Pearl - Why Is It Hard for Christian Women to Obey ？

00:00:00.000 Thank you.

00:00:30.000 women would want to listen to their husbands. They wear the Jesus cross and say not all 0.99

00:00:45.260 girls are like that. When a matter of fact they're worse, they're worse. They don't

00:00:58.980 submit to the man. They submit to the pastor. They're worse. They're worse. They don't submit

00:01:11.260 to the man. They submit to the pastor. What up, guys? Wait, wait, wait. Let me switch.

00:01:22.860 let me switch let me switch all right what up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily

00:01:30.520 uh here on the audacity network i love you guys thank you so much for watching

00:01:37.040 you know it's crazy i think i just do better shows when i look homeless

00:01:43.240 i don't like the pressure of putting on um a full face of makeup and like dressing up

00:01:50.520 I'm sorry, you guys. I've actually worked really hard on my makeup, hair, and fashion skills where

00:01:56.440 I can put it on, but there's something about it. I feel most comfortable. I know no one cares about

00:02:02.940 my outfit, but I'm talking about me today. Damn it. I just feel the most comfortable when I look 0.99

00:02:12.500 a little homeless. Is that the worst thing to be about? I feel the most comfortable when I look

00:02:20.240 a little bit homeless, a little bit, you know, like she could have put herself together better.

00:02:27.120 Am I wrong for feeling comfortable that way?

00:02:40.700 I just don't, I feel like myself. Like here you go. I'm going to show you guys my Twitter picture.

00:02:46.280 okay this is my twitter picture i want to tell you all the work i put into the outfit that's in

00:02:51.420 my twitter picture i don't i don't i actually don't care if this has nothing to do with the

00:02:57.000 topic because this is what i want to talk about this is what i want to talk about

00:03:01.600 it's called the pearl show

00:03:06.500 the pearl show where we talk about what i feel like talking about every day yeah

00:03:14.800 so go to my twitter

00:03:20.720 if anyone cares this is my splits progress do you know it's crazy this was not warmed up

00:03:28.980 and i can almost do my front splits but i can't can't sit cross-legged what kind of 0.95

00:03:35.880 bullshit is that? What kind of bullshit is that? Memoirs of a geisha romanticizes the act of doing 1.00

00:03:46.520 makeup. Do you know what's a funny thing about that movie? I used to love that movie and I didn't

00:03:51.880 realize that the main character was a hooker when I was a kid. So every year my family would,

00:03:59.900 they would basically say that you could be who like, you could pick a theme for Halloween and

00:04:05.120 would all be it so i decided i wanted us to be geishas and i found out that the geishas although

00:04:10.640 they're not all hookers that though in that movie they were hookers if anyone cares um i'm debating

00:04:16.240 not so erudite um buy tickets at pang-burn.com because i get paid more if um you guys buy

00:04:24.800 tickets so september 12th so anyways where was i going oh i was going to talk about the outfits

00:04:32.000 So I put on a full face of makeup for this picture. Okay. I did unbutton a button to make

00:04:39.780 it a little risque. Okay. Sue me. Sue me. I did it. I did it. And I'm, I did it. I did it. I wanted

00:04:47.600 a little bit, a little bit of attention. I won't lie. A little bit. Okay. I don't think it's that

00:04:55.000 bad, but anyways, then I put on, I got my colors done to figure out what colors look best on me.

00:05:00.580 and apparently that shade of green looks best i i know that outfit seems simple but i put in a lot

00:05:06.620 of work to figuring out what poses look the best blah blah blah yada yada i'm just saying like

00:05:14.780 but then i went through all that work to where i can actually decently style myself now um because

00:05:21.260 what i used to have was atrocious but i kind of understand the concepts now but it's like i went

00:05:26.180 through all that work and I prefer to look homeless. I prefer, I just don't feel comfortable

00:05:33.680 that dressed up. What percentage of your viewers are female, Pearl? Why do you need to rub it in?

00:05:46.700 Why do you need to rub it in? Like none. Women hate me. Oh, all the women hate me just because

00:05:55.320 I say women ain't shit. Just because I say women ain't shit, the women have to hate me. 1.00

00:06:05.840 Did you need to rub it, rub it in? Barnacle. Pearl, do you have any female friends? No. 1.00

00:06:16.360 obviously not hey Pearl Pearl do you have mommy issues yes obviously oh my 1.00

00:06:26.620 god why does the internet why do they have to rub it in all the time 1.00

00:06:32.240 Pearl! Pearl! Pearl! Pearl! You date black guys! Obviously! 0.96

00:06:39.240 Of course!

00:06:42.240 Pearl! Pearl! Pearl! Pearl! Pearl!

00:06:46.240 You're a modern woman! You're a modern woman! I know! 0.99

00:06:57.240 Pearl! Pearl! Pearl!

00:07:02.240 Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, you're ugly. 0.99

00:07:04.640 I'm better looking. 1.00

00:07:05.880 We're all chopped, ninja. 0.98

00:07:09.300 We are all chopped. 0.99

00:07:11.600 I'm chopped. 1.00

00:07:12.760 You're chopped.

00:07:13.800 This is called chopped.

00:07:15.580 It's the chopped Olympics.

00:07:18.180 I'm obviously chopped.

00:07:20.540 I should thank my father and my mother for that.

00:07:26.320 Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, you were more famous before.

00:07:29.920 you fell off obviously obviously like 0.99

00:07:39.120 i saw something today that this this girl was like 0.99

00:07:50.260 i mean get this this girl is criticizing me who got investigated for getting money from russia it's 1.00

00:07:59.260 Like, bitch, you can't tell me shit. 1.00

00:08:01.240 I don't know what you were doing. 1.00

00:08:07.680 Anyways.

00:08:12.140 She's like, Pearl, you make it so hard to like you. 1.00

00:08:15.460 I don't want to be liked by you, you naggy bitchy woman. 1.00

00:08:21.020 I mean, this girl, she had the audacity, okay? 1.00

00:08:25.600 This girl, I forget her name.

00:08:26.780 She went on Sneeko's channel. 1.00

00:08:27.960 a complete nag stuck up Christian girl and she goes Pearl makes it very hard to like her she 0.99

00:08:37.180 makes it so hard oh no oh another woman to nag me oh I'm missing 1.00

00:08:52.300 i'm just gonna cry myself to sleep 0.73

00:09:01.080 we'll go through whatever else i want to talk about

00:09:22.300 these are my splits my mobility progression if anyone cares this is what I care the most about

00:09:31.760 right now and I'm not proud of it but I'm man enough to say I'm woman enough to say it

00:09:36.240 the most important thing to me right now is getting my splits I've put like two years into this

00:09:43.200 I have put two years into this process I will get the splits I am the least

00:09:50.880 You know, Pearl, Pearl, we don't care about the splits.

00:09:53.620 I'm going to talk about it anyway. 0.87

00:09:57.180 Yes.

00:09:59.540 I've put two years into this of stretching.

00:10:02.500 I was the least flexible person when I started in the planet.

00:10:09.100 On the planet.

00:10:10.720 I couldn't even touch my toes.

00:10:12.040 Now I can almost do my front splits.

00:10:13.900 I can't do it yet.

00:10:14.620 It's been two years.

00:10:16.440 I think side splits is going to take me another year.

00:10:20.160 but some reason I can almost do the front splits. I can't sit cross-legged.

00:10:24.480 Do you know how frustrating that is? Oh my God.

00:10:36.160 I don't know. I got to stream more though. I won't lie. We had a pretty bad month last in a month.

00:10:42.400 We had a pretty bad month. Okay. $500 super chat and I'll do the splits live.

00:10:47.940 Yeah, this is a pony show.

00:10:51.880 This is a pony show.

00:10:53.220 Yeah, you got to pay.

00:10:55.120 The only thing is I have to like warm up.

00:10:57.120 So it'd be a whole thing because if I go right into it, it's not going to, you know.

00:11:04.380 But 500 bucks, I'll do it.

00:11:06.520 Why have self-respect when you cannot have it, right?

00:11:10.100 Why, you know, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl.

00:11:12.000 They're going to clip it and put it on Twitter for 500 bucks.

00:11:15.260 I don't care, Ninja.

00:11:17.460 I do not care. This is important to me. That's like the only thing. I think everybody around me,

00:11:33.180 I think I talk about getting my splits at least once a day. That's the annoying thing about being

00:11:38.420 friends with me, right? I get autistically obsessed with things. Auntie Jenny used to say

00:11:45.520 have asperger's i don't think so like i think i'd be a little bit less i mean i think i'm kind

00:11:52.080 of normal do you know what i mean uh but they're like oh you have asperger's blah blah you're

00:11:57.120 autistic and i don't know maybe i am because i get obsessed with things like the splits

00:12:01.440 and then everyone's like well why do you care about the splits so much because i do ninja

00:12:05.360 but yeah like every day i just get obsessed like i'm obsessed with hitting my goal weight

00:12:15.440 which i've been trying to get for years unsuccessfully but eventually i know i'll

00:12:19.840 hit it because i do hit things eventually um i'm obsessed with

00:12:25.560 maybe getting this channel back on off the ground um i was obsessed with cooking for a little bit

00:12:33.180 but I think I've hit, not where I'm like chef level, but I'm happy enough with my cooking

00:12:39.160 skills that I'm like good with it. You know what I mean? So I was obsessed with the cleaning for

00:12:47.380 a little bit because I didn't know how to do it. And now I, I have no flexibility. You can change

00:12:53.140 it, but it'll take like two years. I'm not even kidding. Two years, every day, every other day.

00:12:58.240 um i've switched to high protein for the diet

00:13:02.960 and it's actually been amazing um i should have did this a long time ago

00:13:08.200 you're a streamer you're probably on the spectrum well guess what i made it through all of the

00:13:15.500 education system without a diagnosis so if i'm on the spectrum i'm obviously not on the spectrum

00:13:21.620 that much because nobody diagnosed me. Point proven. Boom. Case closed. Case closed. Yeah. Yeah.

00:13:51.620 but yeah i had a bad month last month so i think i'm gonna be here a lot so you can just um

00:13:59.940 i told all you know the two friends i do have i'm just like yeah we can't really hang out

00:14:05.880 we can't really hang out because i've gotta i've gotta i've gotta dig myself out of a hole because

00:14:12.500 uh we're switching the app next week so everybody that was on the old app i'm gonna give you free

00:14:17.440 access to the new app and then if you want to donate you can if not i know i did promise that

00:14:23.360 it would be free after a year um the reason that was not fulfilled was because the second

00:14:29.120 app took longer than i i it should but it was kind of the last payment was kind of expensive

00:14:34.400 so i was like i gotta i gotta beg i guess it's time to beg i get i guess they're like pearl

00:14:43.520 pearl like some of the people that don't like me right they're like pearl

00:14:46.640 pearl's begging for money yes ninja obviously

00:14:56.080 pearl you're begging for money hell yeah i am and i do it again i do it over and over and over but hey

00:15:06.080 i'm i'm for real with what i i'll do with the money a lot a lot of streamers or whatever

00:15:13.040 they're like pearl you know they're like they they they take your money and they just blow it

00:15:18.080 on stuff and nothing ever comes about like who's that dr umar who said he was going to build a 0.99

00:15:22.720 school and then he was too dumb to get the school out earn that what do i gotta shake tits you know 0.99

00:15:35.200 how do i define a bad month mind your business damn it mind you we don't need to rub it in 1.00

00:15:43.040 Sorry. So anyways, yeah, but you know, a lot of streamers, they won't tell you what they're

00:15:57.180 going to do with the money. I'll tell you what I'll do with the money. I'll tell you

00:16:02.080 that I'm begging for, right? Some could say trying to earn, I could say begging, right?

00:16:09.600 so the first documentary we raised the money good job to us right we raised it

00:16:15.260 the second documentary is going to be about false accusations in the military

00:16:19.800 and that's what i'm going to do so um the last film 0.95

00:16:28.740 thank you 20 super chat what do you need me to do shake some ass i'm just messing 0.90

00:16:36.640 um oh you can hire me as your stretching coach didn't i just tell you i had a bad month 0.84

00:16:45.440 you think i can afford that i just put a so anyways my i got a lot of the building blocks

00:16:51.880 in place for this channel like um i got my app done so people can donate it'll have our contact

00:16:59.560 system so next week i need you guys to give me your emails um and really give me the emails a

00:17:05.820 lot because i don't know there could be some switch over i don't want to lose you so i'm

00:17:12.340 gonna everyone that has bought my original app is going to be inputted into the system for free

00:17:17.820 and then if you want to donate you can donate if not you know it is what it is

00:17:22.820 it's like it's like if you want to donate then put a gun up thank you for the super chat that's

00:17:30.500 very kind to you. So, um, then the, then the documentary, um, the first one we've done

00:17:40.220 probably 80% of the filming now they're going to, um, Oh, you didn't even know there was an app.

00:17:48.460 See, this is my, this is my fault. This is my fault because I'm a woman. I can't get to the

00:17:54.940 point and i just i just take l after l after l okay so maybe i need to start over so when i first

00:18:03.020 got into streaming i created a network and it was called the audacity network um and my channel was

00:18:09.820 called just pearly things and i i named the app the audio and the reason i said i did this was

00:18:15.420 because um i wanted to be a little more professional my old youtube name was just

00:18:23.980 pearly things and i thought it was cute but i'm like no now i'm pearl davis yes so then um i'd

00:18:31.420 started a network which failed um i hired a bunch of youtubers when i got demonetized hoping they

00:18:37.180 would blow up like i did but that was harder to replicate than i thought so i poured a bunch of

00:18:41.020 money into that and i lost it um anyway so but i liked the idea of calling it the audacity network

00:18:52.780 because you know i just like the audacity i say that a lot and i thought maybe in the future i

00:19:02.620 could hire all the directors that got me too'd out of hollywood i don't know i don't know if i

00:19:07.420 could manage something that big i'd need someone bigger than me to do it but but i'm the first

00:19:13.580 talent right and maybe in the future um we could do movies or like i don't know i don't know ben

00:19:20.060 ben shapiro maybe we just have other youtubers but my documentary is going to go on that app

00:19:26.140 and then we're going to build a community through that app so i have an app now but

00:19:32.620 i'm literally canceling it this week we had issues with the i don't really want to go into 1.00

00:19:37.100 the issues we had issues with that once we had to redo it yeah so i want to bring like hot women 1.00

00:19:44.380 back into shows. So anyways, that's next week. If you bought on my old app, I have you in the 1.00

00:19:54.740 system. So we're going to add you to the new one. Yeah, so. Anyways.

00:20:14.380 oh um but basically the documentary we're doing is called what's in it for men so what's in it

00:20:24.400 for men marriage where we ask the question what do men get out of marriage because i went on all

00:20:28.000 these shows as a youtuber and i started off christian conservative and i kept going on all

00:20:33.280 these shows and i felt like people were lying like i went on michael knowles and i felt like he was

00:20:38.180 lying about marriage and saying it was a lot more special and awesome than it was because um when i

00:20:43.060 did my research, I found out that marriage is a terrible deal for men. And I felt like none of

00:20:47.560 the conservatives were honest about it. So I asked the question, what's in it for men? And that's

00:20:53.400 the next question I'm going to ask is what's in it for men? Um, military edition. 0.97

00:21:01.000 So Noel says full shit, nice guy, but full shit, nice guy, but weak guy. Cause he's not honest. 1.00

00:21:08.460 i'm gonna go get myself another sprite zero while i um play the divorce documentary

00:21:17.040 so you guys see the what i'm fundraising for the way you can donate now is a gofundme but in a week

00:21:24.780 we're gonna have it like available on the app so anyways um there's just a lot of costs that i

00:21:33.680 in the long term are going to be good right i am begging a little bit um you know i have

00:21:39.040 the app done the documentary i had to pay for um and there was just a lot of costs right

00:21:47.920 so i think it's good i think the future um it'll get better right but it's always a little scary

00:21:56.880 when you've done a lot of the upfront costs but it should be done now so anyways

00:22:03.680 ...viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question,

00:22:13.080 do we need men? Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless. 0.99

00:22:21.280 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye. Most young men are single, most young women are 0.98

00:22:26.800 not. Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:22:31.780 It's a different world now. 0.99

00:22:32.900 Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:22:34.900 Nobody needs men! 1.00

00:22:36.160 The future is female. 1.00

00:22:39.180 Men and women are drifting further apart, 1.00

00:22:42.580 and society is crumbling because of it. 0.84

00:22:45.920 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:22:48.880 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:22:51.580 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:22:55.140 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:22:59.060 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond. 1.00

00:23:01.780 it's a machine designed to extract resources from you now many of the red-pilled have taken

00:23:06.500 the position that it's bad for men to get married hannah pearl davis or just pearly things one of

00:23:13.620 the most controversial faces in all of the internet she goes on to say that marriage is a terrible

00:23:19.220 deal for men because if me and you were in a business contract you would never sign a contract 0.88

00:23:23.620 where i am paid to leave gee what could go wrong there 74 or something of divorces are initiated by

00:23:30.420 women men have everything to lose primarily their own children men get killed by the courts and by

00:23:35.780 divorce laws i had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity not courts of law because

00:23:41.540 in family court you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse you need no evidence when you

00:23:46.100 guys say get married young a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for and you're

00:23:49.780 not going to be there when their entire life falls apart i interview them on the other side

00:23:55.140 i didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old how much did you spend trying to get him back

00:23:59.780 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:24:02.160 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:24:03.600 You're literally just thrown out onto the street. 1.00

00:24:05.500 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00

00:24:07.900 Wives are taught to leave their husbands. 1.00

00:24:09.840 And then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:24:12.200 Family is a foundation of society. 1.00

00:24:13.920 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00

00:24:17.080 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness. 1.00

00:24:21.340 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women. 1.00

00:24:23.280 We tell women to date as many guys as possible. 1.00

00:24:25.220 We tell them to put off family into marriage. 1.00

00:24:27.040 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:24:29.540 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend. 0.99

00:24:34.140 Oh, freeze your ex, have an abortion. 0.89

00:24:35.940 What? You're evil. 1.00

00:24:37.180 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:24:41.040 Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,

00:24:45.140 naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:24:47.860 It's self-sabotage.

00:24:48.820 That's the thing. 1.00

00:24:49.360 Like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy. 1.00

00:24:52.580 This is not about happiness. 0.89

00:24:54.240 The most important thing is the children.

00:24:56.320 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:25:05.220 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:25:09.000 They think, well, men have all the rights. They have all the power.

00:25:11.780 Privilege, patriarchal system that we have. 0.98

00:25:14.080 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights? 0.88

00:25:16.720 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:25:19.960 Men are alone in this situation. Men are homeless. Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:25:24.580 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:25:28.900 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:25:34.460 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure. 1.00

00:25:38.340 Women are helplessly dependent upon men. 0.93

00:25:40.980 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.

