Pearl - October 02, 2025


Why Men Pick Strippers Over Wives


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16 minutes

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Misogyny

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Toxicity

62

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Bonnie Blue is a professional stripper who has been in the business for over 20 years. She has been interviewed by some of the biggest names in the entertainment industry, and is one of the most well-liked women in the industry. In this episode, I react to her interview.

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00:00:00.000 I mean, just own it.
00:00:00.980 At least Bonnie Blue, what I appreciate about Bonnie Blue
00:00:03.380 is she owns the whoring. 0.95
00:00:05.160 She owns it.
00:00:06.920 All right, so today we are talking about Bonnie Blue,
00:00:12.820 and one of my fans actually requested I react
00:00:19.440 to this sit-down interview. 0.99
00:00:20.920 You know, as a society, we're just so fascinated with whores. 1.00
00:00:24.380 My fans, it's not like they don't request me to react 0.98
00:00:27.400 to, like, you know, an evolutionary psychologist
00:00:30.300 or, like, I don't know, an academic. 1.00
00:00:33.500 They say, can you react to this whore? 1.00
00:00:37.940 Please, I am so fascinated by this super slut. 1.00
00:00:43.580 Can you blame the super sluts for being super sluts? 1.00
00:00:47.000 I mean, I think about all the men that, like, 0.99
00:00:48.900 accomplish things that don't get invited.
00:00:51.060 I see why Rolo is such a bitter guy, to be honest.
00:00:54.140 I really do.
00:00:54.900 I mean, I would probably be bitter, too,
00:00:57.040 if I was in his position.
00:00:59.360 I mean, can you imagine you get looked over
00:01:03.580 on all these platforms after doing this for 20 years, 1.00
00:01:06.380 and they just say, here you go, super slut. 0.99
00:01:09.840 Here's the interview. 1.00
00:01:11.460 And they're softball interviews.
00:01:14.540 I'm like, nobody's this fascinated by me.
00:01:17.100 Isn't that annoying?
00:01:19.140 Oh, wait, that's not the full one.
00:01:20.520 So, you know, there's this idea.
00:01:24.020 You know, a lot of people think they can control the universe.
00:01:26.600 And I'd like to say, for my younger listeners on there,
00:01:30.080 especially if you're women, 1.00
00:01:32.340 because women, this is something we do not. 1.00
00:01:35.140 Men understand this a lot easier.
00:01:36.680 We don't understand this.
00:01:38.320 But there's a sort of freedom in accepting
00:01:40.480 everything's going to get worse.
00:01:42.800 There really is.
00:01:43.640 I actually think life begins on the other side of it,
00:01:46.520 because there's nothing worse than selling people hope.
00:01:50.240 And there's this idea that if you have a daughter or a sister, 0.99
00:01:53.200 you can stop them from being a whore. 1.00
00:01:55.620 And I just want you to know that if you have kids 1.00
00:01:58.000 and they're girls, there's a good chance they'll be whores. 1.00
00:02:00.440 There's a good chance your sons will marry whores. 1.00
00:02:02.840 There's a good chance you'll marry a whore, 1.00
00:02:04.480 and you won't even know. 1.00
00:02:06.460 I mean, what are you going to do?
00:02:07.660 Like, check the poonanny mileage.
00:02:10.620 Good luck.
00:02:11.600 I mean, there's, you know,
00:02:13.240 but there's a sort of freedom with that, you know,
00:02:15.640 that comes with knowing that you just can't control it.
00:02:19.360 They're going to do what they're going to do.
00:02:20.560 You cannot control another human being,
00:02:23.420 especially one that is drunk on power,
00:02:25.520 like most of us ladies are. 1.00
00:02:30.140 Here it is.
00:02:31.900 Here it is.
00:02:32.760 So we are going to react to Bonnie Blue.
00:02:35.060 And I'd like to say, I've always said
00:02:38.200 Bonnie Blue understands men better 0.98
00:02:41.200 than most conservative women.
