Pearl - Women Are Designed to Be Passed Around

00:00:00.000 what is up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity network

00:00:07.680 all right i'm gonna i have a confession for you guys i'm gonna have to

00:00:13.840 i kind of wanted to address now

00:00:15.760 i'll let people get in you know

00:00:20.520 um on the bright side i just broke 162 so if anyone cares about my weight loss journey

00:00:28.800 If anyone cares about my weight loss journey, I broke 162, so I'm very excited. My goal weight

00:00:42.920 is 155. So that's been my goal weight. I might, once I get to 155, try to go to 145. But like my

00:00:56.120 first goal is 155 because I have a relative who's 155 and she's always had a rock and

00:01:01.980 bob and we kind of have similar builds. So, um, and your life kind of changes as you get

00:01:09.940 thinner. I won't lie. I think I'm a needy person. I was thinking about this the other

00:01:19.420 day. I really don't enjoy like having people leave my life. Should I, I kind of want a trauma dump

00:01:27.740 right now. I think I want a trauma dump. I was thinking about it because, you know, you get

00:01:32.840 older, maybe this is hitting the wall and stuff. You get kind of like self-reflective and I thought

00:01:37.980 about it. I think because I grew up with nannies, right? Because I grew up with nannies, um,

00:01:49.180 a lot of people don't really talk about the issues that growing up with nannies comes with

00:01:54.940 um and one of the issues is you um you essentially every two years

00:02:01.820 like i would get a new nanny so i would have like a caretaker that like took care of me full time

00:02:07.740 right and then some of my worst childhood i had good childhood memories you know everyone's got

00:02:15.660 good and bad but um and i don't say this to talk my parents by the way they're great people

00:02:23.340 but there's a lot of us uh there's 10 there's a lot so one of the worst parts was having like

00:02:30.620 nannies leave every two years you would have these like best friend or you would get a terrible nanny

00:02:38.620 you'd get a nanny sent from hell and you knew you had to have her for two years

00:02:42.140 and so i thought about it i was like maybe it's just like innate right because i think some of

00:02:50.320 my siblings aren't this way but i think um i really i have a hard time i had a friend of like

00:02:59.900 20 years right a best friend of 20 years who like came out she told me she couldn't be my friend

00:03:05.620 when i started this show and there was a video kind of circulated the internet years ago

00:03:14.820 of her kind of you know trash talking me it was kind of sad

00:03:21.780 and she um and that was pretty hard for me because i was like we were friends for 20 years

00:03:27.940 to be fair she ended the friendship before that um she ended it because i said you shouldn't get

00:03:31.940 fat when you get married and i had seen her in a bit but i guess she'd done just that and i was like

00:03:37.100 well i guess i'm i'm gonna keep saying that i'm like you could turn off the show she didn't want

00:03:43.720 to turn off the show so i'm like well it's kind of sad i know and then she went around it was kind

00:03:55.300 of confusing because she would tell everyone i never had a boyfriend while she trashed my ex

00:04:00.140 boyfriend at the time like she didn't really like him um and so it kind of got this it got this like

00:04:07.600 weird chicken and mouse game where everyone would make fun of my ex-boyfriend but at the same time

00:04:13.820 they would also say I'd never had one I was like

00:04:16.760 um and it was kind of sad because you know I really trusted this girl and I thought about it

00:04:29.800 i was like maybe it's partially my fault what happened was i told the story that she was in

00:04:33.680 and in my opinion there was like not any identifiable information about her in this story

00:04:39.400 but sometimes women if there if you i learned as i got older that you have to kind of change

00:04:45.520 details in the story so the women don't crash out come forward and say that was me she's a bitch

00:04:50.940 but i had a memory come up today and it was like of us rollerblading and i'm like damn

00:04:58.660 And I thought about it and I'm like, well, it shouldn't be sad when people leave because they tell you everything you need to know.

00:05:08.700 But I thought about it and I'm like, it did, in fact, make me sad when she left because I thought we were friends and I never thought, you know, she'd do that to me.

00:05:18.200 But people surprise you.

00:05:28.660 people do surprise you

00:05:34.460 but I'm sure you guys felt that you know so a lot of times how do I put it a lot of the things I

00:05:46.600 talk about and the way women treat men is because a lot of women have treated me that way

00:05:53.840 nobody's meaner than other women nobody than to women well i guess they can't legally destroy you

00:06:01.220 so maybe we're meaner to men but like i've experienced the brunt of it um they'll spread

00:06:07.060 rumors about you and the rumors are so um they just keep repeating them

00:06:11.840 they just keep i mean to this day people think i actually dated a homeless guy that rumor kind

00:06:19.820 bothers me because it involves another person and i don't really think he deserved to be trashed

00:06:24.700 like that you know what i mean it's like well but women are vicious man i mean i that's why

00:06:38.700 i'm kind of guarded now as a person and the internet hasn't really helped because the internet

00:06:46.620 exacerbates everything and anytime you become friends with a woman you always have to think

00:07:00.860 oh no she's getting leverage on me potentially and she could come out and you know and the way

00:07:07.020 women lie it's like they can store every bad thing you look i'm not a perfect person

00:07:11.660 there's things in my life I really wish I didn't do

00:07:16.880 I do the best I can but you know I and in some cases I am the villain right I think in some

00:07:28.460 people's stories I probably am their villain and in other people's stories I'm the hero

00:07:33.460 but when you have a public platform it does kind of impact the way you socialize because it's very

00:07:40.760 difficult to open up to people. It's very difficult because women, especially, I mean,

00:07:49.420 anytime you open up to them, they use it against you. I mean, why do you, why do you think I know

00:07:53.540 this stuff? Because a lot of this stuff women have done to me. Hold on.

00:08:10.760 and i think that was kind of my mistake early on i think early on i should have kind of come out

00:08:26.680 and said look and i think this is where i get the pushback right a lot of people think

00:08:31.640 that i think i'm like this perfect human

00:08:36.920 i really don't um anyone that knows me personally knows i'm well aware of my flaws

00:08:48.120 i mean i'm way more argument i mean i think it's very obvious to the public i'm way more

00:08:55.520 argumentative than i'd like to be it's very exhausting right it can be exhausting for a

00:09:00.700 to be around because if i don't agree like i think men would prefer a woman that just agrees

00:09:07.100 with them and that's just not it's not who i am like if you ah there's some stories i don't tell

00:09:15.380 because i don't need i don't do you know i mean there's sometimes there's stories i want to tell

00:09:19.320 that are so funny that i can't because i don't want to piss anyone off i don't want them to come

00:09:26.000 out and be, you know, it's just, I got to not look at the chat. Sometimes I'll be on a tangent

00:09:33.300 and I'll, I'm putting private chat on. But I think that was really one of my mistakes in my

00:09:40.880 career. I think when I came out, people just assumed that I was saying I'm like this perfect

00:09:47.680 person that does none of the things that modern women do. And it's absolutely not true. And it's

00:09:54.480 very difficult i think andrew wilson kind of has this problem too because there's two different

00:09:58.920 types of conversations you're having like women should be virgins on their wedding nights that's

00:10:04.700 an idealistic conversation you're not going to get a virgin you're going to have to marry your

00:10:10.440 future wife is ran through that's a realistic conversation but the realistic conversation

00:10:15.960 doesn't feel very good and the younger you are the more and the less i would say life experience

00:10:22.180 that you have. The more idealistic conversations that you have versus realistic. But then life

00:10:30.340 kind of kicks your ass and you just, you switch to realistic. So I think that's been

00:10:51.000 a shift in my content and it's very difficult because at times there's things you say that you

00:10:56.280 think oof i would have said that a different way or done a different you know it's i mean that kind

00:11:00.200 of when you're on the internet for five years but that's why i've really people have said you know

00:11:07.640 i sound really different than years ago and it's because i've switched from idealistic conversations

00:11:12.520 to realistic um and you know this has kind of been taught to be by some of the men in my life

00:11:18.520 i mean my last boyfriend my father like my father for example he said that

00:11:29.000 he told me that i need to stop with this abortion stuff he said stop arguing about abortion

00:11:35.320 and i looked at my father and i said but dad like you don't believe in abortion i mean you

00:11:39.080 had all of us i found out i had a brother when i was 22 years old my parents sat me down in a room

00:11:44.520 and said um they said you guys have a brother because they got pregnant when they were young

00:11:51.560 right and that was you know at that moment i don't think i ever had more respect for my mother

00:11:58.040 because she could have chosen um to end a life and she chose to kept it keep it and he ended

00:12:03.480 up having a family he grew up in another state um but that's one of the reasons i became really

00:12:08.680 passionate about abortion because i saw that i i had this long-lost brother that turned out to be

00:12:14.440 a really cool like human like he's a really cool guy all because my mom she was alive you know and

00:12:26.440 my dad sat me down one day and he said

00:12:30.680 this is a waste of time and i said dad but it's murder but it's murder and he said it might be

00:12:35.000 but it's never going anywhere and i think when you're a person with a lot of life experience

00:12:43.320 and you have to be very practical life forces you to be pragmatic

00:12:47.960 me saying ladies be a virgin on your wedding day that's idealistic

00:12:53.660 realistic is hey ladies you're gonna have to whore a little to get what you want sorry unless

00:12:59.620 you're really hot and you do it right the first time and you were raised to be this feminine woman

00:13:03.760 It's probably not going to happen

00:13:07.240 You got until 21 to lose your virginity to your husband

00:13:10.060 If it didn't happen, it's not likely going to happen

00:13:12.240 But that's not a fun conversation

00:13:16.480 I don't sound nice when I do that, right?