00:25:48.020 Culture is telling men, you are no good. You got to get your act together.

00:25:51.100 I think men have failed themselves.

00:25:52.720 What kind of a man are you? 1.00

00:25:53.960 What kind of a woman are you going to attract? 0.93

00:25:55.920 If men are in trouble, so are women. 0.99

00:25:58.580 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it. 0.98

00:26:02.240 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to give...

00:26:04.500 500K.

00:26:05.180 500K.

00:26:05.580 300K.

00:26:06.060 300K.

00:26:06.560 200K.

00:26:07.000 Am I crazy?

00:26:07.720 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:26:10.000 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.

00:26:13.580 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men? 1.00

00:26:17.460 Women. 1.00

00:26:18.920 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore. 1.00

00:26:21.120 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:26:23.240 I'm over it.

00:26:24.440 When is it going to be my turn?

00:26:25.720 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:26:27.560 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:26:30.280 The only simp here is you, Pearl. You simp for men. 0.99

00:26:32.120 No, I think you simp for women. 1.00

00:26:33.560 She's a provocateur. She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this. 1.00

00:26:37.080 It's already happening. It's just not out in the open yet. 1.00

00:26:39.640 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife 0.98

00:26:43.800 and women can't find a husband. 0.80

00:26:45.240 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future. 0.99

00:26:51.240 going to populate decline and our economy goes into decline civilization will crumble the

00:26:56.360 american story does not end well this is an existential crisis failing young men

00:27:09.160 yeah so if you guys want to donate we're going to do that but military edition like what's in it

00:27:13.400 for men military. Maybe I could throw some money to see if Tom Brady or someone famous,

00:27:21.820 if we got a big donation, would want to be in it. You never know. So anyways.

00:27:26.880 All right. So what's going on, guys? Today, I want to talk about the street interview I did,

00:27:34.680 which talked about the idea of obedience. So

00:27:38.800 when I got into the red pill space, um, I actually thought it was very freeing and it made a lot of

00:27:46.880 my life make sense. So for those of you that don't know, um, I was kind of entrenched into

00:27:52.160 the red pill space. I saw Kevin Samuel's videos, fresh and fit. Um, and at first I disagreed with

00:27:57.580 like a few of their points, um, like high volume and cheap, blah, blah, blah. I could kind of go

00:28:02.000 how I changed my mind on a few of them. But when I found out that most women were banging the same 1.00

00:28:09.600 men, that actually made everything I'd seen in my life make sense. Or that women, you know, 0.99

00:28:17.240 when I heard it like an alpha widow, that made perfect sense. That's something I had experienced.

00:28:23.020 And that was something pretty much every woman I knew had experienced being an alpha widow.

00:28:27.700 and what i loved about red pill was it just 1.00

00:28:33.620 i don't know when i found it they were all banging the same men um that women are going

00:28:41.620 for men out of their league etc etc like i was like oh my gosh so i was really grateful to the

00:28:49.520 red pill right 99 cent super chat i'll take it i mean you could have i mean you could have done

00:28:55.060 five bucks. Right. But I guess I'll take it. You know, I guess, you know, it's one of those months.

00:29:10.200 So my initial reaction was, wow, this actually puts everything into place.

00:29:25.060 However, one thing I heard from the red pill was that men want you to cook and clean.

00:29:33.740 Now, I found this to be helpful.

00:29:38.040 So I actually went out of my way to cook and clean, right?

00:29:42.120 I went out of my way.

00:29:44.600 I took a lot of time to learn these skills.

00:29:49.600 I really, I probably took two years learning where I really stepped back from working to learn life skills so I could have a family someday.

00:30:01.040 I learned about all the different types of cleaning products because I found out I was bad at cleaning because I would use the wrong product, right?

00:30:11.240 I learned how to cook meats in different ways.

00:30:14.880 I can use an air fryer, a skillet, a grill, the oven.

00:30:20.560 I can count macros now.

00:30:31.220 I went out of my way to spend more time with kids, right?

00:30:35.060 Because I was like, you know, I haven't been around kids.

00:30:36.400 I grew up with a lot of kids, but I haven't been around kids in a while.

00:30:39.500 Went and learned that.

00:30:41.200 I learned how to dress better.

00:30:42.540 I know I did spend the first 10 minutes saying that I prefer to look homeless.

00:30:48.080 But if I want to, I can dress well.

00:30:49.820 I can do makeup.

00:30:52.080 And just to find out that most men don't want that at all.

00:31:00.640 Now, I'm not saying they don't take it into account when they have kids and stuff.

00:31:04.680 But I just got to be honest.

00:31:12.540 it's mygirlabop.com. I'm going to look up that. Most men have a routine and actually it annoys

00:31:22.180 them more when you mess up their routine. Most of the, you know, I got into a relationship and

00:31:33.960 the guy, he could cook better than me. He had his food. He likes cooking, right? Has his food. He

00:31:38.980 likes cooking and I will cook right I do on a regular basis but I just have to be honest

00:31:51.100 most men by the time they're in their 30s they can cook better than you and they like the foods

00:32:00.520 they cook. If anything, you're going to cook for them, but you're going to cook for them worse

00:32:10.100 than they can do it. Now, again, they do appreciate the effort because most men have

00:32:14.780 never had a woman put in effort into like being with them. But I'm just being honest. It's not

00:32:27.560 this like fail safe um that you think that will solve all of your dating issues as a woman

00:32:35.820 it's really not i can i can say it because i went through it i learned it it is a value add

00:32:44.100 but even the guys i was thinking about this um myron that that says that women should cook and

00:32:53.240 clean i'm like myron would you really need a woman to cook and clean like don't you eat i don't know

00:32:59.420 because i went when i was on fresh and fit i hope i'm not saying i don't think this is too much

00:33:03.920 you know they go out to like sushi after the shows i'm like

00:33:09.360 men kind of like they have their things they eat every day

00:33:14.440 and most of them by the time they're like 30s to 40s which

00:33:21.480 You know, by the time I found the red pill, you know, 26, 27.

00:33:26.680 So that would be, you know, my age bracket, you know, I date older usually.

00:33:36.020 Right.

00:33:36.600 And then I would hear that men want peace, but it would just be like so annoying because

00:33:40.840 nobody would explain what peace meant.

00:33:47.140 Like there was no step by step.

00:33:49.940 What do I do if I have problems?

00:33:52.900 You know what I mean?

00:33:54.440 Okay, like, are we going on a first date?

00:33:56.700 We might get drinks or dinner.

00:33:58.460 Like, what am I?

00:34:05.400 Yeah, I know.

00:34:06.080 It's for the kids.

00:34:06.900 But remember, that comes later.

00:34:09.980 Like, in the courting process.

00:34:11.700 Like, you have to get through the courting process to even get to cooking and cleaning.

00:34:19.580 So, I mean, in the early stages, um, you're going places, you know what I mean?

00:34:45.640 you have to get through that and have the guy not ghost you before the cooking or the cleaning even

00:34:51.460 comes. You know what I mean? Now they would say that women bring peace, um, but they would never

00:35:11.720 say specifically what to do they just say what not to do right don't nag well and then you're 0.99

00:35:18.600 like well what is what is nagging you know what i mean i know now but like when you first you're

00:35:25.480 like what what specifically i'm not i'm not but sometimes the internet bullies whoever i associate

00:35:42.880 with. So I just try not to, you know what I mean? They, you know, like, yeah, they, they kind of

00:35:56.660 bully whoever I date. They really, the internet does bully whoever I date. Um, so I try to,

00:36:07.620 Yeah, only speak when spoken to.

00:36:10.740 Again, that sounds good in practice, but you don't want a first date.

00:36:14.940 Guys are trying to get you to talk because they know if you talk more, they get laid. 0.66

00:36:20.260 So again, you're not helping women get through the early process. 0.89

00:36:25.420 The cooking and you can't see my character unless I don't get ghosted immediately.

00:36:31.080 Do you know what I mean?

00:36:32.820 You cannot see my character.

00:36:37.620 again don't speak it like do you think the majority of men really have that opinion

00:36:48.360 i'm telling you they try to get you to talk 0.86

00:36:53.640 hey hey you stop chewing on that dog that is a coke zero i'm not fat 0.79

00:37:06.040 yeah so I just kind of found this like really not useful do you know what I mean like okay I

00:37:19.500 learned to cook and clean now what you know 0.99

00:37:21.800 and then you have to understand if you're a girl that doesn't have those skills

00:37:27.800 you understand like part of finding a guy is like putting yourself in situations where you'll meet

00:37:35.700 them right it depends if you want to go the online or the in-person route 0.57

00:37:43.860 so again like the places you're going to meet men are outside but the skills you need to be a wife

00:37:51.380 is inside so it's like okay if i'm not outside i'm not meeting anybody but if i'm inside

00:37:58.180 do you know what i mean

00:38:03.840 and they'd say be loyal right they would say okay be loyal to a guy but 0.99

00:38:10.800 i have to be honest in my experience uh women end up single a lot because they're loyal to a guy

00:38:17.640 that's never going to date them right and that's our inclination um

00:38:23.360 so what i like first you got to be loyal to someone who's seeing you enough to

00:38:34.220 you know be loyal to you know what i mean if you're seeing you like once a month it's just

00:38:39.360 you're cooked you're done done so

00:38:41.240 So then, um, yeah, exactly.

00:39:02.740 I could care less.

00:39:03.740 and um i found just in my real life experience that men don't really care about cooking and

00:39:17.460 cleaning until the kids are involved but in the early stages really

00:39:21.440 you know what i mean i would say the more important things are not being annoying right

00:39:33.380 But it's difficult. When you're an annoying person, how do I not be annoying? It's just my personality. It's kind of annoying, right? It's like, how do I, how do I turn off who I am?

00:39:45.340 so today i'll say what i did find that men want in general

00:40:04.500 why do you think i'm annoying i think it's my personality yeah this is just my experience you

00:40:13.000 can take it or leave it right you can you can take this and throw it out okay um i'll say one

00:40:21.680 mistake i made was i'd always try to impress i took a lot of joy i was an athlete and i always

00:40:28.060 have taken a great joy out of being good at things right and many times i would try to be impressive

00:40:34.580 but men don't really care if you're impressive they don't want you to be lazy right they don't

00:40:41.680 want you to just have a bunch of free time where you're just doing nothing you doubt if you

00:40:50.060 interviewed my ex-boyfriends they would tell you i think every guy i've ever dated has said i'm

00:40:54.800 annoying at some point i mean i think it's like it's impossible you know like it's you know so

00:41:01.100 where was i going with that men want you to be impressed even if what they're doing is not

00:41:11.500 impressive at all. And if you, you know, you can either fake this or be real, right? They want you

00:41:22.400 to be impressed by them. They want a free schedule. I would say the number one thing that keeps women

00:41:34.340 single is actually, and I would say this kept me single for a long time. Um, I used to do a show. 0.91

00:41:42.540 I would do a three hour, I would do a two hour volleyball practice, come back home and do a

00:41:48.100 three hour show. When would I have time to be in a relationship? You're going to have to ask him,

00:41:58.400 you know what i mean men the second thing i would say men want is a free schedule and they'd love

00:42:06.240 for you to just be on their back on his beck and call whenever he feels like it last minute

00:42:11.140 they do want you last minute because that signals that you're not seeing other men

00:42:15.980 right loyalty right they want you to see nobody nobody else

00:42:21.620 i would say all both more important more important than cooking and cleaning

00:42:28.780 both more important

00:42:33.100 they don't really want your opinion on things and i think a lot of i do i definitely do this

00:42:45.160 if they give a plan

00:42:48.860 they don't want your opinion on the plan or say, oh, how about we do this, you know?

00:42:59.240 That's been the hardest part for me personally is getting out of that habit because sometimes

00:43:03.500 I'll just have an idea of how I could do something, right?

00:43:10.240 And I would say the way men in general want you to treat them

00:43:13.880 is with respect because respect is more important than love.

00:43:19.980 And if I'm missing anything, put it in the comment.

00:43:23.260 And that goes to submission and obedience.

00:43:31.900 When you think of the way that you respect, for me, I was in sports,

00:43:36.280 so you respect your coach's opinion.

00:43:38.460 There's something like deference, deferring to them.

00:43:40.800 and men don't want to tell you to do this. That's the problem. That's why we're never corrected.

00:43:46.940 Men want you to naturally do this. They want you to naturally ask their opinion in the same way

00:43:53.380 you would naturally ask a male mentor their opinion. As a woman, I'm sure you've had a

00:43:59.860 mentor at work, a mentor, whatever. So for example, um, when I was growing up, there was a coach that

00:44:17.920 I just worshiped. It was, it was a woman and a guy, these pair of coaches. I worshiped the ground,

00:44:24.280 they walked on right and everything they could have told me for volleyball I would have believed

00:44:31.920 they even had me blocking in like a weird way like in a way that nobody else blocked you know

00:44:39.580 and I took it because I trusted them so much like to the point that other people would say

00:44:44.460 why are you blocking like that and I'm like no they're really like good at it no they know what

00:44:49.960 they're doing like that's the kind of trust they want you know they want emotional control they 1.00

00:44:57.780 want you to just be happy a woman being a bitch but being able to cook and clean means like nothing 1.00

00:45:04.020 if you're in a bitchy mood and this is a tough thing for a woman because 0.99

00:45:08.020 so many things bother us right it's incredible how many things just like bother us

00:45:13.860 and you just have to not show whatever and just be happy

00:45:29.300 and I'm not saying I do any of this perfectly please please believe but I'd like to say 1.00

00:45:36.100 the red pill advice for women it just was not helpful to me because they'd be like okay don't 0.99

00:45:42.900 sleep around but you're like how do I get into a relationship if I can't um everyone like that

00:45:49.300 this is a tough sell I'm not a virgin you know what I mean uh I mean I gotta I think I gotta

00:45:55.120 put out and then they're like well we'll just pick a man of high care how do I know he's in

00:46:01.080 my league what is my league you know and like for me these questions I'd be like and I see women I

00:46:06.640 think we're kind of embarrassed to ask these questions because it's like

00:46:12.900 it's kind of embarrassing. You know what I mean?

00:46:19.080 Most women are the worst listeners. That's true. They want a woman that listens. 1.00

00:46:24.280 Our head and mine is like this too. It naturally goes other places. This is why we're not meant

00:46:29.380 to have jobs because we come home and we're thinking about work and not listening to what

00:46:35.600 he says. Yeah, you don't think being too available is a turn on to most guys.

00:46:57.520 Men expect if, okay, if you're too available, they might think there's a catch because if

00:47:03.960 you're a certain level of hot and you're just all of a sudden available, they might think you're

00:47:07.700 crazy, right? There is that balancing act. Um, but I don't think that's true to an extent. Like I

00:47:15.300 don't overall, um, they just, they don't even want to smell or think about another man on you.

00:47:25.160 There are men that have gotten over this, um, and somehow kind of like women get jealous over

00:47:31.020 cheating right but some women get over it to date high status men there's some men that want to date

00:47:38.060 women out of their league and they and they realize that doing the open stuff or sex parties

00:47:42.780 gets them over this you know but yeah high level of availability gets a suspicious eyebrow yeah like

00:48:01.020 Um, there are men that like the chase, right? There are men, you know, men aren't all the same.

00:48:10.520 Oh, I'm going to meet my girl. I hope she's not too available. It's not bad. It's just like

00:48:15.540 if you do too much, sometimes they think something else is wrong with you.

00:48:20.980 Just like a guy that's experienced a certain level of women. They understand that women that

00:48:26.440 are over a certain level of attractiveness like they're really busy and it's not just other guys

00:48:31.880 it's like their friends want to do brunch they like they have like a million events or blah blah

00:48:38.600 blah so when you have none of that they're kind of like what's wrong with you you know what i mean

00:48:45.480 well you might not get that many you know what i mean i'm just telling you what i've heard in the

00:48:49.080 field you know like okay this one guy i knew he was telling me he was dating this single mom right

00:49:05.720 and he was saying she's so perfect she's so amazing to me she's so amazing to me um

00:49:13.000 and i'm like well why do you like her so much um because he he was kind of trying to decide

00:49:17.560 if he wanted to take on another man's kids right and he's like oh um well she um

00:49:29.240 i know simp right but he said she's available she comes over whenever i

00:49:33.400 want she doesn't complain and i'm like

00:49:39.240 that raised a red flag because i'm like who's watching this woman's kids

00:49:42.760 you know what i mean who is watching this this woman's um children yeah i don't think he ended

00:49:51.580 up going with it but i was trying to point out that this is a selfish woman but he didn't see 0.98

00:49:56.500 it not enough experience women i guess um most of that is um second to looks and attraction yeah

00:50:02.260 look at ladies it's a cold hard world a lot of your life is determined by how hot you are and

00:50:07.700 there's nothing you can do um men that have worked their whole life to be attractive are not 1.00

00:50:13.400 going to settle with a mid woman unless she shows and this depends how much time you got 0.99

00:50:18.580 because okay i knew okay so if you're 20 and you're dating you're banging a guy out of your 0.85

00:50:26.720 league if you put in like five years of loyalty he might give it a chance to be on that's a lot

00:50:32.900 loyalty like that does add up for men i knew a girl that did that i mean she was a mid kind of 0.95

00:50:38.900 a chubby mid and she was banging the best looking guy on one of the sports team out teams at my 1.00

00:50:43.040 college i thought he'd never date her but she put in like five years she put in five years of work

00:50:48.120 and then he finally caved um but i don't know it depends how old you are do you got five years to

00:50:55.280 give of loyalty and then you're passing up on other opportunities right so it depends you know

00:51:04.340 you gotta you gotta make a choice and that's kind of the conversation with women a lot of this is

00:51:08.680 going to be a gamble and it does not guarantee an outcome it does not obedience and loyalty

00:51:14.600 does not guarantee you will get the guy you want or you will get an outcome

00:51:18.520 yeah hookup culture is a trend but many marriages start because of hookup culture 1.00

00:51:32.140 I mean come on it started in like the 70s so again depending on your attractiveness and 0.91

00:51:38.880 your purity level as a woman and your age like waiting on sex you are not really going to get 0.92

00:51:45.320 the best sell you know because men do cost-benefit analysis and you know if 1.00

00:52:00.500 you're an average looking chick and you're waiting on sex you better sell 1.00

00:52:06.540 that purity really fucking hard and men might buy it but you get older they're 1.00

00:52:12.780 not gonna buy it anymore so sex I would say men want sex more than cooking and clean there's a 1.00

