Pearl - November 01, 2026


Women Are LOSING Their Friends Because They CAN'T STOP Betraying Each Other

Woman Gets FURIOUS After Pearl Calls Women LAZY

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16 minutes

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3,619

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68

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31

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27

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00:00:00.280 What's up, guys? Welcome to my reaction series. So a lot of men out there are very sad because
00:00:04.460 their wives left them and, you know, broke their soul, took their spirit, etc., etc. And
00:00:09.840 that's totally fair. Women, we just have a tendency to do that, you know. But just know 1.00
00:00:14.700 it's not personal. It's not personal at all. It has nothing to do with you. Women hate
00:00:19.380 everybody, including each other. So the next time you're trying to take it personal and 1.00
00:00:23.300 you're like, oh my God, my wife left me. How could she do this? Like, that's the worst
00:00:26.760 thought you could ever have. How could she do this? Of course she's going to do that.
00:00:30.000 She's a woman. 1.00
00:00:30.840 Like, how could she? 0.99
00:00:32.660 Why are you surprised she left?
00:00:34.640 We hate everybody and everything.
00:00:36.080 And I want to prove this to you guys. 0.99
00:00:37.260 So all these women, you think women treat you bad. 1.00
00:00:40.260 Just look at how we treat each other.
00:00:42.040 I've gone through some of the most intense friendship breakups the last few years of my life.
00:00:47.560 And I'd be lying if I didn't.
00:00:48.500 So friendship breakups. 1.00
00:00:49.680 So I actually think feminism is going to eat each other. 1.00
00:00:52.840 Because all the women that adopt into feminism are really going to end up being lesbians. 1.00
00:00:57.000 And lesbians are going to beat the F out of each other. 1.00
00:00:59.120 So it's going to be kind of funny. But even just on a friendship level, women kick men out of female spaces, but women enter male spaces. 1.00
00:01:06.240 But all the female spaces will make friendships and then verbally and emotionally torture each other. 0.94
00:01:11.500 Say that it makes me feel insecure in a way when a lot of the friendship breakups I've had in the last few years are people that I had intense history with. 1.00
00:01:23.220 I've known for a really long time.
00:01:24.540 So they got to know you and bounced. And that's kind of what happens with women. 1.00
00:01:27.320 we get to know each other and then we bounce we can't even you know a lot of women think there's 1.00
00:01:31.840 something wrong with them and that's because there is right time and it's a weird push and pull
00:01:35.600 because the friendships that i no longer have were because of my doing and i feel like it shows that
00:01:42.040 i have such high standards for the people that i allow access into my life and i keep in my life
00:01:48.060 i always know women that say stuff like that uh the the people that i allow because even the way 0.53
00:01:54.500 she's saying it is so narcissistic you know that i allow access to me i mean is access to you that 0.98
00:02:01.300 great do you know what i mean i mean because the way i'd say it is i just you're insufferable i
00:02:07.100 don't want to talk to you anymore but a lot like are you really depressed people that are in my
00:02:11.560 life are there because they deserve to be there i do not keep any dead weight which i think is a 0.82
00:02:16.440 good lie i'm sure she's fucking a bum currently thing but also i think sometimes it does make 0.85
00:02:22.320 we feel insecure when I'm thinking about my close-knit circle kind of slowly falling off 0.99
00:02:27.720 and this last year I went through a really insane friendship breakup. One day hopefully I feel
00:02:33.740 comfortable enough to talk about it on the internet. I'm just not there yet. One day I'll
00:02:38.520 be able to lie about them. And it's this weird thing that I feel like I'm such a loyal person
00:02:44.880 and a ride or die for the people in my life. She's not loyal at all. She keeps having these
00:02:49.640 friendship breakups we just constantly contradict so when I feel disrespected or that same loyalty
00:02:55.560 isn't shown I have a really hard time with forgiving like I never forget and I will hold
00:03:01.180 a grudge and I'd rather not hold grudges with people that are in my life and so they just no
00:03:07.660 longer serve a purpose in mine and I feel like I've yeah so you hold grudges um that's insufferable
00:03:12.920 right people like people that let things go I'm feeling this weird feeling lately where I don't
00:03:18.320 regrets cutting off the people that I cut off but also at the same time it makes me sad because
00:03:23.860 I wish I had more people that I had intense history with that have known me at different
00:03:28.920 versions of my life and I obviously have a few like I have a few people in my life that I've
00:03:34.260 known since I was you know a little kid but there are people that I thought would be in my life
00:03:41.320 forever that are no longer in my life yeah yeah because you're insufferable the most shocking and
