00:00:56.960Purity, swear to God, that really wouldn't be me, everybody knows, that hoes are gonna ho, keep it on the low, hoes are gonna ho.
00:01:18.460Rule number one. Never tell anybody. Rule number two. The simps are gonna hate you. Hoes are gonna hoe. Everybody knows. Hoes are gonna hoe.
00:01:48.460welcome to the show everybody i got a new guitar anyone cares anyone cares
00:02:11.500and I couldn't believe how much easier it is to strum on that guitar. It's incredible.
00:02:24.080Update. This is my new workout fit. I usually wear a hoodie, and I'm trying to challenge myself
00:02:31.520to wear sweats that look more classy, and it's just not like these sweatshirts and hoodies, so.
00:02:41.500I mean, I'm probably never, like, I just don't know how women have the time to go to the gym
00:02:49.360and do a full face of makeup every day. It just seems like it's one or the other.
00:02:54.800And I really love the gym. I really do. I just got out of a Twitter space. I just went into
00:03:01.360Zerka's Twitter space. And this guy, probably black guy, just starts screaming at me.
00:03:07.260and it just got me thinking i think there's some people that i'm just not meant to interact with
01:09:30.640you go to uh the christian singles group okay and they're obligatorily are the single moms okay
01:09:39.360and they uh had kids out of wedlock i'm not talking the ones that got divorced by the way
01:09:46.000you shouldn't be getting divorced that's another rule-breaking thing there they are and they're
01:09:51.620choosing what they do and don't like about christianity maybe i'll do a little bit of this
01:09:55.160but not of that. And here she is. She was a drug addict and she abused her children. They don't
01:10:00.780have possession of the children anymore. What do the right thing and marry her? I bet the comment
01:10:06.680section is yelling. And you here's here's Bob. He's the 36 year old engineer who's doing he
01:10:11.620believes in Christ. Real, real Christian. He goes up to Becky and she gives him this horror story.
01:10:17.760And he's he's about I'm not going to deal with Becky. Becky's crazy. What is Becky going to say
01:10:22.540to bob just to make it all good you can't judge me why can't she why can't he judge because jesus
01:10:34.860what's the foundation of all christianity jesus died for our sins sins that means
01:10:41.260he forgives oh and you're not without sin either well in that together i'm a woman so it's right
01:10:47.980you're not without sin either yeah jesus forgives and the lord has a plan so they they will go in
01:10:56.380what i would say is abuse that aspect of christianity to sin and sin and sin and sin again
01:11:02.380and that means that you have this gray area where yeah they're going to church yeah they're even in
01:11:07.660bible study and maybe but that at the end of the day and look i know temptation and sin and all
01:11:13.420that and we're only human but it's if they got a lever there man and they're pulling it that the
01:11:18.300screws are coming out because it's all the lord forgets all the lord for some pretty horrific
01:11:22.220and so i i do not envy these young christian men looking for a christian wife because i gotta
01:11:29.580estimate there's less than five percent of the gals in western churches are authentic christians
01:11:35.100the rest are there on that spectrum where they're outright abusing the religion for capital gain or
01:11:41.660or popularity, whatever, to the gray ones where it's like, okay, well, I cheated, but, you know,
01:11:48.080the Lord forgives. Why can't you forgive me? And at the end of these, well, yeah, Christians should
01:11:52.040forgive it. It is like, or not deal with this bullshit to begin with. And the other thing too,
01:11:56.940because I was in a non-denominational church and I didn't like how one, they tell you,
01:12:03.160you can't date outside of your church, but it's all women in the church. So, and it's like,
01:12:09.200if you date a guy i mean this is just one church so i don't know but if you date a guy that's not
01:12:13.020in the church you're supposed to bring him to church and then the whole congregation is going
01:12:16.980to nag him to like lead and be super godly and stuff like yeah i love you know what happened i
01:12:22.160went on this like church retreat once and it was all these old single women and i'm like i'm gonna
01:12:26.160leave i'm gonna go in love elsewhere because i was like i was like i just don't think this is and
01:12:33.280the thing is all of the church elders want to be involved in the dating process so you got all these
01:12:39.000people involved and like they're all really gossipy like like you have to if you want to
01:12:44.500date someone in the church you have to approve it with the elders i was like this is weird i gotta
01:12:47.980go i only because i dated a lot back in my past and i did date christians too the advice i've
01:12:56.200given men for ages now uh especially if they're christian i'm like look it's gonna be easier to
01:13:01.480find a secular girl who's good and quality and all that and converter than it is for you to find
01:13:06.700a pre-packaged Christian girl because the vast majority of people in the church are not Christians.