00:13:33.760 so i don't know this year and maybe it's because i'm hitting the wall right maybe i'm like wall

00:13:55.880 and i've just become a lot more like and you know personally i don't i don't say everything i go

00:14:01.440 through public, well, I don't go through shit. I'm a YouTuber. But I will say there are things

00:14:08.660 that humble you in life, right? There's very humbling experiences that just humble the living

00:14:14.660 f out of you. And, you know, I think through humbling, you see the idealism go away and

00:14:30.040 the realism come through. Now I do have a confession. Because sometimes I feel as though

00:14:37.100 I have to. Sometimes I just want to admit to things in case. Look, I got I got hammered yesterday. I got real drunk. I'm going to be honest. I drank a lot. It was kind of embarrassing. It was a Sunday, too.

00:15:03.000 and i don't know if there's a if there's a video of me walking down to i didn't do anything crazy

00:15:09.820 right i just got drunk but if there's a video of me walking around with another yeah it's kind

00:15:16.940 of embarrassing i'm just being honest here i don't drink often so i think it hit me faster than i

00:15:23.860 thought because i'm really not a big especially because i've been on this weight loss thing i've

00:15:29.740 lost like 50 pounds in six years. But sometimes you just like to throw back a tequila shot.

00:15:36.500 You know what I mean? Sometimes it just...

00:15:41.900 So that's my confession today.

00:15:48.580 Do you know what's crazy though? I thought I drank a good amount and I thought I'd wake up

00:15:53.140 and I thought I'd be really really fat and I had a thinner weight and I was really confused I was

00:16:00.660 I was expecting to go back up to 165 or something and in this morning it was 161.8 and that's been

00:16:08.100 my lowest weight yet so I'm trying to I'm trying to break 160 this week I'll be real excited

00:16:15.220 I'll be really excited

00:16:23.140 I know. Are you guys disappointed? I was with an Indian chick. A Pajit. No offense to me. It was with, yeah.

00:16:39.660 I've actually gone off sugar.

00:16:52.400 I've actually gone off sugar for like a week at a time.

00:17:14.720 But I think I'm going to start doing more, I guess,

00:17:17.700 intimate monologues and stuff and being more open on, you know,

00:17:21.560 the problem is when i do this type of stuff it does eliminate my ability to do other content

00:17:28.640 because what happens is other youtubers will use anything i say against me like imagine i go on

00:17:36.580 another show and they say pearl you got drunk didn't you you whore pearl you got and i'm like

00:17:42.160 well i did take a few shots does limit it because people that hate you they just it's they do the

00:17:49.420 same things women do. I kind of want to admit to something else. I kind of want to admit, no,

00:18:06.500 no, I don't think, let me look at the statue of limitations.

00:18:13.760 Let me look at the statue of limitations before I tell this story. And it's not that bad. I don't

00:18:18.880 you to think i like killed somebody but people hate you and when they hate you a funny story

00:18:27.920 could be like a um

00:18:33.200 all right what would it be in illinois

00:18:38.080 is there any lawyers in the chat because when people hate you it could be like a petty

00:18:43.440 a thing that's not that bad and they'll just use it against you

00:18:50.960 but i think when i started um this content i would say i lived in a lot of fear right and

00:18:56.640 i think you could kind of hear that in my voice conservatives just we tend to be very neurotic

00:19:01.840 um and we're always worrying about what will go wrong i think that's what

00:19:05.760 religion a lot of times a lot of neurotic people go to religion

00:19:09.120 because they want god to control the universe because they can't

00:19:13.440 And so what happens is you kind of start talking in idealism.

00:19:18.680 Well, the world shouldn't be this way.

00:19:26.360 And I think the more you get detached, the more you become realistic where you say, but it's not this way.

00:19:33.840 and i think the problem you get with a lot of conservative parents is they try to impose their

00:19:43.560 will on the children i met this woman recently and she lived a really sheltered life and got

00:19:50.560 married young and then she divorced you know when i'm out if i'm out if you ever see me out drinking

00:19:54.700 i talk to everybody i'm a talker okay i actually love bars for that reason i hate clubs i'd rather

00:20:00.520 die than go to a club but there's something about bars right at bars you get people's real life

00:20:06.440 story because there's no front right you're you're not i i think everyone kind of puts on

00:20:11.240 masks right and then people drink a little bit the masks come off

00:20:18.040 and when you go to bars you get people's real life story and that's when people will tell

00:20:23.960 you the stuff that really like traumatized them or really like and sometimes they're not right

00:20:30.040 like there's times where maybe i look back at a situation i think i'm right they think they're

00:20:33.880 right or you tell as women we always tell the story in a way that benefits us you know like

00:20:39.000 maybe i'm thinking i was traumatized a little bit by the nannies where my parents are thinking you

00:20:43.240 spoiled brett you got free college you know what i mean like do you know what i mean it's like um

00:20:52.280 i think that's kind of how it goes but this woman um she talked about how she resented her parents

00:20:59.640 because she got married young because of them like she really resented them she hated them

00:21:06.840 and i think when you don't allow children to make their own mistakes and face the consequences of it

00:21:12.760 you're really robbing them of something and you know what i think i naturally my dad always just

00:21:17.960 kind of knew this about me i'm not a very high risk person um i don't know it's weird because

00:21:23.160 maybe i am high risk in career but like i was always afraid of we would go on these family

00:21:28.680 vacations in the summer and i never liked the super high risk stuff i just never liked it it

00:21:34.600 was not my brothers um one of my sisters they could just go full force like i hate scuba diving

00:21:40.040 i never my whole family went i didn't go scuba diving because it scared me right i mean i'm just

00:21:44.280 that you know i'm that kind of person um but she ended up getting divorced and i kind of wanted to

00:21:51.960 put the psychology because you know it's easy to kind of demonize women and i do that a lot and

00:21:57.320 it's very fun but at some point i think there's a red pill rage that you go through where like

00:22:03.720 even as a woman you kind of realize the women that have manipulated you in the past like you

00:22:07.960 realize the things your mother did you realize the things your aunt like you kind of everything

00:22:12.040 shatters and you're kind of angry but there's a point where you actually really understand women

00:22:18.520 and i think i think i'm at that point where i actually understand why a woman threw away

00:22:23.880 everything because what a lot of institutions and religion did in the past is people and i think

00:22:31.000 people have the right to their health i think you know you have the right to be a good person but

00:22:37.560 you also have the right to be a bad person and i'm not overly religious but i think that's what makes

00:22:42.680 our relationship with god beautiful right we're there because we want to be there if you're a

00:22:48.120 religious person you follow god i don't know i don't like the idea of following god because

00:22:52.840 you're afraid of going to hell there's something about having a relationship because you want to

00:22:57.640 not because you have to it's the same reason men like relationships with young women right because

00:23:03.480 the young women they're not there because they want to get married they're not there because

00:23:08.680 they want their money they're there because they like them and it's the most genuine relationship

00:23:13.480 we all know those friends that you haven't seen in years but you just know on a visceral level

00:23:17.880 you like each other you're not trying to get anything out of each other it's just i like you

00:23:25.320 and there are certain people you feel that right away for like me personally when i met rachel

00:23:29.240 wilson um a lot of people attack her and you know there's that clip going viral whatever um

00:23:37.240 there's something when you really just like somebody that there's nothing anyone else could

00:23:42.360 say to make you dislike them like i it's just like i like you you know and so when all these people

00:23:48.600 come at her i don't really care because i like her you know what i mean it's just you can't

00:23:54.120 really say much to me i like you and what i realized when i was talking to that divorced woman

00:24:01.480 that's i say i gotta say look i was out drinking and drinking hard i i it was bad so don't like

00:24:09.960 i was talking i i think i went up to this bartender and i was like give me the drink

00:24:13.960 bitch and i'm like just kidding i don't know if that was i was kind of i was really just kidding

00:24:18.920 but she i could tell she was pissed i'm like please don't spit in my i'm kidding i'm kidding

00:24:23.160 i'm kidding okay i'm like that might be a tick tock video do you know what i mean it's like

00:24:26.440 this is the world i live in where like if i make a joke and then you know how she would say it on

00:24:32.040 the internet she would say oh pearl was out here calling bartenders bitches and i'm like come on

00:24:37.240 you knew you knew i was trying to i was trying to just joe

00:24:45.560 but this woman said that she really felt resentful because

00:24:52.120 you know she felt like it wasn't her choice and it's something my dad told me you know

00:25:10.160 I always ask say dad why didn't you do an arranged marriage for me why didn't you

00:25:14.700 like raise me in this trap like why was I raised like this and why am I so messed up you know

00:25:21.340 even though my dad's a saint and i try to actually tell you guys words of wisdom from him because

00:25:27.600 he's the wisest person ever he told me i knew it's funny the wisest people never want to tell

00:25:32.300 anyone anything he does not want to tell anyone what to do ever but he said when you impose your

00:25:39.100 will on somebody or you make people feel like they have to do something they will resent you

00:25:44.160 and hate you for it forever people hate feeling like they have to do something and i thought damn

00:25:51.820 dad you are a wise guy and that's what happens you know to a lot of these women um not a lot

00:26:00.480 obviously anymore but i think a lot of the women divorced in the past because

