Pearl - Why Men Are WALKING AWAY From Marriage!

00:00:00.000 how is a woman's choice to do what she wants with her life hurting men because women are the ones 0.99

00:00:06.780 putting men on child support alimony and false accusations right again the reason that it is at 0.78

00:00:12.840 the expense of men is because women make a poor choice they get pregnant by someone they didn't 0.86

00:00:16.940 want to have a kid with and instead of just taking the l and being responsible for that choice they 0.85

00:00:21.320 put the man on alimony they put the man on child support and they take away his children and so 0.96

00:00:27.120 if women want to be equal then be equal you are responsible for your choices you have you have 1.00

00:00:32.400 the choice to get on birth control you have the choice to get on plan b and you know women are 1.00

00:00:37.080 the first ones on top of that to complain and make everyone bail them out women are the ones 1.00

00:00:40.860 marching for student loan forgiveness you made the choice what percentage of women are creating 1.00

00:00:46.540 careers solely based on their beauty we're both doing that no you're only famous because you're 1.00

00:00:51.760 a girl really i'm only famous because i'm a woman i think you're famous because you're a grifter

00:00:57.040 parole there's no such thing as a traditional woman in 2026 whoever wants to go first you can

00:01:03.120 tag it yeah so i actually think i agree with feminists in this um in this regard possibly 0.59

00:01:10.000 so over my years doing stuff one of the common arguments is that from feminists is that all

00:01:15.680 women um alive today benefit from feminism in some way they have the right to get an abortion 0.98

00:01:19.680 they have the right to work they have the right to credit cards etc etc so actually by that logic 0.95

00:01:24.320 i believe that because of the access and the power that we have access to as women there's 0.98

00:01:29.360 no way that you can be traditional in this society because you always have leverage over men 0.96

00:01:33.120 you have leverage when it comes to the legal system you have leverage when it comes to even

00:01:36.400 making money on social media you have leverage when it comes to the school system there's more

00:01:41.040 scholarships given to you you have leverage when it comes to every aspect really of society that's 1.00

00:01:47.040 what feminism fought for you don't have to do the dangerous on the dirty jobs in society men do and

00:01:51.920 you still get to benefit from the society that we live in um so for that reason i believe that all 0.99

00:01:57.520 women are feminists because there's no way that you can't that's not the prompt we're doing there's 0.99

00:02:02.000 no traditional women yeah fine but same same concept there's no you can't be traditional 0.98

00:02:07.120 so i'm guessing you're talking about america and not the rest of the world i keep it to america

00:02:11.760 because i don't live in other countries that's fine i could maybe add in the uk because i lived

00:02:15.760 there but i don't i don't talk about i'm fine i don't talk about countries i've never been to

00:02:19.440 Yeah, that's fine. I'm down to keep it to America. I haven't been anywhere else the fuck either.

00:02:23.880 So how are you defining a traditional woman? 0.99

00:02:28.360 I would say a woman that was born before 1960.

00:02:32.980 But like what qualities make a woman a traditional woman? 0.97

00:02:37.680 I think that the men have to have leverage. It has to follow the natural order of the world, 0.51

00:02:42.280 which goes God, men, women, children. 1.00

00:02:43.820 So a traditional woman is a woman who is subservient to men. 1.00

00:02:47.140 Yeah, correct. 0.95

00:02:47.740 and you don't believe that there are any women that are subservient it's not possible because

00:02:52.080 of the legal structure today okay great because you can be traditional right now for now and we've 0.99

00:02:57.520 seen this in media i'm sure you've seen girls that started off traditional and then um you know they

00:03:02.840 go off the rails or something yeah i don't necessarily see this is a bad thing that's fine

00:03:06.340 yeah okay yeah i thought we'd actually agree on i mean i don't i don't see i guess what is the 0.97

00:03:11.680 value of women being traditional why is that beneficial because you're not a traditional

00:03:16.600 woman by any sense no would you let's say you had the choice would you choose to be a traditional 0.77

00:03:22.120 woman i can't but let's say okay hypothetical time let's say you had a time machine and you

00:03:27.400 could go back to 1930 and be the traditional housewife would you choose to do that or would

00:03:32.840 you continue to live in 2026 i like youtube so i'd probably live today okay i think youtube's fun so

00:03:38.840 let's say you could have all of the same structure like all the same you get wi-fi you get youtube

00:03:44.440 you get ac all your creature comforts but you would be subservient to your husband in every way

00:03:49.720 would you choose to live in that society yeah probably not and the reason is um because i am

00:03:54.280 not a traditional woman so if you think being a traditional woman is such a good thing you

