Pearl - September 23, 2026


“Why Christian Women REJECT the Exact Men They Claim to Want” @JustPearlyThings

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2 minutes

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208.41

Word count

560

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15

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00:00:00.000 Look, I've told this story before, but there's, uh, there's one particular Christian woman
00:00:04.480 I know who's now, I think she's 30 now, but you know, she, I was talking to her about
00:00:09.940 this and, you know, she's like, yeah, I just, I'm struggling to find a guy who meets my
00:00:15.520 standards for spirituality. 0.83
00:00:17.680 And basically all these criteria that, that these, these gals are talking about, same
00:00:22.060 thing.
00:00:22.580 And she said, you know, I just, I can't find it, you know, because we were talking about
00:00:26.860 why, why are you still single? 0.60
00:00:28.220 and you know i was like okay because when you date the answer is because women don't like men
00:00:33.820 that much that's the answer women don't like men that much that's it and women say that and men
00:00:40.120 don't believe us but no we don't like men that much just is what it is you know eat that all
00:00:44.660 how often is it that you reject the guy versus he rejects you or you dump the guy versus he dumps
00:00:51.100 you she's like about 80 of the time it's me i i leave the guy i'm like okay why why do you leave
00:00:56.600 him because we don't like men that much that's it that's it she's like well he's those guys just
00:01:02.340 aren't on my level spiritually and so yeah that's that's just that seems to be the problem is i just
00:01:07.060 can't find guys who are at my level spiritually so i told her okay we briefly went to the same
00:01:15.380 young adults group like small group i was in the guys group chat these guys were incredibly
00:01:23.000 spiritual. They're constantly encouraging each other. Every day they're picking each other up
00:01:27.780 and praying for each other. They're throwing Bible verses into the chat. They're talking about like,
00:01:32.120 hey, which events are we going to go to at the church and all of that? How are we going to support?
00:01:35.640 How are we going to help? How are we going to serve? Those guys, every one of them was exactly
00:01:41.260 the thing that she described. And she was right next to them in a life group. And I know that
00:01:47.340 several of them were interested in her. So I asked her, I was like, okay, but what about that guys in
00:01:51.900 that life group that we were in together and she went yeah but so she's trying to fight her biology
00:01:57.740 just is what it is do you want to force women to marry men they're not attracted to or not
00:02:02.060 some people say yes some people say no i mean but then we're not happy anyway we marry men
00:02:07.480 we're attracted to and then they're too attractive and they cheat it's just a circle we're never
00:02:11.640 happy it's just these guys are you know okay that's why you're single it's because you have
00:02:18.300 two lists of stuff that you're looking for, and you're only willing to talk about one of them.
00:02:23.060 You have a worldly attributes list, and those guys did not meet it. But when people talk in
00:02:29.020 public about it, or you ask these girls questions about it, the first thing they bring up is the
00:02:33.440 spiritual list. Say the guys fall short there. That's what's actually going on. And that is
00:02:38.280 happening in every Christian girl's mind when they hear this podcast.