Pearl - Women Are Getting DUMPED and Posting Their Meltdowns Online

00:00:00.000 you know we have dating apps so we can literally choose any man we want and have like pick the 0.88

00:00:06.200 litter right um no when no time in history do we have access to more men and we still

00:00:11.780 pick men that um give us L's in life so today we're gonna watch women talk about being dumped

00:00:17.520 I got dumped last week except we weren't actually dating but I did get ended with

00:00:22.100 better than a ghost but anyways here are some things I think I learned and I won't be doing

00:00:26.940 next time just because you go on five dates doesn't mean things are getting super serious

00:00:31.100 learned that one the hard way i knew things weren't getting serious though because we never

00:00:35.820 had a conversation about like where things are going if we like each other what's going on we

00:00:40.680 were just hanging out i guess uh nice dinners but that's something i would do differently i think

00:00:46.280 literally second date maybe i'd be like i'd be more love island to be honest i know some demons

00:00:51.080 out there and um they you could be their girlfriend and it's not serious you know what i

00:00:56.700 mean like i mean honestly there's nothing that means anything anymore you might as well just

00:01:00.680 assume everyone's lying that's kind of the it's kind of the vibes these days about it i'd be like

00:01:04.640 so what are you looking for so why are you single when was your last relationship i'm just trying

00:01:08.700 not to be annoying okay also like didn't want to mess it up at all i also think i need to be more

00:01:13.100 up front with like what i'm looking for in the beginning like i don't date for fun like i'm

00:01:17.660 getting old like i'm dating to yeah see this is why we're more insufferable because when we're

00:01:21.860 young we're like teehee let's see where it goes then we get pumped and dumped and we're like i

00:01:25.500 am looking for a marriage yesterday actually find a relationship we don't have to get married

00:01:30.140 tomorrow like trust me i do not want that i have a lot to do in the meantime but like

00:01:33.260 a boyfriend for like a while would be nice before even thinking about the next step but

00:01:37.780 that's like i'm not looking for like i don't need dinner like i i can cook well i can't cook but you

00:01:43.480 know i can make sure myself okay so just you know establishing maybe that like earlier i think

00:01:47.240 asking earlier what they're looking for because of what they're looking for isn't me like that

00:01:51.040 could have been established on like date three rather than having to go yeah but a lot of times

00:01:54.160 our insufferability is hidden in the beginning so then they date us for longer and they're like

00:01:59.660 oh you're insufferable let me dump let me pump and dump through five of them but i did get fed

00:02:04.240 really well so i'm not mad about that at all i also think maybe like telling them a little bit

00:02:07.960 about me like i don't know why i didn't do this i think i was just trying not to like talk bad

00:02:11.500 about myself or bring in any past relationships into it but i am a very slow burn like i need a

00:02:18.480 long time to feel comfortable with somebody especially to be like fully myself like there's

00:02:21.800 lot of versions of deb despite what you think and i told him this at the very end when he ended

00:02:26.740 things i said maybe this is one of the reasons why there wasn't anything there it's because i felt

00:02:31.040 very reserved because i was so in my head about not wanting to mess anything up because i don't

00:02:35.320 date that often and truly dinner dates scare me so badly you never believe it i literally came

00:02:40.920 from a dating show where you go on date dinner dates for some reason there's just so much pressure

00:02:44.700 i get so in my head and then i feel like i'm thinking too much so then i just come across 0.89

00:02:48.100 was really stupid because that is my number one defense mechanism my acting teacher one time told 0.93

00:02:52.740 me that i am an expert at weaponizing incompetence and i kind of want to get that tattooed on my 0.99

00:02:57.360 forehead because it is the most accurate representation of me this is kind of turning

00:03:00.500 into like a vulnerable post i'm embarrassed i also think i need to work on asking more

00:03:05.060 questions about the other person like i just get so caught up in like having a conversation and

00:03:09.500 like the tangents we go on and just like random little things that i forget that it's a date and

00:03:13.640 you're supposed to be getting to know the person but like okay i know where you went to school i

00:03:17.000 know what you study like i know what you do for work like what other what other questions are

00:03:20.960 what's your social security number i don't know and then that makes me feel like i'm on love on

00:03:24.360 the spectrum if i have to google like questions to ask on a date but maybe i should go on love

00:03:28.760 on the spectrum anyways i'm back to trying to going on dates so hopefully they go better yeah

00:03:34.020 and she's complaining but she'll have pick the litter i mean you know you can't believe this

00:03:38.660 stuff me but i just got jumped last night so it is official so if you look like that and you're

00:03:43.860 quite attractive especially in america so it's probably your personality i hate to say it me and

00:03:50.740 because we are not anything anymore this was decided last night um but i still have a life

00:04:01.380 to live so i can't just do what i feel like doing which is laying in bed and just

00:04:07.780 doing nothing. I honestly have never been dumped before so I don't really know like how it works.

