Pearl - When Wives Cheat (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.000 It caught my eye. Most young men are single. Most young women are not.

00:00:04.500 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:09.200 It's a different world now. Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:13.020 The future is female.

00:00:16.520 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.

00:00:23.400 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:26.220 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:28.880 this men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way you need to stop acting like

00:00:34.080 grown boys and infants and actually become men marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond it's

00:00:39.440 a machine designed to extract resources from you now many of the red pill have taken the position

00:00:44.320 that it's bad for men to get married it's hannah pearl davis or just pearly things one of the most

00:00:51.520 controversial faces in all of the internet she goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal

00:00:56.880 for men because if me and you were in a business contract you would never sign a contract where i

00:01:01.520 am paid to leave gee what could go wrong there 74 or something of divorces are initiated by

00:01:07.840 women men have everything to lose primarily their own children men get killed by the courts and by

00:01:13.200 divorce laws i had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity not courts of law because

00:01:18.960 in family court you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse you need no evidence when you

00:01:23.520 You guys say get married young.

00:01:24.780 A lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:01:26.900 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:30.260 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:32.820 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:35.060 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:37.240 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:39.620 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:41.040 You're literally just thrown out into the street.

00:01:42.920 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.

00:01:45.380 Wives are taught to leave their husbands,

00:01:47.060 and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:01:49.640 Family is a foundation of society.

00:01:51.260 every problem in society comes from single mother homes a lot of women will just chase this negative

00:01:56.380 rabbit hole of happiness endless happiness feminism's biggest failures is it lies to women

00:02:00.700 we tell women to date as many guys as possible we tell them to put off family into marriage

00:02:04.380 you are allowed to leave your perfect husband you are allowed to end a relationship with a really

00:02:10.460 great boyfriend oh freeze your eggs have an abortion what you're evil i don't think there's

00:02:15.020 anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail like if you have the mentality

00:02:19.980 of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic naturally the outcome is going to be that it's

00:02:24.180 going to fail anyway it's self-sabotage that's the thing like women are so willing to leave

00:02:28.400 marriages because they're not happy this is not about happiness the most important thing is the

00:02:33.340 children and the problem is we have a modern society where it's me me me my feelings leave

00:02:38.800 when i feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids this myth that we live in an age of

00:02:44.900 male privilege where's my male privilege they think well men have all the rights they have

00:02:48.280 all the power and privilege patriarchal system that we have why doesn't our society care about

00:02:53.160 men's rights i have no friends no wife and no social life men are alone in this situation

00:02:59.160 men are homeless men are thinking about eating guns i've seen so many men on on the brink of

00:03:04.200 suicide and they didn't do anything wrong how are you equal if the men are the ones that have to

00:03:09.880 fight and die to defend the country the men are the ones that build and maintain all the

00:03:14.520 infrastructure women are helplessly dependent upon men the so-called deaths of despair from

00:03:20.280 suicide overdose to alcohol three times higher among men than among women culture is telling

00:03:26.160 men you are no good you got to get your act together i think men have failed themselves

00:03:29.960 what kind of a man are you what kind of a woman are you going to attract if men are in trouble

00:03:34.840 so are women everybody knows this is a huge problem but nobody wants to admit it every

00:03:39.980 single woman at the table said they wanted a man 500k 500k 300k 200k am i crazy everything is really

00:03:45.820 set up against you to fail as a man if men make less than women women don't want to marry them

00:03:50.940 so you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men women i don't want to be

00:03:57.180 an independent woman anymore i don't want to be a strong independent woman i'm over it when is it

00:04:02.380 going to be my turn where are we meeting the men that don't stop i can't keep having these

00:04:06.300 same conversation. The only simp here is you, Pearl. You simp for men. No, I think you simp

00:04:10.640 for women. She's a provocateur. She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this thing. It's

00:04:14.760 already happening. It's just not out in the open yet. Now it's just hookup culture is going to be

00:04:18.800 our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband. The future,

00:04:23.940 if everybody follows their path, is there is no future. We go into population decline and our

00:04:28.880 economy goes into decline. Civilization will crumble. The American story does not end well.

00:04:35.180 This is an existential crisis, failing young men.

00:04:45.180 What up, guys?

00:04:46.760 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:04:49.260 I am your host, Pearl.

00:04:50.280 And today we are going to be talking about when modern wives cheat.

00:04:56.660 But before we get into today's topic, I want to send a thank you to Aaron Lev.

00:05:02.780 i'm not going to say the ad because i don't want to dox anybody but thank you so much for the

00:05:07.460 donation he donated a thousand dollars guys we are 500 bucks away from raising 30 000 for the

00:05:13.780 divorce documentary i want to first say thank you guys all so much it really means a lot to me if we

00:05:19.480 get to roughly a hundred thousand dollars i can hire a full-time editor on site to get this done

00:05:25.520 um that's like for like the next year okay so anyways I wanted to first say thank you guys

00:05:33.900 so much I really appreciate it and um if you do want to donate it's the second link in the

00:05:39.640 description otherwise we are starting a members only community where you can improve your fitness

00:05:45.800 your money and also it teaches you how to use the court system against your ex not immoral not

00:05:51.140 illegal slightly immoral but it's in the it's in the um it's in the community you do have to apply

00:05:56.700 for it so anyways that's my sales pitch for the day so i was talking to someone i kind of want to

00:06:04.160 just start off the show telling you guys about a conversation i had and just some of my general

00:06:12.680 thoughts before we get into the topic so there was somebody that i had a conversation with that was

00:06:19.200 like person c was pissed off about something i said this happens to me a lot you know you talk

00:06:28.440 for three hours straight some woman watches your show and they just feel the need to nag you or

00:06:35.740 send men that are easily manipulated to nag you about whatever so this person comes up to me and

00:06:44.400 they're like all right what is your platform about and i was trying to think of how i could

00:06:48.880 give an overview of what I'm trying to say and like what I believe and he's like are you pushing

00:06:55.820 for change are you trying to and I'm like I'd love to see change but I don't really I don't want to

00:07:02.300 sell hope I think that's kind of dishonest and I don't think it's going to happen and this person

00:07:08.120 was like well things change all the time and why don't you think it's going to happen and the best

00:07:13.760 way I could describe it to somebody that doesn't follow the content is women make 80% of consumer

00:07:21.720 buying decisions. Women spend, men don't. And what we're seeing going on is society is trying to give

00:07:29.440 women as much money as possible in order to give us the power to make them money. So plastic

00:07:39.100 surgeons benefit if women spend money on plastic surgery um restaurants benefit if women are going

00:07:48.160 out to the restaurants with their friends and the reason academia is so messed up is because

00:07:57.060 any study that says anything negative about women isn't going to be funded because women are behind

00:08:03.360 everything and um i was just trying to explain that and i'm trying to give this rough overview

00:08:13.720 i'm like look all of society is catering to women they give women easier grades in high school

00:08:21.240 not all but a lot they give women easier jobs after college and they give they pay women more

00:08:28.900 for doing less and they bail women out of debt and men end up paying for it either through marriage

00:08:34.900 or through our taxes or through some government bailout program and when they look into the

00:08:41.580 numbers yes there are men that make the poor decisions too but in general it's mostly women

00:08:48.740 and um now that women have all this power and freedom we're finding out that women's

00:08:55.440 true nature is that they don't want to be moms and they're whores.

00:09:03.040 And they're not as nurturing as we thought.

00:09:05.280 They're like sleeping with middle schoolers and killing kids every other week.

00:09:10.220 Women's true nature is not nice, special, and awesome.

00:09:14.000 And this person was like, well, isn't that kind of bleak?

00:09:16.740 And I'm like, yeah, but why do I have to be?

00:09:21.160 and some of your comments from yesterday's show a lot of them were saying i've watched you forever

00:09:28.480 pearl you know i've i've poured so much into this channel but

00:09:34.800 you know your new messaging is just um it's so sad and i had to think about it i had to think

00:09:43.920 about how did i get to this point why do i why was i so much more hopeful two or three years ago

00:09:50.460 than I am now. And I would say it's because when I started seeing men's point of view and kind of

00:09:58.260 arguing more on the side of men, people started treating me like a man. Calling out female sin,

00:10:07.420 you get treated just like men. And it's so depleting and exhausting.

00:10:12.620 because you you might say like if i say women are whores i have to deal with 10 women screaming at

00:10:22.040 me that they're not in fact whores before i can even get to my point that you just start to be

00:10:28.840 like do i really want to go into this today do i really and i think that's what men go through is

00:10:37.280 they realize if they're honest with women they either lose money or they get screamed at and

00:10:43.380 it's just not worth the hassle like i saw jesse lee peterson i'm a big fan of him but he had

00:10:48.900 something he said why are men afraid of women i'm like i'm kind of afraid of women they have so much

00:10:54.720 power they've stayed on their side the police on their side the media on their side they kind of

00:11:00.800 scare me um i'm even afraid to be honest about things that have gone on the last few years

00:11:09.560 because if i'm honest these women retaliate

00:11:14.960 they retaliate times 10 but when somebody's blue pilled it is so difficult to explain this to them

00:11:24.580 because this person was like that's just not what i've seen and i always respect someone's

00:11:31.040 right to have a difference of opinion or not agree with me or whatever um

00:11:35.960 but i was trying to explain to this person that men literally produce 80 of the world's stuff

00:11:47.440 how the hell are we even close to making the same amount of money

00:11:51.420 women get control of a hundred percent of who's born women have all the power we're in a matriarchy

00:12:01.840 now anyways um i just kind of wanted to give you guys that rant we're gonna do a show tomorrow

00:12:08.640 or maybe not tomorrow tomorrow or monday i haven't decided if i'm gonna stream tomorrow or not but

00:12:14.680 we're gonna do a show tomorrow where you guys can call in the people that maybe have changed

00:12:19.680 or opinion about me or feel as though I've changed, you know, it's really going to ask

00:12:25.980 the question, why should we have hope?

00:12:29.120 Why?

00:12:30.560 What is the purpose?

00:12:33.020 Okay, so I'm done with that riff.

00:12:37.660 Let me know if you have any thoughts in the comments, but we are going to get into today's

00:12:42.940 show topic.

00:12:43.820 so all right welcome to another episode of pearl daily now i've said for years that marriage is a

00:12:53.400 bad deal for men why would a man get married in 2025 now when i first started my platform i was

00:13:00.880 very naive i thought that there was a reason for men to get married i didn't understand why men

00:13:08.320 didn't want to get married I didn't people around me were married it didn't even if they divorced

00:13:14.100 it didn't seem that bad on paper but a crazy thing happens when you start getting red pilled

00:13:21.040 and I'll tell you what I'll give you an example of something that red pilled me so when I

00:13:26.320 interviewed the a thousand women and I realized how often women lied about abuse because I would

00:13:36.200 ask, the women would say they were abused, and I would say, okay, how were you abused? And I would

00:13:41.420 ask them like 10 questions, and they would just, their story would fall apart. And I thought, okay.

00:13:46.980 Now, if these women are all lying about this,

00:13:50.440 what does that mean about like the general population? Like that has to extrapolate to

00:13:56.560 like my childhood. And there was one man who was a soldier in my hometown, but he was deployed.

00:14:03.780 and his wife that was the story that he was abusive and so years later because you hear

00:14:10.420 these stories and you're just like oh he must have been abusive and years later retrospectively you

00:14:16.840 realize that the guy wasn't but he had to go through all of that pain like it probably took

00:14:22.200 him a decade to clear his reputation so again i was naive because from my perspective you know

00:14:31.500 men are often silent about what they're going through in marriage. You don't realize it.