00:02:43.320 I have watched this woman on podcasts, right? 0.97
00:02:46.640 She is more likable.
00:02:47.940 I don't know the woman she's being interviewed with.
00:02:50.140 I don't know her work.
00:02:50.920 We'll see.
00:02:51.780 But you'll notice that Bonnie Blue is always dressed 1.00
00:02:54.180 in a way that's, like, appealing to men.
00:02:57.420 Her makeup's done, like, she doesn't have tattoos.
00:03:00.700 Her makeup's, like, light, but it's not super.
00:03:03.320 She has light work done, nothing crazy.
00:03:06.660 Her body is kind of what men like. 1.00
00:03:10.000 And in her social interactions, what I've noticed is she,
00:03:18.460 while other women want to argue and get offended, 1.00
00:03:21.180 she just says, I'm a whore. 1.00
00:03:22.940 And she just sits there. 1.00
00:03:24.100 And anybody that gets mad or yells at her,
00:03:25.700 she doesn't bicker with them. 0.84
00:03:26.780 She doesn't nag them.
00:03:27.860 She just sits there.
00:03:28.700 And, you know, you wonder why.
00:03:32.820 I actually, I was speaking to someone the other day,
00:03:35.840 and they told me they lost their husband to a stripper.
00:03:38.540 And she was like, I was, you know, I was married,
00:03:44.120 and I lost, my husband left me for a stripper.
00:03:47.380 And, you know, that's a big L in life.
00:03:50.020 Sometimes you just got to eat that.
00:03:51.660 I mean, that's an L. 0.99
00:03:52.680 But you got to wonder, what did you do to drive them to a stripper? 0.99
00:03:55.820 You know what I mean?
00:03:56.560 And usually they got fat, right?
00:03:59.680 Another thing is strippers, men in a way want to be manipulated.
00:04:05.700 They really do.
00:04:07.360 The same way, like, when you go into a restaurant,
00:04:10.540 you want the server to be nice to you,
00:04:12.580 even if the server secretly hates you.
00:04:14.980 You kind of want, like, a baseline level of, like,
00:04:17.620 niceness and manipulation.
00:04:18.960 And to give them extra tips, right?
00:04:21.520 You want to feel, like, good.
00:04:23.500 And men love that feel.
00:04:24.680 And strippers and a lot of sex workers, 1.00
00:04:27.480 hookers, women like Bonnie Blue, 1.00
00:04:30.040 they've studied men in a way that conservative women 1.00
00:04:32.740 have a tendency, you would have noticed,
00:04:34.540 they don't really pay attention as much,
00:04:36.180 or at least the trad e-girls.
00:04:37.820 Like, compare Bonnie Blue to, like, Candace Owens.
00:04:42.720 Candace Owens is very masculine, right?
00:04:46.920 Her demeanor, the way she talks. 0.99
00:04:48.280 She doesn't dress like a whore. 1.00
00:04:49.780 She doesn't get, she doesn't bang a thousand dudes on camera, right? 1.00
00:04:53.820 But a lot of guys would look at her and say,
00:04:55.820 I'll take the woman that's nice to me, 1.00
00:04:57.820 and I guess she's a super slut, but at least she's nice, right? 1.00
00:05:01.220 I think that sometimes the right-wing women, 1.00
00:05:06.400 that's why they're kind of known for being stuck up,
00:05:08.660 because generally speaking, the women with good personalities,
00:05:12.520 they tend to either be apolitical or even liberal, right?
00:05:15.480 Because they can be, they can get away with that.
00:05:20.940 Where usually the worse the personality,
00:05:23.960 the more likely, just in my experience,
00:05:26.080 to be right because they're making up for something,
00:05:28.640 so they've got to say the words that, you know,
00:05:30.480 they can't do the actions men like,
00:05:32.280 like throw it back, gluck, gluck, 9,000.
