Pearl - November 12, 2026


Woman Reveals Her REAL BODY COUNT… Fiancé POSTPONES the Wedding

Married Man CLASHES With Pearl Over Traditional Marriage 18 Year Old Woman Leads Police on a WILD CHASE… Then Gets CORNERED @JustPearlyThings

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00:00:00 I told my fiance the truth about my past. Now he's postponing our wedding. I, 31 female, grew up in a small southern town, went to a mid-sized college for fashion merchandising, to work in my field, and three years ago I met my fiance, let's call him Barry, 34 male.
00:00:20 i am reasonably successful at my job and barry is ridiculously successful at his in addition to
00:00:27 coming from a fairly well-off family we started dating long distance and then i moved to his city
00:00:33 with a promotion to regional and we moved in together i love this city and all of my new
00:00:40 friends here i love my new position and i love my fiancee however she said she loved the fiancee
00:00:47 and first thing she said was he was successful not hot that's a beta box we're looking at houses
00:00:53 and everything we're a great match barry is charming wonderful thoughtful and attentive 0.99
00:00:58 everything i fall that's not good yeah not alpha fuck not prince charming i want in a man 0.96
00:01:04 his family is very supportive of us and our plans as is mine when he proposed last year with a 0.98
00:01:11 beautiful ring at the beach oh gleefully accepted dude we talked about it and we agreed on a prenup
00:01:17 to protect us both in case of the worth oh my motivation was to protect the inheritance i'm
00:01:23 anticipating for my grandmother a family farm of about 50 acres and my parents home when they
00:01:30 eventually pass never want to lose it's not a lot compared to barry's holdings but it's mine and i
00:01:36 would never want anything to happen to it nor would i want anything from barry if we're divorced
00:01:41 so i didn't think anything of agreeing to a prenup only now his lawyer is putting it together
00:01:47 we're still over eight months out to the wedding day so this is a perfectly reasonable step my
00:01:53 lawyer looked it over and agreed it was pretty fair according to the laws of our state i agreed
00:01:58 with him that we should go ahead with it and he made the arrangements for this friday i went ahead
00:02:03 I didn't took the day off to go sign the papers and have lunch with Barry to celebrate.
00:02:08 All right.
00:02:09 But when I got it back from my attorney, I noticed that part of what I'll be expected to do is participate in a polygraph examination.
00:02:18 What?
00:02:18 So will Barry.
00:02:20 What?
00:02:20 I can put together a list of questions for him and he can do the same for me.
00:02:24 But we'll be making the answers hooked up.
00:02:27 But we'll be making the answers hooked up to a lie detector.
00:02:31 I've done these in the past for security checks, so I know how they work.
00:02:35 But here's the problem.
00:02:37 When Barry and I got together at first and we were exchanging particulars after our first date,
00:02:42 we met at Virgin Gorda, BVI.
00:02:46 Beautiful!
00:02:47 No idea what that means.
00:02:49 At the time, I didn't think much of it and gave him my usual answer.
00:02:53 Five.
00:02:54 That seemed reasonable, even a little conservative at the time.
