Pearl - Why So Many Men Stay Stuck on One Girl @Mr.DatingCoach

00:00:00.000 the average guy yeah who's not really the average guy is not religious yeah they're naive up until

00:00:05.120 their late 30s because i've talked to guys when i message them right whatever they're like i'm still

00:00:09.680 trying to get with this girl i've known her for a year too how old are you 37 38. no way yeah so men 0.98

00:00:15.600 are so naive nowadays right and to answer your question they get so hung up on one girl that

00:00:21.840 doesn't want them because that's the only girl that gives them time that gives them attention 1.00

00:00:27.680 because guys they don't realize this but guys do need emotional reassurance as well almost right

00:00:33.300 they do need emotional attention almost right and that girl's the only one that talks to him

00:00:38.620 and so in his mind's like that's the only opportunity that i have to make anything

00:00:43.040 happen because i don't know any other girls that's the only girl i know and that's the only

00:00:46.040 girl that talks to me and so they approach it from a scarcity mindset because they don't know

00:00:50.580 any other girls and so they're so hung up on her they come to me there's no no none they come to

00:00:55.940 me and they say yeah well there's a girl I really want her I've known her for six years and I tell

00:01:00.460 the first question as well how many other girls are you talking to zero yeah why because I'm 1.00

00:01:07.040 scared your real issues not that you can't get her the real issues they can't get anyone you

00:01:13.380 know and so that's that's a mentality that these guys have and it's really a scarce mentality right

00:01:18.820 it's kind of like going fishing and then looking for one fish even though there's a thousand fish

00:01:24.780 out there but no i want that one right because that one is the only one that bites my bait what

00:01:29.420 what are you talking about it doesn't make any sense so that real problem is that they can't get

00:01:32.700 anyone that they can't build attraction that they're afraid of failure right they're afraid to

00:01:37.500 get rejected a lot of a lot of

Pearl - June 14, 2025