00:03:59.960 haven't made it i didn't say it was good or bad oh do you think i didn't good i didn't well what

00:04:04.920 do you think is being a traditional woman good there's pros and cons but it doesn't exist today

00:04:09.720 okay that's the point so there's there's it depends at what age i guess what's your point

00:04:13.720 you want there to be more like do you want to bring back traditional women i don't i'm not

00:04:17.400 pushing anything i'm saying so this is more just like an observation i like to be accurate oh okay

00:04:22.920 i like to be as accurate as possible this doesn't have anything to do with me and my choices in my

00:04:28.360 life it's just to be accurate there's no such thing as a traditional woman today because even

00:04:33.400 if she's traditional it's for now right now if she so chooses what about the amish do they count

00:04:38.520 no because you can still leave the amish and have access to everything we have today

00:04:42.680 okay so yeah you're not you they still do rum springer or whatever springer yeah whatever i

00:04:47.320 don't know what it's called no yeah i i watch a lot of shows about the yeah actually i'm really

00:04:51.800 into their culture yeah and a lot of i think like a decent amount of them leave oh they do i looked

00:04:56.280 up um a certain percentage so you should watch this show it's called suddenly amish so they've

00:05:01.240 actually been having a really big problem with inbreeding i'm going to go into tension they

00:05:04.600 actually have this really big problem with inbreeding because so many people are leaving

00:05:08.120 the amish so when they want to marry it's like it has to be within their community and because 0.95

00:05:13.080 there's less and less people in their community it leads to a rise in inbreeding so they started 0.64

00:05:17.320 this show called suddenly amish where they took people that aren't amish and then just like

00:05:21.640 threw them yeah into an amish community and like taught them the way of life it's actually a really

00:05:27.640 interesting show i highly encourage everyone to watch it i don't know what platform it's on but

00:05:31.080 it's i would say traditionalism for a woman benefits you the second half of life not the first half

00:05:38.120 Really? Because when you're 18 to 40, there's a lot of fun you have to miss. Traditionalism is like

00:05:46.200 you marry your high school sweetheart, right? So women have the option to either go to the cities, 1.00

00:05:50.980 you get invited to parties, you get invited to speaking engagements, speaking of, I mean, 0.97

00:05:54.820 even this, right? So traditionalism is us, like people turning down those and marrying their high

00:06:00.420 school sweetheart. So you get more power, more influence as a woman, more money, not being 0.92

00:06:05.200 traditional. But the problem is women make such bad choices in general the first half of life and 1.00

00:06:11.780 it catches up to us later. The number one reason I say that is debt. So a lot of women have like 1.00

00:06:19.200 six figures in debt from college and from a lot of non-traditional choices. Going to college is 1.00

00:06:23.960 fun. I wouldn't blame women for that. I would blame the structure of college. You have to be 1.00

00:06:30.040 responsible for your choices. But lots of kids leave college with debt regardless of gender.

00:06:34.020 and actually making that a gender debate is low-key women hold 80 of the world's men women women and

00:06:41.620 women women hold 80 of the world's debt here's the thing though but making this gender debate

00:06:46.100 about college like because i need i need to be i need to be accurate here here bro i let you 0.66

00:06:50.980 speak can we just i just want to talk about college for a second because i i agree women

00:06:55.700 do leave college with financial debt as well as men and i think that the fact that so many people

00:07:02.420 have to go into regardless of gender have to go into debt to get an education is a miscarriage

00:07:07.780 of justice by our government the fact that college is a private institution in and of itself and that

00:07:13.940 even public colleges are incredible amounts of money to me is up for everybody i

00:07:20.100 don't think it needs to be a gendered conversation so it has to be a gendered conversation because

00:07:23.940 the choices are just different because men pick majors where they pay off their debt so they tend

00:07:28.900 to pick more stem and even when women do pick stem majors we tend to quit and so i just like to be

00:07:34.420 accurate and really you need to let me you need to let me go it's gonna it's gonna come up on there

00:07:38.660 and i'm accurate so i i like to be accurate when i'm making these claims and the choice and the

00:07:42.900 truth of the matter is when women go to college we tend we're not as good with money and we tend to

00:07:47.700 spend more and make less over the course of our lives so that goes back to what i was saying 0.99

00:07:51.540 earlier where the second half of life true like feminism benefits us the first half of life

00:07:57.300 until our bad choices catch up to us the second half of life on top of that there is extreme

00:08:02.580 promiscuity right so women the first half of life i'm not going to pretend like there's not benefits 1.00

00:08:07.620 to being a big fat whore you can make a bunch of money on only fans you can meet up with the 0.99

00:08:13.140 highest status men in the world right there's sugar baby websites where you can get money from 1.00