00:04:17.260 The worst was waking up this morning and obviously I feel like you could tell by my

00:04:22.220 eye bags I didn't really get a lot of sleep but it's okay. We didn't end on bad terms or anything

00:04:30.440 like it was just a conversation. It's a little bit awkward now I wonder if they know who he is

00:04:35.860 she's like crying and he's like hey guys how's it going i'm obviously not gonna go into like

00:04:40.600 crazy detail because i want to respect him i've been crying like all morning and this is like

00:04:47.920 the first time see this is what men have to deal with um you know they're like men take that l in

00:04:52.820 peace they could never just cry on the internet but we can cry on the internet i did that once

00:04:57.500 it's kind of embarrassing i'm not crying and i don't even know like what to feel right now like

00:05:03.940 i said we did end up on good terms so we still were following each other but i decided that like

00:05:10.380 that wasn't healthy for me and i also blocked him but i did fold and i did text him this morning

00:05:17.280 just kind of like telling him like how i felt about the whole situation i didn't even give him

00:05:22.640 like the chance to reply because after talking to my mom i texted him goodbye and um i blocked him

00:05:32.100 i think that's why i'm totally calm and i'm not crying anymore all right hold on i gotta go get

00:05:37.260 my dog because like i just feel like happy with my choice of like blocking him and cutting him

00:05:45.580 out even though i did she's gonna unblock she's gonna unblock it's gonna happen yeah we care

00:05:51.120 about him and i didn't obviously want this to like happen like i care about myself way more

00:05:58.120 i'm not gonna that's why you're single like decide when they want to talk to me or not 1.00

00:06:03.700 yeah she is gonna let him absolutely decide when he wants to talk because when women of genuine 1.00

00:06:08.260 desire i mean we'll let a ninja do anything anything i mean he you say jump he says jump

00:06:18.220 you say how high it just is what it is like it's either you do or you don't if you don't

00:06:23.860 then you don't it doesn't mean like i feel negative towards him or anything it's just like

00:06:29.560 i'm simply protecting myself because i obviously care about myself way more and i just woke up this

00:06:35.420 morning i would just check my phone and it's like there was like no text from him i think that's

00:06:41.820 like the worst because then you realize everything like everything's not normal and okay i'm kind of

00:06:48.820 starting to feel it right now like it's coming back and it just like comes in like waves like

00:06:54.040 i feel fine and then like i just get like a wave of sadness and like i'm feeling that

00:07:00.360 right now and the worst part is thinking like does he even care too like that's like like does he

00:07:09.320 now she's drinking even miss me like this he doesn't at all so i'm like that's what's messing

00:07:17.340 at the end of the day none of that matters because he didn't choose me so i'm not gonna

00:07:22.960 choose him i'm obviously choosing myself that's why i blocked him and everything because like

00:07:27.700 obviously i'm sure you were insufferable in some way you probably deserved it myself more than

00:07:32.440 anything the last night was my last time ever seen him obviously didn't want to like unfollow 0.54

00:07:38.180 each other he wanted to like keep contact and he was telling me so he could because so he could 0.51

00:07:44.260 hit whenever he wants text and all that he wants to have sex with other girls and you so i was

00:07:50.440 really so vulnerable and i was crying but he was crying too so like i guess he did that um to maybe 0.72

00:07:57.940 make it so you didn't crash out on him that makes me feel better and like i just wish like i did

00:08:03.540 and it worked obviously it worked you know yeah yeah so like i never met him like it's not worth

00:08:11.400 it to me so if you guys have any tips on how to not feel the way i feel please give them to me

00:08:19.720 and like this is the biggest thing i have going on so like i'm pretty okay yeah that's what i mean

00:08:25.100 um we wouldn't crash out so hard if we were like working on a farm or something you know

00:08:28.880 i got dumped on my birthday and i thought having my big day taken from me was the worst part but

00:08:35.160 it wasn't because life isn't based on big moments it's built on the small ones when i reached for

00:08:43.240 his hand and it slipped from my grasp when he pretended to be asleep because he knew i was

00:08:48.100 crying when i reread our old messages just to remind myself he used to care those are the

00:08:54.880 moments i won't allow to be stolen anymore so take the birthday take the cake take the wishes

00:09:02.740 Yeah, see, all this is so performative because we all know if she was really into him and he texted her, she'd be right.

00:09:08.060 I mean, put it in the comments. 0.99

00:09:09.800 What a woman was saying online while doing for you. 0.72

00:09:12.660 Like, what was she saying about you or subtweeting?

00:09:15.440 You know, what was she saying she would never do and then doing?

00:09:18.860 I don't need them because the biggest thing you ever took from me was my smallest moments.

00:09:24.720 Yeah, this is so sad, ladies.

00:09:26.900 We got to stop doing this.

00:09:28.560 So I just got dumped.