00:26:04.060 they did something not because they wanted to but because they had to

00:26:08.020 and i heard jesse lee peterson kind of talk about this concept and i don't think i fully get it

00:26:15.500 because obviously when women do what we want to do we want to do terrible things and society

00:26:19.800 crumbles so i don't i don't know how to reconcile these two thoughts right i'm just kind of thinking

00:26:25.160 out loud maybe i should become a stoner i don't i'm not a stoner but i could be

00:26:30.200 but there's something about relationships that just like happen and that you don't have to force

00:26:39.360 I don't know I think that's why some of the best relationships come out of situationships

00:26:44.400 like I don't know what it is but people that just were there to have fun and then it just

00:26:49.280 kept going and they just kept saying oh I like hanging out with you and then the relationship

00:26:52.740 just happens. Right. And it's like, I've had this in friendships, you know, I, I, I was thinking

00:27:00.260 about this girl the other day because, um, when I was young, she was kind of one of those people

00:27:06.300 that the relationship just like happened. And that was very rare. Like, um, I think me,

00:27:13.160 like I always get kicked out of female friend groups. I always do. Women don't really, I mean,

00:27:19.540 obviously they don't like me that much but i've never really been able to maintain and i don't

00:27:22.820 maybe it's a personality flaw i don't know but but there's like the occasional friendship where

00:27:32.900 it's almost like nobody's trying hard at all and it's so rare like this never happens i mean

00:27:37.700 personally i think i've been in more friendships and relationships where i try harder than they do

00:27:43.060 than vice versa but maybe i'm narcissistic who knows um but there's like this beautiful thing

00:27:51.780 that happens where you're not trying the relationship just happens and when jesse

00:27:55.700 lee peterson he talked about that on one of his shows it's what um

00:28:05.140 it's what i thought of i thought you do you know what the best romantic

00:28:09.380 and friendship relationships i've had are ones that you don't try to force at all

00:28:14.180 because i realized the ones you try to force you hate them later i have a relative

00:28:21.540 and this relative you know i tried to force a relationship with them forever

00:28:25.780 we just never got along we never and i got happier when i gave up

00:28:36.100 i got i got and

00:28:38.580 yeah you find the best people when you're not looking

00:28:43.300 you almost find the best people when do you know what i mean like i saw this tiktok of a guy who

00:28:54.840 said he hooked up with a girl the next day she did his laundry she did his all this stuff for him

00:28:59.960 and on on its surface you know it seemed like very nice but the truth is most people aren't that nice

00:29:12.280 wanting nothing in return do you know what i mean like she probably wanted something

00:29:29.240 and i think that's like the problem in a lot of relationships is people feel like

00:29:51.160 they have to be there and they don't want to

00:29:59.240 all right

00:30:04.160 now let's talk about passing these bitches around

00:30:15.300 let's talk about past look at

00:30:20.380 all women are whores all women

00:30:25.940 there's a lot of ideas of that there are women that are special and are different

00:30:32.100 and you guys got to let that dream die all women are whores or have a bit of

00:30:41.340 in them the question is is she a whore for you king

00:30:44.220 and i hear this a lot from men i would say in like stage three of getting red

00:30:51.320 pill they really start to cope they say well not all women are like that not all

00:30:55.160 women are like that. And I'm like, well, maybe not yet, but there's a reason women, um,

00:31:02.520 what percent, let's Google what percent of women,

00:31:06.000 of women are virgins on their wedding day.

00:31:14.080 All right. 5% of women are virgins on their wedding day. So that means pretty much every

00:31:21.720 woman has been passed around to some extent how much i mean there's going to be discrepancies

00:31:30.040 but i think this is something we got to stop we got to as women just accept that

00:31:34.760 all women get passed around um there's the occasional one that waits till she's married

00:31:42.040 but it's obviously not very easy for women to do to stay with one man for

00:31:46.200 life because if it came naturally we would just do it

00:31:51.720 yeah higher than you said higher than expected well and out of the five percent what percent's

00:31:56.600 fat you know what i mean what percent and by the way um being someone that's interviewed virgin

00:32:01.560 women um i just have not been impressed i really and i'm i'm being so real here i have not a lot

00:32:10.040 of them are virgins because their personality sucks a lot of them are virgins because they're

00:32:14.680 control freaks and they can't imagine giving up control to man um i have a lot of them are virgins

00:32:21.320 because they like to brag about being virgins and get all the virtue points.

00:32:27.280 I have not really been impressed.

00:32:29.660 I thought I would be more impressed.

00:32:33.140 Even after marriage, the women that did wait till marriage,

00:32:36.080 I have been so unimpressed with.

00:32:38.960 For example, there's an account, Bernadine Bluntley.

00:32:42.820 And she's an account that claims to be a traditional woman, right?

00:32:48.660 and a lot of these women have no idea how much damage they do to the image of traditional women

00:32:54.640 by being so unlikable um I'll like see the way she talks and I'm like she's kind of mean um

00:33:01.300 she over shares her family like she had a video of her like giving birth and I'm like is this

00:33:06.100 the right place Twitter you know and then they say women who wait till marriage have the lowest

00:33:20.020 divorce rate well and a lot of and I'll hit that the virgins of today are just not the

00:33:29.580 virgins of yesterday you know I would agree that if you can do it the traditional way

00:33:36.100 again this is idealistic versus realistic they might have a lower um divorce rate but again i'm

00:33:43.440 being honest i i'm from a catholic area and even the women that did wait till they were married

00:33:49.560 a good chunk of them got blown out they got anal they got finger blasted i mean they did

00:33:55.200 everything else but if they took a survey it would say they were a virgin a good chunk of

00:34:01.420 them are bitches they just are not getting hit up by attractive men a good chunk are fat

00:34:06.100 and even the men i interviewed that married virgin women i'm just being honest here

00:34:11.720 um i had one guy email me his story he said he married a homeschooled virgin

00:34:16.440 and she accused him of an abuse and the divorce cost cost him three hundred thousand dollars

00:34:25.740 as a 30 year old man i don't really believe in these good women i don't i know everybody tries

00:34:37.820 to tell me that they and i want you to play a game now it's easy for women to claim to be good at 22

00:34:44.140 right but when a woman's 40 if you ask her a lot of the questions um that indicate you know even

00:34:51.580 one of the most feminine women i've ever met that i would say really i could tell worked under

00:34:55.500 femininity she was still divorced you know when you ask women about their life choices

00:35:02.780 uh they're pretty much the same

00:35:14.060 and it kind of leads me to the conclusion that women have a hard time being with one person

00:35:18.700 for life and to some extent were designed to be passed around

00:35:22.860 now erica kirk was charlie kirk's widow and before they got divorced um i are sorry

00:35:33.420 not divorced before they he was brutally murdered in front of a crowd i knew

00:35:40.740 i knew that this girl had a past i knew it goth girls are more prude than trad women yeah i agree

00:35:52.860 i need to i need to stop the chat for a second because i i get sometimes it distracts me it's

00:36:05.040 hard to you know talk and watch now how did i know this um because i just kind of know how life works

00:36:11.940 and i explained it um i really explained it in previous episodes and i didn't just learn this

00:36:20.780 from the internet it's you know observations from real life um high school college middle adulthood

00:36:27.020 um and really the way it works is there's different rounds so people go to college

00:36:32.380 whore out and the women that are winners they whore well um they get husbands and that's how

00:36:38.900 they get it then there's the post of the early 20s um women whore out in the cities or at their

00:36:45.580 work and the winners um get husbands or boyfriends or baby mom whatever the hell the woman wants

00:36:53.900 and really whoring i would say is a tool for women to get what they want it's very tough to

00:36:59.260 get a husband these days without whoring and that doesn't sound you know nice that's not like a nice

00:37:05.100 thing to say but i don't think you guys have had the experience of seeing what happens when women

00:37:12.780 don't whore i'm sure you've seen what happens when women whore but i've been in some of these

00:37:17.340 really protestant churches where you see women that are haven't had sex in years and they're old

00:37:23.260 and they cannot like they're not virgins anymore right they're not that good looking and they're

00:37:29.500 demanding to not whore it's like you don't have a choice it's time to whore bitch suck

00:37:35.260 fuck shut the fuck you know and that's the game so i knew when i i saw erica kirk you know i saw

00:37:44.460 her behavior and i looked at her life choices you know and charlie kirk is kind of the epitome of a

00:37:51.420 guy that really didn't have a lot of sexual experience and got circles run around him by

00:37:56.780 a predator i mean charlie kirk um he was a guy that didn't have sex he wanted to wait till he

00:38:03.180 was married erica went to arizona state university um she was in her early 30s late 20s and she lived

00:38:08.940 in new york um and you know she would kind of go on all these shows and signal purity

00:38:18.460 and i just i really didn't buy it it didn't you know she had a pound of makeup on and that's kind

00:38:23.260 of the same thing with candace owens you know she signals purity too brett cooper they all do but

00:38:27.660 all of them went to big schools these simps are stupid i'm not i'm not now the extent of

00:38:33.500 the whoring you know i don't know how much they hoard but like if you didn't if you weren't a

00:38:39.580 virgin on your wedding day what were you doing and so i kind of expanded on this topic because

00:38:45.900 i saw a woman and i like her by the way isabella no no no beef nice girl i saw i saw this this

00:38:54.860 video right and i i just like to have here i'm not trying to look good i'm not trying to i'm