01:13:11.720They're posing. So already they're being, it's an odd thing, but you have a selection bias against
01:13:17.880finding a good Christian wife in the church because so few people are authentic. There's
01:13:22.800a higher chance they're lying. A secular girl who has no vested interest in being religious or not
01:13:28.640has no reason to lie about it. Well, I'm secular and you can date the, I'm just trying to be
01:13:34.000practical in whatever denomination or sect of christianity you can't date outside the church
01:13:38.480well i don't know how you grow the church i don't know how you do missionary work but more practically
01:13:43.620that's what one of the things my book advocates is you don't violate the rules or the laws of your
01:13:49.640of your church but you have to be practical in the real world and you're way better off dating
01:13:54.200a secular girl and if things happen to go well you say look i'm christian it's very important to me
01:13:59.880But if we were to continue, I'm going to have to have you join the church.
01:14:04.100Are your chances all that much better?
01:14:06.160Not particularly in the United States, but they are better than going into the church.
01:14:11.780I think you're even more better off going, you know, second, third world country where people actually have to suffer poverty and value other human beings and other people's time.
01:14:20.000But right now, the advice that churches are giving, especially within particular denominations and sects where it's like, oh, we got to get involved.
01:28:04.480i think that the standard has to be you have to have raised two kids or something and they have
01:28:13.040to be good people as a woman yeah like to be a certain level of religion like i don't know and
01:28:19.440they like i don't know how to put it like because if you're religious then you would have gotten
01:28:24.140married and had kids like unless you did the nun stuff so you'd have to be like i think you'd have
01:28:29.580to be i agree with you over a certain age i don't want to hear shit i agree with you yeah yeah
01:28:34.460Yeah, in general, but and somebody who's more biblically researched than I am probably says, yeah, there's some rules and etiquette and decorum that Christian women have to follow.
01:28:46.480This shit ain't it going on the whatever pot.
01:28:49.540Like if you were a Christian mother or I was a Christian father and this was my daughter, I say, come here, we're having a chat right fucking now.
01:28:55.820this would this in general is not acceptable uh going on there and acting as unless you're
01:29:02.320arguing the merits of christianity but i'm having a feeling this is just for attention and marketing
01:29:07.320yeah no i mean she is going on and arguing the merits of christianity um but with her boobs out
01:29:12.840no idea to be honest more than 10 more than 20 more than 30
01:29:18.460i don't know probably around 20 over my life okay 20 dates what's the longest period of time that
01:29:26.820you've dated a guy like two and a half three months i think would you call it a situationship
01:29:34.200no have you ever called somebody your boyfriend yeah you're also religious correct yeah i'm a
01:29:38.860christian are you waiting until marriage yeah have you always waited till marriage yes you
01:29:44.280both are virgins is that correct yeah yeah yes no shame just yeah okay yeah incredible do those
01:29:54.680guys get paid enough the who the the host of the whatever podcast like does andrew get hazard pay
01:30:02.700when he goes on because oh they make good money do you know that's why i stopped doing the panel
01:30:09.520shows though i was like there's no money that's enough to argue with women for four to seven days
01:30:15.480a week depending on the day i can't do it i i've been on a hat which i'm grateful that people have
01:30:20.640invited me on it but man i i'm like i'm good for about 10 minutes but then i gotta i gotta leave
01:30:25.660did you see this one let me show you this i just it was incredible did you see this
01:30:31.680i can't see it because of my old eyes um i see this clip all right and why you would do that
01:30:38.800a man do you remember the e-girl war no yeah you have a job
01:30:47.440okay so i started a beef with sarah stock because i have this thing where i point out trends on my
01:30:54.720channel and the trend was always quote tweet women that post their marriage their family kids
01:31:01.200whatever props conservative women always use their family um to build their brand or their boyfriend
01:31:07.120their husband whatever it was so i quoted her engagement ring and i said conservative women
01:31:12.400will always use their marriage to build their brand and this she crashed out she's like pro
01:31:18.080if you stop banging black guys maybe you would like i'm like hey dominican my boyfriend is not
01:31:24.400black he's dominican and um anyway so this whole thing blew up then this other girl comes in and
01:31:32.240is like the ring is too small and then this other girl came in and then this other girl came in was
01:31:38.160like you got finger blasted in the lobby and i'm like morgan you have a video on hpv like you have
01:31:44.560a video about how you have hpv like i don't know if you're one to really shame right and then it
01:31:49.520just got bigger and bigger and bigger right and then she's like pearl you have aids and i'm like
01:31:53.360i do not have aids and so this is why no seriously this is why maybe women should be quiet in the
01:32:02.000church i know this is not this is not womanly christian-like behavior it's why you bitch you
01:32:07.680got hey aids or whatever like my god i know so this started this whole war right and this is
01:32:13.040them covering it on the show now mind you at the time the guy talking is sleeping with sarah stock
01:32:20.720this guy on the top right on the top right this is the guy in the scandal now just listen to how
