Pearl - Where's INTEGRITY？ It was SOLD to the Highest Bidder! ｜ Pearl Daily

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00:02:17.920 okay so today we're gonna have the same theme so this is the lessons that i've learned from

00:02:25.540 three years of shows. So for those of you that don't know, my name is Pearl Davis and I went

00:02:33.560 from living in London, sorry, living in Milwaukee selling copiers, just a normal woman right out

00:02:43.340 of college selling copiers. I decided to pursue a pro volleyball career. So I moved to London to 1.00

00:02:50.680 play volleyball and while i was in london playing volleyball i decided to start a small show on the

00:02:58.400 side i said you know what let's throw some mics in my living room let me go bring my friends from

00:03:03.780 volleyball and we'll talk about marriage culture and relationships i had no idea that this little

00:03:11.400 show would grow to be one of the biggest youtube channels in the united states my channel before

00:03:17.080 we cleared it had over a billion views i was getting 100 million views a month and overnight

00:03:23.320 i was on pierce morgan i was labeled the female andrew tate um and i i went viral for a whole

00:03:30.280 host of reasons um and this all was pretty much overnight and i ended up interviewing a thousand

00:03:38.600 people at one point when i was in london we had shows six days a week so every day in my apartment

00:03:44.280 we would bring in eight to ten women and men and ask their thoughts on relationships this was a

00:03:50.040 whole host of topics so it would include things like cheating it would include things like 0.80

00:03:59.480 what is a hoe what is a slut you know i'm trying to be more pg on youtube but you guys get the 0.65

00:04:04.600 idea does body count matter there's all these different topics and you know through this 0.99

00:04:09.640 experience I really got a I would say unique perspective on the dating market because it

00:04:18.540 wouldn't really matter who I would interview what city I was in what country I was in because in

00:04:23.840 this process guys I interviewed people in Miami I interviewed people in Vegas I went to LA I

00:04:29.520 I went to Ireland and interviewed people and I noticed a lot of the answers were consistent and

00:04:36.000 the same. There was maybe a little bit of difference based on their background, their

00:04:40.280 culture, but outside of that, it was still pretty similar. So, but the lesson I'm going to talk

00:04:49.040 about actually has nothing to do with relationships, but my experience with YouTubers. So during the

00:04:58.780 last three years dealing with YouTubers and social media people there are highs

00:05:06.200 and lows I have met really really good friends through YouTube and through

00:05:12.660 social media but the problem you get with social media influencers youtubers

00:05:19.460 is many of them do not come in with a genuine sense of curiosity I got into

00:05:25.940 media because I wanted to know what was true about the world. And I thought it was so cool

00:05:30.920 that I could talk to people from different cultures, different perspectives, and

00:05:37.920 figure out what I thought was true about the world. But the issue you get with YouTubers is a lot of

00:05:46.680 them get into it for money. During this process, I had people that, you know, I would have considered

00:05:55.260 friends that made hit pieces on me and these were people I remember there was one video

00:06:00.460 that I saw scheduled right and this was someone I was friends with and I thought it was going to

00:06:06.500 be a positive video and it was a complete hit piece it was so crazy I was like what you know

00:06:12.100 I've had hit pieces from people that had met my family people that had been in my home you know

00:06:17.600 that sort of thing. So in this process, what I realized about YouTubers is that many YouTubers

00:06:25.060 will, money is more important to them than integrity. Money is more important to them

00:06:36.160 than doing the right thing. And it's a very different world because fame, clout, and money

00:06:43.500 are the motivation in social interactions. And you start to get a little paranoid about who you can

00:06:50.440 trust, who you can speak to openly, because you don't know who's going to leak a screenshot out

00:06:57.060 of context. You don't know who's going to say that you said something you didn't say on a show or

00:07:02.620 whatever. And you kind of learn that you have to keep influencers and YouTubers at an arm's length

00:07:08.360 because there is too much money in them turning on each other. And this is bigger than me, guys.

00:07:13.960 It's not even about me. I've seen this for years, you know, two years. Like, let's look at David

00:07:19.100 Dobrik's vlog squad. How many of those people are still friends five, ten years later? How many

00:07:26.320 people have made videos talking about the other? It's pretty much inevitable, right?

