Pearl - What's The Way a Woman Fumbled You and Didn't Even Know It？ (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.580 We're going to talk about, has a woman ever said something or did something and you knew

00:00:09.620 in that moment that you had to make her break up with you?

00:00:13.780 Men, you guys don't really like dumping us.

00:00:16.360 I don't know why.

00:00:16.960 We deserve it.

00:00:18.000 But so I know how you guys do it.

00:00:21.100 You'll just try to get us to do it to you.

00:00:23.820 But later we're going to get into it.

00:00:25.900 We're going to talk about that moment.

00:00:27.180 But here's the thing. I just saw something stupid that a tradcon woman did or said, and obviously I have to roast her today.

00:00:38.040 So before we get into the show, we're going to react to another stupid, traditional, conservative talking point.

00:00:47.980 So as you guys know, I really don't think women are the nurturing gender.

00:00:52.840 I actually know that women are not the nurturing gender.

00:00:55.760 Men, if we're going to go off of like, who's better at raising kids, better with babies,

00:01:01.760 better with everything when it comes to children, it really is the men.

00:01:06.700 But for some reason, we have this idea that women just want to be mothers, even though

00:01:11.240 we've aborted an eighth of the world population.

00:01:14.400 And I actually, I was thinking about this the other day.

00:01:16.820 I think men are equally responsible for this propaganda because it's like what the men

00:01:23.820 will do is the men will say, yeah, you guys are just special women and you're so motherly

00:01:30.100 and nurturing.

00:01:30.920 And the women are like, nah, we want to be whores, slut march, let's get abortions.

00:01:36.680 And the men are like, no, not all women are like that.

00:01:39.620 That's not female nature.

00:01:40.840 Those are just the evil women.

00:01:42.260 And I'm like, you guys are stupid.

00:01:43.740 in the most respectful way I could possibly say it. Oh shit. My Siri went off in the most

00:01:52.160 respectful way I could, you know, possibly say it. Um, women keep showing who they are,

00:02:00.540 but conservatives just like refuse to believe them. Um, it's like the biggest cope I've ever

00:02:07.120 seen. And so I saw this, I'm sorry to derail, but I just saw this video and I just had to do a

00:02:14.700 commentary because this title here is just so stupid. It's just the stupidest title I've ever

00:02:22.260 heard in my life. Satan's guide to making women hate motherhood.

00:02:30.380 That would be like me putting Satan's guide to making men be criminals, right? You would think

00:02:36.960 that would be a stupid title you would say no he wanted to be a criminal but conservatives women

00:02:45.060 can't actually hate their children even though we kill one in three of them okay one out of three

00:02:50.660 women has an abortion an eighth of the we would have a second city of london if it wasn't for

00:02:56.620 abortion and the conservatives they say ah women just are born to be mother are not from what i've

00:03:06.200 scene. So anyways, I just wanted to react to this because when a Tradcon, we'll get into the actual

00:03:14.580 show today, I promise. But when a Tradcon puts something dumb, I just gotta, I gotta start my

00:03:20.160 show with this and then we'll get into the main topic. In their own life. Reels. Oh shoot, let me

00:03:25.240 start from the beginning. I played it a little before the show. Last weekend, my Instagram feed

00:03:29.660 was over. And by the way, I'm not hating on this girl. I defended her when Brett Cooper sent

00:03:36.160 her like fans after this woman I said hey Brett you could just like leave work like a normal like

00:03:44.720 a man would right like a man would just leave and not make it a big commotion not be unfollowing

00:03:51.260 doing this passive aggressive bullshit well you know what you're doing I said do you know what

00:03:56.140 you could just like it's work it's a job we don't have to get so emotional about this

00:04:01.160 so this is not me the rest of conservatives super simp for brett cooper and they all went

00:04:09.680 after this woman right they really did me i i'm not on that but when she has a stupid take i gotta

00:04:17.420 put this out there glowing with young women posting about what motherhood means in their

00:04:21.160 own life reels highlighting their first birth or the joy that they never now remember when women

00:04:26.900 so she's framing this as a good thing because conservatives, they tend to care about money

00:04:31.440 more than family. Right. So that's, that's generally how it goes. It's like, do we care

00:04:36.320 about the wellbeing of the kid or do we care about money and feeling good? That's kind of the two

00:04:42.980 choices that conservatives tend to have. And nobody thought that there's like pedos on the

00:04:49.040 internet and maybe it's not the best idea. Cause you have to understand we

00:04:54.100 a lot of these women are marketing for husband number two okay that's why they're posting this

00:05:02.900 they're showing i am a good mother uh so they can leave this beta guy they got and go try to

00:05:10.240 you know vie for that personal trainer musician whoever the hell it is ricky lee thanks for the

00:05:16.560 super chat but please stop simping um this is not a simp show uh we're here to we're here to get

00:05:23.680 down to the nitty gritty get down to business get rid of these hard eyes get out of here

00:05:30.320 unless you want to pay me ten dollars next time then you can stay so but they're not the women

00:05:37.760 again the women care about their reputation above all right they care about looking good

00:05:43.060 and conservatives that's why conservatives have almost turned into the party of women because

00:05:47.220 they care more about looking good rather than being accurate that's why they like use their

00:05:52.220 families for clout you know charlie kirk will bring his wife up oh my gosh then they bring

00:05:57.820 the wife and have the wife be part of the brand oh that's such a terrible idea oh my goodness

00:06:07.660 so but anyway so a lot of them see this as sweet oh we're just posting the kid

00:06:15.580 not me not me because i've seen women thirst trap with kids i know what you're doing ladies

00:06:22.220 felt before that moment the fulfillment and the purpose they feel every day whether it was famous

00:06:27.280 celebrities fashionable okay this bitch is using kylie jenner as an example of pushing motherhood

00:06:36.960 she's a single mother

00:06:38.840 okay you can't the the simping never ends okay well girl bosses or the friends i grew up with

00:06:49.260 the theme of their messages. Does Hailey Bieber even have a kid? I thought they didn't have a kid

00:06:54.120 yet. I could be wrong. We're all the same. There is value in motherhood. And it stood out to me

00:06:59.580 in harsh contrast to the research I had pulled just a few weeks ago when I was talking about

00:07:03.600 second wave feminism. And in that research, I found countless examples of women spearheading

00:07:08.080 the charge to teach other women how burdened they should be by their own biology. They taught them

00:07:13.260 to view marriage as a prison and how the family is a. Okay. So do you hear this language? This is

00:07:19.000 called simp language women were taught to view marriage as a prison this is a simp this is a

00:07:25.860 women trying to dodge accountability and a simp for they can't because simps the problem with

00:07:31.920 simps is simps can't accept women's true nature right terrible people not all not all i gotta

00:07:39.340 to stay YouTube friendly. Not all. Um, so is there an issue in the chat? Someone put something

00:07:50.380 Doug MP. I'm watching for your thing if you got an issue. So no, this isn't at. So what a face to

00:07:58.080 pause on. Um, Ricky, stop simping in the chat. Stop it. I need you to end this. Okay. So we're

00:08:10.820 going back to this lady. So the simps, they can't accept women's true nature. So what they do

00:08:15.500 is they say women aren't like that, or they were tricked, right? Like, it's like the guy that said,

00:08:21.460 oh these women they're like tricked into leaving me or her friends made her do it she didn't like

00:08:28.120 you yeah she didn't it was you it was who you are and you shouldn't take it personal fellas we don't

00:08:36.120 like anyone we don't even like ourselves but yeah she you she was just done with um her friends

00:08:43.640 didn't trick her into divorcing you it wasn't the culture it was uh who you are as a person

00:08:49.080 she just couldn't deal anymore. Uh, yeah, we're still not live on the website. So

00:08:55.640 I think it's the stream key. You guys got to just see if you can fix it. Um,

00:09:02.360 I'm going to continue. Crap or a concentration camp. And the more I was digging into those lies,

00:09:08.000 the more the truth was standing out. And it made me all just kind of stop and look at the facts

00:09:12.520 in my own life. Every mother that I know said that she became the best version of herself

00:09:17.620 when she became a mom.

00:09:19.220 Sure, they also say-

00:09:20.340 What she didn't say was how many kids she aborted

00:09:23.280 before she became a mother.

00:09:25.180 ...is the hardest job you will ever have,

00:09:26.880 but they also say it was the most rewarding.

00:09:29.040 Not a single mother in my own life

00:09:30.560 who I respect and admire has ever told me

00:09:32.880 that they wish they didn't become a mom

00:09:34.980 or that they hate motherhood by any stretch.

00:09:38.140 It is always the single greatest blessing in their life,

00:09:40.700 time and time again.

00:09:41.720 And they always say they are better for it.

00:09:44.080 So then as I was thinking about that,

00:09:45.580 I kept thinking,

00:09:46.380 okay so who told me the opposite who introduced me to any fear behind it the meat okay so again

00:09:52.560 she could take accountability and say who why did i not want to be a mother or why did i make that

00:09:59.540 choice but immediately it's got to go to who told me that here's the thing women go find the

00:10:08.040 information they want all this bullshit brainwashing i can't stand it it this is how

00:10:14.980 again this is simp language because what women do is they i was brainwashed it's like the get

00:10:21.960 out of jail free card that we use on simps so we go to the conservative guy and say ah

00:10:27.580 i didn't mean to have sex with 10 dudes i mean i was just brainwashed and the conservative

00:10:35.660 simp they tend the christian guy is like oh yeah honey

00:10:38.960 idiot or she's like do you know what i was on the phone with this lady the other day

00:10:45.880 and i told her that i don't believe any woman that says she's a virgin at 27

00:10:50.680 i don't believe it and she's like but but i was and i said

00:10:55.880 right do you i said i said do you do you want me to be nice or do you want me to go down this

00:11:04.460 rabbit hole chica she's like no no no you can tell and she was chill about it nothing against

00:11:09.680 her but i'm like okay you did nothing else you didn't blow anybody she's like oh well i did

00:11:16.260 bitch and i'm like this is what you're trying to do and i told her i'm like you're trying to sell

00:11:21.960 purity so you're trying to make me think or your husband think who bought that that you're pure on

00:11:27.320 some level right you're trying to sell this and um i'm supposed to believe it even though you've

00:11:34.180 had a sex drive since you were like 15 that you were just so good for 12 years

00:11:41.820 right tell your simp husband that lady media lies lies and more lies women who are strangers

00:11:56.400 to me and i just think that's very telling and very interesting if i were to turn off

00:12:01.080 the noise and simply just look around at the people in my own life growing up i would have

00:12:05.620 only seen the truth but that's not the world that we live in anymore sometimes the most

00:12:09.820 blaming someone else you find the you find the information you want okay if somebody wants to

00:12:17.840 stay fat they find the body positivity movement if somebody wants to lose weight they find a

00:12:22.900 weight loss page you can't market something to somebody that doesn't want it i mean you could

00:12:29.100 maybe put, maybe they want it 40% and the marketing brings it to 60, but you could not

00:12:34.680 market me into fixing a car. I'm paying for that shit the rest of my life. I don't want to learn.

00:12:39.400 I don't. I don't. Most influential people in women's lives are people they will never meet.

00:12:46.120 That's a crazy thing to think about. And in my stewing about this and thinking about Mother's

00:12:50.540 Day and watching all these women in my life be mothers and be incredible. And it's just such a

00:12:54.660 fun, frankly, week on social media to see all of that. That's when I stumbled upon this reel

00:12:59.160 reposted from Evie magazine. It was originally posted from a woman. Oh God, not Evie. I'm sorry.

00:13:05.760 You sent me a dress recently and it was nice, but I'm going to take the dress and just say not Evie.

00:13:10.820 You can't buy me. I don't, I'm not bought yet. Your, your magazine's too simpy for me. It just

00:13:17.080 is. I did like the dress though. It was nice. And I believe great name. And she posted a video

00:13:22.780 that said, I asked ChatGBT, if I were the devil, how would I make women despise motherhood? And

00:13:28.420 then she went on to post what the prompt gave her. I guess that makes me the devil. I re-entered that

00:13:34.020 into ChatGBT. And I want to show you guys what it said, because it was the same thing that she got

00:13:38.260 as well, because this was so telling. I assumed it would sound... The devil made me gluck gluck

00:13:45.240 five thousand god you guys gotta stop believing this stuff

00:13:51.240 the devil made me made me bang chad and tyrone

00:13:57.060 oh the devil made me do and then and then charlie kirk is like oh

00:14:02.920 totally the women are being used

00:14:06.460 right found similar to things i read about in my feminist deep dive but i did not

00:14:14.200 expect the prompt to be this on the nose. We literally put in the exact same thing. If I were

00:14:19.460 the devil, how would I make women despise motherhood? If you were the devil and wanted

00:14:22.500 women to despise motherhood, you wouldn't attack it directly. You'd reframe it as oppressive,

00:14:27.300 limited, or outdated. Here's a concise playbook. Gives me chills because it's just, just step one,

00:14:33.060 rebrand motherhood as a trap. What did I say they did? They called it a prison. They called

00:14:37.740 it a concentration camp, a trap. No, it's just work. I mean, it's so simple when we go down to it.

00:14:44.200 kids are work right they change your every morning you gotta do stuff and

00:14:50.680 women are lazy and they don't feel like it that's it it's really it's truly that simple in my eyes

00:14:58.360 women just don't want to be mothers because it's too much work and we'd rather go to like a concert

00:15:03.400 or be in a yacht in dubai or whatever you know hot girl activity and then when we're done doing

00:15:12.360 that, then we're ready to raise the kids, preferably one. Okay. Um, let's see.