00:05:34.900 So, so, twerking on that, you know what I mean?
00:05:38.720 So, they've got to go the route of selling purity.
00:05:42.660 Now, that might work if, you know,
00:05:46.140 right-wing, conservative-leaning women 1.00
00:05:48.140 had a reputation for being pure, 1.00
00:05:49.900 but I've got to be honest, ladies, we suck. 1.00
00:05:52.600 Like, we just, you know what I mean? 0.99
00:05:55.300 Like when the right-wing e-girls, 1.00
00:06:00.180 like when we have, we have phrases like
00:06:01.760 Catholic school, schoolgirls,
00:06:03.920 and we know the connotation with that, right?
00:06:08.540 Preacher's daughter.
00:06:11.920 This, this to me, these connotations,
00:06:14.060 we all know what that means, right? 0.99
00:06:15.660 We all know super, like known for being super sluts. 1.00
00:06:19.240 And the more you tell women not to do something, 0.99
00:06:22.000 the more they want to do it behind your back.
00:06:23.920 That's like our psychology.
00:06:25.420 I'm dead to it.
00:06:26.560 The more, like, the more you're indifferent,
00:06:29.060 like they can't, they can't hurt or phase you.
00:06:31.180 But once women know they can, 1.00
00:06:33.640 they can hurt you by doing said thing,
00:06:36.100 that's when, that's when women want to do it more. 1.00
00:06:38.280 And it makes the sex way hotter.
00:06:40.080 Like, what's better, like, let's just,
00:06:41.800 let's just be real here. 0.91
00:06:43.100 What's better sex for like a young woman? 1.00
00:06:45.900 The sex that is okay? 1.00
00:06:47.560 Or the sex that's like, 0.94
00:06:49.280 oh, we're not supposed to be doing,
00:06:51.020 you know we're messed up.
00:06:52.460 Do you know what I mean?
00:06:54.040 And so anyways, my point is this.
00:06:57.820 I don't think there's much control
00:07:00.080 that right wing, left wing, 0.97
00:07:02.720 like parents can really have over their kids. 1.00
00:07:05.680 I think women are kind of whores from a young age. 1.00
00:07:09.220 And once, you can't really stop a whore from whoring 1.00
00:07:11.880 and trying to stop her. 1.00
00:07:13.580 It's just going to make her want to do it more.
00:07:15.020 Like I heard, I heard Alex,
00:07:16.820 I think it was Alex Clark.
00:07:18.060 She was bitching about birth control. 1.00
00:07:21.600 I think she had this whole nagging rant about,
00:07:24.660 oh, I was put on birth control at 16.
00:07:27.120 And I'm thinking, well, why,
00:07:29.760 your parents have your best interests at heart.
00:07:31.760 I don't know if it was her
00:07:32.440 or someone she was talking about.
00:07:34.260 Why would a parent put a 16-year-old on birth control?
00:07:37.600 Can we think about it?
00:07:40.260 What were you doing that made the parents say,
00:07:44.580 oh, we better put her on birth control? 1.00
00:07:47.160 They always want to play so innocent.
00:07:48.940 Like, oh, I was just this innocent girl
00:07:50.580 who had heavy periods,
00:07:51.800 and they put me on birth control. 1.00
00:07:53.720 Bullshit! 1.00
00:07:55.040 Bullshit! 1.00
00:07:55.500 That's bullshit. 1.00
00:07:56.940 I mean, just own it. 1.00
00:07:57.820 At least Bonnie Blue,
00:07:58.860 what I appreciate about Bonnie Blue
00:08:00.240 is she owns the whoring. 0.96
00:08:01.980 She owns it.
00:08:04.640 But you'll see.
00:08:05.820 So we'll start this interview.
00:08:07.280 We'll start it.
00:08:08.080 If you have something to say,
00:08:09.380 put it in the chat also.
00:08:11.760 I don't know how long I'll be on YouTube.