00:07:32.220 um so what does this have to do with the story today

00:07:42.000 actually before i get into that the interesting thing is when i talk to my dad about this

00:07:52.240 he'll always tell me one thing is that people are people and you can sort of expect the same

00:07:59.320 patterns of behavior regardless of where you meet those people okay so that's my personal experience

00:08:07.320 with youtubers again there's highs and lows sometimes you meet your best friend other times

00:08:13.640 you meet someone that you'll have a five minute conversation with and they'll i'd even had girls

00:08:17.960 come on the show i thought i was perfectly nice too and i saw a tick tock about me later i'm like

00:08:22.760 it's such a weird um it's such a weird world because anyone can grab a phone and just go off

00:08:29.800 the rails and you know it's crazy so i saw the reason i thought thought of this was because i

00:08:38.920 saw an article apparently youtube has taken down right-wing channels linked to the department of

00:08:49.720 justice russia indictments youtube terminated tenant media and other channels run by lauren

00:08:56.400 chen a conservative influencer linked to the allegations that russia paid for right-wing

00:09:02.020 content in the u.s now as you guys know i have debated lauren chen i don't have an issue with her

00:09:08.720 um i'm gonna read the thing okay so youtube took down several right-wing political channels that

00:09:17.180 have been linked with allegations for the Justice Department that Russian government employees were

00:09:22.420 paying right-wing influencers in the United States to produce content. The Google-owned video site

00:09:28.560 terminated Tenet Media and four other channels by right-wing media entrepreneur Lauren Chen as

00:09:34.740 part of the company's ongoing efforts to combat coordinated influence operations, a YouTube

00:09:41.200 spokesperson said in an emailed statement Thursday. On Wednesday, the Justice Department indicted two

00:09:46.760 employees of the Russian government-backed media organization, formerly known as Russia Today,

00:09:53.180 accusing them of illegally funding a Tennessee-based media organization. The government

00:09:58.800 has not specifically mentioned Tenet, but a quote from the media organization's YouTube channel

00:10:04.700 listed the indictment, suggesting it is the media organization targeted. Some right-wing influencers

00:10:12.260 have subsequently identified Tenet as the company in the indictment.

00:10:17.320 Media business records list Lauren Chen and her husband Liam Donovan

00:10:20.840 as the owners of Tenet Media on Thursday.

00:10:23.900 Chen's contributor contract with conservative media organization Blaze TV was terminated.

00:10:30.860 Prosecutors allege that the founders of the media company in the indictment

00:10:34.360 knew their funding was coming from Moscow

00:10:37.000 and privately acknowledged in messages to each other that their backers were Russian.

00:10:42.260 so my initial thoughts when i heard this story is for years they have been accusing trump

00:10:50.660 of getting funding from russia and we all know that's bs but my experience with youtubers

00:10:58.660 influencers and social media stars is that most of them will do anything for money and most of

00:11:04.820 of them can be bought. So would it surprise me if these end up being true? Not particularly.

00:11:17.420 Tenant Media did not immediately return a request for comments sent through a contact form on the

00:11:23.240 website. YouTube was the main platform for videos produced by Tenant Media and is popular with

00:11:30.820 conservative media personalities, including those who had worked with tenants such as Tim Poole,

00:11:36.220 Benny Johnsons, and Dave Rubin. And guys, by the way, as someone who started a media company,

00:11:42.160 like a network, I would look around at the views from a lot of these media companies that were

00:11:48.880 started. I would look at their views per video. I would look at their sponsors. And something would

00:11:59.560 not add up to me i did not understand how a lot of these people were making money it just the number

00:12:04.600 knowing what i know about the numbers i it did not make sense because there's a lot that goes

00:12:10.360 into running these channels you have producer costs you have editor costs you have production

00:12:14.600 costs and something did not add up so from my point of view i figured a lot of these companies

00:12:23.720 were just not profitable, or maybe they had some big donor backing them. So does it make sense to

00:12:31.300 me that she had a big backer? Maybe, you know, I wanted to make a joke that I can't make.

00:12:42.020 Maybe she didn't know all the details, right? But does it make sense to me that that's a possibility?

00:12:50.260 yes do i think we should wait until the facts come out also yes in the weeks after russia's

00:12:58.840 2022 invasion of ukraine youtube took down rt's channel which has been globally popular on the

00:13:06.280 platform youtube is the only major western social media site still available inside of russia which

00:13:12.160 remains popular but in recent months the russian government has stepped up its throttling of the

00:13:18.420 site, degrading quality for many users in the country. So apparently a bunch of social media

00:13:28.400 stars or social media people. Oh no. So Tim Poole apparently was getting paid $100,000 an episode

00:13:38.060 for tenant media. So I have been contacted by the FBI as a potential victim of a crime.

