Pearl - Why Do Modern Women Have Such Big Egos？

00:00:00.000 What is up, guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.

00:00:08.980 I am very excited to announce we have a new studio coming in.

00:00:13.340 And guys, I was up setting it up this weekend and I didn't do anything.

00:00:18.480 These spam callers will not leave me alone.

00:00:22.060 Okay, I didn't do anything. I watched them set it up, all right?

00:00:24.860 I, you know what, I got there after they were done.

00:00:33.860 Okay, so, do you know what, guys?

00:00:36.440 I was watching a video before the show that was talking about the degeneracy of modern writing.

00:00:42.380 Okay.

00:00:43.620 And I might have to share my screen before I get into today's topic.

00:00:47.180 and basically talking about how women are just reading corn 1.00

00:00:56.580 um let me see i retweeted it so today i learned some of the most popular books on amazon are

00:01:04.760 are corn novels for women which in which the love interest is a monster a demon or other

00:01:10.760 supernatural creatures i'm not kidding

00:01:13.640 a lot of pastors that follow me. So now I think this could be a useful, albeit dark and difficult

00:01:28.500 sermon theme. Yeah. Cause you always hear so many pastors talking about the generacy of corn,

00:01:35.560 right? But they never talk about the degeneracy of romance novels. It's just crazy. Okay.

00:01:43.640 so today uh we're actually going to go over one of my tweets that i i had on twitter a lot of my

00:01:51.020 tweets do um star or a lot of my shows do come from tweets that i think of and this tweet

00:01:59.880 was what is something that you have noticed give women a big ego that they shouldn't have 1.00

00:02:07.880 So, I've been kind of watching the way society is going the last few years, and it just blows

00:02:15.260 my mind how many women have these big egos from doing pretty much nothing. 1.00

00:02:22.840 Now, I'm not saying that women can't have, you know, somewhat difficult jobs contribute, 1.00

00:02:29.580 but I get a little bit annoyed when I see things like, let me see.

00:02:37.880 You know, I start seeing OnlyFans models get treated like celebrities 1.00

00:02:44.860 and talking about how hard their jobs are.

00:02:49.100 Do you know what I mean?

00:02:49.660 Or I see, you know, there's a guy every week that dies so we can get crab.

00:02:58.500 That do crab fishing.

00:03:02.140 And we have people saying that podcasters' jobs are hard.

00:03:06.340 here it is oh this was this was the clip I couldn't even believe what I was seeing

00:03:11.340 all right let me copy this link so put some different tab

00:03:15.260 okay we're gonna share the screen

00:03:25.460 all right let me refresh it so it starts over

00:03:36.340 How you doing?

00:03:37.220 Good, how are you?

00:03:37.940 I'm good.

00:03:38.380 So my name is Jack.

00:03:39.460 I create content.

00:03:40.720 I meet famous people like you.

00:03:42.260 I just wanted to ask you some questions, if you don't mind.

00:03:44.500 Yeah, of course.

00:03:45.380 What's something about being famous that most people don't know?

00:03:47.800 It's honestly a lot of words.

00:03:49.600 A lot of people think that doing this job is easy, but they don't understand.

00:03:55.800 How could you say that?

00:03:59.200 You're selling nudes.

00:04:01.780 And that having to interact with a lot of different people online, also.

00:04:05.780 there's a lot of hate online and people just think that oh if you just don't listen it'll be fine but

00:04:10.940 eventually a lot of times they so she's complaining about hearing mean words and selling nudes and 0.91

00:04:18.000 saying that's really difficult to you yeah and yeah you just gotta ignore the data okay so the

00:04:27.640 best way to do is hate yes and this is what i mean when i look at the comments men will always

00:04:32.880 always a simp, like always. The comment, I met Sophie Rain in Beverly Hills. Thanks for being

00:04:42.460 so kind, Sophie. The top comment, she seems super cool. You know, this is what I mean. Women get 0.90

00:04:48.480 gassed up for doing nothing. The top 14,000 likes. She has a kind personality. DJ Rick,

00:04:56.220 she's super kind and nice you know for doing the bare minimum she gets all this praise for 1.00

00:05:03.500 just being polite she's actually super smart she's made 70 million on oaf without actually 1.00

00:05:11.860 showing anything rude at all congrats to you i mean these are some of the top comments

00:05:18.760 It's just to ignore.

00:05:20.760 Just a second.

00:05:22.760 So the best way to deal with the hate is just to ignore it.

00:05:25.760 Just to ignore it.

00:05:26.760 A lot of people, no matter where you are,

00:05:28.760 take that hate and turn it into motivation.

00:05:32.760 So what's something about you that most people don't know at all?

00:05:35.760 You wish people would know?

00:05:37.760 A lot of people don't know this, but I own a farm.

00:05:39.760 And I love farm animals.

00:05:40.760 Like, when I retire, I want to work on my farm.

00:05:43.760 And I want to take care of my cows.

00:05:44.760 I currently have two cows right now. 0.99

00:05:46.760 I know they're babies. I just recently got them. I'm trying to grow the herd. I'm trying to have

00:05:51.540 at least 20 pounds. Someone else is doing it for her. Okay, but it's like the audacity. And I'm

00:05:56.740 like, how do women get these huge egos? This is insane. So I noticed a trend of women thinking 1.00

00:06:03.200 they're awesome for doing nothing and achieving nothing. And this comes from the modern woman's 1.00

00:06:08.380 ego. The definition of an ego is a person's sense of self-esteem or self-important. Now,

00:06:15.320 I'm not one to say that there's anything necessarily wrong with having an ego. For example,

00:06:21.980 Trump has a huge ego. Elon Musk has a huge ego. Ego can be a good thing and it can be used to

00:06:29.100 achieve and do crazy things. I mean, men use ego to conquer the world. But if you have a huge ego

00:06:39.700 without skills or status to back it up, it makes you an asshole. It makes you a jerk and it makes 1.00

00:06:46.380 you delusional. Enter modern women. Modern women's egos have gotten out of control. It used to be 1.00

00:06:53.920 that hot girls had an ego, but now you see single mothers having an ego, old women having an ego, 1.00

00:07:02.120 Fat whales having an ego.

00:07:05.660 You see overweight women saying you deserve princess treatment. 1.00

00:07:13.060 Ma'am, you're fat. 1.00

00:07:14.440 You're fat. 1.00

00:07:14.900 You're overweight. 1.00

00:07:16.160 How did this happen?

00:07:17.400 How did we get here?

00:07:18.800 Feminism, that's how. 1.00

00:07:20.300 Now the average man has to deal with a woman with an inflated sense of ego, a big mouth, and an attitude. 1.00

00:07:27.720 Now, there's a few jobs I've noticed that give women a huge ego. Nurses, sex workers, 1.00

00:07:36.640 police officers, lawyers, and what I call the nagging positions. Women not really doing anything 1.00

00:07:43.100 but nagging. Management positions, project managers, social media 90% of the time,

00:07:51.020 female preachers, politicians, and political commentators. I mean, even this show, I'm

00:07:55.220 nagging the naggers. This is like a nag back show. This is like you guys nag, so I'm going to nag 1.00

00:08:01.020 right back. All of these jobs are simply relaying and repeating information. They are not solving

00:08:06.740 world hunger, curing cancer, or building anything. They're simply talking, but because women get an 1.00

00:08:12.680 audience and market share, it creates an ego. All of this is affecting dating as a whole.

00:08:18.260 Now, you may say, Pearl, men do some of these positions too. What is the difference between a

00:08:26.080 man and a woman in these positions? Men have egos too, but men are benevolent. They are more likely

00:08:31.940 to think of others and use their positions to benefit their company and society than women. 1.00

00:08:37.360 Today, I've noticed the following things give women a big ego in dating. 1.00

00:08:42.920 sleeping with someone that's out of their league getting expensive dinners out of men

00:08:48.480 you know it's not really a flex to get an expensive dinner out of a man 0.93

00:08:54.740 when he's a rich guy that takes everybody to an expensive dinner I mean I know men that buy

00:09:05.740 whole tables of people dinner because they have money so you yeah you might get an expensive

00:09:11.940 of dinner out of a guy, but you're the fifth girl there that week. Getting DMs from celebrities

00:09:20.980 who also DM everybody. Makeup that makes them go up two points. They think they actually look like

00:09:28.780 that. Instagram filters, shapewear, getting resources from men. It does not make you a

00:09:35.920 better or more desirable person because you're better able to get resources from men. It just 0.96

00:09:41.740 means you can get a buyer. For example, I mean, you can get a buyer for, on Facebook Marketplace,

00:09:50.180 I could have a car with 100,000 miles on it that's got a lot of issues under the hood.

00:09:55.160 And I could oversell it. I could find a buyer because there's always a sucker. 0.99

00:10:02.160 There are paintings. I heard there was literal, like, golden poop that sells for a million dollars 0.96

00:10:08.720 or some crazy number. I mean, just because you can have a buyer doesn't mean you're really worth

00:10:15.480 that much. It just means somebody was willing to pay, but it's still, it inflates the modern

00:10:20.460 woman's ego. Um, for some reason, women get power hungry and it also inflates the modern woman's 1.00

00:10:27.600 ego to rob men, to rob men. They will be dragging a man through divorce court, which is, I mean, 0.99

00:10:36.360 you should, I would say that makes you a, a not a very nice person. But for some reason, women, 1.00

00:10:45.200 modern women get so power hungry and it just builds their ego. Men chasing them. Men will 1.00

00:10:51.300 always chase for sex. It doesn't mean anything. You know, I'll have women say, oh, I went on a 0.99

00:10:56.600 date with X guy, B guy, this guy, that guy. Well, did you, did he stay after he hit? I mean, that's,

00:11:04.000 That's the only way you can really see if he liked you.

00:11:07.360 There's no burden of performance before.

00:11:12.660 Dating app matches, single friends telling women they're awesome and it's all his fault.

00:11:19.060 Modern women's group chats give them a huge ego. 1.00

00:11:22.680 Because you go to the group chat and you're immediately told that you're right.

00:11:26.980 Females simp male friends that are trying to sleep with them, telling them that they're awesome and the guy is wrong. 1.00

00:11:34.000 I mean, how many guys are in line? 0.99

00:11:37.540 They're pretty much in line to bang the woman next. 1.00

00:11:40.940 And so obviously they have to say that the woman's right when she goes and cries to him about an argument. 0.52

00:11:47.160 And it's always the female friendly version of the story.

00:11:50.940 Being able to twerk gives women a big ego. 1.00

00:11:54.440 Having children, being a single mom or taking a man's kids in divorce, struggling as a single mom.

00:12:00.880 They think there's some virtue in struggling for their children and making bad decisions.

00:12:08.180 They're like, oh, I overcame the bad decision I made.

00:12:11.600 I'm like, well, why didn't you just not make it in the first place?

00:12:15.740 All right, so what are the tells that a woman has a big ego? 1.00

00:12:19.080 The inability to be made fun of without crashing out. 0.99

00:12:22.920 I can always tell when you make fun of a woman and she just goes nuts. 1.00

00:12:26.960 A lot of times they can dish it out, but they can't take it.

00:12:29.640 They can't see the world outside of themselves. Me, me, me. Psy language. I'm shame. Insult. Guilt. Need to be right. A string of bad relationships. Constantly being a side chick. Works a stupid job and thinks it's more important than it is. Has a stupid degree in underwater lesbian dance theory and uses it to look down on people. Uses the Bible to put people down and tell men what to do. 0.98

00:12:55.340 now the female ego in the past um you know women in the past i don't think women were very different 0.96

00:13:02.780 but i do think that women had different incentives in the past an opportunity you know 1.00

00:13:08.820 it's not like my grandmother had the opportunity to move to la and drop an only fans instead of

00:13:14.240 having 13 kids i mean my grandpa i mean my grandma was on a farm and my grandpa was also on a farm

00:13:21.280 and they're in school and she's like who's the hottest you know i actually i think the story was

00:13:26.280 my grandpa went on a date with my grandma's sister and then after the date he met my grandma

00:13:31.500 so my grandma she's like i'm gonna steal my sister's man or this my sister's date 1.00

00:13:37.140 you know she didn't have the opportunity to drop an only fans or get a useless job in the city 1.00

00:13:45.680 or nag on the internet. That wasn't a choice. I mean, she was born in her way of, you know, 0.99

00:13:51.860 fixing her boredom was having 13 children. I mean, my grandma on her deathbed said she wished her

00:13:58.860 only regret in life was she wished she had more kids. This was the grandma that had nine kids.

00:14:04.320 And this grandma, I'm like, grandma, how many, how many more kids did you want to have? And she's

00:14:10.940 like, well, like, wish I had 12 of my grandma. Grandma. But, you know, it wasn't like,

00:14:19.840 it wasn't like my grandma had the opportunity, you know,

00:14:24.880 who knows what she would have done if she was born in 2025. 1.00

00:14:27.460 five. Okay. In the past, women did demonstrate their value though. They would not sleep around 1.00

00:14:45.760 as much, kind of. I mean, they hid it better. I'll just say that. I don't really look for all

00:14:55.860 the debauchery women do today. I don't know how we can even argue women didn't do this stuff in 1.00

00:15:01.060 the past. There wasn't different women then. I mean, they were just better at hiding it. 1.00

00:15:10.680 But at least she had the decency to go. I mean, I had an aunt and she said they're

00:15:15.280 throwing it back back in the day too. And she was telling her.

00:15:18.080 my point is this um they just did it at bars but at least there was no digital evidence back then

00:15:28.220 you know what i mean um women would not speak to or entertain multiple men publicly now women

00:15:38.100 you know women have chats about their rosters on the internet they would at least have the decency 1.00

00:15:44.700 to hide it. Women would date with the intent to marry. So after like 18 or 20. All right. So 0.99

00:15:55.740 women's ego in marriage. Women used to marry an average guy and be okay with an average life. But 1.00

00:16:01.580 then, you know, we just have this, you know, inner jealousy that we just want better and better and

00:16:06.140 better. So when we started seeing all these people living like celebrities in the cities,

00:16:10.540 we just had to join um women would value their family over anything else 1.00

00:16:15.500 um women at least would try to be happy to have a family i mean when my grandparents died they 1.00

00:16:24.900 were separated people just separated back then do you know what i mean that's why i'm like these

00:16:30.160 women are different i mean even my grandma that had 13 kids had some feminist talking points or 1.00

00:16:36.200 nine kids. Or I'm like, grandma. All right. Women would be happy to have a family not looking 1.00

00:16:47.640 for their family to make them happy. Women's egos have always been this way. Women in the 1.00

00:16:52.780 past had to hide this because they didn't have the freedom and the power they do now.

