Pearl - June 26, 2025


Why Society Demands Men Change but Excuses Women @ItsComplicatedChannel


Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

Words per minute

213.64986

Word count

264

Sentence count

3

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

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Toxicity

1

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Hate speech

4

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss misandry and the double standards we place on men and women in our society. Why do we have to be so hard on men? Why are we so obsessed with being a better man? Why is it so hard for men to change and improve? What is the difference between a good man and a bad man?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 whenever we do talk about misandry we only talk about the misandry that comes from women we don't 1.00
00:00:04.840 talk about the misandry that comes from other men we look at shaming women as hate but when we shame
00:00:11.020 men it's motivation and i think why aren't they both hate why why why have we come to assess the
00:00:18.040 average man as unacceptable and he has to change and improve what's what's wrong i mean you know 1.00
00:00:23.280 i i get it like i'm not against the idea of self-improvement i'm not telling men like be a
00:00:27.220 loser and don't ever you know achieve anything but sometimes like men have a right to enjoy life
00:00:32.740 yeah yeah yeah and and sometimes i mean i see rants online from guys who are good looking guys 0.91
00:00:38.340 and shouldn't even have a problem and they're exhausted they they run into burnout because
00:00:42.040 they feel like you know it's it's never going to be enough and so and the other thing is it's like
00:00:47.600 there's this idea that just because you know men are appreciated somehow that validates a lot of
00:00:52.860 the sacrifices that men are expected to make.
00:00:55.440 And I think that, you know, we can't just like,
00:00:58.580 like why would women appreciate the sacrifices that men make 0.97
00:01:01.300 if they're just going to continue making those sacrifices?
00:01:03.600 So I think that either women have to have a duty 1.00
00:01:06.020 or neither one of them have to have a duty or something like that.
00:01:08.860 But it's the double standards in our society that persist that,
00:01:12.860 you know, have to change.