Pearl - June 26, 2025


Why Men Lose Bargaining Power in Dating While Women Get All the Options @ItsComplicatedChannel


Episode Stats

Length

2 minutes

Words per Minute

204.41458

Word Count

426

Sentence Count

17

Misogynist Sentences

6

Hate Speech Sentences

4


Summary

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Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 A lot of the advice or the prescriptions,
00:00:02.020 even though we're told that Red Pill
00:00:03.300 doesn't give prescriptions, but I think it does,
00:00:05.820 we're kind of just told move or improve.
00:00:08.940 You know, be a passport bro or, you know, work on yourself.
00:00:12.380 But work on yourself for you,
00:00:13.920 but, you know, don't do it for women, do it for you,
00:00:16.360 even though we're not shaming the MGTOWs
00:00:18.380 who aren't even playing the game.
00:00:19.700 You know, it's like, why aren't we shaming MGTOWs
00:00:21.820 to improve for themselves?
00:00:23.440 Anyway, I think a lot of it's just coping.
00:00:25.820 It's not, you know, it's basically just saying
00:00:27.700 this is what we're kind of stuck dealing with.
00:00:30.000 Now, you made a great point once where you said, you know, if men had 20, 30 beautiful women in their inbox DMing them saying, let me come over and let me cook for you and massage you.
00:00:43.700 Don't you think it would be hard to get a man to commit?
00:00:47.040 Oh, yeah.
00:00:48.140 Impossible.
00:00:48.860 That guy is.
00:00:49.660 The guy I know, he's cheating for life.
00:00:52.660 He's like, it's just never going to happen.
00:00:54.640 So once again, it comes down to the fact that now that's exactly the position women are in.
00:00:58.500 they have all these thirsty simps after them so women are basically have the privilege of being
00:01:04.360 more picky because they have more options so you know men would probably do a lot of the same
00:01:10.960 things if they had the options as well i think the problem is the game is so rigged to one side
00:01:16.200 that we just don't have the ability to have any bargaining power i think that our bargaining
00:01:22.640 chips have taken away have been taken away from us our bargaining chip used to be the idea that
00:01:27.820 you know, we were the ones who made the money. But then ever since, you know, women got equal
00:01:32.240 employment opportunities in the workforce and they're taking half the jobs now. I mean, you
00:01:36.620 asked this question, if we want men to be providers, are we going to remove equal employment
00:01:41.540 opportunities, which are preventing men from fulfilling the provider roles that we're advocating
00:01:45.900 for? So, you know, women want to have their cake and eat it too, while men can't even have a cake,
00:01:51.300 can't have a cake or even eat one. So we have to look at what's going on culturally and within the
00:01:57.560 laws. And I think, you know, we're identifying the symptoms, but we're not looking at the root
00:02:03.260 cause, what's causing these things.