00:15:26.900 Okay. Uh, the, Oh, the other part I was going to do. So I wanted to show again. So we got two women

00:15:35.200 I'm in the conservative side that are having kids and I just I would love to see one woman

00:15:42.420 have a child and not use the kid to build their brand I just I just want to I just want to know

00:15:50.460 can a woman have a child and not post it on the internet is that possible is that even is

00:15:59.800 And anyways, so, you know, the thing is with the Internet, people seek out, like, women, like, pedos and weirdos seek out women with children that have a lot of information about them on the Internet.

00:16:18.840 I had a PI on the show.

00:16:22.560 So anyways, this isn't, like, the worst one I've ever seen.

00:16:27.860 but I just wonder if it's possible if a woman can have a child and not put it on the internet

00:16:35.340 okay so that's really my housekeeping right now

00:16:39.500 so we're going to talk about fumbling so I'm going to go to the main thing if you guys want

00:16:49.960 to take the all right so welcome to another episode of pearl daily um modern women we have

00:16:59.060 decided to be strong and independent and really our our mothers did not teach us how to get a man

00:17:09.480 and to keep a man although there is information on google but we choose not to you know you know

00:17:15.340 so many women have been perpetually single or never get into a serious relationship. And these

00:17:20.920 women will go on dates with men, have sex with men, and often just can't get to the next phase.

00:17:28.700 The lucky few that do end up in relationships, they usually fumble it. And it's because of,

00:17:35.580 you know, women's horrible attitudes, being overly independent, spending too much money,

00:17:40.060 terrible friends, a number of things. You know, men will date these women for three to nine

00:17:46.300 months and then leave the situation. A lot of the time, the man will leave without giving the

00:17:52.500 women a reason why. Or he does give the women a reason why, but it's never good enough for the

00:17:59.200 women. Some men will blatantly lie saying you're too good for me, etc. Or try to get the woman to

00:18:06.980 dump him. He's like, ah, he'll get super clingy and be like, I can't live without you. You are

00:18:11.980 my world. And she'll be like, ah, I dumped him. Um, and some men just ghost. So the media always

00:18:20.880 talks about how men, um, how women are, how men lose good women, but they never talk about women

00:18:27.240 fumbling good men. And if you think about it, uh, it shouldn't be that hard for women to keep a man,

00:18:33.080 um cook clean shut up the shut up is hard i talk for three hours straight on this show

00:18:39.280 okay pretty simple right no not in 2025 it's really not that's uh what we're going to talk

00:18:45.260 about today women fumbling good men um i was on the on twitter and i posed the question

00:18:51.620 what's a way that women fumbled you a woman fumbled you and didn't know it

00:18:57.640 I also texted some of my friends, some of the top, um, responses here, her religious belief

00:19:07.760 in astrology, along with her religious belief in Christian tenants, caking on makeup and jewelry,

00:19:13.660 wearing three inch high heels. Um, every person, okay, wait, hold on. Let me go to the next one.

00:19:25.120 so here are some of the answers she admitted she had a current friends with benefits

00:19:30.000 she said she had a train ran on her in college when in when in front of the flat she decided to

00:19:38.960 do oh oh when she was in front of her flat she decided to do 180 to not look easy when she

00:19:45.060 decided to leave when we were midway through getting down because she had to wake up early

00:19:50.580 the next day. After she gave it up, she was expecting me to secure something more. Despite

00:19:57.240 eating me out in PDA, she said she does not come home on first dates. The anymore is silent.

00:20:06.880 After saying to, in me, I'm not going to say that, on the first date, she flakes two hours before

00:20:12.580 the second date, asking to reschedule the next day with no explanation. After she said she doesn't

00:20:21.000 do anal anymore, but she did it with someone else on a first date. After saying she had one night

00:20:27.340 stands and hookups, but she is past it and she expects five to six dates now because she wants

00:20:32.680 to be appreciated for who she is, what she does and what she values. Fake engagement. If you're

00:20:39.020 speaking to a woman, no matter what the subject is, if I get the sense that she's only acting or

00:20:43.980 pretending to be interested, that's a huge turnoff. If you're going to put on a show, at least be

00:20:48.020 good at it and be a good actor. A filthy house and a car. Women will go out in the streets dressed

00:20:56.260 to the nines, but their home and their car will be filthy, especially the bathrooms. I've seen some

00:21:00.560 women's homes that looked awful after they invited me over. Instead of smashing,

00:21:05.180 I made up an emergency and left. It's unacceptable. Trying to establish dominance. I'm not going to

00:21:11.640 be dominated by anyone, male or female. Someone will accompany you to a group setting, but

00:21:17.640 immediately try to establish themselves as an independent operator and try to dominate the

00:21:24.880 engagement. Unacceptable. She has her eye on the crowd. If I'm with a woman, she's constantly

00:21:29.320 searching in the crowd to see who might be noticing or paying attention to her. It's a huge

00:21:34.400 turn off and she has to go okay here is um a woman saying that she that women never apologize

00:21:41.080 and that's how they lose relations women you go full screen

00:21:46.860 women do not say women do not say sorry women do not apologize instead women gaslight men

00:21:57.780 into apologizing for things that they're not even at fault for and then these same women will sit

00:22:04.000 there and wonder why their relationships don't work out i'm sorry they won't sit there and wonder

00:22:08.140 why their relationships don't work out because that would take some self-accountability and

00:22:11.380 reflection because that would take some real work right that would take some real accountability

00:22:15.320 so instead they take the easy way out they blame men yep women um she says women can fumble good

00:22:25.900 men too women can fumble good men too let's talk about it imagine a man coming into your life

00:22:33.440 that's really worth having and you fumble him you can fumble this man just by simply not being ready

00:22:39.280 or being so jacked up from your past that you won't allow a man to love you properly now as a

00:22:46.380 woman i do feel like we're the catch absolutely 100 but that does not mean that when a man comes

00:22:52.740 around worth having that he is no he is not the catch as well here are a couple of ways that i

00:22:57.480 but like as a woman you can fumble a good man not believing or trusting anything that a man tells

00:23:03.640 you because of what your past relationships have shown you i'm all for innocence of proving guilty

00:23:10.920 making a man have to pay for every single thing that your ex did this man could literally be

00:23:17.000 asleep when you're calling him but because your ex used to tell you that he was sleeping he was

00:23:21.800 cheating on you now this man has to suffer from everything that your past relationship

00:23:26.440 showed you dylan was the one who never ever communicated with you where you didn't know

00:23:31.800 that it was important to communicate so now that you have someone a man in your life that's trying

00:23:35.480 to communicate everything with you you feel like everything is an attack or you feel like you just

00:23:41.880 want to shut down or the smallest form of miscommunication makes you not want to deal

00:23:46.080 with him no more you're fumbling all right i'm gonna give y'all an example then i'm done imagine

00:23:49.640 that you've never grown mentally or even relationship wise right so you finally get

00:23:56.340 in a relationship with a man who knows how to lead properly but you're so used to dealing with

00:24:01.940 a guy who don't know how to lead that's what you doing or come over to my house or

00:24:06.500 let me drive your car so now you got this man that wants to good morning beautiful let me take you

00:24:13.420 out at this time be ready at this time let me lead you then another thing is women feel like

00:24:18.840 being submissive means you're letting a guy control you that's an immature way to think

00:24:24.040 now don't get me wrong some guys can be controlling but it's up to you and your mindset

00:24:29.220 to realize if he's trying to control you or just simply lead you so these are just a few ways i

00:24:35.300 feel like women can fumble good men too and it could have a lot to do with women never having

00:24:40.720 growth within their relationships feeling with the same man for so long that you're used to

00:24:46.980 old toxic behavior that when you finally get a man worth having, you don't know what to do with him.

00:24:54.700 Just don't fumble.

00:24:57.600 Okay, let's see what we got next.

00:25:00.800 Women says she lost a good man because of her tendencies.

00:25:04.400 I think I have just lost.

00:25:09.000 I think I have just lost the one person that I prayed for.

00:25:14.820 all because of my self-sabotaging tendencies.

00:25:25.220 God forbid I actually accept good things that are happening to me

00:25:31.420 because I'm so used to it being a mess.

00:25:34.320 I'm so used to it being toxic.

00:25:38.560 and here i am in the face of a non-toxic situation in the face of a god-fearing man

00:25:46.940 in the face of a family man an amazing person she's just marketing for her next relationship

00:25:56.800 it's performative i don't really buy it thank you for the super chat ricky i appreciate the

00:26:01.500 hard eyes, um, going away. And I don't know what I'm doing. I don't know what I'm doing.

00:26:10.760 And I, I think I've just lost, I think I just lost the opportunity to experience something

00:26:19.800 I've never experienced before. All right, let's see what we got next.

00:26:26.020 What happens when you lose a good man? After you actually lose a good man,

00:26:30.500 let me tell you the aftermath before you choose to lose this good man you will try to find a man

00:26:36.180 equivalent to the man you're with and you will think that you could find better but when you

00:26:41.860 actually put yourself out there you'll realize that there is no one left right now and every

00:26:47.380 man will try to use you for a certain thing and you will look for that man that you left

00:26:54.340 and other men you will regret that man to the core because you'll realize that there is no good

00:27:01.380 people out there and nobody loved you as much as that man loved you and after that you will try to

00:27:06.900 go back to that good man only to realize that that good man doesn't want you and he actually

00:27:14.420 found a good girl if you have someone good in your life cherish them don't think you could

00:27:20.180 yeah cooked also performative but cooked all right um a man talks about how his friend's

00:27:30.120 girlfriend fumbled the relationship there's a girl i knew in college that dated a guy for four

00:27:33.860 years and this guy was amazing he was really good to her and she was really good to him for the

00:27:38.240 relationship in itself but one day she realized that she didn't want to be in a relationship

00:27:41.920 anymore she just decided that motherhood and settling down and marriage and having kids just

00:27:46.600 just wasn't what life was all about for her and so she actually left the relationship just one day

00:27:51.960 out of the blue she said i'm done there's nothing wrong with you and she said this to many people

00:27:55.560 like there was nothing wrong with him and it devastated this guy it killed him for the first

00:28:00.440 year after the relationship he was just not functional and what happened was even more so

00:28:04.520 painful for him was that she went back to her ex she went back to her ex who was probably trying to

00:28:09.160 talk to her the entire relationship encouraging her to do these things with him and this ex

00:28:13.320 traveled he had a good lifestyle and they actually went and traveled together for a period of time

00:28:17.100 they hooked up they did whatever they did I don't know all the details but she had fun with him but

00:28:21.020 at some point about a year and a half in the ex completely dropped her and then for another six

00:28:26.040 months she chased this individual and after a year the person that she left initially he got over the

00:28:33.200 breakup it took him some time it took him a year to get over it but then he found a new girl and

00:28:37.660 then he actually started dating her very seriously and so when she tried to come back to him because

00:28:41.240 that's what she did she tried to come back he didn't want her anymore until this day that woman

00:28:46.340 is single and she's out here justifying it to herself rationalizing i know she's not happy

00:28:51.540 because she tells people very close to her that she's not happy here's the thing she's not a happy

00:28:56.640 person women if she would have stayed with him that man should just count his blessings because

00:29:07.160 he she would have just tortured him there's some idea that women that are unhappy people will

00:29:13.640 somehow be happy in a marriage or relationship they're just less lonely but they torture

00:29:20.020 everybody around them like if anything he should just count his lucky stars she's just an unhappy

00:29:26.400 person happy and she missed out on the good guy she let that go and when she was young and when

00:29:34.440 she was attractive she spent all her time trying to chase the bad guys and trying to tame them

00:29:38.560 instead of really focused on settling down with the good guy and she regrets it she really does

00:29:42.800 because she tells people that were close to her that she wishes she could go back to this

00:29:46.960 individual and she regrets the decision that she made and my heart it aches for her yeah she says

00:29:52.620 that but she would get back and do the same thing to him if he ever took her back it really hurts

00:30:01.800 to see this happen because in no part of me do i want her to suffer i think that things would have

00:30:06.560 worked out beautifully for them but unfortunately she made the decision that she wanted to make

00:30:10.200 because she felt like at the time in her life she wanted more and that greed a lot of time that idea

00:30:15.480 of validation and verification and the desire to just go do things that are fun will cause you a

00:30:20.360 lifestyle of misery in the future because you missed out on the one good thing that was she'll

00:30:24.300 be fine as long as she didn't get fat she'll someone will do it don't worry really loyal to

00:30:29.500 you and really good for you so i encourage a lot of young women if you find the good guy

00:30:34.100 stay with him because you can go try to tame all these bad boys and have fun but

00:30:39.720 if you get out of the period there are women that tame bad boys there are

00:30:44.920 but i've gotten the numbers from bad boys ladies do you know the numbers i've gotten

00:30:52.100 from players i make them give me their stats or you know guys that have been in the field for a

00:30:58.140 while. Out of a hundred women that you hook up with, how many would you consider for a relationship?

00:31:10.500 Guess, put it in the chat. What do you think?

00:31:20.140 Four. And sometimes you're just not hot enough to be with them. And you might be cute.

00:31:28.140 but you're just not like these guys that are running through these hoes,

00:31:34.400 they got really high physical standards.

