Pearl - Women Are CONFESSING Their TOXIC Secrets On TikTok!

00:00:00.000 listen and we don't judge so what'll happen is the women will want um all of their business on

00:00:06.380 social media and men typically don't want that but um yeah usually they just do what the women

00:00:11.840 want getting down yeah but you go first i want to see what how crazy oh crazy i used to have

00:00:18.040 my famous friends in la dm you whenever you were still in college to see if you'd reply

00:00:23.440 really especially now that i think of it i was a little concerned because you never stitch like

00:00:28.420 you'd never be like yo your boy dm me in like 2020 you had to log on to my phone to um post

00:00:36.240 something on insta and it's still logged in to this day my insta logged on to my phone so she's

00:00:42.780 been what listen she's been watching his dms for years that's what's the craziest thing 1.00

00:00:47.400 that a woman has done to stalk you put it in the comments no we don't judge we don't judge

00:00:52.480 listen and we don't judge sometimes i stick my phone under the crack in the bathroom to see if 0.99

00:00:57.520 you're pooping you're insane you're actually so insane sometimes if i go to dinner without you 0.96

00:01:03.620 and then it ends up being like really expensive i just put it on your business card because 1.00

00:01:10.060 we don't judge sometimes i wait for you to wash your hair in the shower so i can pee on you and

00:01:15.420 see if you catch me are you kidding me i did catch you one time and you're like i would never do that 0.86

00:01:21.680 you're you're so sick okay whenever we used to be toxic and you would like 0.60

00:01:27.080 unshare your location every other day it didn't matter because i always had 0.98

00:01:32.200 the macbook and i had your location so i've been

00:01:35.080 stalking you for years i knew it i was so sus i knew that you

00:01:40.200 did that i knew it that's funny like it was my job

00:01:44.280 we don't think about it like if a man like it's so funny because i'm laughing

00:01:48.120 and i shouldn't be because that is stalking right but it's

00:01:51.160 funny because when a woman does it to a man it's kind of cute when a man does it to a woman it's

00:01:54.860 disgusting i know i know like it's still wrong right but men still find it cute because it's

00:02:00.660 like oh she cared that's why you're smiling you listen and we don't judge one time i called your

00:02:07.480 bank and tried to act like your dad so that way i could lock your card whenever we weren't together

00:02:11.220 and you were trying to go out without me one night okay i have a good one to follow up with that

00:02:15.500 one time whenever we were broken up i mean all the toxic couples i knew in college are still

00:02:20.780 together man your friends i knew everyone was going out to club 11 and i did lock all your

00:02:28.200 cards so you wouldn't be able to buy a single table a single bottle i locked all of it so

00:02:33.780 we don't judge you're crazy actually but we listen man all right let's do this me i don't know if i 1.00

00:02:41.660 should fuck with you because i don't want to become another story time baby the fucking stories 1.00

00:02:45.940 write them fucking cells we listen and we don't judge bro you got what you didn't want funny 1.00

00:02:50.920 whenever women act like something bad happened we like love the highs and the lows we're like 1.00

00:02:55.480 smiling we're like demons which are corny broke lying ass so this dude so i had actually peeped 0.99

00:03:02.620 this dude and he like loki kind of has followers on tiktok which is actually kind of what fucking 0.98

00:03:07.960 blows me and he's kind of known on tiktok for like being attractive and i did think he was

00:03:12.320 the track that was like oh like you look good like but i didn't say anything i had just peeped

00:03:16.660 in but i wasn't gonna follow him or text him or nothing until i seen that he followed me i was

00:03:20.720 like oh okay so i followed him back and he had so now you're getting to know each other actually

00:03:25.920 texted or yeah he texted me he was like hey like i've been waiting for you and then he like put

00:03:31.700 like a funny sticker and i was like oh okay like this is stupid like it was funny because i'd be 0.75

00:03:37.580 saying shit like that too so i was like okay so we started texting back and forth we're texting 0.91

00:03:41.120 him for like about a week we're getting to know each other he seems great and then he i've come 0.99

00:03:45.800 to find out that he lives maybe like an hour 45 minutes away from me and he had told me like hey

