00:10:59.660I mean, there's a black girl in my volleyball team.
00:11:01.480I used to drive like an hour out of my way to pick her up because she was on like, she just always had a hard time getting to practice.
00:11:08.180and i i'm not saying that to make me look i'm just you know clarifying she was one of my favorite
00:11:12.660people i like drove to her college that was a few hours away to go visit her so i don't know race
00:11:19.540just wasn't a big thing for me i never really cared about it i remember having some sympathy
00:11:24.740the first blm protest whatever that was but it just wasn't something i really noticed saw or
00:11:31.540cared about you know i saw a meme and it was like black um women hating on white women
00:11:38.180And white women not caring. And I would just say that would be my I didn't really get white women like I didn't really get black women hate when I was young, but maybe like passive aggressive things at times, whatever.
00:11:53.260now fast forward um i'm in an interracial relationship at one point
00:11:57.720and that was the first time a black woman said something slick to me in public
00:12:05.460it was just i was with my boyfriend at the time
00:12:09.720he's a good guy stop calling him a homeless bum he wasn't but i don't know why you i don't know
00:12:15.880you guys say that but it wasn't true um i hate that poor guy he's getting dragged through the
00:12:23.960mud and i just he was a good guy good person but anyways we're together and this woman
00:12:32.440you know she was a black woman she said something really slick to me and i'm gonna be honest i
00:12:37.080really can't remember what it was so you know maybe maybe you're you won't think this story
00:12:41.720is credible hey you know take this or leave it i just remember my boyfriend at the time was like i
00:12:47.720can't believe she said that and it was just like a thing but i didn't really care you know i just
00:12:52.360i just keep on going now i and when we were together there's a lot of comments on the video
00:12:57.640from like black women in particular just talking about how you just how i was like um
00:13:05.000um, they didn't like the interracial stuff. Like that was, you know, it's always white men and
00:13:12.020black women that just, they can't let that love story happen. You know, it's like, um, basketball,
00:13:21.920football, it's like athletes and white women, a love story, streamers and white women, a love
00:13:29.160story, black streamers and white women, a love story, black athletes and white women, a love
00:13:34.800story black youtubers and white women a love story and then it's like the white the groypers
00:13:44.080it's like the black women the crash out you know what i mean like that's that's the crash out
00:13:51.360but regardless i end up i'm gonna long thank you for the 20 supers cat keeping it real
00:13:57.760he was not a but he was like one of the best tick tockers in the country at the time
00:37:34.000before the show topic the started the main topics relationships black fatigue
00:37:55.100as we're doing the debate he starts sending me other messages
00:37:58.740after i've already said this it's just it's so and this is what i mean you guys are just
00:38:06.340exhausting me more it's so intellectually dishonest no fatty i don't want to talk to you
00:38:14.780i mean like and this is this is the crazy thing it's like i don't want to talk why would i want
00:38:20.680talk to you like ill kid screen record it and release it i'll give you my permission i'll give
00:38:31.400you my permission you could screen record but you better screen record the entire thing
00:38:37.960no and this is the other thing black people do they say they're running
00:38:41.400when they're so unlikable and unpleasant that we don't want to talk to them
00:38:45.720like i mean do you see what i'm saying like it's like you are so incredibly unpleasant
00:38:52.480to talk to that we say okay we're gonna do our own show over here and then we can just
00:38:59.240never talk again it's so great i did say that's why blacks today can't get ahead see that's what
00:39:07.720that's another thing black people do they they use information to try to paint you as racist and
00:39:14.620and to be honest that is why black people can't get ahead because they lack basic decorum
00:39:19.660you're trying to use that as a as a what do you say like a gotcha but i i just said that and but
00:39:26.140that's what they do i just want you to know they hold it over your head if you say anything out of
00:39:30.220bounds it's like forever it's bad faith and thank you for proving my point even further like you're
00:39:35.580doing here when it's black fatigue so you might have talked thought that was the next topic right
00:39:39.980but right but i'm saying show why would i think it's out of bounds to bring up race issues when
00:39:46.860one of the topics is black fatigue because why would and by the way i'd like to say
00:39:52.460the women dating criminals actually was so relevant on the topic because 50 cent has a criminal record
00:40:01.820and who was the woman that dated him a black woman it's just so exhausting
00:40:05.820it's so exhausting i mean and i'm gonna help you guys out of the kindness of my heart
00:40:11.320why would that be out of bounds because we didn't even get to that topic yet so if i just started
00:40:16.700if i just if i just said well you know white man known for supposedly being pedos or dealing with
00:40:22.000older women or trafficking all those kind of things because i'm an adult and that's the thing