00:16:56.420 They did have a lot of power back then, but just now we're like drunk on power. We aborted a third

00:17:01.400 to gen z that's a lot of power women had to depend on a man to survive um but now those times are 0.99

00:17:07.780 gone women also i think it's important to understand women in the past their reputation

00:17:11.840 depended on kind of being a good person no more no more you could be a sex worker a literal person

00:17:18.440 selling nudes and be treated like a celebrity and still have you know get purity points and

00:17:24.900 respect from men isn't that crazy here's a combo i had with emily wilson because i see women getting

00:17:30.920 big egos from jobs that are not as important or special or as needed as the jobs the men are doing

00:17:36.880 and getting overpaid for them so what i see happening is they tend to get these big egos

00:17:41.920 thinking they're doing the same thing the men are but it's very obviously not like when you look at

00:17:46.540 the output of society yeah uh women like great point in the chat um motown stars that was a great 1.00

00:17:54.900 comment that's like comparing crime before and after law enforcement there's always people there

00:18:00.680 commit crimes more just more or less consequences yup beautiful analogy beautiful analogy that was

00:18:09.320 beautiful men make 90 of the world's stuff yeah like our jobs could disappear tomorrow society

00:18:15.960 would run fine but our income is going close to the same why is that we're getting overpaid so

00:18:23.240 i don't know i just i think that personally like if feminists want to be equal they should be equal 1.00

00:18:29.560 you mean go do the difficult jobs to become more equal in that sense correct or if you want to vote

00:18:34.520 i think you should get selective service with it yeah um or if you want to be married right i think

00:18:41.560 there shouldn't be it should be 50 50 no child support no alimony well okay but you'll agree 0.96

00:18:47.560 this is like typical women they're like we want to be equal unless it's something i don't really 0.99

00:18:52.280 like or something that doesn't benefit me we want all the benefits but we want none of the negatives

00:18:56.440 okay so that's pretty much everyday life with women no no exactly so i think like what he

00:19:02.040 i understand his point not really you know he's just doing this for clicks he saw

00:19:06.200 no i think myron believes what like i think he believes what he says to be honest what he what

00:19:11.160 he's talking about is women like megan kelly she's done the trad wife stuff for years and saying you 1.00

00:19:16.760 can do it all and at some point like you you have to cook you know you can't really have a full-fledged

00:19:22.120 media career and have young children like something's got to get well something is going

00:19:26.760 to be sacrificed yeah and that's what i think you were getting at as a lot of the women are having 0.95

00:19:31.560 these full floods media careers and pretending they're trad and it's just not and i'm asking

00:19:37.480 them how the are you a trad wife when you're online and you're working full time yeah okay so

00:19:46.440 dark said she could get it all night but she would have to leave so i could get some sleep alone

00:19:52.120 um okay so we're gonna bring up doug mpa and then i'm gonna put this in the chat

00:20:04.360 if you guys want to call in what are some things that you've seen women develop huge egos from 0.93

00:20:14.600 doug mpa welcome to the show my friend hey how you doing my friend what's going on

00:20:20.440 i love this topic yeah because i just keep seeing these videos and the authority women 1.00

00:20:28.120 like speak with i just keep thinking like you guys are pretty rude for doing nothing jobs

00:20:36.920 like we're all kind of losers right now there's no humility do you know what i mean there's just

00:20:42.760 no there's no humility coming to the table anymore yeah you can see exactly what you're

00:20:49.320 talking about with the job market you ever since the beginning of this year who's been losing most

00:20:55.080 of the jobs all these women that were throwing their big degrees around and saying that they're 1.00

00:20:59.320 better than men and in their air-conditioned air-conditioned offices what's happening to 0.98

00:21:04.680 they're getting thrown out on their asses they're getting cooked yep 100 and that's um and guys 0.99

00:21:13.000 some of the symptoms 0.99

00:21:15.440 I think one of the worst symptoms

00:21:17.760 of a woman with a big ego especially 0.99

00:21:19.780 with the B-dubs is 0.99

00:21:21.580 they talk to you like they can

00:21:23.600 beat you in a fight

00:21:24.800 they talk to you they will talk to 1.00

00:21:29.680 a man like they can kick a man's ass 1.00

00:21:31.540 that's probably the worst symptom 1.00

00:21:33.680 of a woman with an ego 1.00

00:21:34.980 yeah

00:21:37.140 so we have a special guest coming on

00:21:41.620 the show today

00:21:42.320 i don't know how big you are on twitter or how much you're on twitter doug but we have

00:21:49.120 murray hill guy calling in he's got 37 000 followers on twitter and he has first-hand

00:21:56.640 intel on what the women in new york city are doing oh nice let's go let's bring him up 0.94

00:22:01.840 murray welcome to the show what's up what's up thanks for having me pearl thanks for coming on

00:22:09.920 Of course, yes. I am living through the simulation of dating in New York, as you mentioned. Yes, with female egos, but also male. I go after both. But yeah, it's fun. I have fun with it. Let's call it that.

00:22:25.600 this one it says a six out of ten female can have a thousand matches on a dating app 0.99

00:22:31.680 three exes still in love with 50 deuce from bars texting them 100 unread insta dms and one guy who

00:22:39.620 she actually likes and he doesn't like her and they will still complain they're lonely and there

00:22:45.600 are no good guys left yeah so i mean this tweet is real and yes it's making fun of women on that

00:22:54.080 tweet but i am going to give shade to the males here we we are also the issue there of just giving

00:23:00.200 attention to females of all looks sizes whatever you want to call them uh we're all the issue and 1.00

00:23:09.600 dating apps have played a huge part in that where sure a a mid female can go on an app and get 1.00

00:23:17.180 thousands of matches in the first few days like i have friends i've seen their hinge i've seen

00:23:22.920 their dating apps and they have endless options of good looking dudes too well you know well put

00:23:29.340 together good jobs and i was like damn like what the hell is going on here how am i supposed to

00:23:34.280 compete with some of these guys that are six four chads and i'm not saying i'm not that but 0.80

00:23:39.520 can you define terms and give us what you what you mean by a mid an example of a mid woman oh

00:23:46.460 yeah tell me do you have a famous six i can pull up like what is your idea of of a mid for a man

00:23:54.820 and a mid for a woman yeah that's honestly that's a great question uh i mean it's different for

00:24:00.320 everyone so like my answer is going to be different than yours but uh i'm pretty athletic i'm pretty

00:24:06.320 well built i work out every day so i would expect that uh in a female as well so you can almost 1.00

00:24:13.120 knock down three, four points if a girl is not in good shape to me. So, uh, just physically like 0.99

00:24:20.000 that, that's a mid to me, someone that doesn't take care of their body, uh, very well. So start

00:24:25.740 with that, uh, facial features, of course, just someone, I don't know, to me, someone you could

00:24:32.860 look at and say, wow, that's a, that's very pretty would not be a mid, but, uh, go below that. I 0.97

00:24:38.020 know i don't have a specific person in mind right now i think i think zendaya is a six

00:24:46.980 cool i put a five as average zendaya i put her as slightly above average 1.00

00:24:52.180 agree disagree damn that's a hot take uh in in challengers issues she's pretty hot 1.00

00:25:00.580 well because i put eight to ten is beautiful so i i think if you're an eight to ten you can

00:25:05.220 just live off of being hot yeah and like you can start you can star in movies for men so like megan

00:25:12.180 fox all right pearl what do you think sydney sweeney is if you had to give her a rating um 1.00

00:25:17.060 eight body six face slightly above average that's what i put her for facially anyway but body eight 1.00

00:25:23.860 plus and and murray also we live in the age of mids in hollywood you know um they tried to make

00:25:33.380 movies more women and movies less threatening to the female ego it's funny because men can see the 1.00

00:25:40.020 rock with his shirt off and chris evans with his shirt off and feel inspired to go work out

00:25:44.260 but women will see a super attractive woman and feel threatened by it and complain so we're 1.00

00:25:49.700 literally in the age of mids like zendaya is mid but taylor swift is i was about i was about to

00:25:58.260 say her i was going to use her as an example that's my thank you so much that's a good one

00:26:03.140 that's a good one i was literally about to say her yeah that i don't even like if imagine if she

00:26:07.700 was just walking down the street would you even say she's a six like it could be could be a five 1.00

00:26:12.820 no at no ass no body really murray i um she she's from scranton pennsylvania i've been to 0.89

00:26:18.660 scranton pennsylvania right you can't throw a rock without hitting a taylor swift in scranton 0.62

00:26:23.700 pennsylvania yeah yeah i mean it depends on location too like the big cities i'm in new york

00:26:30.660 there's beautiful women when i walk outside so it is you know it's more competitive here uh same with 1.00

00:26:38.020 other big cities if you go to the suburbs like yeah if you see a really good looking girl she's 1.00

00:26:42.420 gonna stand out like crazy okay um so go ahead so can you tell me about you said that a lot of

00:26:50.260 of women have sugar daddies in new york how common is that like if you met 10 women on the street 1.00

00:26:57.060 how many have a sugar daddy i think i saw a tweet of yours yeah there's yeah i i don't even know if

00:27:03.540 i call them sugar daddies but a few of my female friends just have dudes that just pay for like 1.00

00:27:09.860 dinners and uber rides and u.s open tickets even this past week and they're not banging them or

00:27:16.900 anything so like i don't even know what the definition of a sugar daddy truly is anymore

00:27:21.860 uh out of 10 i would say probably like one or two honestly which is super high it's just they have

00:27:29.460 these like simp males that just will pay for anything and yeah i don't even know if they're

00:27:36.180 like getting sex in return it's crazy maybe maybe even more maybe maybe even two to three i don't

00:27:41.300 know and in the past i'd like five six years ago before covid when i was still living here like

00:27:46.880 i never even heard of anything like that maybe i'm a little bit older now but it's absurd

00:27:51.640 so like where are they meet like they're older guys they meet them at like nicer bars that's

00:28:02.860 what i've seen i don't think they're reading them on dating apps because i don't know like

00:28:07.480 again going back to the endless options uh yeah one of my friends met uh call it a sugar daddy

00:28:14.260 at like a really nice steakhouse bar or a hotel uh bar so they're just sitting there posting up

00:28:20.780 and these guys that are all over 40 some 50 years old with tons of money not good looking but they're

00:28:30.840 just spending money and if a girl wants to be like that it's very easy to find just go ahead 1.00

00:28:36.920 pull up to a nice hotel bar go to a steakhouse bar and just sit there and i guarantee if you are

00:28:44.680 decent looking you'll get approached by one of these men well because i guess my question is

00:28:50.280 are they just hoping eventually it'll happen and they give like 10 girls tickets to the u.s open 1.00

00:28:55.720 hoping one will like they'll smash one yeah yes something is genetically wrong with these men

00:29:03.000 that's what going back to my first statement men are the a big problem they somehow are getting off

00:29:09.240 by spending money on girls they may or may not sleep with i think yes in the back of their mind

00:29:15.480 they think uh yes if i spend x amount of dollars on her on this girl thousands of dollars she'll 1.00

00:29:21.960 want to sleep with me but in fact when i was uh i'm not gonna i'm not gonna throw out names but

00:29:28.360 when i was with one of these girls she was like clowning the dude like it was like hilarious this 1.00

00:29:32.680 guy pays for all my ubers this guy's paying for my u.s open tickets and drinks thousands of dollars

00:29:38.840 and i actually got a free ticket out of that but uh yeah she's

00:29:47.480 uh yeah so i i mean the guy didn't know i was there she said she brought like two

00:29:51.880 her girlfriends so she's my friend uh yeah it's funny but uh yeah something's wrong with these

00:29:57.560 guys it's but it's crazy but again it's bad for like guys like me that are actually trying to

00:30:03.880 date like these girls they're good looking too like how i can't really they're they're messed

00:30:08.680 up in the head now their egos are going to be like so high of like wow they're going to expect

00:30:13.960 guys to kind of spend this this money on them and i'm never going to do that it's crazy

00:30:19.320 um do you see the women in new york having bigger egos than other cities have you lived 1.00

00:30:27.960 anywhere else is it like worse there would you say uh see i don't have exact like yeah i've never

00:30:34.880 lived i lived in the middle of jersey and i went to school in pennsylvania and college so college

00:30:39.640 i don't really have any data there but yeah i mean i talked to like my friends in philly which

00:30:44.620 still east coast i have a few friends out in texas uh it's different types of egos i would say

00:30:51.900 i think the options in these big cities are still there but new york girls are very 1.00

00:30:58.460 they're very stuck up and they don't they don't waste time so like i go on a first date either

00:31:05.420 off a dating app or someone i met like at a bar or like a run club which is good for me

00:31:11.820 because i work out a lot um and yeah if you if you don't have a good first date

00:31:16.140 they'll just kick you to the curb like real quick uh it's just that's just kind of how it is in new

00:31:21.340 york and i've learned kind of in other places it's uh not as competitive and girls will kind 1.00

00:31:27.500 of give you more of a chance but it's almost like uh yeah like why would they waste their time on

00:31:33.740 me or someone else if they didn't have a good time when there's thousands of options in their pocket

00:31:40.300 it. So it's tough. I had a tweet one day, it's very easy to get laid in New York, but very tough

00:31:48.860 to find a meaningful connection. And I stand by that with someone that you really want to like,

00:31:54.240 yes, if I dated down, or if a girl dated down, if anyone dated down, you can, you can get married

00:32:00.700 in a year. But I'm saying for people that are high value and want to match with their value,

00:32:08.700 then it's very difficult to find that but it's fun i have fun with it you know it's part of the game

00:32:13.980 and uh i think everyone should you know try and strive for the best i saw a tweet of yours that

00:32:22.140 was i can't remember what it exactly said but you said it was something like you're most likely to

