Pearl - Why Should I Have Hope (Call-In Show)

00:00:00.000 Most young women are not.

00:00:01.600 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:06.260 It's a different world now.

00:00:07.300 Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:09.300 Nobody needs men!

00:00:10.560 The future is female.

00:00:13.620 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.

00:00:20.440 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of merit.

00:00:23.400 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:26.080 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:29.520 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:33.760 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:36.380 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:00:39.400 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.

00:00:44.340 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:00:48.020 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:00:51.640 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:00:54.500 Because if me and you were in a business contract,

00:00:56.480 you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:00:59.520 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:01.760 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.

00:01:05.440 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.

00:01:08.300 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.

00:01:10.980 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:15.840 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:19.180 You need no evidence.

00:01:20.300 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:01:23.960 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:27.340 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:29.520 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:32.180 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:34.320 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:36.680 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:38.100 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:40.000 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.

00:01:42.440 Wives are taught to leave their husbands,

00:01:44.340 and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:01:46.700 Family is the foundation of society.

00:01:48.420 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.

00:01:51.580 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole

00:01:54.060 of happiness, endless happiness.

00:01:55.900 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.

00:01:57.800 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:01:59.700 We tell them to put off family and a marriage.

00:02:01.460 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:04.220 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:08.640 Oh, freeze your ex, have an abortion.

00:02:10.460 What? You're evil.

00:02:11.520 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:02:15.580 Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,

00:02:19.680 naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:22.420 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:23.320 That's the thing.

00:02:23.880 Like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.

00:02:26.820 This is not about happiness.

00:02:28.920 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:31.240 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it,

00:02:37.020 instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:02:39.760 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:02:43.520 They think, well, men have all the rights.

00:02:45.060 They have all the power.

00:02:46.320 Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.

00:02:48.600 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?

00:02:51.220 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:02:54.480 Men are alone in this situation.

00:02:56.020 Men are homeless. Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:02:59.180 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:03.580 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:09.000 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:12.900 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.

00:03:15.500 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.

00:03:22.560 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:24.400 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:25.440 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:27.240 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:28.500 What kind of a woman are you going to attract?

00:03:30.460 If men are in trouble, so are women.

00:03:33.100 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:36.800 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to give...

00:03:39.020 500K.

00:03:39.680 500K.

00:03:40.120 300K.

00:03:40.640 300K.

00:03:41.100 200K.

00:03:41.540 Am I crazy?

00:03:42.240 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:03:44.500 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.

00:03:48.100 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:03:52.000 Women.

00:03:52.380 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:03:55.380 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:03:57.380 I'm over it.

00:03:58.380 When is it going to be my turn?

00:03:59.380 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:01.380 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:04.380 The only simp here is you, Pearl. You simp for men.

00:04:06.380 No, I think you simp for women.

00:04:07.380 She's a provocateur. She says stupid stuff.

00:04:09.380 But Pearl is right about this.

00:04:11.380 It's already happening. It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:13.380 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending

00:04:16.380 because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband.

00:04:19.380 husband. The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future. We go into population

00:04:25.020 decline and our economy goes into decline. Civilization will crumble. The American story

00:04:30.960 does not end well. This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:04:39.440 What is going on, everybody? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. I am your host, Pearl,

00:04:46.220 and the conclusions that I've come to on the show are from my experience interviewing a thousand

00:04:50.980 women. As you guys know, I went from, you know, doing silly reaction videos to having one of the

00:04:59.360 biggest shows in the country to now giving my commentary on life, society, and so on.

00:05:06.320 So what I had in the beginning was a trailer for my divorce documentary. They don't really

00:05:11.320 like what I have to say so you know what they do to content creators like me that are honest that

00:05:20.460 don't pander to women they demonetize us I've gone through eight TikTok accounts four Instagrams and

00:05:28.800 I was demonetized for a year and a half and because of that we had major setbacks in finishing

00:05:35.000 the divorce documentary I worked for free for a year and a half had to let go of all my staff and

00:05:40.100 Now we're rebuilding, which is the fun part because we are re-monetized on YouTube.

00:05:44.600 However, we are asking for donations for our divorce documentary.

00:05:47.940 So if you guys want to, once we get to about 100K, we can actually put the documentary together.

00:05:53.160 We want to make sure it's a high-quality film.

00:05:55.360 It does say a million dollars that we are raising.

00:05:57.880 But the reason that I have that is because that's the quote I got from a very high-end team.

00:06:05.100 But at 100K, which we're at about 30, we're 500 bucks away from $30,000.

00:06:09.260 so thank you guys so much. Okay, I'm done with my sales pitch. So welcome to another episode of

00:06:17.020 Pearl Daily. Long time subscribers have seen my entire YouTube journey. So I started off very,

00:06:25.360 very naive. I really had no idea what was going on in these streets. I went to a small high school,

00:06:31.880 a small college and I worked in a sales job in a smaller city and when I went to London to play

00:06:45.520 volleyball and I started my YouTube show on the side everything changed so

00:06:54.360 I transitioned from the pre-game show which was a debate show about six days a week to Pearl Daily

00:07:01.580 and it is really um to pearl daily which is a commentary show and a call-in show and it's

00:07:08.040 allowed me to deep dive on a lot of these topics um i have a person on staff that helps with these

00:07:13.480 shows and him and i do a lot of research for these shows and we and the more we deep dive

00:07:18.520 into these subjects the more black pilled i get um and i noticed in the last video i think it was

00:07:26.300 Friday, people in my comment section are really starting to notice because it's really all I see

00:07:33.140 under my videos now. All the comments say, Pearl, you're too black-pilled. Pearl, you've lost hope.

00:07:38.640 And I already did a show asking if I'm too black-pilled, so I got all out of the way,

00:07:43.440 got that out of the way. But have I lost hope? Now, I want to talk about that for a second.

00:07:52.060 The definition of hope is a feeling of expectation and desire for certain things to happen.

00:08:00.180 An example would be that modern women with children hope to find a Russell Wilson simp to save them and their bastard kid from poverty.

00:08:09.840 Another example would be that Christian men hope to find a virtuous woman that won't divorce them,

00:08:17.120 take half their stuff, and alienate them from their children.

00:08:22.060 Many people in the red pill space will tell you that hope is not a strategy in the current

00:08:28.840 dating market. In this current dating and relationship market, hope can lead you down

00:08:35.240 a path of destruction in 2025. So have I lost hope? I would say yes. Why would I have hope

00:08:46.120 for modern day relationships and marriage between men and women? Tell me why. Do I have hope for

00:08:53.080 myself? Of course I do. Do I have hope for my friends and family? Of course I do. But society

00:09:00.920 at large, I do not. I don't. All of the things that make me less hopeful are only going to

00:09:09.620 increase over time. Despite what Tradcon say, America will never go back to the 1950s and 60s.

00:09:17.580 Everything that's tearing society apart is only going to get worse. Modern women are going to

00:09:23.900 keep being hoarse, having bastard kids, spending too much money, and putting themselves into debt.

00:09:30.800 There's nothing that me or anyone watching this channel can do about it.

00:09:35.600 when your job is to report the facts like mine is you just keep looking at what's happening in

00:09:43.520 society and anyone would lose hope so today's show i want people to call in and tell me why

00:09:50.520 i should have hope in today's society when it comes to men and women and marriage and children

00:09:56.200 tell me how we can get women to stop aborting their children value their husbands and spend

00:10:01.860 less money. Tell me how we can get women to value anything other than themselves and their own

00:10:07.220 selfish desires. So I want to read a couple comments we had last video.

00:10:13.340 And by the way, anyone that left these comments is more than welcome to call in.

00:10:18.900 Now, by the way, this is a discussion. I try not to make it a debate. I may have counterpoints for

00:10:25.060 you, but I always am going to give you the benefit of the microphone unless you ramble for a little

00:10:30.440 bit too long i may have to cut you off um but it's just for the quality of the show so gt base said

00:10:38.180 pearl please don't let the daunting nature of society defeat you yes tate spent three years

00:10:44.220 doing this and i watched you go from nothing to having your own show becoming successful getting

00:10:49.040 demonetized but who cares what matters is that you improved your life supporting your mentality but

00:10:53.940 now it seems like you're almost letting it defeat you tate is still doing the same shit preaching

00:10:58.360 the same message. He's just not quite as controversial about it, but get him worked

00:11:03.480 up and it'll all come out. He hasn't changed, nor should you. Don't sell out. I don't even know who

00:11:09.660 Pearl is anymore. Honestly, I don't unbaffled. I'm baffled. Has she been lying the whole time?

00:11:17.500 Do you know some of the things you said, things per you, we said tonight? Before you hated feminism,

00:11:24.020 And I thought you hated women behaving and acting in certain ways.

00:11:28.000 But you don't think it's liberating?

00:11:30.760 Like, I'm totally baffled. Totally.

00:11:33.980 I understand Pearl being black-pilled.

00:11:35.980 She's a woman at the end of the day, but not Tate.

00:11:38.000 As a man, when you give up leadership, it's done.

00:11:42.060 I realized something tonight.

00:11:44.060 Or I never realized about watching all of Pearl's videos.

00:11:47.360 I realized something tonight that will stay with me for a long time.

00:11:50.140 Why do I still watch her?

00:11:51.460 Because I still watch, per se.

00:11:54.020 Because I've watched her for so long

00:11:55.820 and I like her arguments and her worldview.

00:11:57.940 But what she has said tonight,

00:11:59.580 some of the things she has said

00:12:00.560 has literally made me question her.

00:12:04.260 Pearl is getting there.

00:12:06.200 She is finally out of the tradcon narrative

00:12:08.180 and reaching closer to the truth.

00:12:10.660 Out of the darkest place of the internet,

00:12:12.640 she is the closest one to the truth.

00:12:15.600 Now, other people have other opinions, right?

00:12:18.260 Some people are saying this is the best I've seen Pearl do.

00:12:21.340 Previously, I felt like she was making things up

00:12:23.680 to please others and make money but this feels so genuine i'm a western male and i'm planning on

00:12:28.940 marrying a muslim woman a young one to experience the 1950s vibe i'm not delusional she'll probably

00:12:34.480 get westernized and leave me when she gets older still i want that glimpse in my lifetime and i

00:12:39.620 hope she'll stay with me for life even if it's unlikely christopher in the chat said i used to

00:12:46.520 have so much respect for pearl fighting for women to be the way they used to be and men to step up

00:12:51.980 and be men the fact that she's changing her mind makes me lose respect you are out of touch pearl

00:13:00.200 about things think thoroughly if you think there's nothing you can do about your daughter

00:13:04.780 it's stupid so we just leave it to chance that's a powerless mindset

00:13:09.100 pearl your nihilism is a mistake nihilism is and always has been a mistake as one succumbs to fear

00:13:18.840 to get nihilism. We can change the world by changing ourselves. In fact, as social creatures,

00:13:24.360 your health is not even possible to avoid the presence of another's best. So what's your best?

00:13:30.060 You will never know it unless you keep applying actions, small consistent actions. Know your love.

00:13:36.940 As a collective society, if we focus more on me, me, me, while disregarding virtue and morals,

00:13:42.720 you won't have a country, let alone a population in a couple generations. Disregard your kids or

00:13:47.960 future people for now will be the downfall of us all. I mean, Bonnie Blue didn't come up with this

00:13:55.480 new point of view. It's called nihilism. And that was my outlook on life. Pearl said something I

00:13:59.900 agree with, though. The black pill is where I'm at. Just accept the world for how it is and navigate

00:14:04.000 it accordingly. I'm playing the game with the rules we have now, not the rules I wish we had.

00:14:10.840 Pearl, the way you describe your questioning, Pearl, the way you describe questioning your

00:14:15.420 sanity doing this job is what nurses go through working in an insane asylum, even for a short

00:14:20.880 time. You deal with so many nutty people. You have made a mistake, Pearl. There's no pride in being

00:14:28.500 more like Blani. Dear Pearl, you can never understand nor explain the life of a world

00:14:34.440 without God. I am afraid everyone who attempts eventually hits a wall and breaks. That makes

00:14:40.460 God laugh out loud. Pearl, what are you talking about? For you to say that you don't know what

00:14:46.540 you will do until it happens to you just tells me that you don't know who you are and what you stand

00:14:51.240 for. If you don't know what you stand for, then who are you? You're the type of person that says

00:14:56.040 one thing, but you start doubting yourself when the pressure is on. It's one thing to admire

00:15:01.880 someone living life on their own terms. It's another to respect the fact that those terms

00:15:06.600 are debauchery it's like you said you respect a psychopath or a serial killer because they live

00:15:11.840 life on their own terms pearl is i lost the will to live okay guys that's a little bit far

00:15:18.780 that's a little bit okay i certainly did the world is beyond loss it's tragic and unrepairable

00:15:26.700 the black pill outlook is really sad be more like andrew wilson and fight you garbage girl

00:15:33.240 or fight this garbage girl.

00:15:37.020 So I wrote some notes that I just wanted to,

00:15:40.820 I kind of wanted to spitball,

00:15:44.460 if you guys will let me spitball a little bit,

00:15:47.800 because I just want to have an honest conversation about this,

00:15:51.060 because I realized during that stream,

00:15:52.920 maybe my audience is confused.

00:15:54.660 They're thinking, what do you stand for, Pearl?

00:15:56.820 Do you stand for nothing now?

00:15:58.040 so growing up I was one of 10 I was one of um 10 kids I had nine siblings growing up

00:16:07.880 and um my parents were married for a very are married have been married for a very long time

00:16:15.140 so I went to a really really small middle school like super small 30 kids and to be honest divorce

00:16:24.220 was not the norm. It wasn't. Um, I can remember maybe two divorces in our middle school and high

00:16:32.920 school is pretty similar. Most people had married parents, but, and you think that traditionalism

00:16:42.220 is the answer. Your parents were married. You grew up with married parents. Um, here's

00:16:50.720 the issue you get into the world changes fast and if you don't adapt you get left behind

00:17:01.040 and what happens is content creators that come from conservative values and very much believe

00:17:09.400 it get backed into a corner because what happens is you're raised one way and you believe that

00:17:15.860 is true but then you start to see people you know and in my case women that I knew that were better

00:17:27.900 than me do worse things that I would think I would do women that were with the same guy since

00:17:34.900 high school I thought would never divorce their boyfriend or their husband sorry break up with

00:17:39.900 their boyfriends or divorce their husbands women that married young that I've known since childhood

00:17:45.560 Women I thought would never do that,

00:17:47.540 whose parents didn't do that, started doing it

00:17:49.660 in the last five years of my life.

00:17:59.420 I would see the women that would come on the show

00:18:02.040 and say they were traditional

00:18:04.760 and realize that none of them were, not one.

00:18:07.500 and when you're a youtuber um you can't not see this i i think under 30 um maybe third

00:18:21.400 under 30 it's possible that you live in a pocket where you haven't noticed how fast everything's

00:18:29.160 changed. However, over 30, the Michael Knowles of the world, the Matt Walshes of the world,

00:18:36.220 they see traditionalism not working. They see Steven Crowder getting divorced.

00:18:42.560 They see the one guy I debated, I think his name was, and it's so dishonest and it really bothers

00:18:50.120 me. Like I debated Trent Horn and it turns out a guy that he did his podcast with for years is

00:18:56.760 getting divorced and you start to realize that the guys that did the traditional thing

00:19:02.600 get the worst treatment the worst um you know you just see how their wives disrespect them publicly

00:19:12.700 and things you thought work that worked for millennia don't work the same way they used to

00:19:22.820 Imagine if you're, most relationships nowadays are on dating apps.

00:19:29.100 What if you think you're above dating apps?

00:19:31.440 But you probably just won't have a relationship.

00:19:35.500 So what happens is the YouTubers, we start with a lot of these thoughts,

00:19:40.160 and they get backed into a corner where their worldview, for example,

00:19:46.260 where Michael Knowles has to make the choice, is my worldview wrong?

00:19:50.880 and I you know I don't know if these guys it's because of they're lying intentionally or

00:19:57.540 unintentionally I can only speculate but you get to a point where you realize that

00:20:05.500 they either want to be right so bad that they can't be honest or um they're lying to get money

00:20:15.460 and they're not being honest with the audience.

00:20:18.280 When I was young, I watched a lot of Daily Wire content.

00:20:22.080 I did.

00:20:23.340 And I thought traditionalism was coming back.

00:20:29.940 I really did.

00:20:31.320 But it's gone.

00:20:32.460 It's dead.

00:20:33.000 We are not going back to the 1950s.

00:20:36.040 Now, what happens is a lot of people will tell me,

00:20:40.240 well, why don't we fight?

00:20:41.820 Why don't we fight back?

00:20:42.960 and what tends to happen when you're a youtuber is you get in these really heated debates and

00:20:51.160 you're debating people and you start arguing about the way things should be and because you're telling

00:20:57.140 off these people you kind of feel like you're doing something you have the audience applauding

00:21:01.920 to you you but Andrew Tate had the whole world applauding to him and he spent a year in prison

00:21:11.040 influencers do not have the political impact that you might think

00:21:19.220 now the next thing is well pearl you should fight it and convince women to be better

00:21:26.220 and what i can say is

00:21:31.680 that's impossible that is an impossible what women are not logical so they're not like men

00:21:39.540 where they're going to see the consequences of their actions

00:21:43.100 and immediately make a better decision, right?

00:21:46.040 The other thing was when I interviewed women,

00:21:49.200 there would be women that seemed to have a change of heart.

00:21:54.060 And what happened was they would still do the same thing.