00:13:48.420 a victim

00:13:53.200 do you think

00:13:57.020 if you got 100k per episode would you label yourself as a victim

00:14:04.380 i don't is that out of touch is that just is that just me i don't okay the fbi believes i

00:14:13.020 have information relevant to an ongoing criminal investigation and have requested a voluntary

00:14:17.620 interview i will be offering my assistance in this matter the first comment is dude don't talk

00:14:23.600 to them without a lawyer oh lawyer up is my official recommendation yeah so it looks like

00:14:33.280 there's a lot of people involved in this dave rubin's involved um i want to say lauren southern's

00:14:39.580 involved too a lot of people were hooked up with tenant media um and i want to wait until the facts

00:14:46.360 come out i do i do think that deleting lauren's channel was a bit premature but again people are

00:14:54.920 people none of this really surprises me um let me look at the chat really quick tim was a paid

00:15:03.480 prostitute what are you guys you guys are funny you guys are funny

00:15:09.880 okay so the next story today let's talk about now i saw a clip going viral of katie perry 0.91

00:15:20.060 on call her daddy podcast so if you guys don't know call her daddy is a popular show

00:15:25.340 where the host alex cooper

00:15:28.900 she she basically went viral for being 1.00

00:15:34.600 i'll just say a loose woman a set up out there you know it was her flying around 1.00

00:15:43.780 dating all these guys giving sex tips that sort of thing and she recently had katie perry on now 1.00

00:15:54.380 if you don't know katie perry for my whole life major pop star really she had some really good 1.00

00:15:59.920 bops back in the day but i think we've always known about katy perry is that she's a little bit

00:16:08.000 i mean this is a woman who went viral for a song called i kissed a girl and i like it

00:16:13.520 i mean she's pretty out there she dated russell brand you know so here we have her just to give

00:16:20.720 you guys contacts what mute the stream uh okay i'll just exit okay um okay just to give you guys

00:16:37.440 oh now i have to i'll put it up later okay man so american idol number one is i can't hear it

00:16:46.160 can you turn it up a little people that i enjoy make it um number two oh that's why is as i said

00:16:52.720 before i'm from santa fe texas um in may 2018 um a gunman walked into my school uh

00:17:04.400 i was in art room one he shot up art room two before he made his way to art room one

00:17:11.360 lost a lot of friends uh eight eight students were killed uh two teachers were killed

00:17:21.440 and uh it's just really been negative man seeing a face had a bad rap here since 2018 0.59

00:17:28.220 what you doing katie our country has failed us

00:17:42.980 now the interesting thing when you get into youtube is sometimes people have very good 0.68

00:17:53.620 reactions for clips but very odd in your normal life like you would not think a mentally sane

00:18:00.580 person would talk like that and this was something that i had to get used to when i first got into

00:18:07.620 media where i'd be having a conversation with somebody and then all of a sudden they look at

00:18:12.260 the camera and say duh duh duh you know and you're just like okay are you good anyway so you're going

00:18:21.700 gonna notice the reactions of people this isn't a normal reaction to a sad story that you weren't

00:18:28.200 there for i understand it's a very touching story totally is but but this isn't how sane people

00:18:34.780 react this is not okay you should be singing here because you love music she's she's like 30

00:18:43.240 something in this i mean that's just not it's true not because you have to go through that

00:18:51.120 i agree you didn't have to lose eight friends so many women cry on podcasts it's like it's like a

00:19:01.600 thing it's a thing i hope that you remind people that we have to change because you know what i'm 0.99

00:19:13.500 game too you can afford security katie you can

00:19:25.900 you can afford it it's not i i know i don't know what your net worth is but i 0.68

00:19:30.460 i guarantee it's enough to get a security guard it's terrible katie it's horrible

00:19:35.820 we have tolerated this for so long for too long it's become a norm and we've got to change true

00:19:47.900 you see they do not know and i hope you can just lead you do me that for myself for my school for

00:19:56.360 you thank you yes ma'am thank you yes ma'am what we go through every okay so the point of that

00:20:03.000 that's not a normal reaction but that's not a normal reaction to a sad story it's not at all

00:20:10.260 so the clip that went viral of katie perry is on call her daddy podcast and the reason i thought

00:20:19.540 that this was important was because this is how a kitchen is clean and you've done act and really

00:20:28.260 i've heard this a lot from women as the way they act in a marriage so let me play this clip

00:20:36.820 if i come downstairs and the kitchen is clean and you've done it all and you've done all the dishes 1.00

00:20:41.460 and you've closed all the pantry doors you better be ready to get your dick sucked i mean like 1.00

00:20:47.700 literally that is my love language i don't need a red ferrari i can buy a red ferrari 1.00

00:20:54.180 you see the dishes i will suck your dick it's not easy sorry so what instead of judging it 1.00

00:21:02.900 of saying right wrong whatever i want to explain what's happening here this is when you're trying 1.00

00:21:09.060 to negotiate desire when a woman likes a guy you don't need to do the dishes i've seen women

00:21:15.700 guys i've seen too much you know i've seen attractive women go for men that literally

00:21:22.500 sleep on their mom's couch i'm not even kidding i'm not this is a real thing but he was attractive

00:21:28.420 enough that she was interested and so what's happening here is she married a guy that she's

00:21:34.900 not actually attracted to and so in order to get desire from her he has to perform he has to do the