00:03:50.880 like i would love to take you out like can i take you out and i was like yeah like absolutely like 0.61

00:03:55.900 do i have to plan the date though or do you got that shit handled he's like no like i got everything 0.73

00:04:00.300 handled you have nothing to worry about all you need to do is just get ready and i'll pick you up 0.92

00:04:04.420 and we'll go and i was like period okay period so come the day comes and mind you throughout

00:04:11.840 conversation like he like again he was super cool like we would just joke around and stuff and i had

00:04:16.460 told him i was like in your tiktok's like you look pretty tall like how tall are you and he was like 0.86

00:04:20.640 oh like i'm 5'11 push a six foot and i was like okay now mind you i don't really give a fuck about 0.76

00:04:25.600 height like i really don't care like as long as you're lying she does care you're not shorter than 0.75

00:04:29.880 me like i really don't care we could be the same height like she cares a lot it's never been that

00:04:35.320 big a video for me but just keep that in mind but anyway so the day comes and he actually ends up

00:04:41.020 picking me up and everything's cool he didn't get out of the car to open my door he actually

00:04:45.220 opened it from inside and i was like okay that's fine whatever i don't care like thanks for the

00:04:49.460 gesture so we're driving and i don't really know like i don't know the name of the restaurant that

00:04:54.000 we went to but it was like a restaurant if you like live out in concord i believe it's the

00:04:58.080 Concord mall like there's like kind of restaurants next to it. So we went to a restaurant there and it was cool

00:05:03.660 Everything was great. We go now mind you he got out of the car and he's my same height. I'm 5'3

00:05:09.960 Okay, so again, I don't really care about height, but like just off rip 0.99

00:05:14.700 You're already lying about your height, which is stupid, but okay, whatever like it's not that that's stupid 0.99

00:05:22.400 What was this terrible thing that happened? Can we get to the point women? 1.00

00:05:26.900 It's like you guys just go on and I don't know what happened. I'm not gonna make a big deal about it 1.00

00:05:32.280 If anything, I'm probably gonna joke about it later. So anyway, we go inside

00:05:37.380 Everything's great now mind you he was telling me how like he's like an electrician or some shit and like how much money 0.70

00:05:43.360 He makes and like that's just kind of corny to me 0.69

00:05:46.020 Like if you really make money like I feel like you don't have to sit there and like

00:05:51.460 Like talk about it so much, you know, so I was just like he just kept talking about it

00:05:56.600 Just kept talking. I was like, yeah, like I'm an electrician

00:05:58.660 Like a lot of people you know electricians, but like we've been making hella big

00:06:02.160 So he was kind of corny like that was already like a but the gag is

00:06:06.460 Bill comes around and I'm like, oh like do you want to split it or like you have got it?

00:06:12.060 Or do you want me to pay? He's like no like I got it. I got it

00:06:14.500 but like as soon as like I asked that like I could tell like he was like 0.96

00:06:18.160 now mind you i always make sure to bring money just just in case this fucking happens and so 0.90

00:06:25.520 the waiter comes drops off the bill i bet his card gets declined so he gives him a card and i 0.94

00:06:30.500 could tell he was like hesitant about it so i was already like mentally preparing so i like peeped

00:06:34.560 the check to see if i had because i had i had brought cash and also i had money on my card but

00:06:39.220 like i wanted to use the cash so i was like peeping the bill to see how much it was just in

00:06:43.300 case to see if i had enough cash if not then i was just gonna pull out my car and so as i knew

00:06:48.460 what's gonna happen the waiter comes like hey i'm so sorry but the the car didn't go through and i'm

00:06:52.800 like like there's no he's like i was like we kind of like spoke at the same time he's like oh i'm

00:06:58.140 sorry like i i need to transfer the money for my savings to my checkings and at that at that time

00:07:03.100 i was like oh like i could just pay for it he's like no no no like i got it i'm not paid all right

00:07:07.520 remember i'm an electrician i'm like okay whatever you know and so she leaves comes back again oh

00:07:15.220 your car didn't go through i was like honestly like i would just pay for it like it's not that