00:39:00.780 trying to have an honest conversation about what's going on my last video and i just i just want to

00:39:06.060 know it just it's a little ironic when i see stuff like this hi can you guess what college i'm going

00:39:11.740 to hee hee i'm just like really yeah it's called ran through university stupid by the way she

00:39:16.220 commented on my last video of her let's start an e-girl war stop being a freaking

00:39:20.060 whore and close your legs for once you're welcome so you can't really signal purity with a pound of

00:39:24.780 makeup do you know i mean it just doesn't it doesn't work you know and i'm not i'm not saying

00:39:29.580 she shouldn't i'm really not trying to judge but what happens is conservatives say don't do the

00:39:34.860 behavior that got us what we wanted and i'm thinking i'm like you went to college right um

00:39:44.380 a lot of a lot of times women got a whore to get what they want and that's that's kind of kicking

00:39:52.460 out the ladder from under i think caller daddy is more useful than a lot of these conservative

00:39:57.740 dating advice if you take conservative dating advice it's got an expiration date like 21 22 for

00:40:04.540 women men are not gonna smart men with any experience just aren't really gonna believe you after that

00:40:14.380 and i think she's good intentioned right i don't think they mean to because you know

00:40:23.000 there's negative effects of whoring too um but erica kirk is just another one who had to whore

00:40:31.960 to get where she was um and i'm gonna go through this um instagram reel that kind of breaks down

00:40:39.620 erica kirk's game plan that worked you know we could say it's wrong we could say i'm really not

00:40:45.680 trying to focus on the morality of it but the truth is erica kirk would not be in her same

00:40:50.880 position had she not whored a little bit you know okay wait let me turn them kirk actually

00:40:59.680 had two boyfriends within the five years before meeting charlie kirk so so you know again this

00:41:04.700 is your and this keeps happening and then people are surprised you know the trad e-girl um that

00:41:10.860 seems pure was passed right women and this is the biggest kind of coat for men is she's not yours

00:41:18.740 it's just your turn look and i'm even saying this for me you know it's not like i've been with one

00:41:27.580 person my whole life nobody has and any woman that signals that she has i would say and i actually

00:41:34.580 had a conversation i'm in these e-girl conservative circles like i i knew a girl and i said

00:41:40.680 and i totally triggered her she was like in her late 20s when she got married and i said i don't

00:41:45.300 really believe women when they say that they're virgins she's like well i was and i'm like

00:41:49.700 so you didn't blow anybody they they never think you're gonna ask i'll ask and i'm like well then

00:41:57.920 that guy had a turn and then whoever else you banged also had a turn i mean most guys would

00:42:03.140 would think a three body count is awesome they'd be like that's so low but remember

00:42:07.420 that's one turn two turns three turns one pass two pass three passes um and I can separate I

00:42:16.820 don't necessarily think you know she's a bad person because she did that I don't really think

00:42:22.640 women that are whores um are bad people I kind of I learned that I really did learn this when I did

00:42:29.480 interviewing because honestly the bitchiest women i found to be conservative christian women i really

00:42:35.400 did the women that claimed they were i found them to be significantly meaner and bitchier they just

00:42:41.080 claimed they didn't have sex you know i think being nice is harder um like being a nice kind

00:42:47.080 person every day is more difficult than just not you know what i mean why lie about this

00:42:54.600 before we talk about the two boyfriends let's watch this clip where erica kirk is lying to us

00:42:59.080 I lived out here. I was here for five years. I never dated here because I saw vicariously through

00:43:04.160 my roommate how terrible it was. Somehow getting drinks was the replacement of having coffee and

00:43:10.220 breakfast. I personally would rather have coffee or brunch. Now, she's really hot, right? So she

00:43:15.940 can do like, if you're a mid and he says, let's get drinks and you're starting it off being

00:43:21.520 unsubmissive saying, oh, I don't do that. Like they realize a lot of the times they're teaching

00:43:27.560 conservative women to not listen to men and follow their instruction do you know what i mean like

00:43:33.320 um and so a lot of times you're starting the relationship on her terms not his

00:43:37.960 um that's why in my opinion more traditional relationships um happen when the sex happens

00:43:44.840 sooner that's more traditional because now she's given up her leverage in a lot of ways

00:43:49.480 when she was someone then don't i just i don't drink i find it unproductive i do want to pause

00:43:53.480 here and talk about erica kirk on summer house mind you she was on season three which was filmed

00:43:58.280 the summer of two yeah and you know alex clark was similar right that's another girl i'm different

00:44:04.040 i'm special um and alex clark when i when i see her i think she'd benefit from whoring a little

00:44:09.740 bit um i think she got a boyfriend now so it's cool but you can just tell when a woman hasn't

00:44:14.560 had a lot of experience around then and um over a certain age you're just not gonna claim

00:44:23.280 purity you can't really do it 2018 and apparently her and charlie oh do you know what if you're hot

00:44:28.640 enough you know if erica kirk was hot enough that they like want to believe it at that point

00:44:33.600 like it's like the men want to believe it

00:44:38.080 you know myra i'm not saying this to attack myron i'm not saying this to attack his girl

00:44:42.000 girl ex-girlfriend um angie seemed like a sweetheart

00:44:48.320 but look she's got a new boyfriend now she i doubt myron was the first guy she was with

00:44:56.160 um so he had a turn the other guy had a turn like um she's not yours it's just your turn

00:45:01.680 and that was a feminine woman right and i really think angie to her core um

00:45:07.200 she seemed feminine feminine and submissive i think myron would like double down on that

00:45:12.240 but just is what it is he did start dating the summer of 2018 as well

00:45:21.360 but see how he kind of has feminine character right he's eating this up

00:45:39.600 um conservative men they tend to eat this up

00:45:45.060 they're real i always thought it was very strange how she would go to drinks with one guy

00:45:52.540 and then go to dinner with another i don't think erica found that strange because i think she did

00:45:57.080 the same thing it's called dating no one's bashing that but i don't know why she's lying about it

00:46:01.580 and yesterday we talked about cabinet phillips who she dated in 2017 and it seems like they dated

00:46:07.140 for the majority of the year in 2017 and yes it's kebett phillips who apparently is doing the how

00:46:12.700 to leave like charlie college tours for tp usa now interesting but there's also another boyfriend his

00:46:18.680 name is tyler massey and she dated him in 2015 here we have them doing fashion week in phoenix

00:46:24.560 together and then the caption to this photo posted by jack nicole so jack nicole was the designer

00:46:29.100 of erica's outfit hashtag this photo cute couple and here's some more photos that were posted on

00:46:34.440 twitter another photo okay another one too because these two are just so wonderful hashtag in love

00:46:39.900 this was posted march of 2015 captioned prepping another couple's gallery for delivery so why lie

00:46:47.340 in this interview that's like a week old so erica kirk actually had two boyfriends within the five

00:46:52.840 years before meeting charlie kirk so why lie about this before we talk about the two boyfriends let's

00:46:58.500 Watch this clip where Erica Kirk is lying to us.

00:47:01.300 I would. OK, so.

00:47:05.540 Again, women are designed to be passed around.

00:47:08.940 Women want different things at different points in our life.

00:47:11.980 You know, when we're young, we want fun and we get to our 30s.

00:47:15.460 We want stability that we get to our 40s.

00:47:17.540 We want fun again.

00:47:22.140 She's not yours.

00:47:23.060 It's just your turn.

00:47:28.500 yeah and this doesn't mean to be disrespectful to anybody but you know isabella moody we we know you

00:47:40.440 know same thing right and me too right we're all whores all of us you know what i mean like it's

00:47:49.120 not um and you know if the women like if any woman had a two or three body count

00:47:58.440 they would just say it they would just say it because that's a flex and if nobody's saying it

00:48:04.360 look now i think nick has been seeing my stuff because recently i've seen and okay so i saw this

00:48:28.440 the young white man you are truly alone all the young white guys need to team up because it's it

00:48:40.760 is us against the world everyone hates us you guys need to wake up to that fact we need to become

00:48:46.420 racist and we need to take charge and by the way don't buy into this propaganda that all white

00:48:53.420 girls are just whores let's go to fucking colombia and get a cheap hooker yeah this passport bro

00:48:59.340 bullshit that's as jewish that's jewish as fuck that's a jewish psyop to make you have mongrel

00:49:04.980 babies if you're non-white if i was non-white and uh i wasn't in this battle like i am if i was a

00:49:12.140 black dude i would be a passport bro yeah for non- so i don't really care about that part hold

00:49:17.560 on is you can go to a third world country and get a much hotter girl um uh you know that you sorry

00:49:24.280 so you know they're i thought they're into like furthering the white race i'm not that's not my

00:49:30.600 thing but obviously um but what i thought this was the most realistic dating advice that i'd ever

00:49:41.480 heard for conservatives way better and that was like way more realistic than you find your trad

00:49:46.360 bride uh in a third world country but she's going to be brown but if you're if you're a black dude

00:49:51.000 or if you're a brown dude you know that's fine uh yeah no if i was non-white i think i would be a

00:49:57.560 passport bro but if if you're white we we're gonna have to wife up these hoes you're gonna have to

00:50:02.720 suck it up and wife up one of these american white girls and um but it'll it'll be your race matters

00:50:11.100 that much like yeah your your race in 10 generations your race will your yeah it doesn't