00:08:17.940 like you can get money from men i'm not going to pretend there's no benefit you can get money from

00:08:22.740 doing that however the second half of life we can get hpv there's incurable stds and there's ways

00:08:28.980 those poor choices catch up to us later so traditional happen to anyone so traditionalism

00:08:36.420 well again i don't when you try to make it equal it makes it seem like the the choices are equal

00:08:41.940 and it's just not well but the consequences of your actions those things could happen to men too 0.99

00:08:46.660 if you're a big fat fat whore as a man if you're being promiscuous as a man you have the same 0.99

00:08:51.620 likelihood of catching an std you're talking about i'm talking about women in this prompt 1.00

00:08:57.460 so on this problem but it doesn't need to be gendered you don't have to gender everything

00:09:01.540 okay but it is gendered and the choice the difference is men and women biologically are

00:09:05.780 different and women can struggle with infertility the second half of life that's not really the same

00:09:10.180 for men really so men can't catch stds from having sex so the consequences for women catching them

00:09:16.340 or worse so because um i would say anyone getting herpes you can regardless of gender

00:09:23.060 is going to be pissed you can become infertile so i'm talking about hpv more so like that that is

00:09:29.300 but you could get out that is you could get other diseases yes but the second half of life feminism 1.00

00:09:36.980 feminism herpes gives women more freedom and power the first half of life and we pay for it the 1.00

00:09:42.660 second half of life because we make poor decisions so again you have stds you have debt you have a 1.00

00:09:50.020 lot of women make careers based on their beauty and then second half of life have no real skills

00:09:55.220 what percentage of women are creating careers solely based on their beauty you said a lot who 0.89

00:10:00.980 how many we're both doing that no you're only famous because you're a girl really i'm only 0.60

00:10:06.980 famous because i'm a woman i think you're famous because you're a grifter pearl i think it's

00:10:12.500 sensationalized when a woman is talking against her own no because neither you don't you're not

00:10:18.820 an accomplished person right neither of us are and men have to have full careers before they

00:10:23.700 have media careers in general that's not true a lot of anybody can pick up a podcast mike

00:10:28.580 i mean women women get women i've managed male and female talent and women it's just you don't

00:10:33.860 have to be as accomplished to go viral you just don't so a lot of women get these big egos first

00:10:40.340 half of life thinking they're smart and they're not second half of life it catches up that's why 1.00

00:10:44.580 you see a lot of women like i started on tick tock uh a lot of women i that were on tick tock um i

00:10:50.260 don't know if you think you're not accomplished that that's between you and god but i mean i

00:10:56.180 graduated from the best film school in the country to do this and that's what i'm doing that doesn't

00:11:00.580 matter well you said it's like i have no formal training i absolutely do what are you talking

00:11:05.300 about my point you don't know me and you don't know my life but you're claiming that i don't

00:11:10.100 have formal training in what we're doing yes because you're talking for a living who cares

00:11:14.420 like podcaster it's not a real job okay so then why is that only applicable for women and not men

00:11:20.180 because men do the infrastructure men do the real jobs in society they build the buildings they're

00:11:24.660 the engineers they do the dirty and the dangerous jobs that matter i'm saying that like podcasters

00:11:29.220 we're talking about within the influencer community have have big egos and like this

00:11:33.940 isn't a real job okay so it's not a real job for women but it is a real job when it's a man doing

00:11:38.500 it usually men have to have a career first and they do they do yeah they do really what was

00:11:43.540 clavicular's career before he became a famous streamer nothing he hit his head with a hammer

00:11:49.380 and then went viral he went to extreme yeah clavicular is an exception i mean i think that 0.85

00:11:54.340 i like i would agree with your point i just don't think it needs to be gendered that's my issue

00:11:58.900 like both men and women have college debt that needs to be addressed yeah both men and women

00:12:05.460 who are influencers are influencers but it's not but women and men don't make equal choices

00:12:12.020 so if it was 50 50 on the same choice like we don't make the same choices but it's your choices

00:12:17.380 it's your life yolo you don't get to choose i know yolo that's that's the point and it catches

00:12:21.780 up the second half of life so i don't think you can necessarily prove that and i think that anyone

00:12:26.820 who makes those choices can face similar consequences like if men choose to be big 0.98

00:12:30.900 slut whores in their early 20s they're not infertile they're not infertile women get infertile men can 0.99

00:12:36.260 become infer i mean sterile that does happen maybe not from scds but from heavy drug use it's not as 1.00

00:12:42.180 common heavy drug use can cause sterility in men who is struggling with infertility more nowadays

00:12:47.860 well women are the only ones who can carry a child so the only people who would so women 0.93

