Pearl - February 02, 2026


White Knights Will Defend Women No Matter What


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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

173.61642

Word count

1,739

Sentence count

57

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Toxicity

25

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Hate speech

20

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Summary

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In this episode I talk about how the biggest body positive people in the world are actually men and how they are not as body positive as we think they are. I also talk a little bit about my weight loss journey from 210 pounds to a healthy weight of 170 pounds.

Transcript

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00:00:00.160 What up, guys? Welcome to my coffee talks. Today, I'm traveling, so I should be back
00:00:07.400 streaming either tomorrow or Wednesday. A couple announcements, just personally. I am
00:00:14.060 running a half marathon, so expect me to be crabby the next few months. I hate running,
00:00:19.700 but it's just like a necessary evil, you know? So anyway, so I was thinking about how the
00:00:27.960 biggest, um, body positivity people are actually men. You know, a lot of times when we think of
00:00:36.240 the body positivity movement, we think of women, right? We think of Lizzo. We think of all the
00:00:41.420 women like clapping for each other and applauding, you know, the roles, putting their fat photos on 1.00
00:00:48.560 Instagram. Now you could argue that that's the biggest problem, right? That's the, you know,
00:00:55.280 the women pushing body positivity are the problem but behind closed doors women are not very body 1.00
00:01:02.940 positive at all um women will pick apart your face little by little your body little by little 1.00
00:01:12.280 um they will criticize the way your eyes are shaped i mean clavicular you know how he like
00:01:18.340 roasts um girls faces women do that on the regular um we might not do it as intelligently 0.98
00:01:25.340 you know like we can't name the cancel tilts or whatever bullshit it is um but women will 1.00
00:01:32.420 pick you apart little by little like i don't know if you've ever been in a room full of women just 1.00
00:01:36.360 picking apart some girl they don't like it's crazy it's ridiculous um so women aren't really 1.00
00:01:43.040 body positive by nature now men publicly might say that woman's fat right or they might say i 0.98
00:01:49.280 would never bang that woman or she's ugly she's mid even the men that say you know she's mad i say 1.00
00:01:54.280 it too they're the ones um that are banging these women and not only there is nobody that will 0.99
00:02:02.740 defend a woman harder a woman's looks than the guy that's having sex with her and i know this 0.99
00:02:08.500 because I have male friends. Male friends or whatever. And the men will show me, like I'll
00:02:14.920 ask to see pictures of girls they've dated or whatever. And at times I'm astounded at how low
00:02:21.560 these guys will go. I don't hang out with losers, right? So everyone I know, good job. I just happen 0.98
00:02:28.060 to know taller people. Like I'm tall. A lot of people I know are tall. So in general, like
00:02:37.380 it's astounding that they're banging fat chicks and when I point out that the women are fat 1.00
00:02:46.880 do you know the first person to say they're not fat or oh she's not that bad is men 0.99
00:02:53.180 and this has happened sometimes I'll cross like I'll ask one guy to show me a girl and then I'll
00:02:59.100 show it to a different guy and say do you think this is fat it's like 30 body fat I'm like that's
00:03:03.000 overweight. It might not be obese, right? But that's fat. And they'll, you know, men are the
00:03:07.900 first ones to say, oh no, that's not so bad. And the same thing happened to me. So I used to be
00:03:14.400 210 pounds. I've talked about this a lot. I have felt like my Achilles heel in life was my eating
00:03:19.840 habits. And it's taken me years to get to the point where I'm not afraid I'm really going to blow up
00:03:26.380 because I've put so much work into managing my eating habits but when I got out of college and
00:03:33.300 I stopped doing sports I blew up to 210 pounds I gained this weight really fast because my eating
00:03:38.360 habits were always astoundingly bad but I worked out right so there's like um fat girls that work 1.00
00:03:44.720 out and there's fat girls that don't you can't tell the difference it is worse to be a fat girl 1.00
00:03:48.580 that doesn't work out but I was fat you know the BMI chart said I was fat I'm six foot um while
00:03:54.420 210 pounds is worse than a 5'5 girl. I was absolutely fat. And most of my career, I would
00:04:00.600 say I was chubby, slightly overweight. Like I would, you know, I wasn't obese, but whenever I
00:04:05.920 say I lost a bunch of weight and I show men or even women, but mostly men pictures, their first
00:04:14.820 reaction is, oh, you weren't that fat. And I just keep thinking, fuck you guys. Why did I lose the 1.00
00:04:22.040 weight? Why did I lose the weight if you guys were just going to say I wasn't fat anyway?
00:04:29.380 Like if you were cool at 210 pounds.
00:04:34.700 Isn't that incredible? It's incredible. Anyways, um, if you are looking to lose weight as a woman,
00:04:42.020 I would figure out how to cook first and focus your time at that before you do working out.