00:14:36.000 There were so many benefits for men, I used to think. But after doing my show in London,

00:14:41.540 filming a divorce documentary, and just observing modern women in society, I realized how wrong I

00:14:47.660 was. Men get nothing from marriage, absolutely nothing. And the risk you take from getting

00:14:53.640 married is not worth the cost of getting divorced. So let's say a man does get married,

00:15:00.120 He's going to have to marry one of these modern women who value their happiness and their selfish

00:15:05.640 desires more than anything. And what do selfish women do? They cheat. It's estimated that 24%

00:15:12.500 of women cheat on their boyfriends and their husbands. And that is a self-reported stat,

00:15:17.800 meaning we all know that women rarely say anything to make themselves or other women look bad.

00:15:23.500 so I would doubt that number the average man has to have a plan for not if but when their

00:15:30.280 girlfriend cheats on them and that's the sad reality it's the current times that we are living

00:15:35.440 in that is what we're going to talk about today wives that cheat on their husbands so this is

00:15:41.160 going to be a call-in show so as I go through these clips I want you to get ready to call in

00:15:45.580 and talk about if you caught your wife or your girlfriend cheating on you how did you find out

00:15:50.700 why did she say she cheated and what type of guy did she cheat with

00:15:55.660 i also want to know if she gaslit as hard as these women do in these videos because

00:16:02.680 these are pretty insane okay so we're gonna watch you got going on what this is all right all right

00:16:12.760 So they know what you got going on, but this is a friend.

00:16:22.620 But this is this is this is what she turned over with me for.

00:16:25.420 So she's dying on this lie.

00:16:28.820 She's dying on the lie.

00:16:32.560 Yeah, she's she's like, I'm dying by this.

00:16:36.200 I'm dying on this sword.

00:16:37.320 He's a friend.

00:16:43.240 bro and you got my kids on the ground bro you got my kids on the ground bro

00:16:55.160 my daughter's on the ground

00:17:00.600 what's it a growing ass like this

00:17:07.400 i'm not even mad bro but she got a go for me she got dcf problems she got all types of stuff

00:17:12.760 this is this is crazy this is really crazy this is crazy but i don't know how you well you know

00:17:22.600 it's uh i don't know that don't even matter bro but dude she got two kids bro she she like if you

00:17:28.980 see my daughter my daughter's on the ground bro like no no seriously she's on the ground

00:17:34.540 her okay so how do we rate her lying what do we think all right next we got wife

00:17:44.320 catch it or man catches his wife in Walmart with another man

00:17:57.720 what are you doing here what am I doing here no I don't know this what are you

00:18:03.100 doing here? What am I doing here? Really? Stop. Really? Stop filming. What are you doing? Who's

00:18:08.740 this guy? Oh my, I'm sorry. Dude, hold on. No, everything's not okay. What are you doing filming? Stop. Turn it off. Aren't you her boss? Is there even that you're boss? Oh my God. Are you guys in work hours right now? Yeah, we're working. Stop. Are you guys working by

00:18:23.440 seriously why are you even here really really oh my god outside outside no we're not going outside

00:18:31.920 there is nothing sadder than a guy catching a girl cheating and still trying to order his wife

00:18:37.680 around bro she's gone get your video go to court file the papers outside outside no we're not

00:18:47.440 going outside we're not going outside really really what are you doing you don't have to

00:19:03.520 you have to pay for that i just put it here for now really why are you following us why are you

00:19:09.600 following really no really ah going out sad all right we got a man catching his wife at the pool

00:19:22.080 with another man

00:19:40.080 that's what we doing that's what we doing that's what we down my man what are you doing

00:19:44.560 that's what we doing huh are you still you're stuck now you think i'm stupid huh

00:19:48.800 what's up talk to me what's this oh so you can't you mute now now you didn't turn to a mute let

00:19:57.180 the whole world see you huh yeah there you go what's up talk to me what's this oh you can't

00:20:05.000 talk you can't talk now really wow you can't talk so he didn't abandon you you can't talk now huh

00:20:13.700 so far i think she's done the best reaction you got to just shut up

00:20:26.860 don't defend yourself just shut up

00:20:29.820 uh-huh so you got a pool so you work don't how did you know it work don't work this

00:20:37.140 what you're doing at work that's what you're doing if i'm at work how did you know why

00:20:45.660 you're not at work are you recording me five years five years though yeah all right next

00:20:54.900 got a man surprises a woman with a video of her cheating okay that's you cheating on me

00:21:06.660 okay that's you cheating on me so get the my house right now all right sit up straight

00:21:13.380 you're punching over. I know. I thought it was sitting straight.

00:21:17.380 Well, sit up straight. All right.

00:21:21.380 Okay.

00:21:25.380 You ready? Okay.

00:21:29.380 I made a card for you.

00:21:33.380 Remove the blindfold.

00:21:37.380 Yeah! That's you

00:21:41.380 cheating on me so get the my house right now i'm glad you drove an hour for

00:21:47.640 reason and this is going on youtube sweetheart i know you don't care

00:21:52.840 get the out get out get out of my house right now leave hey

00:21:59.260 youtube you're gonna be famous sweetheart yeah

00:22:05.580 she had a good reaction now i'm just if i was to advise a cheater

00:22:12.320 i'd just say to stay calm because this guy it's like he's trying to exert authority he doesn't

00:22:19.660 have anymore it's like trying to make her sad she doesn't care and back picture of your id

00:22:24.880 leave leave and leave

00:22:29.560 okay um

00:22:33.860 all right apparently someone else caught his wife cheating on valentine's day

00:22:41.780 all right full screen

00:22:46.300 that guy's face was so funny

00:22:58.940 he said it's not what it looks like oh that's hilarious

00:23:11.140 oh and i want to see this one

00:23:15.040 it's actually my wife for 10 years

00:23:16.880 yeah

00:23:19.200 10 years boy

00:23:21.200 10 years

00:23:22.100 eileen is there anything you want to say

00:23:26.900 i mean

00:23:30.960 she never told me anything about it

00:23:32.780 yeah

00:23:32.960 well looks like both of you are in real

00:23:37.380 big trouble

00:23:37.900 but you know what

00:23:39.920 i'm gonna let you go just for this one time 10 miles usually i pull people over giving really

00:23:49.620 big tickets but you didn't know this is my wife you don't know so you lied to him you never told

00:23:56.220 them me and you were married okay well sir women gaslight to the end of time

00:24:18.620 they say why do you enjoy watching the men getting crushed i don't enjoy it but

00:24:26.220 there are times when it's just go don't go out sad do you know what i mean if a girl tells you

00:24:35.140 she doesn't want you through her actions or her words just let her go um sir i've had enough of

00:24:42.520 this you are good to go do not i don't i'm not shaking yet don't let me see you again

00:24:47.340 okay let's see the next one

00:24:59.020 we're gonna make it full screen here you mean what i'm doing it's my house

00:25:07.260 no hell yeah we together 23 years what the phone is too much what is going on i mean the phone is

00:25:16.380 too much. No, we're not separated, man. We got two kids together. You ain't telling

00:25:22.420 them that? I'm putting down nothing. This is going on Facebook Live. Where do you got

00:25:27.000 to go? Are you filming this? Yes, I'm filming this. Look what we got here. We got champagne,

00:25:34.940 strawberry, orange juice. Oh, look over here, Facebook. We got some bacon, grits. That's

00:25:41.920 It's pretty nice, pretty nice food.

00:25:44.640 Got some bacon, grits, pancakes, eggs.

00:25:54.520 Yeah, I'm filming this, why wouldn't I film this?

00:25:58.720 I'ma post it, Facebook Live.

00:26:00.920 Let's go live, everybody.

00:26:04.240 What do you think I found out?

00:26:05.680 23 years at the house, the neighbors told me,

00:26:08.800 hey man that's not like a personal problem

00:26:14.560 dude the comments are saying with bart simpson with him you can't film this i have a guy wife

00:26:32.000 and kids well so did the guy filming it's not his fault for thinking that the wife was separated but

00:26:37.760 it is his fault for stepping out of his own marriage yeah all right he was helping her out

00:26:47.640 with groceries let's see this next one oh wait we saw this one oh we know okay

00:26:57.400 Yo, yo, yo

00:27:00.200 Yo, yo, yo

00:27:03.320 What's going on with you, brother?

00:27:09.960 What's your name?

00:27:10.880 You alright?

00:27:11.500 That's his girl

00:27:12.180 You alright?

00:27:13.300 That's his girl

00:27:14.080 What's going on?

00:27:15.440 What's going on with you?

00:27:16.020 You alright?

00:27:16.600 I was just about to help her with her groceries

00:27:18.620 I was about to help her with her groceries

00:27:24.160 Bro, stop playing with me, bro

00:27:27.100 Why are you coming at me?

00:27:29.100 What grocery?

00:27:30.100 Go to the pool, bro.

00:27:31.100 Why are you coming at me?

00:27:32.100 Who is it?

00:27:33.100 Why are you coming?

00:27:34.100 Don't worry about that.

00:27:35.100 Just chill.

00:27:36.100 I'm booking, bro.

00:27:37.100 We just sitting over here,

00:27:38.100 can do the one, can do the one.

00:27:39.100 We just saw y'all cuddled up and talking and laughing.

00:27:41.100 No, yes.

00:27:42.100 Bro, there's a pool right here, but what groceries, bro?

00:27:45.100 He was talking about going to get the groceries.

00:27:47.100 Bro, he wasn't helping me with the groceries.

00:27:48.100 Why are you pressing me for?

00:27:49.100 This is my cousin.

00:27:50.100 Y'all cousins?

00:27:51.100 Yes.

00:27:52.100 My cousin was helping me bring the groceries in the house.

00:27:54.100 He is black.

00:27:55.100 Why are you pressing me for?

00:27:56.100 he's black press her so y'all cuz my cousin so y'all won't he's black and

00:28:03.060 you're Mexican yeah I can't decide who's the guy getting cheated on if it's

00:28:10.200 the big guy you kind of did that to yourself a girl that thin she's gonna

00:28:15.600 cheat after so long up here by yourself why you answer his phone cause he

00:28:21.500 cause you were born too many times.

00:28:23.060 No, that's her.

00:28:24.140 Oh, yeah.

00:28:25.140 What are there, bro?

00:28:26.100 Chill.

00:28:28.580 So cooked.

00:28:29.380 All right.

00:28:29.740 Next, we got a woman

00:28:30.940 cheated with her coworker.

00:28:43.980 What's going on?

00:28:44.740 Is this messed up?

00:28:46.740 It is.

00:28:47.740 Get your and get the out.