00:32:28.140 get ghosted after you've spent like three weeks straight with them or you spent like a weekend

00:32:33.900 out of state together yeah can you tell me what happened or like yeah no i i remember that one

00:32:43.780 yeah um no i spent like it wasn't even planned i spent um yeah like three straight days with

00:32:51.560 a girl was not planned it was like a holiday weekend uh three years ago it was a while but

00:32:57.000 it was in new york and like i actually thought i really liked her because you spend three days

00:33:02.560 with someone which is absurd it was i don't even know how it happened just kind of just stayed with

00:33:07.560 each other kept making new plans and yeah i actually thought i really liked her and then 0.98

00:33:12.080 the next week she said she wasn't interested in me it's like a shock to my system like holy shit 0.86

00:33:17.900 like how does someone go from like basically dating even though we weren't like we just met

00:33:22.220 uh to saying she's not interested i still don't know to this day i thought about that for a long

00:33:28.880 time like months like what did i do and i never i still to this day don't have answers uh but uh

00:33:36.240 yeah i mean doug chime in there three straight days of hanging out with someone and then i get

00:33:42.320 a text uh like five days later saying hey don't feel connection and it happens it's like a common

00:33:48.640 thing here was one of those where she was staying at your place you guys literally spent like you

00:33:54.800 you spent all the entire three days together did she leave and come back or dude no man no it was

00:34:01.780 it was straight three days like we went to my place we went to her place it was it was not

00:34:06.980 planned it was like a friday to sunday thing we had uh it was like memorial day three years ago

00:34:12.920 so we had monday off and then yeah we just we went back monday but it was like non-stop just

00:34:18.540 partying and

00:34:19.740 not all, like Sunday we chilled

00:34:22.860 and got food

00:34:24.860 but yeah, it was insane

00:34:26.640 I've never done that bad, like I've spent like

00:34:29.040 hours with someone

00:34:30.720 but that was like an absurd situation

00:34:32.480 so I would never do that, I would never do that again

00:34:35.060 Reminds you

00:34:36.840 of that Craig Davis song

00:34:38.380 that Craig Davis song

00:34:39.880 Remember? I met this girl on Monday

00:34:43.000 Anyway

00:34:45.140 you think that she took a break from her ex

00:34:48.500 dude yeah that you're right that's a lot a lot of comments were like that like i was yeah she

00:34:54.040 took a break from her ex got out of her system and odds are the guy has no idea that you blew

00:34:59.640 that back up for three days straight do you know what that reminds me of like crazy that reminds

00:35:05.520 me of like college i feel like college people would get together i wasn't that young i was like

00:35:10.980 i was like 26 years old it was ah yeah i was like i was heartbroken for two days

00:35:18.620 did you ever see her again or no no no i never saw her i never heard of her she

00:35:23.460 i no we i removed her on instagram which i probably shouldn't have done but i was like pissed

00:35:30.280 and young back then uh no like checked in a few times on online but i don't see anything but i

00:35:37.980 never reached out it was crazy is she the one that got away no no not actually it was like

00:35:44.540 it was a fairy tale type story but i still don't know to this day what i did wrong

00:35:51.460 so what about um the guys in new york city you said the guys have big egos there too

00:35:57.700 definitely the high value guys are similar to females in terms of uh moving on pretty quick 1.00

00:36:04.820 and I'm, you know, I'm one of them, I would say.

00:36:07.680 I don't waste time, so I've gone on many, many first dates

00:36:12.040 where I just don't see anything going forward,

00:36:15.340 and I just, I end it.

00:36:18.860 Like, I'm not going to continue to see someone

00:36:20.640 that there's no point to see,

00:36:22.320 and I would say a lot of my friends are the same way.

00:36:26.020 But then again, I have friends on the other side

00:36:27.780 that have met amazing girls

00:36:30.740 that they've gotten married to in New York,

00:36:32.280 so uh but i definitely see my single friends myself included just having yeah we have big

00:36:40.960 egos just we see ourselves as high value we don't waste time and it's not a bad thing but

00:36:49.220 it's tough to it's tough to date here i would say what are some of the things that turn you

00:36:55.420 guys off about the women you're dating that makes you not want to see them again oh man well as of

00:37:00.560 recent the a girl being liberal super liberal that says it ah let's go let's go i don't know

00:37:08.920 yeah that's how i kind of blew up in the past few months uh yeah doug i'm not sure how familiar you

00:37:16.440 are but yeah i just canceled the date on a girl that brought up politics before i even met her 1.00

00:37:22.140 but that i used to not care that much but now i don't know i'm older now and i kind of know what

00:37:29.520 want and i do not want someone bringing up politics either way right wing or left i would be more

00:37:35.360 considerate with right wing but uh yeah if someone asked me if i voted for the crazy democratic mayor

00:37:42.240 i'm not interested in really going out with her but that's been something that has happened the

00:37:49.200 past few months now where i just see uh yeah girls being like super liberal or annoying 1.00

00:37:54.720 and i'm not interested in that uh other things i mean smaller stuff for me like not working out but

00:38:00.800 that's everywhere uh i don't know just be being a little bit older and trying to date with a little

00:38:08.560 bit more intention not trying to mess around too much anymore uh seeing who's serious who's not

00:38:15.840 ages plays a part too uh i i've noticed that the over 30 year old girls are super boring 1.00

00:38:23.040 they just don't excite me and they've been doing this for so many years it's like geez like what

00:38:29.280 what's wrong with you almost uh so i don't know there's there's a lot of things see murray um

00:38:36.800 i talked to because i'm in the dmv and i've i'm having also you know the dv has its problems too

00:38:44.720 when it comes to dating and pearl's just like i tell her these tales of going out on dates with

00:38:49.680 these women and pearls like why don't you just this why don't you just listen to them and why 1.00

00:38:54.640 don't you just she doesn't understand when you're going out with these women especially the ones 1.00

00:38:59.200 over 30 they're so boring it's just like because your time is so valuable as exactly yeah i mean

00:39:07.280 to sit there and listen to these women talk especially when you plan a date you you're 1.00

00:39:13.120 taking them on an experience and they ruin it by talking about the dumbest stuff it's like i 0.99

00:39:18.320 i'd rather be at home by myself working on something that can better my life than sitting 0.90

00:39:23.920 here talking to this broad can you please explain this to brokers you keep saying all you have to do

00:39:28.960 is just sit there and just listen to these women that is not what i said there's something i said 0.97

00:39:36.080 i said don't you want to get laid you're not going to get laid arguing with them like you're already 0.86

00:39:42.880 look there's two ways to look at it yes if you if you're just looking to get laid and they're

00:39:47.440 attractive you might have to sit there and and kind of listen to them a little bit but if you're

00:39:52.780 not trying to get laid and actually trying to get to know them you can kind of know if there's a

00:39:56.920 spark within the first few minutes and yes the spark can build but i've gone on so many dates

00:40:03.780 where i feel like i could just have had a quick facetime or a phone call before i met them and

00:40:08.560 would have known wow i would never have gone out with them so i actually am way more selective

00:40:15.120 than call it my early 20s in the past uh few years that's why i'm not trying to text them

00:40:22.040 if i especially off an app or even if i meet them once i'm not going to text them

00:40:26.120 really that much but uh sometimes i do give a phone call or facetime before i meet someone 0.97

00:40:31.880 just quick just to almost screen them like shit are they really this boring over the phone then

00:40:37.680 yeah they're probably gonna be boring over uh in real life so i've done that before i've but 0.99

00:40:44.020 i've always wanted to ask since you date men and women what is the difference he doesn't date men

00:40:51.860 wait what oh wait oh oh wait i thought you said never mind i i missed something at the beginning

00:40:56.600 sorry very good okay i thought that sorry x that i thought i heard something because on on dating

00:41:04.380 apps i try to tell people how boring women are in person and in dating apps women are just boring 1.00

00:41:11.660 especially the ones where women are supposed to reach out first it's like come on bumble 1.00

00:41:16.960 yeah yeah women have no riz they they are pretty boring but you know as they say they're looking 1.00

00:41:25.280 for the man to take charge but even when we do take charge half the time they don't even answer

00:41:29.920 so it's tough how many dates um do you go on a week usually and what would you say the average

00:41:38.440 woman in New York? How many do they go on a week? It really depends on what's going on in my week.

00:41:44.040 So I prioritize work and kind of other stuff, scheduling. So I try to not go on more than two,

00:41:51.920 honestly. In the past, I have gone on more in a week and it just gets exhausting. So

00:41:56.740 really just one, max two, sometimes zero. Occasionally, if I have an easier week at work,

00:42:03.920 then i'll go on three maybe four but i would say one to two uh girls easier they have endless 1.00

00:42:11.040 options and their dates are free i have friends that are going on five plus i have friends that

00:42:17.420 are going on seven uh again depends on kind of where they're at in their life uh the 30 year

00:42:23.860 olds they they're going hard they are like desperate and 30 plus uh they're like looking for

00:42:30.000 love very intensely i have a few friends that are going on every day every sometimes multiple a day

00:42:39.220 which is absurd and i i yell at them but yeah what percent what percent of guys did they actually

00:42:46.080 hook up with if they're going on that many dates ah the older ones yeah we can get into that the

00:42:52.700 older ones they refuse to hook up on first dates because of their they did that in their younger

00:42:59.100 age and i hate that excuse i've gotten that myself in person and i've actually flipped it on them 0.99

00:43:06.080 to actually hook up with them like literally freaking mind fuck them like why would it's 0.98

00:43:12.840 disrespectful to me that you would do that in in your previous self and not do it to me today 0.99

00:43:18.220 like they make them feel bad about themselves uh which is probably not the best idea but

00:43:23.820 it works um i don't know a percentage depends on the age i would say younger uh one out of every

00:43:32.240 three 33 percent older probably one out of every like five six and how many like how many guys

00:43:42.360 would you say they go through in a month uh one to two honestly there's not i don't think

00:43:52.680 too many more if they're they're good if they're a good girl but there's outliers on both sides

00:44:00.320 one to two if they're active they're going on dates there's you know drinking and going out

00:44:06.460 i think that's a fair number i know you're probably expecting higher but i don't think

00:44:11.620 it's that much higher no i'd say no i'd say that's about right there's like probably 20

00:44:18.820 percent of women that go like ham i would say like yeah high sex drives or like they just 1.00

00:44:26.440 i don't know there's you get that on occasion but i wouldn't say that's normal it depends on age it

00:44:31.920 depends on age i think new york is a very high hookup culture and if like i said if you want it

00:44:39.000 you can get it pretty easily like i could if i really wanted to today's tuesday if i did a hard

00:44:46.220 swipe on hinge tonight like i'm talking like a hundred girls i could probably hook up with one 1.00

00:44:52.220 by the weekend now would it be a high quality one maybe not but it's pretty easy yeah um

00:45:04.940 i've heard some guys say it's hard to get women to stick around have you had that problem 1.00

00:45:10.300 yeah like hook up with them easy but they like getting them to stay is like the harder part go

00:45:14.940 100 that goes with that kind of long-term connection uh yeah i mean one night stands are

00:45:23.260 they're sadly common in new york i've been a part of too many of them and i've seen friends been a

00:45:30.060 part of them uh goes back to the number of options and i don't know it's it's weird like sometimes

00:45:37.900 you think you have a great night and then you you both just never reach out it's like a mind game

00:45:43.740 i think people play a lot of games here where they don't like who should reach out first

00:45:50.620 they don't admit their feelings if they like someone it's very challenging uh in new york

00:45:56.700 it's a tough place to date to truly build a connection uh i've struggled with it the past

00:46:04.380 six years but yeah it's that's very common i'm not sure if it's coming where you where you guys are

00:46:10.300 of it it's it's tough i think keeps the money around the worst game is that game that women 1.00

00:46:18.120 play when the check comes and they act like they're reaching for their purse knowing dang

00:46:24.720 well that they're not going to pay the bill but they want you to grab it and say oh i got it and

00:46:28.960 look oh okay he has it so so i shouldn't feel bad about him paying for dinner have you had that

00:46:35.040 happen i have a lot it's so dumb so actually yeah i would say in the past like two years i 0.91

00:46:43.620 it is dumb and i'm not if i'm taking a girl out if i ask her out uh well one i'm not taking them 0.73

00:46:51.000 out to dinner on a first date or a second date uh so if i'm going out for drinks uh if i ask them 0.95

00:46:57.920 i will pay and the date goes well like nothing goes too crazy uh but there's a big thing with

00:47:03.660 me if they don't say the words thank you or something along those lines i would never talk

00:47:08.800 to them again i don't know if that's a hot take but i i i kind of expect that at least to that

00:47:16.680 for them to say the words thank you or to show some type of gratitude that uh you know it was

00:47:22.120 worth their time what do you think of that pearl no i agree i think there's like basic just being

00:47:28.840 polite so it's pretty not polite no yeah i remember i had a really good date with a girl

00:47:34.620 maybe like six months or six months ago and i would i would have loved to see her again the

00:47:41.160 check came uh bills are expensive in new york two three drinks sat up i paid because i thought you

00:47:47.020 know i was going well and she didn't say thank you she didn't text me thank you and i never saw

00:47:53.160 again uh so it's pretty disappointing honestly but i don't still that's that's an ego it's got

00:48:01.000 to be an ego thing of she expected me to pay and she didn't even need to say thank you

00:48:08.040 or just bad parenting or something i don't even know yeah so top three things that you would say

00:48:16.120 build women's egos to be super big in new york city 1.00

00:48:19.480 yeah number one is the attention so going back to that tweet they just have unlimited

00:48:26.100 attention from guys they don't even like uh but they know that so it's just building there you go

00:48:35.120 um i mean going off of that number two uh almost like expectations so yeah doug almost what you 0.99

00:48:47.520 said they they expect guys to pay for first dates second dates dinners now these damn sugar daddies 1.00

00:48:55.360 in the in the play like they're expecting us open tickets and expensive ass meals and sports games 0.99

00:49:03.240 whatever uh so i'm trying to think of a third one attention expectations uh i don't know i would say

00:49:15.040 like just the culture of new york just moving so fast-paced uh i'm not sure how really lies to ego

