Pearl - May 12, 2025


What's In It For Men？ (2025 Documentary) Official Trailer

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Hannah Pearl Davis
Are Single Moms Failing？ Should Men Even Marry Anymore？

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Length

5 minutes

Words per minute

194.78

Word count

1,136

Sentence count

119

Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

11

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Hate speech

22

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Summary

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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage for men and why it s a terrible deal for them. Women are so willing to leave marriages because they are not happy that they are willing to sacrifice their happiness in order to stay in them.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 So there's this clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question.
00:00:05.600 Do we need men? 0.81
00:00:08.020 Most answered very quickly, no. 1.00
00:00:10.800 Because men are useless. 0.99
00:00:13.740 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye. 1.00
00:00:16.500 Most young men are single, most young women are not.
00:00:19.520 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
00:00:24.200 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
00:00:27.260 Nobody needs men! 1.00
00:00:28.300 The future is female. 1.00
00:00:31.500 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it. 0.99
00:00:38.040 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
00:00:41.340 You've kind of got the tradcon versus red pill thing.
00:00:44.060 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
00:00:47.600 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
00:00:51.700 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.
00:00:54.320 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
00:00:57.280 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married. 0.99
00:01:02.340 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.
00:01:05.980 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
00:01:09.600 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
00:01:12.400 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
00:01:17.620 Gee, what could go wrong there?
00:01:19.720 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. 0.53
00:01:23.380 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. 0.81
00:01:26.240 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. 0.73
00:01:28.860 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
00:01:33.920 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
00:01:37.120 You need no evidence.
00:01:38.240 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.
00:01:41.960 And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
00:01:45.300 I interviewed them on the other side.
00:01:46.880 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
00:01:50.180 How much did you spend trying to get him back?
00:01:52.280 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.
00:01:54.620 Before you know it, you're homeless.
00:01:56.060 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
00:01:57.980 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00
00:02:00.380 Wives are taught to leave their husbands. 0.99
00:02:02.320 And then daughters grow up without their fathers.
00:02:04.660 Family is the foundation of society.
00:02:06.400 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00
00:02:09.560 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness. 1.00
00:02:13.900 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women. 1.00
00:02:15.760 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
00:02:17.680 We tell them to put off family into marriage. 0.99
00:02:19.520 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.
00:02:22.180 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
00:02:26.600 Oh, freeze your ex. Have an abortion. 1.00
00:02:28.400 What? You're evil. 1.00
00:02:29.660 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail. 0.81
00:02:33.520 Right.
00:02:33.780 Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,
00:02:37.640 naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
00:02:40.360 It's self-sabotage.
00:02:41.280 That's the thing.
00:02:41.840 Women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy. 1.00
00:02:44.780 This is not about happiness.
00:02:46.860 The most important thing is the children.
00:02:49.200 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings,
00:02:53.640 leave when I feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids.
00:02:57.700 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
00:03:01.460 They think, well, men have all the rights. 0.95
00:03:03.020 They have all the power.
00:03:04.280 Privileged patriarchal system that we have.
00:03:06.560 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights? 0.99
00:03:09.200 I have no friends.
00:03:10.500 No wife. 0.97
00:03:11.240 And no social life.
00:03:12.240 Men are alone in this situation.
00:03:14.360 Men are homeless.
00:03:15.320 Men are thinking about eating guns.
00:03:17.140 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
00:03:21.540 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
00:03:26.940 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
00:03:30.840 Women are helplessly dependent upon men. 0.99
00:03:33.100 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.
00:03:40.520 Culture is telling men, you are no good.
00:03:42.360 You've got to get your act together.
00:03:43.580 I think men have failed themselves.
00:03:45.200 What kind of a man are you?
00:03:46.440 What kind of a woman are you going to attract? 1.00
00:03:48.400 If men are in trouble, so are women. 0.66
00:03:51.060 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
00:03:54.720 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man. 1.00
00:03:56.940 Am I crazy?
00:04:00.220 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
00:04:02.520 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them. 1.00
00:04:06.120 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
00:04:09.960 Women. 0.81
00:04:11.440 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
00:04:13.600 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
00:04:15.860 I'm over it.
00:04:17.040 When is it going to be my turn?
00:04:18.340 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?
00:04:20.100 I can't keep having these same conversations.
00:04:22.860 The only simp here is you, Pearl.
00:04:24.160 You simp for men. 0.99
00:04:24.760 I think you simp for women. 1.00
00:04:26.100 She's a provocateur. 1.00
00:04:27.160 She says stupid stuff. 1.00
00:04:28.360 But Pearl is right about this. 1.00
00:04:29.600 It's already happening.
00:04:30.760 It's just not out in the open yet.
00:04:32.220 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending
00:04:34.820 because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband. 1.00
00:04:37.860 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
00:04:42.120 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
00:04:46.180 Civilization will crumble.
00:04:47.780 The American story does not end well.
00:04:50.220 This is an existential crisis failing young men.
00:04:56.100 What up, guys?
00:05:00.720 So the time has come where we are finally doing this divorce documentary.
00:05:04.780 It's by far the biggest and most ambitious project I've ever embarked on,
00:05:09.560 and I need your help.
00:05:11.740 For every $1 you donate, you could potentially save an innocent man
00:05:15.700 from losing hundreds of thousands in child support payments.
00:05:19.240 Do you have a message that you want to send to your ex-wife
00:05:21.800 that you didn't get out in the divorce proceedings?
00:05:24.820 Well, for $20,000, we'll include it in the documentary,
00:05:29.860 a video message to your ex-wife.
00:05:32.000 And if we raise $500,000, we actually can finish this documentary.
00:05:37.060 If we raise a million dollars, we can make it a Netflix-level documentary.
00:05:42.060 If you want to invest a significant amount in this,
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