Pearl - September 19, 2026


“Woman Says Christian Girls Should STOP Rushing Into Marriage” @JustPearlyThings

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Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

236.53

Word count

638

Sentence count

19

Harmful content

Misogyny

5

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Hate speech

5

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Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
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00:00:00.000 I had no point of reference for relationships.
00:00:02.960 Like, this is my first serious relationship, and that's a thing.
00:00:05.660 In your first serious relationship, you will let the most, like, bonkers, banana stuff slide.
00:00:11.300 Yeah, and see, that's what men want you to let the most bonkers, banana stuff slide,
00:00:16.260 as opposed to letting nothing slide.
00:00:18.280 That's what I mean.
00:00:18.960 We just negotiate how insufferable we can be throughout time.
00:00:22.880 You just don't have a point of reference for what relationships are supposed to look like.
00:00:25.780 And keep in mind, my parents are happy.
00:00:27.740 it's because in a way we have more power and experience and experience um is more manipulation
00:00:32.540 power so happy happily and healthily married i have good examples of marriage in my life very
00:00:38.620 close and personal to me that is not enough to know what a good relationship should look like
00:00:43.340 like you if you're stubborn like i am you need boots on the ground when women say they have a 0.73
00:00:48.380 good relationship with their parents usually the dad's still a simp and just gives the mother
00:00:52.540 whatever she wants so she's usually never been corrected or disciplined in her life it's like
00:00:56.220 here's what I will and will not tolerate. But I didn't have that experience. I only had dated
00:00:59.800 one other person in high school and it was a very cutesy, hold hands. We dated for a year and never
00:01:03.860 even kissed. I doubt it. So there was never any kind of tension. There was never any kind of
00:01:09.100 depth there that would cause me to have more experience. So anyways, I get to dating this boy
00:01:13.620 and we're Christian and we don't want to do premarital sex. We did, but we don't want to.
00:01:20.840 So what's the solution here? You get married quick. A lot of these stay-at-home wives,
00:01:23.620 they might not come out and say they're religious but like basically all of them are religious if 1.00
00:01:28.060 you're sleeping with someone there is no reason to not wait a few more years before like immediately
00:01:32.380 locking it down there are a couple reasons we're not going to get into them that's like the main
00:01:35.860 reason is like okay i can't sleep with you or live with you so like let's lock it down right
00:01:39.180 now and to my christian girls that don't want to have premarital let me tell you something
00:01:43.160 you should not rush into marriage just because you really want to have sex so we're young we're in
00:01:49.320 love i have no point of reference for like how good a relationship can be so i'm just in this
00:01:53.760 kind of bad one thinking like yeah whatever i'll lock it down crack started to show really really
00:01:59.400 quickly i remember like that we got married in october i remember that first winter we were
00:02:03.400 married together it was home alone at this point like i i was like in college i dropped out shortly
00:02:07.780 after marrying him my car stopped working so i couldn't get to class i couldn't go see my family
00:02:12.140 no one could come pick me up i was just like home alone isolated and like the only interaction i
00:02:15.800 was having was with my husband and it was just so miserable we were fighting all the time 1.00
00:02:19.140 and I remember thinking to myself like if this is what marriage yeah that's the problem so women 0.99
00:02:23.380 get bored and stay-at-home wives it used to be a full-time job now it's not so now when you have 1.00
00:02:28.660 a stay-at-home wife her only job is to be insufferable to you so then they just have all 1.00
00:02:32.980 day to be insufferable where at least you know the insufferability is divided amongst people 1.00
00:02:38.260 if you have her working and doing stuff at least she could be insufferable somewhere else 1.00