I did a catfish of the year and the ladies freaked out because I called them "catfishes." Why? Because they don't look like catfishes in their profile pictures. Why do they get so angry at this?
00:32:47.480sorry i'm new to okay i'm trying to do one at a time guys and i would give priority to people
00:32:56.360that disagree with me so if you disagree with me for having the catfish of the year can you
00:33:02.700do like a thumbs down? Nobody? Okay. Well, they had so much to say in the comments. I'll try
00:33:15.320Josie. I don't think this is the same Josie. Hello? Hey, what's up? Do you go by Josie or
00:33:29.660that just your screen name it's just josie's fine okay um have you been watching the whole stream
00:33:37.820no okay so the question i mean the title is pretty self-explanatory so okay so the question is why am
00:33:44.780i wrong for having a catfish of the year competition the problem is a catfish one catfish
00:33:52.860i mean like there's just so many to pick from why does it have to be one i mean there's so many like
00:33:57.500grifting catfishes out there like we we just gotta pick one well well you know there has to be
00:34:07.900i mean it's supposed to be fun so i like to like get the people involved let them vote
00:34:13.420okay so when it comes to like catfish like what are we talking about like catfishing off of the
00:34:19.260the ideology like catfishing off of the christianity catfishing off of photoshop
00:34:25.740okay so i did a competition where i said there's a discrepancy between what a woman looks like
00:34:32.300online and her photos i'm not talking about when women have a completely different avatar and
00:34:38.540they're trying to remain anonymous i'm talking about when they use facetune or other apps to
00:34:43.820make them look themselves around two points higher so if they're a six they tend to look
00:34:49.580like an eight and i took some of the most obnoxious users of this
00:34:55.740and asked people to vote for catfish of the year the way that i was given um the most obnoxious
00:35:02.960users was through submission so i had catfish of the year karen of the year simp of the year
00:35:08.900story of the year breakout star of the year and i want to know why am i wrong for having a catfish
00:35:18.240of the year yeah my only problem is that catfish would have to be plural okay yeah that's a strong
00:35:28.320disagreement right there but that's all okay all right well thank you for calling in josie thanks
00:35:37.440okay it looks like shaw and let's see i'll let i'll bring you in next without a speaker
00:35:48.240I'm good. How are you? Well, thank you for choosing me. So let me see. I think that you
00:36:07.800wrong in that what you did was tactless and insensitive I think that you were
00:36:17.340right in that you're trying to poke out or bring attention to an issue in the
00:36:24.480culture does that make sense yes why am I expected to be sensitive on the
00:36:32.680internet why does it matter the medium in regards to how you conduct yourself
00:36:45.240because the internet is the internet and i think it's expected when you go online on the app twitter
00:36:54.040i i think it's pretty delusional to go on an app and completely think that you can police the way
00:37:00.280people talk. I'm not talking about, I guess, an external policing, but who you are shouldn't be
00:37:11.460dictated by the medium in which you use. So if I'm going to be, if I tell myself that I'm a
00:37:19.820respectable, well-mannered person, I'm a respectful, well-mannered person, my character is my character.