00:12:54.420 so women sorry because but i'm i'm you can call me you can call me what you want but i'm the one

00:12:59.620 that's being accurate and honest you're not being accurate yeah because i i know that men and women

00:13:04.500 don't make the same choices really but proven by what i just told you i just told you i've told

00:13:12.420 you for like 10 minutes based on what source my darling like the women struggle with infer it's 1.00

00:13:17.140 coming up on the screen okay let me read this to help it oh wait infertility is more common in 0.92

00:13:24.980 women than men available sorry it's just things fast available population data in the u.s

00:13:31.380 globally and globally shows female fertility is generally reported as higher prevalence than

00:13:38.100 male infertility okay how do you know that that's based on choices alone though like some people

00:13:44.020 are born infertile you know that right and it's actually like really sad there's a few things

00:13:49.220 that go into infertility so one of them is endometriosis yes women that goes away if women

00:13:54.740 have kids young so there's it's roughly like 15 of women struggle with infertility because they

00:14:00.180 don't have kids young and it catches up to them as i said second half of life another one is hpv

00:14:05.540 that is very commonly making women infertile in the long term hpv can also give you cancer

00:14:09.940 correct which could affect men and it's more common there's more side effects for women and so

00:14:16.420 you know you can virtue signal and say why are you talking about women but it's like i'm the

00:14:20.260 one being honest about what happens to women what happens to women the second half of life

00:14:25.620 it's just solely and on top of that i'm not done and not i'm not done and on top of that it's the

00:14:30.900 same thing with the debt like you can say oh debt affects men versus women and that sounds nice but

00:14:35.940 but it's not accurate. Accurate is saying, hey, women pick majors that don't they don't pay back 0.64

00:14:41.840 their degrees. And even if they pick a high paying degree, they're more likely quit. And so I'm the 1.00

00:14:46.000 one that's being honest and I'm being accurate about it, where it's like you're saying what you

00:14:50.600 want to be true, but it doesn't make it true. I guess my point is, so what? So women should

00:14:54.400 be subservient to men because we pick a major that leads to debt? That's stupid. I didn't say 1.00

00:14:59.640 that. Well, you said that traditional women, which is I didn't say that. I didn't say I didn't say

00:15:05.300 is more beneficial later in the second half of life yes because of the choices that women i think

00:15:10.740 that but i think people have the right to their health it just shouldn't be at the expense of men

00:15:14.500 but it's not at the expense of men yes it is today yes it is today how is a woman's choice

00:15:20.180 to do what she wants with her life hurting men because women are the ones putting men 0.96

00:15:25.540 on child support alimony and false accusations right again only four percent of marriage so

00:15:30.660 the reason stop interrupting me while i'm responding to what you just said i i know

00:15:38.180 i'm gonna give you i'm gonna give you the exact same time to retort why don't you finish what

00:15:41.540 you're saying and then i'll do the exact same yeah so so what i'm saying is that the second 1.00

00:15:45.780 half of like the reason that it is at the expense of men is because women make a poor choice they

00:15:51.300 get pregnant by someone they didn't want to have a kid with and instead of just taking the l and

00:15:55.860 being responsible for that choice they put the man on alimony they put the man on child support 0.88

00:16:00.260 and they take away his children and so if women want to be equal then be equal you are responsible 1.00

00:16:06.740 for your choices you have you have the choice to get on birth control you have the choice to get 1.00

00:16:10.820 on plan b and you know women are the first ones on top of that to complain and make everyone bail 0.98

00:16:16.100 them out women are the ones marching for student loan forgiveness you made the choice student loan 1.00

00:16:20.580 forgiveness that would affect everyone isn't that not a good thing do you think that student loans 0.98

00:16:24.340 should be forgiven no why you are responsible for your choices so you think everyone should

00:16:29.940 just go into debt and nobody should pay child support and children should just suffer and

00:16:33.460 neglect this this is a really draconian stance pearl that's not what i said well if you don't

00:16:38.900 think people should pay child support how are children being supported by the responsible

00:16:43.620 parent which is fathers but you said fathers shouldn't pay child support they should get

00:16:50.740 sole custody you know that custody battles are determined by who is the primary caregiver it's

00:16:55.700 not based on gender that would be illegal right but it's just a workaround it's not a workaround

00:17:02.820 it's entirely about what is best for the child no it's not because then they would give the

00:17:08.660 kid to the father do you really think the job is like i hate men so even though this kid's gonna

00:17:13.780 suffer i'm gonna give it to me absolutely that's what you think is happening in courtrooms yes i

00:17:17.780 know it is really which courtrooms which judge name name names pearl who's doing it i can't think of

00:17:23.460 name off the top of my head but there's one in illinois that's pretty bad there's one in michigan

00:17:27.300 that threw a through a veteran in jail and took away his disability that's going to be a national

00:17:31.940 case but it happens all the time yeah and fathers walk out on their families all the time that

00:17:37.620 doesn't mean that all fathers are bad i think child support is a wonderful thing that should

00:17:41.380 be paid because it's supporting yeah because you that's you know i'm glad you said that because 1.00

00:17:45.860 feminists don't care about equality what they want is special privileges and treatment it's 1.00

00:17:50.020 It's not special privileges to make sure that kids are eating food. 1.00

00:17:53.020 Let me finish.