00:49:20.900 but a lot of these girls have like boss bossy girl jobs uh they built up their ego at work 1.00

00:49:28.620 they get promoted or whatever uh something along those lines of work related where their

00:49:36.180 their egos are building up at work and they're kind of expecting that uh in dating that the guy

00:49:40.800 has to have a really good job and and goes back to expectations of treating them well not sure how

00:49:46.200 to exactly word it but if that makes sense yeah that makes perfect sense um doug mpa you got any

00:49:53.020 other questions for him what are some of the biggest signs so if your friend brings a girl

00:49:59.300 over to hang out and she has a big ego like what what what would be the signs where you could let's 1.00

00:50:08.960 say i i were to bring a girl over to your house and you were to be sizing her up to see if she 1.00

00:50:13.720 has a bigger ego like what would you be looking for to be like oh man then you tell me i'd be

00:50:18.580 like hey what do you think of that girl and what if she had a big ego like what would you why what 1.00

00:50:25.200 would you be looking for and what would you tell me would be signs of it yeah no that's that's a

00:50:30.840 great question um i'm just looking and i'm not looking for anything specific one if she just 0.97

00:50:36.560 gets along with everyone that's there one gets along with you of course uh is it's like nice

00:50:42.820 like says the word thank you if i for even being at my place or if i bring her something provide

00:50:49.320 stuff for the party or whatever is going on uh if she doesn't provide that then yeah i know she

00:50:54.280 has an ego right there she's kind of just that expectation that everything is going to be gifted 0.53

00:51:00.420 to her um a lot of girls are annoying i don't know if that has anything to do with ego but 1.00

00:51:06.420 uh if they're if they're complaining as a guest or you know i'm the guest in your place uh i look

00:51:14.340 for that like just don't complain especially if you're hanging around your your boyfriend's

00:51:18.720 friends like just just don't complain those two things right there are the big ones especially

00:51:23.580 with the complaining i i can't stand when i see my friend's girlfriend's just complaining if we're at

00:51:29.240 you know a sports game they're like i want to go home like damn we like brought you there like 0.69

00:51:35.000 you're our guest don't complain steal it yeah well it's like why are you there exactly 0.97

00:51:43.960 yeah it's not like the guys are like dying to have women at boys night

00:51:49.720 yeah exactly it's the girls treats to join in with the guys especially sports games because

00:51:57.240 what i do a lot is we bring friends bring their girlfriends and some of them complain and i'm just

00:52:03.640 like you know you don't have to be here you can get you can go do your own thing so i hate that 0.63

00:52:10.760 that's an ego thing that's a great question though yeah i i think one of the one of the

00:52:17.340 biggest things that shows a woman has a big ego and i was talking about earlier

00:52:21.720 is when she talks to men like like she can beat him in a fight 1.00

00:52:26.120 yeah so she literally starts getting up and you're like whoa and it doesn't even have to be

00:52:34.080 like voice raised up when they start going into that man territory you know where where she's 1.00

00:52:40.000 talking shit and you're like you're a girl you know what are you doing and doug dates black women 0.99

00:52:47.260 that alpha type energy uh the girl the girl boss as we call it in new york 1.00

00:52:55.500 they got they give that uh that uh corporate corporate voice i don't know if you guys heard

00:53:03.100 that talking oh yeah the corporate voice i know exactly it's not like aggressive but it's so

00:53:09.900 condescending it's like super condescending yeah yeah and they put their chin down while they're

00:53:16.060 doing it yeah they kind of tilt their head forward whether yeah i know what you're talking about

00:53:20.380 you said something earlier about run clubs because i used to i tell guys my area guys

00:53:26.820 you want to get women you you're better waking up at 7 a.m and doing a 5k on saturday night 0.99

00:53:34.220 on saturday morning you're going to the club on friday night because running is a female 1.00

00:53:39.460 dominated activity run clubs 5ks 10ks half marathons what has your success rate booth been

00:53:46.120 like uh at run clubs yeah i mean it's just it's one of my passions so oh you're you're breaking

00:53:54.640 still breaking up hello yeah i don't know can i talk hello yeah yeah sorry i muted you

00:54:17.600 yeah i think it's on your end because i muted you it's i hear the static i'll i'll come back

00:54:22.720 in for a second okay i'll read a super chat anyway we got uncle tiger sneezes these 304s

00:54:30.080 don't got no manners i'll bring up tax man though while we're waiting for murray um hey tax man

00:54:37.280 welcome to the show it's been waiting a while so you might uh tax man you're on mute

00:54:46.560 but yeah i couldn't imagine new york city i gotta give him credit for for living in new

00:54:59.780 york city let alone dating in new york city i i feel bad for all the people that come here legally 1.00

00:55:06.400 all the immigrants who come here legally and the only place they've been is washington dc in new

00:55:12.200 york city it's like washington dc and freaking dc and new york are the left ass cheek and the right 0.87

00:55:21.080 ass cheek of america because people are just so rude and i can only imagine the women i wonder 1.00

00:55:30.180 if the women are worse than well i'd probably say new york new york women have to be worse than 1.00

00:55:35.460 new york city maybe i'm biased i think the midwestern girls are pretty nice yeah they are 1.00

00:55:41.100 i think i think a guy could do well if i had to pick a midwestern city i would actually pick

00:55:46.620 ohio or wisconsin because you're not competing with like big city stuff

00:55:54.220 do you know what i mean like if you go to milwaukee or like madison madison's a really

00:55:57.340 good one there's a lot of college girls there because you're not competing with like 1.00

00:56:02.300 yachts in chicago and like the la like miami parties and same with when i was in ohio there's

00:56:08.540 a lot of pretty girls there yeah so columbus ohio is one of the most beautiful cities i've ever seen

00:56:14.940 columbus is great anyway murray are you there

00:56:22.940 oh is he there it's okay um oh what disturbs me is how women can easily throw away or trade 1.00

00:56:31.500 up a good man for a higher tier man a hawkeye when the opportunity presents itself to them

00:56:36.140 i know men are like good people so they don't always do that um although i do see the younger

00:56:42.540 guys being a little more ruthless i won't lie and i say good for them you know what i mean

00:56:47.460 um oh he said thanks for having me i figured no worries he's gonna put the link back in the chat

00:56:55.560 and pin it because it's not pinned no worries thanks for coming yeah yeah i'm sorry i i thought

00:57:03.040 i heard something about his his dating preferences at the beginning of the call that was totally my

00:57:08.320 mistake i apologize no he said that men and women have big egos like he's seen it with men now he's

00:57:15.160 dating them oh okay uh yeah yeah yeah murray murray i i apologize i i thought i thought that meant

00:57:21.140 that he yeah so i apologize that was my fault it's all right we can edit that out

00:57:28.020 okay wait uh how do i pin this i don't know if i can do it in stream yard i'll do it okay

00:57:35.960 um other places i've seen women have big egos um i think the nagging jobs do a lot because 1.00

00:57:47.160 women start to think they're oh do you know what we should react to that video that i sent you

00:57:53.180 about that woman crashing out about me like saying that women shouldn't nag men where did i 1.00

00:58:00.640 do you have it like i don't remember where i sent you that was that i texted to you i think you did

00:58:08.420 it was where a woman was oh yeah yeah yeah with lila rose yeah put it in the chat and we'll react

00:58:15.740 to it after we talk to jackson welcome to the show hey hey so we're the subject right now is

00:58:23.100 um women's ego and sort of what boosts it correct yeah like um inflated though like we're okay with 1.00

00:58:29.320 ego if it's like warranted you know like i think it's on the document early yeah it's okay for

00:58:35.220 trump to have a big ego because i mean it's it's trump right but when women do nothing and have 1.00

00:58:40.300 big egos that's where it's like but yeah go ahead yeah one of the biggest places i've seen this

00:58:48.320 is i i've called in a few times before i'm a christian um and in the church there's this sort

00:58:56.680 of strange view that a lot of people hold and i mean a lot of people in the church hold this or

00:59:02.640 some form of this which is basically that women are promiscuous because they have low self-esteem 1.00

00:59:09.480 and so what a lot of these churches do like at youth groups and pastors etc is I've noticed that

00:59:17.300 they like try to boost the women's self-confidence as much as possible right like another guy another 1.00

00:59:23.900 youtuber my two cents he talked about this and I have the same experience as him where when they

00:59:29.620 would talk to the boys in a youth group or something it would be more more of a shaking

00:59:34.340 your finger kind of thing like don't look at porn don't quote unquote objectify women whatever the

00:59:40.500 hell that means don't blah blah blah whereas the women what the message to the women was always 1.00

00:59:46.580 don't settle you know don't put up with any any anything less than what you are made for you're

00:59:53.220 a daughter of the king etc etc and i remember one stark example of this that i saw was this

01:00:00.260 was several years ago now probably like seven or eight years ago there was a college age group

01:00:06.100 that i went to where they were talking about dating and a woman was speaking and she was

01:00:12.260 talking about how basically just like the whole message was basically just a female self-esteem

01:00:18.900 boost and i remember at one point she said like like and and for you guys there do you not find

01:00:26.900 a woman with confidence attractive and i blurted out no really loudly

01:00:34.980 yeah everyone just started laughing i was just like she was like why i'm like

01:00:39.540 it was like it was just it was so like like like i've seen this pattern over and over again it's

01:00:46.260 this very strange view i don't even know where it comes from like you might think is there some bible

01:00:51.300 verse that says that says something like this that they understand if there is i haven't read it and

01:00:56.500 And I've actually, I think, read the, pretty sure I've read every book of the Bible.

01:01:00.480 So I don't think, if there is some verse they use to come to this conclusion, I don't know

01:01:05.240 what it is.

01:01:05.860 But yeah, I think this weird belief that women are promiscuous due to a lack of self-esteem 0.92

01:01:13.100 is at the heart of a lot of at least Christian women's egos. 1.00

01:01:16.020 Well, I mean, it might lower the self-esteem when you get ghosted.

01:01:20.780 That's true.

01:01:21.820 That's true.

01:01:22.580 But I don't think women go and like throw it back. 1.00

01:01:26.500 because they have low self-esteem you know yeah i don't think women start only fans because they 1.00

01:01:32.080 have a low self-esteem for example i want to talk to murray about about about if he's ghosted women

01:01:39.520 in new york and what his his experience was did they crash out but he had to go because

01:01:44.440 that was literally my next question was uh but maybe he'll call in again from a talk to him

01:01:50.460 but anyway go ahead i'm sorry yeah well that's basically it it's just i've seen this or some

01:01:56.040 form of it over and over again. It might not all be 100% because of this idea that it's what

01:02:03.420 causes promiscuity, although that's a huge part of it. I also think there's just sort of a natural

01:02:09.220 simping that is out there that's especially bad in the Christian church. But nonetheless, yeah,

01:02:16.260 I think that a lot of women who are raised in the church are raised with all of these expectations

01:02:24.900 of what men should do, how a Christian man should be, and don't really have anything for themselves 0.99

01:02:30.920 because they've just always been told, don't settle, you're a daughter of the king, etc.

01:02:35.340 And then on the other hand, you'll have women who become Christians, sometimes after a promiscuous 0.99

01:02:42.620 past or something like that, who are now getting the same thing where they have sort of a newfound

01:02:48.720 sense of ego. So yeah, I think that's a huge factor. And that's basically it.

01:02:54.380 then there's no work because it's not like they have to be a good person to get that praise

01:02:59.420 yeah right it's like you should only not settle if you're like an incredible

01:03:04.380 woman that deserves a lot but sometimes you deserve a little 1.00

01:03:08.060 yeah yeah exactly deserve a lot you know yeah yeah and what's funny confidence

01:03:14.940 you don't really have to have confidence like that if your church is facilitating you know

01:03:21.180 christian relationships between christian men and women how much confidence does a woman need to

01:03:26.140 have when her father is vetting the man or or the men in her life are vetting the man she doesn't

01:03:31.900 have to have any confidence at all exactly no exactly right like i would that's a whole other

01:03:37.500 sort of rabbit hole discussion of why did christians ever abandon arranged marriages

01:03:43.500 even though that's the biblical standard and that's the view that makes definitely the most

01:03:48.540 sense for sort of this pure purity oriented ideology right to because then then you wouldn't

01:03:55.020 have you know uh you would have people actually being able to find a partner women's hypergamy 1.00

01:04:01.420 would be limited etc um so yeah that's that's a whole that's a whole other point there yeah

01:04:10.460 um i'm gonna read a couple super chats we got has anyone ever noticed the droves of women especially 1.00

01:04:15.740 the female YouTubers on social media platforms are always having mental health issues. Yeah, 1.00

01:04:21.940 we, us, you know, us female YouTubers, we just have a tendency to crash out. 1.00

01:04:27.360 Women's egos vanish real quick. As soon as physical labor shows up, even in Walmart, 1.00

01:04:31.700 none of the ladies show up to pull pallets in the fresh area, not one. Yeah, that's true. 0.99

01:04:41.300 Yeah, no, I agree. That's a really good point. Doug MPA, you got any other questions?

