Pearl - When Women Compete For Each Other's Men (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.000 Three, two, one.

00:00:02.860 So there's this clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question.

00:00:08.460 Do we need men?

00:00:10.880 Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.

00:00:16.580 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.

00:00:19.380 Most young men are single.

00:00:21.080 Most young women are not.

00:00:22.400 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America for the last 40 years.

00:00:27.000 It's a different world now.

00:00:28.020 Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:30.140 Nobody needs men!

00:00:31.380 The future is female.

00:00:34.420 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.

00:00:40.940 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:44.240 We've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:46.920 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:50.480 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:54.560 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:57.040 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:01:00.220 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.

00:01:05.180 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:01:08.800 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:01:12.480 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:15.340 Because if me and you were in a business contract,

00:01:17.540 you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:20.520 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:22.700 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.

00:01:26.140 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.

00:01:29.140 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.

00:01:31.820 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:36.760 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:39.980 You need no evidence.

00:01:41.100 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.

00:01:44.820 And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:48.160 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:50.700 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:53.000 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:55.040 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:57.500 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:58.960 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:02:00.840 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.

00:02:03.240 Wives are taught to leave their husbands,

00:02:05.180 and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:02:07.540 Family is a foundation of society.

00:02:09.260 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.

00:02:12.420 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole

00:02:14.900 of happiness, endless happiness.

00:02:16.720 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.

00:02:18.720 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:20.520 We tell them to put off family into marriage.

00:02:22.020 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:25.040 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:29.480 Oh, freeze your eggs. Have an abortion.

00:02:31.280 What? You're evil.

00:02:32.540 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:02:36.400 Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,

00:02:40.460 naturally, the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:43.240 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:44.160 That's the thing.

00:02:44.700 Like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.

00:02:47.920 This is not about happiness.

00:02:49.420 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:51.740 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave

00:02:56.700 when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:03:00.600 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:03:04.340 They think, well, men have all the rights, they have all the power.

00:03:07.160 Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.

00:03:09.440 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?

00:03:12.060 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:03:15.300 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:17.220 Men are homeless.

00:03:18.180 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:19.960 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:24.400 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:29.800 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:33.700 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.

00:03:36.000 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol,

00:03:40.300 three times higher among men than among women.

00:03:43.400 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:45.240 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:46.460 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:48.080 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:48.960 What kind of a woman are you going to attract?

00:03:51.300 If men are in trouble, so are women.

00:03:53.940 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:57.620 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get...

00:03:59.860 500K, 300K, 300K, 200K.

00:04:02.380 Am I crazy?

00:04:03.080 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:04:05.360 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.

00:04:08.940 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:04:12.820 Women.

00:04:14.280 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:04:16.340 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:04:18.760 I'm over it.

00:04:19.920 When is it going to be my turn?

00:04:21.220 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:22.960 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:25.760 The only simp here is you, Pearl.

00:04:27.040 You simp for men.

00:04:27.640 No, I think you simp for women.

00:04:29.060 She's a provocateur.

00:04:30.020 She says stupid stuff.

00:04:31.220 But Pearl is right about this.

00:04:32.480 It's already happening.

00:04:33.620 It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:35.080 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want

00:04:38.700 a wife and women can't find a husband.

00:04:40.520 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:45.020 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:48.600 civilization will crumble the american story does not end well this is an existential crisis failing

00:04:55.500 young men what up guys that is the trailer for our divorce documentary we're trying to raise 100k

00:05:04.940 if you donate 20k you get a personal personalized message to your ex-wife that you can either put

00:05:10.780 in the film or i can read so if you have anything funny you want to put in uh 20k we're at about

00:05:16.640 $31,000. Thank you to the people that donated yesterday. We got a couple hundred dollar

00:05:21.800 donations, so I really appreciate it. So today we are talking about women stealing men from each

00:05:30.960 other. So welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. I always say that women can't stand each

00:05:36.200 other. The only time women unite against men is in the patriarchy. But other than that,

00:05:42.020 it's war amongst women. 80% of workplace bullying is women bullying other women. 50% of women say

00:05:48.560 they would rather work for a male boss than a female boss. There have been stories where a

00:05:53.140 girl's friend will lure her into the woods and literally try to murder her. Literally try to

00:05:57.740 murder her. Women in the modern day hate men so much that they will let women with nefarious

00:06:03.680 intentions close to them and won't realize it until it's too late. I'm bringing this up because

00:06:08.160 I was scrolling through social media the other day and I started to see stories about women

00:06:11.980 who had their husbands stolen from them by other women.

00:06:15.680 These are married women who had decent men

00:06:17.820 but ended up losing their husband to someone else.

00:06:20.000 And most of the time,

00:06:21.280 that someone was somebody that the wife knew.

00:06:24.260 The first thing I would ask in this situation would be,

00:06:27.060 what wasn't the wife doing?

00:06:28.620 Why was her husband so unsatisfied

00:06:30.520 that he left for another woman?

00:06:32.240 We all know that over a quarter of marriages are sexless.

00:06:34.940 And in almost all marriages,

00:06:36.480 the wife nags the husband constantly.

00:06:39.200 There is a lesson in stories like this.

00:06:41.100 ladies, you have to satisfy your man and keep your eyes on him at all times. Single women will come

00:06:45.640 for your husband because he married you. Men that are fours and fives receives a point, maybe two

00:06:50.920 to single women because they are married. That's what we're going to talk about today. The women

00:06:55.600 who had their husband stolen by another woman. Get ready with us while I tell a story about when

00:07:03.520 one of my best friends tried to steal my husband. So the other night I had my friends over. Mary

00:07:09.820 was there and we were all just like playing games sitting on the couch you know and then one of my

00:07:15.340 friends um we'll call her jennifer she just she was just a little bit off the entire time yeah

00:07:23.340 she wasn't really talking to us and she was like sitting with the boys when all the girls were

00:07:28.700 hanging out which we thought was really weird yeah and then a couple things happened that night that

00:07:33.660 just rubbed me the wrong way but the first thing that happened was we were all sitting on the couch

00:07:39.500 and my husband's sitting like towards the arm of the couch and jennifer just like just like starts

00:07:46.820 complaining about her spa and basically demanded to be sitting next to my husband

00:07:51.460 and all of us girls were like sitting on the other side of the living room so it made no sense for

00:07:56.440 her to be like demanding to sit over there because we were all talking over here while the boys were

00:08:00.060 like hanging out a funny thing about my friend jennifer though is that we used to be a lot closer

00:08:04.760 back in the day but recently i don't know she she doesn't live as close as she used to and so we

00:08:09.960 just haven't been seeing each other much so it was just weird so here's where it gets really crazy

00:08:15.480 because they didn't see this happening when it happened she like went up to go to the bathroom

00:08:20.200 but i saw jennifer go sit over next to her husband and then start whispering something in his ear

00:08:27.240 like while everybody was hanging out and my husband doesn't entertain this stuff so like

00:08:31.640 mary can she knows yeah he was not but she was she was definitely very close to him and so mary

00:08:38.600 pulls me aside and she tells me all this stuff that happens after i get out of the bathroom

00:08:42.840 and basically we both walk out together only to find that jennifer is like doing that stupid

00:08:49.000 pygmy thing where she's like oh it's bigger than mine so fast forward to later in the night

00:08:56.360 everybody's like kind of drunk and we're jennifer's drunk yeah she was really really drunk

00:09:03.240 and we're all like okay bathroom break all the girls go to the bathroom and she starts crying

00:09:08.920 crying and so obviously since i'm not trying to like read into anything's anything too quickly

00:09:14.360 i go and i ask her jennifer like what's wrong and she doesn't tell me anything but then oh but then

00:09:21.400 then jennifer texts me while we're all in the room hanging out together and she says i can't

00:09:27.480 do this anymore and i text her back and i'm like what do you mean you can't do this anymore like

00:09:31.080 we're all just hanging out and she was like i can't stand being in a room with say and her husband

00:09:37.400 because i'm in love with him okay but then this this part really made me the most angry is she's

00:09:47.320 back on the couch she's drunk and she basically just starts trying to sit like as close as she

00:09:53.720 can to my husband and i'm like just like subtly trying to you know sit on my husband's lab trying

00:09:59.160 to you know mark my territory saying hey like back off and then i decided to get up in front

00:10:05.640 of everybody and say hey and show everybody the text and say jennifer's in love with say's husband

00:10:10.520 and everybody was super awkward and nobody really said anything we ended up all leaving and needless

00:10:16.280 to say we don't talk to jennifer anymore and this was a story about mary in my dream the other night

00:10:26.280 did it really damn so now she's mad at her husband for a dream that's crazy

00:10:33.000 all right let's see what we got next my sister stole my husband so now i'm watching their world

00:10:37.880 collapse story time so me and my husband or ex-husband recently got married and by recently

00:10:43.160 i mean the past five months we had been dating for about a year and then we got engaged and we

00:10:47.960 got married within the next year so we had officially been dating for two years when we

00:10:51.640 got married and it only took my sister a whole five months to steal him from me however there

00:10:55.640 is a little bit of a backstory on me and my husband so let me bring you into it so let's

00:11:00.040 call my husband mark and my sister natalie foundation is a very different color okay

00:11:06.360 now once upon a time five years ago they dated it weren't kind of just like you're dating like

00:11:11.800 she lost her v to him it was quite a serious relationship for her however mark didn't really

00:11:16.280 care too much like he obviously liked her and he cared for her but the relationship in itself

00:11:21.000 wasn't like his priority that relationship ended badly so you can kind of imagine the reaction they

00:11:27.400 all had when me and mark started dating that's a little fyi mark is in my year not in my sister's

00:11:34.200 i don't know it was always strange to me that she went for mark because i always had a crush

00:11:38.360 mark when i was younger so it was a bit of a full circle moment but i guess i did technically steal

00:11:43.800 her boyfriend oh natalie hated that i was dating mark she absolutely despised it and she hated it

00:11:50.120 even more when we got engaged so she's still oh my gosh so she stole the boyfriend first

00:11:57.000 then her sister got petty she said it's fine

00:12:01.640 dang obviously i did speak to natalie about this we did have grown-up conversations and

00:12:05.800 she told me eventually that she forgave me and that she's actually really really happy that me

00:12:10.280 and mark were engaged at the time i thought great no family feud i'm with the man of my dreams what

00:12:16.120 can go wrong but one thing i should mention is that mark had pre-wedding nerves by this he went

00:12:21.560 into an absolute state of distress i wasn't sure if he even wanted to go ahead with the wedding

00:12:26.920 and then we talked through it i thought it was just because he was nervous which is completely

00:12:31.800 fine and normal but he has literally yesterday just admitted to me that he had these feelings

00:12:36.160 because he never lost feelings for my sister i found out about the affair in quite like a typical

00:12:42.340 way like it was nothing too drastic i just walked in on them both like it was like a normal way to

00:12:47.900 catch a cheetah you can best believe i left the same day the same minute i was out of that house

00:12:52.560 so i have obviously filed for divorce and never speaking to my sister ever again i'm so happy

00:12:57.640 about it wow even though she kind of did it first oh it'll get you all right let's see who's next

00:13:06.080 morning guys i just want to say i keep seeing these videos where friends are taking your spouse

00:13:16.020 or marrying your your husband and not your ex-husband all that stuff i keep sending on

00:13:22.320 tiktok i want y'all to know that my mom taught me and always taught me she said don't have too

00:13:29.320 many people around that good man don't have too many friends coming to your house and you invited

00:13:38.020 no ma'am she said don't do it and i live by that to this day i live by that to this day

00:13:47.540 And I think that as my mom is a black mother, of course, and she just raised me well, where you got to be wise.

