect the men more

01:38:47.120 that say figure it out deal with the problem you caused now it's one thing if that's the

01:38:53.600 traditional you know that's what their arrangement right but i get i'm just not captain save a hoe 1.00

01:39:01.300 i'm just really not you know if you spend a bunch of money shopping i don't know why you wouldn't

01:39:09.200 have to figure it out is ready for solutions as soon as a problem pops up just seems like that

01:39:14.580 first video maybe got us off on the wrong foot we'll watch one more of the providers just for

01:39:18.060 fun babe so i'm not gonna be able to pay the mortgage this month because i did a little too

01:39:21.600 much christmas shopping like our house mortgage yeah do you even know how to pay the house

01:39:27.800 mortgage like you don't pay the house mortgage babe the difference between i don't know how to

01:39:32.820 pay the mortgage and do you even see again it's going back to the the it's almost like a subtle

01:39:38.960 training like do exactly as i want and i view as good or you're not as good of a man you're

01:39:46.180 you're lesser right know how to be the mortgage astounding i know but i just shopped a little

01:39:52.200 too much so i'm sorry i can't help you this month you you did help you went shopping like that's

01:39:58.460 what you do that's what your pay is for like you go shopping and you have fun like don't you know

01:40:04.720 your money is your money and my money is our money the bills are paid the mortgage has been

01:40:10.260 paid what do you mean so you're not mad why would i be mad you never pay the mortgage like

01:40:15.480 what's the difference this month because i shopped a little too much and so i can't get the things

01:40:21.200 you wanted yeah okay then we're fine like the bills are paid and you went shopping oh well

01:40:26.560 like i get paid again okay okay okay he said put it to bed you don't gotta worry about it

01:40:32.180 who's who's stressed not me you know what i find it hard to believe that most women do not want

01:40:37.340 this sort of relationship i know there's going to be many who say they don't care and even men

01:40:43.520 i'm not saying they don't want it i'm saying you don't get it i'm saying statistically you will not

01:40:51.480 get this it's not going to happen out of married women so out of the women that get married which 0.99

01:40:58.420 half won't out of the ones that stay married half will divorce or sorry out of the ones that get

01:41:07.100 married half divorce out of the ones that are still married a quarter get get one spouse to

01:41:15.160 stay home it's 23 percent it's selling dreams this is the problem with social media so now

01:41:24.160 got the teacher you know she's got her kid in public school she teaches at the school and she 1.00

01:41:29.440 goes home and says bob i i was looking at provider talk why don't you do this he's like wait wait

01:41:41.120 wait wait i like the i like the 50 50 i don't the kid's old go get a job she's no no no provider talk

01:41:51.280 any who are looking exactly for a 50 50 relationship but my goodness i'd prefer

01:41:57.040 this i prefer this one and i feel like many of the single women that i know as somebody who's 0.64

01:42:01.680 in my 20s in in la they're looking for this too they're just finding it a little difficult to find

01:42:06.960 and of course now again bored bored which one are they woman on the left or woman on the right

01:42:17.760 it's fine most women are on the right it's okay i'm not saying you're a bad person

01:42:26.640 but left right left right which one there is the reality that 50 50 is the norm because in many

01:42:34.560 ways it has to be with the economy a lot of people have to be in dual income households where no

01:42:39.520 you don't have to be you made the choice not to you're telling me okay about 18 years old you said

01:42:49.980 I'm going to be a housewife I will marry rich this is what you would have if you wanted this 0.76

01:42:58.080 this is what you would know you would know exactly what professions make a lot of money you would

01:43:04.300 have a list you would know okay doctors make this much they'll want to have kids on average in their

01:43:10.820 40s after medical school or maybe you have to meet them at the medical school maybe there's

01:43:15.940 one near you I don't know lawyers I don't know I don't know what you're into engineers

01:43:21.000 maybe maybe you want to be an MLB baseball wife okay well are you hot

01:43:28.880 if you if not are you gonna go get surgery to get hot no okay do you know

01:43:37.380 where they hang out have you researched where they hang out well I don't care

01:43:43.720 what it is but what choices have you made are you young are you did you make

01:43:50.420 that when you have the most bargaining power it's okay if you did it

01:43:55.880 all i'm saying is choices it's just annoying me okay they're both carrying a little bit of the

01:44:02.840 weight but i'm also seeing this push towards the cultural norm of 50 50. yeah because what's

01:44:10.140 happening is women all we made all these modern decisions and now we said yeah we want the 1.00

01:44:16.140 traditional we want the traditional back and the men are saying hell no they're saying f that

01:44:23.140 you're going to give me one and a half kids one two kids tops i'm not signing up for that that 0.93

01:44:29.860 not only are we forced to be in this dynamic but we should expect that in our relationships

01:44:34.340 and a video that went super viral recently that really pointed this out to me was actually american

01:44:38.340 men being asked about 50 50 relationships and then russian men being asked about that very

01:44:43.540 same day okay i think we get the idea here but this is this is what conservatism has not caught

01:44:52.340 up with. So I looked up 23% have one spouse that stays home of married couples. 50% of

01:45:01.300 women, millennial women, which is 28 to like 42 or something, roughly there, are married. 0.98

01:45:10.420 And guess what percent of women that are Gen Z are making traditional decisions. So 0.98

01:45:16.020 So 3%, 3.75% of Gen Z women are married. 0.83

01:45:24.320 Gen Z, I think that's up to 26 right now. 0.50

01:45:29.000 27.