01:04:45.740 for him i do not thanks for calling in man we really appreciate it yeah that was great call

01:04:50.860 thanks for calling in i will get back to listening to the show thanks thanks all right let's we got

01:04:56.300 jay jay you know you got your id is your profile picture yeah okay okay i was gonna say

01:05:06.140 all right that's fine i just wanted to make sure yeah i knew it okay um so

01:05:12.620 um what have you noticed gives women big egos uh i just think it's the whole lesson of 1.00

01:05:24.060 you're always a princess and like from like the time they're little kids they're just taught

01:05:31.020 they're always supposed to have the best i also don't think women are capable of being 1.00

01:05:37.660 ever satisfied with like a life situation like you know how you always talk about like

01:05:48.380 being alpha and like you know be rich those guys don't do better like i guess they're doing better 0.78

01:05:55.180 than the simps because they're not getting treated like shit every day but like if you look at like 0.98

01:06:00.060 rich married like rich dudes they get screwed over just yeah they totally do everybody gets 0.99

01:06:06.700 screwed because we're women yeah i think that the only way you cannot be screwed over is if you're 0.98

01:06:14.060 that part of migtail that's like screw having a girlfriend or like just in general i don't think 0.99

01:06:20.380 you can really be happy just being that alpha male that's just like the red pill side that's like

01:06:27.340 oh i'm always gonna you know never do what the woman like eventually if you have a relationship

01:06:34.380 with one long enough i think you always give in to being like simpy a little bit eventually

01:06:40.860 i think the only people that don't do that are guys not in relationships without exception or

01:06:48.140 guys in relationships that don't really get those girls so you think the relationship builds a

01:06:53.420 woman's ego i think i think a relationship over time women will be unsatisfied with no matter 1.00

01:07:01.820 what they have if they have a rich guy who's like got all the money then they'll crave somebody who

01:07:09.740 wants to be at home if they got an at-home guy they'll crave a rich guy if they got that works 0.99

01:07:14.540 if they got a dangerous guy they'll to crave a safe guy if they got if they crave if they

01:07:18.460 got a safe guy they crave a dangerous guy i don't think women are ever satisfied with anything 1.00

01:07:23.420 yeah i agree that's true that's totally true thanks for calling in jay calling anytime okay

01:07:33.100 you're welcome thanks bro we got mr bobo mr bobo welcome to the show

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01:08:39.820 yeah so um this is a example of a woman's ego being destroyed now um this is we're gonna call 0.98

01:08:49.440 her naggy nag and i'm ready to nag her right back i'm coming bitch okay so this woman um 1.00

01:09:01.420 bait all right we're gonna we're gonna watch we're gonna watch a video of lila rose on 0.99

01:09:06.820 pearl's podcast and there's a segment of that episode in which they talk about whether women

01:09:16.820 should tell men what to do or at least this is how now these are women usually that just love 1.00

01:09:21.860 telling their husbands what to do and so me saying you can't you know you're not supposed to tell

01:09:30.420 men what to do under a christian worldview it kind of makes these women crash out because they're 0.92

01:09:35.700 like no my power but no no my power to nag pearl framed the issue and i'm going to make some 0.54

01:09:47.860 comments about uh what they what they said their their exchange first i'm going to play the the

01:09:56.900 clip here and i'm going to tell you exactly what i would have said to pearl if i were having the

01:10:03.700 conversation with her so what kind of behaviors are you telling men are bad well again i think

01:10:09.780 it's it's more like for example when it comes to uh sexual ethics i've been pretty open with

01:10:16.260 my do you know what these women always talk about porn but they never talk about these female 1.00

01:10:22.900 romance novels that are worse than porn really i mean porn it's like the you know the slutty 0.99

01:10:30.900 stewed in or like you know it's like they get right to it it's like oh hey hello banging 0.98

01:10:37.940 or how about this porn promotes maybe sex that isn't realistic but guys we don't have an 0.97

01:10:45.380 expectation that we're going to be having sex all the time romance novels promote a lifestyle

01:10:51.940 that is unrealistic promotes behavior in men that is unrealistic women expect men to behave 0.99

01:10:59.140 like the romance novels men all the time they expect that romance in their life 24 7.

01:11:07.060 so i'd say my content romance novels are infinitely worse exactly about the harm of pornography

01:11:14.500 and the harm of promiscuity and i think that's a message not just for men that's a message for

01:11:18.980 women too so but but you you will not you you will tell men what to do when it comes to sexual 1.00

01:11:25.540 promiscuity i saw you do with justin waller so you're gonna tell men what they should do when 0.96

01:11:31.860 it comes to porn and sexual promiscuity yes yeah i'm gonna say don't do not look at porn i'm gonna 0.81

01:11:39.380 say do not the thing with these women i just i never get a modest look from them they always 1.00

01:11:45.620 have caked on makeup like very odd like her eyebrows are different i can always tell when

01:11:50.580 a woman's had a lot of botox because her eyebrows become different you know it's just which is fine 1.00

01:11:57.460 you know look at i'm not above the botox like i you know i think it's fine but it's just when i

01:12:04.980 think of a religious woman i think someone that's not into like the worldly stuff you know and i

01:12:10.420 think of like a modest appearance like lila rose is one of the few podcasts that offered me a makeup

01:12:16.100 artist i'm like do you know i mean that just doesn't i'm not saying it's wrong per se but

01:12:24.260 it's like repainting your face you know anyways be sexually promiscuous and it's for your good 0.60

01:12:30.100 and that's why i think you're a feminist because i i think that any woman that nags men and tells 1.00

01:12:35.860 men what to do is a feminist you don't get to selectively apply the word nagging and get away 1.00

01:12:42.820 with it what you call nagging is any feedback whatsoever that a woman gives to a man or to men

01:12:53.220 in general in other words it doesn't even have to be a specific feedback given to a specific man

01:13:00.660 even if a woman makes general comments about what is and what is not acceptable male behavior you

01:13:07.220 call this nagging but when true and this is the thing they don't even understand it goes over

01:13:13.540 their head that they have an egalitarian model because you telling men what to do it um

01:13:23.780 it implies that you're above them yep like you don't go to your boss and tell him what to do

01:13:30.500 yep i you might disagree with your boss but remember pearly these

01:13:38.900 lila rose is a christian woman she's claiming to be christian and when she claims to be and i'm

01:13:44.820 guessing this woman is too but you don't you have to be a christian you claim to be it and you choose

01:13:52.740 to to live by the guidelines that come along with that lifestyle one of them is not telling men what

01:13:58.660 to do. And you don't have to do it publicly. You can, it could be, your faith could be a private

01:14:05.000 thing. Yep. You don't have to put it in your Instagram bio. You know what I mean? You don't

01:14:09.960 have to pray on camera. Men do it to women. It's called leadership because it's not equal 1.00

01:14:17.160 called instruction. It's tough. Do you know what I mean? Our default is nagging. I'm not saying

01:14:24.060 it's an easy thing to not do, right? Like, it's kind of our default as women, but

01:14:29.320 it's just, we got to see this for, you know, I'm not even saying it like, you know, I'm not saying

01:14:39.360 we can't struggle with this, but to get better, to improve at something, you got to first

01:14:46.260 acknowledge that it exists, right? You know, and they can't even get that far, you know.

01:14:52.260 it's called edification in other words you're going to give a positive spin to men when they

01:15:00.900 nag and a negative spin to women when they nag wait wait you're going to but she said a man 1.00

01:15:07.380 nagging is leadership didn't she just say that no she was saying that i said that okay okay

01:15:16.560 glorify male nagging and villainize female nagging okay this is pearl strategy call it out the term

01:15:26.800 that pearl needs to hear is called fraternal correction they just make up these big words 0.94

01:15:33.440 they just make up these big words that no one cares about

01:15:36.840 um they just it's just to nag you in a different way now she's gonna try to nag me 1.00

01:15:42.840 she's like the men i didn't nag enough now i need to nag pearl pearl's view of men and women 0.98

01:15:50.200 is it's fundamentally incompatible with catholic anthropology

01:15:56.820 her view i this is the thing the christian women i really would recommend men stay away because 1.00

01:16:06.760 they've learned too much do you know what i mean like they've learned how to weaponize the bible

01:16:11.660 to nag you so not only not only are you going to be nagged by your wife you're going to be by 0.99

01:16:16.620 nagged by the pastor because she's going to be the pastor's ear now he gets to nag you 0.99

01:16:21.980 and then you also get to be nagged by her like bible group so then you get to be nagged by her

01:16:29.260 and at home then she gets to recite bible verses to you and nag you even more 0.89

01:16:33.820 there you go from a form of individualism male centered individualism but in christianity

01:16:44.380 we do not atomize the person the human person always has to be understood within the context

01:16:53.340 of an entire creation and because jesus christ entered the world entered that creation

01:17:01.260 and sanctified it he has elevated our understanding of that creation and therefore our understanding

01:17:09.960 of men it is elevated this this is the christian view which is why i mentioned earlier fraternal

01:17:18.680 correction there's no room for fraternal correction in a worldview that diminishes the

01:17:26.140 value of women and says you basically have nothing of value to offer men i would agree with that 1.00

01:17:32.000 i would agree with that you basically do have nothing about to offer men i mean you ladies 1.00

01:17:41.520 because because we have nothing to offer you keep me employed because i'm the only one that

01:17:46.120 can point it out because everyone's afraid they're gonna get nagged by you women forever 1.00

01:17:51.000 and you're proving them right so congratulations and in terms of speech

01:17:57.240 you ha you have no feedback no insight nothing instructive or constructive to say because you're

01:18:07.260 a female that is false it flows from a pagan view of women not from a christian view yeah now now 0.99

01:18:15.800 it goes back to you're not a real christian you're not a real cat this is insanity 0.99

01:18:22.760 i love it i love it when the women nag me and then prove me right yep i asked pro earlier today 0.98

01:18:30.680 i was just like how do you it must be so hard living as a woman sometimes and then and then

01:18:37.000 having faith too like how how do you do it like how with stuff like this going on it has these

01:18:44.120 women have weakened my faith these women i won't even lie to you i i think in my early 20s i would 1.00

01:18:50.680 have considered myself religious and it's just faded and it's really because i've just seen how

01:18:56.760 easily manipulated the men are and how naggy the women are and i know they say i know they say like 0.99

01:19:03.480 that shouldn't weaken your faith because it's like between you and god but i'm like if all

01:19:07.640 the people that are in the church are like this and if anything i would say they're worse

01:19:11.560 these are the people learning the stuff doesn't it like dude i mean like if i look at a diet

01:19:17.520 and i see everyone's fat on the diet

01:19:20.520 then it kind of makes me think the diet i don't want to say that maybe it doesn't work

01:19:27.980 but it makes me question it a little bit right so it's that's kind of how i feel about

01:19:34.940 religion being religious is is um i i would say i believe in god but these women have nagged me 1.00

01:19:44.420 out of church congratulations ladies you did it like i'm out you win you win i want to go to a

01:19:52.520 church where they ban women all right calls lila and a feminist as if this is some sort of 0.99

01:20:02.700 take down or as if she's undermining her position she didn't undermine it at all it would be like

01:20:07.800 me it would be like me thinking that i've discredited someone by saying well i think

01:20:17.720 if you play sports then that makes you an athlete sure that makes the person an athlete great 0.98

01:20:25.220 or if i say to someone women are so dumb i think i was like the worst analogy of all time i could 0.91

01:20:31.600 like give you a better analogy but that was just not I mean if you play sports you are an athlete 0.98

01:20:38.840 you know what I mean like does that it doesn't mean you're a good athlete but you know if you

01:20:44.260 promote having children and having families then that makes you a natalist

01:20:48.840 okay I think sometimes a lot of these oh my gosh oh you are not helping you are making me more

01:20:59.580 sexist by the day these ladies influencers especially the ones that oh this is a perfect 1.00

01:21:06.520 guy to have on to react to this too what's going on reclaim your throne how are you what up what 0.81

01:21:13.240 up how you doing good i'll let you react to the rest of this and then i'll give you the question

01:21:18.260 for the day okay this woman was very triggered because i said that any woman that tells men 0.67

01:21:24.720 what to do as a feminist so this is like a christian woman okay let's get it that are 1.00

01:21:30.780 very successful at stirring up controversy and generating you know reactions i have to be

01:21:40.000 reminded that calling something an ist or an ism is not a refutation all you're doing is naming

01:21:49.020 something name away if it that's what helps you to sort the information you're hearing

01:21:59.140 categorize it in your mind but you're not refuting the position they don't understand

01:22:06.600 they're coming from an egalitarian model because if you're telling men what to do then you think

01:22:13.980 of yourself as the same or above them because you're telling them what to do so yeah good so

01:22:20.040 to catch up reclaiming your throne so she used the clip of pearl because lila said that it's her duty

01:22:26.900 to tell men to not watch corn and you know and all these different things and pearl says well

01:22:33.660 that's why you're a feminist because you're a christian but you take it upon yourself to tell 0.99

01:22:38.120 men what to do and this woman is trying to say that that's not that's a worldly view because

01:22:47.000 that not considering a woman's position is not christian-like and pros coming from a worldly

01:22:52.840 view and all this stuff and we're like what and i said i said that was her ego crashing out so go

01:22:59.320 ahead yeah i mean if she wants to go biblical you know the bible is very clear about women you know 0.95

01:23:05.080 not leading the church, not speaking up, being seen and not heard. So, I mean, I don't think

01:23:11.600 that's the route that she wants to go to justify her point. But, you know, you can tell that she's

01:23:17.940 kind of like a hit dog hollering right here because she obviously is, you know, desiring to 1.00

01:23:24.340 tell men what to do, how to act, how to maneuver in society, but ultimately to benefit women. It's 0.97

01:23:31.240 not really how the man can become successful or how he can earn more uh you know for his own

01:23:38.320 self-esteem but it's it's more of a fact that so he can just be a better man to the women or what

01:23:45.740 they believe to be a better man so that's kind of what i'm picking up from what she's saying and

01:23:50.900 what her vibe is coming across as yeah so going back to the topic um because i just thought it'd

01:23:59.160 fun to react to that i was talking about things that build up women's egos and that i've noticed 0.98

01:24:06.360 that when they have like certain jobs they get big egos um especially nagging positions like i put

01:24:14.040 um project managers management position social media 90 of the time female preachers politicians 0.95

01:24:20.840 political commentators lawyers um where it's really just us repeating information and like

01:24:27.160 we just start to think we're god's gift to the earth um that's some stuff i've noticed but i

01:24:32.200 was curious what have you noticed that give women big egos um so yeah i definitely say 1.00

01:24:39.320 certain jobs certain fields can give a woman a big ego uh college gives women a huge ego just 1.00

01:24:46.920 by the fact that they're there they're earning a degree and obviously they're being told yeah so

01:24:52.120 So women are outpacing men in college. So them just enrolling, even if they don't finish or not, it still gives them a big ego that they enrolled or they got accepted into a college because they're assuming, OK, well, majority of men ain't shit because they're not going to college. 0.98

01:25:08.220 But the reality is men have opted out from college because they've seen it as a scam and they're actually getting into the trades and more specialized fields that ultimately, you know, earn close to six figures right out of high school.