00:28:51.500 what get the f**k out get your s**t and get the f**k out

00:28:55.740 what what get the f**k not who was it who so

00:29:01.900 I don't know so you f**k stop playing that the dude already showed me the message I'm on it

00:29:07.620 I don't know what are you talking about you don't know so if I hit him up you're not gonna know him

00:29:11.780 my co-worker oh yeah now you remember huh

00:29:14.360 you know him you know you've been around so that's my co-worker that's like my friend that's like my

00:29:19.560 my brother like my bro it's cool i'm not tripping get your and get out that's it

00:29:49.560 get up you're gonna go about with somebody get your things and get the out please

00:29:55.740 you're gonna do this on christmas eve it's not it's not yep yes he is okay next husband

00:30:05.540 catch his wife cheating we got the last one let's put the zoom link in the chat and you

00:30:10.400 guys can tell me if you've caught someone cheating how it happened men or women feel

00:30:15.760 free. What are you doing? What you doing here? Oh, Tiffany. Yeah. I'm going to ask you one more

00:30:36.520 time what are you doing here i already told you i'm going to meet tiffany so um what about mitchell

00:30:45.320 the personal trainer you don't know what anyone else got got by a personal trainer that'll do it

00:30:54.760 and the jujitsu instructors huh huh you don't know what i'm talking about no

00:31:02.040 you know the one you sent your list to you don't remember that one so you've been going through my

00:31:08.360 phone no i mentioned i can't kiss your ass to catch you what i'll try to touch you and i knew

00:31:16.280 that i knew why do some like that i can't believe this how the you're going to do this

00:31:24.200 this is wild man it's a thing i'm about to make you my life oh yeah right it's been three years

00:31:29.480 what's this baby what's this what's this huh what's that what's that huh what's that oh

00:31:38.920 uh uh she's like damn don't touch me you're a five dollar what she's going to do meet up with

00:31:49.080 with them suckers they'll come back and kiss me in the mouth

00:31:51.000 yep all right guys call in i want to hear from you have you caught your ex cheating and if so

00:32:11.080 how what type of guys was she cheating with we got doug mpa on the line hey how are you

00:32:19.720 i'm fantastic so tell me what are your thoughts on the show so i um i waited tables uh at this

00:32:32.180 restaurant in my hometown and this waitress she was out for a couple of weeks and then she came

00:32:38.340 back and she was like half limping and i'm like what happened to you she's like yeah you know i

00:32:44.640 got in a car accident well you know i come from a town that's big it's a big town but a small town

00:32:50.980 socially and so you know i i did i researched my sources and i found out that um her and her baby's

00:32:58.980 father they were breaking up and getting back together breaking up and getting back together

00:33:02.380 right and so they were they were in an in-between period and she was at target and she saw her

00:33:13.100 baby's father with another woman and no it's funny because yeah i know this girl since um

00:33:22.380 i know this girl since ellen mitchie school she's one of those light-skinned black girls

00:33:27.020 but a lot of the light-skinned black girls they overcompensate in the ratchet to to try to prove

00:33:33.820 how black they are you know what i'm saying okay so anyway so she's one of those so she's yelling

00:33:40.700 and screaming in target she's running after them so her baby's father grabs his girlfriend's hand

00:33:47.420 and they're running through target and she's running after him they jump in the girl's car

00:33:54.540 and take off she takes off in her car and she's ramming them off the road like she's driving

00:34:01.340 she's driving after him catches up to him rams him off the road into a light pole

00:34:09.900 yeah yep and so she did they get back together uh i don't even i don't even ask back then i don't

00:34:19.340 even know but i just know that she had to go to the hospital because of the car accident

00:34:23.980 And she was on muscle relaxers and had to go through physical therapy because of the car accident.

00:34:29.320 But she chased him in her car and then ran him off the road and hit a light pole.

00:34:36.480 Pearl Reed, I showed 10 seconds of Nala Ray to my girlfriend and she agreed with you completely.

00:34:46.640 That's after 30. Stop asking why.

00:34:49.900 i don't get why men have to record but i guess it's to show proof that they weren't abusive

00:34:54.800 when they exposed the cheater here's the thing guys women record everything so men should do

00:35:03.260 it's always better to have a camera out and catch things on camera you don't know why men have to

00:35:08.420 record what kind of what is that about always especially as a man if a woman's in your house

00:35:15.360 and does anything whip out your phone and record it it's your best chance when the police come

00:35:23.040 and stop trying to hold men to this higher standard men used to hold themselves to a higher

00:35:28.800 standard but women called that patriarchy so don't you know fight fire with fire if women record

00:35:35.200 everything you should too is there anyone on the line yeah uh-huh trying to think there's

00:35:42.960 oh actually i do have a cheating story this wasn't me but this was someone i knew in school

00:35:51.240 how she caught her boyfriend cheating she had he she had his location so i don't know why

00:35:57.400 um he would like do it so openly when you know like it's kind of normal in the younger

00:36:03.520 generations people just share each other's location dumbest thing i've ever heard what

00:36:08.760 dumbest thing i ever heard but but that's how i caught my ex-wife cheating

00:36:14.160 okay you can tell the story next but this guy

00:36:18.400 but i kind of knew because i warned her before she dated him i'm like look this guy

00:36:26.000 he's do what you want but i'm just letting you know he's always cheated she kept going i'm like

00:36:33.020 okay because she was like a young freshman girl right and long story short she finds his location

00:36:39.880 is at his ex-girlfriend's dorm that was that was at a school nearby like 30 minutes but on the

00:36:47.960 phone it was kind of crazy because he like had this whole elaborate story and he was like oh my

00:36:54.460 like he kept saying that people were suicidal so because i was there when he she was on the phone

00:37:01.780 with him. And he was like, Oh, she was threatening to commit suicide. So I had to come. There's all

00:37:07.460 these like cops here and whatever. And there was another girl there. And she was like, could you

00:37:11.740 just go check this dorm? Because she knew someone at that school. So she's like, is there an

00:37:17.040 ambulance there? Which we all knew was kind of BS. But this guy just like, it was weird listening to

00:37:23.940 him because he just was like dying on this lie. And then it got even weirder because then she

00:37:29.460 like broke up with him and then he was threatening to kill himself like he was like oh i'll kill

00:37:34.560 myself and then we got on the phone like she was like calling his family to make sure he did it

00:37:39.800 this is this is when we were like 20 or 21 and it was so weird because the sister like did not care

00:37:48.080 like i think he did this on the regular with his girlfriends because she was like really concerned

00:37:55.240 on the phone and like talking to the sister and the mom like oh he's threatening to kill himself

00:38:00.260 and they're just like uh-huh and i'm sitting there like why are you buying this so

00:38:09.460 we took this one step further the girl so the girl that i'm talking about she was like a light-skinned

00:38:16.900 like black girl. And basically, he he like transferred or something. But he went to a

00:38:28.920 different school, but it was like pretty close because where I went, there was like a lot of

00:38:32.540 small schools like right next to each other. And I figured like they're mostly white school. So I

00:38:38.500 figured he had a type he probably liked light skinned like black girls so um I basically I knew

00:38:47.180 like it's such a small school that everyone knows someone at one of these schools and they ended up

00:38:52.700 getting like screenshots from one of the girls like we just looked at the rosters on um on like

00:39:00.500 the volleyball and basketball pages and so it's like if you look up like the light skinned black

00:39:05.100 girls at like a white school there's only gonna be so many do you know what i'm saying like there's

00:39:09.340 like five girls to ask and yeah they found a side chick in like a day so it wasn't that hard

00:39:16.460 but i'll be honest though they stayed together i've talked about this before that was the last

00:39:21.580 time i ever involved myself in something like that because it was very awkward for me

00:39:26.700 because they stayed together oh i know they stayed together after all that

00:39:32.700 And he like hated me and this other because it was like the freshman girl and then me and this other girl that were like there.

00:39:40.860 And he hated it.

00:39:42.360 It was so awkward after that.

00:39:44.020 He was like so pissed.

00:39:46.400 And I was like, you know what?

00:39:48.380 Hindsight 2020.

00:39:49.660 I should just never have gotten involved.

00:39:53.320 Never.

00:39:54.140 I was like, I learned the lesson.

00:39:56.020 I was like, because I think I took it too far.

00:39:58.680 by i shouldn't have um messaged the girls at the other schools but i'm like it's so easy like just

00:40:06.520 ask and hindsight 2020 maybe i but we did get screenshots of him like dming them in like a day

00:40:14.680 it wasn't that hard i told you guys the story about my relationship with my mom most of my life

00:40:21.720 she was awful but she did give me some good advice she told you when i was young if a girl tries to

00:40:26.520 do that i'm gonna kill myself don't fall for it and you know it's a good response if someone

00:40:31.960 tries to say that to you and you're in a relationship with her are you breaking up

00:40:35.640 with them she said you know you you know what you should say say go ahead i know

00:40:43.480 go ahead do it yeah don't let anyone hold you emotionally hostage like that why no don't let

00:40:51.080 him do it and and i can say so i'm not gonna tell the whole story but i got to the point where

00:40:58.600 i had my ex-wife's location and she was at a restaurant with another guy and i was outside

00:41:05.880 and i was like should i go in and i didn't go in you didn't i didn't no why i actually called my

00:41:13.800 family and well i called my i called my father actually and he's like what are you what are

00:41:21.520 you gonna go in there for nothing good can happen if you go in there oh because it could have been

00:41:26.720 a fight or like yep you're my son i don't want to see you go to jail or anything so don't go in

00:41:31.080 there and he was right i didn't go in there so it was did you see the guy or no no i left

00:41:37.500 so how did you know that she was there with a guy and not like a girl

00:41:42.180 uh i mean you just know yeah you know so where did she say she was uh well it was a thing where

00:41:52.840 um i was working overtime because she was looking for we had just moved to a new city

00:41:58.080 and she was looking for a job but she's all stressed out because she couldn't find a job

00:42:02.220 now i have no idea why because i wasn't putting the expectation on it but she was putting on

00:42:06.400 herself and so she was mad at me because she didn't have a job and it was a new city and

00:42:12.000 blaming everything on me because moving to that city was was my fault and my idea and so i would

00:42:18.080 come home and we i would i was working 50 to 60 hours a week paying the bills and then she was

00:42:25.360 mad at me for being able to work but i had to work a lot to pay the bills and she's just one of those

00:42:31.360 where you know i guess when she gets mad at whoever she's with she goes to cheat i guess but oh so

00:42:39.920 she was mad at you and like cheating spitefully yeah was she sleeping with them or going on dates

00:42:45.920 do you know how far she took you don't know but it was i know i know it was dates i mean i i'm

00:42:51.280 assuming the worst it was it was everything yeah so but yeah you know that's what happens when you're

00:42:58.160 you know that's why i keep telling you guys never trust a guy who says he's never simped

00:43:02.560 this is the west 90 of us have simped it's just a matter of how bad and how long and um remember

00:43:11.600 the red pill you don't take it orally most of the time it gets shoved up your ass

00:43:19.120 lucky leo says hi pearl i wanted to call him but i'll i'll just add a text my wife cheated on me

00:43:25.040 with a divorce lawyer we had three little kids then she filed had to sell the house

00:43:30.000 and was forced to move back home um damn i don't think your message is bleak or black filled the

00:43:38.160 bible says this life is the valley of tears and jesus says that the devil is prince of the world

00:43:43.600 trad cons romanticize the past oh actually i want to read a comment i saw on twitter i asked the

00:43:50.880 question um what's the worst guy that's stolen your girl or something like that or who has stolen

00:43:58.560 your girl that i don't know it was just like really bad and it said i've had six-pack abs for

00:44:06.080 20 years i make 150k a year i'm an amazing dad who is awarded majority custody after a divorce

00:44:11.920 i don't gamble i don't drink and i took care of all the finances and all the regular household

00:44:16.720 duties my ex-wife cheated on me with a hospital security guard sorry guys i gotta laugh a little

00:44:24.960 bit because we're insane and also hey so pearl and i got into this discussion what does it mean

00:44:33.360 that a guy took your girl does the girl have to leave you for him or just a guy that smashed your

00:44:43.280 chick took your girl because i was saying could you consider it your girl being taken by another

00:44:51.680 guy if she's just trying to be a

00:44:53.760 whore and cheat

00:44:54.560 it's almost worse than

00:44:57.720 getting your girl taken though because

00:44:59.660 you're paying all the bills

00:45:01.220 he is getting the hot like he's getting

00:45:03.760 the best part of her

00:45:04.780 he's getting like the hot sex

00:45:07.820 and whatever I mean

00:45:09.720 it's all bad but

00:45:11.400 like

00:45:13.700 at least if he took her she's not your problem

00:45:15.840 anymore yeah that's true

00:45:17.560 i guess he's up first sean what's up my friend how's it going let's go