00:03:46.760 painful things we can go through in life is a friend breakup because when you enter a friendship
00:03:51.320 you don't go into it thinking about the risk of it not working out in the same way that you do
00:03:56.940 with a romantic relationship. When you're interested in someone there's a little bit of that fear of
00:04:02.100 not knowing if it's going to work out and that's part of the risk and the excitement of entering
00:04:07.120 a relationship. With a friendship you think that that person's going to be there forever. Don't
00:04:12.540 think about the risk of them not being there for big moments or not being there in hard times and
00:04:18.220 everything in between so when it does happen i think it's one of the most soul crushing experiences
00:04:24.060 you know what i've been through a friendship breakup because you know insufferability i have
00:04:27.660 it too uh but what happened was i was friends with this girl for 20 years and she just crashed 0.91
00:04:33.100 out she started making tiktoks about me and she would lie in the craziest ways it was it was kind
00:04:38.700 of nutty like she would say i'd never had a boyfriend then complain at my ex about my ex 0.99
00:04:43.180 boyfriend in the same sentence i'm like what a bitch you know but do you know what's interesting 0.99
00:04:47.660 for me my life got better after because a lot of times the the women that kind of crash out on you 0.99
00:04:53.740 for seemingly no reason we're kind of nags anyway so you can go through i don't think friendship
00:04:59.340 breakups are talked about but yeah it is kind of sad you know you think about the childhood and
00:05:03.900 whatever two years now since a friend of mine who i knew for 20 years ghosted me and i haven't heard
00:05:09.900 from them since and as a friendship educator with plenty of experience in successful friendships and
00:05:14.220 apparently some failed ones this is what i'm thinking about it a couple years ago i sent them
00:05:17.900 a series of text messages spread out a couple of months apart just checking in on them seeing if
00:05:22.140 they were okay seeing if they wanted to get together and they never responded to any of
00:05:25.820 them and it's been two years now for starters this person definitely like has other baggage
00:05:30.620 and things going on that like don't have anything to do with me and probably just impact their
00:05:35.360 ability to socialize in general. Two, there is something between the two of us that went wrong
00:05:40.700 for them that I'm not aware of. And without knowledge, I can't really address that. So
00:05:45.440 that's kind of like a them problem. And it's unfortunate. And three, I don't need to dislike 0.98
00:05:49.900 this person. If I saw them like at a party or randomly on the street, I would probably be
00:05:54.260 completely polite and nice to them. And I would just know that like- I agree with this mindset
00:05:58.140 that because you're never gonna know the door on our friendship has closed and that's okay and i
00:06:03.260 don't know why but i don't really need to know why because i'm living my life they're living theirs
00:06:07.580 and the door's closed and that's fine has this ever happened to you yeah it happens to everyone
00:06:11.560 it's 2026 to me guys i cannot believe i haven't told this story before it actually happened a
00:06:15.500 couple years ago and i forgot about it until tonight and someone reminded me but at the time
00:06:19.380 it was very confusing i was very heartbroken i had like matching tattoos with her that i got
00:06:23.440 removed because i was very sad over the whole thing and then come to find out later at the
00:06:28.540 time i had been in love with a man it was straight out of high school i meet this guy i barely knew
00:06:33.620 him at all i was 17 but in my head i'm like i'm going to marry this man i loved him so bad and
00:06:39.500 then he breaks up with me he immediately gets with a new girl obviously all red flags i didn't know
00:06:43.840 i was 17 okay my best friend at the time i remember sitting in her bed crying over him and she was
00:06:50.820 like caitlin like you have to swear to me you will never go back to him like literally write down a
00:06:55.120 contract and sign it that you are never going to talk to him again like he is a terrible person
00:06:59.580 and i was like wow like this is really intense considering he didn't really care that much
00:07:03.020 before but okay i find out after she ghosted me from him that after we broke up they started 1.00
00:07:12.440 sleeping together they were together for months oh man yeah women do not care if there's an alpha 0.99
00:07:18.900 a guy they will absolutely screw him but my best friend of 20 years and my fiancee were having an 1.00
00:07:24.620 affair a month that's what i mean women hate each other they'll fuck your best friend they'll fuck 1.00
00:07:28.420 their friend's best their friend's husband i mean women hate each other month before my wedding but 1.00
00:07:34.160 they we hate everybody so don't take it personal and this was like my best friend childhood we've 0.99
00:07:38.900 known each other since the third grade like we grew up on the same street she was always jealous
00:07:44.620 any time I would choose to go spend time with him over her. And I don't know if it was because she 0.69
