Pearl - March 27, 2026When Chad Humbles The Foid
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about cheating, lying, guilt tripping me, and being a victim in the dating world. I also talk about my experience with cheating and how I dealt with it in my past relationships.
Transcript
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we are adults full-grown adults now sir but you're on tiktok you can't really say i'm an adult and
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then be on tiktok well guys welcome to my reaction series so chad's humble women all the time um and
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women do take a lot of l's in dating i know men do as well um however um women like men will take
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an l and never tell anybody and will take an l um and then tell everybody about it so they can be
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the victim but it's amazing for you and for me because you guys can see how toxic of a woman
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that the woman is and i get content for tiktok so or content for youtube so let's see say watch
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x but here are the most embarrassing things my ex did to me that i put up with i have my journal
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in case i forget um starting off strong with number one cheating i think the worst part of
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this was sometimes when he would do it my head would be in his lap and he would rest his phone
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on my head and just be texting other girls and then i stayed and he did it a week later with his
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ex wow what an l but see we don't know if she cheated too right first girlfriend she reached
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out and apologized to me after it though so losing games like board games or like game pigeon would
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ruin his whole mood so i remember i would intentionally lose them so that he would
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be happy around me he did not pay for a single date uh he said it was because he did not have
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job and i kind of did uh so i paid hundreds of dollars for him and the one time he paid for me
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yeah but how many like here's the thing it's almost like the world's healing through these
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chads because how many dates has she accepted from men and given them nothing in return he
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was not paying for me he made me go habsies on taco bell didn't get me a christmas gift
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um but said it was okay because i said it was okay uh context for that is i said hey it's important
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to me that you do and he started crying and saying he didn't have money and i said i would
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appreciate a note or something and i and he said well i'm not good at those and so he guilt tripped
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me in a way that made me end up apologizing or even asking that's another thing that happened a
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lot a lot of time i would express that something he was doing was hurting me and he would make me
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apologize for how i felt about it he was addicted to you know what and then when he was breaking up
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with me he said i never stopped for you okay he said asking to not be left undelivered or asking
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not to be called mean names when he was upset was asking for too much not to be left under well how
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long were you left undelivered you know um and that my standards were too high i think he was
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jealous of me right before we broke up we had an argument because i was excited to tell him oh this
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girl i thought was cool uh said i was cool and i was like i think i'm making a new friend and he
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said why is it so easy for you and got mad at me believed that me crying over how he treated me was
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manipulative i don't know the way more she's talking i think she's the problem and i think
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there's more to this story screamed at the top of his lungs that he hated me yeah but it's probably
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after like an hour of you guilt tripping him or whatever told me he hated me because he hated that
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i could see all of him and he couldn't present a false version of himself to me um told me he hated
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me because i changed what was wrong with myself so quick like if he brought up a problem with me
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i would fix it and he said he hated that about me he said i was embarrassing when we were in public
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he misses this man she wants him back just call her you know um he swore at me when he was upset
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with me and called me an and when i said please don't say that to me or i would be like i'm not
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okay with you talking to me like that he would say that that was being mean threatened to um and
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said he hopes he get hit by a bus because something he did hurt me here are some of the
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things he said to me over the phone while breaking up with me i don't want to be in a relationship
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i want to play video games and eat food this is too much work it's not worth it when i was silent
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and in tears he said yeah this guy sounds awesome that is hilarious when i said i trusted him not
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to do this he said you also trusted me not to cheat on you so that is your fault okay okay
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well breaking up with me he went through saying that nothing was my fault to saying that i didn't
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listen to saying that nothing was my fault um and then said all of this he then said he shouldn't
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be in a relationship and needs to work on himself my friend who goes to his college immediately saw
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that he had instantly posted on the college story that he is single and looking to meet new people
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oh life lesson to you listen to your friends when they warn you about things yeah she seems
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insufferable women don't realize a lot of times when you're complaining about the guy you're
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either telling that's what you like or um you're saying that this is what like people will think
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what did you do to drive him to do all that you know messaging me on my other tiktok account my
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tiktok shop account why won't you answer me this is why okay so we dated all through high school
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for five years we did one half year college together before everything blew up while we
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were together he talked me out of going into the air force i did not go into the air force i wanted
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to like fly helicopters i wanted to be a flight nurse i'm gonna always blame the men for dreams
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they couldn't accomplish anyway like they probably he probably told you not to do it because you
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couldn't do it you know i was gonna he's like i don't want you to waste all this money through
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nursing school through the air force like whatever so i didn't do it i stayed home stay home with me
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I want to stay. I want us to do things together. So I stayed home. We went to culinary school
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together. We did about a half a year before, you know, it blew up one night. Can't find him.