00:52:24.840 reason that women are investing so heavily in like looking sexy and their looks like 1.00

00:52:29.980 a lot of men they'll gaslight you and they'll say oh it's not all about looks that's true

00:52:38.260 if it's within a certain range right like and the level of choice the guy has and how badly he got

00:52:45.300 burned by the hot chick so what happens is men graduate right high school call whatever they 0.74

00:52:49.740 start dating they go for the hottest chicks available um and if you're a mid and you can 0.69

00:52:54.580 um overlook him getting his heart broke by the hot chicks you can be there when he settles for 0.93

00:52:59.980 you right you can that is that is um an option and so a lot of women take it and and some of them 1.00

00:53:06.780 do win. Right. Um, but immediately off the bat, it's kind of just looks, um, looks and youth 1.00

00:53:17.500 in the early stages. Right. Uh, once he gets burned by that hot chick, then he'll say it's

00:53:26.940 not all about looks, but he had to get burned first. That's, that's why they gaslight you 0.96

00:53:32.000 because they're like, it was a lesson they had to learn. You know, I'm really invested in

00:53:36.720 Clavicula's girlfriends. So I'll tell you. Um, so let's see. Um, I'll do the blonde one. So like

00:53:48.140 right now, Clavicula is like the top guy for these young people and he's got two really

00:53:53.920 attractive blonde girlfriends. Right. And he made them public facing girlfriends. I think one has

00:54:01.820 and only fans just because they were hot he has another girlfriend that's mid like average looking 0.93

00:54:06.620 chick and she had to be with him for a year before she was public facing and had to go through way 0.75

00:54:13.580 more shit to get that title look i mean men it's like a car a luxury car can just go right ahead 0.98

00:54:20.760 a mid's got to work for it either get hotter or accept your place in the game 0.99

00:54:26.260 it's not all about looks it's the mannerisms the boy yeah that's that's 1.00

00:54:40.340 the second thing femininity right 1.00

00:54:43.880 having a soft voice you know 1.00

00:54:56.260 i'm trying to think of who like dolly parton i think does a decent job who guys will play a 1.00

00:55:03.320 video um who do you think is a good example of a woman who acts really feminine that's famous

00:55:07.840 i know you're gonna say pearl you can't just use famous people as an example it's not real okay

00:55:13.420 are you gonna give me one i think men really liked jessica alba young but

00:55:20.680 I mean come on

00:55:22.660 look at all men's celebrity crushes

00:55:24.780 they're all really hot that's always first

00:55:26.640 it's not like their personality

00:55:28.280 Scarlett Johansson

00:55:33.040 yeah

00:55:33.800 how about someone that's 1.00

00:55:36.900 not that hot but really feminine 0.87

00:55:38.680 yeah see do you see what I'm saying 1.00

00:55:42.800 ladies these men gaslight you to eternity 1.00

00:55:44.800 there's so many mid women they could 1.00

00:55:46.860 have picked but they just pick like the hottest 1.00

00:55:49.160 yeah they're listing nines

00:55:55.100 all right we'll do gina davis 0.99

00:56:02.300 okay this is kind of mid let's see young no she's pretty hot back then but let's just see 0.89

00:56:12.220 um this lady won an academy award for a performance in the accidental tourist 0.64

00:56:23.340 um let's do business let's do business right now your publicist is in back same talk about

00:56:33.260 this movie's got an excellent review congratulations and it was the uh closing

00:56:38.380 night festivities that can't they really liked it and i was concerned because i've never been

00:56:45.420 to can and i heard that they can like boo and throw things at the screen if they don't like

00:56:49.740 a movie they react pretty strongly but um but they really cheered and

00:56:56.300 okay tell us a little bit i'm not that impressed all right let's try sophie turner

00:57:00.460 uh yeah let's see young video because we all know we get bitter as we age

00:57:08.720 all right let's see hello vogue i'm sophie tana and goat yoga

00:57:18.300 doctor never to do yoga but um i made an excuse for the goats coming back to center we'll switch

00:57:28.580 sides beautiful the goats are ready to come out the excitement i felt throughout my body

00:57:40.180 yeah i mean anyways um men like different things when it comes to behaviors so i don't think 0.73

00:57:48.500 that's that cut and dry but you'll notice all the women they mentioned were pretty freaking hot

00:57:53.380 do you know what i mean that's that that's first they can the men will gaslight you all they want 1.00

00:58:01.940 don't listen to them 1.00

00:58:02.900 you won't find a feminine woman in hollywood that environment won't allow it

00:58:12.580 i don't know um

00:58:17.320 okay we're not really going to get into that too much

00:58:23.360 because that's not even what the show is about i'm getting i'm getting off track here as we do

00:58:31.000 as women so really what i'm talking about the number one thing that men want is you just to

00:58:35.640 listen to them and ask their opinion and be obedient and speak to them in the way that you

00:58:42.380 would speak to a boss except when you're having sex because that would be a little weird but yet 1.00

00:58:48.840 Christian women, they just, we're going to react to this video I took. 1.00

00:58:57.740 I took this outside of a church. 1.00

00:59:00.580 They just, the word obedience cannot do.

00:59:08.940 So actually, I'm going to do the definition because, all right, let's see the definition

00:59:17.100 of obedience is the act of complying with direct commands rules or instructions issued by an

00:59:24.000 authority figure yeah it involves submitting to a higher power whether that means following laws

00:59:31.080 respecting societal roles or following the directions of a leader so following directions

00:59:39.620 or obey i think just has like so i just don't understand why is this such a dirty word

00:59:44.560 does not sound like what the Bible says. The word obey, I think, just has like, in this world,

00:59:49.700 has such a negative connotation. I'm trying to normalize it. Yeah. You think he's equal to God?

00:59:54.620 No, but close. So we would just say right here, just to protect the worship experience on Sunday

01:00:00.060 morning, we would prefer you to not be there. What up guys? Welcome to another episode of

01:00:06.040 Street Talks. Today, we are outside of Watermark Community Church asking Christian women the

01:00:12.860 question should christian women obey their husbands there's a lot of talk around this word

01:00:18.940 and we're going to count the women today if they say yes no or yes but okay you said i will obey

01:00:26.680 god yes but do you see that that's undermining his authority because you're saying that you

01:00:32.680 have to you're going to obey god but you're supposed to go through the man to get to god

01:00:38.540 you know, you're supposed to, you're supposed to listen to him. Now, if you're not a Christian 0.80

01:00:47.100 woman, that makes sense. You're in a partnership. That's why I put Christian on the sign. 0.89

01:00:52.040 If you're looking for a partnership, but what is annoying me is women that say they want to 1.00

01:00:57.040 be in a marriage, but the obedience part, they just cannot do. Okay. Yes. Well, I don't know 1.00

01:01:04.400 about the word obey but they definitely are the head of the household we are in a like we have a

01:01:10.540 structure of what's that word authority so it's God and then your husband and then you so he

01:01:17.680 protects you but you guys are equal in terms of value as humans and you rely on each other and

01:01:24.360 submit to each other as you would to Christ do you think it's okay for women to tell their husbands

01:01:29.000 what to do uh husbands should definitely ask and value our opinions so you can give their opinion

01:01:37.480 but ultimately they get to make the final decision and that's okay again there's a way to ask it in a

01:01:45.560 respectful way in a disrespectful way and this is um something it's very i have to constantly train

01:01:54.920 out you should do this you can't you would never say that to a boss well you should do this

01:02:00.760 you'd say sir or mr whatever

01:02:08.920 here's a suggestion um here's an option and then you give the pros and the cons

01:02:14.200 but you never tell them you know what to do you know so okay so what's your answer my answer is

01:02:23.000 it all depends on the man uh i believe that you have to be aligned with the holy spirit with god

01:02:28.360 you know i don't think god said that it all depends on the man well

01:02:35.000 we used to have arranged marriages you know what i mean like that used to be the way that we did it

01:02:39.800 so he didn't say it depend what man you got assigned you know and because it's gonna it's

01:02:45.160 It's going to if a man obeys God by nature, he doesn't have to demand the woman to obey.

01:02:52.440 It comes naturally.

01:02:53.640 So if he aligns with everything that the Lord says, that God says, his word says by nature or women will obey the man, just like the laws of of what God says, you know, that shall not kill.

01:03:06.200 Of course, when we're aligned with the Lord, everything falls naturally.

01:03:09.700 So, yes, I do believe as long as the man is aligned with the God, with the word of God.

01:03:13.560 no right or wrong answers no gotchas just we want to know people's thoughts on the question um should

01:03:19.640 christian women obey their husbands if yes why if no why not um i think it's a weirdly worded question

01:03:27.160 because i don't think it's obey it's like they're partners um so husband and wives are partners in

01:03:31.960 marriage um and so when they make a covenant with one another in the same way that it's a

01:03:36.120 representation of the trinity which is god the father got the son got the holy spirit and so

01:03:40.040 the son submitted to the father that's why he died on the cross for our sins and so he submitted to

01:03:45.000 him but there's not a difference in like god the father god the son got the holy spirit because

01:03:50.280 they're all the same they're one they're a triune god so it's a representation of jesus to god and

01:03:55.320 so it's a different it's it's a weirdly worded question because wives don't just obey their

01:04:00.360 husbands but in the same way that christ submitted to his father like it just sounds like a lot of

01:04:05.880 word fluff to me. I don't know. I just, I was expecting a yes, I do. The act of complying with

01:04:14.820 direct demands. Like what is wrong with complying with direct demands? Yeah. And as a woman, and

01:04:25.920 you've had so many choices you got to make yourself. Any woman that thinks it's going to 1.00

01:04:31.180 be easy to go from single to just obeying you got your work cut out for you you got to get used to 1.00

01:04:38.660 living life on his terms that's why the first year of marriage is the hardest you know a woman would 0.63

01:04:48.040 submit to her husband and want you to freely they don't want to tell you to do this because if they 0.98

01:04:52.780 tell you it's kind of a tough cycle because men i think feel like um that if you liked them that

01:04:59.480 you would naturally start doing this but sometimes i think the more we like them the more we do

01:05:05.380 stupid stuff because we can't handle our emotions so you know ever but a godly man who is submitted

01:05:13.100 who lays his down his life down just like christ then he would not be in any way overpowering 0.99

01:05:18.980 abusive or any of those things and so they work together and so it's it's a weirdly worded question

01:05:23.580 does that make sense what's weirdly worded about it like what's wrong with the word obey

01:05:27.480 I can't wait until I get rid of this layer of fat right there

01:05:33.340 Sorry, I gotta talk about that 0.92

01:05:35.020 I'm gonna be such a baddie

01:05:36.160 I'm gonna just lose 10

01:05:37.640 15 pounds

01:05:40.400 I'm so close to being a baddie

01:05:45.980 It's all I've wanted my whole life 0.66

01:05:48.620 Just to be a baddie 0.91

01:05:50.320 You know

01:05:52.800 I'm not fat, but I just, you know

01:05:56.160 There's a layer

01:05:57.440 master and it's like hey you must do what this person says you have to do but that's not what

01:06:01.800 the bible teaches does that make sense so it doesn't teach to obey your husband in all things

01:06:06.960 no it does not okay what does it say you know what that's what i tell him

01:06:10.680 he's like oh you're not fat and i'm like you're a dominican it doesn't count

01:06:17.100 just stop by to support me thank you it says to submit and so if you understand what submit it's

01:06:28.880 almost like a yielding to so it's like hey in the same way that you would yield to traffic

01:06:32.860 thank you it's not that you completely stop you don't ever move on but it's emerging onto a

01:06:37.740 yielding to in the same way like i said that jesus submits to the father and so it's a it's

01:06:43.320 It's a different word than obey when you look like the different definitions and stuff.

01:06:46.900 So we're just asking the question, do you think that Christian women should obey their husbands? 0.99

01:06:51.040 If yes, why? If no, why? 0.99

01:06:53.280 I think when you get married.

01:06:55.280 He said that he was the only one who took charge because he took the microphone from me.

01:07:00.300 Yes, you should obey your husband.

01:07:02.440 I think it's called out also as Christian women that he's talked about in the Bible to obey their husbands and follow their lead.

01:07:10.940 um this that doesn't take anything away from them as a woman as a wife um but yes that they

01:07:17.460 follow the lead of their husband um that's what they're called to in in the bible what do you

01:07:21.900 think of the question though obey not obey so for me like i think it's the should

01:07:30.240 i think out of

01:07:33.260 so i'm not very good at like having it's okay i mean there's no right or wrong because

01:07:39.740 because of what Christ has done for me on the cross and having a husband who's also a believer

01:07:46.680 but it's it's a it's not a I'm obeying him because he's over me I'm I'm obeying him

01:07:54.720 because we're a team we're not it's not that he's above me in any way um well what's wrong

01:08:01.280 with him being above you like why would that be a bad thing I mean I guess it wouldn't yeah yeah

01:08:07.380 I mean, if he's, if he's leading as Christ leads the church, then then why wouldn't I

01:08:15.080 want to follow him?

01:08:16.740 Do you think you can be obedient and still tell a guy what to do?

01:08:21.640 Oh, absolutely.

01:08:23.380 Absolutely.

01:08:24.080 I mean, I feel like David and I have a great relationship that, um, if there's something

01:08:28.620 that I feel like, because the Holy spirit in me, if there's something I see off that

01:08:35.880 i should speak of like that's my role um he often he often says that i'm um his voice of reason

01:08:43.300 and sometimes that uh i will um help him see something in a different way but i feel like

01:08:49.360 that as believers you want to talk about the question of the day guys

01:08:52.780 so you think they should or shouldn't that's what i mean it's up to you that's what he says

01:09:01.380 men want you to want to thank you for the super chat ephesians 28 29 should i read it

01:09:07.920 they want you to want they don't want to make you

01:09:11.120 it almost like ruins it for them when when you like they just want you to come and ask like

01:09:20.020 what they think um

01:09:31.380 All right. So in the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who

01:09:36.440 loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one else hated their own body, but they could feed

01:09:41.560 and care for their body just as Christ does the church. Okay. I think, is that it? All right.

01:09:51.940 let me go back so who decides if he's like um following god um his walk his love in his walk

01:10:01.040 with the lord his his actions speak louder also i want to go sunday to another church and do this

01:10:07.300 again um where do you guys think i should go put it in the comments and what kind of actions would

01:10:12.800 you say uh loving man gentle spirit um patient love is pine love is kind love is patient love

01:10:19.900 is not rude love that does not demand everything like i said it all it's all by actions so just

01:10:27.360 question like i just a lot of times when i hear that it's very broad so i'd like specific okay so

01:10:33.260 obviously abuse we know that's not following god and when i say abuse it's hitting her yes okay

01:10:39.460 or verbal or mental it's it goes abuse is also a broad yeah but what like okay verbal or mental 1.00

01:10:47.640 would be like what the fuck is that dude yeah i don't know would the muslims kill me if i went 0.99

01:10:53.280 there i'm not trying to is because i think a lot of times we don't talk about female abuse which 0.99

01:11:03.560 is like excessive nagging telling them what to do all the time that's also the same thing yes and

01:11:09.140 i think just in a marriage like you're kind of bound to do something borderline abusive at some

01:11:14.440 point verbally right i just think over time that's bound to happen yes so like how do you determine

01:11:20.200 you know when you should follow him and when you shouldn't i think he's falling he's a man right

01:11:25.720 he's not perfect i think that's where the woman comes into place and just uh our job is to pray

01:11:32.280 for our husbands and allow god to change his heart while he allows well he changes our heart

01:11:38.520 so it's both even you know what i mean i believe that we're supposed to give the same grace that

01:11:43.000 god's given us and i believe that if he is a man of god he will listen he'll listen to the holy

01:11:49.320 spirit thank you thank you and that's where us women i do believe that you know women have a

01:11:55.400 big part you know and our part is to obey god and obey our husbands however not to where the extreme

01:12:02.680 of where it's manipulation or you know um that's where you have to really believe it's that's where

01:12:08.760 unity comes in you know i think it's a beautiful thing for women to use their gifts in order to

01:12:13.080 care for women but the thing is is like if there are bible studies that are gossiping and stuff

01:12:17.960 then yes we should call that out because that is a sin isn't there a verse about women being silent

01:12:22.680 in the back of the church but do you know the context of that what is the context i'm asking

01:12:28.680 you because you're quoting it and so do you know the context or do you just like cherry pick and

01:12:33.080 like i cherry pick all the time okay what is that why do you cherry pick just why don't why don't 0.92

01:12:37.160 you tell me the context yeah these women it's sometimes you guys are so insufferable are you

01:12:43.720 a believer just just say that you you think you're better than me you think you're holier than me

01:12:50.920 and it's a gaslighting circle because they'll say are you a believer

01:12:55.080 do you know the context you're like what's the context and you're like yeah you're

01:12:58.120 cherry picking it's like what the does that even mean

01:13:00.680 are you a believer no and does does it matter just say you think you're more holy than me

01:13:11.540 that your your opinion matters more than mine because you read the bible or go to church

01:13:17.440 you know what i mean it's like but you used it so i was trying to ask you i'm just i'm cherry

01:13:22.420 picking okay so so when you look at the context of that it was because those women were gossiping

01:13:28.180 they were divisive those specific women and so there's there's stuff in scripture where it's

01:13:32.500 prescriptive and descriptive so it's like prescribing something to us or describing

01:13:36.820 some women today are not gossipy not all i've never met a woman in my life that does not gossip

01:13:42.900 okay so you gossip too every woman does okay i think i should have just said yes

01:13:47.060 I get gossip. You don't, you don't, you don't gossip ever. No, I'm saying. Bullshit. Bullshit.

01:13:57.540 Like, but if I do, I go ask for forgiveness. We have a thing here that we call the kind of our 1.00

01:14:02.020 24 hour principle. Like if I come and say like, Hey, Susie over here, she's getting on my nerves

01:14:07.600 or whatever. Um, like we really encourage people to say like, Hey, we want you to specifically

01:14:13.100 like go and talk to that person like if you're going to be sharing the information here or

01:14:17.860 you're frustrated with them or you're upset with them we encourage you to like go and have that

01:14:21.760 conversation with her um like that's what we're going to encourage you to do because we do believe

01:14:26.460 gossip is something that creates creates divine yeah i totally agree i have a hard time believing

01:14:31.340 there's special women at this church that are different from women everywhere or churches

01:14:36.200 every insulting my intelligence for you to tell me your church is special or different um 1.00

01:14:41.400 I just think that means you're not the most intelligent because the women are women, right? 1.00

01:14:51.200 I mean, Paul said there was like no good women that he met and that was in biblical times. 1.00

01:14:55.800 You're telling me it's better now? Crazy. 0.96

01:14:59.980 Should Christian women obey their husbands? 1.00

01:15:03.400 I think the answer is yes.