00:45:25.240 what's good doug what's good pearl how y'all doing good how are you i can't complain life

00:45:32.580 is good shout out to all you guys man y'all i have been a ball out here laughing and having

00:45:37.940 fun so shout out to you guys i've been surviving after our breakup it's been tough but you know

00:45:43.080 i've been making it through oh just real fast how are you how are you emotionally and spiritually

00:45:49.400 right now just so fast hold on hold on yes everyone uh uh in the chat i i'm one of those 90s

00:45:57.560 raised men most the guys raised in the 90s with the r b boys to men music and then the the the

00:46:05.400 roommate the the sitcoms with urkel chasing laura and roger chasing the sister sister twins the

00:46:11.560 guys raised in the 90s we were the biggest most romantic simps ever born into the united states

00:46:17.560 and we all had to learn the hard way all of us every single one of us so that's why most of your

00:46:24.280 red pill content creators are between the ages of what like 43 and like 50 or something like that

00:46:30.840 because we had it the word we had the biggest wake-up call of any generation i'm sorry go ahead

00:46:35.400 song no shout out to you doug you remind me of my jeep i know right yeah we had those simp songs

00:46:44.440 that yeah 100 man but i'll make love to you ain't what you want oh come on man all of it how are you

00:46:53.800 emotionally and spiritually have you been able to what's up with your life is everything okay

00:46:59.160 yeah yeah you know i've been um it's been tough you know but i think it was the best decision

00:47:06.600 you know we were just two puzzle pieces that didn't fit and and it was really about you just

00:47:13.720 finding yourself you know being there for yourself and developing and i'm glad that

00:47:19.320 you're happy because that's the most important thing for you this is so good

00:47:28.600 Oh, man. So, of course, I had situations where I caught somebody cheating, but it really wasn't a situation where I caught them cheating.

00:47:36.780 They told me they were cheating. And I think I already shared it with you guys, the one that was on my birthday.

00:47:44.200 I had a good old.

00:47:45.120 If you want to. Yeah, go ahead. All right. All right. So I'm chilling. Right. Just relaxing.

00:47:51.620 You know, it's my birthday, so I'm relaxing. And it was my recent birthday that just passed a couple of months ago.

00:47:57.000 and so one of my ling-lings you know she comes over she has this fruit cake she went out with

00:48:01.840 her mom and she made it and you know i don't eat like cake so she made it just a fruit right

00:48:07.040 they put it together they bring it and you know she comes up by herself and we're sitting around

00:48:13.840 and she lights the candles on secret and boom she brings it in and then i'm like oh snaps okay cool

00:48:20.620 don't care but anyways she brings it i blow out the candles make my wish boom and then i look to

00:48:28.820 her and say how are you doing everything's good and she's like yeah yeah yeah i'm just so excited

00:48:35.860 that you know i made this cake me and my mom took her time and i said i appreciate it i was like

00:48:42.380 everything's good in the relationship right any problems any complaints any issues

00:48:48.100 she gets dead quiet right i lean in i hold her hand and i say you sure you could tell me anything

00:49:01.620 you know i always have an open door policy this is what my commanding officer used to tell us

00:49:06.800 yeah you always get troops that will come and tell you they did something if you always have

00:49:12.600 open door policy so she sat there for a long time contemplating am i going to tell him this shit

00:49:21.840 so a little bit later she comes down she's like one time and then she starts crying

00:49:30.640 of course i'm like it's okay get it out i'm like tell the truth you know help yourself

00:49:40.400 of all this pain and secret and lies so she ends up telling yeah she slept with a guy

00:49:47.820 she met him at the mall something where she works blah blah blah and i was like it's completely

00:49:54.500 fine and i said hey why do you think you've done that like what was going on and of course

00:50:01.700 it was me um but net net i was like okay but it's never me it's always you you did it for

00:50:10.240 a specific reason you have to explore that reason you have to figure out why do you love this guy

00:50:15.100 no i love you i love you you know all that garbage and then that as i told you guys after

00:50:23.180 an advanced conversation i put her on a motorbike kissed her on the forehead and she drove off into

00:50:29.040 the sunset i'm still cool to this day but uh she has been categorized differently she was always

00:50:36.220 categorized differently but net net you just move on that's been hard to recover no i'm just kidding

00:50:45.640 so that's how i went down yeah you're dangerous they would they you would get a girl to

00:50:53.140 admit it that's awesome so was there something that like made you like was she acting different

00:50:59.600 or what or did you was she just that type of person man bro i really didn't know really didn't

00:51:05.660 care uh and plus she gave me her track so i knew where she was i really check it all the time but

00:51:10.680 you know cga says it only takes 10 minutes for a girl to cheat five minutes at that you know so

00:51:16.540 there's no tracking that you could actually do that actually we'll figure it out but no i just

00:51:21.880 had opening conversations always said truth was the most important thing in a relationship

00:51:26.480 and so always had that narrative and so she felt like she was you know liberated and free enough

00:51:32.540 to tell me the truth and so like i said if you tell me the truth i won't punish you for it

00:51:38.680 and so i wasn't like one of those guys that you said pearl are you going on the internet oh yeah

00:51:44.420 we about to shame you i'm about to nobody cares bro i just want the truth and so i guess she said

00:51:51.180 she felt as though it was my birthday and I deserved the truth. Other people will say it's

00:51:55.500 poor timing. But what I would say is I don't care when the truth comes on my birthday, after my

00:52:00.820 birthday. When people want to say it, it might be the only time that they say it. So, you know,

00:52:06.320 motions go here and there. So you better get the truth when you get it. And so it really was

00:52:12.040 nothing. She just came out and just said it. How long were you guys dating? About two years.

00:52:21.180 oh wow do you just assume everybody has their reasons do you just assume after a certain

00:52:26.600 amount of time that they're just gonna i just assume from the beginning humans are humans and

00:52:32.920 they're gonna you know like doug got a story guys are gonna call up everybody's got a story

00:52:38.400 one of the things i said is you got to be indifferent don't put your ego into what a

00:52:42.960 girl does with her box that's gonna be the destruction of you so when somebody comes to

00:52:48.180 and says i gave my box away it's your loss it really is what did i lose nothing but i guess

00:52:55.940 when you're married with seven kids and she getting half of your assets that that's a little

00:53:00.820 bit different but if you're just dating a girl that's why you don't over commit yeah some of

00:53:07.700 the videos the guys are like crashing out and my guys she does not care i thought the best one

00:53:14.180 i thought the best one was when the guy just said get out like we're done get out that's it yeah

00:53:23.140 and i don't even use curse words or nothing like that i don't say get out because that

00:53:26.980 stuff could be taken over somewhere you know that pearl yeah so a judge or somebody who's

00:53:32.180 still a scent right blue pill rage and they're gonna be like oh you can't talk to her like that

00:53:36.980 and so i just be like oh okay pearl we were talking about this before the call and uh she's

00:53:43.220 like what would you do if you got caught cheating and your girl put a camera in your face

00:53:50.100 and we were going back and forth a little bit and i said i think the best thing to do is just

00:53:53.700 to say nothing say nothing and just leave because anything you say can and will be used against you

00:54:00.740 in the court of public opinion on that video don't say anything just leave facts what would you do

00:54:09.700 If you were if you were wrong and out there, you got caught, you go pull out a camera, you get caught red handed.

00:54:18.500 What would you do?

00:54:21.700 Well, Pearl, I don't know what she was about to say, but what I was going to say is I always tell girls I'm never going to be monogamous.

00:54:28.200 So I wouldn't get caught cheating.

00:54:31.160 I'll be doing what I'm doing now.

00:54:32.720 Of course, they could still put the camera in my face.

00:54:34.960 Right. And be like, oh, my gosh, I can't believe you actually did it.

00:54:37.760 and I'd be like well that's what I told you but I wouldn't say nothing neither like you said

00:54:42.720 what's the point of saying something it's not going to get me in the way like you made a smart

00:54:45.800 decision don't go in the restaurant I mean what are you about to do crash out like people trying

00:54:50.300 to eat you cheated on me Shaniqua with this guy and then everybody be looking at you like what the

00:54:56.860 hell so it's not going to help you to go in there and confront anybody that could be a crash out

00:55:03.580 guy too you don't want to do that he might pull out a burner so i could see you just being like

00:55:10.220 so how does the cheating make you feel are you okay

00:55:13.340 for real for real that's all i can see shot you know honey sit down let's talk about this

00:55:22.960 and then the other girl i think i should leave oh no you should stay too

00:55:26.960 we should all talk about how we're feeling yeah how are you guys feeling let's figure out a way

00:55:35.160 to i don't know you met her she met you you know how do you feel about meeting each other

00:55:41.120 is this the type of girl that you'd want to hang out with yeah i think you two might have a lot in

00:55:46.900 common aftercare man i'm trying to hook it up man hey look you got her it's yours best of luck

00:55:54.780 you know i really don't care long as your life is good in itself then it is what it is i mean

00:56:00.500 people cheat all day every day around the world and so and they cheat at the same rate so it's

00:56:06.500 just the reality you got to deal with it's not gonna do you think it's not gonna destroy me

00:56:11.660 do you think women always cheat to leave because i don't think like they always say when women

00:56:18.480 cheat with a guy they always like him i'm like i don't yeah that's false yeah i don't that's

00:56:24.260 super false that's some red pill talking point and uh that's crazy girls cheat because girls

00:56:31.160 sleep with guys just because they want to try them out we talked about that before yeah like

00:56:35.520 it's all sorts of reasons but guys like to give them this sweet and spice and everything nice

00:56:40.600 image which is you know no girls they gotta have some emotion with you you know us guys we don't

00:56:45.880 have to have emotions that's a lie most guys are running around here with more emotions than anybody

00:56:49.960 else and most of the girls well they can do it for whatever sorts of reasons you know what i'm

00:56:54.840 saying like i think i sum it up this way sean right i sum it this way what do what do i nothing

00:57:02.840 is more important to modern women than their own selfish desires and cheating is just another form

00:57:08.280 of them pursuing their own selfish desires uh why does she sleep with that guy because she wanted

00:57:15.560 you and what are you going to do about it what are you gonna do because she wanted to that's why

00:57:22.200 i signed up to that yeah she wanted to and then she could give you a reason like the girl gave

00:57:28.040 me a reason like oh because i don't remember the reason but it was something of the sorts like oh

00:57:34.120 he understood my pain i was like i bet that bet he said he did what i understand you girl i would

00:57:40.040 never do that to you you know like you know i get it and boy okay cool whatever your reason is

00:57:46.040 everybody's got a reason and some could be reason with hey i liked him he looked good and i wanted

00:57:51.480 to hook up with him hey i did it now i look back oh i messed up it doesn't matter you know what i'm

00:57:57.480 saying at the end of the day that's their reason they're going to do what they want to do you're

00:58:00.360 going to have to let that go like and decide to categorize people like tate said in an interview

00:58:05.000 you categorize people and then just say okay roger that women cheat with men they hate and

00:58:10.360 like don't even like them do you know what i mean like they don't like them as people

00:58:15.560 like i'm like there are times of women like do you think the guy i read earlier she was really

00:58:22.200 trying to leave with the hospital security guard come on she was not you know leave come on no she

00:58:29.160 just categorized them and used them for a specific thing and then took it there with them yeah and

00:58:34.040 that's just that yeah and they got massive amounts of options i'd say you know often when they say

00:58:39.320 like it's a problem with social networking i'm like bro it's giving you guys the truth

00:58:44.040 this used to be in the dark you know what i'm saying so the slave master he was a slave master