00:17:54.020 They want special privileges and treatment. 0.97

00:17:56.020 So she doesn't want to say 50-50 custody, no child support, no alimony, because that would mean really being equal. 0.99

00:18:02.020 What she wants is she wants special privileges and treatments, and she wants to rob men of their hard-earned money because they're too lazy to raise the kid on their own and be responsible for the choice that they made.

00:18:11.020 Well, I would appreciate it if you don't speak for me.

00:18:13.020 Thank you.

00:18:14.020 Right?

00:18:15.020 You don't get to say what I want.

00:18:16.020 Right?

00:18:17.020 That is kind of bad faith.

00:18:18.020 Actually, it's very bad faith.

00:18:19.020 So, in the case in which one parent is much more primarily the caretaker, that parent

00:18:27.040 should be the one receiving child support.

00:18:29.160 That's all I'm saying.

00:18:30.160 That's not on the basis of gender.

00:18:31.380 Then why can't it be 50-50 custody, no child support, no alimony, that's equal?

00:18:35.620 Well, it depends on the case.

00:18:37.580 It depends on what's best for the child.

00:18:38.940 That should be the automatic default.

00:18:41.000 But the default is what is best for the child.

00:18:43.280 Why is that a bad default?

00:18:44.900 So you're saying that most it's best for the child to not be with their fathers most of the time?

00:18:50.320 It depends on like that's how it is today.

00:18:54.260 I mean, it depends on whether or not it will severely disrupt the child's life to go between two households.

00:19:00.700 Are you a child of divorce? Just for the context of this debate.

00:19:03.520 You don't have to answer if you're not comfortable with it.

00:19:06.000 What does that matter?

00:19:07.160 Well, because it matters what it means to actually have 50-50 custody, right?

00:19:12.040 if one parent is not reliable if one parent is not taking their kid to school if one parent

00:19:17.960 if these kids have to travel back and forth miles go to two different school districts it doesn't

00:19:23.160 make sense to do 50 50 custody right that's not what's best for the child according to who

00:19:27.720 according to like basic human biology according to you no according to basic human psychology

00:19:33.160 it is not good for a child to live according between two households according to you

00:19:37.320 like why would you do that why would you send a child to two different it is not good to limit

00:19:42.500 and go back and it is not good to limit a child's time with their father okay but it's also not good

00:19:49.700 to force a kid to go to two different school districts and be back and forth between two

00:19:53.460 different houses according to you who are you what do you mean who am i who are you who are you to

00:19:58.720 say that what's best for someone else's kid well who are you to say what's best for someone else's

00:20:03.420 we're both doing that right now pearl you're arguing the exact same thing but just from a

00:20:07.660 different percent it's 50 their dna they should get 50 custody well who are you then then if you 1.00

00:20:13.740 want if you're a feminist be equal but who are you be equal but it's not about equality between 1.00

00:20:20.220 the genders it's about what's best for a kid that's according to who according to basic human 0.99

00:20:27.580 psychology according to you according to you too why have you decided that it's best for every child

00:20:33.900 to be in a 50 50 custody i do not think it's best for a child to see their father i think it's best

00:20:39.020 for their child for a child to see their father i think it's best for a child to be in the most

00:20:44.460 50 50 custody i think it's best for a child so why not 50 50 can i do you want to mean to answer

00:20:49.020 the question or do you want to answer another question okay i'm going to if you would stop

00:20:52.540 talking thank you i think it's best for a child to be in the most stable home situation imaginable

00:20:58.620 if that's 50 50 custody beautiful if it's not then it's not but it's not about oh i want to

00:21:04.780 make sure the parents are seeing it's about what is best for the kid and you think and you think

00:21:09.660 that 90 of the time it's best for the kid to have limited time with their father i can't say on

00:21:14.860 every that's what it is today i don't think it's exactly 90 can we check it what percentage of

00:21:21.100 fathers don't get custody of their children but let's check that fact check child custody decisions

00:21:25.740 are based on the child's best interest rather than an automatic according to this no it's