00:14:01.300 You can trust, but sometimes you got to be cautious and you just got to protect that home of yours.

00:14:10.300 If you're in a good home, don't have too many friends around your spouse, honey.

00:14:18.500 It's okay for a birthday.

00:14:20.300 It's okay for a party.

00:14:24.020 But every day, and then your friends should not have your husband's phone number at all.

00:14:31.180 None of them.

00:14:34.400 They can have your mother's phone number and your daddy's phone number,

00:14:38.620 but they should not have your husband's phone number that's how black that's how that's how

00:14:46.680 black people are raised i mean i just keep saying it and i i have not saying it won't happen but i'm

00:14:55.660 just saying like it's sad protect your home pray over your husband pray over your husband pray over

00:15:05.040 your friends cooked yeah you're cooked all right let's see who's next like treating me badly or

00:15:12.520 anything but i can tell a kind of this my best friend who was my maid of honor at my wedding

00:15:18.480 stole my husband a little bit women are evil man like female friendships do you know what the other

00:15:26.180 day every because sometimes i'll go out places and people think i'm a little odd because if i go

00:15:34.180 somewhere a lot of times I just go by myself kind of like a kind of weird you know and um like women

00:15:40.780 will be like well like don't you have a lot of female friends and some like I do but

00:15:47.500 there's just such a low ROI on female friendship in my head because I think to myself

00:15:59.320 they're the ones that are gonna like tell your business to everybody so if you have like if you

00:16:05.440 tell them a secret they'll tell everybody um they'll just nag you and then eventually they'll

00:16:12.940 crash out on you or steal your husband apparently I know I am a little bit of a loner

00:16:18.920 I'm a people person but I you know

00:16:23.040 i i know i just i can't have a lot of female friends i just can't

00:16:30.860 um and so i would speak to him about it and i'll say you know i can tell like something is wrong

00:16:36.560 like there's something it's not okay something isn't right it's like what's going on have i

00:16:40.920 done something wrong you know all of this stuff and he'll just kind of brush it off and be like

00:16:45.540 oh you know nothing nothing nothing nothing christmas of 2017 so december going into 2018

00:16:50.300 we were just in the car we went shopping we're in the car i just turned to him and i said hey you

00:16:55.000 know we're about to go into a new year like whatever it is you know let's just put it behind

00:16:59.960 us like you know just talk to me let's just start afresh you know that sort of thing um and then

00:17:05.640 that's when he said to me to us and i don't want to be married to you anymore so i was blindsided

00:17:09.480 i had no clue so it was very confusing for me anyway to cut the long story short and to avoid

00:17:15.080 the confusion it was only later i actually found out that the main reason he actually wanted a

00:17:20.980 divorce is because he was having an affair with my best friend i can't think of anything worse

00:17:29.380 other than a sister and he did move on with my best friend um so it wasn't just somebody that

00:17:36.780 i just met like this was she was my maid of honor at the wedding um you know the heartbreak and the

00:17:44.080 loss was not just from the perspective of the marriage i was also grieving the loss of a friend

00:17:49.940 so it was kind of happening at the same time but it was a combination of different things i believe

00:17:54.900 that contributed to my healing yeah now again all these stories are going to be the female

00:18:01.060 friendly version of the story but all right oh i knew this oh i knew this story oh yeah shania

00:18:10.140 Twain took the yell. So I said, Marianne, don't you think that my husband is acting strange?

00:18:17.300 And she got very defensive and said, how could you think such a thing that I would ever lie to

00:18:24.840 about anything? The whole innocent friend, even with a tear in her eye, she's a great actress.

00:18:32.180 You imagine she probably is more pleasant to be around. That'll do it over time. Cause

00:18:38.620 shania looks way better than her she deserves an academy award i'm gonna be so stupid i really

00:18:46.160 didn't see that coming i really want to die when this happened the fact that my friend

00:18:52.060 oh my gosh knew that she was going to hurt my family but did it anyway i have a hard time with

00:18:58.100 that i women don't care they don't they're gonna do what's in their best and begged her

00:19:03.300 find love somewhere else from someone else it just isn't right she never expected that in 10

00:19:10.640 million years what did her best friend's husband have to do with it she was really really out

00:19:16.640 broken was any of this revenge i don't want to go into details of that because i don't think it's

00:19:22.300 oh yeah i forgot and then shania twain started dating her best friend's husband

00:19:28.720 they basically swap my own phone yeah um this tells me that shania was probably awful to be

00:19:37.960 with and her friend was friendly and did anal

00:19:39.760 okay so i want you guys to call in and tell me your stories today

00:19:46.720 were you ever propositioned by your wife's wife's friends or girlfriend's friends did you ever say

00:19:55.240 yes this is anonymous guys you can have cameras off and did you tell her or if you knew somebody

00:20:00.900 that had an affair with the best friend's husband tell me how the crash out happened i love drama

00:20:06.240 i'm a woman so um you like my comment there bro yeah that's pretty funny you know some of the

00:20:18.000 most beautiful women are just awful to be awful to be around it's just like arnold schwarzenegger

00:20:22.840 Remember he was with Maria Shriver, but he got the nanny pregnant and the nanny literally looks like Andre the Giant.

00:20:30.040 And you're like, how'd that happen?

00:20:32.500 It's because I guarantee you Maria Shriver was just awful to be around and his wife was friendly and did whatever, whenever in the bedroom.

00:20:41.900 No whining, no complaining, no Arnold, I have a headache.

00:20:46.280 I can't do it tonight or, you know, I have to be gone for four or five days.

00:20:49.680 How many points does anal give a girl?

00:20:52.840 put in the chat guys how many points is how many how many points

00:21:00.940 ah that's good but i'm telling you man ladies ladies after the gluck gluck

00:21:10.420 but yeah i you know i i was uh i'm married and divorced and my ex-wife was very attractive

00:21:19.940 and let me tell you guys the best cologne that you can wear to attract women is wife

00:21:24.560 once you get married women is all over you man it's ridiculous and and um uh especially if your

00:21:35.000 wife is attractive because women can tell if you're married by the way that you walk and talk

00:21:40.300 but if your wife is attractive and they meet your wife guys it's over with over with tell me about

00:21:47.000 the time you were propositioned um pretty much every time that my ex-wife would come to my work

00:21:56.680 and meet my co-workers it would just be all over like that i'm talking look all of a sudden your

00:22:04.520 female co-workers want to go out to lunch with you or they want to line up work travel with you

00:22:09.640 so you and another a female co-worker this is back before the m2 days you know because i was

00:22:15.240 i was married from um in the early 2010s before m2 but before m2 female co-workers would try to

00:22:24.040 line up work travel with you so you were staying in the same hotel yeah man yeah had that happen

00:22:31.000 many times so have you ever been like really close to doing it have you ever been like

00:22:37.960 you know like you really or it was really really difficult for you to turn down like

00:22:41.400 your wife was being a bitch that day or something like that well i i had a couple of instances where

00:22:50.280 i saw how traumatic that cheating can affect a man and a woman so i've never cheated on a spouse or

00:22:58.360 in like a serious relationship i've i've dated multiple women at once but i've never cheated on

00:23:03.800 a girlfriend or a spouse only because once again like growing up you know i saw how bad cheating

00:23:11.560 can affect men and women so i just didn't cheat yeah i wish i had because my ex like cheated on me

00:23:19.320 if i could go back how many what was the biggest opportunity you turned down like the hottest girl

00:23:25.560 um the there was a woman who um who was in her early 30s and she

00:23:35.800 what because i worked in vegas for a while and i worked for the government and a lot of government

00:23:43.720 jobs are women who were hard enough to try to live the dream off their looks but then

00:23:49.960 figured out that they're not going to get there so they had to settle down and get a real job

00:23:54.760 and there was a girl at my work that was you know former bottle girl she had been in a couple of

00:24:02.240 small time magazines and uh she was in her late 20s and was giving up on on the dream

00:24:08.600 and working at my work and she propositioned me and i was like oh no i'm married sorry

00:24:14.800 but if i could go back she was the one that i would have cheated for you dm her after you got

00:24:19.840 divorced no because um i saw her her social media and she was a single mama too by the time i got

00:24:28.640 divorced if you could have been you could have been dad but yeah i'm telling you guys you get

00:24:36.880 married well don't get married but if you do women are going to be all over you i had friends growing

00:24:42.720 up pearl where they were single guys and if they were striking out at the bar they would put a

00:24:49.360 wedding ring on yeah because it's more exciting we love doing the wrong thing men like doing the

00:24:54.160 right thing we love doing the wrong thing and so it's like you know when um those like they'll

00:25:02.400 try to sell their religion and say their women are different and i'm like no if

00:25:06.240 if women know they they're not supposed to do that thing they want to do it even harder

00:25:11.200 yeah i agree and you know it's funny so one of my female friends tell me what you think about

00:25:20.140 this pearl because everyone's going back and forth about anal in the in the shed look what i

00:25:26.020 did i'm sorry what's the what's the consensus i didn't see so some people are saying it's gross

00:25:33.680 some people say it's you know a necessity we gotta do a poll we gotta please please put a poll

00:25:40.700 does anal add a point to a woman put yes you know

00:25:47.940 look what we did so okay so

00:25:53.060 kobe clout's about to come on in a little bit he says anal means love

00:25:58.220 like does the woman get anything out of that you know what i mean well okay so one of my female

00:26:09.560 girlfriends, she's finally starting to put this, you know, I'm strong and black and independent

00:26:15.320 down because she's staring down the barrel of being the rest of being single for the rest of

00:26:19.400 her life. Okay. And she said, why do guys always want to do anal? And I'm like, so this is my

00:26:26.680 layman's theory, right? Modern women, especially women in their 30s and 40s, just give it out.