00:31:38.180 Yeah.

00:31:38.760 Four.

00:31:39.100 And that's,

00:31:39.460 that's after.

00:31:40.440 So then these guys,

00:31:42.800 the,

00:31:43.000 the,

00:31:43.280 they're always going to cheat for one,

00:31:45.400 but they,

00:31:45.740 they generally have a kid with somebody.

00:31:47.700 Yeah.

00:31:48.100 Four.

00:31:48.500 And then out of the four,

00:31:50.000 I think the one guy told me there's 10 over like a decade.

00:31:58.140 that he would have considered like to have children with and he had kids with none of them

00:32:04.440 so because sometimes they don't even pick anybody they pick themselves

00:32:09.800 do you know what i mean they just say do you know what i pick me um

00:32:18.060 yeah yeah none of them

00:32:28.140 yeah I know I know and look it because I've seen it go both ways right I have seen guys that are

00:32:36.260 like it depends how far gone they are there's a certain level of player where they okay this is

00:32:44.360 what I've seen you got one they'll get married but they'll always cheat and not cheat respectfully

00:32:54.180 like they'll cheat

00:32:55.240 or a long term girlfriend

00:32:57.500 they're going to cheat disrespectfully

00:33:00.660 do you know what I mean

00:33:02.120 like they're going to have a second

00:33:04.100 girlfriend when you're 40

00:33:05.660 because you're not going to be hot enough

00:33:08.080 to like entertain them anymore

00:33:09.660 some are

00:33:12.160 just for the streets forever

00:33:13.760 they'll just have baby mamas

00:33:15.680 girlfriends, they'll be married for like

00:33:18.060 a year

00:33:18.660 Um, I would say most are just going to go down the making some single mother's route.

00:33:38.080 And those women aren't even safe because those guys, if you're annoying them, like if you lift

00:33:44.280 a finger the wrong way guess what bitch you're out to the curb time where your sexual agency is very

00:33:54.040 high your ability to negotiate in the dating marketplace drops significantly precipitously

00:33:58.840 and then you're found in a situation where you can't find the good guy anymore or the good guy

00:34:03.680 that you want because they're just not interested in you anymore they're typically all taken

00:34:07.740 especially after 30 number two all the good guys are going for girls that are very young and that

00:34:12.520 that have no history and that haven't done all those things and those experiences and last but

00:34:16.840 not least you may have bags you may have trauma from all unfortunately the good guys still tend

00:34:26.360 to get the old women sorry it's just the the world doesn't really reward unfortunately the the chads

00:34:38.040 are the ones that still get the 22 year olds the pookies the ray rays all the bad the good guys

00:34:43.720 will get them after you try to tame and you may have trust issues that prevent you from really

00:34:47.480 starting a good healthy relationship all right let's see what's next

00:34:57.240 hey what's going on fam man i'm sitting here on my balcony studying some information for another

00:35:01.960 licensure and i was just sitting here thinking about this whole dating and relationship space

00:35:12.040 there are so many women who fumble good guys because their image of what a good guy is has

00:35:18.680 been tainted through social media podcasts social media posts through television that's telling a

00:35:27.400 vision and all types of other sources that shouldn't be primary in your life and you know

00:35:34.100 I want to say that man if you got a good man you better hold on to him because man good men are

00:35:38.960 hard to come by but because of your decision making and because of how you view relationships

00:35:46.340 and how you view partnership I believe that many of you are fumbling good guys because of the way

00:35:53.700 that you think so i want you to be very careful if you run into a good guy recognize that that

00:35:59.340 is a good guy and you do whatever it takes to hold on to him because these good guys are rare

00:36:04.660 and you may not get another opportunity to make they'll get opportunities forever

00:36:10.440 i didn't say hot guy i said good guy yeah unfortunately forever

00:36:16.960 the world has blackpilled me first impression okay so

00:36:25.700 i think we're gonna do the call in now all right so what are some of the ways i want to hear from

00:36:35.060 you guys have you ever gone on a date or been dating a woman and she fumbled a relationship

00:36:39.960 with you what did she say or what did she do and what are the some of the early signs that a woman

00:36:47.640 is going to fumble a good man please call in um rules for the call-in I understand you guys are

00:36:56.260 fans of the show but it kind of derails us when you guys tell me you're a fan of the show I get

00:37:01.360 if you're watching I'm gonna assume you're a fan thank you guys so much for watching but

00:37:06.940 when you come on I'd love to hear a little bit about you to get some context maybe the industry

00:37:12.500 you're in your name age what part of the country you're in okay that's usually what I try to start

00:37:18.620 with then I'd love to hear the story um if you guys are making it too long it's not to be rude

00:37:25.540 but I do have to cut you off so try to get tell the story get to the point finish the story and

00:37:33.440 then we can i'd love to do a lot of callers so if you guys haven't called in before please think

00:37:40.000 about calling in it really does make the show the more stories and callers we can get it's a zoom

00:37:45.420 link um so make sure the youtube is not playing in the background we're gonna go one by one today

00:37:50.620 um what up guys welcome pa on the line what up guys doug mpa how are you oh it's good to be here

00:38:01.180 parole what's going on oh you know just doing the show what's going on with you

00:38:05.860 these topics we're coming up with man these are great so tell me how women have fumbled you

00:38:14.040 how are how are um how are you not married you know what why did you let down these women

00:38:22.520 or um one of the worst things for me is when a woman so my parents never fought in front of

00:38:29.940 kids growing up and then you know i have a twin brother aj's rant reactions you'll never see us

00:38:35.460 fight in public ever we have a disagreement but you don't see us fight so women will get more and

00:38:42.180 more comfortable around you and then start challenging you or fighting with you in public

00:38:48.100 the first couple of months everything you say uh-huh they just start arguing with you

00:38:53.620 in public i have to get you told to like well you're wrong you're just not whatever it's like

00:38:59.300 even if we disagree with why are you arguing with me in public so i only do that once and

00:39:06.100 or maybe twice and then she's done because there is no reason why you need to be arguing with me

00:39:12.340 in public no reason why i'm talking full blown i'm gonna get you told i'm gonna raise my voice

00:39:19.860 i've had women try to try to wag their finger in my face i'm like whoa hold up a second that's a

00:39:26.020 a big one and it never comes out at the beginning it usually comes out after three or four or four

00:39:31.440 months so they do that once and you just cut it yeah yep do you tell them why or do you get them

00:39:38.520 argue with you in public how do you how do you go about it um do you just block them send them a text

00:39:46.060 do you get them to dump you like how how see i i ghost a lot a lot of people say oh don't ghost but

00:39:52.680 hey you know women feel entitled to everything in current society especially closure guys don't

00:40:00.600 give them closure don't let them know why that's probably the worst thing you could possibly do to

00:40:05.920 a woman is not tell her why you don't want to talk to her anymore because she needs to know

00:40:11.980 she has to have closure you see it in the movies media romance novels they have to have closure

00:40:18.140 Don't give it to him.

00:40:21.580 Anything else?

00:40:24.080 So, arguing in public.

00:40:27.620 Oh, when you start meeting a girl's actual friend group,

00:40:32.960 and she has some crazy friends.

00:40:35.920 Like, wait, you've known this girl since high school or since college,

00:40:39.780 and her friends are scandalous?

00:40:43.160 You're like, wait a minute.

00:40:44.540 You hang out with these broads?

00:40:46.700 How bad do they have to be? And how quick do you cut it? Like you meet one bad friend? Are you

00:40:51.980 cutting it? Well, so most guys are going to have to have that. Hey, you know, if we get serious,

00:40:58.760 you're going to have to stop hanging out with those friends. And I don't mind having the

00:41:02.900 conversation, but I try to have that conversation first. Like I try to see why the motivation as

00:41:09.580 to why the woman hangs out with those friends and is she going to keep doing it? And if she's going

00:41:14.060 to keep i would never tell a woman you need to stop hanging out with those scandalous women

00:41:19.260 i just i'd rather just leave yeah it's too much work because then you gotta then then she'll blame

00:41:26.880 then she'll blame you later exactly yeah she'll say oh you cut me off from my friends

00:41:33.180 yeah and then then you're the villain ammunition too look she's trying to isolate he's trying to

00:41:38.980 isolate you from all of us because he's a narcissist it's like no you guys are just whores

00:41:44.420 yeah exactly oh okay who else group and then the um arguing in public the women get a little

00:41:53.000 too comfortable sometimes and the worst thing that can happen with a modern woman is guys

00:41:57.880 these women will talk to you like they can kick your ass in a fight why why i don't get it

00:42:07.140 hmm so is that it i thought you'd have more go ahead i said i thought you'd have more

00:42:15.640 no i i'll think of uh maybe some of the callers will jog some from the memory but those are the

00:42:22.060 two big cool right now is anyone on the line yeah i'll bring him up

00:42:25.880 andres andres are you there

00:42:35.440 oh can you hear me yeah we can hear you

00:42:38.780 yo what's up

00:42:41.020 so what do you think about the topic what um what are some ways that you've seen women

00:42:48.580 fumbling relationships with guys

00:42:50.900 uh well just you experiences

00:42:57.240 so I think it was my third

00:43:01.880 girlfriend in Iowa

00:43:03.000 cheated on me with like

00:43:05.580 two of my friends

00:43:07.100 so that's one way

00:43:09.320 and then

00:43:12.180 wait wait wait

00:43:13.080 what's up

00:43:16.500 she cheated once and then you stayed

00:43:19.480 and she cheated again

00:43:20.400 no no I found out

00:43:22.920 that she had cheated

00:43:24.580 with both of them

00:43:26.640 at the same time so oh my gosh she got tag teamed by your friends and i found out and then the other

00:43:34.300 one happened and i found out i found out that both of them had at on the same day did they um

00:43:40.500 did they tell you or how'd you find out um i can't man somebody i think another friend of mine told me

00:43:48.040 and i was like oh man no so and it was funny because uh uh you know after college and

00:43:59.940 everything she i told her i forgave her and everything and then she was gonna leave her

00:44:06.300 husband for me and i was like no way man i ain't doing that again

00:44:12.080 uh uh are you still friends with the guys or did you cut them off

00:44:19.040 uh well i i stayed i stayed friends with them uh sort of like i didn't i didn't really cut

00:44:30.480 them off i should have probably but you don't bring your you don't bring the new girls you're

00:44:35.380 dating around him anymore huh like to me like like she was obviously the problem yeah i mean

00:44:41.940 it's like you know uh i couldn't blame them you know but uh wait so you just said that you didn't

00:44:52.180 blame your friends for sleeping with your girl while you were with her no i i did yeah i definitely

00:45:00.540 did but like like like they didn't matter to me you know what i mean like it wasn't like oh

00:45:08.080 like i can't believe you do that dude because i wasn't really that good of friends with them

00:45:14.440 it was more like they were kind of like friends of friends and yeah well when i was young we had

00:45:22.160 like one or two guys that would try to screw everything walking walking along and the only

00:45:28.240 good about having a guy like that around us because we called him the hoe detector right so

00:45:34.560 it would be kind of beneficial for you to bring your girl around the friend group because if

00:45:39.220 if she fell for you know just in the first when you first meet her whatever because if she would

00:45:44.120 fall for the hoe detector well then she was a hoe you know what i'm saying so your friends

00:45:50.220 actually did you a favor oh yeah absolutely uh and then my other my other story was i was in

00:45:58.460 college and i was talking to this girl chatting with her online and she was a friend of a friend

00:46:03.960 and and i thought i thought maybe it would go somewhere and then she just like told me about

00:46:13.260 her escapades with her friend that they they were hooking up with some married guy and getting on

00:46:19.880 the plan b and everything and i was like oh man that's trouble right there so anyways yeah that's

00:46:36.280 my two stories well you dodged a whole bunch of bullets man thank you for calling in good calling

00:46:41.960 anytime okay all right everybody okay next up we have

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00:47:09.880 I put David in here.

00:47:12.140 He must have dropped out.

00:47:13.000 So let's get Chad is joining.

00:47:21.440 Chad?

00:47:22.120 Of course, Chad.

00:47:24.720 Oh, yes, I'm here.

00:47:26.280 Just for a minute.

00:47:29.080 Pearl, you have to have him turn up your microphone

00:47:31.620 because it's really, really low.

00:47:33.480 Is it?

00:47:34.060 Okay.

00:47:35.020 No, no, not you, Chad.

00:47:36.680 I'm talking to Pearl.

00:47:38.540 Ah, sorry.

00:47:39.880 okay i can hear it sounds it's weird in my i have all my sound settings up yeah it's weird in mine

00:47:46.780 i can hear it is it better now think about the topic is it better now what have women done in

00:47:52.200 the past to fumble a relationship with you well well thankfully i i have three kids now and

00:48:00.400 everything is going well i've never married and fumbled the ball but prior to that i've had many

00:48:06.220 bumbles and and most the time it's the whole cry cry cry and victimhood sort of thing this is before

00:48:15.420 it was a major mainstream thing and i'm just glad that i'm not in the dating market now that's all

00:48:22.640 i can say i feel sort of people that have to actually be part of the dating market now it's

00:48:29.800 sad um in my time women were more traditional i i retired dating in the year 2001 so yeah

00:48:41.320 um i feel sorry for all the guys out there and uh maybe you should go east

00:48:48.200 perhaps that's the only option but yeah that's all i have to say about that

00:48:53.080 okay okay

00:49:01.480 can um can you hear me better now mpa it's radically changed radically changed now we

00:49:08.840 can't hear you on the zoom call for some reason uh oh oh no no you're fine chad i i can't hear

00:49:15.720 pearl okay wait can he not can chad can you not hear me either if you're talking we can't hear

00:49:24.040 you i'm so sorry you guys um can you guys hear me on the now they're saying it's too

00:49:36.760 these tech issues are killing me lately um now they're saying it's too loud on there one second

00:49:43.800 guys i think she's talking but we can't hear um well um but they hear on youtube

00:49:52.200 yeah they hear me on youtube i'm gonna text them hold on one second here

00:50:10.840 one second guys

00:50:13.800 Oh, people say that they can hear everybody fine, but on the Zoom call, we can't hear Pearl, though, unfortunately, so I don't know what happened.