00:02:57 i only counted long-term relationships since high school and the boy i mean that's i don't like
00:03:02 body count surveys because i mean women just lie i lost my virginity to as real relationships not
00:03:10 the high school boys i fooled around with or the other guys i've met and one of the things that 0.99
00:03:15 women understandably regret is being honest because we are big fat slut whores and most men 1.00
00:03:19 can't take it so um if you're honest about your big fat slut whoredom the men will crash out 1.00
00:03:25 and so women are being honest about their body counts which probably still lying but i guess 1.00
00:03:29 more honest because the number she tells probably lie but you know how it is so um this woman told
00:03:35 the her fiance the truth about the past her past and she could have lied but she didn't so now he's
00:03:41 postponing the wedding i can't decide because okay i got you got to think about it like this
00:03:45 women we view you in three ways either as above us as equals or below us now a beta bucks is going 0.53
00:03:52 be someone we view below us because there we want him to be our slave right at partner it's kind of 0.68
00:03:59 where women marry usually a good looking guy that that we kind of view in our head as a friend so
00:04:03 like a peer so that's a co-worker and a co-worker you open up to right and you talk about all your
00:04:09 your secrets a boss you lie to but it's because you respect them more right so alpha fox is like 0.98
00:04:17 the boss um no do you know what actually i changed my mind alpha fucks is prince charming 0.98
00:04:23 sorry sorry let me redo let me redo alpha fucks like the guy at the top that's like the boss 0.97
00:04:29 that's prince charming that's the perfect mix of alpha fucks beta bucks they're very rare 0.99
00:04:33 the guy under him in the middle is um the alpha fuck so that's the guy you can be honest with 1.00
00:04:39 right that's when a woman's hoeing out um and you hoe out with alpha fucks you tell 1.00
00:04:43 Tell him all your secrets because you don't care. 1.00
00:04:45 That's your peer.
00:04:45 That's your co-worker.
00:04:46 He can't fire you for a job you don't want. 1.00
00:04:49 And then beta bucks is the women that have men that are slaves.
00:04:53 So I told my fiance the truth about my past. 0.92
00:04:55 Now he's postponing the wedding.
00:04:56 So I would say she didn't respect him because she told him she must have viewed him either
00:05:01 as a peer or below him.
00:05:03 I almost think the below him because she doesn't even care if he leaves, if she tells him all
00:05:07 that.
00:05:08 Or, you know, the men, I mean, come on, men. 0.92
00:05:11 if you really love a woman you lie to her right i think women if they really love a man they lie 0.54
00:05:16 to some degree but here's the thing in the suggestions my attorney sent me for questions 0.82
00:05:22 where he told me that the other side will be asking similar questions there are a lot about
00:05:28 spicy related past and infidelity uh so here's my problem i wasn't entirely honest with barry
00:05:34 back then my actual count of guys i've had spicy sleep with is higher i was a free spirit in
00:05:40 college before i figured out what i wanted to do and took a year off to travel before graduating
00:05:44 that was a very fun year spicy sleepily speaking i made a lot of mistakes of course but i was
00:05:52 getting valuable experience and learning a lot about myself but i know barry would not be happy
00:05:57 with the real number uh that would devastate me but his family is a little conservative and
00:06:03 religious i know he doesn't have much respect for infidelity or women who sleep around i'm
00:06:09 terrified that he'll ask that's why you guys can't tell women you feel this way even though you do
00:06:14 right you gotta lie me those questions or learn about the few times i've cheated in past
00:06:18 relationships we've been together almost constantly for three years and i love him deeply
00:06:24 i don't know what to do i'm no longer that girl who did all those things i've grown and matured
00:06:30 i just don't think barry will see it that even with hose we just don't stick it out wait he's
00:06:34 a lot less spicy sleepily and experienced than me only eight partners total and he does get a
00:06:41 little jealous when i mention my exes he found out about something i did with one guy that i
00:06:47 declined to do with barry and he was heard about it for weeks i've already confirmed my appointment
00:06:52 for friday before i back out he's going to want to know why if i admit lying he's not going to
00:06:58 trust me i'm a basket case and can't even go into work over this yeah cut seven years married for 1.00
00:07:05 two consequences of your actions ladies i slept around in college and since we met and dated in
00:07:09 college i thought it was best to be open with him and i told him my body count we would go months
00:07:14 without it being brought up then he randomly gets anxiety what are your thoughts is this normal
00:07:18 behavior slash common thinking from men because he sure thinks it is some things you die with