00:26:35.000 just give regular sex out to chad and tyrone right but they won't give that out easy

00:26:43.880 oh okay and so it's like understand i'm saying like then he knows he's getting her best because

00:26:49.080 sex doesn't mean as much yeah please think about this how back in the day a man would show interest

00:26:56.360 in a woman by by planning dates spending money on her sharing resources with her right and before

00:27:03.800 the sexual revolution a woman showed interest by sleeping with the men by having sex with them and

00:27:08.760 being exclusive right but now modern women hand out sex so much regular sex so easy that like

00:27:15.480 how are you supposed to vet now how are you supposed to know if she's really interested in you

00:27:21.240 got it anal try it fellas

00:27:26.040 it's 50 50 in the chat yes and no i've gotten it from every woman exactly when i was a

00:27:33.480 teenager the thought was that that she let you do that then she's yours yeah yeah they're split on

00:27:43.320 this in the chat um okay why don't we bring up the first caller all right i'm going to bring

00:27:50.520 up cubby first because he put something in the chat and uh so cubby clown he's coming up let's

00:27:59.080 make sure to like the video subscribe if you haven't already we're at 20 000 over 2 million

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00:28:10.360 youtube chat and the people on the audacity thank you for being here cubby clown are you there hello

00:28:17.240 hello cubby is that like um are you in the chicago area is that a cubs play no kobe killer like i

00:28:24.680 killed covid like i had this whole idea about like a space oh sorry okay okay so tell me tell me about

00:28:31.800 the cheating um the the husband stealers do you know any go any well i've cheated i've i've had

00:28:39.960 sucks with like three or four wives so i don't know if that that doesn't kind of count on your uh

00:28:46.840 point tonight but women are kind of trifling on their own right what was that like did you

00:28:52.280 were you like scared you're gonna get shot you know did you know going in so i'm just like it

00:28:57.960 well i was i was a personal trainer

00:29:10.600 one was like separated okay they're all separated right

00:29:14.920 she had a chad wife i'm a chad wife chad husband for sure she was a hot like half filipino

00:29:25.000 and like i was training her for a while then we started around and then

00:29:30.040 yeah how was like the first time you guys hooked up was it like where how did it happen

00:29:37.320 in the not in the bathroom at the gym right

00:29:39.640 i hear some of these like bodybuilding gyms are wild yeah i'm not no i wasn't like in a body

00:29:48.280 building gym or anything but nothing we went to her place and uh we were we were for a while

00:29:53.640 so like was it her like with her husband's house like he was in california she moved to

00:30:01.240 let's say connecticut and she was like a boss so she was like like i don't want to say manly

00:30:11.560 but you know she was like you know you could kind of fill in the blanks she wasn't like

00:30:18.600 you know she was like a high corporate chick and i was like a white i was a nice trap piece

00:30:23.960 of trash for her yeah a lot of those women the only place i felt submit is in the bedroom

00:30:30.440 was one of those i i think probably yeah she was like uh court like probably like

00:30:36.600 next to us not a ceo or anything but she was up there yep what did her husband do for a living

00:30:44.600 he worked for like an actuary hello what the sorry hold on

00:30:51.800 sorry about that are you still there i'm here sorry about that something something else kicked

00:31:00.500 in um would you rate yourself like as better looking than did you hell no i'm a fucking

00:31:05.500 bald ass you can find me online you can find me on instagram i'm a bald dude tattoos i was

00:31:12.120 i was in good shape i had spinal surgery a lot of shit happened over the koof koof time and

00:31:18.140 i'm okay i always like a five i'm not like i'm like five eight five nine you know that's like

00:31:25.420 the most it's so funny because if i ask women that question it's like i'm a tenant guys are so like um

00:31:32.700 guys are so honest okay we have to live in reality because we don't get put we don't get

00:31:37.900 yeah they get what they want usually i just want to tell you pearl i love the new black pill pearl

00:31:48.140 loving it i think you i think you should get like i'm not talking about like merch i can't afford

00:31:51.820 it right now but i'm saying like a black pill pearl or something dark do you like uh uh what

00:32:00.620 was um the ship called on the pirates of the caribbean the black pearl well it's kind of how

00:32:07.260 i view society and like a lot of these causes like abortion like it's a sinking ship and you

00:32:13.180 can either like stay on the titanic tannic trying to get the water out of the lifeboat or you can

00:32:17.740 get on the line try to dredge it out get get the buckets get the yeah yeah then you get that you

00:32:24.700 get like sucked down in the bottom of the ocean there was okay go ahead sorry that was the first

00:32:32.380 one what about the second one so she was another phil she was straight filipina and i actually

00:32:38.860 left a really good filipina for this filipina which i shouldn't have done one was like in head

00:32:45.500 over heels would love with me and when you talk about anal anal does mean love but the other one

00:32:52.460 was like just sluttier and hotter to me and it was so stupid but then i dated her for like a year but

00:32:57.900 she was a complete mental patient the other one was like head over heels and she wasn't in she

00:33:02.540 was never married but she did have a kid so the one that was head over heels was she like fatter

00:33:08.780 no no I don't fuck I wouldn't ever fuck with fat chicks no I meant like was she less hot

00:33:13.340 maybe I mean or just less charming no I mean she was so much more submissive I don't know

00:33:21.720 what it was I'm just a filthy animal I just I can never be with one woman I've been I didn't know

00:33:27.380 I was like 10 years old probably black pilled and red pilled you know so the other the other

00:33:31.920 girl was doing anal huh um not okay the one that was like more submissive the cuter the sweeter

00:33:42.720 one she did you know like she and and anal is not it's just to me it's about power it doesn't

00:33:47.760 even feel that much better it's just like power you know and and he's right he is right like women

00:33:54.480 do give other up but when they give you anal at least it's something you can say wow she did

00:33:59.360 yeah because it they don't just hand that out man they'll have the badge out and they'll hand out

00:34:06.640 the clutch they won't they won't hand out the the back door let me tell you i would have went back

00:34:12.800 doug and that girl dude i don't care if she had two kids you could at least like slater

00:34:17.520 nah man i got i have a policy no single mothers man i tell all the guys i know don't sleep with

00:34:23.600 them don't date them don't marry them do not go near them because if they have one man's kid

00:34:28.240 they'll have yours hey he's going for married women though so he's not he's not really risk

00:34:33.120 averse here i have one get it get it everybody get a vasectomy get a vasectomy it takes 15 minutes

00:34:43.200 i ain't having kids with these trifling and uh you know i don't i don't know i'm not religious

00:34:49.840 or anything that's another thing did you ever did they did you ever get caught or did they

00:34:55.120 ever snitch like or did sorry did you ever snitch or ever get caught but she had to get one of the

00:35:01.360 girls had to give her car like get her car back from her husband she had a bm double but it was

00:35:05.840 her it was in her everything was in her name he was like i think you know it's all hair's

00:35:11.680 up she had breast cancer you're gonna look she had breast cancer he helped her through breast cancer

00:35:18.640 then we i then she came on my radar i came on her radar i started training her at my house

00:35:26.300 and then we started fucking around but he yeah yeah that's was he he wasn't paying for the

00:35:32.440 training sessions was he so check it out he was a complete broke ass dude and she was probably

00:35:39.000 like sick of like she was paying for everything yeah paying for yeah so i think you know about

00:35:45.800 that yeah yep we always talk about how trifling men are when they're in the power position and

00:35:54.120 they pay all the bills but women are even worse dude women are even worse turns out he got

00:35:59.960 remarried or something and he had a kid and i think that's what he needed you know so

00:36:06.360 yeah i don't talk to her anymore when you're messing with a married woman are you like very

00:36:11.320 careful that you don't tell anybody about it like are you ever nervous it'll get through

00:36:15.560 the grapevine because people talk for sure i mean they yeah i mean i don't think they knew

00:36:22.520 that she was they might i don't think anybody knew that she was married when i started messing with

00:36:26.440 her okay um yeah plus i'm like you i'm like a long long wolf or whatever i got no friends dude i'm a

00:36:32.920 a fucking loser you know especially up there i got a couple friends whatever

00:36:41.000 thanks for calling man i really appreciate it i love the new show guys and i don't want to

00:36:45.880 be too much of a simp but i like the pigtails i'm not around have a good night thanks have a good

00:36:53.000 one buddy take care bye it's like you say it's saying but i have a boyfriend that clearly doesn't

00:36:59.320 stop it sorry i'm kidding um okay next uh we have uh thanks lube for the two dollars

00:37:11.880 brad smith is coming in guys make sure that the youtube is off in the background please

00:37:19.560 if you haven't hit that like button already hit the like button

00:37:22.360 I really appreciate that.

00:37:25.000 Brad Smith, it says he's joining.

00:37:27.600 I'm going to give another couple of minutes.

00:37:29.960 Oh, Braddy there.

00:37:34.260 Brad.

00:37:37.220 Brad going once.

00:37:40.000 Brad going twice.

00:37:42.660 Brad's on mute now.

00:37:45.160 Brad's on mute.

00:37:46.480 Brad going once.

00:37:48.620 Brad going twice.

00:37:50.720 i'm gonna put you back in the waiting room okay next up we have sean sean is coming up

00:38:01.520 and then after sean i'll tell you well sean are you there did the anal the poll come out 50 50.

00:38:10.480 i think it was 50 50. yeah yeah i'm there can you hear me sean what's going on uh yeah i mean

00:38:19.520 i was gonna say you know to doug's point the like when i started dating my now recently ex

00:38:26.400 uh like i actually did test that theory i asked for anal i asked for you know a threesome down

00:38:32.720 the line i asked for you know modifications to her body for like plastic surgery for like c cups or

00:38:38.400 d cups and girls who think that like you're the best that they could possibly hope for or get

00:38:45.200 and they feel like they're competing against other girls they will absolutely say yes to

00:38:48.720 all of that stuff even if it's like not quite what they want or they normally would have objections

00:38:54.960 for most men they will actually they will absolutely give you the green light for all

00:38:58.960 that stuff where is she now what happened uh so we lived together like we dated for a year and a

00:39:05.840 half and then we lived together for a year and a half she got surgery for you and she bounced

00:39:11.520 uh it was very apparent she had kind of like borderline personality disorder like just from

00:39:18.080 living with her so i kind of had to like separate from her and kind of cut it off actually in the

00:39:22.080 last week i think i think that anal comes along with the bipolar package man uh definitely i mean

00:39:29.200 that's definitely possible but uh no i mean i'd be mad if i didn't get anal from a bipolar chick

00:39:37.840 but like no to your point like girls who like have a euphoria towards you who feels like you

00:39:43.120 know they hit the lottery with you they will absolutely they pretty much will change themselves

00:39:46.480 to be what you want that's 100 true and if they're not changing and getting aligned with what you

00:39:51.680 want it's because they want someone else and they're kind of like settling for you yeah because

00:39:56.080 in the back of their mind they know that like you know they would need kids relatively soon or you

00:40:01.200 know everyone around that they wanted is kind of taken so they'll settle with you as long as they

00:40:05.680 have things their way and i think a lot of guys kind of need to like push back against that and

00:40:10.800 go for sorry go ahead bro and i we're going back and forth about the whole

00:40:16.880 sleeping on the first date sleeping with the woman on the first date because i mean

00:40:22.720 yes if a woman sleeps with a guy on the first day she's kind of a whore but then

00:40:26.800 you don't want to be the guy that she doesn't want to sleep with on the first date you know

00:40:30.480 what i'm saying so which one is it is she a whore for sleeping with you on the first date

00:40:34.880 or or what well there's some there's someone that she's gonna sleep with on the first date

00:40:40.720 you're telling me if she was on a date with her celebrity crush she's not smashing first night

00:40:45.360 come on come on i mean it's not you go ahead it kind of depends on the girls some of them

00:40:51.760 culturally like they won't want to do it on the first but if she's not doing it within the first

00:40:55.920 two or three then i i absolutely agree like you know there are girls that they will do it like

00:41:01.200 if they're american born here like most of them will do it on the first if not second date so

00:41:06.000 if she's not putting out for you relatively fast you know maybe she's trying to kind of convince

00:41:11.200 you she's not you know those kind of girls so she's trying to like rehab her image like you

00:41:16.080 know to pearl's point and kind of like past segments she's done a lot of girls want to

00:41:20.320 change their image as they get older and they don't want the new guys that they're trying to

00:41:24.400 settle down with to think of them as kind of like the old whore so they kind of repaint their image

00:41:28.960 they'll make you wake longer and and see if you're taking them out and courting them before they put

00:41:33.280 out like this is pretty common for a lot of women especially as they get into their 30s

00:41:37.920 uh so they try to like sell you this christian image or this like i'm a conservative girl look

00:41:42.720 how i dress image you can sell that at why don't they try selling that at 20 you know what i mean

00:41:47.760 you could sell that at 20 maybe even like 23 i i would cap it maybe some guys i'd even maybe

00:41:54.720 say 25 but 30 i'm like you can't really sell purity then yeah it's there's too many guys that

00:42:01.280 will fall for it they'll be like oh finally i found the one not like all the others and she's 32

00:42:07.840 she's 33 like there's there's too many naive guys who once they feel like they finally got the girl

00:42:13.200 who just gets along with them magically you know it's it's uh too many guys are a little bit naive