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And it was a stupid little argument. I don't know what it was. I don't even know what it was.
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Couldn't find him. So the next day he breaks up with me. I give him all my jewelry back gifts,
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whatever. Didn't want it anywhere near me. So it goes on a few months. I start finding out that
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he'd been cheating on me with god knows who his own exes other people he got with his best friend's
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sister that's who he ended up with he ended up marrying her but before that he goes into the
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army after right after breaking up with me and talking me out of doing the air force
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she moves with him all the way to oklahoma or cancer i don't know somewhere out there
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and i look on facebook a few years later okay she's wearing my promise ring that i was wearing
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all through high school as her wedding band like what a loser what a loser and she was a dancer i
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have nothing against dancers i've almost thought about it in my life okay but i'll just leave it
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at that so they get married and have kids or whatever apparently they're getting a divorce
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and i only know that now because he messaged me in my tiktok shop account asked me why i won't
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talk to him why i won't answer him i blocked him on this page because excuse me sir who are you
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saying you should have stayed with me we're almost 40 can you imagine me and the wife seeing this i
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am 37 which makes him he may be 40 now what do you mean you should have stayed with me we are
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adults full-grown adults now sir but you're on tiktok you can't really say i'm an adult and
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then be on tiktok who are you you blew everything up for me so life lifed after that i finished
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culinary school i stayed being a chef for almost 10 years before i could finally said f it and
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afford to go back to nursing school and went through that way and didn't get to do what i
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wanted to until 30 that was my goal to become a nurse by 30 because of how messed up i ended up
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going through life after him but who why are you messaging me whose exes are messaging them on
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tiktok well women message their exes all the time but the difference is men don't blast them on the
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internet go away okay who we got next um we got this lady tell me that if i got fat he would break
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up with me and this is because while we were dating i was super duper depressed so sometimes
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it'd be really hard for me to get out of bed and he would tell me that i needed to get out of bed
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and go to the gym because otherwise he would break up with me and i think about that and that's quite
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literally one of the most insane experiences i've ever had in my entire life what do you mean i'm
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depressed i have to get up and go run so you don't break up with me i'm so glad i have grown
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from that person that i was my ex would tell me that if i got fat he would break up with me
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damn so he she dated a guy with standards um and i think that's actually reasonable
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you know i think both parties should be able to dump the other if they get fat
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um but like it's not like he's asking for that much just you know running a little bit
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kotick ex at 15 is a universal experience so here's one of my many stories of my ex and i was
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15. what makes this funnier is my ex actually still denies this to this day one of my friends
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is friends with like his friend and whenever he gets brought up in conversation he still says he
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didn't do it once a liar always a liar so my ex was in a band i just i feel like that's red flag
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number one right i used to go to his shows when he's that's like paint kind of festivals or like
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local little food market so of course his family would be there as well and i remember the first
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time i met his uncle his uncle was like oh you're the one for this week worst part is that's not
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even what this story is about so basically we spent the day together and i went back to his house
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and that was normal i went to his house a few times he played me the drums at his house
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something actually happened that day and i was just so ready to come home so i text my mum being
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like come get me literally rescue me from this psycho my mum came and got me and he lived on
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like a little cul-de-sac type thing so his house was one of many on a little like little bend yeah
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the thing is when you talk about these l's publicly um you don't get their side of the
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story but um i mean it sounds like she had a warning early on and she just kept going so
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