00:50:34.480 I'm unsure. I turned out my volume as requested, so I'm not too sure what's going on with Pearl's input.

00:50:40.660 Can you hear her talking?

00:50:43.800 Well, I turned out my volume, so unless you pipe it into my dialogue, I can't hear her.

00:50:50.940 No.

00:50:52.620 Yeah, hold on.

00:50:54.020 I'm going to turn the YouTube on.

00:50:56.520 But there's no input coming in from the Zoom chat.

00:51:02.320 That's what you're asking.

00:51:07.520 Okay.

00:51:08.000 well watch it gets up to look at the settings before guys give a woman like

00:51:16.940 how long do you normally give a woman when you're seeing red flags because I

00:51:22.380 think it's usually between like three to six months honestly in a couple of dates

00:51:26.820 you can see a lot of things but I do know that there are women out there that

00:51:32.000 wait until certain things occur like engagement dating some sort of those

00:51:37.700 mile markers pass and all of a sudden they're like Jekyll and Hyde and you've

00:51:41.900 never met this person and as soon as you see that happen that's a red flag

00:51:47.300 because if someone can actually departmentalize their relationship with

00:51:50.660 you in such manner then they're not date worthy my opinion can you hear me now

00:51:56.420 i'd agree with that i'd agree um when when a woman shows you red flags whether she's

00:52:04.500 she's gonna fumble or when she's fumbled it how do you normally handle it do you ghost

00:52:09.220 do you tell her it's not working out what do you normally do chad well i would state

00:52:16.020 a few things what i've mentioned but beyond that if if i see a night and day jekyll and hyde

00:52:22.180 situation when demarcations are posed then i state it and if they can't rectify it which

00:52:30.340 they clearly can't i i drop them like a potato

00:52:36.420 okay i'll tell you i recommend ghosting i said it about 15 minutes and i say it again now don't

00:52:41.700 give these women closure just stop talking to them that's what i'm saying i mean i mean having

00:52:47.140 a response immediately after is is close to ghosting i'm not going to ignore them i i give

00:52:53.460 them two responses it's almost like a three strike rule for me but when i see a an immediate change

00:53:02.740 in demeanor and actual being themselves then they've obviously been able to compartmentalize

00:53:10.180 themselves beyond the uh realms can you guys hear me person should be able to do when you're

00:53:16.900 having a relationship and if they have that i mean i see that my both my parents are teachers

00:53:22.260 and they have a teaching mode and they act like teachers and then they act like human beings

00:53:26.740 outside of that area but when they can't actually have the confines of a relationship in that manner

00:53:34.980 and realize that it's not some sort of like like third thing or even if it is a third thing if a

00:53:42.020 The third thing changes to the fourth thing, and taking the mask off, that's what I draw the line.

00:53:49.100 And I honestly do feel pity for men right now because it's a whole different situation.

00:53:55.680 Partnership is out the window.

00:53:56.840 It's like, oh, if you accompany me in my endeavor, I'm a strong and independent woman, then therefore you're good for me.

00:54:04.960 But I don't want to partner with you.

00:54:06.940 and if if anything is not like 100% what I want it to be then therefore I'll

00:54:13.600 exit they'll take take after stop while you're at it yeah that's cool yeah yeah

00:54:20.080 you know I'm in my mid 40s and I feel bad for all the young guys growing up man

00:54:24.440 they have no idea well they have a they have an idea of how rough they had it

00:54:29.180 they don't know how good we had it when we were younger yeah I'm in the same

00:54:35.140 area i'm 48 but i'm in canada and i think it's sort of trickled down by about three years well

00:54:42.660 you're canadian and i i have to say thank you to all my canadian brothers and australian brothers

00:54:47.460 for making another day in those feminist hellholes oh it's scary i see that i'm off the chat

00:54:56.420 everything okay is everything should i leave the conversation or what's going on yeah we're

00:55:01.620 gonna try to get the zoom thing fixed because i i can't i still can't hear her so okay i have my

00:55:07.060 volume down so should i keep it that way on the other device so i can hear her or well you can

00:55:13.460 hear her on youtube i just can't hear her on the zoom call yeah yeah i turned it on on youtube as

00:55:18.580 instructed because you don't want to have that yeah you don't have devil yeah anyways okay all

00:55:24.420 right thanks for calling calling anytime buddy all right should i leave them yeah i'll put you

00:55:30.740 out there okay I don't really know what to do now um that was the whole point of the show

00:55:49.580 i mean i might have to see if i can

00:55:58.980 because it was working earlier hey shib what's up buddy

00:56:08.360 yo what's up um i know pearl you know what i wonder since obviously i know pearl should i

00:56:18.840 just call her on her phone she just puts on speaker phone on the mic so people yeah maybe

00:56:24.600 we could do that yeah maybe we just do that problem is i probably can't probably can't hear me

00:56:33.880 to hear that idea but let me let me see

00:56:37.160 yeah i would um but i'll everything was working until i said something about her volume on the

00:56:51.140 zoom and then something happened but it was just really low on the zoom i could barely hear her

00:56:55.280 so oh man oh i know how yeah but just real fast for the audience his audience on youtube

00:57:01.880 that they can hear you name uh just real fast okay wait there you are you can hear me now yes

00:57:12.120 oh cool thank god i was about to cut the show too because i was like i can't really finish it

00:57:19.400 without the thing can you hear me yeah wait can girl hear me though yeah i can hear you yeah

00:57:26.760 look at that it's nice and loud too nice nice cool so so shiv how are you fumbled

00:57:39.800 um well the biggest thing that girls do that fumble it with me

00:57:43.480 is if they ask too many personal questions about my money

00:57:49.800 like if they the second they come to my apartment they ask like oh how much rent is this how much

00:57:54.520 does this couch cost or like the checkup for price tags then i go how much is the uber to send you

00:58:02.600 home right now um so yeah i just can't i don't know i know it sounds stupid but like it just

00:58:10.120 it just really annoys me it's like you're already getting you get to be in the place like and you're

00:58:15.960 not paying for it anyways like why does the girl need to know it just makes me feel really uncomfortable

00:58:19.880 it makes me feel like she's gold digging so um any like if we go to a dinner and then she like

00:58:24.200 wants to know what the unless she's like trying to split the bill but if she's just like how much

00:58:27.560 is it i'm just curious like i don't know i just feel really like eh about it so yeah you you wait

00:58:35.880 you've taken girls on a date to the type of date that you would want to take her to

00:58:41.560 and she's offered to split the bill like do you what do you do because you know that if i've

00:58:47.480 always thought that if a woman wants to split the bills she doesn't like you oh so you know what's

00:58:52.760 weird it's a generational thing don't don't you agree yeah is it really yeah it's different and

00:58:59.640 also to be fair a lot of the girls that i'm dating are like they already they make like 150k 200 grand

00:59:04.680 a year um there's like a lot of tech doctors things like that especially i'm dealing with

00:59:09.240 indian girls lately um but um i don't so the funny part is i i never let them but i love when they

00:59:16.040 offer so to me it's a it's a green flag if they ask i hate it dude i hate that stupid dance where

00:59:23.720 you put the bill down and then they look at you and fake reach for their purse i hate that crap

00:59:29.160 i hate it why like you know for dang well that you're not because here's the thing they do the

00:59:35.560 fake reach right and you don't know some women will be okay with having to split the check but

00:59:43.880 But it's a risk because you could ruin it by splitting the check with the wrong woman and then not getting laid.

00:59:52.240 Understand what I'm saying?

00:59:53.940 No, I totally get it.

00:59:55.660 I just don't take the risk.

00:59:56.540 And I think this whole most women know for dang well that a real man pays for the dates.

01:00:04.200 So why take the risk?

01:00:05.780 Why?

01:00:06.120 I don't know.

01:00:06.560 I think it's because in our generation, 50-50 is not uncommon.

01:00:11.840 like i i know a decent amount of couples that just split everything down the middle

01:00:16.080 like that's not i can think of one person in my family that's married and until he didn't even

01:00:22.160 pay rent until like they got married and they're together like eight years they split everything

01:00:29.120 like it's not really like i've i've just seen that a lot amongst like younger millennials

01:00:34.880 i just for me i don't think that you can get the kind especially if you've achieved

01:00:41.600 you can't get the kind of respect that oh i agree so don't get me wrong i i don't like i never let

01:00:50.120 them so like usually what i'll what i'll do is if i ever give the girl a concession it'll be like

01:00:55.420 the next day morning we go get coffee i'll let her buy me coffee right but i i paid for the real

01:00:59.980 thing last night so i will make sense yeah so they can feel like they're equaled or not but

01:01:06.620 um you know but um but other than that like i think the other one that really drives me crazy

01:01:12.140 is i've had girls like try to like like they'll just try to bring like a friend on a date but like

01:01:19.100 not not like a you know not to join in like like if you're gonna if you're gonna bring a friend

01:01:26.620 she better join yeah she better be hot and join in but um no i i just find like that's really

01:01:34.380 annoying because it obviously that friend always just ruined it ruins your chance of sex every

01:01:39.740 time um so that one just drives me up a wall if they're like oh can i you know whatever like hey

01:01:46.820 let's go do this oh can my friend join um i don't know sometimes it just annoys me unless it's like

01:01:53.620 a group like sometimes if it's like they have like eight girlfriends if it's like a huge group

01:01:57.860 sometimes it's cool to do that um but yeah i don't i don't that also has fumbled out for me

01:02:06.580 have you ever been in a relationship with a girl and that she fumbled it

01:02:12.580 um yes well my ex my my last like we were together for a year and a half and um

01:02:19.700 Um, honestly, I think the biggest thing for her was just not respecting my, like the fact

01:02:26.700 that my work schedule is so sporadic.

01:02:29.020 Like the thing with me is I have either a lot of free time or none, and it's very random.

01:02:33.480 It's probably similar to you.

01:02:34.560 Like, like today was just a total cluster of a day.

01:02:37.520 I've been on back-to-back meetings from early, like from 6am to now.

01:02:41.200 Um, so, but there might be tomorrow.

01:02:43.120 I might have nothing to do.

01:02:44.020 So she would just like, if, if, you know, it was date night and that day I was like,

01:02:47.720 oh i'm so busy i have to cancel but we'll do it tomorrow she would get so annoyed about it

01:02:52.840 and i'm like you don't like what do you expect i don't get how girls want this like high value guy

01:02:57.880 and then they're shocked that high value guys have like to do like have to sacrifice certain things

01:03:03.400 well you know what it is because they put themselves uh at at odds with your work

01:03:10.440 schedule or even worse your hobbies man that's another thing so usually right around once you

01:03:16.520 start throwing labels around she'll be like oh you watch football too much or you play video games

01:03:22.680 too much or you're on your computer too much or you work too much putting herself directly opposite

01:03:30.520 of something that you like or a pursuit in life if a woman does that you're gone oh i had a girl

01:03:36.920 get really mad at me that was dating for like my girlfriend at the time because she had a marketing

01:03:42.680 degree now she was a waitress and she of course got fired from and she got fired from waitress

01:03:46.860 job to waitress job like her whole life and she was she was like 29 so it's like she had time to

01:03:52.340 build a career and she couldn't um and then she had a marketing degree and so she got really mad

01:03:56.940 i wouldn't hire her because i run a big marketing company like and that i broke up with her like

01:04:02.120 the next week i was like i'm out like because she just kept pressing on it and i'm like why would i

01:04:07.400 hire you like it's it's a it's the worst idea ever you know for for me to like like you know

01:04:13.260 i don't know and she was just dumb as a box of rocks so that was also yeah well if you can't

01:04:19.300 keep a waitress job then to like it would just give you guys something to argue about exactly

01:04:24.960 i'm like you can't you can't keep the like do you want fries with that job and like you know

01:04:30.240 i'm the guy who's supposed to like put you in my company and yeah and then also like more

01:04:34.580 importantly it's if she you know girls can be really vindictive if she has my client list she

01:04:40.260 knows my oh yeah i didn't actually oh there is a divorce story that's exactly what the wife did

01:04:47.780 oh yeah she took his client list and like called them and started subpoenaing them in the divorce

01:04:56.980 that's really all i was thinking because she had that already those patterns

01:05:00.500 where like dude she would do which i mean look everyone has to go through one psycho girlfriend

01:05:06.020 i did that on the last one and dude she would like dm anytime i was with anyone she would like dm them

01:05:12.260 on instagram and be like what are you doing with shiv like any time i was on a story oh my gosh

01:05:18.100 that's insane it was nuts absolutely i mean this was all towards the end but she she just became

01:05:23.140 full psycho and yeah it was a total it doesn't even have to happen on that great of a scale i was

01:05:29.140 I met this girl when I was in undergrad in Vegas, and I told you, this was the first girl where my friends were like,

01:05:36.640 Doug and PA, you got to let this girl go. She's crazy.