00:58:50.680 and his wife was still cheating with slaves like come on you know what i'm saying he was a slave

00:58:56.680 master i'm pretty sure he was the top one percent but it didn't matter you know she was like i want

00:59:01.720 to sleep with a slave i want to try him or whatever the case may be so at the end of the day some

00:59:06.760 shorties ran off with a slave like what the heck or they just get bored like women will have like

00:59:11.400 the best sex of their life and then they're bored after a year or two years five years

00:59:17.800 bats go back so the appetite is go ahead what do you say to all these guys that are like oh yeah

00:59:24.680 i'm just gonna go to a different country because women women they won't cheat and they're better

00:59:29.560 there and what would you say to those guys

00:59:31.480 there's differences my

00:59:37.620 guys I'm not going to say there's no difference

00:59:39.800 but to say that they don't cheat

00:59:41.540 is crazy I forgot Pearl when you

00:59:43.540 did that with the president the French

00:59:45.500 president when he got slapped right

00:59:47.020 remember he got slapped yeah by his wife

00:59:49.600 yeah so

00:59:51.600 VM and these men came out

00:59:53.520 and said hey you get

00:59:55.660 slapped by your wife too

00:59:56.980 because they were saying we get slapped by our

00:59:59.540 wives so in asia passive submissive asian girls slap their husbands too

01:00:05.780 wait ladies are ladies man they cheat out here too bro like india is very bad but i think they

01:00:16.000 did a study it was seven out of ten women in india were cheating on their husbands because

01:00:20.460 they were bored in india you can get you can get some issues let's just say that yeah like

01:00:28.680 they take that seriously and they still

01:00:31.160 did it and men will have all these ideas

01:00:33.180 to get women to not cheat they'll think

01:00:35.180 oh she just doesn't work and she's a housewife

01:00:37.640 the neighbor

01:00:39.300 that's the worst the pool boy

01:00:40.920 do you know like exactly milkman

01:00:43.500 what are you gonna lock her in the house

01:00:45.300 like she goes to the grocery store

01:00:47.600 come on like

01:00:50.760 that's why they had the chasity belt

01:00:52.740 Pearl it was that bad

01:00:54.540 do you know what I mean I decided I think

01:00:56.900 the best job for a girl to have is an engineer a female engineer where they'd be the least likely

01:01:04.320 to cheat now i'm this is me spitballing here but i was thinking about it i'm like engineers the

01:01:09.840 archetype is that they're pretty dorky guys so maybe she'd be like less likely to find a guy at

01:01:16.480 work if she's an engineer that was then also that was my that was my spitball but it's no

01:01:22.640 no guarantees feel free to spitball if you have like a profession or a place that women are better

01:01:29.560 or worse no guarantees well also i can tell you so it takes a certain type to be an engineer

01:01:35.140 because even like when you're young you know the type of guys that are going to be engineers and

01:01:40.380 you know the type of girls that are going to be engineers too because even the girls are kind of

01:01:44.360 socially awkward and quiet and stuff so i think just by that alone they're less likely to cheat

01:01:50.100 because women pay severely for being the engineering type

01:01:56.260 because they exhibit traits that men don't like,

01:02:00.180 and then women make them pay severely

01:02:02.760 for not being able to adhere to the social cues

01:02:06.460 and social rules of female circles.

01:02:10.040 So I just think that female engineers are less likely to cheat

01:02:12.600 because they just don't, that quiet kind of mousy, nerdy type,

01:02:16.680 not a lot of guys like that.

01:02:18.960 You know what I'm saying?

01:02:20.100 hmm yeah what do you think yeah well i say this look at the end of the day i think the best

01:02:27.460 strategy is insulate yourself from what cheating can do to you versus trying to stop cheating yeah

01:02:33.900 like it's you can't like oh man how do i stop a girl from cheating figure out how to insulate

01:02:39.380 you from being affected by someone cheating that's the best strategy that's within your control you

01:02:46.040 get what i'm saying so for me even like when like when she was crying and like oh man you're not sad

01:02:52.020 i'm like nah i lost brothers in arms in combat like that's more hard for me to get over versus

01:02:59.940 you deciding to go cheat like whatever man bounce and it's not in an evil way it's just like i get

01:03:07.020 it you know do you whatever people do that life has been harsher to me than that so that's that's

01:03:14.520 minor thing but that's because my mindset is not tied into it so much like oh my god she's my girl

01:03:20.600 she's supposed to stay faithful only me that's a lie r kelly a genuine all them guys lied

01:03:30.760 that stuff ain't real man like it is what it is yeah you don't want to be oj simpson

01:03:35.400 i didn't realize that she cheated i did not know that part of the story

01:03:44.840 can you bring up that video of hulk hogan's wife crashing out oh hulk hogan's yeah sure yeah so

01:03:57.280 so um remember hulk hogan's wife left uh started sleeping with her son's best friend so he was 28

01:04:06.200 and she was 50 at the time and she put a charge on hulk hogan he had to leave his house and i

01:04:12.260 remember hulk hogan was like um i don't condone what oj did but i understand because i got this

01:04:19.760 28 year old kid living in my house banging my wife and driving the ferrari that that i bought

01:04:26.340 for like i'm not saying what he did was right but i understand well now that guy finally broke up

01:04:32.020 with her eight years later and she's crashing out like oh my life is so terrible and then i guess

01:04:38.100 brooke hogan won't talk to the mom anymore hasn't talked to her since and she's trying to say that

01:04:43.300 it was all hook hogan's fountain and that she's tried her best to try to get back with him but

01:04:48.580 he's he's a narcissist you left him for a 28 year old for your son's best friend

01:04:55.140 and so um and the pro had no idea the oj simpson case i had to run well i didn't know i didn't know

01:05:02.500 that the the guy died too yeah yeah yeah there was a guy there that i guess she was cheating

01:05:09.140 with that died too a personal trainer what i don't know he was crashing out based off that day well

01:05:17.220 I just can't believe he got away with it if the personal trainer died too.

01:05:21.900 Yeah, yep.

01:05:22.980 He had some good lawyers.

01:05:24.340 Yeah, this is the crash.

01:05:25.760 I have to be honest about what I went through in my marriage with Terry as Hulk Hogan

01:05:36.800 and what it entailed and what it has caused over the years and everything else.

01:05:45.460 he's a complete liar he's a sex addict your face out there and know that all these horrible things

01:05:52.380 are going on behind the scenes yet he marches on he marches on like yeah oh i'm promoting my

01:05:59.860 own beer real american beer yeah look at me yeah he's such a hero right not okay i'm gonna give

01:06:09.340 life don't stand i've given him more opportunities to come back and make us a family

01:06:14.940 I can't hear if it's still going no it ended yeah did you hear she said I've given him

01:06:41.900 opportunities to come back to to put the family back together but he won't do it because he's

01:06:47.340 a narcissist you left him for a 28 year old see and then that's his new that's hulk hogan's new

01:06:55.420 girlfriend if you can see it i think she's let's see how old how old is hulk hogan's hogan's new

01:07:07.340 girlfriend

01:07:07.980 okay

01:07:11.380 he's 71 and she's 45

01:07:14.960 so there's a 26 year age

01:07:19.440 gap

01:07:19.800 and she's 58

01:07:23.320 almost 60

01:07:24.120 yeah

01:07:25.660 just take the L

01:07:29.040 it's not if your ex

01:07:31.300 is going to do better it's when he's going to

01:07:33.300 do better just accept it

01:07:35.180 ladies

01:07:35.600 it's not if it's when if he can get you congrats you're the floor of what he could officially get

01:07:42.780 you can now get women hotter than you pete davidson effect just take the l you know

01:07:48.540 but she can't now she's crashing out well guys make sure to hit that like button

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01:08:14.560 scandalous friends cheat on their husbands hit that zoom link and call in i know someone that

01:08:20.400 got cheated on with a mechanic and this was like an alcoholic mechanic she she actually left him

01:08:26.800 for the mechanic he was a farmer too he's a good farmer had a whole farm

01:08:33.760 since i had a lot of ladies i did have another woman cheated on me it went down differently

01:08:38.000 though she crashed out or what no this is funny actually oh i think it's funny but that net we

01:08:46.800 were in a relationship this one was eight years this relationship and anyways we don't usually

01:08:52.320 see to her because I'm always a tour going to embassies and working. So it was more of a long

01:08:56.760 distance relationship. But anyways, she worked remotely at this point in her career. So she was

01:09:02.320 working remotely and it was after the pandemic. So, you know, everything was on lockdown. I was

01:09:06.800 in Israel. She was in Poland and it was hard for her to get to me. Finally, we were able to link in

01:09:12.360 Turkey after the pandemic. Right. So, boom, fast forward. She's there. She's like staying with me

01:09:17.760 long term because usually i don't be trying to live with girls every day so net net she was there

01:09:22.480 for a long term about two months right and she was planning to stay so anyways she's like oh

01:09:28.720 i have a trip to dubai so she had a trip to dubai for her work right yeah she works online

01:09:38.780 pharmaceutical companies say hey we're gonna all have a company trip i was like wait hold on

01:09:43.700 you know if you go there and they close the borders again we ain't gonna see each other for a while

01:09:49.680 again and she was very adamant before about like us meeting up and you know the pandemic and etc

01:09:55.840 so i said this is you know kind of contradictory so i was like all right cool but net net in my

01:10:02.300 head i'm like that's suspect why are you trying to go to a business meeting that bad right so

01:10:07.680 anyways she goes she comes back and then so net net she was sleeping i was like in the iphone

01:10:15.500 i don't be caring i go i ain't one of those guys don't if you go on your girlfriend you a punk

01:10:22.060 whatever so anyways i'm in the phone i see pictures of her and a guy like out on a dinner date right

01:10:30.840 solo brunch day on a date like solo right so anyways i get out the phone and they close they

01:10:40.120 like taking pictures like this like yeah so they super close so i was like all right that's the guy

01:10:47.160 that's the guy right and so anyways later on i asked her i'm like yo how was the divide trip

01:10:52.200 and stuff like that she's like oh it was good you know i was only only out with us and employees

01:10:57.640 you know i didn't and then when i went out i went by myself to this place in that place that was it

01:11:03.000 so i said okay and then uh i was in the phone doing something else one day looking for a photo

01:11:08.600 she gave me the phone and i was like hey uh what happened to the photo with you and the guy

01:11:13.560 she said huh what guy and i'm like you had photo with you and the guy in dubai i think he was your

01:11:21.480 you know co-worker oh um no uh i uh i deleted it i said would you delete that for and she was like

01:11:31.160 oh well i just you know i didn't want you to get mad i didn't want you to you know get angry and

01:11:37.720 of course me i was like all right i know what it is you know y'all clap cheeks it is what it is

01:11:42.440 right so my homie was like what you gonna do about it i was like nothing man she's still at the house

01:11:47.080 cooking for me so i was like you know as long as i was in turkey she was gonna stay there she was

01:11:52.440 gonna cook i wasn't gonna make it my wife though you get me so i think like you gotta categorize

01:11:59.480 people and so at that time i just categorized the relationship like yeah it's cool but you're

01:12:04.280 not gonna make anyone your wife right because aren't you coach cga the forgot i forgot what

01:12:10.600 exactly so who cares exactly who cares but at the end of the day even if i clad you know categorized

01:12:20.200 a girl like ride or die you know it wouldn't be marriage but it would be like ride or die

01:12:24.200 i still would put that on her like you know she's able to cheat man like and so you just gotta

01:12:29.240 have that assumption she's a human nobody's perfect and so and they all have different

01:12:34.120 perspectives you get me and so they consider like they literally like that hawk hogan lady