00:07:18.180 big of a deal i paid for it it was only like 45 bucks it wasn't that serious i was like okay yeah

00:07:21.940 like i'll pay for it it's not that deep and he's like oh like i'm so sorry that you had like we

00:07:26.240 leave and like as we're walking to the car he's like oh like i'm so sorry that you had to do that

00:07:30.400 it's just like today like i had went shopping earlier to like buy a new outfit just for today

00:07:35.740 and like what what oh my god i can't please keep going what what happened i think i might have went

00:07:41.640 over my what happened tell me what happened me like i think my limit's like only a thousand

00:07:46.600 dollars a day so like i'm like okay mind you he had like an h&m shirt and like probably thrifted

00:07:54.700 pants with some air forces on like let's be for real but i was like whatever like okay cool like

00:08:01.300 that didn't discourage me necessarily i was just kind of totally discouraged her like

00:08:05.860 a lot of arcade games and there's like bowling in there and you could play like pool

00:08:10.580 and like yeah but he was like oh like would you like to like walk around the mall and i was like

00:08:15.080 you know what i haven't wanted to do some shopping like yeah like i'm down and he's like okay like

00:08:19.280 i'm gonna call my bank real quick so they can like unlock my card um and blah blah i was like

00:08:23.460 okay cool now mind you i'm not thinking that he's gonna call his bank because he's gonna be buying

00:08:28.060 my stuff like i'm thinking he's gonna call the bank because he wants to do shopping at the mall

00:08:32.440 you know like i'm not that type of girl that expects you to drop a bag on me like it's nice

00:08:36.980 if you want to i'm not gonna stop you but like i'm not expecting it you know so anyways uh we're

00:08:42.540 walking around and like he's like a little bit behind me i'm kind of just doing my own thing

00:08:46.520 like i'm just going into stores he's just like a little bit behind me talking to his bank and i'm

00:08:51.560 not paying attention to nothing he's doing like i just see him on the phone he's walking a little

00:08:55.240 behind me i'm like looking around stores like oh do i want this or do i want that or what do i want

00:09:00.000 you know right okay and so we actually go into like he gets off the phone finally and he like

00:09:04.980 joins me and i'm at this point i'm at a perfume store and he comes in and he's like oh like how

00:09:11.340 do you know like i've been wanting cologne i'm like oh like you know i've been wanting some new 0.96

00:09:14.760 perfume blah blah blah and the whole time that we're there all he's saying is like damn like i

00:09:20.260 hella want this now i didn't ask him about like what had happened with this card because i feel 0.96

00:09:24.460 that's not my business but i would he like he was just like damn like i want this cologne like i 0.85

00:09:29.340 hella wish i could buy it he's like oh damn is she getting finessed oh my god this one too like 0.94

00:09:35.420 this one smells hella good like i wish i could buy it and i'm just kind of like like i hear him 0.95

00:09:41.020 but i'm not oh no wait is she saying like i'm not acknowledging these pretty boys are finessing

00:09:46.460 these men i'm glad i stuck around i was debating keep going like i hope you don't think i'm gonna 0.99

00:09:52.060 buy this shit for you right like i hope you don't please but anyways i'm talking to the fucking like 0.98

00:09:58.640 lady that works there and i'm like actually like i think i want this one and this one and that one 0.99

00:10:03.000 and then so she brings me out and it comes out to like a good chunk of money like it's a decent 1.00

00:10:08.640 amount and as soon as i like had went out because mind you there's like one side is like the women's

00:10:14.260 side one side is the men's side so he's on the men's side i'm on the women's side so i don't 0.72

00:10:17.980 know what the fuck he's doing right so once i like pay for everything and i like we're about to walk 0.84

00:10:22.800 out or i'm about to walk out i'm like wait are you gonna buy anything he's like no i guess not 0.96

00:10:27.980 i'm like you could buy something sorry like i i was when i'm shopping like i'm in my own world

00:10:33.820 i'm sorry but i was like you could buy something like i'll wait for you there's no problem he's

00:10:37.320 like nah it's fine i guess i just won't get anything i'm like are you sure like i could