01:25:21.380 So, you know, she thinks she's doing better than men, but obviously she's kind of, you know, actually setting herself back, especially if she's taken out a massive amount of student loans. 0.98

01:25:31.620 So those degrees are definitely something that, you know, boosts or inflates a woman's ego, especially if she is an unattractive woman. 1.00

01:25:41.100 That degree is going to bolster 100 percent her whole self-esteem.

01:25:45.380 Like if she is not cute, if she's not like, you know, the it girl or if she doesn't have that it factor, as far as attractiveness wise, she's going to lean on that degree more than anything else because that's her only saving grace to say, hey, see, you know, I can't contribute to a relationship.

01:26:03.460 I have a degree and, you know, I can go 50-50 with a man.

01:26:09.020 Have you ever noticed the harder the degree the woman gets, the uglier the woman? 1.00

01:26:14.560 so like female engineers they're just always chopped oh yeah 1.00

01:26:18.780 some of the best advice my father ever gave me was those who don't have to won't right so women 1.00

01:26:31.780 that are so pretty they don't have to get degrees they don't have to achieve so a lot of a lot of

01:26:39.440 women the kind that'll go into a male dominated field and break down all these academic barriers 1.00

01:26:44.740 and climb the corporate ladder they're so ugly that they have to do it yeah and also being a

01:26:53.040 teacher being a teacher gives a woman ultimate you know confidence because overconfidence actually 1.00

01:27:00.380 because she's you know directing kids and she thinks she knows more than you just because

01:27:04.760 she's babysitting other people's kids all day dude you got it you got man i never thought about 0.99

01:27:10.360 that i didn't think about that hey that's a good one actually i think of the most the bitchiest 1.00

01:27:16.820 girls on our volleyball team absolutely were teachers yeah like seriously like i used i used

01:27:22.360 to work at this elementary school and i was uh doing some work for the boys and girls club like

01:27:27.180 some fitness coaching and stuff and the the female teachers they'd be like 250 pounds but they'd have 1.00

01:27:33.380 the utmost confidence and they'd be trying to tell me how to do my job. And I'm sitting up here like

01:27:38.520 we are not in the same category. Like, honey, I'm getting paid more than you and I'm just showing up

01:27:44.600 for a couple hours. So, you know, they definitely have the utmost confidence for no reason when

01:27:52.040 they're teachers, especially if they're teachers of small children. Really? You think it's worse

01:27:58.600 when they're younger oh yeah because it's it's harder to uh you know control those those younger

01:28:05.180 kids so they feel like they're doing more like you know when when women have kids and they're 1.00

01:28:09.640 saying oh well being a mom is the hardest job in reality it really isn't the hardest thing about

01:28:14.760 being a mom is being pregnant that's the hardest thing once the baby pops out it's really not that

01:28:19.440 hard and then pearl when you're dating a woman that teaches elementary school they always have

01:28:27.520 that elementary school teacher voice so you you would be a grown man and they'd be like so here's

01:28:33.200 what we're gonna do today okay we're gonna do this all right it's like stop doing that it's

01:28:38.320 patronizing awful yeah yeah yep they can't turn it off yeah and then and then they'll incorporate

01:28:46.480 whatever subject that they're teaching that day into the conversation so like if you're dating a

01:28:51.760 teacher if you're on dating apps yeah like if you're on dating apps and you date a teacher

01:28:58.220 you swipe right on the teacher you actually link up with her she doesn't flake she is going to

01:29:03.440 incorporate whatever lesson that she taught in that class into your date and she's going to bring

01:29:08.960 it up and try and quiz you and see oh am I smarter than this guy and if you can't answer the questions

01:29:13.800 correctly off of a curriculum that you learned six you know six twenty whatever however long it was

01:29:20.880 ago since you were in elementary school or middle school then she's going to be like oh this guy's 0.99

01:29:26.080 dumb he's not as smart as me because he doesn't you know remember trigonometry or some shit like 0.94

01:29:31.580 that so she's going to incorporate what she's teaching in the class in that date or in that 0.99

01:29:36.240 relationship and see if you quote unquote know more than her and she's teaching elementary school

01:29:43.440 yeah everything he said literally we couldn't return what do you think is worse dating a lawyer

01:29:49.680 or or an elementary school teacher as a one i mean the the lawyer would be worse from a marriage 0.99

01:29:56.720 aspect you know because you got the divorce courts but i mean the elementary school teachers

01:30:02.160 i mean in many cases they're just insufferable because you know a lawyer at least there's

01:30:07.840 somebody that they necessarily have to answer to you know a teacher all they have to do if they

01:30:12.960 don't like their principal they just go to the school school board and complain about it and

01:30:16.880 they can get that guy fired if they get enough you know of those teachers on their side but when

01:30:22.560 when a lawyer they got to answer the to the judges they can't really get the judge fired there's a

01:30:27.520 hierarchy in that courtroom so um besides the divorce angle i would say teachers 100 on a

01:30:34.480 day-to-day who's bitchier basis is going to be that teacher i can't wow do you have any 0.97

01:30:41.200 do you have any more of these these are great these are great i can go down a whole bunch of

01:30:47.840 different professions that's great okay well uh female athletes i mean you know we all see what's 0.89

01:30:55.560 going on with the wnba pay me as you know what i'm worth and all that kind of stuff they are 0.51

01:31:01.580 very difficult to deal with because for one they have higher physical standards because obviously

01:31:06.500 they're athletic so they want an athletic guy that's reasonable but then you know they think

01:31:12.980 that they're doing something really difficult every day and you know for the average woman

01:31:17.280 it probably is but for a man you know that's that's breakfast you know we wake up we do 100

01:31:23.680 burpees and it's nothing but to these women it's the hardest thing that that anyone is doing and 1.00

01:31:29.980 they feel like they're doing more than anybody so female athletes definitely something to watch out 1.00

01:31:34.680 for when it comes to um you know unfounded confidence no that's so true do you know it's

01:31:42.460 crazy i did a tournament with we had a literal guy there playing in it like a trans person 0.73

01:31:50.400 and and they were yelling at me because i said something

01:31:54.760 that's i don't care if you get beat up i do not care i don't care but um and it's crazy because 0.97

01:32:04.400 if you tell them they don't deserve as much money because we suck like compared to the men they get 0.73

01:32:09.820 so mad they like crash out it's like yeah yeah I mean it's crazy like if you watch the WNBA

01:32:17.260 highlights honestly the WNBA looks worse than women's college but basketball it I mean it's 0.98

01:32:25.320 just it's so bad and there's no structure and the egos on those basketball teams are

01:32:31.920 insanely massive so yeah what else give me more these are hilarious what about nurses 0.96

01:32:39.600 yeah um nurses here's the thing about nurses they're serving everybody all day so when they 1.00

01:32:48.440 get home they're not serving left for you yeah there's nothing left nothing left nothing the

01:32:54.620 only thing left for you is is for you to lend them your ear and they're gonna talk your head

01:33:00.460 off about all day about you know what they saw this and who's cheating on who in the in the in 0.99

01:33:06.080 the office meanwhile they're less than half the doctor trying to fuck the doctor but you know 0.96

01:33:11.380 they don't come over here and tell you some gossip about another nurse who's doing the same thing 1.00

01:33:15.780 that she wants to do or or even worse nurses are heroes right yes ever since that started 0.99

01:33:24.200 what else save lives every single day girl you wipe ass 1.00

01:33:33.160 right i save lives i'm a nurse and it's how they feel and you can't argue with them about it 0.97

01:33:41.200 awful yeah and i don't know if y'all brought up this but therapists female therapists that's a 1.00

01:33:48.580 good one i mean especially especially if they work with men you know i mean the egos are through the

01:33:57.260 roof and then they try to psychoanalyze you right well and that's the thing because i said

01:34:04.300 so has this been your experience bro where female therapists think that their degree in social work 1.00

01:34:11.000 or their degree in psychology makes them the the the arbiter of reality yeah so they

01:34:19.000 they're trained to interpret all realities so what they do is talking to a female therapist 1.00

01:34:27.460 you're always on the back foot always because you're always trying to figure out that you can't

01:34:33.000 make a permanent stance on something because they always try to question you it's awful

01:34:36.840 Yeah. I mean, they believe they're doctors. They think that they're doctors. I mean, just look at I mean, we see the Sadia Khan situation here. She didn't she wasn't even a real therapist like she didn't.

01:34:48.420 But she was claiming that she was and she was trying to embrace that because, you know, once you get into that field and you believe you think you know somebody before they've even opened their mouth.

01:35:00.180 like that's what they really believe and that's why their their egos are insufferable to deal with

01:35:06.900 are there any jobs that are better than others or majors

01:35:10.600 um i mean you know if if she's going into not necessarily like teaching young kids but if it's

01:35:23.680 more of a um what is it the like child care workers and stuff like that that's probably

01:35:30.640 one of your best bets or if she works with um you know uh like mentally retarded kids or something 1.00

01:35:38.740 like that like got people with disabilities because you know it it is a stressful job 0.97

01:35:46.580 but she's not surrounded by people where she is actually having to use her brain like that so

01:35:53.000 So, you know, those types of professions, you seem to I seem to see, you know, women being more caring and nurturing. 1.00

01:36:01.880 But I mean, honestly, in this day and age, it really is hard to find a nurturing woman who is going to lose the ego and isn't going to backtalk and is going to submit to her man, you know, no matter what professional.

01:36:15.880 And don't let her be in money services or be a bank teller or anything like that.

01:36:21.500 It's over.

01:36:23.000 well what happened i don't know much about bank tellers so yeah so the bank tellers

01:36:29.180 they are they they're in a very unique position because most of the time they're eye candy they

01:36:36.360 don't really know what they're doing they always have to call a manager over to help

01:36:40.600 get this transaction through or process this transaction uh especially like the younger ones

01:36:46.780 the, um, you know, mid to like, if they're, if they're not older than, you know, mid thirties

01:36:54.060 and they're slightly attractive, these are the types of women who, you know, they don't know 1.00

01:37:00.660 what they're doing in their job, but they're still going to elevate the ranks and get promoted

01:37:05.940 just for the simple fact that she's a cute girl and she's having a lot of human interaction.

01:37:12.760 She may not necessarily be pushing transactions through, but she's having a lot of human interactions and there's big clients at the bank.

01:37:21.260 So not only is she having a lot of interaction, but she's also dealing with high rollers, you know, guys who got safe deposit box that, you know, look like a closet, you know, things like that.

01:37:35.860 Oh, OK.

01:37:38.020 What do you have?

01:37:38.500 You guys ever dated a baker or a cook?

01:37:41.340 i i met a guy who married a baker the other day i was just curious if either of you yeah

01:37:47.920 odds are she was she was super liberal kind of go with the flow yeah she probably was yeah yeah 1.00

01:37:54.680 i did a baker one time and she just you know i mean very liberal very laid back yeah it wasn't

01:38:04.260 my stuff like too laid back i'm talking like hippie laid back so oh yeah you see the super

01:38:11.500 chat i put that link to the update in the private chat in the private chat goop just dropped a new 0.93

01:38:16.740 sadia khan update she's so screwed oh shit yeah it's in the private oh yeah i did see that one 0.86

01:38:23.580 i saw that oh but this i think we reacted to this already this is the that's from a week ago is there 0.98

01:38:30.220 one recently yeah that was on the 25th i don't think he's dropped anything recently because i

01:38:34.740 just did a live stream on it oh really okay okay yeah yeah oh no the truth is never person oh wait

01:38:41.940 okay now she's saying there is a new update it's here but sadia khan did like remove her

01:38:48.780 comments so you can't comment on like the last four or five posts this one a high value woman 0.99

01:38:54.520 high-value man coach but it was 19 minutes ago okay earned she was a side piece in somebody 0.96

01:39:00.940 else's relationship not very high value was it sadia but some of you voiced some credibility

01:39:06.040 questions about the screenshots and the voice messages that it showed after all one of the 1.00

01:39:10.120 clips was her literally saying i'll suck your man's dick on your wedding day i don't care 1.00

01:39:14.500 I'll suck your dick if you have that attitude, and I can do it today if I want to. 1.00

01:39:18.580 I can do it on your wedding day and your birthday. 1.00

01:39:21.380 All of this made me want to... 1.00

01:39:23.000 God damn. 0.99

01:39:25.160 Awesome. 1.00

01:39:26.380 I'm not going to lie.

01:39:27.820 She a solid side piece for that.

01:39:32.600 I want to verify it and maybe dig a little deeper.

01:39:35.860 I did something bad, guys.

01:39:37.480 I teamed up with YouTubers Abba and Preach, and we set up a call with Sadia Khan.

01:39:41.420 And when I say set up a call, what I really mean to say is that we convinced her that Abba was on her side

01:39:46.500 And that he was doing a call with her so that he could do his own puff piece to help her own PR campaign 0.95

01:39:51.920 Fortunately for Sadia, she just got one hour long of her confirming everything we already knew 0.89

01:39:57.140 Such as her confirming the phone number that she sent this dick appointment text from

01:40:01.100 He had the phone number already because this guy's girlfriend took these screen 0.96

01:40:04.940 Oh my gosh

01:40:07.300 shots of his phone you see it right there ends in three seven one nine here's the footage of

01:40:12.460 sadi confirming it on the phone so just to confirm i was given like um two different numbers i have

01:40:16.780 one here uh i don't know which one might be yours or maybe like the assistant we

01:40:22.160 that says uh nine seven one five eight five four nine three seven is that wrong

01:40:31.680 3-2-1-1-9?

01:40:33.620 Yeah.

01:40:34.820 That is correct.

01:40:36.460 Oof, so it was... 1.00

01:40:38.140 Damn. 0.99

01:40:40.500 Let's put the phone number out there. 0.99

01:40:44.400 Oh yeah, they just leaked her phone number.

01:40:47.360 940 calls to another woman's man.

01:40:49.860 Now, when she confirmed that number, she did not know that we have those screenshots of her sending those messages.

01:40:55.040 Here's where she realizes that we have them.

01:40:57.480 Abba puts it up on the screen in the meeting that they had.

01:40:59.560 Oh, there you go.