01:32:25.200they're talking about me while they're doing what they're doing it's just incredible question why
01:32:30.720you would do that as a man but as a woman i think the reason why that's the case uh pearl is because
01:32:36.080some women actually have families that's unfortunate i'm just saying you know maybe
01:32:41.440maybe if you had one you would also you know perhaps be doing that which i think she's angling
01:32:45.600for it question why you and i'm like it's incredible because now none of us do welcome
01:32:49.860to the club art were you even on that show or was he no he's just talking shit and the whole time
01:32:56.220they're just like oh my god it was like a log thing about how i don't have a family and they
01:33:00.680have one and like i'm like how are you this egotistical when you're cheating on your wife
01:33:05.440with this girl and then they asked he asked me to debate her and asked and said he would moderate
01:33:11.360it and he's like oh it'd be fair i like you both and i'm like so it is theater what in the fucking
01:33:18.760setup is this you wanted to moderate you wanted to moderate a debate with me and your side chick
01:33:25.220like that would be fair so but it is but it is theater then yeah yeah it's it's theater because
01:33:33.660yeah i just told i just told and then one of the top like conservative guys is like no they have
01:33:40.220a true faith and i'm like you've got to be kidding me were any are any of those people on that stage
01:33:45.860over 30 at that moment in time they were recording yeah i think so i think i can look up his age i
01:33:51.560think no it's it's all right i just it just you're talking about i'm not christian but
01:34:00.660if you believe in the god almighty right and everything that's in the bible and you're serious
01:34:07.740about this and then you use it and you wipe your ass with it to go and have like go go back to the
01:34:13.280video you don't even have to play just pull it up let me go back here this one oh wait why why is it
01:34:21.460so why is it so colorful and loud and a spectacle is this is this about christianity are all these
01:34:29.760people christians on this panel uh no they just use it it's like a it's just a talk show
01:34:37.240yeah but they use it to like win arguments they put it in their instagrams it's like
01:34:43.500like whenever they're losing an argument it's just like but jesus but i'm married i'm credible
01:34:50.660because i'm married i just the the spectacle it seems a bit much for humble christians right
01:34:59.640for penitent christian it seems it seems i love the way you're i love the way you're analyzing
01:35:04.180this i okay keep going keep going oh but just just because all right step back let's see we didn't
01:35:08.500know anything about this right we don't know who that is i look at this i'm saying like this is
01:35:13.460some washed up jock who got injured his first year playing for a c-level team and now they're
01:35:20.020analyzing some kind of sports analysis show and then i find out these are people having a real
01:35:27.220conversation about something important okay what do you know you don't because you're not old enough
01:35:32.900do you remember the mclaughlin group no uh william f buckley jr you had serious people having
01:35:40.580serious discussions and you have to wear a suit and eleanor clift would wear a dress and i think
01:35:45.220it was an old pat buchanan would come this looks like this is theater this is clown and circus and
01:35:52.100act show i'm not saying you should have a funeral dirge playing in the background all the time
01:35:57.620but this looks to me like the cw or espn which i'm trying to have so it is background and let's
01:36:07.940where'd you get the money for that stuff that's a pretty that's a nice microphone they even got
01:36:12.260ads on the microphone there what is the rift how do they have that backdrop um there's some serious
01:36:18.260much so because there's serious money in this infrastructure and investment i'm gonna imagine
01:36:22.660everything was primarily motivated by profit which i'm fine making money off of stuff
01:36:27.540but if you know i if if you guys were to find out i was not in fact a libertarian but a communist
01:36:33.060and i was just doing this for shtick uh i should lose my entire audience so i i think there's a
01:36:38.660lot you know we're getting back to that thing well how do you tell this seems like jesus
01:36:42.820wouldn't have this much flashing cash around him it just wouldn't happen damn
01:36:48.980yeah i agree solved it did we solve all the problems no i think that now we can do it
01:36:56.900no i was just thinking that was really accurate that was a good point
01:36:59.860no because i think a lot of people feel this way but we can't articulate why
01:37:04.180do you know what i mean like so you did a really good job of articulating why it is we feel like
01:37:08.180this in defense of christians why should they have to say what's up with why is there something wrong
01:37:14.500right why am i getting it why it it should be a personal relationship between you and christ
01:37:20.980and a relationship saying sorry yeah but it and then and then within your own fellowship in your
01:37:27.380community of your church you maybe you play rival softball against the other church across town or
01:37:32.260so it this should not be your religion should not be splattered on the internet and it should not be
01:37:39.700made an entertainment uh thing and it shouldn't be who are the two girls where they were salivating
01:37:48.960over a catholic priest and saying men don't need sex oh my gosh yeah lila rose okay lila rose and
01:37:56.980was there another wasn't there another gal there or uh i don't remember her name well whatever
01:38:02.460heard of yeah but i'm yeah i know what clip you're talking about you're gonna you're going to
01:38:08.540for clicks you're going to dismiss the male sex drive for for clicks you're going to say something