01:15:05.080 And I think it's a mutual answer because I believe that husbands should honor their wives.

01:15:10.760 and I believe that women should obey their husband,

01:15:16.480 but at the end, we're all to obey.

01:15:19.800 What up, Doug MPA?

01:15:21.360 You can bounce.

01:15:22.360 You can react together.

01:15:23.860 Guys, if you want to come up and just give your thoughts on this interview.

01:15:29.380 Hey, Christ.

01:15:30.500 Ladies in the chat, Ileana and a couple of others, call in. 1.00

01:15:39.880 We want to hear what you ladies have to say about this topic, because I think there's two or three women in the chat right now that are actually giving decent opinions. 0.63

01:15:49.520 So, ladies, call in. 0.99

01:15:51.220 We want to hear what you have to say about this. 0.94

01:15:53.200 Should Christian women obey, especially if you identify as a Christian? 1.00

01:15:57.920 My opinion, I think yes, because you have to choose to be a Christian. 0.90

01:16:03.420 So you choose to obey the rules. 0.54

01:16:05.420 The Bible is one of the most red pill books out there. 1.00

01:16:09.880 you know one of the most patriarchal books out there and somehow it's been twisted by women 1.00

01:16:15.100 and these freaking um you know uh uh pastors who who want to make money off the female dollar into 1.00

01:16:24.040 what it is now but i don't know how we got here but here we are now we have pearl standing in 0.99

01:16:28.840 front of a church with a sign and these women trying to cope right in front of her face

01:16:32.920 you know it's crazy we're there's no shame in not being religious now like at one point 0.82

01:16:39.020 it was probably shameful but now it's so normal why don't if they don't want to listen to the

01:16:43.840 rule why don't they just ask for a partnership you know what i mean like you actually in 2026

01:16:49.020 you don't have to listen to your husband at all you can get married listen to nothing he says 0.98

01:16:54.360 and treat him like shit why don't you just sign up for that yeah exactly like why do they think 1.00

01:16:59.760 that why did society or why did the church let them get away with calling themselves christians 1.00

01:17:05.000 and not abiding by the rules ladies you don't have to choose to to be bound to a set of rules

01:17:11.000 that you don't like you literally don't so like why do you have to like why do you have to join 1.00

01:17:19.400 the church like why can't you just be over there with the feminist women or with the normal you 0.98

01:17:24.280 know i'd say most women aren't religious so you could just be over there and say i'm looking for 1.00

01:17:29.800 a partner um again at least the liberal women are honest um and do as the bible has instructed us to 0.84

01:17:37.000 do so i don't think it's a negative term to say obey your wife or to obey your husband or children

01:17:43.160 to obey your parents i think it's biblical so um so yeah i would i would say no different than we

01:17:48.840 are to obey god that women should honor their husbands and uh and and men and and um and men

01:17:56.360 should honor their wives do you feel like that all of us fall short of the glory of god every

01:17:59.960 day though yeah but women worse women worse okay yeah why do you believe that i have eyes okay so

01:18:17.480 she didn't know what to do with that why do you believe that

01:18:19.560 women everywhere have convinced me including yourself 1.00

01:18:25.320 that's your stereotypical texas torta right there 0.99

01:18:30.480 like how can you lecture about any that actually should have been a question like 1.00

01:18:36.040 how can you say you're a good woman if you're overweight because you're clearly gluttonous 1.00

01:18:40.640 how could like especially how could you have authority over other women to teach them 0.94

01:18:47.440 when you're overweight that doesn't make any sense um like i just can't take people seriously 1.00

01:18:55.100 that are fat especially obese like what do you think her percent body fat is um i mean

01:19:02.560 probably like 40 38 look i got a little meat on my bones okay i'm like thin 0.98

01:19:10.300 for like black woman's taste but I'm kind of fat for white guys. I go where I'm wanted you know 0.95

01:19:18.020 what I mean. I'm not even claiming that I'm skinny. I'm not but it's like like in 2026

01:19:30.320 I'm thin but not real thin. You know what I mean. Look at this woman. This is like obese. This is

01:19:38.440 like you had to make a lot of years of bad decisions you know what i mean the only thing 0.97

01:19:43.100 worse than like a big woman is a big woman upset you know i'm saying like she's clearly upset

01:19:49.360 and a big woman upset but pretending not to be upset yeah 0.86

01:19:54.200 do you believe that certain sins are above other sins like is that 0.94

01:20:01.100 um i just would say that women when you've aborted an eighth of the world population that's pretty 1.00

01:20:07.160 bad so i would say like females are just sitting in public like they're dressing half naked to 0.98

01:20:14.120 church i don't know i'm not saying this one you guys have actually been pretty good but in general 0.68

01:20:18.940 like she's so mad women have a lot of power in society we have the most buying power political 0.80

01:20:24.760 power um and the issue you get is you kind of see what happens when women get power 1.00

01:20:32.300 a third of women have an std an eighth um a third of women wait sorry i can't one's a third one's a

01:20:40.560 quarter a quarter of women have had have an std a third of women have had an abortion we've aborted 0.52

01:20:45.340 eighth of the world population we're in mountains of debt we have glut like amazon like we have 0.82

01:20:50.000 gluttonous spending habits and it's just not the same for men well you see it's for men

01:20:54.980 they don't abort nath of the world population do they support it though do they pay for it

01:21:02.540 no because um it's mostly women that vote for it they have to pay for it they have no choice

01:21:08.500 comes out of taxpayer dollars a lot of the time like in different states

01:21:12.380 like women's health care i mean here's the thing is like we live in a fallen broken world where

01:21:21.020 abortion exists where abuse exists where pornography exists where all these things

01:21:24.320 is this like the bible tells us that things like this are going to happen where we live in a fallen

01:21:29.280 broken world um and so that's why we as believers as christians instead of just calling out sin

01:21:35.040 and being kind of sin hunters like we want to offer them the grace of jesus and saying like

01:21:38.560 hey like there's forgiveness of sins there's grace there's mercy like and so that's why we

01:21:43.280 try here really hard to say like hey if that's your story like come find the true healer which

01:21:48.160 is jesus and so we can point out all the i'm not i'm not against that you just asked like

01:21:52.720 why i think women sin more than men i just think men are closer to god okay so i mean which kind

01:21:59.520 of lines up with the order of the world right god and women children have you found that like asking

01:22:04.960 these questions like what what is it here it comes like what does it help do or like a youtube channel

01:22:10.160 or or whatever like what's the hope in like asking it just said because i want to it's my next one

01:22:16.240 these get too much out of me i mean why because i want to yeah go away like that's yeah that's us

01:22:27.440 um talking to our men you know what i mean why do you want to do this why are we doing this way

01:22:31.760 yeah how annoying this is ladies and here's the thing pearl remember ever since he started this 0.59

01:22:38.000 journey women will have talked to you like they talked to men the nagging the complaining the 0.63

01:22:45.360 gaslighting the the rewriting of history all of it you you've literally heard what it's like

01:22:52.880 for for women to interact with men when they get upset when they get pissed when they get 0.79

01:22:58.000 annoyed when they don't get what they want you've heard it all they're like do you hate women pearl 0.98

01:23:02.560 kind of yeah pretty much especially i mean there's a lot of insufferable ones you just 1.00

01:23:08.800 got to be honest here like we gotta we gotta keep it a buck and say the majority of women 1.00

01:23:14.400 i don't like but uh there are exceptions you know yeah you know i like it's like me huh 0.98

01:23:22.400 pearl i got a question for you yeah what separates the ones that you don't hate from

01:23:27.600 the ones you hate is it lying to themselves versus being honest yeah and how they react

01:23:34.000 when they hear information they don't agree with because um i found this is when i realized men

01:23:40.960 should date younger women is even the like there's a girl that came on my show with like a septum 0.99

01:23:46.080 ring and whatever but when we would talk about these topics she would just be like tee hee i 1.00

01:23:51.680 disagree you know what i mean and where the old women are like angry and mad you know all the 0.99

01:23:59.040 years of getting dicked down and not called backs just caught up to them so it's like it's like um

01:24:06.080 i'd say it's an energy like if they're happy or not um if they go behind your back and try to

01:24:12.640 ruin your life or not yeah and third if they're honest with you or not so and here's what i'm

01:24:18.880 hearing a lot of the ones who are dishonest have self-resentment that they don't want to acknowledge

01:24:24.240 so they project it outward have you noticed that i don't think i fully understand what you're saying 0.56

01:24:32.800 but a lot of yeah a lot of the women who are adversarial and aggressive towards you to you

01:24:40.320 speaking the truth to them a lot of the times they have unresolved self-resentment but they

01:24:45.920 don't want to admit it because they don't want to face what's causing it so they instead end

01:24:50.960 up projecting that self-resentment onto others yeah probably because now she has to see herself

01:24:58.000 when i say this yeah and then she's divorced i'm pretty sure she said 0.99

01:25:05.200 i would add another thing well another another way that pearl could can determine if she likes

01:25:11.440 a girl or not is if pearl says stop talking especially in like interaction that's on camera 0.93

01:25:16.880 and she stops talking that's a big indicator yes if you can just tell a woman look i i need you to

01:25:23.440 stop. Just stop. Shut up. And they do it. That's a big 1.00

01:25:27.440 indicator. Guys, one of the best red pills

01:25:31.240 I've ever heard was, if you're with a woman and you can't 1.00

01:25:35.380 just stop the conversation when you want to, you're cooked. 0.96

01:25:39.800 You should be able to say, look, we are not talking about this anymore.

01:25:43.160 And she should just be like, 0.99

01:25:46.880 shut her mouth. If you can do that, that's like half the battle right there. 0.68

01:25:50.620 i agree i like to make people think for me i don't understand why obey is such a controversial word

01:26:01.960 so and i think there's a lot of discourse online and um i like to see is what's online does it

01:26:12.100 match real life and so i like to go into real life and talk to people it's i'm not trying to

01:26:16.880 make people look bad or get a gotcha um i can't i can't help how like small channels clip it right

01:26:23.080 but i post the full thing yeah no totally i'm not and i don't you're not combative or anything like

01:26:27.620 i don't see that at all or hear that at all how can a woman be obedient if she's telling him what

01:26:31.580 to do i don't know if she's telling him what well in the chores example oh the chores example doing

01:26:35.800 what the chores yeah like if you're saying i think we're getting like really complicated on

01:26:39.600 non-complicated thing like you're saying like the 51 should go i was thinking about this after how

01:26:45.620 is it complicated he's like we're getting really complicated on the non-complicated it's like

01:26:52.340 sometimes i get gaslit so hard in person that i just don't like i don't register it till later

01:26:59.460 but i i remember like thinking back to this before they edited it and just thinking i don't think

01:27:05.060 that was a complicated question at all i think it was actually really simple yeah it wasn't

01:27:11.620 complicated he just didn't have the courage

01:27:13.760 to say what he actually thinks because he knows

01:27:15.640 it's going to rock the boat

01:27:16.660 at that church he goes to

01:27:18.800 and it's on camera so he has to

01:27:21.260 give the little PC version of it

01:27:23.740 what should I say how can I call

01:27:25.640 this out better next time

01:27:27.060 any ideas

01:27:28.760 yeah I mean just say

01:27:30.740 actually it's not

01:27:33.320 it's nice and simple

01:27:34.700 you need a man to call people

01:27:37.780 out when they're being cowards and they don't want to speak

01:27:39.560 the truth and remind them 0.81

01:27:41.540 in the bible it actually talks about that the fearful the cowardly they're not going to inherit 0.97

01:27:45.940 eternity with god he has no pleasure in them because they're cowards that's 0.99

01:27:54.500 what you're doing right now is you're being a coward 0.99

01:28:00.980 don't you think you're kind of being like are you scared of the women that they're going to get mad 0.79

01:28:05.620 at you you gotta call him out say you're being a coward you are not being what jesus demonstrated

01:28:19.380 he was not afraid to offend people he actually intentionally offended people

01:28:25.460 he wasn't trying to be non-offensive he was intentionally offensive

01:28:29.060 how can you call yourself a christian and be afraid to offend people by being honest

01:28:33.620 let's see i knew mark was a good addition he's cooking i've got a lot i can rant about this

01:28:39.860 he's cooking i grew up with this it's so weird because when you're young you just know something's

01:28:45.940 off but you can't articulate what when it comes to the religious stuff um or at least i couldn't

01:28:52.180 personally all right let's see do you want me to rant you might have to create a separate channel

01:29:03.620 i'm sure we'll have more opportunities this reaction so guys in the back just you know

01:29:08.100 i'm just gonna let the regulars react to the rest of this video and then um after that i'll take

01:29:13.940 callers and can be more of like a panel discussion so you know if you are watching the video and

01:29:19.560 anything that the people are saying sticks out to you feel free to write it down just so you

01:29:24.060 remember later and then come up it's just a general discussion um about why it's so hard

01:29:30.760 for christian women to obey but anything that's discussed in the video you're welcome to comment

01:29:34.700 on the highest most disagreement ever like i'm talking like big problems you say it could be

01:29:41.940 money you take out the trash yeah and he's like no i'm a man yeah i'm not saying that's a healthy

01:29:46.800 that's not a healthy dynamic to begin with like i should have said why not like why is it not a

01:29:52.800 healthy dynamic you know well i use it because it's common yeah this is common yeah i entered

01:30:01.320 his frame because i'm like explaining it's okay i'm trying to learn better to stay to not enter

01:30:07.760 people's frames and interviews i was googling this the other day so sometimes i over explain

01:30:13.640 you could say spending too much money you could be like oh you know some women um tell their

01:30:19.500 husbands to spend less money or spend it on like the whole the whole point is telling him what to

01:30:23.560 do how can you be obedient if you're telling him what to do i think some of it's like heart

01:30:27.520 posture right like telling him what to do versus coming together and mutually deciding something

01:30:33.340 are very different things what i think christian just say a lot of words where you don't really

01:30:37.540 know what they mean but they say it confidently yeah 100 what the what is what is a woman ever

01:30:44.060 had a good heart. Mark, what do you think of the heart posture? It's virtue signaling

01:30:55.240 word, Sally, because they don't understand what they're talking about. Oh, okay. Heart

01:31:01.800 posture. What they're talking about is mentality, psychology, attitude. Have you humbled yourself

01:31:07.600 to the authority of God being the ultimate authority in your life? That's what they're

01:31:12.560 referring to but they more than likely they don't actually practice it so they talk about it it's

01:31:19.180 like you pointed out the people who virtue signal the most are usually the least virtuous

01:31:22.900 yeah they're always involved in some weird stuff like one of the trad wives i debated 0.55

01:31:31.980 i said it earlier got investigated for russian money

01:31:35.360 and she i think she beat the charges but i'm like you had to do something to get

01:31:43.040 investigated for rush that doesn't just happen to people come on it says heart posture is the

01:31:49.440 inner disposition motives and spiritual alignment no the bible teaches that heart posture the inner

01:31:56.560 disposition motives and spiritual alignment is more critical than external appearances or actions

01:32:02.960 I wouldn't even say that heart posture is a thing in the current church.

01:32:06.240 It's all about being performative in theater than anything else.

01:32:12.160 Okay.

01:32:12.420 Heart posture is a thing, but replace that phrase with attitude.

01:32:18.940 It makes more sense.

01:32:20.180 It's an attitude.

01:32:21.320 What is your attitude?

01:32:22.900 Are you selfish, self-centered, trying to validate yourself?

01:32:27.480 Oh, look, I can quote this and this and this scripture. 0.56

01:32:29.860 Or do you just live it?

01:32:32.960 yeah that's so true because two people can do the same thing but you can tell

01:32:37.940 i don't know how to put it like it can be the same action or even they might say the same thing

01:32:43.580 but you can just feel the attitude is that right or am i raw yes you can tell who's being

01:32:49.160 performative to virtue single and you can tell who's actually sincere yeah and that sincerity

01:32:58.400 god actually talks about in the bible he hates the performative because it's insincere you're

01:33:04.460 lying to yourself and to other people you can't be bothered to go deal with your own psychology

01:33:09.680 to do it sincerely so you're just doing it performatively

01:33:12.680 yeah okay that makes sense yeah because like one of my um favorite guests i ever had on the show 1.00

01:33:22.080 was literally infertile because she took too many plan b's i should have laughed but how do you do 0.92

01:33:28.880 that like but it was because um she had a really humble attitude i guess that would have to humble 0.98

01:33:35.640 you right yeah and she was honest about that too gotta give her credit for even saying that on 0.98

01:33:39.680 camera yeah i think yeah doug what's the difference between a woman like because we always talk about

01:33:48.400 that women talk too much and say too much on camera but yet sometimes you give them credit

01:33:54.040 so what is like what is the difference between a woman saying something on camera where it's like

01:34:00.200 okay we got to give her credit for being honest versus oh she said too much like why is she saying

01:34:06.960 all that okay um mark and you're welcome to okay that girl didn't say that in a context of trying

01:34:17.220 to make like she put that as a statement of fact not something that not as like a virtue signal

01:34:24.180 i'm you know this is my struggle she just literally said it like this is what happened

01:34:29.280 she wasn't trying to say i'm a stronger person because you know you know i'm a virtuous better

01:34:36.340 person because i've taken so many plan b's that i'm i'm sterile understand what i'm saying and

01:34:42.920 made it performative like oh i overcame i was so broken she just said this is what i did yeah so

01:34:49.820 like you know example you know i tell people guys look you know i'm divorced i don't say you know

01:34:56.940 you know i got divorced but it led me on this journey of becoming a better person and had i

01:35:05.360 not been you know had it not been there's just a performative aspect of it that's attached to so

01:35:09.800 of stuff that women say nowadays that when when that's not there it's kind of refreshing you know 0.75

01:35:14.680 yeah oh that's fun go ahead mark the performative is a form of virtue signaling it's a form of look 0.94

01:35:22.160 at me whereas the people you want to give credit for being honest they are not saying it for you

01:35:27.740 to look at them they're just admitting the truth they have gone through a form of ego death

01:35:32.440 yeah that's so true that's so true i didn't know how to articulate it but yeah that makes

01:35:39.440 perfect sense because um there is a difference right and occasionally you'll have that where

01:35:46.800 um there's nothing worse than like a woman saying she's divorced and then giving you a bunch of

01:35:51.280 reasons why it's just like or like a woman that's taken an l and they're just explaining it rather

01:35:58.640 than saying it matthew 13 10 17. all right let's read it i feel like have you read the bible from

01:36:08.640 cover to cover mark i have not read it from cover to cover but i have listened to it on audio and

01:36:16.400 if you want to be biblical you're supposed to listen to it really it says faith comes by hearing

01:36:24.720 and hearing by the word of god it doesn't say faith comes by reading really yeah there's a

01:36:32.320 verse that actually says it comes by hearing that's why there's actually a command in the

01:36:36.240 old testament where it's told when the people come for the annual feast the priest is supposed

01:36:41.280 to read the book of the law in their presence so that their children can hear it huh why do

01:36:47.680 you think that is because don't people retain things better when they read it or am i wrong

01:36:53.360 uh some people retain better by reading some by hearing it but it hits you different when it's

01:36:59.360 being read to you notice how um in the new testament when jesus stands up and he's reading

01:37:05.200 from the scriptures people remark he is reading it with an authority that the other people who

01:37:11.760 read it don't have when it's saying when it's being read out loud it gives an opportunity for

01:37:17.800 the holy spirit to work through the person speaking for it to touch you where you need

01:37:22.480 to be touched like change your mind change your thinking it's different if you've listened to it

01:37:28.740 from cover to cover it's basically yeah i've i've read about half but i told you it was in high

01:37:36.360 school when i when i was surrounded by mormons and they kept trying to push their book of mormons i

01:37:41.800 was like let me read this bible and see the difference between their book of mormon and the

01:37:45.280 bible so i read about half of it but not the full time i never understood how people could have such

01:37:51.560 a strong opinion on religion if they haven't read the book and i haven't read the book um so i don't

01:37:58.860 think i can have a strong opinion do you know what i mean but i feel like you have to i don't know

01:38:05.700 it just it seems like if you haven't read it how can you have a strong opinion to me anyways

01:38:10.940 i have a question for you yes what's more important reading the bible or understanding

01:38:17.980 its purpose its message how can you i'm sorry go ahead probably yeah go ahead doug no that's a good

01:38:26.360 question so i know where you're going no this just goes back to like you the the the bible is

01:38:33.880 the rule book of which the lifestyle and the thought process comes from so i thought i think

01:38:40.480 you have to read read a bible before you want to start obeying the rules and all that stuff right

01:38:47.500 So I would say that reading the Bible is pretty important because how are you going to know if you're supposed to be living if you haven't read what you're supposed to be living yet?