01:41:01.520 okay so it's got my teen's number on there yeah because my number on there is going

01:41:10.400 because that's the number that you get when you join my whatsapp group

01:41:13.360 you can pinpoint the approximate moment that her soul leaves her body when she realizes she's

01:41:18.080 caught and but just to be clear in 2021 you didn't have a relationship with this person you guys

01:41:23.040 weren't uh never had a relationship with this person never had a relationship but when he said

01:41:27.920 now i'm getting you pregnant you said might as well never had a relationship but you told him 0.98

01:41:32.000 that he owed you dick there is zero zero chance of me being somebody side chick i've got evidence of 0.98

01:41:36.880 us i've got pictures of us we got married in 2022 we've got embryos in january 22. so we've got 0.99

01:41:42.000 evidence that we've obviously together for way longer than that and there it is ladies and

01:41:45.520 gentlemen that's so so she's claiming she's married it's my theory she doesn't want this 1.00

01:41:52.560 out there because she was talking to this guy sucking and him while she was courting the man 1.00

01:41:57.760 that she's currently married to to support my theory let's go damn only thing stadia was 0.99

01:42:05.120 concerned about getting out was these text messages is there a way that we can avoid

01:42:08.720 talking about screenshots altogether i know it's hard and you can keep the original video up i don't

01:42:12.320 mind you know you can do what you need to do no sadia there isn't a way enjoy the rest of your

01:42:17.600 week wait there's more sadie made the oh my gosh came to me today that the audio recording of her 1.00

01:42:24.160 saying that she would suck his dick on his wedding day 1.00

01:42:27.380 and his fiance's birthday was AI generated. 1.00

01:42:30.620 What Sadia doesn't know is that

01:42:31.980 we already got her to confirm that it was her.

01:42:33.660 Only in that moment when I feel like I'm defending myself,

01:42:35.800 I just, my go-to is to become rude and disrespectful,

01:42:40.100 100% my nature, which I really need to work on.

01:42:42.580 This is definitely a lesson for that. 0.99

01:42:44.100 I was like, who are you fucking talking to? 0.98

01:42:45.480 I was like, do, I think, you know, if you, 1.00

01:42:47.080 if I wanted to, I could suck your dick on his wedding day. 1.00

01:42:50.400 So there she is, not knowing that she's big. 1.00

01:42:54.160 bam yeah she's cooked he recorded admitting to the fact that she did make those phone calls

01:43:04.000 and here she is you know this is the sadia so many men have learned the art of an apology

01:43:10.940 you know those guys that get caught cheating and then they come forward with like the tiger woods

01:43:17.740 we should tour the tiger woods video no no no or the um the kobe bryant apology

01:43:24.280 when they're not sorry at all but they're just like reading yeah she's my heart she's

01:43:32.880 the air that i breathe i'm guilty of adultery come on i want to watch the rest maybe we

01:43:40.020 can pull it up the tiger woods or the other one in my inbox saying that the police are

01:43:44.920 investigating and they found evidence to support that it's ai and generated by some random dude

01:43:50.440 that has nothing to do with this story at all sadia just a word to the wise from one human being

01:43:55.080 to another the next time you decide to lie figure out what your enemy has before you lie about it

01:44:01.000 so i recently exposed saudi economy bam yeah and honestly you know a lot of people are talking

01:44:07.240 about oh she's uh she's charging uh you know 7 000 gpb or something and honestly i mean for a video

01:44:18.200 call or something or a chat call or whatever i mean has anybody tried to see if those were like

01:44:24.520 out call prices because you know i heard she was frequent frequent in dubai a lot so she might be 0.92

01:44:30.600 a doo-doo bye girl you know what i'm saying seriously sadia here you go here's we gotta

01:44:37.960 learn from the best good morning and thank you for joining me many of you in this room

01:44:47.880 are my friends many in this room know me many of you have cheered for me

01:44:56.120 me, or you worked with me, or you supported me. Now, every one of you has good reason

01:45:06.640 to be critical of me. Yeah, see, that's where you start. You got to acknowledge them and

01:45:12.560 say you have good reason to be critical. This apology got them into the Trump family, all

01:45:18.020 right guys? Yep. I want to say to each of you simply and directly,

01:45:26.120 I am deeply sorry for my irresponsible and selfish behavior I engaged in. 0.86

01:45:37.980 I know people want to find out how I could be so selfish and so foolish. People want to know 0.90

01:45:46.180 how i could have done these things to my wife elon and to my children

01:45:53.360 and while i have always tried to be a private person this is like men versus women it's like

01:46:02.420 women will gaslight into eternity and what men will just they'll just own it it's like i got 1.00

01:46:08.220 caught this is right and then i hate when he has to say oh what i did to her no i mean what you did 1.00

01:46:14.560 the bitches all he did was fuck the bitches he didn't do to her and yo i i honestly think that 1.00

01:46:21.680 um tigerwood's wife didn't want to to divorce him but they influenced well you have to do something 1.00

01:46:29.040 you have to do something because she's never said a bad word about him ever she never said

01:46:33.600 a bad word about him she's never i thought she tried to hit him with a car did she not she tried 0.94

01:46:38.960 to hit him with a golf club but i don't think she came like out public to speak that was like

01:46:45.840 what was reported yeah you know of all this of all the slighted excess you know her slighted wives 1.00

01:46:57.040 post-divorce she's handled it really well yeah she has i think that's why she got

01:47:03.440 remarried i think she remarried decently well i can't remember who it was to tiger woods ex-wife

01:47:13.280 married

01:47:17.920 oh no she didn't i totally thought she remarried 1.00

01:47:23.360 alpha widowed but she's in a relationship with jordan cameron whoa whoa 0.99

01:47:30.800 i thought she married another like i thought she married another athlete sorry go ahead

01:47:37.880 i think she got like 150 million dollars the divorce 1.00

01:47:42.760 ex-wife getting divorced yeah she 100 million dollars in the divorce so she's good god lord 1.00

01:47:53.320 have mercy so many women get cheated on for free you know what i mean 1.00

01:48:00.040 50 million dollars so i was gonna ask reclaim your throne what are the biggest signs that a

01:48:07.680 woman has so let's say you know we're all hanging out and i would say hey guys i'm bringing this

01:48:14.580 girl i'm dating over and you never met the girl but you were keeping your eyes and ears open

01:48:19.560 what would you be looking for what are the telltale signs that a woman has a big ego 1.00

01:48:25.800 um you know obviously if she's coming into the the venue like talking off rip 0.98

01:48:33.040 not waiting to be introduced uh i definitely think that's a sign of a big ego

01:48:38.600 okay anything else uh it it depends on the setting like you know if you could paint me a scenario i

01:48:49.940 can better tell you uh but i i think like if she's if she has a man and she and he's bringing 1.00

01:48:56.360 her into a a new environment and she's not waiting for him to introduce her and she's kind of

01:49:02.900 jumping the gun and introducing herself i think that that's a sign of a big ego 1.00

01:49:07.640 yeah um i think because one of the main ones for for me is how she talks to men 1.00

01:49:15.900 if because one of the biggest signs of a big ego is women that talk to men 1.00

01:49:20.500 like they can beat them in a fight or they're not afraid of the consequence like the physical

01:49:26.200 consequences of talking to a man that's a big one um if she talks if the only she talks about

01:49:33.140 is her job yeah in a in a personal situation uh yeah there's a lot of a lot of telltale signs

01:49:40.840 do you have any more jobs for me i liked those those are pretty funny

01:49:47.500 um i mean fast food workers

01:49:52.960 wait how do you have a big ego delivering fast food you'd be surprised the women in the window 1.00

01:50:05.580 the women in the window because they have total control of your bag they got control what goes in 1.00

01:50:11.580 what comes out and don't rush them either don't try to rush them because you ain't getting your 0.99

01:50:18.780 shit you ain't getting it wait let's give him random jobs and see what he says 0.99

01:50:27.720 female personal trainers oh yeah i mean a personal trainer obviously like she she got her body you 1.00

01:50:36.720 know um in shape and whatnot and she's actually training clients like a lot of women are personal 1.00

01:50:42.800 trainers for instagram but they actually don't have clients they just are bending over on instagram

01:50:47.660 and getting a lot of followers and likes and stuff but if she actually has clients uh yeah she's

01:50:54.040 definitely going to have a big ego and then she's definitely going to be smashing some of them 1.00

01:50:58.640 clients because it's going to be guys who are going to sign up for her personal training and

01:51:03.740 obviously they're they're trying to hit on her and she's gonna be able to you know have the 1.00

01:51:10.080 benefit of doubt and say oh well i was just doing my job i was just training i was just doing my job

01:51:13.800 that you know that's the that is you know a way that women are can obfuscate the uh the blame 1.00

01:51:21.200 or the onus of their bad decisions through being a personal trainer female sales reps 1.00

01:51:27.960 so the sales reps obviously they're taught to sell so she knows how to sell herself and 1.00

01:51:36.780 the easiest thing on herself to sell is sex so i mean you kind of just put two and two together 1.00

01:51:44.300 there police officers oh good one oh my god i mean female police officers exhausting because 1.00

01:51:53.880 they actually think that they can do the job of the male officers and you know they're they have

01:52:00.700 the locker room talk they have the banter and nowadays their locker rooms are connected so

01:52:05.500 they're going in with the guys and changing with the guys in the same locker um because you know

01:52:12.060 a lot of these police precincts, they weren't made to have like a women's section. It's just 1.00

01:52:18.720 one locker room for all the cops. So they're all going in there and she thinks she's one of the 0.99

01:52:23.880 boys and ain't nothing worse than a woman who thinks she's one of the guys. Female accountants. 1.00

01:52:33.900 So I actually know some female accountants and the issue with the female accountants is a lot 1.00

01:52:41.260 of times they're alcoholics. I know this female accountant. I swear. I swear. Cause they're 1.00

01:52:49.080 sitting up there doing a boring ass job all day and all they want is some relief. So they are 0.99

01:52:55.020 abusing substances like a mug. And then they'll also make life-changing detrimental decisions

01:53:02.840 based off of that intoxicated, you know, rager that they go on. Like I know a female accountant 1.00

01:53:10.940 who's got a twin sister and she was working in louisiana and she was you know cpa in louisiana

01:53:17.980 for a year and a half and then she just gets super drunk and she lays down on a train track

01:53:25.320 loses one of her legs oh i promise you oh i swear female engineers 1.00

01:53:34.120 yeah so i mean a female engineer she's in a male-dominated space so she's gonna fall under 1.00

01:53:41.160 that category of one of the girls who thinks she's one of the guys so you know she's one of

01:53:46.580 those girls who's gonna bust your ball she's gonna make jokes she's gonna you know take cheap shots 1.00

01:53:52.340 at you and all that kind of stuff but then the moment you clap back she's going to become the 0.65

01:53:57.740 victim females and marketing uh marketing uh you know a lot of times they're just like it's all 1.00

01:54:06.660 fluff it it's all fluff most of the time when a woman is in marketing she's more of a face of it 1.00

01:54:13.580 she's not actually doing the marketing herself because all marketing is is spending money 1.00

01:54:17.920 on ads that that's really all it is you know when it comes to like the creation or the directing

01:54:24.980 of some of these commercials. Obviously, you know, we've seen like a woke element come into

01:54:30.400 commercials and stuff like that. So you do have that where there are select companies that where

01:54:36.200 they're allowing the women to, you know, kind of write the scripts of the commercials. But typically 1.00

01:54:41.660 they're used for a face, you know, they're used for when the board members come in and she's going 1.00

01:54:47.500 to be the first face that they see. And then they walk right past her, go into the meeting room,

01:54:52.080 come out with the the ad and then you know you know they slap her on their ass on the way back 1.00

01:54:57.160 like that's kind of it's more eye candy with uh women in marketing okay in corporate America 1.00

01:55:02.520 women in tech uh so women in tech you're you're definitely gonna have like a more nerdy side 1.00

01:55:10.920 but obviously um in many cases you know you're gonna have like a very small percentage who are

01:55:16.880 going to outperform the men. But in many cases, they're just trying to keep up and it's going to

01:55:22.560 end up being a quota higher at the end of the day. So they're trying to have a minimum amount

01:55:26.920 of women in the office. And I mean, you've seen it. We've seen the layoffs in Silicon Valley where 0.99

01:55:31.700 the women who are working for Google are, oh, well, you know, here's my day. I wake up, I have 0.77

01:55:37.100 a latte, I go to lunch, I take a nap in the nap area, and then I work for 30 minutes and then I

01:55:42.740 go, you know, take another break. And so they're not really doing any legitimate real work. A lot

01:55:49.240 of times the women in tech are involved in social media companies and they're the censoring 1.00

01:55:56.420 aspect of it. So they're the ones online who are, you know, helping put together these bots and

01:56:03.180 then helping to curate content to censor. I have a horror story about a woman in tech. 0.99

01:56:10.160 so i have a friend who dated a girl in california he's from la and she was in tech

01:56:16.440 well she knew how to like code and she was batshit crazy that she was actually stalking him

01:56:23.300 so she could make like accounts like bots that would just re-follow him and like i don't remember

01:56:29.720 what i can't remember the ins i actually wanted him to call in one day but i just remember she

01:56:34.900 knew how to code and she used the stuff she learned in tech to stalk him to the point that

01:56:40.880 he was actually granted a restraining order against a woman which is really hard to get

01:56:44.700 especially in california but that's how bad it was yeah makes sense because a lot of these tech

01:56:51.120 women they they they say that they work in tech and they demand the respect of working in tech

01:56:56.800 but they work tech adjacent jobs yeah so they work at google but they're like an accounts manager

01:57:02.640 or their hr or something and they say oh yeah you know i work in tech it's like no you're not

01:57:08.340 a software engineer you don't have a computer science degree but you demand the respect of a

01:57:13.420 person with that for this type of qualifications women have you ever met female dancers not

01:57:19.200 strippers but like ballerinas um like women employed through dance maybe theater oh yeah 1.00

01:57:25.860 um i definitely know uh a couple dancers you know and and not the ones who are getting

01:57:31.780 single, you know, dollars thrown at them. They usually end up single mothers real fast 1.00

01:57:38.860 because a lot of times they're doing dances for artists who, you know, have a bigger name than

01:57:46.200 them. So I know this one woman, she was a dancer and she, you know, is a backup dancer for major

01:57:53.000 artists like Chris Brown and all that kind of stuff. And she's featured in the videos

01:57:56.480 and they end up getting pregnant by somebody on the set in a lot of times it usually it's not the

01:58:05.100 artist because the artists you know obviously they're a lot more careful but it's usually

01:58:09.080 somebody on the set an agent um you know a production manager you know a casting director

01:58:16.960 one of those guys I mean dancers it's the same as Hollywood it's casting couch what about like

01:58:22.980 dallas um like cowboys cheerleaders are they in the same category like oh yeah they going i mean

01:58:28.500 the the cheerleaders the cheers so the cheerleaders aren't supposed and i play college football so

01:58:34.980 like i i really know the sports element of it um so the cheerleaders are not supposed to hook up 1.00

01:58:40.820 with the athletes but obviously they do and that you know they continually get alpha widowed and 0.83

01:58:49.380 And usually what they do to get around this is she might be a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader, but her boyfriend plays for the Bears.

