Pearl - Women ＂Dating＂ Over The Age of 50 (RUN!!)

00:00:00.000 so i need like the kool-aid man in the form of like the great guy to either come through my front 1.00

00:00:05.720 door or what's gonna happen um women order dick to their door as opposed to going out and meeting 0.98

00:00:11.020 people all right what is up guys uh today we're reacting to women's l's as per usual and today 0.99

00:00:17.520 we are reacting to women dating over the age of 50 which is just kind of an l because you're

00:00:22.100 supposed to be done dating by then uh but we're in a modern society and a lot of women think they

00:00:26.880 do better so we're going to go through these women we're going to rate them and see if we think they

00:00:31.040 can get a man um i'm not in the doomer camp that says um no women can ever upgrade or do better 1.00

00:00:37.440 because a lot of times women can and do do better all the time it just depends how fat ugly and 0.63

00:00:42.160 insufferable they got so i think we're going to rate together and you guys put your observations 0.99

00:00:46.560 in the comments all right also really quick really quick don't leave don't leave yet don't

00:00:51.040 leave okay so um we are doing a event in new york city and dallas in the next three months um and if

00:00:57.760 you want to come we do have to vet you in order to come so nobody crashes out and kills me there's

00:01:02.400 a lot of crazy people out there so fill out the google form in the description if you'd like to

00:01:06.400 be a part of it and hopefully i can see you there really talks about this but i'm single i'm in my

00:01:11.760 50s and i think the hardest part about being single is not having anyone to all right so the rating

00:01:18.560 scale we're going to do on this video is going to be four women over 50 so just so you know

00:01:24.000 none of these women are going to be above a six okay everybody is below a six um i would even

00:01:32.400 say below five you know below five so this is just like if we're comparing i think she's like average

00:01:42.480 run my errands when i'm sick nobody really talks about this but i'm single i'm in my yeah so again 0.80

00:01:48.480 again, women don't ever miss men. And if you pay attention, they miss the things that men did for

00:01:53.740 them. So it's, we just hate men. Unfortunately, I don't say this with pride. We hate men. We love 0.94

00:01:59.620 having sex with men. Like I think women use men for sex more than vice versa. My name is Mary and 1.00

00:02:04.840 it really hurts to have no friends or family. This is a pretty good looking woman. Actually, 0.63

00:02:08.480 this is as close as you're going to get to like a eight or a 10 for a 50 year old. This is still

00:02:12.940 max 5.55 you know what i mean because she's 50. yeah so look at the comments and they say

00:02:21.900 same being alone is better than being with the people that hurt you get your little self self a

00:02:26.140 dog the gifted dirt ones often walk alone yeah it's a lot of coping but i mean we have to cope

00:02:31.580 because we're in a modern society and are looking so all right this lady look she's got the leopard 0.97

00:02:36.860 skin oh i'm gonna this is like a two for have you ever gone she's got nice eyes okay i'm gonna give

00:02:44.540 her out all day and then when you're pulling into where you live just hits you different sometimes 1.00

00:02:53.660 like a gut punch but it's fine yeah and so when women um have the like music in the background 0.90

00:03:01.820 i'm gonna add extra you're insufferable points so um insufferability score has gone up 1.00

00:03:14.300 just sometimes 0.62

00:03:18.700 sometimes the silence is it's just like you know there's so many communities and activities you

00:03:23.740 can do if you're over a certain age like there's literally retirement neighborhoods that i mean

00:03:28.860 they're like party hardies and i mean what she's really saying is she misses the attention of hot

00:03:35.820 guys because that ship has sailed so that's what she's really saying but we get through it okay

00:03:43.980 if that's happened i see you if you want to share i want to hear okay i love you all right well i

00:03:50.700 don't want to be back so all right nobody can talk about how lonely it is when you're rebuilding after

00:03:55.500 50 how can you rebuild after 50 you're supposed to be built so you're kind of cooked nobody talks

00:04:01.360 like a one she's not even gonna like you know what i mean i would say the most likely one to

00:04:06.020 get a man was the most attractive one um it's pretty like she could still get a man uh the 1.00

00:04:10.520 blue-eyed one can get a simp but it's gonna be tough she probably not to marry her but just to 1.00

00:04:16.280 like live women don't want about how lonely it can feel when you're rebuilding your life after 50 0.96

00:04:24.000 when the phone doesn't ring as much,

00:04:27.600 when the house feels quieter,

00:04:30.340 when you're carrying things that nobody else can see.

