Pearl - April 01, 2026


When Single Moms Raised Bad Kids...


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14 minutes

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3,062

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46

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Misogyny

25

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29

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In this episode we re reacting to women that have raised such terrible children that nobody wants to be around their kids and this is why fathers are so important because mothers create brats and men that are dumb enough to listen to women create monsters.

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00:00:00.000 but the thing is you're not entitled to people like dealing with your kids those are your kids
00:00:04.480 that's why like your social circle honestly is supposed to be your family what up guys welcome
00:00:08.880 to my reaction series today we're reacting to women um that have raised such terrible children 1.00
00:00:14.000 that nobody wants to be around their kids and this is why fathers are so important because 1.00
00:00:19.520 mothers create brats and men that are dumb enough to listen to women create monsters i really urge 1.00
00:00:26.560 men to either you tell her give me give me custody or i'm leaving i am leaving 24 28 female admitted 1.00
00:00:34.400 she doesn't like my 30 male son five male being around is that a red flag the question is a red 0.99
00:00:39.840 flag i 30 male have been dating this girl 28 female for about six months only six months i
00:00:44.160 adore everything about her however she has openly come out and said she doesn't like having my son
00:00:48.080 around so she told you oh yeah women are not nurturing there are girls that wait till they 1.00
00:00:52.160 get married and then they push the stepkids out you have a choice to leave her or your son is
00:00:56.320 is going to suffer why because she's going to take all of your attention that your son can wait till 1.00
00:01:00.560 next year on his birthday till you show up that you don't have to be at this birthday because he
00:01:03.200 may not remember she's going to come up with every single excuse and then when you're old and wrinkly 1.00
00:01:07.280 in a nursing home needing someone to be there for you your son is not going to be it she makes plans 0.99
00:01:11.760 around the weekends when i do not have him as to where we won't be able to see each other as to
00:01:16.080 avoid having him in our company at the same time i'm expecting to continue being fatherly to her
00:01:21.360 daughter for female are you serious you doubting that this is a red flag you don't know there's
00:01:27.680 going to be another case of you paying everything for your stepdaughter doing nothing for your own
00:01:30.800 kids and then the stepdaughter wanting her real dad to walk her down the aisle and then you're 1.00
00:01:35.600 gonna look stupid is this something that will change in time no no believe a person believe 0.99
00:01:41.200 a person but then they tell you they don't love your kids okay when you date other people with 1.00
00:01:44.960 kids understand that's a package deal okay but you that's why it's all messed up who are letting her 1.00
00:01:50.000 her know that your son yeah stepmothers are oh my god they can be the hell on earth and the poor 1.00
00:01:55.820 kids like I almost I think I would trust more stepfathers than stepmothers I mean like you
00:02:03.020 don't want either but if I had to pick a stepmother or stepfather I think stepfathers are like
00:02:08.220 far more responsible with kids and it's optional she's letting you know that her daughter is not
00:02:13.700 a choice okay she's letting you know that her daughter is first and you need to take care of
00:02:16.680 her right but you're letting her know that your son is an option that he can be there if he has
00:02:21.700 to that he doesn't have to go to family vacations you you is this something i should walk away from
00:02:26.680 yes walk away run is there anything i can do to change her thinking no no your son is always
00:02:31.720 going to come last to her to you and she's going to make sure of that she's going to make sure your 0.61
00:02:35.700 son is always last i really don't want to walk away from this relationship so i'm asking for
00:02:39.000 input here it's not fair for your son to be robbed of a father just because you well how often are
00:02:44.280 you see like does he even have custody like honestly if you're only seeing her the kid four
