Pearl - June 14, 2025


Why So Many Men Stay Stuck on One Girl @Mr.DatingCoach


Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

Words per minute

208.69565

Word count

360

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

3

sentences flagged

Hate speech

1

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode we talk about the scarcity mindset that men have when it comes to women and how to deal with it. We talk about why men are so hung up on the one girl that doesn t want them because that's the only girl that gives them attention.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
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00:00:00.000 the average guy yeah who's not really the average guy is not religious yeah they're naive up until
00:00:05.120 their late 30s because i've talked to guys when i message them right whatever they're like i'm still
00:00:09.680 trying to get with this girl i've known her for a year too how old are you 37 38. no way yeah so men 0.98
00:00:15.600 are so naive nowadays right and to answer your question they get so hung up on one girl that
00:00:21.840 doesn't want them because that's the only girl that gives them time that gives them attention 1.00
00:00:27.680 because guys they don't realize this but guys do need emotional reassurance as well almost right
00:00:33.300 they do need emotional attention almost right and that girl's the only one that talks to him
00:00:38.620 and so in his mind's like that's the only opportunity that i have to make anything
00:00:43.040 happen because i don't know any other girls that's the only girl i know and that's the only
00:00:46.040 girl that talks to me and so they approach it from a scarcity mindset because they don't know
00:00:50.580 any other girls and so they're so hung up on her they come to me there's no no none they come to
00:00:55.940 me and they say yeah well there's a girl I really want her I've known her for six years and I tell
00:01:00.460 the first question as well how many other girls are you talking to zero yeah why because I'm 1.00
00:01:07.040 scared your real issues not that you can't get her the real issues they can't get anyone you
00:01:13.380 know and so that's that's a mentality that these guys have and it's really a scarce mentality right
00:01:18.820 it's kind of like going fishing and then looking for one fish even though there's a thousand fish
00:01:24.780 out there but no i want that one right because that one is the only one that bites my bait what
00:01:29.420 what are you talking about it doesn't make any sense so that real problem is that they can't get
00:01:32.700 anyone that they can't build attraction that they're afraid of failure right they're afraid to
00:01:37.500 get rejected a lot of a lot of