01:45:34.780 Yeah, so up to 27.

01:45:36.540 I'm not saying it's right or wrong, but I'm saying the data, if I pull Gen Z women, it 1.00

01:45:40.200 says men are seventh in priorities.

01:45:43.140 Seventh.

01:45:43.460 okay like i'm okay now there's this idea too that we deserve to stay home

01:45:52.200 if you have three kids i'm gonna give it to you you could stay home i mean the kids go to

01:45:58.500 preschool at like three four that's like a decade right okay but you know i was doing the math on

01:46:09.140 this. You could become a server, $31,000 a year. A secretary, $44,000 a year. Journalism, $72,000

01:46:17.600 a year. I just looked up the average. Teacher salary, $71,000. Hairdresser, $43,000. So I'm

01:46:25.080 thinking, and I'm just going to do some calculations. So let's do the lowest paid of

01:46:30.940 all of those $31,000 and let's say the woman has two kids and stays home with them even in this 0.54

01:46:40.680 model stays home with them tell the kid is five okay let's say they have a 40-year marriage 1.00

01:46:48.060 so they have a decade of the kid of the mom staying home she goes back back to work at a

01:46:54.180 server I mean $31,000 times 30 that's a million dollars you don't want to help you don't think

01:47:03.780 that would be pretty helpful to your husband who on average makes $65,000 a year no why do you

01:47:12.680 deserve to again not right or wrong but you know we're leaving after and I saw a woman that sort 1.00

01:47:22.080 have shared this sentiment on tiktok i make it and i just thought it was really cute here

01:47:29.380 let me pull this it's the same trend here canceled for this but i don't want my husband 0.86

01:47:38.400 to just work and pay bills i don't want him to not have a hobby i don't want him to not have

01:47:47.000 healthy mental health. I don't want him to not have savings. I don't want him to

01:47:54.140 work and slave all day every day to take care of my bills, our bills, and me just sit there

01:48:04.560 and not contribute anything. This is coming from a young lady who has never been married. 0.83

01:48:13.780 I don't have any kids. I have a dog. I'm fully educated, pay my own bills right now, and it is difficult. I have a great career, and it is difficult.

01:48:25.720 So when I think of getting married and building with someone or coming together and bringing our assets together, I could never lay in my bed knowing that my husband has no life and no freedom and maybe no peace because all he does is work.

01:48:52.280 and because when you think about it we worked in the past we just worked on farms and now society

01:48:59.240 has changed now i'm not saying it's wrong to do a traditional relationship clearly there are

01:49:08.120 benefits but what i don't like is the entitlement that is what drives me crazy okay so i think that's

01:49:17.080 what are we five o'clock yeah okay guys I think that's all we got today let me know what you

01:49:26.120 think in the comments and go to the audacitynetwork.com I'm going to read our comments

01:49:31.480 from the network page right now I do I generally do it in between stories that's when I look at the

01:49:38.240 chat um let me go okay until content creators stop drawing their audience to platforms that

01:49:48.240 censor the censorship won't end we need to break free and tell youtube to shove it well go to the

01:49:53.660 audacitynetwork.com thank you edward edward did but you know we got to get enough members on the

01:49:59.120 website to go completely on the website so we can build up to it eventually but we just got to get

01:50:04.760 enough um Battlestar for the win everyone keeps talking about the chic economy but most of the

01:50:09.940 20 to 30 year old women I know are broke AF they're literally choosing to live like peasants 1.00

01:50:15.120 over being subservient to a man well what's interesting she said they'd rather friend

01:50:19.800 zone a stable provider and get spun out by chat on weekends what's interesting is they are serving

01:50:27.480 men but they're serving men at large so for example they work in a daycare instead of having

01:50:33.380 their own kids um we work as do uber eats instead of cooking like we deliver food to men oftentimes

01:50:43.940 but we do make most of the buying decisions because we spend so much more money oftentimes

01:50:50.520 we don't have it but we do there's no traditional marriages because of the state there's no truly

01:50:57.280 independent media because of youtube even if they do wake up one day a big says even if they do wake

01:51:03.060 up one day which many don't they longer they no longer qualify for a committed relationship with

01:51:08.480 all of the emotional trauma and damage big says is pearl following the chat i am i am oh wait one

01:51:15.100 more uh pearl the indian guy who committed to self-delete was asked to pay 36 oh no 360 thousand

01:51:23.180 dollars wow that's a lot okay guys make sure you go get my merch at just pearlymerch.com we have

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Pearl - December 11, 2024

What Modern Women Want： Today's Relationships with Traditional Privileges ｜ Pearl Daily

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