00:42:19.760 so that's just what i've kind of noticed so um when you were um in the relationship or married

00:42:25.840 did were other women hitting on you more like her friends yes that question i mean uh it was a

00:42:31.440 relationship we weren't uh married like we were kind of headed that way but i kind of cut it off

00:42:35.320 when i saw a lot of the the crazy crazy but uh no i mean i saw extreme jealousy whenever i would

00:42:41.100 like get compliments from other girls or i would talk about like past girls who've complimented me

00:42:45.600 even before uh she's even met me and you just see like very extreme jealousy on her face like

00:42:51.540 uh it starts to get pretty toxic but you can kind of tell like there's almost like an obsession

00:42:57.020 component where she feels like she's competing against past girls you've slept with or past

00:43:01.200 girls you've dated uh so they will absolutely change their behavior for guys who else they

00:43:08.020 either they are madly in love with or obsessed with or view as how was the best that they can

00:43:12.520 get how was the crash out when you dumped her uh the crash out was very hard like uh because she

00:43:20.100 ran back to me like the next day and she was like uh can we not be broken up can we be like

00:43:24.180 separated and i'm like uh no uh we're not doing that and then like within a few days like a friend

00:43:31.880 of mine like sent me some screenshots and he's like in the dating market he's like dude i just

00:43:35.460 saw her on a dating app and i'm like what the hell like you know she's staying somewhere else

00:43:40.540 you know we're broken above no she's gonna get under someone to get over someone i mean that's

00:43:45.580 what like you you know you have a girl says she's just out of a relationship get ready fellas you're

00:43:50.380 getting laid tonight yeah and so i called her up like the next day just to check on her see how

00:43:55.500 she's doing because i could tell she's like feeling abandoned and things like that and i

00:43:59.900 talked with her and just kind of like calmed her down and just said hey you know let's see how

00:44:04.220 things go let's be broken up but let's you know just to kind of like get her to calm down and

00:44:09.260 then like my friend texted me like immediately the next day like oh yeah she's logged off the app

00:44:14.140 so like i could tell like you know sometimes girls feel they don't like rejection let's put

00:44:18.780 it that way they don't take it very well uh and some girls feel like they have to swing from one

00:44:23.420 guy to another to feel like they're still wanted if that makes sense yeah see but i'm going to

00:44:29.100 correct you on one thing sean rejection is on the front end closure is on the back end you gave her

00:44:37.100 closure and you never give a woman closure ever ever that's true but if you want that girl to

00:44:44.780 come back for like you know around sex like not take her seriously but not give her a relationship

00:44:51.020 you can't like fully reject her you kind of always have to kind of like keep her around

00:44:55.260 enough what are what are phrases you would say to make her feel comfortable to come back

00:44:59.980 uh i would just text her like you know wyd or like you know how's it going do you want to come

00:45:07.780 over and just you know see my dog like stupid shit like that just to like give her any excuse

00:45:13.420 to like you know come back over but like not stay just like kind of go back to dating but like i

00:45:19.120 don't have any formal commitment to her so like i'll say if a girl just really really likes you

00:45:23.340 she's down for stuff like that like the breakup sex the you know uh whatever you want to call it

00:45:29.580 kind of after you guys have split they're always down for that and quite frankly they'll ignore

00:45:33.980 a lot of nice guys who are asking them out day to day because they're so obsessed with one guy

00:45:38.780 who they really like or a guy who they'd hope to be with they'll just ignore all the nice guys

00:45:43.580 around their area so that that's pretty common even if a girl is in a relationship or broken up

00:45:48.380 or you know obsessed with somebody else that's just how they're going to be they're always going

00:45:52.220 to go for their best just don't get got man because um sex after the relationship you know

00:45:58.780 sex during that whole we're gonna slowly break up phase you usually end up in kids i've seen more

00:46:03.420 guys get got with sex on the way out the door man oh man careful yeah i mean i never hit a rock

00:46:10.540 because i don't trust any of these girls like i grew up in the hood so like i know that all these

00:46:14.380 girls having abortions they're not having protected sex so like i i i never even yeah allow girls to

00:46:20.780 tempt me with that hey we don't need to use condoms or anything like that because i i just know how

00:46:25.180 how they are you know what i mean yeah solo cal brow said too funny this show's hilarious everyone's

00:46:30.560 off the rails must be a sunday fun day eric says i've been cheated um i've cheated and been cheated

00:46:36.000 i'm not proud of it but good memories are good memories and the spank bank is never really full

00:46:40.640 well very nice well sean thanks for calling me we really appreciate it absolutely thanks guys

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00:47:25.420 haven't seen chop on in a while chop chop are you there

00:47:36.220 chop you're unmuted he's probably listening to the youtube so he's behind

00:47:39.580 choppy there chop yeah we can hear you okay oh yeah um yeah i was a little bit behind on

00:47:53.180 the youtube part that's all right so tell me have you ever been propositioned by your wife

00:47:59.100 or girlfriend's friends did you tell her um and did you say yes so about that um me and my ex

00:48:08.540 actually we went to the uh join the army together um here we go so we actually went to two different

00:48:16.060 basic trainings and uh in basic i had one and they knew i was married and she just wouldn't

00:48:25.020 leave me alone nothing came of it we went to ait we went to medic school was down in san antonio

00:48:32.220 my my wife was in the same training unit i was in but she was in a different platoon

00:48:38.780 and it was like majority female like 60 female and there was

00:48:47.580 the females in my platoon who knew i was married and knew who she was because they lived in the

00:48:52.060 same barracks they would constantly come up to me even though they knew i was married and

00:48:58.620 knew my wife was in the same company there was one that actually came up and asked me

00:49:04.700 like she was like you don't have to break up with her but would you let me be your mistress i'm like

00:49:09.420 no like just never was left alone and that was a pretty big thing when it came to a lot of

00:49:18.220 females in the military were you ever really close to doing it like where you were like really really

00:49:24.300 tempted and you almost did when i was in the same company as her no um she actually had to get

00:49:32.780 removed like she was getting taken out of the army because they found she had a heart murmur

00:49:37.060 and i was going to a different training when i finished my time with the medics and there was uh

00:49:44.980 it was one of those where i had a chance and i really wish i did it because find out she cheated

00:49:52.420 on me where i was in a different unit that was in missouri and i was taking a taxi and this other

00:50:00.500 female that i didn't know at all uh we were in the same taxi together and we got really really close

00:50:07.540 to doing it and i was married so i was like no i'm not gonna do it and she got off the taxi and

00:50:13.940 i left how did you find out your wife cheated it wasn't well the story with this is that because

00:50:22.760 she stayed in san antonio and she was put into the health company where they you know kick people out

00:50:29.160 for health reasons uh there was a hotel that was on base where they put all like um like people

00:50:37.700 that prior service are switching their jobs and there was a hotel party and the the unit that i

00:50:44.820 was training in you don't have cell phones or anything you have to use pay phones so i don't

00:50:49.140 get to really talk to her much when i talked to her on the phone she had told me that she went to

00:50:53.860 a hotel party that was already given to me like something happened and she told me like she

00:51:02.260 woke up in bed with a guy who i knew who he was and i'm like she was like there's nothing

00:51:07.380 happen i'm like that's like i know that was why wouldn't she just like if she was

00:51:14.340 gonna why'd she tell you so she told you that yeah because like i knew people that were there

00:51:20.420 and they were gonna tell me one way or another oh so she knew that oh and so her way out was

00:51:26.020 to say she slept in the same bed but nothing happened yeah like she woke up in bed and the

00:51:30.820 guy was there with her yeah chris says good what's good pearl hope you're well keep doing

00:51:37.940 great things thank you chris um thank you for the super chat i appreciate it you got any other

00:51:44.980 stories for um questions for him doug um i said earlier that i wish i would have cheated because

00:51:54.900 my ex cheated on me was there one that you wish you would have got back if you could go back oh

00:52:01.300 did you hit her up after too yeah no i didn't know who she was it was one of those like we just

00:52:07.700 because it was me and a buddy of mine we were leaving px and we were going to i forgot uso

00:52:12.820 i think that's what they're called it's whatever that little rec center is yeah and her and her

00:52:16.980 buddy were getting it like trying to go to the same place they asked if we'd get in the taxi

00:52:21.860 like joined us and me and her were sitting in the back seat talking and we got really close like

00:52:26.340 faces really close like we're gonna kiss and then i backed off never got a name never got nothing

00:52:31.060 just let it go but you wish you did now oh yeah 100 like she she she looked great for somebody

00:52:39.300 that was in the military uniform she looked amazing this is like early 2010s when you

00:52:43.380 couldn't do all the extra stuff yeah cool well thanks for calling in calling anytime okay

00:52:49.380 have a good one cool okay let in brian's up next brian are you there

00:53:01.140 brian with a y he's probably watching the youtube too

00:53:05.540 watch 10 10 15 seconds and he'll be like hello brian are you there brian going once if we get

00:53:15.540 enough twice we make enough money we'll someday we'll get a call screener guys we'll get like an

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00:53:28.020 okay and nick is coming up next nick's audio is connecting

00:53:38.100 nick's audio is connecting while his ideas connecting hit the like button guys we really

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00:54:01.140 doing buddy hello can you hear me yeah i'm good how are you hi feral how's it going i've been i've

00:54:07.140 been just mostly just watching your shorts on and off i haven't really gotten a chance to see the

00:54:10.980 podcast but i saw there was just a call in how's it going good um did you hear the topic

00:54:17.140 sort of yeah it was it was the the general topic was uh whether you know other women

00:54:23.540 start coming after you if you know you're in a relationship and yeah so has that been an

00:54:28.820 experience for you it it has uh give me a minute i've got a i've got your video going on in the

00:54:36.420 background that was annoying okay sorry yeah no that's that that's happened with me before um

00:54:43.220 something that i actually just recently got out of an engagement of all things and uh something

00:54:50.820 that i noticed right away um she gave me a ring as well and she never wanted me to give it back

00:55:02.420 tour right it was you know a cheap little thing it's a little i've got it on right now it's this

00:55:07.380 little golden snake thing real cute but i've i noticed every time i went out to uh you know

00:55:16.340 where i normally go like i go to this tabletop shop all the nerd chicks i didn't get any attention

00:55:22.020 whatsoever and they'd all come by and be like hey what are you doing and i'm just like where's this

00:55:28.820 coming from and then i i i heard about this phenomenon where you have a fake ring or whatever

00:55:36.340 where people think you're engaged you're married i heard that was a thing and i thought wait is that

00:55:42.820 what's doing it and it's it's like lord of the rings where you put it on and you turn invisible

00:55:49.940 right but sauron sees you that's what i felt like it was so surreal um i i had that happen in fact

00:56:00.500 the last week the last week before the engagement got called off um something that ended up happening

00:56:07.860 we were at costco and i'm being all you know friendly and lovey-dovey with my fiance at the

00:56:15.700 time we're buying some things we sit down uh grab something at the grab grab something at the uh

00:56:23.220 cafeteria to get like my dog or pizza or something and this woman just straight up comes to our table

00:56:31.700 drops a piece of paper has her number on it gives me a wink and my my fiance at the time my ex-fiance

00:56:37.780 she obviously just goes off but i'm just how old was the woman that approached you

00:56:45.700 oh well i'm i'm 32 my fiance was 27. uh the woman that approached me she looked maybe three

00:56:55.780 five years younger oh wow okay i've heard that um older women are the most likely to be side chicks

00:57:02.980 like 30 late 30s i was just curious i i think what it was is i was helping her out um get