00:09:29.960 i just got dumped by someone who i actually liked uh he canceled two hours before our

00:09:36.420 fifth date and look i'm sure you've canceled did he hit that's a question did he hit when did he

00:09:42.820 hit and i was supposed to cook dinner and we were going to go on a walk on the beach but i

00:09:46.400 said cook dinner by myself and walking on the beach that messed up this was maybe the first

00:09:53.800 time in like 20 years that i've been dumped and i just gotta say it's terrible it's awful yeah

00:10:01.960 because you probably were dating simps and this was a real ninja real ninjas dump you i'm laughing

00:10:06.560 because i'm in so much pain uh the feeling of rejection is just awful um but you know i'm very

00:10:15.220 in tune with myself and and and i believe that whatever has happened this happens is meant to

00:10:21.280 be who isn't the one you're gonna see how freaking cool i am i didn't see that and see this is you're

00:10:29.040 always women always say you're gonna find someone better uh when in fact a lot of times you don't

00:10:34.220 find someone better you find somebody worse you find somebody worse um and that's kind of an l 0.96

00:10:39.140 we have to eat but it just is what it is you know we had a date like a few days ago and he asked me

00:10:45.660 be like oh on a scale of one to ten like what would you rate this and i rated it a 10 because

00:10:50.600 it was amazing and then he's like oh i'd rate it an 11 how do you go from rating a date to an 11 to 0.93

00:10:57.020 totally balancing two days later what the fuck it's all good life's good life's so good 0.98

00:11:06.260 all right let's keep going let's see this crazy dummy yesterday and he was like i don't know i 0.99

00:11:10.840 just didn't know i wasn't going to be ready for a relationship and i totally that's easier to say 0.97

00:11:16.720 that than you are insufferable and i don't like you and you have traits that i just could not

00:11:22.020 that are so terrible to deal with that i don't want to men are nice you know get that i mean

00:11:26.840 it was honestly unfair of me to expect him to be in touch with his own emotions because like

00:11:31.460 you know like this is why this is so sad this coat men know um you know when we dump them it's like

00:11:38.520 yeah i i found somebody better in every way and i could replace you where women uh it's this is

00:11:44.540 such an l because that's not why he dumped you that's just what he said like boys get surprised

00:11:50.680 by their own emotions like a baby gets surprised by a fart you know they just don't they're like

00:11:56.080 ah what's happening they cry they just don't get they don't know and like it and i honestly so

00:12:02.960 that's on me that's on me because i oh i asked too much of him oh so anyway i think i'm gonna go 0.72

00:12:11.260 to europe my boyfriend dumped me yes all right let's see what's yeah women do travel to have sex

00:12:16.520 and get over men arguably the cruelest thing that a person can do to another text whatsapp

00:12:22.000 snapchat yeah you know getting dumped over text is enough facebook message happen to the best of

00:12:27.600 us chica everything you can do is complain online i'm not even gonna lie to you that is the absolute

00:12:32.560 worst thing you can do in this situation telling you dumping someone in this way what the hell is 0.74

00:12:39.020 wrong with you nobody likes to dump someone it's not a nice experience but you know what's worse

00:12:43.240 being dumped and if you're not dumped in a nice way and then you explain why you don't want to

00:12:48.060 be with that person why you why you're ending the relationship men don't do that because they don't

00:12:52.380 want you to argue with it because then they'll say this is why like they would rather be the

00:12:57.020 villain and make you dump them and just be like oh like i love you so much and then have you

00:13:01.420 dump them then say you were so insufferable that i don't want to be with you anymore and here's all

00:13:07.260 your negative traits like they'll never do that in a mature and nice and kind way then you didn't 0.68

00:13:13.260 shouldn't have been in the relationship in the first place anyone who has ever been dumped by

00:13:17.040 text by text message will know how awful it is like literally the bottom i mean i do think you 1.00

00:13:22.740 are kind of a pussy if you don't dump in person but you don't have to women dump men over text 1.00

00:13:28.140 all the time so you know we started this they're finishing it stomach just drops to the floor and 1.00

00:13:34.240 you literally feel like you can't breathe you feel like you're going to be sick it's just it's the

00:13:38.820 worst thing and you can't convey emotion over text so when you break up with someone by text it's

00:13:45.440 going to feel even more impersonal you're not going to understand why you're going to have so

00:13:48.500 many unanswered questions and it's just cruel don't even get me started on one of my friends

00:13:53.100 who actually got dumped from a marriage got dumped by text from her husband like how do you even get

00:13:59.640 over that let me know in the comments have you ever been dumped by text what did yeah all right 0.98

00:14:03.740 all right ladies keep taking L's and putting it on the internet because I need a job so I love 0.91

00:14:08.320 you guys thanks for watching like the video and I'll see you next time

Pearl - September 12, 2026

Women Are Getting DUMPED and Posting Their Meltdowns Online

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