00:22:03.060 Now, you kind of get into a corner where you have to think,

00:22:06.100 a lot of content creators get into this corner and what happens is instead of being honest they

00:22:15.260 say what people want them to hear and it would be way easier to just say all right guys traditionalism

00:22:22.760 is coming back all right guys women should get back in the kitchen women should and i have i

00:22:28.080 have said a lot of it but it's just it's I don't see it happening I don't and unfortunately and

00:22:40.140 this isn't what I wanted to be true I see especially men that do it the right way

00:22:47.000 that do it the traditional way I see them get completely destroyed and I see men especially

00:22:56.640 that do it the untraditional way get a happy wife and a family that's what i see an example of this

00:23:05.380 is there was a guy um his name is tucker max i think and i'm not even a huge reader but this guy

00:23:12.760 was one of the funniest authors i ever read and he just wrote about his hoe escapades

00:23:17.940 and he basically just ran through like probably a thousand women and at the end of it he did the

00:23:24.620 typical trad con talking point like dan bolzerian whatever oh it wasn't worth it it was so empty

00:23:30.180 but he goes through that and at the end now he has a farm in texas with a loving wife and kids

00:23:37.240 do you know who doesn't have a farm in texas with a loving wife and kids crowder

00:23:42.380 and i hate using him because actually i really he's a really good person i really like him but

00:23:47.740 there's no morality in dating.

00:23:52.960 There's not.

00:23:56.940 There are women that were complete whores in college.

00:24:00.960 I would say are more married than the prudes.

00:24:04.340 That's what I've seen.

00:24:08.540 And it makes sense when you think about it

00:24:10.460 because sex comes before relationships nowadays.

00:24:13.780 It makes sense.

00:24:14.320 um i you know i've talked to women that go on hinge dates or tinder dates or whatever and

00:24:20.800 they're virgins and they are trying to find a guy that's waiting till marriage

00:24:23.780 and i mean their two choices are and i'm being honest here guys they don't really aren't really

00:24:32.380 attracted to and the guys they are attracted to would just ghost them because they don't want to

00:24:40.040 weight guys with choice right um am i supposed to ignore the fact that i've shown women the material

00:24:57.780 and they get flown out by i i know one girl that got flown out by a billionaire that came on my

00:25:03.000 show a literal b billionaire you guys i would never say who but you'd never guess who it was

00:25:08.940 am i supposed to just ignore that and when you think about it from her her point of view

00:25:14.680 why wouldn't she go on the upside she could get access to a billion dollars on the downside she

00:25:21.040 could get ghosted and not called back but i mean you guys will accept it anyway like the men someone

00:25:29.880 will take her after or she can just lie and it would be so much easier for me to moralize and

00:25:38.100 say that's wrong that's wrong that's wrong but for what so I can look like a good person

00:25:45.600 I'd rather just be honest and say this is what's happening

00:25:51.280 am I supposed to ignore the fact that there's always a simp always the government simps and

00:25:59.960 bails them out we keep hearing about student loan forgiveness they raise our taxes and give more

00:26:05.600 government programs that bail women out. Bonnie Blue will most likely get married and have a

00:26:11.780 family. She'll probably have a son or two. And conservatives like Michael Knowles and

00:26:17.800 whatever that girl was that just came on, Lila Rose, will keep platforming whores over smart,

00:26:26.260 intelligent men. That's going to keep happening. Women will take over the churches.

00:26:30.740 and a lot of these conservatives are lying um they're pretending things will get better to

00:26:37.740 play on your heartstrings some I think have good intentions from the jump because you do think one

00:26:45.120 way but as I got more life experience and wisdom um I just I had to start seeing things for what

00:26:53.460 they are and I'm lucky I I got to this point now because I know people that are in their 40s and

00:27:00.320 50s and still are just starting to see things for the way that they are so

00:27:10.160 what do i see for the future i think we're going to see more older younger relationships on both

00:27:16.320 sides older women with younger men and older men with younger women sex work is going to become

00:27:23.040 way more common women are going to get way more slutty you're going to see less families and if

00:27:29.120 If you look outside, that's what I see.

00:27:30.980 You know, now there's all these huge, like, hobby communities that used to be for kids.

00:27:36.080 Like, when I was a kid, all the kids would do these dance communities.

00:27:40.460 All the kids would play sports.

00:27:42.080 It wasn't really an adult thing.

00:27:44.300 But now the adults are doing it.

00:27:50.940 Women will push marriage to 35 or 40 sometime in my life.

00:27:55.120 There's going to be more autistic children because of old eggs and smartphones.

00:28:00.260 Technology is coming, and it's not going away.

00:28:02.480 Most people will be socially awkward.

00:28:05.700 There's going to be more long-distance relationships because people meet online.

00:28:10.100 The people that do not adapt will be left behind.

00:28:14.220 Women will have a larger ability to ruin men's reputation because of social media,

00:28:20.800 And that will be a form of power women already have, but will continue to have.

00:28:25.680 The new virginity is going to be going into marriage without a kid.

00:28:29.740 Most kids will be born outside of marriage.

00:28:33.880 That's what I see for the future.

00:28:35.640 Now, before I want to be completely nihilistic, I do want to say I do see a silver lining.

00:28:42.840 I do.

00:28:43.000 women are doing exactly what they want and being exactly who they are i think there is less

00:28:56.120 deception gone are the days where women stay behind behind their husbands who they actually

00:29:03.580 hate when i did interviews i interviewed so many women whose traditional mothers told them not to

00:29:12.600 do what they did their so-called traditional mothers that stayed married to their husbands

00:29:17.580 for a lifetime secretly hated their fathers and completely poisoned the well for the daughters

00:29:23.140 there's no hiding that anymore there's no reason to stay

00:29:28.280 the days of women sticking it out with men they hate are gone

00:29:34.180 the women will just bounce meaning that the only marriage that is left is two people that really

00:29:41.240 love each other most people will never get this kind of love but I do believe that the people

00:29:47.540 that do stay together despite society and the world pushing them apart have a stronger love

00:29:54.340 than the people than the people in the past because now there is no reason for people to stay

00:30:02.220 unfortunately most of this unfortunately most people will never get that but it is nice to

00:30:09.400 know that it does exist. In a way, you also have the option to be free from women. There's no nagging,

00:30:17.000 no degrading. A scorned wife is much worse than no wife. Peace and silence is better than a wife

00:30:26.260 that makes you feel lonely. Now men don't have to die in war. Many day-to-day problems are solved.

00:30:33.640 You can get Uber Eats, there's going to be sex bots, dildos.

00:30:38.240 Yeah, it's kind of weird, but you can focus on your hobbies more than your parents or your grandparents.

00:30:44.800 Feminism has freed women from the kitchen and freed men from their traditional responsibilities as well.

00:30:51.180 Guys don't have to hear man up, do the right thing anymore.

00:30:54.400 That's the world we're living in.

00:30:55.640 society and women can no longer shame you into sacrificing your mental emotional physical and

00:31:01.720 monetary health from anything that doesn't benefit you and my final point is nothing is worse in life

00:31:11.000 than failed expectation so i think people are more disappointed that go into marriage expecting it to

00:31:25.080 the work. People that go in and say, you know what? I think we'll be together forever. There's

00:31:31.840 no reason to think of it not working. But I would rather be honest and manage people's expectations

00:31:41.640 than have you guys come back to me in a decade and say, screw you. I thought the world was going

00:31:47.040 to be something different so i want you guys to call in um and tell me why should i have hope

00:31:56.760 why why should i expect something different is there data i'm not seeing

00:32:04.660 and i do want to say one thing about data

00:32:10.440 the first level of it has to match what I see in the real world

00:32:18.220 so is there something maybe you're seeing that I'm not seeing

00:32:22.360 should I expect something different

00:32:29.480 so yeah I mean I don't know if I call it black pill because I think I can have a great life

00:32:37.320 and I think you can have a great life,

00:32:39.660 I think that life begins at the other end of this.

00:32:45.240 Because when you're at the other end of this,

00:32:47.080 you realize you cannot change the world.

00:32:49.480 You can control the things you can control.

00:32:51.740 And you can focus on the things that impact your immediate life.

00:32:56.840 So let's put the link in the chat, Doug MPA.

00:32:59.880 You can get on the line.

00:33:00.960 um i think that life begins on the other end of black pill because then you don't have any

00:33:12.220 expectations if you get kids get them if you don't you don't if you find love you find it

00:33:17.200 you don't you don't nothing is worse in life than going in thinking one the world is one way when

00:33:26.040 it's not. If you go in and you know five years in your wife's going to stop sleeping with you,

00:33:33.300 you can just start cheating. Find wife number two. You cannot put the house in your name and

00:33:38.840 expect her to try to take the house. You can only rent. You won't put things aside to make her happy

00:33:48.320 because she's just going to leave later most likely.

00:33:56.040 but call in call him maybe i'm yeah oh that's the other thing i want to put in one more thing

00:34:04.280 people say but pearl like things will world war three will start and women will get back in the

00:34:10.600 kitchen well if that were true then you wouldn't have seen the ukrainian women

00:34:21.960 having sex with the soldiers on the other side

00:34:27.580 world war three women are not going back to their kitchen they're going to a party city

00:34:34.920 and i don't think you know and remember life is short the amount of time it takes for a society

00:34:45.280 to fully decline it may happen when i'm older but

00:34:51.120 you know when is this crumbling going to happen and do i really want to

00:34:58.460 should we really plan for a crumble immediately

00:35:02.060 and what if it happens in 20 years

00:35:07.880 okay you can maybe your kids and your grandkids life

00:35:15.920 doug mp are you on the line i am here how are you doing i'm good how are you

00:35:21.840 i'm good you know the show's been a long time coming you know i was looking through all of

00:35:27.440 the comments on a couple of your videos and people started to know you're black pill you're nihilistic

00:35:35.200 and um the thing about it is is um men we're creatures of action we're we're decisive

00:35:45.280 We're cost benefit calculators. And so people think that if you're black pill, it's just going

00:35:51.620 to lead to men doing nothing. And that's not true. Society still has to exist. And we're never going

00:35:56.960 to be able to squash that imperative that men have to do for others. Remember, you always say

00:36:03.360 it, Pearl, men are benevolent, women are not. Right. And so if you are a black pill or nihilistic,

00:36:10.820 All you're doing is just giving men the proper knowledge to be able to make a good decision when they decide to do something.

00:36:18.700 See, women think that men are going to react to reality and the truth like they would.

00:36:24.240 A lot of women use reality as an excuse to not do something or to not act or to bitch and moan and complain.

00:36:32.660 But men are the opposite.

00:36:33.760 Men are going to act regardless.

00:36:35.480 so being quote unquote black pill nihilistic on the men's side it's not a bad thing it's not

00:36:43.820 example we can tell us red pillers we can tell all the men all day long don't get married

00:36:51.840 and in my lifetime the majority of men are still going to get married we can tell them all we want

00:36:59.340 don't have children because they're going to get taken away from you in divorce court

00:37:02.920 majority court and the majority of men are still going to have children but with people like

00:37:07.940 yourself pearl you're just letting them know if you make a decision this is where you're going to

00:37:12.860 end up and there's going to be a lot more men who are going to be ready for when it happens example

00:37:18.000 like you said if you get married with your first wife don't buy a house with your first wife guys

00:37:24.520 don't do it maybe your second one but not your first one because odds are in seven years she

00:37:30.780 to divorce you and try to take it from you so just rent you know what i'm saying you can prepare

00:37:36.700 yourself for this stuff huh put stuff in your mom's name or your dad's name yeah yeah but guys men we

00:37:44.620 are creatures of action this nihilistic attitude this black pill it's not going to stop men for

00:37:50.700 from doing what's necessary for society to run and to be successful what do you think about that

00:37:58.940 yeah i think men are still i mean i do think you're gonna see men drop out but i mean men

00:38:05.620 they still have to eat yeah you know they're still gonna do the jobs but um i do think you're

00:38:13.140 gonna see like the quality decrease over time of just like i called this place i was on the phone

00:38:19.360 and i asked them to like email me their address or like text me their address so i just because

00:38:25.940 i was driving and they i couldn't believe they were like no we can't do that i'm like what do

00:38:31.780 you mean you can't i don't know i've just noticed the customer service has like gone down so much

00:38:39.120 over time where i'm like 10 15 years ago like if you said jump it would be like how high and now

00:38:45.940 i'm like you can't even email me an address well the the cough cough in 2020 really ruined things

00:38:52.580 the customer service industry

00:38:55.600 and the restaurant industry

00:38:56.480 has not recovered from 2020.

00:39:00.000 And you see certain industries

00:39:02.860 like nursing, serving,

00:39:05.560 where you have people,

00:39:06.840 especially women,

00:39:07.920 who go into these customer service industries

00:39:10.740 expecting not to deal with people

00:39:12.540 or not having people skills.

00:39:14.960 Like, in fact,

00:39:16.040 I may have to get a reaction ready for you,

00:39:18.140 but there are these Gen X

00:39:21.100 and millennial nurses saying that gen z nurses are crazy because they just want they become

00:39:27.980 nurses to get the bag and for the prestige but they don't want to see patients as your primary

00:39:33.260 job is seeing patients what are you on tick tock complaining about seeing patients for it's crazy

00:39:39.820 yeah no and you see that a lot like the women so let's um let's bring up callers okay

00:39:52.540 i'm gonna bring in a couple of new people i haven't seen overlord are you there

00:39:58.060 guys make sure to like the stream subscribe you got us a 2 million we're on the road to

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00:40:21.220 always good to see you and thank you for all the people in the audacity chat overlord are you there

00:40:26.160 it says connecting to audio overlord i'll have to bring you back in wait it says okay there he is

00:40:35.280 overlord are you there i'm gonna read a super chat while he gets his audio figured out um joel

00:40:43.740 says i this is on the website you do get unlimited super chats on the website by the way guys they

00:40:48.580 took us off the app store i don't know why um we're having issues getting into the account so

00:40:54.920 I've heard the complaints about it being taken off the app store.

00:40:58.840 We're trying to fix it.

00:41:01.380 So just bear with us.

00:41:03.000 I don't know why they took us off.

00:41:04.980 I paid to follow you for a reason.

00:41:06.340 You helped me interpret my own history of relationships and form my opinions for my children.

00:41:11.820 Thank you so much, Joel.

00:41:13.340 Men are problem solvers.

00:41:14.740 Women are problem finders.

00:41:18.180 Did he figure out his audio?

00:41:20.520 No.

00:41:20.840 i can see him talking but he he doesn't have a particular guys please make sure that you

00:41:27.260 don't have the youtube running in the background um when you unmute it really slows down the show

00:41:32.520 so we really want to try to stop with that and even if you disagree with me feel free to call in

00:41:38.740 um but please make sure um your camera doesn't have to be on because we have we haven't had

00:41:45.380 anybody troll or do anything that may change in the future but at this size i think it's fine

00:41:50.420 um but yeah avid are you there avid you're on mute yes hello can you hear me there you are

00:42:00.540 hey how's it going good how are you i'm doing wonderful so what do you got for me why should

00:42:08.120 i have hope well i think that this is a consciousness problem from male consciousness

00:42:18.500 to female consciousness and we're thinking about the type of women that we surround ourselves with

00:42:24.360 versus the type of men we surround ourselves with so women these days don't want to get married

00:42:29.540 why why did they want to get married 100 years ago versus today because of what they want to

00:42:35.720 achieve and i think the mentalities are mixed up i think um i think through time of people starting

00:42:45.120 to understand i think time giving it people people starting to understand through time

00:42:53.040 that women will eventually come around and realize that they don't need to be independent and be like

00:42:59.420 men i think it's switched around i don't know why women are trying to become men and i don't

00:43:05.640 know why men are trying to become women what's your timeline what's your timeline on them realizing

00:43:11.740 this well between five to ten years realistically come on because we're working on it do you think

00:43:25.020 no we're working on it i mean i wish it would be sooner but realistically do you think it's more

00:43:30.720 likely that women will do sex work or become wives in the next five to ten years well you

00:43:36.560 what i started thinking about is men how much they crave women i might make a little bible reference

00:43:43.440 do you know in the bible it says that i'll make your i'll make eve the eve and adam and eve and

00:43:48.480 i'll make your husband you have to lower over your husband and women have to follow their husband

00:43:52.640 and nonsense but in my point of view all these men chase after women and it's the guy that has

00:43:58.400 an adam apple stuck in their throat so what if it was backwards and that's why all these men are

00:44:03.520 lured over by these women and they look at their bodies i'm like oh my god i'll do anything for

00:44:07.840 this girl i'll do anything for that you know what else i started thinking about what happens when

00:44:11.420 sex robots come out and they don't need a vagina i hate i'm sorry for saying yeah but women i don't

00:44:18.340 want to say terms like that women women have dildos correct so i started also thinking about

00:44:24.060 like i don't have a vagina but i have a rectum and i have a smaller penis i would say about four

00:44:31.540 inches and I was I started feeling bad about it's like man if I have a small penis do women not

00:44:36.340 like that then I was thinking to myself I have a rectum let me just try putting a little finger in

00:44:41.620 my butt I'm like oh my god this is painful this hurts yeah buddy no thanks sorry man

00:44:50.260 sorry bro I had to cut that short I don't know what that guy was talking about

00:44:53.940 he he's talking about no man we're not going to have that it's just not sorry in fact let me

00:44:59.860 removing like what are you why would you tell me that like why would you tell me that you're

00:45:06.980 putting your fingers up okay yeah sorry guys that's not gonna fly here trolling will not be

00:45:16.660 be tolerated guys sorry nope okay who are some other people i'm gonna hop on in about 15 to 20

00:45:23.620 minutes if you're still alive and i will tell you why you should still have hope you know what

00:45:29.860 oh no he he's gone glenn whenever you come back i'll bring you on okay all right

00:45:37.520 lost boy are you there lost boy

00:45:45.120 lost boy i can see you on your camera but i can't hear you

00:45:51.960 you guys gotta get your sound figured out i think you maybe hit join but you didn't hit

00:45:59.480 joined with computer audio so you might have to drop off and come back in because i can see you

00:46:05.420 you can test your audio before you get on stream guys we really we really got to work on this as a

00:46:11.400 chat because it kind of decreases the quality when we all right i'm taking him out and then

00:46:17.240 there's someone that says uh 813-727-8616

00:46:23.680 i don't 813 don't read it might be a phone number okay sorry well uh who else

00:46:40.880 uh next up we have esteban hey what's going on man hey how are you i can't complain how

00:46:51.520 you guys been hey doug and p i need to get your email man there's some things i really want to

00:46:56.880 talk with you about and i i know uh we've been playing cat and mouse but i really need your

00:47:01.840 email brother yeah you could do doug at at the audacity network yeah yeah can we do that a

00:47:10.160 different time um so sure sure yeah yeah i was just saying yeah yeah so why should i why should

00:47:15.760 i have hope well um i'm gonna sound very contradictory here because i'm gonna quote

00:47:24.240 unquote be talking out of both sides of my mouth okay um please just like two minutes or less all

00:47:32.400 right? Okay, well, you as a fit, feminine, come from a stable, nuclear, two-parent, family home

00:47:50.440 that's not a thought or a 304, more than likely doesn't have a high body count,

00:47:59.860 you should have hope as a woman as a white woman too um so you as an individual and women that fit

00:48:12.860 at least some if not all of the things that i just mentioned about you should have hope

00:48:20.240 because you have your you have options right but i'm talking about for society

00:48:29.860 Okay. Well, that's why I said women that fit the same or have some of the same descriptors that I just mentioned with you, they should also have hope.