01:05:39.840 She's six foot tall, and she's half Irish and half Korean.

01:05:43.760 She was hot. You showed me a picture.

01:05:46.220 Yeah, so this girl was, anyway, and I waited tables at a restaurant, and she was a host girl there.

01:05:53.860 And then we went to school together.

01:05:55.560 so she would intentionally start

01:05:57.660 every

01:05:58.620 when we were in bed or at my house

01:06:01.240 she was fine but anywhere outside of there

01:06:03.240 she was nuts so she'd start

01:06:05.580 a fight with me at the restaurant

01:06:07.480 and then not seat tables in my section

01:06:09.720 to get back at me while we were fighting

01:06:11.760 then she would ditch her

01:06:13.740 classes and be waiting outside my

01:06:15.660 classes when I was

01:06:17.240 in class so we would

01:06:19.560 fight and then I had to go into the class

01:06:21.460 and then she would wait outside my class

01:06:23.560 then i come out of the class and we keep fighting bro

01:06:28.180 that's so yeah man yeah so you gotta watch out and that was about three to four months in i hit

01:06:38.120 that magic mark right about 90 days to like four or five months and it all came out yep yeah but

01:06:44.320 god the the crazy ones are the best best sex right yeah that's funny you want to stay on

01:06:56.880 i'm going to bring sean obstacles to opportunities he's waiting for a while

01:07:04.880 hey sean what's up buddy how's it going sean

01:07:09.440 you're on mute yeah yeah yeah good good good good good good to see you buddy how are you

01:07:17.960 what's going on i live in a good life in thailand sweaty cop it's funny that's um how happy you guys

01:07:26.060 look when they get away from western women it's like the all right it's like there's um a new

01:07:32.180 life in their eyes um but are they fumbling you there too what's going on oh yeah they is

01:07:40.880 they still do it over here just in different ways so

01:07:44.000 well you know i'm in asia so most guys you know women approached uh you know marketplace different

01:07:53.320 where their date naps they're really nice at the beginning out the gate but there's some uh

01:07:57.940 their little fierce cats on the back end and so once most guys love them more than then you know

01:08:03.380 she loves them that's when she brings out the claws and then she starts controlling them like

01:08:08.100 that guys in thailand are getting divorced like in crazy numbers too the local guys are paying

01:08:13.220 on only fans too so it's not you know all peaches and cream so i would say fumble is more so you

01:08:20.500 know i think social media has changed the dynamics a lot so a lot of girls think like

01:08:25.220 they're like very high value for the position in life they are and so they

01:08:30.560 look at a lot of the men that they come encounter with and say what's your price

01:08:34.220 hurry up and buy and then at the same time you know they have these

01:08:37.940 dysfunctional relationships where the girls don't think they're beautiful

01:08:40.920 inside and so that tears on the relationship in a long time so it's not

01:08:44.900 even like an issue that you'll have with a girl it's most of the issues she have

01:08:48.060 with herself that actually fumbles the position she's in her head thinking what

01:08:52.740 is he doing is he cheating oh do i really look good does he really like me and so this really

01:08:58.920 destroys a lot of relationships from because she's insecure and she takes it out on him

01:09:03.940 yeah and not even necessarily on him just in the relationship she's insecure about her position

01:09:11.660 and of course the guys try to say what they can say like oh no baby i'm with you i love you so

01:09:16.720 much you're beautiful but you know girls are looking on instagram these girls love kim

01:09:21.940 Kardashian so they're comparing you know how they look to them and other figures too in the culture

01:09:27.600 that's crazy that's crazy that the Thailand like Bali girls learned the grift so fast

01:09:35.620 so much from the west it's pretty bad man I was telling Pearl last time we was on here

01:09:43.620 like yo the girls will marry early so that does happen they don't wait until no 30 or something

01:09:49.600 over here and that's only because they ain't got the economic opportunities and means to be waiting

01:09:53.980 until no 35 they got to hurry up and get saddled but i was saying on the back end they do get

01:09:59.920 divorced once they become 40 and they have the kids and then they go and hook up with the young

01:10:05.180 tie guys and so they're like i left my husband it's better to be alone and so they still fall

01:10:10.660 into the same habit it's just reverse you get what i'm saying they do it more on the back end

01:10:15.660 they do it more on the back end yes so have you ever been in a full-blown like relationship with

01:10:24.500 a girl or like maybe a deep into a talking phase or something and you really liked the girl but

01:10:31.420 then she said something or did something and it was just done and you knew then you knew you either

01:10:37.040 had to dump her or make her break up with you yeah yeah make her break up with me because i'm i'm you

01:10:43.340 Coach game, we have to care.

01:10:45.360 I don't want girls to be coming back mad at me like,

01:10:47.620 you dumped me.

01:10:48.460 I got vengeance on my heart.

01:10:51.260 There's too many white knights.

01:10:53.220 There's too many white knights in this world.

01:10:55.460 How do you go about it?

01:10:57.660 Are you the, oh, it's not you, it's me.

01:11:01.260 Because I was telling Pearl this before we got on the call.

01:11:04.640 I would say, you know, I just can't live up to the expectations that you're setting.

01:11:10.920 and you need to find a guy that can give you more than i can give you and what did you mean

01:11:16.840 what did you really mean doug you're annoying and i don't want to be around you anymore

01:11:23.960 i'd rather play video games that's what that means yeah right i'd rather live my life free

01:11:30.520 um it depends on the person and how you're having a relationship and what seems to be

01:11:35.320 an issue at that time but i could say recently there was an issue where a girl was like yo

01:11:40.360 basically i have open conversations and dialect and so she was like i stepped out and i you know

01:11:46.600 slept with a guy or something and then i was like oh okay and then i was like okay you know explain

01:11:52.680 and she went in to explain why oh you don't call me every day he messages we talk all the time

01:11:58.680 you know you don't do this and you don't do that i said oh my god i get it i understand

01:12:05.320 and what i think is best for you is to partner with a guy that gives you what you desire i'm

01:12:12.100 very indifferent it's your life your body your choice and so at the end of the day everybody

01:12:19.060 makes the decision and you didn't even have to tell me that you could have lied to me most people

01:12:23.440 would lie and never tell anything so i respect you for that i always respect you and i think

01:12:30.420 you should move on with this guy and i think you guys have something good going on and we'll

01:12:36.920 forever respect each other and forever be friends she cried you know she went back and forth and

01:12:46.100 it was a thing but i put her on a little scooter just on the forehead and watched her drove off

01:12:52.320 until sunset. So what did you really mean? I really meant that. Okay.

01:13:02.340 At the end of the day, man, indifference. Things happen. People make choices, guys. Don't crash out.

01:13:10.180 Don't lose your life off of that. What somebody else decides to do. I had a best friend who was

01:13:14.400 girl stepped out. He didn't know what to do. He lost his identity. He thought he was less of a man.

01:13:19.100 and I told him, look, you're still an honorably discharged soldier. You still helped people

01:13:24.540 across the world. You still, who are you? You're still a man who's done great in the world.

01:13:30.060 Don't have your ego tied into what other people do. Don't think you're lesser because someone

01:13:35.720 else stepped out on you. Just be who you are and continue to move forward. And that's what I say

01:13:41.480 to a lot of guys, man, it hurts. I get it. But you got to be indifferent. People make choices, guys.

01:13:47.000 and so you got to grow beyond it don't crash out on what some girl decided to do with her mouth

01:13:53.380 her little you know cheeks yeah and it doesn't define you i used to always tell the young guys

01:13:58.760 i would mentor i'd say guys look in in divorce and breakups men's value increases and like

01:14:07.140 net worth and value increase and women's decreases it's how it always goes i said this is a temporary

01:14:13.220 setback where you're going to make more money you're going to start moving forward and and

01:14:19.620 a lot of these guys they get complacent in a relationship and the the the the uncomfortability

01:14:27.140 of the newness of getting broken up with it could be the catalyst towards success you know uh my

01:14:33.620 father used to tell me uh when you're going through adversity or you experience hardship there's two

01:14:39.700 knee-jerk reactions you know there's two knee-jerk emotions you're gonna feel either either anger or

01:14:46.580 sadness and he'd always recommend getting angry because anger is an emotion of action now

01:14:52.500 unfortunately we always associate anger with violence with men but but that's not true

01:14:58.580 no you you can get angry enough to go do something in your life to to go fix something or go achieve

01:15:05.140 something so don't get sad that the woman broke up with you go get angry and go do something go

01:15:12.580 get out of your house and do something to make it your life better get angry about it get pissed

01:15:17.220 off and go do something about it not not to her i'm just saying in general in life yeah you know

01:15:22.740 nothing is a better catalyst than a breakup to really just whatever goal you want to go towards

01:15:29.460 it really does push you doesn't it yeah yeah shoot pearl you be interviewing people that

01:15:37.540 have it bad you know it's always somebody else with worse situations like you interview guys

01:15:42.440 with families been married for 20 to 30 years y'all guys be crashing out about a girlfriend

01:15:48.560 for two years imagine if you had kids staring at you you know 30 years in a relationship and

01:15:54.800 she's like i'm pregnant with the guy's baby oh that's a sticky situation like tom brady right

01:15:59.680 now brutal exactly oh yeah let's add this too pearl and i'm gonna take half of your net worth

01:16:05.940 plus 20 in the future god that's not even that your kids are right across town but

01:16:13.700 but they can't even see their kids that are less than 15 miles away from them can you imagine

01:16:18.660 yeah you're gonna crash out like yay so it it's just difficult so that situation is difficult

01:16:25.660 but if you guys if you got a girl and she loves me she's going boss up man get like there's dirt

01:16:32.260 bikes there's four wheelers the free agent lifestyle and there's always younger and hotter

01:16:37.020 exactly too right pearl what did you say there's a there's a mcdonald's coffee from starbucks

01:16:43.800 like there's ways to get your money up you're watching my tweets huh

01:16:50.420 i know i just couldn't believe it was only 250 for a latte i was like oh my god what am i doing

01:16:57.340 at starbucks it's the biggest scam bro i keep telling you uh one of the hidden gyms is 7-eleven

01:17:06.720 coffee i haven't tried it yet don't sleep on it so doug for example like like for dinner

01:17:13.520 like i'll pay but then i let pearl get the mcdonald's coffee see how that works we're equal

01:17:23.920 let her get the two dollar fifty coffee

01:17:27.920 maybe you can get one of the little croissants or something from the case no no no because then your

01:17:33.440 girl yeah the girl you're dating will never have the end of it remember when i bought you that

01:17:37.120 croissant from the coffee i do so wait then it goes into i do so much for you and you don't

01:17:44.320 appreciate me i got you a croissant and this caramel latte yeah that's hilarious

01:17:52.160 do you know how do you pronounce your name is it shift yeah shift like a prison knife okay sure yo

01:17:57.680 shift it's actually funny because you said something about the paying for the date i

01:18:02.080 I remember I was in Israel, and I went on a date with a girl.

01:18:04.740 This is how she fumbled the rock.

01:18:07.020 And, you know, we went, had the date, whatever.

01:18:09.780 And then at the end of the date, the bill came.

01:18:11.920 So I was like, all right, bet.

01:18:13.100 She went to the bathroom, conveniently.

01:18:15.820 But next, she went to the bathroom.

01:18:18.860 So I just paid the bill.

01:18:19.720 I wasn't even thinking about it, right?

01:18:20.960 So I just paid the bill, boom, boom, boom.

01:18:22.760 Then she, and you know, Israel is a very feminist country.

01:18:26.540 So she came back, and she was like, what happened?

01:18:30.760 The bill got paid.

