Pearl - October 14, 2026


Women Are Now Turning 'Bad Dates' Into Rape Accusations

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Nick Fuentes Snapchat Jarvis
“Woman Gets FURIOUS Because Her Date Made Her Pay for Her Own Food” @JustPearlyThings “Brett Cooper Gets BACKLASH From Men After Criticizing Their Failures” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

176.3

Word count

1,683

Sentence count

48

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Toxicity

29

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Hate speech

13

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 if you meet a man and that man opens you up and makes you feel comfortable and makes you feel
00:00:08.160 safe enough to engage with him sexually and then you engage with him sexually and then that man 0.99
00:00:15.360 ghosts you that man is a rapist yeah so again right uh this is this is cooking everything 0.98
00:00:22.160 because now the the stakes are too high the men are saying well because some men ghost because 0.96
00:00:26.240 you do something crazy right they might go into it with really good intentions thinking i'm looking 0.99
00:00:31.600 for a wife but then you prove you know to be a big fat or liar like we are so you know it just 1.00
00:00:36.640 is that man is a rapist let's stop normalizing men that ghost he's not ghosting you because he 1.00
00:00:44.400 has his own abandonment issues and attachment issues and avoidant issues he's a motherfucking 1.00
00:00:51.360 rapist and we should rage we should stop this and we stop it by speaking up about it because this is 0.99
00:01:00.160 one of the oldest tricks in the books what are you talking about ma'am the manipulation tactic
00:01:06.400 to make a woman feel vulnerable and safe and to open her up just for you to ghost you've earned
00:01:16.640 the title with a badge of honor with a badge of disgust and if you are a woman and you have been 1.00
00:01:25.380 a victim yeah so again this is this is how women confuse you they change the definitions of freaking 1.00
00:01:30.420 everything so they include things that are not rape into rape and they change the definition 1.00
00:01:35.080 and it's hell on earth we have created hell on earth because women cannot shut up and men take 1.00
00:01:40.540 what we say seriously right i don't care what this woman has to say right you're a crazy crazy 0.99
00:01:45.660 person to this scenario that I'm sharing with you right now it's not your fault what he made you 0.97
00:01:53.020 feel this is not helpful to women to say if you get ghosted it's not your fault look most of the
00:01:58.140 time you're not gonna know you're not gonna they're not gonna tell you you're not really gonna
00:02:01.240 know why uh but it like it's probably it's probably you you're probably they're not hot
00:02:06.340 enough not feminine enough not good enough in some way just like men know when they don't get 0.90
00:02:11.400 to sleep with women, they're probably not good enough in some way either, right? Not 0.82
00:02:15.320 genetically, you know, superior, whatever it is. It just is what it is. Eat the L.
00:02:20.580 It's emotional and psychological manipulation. He showed you an aspect and a part that you
00:02:27.160 thought was real. And it's okay, baby girl. It's okay, queen. We learn through our hurt.
00:02:35.000 we learn through our pain and now you know how to set stronger boundaries and how to demand 0.99
00:02:43.660 actions way way before words and more than words things like this happen on a daily with women
00:02:54.400 and it's not the woman's see again we don't have to talk about getting ghosted do you know what i
00:02:59.400 mean you could just pretend it didn't happen right just like men will pretend they didn't
00:03:04.360 uh pay a 500 dinner just for that woman to go bang chad right they'll just pretend but instead
00:03:10.440 we pretend we got raped and then bring everyone into court and you know that just doesn't have to
00:03:15.400 happen you know what i mean fault it's the man's fault for lying for manipulating for ghosting
00:03:23.640 for putting on an act and an image that is fully not him let's stop normalizing ghosting
00:03:31.880 and using the correct terminology that the ghosters are rapists they're not ghosters
00:03:38.520 yeah all right guys we're gonna bring up a nick fuentes uh tweet i nick fuentes on the show this
00:03:43.720 weekend we talked about one of his tweets that i think is really uh bringing to light the situation
00:03:49.000 that's going on so he said twitter is doing to rape culture what body cams did to police brutality
00:03:54.520 so again over the years we have this narrative that women have been oppressed women are just
00:03:58.840 abused and raped. And people really did believe it because I think men's natural inclination is
00:04:03.940 to believe women. You know, a pretty woman cries or a woman that's been good to them cries. And
00:04:08.020 women just want to believe that it's real. And men, they want to help the woman. But unfortunately,
00:04:15.440 women are talking too much. Now, again, we're just not the most intelligent. So even when we lie, 1.00
00:04:20.240 we just don't lie very well. And now we have talked so much that we are talking ourselves
00:04:26.240 out of being believed ever uh to the point that i would agree that it is kind of like body cam 0.97