00:21:32.380 according to a judge and who's who's to say that they're right okay so who's to say that they're

00:21:37.420 right like what they know best well like it's a kind of a long process and now and now with the

00:21:44.220 lindsay clancy okay now with the lindsay clancy women are openly saying that postpartum depression

00:21:50.940 make someone you keep saying according to who according to who according to who but when you

00:22:02.940 actually see evidence that judges are basing these decisions on what is best for the children now all

00:22:08.140 of a sudden it's like no but it's what i want like isn't that kind of weird to you i believe that

00:22:13.580 fathers need to be in their children's lives and it needs to be 50 50 custody no child support no

00:22:18.300 alimony and feminists that fought for equality here you have it if that's not best for the child

00:22:24.380 do you still want a 50 50 custodial split it is what's best for the child how do you know that

00:22:29.020 because kids need fathers how do you know that across all cases a 50 50 custodial split is

00:22:33.820 because you're talking about on average you're averaging out the okay yeah coffee but how do

00:22:38.700 you know that based on what that kids need fathers no that kids need to be in a 50 50 custodial split

00:22:45.660 so by the way here's a interesting stat so fathers receive primary custody in

00:22:49.980 8 to 14 percent of cases and then mothers receive it 68 to 88 percent of the time i wonder what the

00:22:57.820 other ones are the statement that kids need um to be in a 50 50 custodial split as a general rule

00:23:03.820 is not supported as a universal legal standard like like that's the thing you can't decide for

00:23:09.660 other children what is best for them you don't even think child support is necessary yeah i

00:23:14.300 wouldn't put you in charge of anybody's kids i believe that you need to be responsible for your

00:23:18.540 choices and so if you choose did the child choose to be born the mother got to choose if the child

00:23:24.540 was born actually well we're past row so in many states nobody got you can still drive to get it

00:23:30.540 well a father still got to choose to impregnate a woman not really yes men have their sperm stolen

00:23:36.220 all the time really what percentage of pregnancies are the result of stolen it's common enough that

00:23:42.220 what percentage give me a number i don't know so but you keep saying the majority of the time

00:23:48.060 is that what you're gonna do then you should know is that you're gonna do every single time yes if

00:23:52.220 you make a sweeping generalization you need to back it up yeah with actual evidence accurate

00:23:57.100 others that well you've gotten faster like 17 times if you make this is so funny the phrase

00:24:05.020 refers to a real concept involving a man's semen being used to impregnate a woman without his

00:24:11.420 consent okay great we know it exists but how often is it actually happening you said a majority

00:24:21.100 it's not criminalized so you don't know because it's not a crime because nobody cares about men

00:24:26.140 because so paternity isn't a crime and neither is that so now that women have all of this

00:24:33.500 now that women have all of this choice are you talking about wait when you say paternity fraud

00:24:38.140 are you talking about people lying about the paternity i'm saying be responsible and act

00:24:42.860 like an adult when you're not a kid but it's not about acting like an adult it's about feeding your

00:24:47.500 kids it's about feeding you get a job like the men they do have jobs you still need child support as

00:24:53.100 a single parent you don't get a job question if you had a kid and you were not awarded soul cut

00:24:59.340 you were not awarded primary custody or even 50 50 custody do you still think you should pay child

00:25:03.500 support for your kids lives i believe that nobody should pay child support so what happens to those

00:25:09.260 children their parents get a job but what if their parents don't get a job and neither parent is

00:25:13.980 paying child then you give it to the parent with a job okay but what if neither of them wait for

00:25:19.660 that parent to get a job i think that you are putting children's lives in so much limbo girl 1.00

00:25:24.540 i mean i can see why you don't think women are nurturing because you don't sound nurturing at 0.88

00:25:27.660 i'm saying i'm saying be an adult an adult but being an adult means paying for your kids even

00:25:33.980 if you don't have sole custody even if you don't have partial custody got a job okay but that

00:25:38.140 doesn't negate a father's responsibility to pay for their children because you can get a job too

00:25:42.300 no it doesn't equal pearl if it's equal then both parents should pay child support be no child

00:25:47.660 support get a job okay and then the father should also pay child support no that's special treatment

00:25:54.140 it's not special treatment it's equality both parents should pay for their children's well-being

00:25:58.940 yes that's true okay so that's why child support exists so you're suggesting is your suggestion

00:26:04.380 that basically both parents are paying 50 50 in actual what it costs to raise a child i'm saying

00:26:11.100 that you don't have child support you don't have alimony you split custody that's it okay you get

00:26:16.620 a job but as an implication it's like if you're really doing 50 50 half the time the mom's paying

