Pearl - April 23, 2025


Why High-Value Men Leave ＂STRONG＂ Modern Women


Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

Words per minute

150.15065

Word count

299

Sentence count

19

Harmful content

Misogyny

4

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Hate speech

2

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Summary

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When a woman is smart, strong, and successful, it can be hard for men to handle the ego that comes with it. In this episode, I talk about why this is a problem and how to overcome it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 i'm here to say that no man's shriveled because a woman was small strong smart strong successful
00:00:09.360 okay no high quality man's shriveled old because a woman was strong smart strong and successful 1.00
00:00:19.680 strong smart and successful smart strong it's the ego that comes with it when you're a smart
00:00:24.320 strong and successful woman, right? It's not like if you were smart, strong, successful, and humble, 0.89
00:00:34.260 you'd be, guys would have no problem. But it's smart, strong, successful, and thinks that they're
00:00:41.020 better than you. That's usually what comes with it. Successful, whatever it is. Okay. That's
00:00:46.880 oftentimes a rationalization that happens when a relationship ends. I'm going to get to that
00:00:52.440 rationalization in a moment because I know that's probably triggered a few of you. So let me tell
00:00:58.020 you really quickly about a story of a couple women I've dated. I remember in the beginning of my
00:01:03.720 journey after my divorce, I went out with a very smart, strong, successful, gorgeous woman. I mean,
00:01:09.580 she made a million dollars a year professionally. She was practically a mensa, you know, incredibly 0.98
00:01:15.640 successful, attractive. Men were pining after her. And she was with me. And after about five
00:01:24.180 months of our relationship, I ended it. When I ended it, I heard on Facebook, she said I was
00:01:32.000 intimidated by her. I don't think it was Facebook. I think it was somewhere else I read that. But I
00:01:37.460 heard that from Circle of Friends and others that she said I couldn't handle her strength. I couldn't
00:01:43.280 handle her confidence that wasn't why i broke up with her i broke up with her because there was a 0.98
00:01:50.160 her her person her terrible personality yeah that's usually it it's usually it 0.99
00:01:56.240 but we can't handle the we can't handle the truth