00:04:34.620 But here's what I've learned.

00:04:37.560 Sometimes in the season of rebuilding,

00:04:41.220 that is where you begin to reconnect with yourself.

00:04:45.420 And that is where your strength comes from.

00:04:49.260 Reconnect with myself. 0.99

00:04:51.120 Become more selfish and insufferable.

00:04:54.880 so uh become less agreeable so all right dating over 50 lonely but not wanting to put forth the

00:05:00.400 effort or go through small talk or date strange you know i've talked to women in depth over 50

00:05:04.320 that are like dating and stuff and honestly i don't even think they want a man um like because

00:05:09.040 you're competing with time with their kids maybe their grandkids and i don't think most of them

00:05:13.680 want to give that up um because again men tend to want you to give up everything you're doing to

00:05:18.080 hang out on their, uh, in their life. Um, which is, you know, they want a cheerleader. That's 0.99

00:05:24.340 like the typical, you know, and the older you get the, you know, you got more stuff

00:05:28.060 going on. So you don't really want to do it. So, so I'll admit I am a little lonely lately.

00:05:33.480 I, um, I don't know. I just am. I think I'm also like a little down or whatever, but I

00:05:40.420 would love to meet somebody, but I don't feel like really putting forth the effort.

00:05:44.880 I know that's what I mean I think she could still look at she's smiling she could still get a man

00:05:50.040 um what they'll do is they'll say oh like they can't get the men they could get in their 20s

00:05:54.360 they're not going to be happy with any man they get and I'm like well they're they could get Tom

00:05:58.940 Brady and not be happy that non-happiness does not really that dependent on the man if I'm being

00:06:03.500 honest I'm a little lonely lately I um I don't know I just am I think I'm also like a little

00:06:10.940 down or whatever but i would love to meet somebody but i don't feel like really putting forth the

00:06:17.500 effort i like dating um because again she's cute enough i mean she's like a six over 50 maybe seven 0.99

00:06:23.820 because america's so fat i can't see your body getting a little bit today and oh my god it's

00:06:29.380 terrible i don't know how i ever met so many people on there like i met a lot of nice guys

00:06:35.060 and some like were not for me and some remained friends and some like i was with for a little bit

00:06:40.740 and I liked and some quality men that I'm still friends with but oh my god it's just a mess like

00:06:47.800 my skits are not a lie they're not at all but I'll admit I'm kind of lonely um but I don't really

00:06:53.440 feel like making the effort of going to sit at like a high-end bar restaurant not like a bar

00:06:58.440 like I'm not talking about like a random bar but like a nice like restaurant like I don't know

00:07:03.720 Ruth's Chris or STK at Disney Springs or something like nice and sit there and just have a drink or

00:07:09.220 dinner or whatever and possibly i'll meet somebody that way i just don't really feel like doing that

00:07:13.560 so i need like the kool-aid man in the form of like the great guy to either come through my front 0.96

00:07:19.600 door or what's gonna happen um women order dick to their door as opposed to going out and meeting 0.95

00:07:24.920 people so um yeah it's that's like a new trend on dating apps and i could see why you know it's like 0.68

00:07:30.940 it assume women will always do the laziest option i just i don't know i'm not sure i'm gonna meet

00:07:36.520 someone or and this is gonna sound weird i kind of want to just be with someone i was with before

00:07:42.280 do things together you hit a girl once if you're right you do get a lifelong subscription

00:07:46.920 so all right let's keep going let's see this broad i had to guess you might feel that same 1.00

00:07:51.240 way as well yeah these are actually pretty good looking women for old hags like i mean just okay 1.00

00:07:57.880 i know you guys are gonna say oh but pearl like they're old and ugly yes okay but this is for 1.00

00:08:03.160 50 year old women i would put them above average after i posted this video the other day it was 0.95

00:08:08.520 shocking how many comments i got from women mostly telling me they feel the same way that they