00:26:21.580 half the time than what that's being said yeah when you when you have the kid so in cases in

00:26:25.260 which a 50 50 split is not in the best interest of that child right in cases in which a 50 50 split

00:26:31.900 like let's say a dad is working overseas or something according to a judge and the child

00:26:36.860 and a jury right well i guess family court is not a jury but according to a judge and that child

00:26:42.140 given all the facts about this family if a 50 50 split does not make sense should a father

00:26:48.140 still have to pay child support no really because you're responsible you'd be an adult but a father

00:26:55.100 can be an adult too pay for your kids i know and he should when they're with him okay i'm sorry

00:27:01.100 there's daycare there's too many could i ask a question who said family court is the same thing

00:27:05.340 as a jury no i said i said judge and jury and then i said oh family court doesn't have a jury

00:27:10.060 no i fact checked myself on that one yeah pearl that's crazy sorry why pay for your wild take

00:27:15.100 no to pay for your to pay for your children to not have the responsibility to provide for your 1.00

00:27:19.740 children is insane it doesn't matter what gender you are everybody needs to pay for it should be

00:27:25.020 50 50 custody and you pay for it but even if it's not because that's not what's in do you not want 0.99

00:27:29.660 people to do things in the best interest of children i want people to pay for themselves

00:27:33.740 and be responsible for their choices okay so if you choose to impregnate a woman to make a child

00:27:40.460 to allow a guy to get you should pay for the game i think the woman should pay actually i think

00:27:45.900 everyone should pay i think parents should pay for their children there's too many i just think i

00:27:52.060 just think it's kind of spoiled like you have too many choices now you have daycare options 0.92

00:27:56.380 it's you have to make fathers pay for their kids that's crazy you have as a as as a woman you have

00:28:03.340 the choice to get a job as a woman you have the choice to get a job you have the choice to put

00:28:07.660 your kid in daycare you have the choice to actually work with the father not be a and you 0.99

00:28:12.220 know split custody and they don't choose that i'm asking women to be responsible doesn't make sense

00:28:17.740 like if a man is living overseas he can't have 50 50 does he still not it's it's to be an adult 0.99

00:28:26.860 but we can do it ladies why is the only you can do it ladies you can get a job too you can do it

00:28:32.620 you why is the only partner you can do it you can do your job i i heard you the first time

00:28:37.340 thank you thanks you can do it great here's your cookie why is the only partner who has

00:28:43.340 a responsibility to provide for their kids the woman that's not true you just said mentioned

00:28:50.220 pay child support so yeah so they would get a job just like the men i'm saying be equal

00:28:54.700 most women be you can do it ladies but you ladies you can do it pearl this is they're saying she's

00:29:00.300 saying she's saying i want i want to have my cake and eat it too and no let's move on to the next

00:29:05.500 one and you guys could incorporate just because we're running it it's not about having cake and

00:29:08.940 eating it too it's about making sure children are closed and fed both parents have a responsibility

00:29:14.220 to do that it's child abuse and neglect if you don't yeah therefore men should pay for their kids

00:29:19.900 yeah this is crazy men are paying for their kids okay and it should stay that way everyone should 0.99

00:29:25.340 pay for their kids she wants special treatment i don't want special treatment she's just gaslighting

00:29:29.900 parents to pay for their kids gaslighting what is gaslighting to you hold on we're running out of 1.00

00:29:36.540 time for this last prompt and you guys can keep arguing it's all women are feminists and keep

00:29:41.740 keep going please oh i think that's the one i thought it was last time yeah it's the same

00:29:46.300 argument all women are feminists because all women have access to feminist structures okay but 1.00

00:29:51.820 feminism is a belief so it doesn't matter whether like what society you grow up in it's about

00:29:58.540 whether or not you believe this right i i believe that a feminist is a woman born in 2026. but 0.99

00:30:05.180 that's okay well then that's just an incorrect definition of feminism according to you

00:30:09.260 but that's not with that no according to feminists according to you okay so how do you like you 1.00

00:30:14.300 define feminist as a person a feminist woman is a woman born in the west in 2026. no but being born 1.00

00:30:20.620 is a state of being, right? Feminism is an ideology. Yeah. But all women have access to 1.00

00:30:28.540 the things that it fought for. So it doesn't matter. Okay. But just because you can benefit 0.99

00:30:32.600 from feminism doesn't mean that you are a feminist because it's about believing. No, 1.00

00:30:37.340 it means you have leverage. No. So feminism is the belief that all to you. No, according to the

00:30:43.600 dictionary definition of feminism. Pearl. It popped up here. So why don't we just read this? 1.00

00:30:48.300 feminism is an ideology this is supportive multiple references describe feminism as an 0.99

00:30:53.840 ideology belief system or a set a set of social political movements centered on equality between 0.97

00:30:58.560 the sexes okay thank you so feminism is an ideology we can now all agree that feminism is

00:31:03.900 an ideology but all women opt into it automatically so are you a feminist i have to be yeah really

00:31:09.340 okay can i ask you a question mlk martin luther king jr right grew up in the segregated jim crow

00:31:16.520 South. Because he grew up in the Jim Crow South, does that make him pro-segregationist?