01:38:56.880 Well, it's not a rule book.

01:38:59.040 It has some guidelines.

01:39:00.420 It has rules, but it's actually not a rule book.

01:39:02.740 It's so much more.

01:39:04.320 You could look at it more accurately as a history book of the interaction between God and humanity, and it doesn't lie about that history,

01:39:14.640 about the good and bad of what god has done and what humanity has done it's also sometimes

01:39:20.640 referred to as being a mirror to kind of hold you accountable to acknowledge all the nasty parts of

01:39:27.760 yourself you don't want to admit are there it's not to condemn you it's to show you you need

01:39:35.960 outside help to fix yourself which is why you uh you call out to god ask him to show you the parts

01:39:42.940 of yourself you don't want to admit are there and you ask him to send people to you who can be

01:39:48.380 teachers to help you walk through that process to do it in a godly way not a modern christian way

01:39:55.420 huh it's a different perspective as as i said in one of your other students what does god want

01:40:03.000 from humanity relationship by choice based on sincerity where you get to know god's character

01:40:11.140 his personality. And based on that experience, you just said, you know what? I want to have a

01:40:16.940 relationship with him because of who he is as like a person, as a character, personality versus the

01:40:23.340 benefits he provides for me. It's the same idea as a man asking a woman to sign a prenup before

01:40:28.540 they're marrying. Are you marrying me for me or for the lifestyle I can give you?

01:40:32.180 what did you say about it says to ask god um about what do you say like to show yourself the

01:40:41.660 parts that you don't like or whatever yes all the parts where you're in denial about your own

01:40:47.700 psychology the parts are to use the biblical like the biblical language where you're uh to show you

01:40:54.100 your own heart to show you the wickedness that is in your own heart where you're in denial about

01:40:58.460 your own psychology to show it to you not to make you feel bad but so that you can accept that it's

01:41:04.700 real for example uh here's an example for men men have to acknowledge their capacity for violence

01:41:14.620 because men who refuse to acknowledge their capacity are more likely to blow up in a stressful

01:41:19.100 situation become violent than men who acknowledge they have it and decide i don't want to indulge it

01:41:24.060 so it's similar you have for example the way you talk about these women they engage in these

01:41:32.840 negative behaviors but they don't want to admit it whereas you openly admit you have a tendency

01:41:37.740 to engage in them and you're trying not to you are being honest you have faced yourself in the

01:41:42.940 mirror the bible is trying to help people face themselves in the mirror so they can have that

01:41:48.080 change of heart they change the way they think about themselves yeah because you can't really

01:41:52.920 improve if you don't acknowledge it you know right yeah okay yeah the point isn't to be perfect

01:42:02.360 the point is to be honest huh i've never heard that before but it kind of makes sense what i've

01:42:09.900 seen kind of makes sense it is a dangerous precedent in any relationship to work from

01:42:17.700 my heart posture of telling something what to do i think saying that's literally

01:42:23.260 that's literally submission

01:42:28.940 like hey i need you to take out the trash or as a family we need to steward god's money better and 0.65

01:42:36.340 this is how we steward it is vastly different than me telling you what to do yeah but when are women

01:42:39.660 good with money i think we should start doing bows for our boyfriends and husbands we can bow

01:42:44.820 to them okay that's crazy what you want to bow to your boyfriend and husband yeah i like i like

01:42:52.140 to give a little bow before i give him food why just to show some submission you know

01:42:57.820 i do not agree with that i think we bow to god we can bow to him you know you think he's equal

01:43:06.160 to god no but close scripture tells us to not have any other gods that's why i said just under

01:43:12.800 just under yeah just under well okay pearl right yeah yes okay well it's nice meeting nice to meet

01:43:18.320 you yes bye we got to talk so last question if the pastor tells the woman one i was thinking it'd be

01:43:25.360 funny to do an undercover bible study right and i should just go back to every time they is like

01:43:32.960 are dealing with a problem just say well what did your husband say guys can we learn

01:43:42.800 You should involve me because I can be a sniper with this.

01:43:45.680 I don't know.

01:43:46.340 I got to find a Bible study in it.

01:43:48.220 If anyone knows any of the Dallas area or Austin I could go to,

01:43:52.820 that I could just, you know, that'd be pretty funny.

01:43:56.460 One thing and the husband says another.

01:43:58.740 Who should she listen to?

01:44:00.160 Which one is biblical?

01:44:01.380 Well, the Bible is up to interpretation, right?

01:44:03.800 I know I've been to a lot of churches and everyone thinks that like their interpretation is correct.

01:44:09.080 so i don't think we could like sit here and say it's like cut and dry because there's so much

01:44:13.440 argument about it so i'm saying the other thing that annoys me right everyone's like oh i know

01:44:20.280 i'm right i'm like well oh sorry i know what he's i'm gonna let him answer that i'm gonna go on my

01:44:26.180 rant hold on pastor says one thing the husband says another who should she listen to i would

01:44:31.460 both are interpreting in a different way well i mean i think scholars go back over time and they

01:44:36.720 do debate the bible i think yeah like if scholars have different opinions you don't you think it's

01:44:42.040 impossible for the husband and the pastor to disagree on something come on if jesus if if

01:44:49.780 it's interpreted as the words of jesus um and it's correctly interpreted i would say whichever one

01:44:56.120 is biblical right but she's got to pick one she's they both are saying they're biblical

01:45:03.080 i mean it would come down to a case-by-case basis um but it would go back to him to truth

01:45:10.360 what black man which that simps dude he's copping out i hate it sorry go ahead saying 0.56

01:45:18.680 saying whatever is biblical is a cop-out biblicate tells women obey your husbands 0.97

01:45:24.360 it doesn't qualify if he's godly or not it says obey your husband just like it tells uh slaves

01:45:30.520 obey your master it doesn't talk about the morality of it doesn't say is your master or

01:45:36.200 your husband good or not obey as if you're obeying god himself

01:45:44.840 obedience doesn't come with qualifiers yep book of god what do you think about women telling their

01:45:52.760 husbands what to do can you still be obedient if you tell your husband what to do i think there's

01:45:57.640 a way to have a conversation and talk it out and be able to express what their thoughts are

01:46:02.360 in a situation like vance like trump and vance vance could potentially come in and say i would

01:46:09.160 suggest this because xyz i don't think that would be bad but it's like no but there's a difference

01:46:17.880 if vance came in and said trump you need to do this i think trump would kill him he just

01:46:23.800 he'd crash notice yeah notice how vance would approach i would suggest this and here are the

01:46:29.800 reasons why it's not based on emotion because i don't want to obey it's based on i think these

01:46:35.400 logical reasons are reasons you might agree with yeah correct correct and that's um

01:46:46.520 no it's not how we do it as ladies it's not so what their views are um there is an opportunity 0.96

01:46:52.600 for them to have it's so rare you see women with that level of like deference and respect when

01:46:58.360 giving a husband their opinion like i think we should have i would try to like i would like you

01:47:05.480 to help more and these are the reasons why or um i think you should because xyz but it's like

01:47:12.280 different when you're telling him what he has to do you know i don't know i probably didn't say it

01:47:18.760 right but it's just rare yeah go ahead you're you're getting it the way they often approach

01:47:28.320 is i'm superior i'm right do what i want versus i'm going to submit to you being the the leader

01:47:35.620 having the authority so i'm just going to present my reasons to you and let you decide if you submit

01:47:41.280 to authority you can present your reasons but then you have to go along with their decision

01:47:47.540 even if they disagree with your reasons obedience doesn't come with qualifiers yeah correct have

01:47:55.560 that um and express their views or their differences i think this guy kind of had it to be honest

01:48:01.620 no one else in this video but in a conversation just like you would have a conversation with

01:48:07.500 someone else what are your thoughts on the question well i'm not married so i don't have

01:48:12.580 a ton of thoughts but i do think obviously you're fat you know you're too young to be that fat it's 0.91

01:48:18.660 just obviously fat and bitchy scripture is clear where it says to submit to your husband what that 0.95

01:48:26.760 means isn't necessarily do what they say and only what they say because the other side of that is 0.72

01:48:32.400 they're supposed to care and love for their wives and so it's a it's as jesus is the head of the

01:48:37.800 church so is the man of the household and yet women have come along as the helper and

01:48:44.460 leader of that and so i think it's actually a beautiful uh working together kind of thing and

01:48:50.980 so i'm not married and do you post this anywhere yeah on youtube okay are you asked as you're

01:48:55.980 asking people to speak this are you telling them that that they're going to be on youtube or

01:49:00.440 anything yeah i mean it's pretty obvious with a mic and a camera but it's a one-party consent state

01:49:05.060 so it's public property so totally yeah my short answer

01:49:09.260 trying to protect her reputation i'm not saying something that's going to make her look bad that

01:49:17.400 she knows she's in the wrong it was do you see a thinly veiled threat like are you going to do this

01:49:23.280 my way no yeah do people know do people know

01:49:29.040 there's a giant camera i mean i don't know what more i'll tell you what just as a youtuber

01:49:37.420 people in the chat when you're doing youtube videos the most annoying thing

01:49:41.380 people look i don't mind i'm never going to throw a camera in someone's face that doesn't want to

01:49:47.740 be there i'm not that type of person but what happens is is you pay a producer to come out

01:49:52.940 that sign was like 120 bucks if anyone cared um i paid for my sign i paid for my equipment

01:49:59.660 i have my little thing i'm not throwing i'm not making anyone do it that doesn't want to do it

01:50:04.660 you always want to draw a lot of attention so they come to you so you're not just i don't really like

01:50:09.580 the style of interview where you ask a question fast and like put it in their face like that is 1.00

01:50:14.220 a style it's not mine i like them to come up but what will happen is these women usually women will

01:50:21.500 come up argue with me and then say don't put me in this it's like you just wasted 30 minutes of 0.97

01:50:26.700 my filming time I mean you could have just walked by you could have what you could have walked by

01:50:34.160 and never spoke to me again like we could have never but you want to argue with me waste my time

01:50:40.920 and then tell me I can't put it on camera I just I like you guys to know the behind the scenes that 0.99

01:50:46.060 you get and sometimes these women one of the women was such a demon about this that she mass

01:50:52.000 reported by channel and was part of the reason i got demonetized because i told her i'm like no you

01:50:57.400 came up to me like i i'm not this is a one party consent anyways so um yeah this is no one's forced

01:51:07.740 in these i don't put cameras in people's faces even though i could that's legal i just don't

01:51:13.800 like to do it so anyways it'd be like i would i would hope that a christian woman and man would

01:51:19.360 work in concert as a team inside the confines of marriage is that an answer does that count do you

01:51:25.000 think that christian women should obey their husbands what do you define as obedience there

01:51:29.920 you go already lost as in like being inferior sure um women are christian women are necessarily

01:51:39.040 inferior to their husbands however there's a verse in the bible that says you should honor

01:51:43.240 your husband then the husband should honor the wife so that looks in a form of like obedience

01:51:49.720 of kind of looking to them as the male of the household or like the greater maybe like decision 0.72

01:51:56.800 maker but also the man also has that responsibility for the woman do you think it's in a woman's place

01:52:03.500 to tell a man what to do no

01:52:05.980 i thought her answer was the best out of the girls actually 0.98

01:52:13.120 i have hope for her what i have hope for her no i don't have hope for any of these broads sorry 0.56

01:52:21.840 this is a cult like church allegedly i don't it's like watermark or something i don't know 0.97

01:52:27.540 much about it but everyone i've told that i went to this church told me it's a cult

01:52:32.840 so i don't know it is or it isn't what are your chances of doing this with myron in front of a

01:52:38.260 church not obviously in a non-agnostic way like you were doing here antagonistic oh antagonistic 0.51

01:52:44.860 um yeah i could do that i'm sorry go ahead mark how many of the women were combative 0.95

01:52:51.040 or like argumentative they didn't want to say just yes um i mean they all none of them just 0.94

01:52:59.940 said yes i would say the one girl the i think three in this video i would say weren't like 0.97

01:53:07.880 bad like they were better than the others three all all had a butt pretty much but 0.88

01:53:15.900 i don't find this girl to be combative i didn't find let me go back this i didn't think she was 0.74

01:53:24.140 combative um she was combative i didn't think she was combative um i i don't think i didn't 0.89

01:53:33.780 really get obedience from her but i didn't get straight out combative from her she was somewhat

01:53:39.280 combative the most combative ones i think were her i agree she had a like a better heart posture 0.99

01:53:50.760 maybe whatever like but uh i think she's crazy um the let's see she was the worst second worst um

01:54:02.680 the worst was the one with the dress i thought she this one was the most because i felt like 0.63

01:54:07.000 that was a thinly veiled threat and like you're telling me what to do who are you i'm not like

01:54:12.840 you think you know better how to do my anyways maybe maybe i was just triggered as possible

01:54:18.920 But, yeah, I think that's my analysis of the women in this.

01:54:23.340 For the men, he was weak.

01:54:29.740 Dude in the back, less weak than the other guy, but still a little bit.

01:54:34.600 Less weak than the first guy, but still a little bit.

01:54:38.640 I thought he was the strongest guy.

01:54:40.600 I'm like, what do you thought?

01:54:42.100 That was my analysis.

01:54:42.760 Okay, let me ask you this.

01:54:44.380 Yeah.

01:54:44.660 do you think the men in that church have the courage to call women out and hold them accountable

01:54:52.080 no god no it's a cult

01:54:56.160 yeah wait what that's like most churches now though i think yeah yeah

01:55:04.360 he would agree right yeah i would agree if they're feminist they're a cult

01:55:10.660 yeah yep i get that 1.00

01:55:13.820 if they don't like that label well the shoe fits wear it otherwise change the size of your damn 0.98

01:55:21.840 foot the other thing i realized is the reason because you know being a introspective person 0.98

01:55:28.660 right they came up to me and you know they're saying oh you're bothering people at church

01:55:34.820 and at first you know you start to think am i bothering people and then i thought about it if

01:55:39.200 was in their shoes and i saw a sign and i'm like no i think they just don't want it to be public

01:55:45.680 what they're teaching in this church because i was thinking about it if i'm a teacher and my

01:55:51.760 students know the material i don't really care if they're quizzed like i don't really care especially

01:55:58.160 if they're adults and i'm not forcing like i could definitely see having it through i've seen

01:56:04.720 interviewers go up to random people throw a camera in their face ask a question really fast

01:56:10.200 um that's legal you could do it just not my style and so i realized it's not that it's not me it's

01:56:17.680 them they are afraid of what they're teaching getting out because it's not biblical as my

01:56:24.240 opinion yep they were afraid of the status quo being challenged as not measuring up to the bible

01:56:31.660 that they proclaim as their authority yeah yeah that's pretty good actually i didn't think okay

01:56:40.300 just contacts youtube channel i'm single and not the right person to ask this that's humility this

01:56:46.940 she was my favorite one she's the one see the youngest not a not a surprise fellas

01:56:53.900 the youngest and cutest has the most hope you know what i mean it's like but i think even one

01:56:59.580 the one not fat girl was the happiest it's like water is wet the sky is blue date women that are

01:57:05.540 22 being single i don't know how old she is but it's just a lot of people are very like independent

01:57:17.920 and like even as a woman i'm looking for a man who i guess like is strong and like wants to take

01:57:26.340 charge and so that's all what do you think about like women telling their husbands to do the chores

01:57:30.820 in the house um i mean i think they should definitely like again it goes back to like

01:57:37.460 honoring each other so like hopefully that like the man is willing to help out for the greater

01:57:43.700 good of the household but like it should also be like both for people the last one before the wind 0.62

01:57:48.900 takes us do you think it's okay for women to tell their husbands what to do no not in that way

01:57:55.220 absolutely not i believe that there's a way i believe that you can suggest and say hey honey

01:58:00.180 you know what about this you know but not tell them what to do i don't believe that all right

01:58:04.100 guys thanks for watching the weather is going to take us out today so we got to go but thank you

01:58:08.580 so much for watching let me know security actually also took us out so it actually wasn't just the

01:58:13.620 weather but the weather was coming anyway but the security wasn't the church they actually got us

01:58:21.620 waters that's the thing they'll ask you to leave and still bring you water i'm like this is great

01:58:25.540 but the building yeah they asked us to go because the weather was coming so i was like

01:58:31.140 sorry go ahead mark so the security of the building or the church no the building the

01:58:37.540 church asked us to leave um and then i just said well it's public property which it is a sidewalk

01:58:43.860 um but so you can go on the side walk is kind of like the way it is um that's public property

01:58:50.740 they can't do anything the grass we were on um i didn't realize was part of the building's like

01:58:55.940 property or whatever so but then it was like by the time they asked us to leave the building

01:59:02.420 the weather came it was like about to start hailing or something so we just it kind of was

01:59:07.860 just a good time to wrap okay i want to comment on something the women are talking about the husband

01:59:15.700 is supposed to honor the wife yes in fact god gives like a very serious warning in scripture

01:59:22.180 that if a husband does not honor his wife his prayers will be ignored

01:59:27.580 as in god will refuse to listen to the prayers of a husband who dishonors his wife because she's the

01:59:35.900 weaker vessel now that concept of honoring the wife i think women misunderstand that and

01:59:43.600 intentionally manipulate that to give me everything i want that's not what it means

01:59:51.520 yeah i agree okay well what you think this is the end all right we'll bring up some panelists

01:59:59.520 um to give their thoughts starting with um andre you've been waiting a while thanks

02:00:05.280 for waiting we appreciate you what are your thoughts video what hello you guys hear me

02:00:11.600 I hear you.