00:40:27.040it's like i thought when you entered adulthood it was sticks and stones can break my bones but
00:40:32.800words will never hurt me and i have to deal with adult men that are offended by words
00:40:39.520i i am a woman i'm the one that's supposed to be offended
00:40:44.480and they go they default to tone policing nagging tone policing nagging tone policing nagging it's
00:40:52.080like are you men or are you women i i demand i must be able to talk to you never again
00:41:01.920because you're not pleasant i only talk to pleasant people yeah that's it you know it
00:41:09.360actually doesn't have anything to do with race but i've noticed that black people do it a lot it's
00:41:14.400it's the lack of decorum and being a pleasant person to be around that's what i can't stand
00:41:18.880i cannot stand when i'm dealing with people i get offended oh thank god he said see ya thank god
00:41:25.440oh my god it's like thank you jesus thank you oh thank god they're like we'll leave yes
00:41:37.320anything why have a debate show why host things if you're going to get offended
00:41:41.160over facts data and statistics you know i'm not coming in you had a panelist literally call one
00:41:46.840of your other panelists to coon and it was a slap on the wrist but i talk about facts data and
00:41:51.440statistics and i'm the bad guy like that that is blatantly disrespectful you didn't kick her off
00:41:56.180no no no so when rick big rick said he believed that people be using the facts again he he could
00:42:01.660have said hey you know what that's a good point maybe i should have kicked off the girl that
00:42:08.440called the guy a coon like maybe maybe i that you know benefit of the doubt and you don't back that
00:42:14.400up you you went along with him yep we can't we can't use that you you literally when he said
00:42:18.480No, no. Well, yeah, that's what I said. Black people are so used to being unpleasant amongst themselves. They think other races will take it. And, you know, we just walk away. It's so easy. It's so easy to walk away. It's we just we just say, no, no, thank you. We can just not talk. And they're like, no, I must talk to you. No, we're good.
00:42:43.260like it's a nuanced point i've talked about it on the channel your first your first instance has
00:42:48.980got to be real life right you can't you can't you're going to be easily manipulated what they
00:42:53.500did again out of context i've always said you don't just take data you also have to look at
00:43:02.340real life and make sure it matches and then they'll take a thing and then say oh pearl doesn't
00:43:06.660believe in facts it's just like bad faith you know anyway if anyone can put a study in your face and
00:43:12.060say this but i could give you when we're talking about black crime i could give you real life
00:43:16.380examples i could give you examples in the media and i could give you facts data and statistics
00:43:21.020if you don't have all three i understand having a difference if you're talking about if you're
00:43:24.940talking about tough skin why do you want to kick people off when we bring them to make the show
00:43:28.140for you we're bringing people there again lying even further lying even further again this one
00:43:34.620guy was talking and and this is the thing they they're so used to being bad faith they don't
00:43:39.740even realize they're doing it half the time i say hey i wanted to kick him off this guy off
00:43:45.900because he's monologuing no you said he was out of bounds like did it and it's like okay if you're
00:43:51.740not going to believe anything i say why are we talking let's just never talk again
00:43:57.500let's never talk again let me let me ask you because we set up a panel we set up a panel for
00:44:04.300you like literally so we can build with you you're going to kick the person who's literally the
00:44:08.700contrarian or going against what you're saying you're saying have a tough talking host talking
00:44:14.700down lecturing nagging tone policing yeah and again like white white people again we just want
00:44:25.100and i i think black people should know this because there really is a lot of opportunity
00:44:29.900for black people out there there really is but if you guys can't have basic decorum nothing's
00:44:35.260going to go your way like this is just such unlikable behavior
00:44:43.660such unlikable behavior okay it's like well do you want to be do you want an entertaining show
00:44:49.020or do you want it to be boring and i'm not trying to be i'm not trying to be rude but i got to two
00:44:53.740million subscribers i had debates six days a week when you have someone that's not that entertaining
00:44:57.900over talking everybody it's going to ruin the show that person that person right now before
00:45:03.260now he's saying you don't know what you're talking about again it's bad faith it's it's
00:45:08.300i just want to argue with you it could be you know a pleasant person would say you know what
00:45:14.940that's a good point that's a good point
01:11:38.220i don't know the backstory but someone emailed friendly what happened i don't know i don't know
01:11:44.040someone just emailed it to me like the nerve and i'm like it's always people that come for me i
01:11:48.920mean guys what's really come out about me the last few years i mean the only thing they have
01:11:55.540is pearl dated a black tick tocker that's it that's all they got have i been involved in drugs
01:12:01.260No. Do I have a secret child? No. Do I have a baby daddy? No. Like what, what has come out about me? It's been like five years.
