Pearl - Why Men Obsess Over One Woman Who Doesn’t Want Them @Mr.DatingCoach

00:00:00.000 why do you think guys spend so much time on women that clearly don't want them

00:00:05.440 like why like because sometimes i'll just watch i'm like why are you she doesn't like you yeah

00:00:12.160 you know what i mean like like there'll be guys that'll wait like months to have a girl sleep

00:00:16.480 with like the biggest one that i've seen these guys that they think the girl's like different

00:00:21.600 or special and she's like waiting for sex and i'm like dude no you're you're naive yeah you're 0.65

00:00:26.560 naive you're a naive young boy and it's crazy because the guys you think like oh what when

00:00:30.880 you think of a naive man what what age range do you think of i think of two i think of either

00:00:36.880 under 27 or very religious and just hasn't partaken in anything right the average guy

00:00:44.560 yeah who's not really the average guy is not religious yeah they're naive up until their 0.99

00:00:48.960 late 30s because i've talked to guys when i message them right whatever they're like i'm

00:00:53.120 still trying to get with this girl i've known her for a year or two how old are you 37 38 no way yeah 0.93

00:00:58.560 so men are so naive nowadays right and to answer your question they get so hung up on one girl

00:01:05.360 that doesn't want them because that's the only girl that gives them time that gives them attention 1.00

00:01:12.000 because guys they don't realize this but guys do need emotional reassurance as well almost right

00:01:16.880 they do need emotional attention almost right and that girl's the only one that talks to him

00:01:22.480 and so in his mind it's like that's the only opportunity that i have to make anything happen

00:01:26.880 because i don't know any other girls that's the only girl i know and that's the only girl that

00:01:30.000 talks to me and so they approach it from a scarcity mindset because they don't know any

00:01:34.320 other girls and so they're so hung up on her they come to me there's no no other none they come to

00:01:39.520 me and they say yeah well there's a girl i really want her i've known her for six years and i tell

00:01:44.160 the first question i was well how many other girls are you talking to zero yeah why because i'm 0.75

00:01:50.640 scared your real issue is not that you can't get her the real issue is that you can't get anyone

00:01:56.880 you know and so that's that's the mentality that these guys have and it's really a scarce mentality

00:02:02.240 right it's kind of like going fishing and then looking for one fish even though there's a

00:02:07.840 thousand fish out there but no i want that one because that one is the only one that bites my 0.95

00:02:12.560 bait what what are you talking about it doesn't make any sense so that real problem is that they

00:02:16.080 can't get anyone that they can't build attraction that they're afraid of failure right they're

00:02:20.880 afraid to get rejected a lot of a lot of

Pearl - June 14, 2025