00:50:18.400 i mean that argument doesn't really hold up because none of your kids are probably going

00:50:22.280 to have kids so odds are you're gonna not your kids aren't gonna mine will have continued

00:50:27.200 and it won't nobody will care that your great great grandmother was a hoe because you exist

00:50:32.120 and you're more white people well i think the default is like our great great grandmothers

00:50:36.800 were hoes they're just better at hiding it what like guys we're in the age of social media so

00:50:42.000 it's all out in the public like you don't think your great great grandma did some hoeing come on

00:50:50.560 like i mean what incentive and then it's like the women will argue with me and say

00:50:55.360 not all women are like that and i'm like well what incentive do we have to be honest

00:51:01.280 this is the most honest dating advice i've heard from the christians they say to find a girl that's

00:51:05.920 special what women are special

00:51:13.520 i'm not special like and i'm just i'm being like i'm being honest here lily hot young thin woman

00:51:20.640 but you got a kid isabella moody you know i'm just doing this because you guys are public figures

00:51:27.600 you're going to be examples i don't hate you i am not better okay

00:51:30.880 you know you've had some past stuff come up on the internet right rachel wilson same thing you know

00:51:40.400 uh she's been married like or she she has more than one like baby dad you know i'm not an attack

00:51:46.560 not attack i'm not better um but it's like that's what's on the menu right all women are designed to

00:51:55.200 be passed around

00:52:00.880 the white race must be preserved at all at all causes and by look and i i kind of i disagree

00:52:14.820 with this i think white guys the most important thing and you could take this or leave it

00:52:21.320 is a girl that looks up to him because i have you look i am from catholic america i've seen some

00:52:27.360 bitchy ass white women karen's that just oh nag like you know there's this one guy that had kids

00:52:36.000 with a white woman where i'm from and that and he married an asian woman after and that asian woman

00:52:43.200 worships the ground he walks on the white woman cost him millions of dollars and made his life

00:52:48.560 hell for years that's worth it that's worth it like come on it's gotta it i mean i don't i don't

00:52:59.480 care people can do what they want but it's gotta be the character first for me anyways it's gotta

00:53:05.200 be character because god i've seen some terrible white mothers awful by the way girls become hoes

00:53:12.320 when they don't have a guy putting them in line so if if like most girls will take on the mindset

00:53:17.960 of the guy that they're dating so if you're conservative i'm not saying go out and get

00:53:22.320 some radical insane liberal like that's beyond the pale but most girls will kind of meld into

00:53:27.820 who you are and if you just put them in their place it'll be fine and you go it's very likely

00:53:33.860 not going to be fine and that's why marriage doesn't really make sense anymore it's kind of

00:53:39.060 outdated because now we have women where you just have a turn

00:53:42.260 getting past isn't a good character trait well it's all women's character traits that's what's

00:53:50.520 on the menu like that's that's how women are and it's the hardest part for men to accept

00:53:58.680 that's why marriage now it's almost it's i would say it's outdated

00:54:09.120 it's play pretend right because you're wearing a white dress you're not a virgin

00:54:17.240 and you're promising to do something that you're not going to do because even if you stay with the

00:54:23.900 one person for life the rest of your life now i mean come on like now you've had life before that

00:54:31.040 it's not really the same thing

00:54:32.540 gotta do it for the race you got it we are gonna have right well and again and circling back this

00:54:40.760 is why um and this is a strategy on white women white women don't like why would we want to

00:54:46.360 compete with other races and be more likable and pleasant if we can just get by on being white

00:54:52.160 disagree with these pastors telling all these young men to wait till they're married because

00:55:02.040 none of the girls are virgins being a virgin man marrying a non-virgin women woman is a

00:55:07.260 terrible idea you have no idea what you're getting she's going to be able to just totally control

00:55:11.360 yeah see that's at least on you you have no idea what you're getting into so uh i do not in america

00:55:17.220 in 2025 i do not recommend waiting till marriage as a man if you're a woman try and stay pure

00:55:23.180 but as a man um you know none of the girls in this country are looking at for the two women

00:55:28.580 that watch you got till 21 22 for men to buy that shit maybe 23 but the guys you think are cute

00:55:35.960 they are not gonna

00:55:36.940 they are not gonna buy this virgins you're not gonna find a virgin wife so if if she's gonna

00:55:53.680 to be ran through you need to be ran through as well ran through men aren't run through men do

00:56:00.420 the running through but uh yeah go rack up a body count and then get yourself one of these

00:56:07.960 ran through white women well that's kind of what works right that's kind of how it works you go to

00:56:12.120 college um they both whore and then the whores find each other and again it's kicking the ladder

00:56:19.100 out from under them it's like women that say oh makeup

00:56:24.540 make like they'll get old pamela anderson used makeup to further her career and plastic surgery

00:56:31.900 and then when she's old and she's already gotten what she wanted then she says oh don't do this

00:56:37.420 and that's a lot of conservatives do they used whoring to get what they wanted and then say

00:56:42.860 don't do it. Well, what I'd like to know from Erica Kirk is, okay, where do you find these

00:56:51.840 conservative Christian white men? Where do they hang out in New York City? And I want you to

00:56:58.620 know the difference between idealistic and realistic conversations. Idealistic is saying

00:57:07.800 women should be virgins. A realistic conversation is saying, okay, if you want a virgin, you're

00:57:12.960 going to want to go to a college campus. You're going to want to take classes on it and look

00:57:18.220 for women before the age of 19. Like that's realistic. This is how to attract them. This

00:57:23.080 is how to whatever. Women are designed to be passed. And I get a lot of cope and it's

00:57:32.560 usually cope the biggest cope you get is from men letting the dream of a wife die they really want

00:57:40.160 a wife they don't want society to crumble they don't like this idea and um they they think i'm

00:57:48.940 just a giant super slut because i i talk about this stuff i'm i'm being i'm being real here right

00:57:54.200 um and they and you know that's when you get the women coming out saying well not all women not

00:57:59.280 all women and it kind of goes back to the simps the simp enforcers in the simps right or the the

00:58:05.120 women lying and the simp enforcing that narrative um again if women were designed to be with one

00:58:11.520 man for life and did it easily why is it that when you give women freedom to do whatever we want we

00:58:17.040 pick whoring the same way when you give men the freedom to do whatever they want they pick young

00:58:23.760 hot and young, hot, thin, and a lot of variety. And so it's generally men that don't have a lot

00:58:33.660 of experience with women that think that they, they kind of cope with this, right? But because

00:58:39.140 a guy like Dan Bolzerian, he's going to say, oh yeah, they, they do want to be passed around

00:58:43.580 because he's, he said, you know, he's, he's dated women that were virgin. I'm sure he's taken a

00:58:50.840 bajillion girls virginities and there's a good chunk of them that say thank you and just go on

00:58:54.800 to the next guy the guys that have run through women they know that a lot of women want to be

00:59:02.780 run through and have a hard time with monogamy so i'm in i'm sorry we have no choice this is

00:59:15.060 the situation and then hopefully our children can uh grow up in a country that's not totally

00:59:19.960 fucked up okay yeah um because my question is why do white women deserve to be bailed out

00:59:27.400 you know what i mean like what you know i think the feminism is really giving women things when

00:59:32.360 we don't deserve it um here i i saw this clip of nick i need to stop sipping for horse uh no they

00:59:40.420 need to stop simping period you fucking idiot i love that it's these modern women it's these

00:59:45.680 whores. I need a virtuous woman. It's like, bro, you can never simp for a woman. It literally does

00:59:51.800 not matter. Women will always tend towards being unrestrained whores unless they are put in their

00:59:58.960 place by men. That is why we are where we are. Unless they are put in their place by their

01:00:04.520 father, by their husband, unless they are being put in their place constantly, that is where they

01:00:11.020 will tend towards. Don't tell me it's modern women. It's those other women. It's always some

01:00:16.300 other person, right? It's never my girl. It's never your girl. It's never the girl that I want

01:00:21.660 to date. It's never the girl I'm in DMs with. It's those other girls. No, babe, it's those other

01:00:28.200 girls. It's those modern girls. It's those whores. Not you. You're my princess. You're a dick.

01:00:34.800 Yeah, and that's, again, simps defending women's reputation.

01:00:39.640 No, no, they're not like that.

01:00:42.140 Really?

01:00:45.560 You've been sexually with one man.

01:00:48.160 That's it.

01:00:49.980 No, no, but they were just used.

01:00:51.680 They didn't...

01:00:53.160 Really, her only choice was the man that runs through women.

01:00:59.440 Really.

01:01:02.040 My friend, fuck you.

01:01:04.800 and shut up. I love that. It's all these pussy whip bitch niggas talking about modern women have

01:01:12.520 gone wrong, but my girl's different. My girl is obedient and trad. And what you see a lot of it,

01:01:19.640 you'll look at these trad accounts. It's a lot of just virtue signaling, right? And it's a lot

01:01:24.020 of women saying, trying to signal that they're different or they're special. And if you wait

01:01:30.120 long enough, exactly the same. They're exactly the same. My girl's a traditional wholesome

01:01:37.420 chungus girl. No, she's the same way. That's my favorite. That's my favorite cope. I feed on that

01:01:45.400 like a blood sucking leech. We need biblical women. We need biblical masculinity. We need

01:01:52.120 biblical. We need traditional women. My girl. No, pussy, bitch, nigga. Women need to shut up,

01:02:00.480 period. Notice, I didn't say women that don't, but no, I said women need to shut up.