01:12:11.640yeah i don't understand it here's the thing you you have a good work ethic you had a good family
01:12:28.220a good father you're just going to keep going and keep thriving and all these trash talking channels
01:12:35.440that's why anton daniel's left the people he used to work with and now he has like a million subs
01:12:41.180there are people that used to hang out with people like jazz and all them they all left and
01:12:45.860they did better it's just a lesson in futility and it's a lesson in insanity because these people
01:12:52.040keep having these same kind of you know fight club going back and forth the drama channels
01:12:57.680and they never go anywhere i want to mute it myself doug mpa do you want to give the master
01:13:05.880class on how to apologize or should i use grok i can do either or because you gave me you told
01:13:12.040me the one day and i actually was like you did a good job how to apologize because i do maybe
01:13:17.880they'll watch this and say maybe i could learn something so i can say a couple things about
01:13:25.880about an apology first off apology is so rare authentic apology is so rare nowadays that when
01:13:34.280you give somebody one they don't even know what to do about it guys honestly if you do someone wrong
01:13:41.000and say even if they're yelling it's giving to say look it's stop stop stop stop talking stuff
01:13:46.600first off i apologize i'm sorry and watch them just like be taken aback because so few people
01:13:53.560especially black people apologize right then you say look the first step is apology right and make
01:14:01.480sure that they acknowledge that you apologize second off you say look i did you wrong i need
01:14:10.200you to let me know what i can do or say to make the situation better because you don't want to
01:14:16.200sit there and let someone just yell and scream at you until they feel they're done you don't have to
01:14:21.160go through that if you apologize but you say look i want to make this right let me know what i can
01:14:27.000do or say to make this better and and i'll do it so few people do that how would you have
01:14:35.320how would you have suggested ilcan try to get me to come back i would have said pearl look
01:14:43.800um i know that the panel was hostile towards you i apologize for that i know there was
01:14:52.200miscommunications i apologize let's start at step one so let me know what i need to do
01:14:59.000to create the kind of the kind of an environment that you would want to participate in
01:15:03.800and then you have him you would send him bullet points and then he would go to his freaking
01:15:09.880vultures and harpies up and say look pearl has two million subs apparently you can see all the
01:15:15.960traffic so you being there helps his channel say look this these are the rules when bigger streamers
01:15:24.760come up busy you wouldn't want him to do anything that any other large streamer wouldn't want to
01:15:31.080have done you wouldn't set unrealistic rules so he would go back hit his people and say look
01:15:38.520we're gonna have people come on when they're of a certain status you do this this and this
01:15:43.400and then you set another date and try to come on but the first thing you should have done was say
01:15:47.960look you came on you left people were hostile i apologize do you accept my apology and then we'll
01:15:55.560wait for you to say yes and just you know white people are so forgiving we always accept apologies
01:16:01.640i can't think of one time in my life where a white person didn't accept my apology the browns take
01:16:08.440way longer mine i was i'd say black people but the apology i'm thinking of i apologize to myron
01:16:14.440it took me like two years to make it up to him yeah well i would have all you would have had to
01:16:19.880do i'm easy you don't have to say exactly the specifics but your apology to myron it was
01:16:28.120genuine yeah yeah i mean did it follow that format where you reached out and just said look i am sorry
01:16:35.560yeah and it was also yeah i said i am sorry he hung up on me actually i think the first time
01:16:44.040and then like i can't remember because this was kind of a long time ago i just remember i
01:16:49.720apologized and then i i ended up trying to get him on pierce morgan i don't even think i was
01:16:58.280successful but i went to great lengths to try to get him on other shows trying to make up for it
01:17:06.440um i made like videos defended you know and i i can't remember i know the biggest thing i think
01:17:13.320that helped was me over like the course of a year trying to get him on a lot of shows i was getting
01:17:18.200the opportunity to go on and he didn't so yeah and no i i did apologize and i did mean it um
01:17:26.840because i was wrong so yeah name one black podcast where they don't yell and scream at each other
01:17:33.000insult deflect from facts and i didn't realize i was wrong for like a year i think it was about
01:17:38.120a year and then i just kind of was like do you know what myron doesn't trust women no i mean
01:17:44.280this was a fair case there are times where yeah you know i do the wrong thing sometimes
01:17:50.760uh ben thomason on the website on the website says do not let your trauma from post nick f
01:17:58.080drag your morale to unproductive places i think this is very productive i think this is a hilarious
01:18:05.860show yeah and you know i'm i for one i'll say this if you're white it's okay to be white and
01:18:15.120advocate for your own group if you're black it's okay to be black and advocate for your own group
01:18:20.580So I'm happy that this whole black fatigue thing is a thing, because if you are a successful, educated black person, man or woman, you've had black fatigue for a long time.
01:18:32.780I've had black fatigue my whole life, and I hate the fact that I have friends who are intelligent, sophisticated, empathetic, and white, but they feel like they can't say anything because they're white.