00:57:13.380 things for her apartment oh and she she was she was covering a lot of it herself right so but i

00:57:21.700 think i think that woman saw oh my god he's like buying all of this i want me some of that

00:57:29.700 i think just the cart of all of the kitchen appliances was like oh he's loaded because

00:57:37.700 it it it came out to a hefty sum between both of us and it was like oh uh the weird thing is

00:57:46.340 uh that fiance after we broke up her sister started coming after me no i you not

00:57:55.380 her sister and i want to i want to stress um i met my ex-fiance of a hinge and in a way it's

00:58:03.060 kind of like being a bit of a passport bro because she was from tanzania she was african okay but

00:58:08.820 she'd been living in the us for five years i had never met most of her immediate family her aunt

00:58:15.380 lives here around where we're at um but i got a text message about three or four days after

00:58:26.900 things were called off and i'm like who the hell is this i was like oh this is your ex-fiance sister

00:58:34.020 i'm like what do you want because i thought she was like gonna chew me out because oh how dare

00:58:39.140 you do that to my sister right no she was like hey i'm gonna be in america sometime this week

00:58:45.940 what are you doing and i'm like uh why wait did you did you take her up on it i did not

00:58:56.180 i did not because i'll be honest i was i was feeling real because it was my first

00:59:00.820 engagement and i was you know kind of kind of in a depressed state i but

00:59:07.220 you don't want to be that guy that messes around with some girl's sister man oh no

00:59:10.900 no but i mean why not the the thing about her is i mean i don't know if it was a case of i could

00:59:21.060 fix her but whatever's wrong with her is way hotter because when i saw her profile

00:59:25.700 i shit you not i have a screenshot of this uh it said a life goal of mine get pregnant

00:59:36.020 and so this was on hinge and this this woman she again i think it's you know she's african

00:59:44.340 and more traditional kind of ladies 27 you know westerners tend to be a little later nowadays

00:59:50.340 right so i think she was getting the whole oh god i'm an old maid i need to do something yeah right

00:59:58.100 and so i took her up on that because i did you you got it done no i didn't knock her up oh okay i

01:00:05.220 didn't knock her up the the up thing is we were going we were going pretty good for about six

01:00:11.540 months she she wanted to get knocked up and my whole thing was if i'm doing that i'm not

01:00:20.100 contributing to america's single problem you know what i mean yeah yeah yeah so you and so i told

01:00:25.700 her straight up let's take it a little easy we'll get the ball rolling and then you know i i asked

01:00:33.860 around March um and uh you know the fucked up thing is um they they say that the faucet turns

01:00:44.180 off after you get married no no no no no the faucet turns off when you get fucking engaged

01:00:51.180 apparently even though you have baby rabies that was the weirdest shit really so she just

01:00:56.400 stopped sleeping with you well well no it's she wanted to jump right into it I'm talking within

01:01:02.740 the first week she's like hey come over i'm on my cycle let's try this and i was like all right slow

01:01:08.820 the down right and around i i met her in september and she invited me to stay a few times throughout

01:01:20.580 the holidays at her apartment and which we did things about three or four times and then march

01:01:28.420 around i ask her everything immediately turns off and and that's when yeah that's part of the reason

01:01:36.580 why we ended up cutting it off because of all things oh man i'll tell you that the story of

01:01:43.620 the story of why she cut it off is the wildest i stood up to a karen and apparently her

01:01:51.940 extended family didn't like that she she invited me my fiance invited me over for lunch at her

01:01:59.540 aunt's like duplex thing right the rest of her family wasn't there it's just me her she invited

01:02:04.660 me over to lunch she cooked amazing cook really good food um i'm sitting there after we're done

01:02:10.500 eating doorbell rings and i answered and it's the neighbor in the duplex you got like another minute

01:02:15.940 because we have like seven more people on the line so go ahead it's anyway she was like hey

01:02:20.660 you gotta move your car and i didn't fight her and i moved it right so she uh ended up

01:02:27.700 uh i ended up moving the car i didn't fight with the karen lady but it turns out she tried to like

01:02:35.620 get my fiance's aunt in trouble and call the realtor and the landlord and stuff like that for

01:02:42.100 me complying so i went back and i decided to park on that street just like eating my my dinner in

01:02:50.420 the car just hoping she would come out and i give a piece of my mind and her aunt comes out and gives

01:02:57.140 me for it and then all of a sudden my fiance starts turning on me and then when we went to

01:03:04.900 costco she had stopped wearing the ring as a result of that and i'm like if i'm gonna start

01:03:09.540 buying you you put that ring back on and that's how it went downhill wow yeah okay so yeah i got

01:03:17.460 what i got maybe two three times out of it but yeah no just word of warning for the people who

01:03:25.540 want to go down the passport bro route you got some you know you got some wolves in sheep's

01:03:29.780 clothing you know what i mean yeah yeah 100 we hear horror stories about it all the time

01:03:34.660 thank you for calling nick we really appreciate it buddy call absolutely have a good one

01:03:38.100 okay

01:03:40.540 next we have

01:03:43.520 he called in last time but he was a really good call

01:03:46.340 so I'll let him back on we have

01:03:47.660 SoCal Lowbrow

01:03:49.220 coming back up I've seen him in the chat I think

01:03:52.360 yeah

01:03:53.440 SoCal

01:03:54.520 you're on mute odds are he's watching

01:03:58.120 the YouTube so it'll be like

01:04:00.260 5 to 10 seconds guys you gotta turn

01:04:02.220 the YouTube off once you hit the zoom link please

01:04:04.560 hey what's up guys

01:04:05.760 SoCal what's up buddy

01:04:07.280 Yeah. Yeah. I was up. I was yesterday. I talked to you guys. Yeah. So, okay. Speaking about, you know, saying married men, married women, right? I will say this or girlfriends or whatever. I've never been married, but I will tell you this. I was dating a girl for a long period of time and she had a girlfriend that she would, you know, bring around and she was hot to trot to her fucking fault. Right.

01:04:29.660 and so of course you know uh one night we went out we're drinking sat on my lap and i'm telling

01:04:37.000 this girl like do you see this like do you see this gonna give a fuck but anyway as things went

01:04:43.040 on they progressed i broke up with this chick and then i started smashing on her and her name is

01:04:48.460 nancy nasty nancy i started smashing on her proceeds to that she finds out that you know uh

01:04:55.740 you know that i'm smashing her she gets super jealous and then again that's when baby rabies

01:05:01.180 comes in she wanted to have a child with me right after that it is just the craziest thing in the

01:05:06.460 world the thing is you don't need a ring guys the funniest thing in the world is you have to have a

01:05:11.740 sob story if you want to attract women of certain you know propositions in in time and in in you

01:05:18.780 know in your uh in your life i always say that i had two kids and a wife and they died in a car

01:05:24.780 accident and i'm out here celebrating their the anniversary that i dated her or married her

01:05:29.500 it's like crazy and shit in the world and it always works and i get really sad and then you

01:05:35.100 know i start to cry a little bit like i shed a tear in the bar oh really yeah they died they

01:05:41.740 burned up oh my god i swear to god it works no it does work pearl you think i'm both you know

01:05:50.620 if i was at the bar with you and they said did that really happen you know what i'd say i'd say

01:05:55.500 it did it's been really hard for him yeah no no trust me and you have to pin it down by days and

01:06:02.700 you have to go backtracking like before the internet like like oh this happened in 20 2007

01:06:08.700 when i was 25 i was newly married and my kids burned up and she burned up too and they're dead

01:06:14.860 now oh you know i love that you don't need a ring you just say that you had a ring you know what i

01:06:22.140 mean but on the other thing bro this this what i'm saying is this podcast is off the goddamn rails

01:06:29.340 here's the other thing about married women right this happened in vegas in 2017 i met a girl in in

01:06:36.140 in the in the bar she's obviously married with her girlfriends they're you know i'm here from

01:06:41.020 la they're from la and within five minutes that's how easy women are within five minutes i just said

01:06:47.020 hey do you want to f and she's like sure well i had just got to vegas we couldn't even get into

01:06:53.660 the room her room because she was staying with her girlfriends so i swear this is a true goddamn

01:06:58.540 story here i literally went to the parking lot with her and we started to try to open up doors

01:07:05.740 of random cars and it actually freaking happened where there was a ford explorer it was red

01:07:12.220 and the door was unlocked and i put her in there and we had sex in a random car of a random person

01:07:19.740 that i never knew that is the truth that any guy that gets married i mean like you're really i

01:07:26.380 i don't know what the hell these guys are up to but i i don't know what these guys are thinking

01:07:30.380 that really happened i mean women are freaking insane just like men i mean that i was like what

01:07:36.700 i think i'm gonna get murdered here you know so have you ever um did have you ever been in a

01:07:43.500 relationship and the girl's friends try to sleep with you yeah yeah what i said nancy she did and

01:07:49.260 then i did smash her and then of course i sent my ex-girlfriend pictures and videos this many years

01:07:54.460 ago and then of course that's when she got baby rabies so then i was i was i started smashing her

01:08:00.300 and their friend it was the best nancy and my ex-girlfriend's name is christina and she's a

01:08:05.740 total mess now i think that i really contributed to her downfall in terms of her alcoholism

01:08:12.540 and i'm really happy about that see guys we win you know it's like it's the funniest thing in

01:08:18.140 the world you know like can you crush a woman yeah you can

01:08:21.580 man wow yeah no i'm being serious i mean it is insanity i mean are you i have when you go for

01:08:30.940 married women are you ever nervous you're gonna get like shot or something well of course and

01:08:35.580 that's what turns me on as a matter of fact you guys ever heard of a a biker group called the

01:08:41.660 mongols no okay well they're over here in la look them up they're like the hell's angels they they

01:08:48.380 they're like they kill each other left and right so i was messing around with a bartender literally

01:08:53.420 who lives down the street for me and uh she was with a mongo and that's really bad and i would

01:09:00.060 still smash her i was like yes that's what makes it exciting it's like the best thing in the world

01:09:05.340 like am i gonna die tonight am i gonna f and i'm gonna die well i hope i don't see you in the news

01:09:11.260 okay yeah it's but that's what i'm saying like this this show is off the rails pro but that's

01:09:21.100 the thing like there's so many stories like that but it is so exciting you know when you like just

01:09:26.540 do these crazy things i'm like am i gonna come home tonight and then you do and you're like how

01:09:31.820 the hell did i get back who knows you know but yeah like that's the thing guys here's the thing

01:09:38.060 right if you want to get laid without even trying always say that your your daughter and your son

01:09:45.420 and your wife burned up in a car accident they got they crash on the i-5 or you know the i-45

01:09:51.980 whatever the f it is right and you make a sad story about it how do you bring that up

01:09:57.420 so like let's let's role play here so i said okay i'm sitting at the are you gonna open to me

01:10:02.620 or do i open d are you crying and i'm like why are you crying no i wouldn't cry okay probably

01:10:07.580 you're a pretty girl right so this is what i would do i would be sitting at the bar say you come in

01:10:12.140 right you you're wearing you know your dress or whatever and you sit down next to me and i'll just

01:10:17.020 say hey how's it going what's your name you'll tell me your name right yeah and i'm like hey

01:10:21.660 well what are what are you doing here alone well you know i'm just uh you know i'm just having a

01:10:25.900 drink here you know i like coming here i haven't seen you around i'm just celebrating life and

01:10:32.060 then you will tell me oh what are you celebrating well i'm celebrating life you know it's the

01:10:37.100 anniversary of my wife's death what see see that intrigues you right there that's good

01:10:43.740 that intrigues you see bro even you're laughing because you'd be like what and i'm like yeah well

01:10:49.180 you know my wife that's a smooth way to bring it in yeah that's a smooth way to bring it exactly

01:10:55.100 even you're laughing because i will catch your ass too you know what i mean i'm like when did

01:10:59.820 they died? They died in New Mexico, 2007. What? What? And you can't look that shit up. Are you

01:11:08.060 going to go on the microfiche in the library and fucking look up what happened in 2007 and

01:11:13.900 off of fucking Las Cruces, New Mexico? No, you're not. But you're going to be like,

01:11:18.460 damn, this motherfucker was married and he's been single? Yes, I will suck his dick tonight.

