Pearl - Why 50_50 Custody Should Be the DEFAULT” @JustPearlyThings

00:00:00.000 but it's not about equality between men and women it's about does your child have the resources they

00:00:04.720 need to survive no i would say that it's not that's not what it's about it is because either

00:00:09.120 parent can pay child support right but i'm saying it should be 50 50 custody no child support no

00:00:14.240 alimony well sometimes parents don't want custody of their children sometimes parents have a job in

00:00:19.440 which they can't have so right but the default should be 50 50 custody no child support no

00:00:24.000 alimony and that's not how it is i know but it's about what's best for the child like it's not

00:00:28.080 actually a gender debate it would literally be illegal to make it so that only women have

00:00:33.040 preferential treatment in custody and child support women pay child support too well no

00:00:38.160 because the way the laws started it was based off of the tender years doctrine which was a sexist

00:00:42.320 law they do have gotten that off the books but it's still what everybody was trained on

00:00:46.160 also they have the duluth model which is a gendered law because it assumes that

00:00:50.720 men are the aggressors and ppos can be easily filed in family court automatically um filed

00:00:56.400 against men for those watching at home what is the duluth model so it's the way that um

00:01:01.680 the entire lawyers judges they're basically trained using this system

00:01:05.920 and essentially it's just the way it automatically assumes that men are the aggressor

Pearl - September 17, 2026