02:00:13.000 All right, all right.

02:00:14.180 So what are your thoughts on the question?

02:00:15.880 Why is it hard for Christian women to obey?

02:00:18.640 And any thoughts on the video? 1.00

02:00:19.860 Go ahead. 1.00

02:00:21.360 Well, I can't speak for women why it's hard for them to obey. 0.99

02:00:28.980 It's just Christian women, when they get married at church, they kind of have that in their vow. 0.99

02:00:37.620 So it's kind of their duty.

02:00:39.560 I actually wrote it in the chat earlier when you were at the beginning of the stream.

02:00:47.980 But I think that the modern society, the way it functions and the values that we show everywhere in media and social media, it's the reason that they have a hard time with it.

02:01:04.380 Okay.

02:01:05.220 Thanks for calling in, Andre.

02:01:06.680 I appreciate you.

02:01:07.500 All right, Donnie, welcome. 0.74

02:01:09.560 to the show um why is it so hard for christian women to obey uh hey pearl hey doug hey mark uh

02:01:16.760 i think the flaw is christianity itself uh if you understand it from a philosophical point of view

02:01:23.640 herd morality versus master morality like christianity is all based on sacrifice unity

02:01:31.440 love and basically if you're framed as a weaker group or a weaker person you're seen as good 0.98

02:01:40.540 so women certain minorities all this woke garbage you're weak therefore you're good you're strong 0.99

02:01:48.020 and powerful aka white people and then you're bad we gotta tear you down and i mean a lot of us 1.00

02:01:57.000 would be progressive by original standards but let's look at the amish the actual trad cons 1.00

02:02:02.780 they have six or seven kids per woman oh shit i said six seven you know poverty and tradition 0.99

02:02:10.100 keeps hoes in line uh before i split uh i just had one thing i wanted to say uh i i really want 0.96

02:02:19.540 to see your documentary when it comes out but is there a section addressing uh ronald reagan's 0.91

02:02:25.300 role in divorce uh a lot of red pill people crap on him but he actually wanted no fault divorce to

02:02:32.460 help men because of his own divorce uh well i don't want to spoil anything uh no but that's

02:02:39.200 interesting um doug if you could just write that down maybe it could be something we could look

02:02:44.260 into that we weren't planning on it but we're still in like early stages of editing and i want

02:02:49.340 to split i want to be fair to you guys p.s as a redhead you look better in blue or green don't

02:02:55.520 don't wear red you look like a ketchup bottle and on your fitness goals don't feel ashamed for 0.99

02:03:01.400 caring about that shit because i can't stand people keep saying i don't give a fuck i don't 1.00

02:03:05.340 give a fuck like you care about pursuing excellence you know getting better i was on a sports team uh 1.00

02:03:11.940 i won my basketball championship game 20 years ago i used to bowl i was good as fuck i'm i'm old 1.00

02:03:18.540 now, but pursue excellence. Be great at something. Take pride in your accomplishment. All right,

02:03:25.000 I'm going to split. Thank you. Oh, they're good. You guys are going to hear about my splits the

02:03:29.740 entire way. That's coming whether you like it or not. Okay. Darian, Darian, thank you for coming

02:03:37.260 on to the show. What are your thoughts on the video and just the general topic? Why is it hard

02:03:43.540 for Christian women to obey? Thanks for calling on. Okay, so yeah, I have a quick answer. So 1.00

02:03:50.780 basically, I think those women, whether they realize it or not, they are not, I think, purely

02:03:59.320 Christian. I think the problem is that they adhere to feminism more than to Christianity,

02:04:05.020 because all those women who were giving the yes, but answers, they are started to give you answers

02:04:13.320 that reflected feminism and not what's in the Bible. And I just want to give a quick example.

02:04:18.420 So when you guys are talking about the verses that refer to let women learn in quiet and all 1.00

02:04:25.700 submissiveness, I do not permit a woman to teach or exercise authority, one of the women gave the 0.95

02:04:31.560 answer that most women give is that women in that particular time period were argumentative. 0.83

02:04:40.580 That's not actually what the Bible says. The very next verse tells you the reason why Paul is telling women to be quiet in church.

02:04:51.140 And it says, in particular, for Adam was formed first. So Adam is the primary. 0.88

02:04:56.660 Then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgression. 0.91

02:05:02.600 transgression. So it's literally telling us that it's part of women's natural being to be 0.93

02:05:11.960 deceived. They're subject to being deceived. And I think that's what we see a lot. And when I see

02:05:19.600 women preachers, I see them very often bringing feminism and bringing the world into the church. 0.90

02:05:25.800 so next time someone tells you that you know those verses 13 and 14 gives the actual reason

02:05:32.980 and it's not something that was um contained within first century biblical times it's actually

02:05:39.780 the reason goes all the way back to genesis in the beginning

02:05:44.100 okay it's both it's both because that letter is written to if i'm not mistaken timothy who's the

02:05:54.700 pastor at the church at Ephesus. And you have the letter written by Paul directly to the church of

02:05:59.640 Ephesians. And then you have in the book of Acts, what happened in Ephesus. Ephesus, their chief

02:06:06.560 god of the city was a woman. So they were a feminist society. So this is a church where 1.00

02:06:12.640 people are trying to get out of feminism. They're trying to break with the culture of their city 1.00

02:06:17.580 in order to be biblical. So there's that. And then that verse after explaining, because Adam 0.96

02:06:25.020 wasn't deceived, it also explains why feminism is so prevalent. Because women are easily perceived 1.00

02:06:30.780 with emotional arguments that feel right versus logic that actually maps correctly.

02:06:37.640 one more is that you know when uh when you guys in the video talked about wives submitting to

02:06:48.920 your husband you know it's also the very next verse it gives the reason why it comes it says

02:06:55.320 that wives are to submit to their husbands as the church submits to christ so every time they would

02:07:02.760 give you an example of why they shouldn't completely submit, it would be good to just

02:07:08.740 ask them, okay, try to transpose their example and say, do you treat Christ this way? Like if they

02:07:14.740 say, well, it depends on the man. That's a good question. I'm going to write that down.

02:07:19.860 I have a thing in my notes. Do you treat Christ this way?

02:07:25.120 Do you qualify your obedience to him based on whether you agree with it or not?

02:07:29.340 that's exactly the question qualify your obedience to him agree or not good point

02:07:39.480 good point guys because if they say they're obedient to jesus then they're supposed to be

02:07:46.140 obedient to their husband yeah because they qualify if they qualify their obedience to

02:07:52.080 their husband by definition they're not being obedient to jesus yeah because it literally says

02:07:58.400 that the husband is the priest of the home so it's um you know the bible gives gives us hierarchies

02:08:05.880 and examples that are supposed to be examples of how we treat christ so the the the um and it

02:08:14.520 literally says the church submits to christ and and the woman submits to the husband but here's

02:08:23.060 the problem they say the wife should submit to the husband like the church submits to christ

02:08:28.880 how many churches are actually submitting to him and actually demonstrating the proper model of

02:08:33.900 obedience uh not that many and it's because they are letting the world in and and feminism

02:08:40.200 i think is probably a primary example they're so afraid to offend women that they're little by

02:08:46.460 little they've let feminism in and it's worldliness creeping into the church and the bible tells us

02:08:53.040 us to separate uh to separate the world from the church and but it's the opposite is happening

02:09:00.600 but christ did warn us about that in revelations that this is how it would be that there would be

02:09:06.140 preachers that would be essentially rejecting christ from the pulpit uh so you know that's where

02:09:14.960 we are well thanks for calling in i appreciate the input and the question thanks perl

02:09:23.920 Wicked Witch of the West. Why is that your name?

02:09:28.220 Good morning. 0.98

02:09:29.920 Are you wicked? 0.97

02:09:32.380 Is my mic working? 0.95

02:09:35.100 No, it's echoing a little bit. I'm going to drop you in the bridge back up.

02:09:39.660 Brad, welcome to the show.

02:09:42.160 Hey, how y'all been?

02:09:44.280 Oh, good. You call in a lot, right? Are you used to it?

02:09:47.740 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:09:48.320 yeah okay um so what are your thoughts on christian women obeying and um just the topic at large

02:09:56.160 yeah i was loving that episode i think you should do a lot more of those like hit the street and do

02:10:02.620 the interviews in real life and i was loving that episode because i actually i'm not a christian

02:10:09.040 but i read the bible three times and i went through a phase where i was looking up all the

02:10:14.660 explanations and debates and all this stuff so i'm pretty familiar with it and um christian women 0.98

02:10:22.100 they just do not follow the parts of the bible that they don't like straight up and neither do 0.71

02:10:26.360 the men that's why christianity is a complete joke nowadays and that that's why they don't follow

02:10:32.600 when you go to the christian church they just pick and choose whatever they want it's a bunch 1.00

02:10:38.020 of feminist women it's a bunch of weak ass simps and it was driving me crazy when that woman when 1.00

02:10:44.100 they were telling you oh yeah about being silent in the church and obeying the husband and they 1.00

02:10:49.320 have all these mental gymnastics and they're like paul only meant for those women at that time at 0.99

02:10:54.340 that church to do that uh as far as i know they're just pulling that out of their ass it doesn't say 0.99

02:11:01.200 that anywhere in the bible now maybe they have some other source but the bottom line is they're 0.97

02:11:05.840 gonna find a reason to make anything they don't like oh it was only for that time only for that

02:11:12.880 person okay bro yeah paul's gonna write a letter uh only for those women but all the other women

02:11:20.180 for all other time y'all could run the show y'all could do this and that in the third and then you

02:11:27.040 know i'll land the plane soon uh but then they say it just drives me so crazy then they say oh yeah

02:11:34.260 uh we submit but the man also submits to us so it's like 50 50 and it also says that the man 0.99

02:11:42.200 should love his wife like christ loved the church so fucking what what the fuck's your point yeah 0.99

02:11:48.820 your husband's supposed to love you like christ loved the church how the fuck does that mean you 1.00

02:11:53.500 don't submit to him how the fuck are they mutually exclusive yeah i can love my wife and she can still 0.99

02:12:00.280 submit to me so what the fuck is your point and then one thing i gotta say too is like 0.99

02:12:05.560 even i'm a fan of andrew wilson but he's obviously orthodox christian i'm not christian i respect the 0.99

02:12:13.240 positive aspects of it but the negative aspects of it i throw in the trash i could give a fuck 0.99

02:12:19.320 less what the bible says what the church says what the preacher says i'm my own fucking man 0.99

02:12:25.240 i run my life how i want i run my relationship how i want but andrew wilson he said um 0.98

02:12:32.940 uh when you're in the church it's like you have authority over your wife but the church has

02:12:40.000 authority over you and the pastor has authority over you so if i'm doing something wrong to my

02:12:45.680 wife the pastor is going to come check me and he's going to let me know that i'm not being 0.99

02:12:50.980 biblical and i'm not man fuck the pastor fuck the pastor yeah do you feel like a lot of um 0.99

02:12:57.460 men would be religious if there was patriarchal churches because it seems like yeah like the most 0.99

02:13:05.540 moral guys i know just are not like the guys that behave the most moral are not religious

02:13:11.180 like the guys that don't smoke don't drink don't cheat like they just behave in a moral way

02:13:16.260 but they're not religious and when i kind of ask them i think they're just sick of wasting their 0.99

02:13:21.380 time on sundays with just like gay people yeah no it's a it's a complete waste of time there's 0.96

02:13:27.020 actually a book called masculine christianity i haven't read it but i know the gist of what it's 0.99

02:13:31.800 about where these are christian men that actually stand on business and they call this bullshit out 0.53

02:13:37.340 and uh they say no like the bible means what it says that's what drives me crazy is those verses 0.94

02:13:44.640 they mean what they say it's like this is literally what 90 of christians in america do

02:13:50.760 it's like if you had a bible verse that said word for word under no circumstances are you ever

02:13:57.120 allowed to eat apples and then the christians be like oh well what it really meant was

02:14:02.920 you know what it really meant was uh only red apples in the seventh century because there were

02:14:11.600 pagans that were selling red apples

02:14:13.680 at the 7th century

02:14:15.380 and but nowadays

02:14:17.420 it's different context it's different

02:14:19.740 culture it's different 0.99

02:14:21.400 it's like is that what it fucking says in the 1.00

02:14:23.780 book or is that what you're pulling out your fucking 1.00

02:14:25.620 ass I like there was 1.00

02:14:27.660 literally let me say you'll laugh at this 0.85

02:14:29.620 I wanted to say this for a while

02:14:31.440 huh no I've been

02:14:33.440 dude this drives me this is

02:14:35.580 why this is why I say man

02:14:37.520 the red pill space

02:14:39.340 has

02:14:41.140 overlap with

02:14:43.340 Christianity 0.99

02:14:44.560 because real Christianity

02:14:46.960 is conservative. It's patriarchal. 0.57

02:14:49.240 That's fine. You got to stop yelling, though.

02:14:51.320 Just calm down a little bit.

02:14:53.160 The sound's getting a little bad.

02:14:55.640 Okay. Sorry about that.

02:14:56.760 Sorry about that. I'm just sorry about that.

02:14:58.600 But the Apple analogy, was that

02:15:00.680 good? Is that spot on?

02:15:02.380 They bend over.

02:15:05.120 I'll give you...

02:15:06.040 I'll wrap it up soon, but this will make you laugh.

02:15:08.380 This will be good. There was a Christian 1.00

02:15:10.460 apologist that i watched a lot of his videos when i was in that phase and he's one of these guys

02:15:17.400 that he you know they all bend over backwards that's all apologetics is is like mental gymnastics

02:15:22.560 and somebody asked him a question about modesty about female modesty and he said oh you know uh

02:15:30.080 the the bible adapts to the culture and the time so like in our culture he literally said this

02:15:36.720 word for word he's like in our culture you know it could be modest for a woman to wear like a

02:15:42.420 long sleeve shirt but in another culture if the norm is to walk around topless you know it could

02:15:48.700 that could be modest because that's the culture you know that's the time i'm not like look i just 0.98

02:15:55.960 think you can just tell like it's just i don't i i'm not like for the like the muzzle the burkas

02:16:06.040 or whatever i think that's a little extreme but like i think we can all tell when you know an

02:16:10.960 outfit isn't modest like we can all just see it yeah yeah yeah no that's that's the thing too

02:16:16.620 there is a video i saw the other day because it pops up in my feed because i still watch them for

02:16:21.140 fun for entertainment i just love debate i love the intellectual part of it it was like uh one

02:16:28.200 christian woman versus 12 muslim women and this christian woman you know she's like uh uh you 0.96

02:16:35.720 know speaking christianity she has double d titties and they're just hanging out and they're 1.00

02:16:40.060 showing cleavage but then she's like oh yeah i stood up for jesus today but you have your double 0.99

02:16:45.640 d titties hanging out it's like michaela peterson oh yeah i'm this uh conservative christian woman 1.00

02:16:51.140 oh uh uh look i'm breastfeeding under the guise of breastfeeding look at my tits look at my tits 0.99

02:16:57.480 on, you know, Instagram. And, uh, can I, can I, man, can I say one last thing? And then I swear 0.97

02:17:05.320 I'll hop off one last thing. Okay. Okay. Uh, I just want to say, like I said, I'm a fan of Andrew

02:17:13.860 Wilson, but his whole thing about the preacher having authority over you, and he's going to

02:17:19.540 tell you how to run your relationship. That's completely anti red pill. No man should ever do

02:17:24.000 that no man should ever do that the only person that has authority in your relationship is you 0.99

02:17:28.980 no fucking priest no fucking church no fucking bible it's only well Andrew Wilson isn't red pill 0.99

02:17:37.060 so that's just out and remember no the worst thing Andrew Wilson I like Andrew Wilson he's 1.00

02:17:43.900 great but this whole find a virtuous woman just marry her because God got you bro that's the

02:17:49.680 worst part of the game. Hey,

02:17:51.400 we actually have 1.00

02:17:53.780 a woman calling in.

02:17:55.460 Thanks for calling in, Brad.

02:17:58.440 See a woman. That's hilarious. 1.00

02:18:00.220 I'm sorry. Hi.

02:18:01.900 What up, Elena?

02:18:05.360 Is it Eliana?

02:18:07.580 Yes, my name is Eliana.

02:18:09.900 How's it going?

02:18:11.140 Where are you calling out?

02:18:12.060 Yeah, I can hear you.

02:18:14.900 Where are you calling out of?

02:18:18.260 Hello?

02:18:19.300 hello i hello yeah she's got to figure out her mic okay rj welcome to the show where are you calling

02:18:29.940 uh australia oh cool have you called them before have you had your camera on before

02:18:35.860 uh no i've never had my camera on before okay your voice sounded familiar but yeah i was on

02:18:41.700 a few weeks ago i don't know if you remember i mentioned the internet where yeah anyway yes i

02:18:47.140 I was on before. What are your thoughts on this whole topic? Why is it so hard for Christian

02:18:52.080 women to obey or anything you noticed in the video we watched? The reason why it's hard is 1.00

02:18:58.080 I'd have to say too much of feminism has inculcated their minds like for example 1.00

02:19:03.680 this morning I had an issue with the missus where I told her not to do something but because my 0.99

02:19:11.140 mother-in-law had told her to do something she believed that was an argument for her to not

02:19:15.720 listen to me because oh well she said something else it's just like yes but the issue was

02:19:20.840 you climbed over my authority as a husband to do what you want because you felt it

02:19:26.340 yeah um so how do you deal with that in your relationship when that happens

02:19:35.380 um i maintain frame like for example i told her look you went over my word listen to my mother-in-law 0.99

02:19:42.100 I told you that's not how it works in this family. 0.91

02:19:44.420 I'm the head of this household.

02:19:45.700 No pastor tells me what to do.