00:07:49.840 was jealous of me, wanted to actually be me, or she was just obsessed with him or both. Like some
00:07:54.840 people actually just like want to wear your skin, you know, and there was a lot of stress with like
00:07:59.020 the whole wedding planning and things like that. And my fiance and I got into a fight because he
00:08:03.880 wanted me to quit work after we got married. And I did not want to do that. I've been building a
00:08:08.800 business for a decade. I was like, I'm not doing that. So we were, we were kind of having a tiff.
00:08:13.280 I talked to my friend about this and I had seen these things online called spicy cubes and I had
00:08:17.900 asked my fiance if this was something that he wanted to try and I was planning a weekend getaway
00:08:23.140 together I had ball us a cabin out in Gatlinburg Tennessee and we were gonna have a little romantic
00:08:28.500 getaway with spicy cubes wine in the hot tub sounded great well when I tell my best friend 0.99
00:08:33.180 about this she acts like I'm completely fucking stupid like she's like acted as if that's the 1.00
00:08:37.620 dumbest thing that she's ever heard come out of my mouth she's just like I don't even know why 1.00
00:08:41.320 you're putting so much effort into something that's clearly not going to work out and like 0.97
00:08:45.460 honestly it made me pretty depressed to be honest with you she had never really had like a long-term
00:08:50.060 relationship so I was like maybe this is just she was probably one or two points uglier you know
00:08:54.880 she's probably jealous like her projecting like obviously I'm not going to take relationship
00:09:00.860 advice from someone who's never really been in a relationship here's where the real tea is I
00:09:05.180 surprised my husband with this trip and he tells me he he can't go he has a work thing happening
00:09:12.040 that exact weekend and he has to be out of town that I've never heard about before and I'm like
00:09:16.740 okay I'll try to like get my money back for this maybe we can do it another time and he's really
00:09:23.740 apologetic or whatever and I'm like I wish you would have told me communication was a big issue
00:09:27.700 in our relationship obviously but I just try to get over it I'm like whatever so since my weekend
00:09:32.680 had freed up and my best friend had been feeling kind of left out, I decided to go surprise her
00:09:37.420 with a little girls weekend. I show up to her apartment with wine and food, knock on the door,
00:09:42.560 she's not there. That's fine. She didn't know I was coming over. I try to call, no answer. So I
00:09:48.160 wait a little while. I go home and I'm like, maybe I'll just hit her up later. Like maybe she's busy.
00:09:52.660 Well, a few hours later, I go to call her, still no answer, no response to text. So I remember that
00:09:57.420 i have her location and that's when i go to check her location and i noticed that she's actually in
00:10:03.740 nashville i think it's way easier to get or sorry harder to get away with cheating now i think back 1.00
00:10:09.800 in the day women did it way more because you bang bang thank you ma'am never talk again you know
00:10:15.180 and that's kind of how it is at a hotel and i'm like that's interesting because that's exactly
00:10:20.160 where my fiance was headed for work check my fiance's location and he's at the same exact hotel
00:10:27.120 and in this moment like honestly i was in shock so i was like wait could this be a coincidence
00:10:32.260 is something going on and then here's the kicker i noticed that my spicy cubes were open and two
00:10:39.580 were taken out i immediately run to this man's laptop open it up because his texts are synced
00:10:45.720 i noticed that they have a thread going they're talking about meeting up she's literally asking
00:10:49.960 him to take out some of the cubes and bring them so that they can try them already had a little
00:10:54.260 weekend getaway planned that exact weekend so i guess she was upset when she heard that i was
00:10:58.900 trying to take my own fiance out because she was trying to take him out they tried to lie and play
00:11:02.540 it off like they were just going down there to plan yeah cook see that's what i mean here's 1.00
00:11:06.440 another one slept with my fiance obviously her best friend slept with her fiance obviously she's
00:11:11.480 not my best friend anymore obviously he's not my fiance anymore so we'll call my ex-friend
00:11:15.700 dara and we'll call my ex-fiance sam so sam and i had been dating for a couple of years and one
00:11:21.760 night he took me to a death cab for a cutie concert and in the song that's basically the
00:11:27.240 lead singer talking about being a stalker he proposed to me he brought me in front of the stage
00:11:33.900 and he proposed to me with a rubber band a hair tie and my little 21 year old brain was like oh
00:11:40.500 my gosh that is so romantic i mean looking back that was one of 10 000 red flags anyway he did
00:11:48.180 end up getting me a rank from walmart hey and look if that's all you can afford whatever so one night
00:11:53.400 we were going to hang out let me get more transactional when they get older when they're
00:11:57.180 young you can propose with a hair tie and she doesn't matter it doesn't matter when she gets 1.00
