Pearl - Why Society Demands Men Change but Excuses Women @ItsComplicatedChannel

00:00:00.000 whenever we do talk about misandry we only talk about the misandry that comes from women we don't

00:00:04.840 talk about the misandry that comes from other men we look at shaming women as hate but when we shame

00:00:11.020 men it's motivation and i think why aren't they both hate why why why have we come to assess the

00:00:18.040 average man as unacceptable and he has to change and improve what's what's wrong i mean you know

00:00:23.280 i i get it like i'm not against the idea of self-improvement i'm not telling men like be a

00:00:27.220 loser and don't ever you know achieve anything but sometimes like men have a right to enjoy life

00:00:32.740 yeah yeah yeah and and sometimes i mean i see rants online from guys who are good looking guys

00:00:38.340 and shouldn't even have a problem and they're exhausted they they run into burnout because

00:00:42.040 they feel like you know it's it's never going to be enough and so and the other thing is it's like

00:00:47.600 there's this idea that just because you know men are appreciated somehow that validates a lot of

00:00:52.860 the sacrifices that men are expected to make.

00:00:55.440 And I think that, you know, we can't just like,

00:00:58.580 like why would women appreciate the sacrifices that men make

00:01:01.300 if they're just going to continue making those sacrifices?

00:01:03.600 So I think that either women have to have a duty

00:01:06.020 or neither one of them have to have a duty or something like that.

00:01:08.860 But it's the double standards in our society that persist that,

00:01:12.860 you know, have to change.

Pearl - June 26, 2025