00:02:49.000 days a month to please a woman does it really matter a woman that can come and go i don't know 0.63
00:02:53.800 you're naggy all right let's go to the next woman not everyone likes one thing i had to realize 1.00
00:02:59.400 being an adult is that not everybody likes your kids and that kind of hurts because you might be
00:03:04.840 friends with somebody for the longest you might have a sibling that you just chill one thing i had
00:03:10.520 to realize being an adult is that not everybody likes your kids and that kind of hurts because
00:03:15.880 you might be you don't like your kids because what they do is um they still behave like a single 1.00
00:03:21.700 woman and they still go to single women out it like i was at the pool the other day and it's like 1.00
00:03:26.060 a lot of adults drinking and there's these kids at the pool it's not that we don't like your kids
00:03:30.400 but we don't like your kids here you know like they should be at home with some other kids you 1.00
00:03:36.120 You know, not where there's a bunch of whores around. 1.00
00:03:38.900 Somebody for the longest, you might have a sibling that you just chill with. 0.99
00:03:43.520 And then you come to realize, damn, I don't really think they like my kids like that. 0.91
00:03:47.760 Like if you bring up your child's accomplishments or if you bring up your child doing whatever, 0.96
00:03:53.520 or, you know, if your child comes into the room, the mere presence, you just kind of have to watch people because their reaction says everything.
00:04:02.000 if you're talking to them about your kids and they're really dismissive or they're changing
00:04:07.340 the subject you need to be mindful of that because not everybody likes your kids and that's
00:04:11.960 how they're showing it i've come to the realization recently that somebody really close to me doesn't
00:04:18.160 even like my daughter like she's a child how what in the world and if she's a brat then you can't 1.00
00:04:26.140 really blame them like what kind of kids are you raising realize this because of when i talk about
00:04:31.760 my daughter's accomplishments when I say things about my daughter the conversation just changes
00:04:37.100 changes like if I talk about my sons it's oh this that and the other tell him congratulations but
00:04:42.400 if I talk about my daughter it's changing the subject women hate other women or being oblivious 1.00
00:04:48.200 to what I said I'm like oh did you hear me yep I heard you it's just weird as a grown-ass adult
00:04:54.260 how some people don't like your kids and you have to be mindful of that you have to really watch who
00:05:00.180 have your kids around because they're project their hate for them and their dislike for them
00:05:06.120 and your children don't know what's going on they're just you know they're like oh okay well
00:05:11.060 this that and the other they don't know how to really describe it until they get older and then 0.98
00:05:15.680 they realize she really didn't fuck with me like that and then they'll resent you for having that 0.86
00:05:20.960 person around them yeah okay all right let's next friends and family not making an effort to see your 0.98
00:05:26.460 child but the thing is you're not entitled to people like dealing with your kids those are
00:05:31.180 your kids that's why like your social circle honestly is supposed to be your family it's not 0.99
00:05:36.120 supposed to be all these random people that don't give a shit about the kid very bitter pill to 0.94
00:05:39.860 swallow as a mom especially a first-time mom is the people that you think that are going to be 0.97
00:05:44.560 there to help you with your child are not going to be there all the aunties all the uncles sadly
00:05:50.120 like they're not going to be there don't get it twisted though some will be there be prepared
00:05:55.080 most of them they're not going to be there i know this is going to be such a cutthroat video
00:06:00.120 this is going to hit a nerve for some people being a mom is such a heavy painful draining
00:06:07.060 and beautiful thing like don't forget the beautiful because in all of that there's so
00:06:12.100 many levels of beauty but raising this is coping with not liking being a mother so many women like 1.00
00:06:17.520 men get joy out of being a father i do not see women get joy out of being a mother i don't think 1.00
00:06:21.940 they like playing with their kids i don't think i think most women would rather not have kids but 1.00