01:18:31.780 i was like ah yeah i paid it she was like did you wait for me to go to the bathroom to pay the bill

01:18:37.620 you think i'm a woman and i can't i was like oh my god she turned it on yeah yeah yeah watch this

01:18:43.460 i said no no problem you could just pay me it's blank this much shekels i was like you can give

01:18:47.700 me the money and she was like well i mean uh how do you know i didn't want to like i was like no i

01:18:54.100 stand doing it you said you want to pay you can give me half of the money here you go and then

01:18:59.220 she was like oh never mind cool but watch this i never spoke to her again she was like oh i had a

01:19:07.860 nice dinner i can't wait to see you next time i was like negative there will be no next time

01:19:11.620 i didn't tell her that i just kept it pushing so she fumbled that rock but net net i don't have a

01:19:16.740 problem when people say they want to pay or whatever i mean i've been in holland girls go

01:19:20.260 dutch i mean girls be having guys on the back of their bicycle so and giving them rides around so

01:19:25.780 net net it's a different culture but you got to stand on it if you're going to be about it

01:19:31.060 well it was the attitude right it's the attitude yeah like that's wild to get gas lit for that

01:19:38.020 that's so insane yeah right it's happened to me before you know i've i've gone on dates with women

01:19:43.620 and i reached to pay and they're like oh we're splitting this in half and i'm like what and when

01:19:50.100 happens i'm like i mean this must be over with you know i must have said something or done something

01:19:56.820 and that's usually what it is when a woman wants to split the bill something happened on the date

01:20:02.020 where it's going to end right there so that's my indicator that i said something or or did

01:20:06.900 something that she doesn't like and that's it so so wild but we're gonna let um glenn is the last

01:20:18.100 caller on the line so let's let glenn in then we'll literally have uh hey glenn are you there

01:20:30.980 uh-oh glenn glenn are you there i see him and he's behind that's quite the fit he passes the

01:20:38.820 fit check glenn how are you i can't hear him well he's so zen i gotta keep my girl away from him

01:20:50.580 he's gonna game is so next level i'm gonna text him because he's yo i can hear you oh there okay

01:20:58.100 there he is let's go glenn how are you doing well doing well how are you guys doing i heard some

01:21:04.740 crazy stories yeah tell me how is how is a a fumbled you and like sorry a girl fumbled you

01:21:19.300 like you know to deal with this but you know they fumble when they just don't like catch the vibe

01:21:25.940 right they don't they think that like they know and they're like to give you an attitude

01:21:31.140 you're like what are you doing what do you mean what am i doing first of all right there that

01:21:35.300 that tone right there what do you mean what do you mean that right there is goodbye

01:21:42.420 goodbye you know i just i don't i don't like attitude that's why i just don't like any black

01:21:50.100 chicks i mean it's just too much man after my own school i'm getting off stream i'm just

01:21:57.300 i'm just being honest like you know like yeah bro you know you can't say nothing like get me

01:22:03.060 out of here i'm just kidding like i have i have black siblings so like you know like i know i

01:22:08.260 look can't do it just can't do it just won't happen if i can pa i always say american black

01:22:17.540 no one has worse women to choose from on the planet the an american black man we have the

01:22:22.580 worst women on the planet to choose from i i say you could thanos snap 80 of american black women

01:22:29.460 away with the infinity gems and not only would no one care but the world would be a better place

01:22:35.700 now that's not pearl saying that that's me that's that i'll stand on that too

01:22:42.500 boom snack them away let's see like i would say like we could snap our fingers and get rid of 80

01:22:48.820 of the guys and you know not and this is just men in general like because they don't want to level

01:22:56.020 up i've come to the conclusion that guys are just as bad as women if not worse because they have

01:23:02.100 every opportunity to be the the solution and they want to remain the problem see the only reason why

01:23:08.980 i disagree is because men do try to level up and then there's no reward right because it's like

01:23:15.060 even even if you you yeah you might get women but you're still dealing with girls with attitude on

01:23:19.940 a date right i still deal with like no no i don't actually i mean i really don't because

01:23:27.860 well i guess they're gone right but like i think i think for a lot of guys i just feel discouraged

01:23:32.020 because like they look i think it's the wrong reason when you level up like what are you

01:23:36.660 leveling up for are you leveling up for abundance in all areas of your life or are you leveling up

01:23:42.740 because you wanted to meet a certain type of woman like a woman is supposed to be the byproduct of

01:23:47.540 your success not the end goal of your efforts i think what shift is talking about is just the

01:23:55.220 average guy look like like the grandpa right like our grandpas were like a ups driver and they had

01:24:02.340 a great wife right they weren't leveling up our grandpas were like mediocre as but they had a

01:24:07.220 great wife and they raise a family there's nothing exceptional yeah and yeah and that's the thing

01:24:13.140 with this whole oh yeah you have to level up and be high value i agree with that 100 but you also

01:24:18.660 have to factor in that 50 of guys are going to be average and and like syph said they used to be able

01:24:25.620 to meet a decent woman and have a decent life look we can't just factor out the average i don't

01:24:32.020 do you know what i think when did you say sorry yeah when when was there a time when they can

01:24:38.420 meet a decent woman because even king solomon said look i've searched for righteous men and

01:24:44.820 i found one out of ten thousand and i couldn't find one righteous woman so i mean back in the

01:24:51.060 biblical days there were these women were bad so when was the time where you could find a decent

01:24:56.020 woman they just need to be at least at least quiet in the household right like they might be loud and

01:25:00.820 about or not fat yeah they weren't that and at least they they would play the role like they

01:25:08.100 would at least pretend to be obedient enough do you know what i think it is i don't think men are

01:25:14.100 like i don't think it's the leveling up though because women will have sex with guys with

01:25:18.740 literally nothing like mattress on the floor nothing men are just addicted to simping that's

01:25:24.020 what i really think it is yeah there we go that's more of the disheartening that's exactly what it

01:25:28.580 it's like it's like i did i did a women to appeal to them yeah like what what that's the problem

01:25:35.140 guys always trying to appeal to women like hey girl hey look at me and instead of like having

01:25:40.420 the girl appeal to you try to get your attention no yeah i'm i mean i did a reaction at the

01:25:49.140 beginning of the show and it's like these however i was going with that sorry but the

01:25:59.140 it's more just like telling oh it was okay i was talking about in the beginning of the show how

01:26:04.820 women don't want to be mothers at all and simps it's like telling them that they'll just say oh

01:26:10.580 the women are brainwashed they're this they're that by feminism yeah yeah and it's men are like

01:26:16.180 addicted to thinking highly of women that's all no no oh pearl pearl what's his name psych hacks

01:26:24.100 the guy from psych hacks just did a video yeah uh men men men are stuck in yeah exactly uh riot

01:26:29.660 he says men are stuck in two conundrums they want to be sacrificial lambs for women and that's the

01:26:35.680 honorable thing to die for a woman so they want to be a a work mule and a war horse or they're

01:26:43.220 on the other side they're mad that there's not a woman available to serve and die for so they're

01:26:49.580 mad about the marketplace not providing them this stock factory issued woman and say hey where's my

01:26:56.240 girl I want to sacrifice and lay on my sword for her and that's the only conundrum they're

01:27:00.720 propagandized man they're conditioned to do everything for women and seek validation from

01:27:06.100 them to the highest extent and it even goes all the way back to their mother like their mother

01:27:10.740 still got them underneath their damn dumb oh that's so true oh my gosh so many watches it's

01:27:16.260 the mother is the mother who does the indoctrination yeah the mother's the one who

01:27:20.660 indoctrinates the mother don't tell her daughter hey you better suck and you better do right by

01:27:26.180 your husband she don't say that but for the son don't hit your sister take out the trash open the

01:27:31.220 girl's door get her a plate you're a butler you're conditioned to be a butler from the day that you

01:27:37.060 were born as a man and you never leave the worst it's it's you see that in you got to be a good

01:27:44.260 servant leader oh god the church guys do it the worst oh yeah oh that's impossible telling a

01:27:52.340 christian man to stop simping it's like he's got to get destroyed in church by a woman probably

01:27:59.860 three times before he might stop because those guys are like like it's like the wife will be

01:28:08.420 currently actively ruining his life and destroying him and he will still argue with me that i'm a

01:28:14.740 doomer and not all women are like that and i'm like your wife okay all right keep trying the

01:28:20.820 way i look at it it's like it's like if they if if these idiots would just read their bible they

01:28:25.940 will know that the bible clearly states that women were men were not made from women but women were

01:28:30.820 made for men the these are made for you why are you appealing to them it's true because because

01:28:38.020 most of the holy scriptures look the the quran the bible are some of the most red pill

01:28:45.140 books there ever were but somehow it got twisted you have guys simping in the church while their

01:28:51.220 wife is using the scriptures against them it's insane yeah i love it when you say you gotta be

01:28:58.420 a good servant leader i'm just to the point where when simps get cheated on i don't feel bad at all

01:29:04.980 i almost encourage i'm like maybe more men should be side dudes so they'll learn a lesson do you

01:29:10.740 know what i mean i'm like let me just say this i'm like i'm just a dude business ladies i will

01:29:16.180 listen i do know what maybe maybe women should cheat more because these guys just won't learn

01:29:23.420 their less it's like the woman that keeps going back to like the pookie it's you just don't feel

01:29:29.840 bad you're like go get beat up i don't care like i don't go ahead no and it goes back to why i think

01:29:37.740 they're like telling guys to level up it's like if a simp is like it's it's an operating system

01:29:42.520 it's a way of thinking right i mean look at some of these techs guys are worth 100 billion dollars

01:29:46.980 and there's simps too you know so it's not a it's not a and they're leveled up yeah right like you

01:29:53.240 could you could argue like i know jack guys who are tall who are rich who are charismatic but they

01:29:58.580 have that women are always you know women are always right mentality and women can do no wrong

01:30:04.400 and it's like they're cooked but that's that's where they're lazy that's where they're that's

01:30:08.880 where they're lazy though it's because they don't want to do the work to overcome the mentality it's

01:30:13.900 not the gym it's i mean there's fat guys that get women like i've seen obese i completely agree yeah

01:30:20.380 like you i mean you see that sean was saying earlier yeah sean was saying earlier guys are

01:30:24.460 programmed this way and what it's going to take is to deprogram that and what guys have been

01:30:29.780 programmed as to is they've been programmed to not respect themselves okay they have been conditioned

01:30:35.560 to not respect themselves that their needs their desires are less than hers and until you say how

01:30:42.980 can you expect her to respect you if you don't even respect you but it's it's the guys yeah it's

01:30:49.780 the guy's responsibility once you're 18 it's the same way it's like a woman's responsibility to

01:30:54.740 know when a guy's using her for sex i mean it's a guy's responsibility beginning

01:30:59.580 like look i'm just here to to do things yeah but i think the simpian is because we get conditioned

01:31:15.420 because like and we all have experiences growing up where we like where a woman beat like i remember

01:31:21.580 in school this girl uh this was when i was in fifth grade um this like one of my female classmates

01:31:27.660 she like hit me across the face so i punch her back and i got him right and i got suspended from

01:31:33.180 school right oh wow so that like created the sim thing in my childhood because like anytime i went

01:31:39.100 against a woman even though i was clearly right i would lose every freaking time group project i did

01:31:44.620 all the work girl would take all the credit they would assume she did right like oh she's super

01:31:49.340 smart they're not like you know that's why they don't invent anything so like it was it was just

01:31:53.420 very frustrating growing up and then also when you hire employees you get accused of being like

01:31:58.940 sexist or whatever and you're too afraid of a lawsuit i'm so afraid of getting sued with my

01:32:03.020 employees that i'll just be like yeah i was wrong even though i know i was right i'm like i'll just

01:32:07.180 take the hell so you just you get conditioned by submission because the cost is so high for yeah

01:32:12.860 do you guys think that like um guys are so they're needy they feel like this they need this external

01:32:19.660 validation of a woman to satisfy them that they're not they're not at peace or content with their own

01:32:26.620 solitude because yeah my solitude like i'll take my solitude over your vagina sometimes just i'm

01:32:33.580 just telling you it just just my peace is perfect i think all the guys in the zoom could attest to

01:32:39.540 that right i think i think sean doug you glenn like we're we're all like yeah i've turned down

01:32:43.860 I've turned down uh pussy because dude I just like I've like figured out to be happy

01:32:49.360 you know I have enough things in my life now to be happy with right um I think for guys though

01:32:54.560 it's a hard journey because some guys they live such stressful lives that that's the only thing

01:32:58.860 that's keeping them through is like a warm body you know for some it's it's sad for a lot of guys

01:33:04.280 and I like especially in my early 20s I know what it's like where I was working 80 100 hours a week

01:33:08.800 you're just like I just want someone to give a shit about how hard my life I think it's also

01:33:12.720 it's how difficult it is to replace

01:33:14.800 the girl for a lot of guys

01:33:16.260 yeah that could be a thing

01:33:18.560 yeah that's a scarcity mentality

01:33:21.000 though that's like not

01:33:22.360 I think

01:33:23.920 I think some guys don't

01:33:26.720 like if you've seen a Chad's phone

01:33:28.980 you can't unsee it

01:33:31.040 and I think a lot of like and but I'll

01:33:32.860 tell guys these stories that maybe

01:33:34.820 don't get like laid as much and they don't think

01:33:36.800 it's possible like I don't I think a lot

01:33:38.840 of guys don't think it's possible to go

01:33:40.760 from like not getting a lot of women to getting

01:33:42.600 a ton to getting a lot yeah because most people make it out like you didn't get girls on the

01:33:47.840 playground in high school so you'll never get them in the future and that's just stupid

01:33:51.400 because i would say let me tell you go ahead go ahead i'll tell you guys i keep saying it

01:33:57.240 stay don't have any kids get a highly valued skill highly valued trade highly valued education

01:34:04.560 and don't get married keep your head down once you hit hit 35 the whole world changes man i don't

01:34:11.120 know what it is about that 35 it really does it really does i i don't know what 30 i'm excited

01:34:16.660 oh bro ship you got to just wait bro i'm talking well wait hold on it's crazy when you're in your

01:34:24.160 20s like you look at everybody else and you're like oh damn like you know they got the girls

01:34:28.940 oh damn like you know like and you don't even know where they're at really in life they could

01:34:34.260 be focused on that and they don't have what you have you know they could be like giving a mirage

01:34:39.320 and you know you actually are leveled up because like once you hit mid 30s i'm telling you it's

01:34:45.240 like all of a sudden vagina starts falling from the sky and it really does you don't have to do

01:34:50.520 it all you have to do is have some decent social skills and know when and where to show up but just

01:34:56.680 boom yeah look look i'm gonna say this though that's a that's a kicker all right i'm there

01:35:04.360 already all right six six six and all that other bs but what i would say guys you still have to

01:35:10.200 have that love for your own life because up here it's the same problems i tell you what even though