00:48:40.800 The problem is, is the reason now, the reason why you shouldn't have hope is because women with your descriptors are being led astray or having bad influence, you know, on what this, because society is turning darker by the minute.

00:48:58.500 and it's, it's women that have the descriptors that I just mentioned for you

00:49:06.120 that have the choices that should have hope. Um, they don't. And that's because,

00:49:15.340 you know, they're under the influence, call it social media. I just think it's just wicked,

00:49:22.140 evil, and demonic. That's just me personally, because there should be hope, but I realize that

00:49:31.680 there's not. And so I just think, you had mentioned something earlier about marriage is going to be

00:49:43.020 less and women are going to do more sex work. I actually disagree. I think marriage is still

00:49:49.560 going to relatively stay the same, but it's not going to be love. And there's probably going to

00:49:57.280 be a lot of loveless, not probably, I think there's going to be a lot of loveless, sexless,

00:50:04.980 non-committed, non-faithful marriages. That's just what I think is going to happen. I don't

00:50:16.320 necessarily think marriage is going to go away because men are going to want to, because men

00:50:23.320 still believe that having a functional society, even non-trad or even non-religious slash faith-based

00:50:35.540 men and women still believe that having a functional society, at least mostly men,

00:50:41.720 Do you think the marriage rate's going to go up or down?

00:50:44.880 i think it's going to stay about the same okay do you think the age of first marriage is going

00:50:50.840 to go up or down i think that will slightly increase yes do you think people will have

00:50:56.820 more kids no because and that's been on a downward trend for a while so you think it'll keep going

00:51:03.540 down for certain demographics yes do you think that the establishment do you think that the

00:51:12.420 government is going to

00:51:14.380 take any of the legal advantages

00:51:18.620 in power that women have over men away?

00:51:24.080 I think

00:51:25.440 no, they're not.

00:51:28.540 So what's

00:51:30.420 this hope thing that you're talking about?

00:51:33.180 Because at least

00:51:34.380 men are speaking up.

00:51:36.220 And people like Pearl are

00:51:37.640 few and far between.

00:51:40.480 Even some women are

00:51:42.060 speaking up so at least the issues are being brought to light i'm just saying that's better

00:51:49.180 than nothing do you but you don't see it equating to policy change not as fast or as concrete there

00:52:03.580 may be some things here or there yeah but nothing with real teeth in the long run no

00:52:12.060 I think there might be a few kind of throw them a bone kind of things here and there, but nothing that has real teeth that's going to bring about real solid change.

00:52:27.420 I don't think there will be mandatory DNA testing.

00:52:31.560 I don't think that there will be the end of no fault divorce.

00:52:35.400 I don't think that there will ultimately be real punishment for what is essentially, you know, when women falsely accuse men of crime they didn't commit.

00:52:50.620 We already have books on the law.

00:52:52.420 It's called perjury.

00:52:53.260 It's just that nobody wants to actually enforce it.

00:52:56.340 So you're kind of making my case for not having hope.

00:53:01.680 Like I said, I'm going to sound contradictory.

00:53:04.200 like I said, at least these issues are being brought up.

00:53:07.200 So that's why there's a sliver of hope.

00:53:10.200 These issues were not even spoken about.

00:53:13.200 So even speaking about them,

00:53:16.200 again, I'm not saying get your hopes up too high.

00:53:19.200 I don't think we should,

00:53:21.200 but I'm saying this is better than,

00:53:24.200 this is better than zero.

00:53:28.200 And so the fact that they're even being spoken about

00:53:32.200 and at least we'll be getting some attention now i'll just say this and then i'll land my plane

00:53:38.660 um gotta land i think that this community gets a bad rap with the whole red pill black pill what

00:53:48.140 have you because it just looks like angry men okay and even when that's not the case even when

00:53:56.040 we're speaking logic and facts it just looks like it's just a bunch i meant they label us incels

00:54:01.760 and i'm sure you're aware of that so well yeah okay thank you very much for calling in calling

00:54:08.020 anytime okay have a good one okay um we had an anonymous donation for the divorce documentary

00:54:15.280 100 bucks thank you so much nice and also thank you to our top donation this week um aaron he

00:54:21.580 spent over a thousand dollars for the divorce documentary we're four hundred dollars away from

00:54:26.360 the 30k mark so thank you guys i do appreciate it kiana you're up next kiana you're on mute

00:54:35.880 kiana can you hear me yes we can hi thanks for having me hi pearl hey how's it going great how

00:54:45.880 are you good where you sound midwest am i right i'm not east coast no i did just

00:54:53.720 Not even close. I did spend just recently a week in the Midwest, but I'm from Nevada.

00:55:01.540 Gosh, I've been so bad recently. All right. So what do you think? Why should I have hope?

00:55:09.160 Why should you have hope? I mean, it's clear that you have a level of hope because you're having

00:55:14.120 these discussions with the public. And so that means that you're hoping that either you can

00:55:19.540 discuss these things with people who are like-minded or maybe lead other people to feel differently

00:55:23.840 about the modern times. And so it's important to have hope because if you live in a fear state of

00:55:29.520 mind or in a doomed state of mind, you more than likely won't do anything because you feel like

00:55:34.820 you're damned to whatever that situation might be. So we have to continue to have hope and do what we

00:55:41.520 can when we can. If we can do something, then we should. And if it's as big or small as having

00:55:49.180 conversations with others and hope that maybe you can you know maybe change something or let other

00:55:55.740 people see another perspective or you know that might be the only perspective they have you have

00:56:00.600 the opportunity to even just open the door for them so having hope is i feel is really important

00:56:04.940 how effective do you think conversations are at changing trends

00:56:12.400 so changing trend the thing is with that is that you have to have the conversation with a lot of

00:56:19.840 people a lot of times and i think that's why um podcasts like yours and the whatever podcast and

00:56:26.960 these different podcasts they get so much traction with people and get them to at least come in and

00:56:32.320 listen and then whatever's intended for that person to have that moment with they they may

00:56:38.000 or may not they might see it and be like that's silly at first but then maybe if they listen to

00:56:44.400 things and different types of conversations with different people something might click with them

00:56:49.840 but how do we how do we how do we measure that what stat are we going to say this podcasting

00:56:57.120 changed that stat i mean it's clear that obviously social media is has in general changed things and

00:57:04.480 and that's people having micro conversations and associating with each other, maybe in not such

00:57:10.020 long format, but you can tell it's different, definitely affecting just like, you know, 304

00:57:15.460 culture, the tidbits of it that people see on social media definitely affect people. So I think

00:57:21.540 long format, how so when 1.4 million women between 18 to 25 are on OnlyFans? How is it convinced?

00:57:31.840 And what I was saying with that, that even though that's a negative, I'm saying that clearly that's

00:57:37.540 affected people because it's normalized it in a sense. Now, if we made it the commonality that

00:57:43.540 we're speaking about traditional families and we put a higher level of shame on those things on

00:57:49.620 average, it would probably be the opposite. But now we've come into a culture where if you say

00:57:54.720 something, then that's you judging that person. And who are you to judge that person if you're

00:58:00.380 not God. It's more so we just have a standard. That's like being mad at someone for having

00:58:05.440 a standard for something when you know the standard is for generally the betterment of

00:58:09.900 everyone. You can't control everyone, but you definitely can. If that's the norm, as we've

00:58:16.520 seen in the past, that was more of the norm. That was not how it is now that most people tended to

00:58:22.340 lean towards that. They may not totally immerse themselves in a traditional view, but they have a

00:58:27.280 lot of things that would be rooted in it. And I think that's the problem is that so much of the

00:58:31.240 media that's out there is open and proud of those things. Yeah. So I disagree. I think it's a cop

00:58:37.880 out to say it's like women being influenced by things. I think women are doing what they want to

00:58:43.720 do. And I could tell you this because I've actually done this. I've done the long conversations with

00:58:54.100 women i've done the sit downs i've interviewed a thousand and there was women i would take back

00:58:59.360 like after the show and i would think um oh the wheels are turning with this girl let me sit down

00:59:05.760 and explain this stuff and i'll and i would do really long one-on-one conversations it's actually

00:59:12.160 what blew my channel up and they did the same thing there's one girl that okay bouncer right

00:59:18.640 and then and also also i'm gonna push back about something that you said earlier kiana you said

00:59:23.760 that if there's something that can be done uh it should be done like you said if there's something

00:59:30.880 that can be done do it and that's the big because i always say nothing is more important to modern

00:59:38.480 women than their own selfish desires not their kids not family not country not god anything

00:59:46.320 right and modern women they're staring in the face what they should do to make things better

00:59:53.200 but they're not doing it and you can't make them do it you can't men that's understandable it's not

00:59:59.460 me it's not about making them do it and see that maybe maybe i portrayed that is like it's our job

01:00:05.020 to make them do it but it's just kind of like um i i know a lot of people aren't christians and

01:00:11.740 don't believe in God and things like that. But you plant the seed is you might not even be if

01:00:17.680 something were to happen to you may not even be able to see the seed come grow to fully and become

01:00:24.600 have fruits. But at the end of the day, you planted the seed and it might take a bunch of

01:00:29.840 other situations that go along with that seed to make that situation happen. It's not about us

01:00:36.860 making anybody do anything it's about us planting that seed and hoping that on their journey they'll

01:00:43.200 come into other things that will help that grow because you can't make them stop wanting to do

01:00:47.900 only fans you can't they have to figure that out with right um how they process things and people

01:00:53.500 what they want to do they want sure that's how that's how women get to get out of that's how

01:00:59.180 women keep like fooling you guys with the only fans hoes being christian speakers it's because

01:01:04.820 they like well they shouldn't be doing that anyway if you're saying like nala she shouldn't

01:01:09.020 be doing that anyway she hasn't even lived the lifestyle to truly know whether or not she should

01:01:13.300 be doing that wait wait so i i think people pick the seeds they want to pick so i i don't think it

01:01:21.520 like i think if somebody wants to lose weight then they'll go out and find the influencer the

01:01:27.340 information that'll help them lose weight because they're serious about it i i am not in control of

01:01:33.500 the trends and i can have hope for my future but i don't see any evidence that the media and these

01:01:42.280 conversations are doing any of the things you're saying they're like i don't see any evidence

01:01:46.500 they're planting any seeds because the birth rate's going down the marriage rate's going down

01:01:52.920 the age of first marriage is going up there's no data or even trend like trends that indicate

01:01:59.400 that's the way it's going well you can still i mean i mean i i've been watching you for a very

01:02:07.320 very long time i don't know how long you've been doing this in total but i'm sure that there are

01:02:14.200 plenty people in the chat right now who at maybe at the beginning of listening to you had completely

01:02:19.320 different views on certain topics and because you've talked through them and had show had the

01:02:24.680 shows that you've had can align more now than they might have done in the beginning and sometimes in

01:02:30.440 your lifetime you don't get to see the fruits of that labor do you understand what i'm saying so

01:02:36.200 i understand how it sounds i understand how you would think that but do

01:02:41.080 okay i'll give you an example do you know when the first men's rights group started

01:02:45.880 i don't but i would love to 1900 years ago okay so how is that gone yeah exactly

01:02:52.840 and yeah and pearls changing pearls changing perspectives and enlightening people that

01:03:01.800 doesn't enlightening someone doesn't always have to involve giving them hope i think that's kind

01:03:07.560 of what you're you're conflating i understand what i'm saying like you pearl has changed

01:03:13.560 perspectives and she's giving people essential knowledge but like you don't have to be hopeful

01:03:20.840 when you get new knowledge you just have to be able to make a better decision so i wouldn't just

01:03:25.720 automatically um associate new knowledge with hope and i think that's one of the mistakes that you're

01:03:31.400 making um it may not have essentially be providing them with hope but it's just like when um someone

01:03:39.800 goes to is there certain words we can't use like the the like chris like can we say that i know

01:03:45.960 so many platforms are weird about not corn if that's what you're saying but no no no no like

01:03:51.000 pri priz like when people go get sent to become felons i'll say that oh yeah yeah you can say

01:03:56.520 that you can say okay so it's like when someone goes to prison and then they get out of prison

01:04:01.000 and they change their lives around and they start mentoring others and they have conversations

01:04:05.640 with them and they show them um their actions that gives them hope that even though i lived this life

01:04:12.760 i have a chance and even though they might not make every single choice the proper way

01:04:19.560 they still feel like they have hope towards something better and that at least will give

01:04:24.440 them a little bit of momentum to progress further and maybe when they do finally progress further

01:04:30.200 because they genuinely feel like they have options they will teach someone else and they will the

01:04:36.120 next person and it'll just go down i don't know what the the prisoner has to do with the society

01:04:41.480 wide example so again i'm not talking about i'm not let me finish let me finish i'm not talking

01:04:48.840 about my individual life i'm not even talking about individual listeners but i do not have

01:04:55.880 the power to change trends i don't and no and any youtuber that's selling you that

01:05:03.640 they're selling you guys hope and i'm the one that's being honest and you don't know unless

01:05:09.960 you're a youtuber or work in the industry i'm you don't know you have no idea and i've i've been in

01:05:17.400 the field i've interviewed the people and i'm telling you youtubers do not if you want to rely

01:05:23.880 on what what changes policy is money and women have 80 of it so there's no incentive

01:05:33.320 for any of the policies to change or the decision making to change

01:05:36.760 And also, I'm going to talk about your prison example. I did an internship in undergrad where

01:05:46.200 I would speak to young men that were at juvenile hall. And the starting point wasn't, oh,

01:05:53.460 you're going to be a doctor or a lawyer one day. It's going to be, how about you not come back

01:05:57.780 here? How about that? Incarceration should be a successful deterrent from you committing other

01:06:05.340 crimes don't come back here is the it's a starting point when you have people that come from from

01:06:11.260 certain backgrounds or make certain choices one of the worst things you can do i think is try to

01:06:15.980 sell them that oh you're going to be a doctor one day no you're not no you're not telling them

01:06:22.780 they're going to be a doctor you can just tell them that they have options never other than go

01:06:28.060 committing crimes and going back to prison it doesn't need the option is like you're going to

01:06:32.060 to be the president the option is you don't want to be back in here but why do they why do they

01:06:38.020 feel morally motivated just not to go back to prison especially if they've gone multiple times

01:06:42.440 that might become a norm to them because more than anything wouldn't you say that it's like

01:06:47.020 if you embedded in them morally that that's not the person that they want to be then they have

01:06:51.320 a moral grounding for why they shouldn't go back to prison rather than you just don't want to be

01:06:55.800 here no it's it's because that's not the person i want to be in because i have those morals to stay

01:07:00.260 away from a place like this I'll find better so I have the hope not because you sold me the hope

01:07:06.520 but because you told me the reality that there's a possibility for me to do better and this is not

01:07:11.320 the person I want to be do you know what the best predictor of future behavior is

01:07:15.300 is past yeah so I even think having any hope for these criminals is like I've dealt with people

01:07:23.220 with addiction with whatever oh my god if you have any hope for them oh I had a cousin that

01:07:29.500 in and out of jail all the time and once again if we had hope that he wouldn't come back it would

01:07:34.780 have destroyed us oh my god no and also also also it's once again it's about steps the you gotta

01:07:43.740 talk to these you gotta talk to people where they're at okay and therefore i would say i'd

01:07:50.140 make them realize what they did to get in here and help them figure out steps as to how they're not

01:07:54.940 going to end up in here again because being in prison is stupid your whole life is going to go

01:08:00.380 by and you're going to be in this box a person who doesn't value their life why would they care about