02:19:46.980 Like, for example, the other guy that was just saying that the issue

02:19:49.500 with Andrew Wilson is that, like, he has the priest over him

02:19:51.720 who tells him what to do.

02:19:53.440 There's nuance to what Andrew Wilson means in regards to that,

02:19:55.940 but sort of even for me, it's like, well, no pastor even comes

02:19:58.960 and tells me what to do.

02:20:00.340 Anyway, I told my wife, even if a pastor comes and tells you,

02:20:03.840 oh, Josh was wrong on that, you have to listen to him.

02:20:08.360 And it's like, well, it doesn't matter what he says.

02:20:10.440 I said you do this next time somebody else comes and tells you something that's not having to do

02:20:16.200 with me you come and you tell me and then I'll decide what it is or not but again I I'm full 1.00

02:20:22.860 of passport bros like I got married with a girl from Europe we're talking she had the shitter 1.00

02:20:27.620 outside toilet in 2021 and feminism has like gotten through even girls like that it's insane 0.92

02:20:34.880 it's literally insane i'm no joke like i'm part of a i won't say what part of a community i am

02:20:40.900 of european but i'm part of a european community where everybody most of the guys are encouraged

02:20:46.260 go to eu get a girl they're good girls the top of the line they're submissive they'll love you

02:20:51.360 they'll obey you now my brother's divorced i got a friend divorced it's it's like and i'm talking 0.97

02:20:57.880 a lot of these girls are from villages outside of towns three hours away with toilets outside 0.97

02:21:03.000 cows sheep everything bro's bullshit anybody from red pill who says go europe go that nut it's it's 0.80

02:21:10.680 everywhere you will not get away from it and i got married five years ago in 2021 so bro stuff 0.99

02:21:16.440 doesn't work anymore how does it does it just because they have cell phones now or like what

02:21:20.700 yes yes oh man i went through her you're spot on i went through her phone um on her facebook

02:21:28.660 she got a facebook when she was like 14 or something but she never like she never deleted

02:21:35.660 any messages ever with any guy man the moment she got facebook every day every single day like i'm

02:21:43.500 talking hundreds and hundreds of just messages from random guys older men younger guys obviously

02:21:48.980 actually grew older whatever more and more people but that's what it was it's once they got access

02:21:53.460 to social media that's it and there's no you can't stop it like when i was talking with my um

02:22:00.420 wife now but when i was just talking her to get married i actually went to an elder at our church

02:22:05.220 and i was like hey look she's on instagram and she barely has any posts but she's all

02:22:09.220 day on and on facebook and everything's like oh you got to find a girl without it but i was just

02:22:12.660 like yeah but that's impossible we're talking again toilet outside in the winter middle of

02:22:18.340 the winter at night you've got to get outside with a lantern go to the toilet made out of wood 0.94

02:22:23.460 um where you gotta dig a hole for the shit and everything um and they still if they have access 0.99

02:22:28.480 to the phone it's corruption all the way so you're divorced you're divorced no no i'm married 0.99

02:22:33.640 no no i'm happy you have friends that got the same village or something and divorce

02:22:37.940 100 my own brother so um did they all come with social media already or did any not

02:22:46.200 uh no they all came with it yeah it seemed it's like the generation this generation um

02:22:52.880 in the 30s yeah 30s down that's it that past boy bro stuff does not work yeah it never will

02:22:59.860 so you basically went to some remote part of europe to find a wife and you're because i'm

02:23:05.380 a part of the culture i knew friends of a friend of a friend who knew her they grew up together

02:23:10.140 blah blah blah and this is um is it like close to amish i mean you don't have to say i don't

02:23:17.540 yeah um orthodox christian they actually she actually grew up orthodox christian like that's

02:23:23.780 the most that's the up thing and like even in this i won't say the country um

02:23:29.220 but even in this it is eastern like russia romania type countries like that um very

02:23:35.060 traditional orthodox and stuff um it's like it it's just a you go to church and that's it easter

02:23:41.220 christmas a few times a month and that's it there's no actual like the other guy was saying

02:23:46.340 like he was railing on about christianity like to an extent i i know i understand that guy even

02:23:50.420 though i am practicing i do have that sentiment so many times because it's just like what the

02:23:55.780 what the has it become like it's just do as you will see as you please um my opinion it's

02:24:02.180 my way the highway and yeah it's it's like i'm married um if you're not able to it won't work

02:24:10.980 um sorry we're seeing all these problems with modern christianity the modern church

02:24:18.740 in the book of revelation it actually talks about it jesus is talking to the church and he says come

02:24:23.460 out of her my people do not participate in her sins he's saying come out of the woke feminist

02:24:29.620 modern church if that's not going to happen the reality of this is not going to happen okay like

02:24:36.260 Like, I know the Bible says I believe it, but that's just not going to happen.

02:24:40.580 I left.

02:24:41.560 I stopped going to the church.

02:24:42.660 I can't go back because I see the hypocrisy.

02:24:46.540 Like, I did that.

02:24:47.740 I left.

02:24:48.520 I walked away.

02:24:49.400 So if I can do it, other people can. 0.57

02:24:51.240 If you see the woke stuff, the feminist stuff, and you know it's not biblical and it's convicting you, walk away.

02:24:57.300 You don't have to go to church. 0.85

02:24:59.200 Yeah, that's my issue is I'm not part of a woke church.

02:25:01.840 i'm part of an actual very traditional based church where they still got they still wear head

02:25:06.400 coverings they still wear skirts like it's very patriarchal traditional church so that's

02:25:11.680 i don't face that aspect of the issue i grew up in a church like that with the head coverings i still 1.00

02:25:22.640 because i see the hypocrisy heaps of other wives who are like my age range age group and 1.00

02:25:29.920 my wife like goes and spends time with them actually one of them just happened a few weeks 0.88

02:25:33.680 ago and like we're talking the guy's married he's just now getting a house australian commie is 1.00

02:25:38.320 pretty shitty um but they got kids and everything in the wife in front of a group of wives and she's 0.99

02:25:44.080 like in her 30s herself three kids man she started talking her husband and my wife came home and she 1.00

02:25:50.720 told me and i was just like bro like what is wrong with this woman like you're talking you've got

02:25:55.760 three kids your husband who sometimes speaks in church and again we consider ourselves a patriarchal

02:26:02.480 church but it's it's still inculcated in this it's yeah because i think what he's maybe struggling

02:26:12.560 with is sometimes it's just certain people in the church it's not maybe i don't know if this

02:26:18.080 is true or not but a lot of the orthodox and the catholics feel as though their church church

02:26:23.280 authority is on point but it's like the people in it sometimes i guess how do you differentiate that

02:26:29.440 in your opinion mark okay every single church is composed of people people have flaws people have

02:26:36.640 psychology you have to decide is the psychology here conducive for the outcome i want in my life

02:26:42.560 for the way i want to live my life or not is the pastor preaching what scripture says or is he

02:26:48.640 catering to women does he have the balls to call people out on their regardless if it's a man or

02:26:54.880 woman if he doesn't have the balls to call people out why would you respect him as a leader why 0.75

02:27:00.160 would you want to go to that church become your own pastor of your own house as a man biblically 0.88

02:27:06.880 you're supposed to be the protector the provider but before those things you're supposed to be the

02:27:12.000 the priest, the prophet, and the pastor

02:27:13.740 of your own house.

02:27:17.700 Okay, that answers my question.

02:27:20.060 RJ, you got anything else to that?

02:27:21.620 Otherwise, I'm going to go to the next caller.

02:27:23.840 No, you're all right.

02:27:24.800 Thanks for listening.

02:27:25.460 Thanks for calling in.

02:27:26.260 That was helpful.

02:27:28.060 Guys, yeah.

02:27:29.140 You can't even go to Eastern Europe.

02:27:30.840 Doug, MPA, are you done talking about

02:27:33.440 getting a girl overseas yet? 1.00

02:27:35.900 Yeah, I think it's cooked. 1.00

02:27:39.200 It's a sad day coming to that realization.

02:27:41.560 Hold on, Doug. 1.00

02:27:43.240 Do you really want an overseas girl? 1.00

02:27:46.420 I mean, look, anything has to be better than most of the women in the United States. 1.00

02:27:55.560 Especially coming from my community, dude, come on. 1.00

02:27:58.020 Don't forget where I'm coming from. 1.00

02:28:00.580 Anything's better than black women. 1.00

02:28:02.700 I want to put it in different words. 1.00

02:28:04.400 For you, it's not the community or the country she's from.

02:28:08.640 it's the psychology that she has that matters to you your hope is that by going to a different

02:28:14.000 community you can find better psychology is that an accurate way to put it i told you i'm looking

02:28:19.120 for three years dude three three years of i need a green card sex that's what i want well

02:28:29.840 you're gonna get bamboozled by a girl who plays the part for three years but if that's what you 1.00

02:28:34.400 want okay me look look all women do that though because you know american women try to say oh 1.00

02:28:41.360 yeah these foreign girls all they they just want something from you yeah you want something from 0.97

02:28:46.880 me too all women want something from you just what version of it do you want seriously what's 1.00

02:28:53.520 the difference between a foreign woman wanting something for from you and a freaking american 1.00

02:28:58.000 woman wanting something something from you now here's the thing if if a foreign woman wants to

02:29:04.400 stay she can stay but there isn't more of a likelihood i'd say there's more of a likelihood 0.93

02:29:11.680 for an american woman to to leave you than a foreign woman right uh maybe maybe i heard this

02:29:21.940 rumor that in the philippines they were actively teaching women to get the green card marry him 0.97

02:29:27.480 for 10 years then divorce and take half the stuff and immigrate your entire family and off of his

02:29:32.900 money like i said at least you get three years of her trying to get that green card green card sex 0.97

02:29:38.980 is that expensive yeah green card sex is the closest a lot of guys will get to genuine desire 0.99

02:29:46.780 sex yeah all right hold on hold on i have a problem with your belief system okay you're 0.95

02:29:54.880 approaching this from this perspective that you have to find genuine desire i'm approaching from

02:30:00.800 the perspective you can learn how to create genuine desire by understanding what women

02:30:06.400 find attractive yes yes yes but look they don't find dream card attractive the way you want it

02:30:13.680 you can understand what women find attractive and not be and still not be attractive dude 0.53

02:30:22.480 there's some guys especially in 2026 women are are are in want mode to the max so that's what

02:30:32.320 that's where a clavicular and looks maxing comes from these guys have accepted the fact that it's

02:30:37.680 not about character anymore it it doesn't even have to be about game if you have looks

02:30:43.200 in certain parts of it so what i'm saying is this you you can a lot of guys are just cooked

02:30:51.680 you can learn to talk or whatever you're still going to get a four or four or five but not the

02:30:56.080 women you want all i'm saying is this marry a foreign woman if if you want to have kids if you 0.99

02:31:03.440 want to have kids marry a foreign woman you know you know you you get three years of a traditional 0.94

02:31:11.040 woman who wants something from you and then if she chooses uh to stay she stays if he chooses 0.97

02:31:17.680 to go she goes no way and she can take the kid back to her country wait at least at least if 0.99

02:31:24.800 you marry a girl here your kid stays here she could just take that kid and go back to thailand 1.00

02:31:30.160 or wherever the hell let her take them and that's the black guy in you i'll go for a pack of cigarettes 0.99

02:31:40.000 i don't care i'm gonna put like this a green card is not going to get you genuine burning desire 0.96

02:31:46.720 the way most guys are never gonna get it anyway because most guys don't want to learn

02:31:52.240 exactly so they're still not gonna get it it doesn't matter how they're not gonna get it

02:31:56.320 they're not gonna get it then stop helping them cope by telling them to go overseas what i'm

02:32:01.360 saying is learn stop coping by trying to find the easier option i'll just go overseas i'm saying just

02:32:08.800 learn i'm saying psychology learn how to create attraction i learned guys i'm not getting a chad

02:32:14.480 dracula look there's certain guys who you can try to teach them all you want but they're still not

02:32:20.640 going to get genuine desire only a small percentage of men only a small percentage of men will ever

02:32:27.840 get genuine desire sex if you can accept the fact that's not going to be you well then you can do

02:32:34.400 other things that's all i'm saying i'm not saying don't learn but just if you if you if you're just

02:32:42.000 never gonna look guys most men to this day will still say that our number one job that we want to

02:32:48.920 have is to be an nfl quarterback knowing damn well we're never going to be uh playing for a

02:32:55.500 for an nfl team you have to accept the fact that you want to be a quarterback but you don't have

02:33:00.840 athletic ability you're not going to get there but you still have to live a life right okay doug 0.71

02:33:07.400 what population of the world is female like 52 percent you're telling me you can't learn

02:33:16.840 how to create attraction with one of them 1.00

02:33:22.680 she can be she can be attracted to citizenship

02:33:25.400 that's a cop out and you know it it is a cop out okay i'm all about results though

02:33:34.000 okay i was not getting the results i wanted i took accountability for my ignorance and i 0.84

02:33:42.260 learned female psychology female nature i learned how to create attraction i wasn't looking for the 0.86

02:33:49.380 women who are attracted to me i learned how to create attraction i've had girls dm me and

02:33:55.140 initiate the private conversation because of how i was interacting in a group type setting i learned

02:34:00.400 how to flirt with them how to be interesting and exciting every man can learn this i'm acknowledging

02:34:07.080 this i'm acknowledging this you could do all that or you could just wave a green card in front of

02:34:13.280 her face and get and get three years of that that's all i'm saying because the whole argument

02:34:17.900 against it oh she might leave you all women might leave you oh she might anything you can say that

02:34:23.300 that's against the tactic i'm saying american women will do it too that's all i'm saying

02:34:32.260 i just want men to explore all options women in the west american women are cooked okay

02:34:39.220 we're gonna take the next call or you can say one more thing mark 0.52

02:34:43.060 i'm saying every man can get better results by learning to understand female psychology and how

02:34:48.580 to create attraction no matter where you go in the world you can get better results if you learn how

02:34:52.660 how to do that i'm not disagreeing okay next caller we're gonna have um snowboard joe welcome

02:35:01.420 thanks for the opportunity to speak on here um i i want to offer like an adjacent point 1.00

02:35:11.040 and say that um the reason why it's hard for christian women to obey is because

02:35:16.460 it's really that materialism is their god and they just don't quite understand it

02:35:23.300 that's why they get the consumerism the vapidness they always want to consume

02:35:29.780 and that materialism is they want the materialism to then gain the status that's half the reason

02:35:36.580 why people have a cool car because that materialism has a status attached to it so if i have a ford

02:35:44.980 ranger pickup truck or a bugatti car that has a status attached to it from the materialism about

02:35:53.220 it so that's kind of secretly their god that they don't fully understand it all the way that's that

02:36:00.820 is like the major dna problem of it that's why they want the churches with the prosperity gospel

02:36:08.260 that's half of it they want a boat they want all the prosperity and hard work

02:36:15.140 they and the materialism is tied to their security which is you know that's not too unrealistic to

02:36:21.060 think that but materialism is really kind of their god and that's why they're meant to like 0.99

02:36:27.460 consume all the time if like women love consuming shopping like look look what they do with their 1.00

02:36:33.460 money they're going to buy bags items you know maybe a nice car like basically vapid 1.00

02:36:41.060 bullshit so they can keep consuming because that materialism that consumption is what gives them 0.91

02:36:46.100 those dopamine hits they feel when they're consuming like they like a man feels like when 0.99

02:36:51.540 he produces something a little bit it's kind of like the opposite way um i think that is kind of

02:36:58.260 like their god in a sense and and algorithms an algorithm is really their god because that's what

02:37:05.620 gets them their social status that's what gives them their dopamine hits that's what gives them

02:37:12.820 their sense of purpose in their validation you know what i mean like i think that is their real

02:37:19.220 god it's not jesus or what we're calling god amazon right exactly yeah it's it's but i think

02:37:27.620 that's really what the problem is i don't think that they fully understand that themselves and i

02:37:32.260 think for a lot of people that actually is their their god in a sense they just don't fully

02:37:37.940 understand it i mean even some men they want the materialism so they have that what material status

02:37:44.980 to what impress women that it's to impress men too and to get security and all that but

02:37:50.980 But a lot of it is really for that. 0.71

02:37:53.600 And that's what women really kind of worship without realizing it. 1.00

02:38:00.380 And that's also tied to their sense of security. 1.00

02:38:03.120 If I have more resources and, you know, more materialistic wealth, so to speak, then I can, you know, hold down the fort more.

02:38:13.460 Basically, I have more tools.

02:38:16.920 I have a bigger castle and whatnot.

02:38:18.280 So I think a lot of it is just really linked to materialism being their God.

02:38:23.380 But they don't know that.

02:38:25.060 They don't think this way.

02:38:25.960 They're not going to get philosophical and think about it.

02:38:29.160 That's kind of beyond them.

02:38:31.700 I think you're close.

02:38:34.020 I don't think it's materialism.

02:38:35.560 I think it's what the Bible calls sensuality.

02:38:38.360 They are serving their own senses.

02:38:40.340 They're pursuing what makes them feel good.

02:38:42.740 Yeah, vapid behavior.

02:38:44.120 Yeah.

