Pearl - November 01, 2026


Women Are REGRETTING Divorce After Being Forced to PAY Their Ex-Husbands

Woman Gets FURIOUS After Pearl Calls Women LAZY

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00:00:00.000 today we're reacting to women getting treated like men that i want to say about my situation is i'm
00:00:06.240 truly tired of the narrative of well he's deserving of the money because he picked up and sacrificed
00:00:12.800 his career for her i'm just gonna say this i'm gonna say this once not true and before i even
00:00:18.720 get into the detail of it also marriage partnership relationships are also about sacrifice
00:00:26.160 and compromise some people give a little here so you gotta pay now women are paying to date chad
00:00:32.000 because i think her let me look at her ex-husband rachel lindsey let me see her ex-husband yeah what
00:00:39.200 a giga chad what a giga chad i mean i wouldn't touch him with a 10-foot pole you know now but 0.99
00:00:47.040 but but he's hot you know you gotta pay to date your white white brad some people give a little 0.99
00:00:52.240 there. It's a back and forth. It's not all about one person. You have conversations, you work it 0.92
00:00:57.280 out, make decisions together. In my situation, my ex did not move three times for me. I want to
00:01:04.240 say this one more time. My ex did not move three times for me. We moved to Dallas because he quit
00:01:11.200 his job as soon as he won the show and I did not. So that was the only option because I was still
00:01:16.660 employed. That's one move. Nobody takes into consideration that I left my legal job in Dallas
00:01:23.980 and moved to Miami with no job. Nobody considers that. Then we moved to Alabama, and that was a
00:01:30.840 we decision. I think if you followed the journey, you knew that I wasn't the only one who wanted to
00:01:35.700 be in Hollywood, and that's all I'm going to say about that. I have an issue with people who take
00:01:41.940 advantage of the system the reason i said that my ex you have an issue with men that do it because
00:01:48.020 i bet you didn't give an f about all the women doing it before this right because i'm pretty
00:01:52.820 sure she was a leftist like i'm pretty sure she's left-leaning is not deserving of alimony
00:01:58.260 is because we both made sacrifices in the marriage and i shouldn't be punished because i was
00:02:04.020 successful during the time that we were married and he wasn't you guys can follow me for not
00:02:08.260 getting a prenup i get it i understand it you don't know the circumstances that went into to
00:02:12.660 all of that like i said i'm not going to go into the tip for tat but somebody who is fully capable
00:02:17.860 of working who is licensed and multiple her exes are just that because she picked this guy out of 1.00
00:02:23.860 20. think about how bad that is we're so bad at making choices this is um a woman that was on the 1.00
00:02:29.460 bachelorette so she had like 20 eligible hot ass bachelor men to pick from and she picked the one 1.00
00:02:37.140 guy that would put her on alimony states who could go work for somebody or start their own business 1.00
00:02:42.500 or could influence or could use the platform that was given to them to leverage it into other things
00:02:47.300 should not be receiving spousal support and i think the bigger conversation isn't the what
00:02:54.020 it's that they can take advantage of an archaic system that was created for a specific reason
00:03:00.180 and is now being used by people for the wrong reason not every time but there are people who 0.51
00:03:05.380 take advantage of this system she says not every time it's probably when women do it it's okay but
00:03:10.500 when men do it it's not which is the which is my case i'm not saying that my ex didn't deserve some
00:03:15.220 sort of compensation if you read if you followed along you saw that i was willing to give money
00:03:21.060 what i don't agree with is the taking advantage of just because you can take advantage of an old
00:03:26.100 system talking about spousal support i was willing to split 50 50 even though i don't think he's
00:03:32.900 deserving he got that and said he couldn't support himself that's where the system is broken i like
00:03:40.500 p i have no problem saying i understand sacrifices remain even though i paid all the bills because i
00:03:46.020 was supporting him while he was building his business things you do in a marriage because
00:03:49.460 i thought if i'm down he's he might have to support me those are things that you do i didn't feel like
00:03:54.900 i was being taken advantage of i thought he's trying to build he moved to to la for me i had
00:04:00.100 a job so i'm going to take care of things while and give him the space and the opportunity to be
00:04:04.740 able to create yourself rach what you just said just because people are going to catch that
00:04:09.060 that he moved for me well yeah you just said he yeah for me earlier you guys moved together no
00:04:14.980 yes i moved for him to miami because he wanted to move there and start a business i left my legal