01:08:06.060 that why would they care about being a doctor or a lawyer changing the world you don't you don't say

01:08:13.740 hey you made it out of prison guess what you can become a doctor it's not like that it's more so

01:08:18.620 like they need to have something morally grounded and a value for their own life so just telling

01:08:23.980 them like it's stupid for you to want to come back here because you're going to spend your life here

01:08:28.940 if they don't value themselves enough to care about going there in the first place like the

01:08:33.660 average person you don't need to go to prison to know you don't want to be there oh you'd be

01:08:38.700 surprised do you have you ever spoken to a criminal before i have i have how many have you spoken to

01:08:47.660 oh because i don't think you've talked to many you sound a little too optimistic to have had

01:08:52.220 conversations no no no i'm laughing i'm laughing because i do a lot of talks with people on tick

01:08:58.460 tock too not definitely not as many as probably because of course a lot of criminals would

01:09:04.860 probably be there you know wasting their time or doing whatever they're doing talk but like real

01:09:09.100 life conversations interacting with yeah i have um someone that i know that i've known for 15 years

01:09:16.220 they had a very very difficult life and watching them and their partner their partner who really

01:09:21.660 struggles to live a different life, and this person who's chosen to live their life completely

01:09:26.080 different and stick with it, and is now just kind of struggling to reintegrate into another level

01:09:32.420 of reintegration, them, yes, I've seen their path. I've asked them a lot of questions about it,

01:09:38.620 because when I was younger, I used to be like, why would you even do something like that that

01:09:42.100 would put you in jail? That's stupid. But if you don't value your own life, you're kind of like,

01:09:47.400 you don't care you're at the wheel of the car just driving insane because you don't care your

01:09:52.200 answers i'd like to believe you but i'm a little skeptical based on your answers and because and

01:09:58.360 pearl i would love you to i'd love for you to speak to this person if you'd like to i could

01:10:02.300 ask them at some point i don't i don't i know you don't care pearl but i'm just saying like hope is

01:10:09.320 not a bad thing i don't think selling hope is necessarily is a good thing like you shouldn't

01:10:14.020 be marketing like hope in that way um but it definitely is like if you're honest about things

01:10:20.700 and you have conversations with people it may not get every single person but the ones you can get

01:10:25.960 it matters yeah but i still would say that you're not discounting my original point which is society

01:10:35.260 the trend of society but it's like you keep bringing up individuals yeah and also pros

01:10:42.100 audience is men and one of the biggest differences between um pearl's viewpoint and yours kiana is

01:10:49.220 you you you sound like you talk to a lot of women no and you have that female optimistic

01:10:56.660 men can't afford to live like live life how you're talking we just can't do it

01:11:01.060 like that'll lead the type of hope that you want there to be have led men to getting their

01:11:07.220 children taken away from them all so i'm not talking about delusion it could be a small goal

01:11:14.260 if if a person comes out of prison and they or you said on on a macro scale okay i'm sorry i can't

01:11:21.620 i'm sorry guys i'm sorry like i was just thinking that type of nagging is what drives men to suicide

01:11:30.100 call in another time kiana but it it's been like 15 minutes of this hope strategy that you're

01:11:37.040 talking about go to your tiktok followers we're not them so guys make sure to like the video

01:11:43.300 subscribe if you haven't already and we're gonna have to sum it up it says i have a good answer

01:11:49.580 for this feel free to call in and guys i'm gonna make a new rule based on this one don't over talk

01:11:55.560 me look i'm not a this one's tough because i really i'm not a yeller i'm not i really like

01:12:04.280 to keep things light but i get pretty irritated if you call into my show and you keep trying to

01:12:11.420 over talk me it's i just find it annoying um so i'm just gonna i'm gonna give you guys one

01:12:17.500 one um warning and then we're just gonna kick you so yeah go ahead

01:12:24.780 that was the first person i had to boot ass uh my head sorry um okay so we're gonna bring up

01:12:33.120 shiv what's up buddy what's up hey shiv so why should i have hope tell me

01:12:44.120 um well you know there's gonna be all these like ai uh you know boyfriends out there and

01:12:53.280 there's going to be you're going to just be able to talk to a computer it'll be all of our

01:12:57.060 relationships it'll all be digital and uh a computer is not gonna you know uh screw up so

01:13:04.080 yeah chat gpt can be our boyfriends just you know accept our robot ai overlords and life will be

01:13:13.560 great sure what else just but i mean the truth is outside of that like honestly that's the only

01:13:22.880 thing i think there's hope for i i don't think there's hope in normal human relationship we're

01:13:28.000 gonna have a really cool pearl university sign up guys pearl invite.com yep yep yep well yeah but

01:13:37.520 that's that's really it it's it's i mean the craziest thing too is i i was uh talking to

01:13:45.440 like so i don't know if you know this but but when people get to their second or third divorce

01:13:50.720 numbers keep going higher at divorce rate so it's like that's kind of crazy to me that like people

01:13:55.840 get married get married again get married again and like the third marriage it's like 74 percent

01:14:00.620 of divorce rate on the third marriage and people still do it it's kind of a it's kind of a miracle

01:14:04.040 men are the true romantics really no we just we're the ones that have hope i don't get i don't know

01:14:11.500 why but we do it's kind of it's kind of crazy we're just so uh we're so positive no matter uh

01:14:17.740 everything being against us it's kind of it's kind of magic and there's ways that you can thrive

01:14:21.980 like you can max out your hinge profile and bang some baddies this month yeah yeah there's there's

01:14:28.620 ways you go ahead i i had a lot to say this i was in vegas for the last three days and uh

01:14:35.260 yeah it was uh it was great you know new i had a new wife every day

01:14:41.420 you know it's good yeah why have one wife when you could have a rotation you know that's what

01:14:45.980 i'm saying and this is the you know it doesn't mean you have to be sorrow and like cry about it

01:14:52.540 it just means you got to manage your expectations like shiv if you get married tomorrow you can

01:14:57.660 expect to be a single dad in your 40s that'll be fun for you but then i'll have my entire rest of

01:15:03.740 my life after that point so sounds great yeah well shiv has a trump card i told you he he has

01:15:11.420 a whole different culture that he could ship one in from and and probably get a solid five to seven

01:15:18.700 maybe 10 years right yeah yeah and and look if i have to import my wife i'll pay the trump tariffs

01:15:24.540 on it you know it's not it doesn't mean you gotta be nihilistic you just gotta you just

01:15:37.180 got to expect like if you get 10 years that's pretty good as long as she was a good wife for

01:15:41.500 10 years in this in this world think about like the iphones only like 15 years old so like 10

01:15:49.580 years is a long time like we didn't have smartphones like touchscreen smartphones

01:15:53.260 like 12 years ago you know what i mean so if i can get 10 years that's kind of like an eternity

01:15:59.020 if you think about it so yeah yeah cheers good stuff and if you're a woman like and you're like

01:16:05.500 oh no i'm gonna be a single mother just be like well there's always a simp don't worry

01:16:11.900 there is always a simp always so so don't it's never fear the simps are here

01:16:18.220 yeah there's there's uh simps and there's plastic surgery so things are a great combo

01:16:25.980 daniel um that means they're the problem yeah oh for sure i love i i love how uh one of the

01:16:34.060 comments here is like why would i go on hinge when there's a blonde that's free on the internet i'm

01:16:38.540 like what no hinge is where they're all at bro you can also get a list crawler yeah where's luffy

01:16:46.140 when you need them yeah dm on get on instagram and dm her a price say 100 bucks see if she bites

01:16:54.780 this is called adapting to the current society this is how it is out here on these streets

01:17:00.540 it's it's it's kind of crazy to think about that though like it's cheaper to go on list crawler

01:17:05.500 than like traditional dating a lot of the times so all men pay cga says yeah yep there you have it

01:17:14.300 all right we gotta we literally got like 15 callers waiting cool yeah you guys move you

01:17:19.180 can move on for me i just want to say hi hi buddy always good talking to you yep thanks for coming

01:17:23.820 all right i told glenn i bring him up next glenn's coming but we gotta keep it short because

01:17:31.420 we got literally like i think there's 20 people in here i knew this would be a hot one glenn what's

01:17:37.340 up buddy yo what's good you guys how you doing hey glenn how are you i'm doing good i just got

01:17:44.500 back from florida well what's going on why should i have hope okay you should have hope but not for

01:17:51.660 a good reason is because it's going to be a consequence all right um you know how history

01:17:58.020 repeats itself yeah well history is repeating itself all right and yeah i'm going to come at

01:18:06.980 it from more of like a biblical angle all right um i know i know you don't like it and this yeah

01:18:14.880 cool anyways i got it for you though all right so in isaiah 3 there was some shit going on

01:18:22.840 women were hoes it says that they were being haughty right and um with their outstretched

01:18:29.360 necks with jewelry all on it and they're you know nappy headed weaves and shit and um they were

01:18:35.600 jangling their you know their shit around um with some jewelry hanging from the ears to the nose to

01:18:42.220 the nipples to the ankles they were they were just they're being thoughts they were being the

01:18:46.740 modern day thought all right and see what had happened was it said because your women are your

01:18:54.500 rulers right and they rule over you right all these bad shit was about to happen okay what

01:19:02.000 happened all their all their good men died all the warriors died um the women end up getting

01:19:08.480 bald-headed and having like scabies they all look like um jada pickett smith like a dirty tennis

01:19:14.020 ball um they stunk right they got taken over by other kingdoms and it says you know isaiah 4 1

01:19:22.680 said at that time seven women will go to one man and beg them just to take their name and they will

01:19:30.640 feed themselves they will clothe themselves just as long as they hide them from their shame they

01:19:36.020 take away their shame so basically these hoes what's going to happen is they're going to ruin

01:19:40.820 society to the point where you know society is not going to be able to sustain itself we're going to

01:19:45.220 end up going to war because some dumb ho president is going to send us you know troops out there to

01:19:49.620 die and then you know all the good men are going to die off and then the men that are left over

01:19:57.860 um are these women are going to be like yo please take us as your wife please please

01:20:02.980 can i get a timeline for that glenn like when can i expect that when do i think that's gonna happen

01:20:08.500 yeah oh we're gonna be dead and gone before that shit okay like like our our children's children

01:20:16.240 may see that but um history does repeat itself if we don't learn from our mistakes your kids

01:20:23.980 aren't gonna have kids well i mean statistically some of us might i mean you know those that got

01:20:31.860 good-looking kids they got them good genes you know your those children might reproduce yeah

01:20:37.620 you're right now if you got like a ugly kid not happening

01:20:47.220 not happening and so there is hope what's going to be the hope is that

01:20:50.820 the fact that it's going to get to the point where it's going to be so bad that it's going

01:20:56.100 going to destroy itself and it's going to the women are going to have to go to the men and said

01:21:03.060 please take us forgive us of our shame you know we'll feed ourselves we'll clothe ourselves just

01:21:08.440 just just take the shame of being a independent hoe away from us and make us a married woman

01:21:15.400 right and that's going to be the reset there needs to be a reset button

01:21:22.020 and it's going to take where

01:21:24.380 society is destroyed

01:21:26.520 to where we end up having that reset button

01:21:29.080 so don't you agree for our lifetime

01:21:31.000 there's no hope

01:21:32.020 oh yeah

01:21:34.840 for our lifetime we may not see

01:21:37.100 the change we may not see

01:21:39.060 the change in our lifetime

01:21:40.440 and here's the thing there's going to be like what

01:21:42.900 over 30% or even more

01:21:45.040 women without kids

01:21:47.180 yeah so you get a lot of hoes to choose

01:21:49.080 from guys

01:21:49.740 hoes are gonna be hoes and here's the thing the the generations that are watching them

01:21:56.460 they're gonna watch them suffer they're gonna watch them you know not receive or achieve you

01:22:02.520 know the desired life that that they wanted and that will be the recourse for the younger

01:22:09.260 generations like you know what being like bonnie blue is not gonna really work out because it

01:22:14.960 doesn't end really well for her so i think it'll just inspire more yeah i i and there's always

01:22:21.220 going to be a there's always going to be a sub category of women they're going to be like yeah

01:22:25.740 that sounds like great let me go try to get 10,001 dicks um but i think there's also going to be the

01:22:31.960 majority is going to be like uh maybe not a good idea but okay you know guys we can't complain i've

01:22:40.980 seen zero evidence of that happening in my lifetime let me see here things we can't complain i don't

01:22:46.380 know why any guys are complaining right now we have the women that we created

01:22:51.260 really do you know how many girls i told that sweet nothings to like oh girl in your body

01:23:00.720 county won't matter i'm just gonna you know you'll pray and ask jesus forgive us later

01:23:05.060 you know i'm saying like do you know how many times that worked

01:23:08.360 yeah but like most guys don't get to do that

01:23:14.820 you'd be surprised what most guys will say

01:23:18.180 just trying to get some ass

01:23:19.400 most guys don't even

01:23:24.280 get the chance to say that to them

01:23:26.100 well back in our day

01:23:28.880 okay back in our day

01:23:30.320 it worked so that's what I'm saying

01:23:32.720 we have the women that we created

01:23:34.120 the previous generations of men

01:23:35.780 contributed or i don't think so i think women created themselves no they do but men encourage

01:23:45.220 it look you don't think guys were asking women to get some ass back in the day like we were

01:23:49.840 always trying to get some ass back in the day we weren't trying to wife them up we were trying to

01:23:55.320 one-night them yeah but there were guys there were there were guys that wanted to wife them up

01:24:02.540 and the women like just don't pick them yeah because remember those are those guys met in

01:24:09.620 college or at work until like the 2000s i think it was like 2000 by 2006 when that changed but

01:24:16.860 how many of them were okay this is kind of going off topic anyways i really just want to stick to

01:24:22.300 in our lifetime is there any hope oh in our lifetime no we will not see any changes and

01:24:27.340 know what in any type of great recourse or change in society most people do not see that in their

01:24:33.740 lifetime yeah so i can just think it'll happen when i die okay thanks glenn calling anytime okay

01:24:43.340 okay all right i'm gonna try man we have a lot of people yeah okay i'm gonna try this random person

01:24:51.260 it says calling user two all right guys we got a lot of callers um wait who calling user two

01:25:01.900 can you hear me yeah what do we call you you can just call me 27 that's what i put you as a

01:25:10.780 as a user um so what do you think why should i have hope

01:25:14.460 well if you if we were to well you particular pearl i think it's a little bit different for

01:25:23.120 you because you are a woman and you know as a man we all know we're born without value

01:25:30.480 especially me when i started you know my early 20s it was incredibly difficult to get laid

01:25:35.060 and as i grew my career and in my path and journey

01:25:40.740 uh are you there

01:25:49.380 hello i can't he's sorry guys we have too many calls for that guys please get your audio figured

01:25:56.420 out we're we're booting today if you don't have it figured out we're just booting um okay i'm gonna

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01:26:26.660 for keeping it classy in the chat chris your audio is connecting chris your audio is connecting

01:26:33.940 okay now there's a check mark chris you there yeah how's my audio good hi chris um so what

01:26:41.620 do you think of the topic why should i have hope so while i was waiting and you were talking to all

01:26:48.500 all those other hopeful souls uh which to be honest kind of sapped what was left of mine

01:26:54.880 honestly i think about listening to these people it's like this is why we're in the

01:27:01.420 place that we're at people are so pathetic and it's harsh but i mean we live in a harsh world

01:27:08.660 right like uh the the fact is you said it uh while i was waiting and it reminded me of a quote that i

01:27:16.300 really like and and the quote goes never overestimate your ability to change the world

01:27:22.260 never underestimate your ability to change yourself so i think that i have i have no hope

01:27:29.600 in society to be honest with you but i i do have hope in myself like i i i can see the light in uh

01:27:37.280 small positives and i like i don't live a depressed life but i think i would if i actually

01:27:44.880 wanted something good out of society or or or expected anything good out of like

01:27:50.720 anything but myself and like the small circle of people around me yeah i agree i think um

01:27:57.840 the cool thing is with the internet you can improve a lot of things you can find answers to

01:28:03.140 stuff and you can make your life pretty cool but women are gonna women you know so i like what

01:28:10.440 jordan pearson they asked him why do young people always um you know grab onto these large issues

01:28:18.240 like saving the environment or these or these idiots that are um are sitting in on ivy league

01:28:25.040 college campuses for what's going on in the sandbox over there and he said it's because

01:28:29.700 when you're young you just don't have a lot of value and you can't do much so they want to feel

01:28:36.420 important by latching onto these large colleges these large causes because dealing with their

01:28:42.500 own insignificance is too much and i think that what's going on in society is that times a thousand

01:28:48.680 i think one of the best things you can do is shorten your circle and focus on your issues

01:28:54.460 and that's it right yeah and honestly it's like uh i love this kind of content i i also happen to

01:29:02.380 love women they're great to look at and they become more and more entertaining all the time

01:29:07.980 uh i i think that women are definitely cooked as far as taking them seriously

01:29:13.900 uh the decisions that they make even so early on they put themselves in a position where

01:29:19.580 they're no good to a man long term uh they don't even realize it and by the time any of them

01:29:25.660 actually do it's like so beyond repair plus they probably already start damaging another generation

01:29:32.620 at that point so like i'd say we're multiple generations away from any real change i would

01:29:39.100 not be hopeful that that would be happening in my lifetime but again i'm still enjoying

01:29:45.100 like watching everything burn and like i mean as a as a near middle-aged man like it's never been

01:29:52.860 so easy to get sex i look a little bit younger than my actual age and yeah i mean there are

01:30:00.540 times when you'll meet somebody and you'll think wow she seems nice or nicer than a lot of the

01:30:05.420 women you meet but it literally only takes a couple of meetings to figure out how she has

01:30:11.180 also kind of falling into some of the bs that yeah we have going on over here yep yep all right

01:30:18.380 all right chris well thank you for calling in buddy we have full call lines that was pretty

01:30:22.300 funny so thank you okay no problem thank you guys for having me it was uh it was it was cool to do

01:30:27.820 this it's nice to know that my audio actually works yeah yeah call anytime the only one i swear

01:30:33.580 guys audio youtube off in the background please god just be like chris you did good okay next up

01:30:44.740 we have the guy who's ninja hey can you hear me hey how are you i'm doing well thank you how about

01:30:54.260 yourself i'm good um so tell me why should i have hope for society so i think your hope for society

01:31:05.220 is going to honestly be placed in doing what you're already doing um you're already on the

01:31:12.760 right path to go ahead and bring things up uh just making it known that repetitive communication is

01:31:22.440 going to be what is ultimately going to start to, I don't want to say radicalize, but just make

01:31:29.520 people more aware of how things are. I predict it'll start to change, nothing dramatic enough,

01:31:39.580 but within five to 10. And then probably about 20 years out is when we'll see the full shift of

01:31:46.660 you know people wanting to get back to being more altruistic for society and their communities

01:31:54.900 what do you what specific stat are we going to see change like is it the birth rate the marriage

01:32:00.720 rate and let's talk about women because like i said before earlier women know what they what

01:32:07.480 what they ought to be doing to change things but they're choosing to to not do it go right right

01:32:15.000 So with women, they do have a tendency to follow as men create their own spaces.