00:07:24 like your body count he cannot hold that against you this guy is not comfortable with himself
00:07:32 it's affecting you emotionally because you're like i didn't do anything wrong and you didn't
00:07:37 bring it up once cool bring it up again for for what what is the end game here do you want me to
00:07:42 apologize for something that i did before even knowing you they do i mean they want you to have
00:07:46 never have done here's a problem women have to i mean this is kind of like let's just be honest 1.00
00:07:51 here whoring gets you what you want as a woman whoring for a guy and sluts in this society do 0.99
00:07:57 better than prudes and i'll i'll die on this hill i've look at i've observed yeah because 1.00
00:08:03 men reward women that are sexual with them uh but it's a numbers game to some degree so women 0.96
00:08:09 that run up numbers just logically guys think about it with all the opportunity there is women
00:08:15 that run up numbers get more results um i know everyone's gonna deny this but so logically the 0.62
00:08:23 women that are going to be rewarded the most are women that run up numbers and lie like just and 1.00
00:08:28 so if you tell the truth do because you not because of a result do because you know it's 0.88
00:08:33 your morals one my husband did not ask me to tell him how many people i have been with nor did i
00:08:41 think that is the most disrespectful thing he didn't ask and you threw it in his face he
00:08:45 like want to know even when i told him i'm pretty sure and i mean maybe maybe i'll do a video with
00:08:51 him so he can speak for himself i'm pretty sure it freaked him out i'm pretty sure he was like
00:08:56 why are you telling me all of this like i did not owe him that nor did he expect me to tell him any
00:09:02 of this nor did i expect him to tell me um how many people he had slept with this was first of
00:09:09 before we were even dating and and most of you probably don't even know our story we
00:09:15 got married like fast fast fast like we um of course met each other in january and we were
00:09:23 married by july so we were very unconventional also something to know we went to we met each
00:09:30 other at a christian school and we both grew up in very very christian religious homes and so
00:09:38 that definitely contributed to everything that i felt and the reason why i wanted him to know
00:09:44 everything up front because i was full of shame and guilt and i was really really afraid that he
00:09:49 wasn't going to love me because i felt like i had no i felt like i had no worth and somebody
00:09:52 commented saying that it i probably did that because of trauma and that's 100 accurate i
00:09:59 definitely got in front of it because of trauma and because i get married if i have to tell him
00:10:07 my body count all the women it's three babe and that's 15,000 likes 22 at 19 chill out mama 0.89
00:10:14 oh man all right comments just lie see that's what everyone says find a loser who matches yours
00:10:23 a real man would not care anything over five I lose all interest yeah and that's how men feel 0.92
00:10:30 about it they can't help it it's their biology so I mean both genders to some degree are rewarded for 0.91
00:10:35 I finally told my boyfriend what my body count was and now we're not together. 1.00
00:10:39 I understand some people don't like their partner's body count sometimes and that it can be a deal breaker.
00:10:44 But my boyfriend and I have been together for six months and he finally for the first time asked me what my body count was.
00:10:50 I told him I'm not going to be super specific, but let's just say it's more than 10, but less than 20.
00:10:55 And he got very upset at me.
00:10:57 He started saying things like, you're a woman, you should hold yourself to higher standards.
00:11:01 I don't know, when I was young, everyone would say under five. 0.85
00:11:04 that's how cooked our society is if women the lie is less than 20 man
00:11:09 he said women that are promiscuous should be treated as thoughts and i obviously got offended
00:11:15 by that because he was clearly referring to me anyways we made up but for the past week he's
00:11:20 just been showing so many signs that he doesn't trust me and that he's clearly not over the
00:11:24 conversation like now he always wants to see my location which he didn't used to before i try to
00:11:30 talk to him about it being like you can talk to me like what's going on and he's just still so
00:11:34 resentful about my body count he says that he can't stop thinking about it like he can't stop
00:11:38 thinking about me with other guys and says that he can't believe that many guys used me he was
00:11:44 getting pretty heated with the conversation and it came to a point where he literally called me a
00:11:48 to my face i didn't say anything he just saw my face and he quickly backtracked saying no you're
00:11:53 not a now you were in your past and i'm willing to get over it because i love you yeah it's cooked
00:11:58 shouldn't have said anything all right keep going all right guys um let me know in the comments
00:12:01 has a woman lied to you about her body count and if you found out let me know how in the
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