00:04:21.700 job i got a job in la he moved because i had the job it's hilarious okay who's next i forced to
00:04:29.460 pay alimony to a multi-millionaire when i myself am not a multi-millionaire let's talk about it
00:04:36.020 i'm a med spa owner and i opened my med spa prior to marriage a year and a half prior i'm also in
00:04:42.020 the state of arizona so state laws can vary but it is a community property state so i had filed
00:04:48.500 for divorce and we had to go to temporary orders because neither one of us could decide who should
00:04:53.220 live in the house i was working three minutes away from the house he was not working but he
00:04:59.300 felt he should stay in the house and then countered with an absurd amount of money that he wanted for
00:05:04.980 alimony we went to court and i feel like judge russell was not going to award him alimony until
00:05:10.500 the very last minute when his attorney jenny decided to whiny in a very whiny tone say but
00:05:19.540 judge she has control over the community business and so then the judge decided to award him alimony
00:05:28.740 but that was done under false information it was not a community business he had a community
00:05:36.820 interest because i started the business prior to marriage so he had a community interest
00:05:42.100 he could then pursue it during the divorce to get a payout for the business after a business
00:05:47.620 valuation but it was not a community business so fast forward a year and a half he probably
00:05:53.140 did everything and she has no idea because men don't ever take credit later after i've had to
00:05:58.500 pay alimony the whole time and i feel that this was definitely a tactic for his lawyer to do
00:06:05.140 because she kept using that against me trying to get me to settle saying you know you're going to 1.00
00:06:09.620 have to pay alimony this whole time and so we go to court and we have a new judge a female judge
00:06:16.660 and she does find him unreasonable for asking for alimony well yeah he's a multi-millionaire
00:06:22.740 does he really need alimony but she does not give me that temporary alimony back
00:06:30.260 and i found out later because i did consult consult with some attorneys about appealing it
00:06:36.180 and i found that they it's very unlikely for a judge to actually give that money back because
00:06:42.100 they're basically saying that the last judge was wrong but in this case the last judge was given
00:06:47.460 false information or really didn't think but women do that all the time to men i mean they 0.86
00:06:52.180 give they give the judge false information that they're abused about it i think so it's hilarious
00:06:57.460 keep complaining here we got this james sexton new york divorce attorney talking about how women 0.70
00:07:02.500 are paying alimony and i think this is going to be more common in the cities obviously women are
00:07:08.420 are never going to pay as much alimony to men as vice versa but in the cities there's a lot more 1.00
00:07:13.760 high earning women um given these desk jobs so they can just go bang chad and give chad the money 1.00
00:07:19.240 so um he's going to be dealing because he's in new york city like paying alimony like they like 1.00
00:07:25.260 it even less than men do from what i've seen like every time i tell a woman yeah you're going to pay 0.84
00:07:29.980 alimony she's like what like you're going to be the most bella abzug feminist when you get told 0.58
00:07:35.020 you're going to be paying alimony you get a lot of like like someone who was previously very woke
00:07:40.400 and like not the gender is a construct and you know suddenly they're like he has a strong back
00:07:45.200 he can get a job are you kidding me that's true it's true i'm gonna pay him alimony like it's a 0.90
00:07:50.140 very what i do like i actually just i do a lot of lesbian divorces now because you know marriage 0.99
00:07:55.500 equality uh that's gonna be hilarious oh my god women just fighting each other lesbians alimony 0.82
00:08:02.240 as a concept should be abolished i know a girl who called off her divorce because she would have 0.54
00:08:07.060 to pay alimony gay male couples have the lowest rates of divorce the birth process will never be 0.95
00:08:13.060 equal the wear and tear on you is something a man should have to pay for the rest of his life 0.99
00:08:16.520 that's a good point not like it's a good point but it's a good um observation that's why women 0.99
00:08:22.640 are doing it they're trying to torture the men for having to have their kids you know it's been 1.00
00:08:26.140 the law of the land for quite some time and it turns out that gay and lesbian individuals aren't
00:08:29.800 much better than us uh heterosexuals at marriage um they find it equally challenging i i don't
00:08:36.060 really know you know we were fighting for marriage equality for so long and i always found myself
00:08:39.580 wondering that if you really did hate you know gay and lesbian individuals like you should have
00:08:44.760 been fighting for them to have to get married you know because why should why should we have all the