01:32:22.440 So I would say we're going to start to the stat we're going to see is most likely in a faith-based type of like currently you can kind of see little echoes of things of people saying that they're going to Orthodox churches or more Catholic type things.

01:32:37.880 and that's where we're going to start to kind of see that pivotal point in the five to ten

01:32:44.340 is there's just going to start to be more pockets of that starting to show attendance has declined

01:32:50.260 in the last decade true there there has definitely been a lot like when we're talking about like

01:32:57.040 protestant stuff a lot of people are leaving that in droves but you're starting to see

01:33:01.300 i think it was like gen z and alpha start to become more orthodox in the u.s has generally

01:33:07.140 declined with a noticeable drop in the post-pandemic period also declined and then also 45 to 33

01:33:16.900 over the past two decades according to 2024 gallup poll you're starting to see muslim islamic

01:33:24.180 feminists bro it's just a matter of every in the next 20 30 years every religious institution

01:33:30.420 is going to have feminism every single one of them except the amish women make up 80 percent

01:33:35.380 of consumer buying decisions true how will the churches keep the lights on without pandering to

01:33:41.480 the female dollar how i i think that's part of where it's going to be the the men are going to

01:33:50.220 be a little bit more radicalized and that after the 10-year mark like there's going to just be

01:33:55.020 pockets of men that are like this is a holy bullshit i'm sorry yeah like i think it'll be

01:34:02.820 A new survey says for every 100 new Catholics, 800 people leave the church.

01:34:09.420 Sorry, go ahead.

01:34:10.940 No, no, I do believe that a lot of people are seeing the, like you talked about, the feminism reach into the church at this point, and that's kind of what's pushing a lot of people out.

01:34:23.440 But there are still currently smaller pockets of people starting to become more, like, orthodox.

01:34:31.100 and and i i've even seen some people talk about it in the sense of it's called catholicism but

01:34:37.340 i i do believe that it's like i'm 40 i'm not going to see this until i'm like 60 to 65 and

01:34:45.500 i i don't have hope for myself in the sense of like being able to have more children because i

01:34:52.680 three kids but at the same time like more i'm i've i've kind of tapped out my my role with

01:34:59.780 The community that I help out with is to try and help men find some objective moralities versus just the subjective morality type stuff, and I think that's kind of where we're at with a lot of things is we see a lot of subject morality out there.

01:35:18.540 that's kind of what feminism is a lot about and as we start to get people to start realizing like

01:35:25.080 there is some objective morality and truth about how we maintain and do things we're gonna probably

01:35:31.080 see some change after like some true change after the five to ten for now it's just growing

01:35:37.260 is the way i see it yeah i i thanks for giving your opinion i do respectfully disagree i just

01:35:44.700 i don't think trends happen overnight and i think if that was going to happen we would see

01:35:50.220 some indication like church attendance going up which it's not people getting more religious

01:35:56.700 which they're not i understand the influencers make you want to like think that but i'm i'm

01:36:03.020 telling you if you got gen z like siblings kids they're not going to church true i i can understand

01:36:11.820 that like it it i think it's going to be on the individuals to help bring that about i think it's

01:36:20.700 still too small from where i'm going with it but yeah well thanks for calling in um doug mp you

01:36:27.100 got any other questions for him nope you know that you know i i know you're hopeful a lot of

01:36:33.140 the track cons are but you really got to look around man why you got to look around yeah yeah

01:36:39.440 i'm i'm doing my best to genuinely try and stay positive for hopefully my kids sake but i don't

01:36:46.240 know you can just but you can be positive and be like we're fucked you know yeah yeah

01:36:54.000 and if you're just talking about the people you care about and your kids that's fine just make

01:36:58.800 sure to put all your focus on them because pearl never said not to be hopeful for yourself and

01:37:04.160 you know be a circle but this trying to save society stuff it's cooked it's over with correct

01:37:10.720 based based hello thanks before i go i just want to let you guys know that i'm a moderator for

01:37:17.280 homeath um he would like to talk to you guys at some point if you ever get a chance oh sure

01:37:23.440 he could come on i love that'd be great stuff so yeah um i think he follows me on twitter so

01:37:30.000 So if he DMs me, we could set up a time.

01:37:33.000 I'll let him know.

01:37:34.020 It's 7 to 9.

01:37:35.220 So if he just tells me the day he wants to come, it's fine.

01:37:38.460 Understood.

01:37:39.020 That'd be awesome.

01:37:39.740 Sure.

01:37:40.680 Good talking to you.

01:37:41.580 Thanks for calling in.

01:37:43.200 Kilo Kyle.

01:37:43.880 Read that super chat.

01:37:46.240 $100.

01:37:47.420 You guys are too kind.

01:37:48.660 I forgot what those looked like.

01:37:50.500 It's been so long.

01:37:51.780 It's been so long.

01:37:53.420 Okay.

01:37:53.980 57-year-old engineer.

01:37:55.520 Trust me.

01:37:56.020 There's hope.

01:37:56.560 As a 57-year-old engineer,

01:38:00.000 trust me there's no hope stay single thank you bro greatest show as usual thanks for what you do

01:38:06.640 thank you sean i'm just trying to be honest here about what it's going on okay i'm gonna bring in

01:38:14.080 donnie because he always keeps it nice and short

01:38:21.200 donnie are you there

01:38:21.840 donnie you're on mute he's waiting since the beginning so maybe he

01:38:28.560 went to go do something i'm sorry i thought i'm right here hey that was a long line

01:38:33.540 hey donnie how are you oh swell i almost had time to write a book with my thoughts waiting on

01:38:41.520 long line i'll get to it uh and i'm mixed i feel you pearl because a lot of what you've

01:38:51.300 heard from the trad cons is basically just world fallacy survivorship bias it worked for me it'll

01:38:57.860 work for them and that's just not realistic though my counter is data and demographics

01:39:05.100 isn't always destiny uh it's hard for me to find any hard data specific to women but

01:39:12.040 let's take malthus uh thomas malthus for example i'll be quick but if you don't know who that is

01:39:20.420 think of like thanos and in game how he wanted to correct things that's just population control

01:39:26.980 narrative from all this because he thought food production only grows with human hands humanity

01:39:34.020 will eventually starve but then the industrial revolution happened in 1800 now we got fat

01:39:40.580 bitches on every corner i mean you could be poor today and be fat as hell like being fat used to

01:39:47.700 to be a rich person thing but now it's like you gotta work just to not get fat completely

01:39:54.560 unfathomable another thing is i mean look at our look at society before the 1950s

01:40:02.440 life expectancy was basically you might be lucky to live to 30 most of you will be dead

01:40:08.660 and the reason they had more people was they didn't know who would make it so they had to

01:40:14.380 have more kids but today it's the opposite even unhealthy people can probably make it to 60

01:40:21.280 by dumb luck and people have less kids okay but i really wanted to say i don't know you might have

01:40:31.660 heard that charles dickens quote it was the best of times it was the worst of times which is kind

01:40:37.960 of ubiquitous i mean some people have said only one in 20 up to one in four men got to breed

01:40:46.820 even with male loneliness as it is at least 60 percent of men are still getting a chance

01:40:54.640 to at least survive so as crappy as today is it's still better than the norm of yesteryear

01:41:02.820 and I'll be in broad, you know.

01:41:05.260 Well, the, but the, you know,

01:41:06.800 the life expectancy was influenced by the birth rate.

01:41:09.820 Like people lived till their 60s, 70s and 80s all the time.

01:41:13.560 It was just, um, the, it's cause the, they killed their kids.

01:41:20.220 Well, no, I'm going off average cause.

01:41:23.040 Well, yeah, but, but like, it's kind of the same,

01:41:26.660 it's kind of the same today because like if you're in the womb,

01:41:31.060 like there's a one in three chance your mom will kill you but they don't count that as a part of

01:41:35.300 the death rate now yeah but i'm saying like so the the mortality like people live till their 60s

01:41:47.640 70s and 80s before in the 1600s 1700s and 1800s but the thing those people were the outliers like

01:41:54.460 I was talking about average.

01:41:56.000 No, I know.

01:41:56.640 Wait, wait, wait.

01:41:57.380 Listen, wait, listen.

01:41:58.860 So the reason it was so low is people didn't always make it out of infancy.

01:42:06.720 So there was a death rate for babies and children.

01:42:10.460 I would argue the moms were killing them then because it's really similar to the abortion rate today.

01:42:16.160 But back then it was like – it was because newborns died a lot.

01:42:20.180 well i i don't deny how common it is for moms to abuse their children but that was more due to uh

01:42:28.840 a lack of knowledge on medical care because you gotta remember like modern medicine didn't really

01:42:34.780 exist until lysol was a thing lack of medical care led to the quality of medicine no no like

01:42:42.920 the reason life expectancy went up was because of advancements in medicine like

01:42:47.340 i had a history in medicine class in college the professor said before sanitation you know

01:42:54.940 before disinfectant you would be better off not going to a doctor than going to we're getting

01:43:01.360 off topic the point is i agree with you you should be black pill but the black pill doesn't mean

01:43:09.820 do more synonymous it just means acknowledging reality and acting accordingly yeah there's

01:43:16.200 always a chance things can improve like i i guess south park gave me a glimpse of hope their episode

01:43:23.080 about people from the future like how one day we'll all be we'll all be one mocha race that's

01:43:29.620 bald headed that's probably where we're going because in the future most people will probably

01:43:34.580 either be amish or african since they have birth rates growing but even that can't get

01:43:40.560 i don't have exact numbers but i understand where you're going where you can't just have

01:43:47.160 the just world fallacy or or this blind hope things will work out but there is always a chance

01:43:53.220 because i mean another example was nobody expected hispanics to come out for dumb dong

01:43:58.800 they went from being a never gop group to now the left effed up so bad with transformers and whatnot

01:44:08.600 there's a serious chance Hispanics could be new base but right but I see I see conservatives

01:44:17.040 having small wins as preventing the like um they're going to speed limit they're not really

01:44:23.800 changing shape yeah like I mean it slows it down maybe but I would still predict it's like the

01:44:31.600 birth rate people aren't really going to get married it's just a different time but I agree

01:44:36.140 like that things in the past there's other things that you could have worried about then that we

01:44:40.660 don't have to worry about today like i don't want to be in a world war i'm happy we don't have to

01:44:46.040 deal with that i like uber english well war is part of human nature i mean after world war ii

01:44:52.580 everyone thought we're not gonna have a big war again it's like i mean thanks to nukes it's been

01:44:58.000 a deterrent to like the big wars but overall we have we still have smaller-ish wars but only time

01:45:04.260 hotel i better wrap it up because there's other people in the line i know you want to keep the

01:45:08.480 chat fair cool but uh oh i dug i gotta give you kudos to that prison joke it's like no you're not

01:45:15.780 that was funny yeah i think you have to tell them that they're gonna be movie stars and have their

01:45:22.800 name in lights like come on are you serious like no okay and pearl i love the yellow you rock in

01:45:29.180 spongebob look so so yeah everybody loves spongebob all right i'm gonna split i gotta go guys thanks

01:45:34.380 for calling in i was here talking to you okay i'm gonna try chris again

01:45:46.380 guys make sure you hit the like button subscribe if you haven't already really appreciate it

01:45:50.140 chris are you there

01:45:54.300 chris all right chris going once

01:45:59.180 just going twice now i'm gonna three times now i have the same chris oh is it okay okay sorry

01:46:09.580 about that i already got you okay let's do uh okay let's do this dark mage person

01:46:22.620 okay dark lake mage

01:46:25.980 are you there

01:46:28.740 oh darkly oh hi um can you guys hear me yep oh okay oh great i made it uh thank you so much

01:46:38.860 pearl um and host for having me on the show i appreciate it i'm darkly calling in so let me

01:46:44.100 have it why should i have hope okay so um and i'm gonna keep it real short and quick um yeah i wanted

01:46:52.720 to come up here because i think that you're not realizing something pearl and i guess you can add

01:46:57.080 your two cents to what i'm gonna say because i think really the uh answer is in the question

01:47:01.880 right why uh should you have hope in society and pearl you are um referencing society because

01:47:11.260 it's something beyond yourself right something that's not just about you right

01:47:15.180 um i'm referencing society because that was the question right right but you understand like

01:47:26.180 you're well informed of the negative statistics of the dating market so like you're you're

01:47:31.320 basically referencing society because of that right and my eyes like what right right i have

01:47:37.460 them too and i mostly agree with you know the statistics that are projected you know about

01:47:42.380 how bad it is. Um, but you know, in that same thought process, right. If you juxtaposition

01:47:48.380 that same thought process to hope itself, right. Um, you would do the same thing, right? So you

01:47:56.460 would essentially, um, reference hope because it's beyond yourself because it's not just all about

01:48:03.240 you. You feel me? So, um, and what I mean by that is right. Even though you are well informed with

01:48:11.040 the negative statistics of the dating market, if you had a son, right, I'm pretty sure that you

01:48:16.240 wouldn't want him to give up, right? You would want him to strategize, right, to do his best to

01:48:21.860 make it in society, in the dating market. Yeah, but I would tell him to strategize.

01:48:28.400 I would not expect to find a wife. That's what I would tell him. I wouldn't expect to.

01:48:33.240 right but but just even there right you're saying that you wouldn't advise your son to expect to

01:48:42.000 but that's not the same as advising your son to give up and all i'm saying is that in order for

01:48:47.180 you to um instill the idea that your son in this theoretical scenario should strategize

01:48:53.700 there's a level of hope that comes with that and so that's what i meant i just don't understand

01:48:59.600 And what does that have to do with the question?

01:49:01.500 The question's about society, not this hypothetical sun.

01:49:06.500 So it's like, why should I, what, like,

01:49:08.640 are you seeing something I'm not seeing when it comes to the way society's

01:49:13.180 going?

01:49:15.260 Well, I mean, I'm just basically considering history.

01:49:19.820 I'm considering like, you know,

01:49:22.440 there's never been a time in society where people didn't have to strategize

01:49:27.720 in order to you know um maneuver a bad situation in society and you can extrapolate that in so

01:49:35.100 many different ways and i'm not trying to be like pie in the sky such an optimist but i'm just saying

01:49:39.740 that we're going to have to strategize no matter what the troubles are anyway and i'm right correct

01:49:45.680 but it's kind of like you could have a strategy to win the lottery but it's probably not going to

01:49:52.100 happen. That's the way I see it. Like statistics, it's just, you can do a strategy and give it your

01:49:57.700 best go, but most people will be single parents. Oh, and you're saying basically nowadays having

01:50:07.520 a wife and kids, right. And, you know, nuclear family is akin to winning the lottery. That's

01:50:12.760 your point. Yeah. I mean, it's like 10% actually have like a marriage where they stay in shape,

01:50:18.860 have sex and are together for life and don't hate each other it's around 10 so was there ever a time

01:50:27.100 when like couples didn't hate each other though like right but even if there was we're never going

01:50:35.020 to get back to that point well how do you know that though like when you say wait wait i'm sorry

01:50:40.380 let me qualify that when you say well we will never get back to that point are you guys um

01:50:46.220 um, uh, looking at like a hundred percent, like if you just bring it down to percentages,

01:50:52.080 are you looking at a hundred percent or the majority?

01:50:57.080 And you, do you guys think that it's going to take a majority to change anything?