01:12:40.200 did she feel like she she felt like she was in the right doug after she cheated and everything

01:12:45.480 she was like and he won't get the family back together it's his fault

01:12:52.280 yep it's modern women i'm gonna bring in brian that's that's that's women historically that's

01:12:57.960 not modern it's been like that for ages marcus aurelius wife cheated on him marcus aurelius

01:13:05.240 you want to take a a collar to you with that shot

01:13:10.840 cool let me bring in brian patrice o'neill said you can't control a woman's body but her mind

01:13:16.040 being different to women and you won't be a slave to them um there's one more i thought i was supposed

01:13:22.920 to read i think at the end even this talking dude gets cheated on hey brian how's it going

01:13:35.240 brian you're on mute brian you're on mute brian on mute brian going once

01:13:44.120 brian going twice i'm here i'm here oh there you go how's it going brian hey what's up i was on

01:13:52.560 your live i think uh make sure you turn off the i hear an echo and they usually mean i'm sorry

01:13:58.200 it's you're right you're going in the background can you hear me yeah i can hear you so um did

01:14:04.300 who did you catch cheating and who were they cheating with okay very good question i called

01:14:10.140 in this live because i had a story i wanted to uh share as you know last time i told you i was in

01:14:17.020 china and i had a girlfriend there when i oh yeah yeah yeah yeah the guy in china yeah that was a

01:14:23.260 great call good good good to hear from you again buddy well thank you guys thank you i wanted to

01:14:28.380 share another not-so-flattering story, but it happened. I just got to China about five years

01:14:36.540 ago. This was a long time ago, in the beginning, early 2000s. And I had a girlfriend there,

01:14:42.180 and she was in a place called Shenzhen. Now, my story's a little different. I met her. She was

01:14:51.740 older woman i was like in my early i was in like my late 20s and she was like uh she was like uh 23

01:14:59.740 i'm sorry no she was younger than me i was a little older but she was but she was um she was

01:15:06.060 a little she was younger than me so she was um i was with her and we were going out and

01:15:13.820 And she would, you know, help me out.

01:15:18.000 Maybe like, you know, at that time I was a little bit, I didn't have a whole bunch of money.

01:15:23.180 So she wouldn't give me money, but she would help me buy some stuff and I'd pay her back because I was just something happened and I had a hard time getting settled there.

01:15:31.240 It's a long story.

01:15:32.180 So anyway, what I found out later on is that she actually had a husband and didn't tell me and got me involved in the relationship.

01:15:46.560 So she would have me, for example, when I would go to the store, she would drive around and she would help me.

01:15:53.400 She had a car, but her husband was paying up for everything.

01:15:56.620 and um what they what they do in china is that many people where i lived in china was called

01:16:03.760 shenzhen many people they were many chinese would have like boyfriends who are rich from hong kong

01:16:08.580 and then they would finance their wives in shenzhen so there was a lot of mistresses that's

01:16:14.280 the word mistresses there and this girl actually ended up being a mistress and she or i she was um

01:16:21.140 she was a mistress of this other guy i'm sorry i got that wrong she was actually married because

01:16:27.900 that was so long ago and didn't tell me and um her husband actually you know was away and then

01:16:34.300 she would give me all this stuff so then by the time she told me all this that she was actually

01:16:39.460 married um it was too late for me because i got i already you know kind of fallen in love with the

01:16:46.860 girl so she uh i went out with her continuously for about three months and then after that i cut

01:16:55.060 it off okay so when i basically that's the story so when i found out from that is that you have to

01:17:01.260 be careful and ask women you know who they're actually seeing or if they have a boyfriend

01:17:05.300 because i always assumed back then that if if you had a boyfriend you would sell or if you were

01:17:10.200 married that you would you know you would tell somebody got it got it just real fast can you

01:17:16.320 sum up the um because last time you were on the show you you dispelled a lot of myths that people

01:17:23.680 have about chinese women so just like take 20 30 seconds to any any western guy that has a

01:17:32.160 misconception that chinese women are are you know super conservative and don't cheat and stuff can

01:17:38.480 you give you like a quick two three points to to dispel the misconception about chinese women

01:17:46.320 Yeah, this is the biggest misconception that Chinese women tell everybody, that American culture is, they have a word in China, they always say it's called kaifang. Kaifang means open. You hear this a lot, like Americans are very kaifang, and Chinese are very baoshou. Baoshou means like conservative in Chinese. You hear this all the time.

01:18:07.900 Let's say, well, Americans don't understand China because, you know, Chinese are very conservative.

01:18:14.020 We have an ancient Confucius culture and, you know, we're just very conservative.

01:18:20.860 Now, back then, that was a little more true because people just did things under the closet.

01:18:27.060 But today is more only open, but Chinese still say that.

01:18:30.020 Like this girl, you know, she told me that she was very conservative and, you know, and all this stuff.

01:18:36.560 But later on, actually, I met her husband and she acted all cool.

01:18:43.080 We really didn't know each other. We just met each other.

01:18:45.680 And I don't want to go into it now, but there's a lot of women are very sneaky about how they like plan their affairs.

01:18:56.200 And so the first thing, you know, she did was not tell me.

01:18:58.500 But she, to answer your question, yeah, that was a big myth because I thought, you know, China was much more conservative and people didn't go out and do that compared to the West here.

01:19:09.180 But, you know, they do stuff under the sheets, behind the closet, behind closed doors.

01:19:15.880 And another thing, too, you'd be surprised because this lady, she was like a banker.

01:19:21.680 You know, she had a lot of prestige and stuff like that.

01:19:24.800 and you wouldn't

01:19:27.280 I don't know, you wouldn't think that that would be happening

01:19:29.620 at least me back then

01:19:31.020 I remember I was in my late 20s back then

01:19:32.960 I'm over 50 now

01:19:34.780 but back then I was in my late 20s

01:19:37.040 so I was kind of naive

01:19:38.600 so

01:19:40.560 that's the thing

01:19:42.660 I think they fool a lot of foreigners into thinking

01:19:44.940 that Asian culture is very

01:19:47.140 conservative but

01:19:48.320 they follow the rest of the world in these kind of

01:19:51.300 things

01:19:51.720 so cool so that was my story pearl and uh yeah i can share with you a lot of stories but i don't

01:19:59.480 want to take up everybody else's time but there's a lot of most of my experience has been with china

01:20:04.200 and asian women so i have a lot of yeah cool in the future and there's other topics i can share

01:20:10.520 sure please call in any time okay yeah i don't want to bore you but yeah thank you for having

01:20:15.840 me again and uh yeah i'll i'll i'll come on again later on share some more awesome

01:20:24.880 cool next up we have

01:20:33.440 let's see there hi can you hear me yep hey thanks for having me on how are you

01:20:41.520 hey i'm doing well um so i have a story about when i was on um i think on this you guys will

01:20:51.120 probably fight me on this because it's pretty sim behavior that's all right it happens it happens to

01:20:57.040 the best of us yep we've all seen i've told stories of my sipping many times on this this is a safe

01:21:03.760 space well thank you um so a girl i dated recently um i'm gonna call her uh uh helen not her real

01:21:15.920 name so um we dated for about two years we were pretty close um and she went on a

01:21:28.720 uh like backpacking trip for a couple months uh throughout um europe for like a hacker

01:21:35.520 hostel type of program um and throughout this process she uh was also going through a lot of

01:21:42.560 like personal stuff with her family and that made her feel like very uh unsure of herself

01:21:53.760 and very anxious and because of that like she cheated on me with a bunch of people like i'm

01:21:59.440 not even sure how many i want to guess like 40 or so um or so in what time period uh three months

01:22:08.960 she cheated on you with 40 people in three months yeah that's right how did you find out

01:22:14.400 uh so she so she came back um to where we live together in new york and we talked about it uh

01:22:24.640 she initially just said hey um i don't think this is working i want to break up and then i kept

01:22:32.080 asking her why and the reason she giving she was giving just doesn't make sense i kept pressing on

01:22:38.240 and then slowly like information started trickling through um what she's the story she's saying now

01:22:45.600 is that um our interests don't lie meaning i want to like have a normal life um like work a normal

01:22:54.080 career like have a family um whereas she wants to constantly travel um so she's dating someone

01:23:01.200 who is um like taking her on vacations constantly um uh like so currently she's in france seeing a

01:23:10.400 vineyard or something like that um and um yeah it's it's interesting because uh my understanding

01:23:19.600 is for the first couple months of her seeing this new guy um she was also cheating on him

01:23:27.040 with other guys like just whoever would take her out on trips to dubai where where the power

01:23:31.760 anywhere else um but how attractive was she one to ten how attractive um uh i would say

01:23:44.080 probably about the same as you girl oh so like mid six five five six oh i would okay

01:23:49.840 6.5 okay thank you thank you okay so it's it's interesting because i feel like on one hand it's

01:24:01.920 um fairly impressive that she's able to consistently get guys to take her out on

01:24:10.960 fancy trips like this like not just one or two guys like consistently get new guys

01:24:15.280 like she's not a supermodel so this is uh yeah this is an interesting thing to see and she's

01:24:20.480 getting trips to like dubai and stuff is she on like an escort website she is not she she is

01:24:27.520 literally just like going on bumble and then just matching with whichever successful guy she meets

01:24:32.960 for her at whatever hotel at any fancy place she just talks to the guy it just works does her

01:24:38.400 reputation does her reputation not like start to precede her like doesn't she start to get a bad

01:24:44.720 reputation good yeah so that's the other thing i don't think she has a reputation because she's

01:24:50.480 been able to keep it under wraps um so as far as i understand the first couple months of um

01:24:56.800 her dating this new guy um hank um she was ching on him with a bunch of other people and then really

01:25:04.080 she only told her sisters and maybe some close friends and nobody else and then she either has

01:25:10.160 stopped doing that now or is still doing that and it's just much more secretive um either

01:25:15.840 possible it's not coming okay yeah cool um so the the same part of this is on one hand like i

01:25:25.360 recognize this but i also like feel bad for her like i think she's trying to she's someone who's

01:25:32.240 not sure of herself and has low self-confidence i still care about her like i want to support

01:25:37.200 and tell her like hey it's not uh your fault i don't blame you and i don't hate you i want i

01:25:43.520 care about you and i want to be your friend but i'm not i'm not sure how to go about that

01:25:48.560 why even bother why would you want to be your friend well this is someone i um

01:25:56.000 have a long history with and i think like at her core she wants to

01:26:00.800 She's got a history with a lot of people.

01:26:05.440 She's got a history with everybody.

01:26:08.240 I know, right?

01:26:09.360 So so here's what you can do for me, my friend.

01:26:13.120 Every so often, you got to put a T-chart on a piece of paper like you did in in school,

01:26:17.680 like, you know, one line down, one line across.