00:08:14.380 I do think if I get kicked off again,
00:08:16.260 that'll be the end of my career
00:08:18.000 because I can't go through another demonetization.
00:08:21.580 I can't.
00:08:22.600 So unless we get enough sign-ups on the website.
00:08:25.800 So if you do like the content,
00:08:27.540 it's $10 a month.
00:08:28.860 If we get enough people on it,
00:08:30.500 then we can be YouTube-free.
00:08:33.220 But I'm happy with this new regime.
00:08:36.020 If we get enough people on it,
00:08:37.300 then we can be YouTube-free.
00:08:38.580 I'm happy with this new regime,
00:08:40.440 but we'll see.
00:08:41.280 Okay.
00:08:41.660 You said follow her steps, Pearl.
00:08:43.700 Really? 0.87
00:08:45.280 You want me to bang a thousand dudes on camera? 0.99
00:08:48.460 Really? 0.91
00:08:49.660 I mean, it's like,
00:08:51.880 you said go for it.
00:08:57.740 I'm just going to play the video.
00:09:00.840 I'm just going to play the video.
00:09:05.220 Big data companies know body count better
00:09:07.440 than the 304 can remember.
00:09:10.420 How many people do you have an audacity now?
00:09:12.380 Not enough.
00:09:13.000 I'll tell you what.
00:09:14.840 And I need to get more people on the website.
00:09:18.100 And then I can put more time into like developing it.
00:09:21.020 But I used to do these weekly like YouTube sessions,
00:09:24.360 but nobody would show up.
00:09:25.640 No offense to you guys,
00:09:26.740 but I would analyze your YouTube channels.
00:09:29.260 If you want to do it again,
00:09:30.380 put it in the comments,
00:09:31.360 but it just didn't get a lot of traction.
00:09:34.840 Louise,
00:09:35.340 why were you interested in sitting down with Bonnie?
00:09:40.120 I find it really interesting. 0.99
00:09:41.260 We are just fascinated by whores. 1.00
00:09:45.780 We are. 0.99
00:09:46.120 I think that a lot of it,
00:09:48.580 just having talked to women about doing this conversation,
00:09:52.300 the response from so many women is, 0.99
00:09:56.840 I think,
00:09:57.420 something like morbid curiosity.
00:09:59.360 Yeah.
00:09:59.780 Like interested in you,
00:10:01.140 confused by you.
00:10:02.140 Yeah.
00:10:02.500 And wondering,
00:10:03.080 I mean,
00:10:03.260 the main thing that I'm hoping that to learn about you today,
00:10:05.920 because I've said about your work is your psychology,
00:10:09.800 your personality,
00:10:10.900 what it is about you.
00:10:12.020 that's led you to do this because I get the impression from having watched
00:10:15.660 interviews with you and so on that actually over the years,
00:10:19.440 I've interviewed loads and loads of women or spoken to loads and loads of 0.97
00:10:21.600 women who've been in the sex industry in various ways, 1.00
00:10:24.120 whether that's porn or prostitution or brothels,
00:10:26.820 street walking, 0.93
00:10:27.240 whatever.
00:10:27.820 And every single case,
00:10:29.740 they've talked about distress trauma or.
00:10:33.900 Yeah, 1.00
00:10:34.220 that's bullshit. 1.00
00:10:35.420 Okay. 1.00
00:10:35.680 So that's when women say that it's distress and trauma of them doing their 0.99
00:10:40.280 sex work,
00:10:40.920 that is the marketing to simps who will believe it.
00:10:45.480 They will believe it.
00:10:46.440 They it's,
00:10:47.080 it's incredible what simps will believe.
00:10:49.660 They get a woman as hot as body blue. 1.00
00:10:52.100 They it's like the hottest girl they've ever banged in their life. 0.87
00:10:54.980 You can't speak reason.
00:10:57.300 Like the horrible of banged,
00:10:59.640 like three of their friends and they're like,
00:11:02.400 Oh,
00:11:02.520 she's special.