01:02:08.400 That is true. It is good advice. Every woman in your life, if you just got them to shut up more,

01:02:14.200 good advice, okay? In general, the good ones will know that it's for their own benefit.

01:02:20.140 The good ones will know, you're right, I do need to shut up.

01:02:23.280 You're right.

01:02:24.180 We need biblical masculinity where we serve and love our wives and we give them everything

01:02:28.560 they want and we act like polite little boys.

01:02:32.380 No, we need like biological masculinity.

01:02:37.460 I don't want biblical, I want biological masculinity where, you know, when immigrants are raping

01:02:42.760 your country, you're big enough to kill them.

01:02:45.100 I'm not saying kill immigrants.

01:02:46.420 I mean, if you're put in a self-defense situation, someone's trying to kill you, you're like

01:02:53.160 able to defend your civilization from these attacks.

01:02:56.560 It's crazy.

01:02:57.740 Men used to be men.

01:02:59.120 Men used to be like sailors and soldiers and cowboys.

01:03:03.240 And they were just men.

01:03:05.060 Like, yeah, they were violent.

01:03:06.700 They were aggressive.

01:03:08.240 You couldn't fuck with them.

01:03:10.000 And now people think that being a man is being like a wholesome chungus.

01:03:15.160 Real men are like, hi, hi, I'm biblically masculine.

01:03:19.620 Hi, honey.

01:03:20.880 Hi, honey.

01:03:21.620 Who's doing the chores tonight?

01:03:23.260 I'll do the dishes and you do this.

01:03:25.960 It's crazy the way that so many of these Christian men are just a bit,

01:03:30.480 like they think that Christianity is a license to simp.

01:03:33.700 You see these guys now and they want to live a domestic life.

01:03:37.320 It's absolutely pathetic.

01:03:38.760 Like it's embarrassing and it's sad.

01:03:40.900 And I say that as an incel.

01:03:42.300 I say that as a complete incel virgin. It is fucking sad that men aspire to and idolize

01:03:50.680 a domestic life. They want to be the mom. They fantasize about buying a big gay house.

01:03:58.220 They fantasize about taking their kids places, like daddy daycare. They fantasize about cooking

01:04:06.000 their family dinner. It's like, and you put on the apron too? You put on the apron too,

01:04:10.700 And what happens when you clean the house?

01:04:12.580 Do you put on a costume for that also?

01:04:14.800 You know, a man on his hands and knees scrubbing the floor,

01:04:17.780 a man cooking the dinner, a man taking the kids around.

01:04:21.140 I love to do it.

01:04:22.700 So I want you guys to put in the chat,

01:04:27.140 and I'm going to go at the end.

01:04:28.720 I'll play the rest of this clip.

01:04:31.060 Put in the chat what women are not designed to be pastorate.

01:04:34.540 Put them in.

01:04:35.640 Put in the special women that are super special and different.

01:04:40.700 I did. It's like men used to be like a rolling stone. Men used to be there. They're about their

01:04:47.940 business. They're about the farm. They're about the factory. They're about the business. They're

01:04:53.340 a soldier. They're, they're a cop. You know, they're involved in society. They're running

01:04:58.900 the world. Like I'm busy running the world. Now guys are like, I can't wait to be a dad.

01:05:05.260 I can't wait to be a husband. I can't wait to go to my kid's graduation. It's like that

01:05:10.440 shit is boring that shit is fucking boring and you should feel bored it should feel like an

01:05:15.680 obligation i just want to see my kids recital because it's so meaningful like men have become

01:05:22.920 so sentimental sentimentality is not a masculine virtue it is that is for faggots these overly

01:05:30.380 sentimental men it's like it should be a chore because it's not like the deal of marriage is

01:05:37.600 like look men want to have sex with hundreds of women that's what all men want to do men want to

01:05:42.680 have sex with hundreds of women and men want to live alone and what happens is you have sex and

01:05:48.900 you have a kid and then you're obligated to like stick with the woman and raise the kid and that's

01:05:52.960 why your testosterone goes down you kind of stop being a man for a little while and then you're

01:05:57.240 like then you're in it okay all right now i'm gonna raise my kids now she's gonna take care of

01:06:01.980 me she's my old lady like that's the deal but guys want to be the mom now guys want to be super mom

01:06:07.580 they want to volunteer for the kindergarten christmas party i'll bake the cookies i'll

01:06:14.280 i'll make the arts and crafts it's just so fun you have these like faggot millennial dad do you

01:06:19.780 know what women are special and different the 18 year old virgin women but they're special and

01:06:25.580 different right now for now until they're not it's in graphic t-shirts and they can't wait to

01:06:33.440 like do stuff with their kid because their dad wasn't there for them or something and i think

01:06:38.700 that's kind of what it is i think that we're getting this weird weirdo dads like weirdo dads

01:06:44.540 and moms because like this generation's parents had all kinds of problems divorce weakness

01:06:52.560 absenteeism whatever you want to say there's so many issues with the parents like it is with every

01:06:59.580 generation and now you get these like millennial dweebs where they're like i can't wait to watch

01:07:05.220 star wars with my kid i saw a tiktok of this like millennial dad maybe even a zoomer and he was

01:07:12.240 watching star wars 3 with his baby son and he posted it on tiktok my kid's watching star wars

01:07:20.160 with me and it's like you are a fucking geek you are a nerd that is so self-indulgent and so like

01:07:28.040 let's watch the sci-fi movie. This is good. Okay. Doug.

01:07:58.040 my bad i'm muted

01:08:01.480 so doug mpa if you could pin the link in the chat you know guys you can call in

01:08:09.880 what did i say that was wrong now before i my dog i have to let in hold on hold on

01:08:21.080 here

01:08:28.040 i understand that there's stds right and i understand that there are negative consequences

01:08:41.160 to being passed around but i gotta be honest guys especially in high school most of the girls um

01:08:48.400 that got married young they passed themselves the most because the women that get passed it's like

01:08:55.040 eventually there's a as long as they're not an unlikable person there's someone that's going

01:09:00.620 to say I'll buy I'll take it you know it's usually not the first pass so I just want to know am I

01:09:08.380 wrong are women not designed to be passed around are they what did I get where's the special women

01:09:19.740 where are they

01:09:20.740 i mean and what i when i when you call into my show if you're not willing to talk about

01:09:34.420 your personal experience please call somewhere else i want to know what you have seen i don't

01:09:41.700 to have an idealistic you know um what up doug mpa

01:10:01.620 doug mpa are you there

01:10:05.380 no okay

01:10:11.700 oh we got supers um gregory thank you goth girls are more prude than trad women yeah i mean

01:10:23.540 see that's an observation it sounds like a good one

01:10:41.700 because really my opinion at the end of the day is women are are designed to be passed around

01:10:49.740 and this is an uncomfortable truth it makes it makes you feel really awkward

01:10:55.880 but i just i don't that's what i see women doing so you might as well enjoy the turn

01:11:02.520 you might as well enjoy the turn you get okay it is pinned

01:11:12.260 what's going on mpa let's talk about that my microphone this is kind of update thing so

01:11:19.620 yeah everything you're saying is facts pearly everything you're saying can you can you tell

01:11:24.340 them i'm sorry i just had a i know a story that you tell me if you don't have to tell this story

01:11:30.820 but i think it would be good what you've seen happen to women that don't whore

01:11:35.380 guys um here's the thing uh i always say that a man will not audit a woman for relationship until

01:11:47.540 sex has happened so ladies get sex out of the way as fast as possible first night first night

01:11:56.020 honestly why because we've had conversations about this in the past pearly i know people say

01:12:04.740 oh yeah if a woman sleeps with you on the first night she she's a whore but guys do you want to

01:12:09.440 be the guy that she makes weight when she's made other guys not wait you should be upset if she

01:12:15.260 doesn't sleep with you on the first night because you are not that guy you want to be the guy that

01:12:20.460 she sleeps with on the first night so yes women you should whore sleep with the guy on the first

01:12:25.240 night yeah and if you don't hold like i i think me and you both have seen the like we've been

01:12:32.860 either around religious women or women in these churches that it's like not whoring

01:12:37.880 ruins their life i mean i when i was in that church for like two years

01:12:42.000 i mean i would see women in their 30s and 40s trying to withhold sex what are you doing

01:12:47.400 you should be whoring harder yeah i told you about the girl i met on an online dating site and

01:12:55.840 she moved away to

01:12:58.180 I'm sorry

01:12:59.940 she was a B-dub and she grew up in a small town

01:13:03.080 and then she moved to a major college

01:13:05.180 and she used to

01:13:07.180 go to church on Sundays

01:13:08.200 you know she was lighting the church but when she

01:13:11.140 went onto campus she met this super

01:13:13.140 Christian group and then

01:13:15.180 from like 20 to like

01:13:17.280 33 it was all about Jesus

01:13:19.420 and God he's coming back

01:13:20.800 anytime and she was looking

01:13:23.100 for a guy that was as religious

01:13:25.280 as she was and and i met this girl and um she said yeah i was a virgin until about a couple

01:13:36.760 of months ago i said what do you mean she's like because i left this super christian group behind

01:13:41.820 because my life was passing me by and first off jesus wasn't jesus wasn't coming back and then

01:13:47.520 all the men i was meeting were never going to be as religious as as the people in my in my religious