01:26:19.840 And you got to put my you got to put my problem on one side

01:26:23.760 and not your problem on the other side and all the issues in your life

01:26:27.520 and make sure that that the issues in your life are either you got to recognize which ones are

01:26:32.320 your problem and which ones aren't your problem okay this girl is not your problem dude it's not

01:26:38.960 and also men we only have a certain amount of romantic energy that we can give out especially

01:26:45.440 if you're trying to be successful don't give relationship energy to some chick or or to a

01:26:53.600 a friend that's a girl or some girl that's done you wrong you you gotta get if a girl does you

01:26:59.520 wrong some of the best advice i ever got was consider yourself lucky when someone does something

01:27:04.800 when someone some organization or something tells you everything that you need to know if a woman

01:27:09.040 cheats on you she told you everything that you need to know man what are you still talking to

01:27:14.560 her for it's not your problem i care about her yeah why i care about her so this is um you guys

01:27:20.960 will probably fight me on this this is ultra simp of me but um i if she were to be willing to go to

01:27:28.080 therapy um and willing to go to like some ultra expensive rehab and i found like one that's really

01:27:33.840 good and cost seventy thousand dollars i'd be willing to pay for it she's uh she's going to

01:27:38.320 turn back but she's not willing to have the conversation oh my god

01:27:48.880 pearl what do you got i have no words what come on man

01:27:58.480 have you gone on a date with anybody else like have you dated since

01:28:02.960 no i've gone out with girls and friends but i haven't gone yeah it's time to find some new

01:28:10.700 hoes is this girl the only girl that you slept with or something no um my body counts low but

01:28:18.800 not that low like the only reason you're thinking like you gotta find some more girls

01:28:24.140 um sean you got anything yeah yeah no oh um i get it you know you really care about the individual

01:28:35.480 so i don't think you got to be f her you know you want to see her do well so what i would just

01:28:43.220 also say is it's her journey you know you can only help so much but it's her choice to

01:28:48.600 get better and at the end of the day there's a lot of people out here hurting in the world

01:28:54.140 going through real problems like massively worse problems than what she's going through which is all

01:29:01.040 a lot of self-created problems and internal problems but she has to do the work and you

01:29:06.840 can't do it for her and so net net you can do the best of what you have done which is give her the

01:29:12.920 proper avenues to take right but you can't make a horse drink the water so you've done your duty

01:29:21.240 in your mind to be good to somebody who's meant something to you you get what i'm saying and so

01:29:28.520 therefore that's it right there you've done it now you have to move on and pursue other

01:29:34.680 opportunities you can still care for that person i'm not saying what you're doing is wrong and

01:29:39.200 don't do it but you've already set it up so they can benefit from it and it's their choice to do

01:29:44.460 it don't hang your hat on it because it's their journey to take and i'm gonna say

01:29:50.540 situations like this dealing with the wrong woman being in a bad relationship it's kind of like

01:29:56.600 weight loss okay um you see people that oh yeah i'm big like the lizzos oh yeah i'm big and i'm

01:30:05.240 proud stuff whatever but then they lose the weight and people think that losing the weight is the

01:30:11.500 hardest part it's not it's when you get the quality of life that you've been wanting and

01:30:16.300 you look back on all the time that you wasted not putting in the work to lose the way a bad

01:30:21.340 relationship or dealing with a toxic woman is like that let's hear you're if you do the right work

01:30:28.380 and focus on yourself you will find the woman for you are you doing right now is making the

01:30:35.820 the regret when that happens even worse by dealing with this woman you're giving this woman time and

01:30:41.580 resources that you could be giving to yourself first and then a woman that's actually healthy

01:30:47.180 and one day you're going to realize that there's nothing special about this girl

01:30:54.060 i'm hoping it's sooner rather than later and just the more you do for this woman the more

01:30:59.820 you're going to be angry at yourself when you finally get the quality of life that she wants

01:31:04.940 so take that into consideration there's nothing special about this girl nothing

01:31:08.860 who once you build enough women you realize too many of them are all the same

01:31:13.880 yeah man i hear you i think um i think the challenge here is uh there were two years

01:31:25.740 where we were together where she was mentally well where she wasn't like this um there was a

01:31:30.440 brief period like before she met me when she did went wild briefly but i have seen her when she was

01:31:35.420 um stable and normal and i'm hoping like that uh she can go back to that and like what it was

01:31:44.660 almost as though like somebody snapped in her and she's now in this type of behavior and i um

01:31:51.820 for one it's even though we're not together and it's just me caring about her there's still like

01:31:59.580 that degree of care where like this is um when i dated her i committed to be as closely perfect

01:32:09.680 as possible for her and i think being true to that would mean like now that even we're breaking up

01:32:15.660 i should still commit to try to support her and help her because this issue arose when we were

01:32:21.920 together not your problem man it's just not here's the thing just just do me a favor if you

01:32:31.680 can just disengage you don't have to make a big scene out of it you don't have to be

01:32:36.860 vindictive just disengage stop picking up the phone we currently aren't really contacting each

01:32:44.740 other okay good stay on that because you like sean says she's gonna have to figure it out

01:32:51.500 herself and you don't have any justifiable reason to talk to this woman that doesn't involve

01:32:57.120 emotions so you know and most of the time your your emotions are you problem but you you got

01:33:05.040 to get away from this girl once again you're gonna find the quality of life that you want

01:33:09.360 but just just you gotta get there man yeah man thanks for your thoughts thanks for calling in

01:33:19.380 Okay, call in any time.

01:33:22.120 Thanks for having me.

01:33:25.200 Wow.

01:33:30.880 Yeah.

01:33:31.880 But, you know, I'd want to go in with that because he calls in a lot.

01:33:35.620 He's a really good caller.

01:33:37.420 And, you know, he just he sounds like he's young.

01:33:39.680 And, you know, I'm sorry, guys, a lot of us.

01:33:41.300 Sometimes you got to make them.

01:33:42.560 You can't stop a guy from making those mistakes.

01:33:45.480 They just got to learn the hard way.

01:33:47.500 a lot of us have simped a lot of us have just like so there's stuff women have to go through

01:33:53.740 there's stuff men have to go through it's just part of life guys like the stream please subscribe

01:34:00.940 if you haven't already we are on our way to three million and um i'm gonna let in

01:34:07.980 charles because he was in the audacity chat asked for the link charles how you doing buddy

01:34:16.860 You're on mute, Charles.

01:34:23.240 Okay, now you're off mute.

01:34:25.660 How's it going?

01:34:27.180 Hey, Charles.

01:34:28.000 How are you?

01:34:29.400 I'm good.

01:34:30.140 How are you guys?

01:34:32.780 Good, good.

01:34:33.660 This is a great topic, and I really feel for the guy.

01:34:37.780 You know what?

01:34:39.320 Can you hear me?

01:34:40.340 Yeah, I can hear you.

01:34:41.000 I'm listening.

01:34:41.340 I look at the chat this way, so if I don't look at the camera,

01:34:44.520 just because i just look at it there's chats but go ahead i'm good i'm good

01:34:50.820 so go ahead what's the what did you have

01:34:55.500 go ahead charlotte go ahead i i feel for the guy pearl i feel for the guy doug

01:35:10.200 oh something is doubling here you probably have the youtube open on a different screen

01:35:18.560 oh i do actually hold on one second sorry about that because there's there's a delay

01:35:24.040 i gotta close the youtube there we go there we go sorry about that go ahead so i feel for that guy

01:35:33.460 You know, I've been there. We've talked before, and you know me. I'm 60. I talk to young guys like much like Sean. You know, my divorce was brutal. My ex-wife cheated on me.

01:35:48.280 Um, when I got injured in the line of duty, uh, you know, she fell into being an alcoholic

01:35:54.540 and she started cheating with a coworker and then the yoga instructor.

01:35:58.800 And, um, you know, I ended up finding out about it when I, I was doing some simp behavior.

01:36:06.980 I, I tried to, to fix my marriage.

01:36:10.460 I did the counseling thing.

01:36:12.580 Um, and, and the counseling thing's a racket for simping.

01:36:16.080 um it's a total racket for simping you know was your counselor a woman or a man

01:36:22.800 uh it was a man oh okay so it's mostly it's a woman but go ahead um and it's still a racket

01:36:32.400 for simping i took her to new york took her to shows and you know it's funny we i used to live

01:36:38.140 in mass so we flew into tf green airport in providence and the night we got back she fell

01:36:45.200 asleep in the car and she started getting texts from the dude while we were driving back how did

01:36:51.140 it go with your husband I miss you I love you and god man she's asleep and I'm hearing all these

01:36:58.820 messages coming through the through the car and I'm like so I filed for divorce a few days later

01:37:07.360 But, you know, we all do that. But that guy, I'm sorry. You know, I'm going to tell you something. Feminism is a form of mental illness. And the women that are out there, they're nutjobs, just flat out nutjobs.

01:37:25.940 And people like you, Pearl, people who who are who are red pilled and standing up for men, the brunt of what you have to face is unbelievable.

01:37:39.360 And I love what Sean was saying about his commanding officers.

01:37:44.480 Right. If you have an open door policy, they're going to tell you their their guilt, whatever it is, their self-righteousness.

01:37:54.220 they're going to come to you and they're going to think it's going to be okay and sean is dead

01:37:59.240 on balls accurate about is that what happened to you cook my meals but the day you stop you're out

01:38:07.560 you know like yeah i got that what happened is that what happened to you did you have like an

01:38:12.980 open door policy or how did you originally catch her oh i caught her um just because she started

01:38:20.660 drinking and she was just making mistakes like, you know, and and it was interesting. I, you know,

01:38:28.900 I lost my identity. I, I, I had brothers in arms like Sean. My, my, my job was my identity. I was

01:38:37.740 tip of the, I was a tip of the spear guy when I lost it. I was angry. I was pissed off. I gained

01:38:42.960 weight. I drank. I had, you know, PTSD, the whole nine yards. So God love her. She she went somewhere

01:38:51.800 else. But, you know, these young guys have to realize if they find out before they're married

01:38:58.740 or in a situation before they end up in a in a, you know, common law situation or living together

01:39:05.940 for a year or whatever. It's a gift from God. It is a gift from God. Cut your losses and run.

01:39:12.200 What's what's what's Jocko Willick say? Discipline equals freedom. Have the discipline to to let them go and let the sunshine on.

01:39:23.880 You know, it's going to suck. Is it going to suck? Yeah, it does.

01:39:26.880 I when I went through my divorce, I had planned and I I filed and I still ended up with supervised visits for four years that I had to pay for the for the for the Department of Youth Worker to be there.

01:39:43.140 And it was like 30 grand a year. I was screwed. Eventually, I got a good lawyer who got me out of that situation.

01:39:51.200 um but you know these young guys that the last caller and i'm not i'm not trying to harp on him

01:40:01.220 he's what is going on in the world right now and i don't know how old sean is but um doug you know

01:40:12.320 guys my age your age we have to take these guys under our wing and say don't fall into these

01:40:18.820 traps man because um you know we got to take care of our brothers and if we're not taking care of

01:40:27.080 our brothers they're just going to get taken advantage of and the red pill community is

01:40:33.160 fantastic you know um it's funny um you know you guys know i have a younger girlfriend

01:40:41.100 him and i'm gonna tell you so happy i see the smile yeah that smile is always there you know

01:40:48.940 um the smile is always there but the thing is am you know sean said it

01:40:55.980 have the have the the strength of character to be prepared for the worst because as happy as i am

01:41:05.600 the worst can come one day you know who knows and and it's gonna be the yep okay fine great

01:41:11.960 i had a great time time to move on um and there you don't have to be hateful about it but these

01:41:19.760 guys posting shit on youtube like those those videos at the beginning were blowing my mind

01:41:26.060 and i'm sorry i'm gonna say something so i don't know if i can say it on youtube or not but

01:41:32.040 you know you can stick your dick in crazy but don't marry crazy because you're gonna pay the

01:41:36.740 price you know like carlos i have a i have a question for you for from the chat steven one

01:41:43.260 of the moderator says ask the caller if she tried to get his military retirement and the divorce

01:41:48.380 oh so my government retirement all day long tried tried tried and failed miserably at it because

01:41:57.640 thank god now listen this was a i think the i i'm gonna say that i think the um

01:42:07.940 the uh how do i want to say it the norm is they get part of it um unfortunately for my ex she

01:42:18.760 made more money standing on her head than i ever did um you know and and that played against her

01:42:26.080 um now i didn't get i didn't get alimony or anything like that but but you should have