00:11:05.660 You can't,
00:11:06.460 it's,
00:11:06.860 it's incredible once you've seen it.
00:11:09.040 That's why women that are mid hate hot women so much. 1.00
00:11:12.120 Cause they can literally get away with murder.
00:11:15.180 There's things like,
00:11:16.380 you know,
00:11:16.640 I'd consider myself a mid.
00:11:20.180 There's things I've seen hot women do. 1.00
00:11:27.480 I could never,
00:11:28.860 it just,
00:11:29.160 I would not have that kind of buy.
00:11:31.160 It's just,
00:11:31.840 I've seen hot women get into relationships and marry or sorry, 1.00
00:11:36.940 four different men in the same friend group.
00:11:38.980 And the fourth one married her.
00:11:40.840 Isn't that incredible?
00:11:42.500 That like,
00:11:43.280 she blew one and was like situationship. 1.00
00:11:46.220 He wanted to date her.
00:11:47.600 She said,
00:11:48.040 no,
00:11:48.260 I'm good.
00:11:49.480 Then she moved on to guy number two,
00:11:52.000 dated him for like a year and a half,
00:11:53.940 broke up.
00:11:54.460 Then she moved on to guy number three.
00:11:57.260 He did dump her,
00:11:58.580 but whatever.
00:11:59.740 And then she married guy number four.
00:12:01.700 Like,
00:12:01.940 do you know how incredible that is?
00:12:03.200 When you're an eight,
00:12:03.900 you could do it because the men,
00:12:06.600 they just have a way of rationalizing.
00:12:08.420 I don't know.
00:12:12.160 I know.
00:12:13.620 Redhead mid, 0.92
00:12:14.420 you know.
00:12:15.060 Yeah,
00:12:15.380 I know.
00:12:15.700 I know.
00:12:16.140 I mean,
00:12:16.340 I know,
00:12:16.640 you know,
00:12:18.240 you kind of got to know where you are in the world.
00:12:21.080 It's not an insult.
00:12:21.920 Most people are mid. 0.91
00:12:23.420 I'll tell you what I knew I was mid.
00:12:25.100 I'll tell you the day I knew.
00:12:27.000 So,
00:12:27.420 um,
00:12:30.040 I went to a weekend.
00:12:32.840 The weekend actually had my whole team go to the concert,
00:12:35.840 their concert.
00:12:36.700 So like they let us go backstage.
00:12:38.300 It was really cool.
00:12:38.840 My producers got together.
00:12:40.040 It was so fun.
00:12:41.700 Um,
00:12:42.540 and there was women at this concert that I met. 0.95
00:12:46.560 their whole job was just to be hot and go to these concerts and go to
00:12:55.620 these events.
00:12:56.500 And I knew because I had never been invited.
00:13:00.680 You know what I mean?
00:13:01.220 I guess I was through the show,
00:13:02.760 I guess in this instant,
00:13:03.960 but they,
00:13:05.000 their whole existence was just paid for.
00:13:07.860 And I just,
00:13:08.760 I just thought to myself,
00:13:10.020 well,
00:13:10.840 I've never had that offer.
00:13:12.840 You know what I mean?
00:13:14.440 That's never,
00:13:15.260 you know,
00:13:15.520 and I think as a woman,
00:13:18.000 especially if you're a young woman,
00:13:19.380 you really got to know where you fall.
00:13:22.180 Um,
00:13:22.500 because men do kind of view you as a price tag and the worst advice I've,
00:13:27.880 I've seen women date, 1.00
00:13:29.920 dating advice I've seen given for women is they tell old women to raise their 1.00
00:13:35.640 price or like,
00:13:36.900 Oh,
00:13:36.940 now you got to make a wait three months.
00:13:38.580 I'm like,
00:13:39.020 yeah,
00:13:39.300 29,
00:13:40.320 32.
00:13:41.120 That is the word 35.