00:08:48.680 misery to ourselves but one of the things that that um i found is i i i actually just had a 0.99
00:08:54.380 conversation with a lesbian client like hearing a woman say like if if that bitch thinks she's 0.95
00:08:59.840 gonna get half my business and i'm listening to her say that i'm like wow that is not on my 1.00
00:09:04.740 2026 bingo card like yeah women enough around to find how to watch your ex-husband finance
00:09:10.100 his entire life with the alimony you pay him every month yeah that's my house that's my car 0.86
00:09:18.320 yeah she's pissed right she probably was dating chad okay so during my custody battle my nine
00:09:27.800 year custody battle i've spent three hundred thousand dollars on attorneys and um at one
00:09:33.260 point in my custody battle i was actually paying um my ex child support and here's why because
00:09:42.080 there are a lot of factors that a um that a court is going to take into account when they are doing
00:09:47.540 child support calculation they're going to be looking at is it possible for someone so how much
00:09:52.660 each of you are making they're going to be looking at parenting time so if it's 50 50 and you're both
00:09:58.660 making around the same amount at least what you've presented to the court then they're also going to
00:10:04.020 take into consideration who is carrying the health insurance so because of these few things um and
00:10:11.860 the way that it was presented to the court based off of financials it actually ended up to where
00:10:17.140 for a very short time. I mean, I can't, I can't even remember at this point how long I was doing
00:10:22.480 it a couple of years, but, um, I was having to pay him. And this is with the knowledge of knowing
00:10:31.140 that I made less. So, um, this is just another example of the way that a narcissist will literally
00:10:43.560 drag out a custody case, they may not even have the time or even the desire to try to be a full-time
00:10:52.900 parent, but they will come off to the court that way. That way they can get the parenting time
00:10:57.400 adjusted to as equal to you. And then if they have any indication of how much money you make,
00:11:03.520 or maybe you don't make anything, but they have a way to greatly reduce the income from their end, 1.00
00:11:10.860 they will try to do those two things and then depending on who and that's why more women are 1.00
00:11:16.580 narcissistic by her logic right and probably 13 or 1400 a month and i wasn't even making that much 1.00
00:11:21.880 money so um you just want to spend in it to be with the girls i just want to be with girls i
00:11:26.760 would do anything for the girls and i paid him cash and so that's untraceable and yeah so we
00:11:31.860 get to austin and i get a letter from the attorney general saying i owe 17 000 and back child support
00:11:38.220 so he reported me to the state of texas that i had not paid any child support because you were
00:11:44.300 giving him cash yeah and women do that all the time it's not going to be till women use this
00:11:50.260 stuff on women or men use this stuff on women that women learn so men you know keep do the
00:11:55.200 wrong thing king marks exactly seven more years that i have to pay my ex alimony now i shared
00:12:01.840 this on my social media stories and so many of you are confused. Huh? What do you mean, Stephanie?
00:12:08.500 So it's education time. Some people assume this means that I cheated on him, which is not the
00:12:13.440 truth. Your fidelity status has nothing to do with alimony. Essentially what this means is that I made
00:12:19.280 more than my ex when we split up, but we were legally married for two decades. Your girl has
00:12:25.620 to pay. We split up in 2022 and our divorce was final in 2024. So I have to pay him alimony for 0.99
00:12:33.380 nine years, but we've been divorced for two years now. So there's seven years left. Also where others
00:12:39.800 get confused is when I say that I do not receive any child support from my ex. That's like true,
00:12:45.620 but not true at the same time. My child support that is from him is less than what the alimony
00:12:52.440 is. So basically I pay him alimony from the difference of what the child support is and
00:12:57.960 what the alimony is. There's also been comments that I don't have full custody of my kids, which
00:13:02.280 is not true. At this point in time, I have 92% custody of my children. I moved to Texas this
00:13:08.940 summer. I'll have like 77% custody. I could have fought this in court. And it's why I don't talk
00:13:14.120 about it a whole lot because at the end of the day, I didn't get an attorney. I could have fought
00:13:18.380 it and i probably would have won but at that point in time i just wanted the marriage to be over
00:13:24.000 yeah all right guys um yeah i mean these women she did she so he probably was so happy making
00:13:33.280 her pay all right guys i really do love you if you can please like the video and subscribe to
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