00:21:42.500 dishes and do things in order to get that from her a lot of women and it's not intentional i don't

00:21:50.660 think women get married and think to themselves oh i'm marrying a guy i'm not attracted to

00:21:57.620 and the way i describe it is having children for women is like post clarity for men a lot of women 0.52

00:22:05.540 but not all but not all after they have children things change and they realize they're not

00:22:12.660 attracted to their husbands so to demonstrate this i want to show the difference between her

00:22:20.180 when she was married actually i'm going to have her talking first about russell brand

00:22:25.940 so she was married to russell brand in her 20s do you have a type do you have a type

00:22:32.420 no longer attracted to narcissists do you have a type do you so she's saying usually

00:22:37.300 when a woman is saying i was attracted to a narcissist usually that's the bad boy

00:22:44.180 quote unquote alpha guy that they were actually attracted to then i want to show you a video of

00:22:51.860 her when she was married and ask yourself does this sound like a guy that she made

00:22:58.100 do the dishes the way she's talking about in order to get intimacy well look at that that is a very

00:23:03.780 festive uh dress i feel like i'm skiing in aspen right now yeah or an ornament you could be you

00:23:10.740 You could be doing both, that's fantastic.

00:23:12.860 Now should I call you, do you go by Mrs. Brand ever?

00:23:16.700 I do actually, sometimes when people try

00:23:18.580 and get my attention, like if I'm at an event

00:23:20.420 or something like that and they want special attention

00:23:22.840 they go Mrs. Brand and I'm like .

00:23:24.560 Yeah, now are you thinking of changing your name at all

00:23:27.640 or no?

00:23:28.480 Yes, I am actually.

00:23:29.640 Yeah, that's good.

00:23:30.480 I'm in the process.

00:23:31.560 Well that's fantastic.

00:23:32.540 Thank you. 0.95

00:23:33.400 Now you know that Helen Mirren has a crush on your husband? 1.00

00:23:36.620 Yeah, she needs to step off my man. 1.00

00:23:40.740 Do you see the light in her eyes? 1.00

00:23:43.920 Does that sound like she's negotiating attraction?

00:23:51.840 Actually, I kind of don't mind that someone else

00:23:54.020 takes some of the responsibility

00:23:55.220 because it's a lot of work.

00:23:57.860 He does seem like a handful.

00:23:59.620 Yeah, you know, but handfuls are also really fun.

00:24:01.960 There's never a dull moment.

00:24:03.220 Yeah, no, he is fantastic in so many ways.

00:24:06.020 And in there, he's also very calm.

00:24:08.780 Like he's a lot of different things.

00:24:10.720 Yes, he is a smorgasbord of things.

00:24:14.880 You know, we both are,

00:24:17.440 a sense of humor is really important in our household.

00:24:19.920 So I think that's how we like de-stress

00:24:21.820 and, you know, we like to have a laugh.

00:24:23.820 You know, we're just really good friends.

00:24:25.200 And like I said, we have three cats at home,

00:24:27.400 which is really fun.

00:24:29.340 And I think our favorite time

00:24:31.360 is just being at home with our cats

00:24:33.000 and having fun.

00:24:35.520 Yeah.

00:24:36.120 And what are the cats' names?

00:24:38.920 Well, Kitty Purry is mine.

00:24:40.720 And, yes, and Morrissey is his, and Krusty is ours.

00:24:48.500 Yeah, Krusty is Katie and Rusty, but meshed together.

00:24:56.060 You tell me, chat, what's the difference here?

00:24:59.240 What is the difference?

00:25:00.840 I'm gonna pull it.

00:25:01.680 We're back with Tony,

00:25:02.500 and we were just playing Katy Perry during-

00:25:04.820 And so do I think this is something

00:25:09.680 That is intentional.

00:25:10.680 No, I really don't, but I think it's common.

00:25:20.560 Okay. 0.92

00:25:22.200 She is the epitome of rock bottom. 1.00

00:25:24.520 Yeah. 1.00

00:25:25.400 Katy Perry used to be normal.

00:25:26.980 Yeah.

00:25:28.220 Yeah, that's true.

00:25:30.900 And so, you know, this is just a common dynamic that I saw when I was in London.

00:25:37.080 Um, women, a lot of times we'll spend our youth with the men we're actually attracted to.

00:25:47.640 And sometimes as we get older, our selection changes and we don't realize the reasons we're

00:26:01.040 picking who we're picking.

00:26:03.120 Um, but let me know what you guys think in the comments.

00:26:06.200 make sure you like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel and thank you guys for

00:26:11.860 tuning in today and we're going to have another episode Monday at 3 and come on at 2 30 on the

00:26:18.420 audacitynetwork.com if you want to join the pre-show thanks for watching guys and I'll talk to you next time

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