01:13:55.100 group and she said i had met guys before but that were probably suitable but i wasn't going to sleep

01:14:01.320 with them because i i wanted to wait till marriage or they had to join my church and all this stuff

01:14:05.060 whatever she said that her first sexual encounter was with a guy that she met off of a dating site

01:14:12.900 eight months before i met her now was she a virgin i don't know but she was one of those

01:14:20.840 socially awkward into k-pop super religious weird kind of girls so i mean if she wasn't a virgin at

01:14:30.280 the time her her body count was low only because she was a straight up femme so she was just odd

01:14:35.120 i remember the first time i met her in person i was like this girl is strange because the women

01:14:41.680 that have the ability to wait until marriage and get a guy that's experienced not just a dorky guy

01:14:48.000 that'll take anything which um women are going to resent the guy later um if he doesn't have

01:14:53.920 experience with women uh if you weren't raised to be a wife you got to go get experience like

01:14:59.760 that's just what it is if you were raised to be it then you should have it figured out by like 22

01:15:04.720 if you weren't and by the way if you're likable it doesn't mean that you have to whore with

01:15:09.600 everybody you know what i mean like even if that girl dated you for a year and maybe you decided

01:15:14.880 know she'd at least get experience and so she can get better for the next guy but when you're with

01:15:20.080 a man when you're with when you're in a relationship you're going to be learning about men

01:15:24.880 yeah you're going to and here's the thing ladies sleep with the guy to get that out of the way

01:15:33.200 there's two ways to learn there's a way to learn men when they're trying to have sex with you

01:15:39.360 and then a way to learn men that are trying to audit you for a relationship but you have to

01:15:46.240 first to get to the second part so learn them both ladies if you think a guy is suitable sleep with

01:15:54.400 them on the first date first day uh second date at most this is for advice for women that are not

01:16:02.000 virgin no that's not that simple because when you guys think of a virgin you automatically think of

01:16:06.400 of a good woman but like yeah no and you guys gotta stop because that doesn't like it just

01:16:12.140 means they haven't had sex some virgins are stuck up bitches like they are and the reason they

01:16:18.080 haven't had sex is because they can't give up control like there's plenty of women that go off

01:16:21.940 to college whore a little bit and marry their high school sweetheart or their college their high

01:16:26.320 school or their college sweetheart that happens all the time but there's winners and losers in

01:16:30.300 love. And what happens is the women that got passed too many times get mad and they think

01:16:37.360 they got passed because of the sex and it wasn't. They got passed because of their terrible

01:16:41.960 personalities. So it's, it's like the, the whoring, it's not the whoring because you

01:16:48.420 have to whore in a way to get what you want. But it's, it's the men are generally good

01:16:55.480 judge is a character so if they all pass then there's something wrong you got to figure out

01:17:00.680 what it is go ahead and pearl has said it in the past some of the biggest whores if they're nice

01:17:07.640 to be around they're cool as hell they pick up the video the video game controller instead of

01:17:15.440 giving you hell about it if they know how to cook they will get wiped up don't ever doubt that guys

01:17:21.400 yeah and i don't know why a trad man whenever did a college girl guys i mean charlie kirk the

01:17:26.680 ultimate trad man did and like so you guys got to stop gaslighting me and saying oh men won't

01:17:31.220 put up with or accept that they keep putting up with and accepting that like and again women

01:17:37.440 don't want marriage women want to be passed so it's like they keep saying oh she won't ever find

01:17:43.020 a husband women don't want husbands it's like very obvious by all of our behavior like here's

01:17:49.480 thing i think one of the things we have to move past pearly is the whole whole phase term there

01:17:57.640 is no phase guys they want to be passed off they want to be passed around until they don't get

01:18:04.040 attention until they can't get attention from men anymore is that circuit no so it's not a phase

01:18:13.480 it's not hope ages were like 15 years ago the it's a lifestyle for these women guys you have

01:18:20.120 to accept it you have to um you're insane with your advice uh well i you know and then this is

01:18:27.720 idealistic versus realistic it's very easy to give idealistic advice it's very easy it sounds good

01:18:34.520 you look like the good guy saying wait till merit like that but putting that into practice like

01:18:42.040 you got till 22 ladies you got high school and college to figure out a trad way maybe a year

01:18:48.120 after college but no guy is going to be dumb enough to believe you after a certain age um

01:18:59.160 let's see this is what's best this like because a lot of times in these conversations people think

01:19:04.840 about what's best for society but you have to think about what's best for the individual in

01:19:09.480 these cases because that's what people are going to do what was best for erica kirk was to hold

01:19:13.880 off as long as possible and get the best suitor and get into she social climbed and got into

01:19:20.840 as many rooms as she possibly could and found the best person available so that's what people do

01:19:27.560 and she went to asu guys come on that is the school that one of these schools that women go

01:19:37.480 to whore it up.

01:19:39.040 If you know, you know. Come on.

01:19:40.940 ASU, really?

01:19:42.700 What up, Matt?

01:19:46.480 Wait.

01:19:47.560 There's some kind of noise going on?

01:19:49.500 We'll bring you, man.

01:19:52.400 Hey, what's up?

01:19:53.960 How's it going?

01:19:55.500 It's going good.

01:19:57.400 What you guys were saying about the

01:19:59.380 kind of change between

01:20:01.300 the whole...

01:20:04.580 Well, I'll just

01:20:05.480 tell my story. So, when I was in my

01:20:07.460 younger kind of 20 days i was a little bit more interested in the classical relationship not a

01:20:12.340 trad con dude but i believed in something more meaningful back in the day i took my bruises

01:20:17.320 learning that that just wasn't going to work couldn't get anybody tied down couldn't get

01:20:20.560 anybody to commit and after i learned that lesson i decided to go back into the game with the mindset

01:20:25.780 of like all right it's my turn i'm just going to enjoy this and it was interesting because that

01:20:30.840 kind of came late 20s early 30s and all of a sudden no one was down for it anymore i started

01:20:36.380 noticing that relationships were a lot more transactional and the fun that everybody was

01:20:40.940 committed to having when they were young shifted to this more like deal where it was, what can you

01:20:45.660 do for me? And I thought it was interesting. So when I started talking to the women in the dating

01:20:48.680 market who were thinking that way, what I noticed was there was this shift in their mindset that

01:20:54.180 made them more transactional because they were trying to find a resource to offset the mistakes

01:20:59.720 they made when they were younger, when they didn't want to commit initially. And there's

01:21:04.780 kind of this transition that happens over time between the 20s and the 30s, at least in my

01:21:08.580 experience, where I can't necessarily, I don't know, it's almost like I wish I could go back in

01:21:14.120 time. And I think that's sort of an underlying cause as far as the cumulative issues that are

01:21:19.600 in the back of their mind of like, okay, how can I leverage this demand in this kind of more

01:21:24.120 commercialized relationship philosophy? So you're saying that women got dug out when they're young

01:21:31.320 and they want to raise their standards because they're tired because of what they did when they

01:21:36.020 were young getting dug out yeah because there's consequences right so like they're not good with

01:21:40.720 their money there's a divorce they have to there's kids that they need to take care of that the dad's

01:21:44.740 not there for and i'm talking about the same women because i like left my hometown and then i went

01:21:49.020 back thinking like all right these girls wanted to party when i was younger now that i've given up

01:21:52.620 on the real thing i'm going to go back and do that again and the mindset was different and then you

01:21:56.340 ask them like hey what's going on how come your mindset's different all of a sudden it's just like

01:21:59.840 oh okay well i can't party anymore i need to take care of these four kids that the dad's not around

01:22:03.460 to help me with and it never ceased it never it never ceased to amaze me how many of these

01:22:08.840 consequences that are now driving down their ability to appreciate things are consequences

01:22:13.180 of things that i tried to warn them about initially right like don't date that guy he's

01:22:17.300 kind of a shitbag don't date your you know sorry but it's i don't know this is really

01:22:21.420 you have to be talking about mostly black women right oh no no no i'm from a small midwestern

01:22:28.820 town where there weren't that many um met a few but it's the point is that it kind of seems

01:22:35.500 universal that was one of the things that i noticed was that everywhere i went and a lot

01:22:40.340 of it had to do with women's intuition like that was the force that i was up against when i was

01:22:43.640 younger you know you try to give advice in terms of like like oh well maybe don't do that maybe

01:22:49.080 don't drink and party all the time and then try to fall in love and convert some dude that you

01:22:53.500 met while you were drunk who just hooked up with you while you're while you were drunk and then

01:22:57.100 turn around and be like, oh, okay, now why can't I control

01:22:59.100 this guy? Well, it's just like he was wild when you met him.

01:23:01.340 And I'll admit, I was younger

01:23:03.100 and dumber and I was making a lot of those more

01:23:05.100 optimistic mistakes.

01:23:07.180 I definitely think of

01:23:08.400 come along in my journey

01:23:11.180 as a man and I accept the

01:23:13.140 world as it is and it's just funny to see

01:23:15.120 the conversion from one era to the next

01:23:17.180 and I can't help but notice that there

01:23:19.060 are these traces of the previous

01:23:21.080 era mistakes and the explanations for why

01:23:23.080 things are the way they are now.

01:23:25.860 Is there like an A

01:23:27.100 It's like freeing, to be honest, when you start accepting the world the way it is.

01:23:32.800 Well, you need the point of reference, right?

01:23:34.300 Like, I didn't know how the world was.