00:13:43.260 You want to wait till marriage now?
00:13:45.140 When you're halfway through life, 1.00
00:13:46.980 bitch. 1.00
00:13:49.700 And I'm like, 1.00
00:13:50.520 yeah,
00:13:50.620 you're never going to get a buyer because you're charging.
00:13:53.000 If you were a nine,
00:13:53.980 you could do that.
00:13:54.720 Like Sierra and Russell Wilson,
00:13:56.940 she could re wait till marriage. 1.00
00:13:58.520 Cause she's that hot. 1.00
00:13:59.860 You know,
00:14:00.460 when a girl's that hot, 1.00
00:14:01.540 you can just demand like you're a sports car.
00:14:04.620 You are a sports car.
00:14:06.140 You can charge sports car prices.
00:14:08.600 But imagine if you're a,
00:14:09.860 you're a Honda Civic and you come in and you're just like,
00:14:13.140 yeah,
00:14:13.700 um,
00:14:14.740 I want sports car prices.
00:14:16.660 There's just going to be no buyers.
00:14:19.000 If I'm being honest,
00:14:20.160 I,
00:14:20.280 I see a lot of,
00:14:21.100 this is the problem that a lot of,
00:14:22.500 um,
00:14:22.660 I was in like a,
00:14:26.200 a non-denominational church for like a year and a half,
00:14:29.100 two years.
00:14:29.480 And it was,
00:14:29.920 it was all these midwomen. 1.00
00:14:31.820 Oh my God.
00:14:32.600 All these midwomen waiting till marriage. 1.00
00:14:35.640 I've never seen so many single women. 1.00
00:14:37.740 They just marry the pastor.
00:14:38.980 It's such an interesting,
00:14:40.260 I swear to God.
00:14:40.920 Cause they go like,
00:14:41.840 they talk to the pastor.
00:14:43.140 Like he's there.
00:14:44.020 Like the pastor has to approve of the men.
00:14:47.740 I'm like,
00:14:48.300 what kind of,
00:14:48.740 so that,
00:14:49.280 so,
00:14:49.660 so I was thinking about this.
00:14:50.920 I'm like,
00:14:51.240 she really submits to the pastor and not to the husband.
00:14:55.760 Cause the husband has to go through the pastor to get the mid ramp through
00:14:58.980 women. 0.81
00:14:59.820 I was like,
00:15:01.020 I was like,
00:15:02.820 this is,
00:15:03.400 this is going to be,
00:15:04.360 this is a terrible way to,
00:15:06.020 way to do this.
00:15:06.960 This is not going to work.
00:15:08.860 And I remember I was on this female retreat and I knew I had to leave this 1.00
00:15:12.340 church.
00:15:12.640 You know,
00:15:14.040 I was kind of trying to figure out what religion I wanted to be.
00:15:17.060 Cause I just got out of school and I was like looking at all,
00:15:20.060 like I grew up Catholic and I was,
00:15:21.500 I was reevaluating and I just remember sitting there and it was like all
00:15:26.420 these 25 to 35 year old women re-waiting till marriage. 1.00
00:15:31.800 And I just thought that is the worst idea I've ever heard in my life.
00:15:36.980 And there's like a single woman church pipeline because they get all the 1.00
00:15:42.000 family and community from the church.
00:15:43.940 So it's like,
00:15:44.600 why,
00:15:44.880 why build one with a guy?
00:15:47.060 And usually there's one like or two chads in the church and you either get
00:15:51.420 the demon chide time chads there or the wholesome chad.
00:15:54.600 So the demon times,
00:15:56.080 I mean,
00:15:56.480 they just run through the whole church.
00:15:58.280 I mean,
00:15:58.580 that's like the guy in the band or whatever,
00:16:00.660 but usually the,
00:16:03.620 the young chad,
00:16:05.060 he'll just marry the pretty much the hottest,
00:16:08.180 purest girl.
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