00:10:43.080 wait for you he's like no it's like i just shouldn't be spending money right now and i

00:10:47.500 was like oh like i get it like that's fine he's like no you don't get it you just bought three

00:10:53.240 perfumes i'm like oh yeah like i shouldn't be but like i have a little extra money right now

00:10:58.720 so why not spurge and spoil myself you know so fast forward like we're still walking around i'm

00:11:04.380 not only looking for myself i was also getting things for my little siblings so like we went

00:11:08.380 to a couple stores and each store like all i'm hearing is like oh i wish i could buy this and

00:11:13.560 like a small part of me did feel kind of guilty like it did kind of like feel like when like

00:11:18.420 you're eating in front of somebody that you know is hungry but like this was like a completely 0.98

00:11:21.840 different dynamic like bitch i'm not gonna drop it back on you i just met you am i in the wrong 0.99

00:11:26.520 for that actually real quick am i in the fucking wrong for that i feel like i'm not like this was 0.99

00:11:30.720 your idea to come shopping you know and then you didn't have no money to come shopping and then you 0.89

00:11:35.620 expected me to pay for you that's absurd but yeah like i'm also buying things men want king treatment 1.00

00:11:41.280 now ladies then what king treatment okay so you know there's her torturing us all with that story

00:11:46.860 that doesn't get to the point all right let's see we listen we don't judge except i tell my dad lies

00:11:50.780 so again she has this nice father probably pays for her lifestyle and in return um he's got to 0.94

00:11:56.020 do stupid tiktok trends so ready we listen we listen and we don't judge i'll go first when i 0.97

00:12:03.940 was in high school i used to sneak out of my window and sneak people into my window oh that's 0.99

00:12:08.140 great all right we listen and we don't judge i already judged don't judge we done no that's

00:12:15.180 your turn we listen and we don't we listen and we don't judge i'd reprimand your dog when you're not

00:12:20.460 around okay we listen we listen we don't judge listen and we don't judge one time i saw a hundred

00:12:28.540 dollar bill in your top in your pocket and i took it are you serious we listen and we don't judge

00:12:35.420 and you give it back now you owe me a hundred dollars you can't judge all right we listen and

00:12:39.660 we don't judge go i can't get over the hundred dollars at least his dad isn't a psycho i don't

00:12:45.500 i can't even think you stole a hundred dollars from me dad you're doing this trend you can't

00:12:50.140 judge this is a joke i guess no we're saying things that we don't know but if you took a

00:12:55.100 hundred dollars you got to give that back to me you can't just take this doesn't just clear you

00:12:58.940 because you told i was in high school it doesn't matter you still owe me a hundred oh you can't

00:13:04.140 man i can't do this time with you you're gonna judge i i don't i don't know what to say because

00:13:09.420 i'm so dysregulated right now it's unbelievable i don't even know i can't get myself gathered

00:13:14.380 right now you took a hundred dollars okay forget that it was a joke all right so i i accidentally

00:13:21.500 punched a woman once what it was an accident it was a total accident you can't now we go ahead

00:13:28.700 we listen and we don't judge when i was in high school if i didn't want to wash a dish i would

00:13:34.860 just throw it out oh my god i knew it what's funny that's funny and the same thing's happening 1.00

00:13:40.620 with the silverware i bought a hundred dollars worth of silverware that's a female laziness 0.82

00:13:44.780 epidemic don't do it now i knew it's unbelievable we listen and we don't judge go ahead i can't a 1.00

00:13:54.140 A hundred dollars, you're throwing out all my stuff that I work hard to put in. 0.98

00:13:57.920 Dad, can you do this gender now?

00:14:00.300 We listen and we don't judge.

00:14:01.980 We listen and we don't judge.

00:14:03.300 We're going to clear this up after this little vignette.

00:14:05.580 Go.

00:14:06.340 I used to take my car in high school and do 360s on the vice principal's lawn at night.

00:14:12.700 And he would come out in his robe screaming at us, but he never caught us.

00:14:17.000 Okay.

00:14:18.060 We listen and we don't judge.

00:14:21.100 We listen and we don't judge.