01:23:35.420 I was younger.

01:23:35.940 So all I had was what I thought it was supposed to be.

01:23:38.340 Yeah.

01:23:38.820 Right?

01:23:39.040 You talk about the difference between idealism versus practicalism.

01:23:42.040 Well, the idea was all I had.

01:23:43.500 So that's what I went with.

01:23:44.580 And then I had to learn the lesson after the fact.

01:23:47.920 What age were you when you started realizing, was it a particular age, like you hit a certain age?

01:23:53.680 And then also, what age do you see this switch in women around?

01:23:57.960 So I'm asking for two ages.

01:23:59.580 Your age of realization than the age that women normally change.

01:24:05.180 So there are, like, different key lessons at different times.

01:24:09.420 I know Pro Calls was canon events.

01:24:11.500 I would say, like, 30 is kind of the hard number, right?

01:24:16.080 Because I've also noticed the transition period,

01:24:18.360 it's not like they were one way on Monday and then the next way on Tuesday.

01:24:20.980 um it's a little more like like the consequences start to accumulate right like there's there's

01:24:28.420 health issues because they didn't take take care of themselves the amount of people i've tried to

01:24:31.760 like take to the gym and go like hiking and build healthy habits with like hey let's go do this

01:24:35.260 and then all of a sudden the aging process is like oh i can't do this my knees are bad i'm

01:24:40.020 overweight i'm out of shape i have to go to the hospital for this and it's just like huh it's

01:24:43.440 almost like they could have been avoided with a few different life decisions right so it kind

01:24:47.300 of accumulates over time but it really seems to be like i don't know if i had to pick a date i'd

01:24:52.400 say 28 is kind of when i noticed but there's also a denial of the consequences yeah everything's

01:24:59.100 okay yeah the debt's gonna accumulate the exes are going to accumulate the baby debt like that's

01:25:05.520 kind of because you've had a decade after high school to like see where you're at in life

01:25:09.760 yeah and modern women 28 is usually when they start looking down the road and all of their

01:25:18.620 mistakes they can see them as speed bumps to get them where they want down the road their student

01:25:23.980 loan debt if they have you know that's when they start having bastard kids you know all their bad

01:25:30.240 financial decisions they usually start to hit them right around 28 to 30 years old i agree yeah and

01:25:35.320 they still have the mindset of i have sexual leverage because they haven't been hit with

01:25:39.100 their reality check yet so they take that demand that they're used to yeah thanks for calling in

01:25:44.760 we're going to go on to the next caller that was really insightful so i appreciate it yeah good

01:25:48.860 call see he was great everyone see that's the kind of calls we like this is my experience

01:25:54.560 don't don't come on telling me my experience is wrong or what like just come in this is my story

01:26:02.200 perfect perfect all right let's get mad in here hey how's it going trying you again okay perfect

01:26:10.540 the audio is gone um so tell me what's your story that pertains to this man my brother from the

01:26:17.640 yeah well let's see here well like i said i've seen women uh when they get to you know they get

01:26:29.800 to about the later 20s and you know earlier 30s they start you can start seeing a little bit of

01:26:34.980 desperation in them and uh hardly enough i've seen some of the women up in the 30s there that

01:26:42.040 you know they smarten up they they'll go and they'll take care of the house they'll mow the

01:26:46.380 lawn they'll do all sorts of shit you won't even ask for them and they're like okay i'll be there

01:26:53.420 they're they're stuck in that relationship it's just like they caught on the trick that you

01:26:58.000 actually got to offer something and then move on but that's just the women around here but yeah i

01:27:03.540 know there's and then you know like i said um i've noticed younger women like i knew um my girl out

01:27:08.780 of um was at a particular ranch at a very famous ufo site in canada so when i knew a couple things

01:27:17.520 about identify plotting objects say and there's this girl she was into me you can see you know

01:27:25.660 that you know the women they give you the big me eyes and uh and then it says like okay this

01:27:31.660 is interesting but i'm gonna study this girl because i've learned too much from shows like yours

01:27:38.140 where where are these you know it's just like okay she had ink work all over her arms and back

01:27:46.300 i'm like okay not liking it but i'll move on so it's the bar goes down a little bit

01:27:53.020 then i noticed she had the nose ring on her i was here not attractive necessarily but again um

01:28:01.020 i can tolerate bar goes down a little bit and one day we're on a bunch of horses and walking out of

01:28:06.620 the forest there and she's just like yeah i don't like to be told what to do oh no bar goes down a

01:28:13.340 little more and then uh and then one day we were talking about uh because she knew alternative

01:28:20.060 health she knew how to how to forage into the wilderness to make you know to get raspberries

01:28:26.460 and stuff and so she knew how to bake she knew how to work a ranch you know she knew how to do

01:28:32.300 uh you know work guitars and all she had a lot of skills like and and she was not very active

01:28:38.940 on social media which is very rare and i didn't know she was 21 years old but she i thought she

01:28:45.900 was about 25 because she was very much what happened with what happened with it yeah i gotta

01:28:50.860 gotta get to the end well i started i started noticing that when you when they like you said

01:28:55.820 doug when you start letting them talk over and over and over again they kind of self-incriminate

01:29:00.140 themselves she exposed she explained to me that she had an iud in her body and i'm like or udi

01:29:07.340 whatever you call it and um it's just like she's using it she's got to be using it

01:29:13.020 he goes to all the all the all the bands and concerts and stuff and i'm like oh my god

01:29:19.500 you know and and then one day i joked about you know the 4b movement when all these women are

01:29:26.460 chopping off their hairy yeah she went off on me about abortion rights i never saw that coming

01:29:33.580 after that when she's just like because they all they said donald trump was going to take away all

01:29:39.660 the abortion stuff which wasn't possible and i explained it to her because it's done to the

01:29:44.220 state yeah but then she got upset about it and i'm like okay okay okay okay in my experience

01:29:52.840 okay if something's going well i won't really bring up like a red pill kind of concept but

01:30:00.500 if it's kind of iffy i'll drop something like that and see how she reacts was this

01:30:06.360 was it going good until it wasn't or or or was it kind of shaky from the from the beginning

01:30:12.680 or you know understand i'm saying like was she not that good to begin with and you were trying

01:30:18.040 to make it work no i was trying to learn about her more you know like little and i she she seemed to

01:30:25.640 be okay but i didn't expect this to pop up the way that it did i was just yeah oh i'll say

01:30:39.240 and it was like holy yeah thanks for calling in matt we're gonna go to the next caller okay

01:30:46.600 always good talking to you buddy see you bud all right we're gonna oh wait we're gonna go

01:30:51.640 okay jeff what you got for us um i don't have a whole lot of time to talk but i am gonna say

01:31:02.520 these two are right y'all women need to get it together i'm tired of it i'm sick of it

01:31:08.680 the childish mindset is the reason why all my relationships failed

01:31:12.120 i mean just like the united states government i too don't negotiate with terrorists

01:31:19.420 just wait to lose your b card women this is what y'all need to do wait to lose your b card around

01:31:26.360 21 or 22 maybe 23 that way by the time you're 25 or 27 you'll level out but just get it together

01:31:34.720 nice thanks for calling in jeff all right be safe

01:31:39.260 yeah so anyways my point is um women are designed to be passed around

01:31:47.640 and so nothing can surprise me anymore and i think as a society we just got to accept this

01:31:54.800 we got to accept this fact even though it hurts um players have accepted this and that's why they

01:31:59.740 they're like you know um i'll just take a turn yeah and and all that's what pearl's saying

01:32:07.060 pass around women win guys you know pro said this earlier today odds are you know odds are

01:32:14.440 your wife was a sugar baby at one time you know she got dug out by the basketball team

01:32:19.760 you know if she's over a certain looks level guys just don't ask about her past just don't do it

01:32:26.160 except the fact that she went through a period

01:32:28.120 getting dug out.

01:32:29.760 Or did 19-year-olds like Leonardo.

01:32:31.760 Those are your choices.

01:32:33.920 You got the time and the energy for that.

01:32:36.620 A lot of you guys have jobs, though.

01:32:41.180 Well, thanks for coming up, Doug MPA.

01:32:43.940 Always good talking to you, my friend.

01:32:45.200 Good talking to you, too.

01:32:49.820 Well, guys,

01:32:50.880 that's really it.

01:32:52.880 That's all I got.

01:32:56.160 um the basketball team look it could be every woman's got her group of guys that she gets

01:33:07.140 passed by some women it's streamers I mean you kind of see that now some women it's athletes

01:33:15.420 um yeah so Kayla Grace um Kayla you've been with one man your whole life right

01:33:20.820 yeah you and all your friends

01:33:25.580 uh but i think the simps out there because without you fellas um

01:33:31.620 there wouldn't be anybody to believe these hoes there wouldn't and we do we need men like you

01:33:38.500 to um clean up so anyways all right guys if you enjoyed the stream tell your friends

01:33:45.040 like the video. Um, yeah, you're married and I'm, I'm sure again, you've been with one man your

01:33:54.560 whole life. I'm sure. I bet your husband believes that like what's her incentive to be honest. Do

01:34:01.460 you know what I mean? Like what's, what's the incentive? She's going to say, yeah, I was passed

01:34:05.700 to my husband. Yeah. It's like, all right. Anyways, guys like the video. Thanks for

01:34:12.740 watching and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - December 23, 2025

Women Are Designed to Be Passed Around

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