01:51:07.360 Like if, like if 20% of, I don't know, Americans decided to change things and, you know, have

01:51:14.820 kids and stuff do you think that could be enough to change anything or do you think it has to be

01:51:18.740 over 51 i think you know what i'm sorry go ahead pearl go ahead i think relationships are a

01:51:24.200 subscription model marriages don't really exist anymore you have subscriptions that's what it is

01:51:33.540 anybody that tells you otherwise is lying and trying to sell you hope that's what we have

01:51:39.220 nowadays go ahead uh and for me i'm not i can't worry about how many people are going to change

01:51:46.020 when when i don't think that they are what's the point of me oh 20 30 when i don't think anyone's

01:51:51.620 going to change hmm well you know what i i can't refute that feeling you have because i i have some

01:52:02.500 i i kind of have the same feelings but i i also believe that you know what i do in my life

01:52:09.220 personally, right, will affect the people in my immediate vicinity. And to me, I think that's

01:52:18.260 enough. You guys might disagree, you know, and I understand if you do, but I mean, you guys don't

01:52:24.480 think that, you know, Pearl meeting a husband and having kids and having that family and you, sir,

01:52:31.340 meeting your wife and having kids and having that family, you guys are not going to make up the

01:52:35.040 majority but i think you know your situation i'm sorry statistically one of us will divorce

01:52:41.300 i think most people become statistics so it's it's me or you doug hey hey i've been divorced

01:52:49.840 already so your chances are higher yeah 100 percent what number two yeah but you got married

01:52:58.560 though and you did it though still all right and then he's divorced yep but so like what would

01:53:04.340 crush someone is going into marriage and not preparing and expecting for a divorce that's

01:53:09.040 how you get crushed i know i i know it could happen to me it could i hope not but it could

01:53:15.580 i don't know and i guess again you know i'll leave here because for other people to speak i'm not

01:53:20.300 trying to uh you know bog you guys down with this but i just think that uh pearl i understand your

01:53:25.280 perspective uh i just think you know we've come too far as a people no matter what your ethnic

01:53:31.760 background is to give up and maybe i'm naive but that's just well what's the difference between me

01:53:39.040 and you like if i if i try to have a good marriage and you try to have a good marriage

01:53:43.840 but society's going the way it's going like what's the difference because because you're not an idiot

01:53:51.080 you know that not everyone right believes in the bs of society and the propaganda and the misandry

01:53:59.720 and whatever, right?

01:54:01.500 And the feminism, whatever.

01:54:03.460 There's a lot of women who are like you

01:54:05.260 who have your same thought process.

01:54:06.760 I don't care what people say.

01:54:08.300 I watch what they do.

01:54:09.360 And there's a lot of women that say they believe things

01:54:11.960 and then they divorce their husbands.

01:54:15.160 Like I've seen better women than me get divorced.

01:54:18.400 Women that are more pure, younger, nicer.

01:54:22.080 Like I would just say more feminine women

01:54:24.060 that are better than me.

01:54:24.900 And I would say every conceivable metric,

01:54:27.780 I've seen them do terrible things.

01:54:29.720 and you see the problem the problem oh i'm sorry just one just i'm just the one thing the problem

01:54:34.500 that i have with that thought process pearl and i'm sorry i don't mean to challenge you guys or

01:54:37.940 be a nuisance or whatever no please do okay the problem that i have with that thought process

01:54:42.340 pearl is that with that same thought process by that logic if you see me a black man in the

01:54:47.720 elevator you need to clutch your purse like with that same logic because because maybe you've seen

01:54:52.940 some a black dude basically you know steal a purse from a woman in an elevator maybe you could have

01:54:58.380 seen that right that could be your actual experience but based on you basically if i saw

01:55:02.820 that happen i'd probably start clutching my purse if that was a regular occurrence why would i not

01:55:09.080 like come on yeah but but it would still be and wait wait you're right but it would still be an

01:55:16.240 illogical thing because you can't tell the future you don't know i'm gonna get my purse stolen

01:55:22.740 because i don't want to seem racist fuck that no that's not what i'm saying no i'm not talking

01:55:28.700 about not seeming racist i'm saying it's something that's illogical right because you we can't tell

01:55:33.840 the future and maybe i shouldn't have brought race in my dad but what i mean is basically just

01:55:38.200 making an assumption of something based on a past event when we we don't we we're not prophets we

01:55:46.040 can't tell how somebody's going okay okay let me straighten one thing out real fast so i'm black

01:55:52.460 i've been black for over in the united states for over 40 years when i see too many of us around

01:55:58.540 i'm like i gotta get up out of here if it's either live in an all-white neighborhood or

01:56:03.620 all-black neighborhood i'm choosing the white one well you know i'm black and i'm 35 so you

01:56:08.920 got five years on me so you know i'll take your word and i wouldn't i feel the same way about

01:56:13.320 women if i'm at an event with too many women i'm like i gotta bounce they're gonna start

01:56:17.280 i'm gonna go i'm gonna go uh thank you so much pearl for having me i really

01:56:24.380 appreciate the conversation um hopefully it wasn't i didn't get on

01:56:28.060 guys nerves all right thank you guys call it anytime

01:56:30.580 all this hoping guys i'm clutch i'm clutching the purse i don't care

01:56:36.620 i'm telling you i and i wouldn't get robbed on a

01:56:42.060 then yes i'm clutching what the hell and you know what's funny so i always say you know i'm from the

01:56:50.740 pacific northwest and they say over 70 of serial killers come from the pacific northwest right

01:56:56.320 so um so if i when i was growing up if i saw you know a white guy with his hair slicked back

01:57:05.080 and those like you know the the glasses with the with the ridge on the top i'm running away from

01:57:11.400 that guy, he could be a serial killer.

01:57:13.200 You know what I'm saying?

01:57:14.800 Well, I'm going to find out.

01:57:16.520 Nope. Yeah, exactly.

01:57:18.560 You know what I'm saying?

01:57:19.280 I just I just and honestly, if I met someone

01:57:23.320 who who had a bad experience with a black person

01:57:27.200 or a black guy and they cross the street when they saw me coming,

01:57:31.280 I wouldn't even blame them.

01:57:32.320 Who cares?

01:57:34.160 Who cares?

01:57:36.160 Like if they had a bad people are entitled to to adjust their behavior

01:57:40.640 based upon the experiences that they have the other thing he said was is like you can't predict

01:57:46.800 the future uh but okay if i saw my mom do drugs and then like have a terrible life i wouldn't

01:57:54.800 make decisions based on like i think you're kind of an idiot if you don't make decisions based on

01:57:59.440 past generations like what you mean your parent you're like if you saw your grandpa get fucked

01:58:04.600 in a divorce and you saw your dad get fucked in it like and then you get married isn't that kind

01:58:09.060 dumb yeah and then also you know he's like oh yeah there are so many good women out there

01:58:15.540 but this is appealing to that virtuous woman argument that all these track cons oh she's

01:58:20.660 virtuous yeah but what's gonna keep her good once she has the kids when she has for the ring when

01:58:26.340 she has leverage what's going to keep her good nothing exactly okay uh man we have

01:58:38.980 so many callers still let me bring up um guys like the video subscribe we got the full chat

01:58:49.540 gang with migtail by logic steve and carlos myself always good to see all the moderators in here

01:58:56.020 ben how you doing buddy

01:59:01.140 ben you're on mute

01:59:04.260 he's waiting a while so how's it going hey ben how are you

01:59:08.980 Great. And yourselves?

01:59:10.840 I'm good.

01:59:12.640 So what do you think of the topic?

01:59:14.620 Why should I have hope?

01:59:16.060 What are your thoughts?

01:59:17.040 I would say that all there is is hope,

01:59:19.780 but it's for a very small group.

01:59:25.560 And there are individuals in this world who have hope,

01:59:31.140 and that's all they have.

01:59:32.720 It's not much more than hope.

01:59:38.980 uh could you explain like what groups could you expand on that like what how basically basically

01:59:45.380 glenn what glenn was saying is on the right track the only thing i would say further is it's going

01:59:49.940 to happen a lot faster than he imagines there is a a split a massive split that's happening

01:59:59.540 and there are those who have a certain level of awareness in this world and everything that's

02:00:06.980 been going on is sort of a test and the majority of this society there's obviously no hope at all

02:00:13.620 and they're going away and they're going to go away a lot faster and exponentially than we can

02:00:18.820 ever imagine and there's going to be a small group of people left for which there's no guarantees in

02:00:26.260 them either just hope that's what i mean so actually we have a lot of hope in a small group

02:00:32.580 of people um we just have most people have no but what evidence do you have like what can i see

02:00:39.620 outside or what data do you have that well obviously any trends we can obviously see there's

02:00:45.480 uh no hope in this society that in the general society is it's just going to collapse a lot

02:00:50.620 is this like a religious thing like because the bible says or something i really wouldn't call it

02:00:56.640 religious but the bible is just one text uh if you look at all the different information in these

02:01:01.740 kind of text and the general information in the world and you can put together a pattern emerges

02:01:07.980 so when when can you expect this to happen can i get like that's that's my my my point is that i

02:01:14.220 expect it to happen a lot faster than anybody than most people would have the expectancy of like in

02:01:19.740 the next three years that what's happening now there are global affairs that are moving into

02:01:24.620 positions this is going to happen really fast because there are aspects of this pardon me

02:01:30.460 so you think there'll be like a world war or something i don't even know if we're going to

02:01:36.080 really see hot kinetic war because it's possible that even the hot kinetic war that's most on

02:01:41.060 people's mind in the last couple weeks may not really be happening the way that they believe

02:01:45.220 it's happening but something else is happening the advent of ai there are a lot of moving parts

02:01:50.380 in a lot of ways that financial collapse societal collapse has been on people's mind for the last

02:01:54.880 three decades but parts of that keep moving into position and moving into position kind of like

02:02:00.360 on a chessboard and they're in a place when they're all about to happen in sort of a kairos

02:02:04.860 and it's going to just happen a lot more exponentially than anybody realizes but it's

02:02:09.100 not like what's going to happen could you just specifically tell me like what will happen

02:02:13.160 so i can look in my perspective and then say you were right or wrong

02:02:16.840 in my perspective a lot of people are essentially they're going to die for a lot of different

02:02:22.220 reasons a lot of different reasons and it's going to happen a lot faster than anybody expects

02:02:27.080 and there's going to be a small group that's going to be left.

02:02:31.080 Like Noah's Ark or something?

02:02:33.300 Not exactly. Bigger than that.

02:02:35.300 So what do you think will kill him? Like a war?

02:02:40.640 A lot of people are going to get killed by each other.

02:02:44.700 A lot of people are going to get killed by their increasing use of drugs.

02:02:48.880 It's pretty mundane.

02:02:49.880 I'm talking, you know, there's a lot of people who might get taken out by something that was in something they put in their body in the last five years.

02:03:01.120 There might be sort of time encapsuled components of what a lot of people let themselves take into their body in the last five years.

02:03:13.100 Certain time release aspects of that keep taking out more people.

02:03:16.960 but what's the mortality rate uh last how many people because the death rate increased a lot in

02:03:26.940 the last yes yes and i still don't see anything that you're talking about unseating women's

02:03:37.020 selfish desires oh of course not see like piggybacking also on what one of the other

02:03:42.560 guys was trying to say but he couldn't articulate it fully obviously women have always been exactly

02:03:47.520 the way they are and i have really developed perspectives and consciousness about why they

02:03:54.160 are that way but that's way outside of the scope of the present meeting the point is of course

02:03:58.720 they've always been this way but what he was trying to say is that men didn't he was saying

02:04:03.520 men created them or something he was making he wasn't saying it correctly men have allowed this

02:04:08.400 women have always been the way they are they're designed that way its men have allowed certain

02:04:13.440 things to go this way and they're obviously hidden hands that have moved from the boomer generation

02:04:22.560 and then down into especially the older gen x to allow this permissiveness to become the

02:04:29.120 whatever there's a lot of ways that this has been by design but women have been exactly what they

02:04:34.080 are since there were women there's no change there's no question about that the point pearl

02:04:39.360 was making i don't know if people understood what she was saying about the not factoring in

02:04:44.720 uh did the death of infants now that it really isn't the same mostly what's going on has always

02:04:50.880 been going on it's exactly the same it might just be being allowed to be seen under a bigger

02:04:56.720 magnified lens female nature like it's never changed that's for sure i really see people

02:05:03.360 dying like that like i don't know it will it will increase yeah maybe i just i'm looking at

02:05:11.860 the rates and it's just not significant enough that i like think it's that crazy or as you said

02:05:18.560 before there are definitely people who mask statistics and don't let the real ones get out

02:05:24.380 that's that's possible but usually when that happens like i see it in my real life

02:05:30.240 But I just haven't.

02:05:33.120 Like, not a lot of people I know are dying.

02:05:37.400 They're kind of chillin.

02:05:38.240 And then maybe and then let's take it back to the conversation.

02:05:42.600 I mean, if you're talking about everyone dying and all this stuff,

02:05:46.120 well, then there's really no reason to have hope then.

02:05:50.000 Well, that's why I said there's hope for a small group of people.

02:05:53.080 There will be people left for whom there

02:05:56.080 potentially could be something very good that happens and that's not even guaranteed it depends

02:06:01.740 on what they do everything is a merit and accomplishment accomplishment basis but there's

02:06:07.240 going to be a small group of people are going to be allowed to do something positive without

02:06:12.400 the current a lot of the current interference and harassment that's going on i'm glad you have

02:06:16.400 a timeline because i hate it when people tell me these crazy things are going to happen and they

02:06:22.300 don't give me a timeline. So I, I, that sounds kind of implausible to me, but you know,

02:06:28.580 well, the reason, the reason it becomes plausible is because we've moved,

02:06:32.820 if you picture it kind of like moving sliding pieces for it on the board,

02:06:36.700 these pieces have been tested for the last three or really five decades. So they've moved this

02:06:42.980 piece forward, checked it out, seen what people do with it, and then dialed it back. And then

02:06:47.620 they moved this one for it. So we've moved so many of them forward that we have a good test run all

02:06:51.940 through this society of how they'll react to all the different moving of the pieces and now they

02:06:56.980 can move them all at once and it's going to collapse in a way that we feel like it's still

02:07:02.640 working daily life is still working most functions are still functioning but it's a real house of

02:07:08.280 cards and since they've tested every different way in the last five decades how society is going to

02:07:13.600 react to these pieces i've heard that but i just i don't really believe in like the grand plan and

02:07:19.940 i know they'll say oh they're these like documents or whatever i think people are just trying to make

02:07:24.340 money i love ai to be honest i love grok so maybe i'll die none of that's really contradictory i

02:07:32.340 mean the all the documents can't exist and people would definitely want to make money off it while

02:07:36.820 they can and the ai can couple with that none of that's uh really contradictory all those things

02:07:41.540 can be happening at once i expect to see everyone dying in the next three years and you can call

02:07:45.940 back in maybe i'll be dead all right hopefully not calling good talking here okay man yeah you

02:07:56.560 see like i looked up 2025 the death rate is 7.6 per thousand people in 1950 it was 17 deaths per

02:08:04.320 thousand people okay everyone calling in after this point you you got four minutes or less

02:08:11.700 because we're on two hours and 15 minutes so four minutes or less i'm gonna be brad

02:08:22.260 25 the death rate is ready there

02:08:27.540 listening on youtube so you're behind it's not on youtube it's on odyssey let me start it off

02:08:34.420 okay hey brad how's it going hey all right um well you've got a crowd on tonight i'll tell you

02:08:41.700 yeah yeah it's uh nice to be able to talk to you on odyssey it was a little hard to figure out at

02:08:48.020 first um but anyhow as far as the your subject tonight hope um i remember that recent interview

02:08:55.940 you had i don't remember the the young lady's name but um she was um trying to talk about uh

02:09:03.140 like the abortion issue where you pointed out rose lila rose thank you yeah you were talking

02:09:09.380 about the abortion issue and she kept acting like if we just talk about it and bring awareness to it

02:09:14.180 yeah i think this this could be improved and you said no women are not going to give up that power

02:09:20.500 and and you're absolutely right and as long as we have simps out there that either for

02:09:24.580 political power or for financial gain or selling something to women in our society

02:09:31.300 there's nothing's going to change

02:09:32.420 so I don't think there's I don't think there's hope not with things the way they are unless it

02:09:41.000 really gets to the point where men overwhelmingly band together and I'm not sure if I see that

02:09:46.920 happening and say this is it no more we like getting laid too much yeah you ever tried to

02:09:54.580 stop a guy from simping impossible yeah oh yeah I know I mean you've called him out for it how

02:10:00.060 many times. And you're absolutely right. I love your content because you're like a breath of fresh

02:10:07.500 air. Somebody to kind of stand up for us a little bit in a world where we keep getting smacked

02:10:13.320 around so darn much. So I don't think, you know, and I think you're realistic about it too. I don't

02:10:18.060 think talking about it is going to fix anything per se, but at least we feel a little better

02:10:23.440 because we've got a place we can vent and we know we're not alone. That was a big thing.

02:10:28.120 I went through 36 years of marriage, four kids.

02:10:34.540 My wife decided to leave me after my health went downhill and I was no longer as good a provider.

02:10:40.640 And it's a story that, you know, with shows like yours, I hear it repeated.

02:10:44.680 So I know I'm not the only guy out there that after putting in, you know, decades of taking care of six people in my household, pretty much on my own, that my reward for it is to die old and alone.

02:10:57.040 You know, so. So would you say to young men who what would you say to a young man saying, hey, Brad, what are the odds?

02:11:08.800 What could I do to have a 36 plus year long marriage? Is it possible? What can I do?

02:11:15.080 I'm aspiring to that. What would you tell him? Well, here's the thing.

02:11:19.120 I mean, I didn't realize because my wife, like a lot of women, kind of got into the marriage because she wanted to get out of her parents home.

02:11:27.040 And I've seen that. I'm old enough. I've been around enough. And I worked in a job that dealt directly with the public. And it's a pattern I've seen repeated over and over again. Young women after school that were in my generation were looking for a way to get away from their family and to get married.

02:11:44.940 It was a way of getting out of the house and having what they thought was a measure of independence.