01:11:23.740 you know what i mean that's really what it is but it's the truth bro see even you're caught

01:11:31.180 even you're caught right now you'll be like damn that is a good line yeah it is a good line thanks

01:11:36.400 for calling it we're fucking off the rails tonight i think bro obviously this is like

01:11:41.900 one of the best podcasts but i'll let you go but dude this is fucking hilarious we see i even caught

01:11:46.600 your ass all right bro thank you call it anytime buddy yeah okay celebrating life and then he flips

01:11:57.340 it that was that's funny so you go from like a high to a low oh your wife died oh yeah i'd be

01:12:08.920 like celebrating life that's awesome yeah because my wife died

01:12:13.540 all right brad is coming up next

01:12:20.560 brad you better be ready because you weren't ready last time you put in the chat for me to

01:12:25.480 bring you back up and i'm bringing you back up because he's joining how many likes are we at

01:12:32.760 let me see guys we dropped below 500 viewers come on i'm giving you gold tonight

01:12:39.800 i'm giving you gold can we can we like this video you know it's yeah it's a scribe if you haven't

01:12:48.000 already brad it says he's joining hope he doesn't have a struggle internet out here brad it says

01:12:56.900 he's joining well we will let huh it's just saying joining so we're gonna try

01:13:06.420 haven't talked to him in a little bit so we'll what we'll let let's will lisa in

01:13:12.940 and let's how you doing hi can you hear me yep how you doing buddy hey thanks for having me on

01:13:22.020 again hey so what do you what are your thoughts on the topic have you ever had um a wife or

01:13:29.320 girlfriend's friend try to hook up with you while you're dating or married to her

01:13:35.800 yeah so i think it's a matter of validation for any women where um they want to feel like they're

01:13:45.320 so great that they can get any guy um and not just any guy like they can get any guy to

01:13:52.840 abandon their life, abandon their partner for the woman. That's why a man that's taken is just a

01:14:01.640 lot more attractive. So I, with the caveat of one exception, I've never had my girlfriend's

01:14:13.240 friends fail me while we were dating, but after we immediately broke up, there were a few proposals,

01:14:19.080 but i think throughout my life like during the time i was in a relationship compared to when i

01:14:25.560 was single i would get hit on a lot more when i was in a relationship um like significantly more

01:14:33.000 and i think um i didn't have a ring or anything they were just my girlfriends um but i think

01:14:38.360 it's also a matter of demeanor where um i'm approaching them from a sense where like i'm

01:14:44.520 clearly taken i'm not interested and because of that they're a lot more intrigued um so like a

01:14:51.560 interesting story is okay

01:14:55.320 yeah so uh interesting story is uh when i was in college there was um um uh brunettes um that i was

01:15:05.080 hooking up with um and she had a boyfriend at the time um but she would uh i think like the trick

01:15:15.080 to it is i would just tell her whatever she's doing she's like absolutely right so she would

01:15:20.120 say like oh man my boyfriend he's emotionally abusive like i would tell him that you and i

01:15:26.600 uh like we're just friends um and we're not hooking up there's nothing to worry about and i

01:15:32.200 would tell her it's like yeah no you're completely right he's being emotionally abusive here um even

01:15:36.920 though like i've been here throughout this entire story i know what's actually going on we are hooking

01:15:41.560 up um so i think like it just um when reality distorts from their world view you have to tell

01:15:49.000 them that it's the world that's wrong and you're completely in the right here yeah that's funny

01:15:56.200 thanks for calling in calling anytime okay yeah thanks for having me on have a good one buddy

01:16:02.840 i know we have a good amount of callers so i'm trying to

01:16:06.360 brad i'm going to try you one more time buddy i saw you click on and click click off and click

01:16:11.000 back on uh i don't know if it's like your struggle wi-fi or something i don't know but this is the

01:16:19.000 last time uh your call better be interesting you better get right to the point it says joining

01:16:31.080 i don't know what's going on with you brad uh

01:16:36.040 well i'll talk brian one more time how many people are

01:16:43.480 how many people are on the line uh

01:16:46.360 uh there's one more person okay so let me see brian's not responding and so i'm gonna kick him

01:16:55.500 out because i don't know why if you are not going to be here um next daquan i'll let you in

01:17:07.200 i think his name is actually daquan i use that sometimes chad tyrone daquan

01:17:16.580 are you there

01:17:19.240 yeah daquan would you consider yourself a tyrone no i mean i mean not really i'm just a regular

01:17:31.300 young 34-year-old

01:17:34.900 black man from Trenton, New Jersey.

01:17:36.400 I use your name

01:17:38.700 sometimes for a guy

01:17:40.560 that runs through a lot of women.

01:17:42.500 I was just curious if the shoe fits

01:17:44.600 or no.

01:17:45.600 That's what I did in Oklahoma City.

01:17:48.580 What I was telling my girl earlier,

01:17:51.120 I had a friend

01:17:53.200 when I was in Oklahoma City.

01:17:54.860 I had moved in from Trenton, New Jersey

01:17:56.440 about probably 2021.

01:17:58.360 and um i had moved back this year whatever so she was asking me she was like okay when you

01:18:05.820 was back home in jersey on the east coast jersey philly new york was the you know how was the

01:18:12.000 girls and i was like it's hard because you know there were you on the east coast trying to talk

01:18:17.520 to a girl or going home to the club or whatever they just like no so when i had moved to oklahoma

01:18:23.520 city or whatever i was thinking like um i went to the club and i found out you could actually go home

01:18:30.400 with a chick i'm like i thought that was only in movies so um my friend you had a good time huh

01:18:39.680 well yeah well yeah my friend um yeah actually she was like you think you got more confidence now

01:18:47.920 When you go back home on the East Coast, you think, you know, because you got more confidence or something like that, does it trickle off when you get over there and rub off?

01:18:56.560 I said, probably not, but I'll let you know.

01:18:58.440 So she asked me this in 2022, right?

01:19:01.660 So when I got back this year, I had called her and said, remember when you asked me this?

01:19:06.100 I said, the answer is no.

01:19:07.580 It's the same way.

01:19:09.060 Depending on where you go, small town, big city, whatever, it's going to be, you know, you can have different experiences in Dayton, you know?

01:19:16.220 So tell me, have you ever had been in a relationship or married and had a girl's friend try to hook up with you?

01:19:25.800 The answer is no, not at all.

01:19:30.900 Nope.

01:19:32.120 I know people try to make up different stories and stuff, but I'm like, no, no, it's probably a couple of friends I wish I could have hit.

01:19:37.500 You heard?

01:19:40.000 So your girlfriend's friends have always been loyal.

01:19:44.060 They've never done it.

01:19:44.880 oh yeah a couple of them was looking good but they wasn't trying to do it don't do nothing you

01:19:50.620 know i asked one of my friends asked first for a threesome or whatever my girl would have did it

01:19:57.220 but she was like nah she was kind of you know what i'm saying yeah okay it was kind of like

01:20:03.160 it was kind of like that or whatever i had did um you know i don't you know i you know i just

01:20:11.160 basically, you know, probably just

01:20:13.740 been dealing with chicks with good friends or whatever

01:20:15.640 like that. Cool.

01:20:18.120 Well, it's good to hear a different

01:20:20.020 story than the

01:20:21.720 normal ones. So thanks for calling in.

01:20:23.580 Call in any time, all right?

01:20:25.880 You already know.

01:20:27.520 I name-dropped you on my comedy

01:20:29.400 session in New York last week.

01:20:31.800 Oh, really?

01:20:33.140 Is there a video?

01:20:36.360 Yeah, well, yeah.

01:20:37.200 I'll react to it

01:20:38.220 I'll react to it if it's live

01:20:40.420 can you DM it to me

01:20:41.540 yeah but I have to

01:20:43.860 I'm waiting on them to

01:20:45.420 once I pay the $30 or whatever

01:20:48.700 they're going to email it to me

01:20:50.660 I'll probably get it like next week or whatever

01:20:52.840 and then I could DM it to you

01:20:55.180 when I get it

01:20:56.420 what was the bet

01:20:58.200 can I get like an idea of what it's about

01:21:00.080 okay so it was about like this

01:21:03.080 you're going to love it

01:21:04.120 it was about when you was talking about

01:21:05.440 every chick loves bad boys

01:21:07.840 and i put every chick loves bad boys but i put i name drop probably three different races or

01:21:15.140 whatever and what a bad boy is for each race a woman and we all know i mean come on now like

01:21:21.420 when i got to the black part i was like yeah that's the one you all been looking for

01:21:25.060 okay yeah so i basically you know i'm saying i described what a bad boy is to all of them

01:21:32.560 different um you know racist it was inspired by you you know what i'm saying you're my favorite

01:21:38.180 white girl on on youtube matter of fact in the world matter of fact thank you well i appreciate

01:21:44.140 the name drop so send it to me and i'll react to it okay yeah how would i send it to you um you

01:21:51.000 can just do it on twitter pearly things with a z um my i usually check dms so

01:21:56.160 or email you can email it to me just pearly things at gmail

01:22:03.060 it's fine just probably yeah if you put comedy thing in like the like name drop i'll i'll see

01:22:08.400 and i'll react to it in daquan in new jersey and i bet you remember all right i will thank

01:22:14.320 you very much for calling in thank you very much bye-bye oh we're gonna bring up eric

01:22:24.760 eric is coming up always good to talk to him eric what's up buddy

01:22:31.460 hello hey eric how's it going yeah what's all the hubbub bub

01:22:40.880 i don't really know what that means but okay you're too young yeah it's an old bugs bunny line

01:22:50.460 but uh yeah the um it's a good topic because uh you know like a i think that uh you know i've been

01:23:02.280 married twice um and of course you know i'm a cusp you know like boomer gen x guy you know i

01:23:10.440 almost made it into gen x but uh so you know most of my dating experience is from like the

01:23:17.120 late 70s through the 90s and then of course I wound up married and stuff uh I can tell you for

01:23:24.560 at least in my experience um the uh the most the the most you know how do you word this

01:23:35.780 I mean I frequently got the you know the the batting eyes and the flirting

01:23:42.340 when I had a wedding ring on my finger.

01:23:46.800 And it didn't matter whether I was deployed overseas

01:23:50.280 or, you know, out of town for training

01:23:53.540 or even like, you know, with my wife and our friends

01:23:57.440 in some local tavern.

01:24:02.880 It's almost like women have a magnetic attraction

01:24:08.600 for, you know, men who demonstrate that they can commit.

01:24:17.740 Yeah, and if you cheat with her, it's like a double whammy

01:24:22.140 because not only can you commit, but you can also cheat,

01:24:24.440 and we love both.

01:24:26.260 Yeah.

01:24:27.940 Yeah, okay.

