Pearl - October 18, 2026


“Why Successful Men Have MORE to Lose in Divorce” @JustPearlyThings

Cornell Seven Accuser's LEAKED TEXTS Spark OUTRAGE… “Conservative Women Want CAREERS and Traditional Marriage at the Same Time” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

166.22

Word count

458

Sentence count

9

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

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Hate speech

4

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 do you think the free agent lifestyle does more to contribute to the things that you say are
00:00:04.840 problematic or does it somehow in some way uh allow for the types of things that you say that
00:00:11.580 you advocate for family togetherness you know look at the way society yeah so now this is shaming
00:00:17.060 right he's saying oh you're you're just sad and you're not advocating for togetherness well
00:00:21.580 getting married doesn't guarantee you're going to be together at all it doesn't predict it in the
00:00:27.940 slightest. So there's a lot of people, and this isn't necessarily your fault. All you can do is
00:00:32.940 just put out information, but you and I both know the majority of people in this country are not
00:00:37.340 exactly road scholars or successful business people or things of that nature. So do you think
00:00:42.960 that in the wrong hands, more often than not, the free agent lifestyle contributes to the very
00:00:47.140 things that you say are problematic? I don't believe so. I think if people really thoroughly
00:00:51.080 read the book, five times I referenced that if you're considering marriage to pursue this
00:00:56.760 lifestyle first so you know what you're betting when you look at relationships and marriage so i
00:01:02.000 still left it open for people to pursue yeah because you don't want to be surprised and you
00:01:07.300 have to know it's not a guarantee long-term relationships cohabitation and marriage i did
00:01:12.660 not completely eliminate it what i did was say i think men would be better positioning themselves
00:01:19.100 to be more of a head of a household by earning knowing what you're risking then looking at
00:01:25.080 relationships from that point. What I'm finding is that men look at relationships as some sort of
00:01:30.200 salvation for them, all right? It's a financial arrangement where the woman can bring in some 0.96
00:01:34.680 income and they can share in the split, but he's losing a lot of leverage in terms of he doesn't
00:01:40.280 have any authority in his household, all right? When the children are produced, the woman could 0.97
00:01:44.680 just take the kids and leave, and he has no way to fight it economically to go into the laws,
00:01:49.280 hire any lawyers to prevent this i'm just trying to reframe the argument and i believe i'm more
00:01:55.460 doing it in the old school way people say they're old school until they want to be old school and
00:02:00.040 i'm saying be a patriarch be a leader get yourself in a financial position to better yourself off in
00:02:05.660 a marriage if you want to do it men typically don't they they believe that this is some sort
00:02:10.560 of situation where they're going to build with the woman and then overwhelmingly they get kneecapped 0.69
00:02:15.340 We'll be right back. 0.93