02:11:49.720 And so they just picked the first available guy that looks like he's willing to settle down.

02:11:53.460 So they don't get the Chad.

02:11:55.140 They don't get the Tyrone.

02:11:56.760 They get the guy that's settled and it can provide.

02:12:00.360 And then they have to keep up a false front.

02:12:02.940 It's like the trad cons that Pearl's been talking to and about.

02:12:07.280 They put on this fake front, but after a while, they get tired of doing it.

02:12:10.620 And society doesn't say that they have to do it.

02:12:12.960 And they say, well, you know, why are you putting up with this?

02:12:14.940 So then they quit doing it. So I don't think it's it's necessarily possible. I've got a son who's in his he's almost 40 now. His wife got eight kids out of him. And about a year or so ago, she kicked him to the curb.

02:12:33.000 because she could get enough financial support from her family who has provided a home for her

02:12:41.340 where she doesn't have to pay rent. And of course, with eight kids, you get all kinds

02:12:44.520 of government assistance. And she already had apparently a guy on the side that she found that

02:12:50.100 was suitable to replace my son. So that was the end of that. And then I've got three daughters

02:12:55.980 and each of them have been divorced. And similar situations, at least two of the girls, the oldest

02:13:02.740 than the youngest, they got married early, like they left the home a week before they turned 18

02:13:08.540 and moved straight in with the family of the boyfriend. And then within a year or so,

02:13:15.640 they were pregnant and got married to the guy. And that lasted for a couple of years. And then

02:13:19.860 they found themselves somebody they liked better and moved on. And it's just, you know, and that's

02:13:25.840 those I raised these people. So it's not, you know, a matter of bad parenting, but the society

02:13:31.500 that we live in just does not encourage, you know, long-term monogamy. It does not encourage

02:13:36.840 putting in the work. It's, I love how Pearl put it. She said, you know, this world is all about

02:13:42.340 the path to happiness for women. And they don't concern themselves about the kid. My grandson,

02:13:49.200 my eldest daughter's son, when she put him back in his car seat to go home to her ex-husband,

02:13:56.280 he cried. It broke my heart. He's sitting there and the mama, he wanted to stay with mama.

02:14:02.500 So I don't it's it's not happening, Doug.

02:14:05.540 What do you think about dads?

02:14:08.320 Because I got a lot of heat because I said one of the comments said that.

02:14:15.800 There's many sorry, there's many dads who think they can control what their daughter does, that if they just raise her right, that she won't get divorced, she won't be a hoe.

02:14:25.200 What do you think about that?

02:14:26.740 Did you have similar thoughts when you were young?

02:14:28.880 well yeah i mean i it's you always have these high in the sky kind of pie outlooks on things

02:14:37.940 why don't people do this and do that it's so simple until you're faced with it

02:14:41.980 i'm sorry i lost your i can see your mouth moving pearl i can't hear you

02:14:47.100 no um i didn't say anything i was just listening oh okay it must be a delay in the feed i'm sorry

02:14:53.520 Okay, the thought originally was, you know, if I saw somebody else and their kids went, you know, off the path, so to speak, you know, I figured there must have been a simple solution they didn't apply.

02:15:08.120 But it also takes two in the household.

02:15:11.040 And I came to realize that since I worked a full-time job and then some, I was away from the house a lot.

02:15:17.740 And my wife did not co-parent.

02:15:20.120 She counter-parented.

02:15:21.480 and it was all about, you know, making friends with the kids and, you know, being seen as the

02:15:29.680 good parent. And then she would come to me with things like, you know, your daughter wants to

02:15:33.740 know if she can spend the night at so-and-so's house. I told her I'd ask you and I'd say, well,

02:15:37.280 what's your opinion? And she'd say something like, well, I don't think it's a good idea for

02:15:41.620 such and such a reason. And I'm thinking I'm being a supportive husband and a good father.

02:15:44.920 And I say, okay, well, I can see your logic in that. I'll support you with that. What does she

02:15:51.300 do? She goes to the kids and says, your dad, I tried to tell him, but he doesn't care about you

02:15:56.020 in so many words. He said no. She's the one that said no. So when you had somebody like that in

02:16:03.320 the background the whole time, and she's trying to be friends with the kids, what I tried to do

02:16:09.560 to keep these kids from becoming 304s, I didn't have the assistance of my spouse and my partner

02:16:18.280 in raising them to help make that happen.

02:16:21.660 And even though to a degree,

02:16:23.680 I won't say that my ex-wife did not try to instill

02:16:26.300 some moral values in these kids.

02:16:28.960 I had a daughter that was sneaking out of her bedroom window

02:16:31.880 at one o'clock in the morning to meet up with the boy.

02:16:35.320 And, you know, we tried to put a stop to it.

02:16:38.260 I even ended up putting four inch screws

02:16:41.580 through the window frame

02:16:42.500 so she couldn't open the sash to get out.

02:16:45.860 And then it was like, you can't do that if there's a fire.

02:16:48.060 will die i said look you're five feet away from from the back door you have an escape route and

02:16:53.900 besides that window frame will smash if you take your chair and push it through it but even trying

02:16:59.500 to keep them locked in and and a lot of people say oh it's child abuse you can't do that there's

02:17:04.380 no control these kids are influenced by their friends they're influenced by the society around

02:17:08.940 them and society says be a hoe it's not being a hoe it's being free it's having fun it's having

02:17:14.700 a good time one of the things what you're talking about because yeah one thing pearl and i have been

02:17:22.700 um pearl has been covering more content about mothers and how much damage mothers can do and

02:17:29.180 i told pearl we to focus on hopefully one day that mothers will be judged as harshly as fathers

02:17:35.180 because mothers do a whole lot of damage children in a two-parent household are more of a reflection

02:17:42.860 of of a mother than a father nowadays i mean look at will smith will smith's oldest child

02:17:50.460 is not an alien like jade and willow smith are because they had like a regular woman as a mother

02:17:57.820 and jada pickett smith is a freaking demon which is why her kids are crazy but mothers do so much

02:18:05.420 more damage but they have that get out of jail free card we we still don't hold mothers to the

02:18:10.780 the same level of accountability that we do fathers. And it's sad. Yeah. If I tried to enforce

02:18:16.500 any rules of the house, you know, it was just further evidence that I was a meanie and I was

02:18:21.720 the enemy and, you know, come to mommy, I'll comfort you. I'll never forget my wife actually

02:18:27.500 coming to me and saying, you know, your son wants to do this and that. And I said, well, go ask your

02:18:31.680 dad. And he said, I can't, I'm scared. He scares me. And he was like, just dropping into the

02:18:38.380 narrative, you know, of hers that dad's a meanie. He won't let you do anything. So, but I will say

02:18:45.360 this just real quickly, if I can, that pretty princess thing has really contributed to this

02:18:51.980 as well. And that's, you know, where the fathers raise their girls to not have accountability.

02:18:58.560 You know, that's a big part of it. I tried not to do that. I really did. And I was just

02:19:01.800 recently talking with my middle daughter that I'm on really good terms with.

02:19:05.660 And I said, you know, thankfully, you weren't right.

02:19:08.540 At least I didn't raise you that way to think that you were privileged simply because you were female and that you were not accountable for what you did.

02:19:16.180 And she's amazing.

02:19:17.320 I mean, that girl, when she was a toddler, she knocked over a flower pot and she came to us and said, excuse me, I knocked over a flower pot.

02:19:26.700 I have spanked myself and I'm putting myself to bed early.

02:19:30.480 I have never I have never met a child that did that.

02:19:34.820 And so she is like the eagle of justice.

02:19:38.740 I mean, she apparently got into a chat on Facebook with the extended family, her siblings and her mother.

02:19:45.740 And the youngest one started talking smack about me.

02:19:50.400 And she jumped in there and said, you've got no business talking about your dad like that.

02:19:54.300 And she stood up for me and defended me tooth and nail.

02:19:57.760 And even my ex-wife couldn't say anything.

02:20:00.580 So that made me feel good.

02:20:03.020 But it is a challenge.

02:20:04.520 And I would not advise, you know, my son, poor guy, eight kids, and I think he's paying something like $1,100 a month in child support.

02:20:12.960 And he's working basically fast food kitchen for like, he's hoping to make $19 an hour.

02:20:19.600 In hindsight, do you wish that you had divorced her like when you were younger?

02:20:26.940 Well, you know, I've had somewhat of that discussion with the middle daughter who's in her mid-30s.

02:20:34.520 And, no, she said that she appreciated the fact that there was a certain level of consistency, there was a certain stability in the home, and this was even with her mother and I not getting along at times.

02:20:49.000 I was just curious of hindsight 2020.

02:20:52.000 Yeah, because so many people say, you know, if you're having problems in the marriage and like it becomes vocal, you know, and there's there's verbal disagreements and things like that.

02:21:01.240 It's better not to not to put the kids through that stress.

02:21:04.900 But my daughter says absolutely not.

02:21:07.420 She says the fact that she had a mom and dad to come home to and that we stayed together at least.

02:21:12.880 And this is what people used to do years ago, stayed together for the kids until they were of an age where they could set out on their own.

02:21:19.900 I think that the older folks, they knew what they were doing.

02:21:23.700 I think that that has more applications than people give it credit for.

02:21:27.080 Yeah. Cool. Doug MPA, you got any other questions for him?

02:21:31.960 Thank you for calling in, Brad. Really appreciate it.

02:21:34.760 I'm really happy to get in here.

02:21:36.360 If you guys had a way you could put like some instructions up on your YouTube page or something for people, because it was a mystery to me.

02:21:44.220 First of all, how to go transition from the YouTube to the Audacity network.

02:21:48.520 And then I really wasn't sure.

02:21:50.000 I thought I'd heard somebody say something about that.

02:21:51.460 You guys were using Zoom, but how to be able to call in and participate.

02:21:54.960 So thank you so much.

02:21:56.060 Let me write that down.

02:21:57.980 Call on it for next time.

02:21:59.820 OK, thanks.

02:22:00.600 Thanks for the feedback.

02:22:02.300 That was helpful, actually.

02:22:03.800 Thanks for calling in.

02:22:04.660 How many more calls do you want to take, Pearl?

02:22:09.740 Because we have one, one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 people.

02:22:17.460 And we are on the two hour and 21 minute mark.

02:22:24.940 How many more calls do you want to take?

02:22:26.260 Let's just keep going.

02:22:28.060 Well, let's do it.

02:22:29.380 All right.

02:22:29.780 So let me bring in.

02:22:33.540 He's been waiting for a while.

02:22:34.660 guys hit that like button and thank you everyone i may have my dad bring me a snack though

02:22:41.480 so because i'll bite you naked are you there hey can you hear me

02:22:47.560 can you hear me okay or what hey yeah go ahead so uh i just want to make sure i'm not near a fan

02:22:58.800 So I just wanted to say that I think there is a reason to have hope, but it might not be exactly what you want.

02:23:07.580 The technology that's currently, that looks like it's going to happen with Neuralink is going to make it so you can't really lie effectively if you volunteer to be plugged into this thing.

02:23:20.400 And it's not going to be something where you have to get something permanent.

02:23:23.440 There's plenty of headsets that you can just put on.

02:23:26.280 so dating is going to change

02:23:29.440 I mean if people

02:23:31.240 start screening their dates

02:23:32.560 with this kind of ability

02:23:35.080 there's going to be

02:23:36.580 no more secrets like it's all going to be

02:23:39.320 above board and

02:23:41.140 you're not going to be able to get away with lying to people

02:23:43.260 anymore

02:23:43.740 in addition to that I think

02:23:47.300 that I mean

02:23:49.180 if things go the way they look like they're going

02:23:51.460 who knows what's going to happen

02:23:52.820 you know

02:23:55.500 the the robots are going to start being a viable option and i mean i think a lot of guys are going

02:24:04.960 to be just fine with that as soon as the stigma is no longer attached to it they're going to be

02:24:10.660 good with that women are going to have a problem with that because they can't really get what they

02:24:15.720 want of a relationship with the robot effectively who are we going to except for who are we going

02:24:19.940 to bitch to yeah exactly you're gonna have to program in bitching and then it's gonna have to

02:24:28.260 well you're not gonna in order for it to be realistic enough for a man to be satisfied

02:24:33.660 with the robot it's just gonna have to be a little bitchy like once a week that's it

02:24:38.400 for it's gonna be a much harder lift for a guy you know taking punishment but not too much and

02:24:48.680 still standing up for himself it's going to be a much harder program to run and the other thing is

02:24:54.920 that the the one's always going to know it's not real and that the robot isn't actually suffering

02:25:02.420 and worrying about what she cares about so it's you know i think there's a psychological problem

02:25:10.180 with just the way women run on average but if you combine the robots with the fact that

02:25:19.200 artificial womb technology is starting to look viable and apparently they can recreate an ovum

02:25:25.620 from just about any cell but just by removing the nucleus now we're going to be getting to a point

02:25:32.080 where most people are probably going to retreat into technology and then you'll probably have

02:25:38.480 sort of like another it would be like second wave amish but it'll just be religious people who

02:25:46.700 think that participating in this kind of technological revolution is the mark of the

02:25:52.140 beast as foretold in the bible so you'll have the regular amish and then you have these people who

02:25:57.740 were fine with automobiles tv and cell phones but they're not gonna ever you know put a brain chip

02:26:03.680 been and i think everything's going to change and things are going to become a lot more honest and

02:26:12.680 whatever jobs are left where where computers go whatever jobs are left for for people i mean it's

02:26:22.640 not like women usually are very good at competing on the up and up with men so you're going to see

02:26:30.780 a lot of really really hot women their last resort is basically going to be selling their eggs to

02:26:37.380 people with hot sex robots and artificial wombs and then there's the designer baby thing which is

02:26:44.200 you know as a new wrinkle where i mean you're looking at the process of conception possibly

02:26:51.180 becoming completely artificial for anybody who wants to do it so all of these sort of angles

02:26:59.100 that exist where men are being screwed over and women aren't going to change their behavior well

02:27:04.400 i mean these highways are just going right over that dirt road and there's no stopping it

02:27:12.220 okay anyways i'll let you guys go no thanks all right have a good one buddy

02:27:17.000 okay what did you think of that uh i mean this whole where society's going

02:27:27.620 sex robots, A.O.I.

02:27:29.320 I mean, A.I. stuff.

02:27:30.320 I don't even get wrapped up in that talk.

02:27:33.000 You know, I

02:27:35.100 if you can go around in circles in that, I mean,

02:27:38.600 yeah, I guess it's kind of like wait and see.

02:27:41.460 Like it could happen.

02:27:42.620 I guess we'll see.

02:27:44.560 Yeah.

02:27:46.620 You still have to regulate stuff like that and you have to go to the government

02:27:49.860 and women just aren't going to let that happen.

02:27:51.500 So, I mean, you can go around in circles for that.

02:27:54.560 Yeah. I mean, can you imagine?

02:27:57.580 yeah anyway that's why it makes me laugh when i hear women say why isn't there a male birth

02:28:03.100 control pill because you won't let it happen ladies i'm telling you like women know not what

02:28:09.260 they're asking for can you imagine if men controlled um access to relationship in marriage

02:28:15.740 and who gets born i don't even think i think women control access to marriage

02:28:23.020 say again i think women control access to marriage because if men controlled access

02:28:30.700 then they would be marrying this hot 22 year olds but women control access so they're pushing it off

02:28:37.900 well i mean i see what you're saying but most women will not propose to a man so

02:28:47.420 a woman may not want to get married but if they do get married they'll still wait for a man to ask

02:28:53.020 Some of the most powerful women I've ever dated, surgeons, lawyers, doctors, they will

02:29:00.040 not approach a man and they will not propose to a man.

02:29:03.920 And eventually most women will want to get married sometime in their lifetime.

02:29:07.960 I think more men want marriage than women.

02:29:10.520 Yeah.

02:29:11.520 Yeah, I agree.

02:29:12.520 So that's why I think the power is in the women's hands because the women-

02:29:14.520 No, no, no, no, no, no.

