Pearl - June 16, 2025
Why Men Are Being Forced To Accept Sex Work @Mr.DatingCoach
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about sex work, sugar dating, sex workers, and sex workers in general. We also talk about what we should do about it and why it s becoming more and more common in the 21st century.
Transcript
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a pi came on and he said that he would guess what was oh my god i can't remember the number off the
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top of my head he thinks that up to it was roughly 40 percent of women under 30 that are not fat
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have done some sort of sex work if you include things like sugar dating occasionally having sex
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for rent okay only fans selling nudes on instagram do you think that is accurate or do you think he's
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kind of overblowing it i think it's overblowing it okay the thing with these studies that i'll say
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well he's he didn't have a study it was just like because he vets his job was to vet girls
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to marry them okay yeah so like it's like if you had a girl you wanted to marry you bring him to
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him and he says so what i would say is trends move fast and societal norms move fast as well
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right where at it wasn't accepted five ten years ago to post a nude online right everybody freaked
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out about noons now they're selling it for three dollars right do you know it's crazy too i was
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just at like um a ufc like gym doing some interviews there and they were telling me like
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i was asking the guys would you date a girl with like an only fan like if she had one before
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and i couldn't believe how many of the guys said they would and i'm like don't you guys have like
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other like choices you also got to realize that and i'm like it could just be entertainment because
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i know in entertainment it's like a little different but i'm like really you gotta realize
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guys who fight they they're not the most normal guys they're not no they're totally not but i just
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kind of was thinking i'm like you guys have the ring girls throwing i'm like i'm not dumb like
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you guys have why would you yeah they're like yeah as long as she deleted it i'm just gonna
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believe it like it's gotten normalized so fast but like they're like as long as she didn't have
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like actual sex on camera so I'm like Jesus Christ they're okay with it and so that's okay but like
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they would accept if you're you know they would accept it it's just it's just becoming a norm
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yeah and so that's what I mean where it's like if he's vetting these girls I think it's moving
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so fast and technology moves so fast right the innovation levels and that and I think side of
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norms go with it right the good and the bad and so what you see is is these things becoming more
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common and because they're more common what guys end up feeling like is like if i don't accept it
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i'm not going to get anyone so i should come to terms with it oh you know you know and do you
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think there's some truth to that i think there's some truth to it right you look at back in the
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day what was back in the day well i don't want my girl to work a corporate job she should be a
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stay-at-home mom but societal norms catch up it's like oh maybe it's okay for her to work right and
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so that's what we're seeing but it's getting worse and i think as guys i think i do think it's their
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job to put a stop to be like, no, I'm not okay with that. I need to stop feeding that machine.