00:04:48.740 because I did the working out for years and you can outwork a bad diet but you're never
00:04:54.020 going to have a great body it's just going to be decent and it's going to be really time consuming
00:05:00.820 so now the next story I have of you know men simping for women is you know people come up
00:05:10.720 and they tell me their life stories all the time there's one person that told me the story that he
00:05:17.300 was um seeing this woman who was a single mother and she had three kids um and he just wanted her
00:05:23.060 for like casual and um what was so great about this woman he said she was super feminine that 1.00
00:05:31.680 she should be like studied and so i was asking him like what made her so special in hopes that
00:05:36.580 maybe i could point him to like other women that were like similar to her does that make sense like 1.00
00:05:44.000 similar um you know I was just trying to help him now long story short one of the things he loved
00:05:52.840 was that she was just available she would come over whenever he asked and I thought
00:05:56.580 how is a woman doing that with three kids that's not normal and um I wasn't trying to be rude but 0.71
00:06:03.600 I pointed out that hey um the only reason she's able to do that is because another guy's paying 1.00
00:06:08.020 for it. She was like living with her family and on child support. So I'm like, you know, women
00:06:14.140 always do that. They make their problem someone else's. Now the point I was making was not to
00:06:18.940 disparage her. It was just to point out that like, that's a pattern of behavior. And if she gets with
00:06:24.040 you, that it's going to be the same thing. You're going to have to fix her problems. It's going to
00:06:27.640 be your problem, whatever it is. If she's comfortable having three kids and, you know,
00:06:32.360 forcing her family to watch them all the time, even, even if they love the kids, right? That's 0.72
00:06:37.420 still um you know personally I would prefer to be with somebody that just would never do that
00:06:43.940 you know put that on their grandparents you know I just think when you have a kid it's your
00:06:47.780 responsibility and this guy crashed out he got so mad I couldn't even believe I don't know if
00:06:54.400 this has ever happened to you um where it's like he got so angry that I said that and I was just
00:07:02.240 thinking, you know, I was really trying to help you here. Um, I was like, okay, you know, good luck.
00:07:09.060 Um, and so I realized that the biggest pushers of feminism is oftentimes men. Um, cause men are
00:07:17.220 the ones that enable it and never correct the women. You know, they're the ones that'll defend 1.00
00:07:21.740 the woman that put her ex and child support. They're the ones that'll say, oh, she's not that 0.84
00:07:26.520 fat um you know and i just i just realized this i'm like this is kind of what it is um
00:07:37.240 and even when a woman gets divorced and says that her husband was abusive like the men are almost
00:07:42.960 your worst and like simping white knight men are your worst enemy they're so rude they're so mean
00:07:49.800 um and they go to like these extreme lengths just to defend women it's like for what dude 0.94
00:07:56.620 um yeah so when men are banging a woman they could hate that woman and they'll still defend her 1.00
00:08:04.980 but women don't do the same thing women don't defend women oftentimes take the wife's side 1.00
00:08:12.420 over their brothers or their sons which is incredible um and even more so something I've 0.80
00:08:18.440 noticed is at times whores defend men more than the wives. Like a lot of times wives, they make 1.00
00:08:25.980 these sewing circles where they just all criticize their husbands 24-7. And a lot of times it's
00:08:32.480 because they're very controlling and possessive over the husbands. Where whores, they can't bond 1.00
00:08:39.400 or attach, but in a way they're almost chiller to be around because they're not possessive. 0.99
00:08:45.360 like they're like oh you want to go get married i'll see you never um whores that love you know 1.00
00:08:54.240 whores that are whores not for money but for the love of the game like that just love sucking 1.00
00:08:59.440 um you can kind of see this in bonnie blue and like she kind of does it for money but 1.00
00:09:04.880 you know the type where they just they almost appreciate men more than the prudes i'm not 0.99
00:09:10.880 saying to go marry whores because they'll probably bang your boss or something you know 1.00
00:09:14.800 not saying that's a good idea um but it's almost a trade-off they can't attach so therefore they're 0.99
00:09:20.320 not possessive over you and they don't really criticize you as much at times as long as they're
00:09:25.440 still getting the attention from men sometimes when that dries up then they kind of crash out
00:09:30.080 so anyways i don't know if you guys have had the similar experience but if you have um let me know
00:09:35.040 i these simps are your worst enemy they're so mean and they can never be honest about the truth of 0.96
00:09:43.040 of the woman. If the woman's fat, they'll defend it. They'll say she's not fat. If the woman is 1.00
00:09:49.220 a lazy bum that makes her problems other people's problems, they'll defend it. They will. They'll 1.00
00:09:55.160 defend it till they die. So anyways, guys, like the video. Let me know what you think in the
00:09:59.080 comments. Subscribe and I'll see you next time.