00:31:21.640 I don't know. I don't know enough about it.

00:31:23.900 You don't know anything about Martin Luther King Jr.?

00:31:25.860 I don't care. I don't know.

00:31:27.540 You don't care?

00:31:28.240 I don't.

00:31:28.820 Okay. All right. Let's try another example. In Nazi Germany, was every single German person

00:31:34.380 who was alive during Nazi Germany a Nazi?

00:31:37.280 I don't know enough about it.

00:31:38.780 You don't know anything about Nazi Germany?

00:31:40.460 I don't care. 0.83

00:31:41.280 You don't care about the Holocaust? 0.87

00:31:43.420 Nope. Not at all.

00:31:44.760 Babes, I can see why you think women are not nurturing. 1.00

00:31:47.300 This makes a lot of sense now. 0.94

00:31:48.640 I think you are not nurturing.

00:31:50.820 So do you know the difference between a state of being and an ideology?

00:31:54.020 No.

00:31:55.260 Okay, right?

00:31:55.920 So a state of being is where we are right now.

00:31:58.540 We are in a current state of being.

00:31:59.760 We're in this place.

00:32:00.480 It's 2026.

00:32:01.300 This is our state of being.

00:32:02.580 An ideology is a belief system.

00:32:04.940 Just because your state of being is in, quote unquote, a feminist country, does not mean that you believe in feminism.

00:32:11.800 them right but you still opt into it because i still have the choice to get an abortion so i 0.97

00:32:18.280 still have a choice well go home yeah you can't you could you could go home right now you can't

00:32:23.560 nothing is stopping you from leaving you can't nothing is stopping you from having a platform

00:32:27.160 in fact i encourage you it doesn't it doesn't change anything it does it doesn't but you don't

00:32:32.840 do you believe in feminism yes or no do you believe that what do you mean by believe do

00:32:37.640 you believe that all genders are inherently equal no okay then you're not a feminist 1.00

00:32:41.800 i have to be no you don't yeah because i feminism feminism is a strategy that uses men's protector 1.00

00:32:49.060 instinct against them in order they want men to do all of the work um and give nothing in return 1.00

00:32:54.300 so they want they want they want what they want is they want men to build the buildings um do the

00:33:00.280 infrastructure jobs while they don't they can gaslight you and say that's not what they're

00:33:04.180 doing but if you look at the results that's what's happening men are doing all the infrastructure

00:33:07.580 jobs or women have the easy jobs with air conditioning on top of that they want to lower

00:33:11.740 birth rate and not give men children and a family in return and they fought very hard for that and 1.00

00:33:16.380 they have successfully won according to feminism feminism has one in 2020 according to who pearl

00:33:22.620 and who made you the lorax feminism feminism feminism has one in 2026 and they have won the 0.98

00:33:31.820 right to abort to kill their kids work easy jobs and then have big egos and pretend they're doing 1.00

00:33:36.620 as much as the men are doing even though they're not um and the first half of life feminism does 1.00

00:33:41.100 benefit women because you get access to the highest status men in the world easy office jobs 1.00

00:33:45.900 um and dating apps promiscuity all that sort of thing second half of life it tends to catch up

00:33:51.100 to women and our bad life choices um in the form of stds debt and other poor choices so i'm not done 0.94

00:34:03.020 and so what she's gonna do is gaslight you and try to make it seem like it's something else 0.98

00:34:07.340 but that's what it is she said at the entire debate that she wants special treatment instead 1.00

00:34:11.420 of women just being equal right no child support no alimony 50 50 custody that's equal they want

00:34:16.700 special rights special trip privileges and special treatments what's going to happen is the world is

00:34:21.900 going to get worse men are going to drop out of the infrastructure of society men are going to 0.64

00:34:25.340 drop out of marriage and slowly society is going to deteriorate and then the cities their crime is 0.73

00:34:32.860 going to get worse less men are going to do the infrastructure jobs and then women are going to 1.00

00:34:37.980 cry about it and wonder how this happened when really it's the policies passed by feminists 1.00

Pearl - September 17, 2026

Why Men Are WALKING AWAY From Marriage!

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