01:24:29.140 Well, the thing is, and here's the funny thing is, you know,

01:24:33.080 and this is what always used to strike me was I was like,

01:24:36.200 well if you think that I would cheat with you what makes you think that I wouldn't cheat on you

01:24:42.780 but it's like an ego thing we want to feel like we're better and we're yeah yeah that was that

01:24:48.540 was mentioned earlier from one of the other callers yeah you know my you know I've like I

01:24:54.160 said in my super chat I've cheated I've been cheated on um and I've had like other like in

01:25:02.640 my first marriage, which was from 1992 to 1996, I divorced her because she was financially

01:25:14.600 irresponsible. I never divorced her simply because, you know, she was banging one of my

01:25:21.820 buddies, right? Because, you know, like one of the guys I was stationed with down there in New

01:25:29.960 orleans um i respected him i liked him he was a he was an amazing male specimen and uh his wife

01:25:40.120 was similar and i wanted to get in her pants he took a shining to my wife and uh you know we were

01:25:47.640 drinking in the french quarter one night oh and we decided to go back home and sort of have a

01:25:53.300 foursome except it didn't really wind up being a foursome it was just really wife swapping or

01:25:58.580 husband swapping, whatever. And, uh, so what used to happen, uh, for a while was like, if I was on

01:26:07.060 24 hour duty, I could pretty much count on the idea that him, his wife and my wife were having

01:26:13.720 a threesome. And if he had the duty, it was going to be me, you know, having the threesome with

01:26:20.300 them. And, uh, you know, so like it, it wasn't the sex that broke us up. Um, and we were secure

01:26:26.900 in our relationships it's not like we were gonna leave each other for the others um but uh yeah it

01:26:34.200 is interesting um did it like it didn't bother you seeing your wife get like banged out by another

01:26:40.100 dude well that's the thing i never actually saw it um i don't know how i would you know i don't

01:26:48.560 know how i would have reacted if we'd have actually done a in the same room for some situation

01:26:54.800 but uh when it comes down to it i really didn't you know i mean honestly when it comes down to

01:27:01.200 male instincts and all the testosterone i just didn't care about her that much you know i mean

01:27:07.000 i wanted to bang his wife as much as uh i you know cared about her i guess you know so you know

01:27:16.220 you're like she's expensive anyway if she wants to go yeah yeah she's a financial retard so you can

01:27:24.380 just making my dip dick go limp you know okay so so second marriage was it similar

01:27:33.500 like no second marriage was a nightmare actually um because uh

01:27:41.420 yeah it's too long a story to tell on your show uh but yeah my uh

01:27:47.900 uh, my, uh, second ex had, uh, apparently had quite the body count by the time she even,

01:27:57.080 you know, like graduated high school. And, uh, I was 14 years older than her. And, uh, you know,

01:28:05.400 so I was like in my mid thirties and she was 21 and she was like, Oh, I'm over all that. I've had

01:28:12.360 my phone i want to settle down and i was like sure you do and about you know seven year itch

01:28:21.480 being what it is she uh you know she uh she pulled the pill on the fat grenade and you know

01:28:28.600 it i still loved her though but uh then what happened was because you know it was blamed on

01:28:36.380 a thyroid problem uh it always is yeah she uh a surgeon you know gave her a gastric bypass

01:28:44.900 and within about a year she lost a hundred something pounds and got back into her five two

01:28:50.680 you know five two train and other men started to notice her and she liked it and uh

01:28:59.920 you know but again with her it was the financial irresponsibility and recklessness

01:29:06.020 that caused me to divorce her because, you know, I, you know, biologically, I mean,

01:29:16.340 call me a sigma male, but as long as someone doesn't bring home an STD,

01:29:22.420 I'm not concerned with who else they might be fucking. I never was. I was, you know,

01:29:28.100 i was raised in the 60s and early 70s and uh you know so uh it was like um yeah i mean would i have

01:29:38.340 liked to have a wife like esme williams where every time i come home from work there's a hot

01:29:44.060 dinner on the table and she's totally you know there's total fidelity to me sure who wouldn't

01:29:51.380 want that. But you know how rare someone like Esme Williams is? You know, so here's my thing

01:30:00.920 about cheating. It's, you know, would you ask yourselves if you're in a relationship that you

01:30:09.200 consider to be serious with someone, would you feel any better if they offered their bodies to

01:30:16.380 other people and got rejected

01:30:18.700 because as far as I'm concerned

01:30:22.560 the moment they offer their body

01:30:24.400 the cheating has in fact occurred

01:30:26.320 prima facie

01:30:27.540 it doesn't matter whether they actually

01:30:32.200 the only thing worse about catching your

01:30:34.460 guy cheating is going through his phone and watching

01:30:36.560 and have seen girls leave him on

01:30:38.460 red

01:30:38.780 yeah well

01:30:42.520 you know

01:30:43.020 that's like yeah like that's what you're saying right that's like a meme but yeah yeah yeah it's

01:30:50.840 yeah i mean if uh if you're really hardcore about you know uh fealty in your relationship

01:30:59.120 you know fidelity then you know you if you're a man and you know your wife has offered her body

01:31:07.340 to another man your problem is not with that other man it's with your wife and whether he

01:31:13.340 banged her or not it's the same thing i mean she offered her body to another man you can no longer

01:31:20.440 trust her yeah and it's the same for the wife you know if the husband's out trying to freaking

01:31:25.980 sow his oats all the time you know she has to decide whether it's worth it for her to stick

01:31:32.040 with them um but getting back to the topic yeah i um i think that the most opportunities even when

01:31:40.280 i was in my 20s and i was a lifeguard uh you know in my teens and 20s and then uh you know being a

01:31:47.640 rescue swimmer in the coast guard and all that um you know there there were there's a certain kind

01:31:54.800 of women who goes for guys who fight fires rescue people right or uh you know and so you'd have to

01:32:03.560 like suss them out and find them um excuse me but uh yeah i'm old as a galapagos tortoise so i you

01:32:12.080 know i get frogs in my throat pretty easily the um but the thing is so i used to have to like you

01:32:18.920 know i used to like zero in on those kind of girls but uh once i had a wedding ring on my finger

01:32:25.360 i mean even my wife's best friends you know uh they you know they'd uh

01:32:31.660 they'd flirt and i'm not talking about like you know frivolous flirting they'd flirt like

01:32:40.480 hey you know i i understand your wife's going off to for three days in florida you know so

01:32:46.480 and so is going off to do some training for her job uh what are you doing tomorrow like yeah yeah

01:32:53.860 well you know i'm not doing you but uh yeah it's like unless we can unless we can swap

01:33:00.740 yeah yeah well yeah true yeah the uh well like in one case it was another coast guard wife who lived

01:33:08.360 about 300 yards up and across the street from us who we you know we were very close with their

01:33:14.300 family and uh you know her husband had been a shipmate of mine when you know we were just

01:33:20.780 getting started in the coast guard and um you know if he'd have been anybody else i would have

01:33:27.440 absolutely freaking banged her while my wife was away the guys in the chat sorry i've got limits

01:33:34.340 i'm a man i gotta i gotta i gotta ask the guys in the chat want to know about the mannequins

01:33:39.540 what's going on oh in the back oh they're not mannequins they're dolls uh i've got about

01:33:46.040 thirty thousand dollars invested in uh dolls and their clothes and their makeup

01:33:50.640 um and their wigs they all have human hair wigs which are pretty expensive but yeah in uh

01:33:57.760 2016 was and i'm an old freaking galapagos tortoise kind of guy but 2016 was uh the last

01:34:08.500 time i got involved with a biological woman and um about a year well maybe about three three or

01:34:16.780 four months after um i decided i was i was done you know trying to swim the salmon ladder so to speak

01:34:26.840 um i had been watching a video videos that mainly covered like news and social commentary

01:34:35.780 from a creator called Turf Flinging Monkey, who he's not on YouTube anymore because he

01:34:41.800 got, you know, he got yeeted from YouTube after about five years of, you know, videos

01:34:46.820 there.

01:34:47.640 But he started another channel before he got yeeted showing his doll.

01:34:56.180 And I was like, well, shit.

01:34:57.660 I was like, okay, so if, you know, if a chimpanzee can feel like they've got company with a, you know, a stuffed chimpanzee, I'm like, well, I'm a primate, so maybe I'll get one of these dolls.

01:35:14.460 And so I did, and I dress them, and I do their makeup and the hair and stuff.

01:35:19.160 It's kind of like a Charlie's Angels thing.

01:35:21.820 Are they like, are they sex dolls, or are they just normal dolls?

01:35:25.080 Well, they're sexually capable, but, you know, you're not going to get a whole lot of afterglow from a sex doll.

01:35:33.040 I mean, it's like a fleshlight with the effigy of a rubber woman attached to it.

01:35:38.220 You know, it's just not a big deal.

01:35:41.500 Now, I'll tell you what, I could have been saved a lot of frustration when I was, like, a young man

01:35:48.720 if I, if I'd have been given one of these dolls straight out of high school as a graduation gift,

01:35:55.240 you know, yeah. Cause the pressure would have been off, you know, I was like, well,

01:35:59.660 I'm going to get my post nut clarity, whether she wants to or not. Um, you know, so I can date this

01:36:05.480 one chick and if she rejects me, I'll just go home to my doll. You know what I mean? But I don't,

01:36:10.600 I don't recommend going MGTOW Monk or going 100% into sex dolls

01:36:17.560 if you're a young fella, like, you know, younger than 40 anyway.

01:36:22.060 Yeah.

01:36:22.780 But for me, they're just fun.

01:36:24.500 You know, they're like, like when I was a kid, I used to love statues.

01:36:28.660 We'd go to like the, what do you call it, the history of man in San Diego.

01:36:34.620 And I would just marvel over these amazing statues.

01:36:38.700 and that's uh you know that's uh kind of what i do with these yeah you know i was just i was

01:36:44.760 just curious they're asking in the chat but yeah no i don't blame them i mean you know i got nothing

01:36:50.180 to hide here um my life now uh as i as i you know slide into my elder years yeah um you know it's

01:37:03.640 all about guitars and amplifiers and it's nice to have a you know a representation of a feminine

01:37:10.300 presence in the house and even though even though they can't talk they do have voices

01:37:18.280 I figured out a way to give them each voices and I can always tell which one's talking based on

01:37:24.540 their accent and like sometimes I'll walk out of my grubbies and I'll be heading for the store

01:37:29.440 and one of the dolls will say eric you are not going out in public wearing that shirt

01:37:37.140 and i'm like wow she's so woman-like you know all right well thanks for calling in calling

01:37:46.360 any time all right yeah sure thing uh enjoy enjoy the rest of the shoe all right have a good one

01:37:53.240 uh what um hey you know everybody's got this something so um you know and eric's been a good

01:38:06.940 supporter of the show he drops super chat so i've just never i've that's the first i wasn't

01:38:12.200 expecting that yeah you know i i wasn't expecting either you know i i don't have an opinion on it

01:38:18.120 it either way i'm just going to say everybody's got their something okay um do we have anyone

01:38:24.280 else we can maybe do one more caller yeah uh you guys hit that like button where 275 likes

01:38:33.720 um and shred cloud you're up you have the youtube in the background you gotta turn the youtube off

01:38:41.720 store okay did he make it now he yeah yeah yeah okay all right sorry i was still uh catching up

01:38:54.440 with the bald guy man i get a little ptsd over here you got dolls too no i don't have dolls i

01:39:01.480 mean i had some old gi joes when i sold them during uh the lockdowns and whatnot but those

01:39:07.960 just started collecting dust at the basement yeah no uh no bedroom fun with any of those i was just

01:39:13.880 i was just wondering so um tell me about cheating have you ever had a girlfriend or wife's friend