02:29:15.820 Because even the small percentage of women who want to get married can't get married without

02:29:20.960 man marrying them first so what you're saying is less women who want to get married so more men

02:29:27.120 will won't get married and i agree with that but the few women that do get married still can't get

02:29:32.800 married without a man asking them first i think like if a woman says i want to get married and

02:29:37.280 she's 22 and hot she gets to pick who she marries she's got the all the cards all of them yeah but

02:29:44.480 that's such a small percentage of women i think that's i'm not going to say it's

02:29:50.000 statistically insignificant but um that want to get married when they're young what do you mean

02:29:56.000 yeah it first off 22 and hot in america and then two want to get made that's such a small number

02:30:06.080 of women that i would argue that is statistically insignificant no but that's my point

02:30:10.080 it's like it's getting pushed off like yeah i just disagree i think women are in control of

02:30:15.280 marriage because i don't think men i don't think men get to pick like like too many men are sexless

02:30:22.080 and that's like well women aren't opting into relationships with them but what you're saying

02:30:28.400 is is okay a woman can be ready for to get married and pick a man but she's not going to marry that

02:30:36.800 man that that's what i'm talking about the man has to marry her so yeah she can pick a man she

02:30:43.520 can want marriage but she's not going to get married unless the man asks first and he could

02:30:48.960 just not ask and she won't get married yeah i just disagree because what i see in like when i look at

02:30:57.040 couples is like more men that want to marry the women than women want to marry the man sadly yeah

02:31:04.000 i agree with you pearl yeah we're not disagree all i'm saying is is even the small percentage

02:31:09.920 of women no matter where they are will not initiate will not propose to a man this won't do it so they

02:31:16.800 can pick a man want to get married but they won't propose to a man they won't do it so a man still

02:31:23.840 has to marry them that's all i'm saying yeah i know they propose but i just i still think women

02:31:31.040 have more power in the marriage market because they have more men that'll like marry them than

02:31:35.280 like men do have women that will marry them well you know i've seen i've seen under like 30 maybe

02:31:42.480 but yeah i've seen a couple of women where um it's like you want to marry the guy and you're

02:31:48.640 in a situation for like five or six years why don't you oh i could never propose to a band

02:31:54.160 so they'll sit there unmarried because the guy's not asking that's all i don't oh i don't think so

02:32:00.080 i think they're lying to themselves they just don't want to be married

02:32:02.640 they like they like like usually like especially the situation ship girl like

02:32:08.860 they they want to be in a situation ship because if they didn't they wouldn't be

02:32:13.520 like you yeah go ahead all right i'm gonna let asan in i want to see you guys you got

02:32:20.420 four minutes or less uh asan is coming in asan how you doing buddy

02:32:28.980 hey i'm doing well can you guys hear me i can hear you hey pearl i would say good morning from

02:32:38.020 this side of the world and good night for you guys okay so real quick um why should i have hope

02:32:44.560 okay so first of all you should have a hope for yourself because not for me society for me yeah

02:32:52.060 most of the people out there that are listening that our audience i would say 500 people that

02:32:56.560 are listening still now first of all the nature works in a very unique way people that go don't

02:33:04.400 go with the nature's rules eventually get cast out and their DNA gets obsolete and people that

02:33:12.340 play by the rules you know give the due respect to the nature all the you know parameters that

02:33:19.620 are said that way eventually win the guy i i really like uh points that brad made uh especially

02:33:28.260 about culture about religion how people that are you know believer in some sort of theology

02:33:36.200 where they're not gonna let neural link control them uh you know they're not gonna let some

02:33:43.660 liberal propagandists destroy their family so people that are in control definitely they're

02:33:51.000 gonna win at that cool thanks for calling in no problem having have a good day guys thank you for

02:34:00.000 having me have a good one okay we're gonna bring our boy sean up because he's been waiting for a

02:34:05.520 while. Sean, what's up, buddy? What's going on? Can you hear me? I can hear you. I'm still in

02:34:13.520 recovery, Sean. Man, talk about it. No, I was, but we don't have time. Tell me, why should I have

02:34:23.340 hope? Well, I guess we could say that you could have hope in your own life, but for the majority,

02:34:29.440 like you said, society, I say you don't have hope in that, in that idea that most people were

02:34:34.040 talking about it just i i just can't wing it i just can't make up something as much as i can

02:34:39.840 easily break up with girls i just can't make this one up i can't sweet talk my way out of this one

02:34:45.320 yeah it's gonna have to redirect your energy into something else but as far as what most

02:34:53.580 people conceive as relationships and what the past may or may have not been guys look you're

02:34:59.800 gonna have to redirect that energy heavy and it doesn't make you a black pill doesn't make you a

02:35:03.600 doomsday just makes you realistic is that so bad yeah and you could still have a good life

02:35:10.400 you see you seem like a happy guy what i'm super happy there's dirt bikes four wheelers i still got

02:35:16.760 friends accumulated resources i've done well for myself over life i mean that's what i lean on

02:35:22.540 not whether a shorty is gonna commit a box to me for the next 50 years come on now women ain't

02:35:30.140 worried about me they're going to spas they got dogs and strollers they got cats and strollers

02:35:37.260 i mean they live in their best lives some are complaining on the internet but for the most

02:35:42.000 part they live the longest right even if they're downtrodden ain't doing nothing they're still

02:35:47.760 going to get social benefits government housing i mean they're living their lives so i'm gonna

02:35:53.920 to live minds i'll be dinged yeah cool yeah and like i think a lot of people especially women

02:36:00.880 that think that men are gonna do with with bad news and realistic uh perspectives what they would

02:36:08.000 do men are gonna act whether the news is bad or good women will take bad news and just sit there

02:36:17.200 and just cry about it understand i'm saying yeah yeah exactly so i have um for me personally

02:36:25.760 i felt like life begins when you accept this and it actually gets way better because

02:36:32.960 you don't expect anything anymore so would you agree or you disagree i would agree but just with

02:36:41.360 that addition to it right like i just let go of that idea and there's so many other ideas to

02:36:47.600 construct all right come on come on pearl we're living longer right we're not involved as much

02:36:53.680 wars in the past i'm not a slave like i mean come on like i'd rather not be a slave i'd rather not

02:37:02.240 fight in world war one or world war ii i would not want to fight the ottomans i would not want

02:37:07.600 want to fight the vikings i'll pass on all of that just to get the time that i have today so i just

02:37:13.860 kind of redirected my energy and stopped worrying about that what hollywood 1950s house household

02:37:20.700 what is that housewife myth that's a lie and i've been across the world pearl it doesn't matter we

02:37:26.120 go to japan they shame the heck out of women i said this millions of times they shame them there's

02:37:32.520 no out of wedlock births like that. It's like 1%. But girls just said, hey, I'm not going to get

02:37:38.420 married since you're going to shame me. Hey, I'm not going to have kids if you're going to shame

02:37:42.680 me. And then that's the standard. And they have the largest decline. But I want to figure out

02:37:48.120 when did we become Bill Gates? World population. Now we're worried about the population and where

02:37:54.120 it goes. Poor people will have babies. They're having them all over Africa. Don't worry. Africa

02:37:58.560 got you but at the end of the day there's dirt bikes there's four wheelers there's a lot of

02:38:04.400 things to be happy about and i'm serious and also i'm not going to jump off it's going to drive you

02:38:10.520 crazy thinking you can control things you can't control like so exactly i talk about a friend of

02:38:16.780 mine who's a vegan activist and the other day he tells me a story about this guy that went to jail

02:38:22.580 for 10 years for veganism and i thought that is the stupidest thing i've ever heard to go to jail

02:38:29.140 right i was like why would you go to jail for that like even if you think like imagine if i

02:38:37.100 went to jail for abortion that would be the stupidest thing i ever did like these women

02:38:41.640 kids any anyway and when we we're actually good friends that it's funny and i we talk about this

02:38:49.320 And I equate veganism to the abortion thing.

02:38:51.680 I think they're the same.

02:38:54.900 Yeah.

02:38:55.420 They're killing things you can't control.

02:39:00.380 Exactly.

02:39:01.500 And I had a friend recently, he lived in the Middle East, like UAE.

02:39:06.120 I've been there.

02:39:06.800 I lived there for a couple of months.

02:39:08.660 And, you know, you look at it in extremes like, oh, the West is X, Y, and Z.

02:39:12.680 Well, look, bro, my friend, he said something to a woman.

02:39:16.380 And I mean, a local woman.

02:39:17.500 he called her B and he didn't call her B direct. He said, Hey, don't talk to this B. She called

02:39:23.440 the police. The police came and put him in jail for seven days. He had to pay 7,000 euros.

02:39:29.120 Like, even though they're quote unquote traditional in the Middle East, those women

02:39:33.220 still hold tremendous powers. They call the cops. You're done. Period. Like gyneocracy at its highest

02:39:39.100 extent. So at the end of the day, if I'm in the West, the first thing I'm going to do is get my

02:39:45.580 money up get my resources live the best life I can live that's get some friends like go outside

02:39:53.560 touch grass and I'm not saying get big to get women and then I'm not saying all that I'm just

02:39:59.580 saying there's a lot of things to be happy about I can read the literacy rate is high I didn't die

02:40:05.560 at 32 most of the diseases are curable like come on people are living with HIV back in the days

02:40:13.400 pearl you'd be dead people are living with hiv now you can yeah right you can hook up and you

02:40:19.780 also have access to women to the fact like kings didn't have access like like kings didn't have

02:40:25.380 access to the women you can sleep with now just saying you can have a recess chin get on a boat

02:40:31.920 and come to thailand and get a girl to love you like it's not that bad for now globally

02:40:37.920 for now yeah because they raised the price on it

02:40:42.320 but all right sean we we still got a full call line we're going to yeah shout out to you doug

02:40:47.360 shout out to pearl peace out i was gonna talk to you buddy okay next up we have

02:40:57.120 thanks for hanging in here guys really appreciate it like the video subscribe i'm letting cj come up

02:41:03.600 cj has been waiting for a while thanks for waiting patiently it says joining cj are you there

02:41:15.760 cj

02:41:19.280 cj can you hear me i can hear you all right uh so on the whole hope thing i have a conceptual kind of

02:41:28.000 uh issue with it i don't i don't i don't like hope either but my thing is

02:41:32.240 when you like you can either move into like happiness or you can fall into sad reality and

02:41:43.440 i'd rather stay in the sad reality than to be kind of bs into hope and just continually have

02:41:49.160 nowhere to go but disappointment and dread and sadness you know what i mean yeah i agree

02:41:55.920 so yeah i agree with you that that hope is a trap it's just it's it's a little more insidious than

02:42:04.460 a lot of people realize yep yep especially as a man in 2025 you you can't you just you you can't

02:42:13.080 live like that like what that kiana girl was saying we have to have oh no this this is how

02:42:18.540 women talk it's why i got a lot of issues and stuff because it's like you're just bsing these

02:42:25.180 people up and down and not really realizing the collateral damage of what happens in reality

02:42:32.380 smacks them as hard as it's going to yeah i agree i agree thanks for calling no problem

02:42:41.820 okay we're gonna let you do we could do one more

02:42:46.380 okay i'm bringing in jay because i see him in the chat so i'm letting him in jerry there

02:42:57.020 it says connecting to audio

02:43:00.620 connecting audio oh eric novices tell her she should have hope because we still have a chance

02:43:07.340 to smack feminism as long as they have something to get mad about we will always have something

02:43:12.540 to laugh at i mean we could laugh at it but we're not beating feminism they won

02:43:19.340 yep like why would you sign up like there's like an article that says

02:43:24.300 oh like conservatives lost the battle why do you expect them to win the war

02:43:30.300 uh on the website brad donated 25 that's good oh thanks he said he says

02:43:37.660 pro read i swear i almost heard you say why should i i have oh maybe next call-in show

02:43:45.900 and then is there anything else that says pearl read here i think we're good

02:43:55.500 jay's audio is still connecting so uh going once going twice sorry jay your audio didn't connect

02:44:05.100 in time but she in the waiting room and then the last person i'm gonna pick a new person

02:44:13.260 let's take a look of a draw and i'll do

02:44:19.340 uh it says iphone 2 are you there yeah i'm here my name is angelo sorry what's up angelo

02:44:28.460 tell me why should i have hope um i i simply just think you should have hope because it's

02:44:34.700 It's people that listen to you and it's people that understand the points that you're making, you know.

02:44:42.720 And I think that, you know, we try to still, even though we understand that things can go bad, things can go wrong,

02:44:50.720 we still do our best to do the right things.

02:44:53.300 I think that men getting married and women being married and having kids together is a beautiful thing.

02:45:00.540 It's supposed to be a beautiful thing.

02:45:02.080 and it's sad today to see that

02:45:04.180 how far society

02:45:06.080 has gone to tarnish that

02:45:07.540 well why would I

02:45:10.000 tell them that it's not going to fail

02:45:12.000 when it will probably fail

02:45:14.140 I really don't have

02:45:17.960 an answer to that question

02:45:19.040 am I supposed to

02:45:21.940 should I lie

02:45:22.620 no not at all

02:45:25.880 and like I've said this many times on the stream

02:45:30.020 I'll say it again

02:45:30.700 men are gonna act okay you just want them to have the best the the most knowledge and to be in the

02:45:38.500 best position to uh to make a decision who when they do once again if you're a doomer and a gloomer

02:45:45.220 to a man you know that's not gonna stop him from from acting you just want him to to take

02:45:51.540 what's really going on out there into consideration before they act right that's all it is right and

02:45:58.540 i uh i think i kind of like got an example of this because i was on a um i was on a live yesterday

02:46:03.420 talking to some people and the topic was basically you know does a woman's past matter you know the

02:46:09.800 topic is obviously brought up a lot and it was a guy in there he he was basically explaining

02:46:15.040 that you know he he wouldn't advise younger guys to deal with girls that have high body counts

02:46:20.820 and there were like a lot of older people in a in the chat basically trying to convince this

02:46:25.900 younger guy that you know uh it doesn't matter the woman's past doesn't matter and things like

02:46:31.900 that and i just you know that was basically the point that i was making like well i think that

02:46:35.780 you know i have some so i will want them to know the probabilities are i want them to know the

02:46:41.820 outcomes of any decisions they might make so being the fact that being married is a huge one i would

02:46:47.240 definitely want him to know what he was getting himself into especially what kind of especially

02:46:52.900 when we're talking about the kind of woman that he wants to marry so you know having a high body

02:46:57.940 count or a woman having a pass would be a significant factor and if if he's going to

02:47:03.300 spend the rest of his life with her so i i kind of understand where it's like the youth is like

02:47:09.180 they're confused in certain in certain senses because you got one side telling them that

02:47:13.740 certain things aren't okay but then you got older people telling them oh you're you're you're going

02:47:17.560 to change your mind and you know things are going to change for you but the outcomes are still going

02:47:21.960 to be the same but you know what i mean yeah i know what you mean i don't think women's past

02:47:29.620 matters anymore riley reed got married lana rose got married yeah sorry i think being hot i think

02:47:36.800 being hot matters more because america's fat and yeah i think it's being hot and then just being

02:47:44.740 able to you gotta play a character enough to be able to get the ring yeah and then once you get

02:47:51.940 it it's just he then bait and switch obviously yep that's what happens i agree yeah sorry we're

02:48:01.060 doom and gloom over here but it's it's the harsh reality of it you know um i don't i wouldn't say

02:48:10.900 i wouldn't say it's doom and gloom because you know to be honest like i'm just pearly i've been

02:48:18.260 watching you probably since the beginning and it's amazing for me to get a chance to talk to you i

02:48:23.220 can't you know like i'm really a big fan of yours and when i've seen like the trailer that you know

02:48:28.820 when i've seen the trailer of the documentary that you're putting out like that really brought tears

02:48:32.820 to my eyes because a lot of this stuff that you're talking about is things that i wish i would have

02:48:37.860 knew before i ended up in a position that i'm in you know i'm a young father in the court system

02:48:43.620 all the things that you talk about i'm going through so i definitely understand the necessity

02:48:48.980 of what you guys are doing and i wouldn't call it doom and gloom i would call it you know

02:48:54.660 real information that young people need to know yeah completely okay real fast let's say

02:49:02.020 you meet a guy who just graduated college and he's entering the workforce he gets a job

02:49:08.500 you know at the bottom of corporate american making about 42 000 and he he comes to you for

02:49:14.340 relationship advice angelo what would you what would you tell him sum it up like 30 seconds

02:49:20.180 what would you tell him i would tell him i to be honest i don't think that it's anything that i

02:49:26.580 could tell him because it's like you can tell a guy you could tell a guy hey um vet the girl that

02:49:33.860 that you're dating but then you got you got to worry about the bay and switch i don't you know

02:49:38.280 i can tell them hey be smart about your money uh you know do as much as you can to protect your

02:49:44.020 assets and things like that but i feel like you could tell a guy whatever he's gonna still do

02:49:50.040 what he wants to do he's gonna act like you said he's gonna do what he wants to do

02:49:53.780 yeah okay thanks for calling in thank you very much call anytime angelo good talking to you

02:50:01.580 Yeah, please do.

02:50:02.280 Good to talk to you guys.

02:50:03.000 God bless you.

02:50:04.960 Cool.

02:50:06.660 All right.

02:50:08.160 Let's get crazy.

02:50:08.840 We still have one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, 10, 11, 12, 13 people

02:50:14.760 on the line, but it is getting late.

02:50:17.020 We've got to wrap it.

02:50:18.040 I want to get this food before this place closes because my dad's gone.

02:50:25.040 Sorry, guys.

02:50:26.220 I'm all really handy today.

02:50:28.780 You were hungry earlier.

02:50:30.180 week i know that was my first meal of the day it was 800 calories we're doing a content called

02:50:37.300 pros like i'm i'm hungry i gotta get food i'm angry yeah it was like 800 calories i can't be

02:50:45.380 hungry okay i don't care get food all right guys thanks for watching um maybe we'll do a part two

02:50:53.220 of this i had another question i wanted to ask where it was like similar to this but a little

02:50:58.420 different so i'll keep it in mind for a future show or maybe we'll do part two yeah because

02:51:04.180 there are a lot of people on the line still and new people too so yeah we'll have to do a part

02:51:09.780 two this week sometime yeah um okay but thanks for watching guys please like the video on your

02:51:15.660 way out and subscribe to the channel um doug mpa any final thoughts um yeah i'm sounding like a

02:51:24.460 broken record but you know men are gonna act red pillars we can say don't get married all

02:51:30.120 to the high heavens and the majority of men in my lifetime are gonna get married

02:51:33.960 we can say don't have kids but the majority of men are gonna have children so um just give them

02:51:41.080 the most information and let them know what might happen so if it does happen they're ready

02:51:45.740 and that's what pearl's doing yeah um guys just expect between two to ten years

02:51:52.560 and then you can go get a younger hotter wife silver lining right

02:51:56.780 your wife will get older and uglier but your next wife will be the same age

02:52:03.380 thanks for watching guys

Pearl - June 24, 2025

Why Should I Have Hope (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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