02:38:44.480 um i'm just kind of coining the phrase like materialism is their god because it's

02:38:51.360 i don't know it kind of sounds better but it's not just it's not quite materialism itself but

02:38:56.720 it's pretty close vapid behavior is that what you said yeah um yeah vapid behavior serving yourself 0.99

02:39:04.880 all the time just can like women are consumers and they're they're vapid consumers they're 1.00

02:39:10.160 consuming things that don't really last it says it's throwaway stuff so more vapid is the objective 1.00

02:39:18.000 you describe something that is dull uninspiring or completely lacking in spirit life or flavor

02:39:23.520 it typically refers to lifeless conversations mediocre art or tedious situations that lack

02:39:29.520 substance or excitement aka modern modern woman's mindset yeah exactly you know what i mean like

02:39:36.640 think about it they they put so much of their life into getting one of these

02:39:42.940 Birkin bags and they get it and they just want another one after that it

02:39:46.960 didn't really and why is a Birkin bag worth anything because of the material

02:39:52.760 status that we give it it's the same as any other bag pretty much it's not it's 0.94

02:39:57.460 not like these women are like oh my god the craftsmanship of the kids who made 0.96

02:40:00.900 this one is better than the kids who made the other one that I bought from 1.00

02:40:03.940 the other country they don't care they only care about what the outside validation tells it to them

02:40:10.420 which is the the status the material status pretty much i think that i think that is like

02:40:18.820 uh the main problem really and uh so basically i'm saying they're godless too um because

02:40:28.020 materialism is their god if you think about it they are looking for validation outside of

02:40:34.180 themselves not realizing validation true validation comes from within yeah they don't have gnosis they

02:40:41.540 have hoses so i gotta look those up gnosis is like a greek word sort of a religious word for like

02:40:51.700 inner knowledge of kind of like gnosticism i guess so um it's a greek word for like knowledge

02:40:59.940 about god and whatnot basically so um you were saying to find a girl that you should change um

02:41:10.340 adapt to what they need what their psychology is and stuff i would kind of agree with that

02:41:16.500 like you don't really have another choice you kind of have to play their game of it i wasn't

02:41:22.500 saying you adapt to them i'm saying you learn to understand their psychology so you can call

02:41:27.380 her out hold her accountable you don't adapt to them you hold her accountable to adapt to you

02:41:33.140 because you're the architect of your life you're supposed to be the protector the provider the

02:41:37.540 priest the prophet the pastor of your own house you are the head she gets on board with your plan

02:41:43.460 you don't get on board with hers she can present her ideas to you and you can evaluate them

02:41:49.700 on their merit so i'm the head and she gives me head

02:41:59.220 joe appreciate thanks guys um hey john welcome to the show um why is it so hard for christian

02:42:08.820 women to obey if you have any stories anecdotes or just general points on the video we watched

02:42:13.380 feel free to bring them up now all right uh first i want to say what's up pearl how's it going

02:42:19.220 it's good to be on your show today um i i do think that it's hard for women to obey and one of the

02:42:25.140 things that the women didn't really bring up was in genesis and you know when when the curse came

02:42:32.020 upon us because they ate from the tree you know it god basically said that you know the woman's 0.77

02:42:38.340 desire will be to you know fight for the husband's position basically and a lot of times this whole

02:42:44.740 fight that they do right over the decision making like the leadership i want to give an example so

02:42:51.940 i've been a a football coach like a student assistant coach and i coached at the high

02:42:56.660 school level and was a head coach and what people don't realize is there's something called vertical

02:43:01.860 alignment and with vertical alignment what it means is that you have a head coach and he sets

02:43:06.660 the vision for the team and a good head coach you know he cannot have a great team without great

02:43:12.500 assistant coaches right and so if everyone yields to his leadership and and goes for the same vision

02:43:21.060 that he has that team is successful aka nick saban right he's so good and and it's because those

02:43:28.420 coaches follow his leadership then you know that you bear that good fruit because you will see

02:43:34.420 your children go out just like nick saban's coaches and they're winning national championships

02:43:39.140 like indiana last year right and so women a lot of times who are having trouble with that they

02:43:45.940 don't see it because they're stuck within themselves and what they really want and they 0.97

02:43:51.380 they want to fight because of the feminism that's in all four corners of the world now

02:43:56.180 they want to go ahead and fight for what they want personally when the bible tells the woman to yield

02:44:03.380 to the husband's um yield to her husband right and so it doesn't tell the husband to yield to his

02:44:10.500 wife and when you're yielding to someone you're basically respecting them and trusting them in

02:44:15.540 their decision making but he does include her the problem is when this argument comes up they

02:44:21.940 automatically think that people like us are saying oh well she's of equal value and all this other

02:44:29.540 stuff no we already know that because nick saban's teams couldn't be good if he didn't have great

02:44:35.700 coaches they are just as important and the players are just as important as nick that's why he knows

02:44:41.060 how to pick them and that's why a good man when god says a man who finds a wife finds a good thing

02:44:47.300 remember he said a wife just because you're married does not mean that you're truly a wife 0.99

02:44:52.340 right we got these only fans girls on here you got if uh shannon sharp would have married that

02:44:57.060 girl is she really a wife hell no so you know it's i think it's very important uh for them to realize

02:45:04.100 that the husband says the vision and she's not less important because she's not the main decision

02:45:10.020 maker but he does include her i know in my marriage i would run every decision across

02:45:15.620 to my wife and see what she thought but i'm gonna be honest at the end of the day anytime there was

02:45:20.580 a point where you know she kind of made more of the decisions it was i mean it it ended badly

02:45:27.060 really bad and so i noticed that and people don't realize some people in the marriage are good at 0.66

02:45:31.920 certain things and some aren't sometimes the wife is way better at finances okay let her run the

02:45:36.520 finances that's almost never the case though no no i know i know but i'm just making an example

02:45:43.440 if you want it though you don't have to run it by her oh no no doubt yeah i get no i understand that

02:45:49.740 yeah for sure but if if you do right like if you if you want to run it by her right then you know

02:45:55.960 that's that's fine as well to include her so she can have you know her say of oh well because she

02:46:01.960 might cover a blind spot every now and then right i mean she is the helper right and and god considers

02:46:07.640 his self or sorry he's didn't consider he is he referred to himself as the helper multiple times

02:46:13.320 in scripture the same way that he um you know explained it as the wife so um basically what

02:46:19.800 What I'm saying is that, yeah, the man is definitely the main decision maker at the end of the day. 0.75

02:46:27.160 But I think that the women are looking at it from a power, you know, struggle issue because they want to, you know, the curse is for them to fight for his headship and his position. 0.86

02:46:39.660 I want to point something out. 0.87

02:46:41.800 Remember on Bear Grylls, the island when they did men versus women? 0.94

02:46:45.920 Oh, yeah. 0.99

02:46:46.460 The men set up a meritocracy.

02:46:47.160 meritocracy men the reason men are called to lead is because men want to establish a meritocracy

02:46:53.220 because they want to produce results they recognize who's good at what who's not good

02:46:57.860 at what and they're going to act accordingly to optimize for the best possible results 1.00

02:47:02.120 women oftentimes will ignore merit because of feelings right if the woman wants to be the head 1.00

02:47:10.160 of the relationship it's about her ego not about the best possible results whereas the man is called 0.94

02:47:15.560 to lead he's also called to deal with the consequences if he does a bad job as a leader

02:47:21.180 women don't deal well with those consequences when they uh happen right i've been in a situation

02:47:27.260 relationship i told my girlfriend at the time don't do that she did it anyway then she's coming 1.00

02:47:31.960 back to me saying you were right i should have listened she didn't like dealing with those

02:47:36.340 consequences right whereas men we don't get a choice we're gonna have to deal with it even if

02:47:41.020 we told her not to do it she does it anyway we're usually the ones stuck fixing the mess 0.72

02:47:45.340 that's why women are told submit to the man's leadership because we have this ability to have 0.57

02:47:49.900 foresight to think ahead to anticipate things that can go wrong and optimize to minimize those bad

02:47:56.300 things happening right we're not doing it from a power trip men who are doing it for a power trip

02:48:02.140 that's not biblical men who are doing it to optimize for results that's the reason why it's

02:48:07.020 supposed to be a patriarchy if um we're told men are supposed to be like jesus jesus is the best

02:48:13.020 example of a leader well he said i didn't come to have dominion to be a lord i came to serve that's

02:48:19.340 why he washed the disciples feet so men are called to be the leader not for ego but to optimize the

02:48:25.740 best results possible for everybody involved right so basically that decision making always revolves

02:48:32.220 around the greater good for the people that are there with you which is aka your wife and your

02:48:37.660 kids or as the head coach, your players and your other coaches. Yes. Even if it hurts you,

02:48:45.740 even if it hurts you, you're sacrificing your own selfish desires in order for the greater good of

02:48:52.060 the most amount of people possible. Right. And one thing I want to add to what you said too,

02:48:56.940 is that, you know, one thing women don't talk about is the responsibility that God puts on

02:49:01.980 the husband when things do go wrong. That's why the husband is not supposed to let his wife 1.00

02:49:07.020 lead and make the decisions because that's what happened with eve in the garden right she went and 0.99

02:49:11.100 ate from the tree and she's like oh yeah satan said that uh we can eat from this one and not the

02:49:15.340 other one and all of a sudden he ate from the fruit too and he went to adam he said adam man

02:49:19.980 what the hell like what's going on you know what i mean and uh it was on him he didn't go to eve

02:49:24.620 because he told adam as the leader and the head hey this is what you guys are not supposed to do

02:49:29.900 and he tried to blame the woman you know so we can't blame them so they need to submit and then

02:49:36.060 allow us to you know make the decision as long as it's for the greater good of the family and

02:49:40.460 we're following you know the biblical principles of how we're supposed to play our roles out 1.00

02:49:44.620 and it's all good but you know a lot of times i'm gonna add this too women are not being raised to

02:49:51.260 be wives and i say that because i have a couple of friends who got daughters and we've had some

02:49:55.180 deep conversations because i'm in on some you know i'm in a civil matter as well which pearl

02:49:59.660 i'm gonna have to hit you up for that uh divorce documentary i got some sauce for you but um i

02:50:05.020 I talked to my buddies and I said, hey, how are you raising your daughter to be a wife?

02:50:12.860 And how, you know, what does that look like, you know, in scripture? And they honestly was like,

02:50:17.780 you know what? I hadn't thought about that. I don't know. And it seems like everybody's raising

02:50:21.920 their daughters to be independent so they can be able to take care of themselves. And they think

02:50:27.120 that they have to depend on a guy, but it's like, no, a woman can be put together and be prepared

02:50:32.120 to be able to take care of her family let's say her husband dies or things of that sort but here's

02:50:36.520 my question if the husband does die well where's her dad and where's the family right like if you're

02:50:42.760 raising the the your daughter up to be a certain type of woman and everything like that why why 0.98

02:50:47.720 can't girls go back to her family if she needs to i've seen plenty of girls who have lost you know 1.00

02:50:53.240 their loved one and their widows and their family took care of them and so you know she shouldn't

02:50:58.040 have to be by herself in the first place but if she's prepared to do that and went to school and

02:51:02.280 got a degree that's all good like that's awesome but that doesn't mean you know she has to you know 1.00

02:51:08.040 uh try to be over her husband and use it because every time now women get a job and they make more 1.00

02:51:13.720 than their husbands what do you hear all these women say on social media well i make 300k but 1.00

02:51:18.040 he got to make more than me it's just like what the hell are you talking about paycheck he'll be 0.63

02:51:22.360 better with it you know give him the money he'll be better with it no yeah exactly your kids will

02:51:33.400 but here's the other thing too they don't teach women to have the same respect for their boyfriend

02:51:38.040 like think about if there's a high school boyfriend you know how often does the dad

02:51:43.000 say to listen to the boyfriend and not him never yeah exactly like if he's a good kid right

02:51:50.680 um how often does the dad get in the middle and take the daughter's side when half the time the

02:51:55.400 story the daughter's telling probably isn't even true that's very true and then also if you all

02:52:01.240 watch the effect of purpose youtube you'll see that he has an awesome video where he talks about

02:52:06.840 nobody talks about women's sins and if someone most people will look at that video and before

02:52:12.120 they watch it they probably couldn't even list or name most of the sins that women do in the first

02:52:16.440 place because they look at the women now like oh she's perfect especially if they're pretty 0.96

02:52:21.320 all of a sudden they're just like better than everyone it's ridiculous and one thing pearl that

02:52:27.000 you have brought up too that i wanted to talk about was uh the word that came to my mind was

02:52:31.560 discontentment because it's like if a man can give you you know a roof over your head food

02:52:37.720 clothes on your back and everything like that and you guys set a vision why the hell do all

02:52:42.280 all of a sudden you need like the best car and all these other things.

02:52:45.360 And that's where the last guy that was on before me, the snowboard guy, 0.99

02:52:48.700 exactly was what that goes into is why do you got to have so much shit? 0.99

02:52:52.640 Because it just sits there anyway. 0.99

02:52:54.560 And it's all to look a certain way to people.

02:52:57.600 And now you're worshiping your image and you're idolizing all these things

02:53:01.000 when really your focus isn't on your person.

02:53:03.860 And in all reality, it's like, really, it's about the people that you're around,

02:53:08.840 you know, your family and everything like that.

02:53:10.460 and the way that you guys are bringing up your kids how can you not see a father you know with

02:53:15.520 his children and they love him and that not make you look at him like oh my goodness that's my guy

02:53:21.020 like the children absolutely love him but instead they don't get what they want they get pissed off 0.99

02:53:26.300 they take him to court they take him for everything he has and they try to fuck him over and it's just 0.98

02:53:30.760 like it's so it's one of the most evil things i've ever seen in this generation and it's probably one 0.96

02:53:36.520 of the worst times that we've been going through to see this at this level because the laws side

02:53:42.140 with them and they can just take your kids away and there's nothing that can help you. I mean,

02:53:46.980 it is terrible. Yeah. Yeah, I totally agree. Go ahead, Mark. I want to point something out.

02:53:54.580 Should the daughter obey the father or the boyfriend? There's a reason the father hands 0.92

02:53:59.620 off the daughter to the groom at the wedding. It's a transfer of responsibility and authority.

02:54:04.280 yep um well that's yeah go ahead if she's living with the dad technically she should still obey the 0.70

02:54:13.600 dad right at the same time the dad is supposed to be demonstrating to hey if you're not willing 1.00

02:54:18.960 to submit to the boyfriend's authority and leadership over you why are you dating him

02:54:22.320 yeah a good point good point yep and and one more thing too is a lot of dads get manipulated

02:54:30.500 they don't realize how deceptive their daughters are like because one of the sins i was thinking

02:54:35.920 about as you were talking that women never get called out for is gossip yes and like the

02:54:41.900 ramifications of the gossip i like even when the whole thing happened with brett cooper and the

02:54:47.440 daily wire her friend was like and her mother are running cover for brett cooper and like spreading

02:54:54.140 these rumors about the daily wire and candace owens and it's like brett's obviously the one

02:54:58.660 spreading this you know what i mean but i think that happens like that's just one small situation

02:55:03.060 but that happens all the time on a micro like on a mass scale oh yeah well pearl i'm gonna answer

02:55:10.020 that oh go ahead sorry go ahead you know brett's story she uh was legally emancipated right yeah

02:55:16.580 she stopped living under her father's house and her husband do you see her husband as being a

02:55:21.220 a strong enough man to call her out.

02:55:23.360 The hell to the gnaw.

02:55:24.400 No.

02:55:27.440 Remember the point?

02:55:28.860 And Pearl, I was going to add this too

02:55:30.980 because you brought that up.

02:55:32.760 So my situation that I was kind of telling you about,

02:55:35.340 my soon-to-be ex-wife, her dad

02:55:38.080 believes everything she says.

02:55:40.540 But not only that, even if they're wrong,

02:55:42.500 he's going to fight for them.

02:55:44.380 So this dude don't even have integrity

02:55:46.380 to the scripture.

02:55:48.060 So when you're dealing with that,

02:55:49.700 I mean, it's just bearing bad fruit, you know, from the top to the bottom. 0.99

02:55:54.860 Was she a white girl? 1.00

02:55:57.440 Half. 1.00

02:55:58.420 Yeah. 1.00

02:55:58.980 While the Hispanic. 0.71

02:56:00.740 I was just wondering, because sometimes, like, it's, it's like, it's, I don't know.

02:56:07.540 I think, I think sometimes, like, the dads make it harder for black guys with a white daughter. 0.65

02:56:12.680 No, I'm going to tell you the truth, though.

02:56:14.880 I ain't going to say no names.

02:56:16.120 You know, I'm not going to be like that right now.

02:56:17.860 But it definitely some of that came up, though, from her.

02:56:21.660 And that was part of the problem at first was, you know, some of the things that she was getting pissed off about what was being said and all that.

02:56:29.580 So, you know, I won't go too deep into it.

02:56:31.980 But, yeah, you're right about that.

02:56:33.980 Well, thanks for calling in, John.

02:56:35.880 I appreciate the addition to the show.

02:56:38.140 No, yeah, for sure.

02:56:38.900 Thanks for having me.

02:56:40.980 OK, I think that's what I want to say.

02:56:42.920 Go ahead.

02:56:43.420 If the dad believes everything the daughter says, if the dad is easily manipulated, is that the daughter's problem or is that the dad's problem?

02:56:49.600 The dad's.

02:56:51.040 So he's going to answer for her future, for her learning how to manipulate and not being held accountable for it.

02:56:57.380 Do you think that because a lot of times I don't think the dads are aware.

02:57:01.720 Like, I don't think it's malicious.

02:57:03.260 Like, I'm from like white America and like the suburbs, like really good natured people.

02:57:09.180 I think a lot of times it's because like the dads just don't like they don't understand like what the daughter is doing.

02:57:17.240 What do you think about that?

02:57:19.380 If they are ignorant of human psychology, human nature.

02:57:24.620 Right. 0.98

02:57:25.360 If they are ignorant, it makes complete perfect sense why it happens. 0.98

02:57:29.600 Yeah. 0.99

02:57:31.060 Ignorance can be weaponized against you. 1.00

02:57:33.600 That's why as men, we have to acknowledge we are ignorant. 0.96

02:57:36.960 We don't know what we don't know, but we can learn. 0.77

02:57:44.000 Yeah, I agree.

02:57:45.540 Thanks, Mark.

02:57:46.320 You've been great today.

02:57:47.340 I'm excited to have you on more of these because I plan on doing more of these in front of different churches.

02:57:51.680 So I'm sure we'll have a lot to talk about.

02:57:55.180 Thanks for having me on.

02:57:57.060 Doug MPA.

02:57:59.840 Yeah, this whole God stuff.

02:58:01.560 You know, I didn't, I never went to church growing up.

02:58:05.720 Both my parents were raised in religious households, and they hated it. 0.98

02:58:09.040 So I told you my worst experience, you know, my only, my biggest experience with religion 1.00

02:58:13.980 was being surrounded by Mormons. 1.00

02:58:15.740 And so if you go to the Mormon church and get to do a thing out there, I'll go off all 1.00

02:58:20.580 day because I know them intimately.

02:58:23.600 And a lot of their daughters, too.

02:58:27.160 All right, bye, dog.

02:58:29.020 Bye, bye.

02:58:30.480 All right, guys.

02:58:31.860 Yeah, we're trying to figure out.

02:58:33.600 So I think we're going to go to the street interviews.

02:58:36.220 I kind of like the idea of going in person and then analyzing some of the content on

02:58:40.160 the show.

02:58:41.860 So I think that's kind of where I see the direction going forward.

02:58:46.900 Right now, it's been a little bit rough because, again, the last few months I've invested a

02:58:53.380 lot of money into the channel between, like, the documentary and, you know, this app.

02:58:58.740 So it's just been a lot of expenses.

02:59:00.660 is it's going to be okay because in the long run i think i'll make it back but if you want

02:59:05.260 you know gofundme's in the description um the app's coming up next week so if you were on the

02:59:10.220 original app i am going to put you on the new app completely for free so anyways uh like the video

02:59:16.160 thank you guys so much for watching and i'll see you next time

Pearl - May 16, 2026

Why Is It Hard for Christian Women to Obey ？

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