00:06:26.520 they like the status in society from children i don't think they get joy of out of being a mom 0.97
00:06:31.380 that's why it's kind of like um you can tell someone's really enjoying something by how they
00:06:38.060 talk about it like my face lights up when i talk about music i don't see women's face light up when
00:06:43.340 they talk about kids it's more like oh yeah it's something i love but i like have to do but i love
00:06:47.900 it it's big responsibility like you literally you can't do it i come here and i tell you guys that
00:06:53.740 i was a single mom i've been a single mom but behind them words they're my family there's like
00:07:00.060 my friends there's other people in my life that have just given me so much help like you physically
00:07:08.200 okay so that's a single mother that makes it sorry that's a single mother that makes her kid 1.00
00:07:11.960 everyone else's problem let me not say you physically can't because there are some women 1.00
00:07:16.080 let you just do it alone and they are literally superman like superwoman i i don't even know how
00:07:22.000 to do that because the way that god created motherhood was for a village like sometimes 0.87
00:07:28.400 you need a day for yourself to just breathe sometimes even sleep you just want to just
00:07:34.800 sleep it can take you one hour to clean a house when you don't have a child the minute you have
00:07:39.280 a child it will take you six hours to completely clean the house never mind all does the kid that
00:07:44.480 doesn't make sense unless you've raised it to not help you the toddler like once you've cleaned one
00:07:49.200 room the toddler's in the other room messing it up you go to the messed up room the toddler's in
00:07:53.600 the other room that seems exaggerated people with kids do you do you find that to be true or no like
00:08:00.400 it it's flipping crazy like you literally need a village to raise a child but be prepared like
00:08:07.120 the people that are going to be in your village are 110 going to be the people that you don't think
00:08:11.760 are gonna be in your village and the people that you expected to be in your village they're gonna
00:08:15.760 be nowhere to be seen and the worst ones the worst ones are the deceivers like the deceivers are the
00:08:21.760 ones that hit they hit my chest and it's just like why aren't somebody up to bring them and break
00:08:28.480 them into disappointment so when i say this i'm talking about the people the ones that will call
00:08:32.960 you and be like oh my gosh how's being a mom like amp you up and say i'm gonna come see the baby i
00:08:39.120 want to see the baby and then they don't come i mean that's people people always people don't
00:08:46.320 follow through i mean this is just life baby especially if you're a first-time mom it's not
00:08:50.960 your place to be carrying your baby to be taking them to see to go over here to scotland to wales
00:08:56.960 to london to cambridge no like you've just had a baby stay at home if the people that love you
00:09:04.320 will come and see your baby i have an auntie that drives a three hour drive she is deaf she cannot 0.98
00:09:10.560 speak she's deaf and dumb she cannot speak and she cannot talk and she gets in a car and she 0.97
00:09:14.960 will drive three hours to babysit three hours i have my best friend natalie the one that you guys 0.98
00:09:20.720 see in the other videos natalie lives in london she will get on a train with bags for to literally
00:09:26.720 come she'll get on a train with bags to literally come sit and babysit my like my daughter for me 1.00
00:09:33.440 me just to sleep just just to sleep if i want to go on holiday like i don't i never have to ask my
00:09:40.380 best friend like can you she will offer it to me like do you get what i'm saying like she will
00:09:46.560 offer it even me and my partner sometimes like we sit down and we like talk about we're like raw like
00:09:50.780 i used to be friends with this person i used to do this and this and this for this person like
00:09:54.580 this person ain't never bought my child a nappy and i did this and this and this for them
00:09:58.600 like they guys nappies are like six pounds five pounds okay i need to hear a different single
00:10:06.000 mother talk it's just me that would complain about this you let me know so my son and i had
00:10:10.840 to get a hotel this weekend because he had a soccer tournament out of town i specifically
00:10:13.860 got a hotel with a pool and a hot tub because my kid loves to swim perfect amazing we go to