01:39:21.240 proposition you while in a relationship okay so that's a bit nuanced and i i guess the the short

01:39:29.400 answer is yes definitely uh what the way that it happened it was like intentionally a little bit

01:39:36.600 subtle like uh one of her friends who i actually was pretty adamant about her kind of distancing

01:39:43.400 herself from because i could just tell she was a 304 and she was just like make a lot of comments

01:39:51.000 and uh be really touchy with me when we were around and one thing i found really kind of

01:39:56.280 off-putting is that she would actually kind of like mimic some of my girlfriend's like mannerisms

01:40:02.760 and stuff when we hung out with each other almost like she was like preparing to take her place or

01:40:08.360 something and i would tell i would tell my girlfriend that i just thought she was weird

01:40:13.640 but then on top of that like she she literally started like she started mentioning things to me

01:40:20.840 that were like they were like intimate details between me and my girl so it's almost like bedroom

01:40:25.960 or like pillow talk type stuff it was clear that my girlfriend had shared it with her and then it's

01:40:30.920 like she wanted me to know that she knew oh you got a good review huh yeah exactly and then this

01:40:41.560 that's what it turned out to be so again i never i've never slept with any of my girl's friends

01:40:47.240 while we were together but the fact is that that became a huge point of contention and we started

01:40:53.400 fighting about just like her relationship with her friends and again i'm not i've never been

01:40:58.040 in control i really don't care uh who my girl hangs out with and even honestly if my girl has

01:41:02.040 friends that are are kind of trashed and i just kind of uh i take it into account and then i

01:41:08.100 gauge how serious i'm going to take that girl based on her friends i'm not trying to get married

01:41:12.160 i always tell girls that right away so there's just different degrees of girlfriend that happens

01:41:17.640 anyway so if a girl really has a bunch of bad influences then i'm really not taking her serious

01:41:23.360 but we ended up having a lot of arguments about uh her friends and then uh one of our biggest

01:41:28.840 arguments we just broke up because i was like i i'm done i don't i'm like i'm not here to try to

01:41:33.280 take your freedom away or or like force you to act in a way you don't want to you want to have

01:41:37.840 these kind of friends go ahead and then like a week later that chick showed up at my place so

01:41:42.220 and then did you smash i did smash yeah i was cheating at that point

01:41:50.100 plus i plus i got to prove my point i was like i told you your girl's a hoe so did you tell her

01:41:57.820 i did it i did it because honestly me and uh my ex we ended on decent terms but i i'd be surprised

01:42:05.740 if at some point it doesn't come up like her friend's the type that i think the smallest

01:42:10.700 argument she'll probably bring it up to her but i always go no contact so i have no idea

01:42:14.360 uh what happened after damn so she just showed up at your house yeah yeah showed up and she's like

01:42:22.440 oh uh she she just like weaved some story uh trying to tell me that my ex thought she might

01:42:29.200 have left something there and i was like there's no way because me and my ex actually like we have

01:42:34.280 been talking that whole week and like we had hooked up a couple of times and like i was 100% sure

01:42:39.940 there was nothing there i double checked she had checked her place for all my stuff and i was just

01:42:45.140 like yeah uh there's nothing here but like do you want to come inside for a second and then she was

01:42:51.440 like yeah and then by the excitement that she said yes i was like okay well i'm going to smash and

01:42:56.540 then i'm not talking to any of these chicks again and did you like initiate like what when she got

01:43:01.240 into the house like did you guys just start hooking up or did she need like plausible deniability what

01:43:06.480 well they always want plausible deniability right so she came in and she was like oh well uh

01:43:14.420 she started like complimenting different stuff in my apartment because i actually had re like uh

01:43:20.860 like i redesigned stuff after my girl left because some of her stuff was in there and

01:43:25.880 i i like had gaps in my furniture and that kind of stuff so she started complimenting all my new

01:43:31.140 stuff and then she's like oh you know i've never seen your bedroom and i was like yeah do you want

01:43:35.620 to and she was like yeah i i'd love to check it out you have such good style right so we went in

01:43:41.920 there and yeah basically it just happened as soon as we went in the bedroom she was just like wow

01:43:46.660 this is super nice and then got on my bed and then i basically initiated after that

01:43:50.640 yeah the and then she'd probably if she ever tells a story she's like he was all over me

01:43:57.920 yeah exactly yeah he like uh called me over even like they'll they'll change a little details but

01:44:05.200 And the thing that I think about, sorry, go ahead.

01:44:08.980 No, no, no, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

01:44:10.960 The thing I think about a lot, because I like,

01:44:13.480 I feel like I was red pill before I ever knew what red pill was.

01:44:16.000 Like I, I switched high schools a bunch of times when I was younger.

01:44:20.500 Sorry. I switched elementary schools. High school, I went to one place,

01:44:23.160 but I switched schools multiple times. I really,

01:44:25.900 I got used to having like different reactions from people.

01:44:28.900 So like I had had a experience where I showed up at school and it's like,

01:44:33.860 everybody just hated me because i i guess i like somehow crossed one of the popular kids and

01:44:40.200 suddenly everybody like they just turned everybody against me and this is like day two of me at a new

01:44:45.040 school and then there's like a another year i go to a school and i guess somebody liked my t-shirt

01:44:51.420 and all of a sudden i'm the cool new kid and everybody loved me so i really always like was

01:44:56.420 very much about taking my own perspective on stuff i never took other people's opinions to heart too

01:45:01.200 much so uh when i got to high school it just became obvious to me right away where like all

01:45:07.700 of the girls would like if you ask or if you heard which guys girls have a crush on they're

01:45:12.800 all naming like 10 guys right like it's not it's not it's not somebody for everybody like people

01:45:18.840 could say that to me a million times i'll never buy that because the stats proved otherwise from

01:45:23.600 the moment i started like thinking about it at all like all these girls want either the captain of

01:45:29.360 one of the teams or the guy who's in the band or somebody that's like prominent in our in our like

01:45:37.120 social hierarchy in high school and then i had a buddy uh who like we became friends in our our

01:45:45.360 junior and senior years my first two years i was kind of kind of a nerd i played a lot of sports

01:45:49.760 but then in the last two years i ended up being friends with probably the most popular guy in the

01:45:55.360 great and this guy used to run through whole groups of girlfriends and like he was the only

01:46:02.160 guy that i knew that would date girls older than us which was a big thing in high school

01:46:05.760 and he was always getting the referral and i and just me seeing that i was like i i couldn't even

01:46:11.600 imagine how trifling girls could be until i could just see that once he had one girl give him a good

01:46:17.440 review he would week after week go through the entire friend group and then typically they would

01:46:22.800 would just not be friends anymore after he was done well that'll do it yeah yeah and then and

01:46:30.380 then as I got older I was still I still had some nice guy tendencies so like I was reptile in the

01:46:35.140 sense that I figured most women and and like I understood that like most people are gonna do what

01:46:39.820 they they feel like instinctually which is not the best for everybody overall but I figured there

01:46:44.800 were like like we call them unicorns now but I figured there was probably a decent amount like

01:46:50.620 maybe like 10 percent of women were really good and that if i just kind of like was a really nice

01:46:55.920 guy myself that eventually i'll just stumble on the really nice ones as much as i knew that the

01:47:00.480 majority luckily your friend could go test them for you if you wanted

01:47:04.240 new friends because i went to college in a different state my i didn't hang out as much

01:47:14.100 with that same buddy he stayed in our hometown and like i would be telling new guys that i knew

01:47:19.100 kind of my perspective they're like oh man you're so negative like i can't believe you think that

01:47:24.560 way and then now i'm circling back to the original topic is that i kind of like i recognize that i

01:47:30.660 had good social skills i could talk to girls and like i could create uh interest or whatever but

01:47:35.700 i wasn't good at closing just because i i always tried to give girls the benefit of the doubt so a

01:47:39.620 lot of times there'd be openings where i probably could take them home but i just i i just wasn't

01:47:44.600 even reading the signs. So I kind of got into the online Red Bull thing with the pickup and

01:47:49.860 kind of just listening to guys talk about how they kind of went from conversation to

01:47:54.580 bringing a girl back to their house. And once I kind of got a little bit of experience doing that,

01:48:00.960 I just found that married women were the easiest to pick up.

01:48:04.660 Yeah, because it probably been the longest since they've like smashed someone else.

01:48:10.960 yeah and honestly the biggest um the biggest signifier is the fact that when we go out

01:48:17.380 i'm only going to try to approach women that are just out with other women not with other guys

01:48:23.400 and are clearly acting like they came out to have a good time right in the way that we as men are

01:48:29.460 looking for so what would you even be doing there as a married woman unless you were you wanted some

01:48:34.720 male attention right at the very least if not to also right guy right place right time right go

01:48:40.440 home with something right so I I just found that like it was disturbing to me how much easier it

01:48:47.780 was a lot of times for me to kind of progress things with a married woman than with a a single

01:48:54.580 and I honestly I only one time hooked up with a married woman and it was um without my knowledge

01:49:00.660 like she put her ring on uh the next morning but there's just so many times where it would end up

01:49:06.860 coming up in conversation as i was trying to pick them up and i was just like damn like not only

01:49:11.820 does it suck that this is true but it's like a major inconvenience i'm wasting all this time

01:49:16.280 talking about married yeah yeah well thanks for calling in calling anytime okay okay i appreciate

01:49:23.200 you guys have a good day all right see you and that is everybody um just caught up with the chat

01:49:30.560 i understand why people would recoil at the sight of my dolls and i'm cool with that it's a two

01:49:34.540 billion dollar industry annually industry annually so i know i'm not alone i actually might go um

01:49:40.780 i have a friend of mine said i could interview the the guy who's making the dolls and stuff if

01:49:46.860 you guys are interested we could like deep dive into that i could probably interview people that

01:49:52.060 are buying them um okay you know you know whatever because it's just like the whole corn thing i know

01:50:00.780 people in the red pill say, oh, yeah, men should stay away from corn, but really think about it.

01:50:07.340 If you're a young guy, you want to stay away from these money-grubbing whores, right? And then they

01:50:13.980 say women are a distraction that'll take you off of your purpose. You're supposed to be grinding

01:50:19.180 in your twenties, but men still have sexual urges. So what are they supposed to do? Like

01:50:23.580 not watch corn? Are you serious? I mean, I wouldn't say, I mean, if it's an unhealthy amount, but come

01:50:29.100 on expecting like a a guy through his 20s that's trying to avoid women because they're going to be

01:50:33.740 a distraction to not watch corn come on now yeah all right guys um you got any final thoughts doug

01:50:41.180 mpa uh yeah the best cologne you can wear to get women is wife or girlfriend they can smell it on

01:50:49.580 you and and it's funny because if you're in a especially if you're in a happy i mean it's rare

01:50:55.980 But if you're in a happy relationship or a happy marriage,

01:50:58.880 and it's funny because it happens to you, the happier you are.

01:51:01.820 But then you're so happy that you don't really see the signs.

01:51:05.580 But your wife will, though.

01:51:08.720 All right.

01:51:09.020 That's all I got.

01:51:09.620 Yeah, I personally, when I'm dating someone,

01:51:14.080 I just don't try to have my friends spend a lot of time around them.

01:51:20.080 Because I just even good friends that I like and don't think would do that,

01:51:24.580 i don't really want to test the water so that's you know that's i always just try to not mix that

01:51:30.580 if i can you know i'm not gonna you know anyways guys um make sure you like the video on your way

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Pearl - June 30, 2025

When Women Compete For Each Other's Men (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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