00:04:31.560 footage where now if a black person is killed by police you're like shoot him twice you know 0.97
00:04:37.160 you're like okay that dude deserved it okay let's see when i was 15 i got raped at a party 0.99
00:04:41.420 it was my okay so again 10 years ago oh no you got raped are you okay you can't give sympathy
00:04:47.380 to people it doesn't help them that's what i realized the more sympathetic you are and empathetic
00:04:51.520 it just makes them into victims. First time drinking and I was wearing a Hawaiian shirt with
00:04:57.860 long khaki shorts and I never. So now she's, she's trying to say I did no wrong. This happened
00:05:04.580 to me. Pursued legal action against my rapist for a number of reasons. Right. I never pursued
00:05:10.780 legal action because that would require evidence. Number one, I didn't think anything would come of
00:05:16.080 it number two i was told that he was an undocumented immigrant and i didn't want to 0.53
00:05:22.080 involve innocent family okay so now women and there's this whole trend on twitter about how
00:05:28.460 women miss their great best actually we'll bring that up in a second but so she just said i didn't 1.00
00:05:34.320 want to get my rapist deported after women right have openly like um broken down belittled and
00:05:42.400 Embarrassed good men and then they're saying we miss the grape is numbers and number three. I
00:05:49.780 Didn't think anyone would believe me because after my rapist raped me 0.99
00:05:55.720 He contacted me on 0.96
00:05:57.720 Snapchat and asked if we were cool to cover his tracks and because I was
00:06:03.860 15 years old and I had no idea how to process the horrors that he had just now
00:06:10.460 this is what they say, I had no idea how to process the horrors. What does that even mean?
00:06:14.700 What do you mean process? Go to the police. Subjected me to I agreed that we were cool
00:06:20.220 and so we were cool. How do you agree you're cool with a what? How could I ever claim that he had
00:06:27.820 brutally raped me when I had afterwards agreed that we were cool on snapchat?
00:06:35.100 And months later when I worked up the courage to confront him and tell him, 0.99
00:06:38.460 hey like you raped me and you know you raped me you know what he said to me he said sorry 0.99
00:06:44.940 broken heart emoji i'm sorry broken heart emoji you are taught to perceive rape man as a black 0.99
00:06:52.540 and white issue because well it is a black and white issue because again she's not giving details
00:06:57.580 of specifically how he graped her which you know when you talk to people that are survivors of
00:07:03.820 really traumatic incidents they can usually recite everything that happened having a super strict
00:07:10.140 black and white definition of rape yeah you have to right otherwise liars take advantage of it
00:07:16.860 keeps the rape culture going around it keeps it alive it sustains it my rapist went on to 0.99
00:07:22.780 rape several other girls in the same way that he raped me and he would sustain friendships with 0.91
00:07:27.740 them too okay do you think maybe it wasn't real i don't know so that he couldn't look guilty how 0.95
00:07:35.020 could he be a rapist if we said on snapchat that we're cool the silver lining of this cornell case
00:07:42.380 if there is any is that it's getting people to talk and in my personal opinion the more we talk
00:07:48.540 about rape culture the more we can dismantle it my rapist ruined my life and he's not even the
00:07:55.180 last one that assaulted me but what also ruined my life wait so you got assault how do you make
00:08:00.620 that mistake twice beyond getting raped itself i mean at some point i mean how many times do
00:08:07.100 you put yourself in the same was the conversations and narratives and rumors and assumptions i was
00:08:13.740 subjected to because of rape culture i lived the rest of my high school experience thinking i was 1.00
00:08:20.220 a whore and being told to my face that I well did you do anything whorish right it was a whore 0.99
00:08:25.920 because my rape did not fit the girl walking down a dark alleyway at night and getting violated 1.00
00:08:34.140 okay so again this is women um putting our basically ruining it for each other because 0.89
00:08:40.140 we can't stop talking that that's our biggest weakness we just cannot stop talking so again
00:08:45.160 Jarvis. Women have completely lost my mind. Sorry. Women have completely and utterly lost 1.00
00:08:51.520 their mind. My Grapist me and immediately afterwards, I asked him to sleep with me a 1.00
00:08:56.840 second time to feel in control like I wanted to. They hate you unless you're the perfect victim
00:09:00.940 and that doesn't exist. So this girl said, I slept with my Grapist after. And there's all
00:09:06.100 of these things on Reddit saying, I miss my Grapist so much. I miss him so much. I can't
00:09:11.980 stop loving and missing the man who graped me. I missed my grapist. Do you ever miss your abuser?
00:09:16.860 My girlfriend misses her grapist. Man. Yeah, because all these guys, they thought it was 1.00
00:09:22.480 just an experience that they had with their girlfriends, right? And that's what they want
00:09:27.080 you to believe, that everything is just a one-off that happens in your life when it's usually really,
00:09:32.220 really common.