00:14:22.860 one time i had my friend sleep over and she needed to brush her teeth and i couldn't find

00:14:27.980 a toothbrush so i just took one and then i later found out it was your toothbrush nice 0.75

00:14:33.020 did she have any diseases when i was a little kid and uh we had to clean we had to be the janitor

00:14:39.740 in our school so uh i stole from the unicef box you don't even know what that is it's a charitable

00:14:46.140 thing i stole money and uh but i did feel so guilty that night that i returned it the next day

00:14:51.660 we listen and we don't judge okay like two years ago i made brownies and you had some

00:14:59.420 and don't no don't even kid around about that

00:15:04.540 you wouldn't have done that there's no way you think that's funny i just celebrated

00:15:08.780 nine years i'm kidding i lied about all of them except just sneaking out so now you trapped me

00:15:13.900 into telling i didn't even see yeah torture torture all right let's see this one say no

00:15:19.100 we don't judge when i first met you i knew you would be the mother of my kids so i decided to

00:15:23.420 trap you that's why he's here we listen and we don't judge when we first started dating i was

00:15:29.340 scared to poop around you so when i told you how to go to target at six in the morning it was because

00:15:33.900 i had to go poop and i went there we cool now we listen and we don't judge sometimes i leave

00:15:40.460 dirty dishes around to see if you actually clean up or not because i only feel like you cleaned up

00:15:45.100 sometimes sometimes i ask you to do stuff that i know you're not gonna do right in a minute and

00:15:51.980 then i get mad at you on purpose so i have reason to be mad but i know you're not gonna do it

00:15:56.620 that's toxic sorry we're not doing we listen and we don't judge sometimes i tell you i'm in a bad

00:16:03.020 mood and that the game helps me mentally but sometimes i just want to hop on with the guys

00:16:07.580 just to play we listen and we don't judge before we got together yes i was talking to somebody but

00:16:14.540 immediately started talking to you i got blocked we locked into it we listen and we don't judge

00:16:21.260 i remember when we first met you told me he was going through things at home and i got a hotel

00:16:25.660 just so we could chill and relax but really i was just trying to try to take your problems away

00:16:30.300 mother daughter granddaughter and we listen but we don't judge okay when my grand i'm going first

00:16:40.300 oh yeah i'm going first okay all right all right not your last okay okay you know my laundry pile

00:16:48.580 upstairs my mountain um i have laundry in there since april we literally don't i'm saying the

00:16:56.020 female laziness epidemic judge so uh years ago mom stole this recipe from a chef it was a shrimp

00:17:05.120 recipe that has bacon and all those yummies in it and she never gave me the

00:17:10.340 recipe so we stole it from her and we make it once a month when my granddaughter

00:17:22.280 asked me a question and she says I say yes and she says are you sure Nani I say

00:17:29.260 yes I'm sure but I really mean no we listen and we don't judge sometimes I

00:17:38.480 get straight in my bed after working out we listen so I have over six thousand

00:17:48.460 dollars of injections in my face okay so whenever my daughter tells me that I

00:18:03.940 look pretty today I think she means it but in my mind I'm saying no I don't

00:18:09.520 We listen and we don't judge.

00:18:17.580 You can't say, yes, you can.

00:18:22.500 Yes, you can.

00:18:23.340 They'll spell it wrong anyway, so we're good.

00:18:25.700 If I'm in bed at night and I'm already, like, comfortable, I won't get up to brush my teeth before I go to sleep.

00:18:34.860 We listen. 1.00

00:18:36.440 Female laziness epidemic. 1.00

00:18:37.640 we don't judge um sometimes um i curb the wheels on my wagon and i don't tell my husband 0.99

00:18:46.760 all right guys this is the female laziness um and the female um the female laziness epidemic 1.00

00:18:55.300 and the female um insufferability epidemic where women are just constantly insufferable all the 0.96

00:19:00.320 time let me know what you think in the comments and how has your wives daughters um and female 1.00

00:19:06.220 friends been torturing you let me know in the comments like the video I'll see you next time 1.00

Pearl - October 23, 2026

Women Are CONFESSING Their TOXIC Secrets On TikTok!

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