00:37:27.560who i am is who i am okay so why is it a lack of class to point out that women are committing fraud
00:37:36.520it's not that's i said what you said is good in the way of pointing out something going on
00:37:43.160with society which is that women are um putting way too much makeup on their faces to the point
00:37:49.480of creating a whole different identity and presenting a face that isn't their own i think
00:37:54.600that you're right um and a lot of stuff that you say actually i'm actually quite entertained often
00:38:00.920with it but i think that you're wrong and that you do it in a way that's tactless and sensitive
00:38:07.720because think of it like this if you live if you create your entire identity around a thing whether
00:38:13.320it's good or bad true or false and then someone all like you've invested so much time so much
00:38:19.000energy so much money and then someone all of a sudden comes up and just destroys that identity
00:38:26.200or pulls that identity out from under you whether they they're right or wrong in doing it how do you
00:38:32.200think you would you would respond to that are you guys gonna be like oh that was that's great thank
00:38:37.560you so much for tearing down something i've invested so much in yeah but i to to me i don't
00:38:45.640think men are given grace when they commit fraud on the internet i think people will just say you
00:38:51.160are a fraud so i don't know why we're giving adult women kid gloves i don't think men are given um
00:39:00.280a lot of times as much grace as women are either for those types of things but i don't think that
00:39:05.640i don't think the solution is to then be ultra evil and mean towards women i think that we need
00:39:14.840to look at the way we approach men and look at the way we approach women and reevaluate both so
00:39:20.760you don't want to you don't want to respond with uh evil to evil with evil that never actually ends
00:39:27.720up doing anything good i think that you like you totally you are totally pointing out a lot of
00:39:33.400great things totally but i think that um on the men's side it's great to point out the hypocrisy
00:39:42.200that's going on with women women are definitely being um the culture is feministic basically
00:39:48.680um which is true and it's anti-patriarchy and it's uh misandrist but i think that
00:39:56.200if you want to really make some some moves i mean some waves keep doing what you're doing but i would
00:40:02.360learn how to do it a little more tact um with a little more finesse in it you kind of go into that
00:40:09.480at it like like a bulldozer rather than like a so like a um surgeon with a scalpel so how would you
00:40:17.560have pointed out the fraud with more finesse i'll take notes
00:40:23.640that's actually a great question and i had a feeling when i asked that and i hadn't really
00:40:28.040thought it i hadn't really thought it through to be quite frankly with you because um i get
00:40:33.880in trouble all the time too for pointing out things i'm a christian but i'm not the average
00:40:38.120christian and as much as i hate feminism and so some people may have seen i had a post one time
00:40:43.160pointing out how that the the women at mardi gras were dancing all crazily and then uh they got on
00:40:51.400me because i said that christian men or men in general don't like women with that kind of spirit
00:40:56.040they're dancing crazily out there in the streets and whatnot but even when i get that kind of
00:41:01.960disrespect and that kind of uh confrontation i'm not going to respond to you like you respond to me
00:41:08.360because i'm still who i am despite how you want to come at me about telling you the truth because
00:41:13.480all you're doing all you do all you're doing is telling people the truth um that's all you know
00:41:18.440i like doing that too but the way that you respond and the way that you go about it in a respectful
00:41:24.440way actually does matter but those particulars i don't know right now because you caught you
00:41:28.840You caught everybody, I think, off guard with that whole catfish of the year thing, which was, you know, totally true, but totally confrontational at the same time.
00:51:30.860And by the way, I'm not I'm not saying I'm ugly. I'm just I'm like, I've I've accepted of being a normal looking woman. Most women fall in that category. It's OK. Look at this. But the challenge is they get these personas.
00:51:49.880oh god I dropped my phone and they think they're that hot and they're just not okay
00:51:57.920um I'm guessing the I'm good on that bro is a disagree or so let's see how does the speaker
00:52:04.040okay hello yo what's good thank you for letting me up Pearl so I have a disagreement with uh how
00:52:15.760you were doing the catfish of the year award and my disagreement is a little bit opposite of what
00:52:22.000that other guy's was I think you're not going hard enough on these ladies I think you're too
00:52:26.760soft on them okay what could I have done to go harder that's actually a good question I really
00:52:34.200don't even know I mean I think you did a pretty good jobs you know for the most part but you know
00:52:38.980I just think that there needs to be more of you more pearls you need to recruit more women to do
00:52:43.920your job you know because you can't do it all by yourself i mean they're all ganging up on you
00:52:48.540and i mean you kind of know how it feels like to be a man who speaks up for himself now and i know
00:52:53.200it doesn't feel good but um yeah that's the only critique i really have other than that i mean you
00:52:59.100did you're doing a great job well thank you i appreciate it yeah thanks