01:58:57.840 Right. So she's dating a football player, but not the one on the team.

01:59:02.100 And then, you know, she might get digged down every now and again from the guys who are actually on the team that she cheers for.

01:59:08.080 But her her, you know, backup or main guy is a long distance relationship with another athlete somewhere else. 0.98

01:59:17.800 and that's kind of how they hide their hand and have their cake and eat it too

01:59:22.060 top female flight attendants oh good yeah i mean flight attendants are always on the go i mean 1.00

01:59:31.560 they're traveling they're a travel girl so you know a lot of times and they're racking up these

01:59:37.220 frequent flyer miles and they're racking up points so on their off time they're still traveling

01:59:43.020 right so i mean this is this is something that you know a lot of people know that they

01:59:48.220 will be smashing the pilots or the guys who are sitting in first class

01:59:52.960 i'm sorry go ahead that's okay go i wonder if the flight attendant relationship to the pilots is

02:00:03.240 like the nurses to the doctors where the where the flight attendants are all trying to get 1.00

02:00:08.080 themselves a pilot so they're sleeping because because nurses i mean they try to sleep with

02:00:13.060 enough doctors to bag themselves one i wonder if if the flight attendant pilot relationship is the 0.71

02:00:18.460 same yeah so about that so with the with the flight attendants it used to be flight attendant

02:00:24.360 pilot right that's kind of like the the go-to relationship that you would assume but now it's

02:00:31.920 flight attendant first class business class guy so the guys that they're actually serving in the

02:00:37.740 first class, the guys that are actually serving in the business class are the guys who one are

02:00:42.120 more likely to hop down just because, you know, they don't work with these women. They're going 1.00

02:00:47.080 to see them one time and one time only. So it gets rid of all that rejection anxiety. And he

02:00:53.060 knows that she has to still be polite to him, even if she rejects his sexual advances. So those are

02:00:58.580 the guys who are going to have the most luck with the flight attendants. And that's what I see

02:01:02.820 um is is the flight attendants are dealing with the business class and in the first class guys

02:01:08.360 now more than they are with the pilots that's true because a lot of guys aren't risking hooking up

02:01:15.680 with women at work anymore yeah so the work wife is but in places adjacent they'll do it what about 1.00

02:01:23.160 female doctors yeah so uh usually a female doctor they're they're probably gonna end up getting with 1.00

02:01:31.700 another doctor just because they're at work at the same time all day they understand you know

02:01:37.600 the profession and she can't date down she can't date a male nurse right um so she's gonna go with 0.53

02:01:45.500 a doctor in another department maybe but he has to have a doctorate okay real quick top three

02:01:53.500 professions i'm gonna make a hierarchy of cheating which is like um like in a triangle

02:02:00.040 where like the most cooked to the least cooked so for women top three professions where you're the 0.97

02:02:06.580 most cooked uh most cooked as far as cheating goes yeah cheating well obviously we got nurses 0.97

02:02:15.960 there they'll probably be number one up there um damn definitely nurses number one 1.00

02:02:26.000 um where are the nurses going if the doctors stop hooking up with them 1.00

02:02:32.260 where they where they what adjacent place are they going i mean they might get the work hours

02:02:39.060 like they might get with some of the patients you know what i'm saying i don't seem

02:02:42.800 you know say you come in there with a little scratch you get nurse back to health and then

02:02:49.360 next thing you know the you're asking the nurse out and she's giving you a number so

02:02:54.620 um they're getting with these patients man here's the thing there are lots of male like what a

02:03:00.900 quarter of nurses are male nurses now and also remember most worst most nurses work 14 days a 0.76

02:03:08.140 month so they have a lot of time to be getting it in man but 12 hour shifts and they have a lot of

02:03:13.620 days off i was thinking you're gonna be more cooked the more of a schedule like you're kind

02:03:18.660 of cooked if you're dating a fireman because i mean he could just say he's working whenever

02:03:23.780 So the more it's like a 24-hour job and they can just say they're working, that's what I was thinking.

02:03:29.980 You're probably more cooked.

02:03:31.220 So for the nurses, they could just say they have a night shift and they're at their side dude's house.

02:03:36.280 Oh, yeah.

02:03:36.940 Easy.

02:03:37.780 And, yeah, if you're not like, what are you going to do if you're dating one?

02:03:40.740 You're not going to follow her.

02:03:42.420 Right.

02:03:43.560 Okay, so nurse is the most cooked. 0.53

02:03:46.020 Would you say you're more cooked dating a nurse than a flight attendant?

02:03:48.780 um you're probably more cook dating a flight attendant just because she's not home and she's 1.00

02:03:57.220 traveling and at least the nurse has to come back to the crib at least some point in the day unless 0.96

02:04:03.180 she's a travel nurse then that kind of blends them in but you know a sleeper is the front desk at a 0.99

02:04:10.720 hotel those women they're staying up late they're seeing a lot of people go in and out and they know 1.00

02:04:17.680 your room number so there's a guy i mean you know guys will go up they'll get the room key and be

02:04:22.960 like join me later it happens trust are you great i would never have thought of that

02:04:29.760 we need it we need to have heavy editors like literally edit this whole thing together man

02:04:35.960 because this has been gold these are gems i would never have okay are there any other sleepers that

02:04:42.640 i gotta think of one i know it's more for sure it'd be a good tweet for you like a list of the

02:04:56.460 sleeper yeah like professions professions what about like female bartenders oh yeah they're 1.00

02:05:04.320 definitely i mean it's all the way up with them um you know and but at the end with a female 0.99

02:05:09.920 bartender, if they're going to cheat, is going to be on the low and is going to be with a guy who's 1.00

02:05:18.140 pretty much on the next level of the guy that they're with. Because there's a big onus on

02:05:24.180 bartenders and bottle girls to be loyal. So they're constantly trying to prove to their man 1.00

02:05:30.160 that they're loyal because they're pretty much like in lingerie every day at work. So they're

02:05:36.320 constantly trying to prove to their man that they're loyal but if they come across a guy who

02:05:41.840 they perceive is more of a alpha than their man you know for lack of a better term um they're

02:05:48.660 gonna go with him so you know i i would say that uh when it comes to bartenders and bottle girls 1.00

02:05:54.940 and stuff um you know they tend to be super duper loyal for a short amount of time but then once

02:06:03.460 once you know they feel like the relationship isn't serving them anymore they're they're

02:06:08.900 gonna cheat in in the most embarrassing way so our bartenders and bottle girls are they 1.00

02:06:17.820 more likely to get with a guy stay short-term loyal and then when they get bored are they

02:06:23.360 gonna break up with the guy to find somebody else or are they gonna stay with the guy until

02:06:27.580 they find somebody else um i mean typically typically they're they're gonna i mean if the

02:06:34.300 guy is providing the the guy at home is providing like he's making more than her then she's probably 0.99

02:06:41.220 just gonna keep it on the low um because the guy that she's gonna cheat with is gonna be 1.00

02:06:46.860 more of a physical attraction to her than her guy at home would retail be a good way to go

02:06:53.900 because they're selling to women usually and they work with women most retail workers are women 0.92

02:07:00.700 yeah i mean if she if she here's the thing like you'll have women who work in retail the issue 1.00

02:07:08.160 with women who work in retail like if they're working at a department store they're working at 1.00

02:07:13.380 like a victoria secrets or jc penny or something like that um they typically end up being fat

02:07:20.640 so they'll be super overweight it's hard to like stay in shape with a job like that where you're

02:07:27.020 on your feet eight hours a day and you're just standing there and then they're just gossiping

02:07:31.060 all day um so you know it's going to be harder for them to stay in shape but if you do have a

02:07:37.800 woman in shape who works you know retail she she could be a good bet because it's not like she's 1.00

02:07:44.320 just earning a crazy amount where she you know is just gonna try and boss up on you she's there 1.00

02:07:50.320 still a hierarchy she has to answer to a boss she has to answer to a supervisor she has to answer

02:07:55.340 to a manager so um there's gonna be that instilled hierarchy in her um you know you just don't want 1.00

02:08:03.340 her working in the fragrance department because if she's inhaling all those different fragrances 1.00

02:08:07.860 and perfumes and and you know um colognes and all that kind of stuff they they they come back home

02:08:14.840 with a screw loose man i mean it affects your brain cells i i'm not saying it you know it's

02:08:20.040 it's super, super duper toxic, but I mean, you got all these different, you're inhaling all

02:08:25.020 these different fumes all day. They don't come back acting a little loopy. What about beauty?

02:08:31.880 Like women that do like hair, nails, wax, like that sort of thing. Yeah. Um, so if she's doing, 1.00

02:08:39.280 if she's doing like hair, makeup, nails, um, I would say that's fine. I think the wax is a little

02:08:48.260 pushing it because you know then you're gonna have to deal with more naked bodies and it's just 1.00

02:08:53.640 the eroticism even if she's not like a homosexual girl if she's waxing pussy all day she's gonna 1.00

02:08:59.760 end up being horny i mean like so you know you kind of are are um you shooting in the dark there 0.99

02:09:07.120 so cool well this is great thanks for coming on doug mpa you got any other questions for him

02:09:14.600 we're gonna have to

02:09:16.260 you're gonna have to teach a class

02:09:19.140 or something for Pearl's website on this whole

02:09:21.040 thing man oh yeah

02:09:22.120 no I'm serious we have to compile all these

02:09:25.160 together because man like

02:09:26.820 like young guys now

02:09:28.800 especially this would

02:09:31.000 be for guys who

02:09:32.600 get a professional degree and right around

02:09:35.100 like you know

02:09:36.520 and they really get it into their career so maybe

02:09:38.860 around like 28 29 30

02:09:40.600 would need to hear all these man like

02:09:42.900 this is for a guy who's 28 29 to 30 years old we need to hear everything

02:09:47.140 you said tonight this is great this is gold oh yeah oh yeah thank you so much man this is great

02:09:52.640 i like i'm glad i can help i liked what you said about cheating adjacent industries

02:09:58.740 yeah i would say in my lifetime i don't think i've really seen

02:10:04.100 i can't i've seen youtubers cheat at work but that's like i feel like that's a little bit

02:10:11.340 different but like other like in professional settings i've never seen people hook up at work

02:10:17.980 because like i think in my lifetime too many guys got screwed that they're just not willing to risk

02:10:25.740 it yeah well the food industry is rife with that like if yeah i was about to say that working at 0.98

02:10:32.100 a restaurant dude all of them are fucking each other bro yeah if you have a daughter don't ever 1.00

02:10:38.140 let her first job be be in a restaurant because i used to work there i waited tables for eight 1.00

02:10:44.860 and a half years man i'm telling you i've that you know i've i've i've seen seen and i've sinned

02:10:52.600 myself yeah yeah and then it's it's harder for like the the uh management to get fired at these

02:10:59.780 fast food places so even if they were like smashing a lower level employee it's easy to

02:11:05.940 cut cut those people loose so it happens all the time and it doesn't even have to be fast food

02:11:11.740 guys most chain restaurants it um restaurant managers make no money for the amount of hours

02:11:19.560 they work you're literally working 70 80 hours a week for picking fifty thousand dollars a year

02:11:24.260 to the thousand dollars a year and so and most of the time a lot of the servers make more than

02:11:31.200 managers do and to factor in tips so nobody wants to do it so most restaurant managers are people

02:11:39.680 that they were the only ones willing to show up and do it we had a guy call in that said he got

02:11:44.720 a part-time job every time he wanted to get laid like serving because he did the most successful

02:11:50.320 one there oh yeah because he had a real job that's a move man for real yeah it's funny

02:11:58.960 okay well thanks so much for calling in uh we do this every day around the same time so if you ever

02:12:04.980 see a topic feel free to jump on okay oh yeah for sure for sure y'all know where to find me

02:12:09.460 hashtag reclaim your throne youtube reclaim d1 on x peace thanks for having me thanks for coming

02:12:16.900 that was so funny oh i forgot to say woman in the military that's another one where you're cooked

02:12:26.540 but i think that you can do the same thing with law enforcement that you can with the military

02:12:31.260 a lot of female military members think that they can do everything a man can do and that's a 1.00

02:12:36.640 problem i just meant i think the military women have to be the most willing to cheat i think you're 1.00

02:12:42.280 the most cooked with military women because you have space where you're gone 1.00

02:12:48.560 so he's never going to find out if you're on a boat you know what i mean yeah and

02:12:55.680 on top of that you haven't seen them in x amount of time and um you're around really attractive

02:13:05.000 guys so yeah you're deployed for like 10 months at a time and like you know if if your significant

02:13:11.980 other as a military woman isn't masculine like you are gonna run into a masculine man in the 1.00

02:13:18.440 military, who's going to get them all, you know, all hot and bothered. Let's just put it that way.

02:13:24.800 Yeah. Cool. Well, I think we're going to close out the show on that.

02:13:31.360 Guys, let me know in the comments, what have you seen a woman get a really big ego from? We'd love 0.99

02:13:38.380 to talk about it. If you have any additions to the hierarchy of cheating, where you're the most

02:13:44.880 cooked for dating this profession to the least cooked feel free to put in the comments and and

02:13:51.040 if you have um pros and cons of dating different professions of women feel free like the video

02:13:58.080 subscribe thank you guys for watching and i'll see you next time have a good one

Pearl - September 03, 2025

Why Do Modern Women Have Such Big Egos？

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