01:35:16.020 i'm the guy girls don't like that all the time girls change they want the they want the beta

01:35:21.600 for certain particular things right they don't want no alpha to lead them and control the family

01:35:27.100 and tell them what to do and it's 10 times smarter than them they'd be like hey look i just want a guy

01:35:32.060 who will deal with my sh and no matter how ugly and fat i get he's gonna keep me and so they're

01:35:37.060 going to get that type of guy so again it's not like once you get up here oh man if you love your

01:35:42.900 own life and you put yourself first and you do the work then life becomes amazing it was like

01:35:47.540 glenn saying you got to love your life number one number first it doesn't come out of another person

01:35:53.000 it's not external your mama loved you that's the only woman that's gonna love you like that

01:35:57.860 get over she may not even yeah i was like that's that's like 50 50. i gave him that glenn because

01:36:05.180 your mom's gonna actually you know set you up to get slaughtered you have better odds your mama

01:36:09.560 loving you the way you want to be loved than a woman loving you you know i'm gonna bounce off

01:36:14.980 what sean said real fast if you um the modern woman's playbook they want to find a guy like

01:36:22.940 shawn said who who never puts his they want to find an ambitious accomplished man get with him

01:36:32.020 and then have him set his ambitions and dreams and desires aside to help her achieve her own

01:36:38.600 selfish goals well that's where that is a modern playbook they want your ambitions to be able to

01:36:44.880 feel fuel her um end game her end goal 100 true like they they want you to be successful but for

01:36:54.320 her like she needs to reap the rewards of your success if your success is not you know directed

01:37:01.600 at her well then now you're selfish yep you know remember when men win everyone wins when women

01:37:09.120 win they win for themselves when women win nobody wins because they end up sabotaging their own

01:37:16.360 success in the long run yeah that's true you know but the it just comes back down to it really just

01:37:25.680 comes back down to the guy being able to say like you know i don't i'm good with you and i'm good

01:37:30.740 without you you know if you can't you can't get to that point then you've already given her all

01:37:37.120 pieces that she needs to play you because she's gonna be now because she has the leverage

01:37:44.320 do you sometimes i feel the guys that were late like they were like they wait can you not hear me

01:37:49.600 i can hear you you're good go ahead yeah sometimes i feel like the guys who are late to the game

01:37:53.920 though like they didn't get the easy you know girlfriend or in high school sometimes i feel

01:37:58.400 those are the guys who actually get red pilled and then when they get to 30 it's like oh now

01:38:03.120 they have real control over women because some i feel like sometimes the biggest simps are the

01:38:07.360 ones that just get a girlfriend and they just kind of they don't see they just don't really

01:38:12.080 realize that she's domineering and ruining their life um at least i've seen that with some of my

01:38:17.200 friends where they just like marry their high school sweetheart but then you and i used to go

01:38:21.840 in my early 20s like what the like why like he's such a loser and she's like pretty but then you

01:38:27.360 like see their dynamics and she's like yeah so annoying so for the guys who like if you weren't

01:38:34.400 like just naturally good with women the the consolation prize is when you get really good

01:38:39.200 as you get older you you're just i for me now it's like i so far surpass um all the guys who

01:38:45.440 got married at 25. like it's a it's on a whole other level right so because i know what the

01:38:50.880 here's the other thing like guys have been like that struggle like when they're younger years

01:38:55.600 because most guys struggled in their younger years let's just be honest none of us were batting a

01:38:59.840 thousand from right out the gate it's the west man of course you know but a lot of them have this

01:39:06.000 like mentality like they get this bitterness so that once they actually get a girl they're like

01:39:11.600 they have to be domineering like just you don't want to control them you have to understand that

01:39:17.840 the only person you're in control of is you and you can control who you let in your life and who

01:39:23.120 you let out your life and trying to appeal to them trying to like teach i don't i don't have

01:39:28.880 time to teach you look you either shape up or ship out i have a replacement here in about four hours

01:39:34.960 okay like that's the mentality you have to have it's not like hey i'm not gonna

01:39:40.000 there's no negotiations you don't negotiate with terrorists

01:39:45.760 i said that i said that to someone about a relative recently they thought i was over

01:39:50.480 exaggerating no no i wanted to say this what glenn just said i always say this from the story guys

01:39:59.680 listen to what is it adam and eve right and they take away the wrong story they'd be like oh man

01:40:04.320 he didn't game eve he didn't warn her it's not about that look god made them both and told them

01:40:09.120 what they were supposed to do right now eve still decided to do what she did was listen to the

01:40:15.360 serpent right now remember this is the girl made by god he made her he crafted her this is the

01:40:23.280 ultimate girl this is the ultimate trad woman god made it with her these and everything all that

01:40:36.160 she's naked all the time adam adam already had abundance so there was no bags that she needed

01:40:43.120 no nothing nothing right and then the ninja slithering on his back was able to spit game

01:40:49.440 well he had legs at the time okay all right he had some legs he had some little legs but you

01:40:54.960 know i got you and he was and he was able to convince her to do something else that she wasn't

01:41:00.560 supposed to do right yeah now this is the problem when god came he said what happened eve blamed the

01:41:07.840 snake and adam blamed eve the moral of the story is self-agency you all had choices he couldn't

01:41:17.040 control what eve did but he could have controlled adam could have did this hey god he's like hey

01:41:23.040 where's eve at he's like oh i kicked her out she bit from the tree she wasn't supposed to

01:41:27.760 you said i ruled this world so i punished her and kicked her out you gotta go i need you to make

01:41:33.520 be another one that listens god would have been like hey man that's cool let's have a beer let's

01:41:38.000 chill but he didn't do it he so kind of like what glenn was so what was adam's all self-agency

01:41:44.480 his son was adam said because i love it if you if you read it right he said god said because

01:41:51.280 you listen to the words of your wife men do not listen to your women okay your women will set you

01:41:56.640 up for failure okay god says it in the bible because you listen to the words of your wife

01:42:00.960 but but also to just have self-agency i gave you guys freedom of choice and you both passed the

01:42:07.080 buck y'all didn't have accountability like i said eve blamed the snake and then he blamed eve

01:42:11.900 and the simple blame feminism and the simple hey wait hold on hold on and the trad cons

01:42:19.880 will blame feminism yeah oh no no the trad cons are feminists i just can't take another women

01:42:28.600 her brainwashed argument i'm like okay she was she was brainwashed into throwing it back for chad

01:42:35.960 tyrone tyrese alex john yeah uh gab and the starving musician dog you know

01:42:49.960 you know glad yes i have stolen a few chad's girls you know that's for sure i just can't take it

01:42:58.600 the funny thing is is like you know guys always are trying to give girls a way out

01:43:04.300 and that's the other problem is like men i don't think guys actually really respect women enough

01:43:10.340 we don't respect them enough to let them face the consequences of their actions

01:43:15.080 there's always going to be a captain save a hoe all right um and i have like a shirt

01:43:21.100 and they deserve to suffer to be honest i don't save hoes i'm not that heroic you know what i'm

01:43:26.480 saying like guys are trying to be heroic and they deserve to suffer if i'm being honest like the

01:43:33.120 guys that do it i mean what do you expect her you've been interviewing guys too long you're

01:43:38.560 like man let himself i'm tired of this i am i used to be like oh it's terrible now i'm like

01:43:46.380 how did you not see that coming i mean think about this like you look at you look at the

01:43:53.640 much more than issue right let them kill their kids i don't care anymore let them do it oh my

01:44:00.200 gosh you can have the babies like no oh i don't think oh those are the worst one those stupid

01:44:08.200 women that get on the stage and say they regret their abortion and i would just think that's so

01:44:14.520 convenient that you regret it now after the kid is dead by the guy you didn't want to be the dad

01:44:20.200 that's so convenient that after why don't you turn your turn yourself into jail go to jail

01:44:27.320 would you go to prison or do you regret it enough to uh you know serve time say that you committed

01:44:32.200 murder no no you just say oh the culture and and then they blame it on the guy oh he didn't want

01:44:39.080 to be a dad then why don't you let him nut in you like come on get that was your fault take that l

01:44:47.080 you know what i mean just eat the l give them the eat the l take responsibility

01:44:52.760 we won't give them the consequence i i'm just going to counter this by saying um life is never

01:44:59.720 going to be fair for men ever we all know this guys but so women fighting for feminism inequality

01:45:07.640 is in fighting for their lives to be just as unfair for them as it is for men and you're

01:45:12.600 starting to see it more guys i watch body cam footage a lot because it's so entertaining and

01:45:18.280 you're seeing police karate chopping and body slamming women now and locking them up and stuff

01:45:23.160 we should make a show on that dog mpa yeah yeah i'm telling you just review body camp but there's

01:45:29.160 some good stuff out all these women shoplifting you the the rate of violence and crime of women

01:45:36.280 getting arrested for is like skyrocketing you know what i'm saying so yeah i'm telling you

01:45:40.360 women are just advocating for their lives to be just as unfair as it is for men and i don't know

01:45:46.580 why they want to do that because being a man is tough and they're going to find out you know it's

01:45:51.340 funny doug it's like um you know like i had this girl i was dating and i always told tell her like

01:45:58.060 i'll give her grace give her grace you know like all right you know i'm not really dealing with

01:46:01.400 this i ain't feeling this i don't like this you know behavior whatever and she never thought there

01:46:06.100 ever be a consequence until the day like she realized that her key didn't work no more she

01:46:11.460 couldn't get in and all her was out outside and she was like what what happened i said

01:46:20.020 you didn't want to learn so what was the biggest consequence that you ever had to

01:46:29.780 have what's the biggest consequence a girl ever had to face in dating where you're like i have

01:46:34.100 to let this girl suffer a piece of what she did well i just i break up pretty easily like i don't

01:46:40.020 so that's kind of my thing like i don't let it go to and i but i always do it very cordial because

01:46:46.020 once again i have a ghost no no ghosting you know i usually i usually try to act like i'm going

01:46:54.100 through something i'm not family thing and business it's really going through a lot and i

01:47:01.220 you know you i'll just gaslight them i'll just do what women do back i have too much to lose

01:47:08.260 how many times straight up it's it's not me it's you actually it's it's not it's not you know

01:47:15.060 it's a you problem i'm leaving you it's a you thing you the problem i'll let you know i would

01:47:22.100 how many various forms of cancer have you had shiv

01:47:24.740 yeah shiv what do you mean she might want to stay okay dying let me blow you

01:47:30.740 every day no no the cancer spreads i'll lose you back to hell shiv when you say that what

01:47:38.260 do you actually mean oh when you say you're good out get the that's what i mean like dude

01:47:47.460 i just i just i just don't want to do something on the way out right so that's my thing and dude

01:47:53.380 like i've had i've had aftercare is important but that's after you you you give it to them you know

01:47:59.300 like no because it extends the breakup too i i do breakups like i fire people like you know what

01:48:07.460 it just yeah can you guys can you guys um dump me on stream i want to see how you guys would do it

01:48:14.180 can i get like you guys is dumping speeches you gotta give us a scenario you gotta give us a

01:48:18.900 scenario of how why are we dumping okay so the scenario is it's just not like um

01:48:27.380 i don't know what's the not cheating but you're just she's just not putting out no no putting

01:48:32.420 out not cheating but you're just like over it's who i am as a person go ahead how about this how

01:48:37.860 about this she wants she's spending too much time at your house and she's like she's putting too

01:48:46.420 much time at your house and she doesn't like your interests so she's starting to put herself at odds

01:48:52.260 with your with your business time and your hobbies how about that okay yeah let's do it shiv you

01:48:58.420 want to go shiv you want to go first yeah so for me i i just don't give women reasons i just break

01:49:03.780 up with them so i just be like hey like i found out like my grandma's really sick and like i might

01:49:08.980 have to go to india for four months oh don't worry wait but but i'll wait for you i'll wait for you

01:49:16.420 no you don't understand like you deserve so much better i don't you're the no you're the

01:49:21.740 you're the one for me don't worry i'll be there for you girl i'm gay i'm gay

01:49:27.460 get the fuck out i'm had

01:49:31.300 i'm asexual i identify as a girl

01:49:36.740 that's okay

01:49:39.780 okay then can we just be can we just be friends

01:49:45.460 and still hang out it's against my religion i i changed so i'm a scientologist now

01:49:52.040 okay all right glenn you're next dump me i'm ready let's say i want to say that once again

01:50:01.180 she she's she insists on coming to your house so you haven't had alone time in like a month

01:50:07.720 a month and a half because she wants to spend every waking second with you and when she comes

01:50:12.140 over she doesn't like you on your computer she doesn't like you watching football i want to do

01:50:17.980 something glenn yeah what do you want to do and then you're naming these offices i don't want to

01:50:22.220 do that why do we have to do what you want to do if you okay this is how would you break up come

01:50:26.700 here come here let me show you something i'm gonna show you something in the bedroom um oh wow i'm

01:50:30.220 excited do you see um what's next to the bed is that one night stand yeah you are supposed to be

01:50:39.500 just like that one night stand okay okay but it worked out i'm so happy yeah so

01:50:48.060 one night stand you have turned into a 30 day stand and um yeah but it's not gonna work out

01:50:54.460 like it's just it's just doesn't why but why um i fucked your sister

01:51:00.940 she's 15

01:51:05.400 i don't know what to tell you i'm just kidding

01:51:10.660 it's just like i i'm i'm going after your mom okay like your mom is the business like she makes

01:51:23.040 the biscuits okay you you burnt the biscuits you know it was one time i'm getting dumped over one

01:51:30.480 time i'm sorry could you tell me could you just tell me why what did i do can you tell me please

01:51:37.920 your mom uses no teeth okay i told you the teeth thing is a problem

01:51:44.880 okay well can we can i just get some closure yes the door will close on the way

01:51:53.040 Sean, you're next.

