Pearl - June 19, 2025


Why So Many Men Stay Virgins Until 25 w⧸ @Mr.DatingCoach

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In this episode, we talk about the archetypes of guys who are virgins vs. virgins who are looking for a serious relationship, how to find a partner, and how to deal with a guy who is a virgin.

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00:00:00.640 So when you're doing dating coaching, what are like the archetypes of guys that tend to come to you?
00:00:06.560 So where do I start? You have a few guys, but the two buckets we see the most is the guys who are inexperienced and they just want to have fun with girls.
00:00:17.520 They're like, hey, I've never had a girlfriend. What's a relationship like? Right.
00:00:21.620 They might still be virgins or, you know, they have no experience.
00:00:25.580 The other bucket is the guys who are looking for a long term relationship.
00:00:30.000 they're like hey i got heartbroken i don't know what i'm doing i'm rusty maybe they're in their
00:00:34.480 40s heart divorce whatever but they're actually looking for something serious so those are kind
00:00:39.440 of like the two buckets that we get for guys and when you get guys that are virgins are um close to
00:00:44.640 it or close to it i don't know like some guys you meet it's like they've hooked up with one girl one
00:00:49.840 time something like that but what is the issue generally is it like looks they're just super
00:00:55.680 unattractive is it yeah lack of social skills and is it worse with the younger guys so because gen 1.00
00:01:02.860 z is more online no you're gonna be uh so yeah that's a good question you're gonna be surprised
00:01:08.180 by this but most of the guys who are virgins right now doesn't mean that they're terribly
00:01:14.240 you know looking or that they don't have any social skills what happens right now is because
00:01:19.540 dating is getting harder with time and social media and everything what's happening right now
00:01:23.260 what we're seeing is you're seeing a lot of guys who are focused on their career in college put
00:01:27.840 their heads down they go have a good career and they're maybe the mid-management or something
00:01:32.000 like that and they're like hey i've been focused on my career so long i forgot i'm still version
00:01:35.940 and that's getting them i'm like well what's going on how old are they by the time they like
00:01:40.040 look up reality check 25 26 okay right at that point you're like okay i'm 20 what's the average
00:01:47.120 life expectancy 74 yeah so at 37 you're middle age basically yeah right 25 26 is like i have
00:01:53.180 10 years to have fun and find my wife yeah so that's kind of what we see with virgin's most part
00:01:57.760 now