01:38:17.200under the guise of christian because is she a christian podcaster catholic podcast okay okay
01:38:22.660that that's the thing and you're going to say something incendiary as men don't need sex
01:38:26.740your your motivation is not christ your motivation is clickbait is there a way to do a catholic or
01:38:34.940christian podcast without where you wouldn't feel that way yes um god and i'm not christian so i
01:38:44.220don't watch them i gotta imagine there are some sincere real christian podcasts out there that
01:38:49.960would just basically take on the role of a of like a sunday school or a bible study rather um
01:38:56.940i have i want it i have the the rights to podcast pastor i've had it for like 12 or 15 years now
01:39:03.960where i thought it'd be great for just pastors to do sermons on the internet but pastors aren't
01:39:08.200the greatest businessmen regardless i think there are some serious podcasts out there but how would
01:39:14.600you know because this is so much more flashy yeah scintillating and oh my god there's whores in the
01:39:20.260church oh like click and meanwhile there's probably just some mortimer hop schlutz out in
01:39:27.700nebraska who does a regular podcast and it's really good but we wouldn't know about because
01:39:32.080there isn't big breasted cleavage crucifix whores uh on on the show yeah because it's a tough in a
01:39:40.200way it's a tough position because it's like the flashy stuff gets clicks and views but
01:39:44.680if you cared about god then it wouldn't matter to you well and it no it shouldn't and i've listened
01:39:50.400i'm not christian but i listened to some um uh he's a calvinist um rc sprawl i like some of his
01:39:58.080stuff uh but there's not like people in the chat where he's dead but he has some of his stuff in
01:40:04.240his sermons and his speeches on on um they're converted mp3 so i think people are finding it
01:40:09.420out there and i think real christians are looking and say this is a nightmare this is a dead branch
01:40:14.620or a false branch of christianity this isn't this is theater um but they i i don't know why you'd
01:40:21.260listen to it i think people here's another thing it's all younger people uh kind of interacting
01:40:26.860and responding to this the 60 year old ain't paying attention to this yeah no that's totally
01:40:31.580true yeah that's completely true well thanks for coming on cappy it's a pleasure as always
01:40:37.820where can they get your book they can get my book on amazon uh it's searchable now the title is i
01:40:44.380don't want a threesome with jesus the christian's guide to a pro-sex marriage it it wasn't just so
01:40:51.020you know it wasn't about all these dirty fake christian girl influential wars it wasn't that
01:40:56.460they're only one part of it but it is a a basically cut out the background and the politics and
01:41:03.980and everything else to say, what does the Bible say about sex and your obligations to each other?
01:41:08.960And I think it's kind of like this permission slip or a green light say, yeah, and there's no shame
01:41:13.500in wanting to have sex. Here are the rules you got to follow. And so for young men in particular,
01:41:18.900because so many people are going to be hoodwinking you, using sex to get you to commit, but then
01:41:23.820the worst part is you end up in a sexless marriage. So that's the book. I don't want a
01:41:27.900threesome with Jesus. And you should be able to just search that on Amazon. You should be able to
01:41:32.940find it yeah and honestly guys aaron is like one of the best authors i've ever read even if you're
01:41:38.300not a big reader um like it's so he makes it so simple and so easy to read and just gets right to
01:41:45.600the point and does not waste your time like at all there's like no fluff in his book so you should
01:41:50.160really go get it thank you thanks for coming on cappy thanks pearl all right guys guys i have to
01:41:57.380pee so bad so i'm gonna put on my divorce documentary trailer which um we i think we
01:42:05.780under budgeted how much we need so if you you know want to donate there is a gofundme link
01:42:12.180um but we're in the not we're gonna get started on it soon
01:42:17.780but we just did some calculations that it may take longer than we initially thought so we might need to
01:42:23.620uh, uh, like we might need to raise a little, a little bit more. So anyways, if you, if you want
01:42:32.100to donate personally, you can like work with us. It's just pearlythingsatgmail.com. All right,
01:42:36.640hold on. I'm going to put it full screen. I'm going to go pee. Uh, okay. Hold on. Hold on.
01:42:45.760Okay. This clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question.
01:42:51.860do we need men most answered very quickly no because men are useless
01:42:58.740this headline from the hill it caught my eye most young men are single most young women are not
01:43:06.260young men have fallen faster than any demographic in america over the last 40 years it's a different
01:43:11.340world now like we don't need men the way that they used to the future is female
01:43:16.920Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
01:43:25.180A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
01:43:28.160You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
01:43:30.880This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
01:43:34.420You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
01:43:38.520Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.
01:43:41.140It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
01:43:44.100Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
01:43:49.120Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.
01:43:52.800One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
01:43:56.440She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
01:43:59.300Because if me and you were in a business contract,
01:44:01.500you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.