01:51:57.100 How are you going to do it?

01:52:00.500 Hey, can I talk to you for a second, Pearl?

01:52:03.720 Yeah, what's going on?

01:52:06.880 So, you know, and this is an open conversation.

01:52:10.680 It's a two-way street.

01:52:12.320 As we always have communication and conversations, it's not only my opinions, it's yours too.

01:52:18.780 And so I would like for you to say anything.

01:52:20.920 there'll be no consequences no negative things it's open-end discussion i was looking on the

01:52:27.380 internet and i found these clips of you being a colonizer and i wanted to actually because you

01:52:34.840 know i'm pro-black you know and i'm i'm for the community and uh you know what do you have to say

01:52:42.660 about these things i'm gonna have to break up with you actually because i can't i get it i get it and

01:52:50.440 And that's where we just have to separate, you know?

01:52:52.800 And I get it, you know?

01:52:54.660 I still care about you.

01:52:56.920 We'll still be close friends.

01:52:59.740 I wish you the best.

01:53:01.740 This is the best breakup I've ever had.

01:53:06.300 I don't want it to be negative.

01:53:08.060 I don't.

01:53:08.520 We had 80% of our time together.

01:53:10.620 It was great.

01:53:11.240 Yeah.

01:53:11.860 You know?

01:53:13.000 The last guy shut the door in my face.

01:53:15.440 So this is great.

01:53:17.200 No, the door closed on itself.

01:53:19.040 Self-closing doors.

01:53:20.440 i wouldn't i wouldn't do that to you yeah the other guy's okay look i'm not gonna do that to

01:53:28.040 you probably i'm not gonna lie to you oh you're so nice i'm gonna miss you okay yeah i'll miss you

01:53:33.720 you rather you hate to see her go but you love to watch her leave already

01:53:40.200 well

01:53:43.240 i'm sorry my colon i'm sorry my colonization was a problem

01:53:47.080 them it's cool some people needed to be coming at sometimes but it's okay bro yeah so you didn't do

01:53:53.500 it but i just have to stand with the community yeah i understand doug mpa you're next are you

01:54:00.960 gonna dump me so so i would set it up where so example i i'm a punctual person pearl and i work

01:54:09.980 together and she knows how much i can't stand it when she's late to calls and stuff like that

01:54:13.360 so but when i'm with somebody i i'll do something like if we're supposed to be somewhere at two and

01:54:19.760 another person is always late i'll tell her like a 115 right and so there are things i will do

01:54:26.560 to mitigate the things that she does to piss me off right and what i'll do is i'll stop doing

01:54:33.020 those things so she's doing things that annoy me so i'll say you know the last couple of last month

01:54:42.940 to you you're always late always it's because you don't respect me do you i don't think you do

01:54:52.380 and and and so i'll start keep you're not supposed to keep um keep tally or keep track

01:54:57.820 but i'll change certain behaviors and start keeping tally and track of where she's deficient

01:55:02.220 and then use that to break up with her you're always late you i i'll pay for all the days

01:55:08.860 and all the food and then i'll say you you never pay for dates you just want me for my mind i

01:55:15.580 thought i thought wait you told me you wanted to pay yeah but you know what at least offered

01:55:25.420 but you hate it when people offer yeah i you know what i i would set it up like that

01:55:32.140 where i would find reasons where she's deficient and use those to break up with her

01:55:37.100 like you know what you're late all the time okay but wait wait i can change i can change i'll do

01:55:45.520 better you've had three months to do it i haven't seen any change sorry here's my question have you

01:55:52.860 guys ever used like pointing out other chicks to make her feel like she's like you're like you're

01:55:58.920 not even into her like she's not your type i did that she made she broke up with me it was great

01:56:07.020 i didn't have to go through any of it you know she's like i just don't think i really don't

01:56:12.140 think i'm your type i'm like the the the smallest thing i've used to break up with a girl that i

01:56:20.280 didn't want to um to see anymore was the type of underwear she she wore she she wore these like

01:56:28.740 they just were just these i forgot what kind they were but they just were a jack and i'm like why

01:56:33.320 you wear that underwear like i don't like ruffles yeah i don't like lazy yeah i don't like that

01:56:40.760 freaking granny pain look at underwear like what it's just not attractive it's not and then you

01:56:45.160 used to you use that use a deficiency and then snowball it into all sorts of other

01:56:49.720 other small things and build a case as to why you don't want to see her again

01:56:54.200 i really liked my colonizer breakup the best

01:56:57.080 that was so good sean like wow yeah bring up something that would make me want to dump you

01:57:05.180 that was great that was great no i'm sean i'm changing up my game now thanks

01:57:13.420 no problem man i've been doing it for a while

01:57:15.940 he's like the professional breakup you know like yeah that was great like hr they would

01:57:23.700 bring somebody in to fire you all you gotta do is get sean to come over and break up with your

01:57:28.820 bitch with you he'll handle it all but you wait can we give him another still at the end can we

01:57:34.880 give him another business here can we give him another scenario i want another one yeah okay

01:57:41.040 try to judge my game okay i got i got one i got one let's say she's insecure and she's accusing

01:57:49.940 you of leaving dick imprints

01:57:51.920 on the counter.

01:57:54.160 Okay.

01:57:55.760 She thinks you're cheating

01:57:57.620 on her. And she thinks

01:57:59.980 that she sees your dick imprint

01:58:01.940 on the counter.

01:58:03.640 You're following all these girls.

01:58:07.160 I'm not doing that.

01:58:08.440 You're liking all these

01:58:09.820 pictures. And I'm just

01:58:11.720 freaking out.

01:58:13.540 And she knows your Instagram DMs

01:58:15.760 are full of titties.

01:58:17.500 Yeah. I need you to follow

01:58:19.800 uglier women please yeah right no i understand that one all right hey pearl can we have a

01:58:28.300 conversation yeah let's go guys always tell you you gotta have communication with your girl that's

01:58:38.260 more superior than her ability to communicate so you have to make time for it so pearl um i know

01:58:44.620 you've been having issues or speaking about IG. And first, first of all, I don't want to get it

01:58:56.060 wrong. So tell me, if there are any issues or things you want to talk about? What is it?

01:59:02.160 What's the well, you're just you're always like you, you're always following these girls and

01:59:07.320 liking their picture. Like, you never follow men. It's always just women on Instagram, always,

01:59:12.840 you know and your friend she wants to sleep with you i can just tell i think you're cheating on me

01:59:21.400 no don't forget the print i'm not saying that

01:59:28.920 it's on the counter as far as far as the girl in particular right we're friends and we've been

01:59:35.160 friends for a while and pearl i never lie i'm not gonna lie to you i'm too old to be doing that

01:59:41.080 i went to war i've been in combat i'm not scared of you i'm gonna tell you the truth

01:59:47.200 i'm gonna tell you what you need to hear even if you don't like it have i not done that in

01:59:51.440 our relationship already yeah you have i guess i was overblowing it that's okay people get

02:00:00.080 their ideas and the number one most important part is you communicated to me and we had the

02:00:07.060 time to talk about it. If you didn't, then that would be a problem, right? Because possibly it

02:00:12.020 would build resentment and other things like that. So I appreciate you bringing that to me.

02:00:16.760 Is there anything else that you had issues with? No, you're the best. I'm so glad this is working

02:00:22.240 out. Now, what I would say about it really working out, I think it would work out if we

02:00:31.700 transition this relationship i'm serious bro because at the end of the day i might not be

02:00:39.220 the guy that you need i could be a great friend for you i think we know no i need you but like

02:00:47.320 we're i've never been with anyone better what you need yourself that's number one

02:00:54.960 i can't you know that's inside you you have those feelings right you believe i'm cheating

02:01:02.720 you believe that this idea is right or wrong i never so you don't about yours but you so you

02:01:09.120 don't you don't want to be with me anymore i want to be your friend i want to support you

02:01:15.960 i've always done that and i'm okay with that most of our relationship was good pearl it's not a bad

02:01:23.640 thing but everything in life doesn't last forever there's time limits but you said you wanted to

02:01:29.280 marry me someday and you said that you have an issue with these things and we don't want that

02:01:35.620 in a marriage imagine our kids having to deal with this if we had kids together would you want

02:01:40.620 that for your children i don't think you would no i wouldn't and i think you need someone who won't

02:01:47.060 give you those type of issues that don't follow women on instagram i get it and it's not a cool

02:01:52.600 thing for your perspective and i respect your perspective it's important i'll always be here

02:01:59.880 for you pearl that's for sure for sure really especially at 2 a.m john man holy

02:02:12.360 yo man you need to seriously like teach a course on pearl's freaking yeah we need him in the course

02:02:22.600 for the university because here's the thing we may need to have these skills so we see less

02:02:28.760 videos on on social media about women breaking up their you know busting out their windows and going

02:02:34.360 to their work and yell and scream bro seriously you need to like put something together man and

02:02:40.200 just yeah that was beautiful that was i that was i really enjoyed that breakup but here's the

02:02:47.800 problem we didn't get to the alleged cheating he never had to deal with the accusations

02:02:54.840 i did i said the following and you know that's the following that's just like girls liking them

02:03:00.360 like like you didn't give them the accusation that i know you are sleeping with susan okay

02:03:08.200 there's dick imprints on the camera

02:03:11.800 how many years ago say that glenn i have been there i've been accused of the dick imprints you

02:03:17.480 guys i'm telling you this i just wanted to see how you would react to it i want to be your friend

02:03:22.120 that was so funny that was so good how did you you got it how did you come up with that

02:03:29.400 you literally built you got to teach men how to how to literally break up with a woman with her

02:03:34.040 getting crazy and not being at risk for the woman busting up the ps5 on the way out the door

02:03:40.920 and bust it up to ps5 that's hilarious i'd say look a lot of it just comes from being very stoic

02:03:47.380 also approaching it very indifferent and then also it's going to sound bad guys and you might

02:03:52.520 not want to hear it but humanizing people people make decisions right and look i can't control as

02:04:00.560 glint said i can't control what somebody else does the only thing i can control the way i respond to

02:04:05.580 it that's the only thing within my control and so i might as well make it a goddamn good story for

02:04:10.860 me i might as well make it a good partner because i gotta live with it afterwards they don't they

02:04:16.360 gonna move on and do what they do you feel me that's just the world and so like i said it takes

02:04:22.060 a lot of stoicism and it takes a lot of indifference and it's practice but see it from

02:04:28.100 their perspective i understand what pearl was saying you know that could be a lot for you pearl

02:04:32.740 i get it but she deserves better the colonizer was a great one that was that was amazing to

02:04:42.180 bring up something that would make me want to dump you that was great yeah right like all right man

02:04:46.980 get out of here it made it easy ah not again you can talk to your girls like i had to get rid of

02:04:54.020 him he was out here while it see so it's cool i don't care you know it's it was done we're coming

02:05:00.500 up on the two hour mark everyone make sure to like the video while you're here and subscribe

02:05:06.180 because we are almost at two million subs yeah we're getting close subscribe button

02:05:12.500 uh you want to wrap it up pearl yeah sure and take half the subscribers

02:05:19.140 um thanks so much for watching you guys were great thanks for dumping me on the stream yeah that was

02:05:24.260 great um guys i think we got to bring um sean's got to do you want to do like a in-depth course

02:05:33.940 of how to dump a woman would you do it on the like oh they're gonna put me on the stream

02:05:39.140 somewhere no no no it'd be it'd be in our um just in our our commute to break up with elegance yeah

02:05:47.700 i know i'm gonna be it's not gonna be on youtube it would be on the audacity site

02:05:51.700 i got you bro honestly like yeah that's amazing because bro i'm telling you man you were killing

02:05:59.260 it bro like wow i got you i think i think you guys will agree with this if you want to if you

02:06:07.040 already know you're gonna like things are going bad it's better that you pull the trigger and end

02:06:12.380 it sooner than before she does um because that the the the opportunity for her to to want to

02:06:23.460 come back after you is so much greater because now she's gonna feel like wait a minute he's leaving

02:06:29.000 me i need to prove myself and i've done that to a couple girls where i just break up with them i

02:06:34.700 didn't really want to break up with them but i would break up with them just to kind of get them

02:06:38.720 to get their attitude adjusted make sense yeah all right well um thanks so much for watching

02:06:50.480 everybody please like the video on your way out and um any prayer i'll send you to or doug whoever

02:06:57.760 takes care of it but i sent you the email on the back chat i believe you see it yeah you got it

02:07:02.640 doug mpa give me one second let me copy it yeah because we we gotta that was amazing

02:07:10.560 yeah man we just saw the the beginning the creation of a whole new thing here man this is great

02:07:18.160 i got you okay thank you um thanks so much for watching thanks for coming on guys please like

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02:07:29.120 Let me know if you guys have any great ways to dump women in the comments or if a woman has fumbled you and I'll read the best.

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What's The Way a Woman Fumbled You and Didn't Even Know It？ (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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