Pearl - Why Unhappy Women Don't Get The Men They Want

00:00:00.000 i've gotten from players i make them give me their stats or you know guys that have been in the field

00:00:06.480 for a while out of a hundred women that you hook up with how many would you consider for a relationship 1.00

00:00:15.960 guess put it in the chat what do you think all right um a man talks about how his friend's

00:00:25.240 girlfriend fumbled the relationship there's a girl i knew in college that dated a guy for four

00:00:28.900 years and this guy was amazing he was really good to her and she was really good to him for the

00:00:33.260 relationship in itself but one day she realized that she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore

00:00:37.260 she just decided that motherhood and settling down and marriage and having kids just just wasn't what 0.98

00:00:42.440 life was all about for her and so she actually left the relationship just one day out of the blue she

00:00:47.520 said i'm done there's nothing wrong with you and she said this to many people like there was nothing

00:00:51.180 wrong with him and it devastated this guy it killed him for the first year after the relationship he

00:00:56.540 was just not functional and what happened was even more so painful for him was that she went

00:01:00.900 back to her ex she went back to her ex who was probably trying to talk to her the entire relationship

00:01:05.500 encouraging her to do these things with him and this ex traveled he had a good lifestyle and they

00:01:10.420 actually went and traveled together for a period of time they hooked up they did whatever they did i

00:01:13.580 don't know all the details but she had fun with him but at some point about a year and a half in

00:01:18.320 the ex completely dropped her and then for another six months she chased this individual

00:01:22.220 and after a year the person that she left initially he got over the breakup it took him some time it

00:01:30.020 took him a year to get over it but then he found a new girl and then he actually started dating her

00:01:33.660 very seriously and so when she tried to come back to him because that's what she did she tried to come

00:01:37.580 back he didn't want her anymore until this day that woman is single and she's out here justifying 1.00

00:01:44.220 it to herself rationalizing i know she's not happy because she tells people very close to her that she's

00:01:48.360 not here's the thing she's not a happy person

00:01:52.280 women she if she would have stayed with him that man should just count his blessings because he she

00:02:02.580 would have just tortured him there's some idea that women that are unhappy people will somehow be happy 1.00

00:02:09.760 in a marriage or relationship they're just less lonely but they torture everybody around them

00:02:16.520 like if anything you should just count his lucky star she's just an unhappy person happy and she

00:02:24.720 missed out on the good guy she let that go and when she was young and when she was attractive she

00:02:30.580 spent all her time trying to chase the bad guys and trying to tame them instead of really focused on

00:02:35.220 settling down with the good guy and she regrets it she really does because she tells people that were

00:02:39.420 close to her that she wishes she could go back to this individual and she regrets the decision that

00:02:44.340 she made and my heart it aches for her yeah she says that but

00:02:48.500 she would get back and do the same thing to him if he ever took her back

00:02:54.340 it really hurts to see this happen because in no part of me do i want her to suffer i think that

00:03:01.180 things would have worked out beautifully for them but unfortunately she made the decision that she wanted

00:03:04.960 to make because she felt like at the time in her life she wanted more and that greed a lot of time

00:03:09.760 that idea of validation and verification and the desire to just go do things that are fun

00:03:14.180 will cause you a lifestyle of misery in the future because you missed out on the one good thing that 0.99

00:03:19.040 was she'll be fine as long as she didn't get fat she'll fuck someone will do it don't worry 1.00

00:03:23.680 really loyal to you and really good for you so i encourage a lot of young women if you find the good 0.99

00:03:28.800 guy stay with him because you can go try to tame all these bad boys and have fun but if you get out of

00:03:36.000 the period of time there are women that tame bad boys there are but i've gotten the numbers from bad 1.00

00:03:42.940 boys ladies do you know the numbers i've gotten from players i make them give me their stats 1.00

00:03:50.060 or you know guys that have been in the field for a while

00:03:53.500 out of a hundred women that you hook up with how many would you consider for a relationship 1.00

00:04:02.260 guess put it in the chat what do you think

00:04:07.400 four and sometimes you're just not hot enough to be with them and you might be cute

00:04:21.800 but you're just not like these guys that are running through these hoes they got really high 1.00

00:04:30.260 physical standards yeah four and that's that's after so then these guys the the they're always

00:04:39.100 going to cheat for one but they they generally have a kid with somebody yeah four and then out of the four

00:04:44.920 i think the one guy told me there's 10 over like a decade that he would have considered

00:04:54.880 like to have children with and he had kids with none of them so because sometimes they don't even pick

00:05:03.020 anybody they pick themselves

00:05:04.820 do you know what i mean they just say do you know what i pick me

00:05:11.020 you know what i mean they do you know what i mean they don't really

00:05:17.040 yeah

00:05:18.860 that they are

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Pearl - May 28, 2025

Why Unhappy Women Don't Get The Men They Want

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