00:12:01.300 old she's taking so many l's you have to pay for all the l's basically so era and her long-term
00:12:07.240 boyfriend they had been together for a few years my phone died so i used sam's phone to text dara
00:12:13.000 and get the address to see where we were going they used that as an end to keep talking to each
00:12:17.980 other after the fact one day i saw him texting her i was like why are you texting dara i see this
00:12:23.960 whole conversation he's like what you don't trust me there's nothing going on here she's my friend
00:12:28.720 too maybe it's actually that we're planning something for you did you ever think about that 0.89
00:12:33.500 yes i know red flags so i believed him because i was stupid so he sang at open mic sometimes
00:12:39.680 i couldn't go to this performance but i was looking at pictures on facebook that someone 0.75
00:12:44.860 i was posting he was a chad i was like is that dara there so i confronted him about it i was
00:12:50.960 like was dara at the show with you that night he's like yeah i don't know what the big deal is
00:12:55.440 the whole group of people came and she was just one of them okay like a little sauce but whatever 0.95
00:13:00.480 bro like i believe you because i'm young and stupid couple months later his birthday rolls 0.83
00:13:05.740 around and i didn't have a lot of money but i was like look let's go to the store i'll get you 0.97
00:13:09.800 some things just a little something so i got him a couple pairs of boxers one of the pairs of boxers
00:13:16.160 had hearts on them and the other had airplanes on them and this is important then i also got him
00:13:21.020 three resident evil movies so we went back home and he wore the heart boxers and we watched the
00:13:26.620 first resident evil movie we were gonna watch all three but i ended up falling asleep so a couple
00:13:31.560 days later i get a call from darrah's boyfriend and he says sam and darrah have been sleeping
00:13:38.060 together i found messages in dara's phone that prove it i broke up with her and i did not doubt
00:13:44.880 it for a second i immediately knew that he was telling the truth immediately so obviously i
00:13:49.200 became unhinged but i had to be calculating about it so i called dara and again i was keeping my
00:13:55.920 cool because i had a plan i said hey is there something you want to tell me and she's like
00:14:00.520 i don't know what you're talking about i said so you and sam haven't been sleeping together 0.51
00:14:06.300 because i just got a call from your boyfriend who said that he found evidence of that and she just
00:14:13.040 folded like a cheap suit immediately oh my gosh i'm so sorry but y'all weren't together though
00:14:18.500 y'all haven't been together y'all broke up this little girl was completely convinced yeah that's
00:14:22.860 what i mean see women will gaslight till the end of time till the end of time that we had broken up
00:14:28.000 even though my facebook status still said engaged to sam she wasn't buying it so i said hey look 0.65
00:14:35.120 whenever y'all hung out the other night was he wearing boxers with airplanes on them she said
00:14:40.420 oh my gosh yes she was lying how did you know i said yeah did y'all watch resident evil the second
00:14:48.260 one she said oh yes how did you know that so because i bought him those boxers and we watched
00:14:54.220 the first resident evil so he was picking up where he left off with me with you and then she
00:14:59.940 just started crying and i was like look let's go confront him we have to go confront him she's like
00:15:05.660 oh my gosh yes girl power let's do this so i drove an hour she lived like an hour away went and picked
00:15:11.580 her up and the whole way we're talking like oh my gosh can you believe that he played us like this
00:15:16.020 this little boy can you believe it so we pull up to sam's house and sam walks out and he's like
00:15:21.840 what are you doing i didn't miss expecting you and then he sees dara and then his jaw drops
00:15:28.300 and I don't remember exactly how the exchange went I do know he got in my face he did not lay
00:15:34.200 a finger on me but I did leave there with a bruised knee so we got back in my car and I was
00:15:39.340 driving Dara home to drop her off and on the way again we're just like can you believe this guy
00:15:45.800 did you see his face oh my gosh and she's apologizing like I really have no idea and I'm
00:15:52.340 like yeah I know I totally get it and then I put my car in park and I turned and I looked at her
00:15:58.100 and i said look i know you're hurting i know he caused you a lot of pain and you deserve
00:16:04.920 every single second of it it actually brings me she said you deserve it that you're in pain right 0.99
00:16:11.680 now you played with fire and you got burned yeah take that bitch all right guys um yeah so this is 1.00
00:16:18.320 my point women hate each other so of course they're gonna hate you too we hate everything 1.00
00:16:22.120 we i mean it's just we're just hateful big fat slut whores so don't even take it personal 1.00
00:16:27.300 so if you get cooked by a woman just know you should have got cooked because that's a woman 1.00
00:16:31.240 you shouldn't have trusted her to begin with like the video subscribe I love you guys I'll see you 1.00
00:16:35.300 next time