00:08:13.640 definitely feel lonely at times so i did a little bit of research and i found out that the loneliest

00:08:19.960 demographic of people are midlife women not the elderly not teenagers like after i posted this

00:08:27.720 video the other day it was shocking how many comments i got from women mostly telling me

00:08:32.840 that they feel the same way that they definitely feel lonely at times so i did about it's a season

00:08:37.960 of life thing we are in the sandwich years and we are smashed between two generations giving in both

00:08:43.420 directions and the first thing that typically goes is our social life when i try to pinpoint

00:08:48.180 when i started feeling this way i really can't find that exact 40s moment but i can look back

00:08:55.940 and see that over time friendships may be faded because we just didn't make the time or we didn't

00:09:01.140 have the time. Plans get canceled and you don't reschedule them. I think we can all relate to that

00:09:05.980 happening and we just kind of get stuck in our own little world and then it gets harder and harder to

00:09:10.780 get out of that. The research actually makes a distinction between being alone and feeling

00:09:16.000 disconnected. Most of us aren't alone. We have husbands or partners, families, friends. We go to

00:09:21.840 work. We're not just sitting in a room by ourselves but we still feel completely disconnected as if

00:09:27.320 nobody really sees us that feeling of being invisible is what i want to talk about more in

00:09:31.800 part three if all right let's see this this is the same broad i went to dinner the other night

00:09:37.240 with a group of friends and while we had a really wonderful time the whole time we were there i felt

00:09:42.760 like i was almost kind of floating above watching it all happen and wondering does anyone actually

00:09:47.880 really see me and this is not on the women that i was with they are wonderful this is just something

00:09:53.480 i've been noticing about myself that i'm probably lonely more often than i should be one of my kids

00:09:59.800 is doing an internship in spain this summer the other just graduated he's turning into being

00:10:03.960 invisible and that's a tough like because here's the thing you could still be especially her she's 0.99

00:10:09.240 still gonna be pretty attractive in her 20s probably still pretty attractive in her 30s 1.00

00:10:13.400 40s there's gonna like you could still kind of be hot but 50s is like really when women 1.00

00:10:18.520 they become old hags you know and that's gotta be a tough transition like there's a drop off from 1.00

00:10:24.240 like i think i think there's a big drop up drop off in attention from like early 20s to late 20s 0.96

00:10:30.660 but then i think the next cohort is like 25 to 35 year old women that's like competing maybe like 0.99

00:10:36.780 late 30s uh if they're like really attractive but then there's like 35 to like 47 ish year old women

00:10:44.940 and then like that plus is like no man's land so working and spending all this time with his friends 0.70

00:10:49.980 so he's hardly ever at home which is great that's how it's supposed to go but they just don't need

00:10:54.540 me like they used to i feel like at this stage in life too all kinds of connections that i had like

00:10:59.860 through the kids schools and things like that some of those are dying out and it's not that i'm just

00:11:04.980 sitting alone in a dark room or alone in my car like i am right now this is she doesn't have enough

00:11:10.460 to do she's got to go do something go learn something take a class you know it's that you

00:11:15.620 just kind of feel invisible it's like you hold it all together you do all of the things and you do

00:11:20.560 wonder does anyone really see me does anyone know me get me I find myself thinking all the time like

00:11:26.280 who am I when I'm not needed in the same way and honestly I have no clue I'm 50 and I really want

00:11:32.280 to figure that out but I wanted to at least start this conversation because if I'm lonely I'm sure 0.58

00:11:37.780 somebody else out there is lonely and i think we're just not talking yeah i mean women are 1.00

00:11:42.340 always going to complain every feeling of discomfort so you know actually i would say 0.99

00:11:46.380 the majority of these women could get another guy if they're divorced i don't know this this woman 1.00

00:11:50.100 might not have been but yeah i mean life has different phases and i think women going into 0.76

00:11:54.360 in the invisibility phase is just kind of a rough transition so i don't know guys let me know what

00:11:59.260 you think of the comments i love you thank you so much for watching like the video and i'll see you

00:12:02.760 next time

Pearl - July 13, 2026

Women ＂Dating＂ Over The Age of 50 (RUN!!)

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