01:42:32.080 huge i should have you're right i should have but i lived in i lived in in communist massachusetts

01:42:37.920 i'm lucky i wasn't put in prison so i mean i made it out you know uh but yeah watch the pensions

01:42:47.540 guys because i'll tell you something um the badge bunnies and the base hose and the base 304s

01:42:55.880 they're playing that game and if you if you're if you're an officer or or or a senior nco yep

01:43:04.400 they're going to come after you great guns um just like the hulk hogan thing which you guys

01:43:11.160 played earlier you know i'm gonna say it again guys until you're 35 or 40 concentrate on making

01:43:19.480 money and i think you did a call you did a show the other night where the guy said the same thing

01:43:24.220 um what was it the um real estate guy doug that you guys he was awesome um

01:43:30.660 the real estate guy that pearl knows from back in the day and he's he's a he's a uh content guy um

01:43:40.520 he's right make money focus on that and i'm gonna say don't do it you know wait till you're 40

01:43:49.120 and then wait till you're 40 and you can start dating women 20 years younger than you

01:43:54.500 and be in the driver's seat um so that's what i got but i'll tell you something

01:44:02.840 you know the cheating thing every guy just like every guy simps um if the opportunity's there

01:44:12.160 i think every women every woman in this society is gonna is gonna cheat if she's got the penchant

01:44:18.280 for it um no matter what relationship she's in yeah so cool if you ever hear oh you know i i i

01:44:27.400 want to like date someone else or maybe we should take a break yeah just cut your losses and run

01:44:32.760 you know date a mid get laid every day keep them happy and they keep you happy and they're 20 years

01:44:42.120 younger than you you've got it knocked you know you're all set just like sean said be prepared

01:44:47.480 because one day you know that next guy's gonna come along if you're not getting married like i

01:44:53.220 never intend to get married again yeah so cool well thanks for calling in great great contribution

01:44:59.680 as normal so feel free to call in any time okay well thank you for having me again great great

01:45:05.880 shows guys and you're doing your chicken butt how's it going my friend all right we're gonna

01:45:11.860 bring up daniel guys make sure you hit that like button subscribe if you haven't already

01:45:18.500 thank you for all the super chats thank you for everyone and the audacity chat and thank

01:45:22.420 you to all the regulars on the youtube chat i really appreciate it daniel are you there

01:45:28.180 yes i am how's it going daniel

01:45:33.460 it's going good so who cheated on you what you got for me

01:45:41.860 Um, I'm going to completely invert it on you.

01:45:48.420 Okay.

01:45:50.200 If they are a complete ice princess.

01:45:57.840 That it is.

01:46:00.960 Can you hear me?

01:46:02.820 Yeah, we can hear you.

01:46:03.920 Okay.

01:46:04.320 What if it's 180% flipped to a complete ice princess from Frozen to where the person that you married is ashamed of kissing you at the wedding ceremony?

01:46:34.320 Oh, okay.

01:46:44.340 Can you expand on that?

01:46:52.700 Uh-oh.

01:46:54.900 I think we're having technical difficulties.

01:46:58.680 Oh, we can still hear you.

01:47:02.540 Go ahead.

01:47:03.260 so your wife your ex-wife didn't want to kiss you at the wedding ceremony yes oh wow

01:47:11.480 and you why and you accepted that

01:47:15.500 well what am i supposed to do at the time

01:47:20.580 uh i'm the most beta male possible she tricked me into having the kids didn't want to take care of

01:47:29.780 them like etc but i'm just saying not every woman is a hoe

01:47:40.580 okay um some people they're doing a pretty bad job of convincing us yes

01:47:49.220 okay um well thanks for calling in

01:47:59.940 i'm sorry i can't that was changed yeah you know last time you called him he

01:48:08.780 don't say he's doing a bad job of convincing us

01:48:11.420 i'm just saying

01:48:15.480 i hate it when guys like it's like oh it's like not all women are like that i'm like

01:48:24.300 who are you white knighting for like leave me alone yeah and you know that guy he called in

01:48:31.320 before you know he was he was in the military he's done some good things in his life you know

01:48:36.660 i know he he has issues from his military service so thank you for your service but

01:48:41.040 that that was just falling apart sorry about that yeah i mean you can call in again a different time

01:48:47.740 it's just got to be more concise um those are all the colors oh cool it's good timing we're

01:48:55.720 almost at the two hour mark um i want to see actually i want to read a few more from

01:49:04.680 Um, I had a Twitter thing the other day that I want to read where it was like, I tweet too much.

01:49:13.420 Who stolen?

01:49:15.400 I know.

01:49:16.340 Your girl.

01:49:17.920 Pearly things.

01:49:19.720 The replies were kind of funny.

01:49:21.420 And guys, make sure to follow Pearl on X because she is off the chain on X.

01:49:32.160 she gets people

01:49:34.160 upset

01:49:35.440 I know

01:49:38.600 are there any

01:49:41.640 where is it

01:49:43.280 you don't see if there's any

01:49:45.900 you can read them

01:49:46.920 I'm just going to scroll and find it

01:49:49.920 oh yeah I said imagine being a man who makes

01:49:55.780 six figures and is good shape

01:49:57.520 is in good shape and has their

01:49:59.640 girls stolen by a literal

01:50:01.080 criminal. Can you imagine

01:50:03.020 the stress?

01:50:05.740 Okay.

01:50:10.700 Rodolfo says,

01:50:11.940 whatever that

01:50:13.980 the last guy was smoking,

01:50:16.380 make sure to give it to all of us.

01:50:19.380 I'm not.

01:50:19.760 Come on, guys.

01:50:24.800 Okay.

01:50:26.040 We'll take one more

01:50:27.560 because this person just came in.

01:50:31.080 oh okay never mind fell out but yeah guys you know good timing we're almost at the two hour mark

01:50:41.080 there's a camp are you there camps yeah i'm here the youtube's on turn the youtube off

01:50:48.960 okay we're good how's it going hi pearl how's it going good how are you

01:50:59.480 I'm good.

01:50:59.920 I'm a longtime worker, so cool.

01:51:03.400 I've never been cheated on, but me and my ex-wife,

01:51:05.920 we did the whole open relationship thing that didn't necessarily work out the

01:51:10.520 best way, if you know what I mean.

01:51:11.920 Why not?

01:51:13.960 Well, what happens is sorry, I'm a little nervous.

01:51:18.560 What happens is, you know, the respect went down.

01:51:22.280 And as the respect went down, you know,

01:51:25.280 i started having to pull my weight around the house a lot more and uh and then it just kind

01:51:33.840 of got cold of course right after we we got married like a year before covid so it got

01:51:38.860 pretty terrible after that so did you get jealous when she would go on other dates with other guys

01:51:46.920 or like no no i'm not a jealous person like we both had our fun we uh we both slept other people

01:51:56.140 we both slept with the same people around and it was pretty good for a while but then when we were

01:52:01.900 stuck together it's pretty rough when you were stuck together what do you mean yeah we had a we

01:52:07.620 had a one and a half year old we were all closed down and uh stuck in the house together and then

01:52:12.860 it got pretty toxic pretty quick like what was she fighting you or yeah yeah you know how it is

01:52:19.040 the nagging all that other stuff you know i couldn't go into work you know i was stuck there

01:52:24.180 the entire time i'd be working she like bring uh bring my beautiful boy just hand him off to me

01:52:29.960 even though i was like right in the middle of it so uh but yeah yeah that's it for me but

01:52:35.160 what i learned is that like one day i just woke up and i just realized that there was like no

01:52:40.940 respect like it was all gone like she didn't care got toxic and everything and I just got up at five

01:52:48.880 o'clock in the morning and I walked over to my parents house and I slept there and then I came

01:52:53.080 back and I was like hey uh this isn't working out was she relieved or did she crash out she

01:52:59.400 crashed out pretty hard she begged for me it was it was interesting she begged for me to

01:53:04.120 to say no and i was like why you're miserable and i'm miserable so like um i think that like

01:53:14.960 if i could give any advice to our younger callers is that i've learned that men have two types of

01:53:21.000 power right uh we certainly have power in the in the violence arena arena but that's not acceptable

01:53:27.860 nowadays like not even at all uh and that's okay but another thing that i've learned at is that

01:53:34.500 another power is that you can remove your energy and attention and resources

01:53:41.540 and uh and that's like vital if you want to grow up in today's world and date

01:53:48.300 got it yeah i agree uh doug mp you got any comments for him no man you know um

01:53:59.340 respect it's easier to get love back than respect once a woman has lost respect for you it's over

01:54:06.280 man amen yeah you're totally right absolutely over yep we should do a show on open relationships

01:54:13.340 and have people call in with their experience.

01:54:16.980 So that's kind of interesting.

01:54:18.060 I'd ask you more about it, but it's a little too off topic.

01:54:21.620 But that's fine.

01:54:22.360 I think a different day.

01:54:23.520 Maybe you should call in again if we do that topic.

01:54:26.400 Yeah, sure.

01:54:27.160 Sure.

01:54:27.520 Yeah.

01:54:27.660 Let me know.

01:54:28.660 We'll talk about it.

01:54:29.540 Cool.

01:54:30.080 Yeah.

01:54:30.720 But that's it for me.

01:54:32.060 Thank you so much.

01:54:33.040 I've been watching you for a while.

01:54:34.140 It's the first time calling in.

01:54:35.020 Yeah.

01:54:35.240 Thanks so much for calling in.

01:54:36.460 I love hearing from you guys.

01:54:38.400 So I appreciate it.

01:54:40.020 All right.

01:54:40.540 Take care.

01:54:41.260 Bye.

01:54:41.460 one i do you know what i think i didn't tweet it i think i thought i tweeted it and i didn't so um

01:54:52.020 but i was i i was gonna tweet like what's the craziest girl that's stolen or what's the

01:54:57.700 craziest way a guy has stolen your girl like if it was like um just someone you wouldn't expect

01:55:04.020 like fat old ugly you know etc so that's everybody on on the phone line cool well um

01:55:18.660 thanks so much for watching and um doug mpa sean you guys have any final thoughts today

01:55:24.660 john um man no i mean charles said a lot of good stuff so definitely hey guys you know focus on

01:55:36.080 your life focus on what you can control which is not the woman and what she does but how you react

01:55:43.040 to it and other than that man life is good shout outs to pearl shout out to doug mpa and pearl i

01:55:51.060 want you to be happy if you need anything i'm always here thank you sean

01:56:01.940 yeah and just like i said before man like if you find out my i asked my dad when i was young i

01:56:09.700 um because i watched a lot of movies when i was young and like in the movies guys crash out so

01:56:13.620 i asked my dad i said what would you do if you came home and you found mom cheating he's just

01:56:18.180 I just packed my stuff and I'd leave.

01:56:20.520 And I thought he'd say, oh, you know, I thought I did.

01:56:23.520 So you should crash out.

01:56:25.180 No, he's like, why would I risk my freedom for something like that?

01:56:28.340 No, I packed myself and I'd leave.

01:56:31.180 My dad told me that when I was young, and that's exactly what I do.

01:56:33.280 Guys, if you get your cheat and just leave,

01:56:36.080 don't do anything crazy that'll put you in jail where you lose your freedom

01:56:39.340 or anything like that, just move on with life.

01:56:43.920 That's it.

01:56:44.920 Yeah, you can take a video, though,

01:56:47.180 but don't crash out on the video just take it for court be like thank you all right guys thank you

01:56:54.220 so much for watching again appreciate it um please like the video on your way out please

01:56:58.380 subscribe to the channel if you can and um i will see you guys maybe tomorrow probably

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When Wives Cheat (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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