00:10:18.680 the hot question fathers the fathers that watch this do you guys hate signing up your kids for
00:10:24.440 sports and all that stuff because i was thinking that all the useless things women spend their 1.00
00:10:29.400 time with kind of translates into adulthood that they sign the kids up for not that sports is
00:10:35.080 useless um i'm just kind of curious what you guys is like how fathers feel about like sports travel
00:10:42.280 sports uh doing all these extracurriculars tub about 6 p.m there's two dudes and four kids in 0.92
00:10:49.720 in there. The kids are in the pool. One's in a chair. One man's in a hot tub. Okay. So I'm
00:10:54.540 assuming the older guy in the chair is grandpa. Right. And then I'm assuming the dad is in the
00:10:58.220 hot tub. The dad is playing with the kids. These kids have, it's like, it's like water balloons,
00:11:03.080 but they're silicone or usable and like whatever. You know what I'm saying? Anyway, they're chucking
00:11:07.800 this shit back and forth. I'm all for playing with your kids. It's the pool. That's where kids 1.00
00:11:12.580 are supposed to play. I'm not, I'm a mother too. Okay. They have a good time. I thought it was
00:11:19.180 common knowledge that hot tubs are for adults. The kids are coming into the hot tub. The kids
00:11:24.240 need to be chilled the fuck out. If there's other people in the hot tub, the kids are not splashing. 0.93
00:11:30.360 The kids are not kicking. The kids are not jumping, right? Like that was how I was raised.
00:11:35.580 And I don't think that's wrong. First problem. We walk in and when we walk in, the pool is here.
00:11:40.640 The hot tub's here. We are going straight to the hot tub. And you either are going this way to get
00:11:45.380 where the stairs are or you're going behind it. Okay. I try a couple of times to go to the stairs.
00:11:54.360 They're throwing the balls back and forth. Not a fucking care in the world that there's other 0.99
00:11:59.180 people in here. So I'm like, okay. So I walk around the back of the hot tub to get in it. 0.98
00:12:04.560 My son are in the hot tub. We're chilling. These kids are loud as fuck.
00:12:09.460 fuck loud as shit screaming off the top of their lungs screaming over each other this is four or 1.00
00:12:17.140 five kids pool okay so they're loud in a pool already okay so again a lot it's a lot of single 1.00
00:12:23.220 mothers don't raise good children and so then the kids are brats and then it's like other people's 0.90
00:12:28.820 problem like that's the problem whoring never just affects one person it affects that it affects
00:12:34.420 everybody echoes like to the point where i was like i'm not this person okay i never want to 0.93
00:12:40.420 make anybody feel bad for having their kids around because i have one but i was like dead ass even my 0.97
00:12:46.420 kid was like dad things i guess dad things so we're in the hot tub and we're chilling and they're 0.87
00:12:52.740 chucking these water balls back and forth the water splashing everywhere the dad is not giving
00:12:57.780 a single about anybody around him he's saying anything i'm not gonna say anything but like
00:13:02.420 okay getting splashed in the hot tub kids aren't even in the hot tub and we're getting splashed
00:13:07.380 it's loud as anyway we get to the point where we're just like oh my god everybody has to go
00:13:13.300 eat dinner at this point the kids start sprawling out i come to find out like three of them are with
00:13:17.460 the grandpa and one of them is with the dad that was in the hot tub and i just know for a fact this
00:13:24.900 dad does not see his kid often he's one of those i get my kid on the weekend and we're gonna go to a
00:13:29.620 hotel and have some fun because i'm not allowed to see you they'll blame the dad but it's like
00:13:33.620 if the kid is bratty then and the mom's with him most of the time wouldn't that be the mom's fault
00:13:38.420 type dad and i could tell that because of the discipline in the area i just think it's common
00:13:45.140 knowledge right if there's people in the hot tub with you you're acting right the hot
00:13:49.700 tub is supposed to be for relaxation the hot tub's not even for the kids why the am i
00:13:54.980 getting splashed in the hot tub when the kids are in the pool is that karen i actually agree with
00:14:01.060 her yeah a lot of people do not give their kids any structure so let me know what you guys think
00:14:05.940 in the comments i love you thanks for watching and if you guys have any instagram trends you
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